5. Are We Actually Listening or Just Waiting to Talk? - Say More with Latoya

Show Notes

Welcome to the very first episode of Say More with Latoya, a new recurring segment on Conversate.

In this debut conversation, Latoya explores a simple but powerful question:

Are we actually conversating, or are we just waiting to talk?

From dating and friendships to work and family, she reflects on why curiosity, active listening, and thoughtful questions create deeper relationships. Through personal stories, humor, and honest observations, she challenges us to move beyond hot takes and performative conversations and rediscover what it means to truly connect.

If you've ever felt unheard—or wondered if you're really listening—this episode is for you.

00:00 Welcome to a New Chapter of Conversate

01:25 Introducing Say More with Latoya

03:15 Are We Actually Conversating?

07:00 The Problem with Hot Take Culture

08:40 Dating Isn't an Interview

16:25 Listening for the Door

18:30 Adding to a Conversation Instead of Dominating It

20:35 Vulnerability Creates Better Conversations

22:40 Friendship, Family, and Growing Through Dialogue

24:30 Why Conversate Exists

26:30 Better Questions Create Better Relationships

28:45 Final Thoughts

What is Conversate with Akeem D. Earle?

Conversate with Akeem D. Earle is a culture and conversation platform exploring sports, music, film, journalism, internet culture, mindset, and the stories shaping today’s world. Hosted by practicing attorney and creative entrepreneur Akeem D. Earle, the show features thoughtful conversations, album and movie reviews, sports debates, cultural commentary, and deep dives with journalists, creators, athletes, and interesting people from all walks of life, all centered around perspective, curiosity, and real conversation.