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Matthew 11:28–30

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Come to

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me, all who labor and are heavy laden,
and I will give you rest.

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Take my yoke upon you,
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I am gentle and lowly in heart,
and you will find rest for your souls.

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For my yoke is easy,
and my burden is light.

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Well

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hey, everybody.

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Welcome to the weekend
gathering at Christ Community Chapel.

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I'm so glad that you've joined us.

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Welcome to those of you here in the gym.

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If you're seeing this on video, it's
because I'm out in the tent

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preaching out there,
and the weather is much better than than

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it is right now
because it's pouring down rain.

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My name is Jimmy Kozy.

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I'm one of the pastors here at CCC,
and I'm really glad

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to have the opportunity to be with you
for a little bit this evening.

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Before I get into the message.

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You know,

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this was mentioned
in the pre-service video,

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but we have something to celebrate
as a church this weekend.

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I'm wearing a shirt for The Park Church
in Chagrin Falls Park up

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in the northern part of Ohio,
and we set a goal when we started Orchard

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NEO seven years ago that we would plant
60 churches in communities all around

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Northeast Ohio by the year 2050,
and the Park church launches this weekend.

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On Sunday, there are first service
there, opening services Sunday at 6:15

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at the Sugar and Falls
Park Community Center.

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The Park Church is the 12th church
planted out of Christ Community Chapel,

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which is an amazing thing
for Pastor Brandon and for that church.

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Really excited for that.

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And we are in between sermon
series here at CCC.

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So we just finished
the More Than Religion series

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last week, and in the fall,
we're going to be launching into a series

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where we're going to be going
through the book of acts together.

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It's going to be a blast.

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Really looking forward to all that
God has for us in that series.

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But the topic today is rest,
and you heard the verses from Matthew

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chapter 11, verses 28 to 30, read prior
to the sermon, prior to the sermon.

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And maybe when you listen to those,
the idea that Jesus can give your soul

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rest.

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I don't know about you, but
when I hear that, I lean in a little bit.

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That sounds appealing to me.

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That's something that I would want.

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It's important for us to understand
what that would actually look like.

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And so in order for us to understand that,
I have three points for us.

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This will serve as my outline today
and also give us a little bit of structure

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for our time.

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They are as follows.

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First is needing rest.

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Second is understanding rest
and then third is getting rest,

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needing rest, understanding rest
and getting rest.

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So we'll start with that first point
which is needing rest.

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So I had an encounter
with a wild animal recently.

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And I'd like to tell you
a little bit about it.

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So something you ought to know about me is
that I'm a very routine oriented person.

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I my day, when I look at the day,
I like to know what's going to happen

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every minute of the day.

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I have a pretty tight schedule, and
my schedule is what organizes me and it.

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Part of it comes from the fact that,
you know, I have a job, I have four kids.

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They have to get to school.

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Our household
just needs to run on a routine

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and in order for everything to work.

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But part of my routine

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is that every morning
I work out pretty early in the morning.

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And so in order to be as efficient
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I ended up buying a treadmill
and putting it in our basement

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so that have to drive to a gym.

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I didn't have to worry about the weather
if I was going to run outside.

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It was perfect.

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It makes everything efficient
and so it's in a room.

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In our base of our basement
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And so one morning recently,
I was downstairs.

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It was super early in the morning,
so it's dark outside.

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The house was warmer than it was outside.

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So I decided that while I was running
on the treadmill, I would pop

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open the door to the walkout basement so
there's some cool fresh air would come in.

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Make it just a better overall experience
running on the treadmill.

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As good as it can be running in the dark
like Batman, that's what I was doing.

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So I did my run and I finished up
and I went outside and,

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you know, every morning
after I finished my workout, I have about

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what I would call ten minutes of peace
before the day

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tips over the top of the roller coaster,
and then there's no getting it back.

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And so I was in that ten minutes of peace,
sitting outside on a chair,

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playing with my phone outside our walkout
basement, and I looked up from my phone,

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and about six feet away
from me, there was a skunk.

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And so the skunks backside was toward me.

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Which I don't know

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if you're familiar with skunk anatomy,
but that's the wrong end of the skunk.

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That's not the end you want to be.

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I don't think you want any end of the
skunk to be facing towards you. But.

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So I didn't know what to do.

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I froze
and I started to panic a little bit,

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so I tried to stand up and move away
and luckily the skunk did not spray me,

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but he did notice me
and so he kind of wandered off.

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And then I watched in horror
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down the side wall of my house,
and then slipped right in the open

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basement door that I had left open
when I came in to sit outside.

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So in
this moment, I had no idea what to do.

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I'm going to be honest with you.

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So I ran over to our other basement door,
and I'm happy

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to say that for the first time
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my kids had locked the basement door

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after they were playing outside,
so I couldn't get in there.

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I thought maybe I could head off the skunk
at the past, scare them back out.

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And so I realized there's a skunk.

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It's pitch black outside.
There's a skunk on the loose in my house.

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I'm the only person in the family
whose awake, and there is only one entry.

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It is a dark doorway
in which a skunk has just entered.

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And so I realized, with great courage
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that I was going to need to find a weapon
and go in and defend my family.

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And so I did.

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So I found what I could find,
which ended up being a pool noodle.

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And so if you can imagine me
shirtless, sweaty,

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barefoot, tentatively walking in a pitch
black basement with an iPhone flashlight,

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poking things with a pool noodle,
trying to see if I could find this skunk.

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So I searched my basement
for about 10 or 15 minutes.

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No sign of the skunk,
and so nothing's going on.

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I stopped, I couldn't hear anything,
no rustling, no odd smells.

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And so I did what anybody would do.

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I pulled out my phone and I asked ChatGPT,
what should I do next?

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And Chad told me, what you need to do is
you need to go upstairs,

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leave the basement door open,
close the door and go about your day

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and hope that the skunk will
leave your basement on its own own terms.

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So that's what I did.

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So I went upstairs
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and I decided I'm done
searching for the skunk.

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This skunk is on its own.
Hopefully it leaves on its own.

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And then I went to work.

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So you can imagine what
that goodbye conversation with my wife

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was like when I said to her, hey,
I'm leaving for work for the day.

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I'll be back sometime after five.

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I'll see you then. One small thing

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I can't say that

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there is isn't a skunk in the basement,
or is a skunk in the basement.

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There may be a skunk in the basement.

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Okay, to make a long story short, well,
at this point it's been over a week.

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There is no evidence that the skunk
is in my basement, so I think he's gone.

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But neither have I actually seen him leave
my basement so he could be down there.

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I don't know, but I think he's gone.

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But the reason I tell you that is because,
like many of you.

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My life has organizing principles.

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I have a career, I have children,
I have things that need to happen in a day

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that dictate for me what my priorities
are, that help me to make decisions.

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And all of us have organizing principles

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and all, and our organizing principles
are good things.

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There are things like our career,
our family, our relationships, our money.

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There are things that we should have

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and that we should care about,
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But the reason we're tired
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is because we have a tendency
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that are a part of our lives
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And the way that we do that
is that we turn them into scoreboards

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by which we assign
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And because of that, we're tired.

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And the problem with scoreboards
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Here's what I mean by that.

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If you look at the scoreboard
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that immediately creates pressure
because the next thought you will have

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is, well, I need to do
whatever it takes to stay ahead.

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If you look at the scoreboard
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then of course that creates pressure,
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I need to do
whatever it takes to get back ahead.

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And so your kids, for example,
are a great organizing.

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They should be an organizing principle
for your life.

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But if your kids become a scoreboard
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your meaning, that's going to change
everything it's going to make.

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Every time
something goes wrong with your kids, it's

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going to feel like a devastating failure
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As a parent, if your career, a great
and important organizing principle,

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becomes your scoreboard
by which you determine your meaning

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and worth,
a negative performance review or a missed

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promotion becomes an existential crisis.

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If you if your money,
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for all of us, becomes your scoreboard,
then you'll measure your worth

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and let it rise and fall with your salary
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Because when we do that,
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that were never meant to serve
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and we're putting them in a position
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And that's what makes us tired.

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And that's why
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in Matthew chapter 11 verse 28, it's
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Listen to what it says.

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Come to me, all who labor and are heavy

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laden, and I will give you rest.

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Jesus calls this laboring
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The idea that we need rest.

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But what he says
next is somewhat unexpected.

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And that leads me to my second point,
which is understanding rest.

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So we need rest.

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Now let's understand it.

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Let me read for you
from that same passage, verses 28 and 29.

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Here's what it says.

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Come to me, all who labor and are heavy
laden, and I will give you rest.

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Take my yoke upon you and learn from me,
for I am gentle and lowly in heart,

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and you will find rest for your souls.

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So in this, in these verses,
Jesus says two things that are unexpected.

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The first thing that he said,
well, let me let me say this.

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If I were talking to somebody
who was struggling with feeling burdened,

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feeling like they're laboring
and being heavy laden,

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this is not how I would talk to them.

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I wouldn't say I would say something
like, oh,

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you're feeling I can take your burden,
I'll carry it for you.

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I'm strong, I'm mighty.

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But that's not what Jesus says. Here's
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The first thing he says, this unexpected.

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He says, take my yoke upon you.

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And he's using farming terminology.

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But what he's really saying
is, I have a burden for you.

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Take this burden of mine.

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So he's he's talking to people
who he's saying you are a laboring

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and are heavy laden
and he's giving them work to you.

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Why does he say that?

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Then the second thing that he says is, for
I am gentle and lowly in heart.

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And again, what I might expect Jesus
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somebody who's tired is to say,
I'm strong, I'm mighty, I'm powerful.

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I can carry it for you.
But that's not what he says.

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He says, you take my yoke, for
I am gentle and I am lowly in heart.

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And I think what Jesus

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is getting at here
is that we need to understand

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what rest actually is,
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is not connected to activity or inactivity
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but it's rather connected to what
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Rest is connected to who Jesus is
and the role that he plays in our life.

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This is why he describes himself.

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This is interesting
that this is one of the very,

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very few times in the Bible that Jesus
actually describes his character.

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He talks about his role
and what he came to do plenty of times,

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but this is one of the few times
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describes himself in his character.

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He says, I am gentle and I'm lowly,
and that's interesting.

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This is intuitive to us in the workplace.

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You know, the experience of carrying
a burden is directly

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the quality of the experience of carrying
a burden is directly

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connected to the person
giving you the burden.

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It's like if you have if you've
if you've worked in any job, you know

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that the experience of work
can be vastly different

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depending on your relationship
with your direct supervisor or your boss.

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So you can have the same role, same title,
same office, same responsibilities,

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same workload.

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And if you have a great boss, it can be
a joyful and wonderful experience.

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Very meaningful, impactful and great.

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If you have a bad boss,
it can be terrible.

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It can be miserable

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because the quality of that experience
is not dependent on the work

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you're doing itself, but
rather on the person you're doing it for.

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And Jesus is saying, when it comes to
rest, the same thing is true in our lives

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that we were meant
to organize our lives around him.

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But that's actually good news for us
because of who he is

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and the kind of person that he is for us.

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He is gentle, he's lowly, he's caring.

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You know, it's interesting
the people that Jesus is talking to here,

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they would have been contrasting him
with the other religious leaders

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of the time,
who were known as the Pharisees

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and the Pharisees.
The way that they approached

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the relationship with God
was kind of like a ladder.

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They would say, you know, you got to do
as many good things as you can.

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And by doing those things, you climb
the ladder and the higher you want

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are on the ladder, the more likely it is
that God will accept you and love you.

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And Jesus says, no, no, no,
that's not how it works.

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It's not about being high and mighty.

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I am gentle and lowly.

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That's the kind of leader
that I'm going to be for your life.

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And so what Jesus is saying
is that what it means for us to rest

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is to find a new organizing
principle in him,

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to allow him to reorganize our lives
and in so doing,

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separate our sense of meaning, value,
and worth from what we accomplish

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and what we achieve
in different areas of our life and attach

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to what he says is true about us.

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So then the next question we would ask
is naturally, okay,

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how do we actually get this rest?

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And that leads me to my third point,
which is getting rest in.

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In order to understand this,
we have to look a little bit further back

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in the passage, the three verses that
precede the verses we read already today.

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Let me read these for you
Matthew chapter 11, verses 25 through 27.

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They say this.

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At that time
Jesus declared, I thank you, father,

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Lord of heaven and earth,
that you have hidden these things

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from the wise and understanding,
and revealed them to little children.

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Yes, father, for such
was your gracious will.

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All things have been handed over to me
by my father, and no one knows the son

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except the father,
and no one knows the father

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except the son, and anyone
to whom the son chooses to reveal him.

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So in those verses, Jesus says
two interesting things that help us

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understand what it actually looks like
to get the rest that he's talking about.

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The first thing he says

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is that the son reveals the father,
and the father reveals the son.

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And what he means by this,
what he's saying is,

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if you want to know what God is, he's
making an enormous claim about himself.

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He's saying, if you want to know
what God is like, you look at me.

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If you want to know

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what kind of relationship
he wants with you, if you want to know

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his character, his actions, how he wants
to interact with you, you look at me.

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That's why later he's saying, for I am
gentle and lowly in heart, and you can.

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And my my yoke is easy
and my burden is light.

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He's saying, look, if you want to know
what God is like, look at me.

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But then the other thing

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he says that's interesting is
that God has revealed these things.

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The way to rest, the way to to peace.

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He's revealed these things
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And I think it's important
for us to understand what that actually

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what does he mean?
What does he mean by that?

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Maybe another way of saying that is,
what do you little children know

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that adults don't know?

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Because it can't be that Jesus is saying
only little children can understand God.

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What he must be saying

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is something about
how we approach our relationship with God.

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So the question is, what do little kids
understand that it else don't?

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Well, speaking
as a father of four little kids

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between the ages of six and 11,
I may not be an expert,

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but I do spend a lot of time around
little children, and so maybe I can figure

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out some things here.

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So I have a six year old daughter.

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Her name is Elena.
She's a twin with her brother James.

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He's also six.

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That's how twins work.
So she's six years old.

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I so over the last couple of months,
we have fallen into a little bit

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of an unfortunate pattern in our house

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where every night,
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and 2 a.m.,

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we will hear
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and then she'll come running down the hall

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and wake us up and climb into orbit,
and she'll say, I can't fall asleep.

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I'm totally unable to fall asleep.
I can't do it.

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I need somebody to snuggle me
until I fall asleep.

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So my question is, why does she think
that it's okay to do that?

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Like, let me put it this way,
if I showed up at your house tonight

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2 a.m., walked into your room, climbed
into your bed and said, I can't sleep.

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I need somebody to snuggle me
until I fall asleep.

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Totally different conversation.

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So what does Elena.

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No. Well, she knows a couple of things.

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The first thing she knows is
she can't do it on her own.

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She knows she's helpless.

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She's aware of her helplessness.

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She can't do it.

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But then the second thing she knows
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she trusts that we will accept her
and that we will help her.

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It's not as if Elena stands in the hallway
outside our room

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and says, wait a minute,
was I a good enough six year old today?

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Did I eat enough Cheerios?

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Did I play enough?
Did I do all the right things?

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Maybe she doesn't think that at all.

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She just knows.

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She knows she's helpless.

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She knows we love her.

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She knows we accept her.
So she just comes.

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She comes believing that she will be loved
and that she'll receive the help

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that she needs.

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And I think that's so important for

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for us to understand that when it comes
to how we approach our relationship

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with God, the way to find rest in
Jesus is to come just like that.

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I think that's what Jesus means
when he says that God has revealed

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these things to little children.

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He's revealed to these things to those
who approach God with an understanding

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of their helplessness
and expectation of his love,

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leading to his acceptance of us.

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Another way.

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Another way of saying this is that Jesus
has reversed the order of performance.

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What I mean by that is our other
organizing principles are other burdens.

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They ask us to pour ourselves out for them
if we make them our scoreboard.

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So if you make your career,
your scoreboard

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and define your meaning
and worth by your career,

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it will ask you to pour your life out.

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Everything will be on the table
for your career.

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Same with your kids.

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If they become your scoreboard,
everything in your life will be poured out

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in order that your kids will be
where you want them to be.

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If it's your money,
the same thing is true.

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But what Jesus has done
is he reverses the order of that.

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Jesus poured himself out for us
when he went to the cross,

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that we might have relationship with God.

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And so what that means
is that our rest comes from the knowledge

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that we don't have to achieve anything
in order to have meaning and value

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and worth, and that everything
that we ever needed to do to receive

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God's love and his acceptance
has already been done for us by Jesus

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and credited to us through his life,
death, and resurrection.

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Second Corinthians 521 says this.

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It says,

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for our sake he made him talking about
Jesus to be sin who knew no sin,

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so that in him
we might become the righteousness of God.

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What that's saying
is what I just said, that

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Jesus, when he went to the cross,
he became sin.

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And his righteousness,
which was perfect, was credited to us

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so that we might have relationship
with God.

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And what that means for us
is that we no longer

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have to attach our value
to our achievement, to our accomplishment,

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to the scoreboards
all around our lives that we look to

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to tell us how good we are,
whether we're good enough,

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whether we've made it,
whether we've done it.

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Instead, our meaning and value
have been defined for us already,

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through the fact that Jesus perfect life
has been credited to us through his death

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and his resurrection.

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And because of that, we can rest.

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We can come knowing that
the one who is gentle and lowly

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has already paved the way for us
to be accepted by God, to be loved by God.

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And we can rest
knowing that our worth and our meeting

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are not attached to our accomplishment,
to the things that we do.

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If we never accomplished one more thing,
God would love us just as we are.

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If we come to him knowing we're helpless,
but presuming on his love

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and affection toward us in Christ Jesus,
that's what it means to rest,

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to be free of achievement, knowing that
Jesus has already achieved for me.

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Let's pray together.

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Father in heaven, we

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thank you for your goodness
toward us in Jesus.

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We thank you that through him,
everything we ever needed to do,

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you've already done for us

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and given to us through his life,
death, and resurrection.

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We pray that we would believe that.

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We pray that we would fight to believe
that when everything around us

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tells us we need to achieve more, do more,
be more, create more.

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Lord, we pray that we would see
the goodness of Jesus

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and know that no matter what we achieve
or don't achieve,

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his love has already achieved everything
for us.

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That we need to be known and loved by you,
and we thank you for that.

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We thank you for your goodness
toward us in Jesus, in whose name we pray.

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Amen.