1 01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:03,083 (upbeat music) 2 01:00:05,750 --> 01:00:07,541 Welcome to Sean and Meghan's Date Night. 3 01:00:08,708 --> 01:00:10,166 Hmm, I just, 4 01:00:10,750 --> 01:00:12,000 (laughs) 5 01:00:13,125 --> 01:00:14,458 yeah, that's the sign that 6 01:00:14,458 --> 01:00:15,208 I'm gonna say this again. 7 01:00:17,208 --> 01:00:17,250 (laughs) 8 01:00:19,125 --> 01:00:20,208 On some pain medication 9 01:00:20,208 --> 01:00:21,250 for the next few days. 10 01:00:21,875 --> 01:00:22,291 You know what? 11 01:00:24,375 --> 01:00:26,000 We missed a huge opportunity there. 12 01:00:26,916 --> 01:00:27,208 Why? 13 01:00:27,833 --> 01:00:30,083 It would have been our highest rated. 14 01:00:31,750 --> 01:00:32,250 Pun intended. 15 01:00:33,791 --> 01:00:36,708 Cause I would have been high as a kite. 16 01:00:36,791 --> 01:00:37,625 Yeah, yeah. 17 01:00:38,000 --> 01:00:40,125 A 45 minute monologue for you. 18 01:00:40,625 --> 01:00:42,000 So I'm just throwing it to Meghan. 19 01:00:42,333 --> 01:00:43,458 What do you think about that, Megs? 20 01:00:44,291 --> 01:00:44,875 Just, yeah. 21 01:00:46,041 --> 01:00:48,041 Legend, wait for it. 22 01:00:48,625 --> 01:00:50,416 I hope you're not lactose intolerant. 23 01:00:50,833 --> 01:00:51,041 Dairy. 24 01:00:52,583 --> 01:00:53,416 And that's it, folks. 25 01:00:53,750 --> 01:00:55,041 That's it, and we hit 26 01:00:55,041 --> 01:00:56,375 the high for snow cones. 27 01:00:56,750 --> 01:00:58,458 (laughs) 28 01:00:59,500 --> 01:01:01,625 It'll be dry, but you might not be sober. 29 01:01:03,583 --> 01:01:04,666 Yeah, there's nothing better though 30 01:01:04,666 --> 01:01:05,791 than waking up at two 31 01:01:05,791 --> 01:01:06,791 a.m. at a gas station. 32 01:01:07,458 --> 01:01:10,166 Yeah, I got to say I'm 33 01:01:10,166 --> 01:01:11,208 jonesing for a vacation. 34 01:01:12,416 --> 01:01:15,458 So I was just taking one for the team. 35 01:01:15,750 --> 01:01:17,666 Yep, again, I'm not a doctor. 36 01:01:18,250 --> 01:01:19,583 Called Thump Thump Drag. 37 01:01:21,500 --> 01:01:22,708 What kind of short 38 01:01:22,708 --> 01:01:24,041 story were you reading? 39 01:01:24,750 --> 01:01:25,708 This scarred me. 40 01:01:27,083 --> 01:01:28,333 Actually, remember when 41 01:01:28,333 --> 01:01:29,166 we saw that wolf spider? 42 01:01:29,708 --> 01:01:30,166 Remember when we had-- 43 01:01:30,375 --> 01:01:31,833 Yeah, it was like 15 years old. 44 01:01:31,833 --> 01:01:33,875 It was like, and it was probably 45 01:01:34,125 --> 01:01:35,500 my greatest parenting moment. 46 01:01:35,791 --> 01:01:36,541 You did not-- 47 01:01:36,791 --> 01:01:37,000 To date. 48 01:01:37,625 --> 01:01:39,041 You did not throw the child down. 49 01:01:39,666 --> 01:01:40,000 No, I don't. 50 01:01:40,125 --> 01:01:40,958 Insurance cards and spiders. 51 01:01:42,458 --> 01:01:44,291 Over the hill is no longer 40. 52 01:01:45,541 --> 01:01:47,333 Yes, yeah, I mean, my grandparents 53 01:01:47,666 --> 01:01:48,583 lived through the 54 01:01:48,583 --> 01:01:50,166 Depression and World War II. 55 01:01:50,166 --> 01:01:50,833 I mean, they were the 56 01:01:50,833 --> 01:01:51,666 greatest generation. 57 01:01:51,666 --> 01:01:52,291 The greatest generation. 58 01:01:52,500 --> 01:01:53,000 It's the greatest generation. 59 01:01:53,458 --> 01:01:54,041 They truly are. 60 01:01:54,541 --> 01:01:55,083 Here's the thing. 61 01:01:55,125 --> 01:01:56,541 Those baby boomers though, they're soft. 62 01:01:57,458 --> 01:01:58,500 So soft. 63 01:01:59,375 --> 01:01:59,958 Anyways, go ahead. 64 01:02:00,500 --> 01:02:01,333 If you think you're 65 01:02:01,333 --> 01:02:02,916 old, you're gonna get old. 66 01:02:03,458 --> 01:02:03,750 Yeah. 67 01:02:04,250 --> 01:02:05,333 I always interrupt you just 68 01:02:05,625 --> 01:02:06,833 because I think I got these one-liners. 69 01:02:06,833 --> 01:02:07,750 That's a great one-liner. 70 01:02:08,000 --> 01:02:08,708 Yeah, normal. 71 01:02:09,166 --> 01:02:10,291 Oh yeah, we never do 72 01:02:10,291 --> 01:02:11,083 anything embarrassing. 73 01:02:12,166 --> 01:02:12,625 You wouldn't. 74 01:02:12,666 --> 01:02:14,041 I only tear down my own child. 75 01:02:14,083 --> 01:02:14,666 Well, no, you wouldn't 76 01:02:14,666 --> 01:02:15,916 do that, but you would-- 77 01:02:16,166 --> 01:02:17,166 I'm just teaming to the side. 78 01:02:17,250 --> 01:02:17,666 Athletic synonymous. 79 01:02:18,416 --> 01:02:19,541 Athletic, yeah, what else would it be? 80 01:02:19,583 --> 01:02:20,083 Yeah, obviously. 81 01:02:20,750 --> 01:02:22,041 That dad and mom, by the way, 82 01:02:22,041 --> 01:02:22,666 they keep taking our 83 01:02:22,666 --> 01:02:24,458 partners once, just for the record. 84 01:02:25,291 --> 01:02:26,875 I'm just calling him out. 85 01:02:27,708 --> 01:02:28,500 I love you, love you. 86 01:02:28,500 --> 01:02:29,625 You put all the seats down. 87 01:02:30,458 --> 01:02:31,416 And roll out sleeping bags. 88 01:02:32,125 --> 01:02:33,083 Greatest cross country car. 89 01:02:33,416 --> 01:02:35,625 18 hours, 55 miles an hour, 90 01:02:35,916 --> 01:02:37,958 maybe even 58 miles an hour. 91 01:02:38,833 --> 01:02:41,375 That's the household I grew up in. 92 01:02:41,666 --> 01:02:43,291 That is his next level 93 01:02:43,291 --> 01:02:45,541 commitment to hitting your ETA. 94 01:02:46,583 --> 01:02:47,041 Snow cones. 95 01:02:48,041 --> 01:02:48,750 Yeah, I totally set 96 01:02:48,750 --> 01:02:49,583 that one up way better. 97 01:02:49,916 --> 01:02:51,583 Come on, see that one was set up better. 98 01:02:51,958 --> 01:02:53,416 That one was set up really well. 99 01:02:53,916 --> 01:02:54,916 Welcome to the Mr. and 100 01:02:54,916 --> 01:02:55,916 Mrs. English podcast. 101 01:02:56,250 --> 01:02:56,625 I'm Megan. 102 01:02:57,041 --> 01:02:57,583 And I'm Sean. 103 01:02:57,833 --> 01:02:58,916 We're here to talk about 104 01:02:58,916 --> 01:03:00,750 the wild ride of raising kids, 105 01:03:00,750 --> 01:03:02,875 growing careers, keeping life together 106 01:03:02,875 --> 01:03:04,083 in the middle of all the chaos. 107 01:03:04,833 --> 01:03:06,750 So buckle up, because we're all 108 01:03:06,750 --> 01:03:08,125 in this crazy journey together. 109 01:03:10,958 --> 01:03:11,500 That's fantastic. 110 01:03:14,000 --> 01:03:14,791 We're killing it tonight. 111 01:03:16,375 --> 01:03:17,541 Talk about a productive night. 112 01:03:19,500 --> 01:03:20,333 Yeah, we're just jumping 113 01:03:20,333 --> 01:03:21,416 right into this, right? 114 01:03:21,708 --> 01:03:22,500 We really are. 115 01:03:22,541 --> 01:03:23,583 Productive night, we're like, 116 01:03:23,583 --> 01:03:24,333 you know what we should do? 117 01:03:24,666 --> 01:03:25,833 We should record Mr. and Mrs. 118 01:03:26,041 --> 01:03:27,250 We should record Mr. and Mrs. 119 01:03:27,333 --> 01:03:27,666 Why? 120 01:03:27,666 --> 01:03:28,708 Because it's a Wednesday night. 121 01:03:29,250 --> 01:03:29,458 Yeah. 122 01:03:30,250 --> 01:03:31,083 And tomorrow night 123 01:03:31,083 --> 01:03:32,250 we've got soccer practice, 124 01:03:32,250 --> 01:03:33,833 track practice, and soccer practice. 125 01:03:33,958 --> 01:03:34,541 Uh-huh, yeah. 126 01:03:35,083 --> 01:03:35,583 And then Friday? 127 01:03:36,750 --> 01:03:39,333 I have surgery, so we can just assume 128 01:03:39,333 --> 01:03:41,416 I'm gonna be on some pain 129 01:03:41,416 --> 01:03:42,916 medication for the next few days. 130 01:03:43,458 --> 01:03:43,875 You know what? 131 01:03:45,916 --> 01:03:47,583 We missed a huge opportunity there. 132 01:03:48,541 --> 01:03:48,791 Why? 133 01:03:49,375 --> 01:03:50,916 We should have recorded this 134 01:03:51,166 --> 01:03:52,791 while you were on pain meds on Friday. 135 01:03:53,916 --> 01:03:54,708 After your surgery. 136 01:03:55,000 --> 01:03:56,500 Yeah, but do we really want that? 137 01:03:56,500 --> 01:03:57,708 Do I, I guess maybe 138 01:03:57,708 --> 01:03:58,791 everyone else might be really-- 139 01:03:58,791 --> 01:04:00,666 It would have been our highest rated. 140 01:04:02,333 --> 01:04:02,875 Pun intended. 141 01:04:04,375 --> 01:04:07,333 Because I would have been high as a kite. 142 01:04:07,416 --> 01:04:08,083 Yeah, yeah. 143 01:04:08,500 --> 01:04:10,208 Yeah, uh-huh, still whatever. 144 01:04:10,583 --> 01:04:11,666 We missed, we really 145 01:04:11,666 --> 01:04:12,750 missed an opportunity there. 146 01:04:12,791 --> 01:04:14,083 You missed an opportunity there. 147 01:04:14,083 --> 01:04:15,125 To bring the best. 148 01:04:15,500 --> 01:04:15,833 Yeah. 149 01:04:16,083 --> 01:04:16,666 To the people. 150 01:04:17,083 --> 01:04:19,208 To the people, and I would have to be, 151 01:04:20,041 --> 01:04:21,625 I would be the one being sacrificed 152 01:04:22,041 --> 01:04:23,208 to give everyone else enjoyment. 153 01:04:23,625 --> 01:04:25,416 The reality is though, I don't know 154 01:04:25,416 --> 01:04:26,000 that I would be able 155 01:04:26,000 --> 01:04:27,041 to get into the studio. 156 01:04:28,333 --> 01:04:29,833 Oh yeah, we could do it. 157 01:04:31,458 --> 01:04:34,500 We'd be coming from a lounge chair or-- 158 01:04:34,875 --> 01:04:36,500 What would be great, you know, 159 01:04:36,750 --> 01:04:38,291 I'll call the studio and 160 01:04:38,291 --> 01:04:39,958 see if we've got in the budget 161 01:04:41,000 --> 01:04:41,541 something where we 162 01:04:41,541 --> 01:04:42,416 could just do one of those 163 01:04:42,625 --> 01:04:45,500 roll-in hospital beds right here for you. 164 01:04:46,083 --> 01:04:46,750 So you could be 165 01:04:46,750 --> 01:04:48,500 sitting in a hospital bed, 166 01:04:48,875 --> 01:04:51,708 propped up, IVs, you 167 01:04:51,708 --> 01:04:52,541 know, the whole thing. 168 01:04:52,833 --> 01:04:54,000 Maybe we could have a nurse come in 169 01:04:54,000 --> 01:04:55,500 and check on you during. 170 01:04:56,250 --> 01:04:57,583 Yeah, huh. 171 01:04:57,583 --> 01:04:57,958 That would be great. 172 01:04:58,500 --> 01:05:00,541 That would be, that would 173 01:05:00,541 --> 01:05:01,541 be taking one for the team. 174 01:05:02,250 --> 01:05:02,541 That'd be great. 175 01:05:03,125 --> 01:05:04,958 And who knows if I'd say something funny 176 01:05:04,958 --> 01:05:05,875 or maybe I would just 177 01:05:05,875 --> 01:05:07,000 sleep through the whole thing. 178 01:05:07,000 --> 01:05:08,833 So it might just be a 45 179 01:05:08,833 --> 01:05:10,708 minute monologue for you. 180 01:05:11,166 --> 01:05:12,541 So I'm just throwing it to Megan. 181 01:05:12,958 --> 01:05:14,000 What do you think about that, Megs? 182 01:05:14,916 --> 01:05:17,791 Just, yeah, silence, breathing. 183 01:05:19,041 --> 01:05:19,833 And there you have it. 184 01:05:19,833 --> 01:05:20,833 And there you have it. 185 01:05:21,041 --> 01:05:22,041 That is, yeah. 186 01:05:22,625 --> 01:05:23,458 All right, well then 187 01:05:23,458 --> 01:05:24,541 maybe it is a good idea 188 01:05:24,541 --> 01:05:25,500 that we did it tonight 189 01:05:25,666 --> 01:05:27,791 because it's all the time we have. 190 01:05:28,000 --> 01:05:28,958 It's all the time we have. 191 01:05:29,500 --> 01:05:30,208 I mean, it's a busy 192 01:05:30,208 --> 01:05:33,041 schedule, so, but here's the thing. 193 01:05:33,041 --> 01:05:34,791 The chaos train, it just keeps coming. 194 01:05:34,791 --> 01:05:35,041 It's the chaos train. 195 01:05:36,000 --> 01:05:37,000 But here's the thing, this is 196 01:05:37,000 --> 01:05:38,000 something we've talked about 197 01:05:38,083 --> 01:05:39,166 over the last couple of weeks 198 01:05:39,166 --> 01:05:41,125 as we unpack Mr. and Mrs. 199 01:05:41,125 --> 01:05:42,791 and we try to talk about 200 01:05:42,791 --> 01:05:44,291 what are we doing well, what are we not? 201 01:05:44,625 --> 01:05:45,625 And I was like, 202 01:05:45,916 --> 01:05:49,125 honestly, I truly feel like, 203 01:05:49,125 --> 01:05:52,333 at least for me, it is like a date night. 204 01:05:53,208 --> 01:05:55,416 I love the hour that we 205 01:05:55,416 --> 01:05:57,458 spend recording every week 206 01:05:58,333 --> 01:06:01,333 because I feel like it's just 207 01:06:01,333 --> 01:06:03,833 uninterrupted time with you. 208 01:06:04,750 --> 01:06:06,666 And I mean, I guess all the listeners 209 01:06:06,666 --> 01:06:07,833 then get a sneak peek 210 01:06:07,833 --> 01:06:09,000 at what we talk about on date night. 211 01:06:09,875 --> 01:06:11,500 Yeah, yeah, it really is. 212 01:06:12,000 --> 01:06:13,166 It is, I was talking to somebody that 213 01:06:13,166 --> 01:06:14,416 listens to the show. 214 01:06:16,291 --> 01:06:16,916 I don't know, yesterday 215 01:06:16,916 --> 01:06:18,000 maybe it was or two days ago, 216 01:06:18,000 --> 01:06:18,916 I don't know when it was, 217 01:06:18,916 --> 01:06:19,666 but they were just saying, 218 01:06:20,833 --> 01:06:22,416 they enjoy it because it's 219 01:06:22,416 --> 01:06:23,291 just like they're sitting 220 01:06:23,291 --> 01:06:24,916 at the table, like you said, 221 01:06:24,916 --> 01:06:25,583 just kind of having a 222 01:06:25,583 --> 01:06:27,000 conversation with two buddies. 223 01:06:27,666 --> 01:06:27,791 Right. 224 01:06:28,625 --> 01:06:30,250 And I was like, that's 225 01:06:30,250 --> 01:06:31,708 what smartless is all about. 226 01:06:31,958 --> 01:06:33,041 Other than there's 227 01:06:33,041 --> 01:06:35,458 celebrities who have their own private 228 01:06:35,458 --> 01:06:37,166 jets and PJs as 229 01:06:37,166 --> 01:06:37,958 they're called in business. 230 01:06:38,291 --> 01:06:39,000 Yeah, yeah. 231 01:06:39,875 --> 01:06:41,750 We have fallen far short of that. 232 01:06:41,791 --> 01:06:42,583 I have PJs. 233 01:06:42,875 --> 01:06:44,250 Well, no, really, I don't have PJs. 234 01:06:44,291 --> 01:06:46,125 Yeah, but your PJs stand for pajamas. 235 01:06:46,500 --> 01:06:47,083 Yeah, that's right. 236 01:06:47,083 --> 01:06:47,833 Well, that's one, yeah. 237 01:06:47,875 --> 01:06:48,416 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 238 01:06:48,458 --> 01:06:49,000 But I actually don't 239 01:06:49,000 --> 01:06:50,166 even have that either, so. 240 01:06:53,208 --> 01:06:54,958 DMI folks, DMI. 241 01:06:56,708 --> 01:06:57,708 I mean, I would wear like 242 01:06:57,708 --> 01:06:59,333 sweats, right around that. 243 01:06:59,333 --> 01:07:01,000 I don't wear PJs around my house. 244 01:07:01,083 --> 01:07:01,500 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 245 01:07:01,500 --> 01:07:02,208 You are not walking 246 01:07:02,208 --> 01:07:04,166 around in like the silk pajamas 247 01:07:04,166 --> 01:07:06,625 that have the button and yeah, like, 248 01:07:06,958 --> 01:07:08,916 you're not Hugh Hefner-ing it. 249 01:07:08,958 --> 01:07:10,833 For sure most people or Barney. 250 01:07:11,875 --> 01:07:12,583 Is this named Barney 251 01:07:12,583 --> 01:07:13,541 from How I Met Your Mother? 252 01:07:14,583 --> 01:07:15,833 Oh yeah, yeah. 253 01:07:15,833 --> 01:07:17,500 I was thinking the big purple dinosaur. 254 01:07:18,041 --> 01:07:18,833 Oh yeah, yeah, there's 255 01:07:18,833 --> 01:07:20,000 that Barney too, yeah. 256 01:07:20,000 --> 01:07:21,458 Yeah, to my knowledge, he 257 01:07:21,458 --> 01:07:23,541 does not wear PJs either. 258 01:07:24,250 --> 01:07:26,500 No, well, do you remember in the episode, 259 01:07:26,916 --> 01:07:27,708 if anybody ever watched 260 01:07:27,708 --> 01:07:28,583 How I Met Your Mother, 261 01:07:28,583 --> 01:07:31,250 fantastic show, but I've got 262 01:07:31,250 --> 01:07:33,291 a buddy that lives in Colorado 263 01:07:34,375 --> 01:07:37,666 and he used to wear suits everywhere 264 01:07:37,666 --> 01:07:39,375 and we work together, but we're buddies. 265 01:07:40,250 --> 01:07:42,375 And he wears suits everywhere. 266 01:07:42,375 --> 01:07:43,416 Like even when like you 267 01:07:43,416 --> 01:07:44,333 should be wearing jeans 268 01:07:44,541 --> 01:07:45,083 and we're just hanging 269 01:07:45,083 --> 01:07:47,083 out, you know, he's in a suit. 270 01:07:47,083 --> 01:07:47,958 So I used to always make fun of him 271 01:07:47,958 --> 01:07:49,958 because there was an episode on that show 272 01:07:50,708 --> 01:07:53,541 that Barney, who always wore suits, 273 01:07:54,416 --> 01:07:56,333 he, they're having like 274 01:07:56,333 --> 01:07:57,500 a sleepover or something 275 01:07:57,916 --> 01:08:01,916 and he shows up in like a silk suit, 276 01:08:02,208 --> 01:08:04,250 but it's like a three-piece silk suit, 277 01:08:04,250 --> 01:08:05,916 you know, three buttons up front, 278 01:08:06,250 --> 01:08:08,000 total suit, but it's made out of silk, 279 01:08:08,000 --> 01:08:09,708 so it was his pajamas, but still a suit. 280 01:08:09,958 --> 01:08:10,583 Yeah, yeah. 281 01:08:11,333 --> 01:08:13,083 And so that's what I picture. 282 01:08:13,083 --> 01:08:14,250 I always make fun of him, 283 01:08:14,250 --> 01:08:15,916 that's what he goes to sleep in as well. 284 01:08:17,083 --> 01:08:18,416 That's hilarious. 285 01:08:19,250 --> 01:08:19,500 I mean. 286 01:08:19,875 --> 01:08:20,916 Yeah, yeah. 287 01:08:21,750 --> 01:08:23,041 That is fantastic. 288 01:08:23,083 --> 01:08:24,000 He'll appreciate that, 289 01:08:24,708 --> 01:08:25,958 that big shout out there. 290 01:08:26,541 --> 01:08:27,166 Because I still think 291 01:08:27,166 --> 01:08:28,208 he probably does do that. 292 01:08:28,541 --> 01:08:29,666 He's lying that he doesn't. 293 01:08:30,625 --> 01:08:30,916 Clearly. 294 01:08:31,666 --> 01:08:32,708 And I'm sure, I 295 01:08:32,708 --> 01:08:33,666 wonder where you get those. 296 01:08:34,708 --> 01:08:35,541 Oh, they're probably, 297 01:08:36,083 --> 01:08:36,416 I mean. 298 01:08:37,291 --> 01:08:38,208 They're probably made 299 01:08:38,208 --> 01:08:40,083 specifically to order. 300 01:08:40,333 --> 01:08:42,375 Okay, because spoiler alert, 301 01:08:42,375 --> 01:08:43,375 I did not buy those for 302 01:08:43,375 --> 01:08:44,541 you for Valentine's Day. 303 01:08:44,541 --> 01:08:46,958 It's a special guy that wants those. 304 01:08:47,541 --> 01:08:48,250 You can't just go to 305 01:08:48,250 --> 01:08:50,875 JCPenney's, pick that up. 306 01:08:51,208 --> 01:08:51,416 Yeah. 307 01:08:52,083 --> 01:08:52,916 I don't think at least. 308 01:08:53,666 --> 01:08:53,833 Right. 309 01:08:54,375 --> 01:08:54,666 Yeah. 310 01:08:54,958 --> 01:08:55,500 It's legendary. 311 01:08:56,666 --> 01:08:58,791 Legend, wait for it. 312 01:08:59,458 --> 01:09:01,125 I hope you're not lactose intolerant. 313 01:09:01,541 --> 01:09:01,791 Dairy. 314 01:09:03,333 --> 01:09:04,166 And that's it, folks. 315 01:09:04,500 --> 01:09:05,833 That's it, and we hit 316 01:09:05,833 --> 01:09:06,208 the high for the episode. 317 01:09:06,208 --> 01:09:07,375 Because I finished your. 318 01:09:08,666 --> 01:09:08,916 Snow cones. 319 01:09:11,000 --> 01:09:12,375 (laughing) We got it in earlier. 320 01:09:12,833 --> 01:09:14,416 That was, that one was okay. 321 01:09:15,250 --> 01:09:16,416 Oh, yeah, you didn't. 322 01:09:16,416 --> 01:09:17,875 So now have we checked that box? 323 01:09:17,875 --> 01:09:18,666 We don't have to do it at the end. 324 01:09:19,458 --> 01:09:21,083 I don't know, I keep coming up with 325 01:09:21,416 --> 01:09:23,083 just fantastic little 326 01:09:23,083 --> 01:09:24,458 things to throw in there. 327 01:09:24,458 --> 01:09:25,625 You weren't ready for that one, though. 328 01:09:25,666 --> 01:09:26,666 I know, but I came up with 329 01:09:26,666 --> 01:09:27,291 it pretty quickly, right? 330 01:09:27,291 --> 01:09:28,083 Snow cones, yeah. 331 01:09:28,333 --> 01:09:28,708 An S. 332 01:09:29,666 --> 01:09:30,958 Yeah, that would have been a cut. 333 01:09:30,958 --> 01:09:32,250 You would have noticed a cut if that 334 01:09:32,250 --> 01:09:32,958 would have been on me. 335 01:09:33,000 --> 01:09:33,291 It would have been 336 01:09:33,291 --> 01:09:37,375 like, mmm, paper plates. 337 01:09:38,750 --> 01:09:39,000 (laughing) 338 01:09:39,583 --> 01:09:40,041 Doesn't work. 339 01:09:40,666 --> 01:09:41,666 Doesn't deserve an S, John. 340 01:09:42,500 --> 01:09:43,541 But it's the right syllables. 341 01:09:44,166 --> 01:09:47,333 Oh, snow cones, sandwiches, sentences. 342 01:09:47,750 --> 01:09:49,000 Sentences, I made one. 343 01:09:49,041 --> 01:09:49,458 Sand castles. 344 01:09:49,916 --> 01:09:50,875 Sand castles, I got. 345 01:09:51,666 --> 01:09:52,333 Snow cones, I didn't 346 01:09:52,333 --> 01:09:53,375 know it was a syllable, too. 347 01:09:53,625 --> 01:09:54,125 All right, we're way out. 348 01:09:54,125 --> 01:09:55,291 Anyway, off-tandant. 349 01:09:55,333 --> 01:09:57,000 Yeah, that's bad. 350 01:09:58,291 --> 01:10:00,000 Back around to, yep, 351 01:10:00,000 --> 01:10:00,958 we're fitting this in 352 01:10:01,291 --> 01:10:03,916 when we have time, and you know what? 353 01:10:05,291 --> 01:10:06,166 I love that. 354 01:10:07,000 --> 01:10:09,375 It's a great way for, I feel like, 355 01:10:09,625 --> 01:10:12,458 to close out the day for us. 356 01:10:12,458 --> 01:10:13,583 I mean, it's not super 357 01:10:13,583 --> 01:10:14,666 late for us right now, 358 01:10:14,666 --> 01:10:17,541 but I'm excited to have this 359 01:10:17,541 --> 01:10:18,666 time to just bond with you. 360 01:10:19,083 --> 01:10:19,875 Yeah, yeah. 361 01:10:20,166 --> 01:10:22,125 We should probably also give the 362 01:10:22,125 --> 01:10:23,500 disclaimer to the viewers 363 01:10:23,708 --> 01:10:25,000 that it's a Wednesday 364 01:10:25,000 --> 01:10:27,208 night before your surgery, 365 01:10:27,625 --> 01:10:28,541 and tomorrow night, 366 01:10:28,541 --> 01:10:29,541 you're not allowed to drink, 367 01:10:30,041 --> 01:10:31,208 eat, till a certain time. 368 01:10:32,250 --> 01:10:33,583 So tonight, we both 369 01:10:33,583 --> 01:10:34,500 decided to have a drink, 370 01:10:34,500 --> 01:10:35,291 because this is the last night 371 01:10:35,291 --> 01:10:36,166 you could drink for a couple, 372 01:10:36,416 --> 01:10:37,041 probably a week. 373 01:10:37,583 --> 01:10:38,791 Probably, I mean, I don't 374 01:10:38,791 --> 01:10:40,083 think they really advise 375 01:10:40,416 --> 01:10:42,125 any type of pain medication with alcohol. 376 01:10:42,333 --> 01:10:43,666 I think that's a big no-no. 377 01:10:43,666 --> 01:10:44,791 We're doing a dry Valentine's. 378 01:10:45,333 --> 01:10:47,791 Yeah, yeah, which, you know. 379 01:10:47,833 --> 01:10:48,083 You are? 380 01:10:48,708 --> 01:10:50,833 I am, yeah, I don't, you might be. 381 01:10:50,833 --> 01:10:51,666 You won't even know. 382 01:10:51,666 --> 01:10:52,916 I'm vibing, I won't even know. 383 01:10:53,875 --> 01:10:56,958 Actually, well, it'll be 384 01:10:56,958 --> 01:10:58,875 dry, but you might not be sober. 385 01:10:58,916 --> 01:10:59,708 (laughing) 386 01:11:01,333 --> 01:11:02,416 You're right, I probably won't be. 387 01:11:03,208 --> 01:11:04,000 And that's not fair, 388 01:11:04,000 --> 01:11:05,500 so I probably will be drinking that too. 389 01:11:05,500 --> 01:11:06,833 Right, you'll probably need to, 390 01:11:06,833 --> 01:11:08,708 after single parenting. 391 01:11:09,583 --> 01:11:10,583 Well, you're so thoughtful. 392 01:11:10,916 --> 01:11:12,000 You're like, "Shawn, 393 01:11:12,000 --> 01:11:13,500 I'm not sober, I feel bad, 394 01:11:13,500 --> 01:11:15,208 have a drink, I'm 395 01:11:15,208 --> 01:11:16,375 popping pills, we're good." 396 01:11:16,500 --> 01:11:17,541 We're good, yeah. 397 01:11:18,041 --> 01:11:18,333 Yeah. 398 01:11:18,541 --> 01:11:20,041 I will probably just be sleeping, 399 01:11:20,041 --> 01:11:21,250 or at least I hope I am. 400 01:11:21,541 --> 01:11:22,500 And those pills were prescribed. 401 01:11:23,750 --> 01:11:24,083 100%. 402 01:11:25,541 --> 01:11:28,083 Should also put the disclaimer out there. 403 01:11:28,125 --> 01:11:29,500 I don't even do well on pain medication, 404 01:11:29,791 --> 01:11:31,000 so this'll be interesting. 405 01:11:31,875 --> 01:11:33,041 Well, that's a good point. 406 01:11:33,291 --> 01:11:34,416 I mean, you've had 407 01:11:34,416 --> 01:11:35,833 surgery, how many times before? 408 01:11:36,500 --> 01:11:36,750 Once. Once? 409 01:11:37,041 --> 01:11:38,000 Just once, yep. 410 01:11:38,166 --> 01:11:38,916 And how did you do on 411 01:11:38,916 --> 01:11:39,833 pain medication that time? 412 01:11:41,166 --> 01:11:43,291 I was violently ill after surgery. 413 01:11:44,208 --> 01:11:46,000 So that's something to look forward to? 414 01:11:46,291 --> 01:11:47,291 Yep, yep, in the 415 01:11:47,291 --> 01:11:50,000 post-op, I remember, yeah, 416 01:11:50,458 --> 01:11:51,208 tossing my cookies. 417 01:11:52,000 --> 01:11:52,833 I don't remember much, 418 01:11:52,833 --> 01:11:53,791 but I remember that part. 419 01:11:54,375 --> 01:11:57,041 But after that, I took them once, 420 01:11:58,000 --> 01:11:58,958 and I was like, "You know what, I don't 421 01:11:58,958 --> 01:11:59,666 think I need these." 422 01:12:00,291 --> 01:12:01,250 So I didn't take any more. 423 01:12:02,250 --> 01:12:03,750 So I did, I mean, it was just like, 424 01:12:03,750 --> 01:12:04,750 I don't feel great with 425 01:12:04,750 --> 01:12:06,375 them on, or with taking them, 426 01:12:06,375 --> 01:12:08,500 so I decided not to, 427 01:12:08,500 --> 01:12:09,500 the pain wasn't so bad. 428 01:12:10,083 --> 01:12:11,500 I was like, "Oh, I can take some Advil," 429 01:12:11,500 --> 01:12:12,291 or something like that. 430 01:12:12,500 --> 01:12:13,916 So I think this is a 431 01:12:13,916 --> 01:12:14,500 little more extensive 432 01:12:14,500 --> 01:12:15,916 than the last one, so. 433 01:12:16,041 --> 01:12:16,750 Probably so. 434 01:12:17,000 --> 01:12:17,416 We'll see. 435 01:12:18,000 --> 01:12:18,958 Yeah, we still don't even 436 01:12:18,958 --> 01:12:19,875 know if it's just gonna be 437 01:12:19,875 --> 01:12:20,875 arthroscopic, or if 438 01:12:20,875 --> 01:12:21,458 they're gonna have to actually 439 01:12:21,458 --> 01:12:23,833 open it up, I mean, they tell you, 440 01:12:25,375 --> 01:12:26,000 from what we've been 441 01:12:26,000 --> 01:12:26,875 told, right, is just, 442 01:12:27,750 --> 01:12:29,708 it'll start arthroscopic. 443 01:12:29,750 --> 01:12:30,208 Yeah, yeah. 444 01:12:30,916 --> 01:12:32,208 And then, who knows? 445 01:12:32,458 --> 01:12:32,875 Who knows? 446 01:12:33,375 --> 01:12:34,500 And it could range from 447 01:12:34,500 --> 01:12:36,583 anywhere from an hour to three. 448 01:12:36,958 --> 01:12:37,208 Yeah. 449 01:12:37,916 --> 01:12:39,916 So I won't remember any of that. 450 01:12:41,083 --> 01:12:42,375 Good luck to you in the waiting room. 451 01:12:43,166 --> 01:12:43,458 Yeah. 452 01:12:43,583 --> 01:12:44,750 Hopefully you have a good book. 453 01:12:46,000 --> 01:12:47,250 Or you're editing this podcast. 454 01:12:49,125 --> 01:12:49,958 See, I'm giving him 455 01:12:49,958 --> 01:12:51,333 material to keep him busy 456 01:12:51,333 --> 01:12:53,000 and his mind off of 457 01:12:53,000 --> 01:12:54,250 worrying about his wife. 458 01:12:54,958 --> 01:12:56,375 Yeah, he'll be fine. 459 01:12:57,750 --> 01:12:59,125 I am a little worried 460 01:12:59,125 --> 01:13:00,041 how you're gonna handle 461 01:13:00,666 --> 01:13:01,666 coming out of it and 462 01:13:01,666 --> 01:13:02,291 all that kind of stuff, 463 01:13:02,291 --> 01:13:03,583 because I know it wasn't a great 464 01:13:03,583 --> 01:13:04,666 experience the first time, 465 01:13:04,666 --> 01:13:05,833 even beforehand, so. 466 01:13:05,875 --> 01:13:06,041 Yeah. 467 01:13:06,750 --> 01:13:07,458 I'm hopeful that 468 01:13:07,458 --> 01:13:08,750 everything goes well and smooth, 469 01:13:09,166 --> 01:13:10,000 and when you get back to 470 01:13:10,000 --> 01:13:11,291 the family, or at least me, 471 01:13:12,083 --> 01:13:13,416 you're good to go. 472 01:13:13,458 --> 01:13:14,125 I'm all good to go. 473 01:13:14,500 --> 01:13:15,958 So how many surgeries have you had? 474 01:13:17,583 --> 01:13:22,333 I think I've only been under twice. 475 01:13:22,750 --> 01:13:23,125 Oh, really? 476 01:13:24,041 --> 01:13:24,208 Twice. 477 01:13:24,208 --> 01:13:25,708 I got my tonsils out, back 478 01:13:25,708 --> 01:13:26,541 when they took tonsils out. 479 01:13:26,583 --> 01:13:27,583 I don't think they do that anymore. 480 01:13:28,208 --> 01:13:28,583 Oh, really? 481 01:13:28,583 --> 01:13:29,208 Not often. 482 01:13:29,250 --> 01:13:29,791 They know that. 483 01:13:29,833 --> 01:13:30,416 Yeah, they don't do 484 01:13:30,416 --> 01:13:31,333 it very often anymore. 485 01:13:31,333 --> 01:13:32,041 I got my tonsils and my 486 01:13:32,041 --> 01:13:33,833 adenoids out when I was younger, 487 01:13:33,833 --> 01:13:36,041 and then I had a small cyst on my wrist 488 01:13:36,041 --> 01:13:37,041 that they put me out for. 489 01:13:37,250 --> 01:13:37,500 Yeah. 490 01:13:38,000 --> 01:13:39,166 And then I've had a couple surgeries 491 01:13:39,375 --> 01:13:40,750 where I wasn't totally out, 492 01:13:40,750 --> 01:13:42,166 where I was local anesthetic. 493 01:13:42,500 --> 01:13:45,041 One was the surgery that ended my 494 01:13:45,500 --> 01:13:46,875 quote unquote basketball career. 495 01:13:47,041 --> 01:13:47,375 Right. 496 01:13:47,416 --> 01:13:49,375 That was the last time I played 497 01:13:49,375 --> 01:13:50,291 basketball in college. 498 01:13:51,250 --> 01:13:53,000 And then, what was the other one? 499 01:13:54,000 --> 01:13:54,625 I was trying to think. 500 01:13:55,375 --> 01:13:57,250 You had your kidney stones blasted. 501 01:13:57,291 --> 01:13:58,500 That's what it was, kidney stones. 502 01:13:58,500 --> 01:13:59,375 I was out on that one. 503 01:14:00,250 --> 01:14:02,416 Oh, and in the ER, I had a horrible, 504 01:14:04,166 --> 01:14:06,916 what was it, what did they give me? 505 01:14:06,916 --> 01:14:07,875 It was anti-nausea? 506 01:14:08,125 --> 01:14:11,125 Oh, no, they gave you pain medication. 507 01:14:11,416 --> 01:14:12,000 Pain meds, and I did 508 01:14:12,000 --> 01:14:13,000 not react well to that. 509 01:14:13,000 --> 01:14:14,000 You did not react well. 510 01:14:14,625 --> 01:14:16,375 That also made you violently ill. 511 01:14:16,833 --> 01:14:17,458 Anybody that's had a 512 01:14:17,458 --> 01:14:18,333 kidney stone out there 513 01:14:18,833 --> 01:14:19,916 knows where I'm coming from here, 514 01:14:19,916 --> 01:14:21,666 because even the nurses there, 515 01:14:21,666 --> 01:14:22,958 they told you in front of you 516 01:14:23,083 --> 01:14:25,708 that they've had a child, naturally, 517 01:14:26,458 --> 01:14:28,500 and kidney stones, and 518 01:14:28,500 --> 01:14:29,750 they would have 50 more kids 519 01:14:29,750 --> 01:14:30,833 before they'd have another kidney stone. 520 01:14:31,541 --> 01:14:33,416 It is horrible. 521 01:14:33,875 --> 01:14:34,458 It's very painful. 522 01:14:34,708 --> 01:14:35,666 I've had, I don't know 523 01:14:35,666 --> 01:14:36,500 how many of them now. 524 01:14:37,500 --> 01:14:38,875 And then I've had some, and 525 01:14:38,875 --> 01:14:39,875 then I had those ones blasted, 526 01:14:39,875 --> 01:14:41,166 which I was out for, I was totally out. 527 01:14:41,166 --> 01:14:42,875 So I've been under three times. 528 01:14:42,916 --> 01:14:43,875 Yeah, mm-hmm. 529 01:14:44,541 --> 01:14:45,791 It's the best, right? 530 01:14:46,125 --> 01:14:47,000 I mean, like when they tell you, 531 01:14:47,250 --> 01:14:48,500 count to 10, and you count 532 01:14:48,500 --> 01:14:49,583 to three, and you're gone. 533 01:14:51,291 --> 01:14:52,000 No, okay. 534 01:14:52,125 --> 01:14:53,416 I don't recall any of that. 535 01:14:54,208 --> 01:14:54,500 Seriously? 536 01:14:54,833 --> 01:14:56,000 You've only had the one surgery, though. 537 01:14:56,000 --> 01:14:56,291 Right. 538 01:14:56,333 --> 01:14:57,625 Well, so enjoy it this time. 539 01:14:58,083 --> 01:14:59,000 This is good. 540 01:14:59,000 --> 01:15:00,541 I'm gonna enjoy this part. 541 01:15:01,083 --> 01:15:02,416 When they give you this stuff, 542 01:15:02,416 --> 01:15:03,583 and you're looking up at them, 543 01:15:03,583 --> 01:15:04,958 and they're like, you're 544 01:15:04,958 --> 01:15:06,208 gonna start feeling sleepy, 545 01:15:07,000 --> 01:15:09,083 and by the time they get to the and, 546 01:15:09,333 --> 01:15:09,833 whatever they're gonna 547 01:15:09,833 --> 01:15:11,791 say next, you're gone. 548 01:15:12,000 --> 01:15:14,500 And that three seconds is incredible. 549 01:15:15,000 --> 01:15:15,416 Okay. 550 01:15:15,416 --> 01:15:17,541 And I'm sure, and not that I condone 551 01:15:17,541 --> 01:15:18,458 any kind of drug use or 552 01:15:18,458 --> 01:15:19,250 anything like that, obviously. 553 01:15:20,125 --> 01:15:20,333 Clearly. 554 01:15:20,750 --> 01:15:21,958 Nor have I really done any drugs. 555 01:15:22,458 --> 01:15:26,500 But I'm sure that is close to what people 556 01:15:26,708 --> 01:15:28,500 that get hooked on drugs feel like, 557 01:15:28,500 --> 01:15:30,000 because it's like, whoa. 558 01:15:30,041 --> 01:15:30,291 Really? 559 01:15:30,791 --> 01:15:31,666 I thought it was. 560 01:15:31,708 --> 01:15:31,958 Yeah. 561 01:15:32,583 --> 01:15:35,708 I was put under for my wisdom teeth, 562 01:15:36,583 --> 01:15:37,750 but again, that's a little different, 563 01:15:37,750 --> 01:15:38,791 because they give you the gas. 564 01:15:39,000 --> 01:15:41,000 Well, they give you the gas, and yeah. 565 01:15:41,875 --> 01:15:43,541 Yeah, and you're totally out for it. 566 01:15:44,875 --> 01:15:46,750 Maybe I was out for my wisdom teeth, too. 567 01:15:47,333 --> 01:15:49,000 I know I was out for my wisdom teeth. 568 01:15:49,208 --> 01:15:50,375 Well, this goes back to last week's. 569 01:15:50,375 --> 01:15:51,250 I got a terrible memory. 570 01:15:52,250 --> 01:15:54,083 You remember more of the surgeries than 571 01:15:54,083 --> 01:15:55,166 I've had, than I do. 572 01:15:55,583 --> 01:15:57,708 Well, I am scarred by your kidney stones, 573 01:15:57,916 --> 01:16:00,000 because they told me 574 01:16:00,000 --> 01:16:01,333 that you were all good, 575 01:16:02,000 --> 01:16:03,541 and that I should go pull the car around. 576 01:16:04,625 --> 01:16:06,708 And then the next thing I know, 577 01:16:06,708 --> 01:16:07,708 the nurse is running 578 01:16:07,708 --> 01:16:09,208 out into the parking lot, 579 01:16:09,208 --> 01:16:11,750 like waving her arms, telling me to stop 580 01:16:11,750 --> 01:16:13,000 and to come back in. 581 01:16:14,416 --> 01:16:16,791 And she let me come back there with you, 582 01:16:16,791 --> 01:16:17,875 and you were literally 583 01:16:17,875 --> 01:16:20,291 just writhing in pain 584 01:16:20,541 --> 01:16:22,500 on the bed. 585 01:16:23,458 --> 01:16:24,958 And so we needed to get 586 01:16:24,958 --> 01:16:25,708 your pain under control 587 01:16:25,708 --> 01:16:27,791 before we could let you go. 588 01:16:28,000 --> 01:16:28,750 Well, the issue with that 589 01:16:28,750 --> 01:16:30,458 was they blast the stones, 590 01:16:30,458 --> 01:16:31,458 because they're too big to 591 01:16:31,458 --> 01:16:33,083 pass, which is not a good thing. 592 01:16:33,583 --> 01:16:35,583 So they blast them into smaller pieces, 593 01:16:35,583 --> 01:16:36,708 and there's the chance, 594 01:16:37,958 --> 01:16:38,875 generally they just stay, 595 01:16:39,125 --> 01:16:39,750 at that point they're 596 01:16:39,750 --> 01:16:40,333 still in your kidney. 597 01:16:40,541 --> 01:16:42,083 They have to trickle 598 01:16:42,083 --> 01:16:43,166 down into your bladder, 599 01:16:43,166 --> 01:16:44,125 and then you pass them into your bladder. 600 01:16:44,125 --> 01:16:45,833 But the painful part is 601 01:16:45,833 --> 01:16:47,291 kidney to the bladder. 602 01:16:47,791 --> 01:16:49,500 It trickles down through, I can't 603 01:16:49,500 --> 01:16:50,291 remember what those, 604 01:16:50,333 --> 01:16:51,625 the anatomy is called there, 605 01:16:51,625 --> 01:16:54,333 but that's the excruciating pain part. 606 01:16:54,666 --> 01:16:55,791 That can last, last 607 01:16:55,791 --> 01:16:56,875 time I had it, it was days. 608 01:16:57,583 --> 01:16:57,791 Days. 609 01:16:58,625 --> 01:17:00,416 And when you haven't 610 01:17:00,416 --> 01:17:02,541 blasted, there's always the chance 611 01:17:02,875 --> 01:17:03,458 that one might 612 01:17:03,458 --> 01:17:05,083 actually pass at that moment. 613 01:17:05,500 --> 01:17:06,125 That's what happened. 614 01:17:06,916 --> 01:17:07,750 And they couldn't give 615 01:17:07,750 --> 01:17:09,000 me any pain medication, 616 01:17:09,541 --> 01:17:10,958 as I recall, because I was 617 01:17:10,958 --> 01:17:12,541 coming off the anesthetic 618 01:17:13,000 --> 01:17:13,666 from the surgery. 619 01:17:14,458 --> 01:17:17,333 So I was just taking one for the team. 620 01:17:17,666 --> 01:17:17,875 Yep. 621 01:17:18,916 --> 01:17:19,083 Yeah. 622 01:17:19,916 --> 01:17:20,916 I remember that. 623 01:17:20,916 --> 01:17:22,375 I was, that scarred in my 624 01:17:22,375 --> 01:17:24,125 memory, and I'm sure it is you. 625 01:17:24,125 --> 01:17:25,041 I think that's a family thing. 626 01:17:25,041 --> 01:17:26,000 I know there's people in my 627 01:17:26,000 --> 01:17:27,083 family that have had that. 628 01:17:27,083 --> 01:17:28,625 It's kind of, I don't know if it's, 629 01:17:28,875 --> 01:17:29,666 clearly it's genetic. 630 01:17:29,666 --> 01:17:30,333 It is genetic. 631 01:17:30,583 --> 01:17:30,791 Yeah. 632 01:17:31,041 --> 01:17:32,500 I am not a geneticist 633 01:17:32,500 --> 01:17:33,666 or a doctor, but I-- 634 01:17:33,666 --> 01:17:35,416 It's also dietary, but it's, 635 01:17:35,416 --> 01:17:36,708 I think it's strongly genetic, 636 01:17:37,291 --> 01:17:38,000 because I know people 637 01:17:38,000 --> 01:17:39,166 in my family have had it. 638 01:17:39,208 --> 01:17:39,500 Yeah. 639 01:17:39,833 --> 01:17:40,083 Yeah. 640 01:17:40,375 --> 01:17:41,208 And we watch out, we 641 01:17:41,208 --> 01:17:44,041 actually watch what our kids eat 642 01:17:44,166 --> 01:17:45,208 because of it, because 643 01:17:45,208 --> 01:17:47,416 your diet can influence it, 644 01:17:47,500 --> 01:17:48,208 especially if you are 645 01:17:48,208 --> 01:17:49,666 genetically predisposed. 646 01:17:49,708 --> 01:17:49,916 Yep. 647 01:17:50,333 --> 01:17:51,916 So we actually try to limit certain 648 01:17:51,916 --> 01:17:53,000 things for our kids. 649 01:17:53,000 --> 01:17:53,208 Yep. 650 01:17:53,541 --> 01:17:54,750 And encourage other things, 651 01:17:55,125 --> 01:17:56,250 like lemonade's a 652 01:17:56,250 --> 01:17:57,375 good thing in our house, 653 01:17:57,375 --> 01:17:59,583 and other type of acidic 654 01:17:59,583 --> 01:18:01,291 things to help with that. 655 01:18:01,291 --> 01:18:02,291 Potentially dissolve any. 656 01:18:02,958 --> 01:18:03,166 Mm-hmm. 657 01:18:03,458 --> 01:18:04,500 Yeah, less soda. 658 01:18:04,875 --> 01:18:05,875 I think that was actually, once you 659 01:18:05,875 --> 01:18:06,791 started with kidney stones, 660 01:18:06,791 --> 01:18:08,666 you really cut down soda intake. 661 01:18:08,666 --> 01:18:09,541 Not that you had a lot, 662 01:18:09,541 --> 01:18:10,041 but I mean, you 663 01:18:10,041 --> 01:18:11,250 hardly ever drink soda now. 664 01:18:12,041 --> 01:18:12,250 Yeah. 665 01:18:13,125 --> 01:18:14,666 Yeah, I've never been a big soda drinker, 666 01:18:14,666 --> 01:18:16,333 but I don't know if kidney stones had 667 01:18:16,333 --> 01:18:17,000 anything to do with that. 668 01:18:17,125 --> 01:18:17,666 Maybe it did, I don't 669 01:18:17,666 --> 01:18:19,416 really, again, I don't remember. 670 01:18:19,416 --> 01:18:20,166 I recall them saying that 671 01:18:20,166 --> 01:18:21,250 that was one of the things. 672 01:18:21,291 --> 01:18:21,541 Yeah. 673 01:18:21,583 --> 01:18:23,416 Again, I'm not a doctor, and maybe I'm 674 01:18:23,416 --> 01:18:24,250 misremembering that. 675 01:18:24,708 --> 01:18:24,875 Yeah. 676 01:18:25,916 --> 01:18:26,000 But. 677 01:18:26,666 --> 01:18:27,541 I don't know what it is. 678 01:18:27,958 --> 01:18:28,208 Yeah. 679 01:18:28,666 --> 01:18:30,291 So I can learn from, you know, 680 01:18:30,708 --> 01:18:31,625 you seem like an old 681 01:18:31,625 --> 01:18:32,625 pro at these surgeries. 682 01:18:34,500 --> 01:18:35,666 Yeah, that's right, I've 683 01:18:35,666 --> 01:18:36,916 been through it, you got it. 684 01:18:37,541 --> 01:18:38,458 You don't have this handled, 685 01:18:38,458 --> 01:18:40,375 just don't get sick beforehand 686 01:18:40,375 --> 01:18:41,000 and don't get sick 687 01:18:41,000 --> 01:18:42,000 afterwards, you'll be fine. 688 01:18:42,000 --> 01:18:42,875 Yeah, yeah. 689 01:18:43,000 --> 01:18:44,250 And enjoy when you go under. 690 01:18:44,250 --> 01:18:46,708 Enjoy seconds one, two, and three of 10. 691 01:18:47,583 --> 01:18:48,166 You'll love it. 692 01:18:48,500 --> 01:18:50,000 Everybody else out there that's had one 693 01:18:50,000 --> 01:18:51,000 knows what I'm talking about. 694 01:18:52,083 --> 01:18:53,041 You're like, this is the deepest. 695 01:18:53,041 --> 01:18:54,041 You had a really bad 696 01:18:54,041 --> 01:18:55,291 reaction though beforehand, 697 01:18:55,291 --> 01:18:56,458 so that's why you didn't remember it. 698 01:18:56,458 --> 01:18:57,750 So I'm hoping this time is better. 699 01:18:58,000 --> 01:19:01,541 Yeah, I'm just, I just want it done. 700 01:19:02,250 --> 01:19:03,500 I wanna get back to. 701 01:19:03,500 --> 01:19:04,416 I know, and start the 702 01:19:04,416 --> 01:19:05,833 whole process of rehab. 703 01:19:06,125 --> 01:19:07,750 Yeah, I'm actually looking 704 01:19:07,750 --> 01:19:09,416 forward to going to rehab 705 01:19:09,416 --> 01:19:10,791 because that means I've made progress. 706 01:19:11,708 --> 01:19:13,500 I know that sounds a little weird, 707 01:19:13,500 --> 01:19:18,750 but I mean, I hurt my knee December 22nd. 708 01:19:19,166 --> 01:19:21,541 And it's middle of February and I'm like, 709 01:19:21,541 --> 01:19:23,041 I am done with this, it has to be-- 710 01:19:23,041 --> 01:19:24,541 Two months later by the time this airs. 711 01:19:24,875 --> 01:19:25,041 Yeah. 712 01:19:25,750 --> 01:19:26,375 Full two months. 713 01:19:26,416 --> 01:19:27,041 Full two months. 714 01:19:27,750 --> 01:19:31,208 And it's just a hindrance and I'm like, 715 01:19:31,208 --> 01:19:32,375 I just wanna get back 716 01:19:32,375 --> 01:19:33,333 to regular life, so. 717 01:19:33,583 --> 01:19:34,625 Yeah, I feel bad for you. 718 01:19:34,625 --> 01:19:35,458 This is the next step. 719 01:19:35,500 --> 01:19:36,000 You know what's funny 720 01:19:36,000 --> 01:19:37,041 though, it makes me think of this. 721 01:19:37,583 --> 01:19:39,500 So when I was a kid, I don't 722 01:19:39,500 --> 01:19:40,333 remember what grade it was, 723 01:19:40,416 --> 01:19:42,208 maybe third grade, something like that, 724 01:19:42,208 --> 01:19:42,833 fourth grade, fifth 725 01:19:42,833 --> 01:19:43,541 grade, somewhere in there. 726 01:19:44,000 --> 01:19:45,375 I moved from upstairs 727 01:19:45,375 --> 01:19:46,708 bedroom to make room 728 01:19:46,708 --> 01:19:47,708 for one of my younger 729 01:19:47,708 --> 01:19:49,916 sisters to the basement bedroom 730 01:19:50,291 --> 01:19:51,791 where I was at till I 731 01:19:51,791 --> 01:19:52,583 left the house at 18. 732 01:19:53,833 --> 01:19:55,333 And in this basement 733 01:19:55,333 --> 01:19:57,416 bedroom at that young age, 734 01:19:58,000 --> 01:19:59,541 it was downstairs, it was finished 735 01:19:59,541 --> 01:20:00,500 basement, so it was fine. 736 01:20:00,708 --> 01:20:01,500 Nice little room there, 737 01:20:01,500 --> 01:20:05,083 but an imaginative mind 738 01:20:05,083 --> 01:20:06,208 at that point in time, 739 01:20:06,875 --> 01:20:09,583 certain shadows are being cast 740 01:20:09,916 --> 01:20:11,333 and the houses always 741 01:20:11,333 --> 01:20:13,000 make weird settling noises. 742 01:20:14,041 --> 01:20:15,583 And I read in Boy 743 01:20:15,583 --> 01:20:17,166 Scouts, at some point in time, 744 01:20:17,250 --> 01:20:18,791 somebody read me a short 745 01:20:18,791 --> 01:20:21,125 story called Thump Thump Drag. 746 01:20:22,916 --> 01:20:23,875 And I'm sure one of my 747 01:20:23,875 --> 01:20:25,166 parents has this book still. 748 01:20:25,166 --> 01:20:25,833 Oh, I'm sure. 749 01:20:25,833 --> 01:20:26,333 Because it was like a short 750 01:20:26,333 --> 01:20:27,041 story in one of these books. 751 01:20:27,708 --> 01:20:29,125 Anyways, long story short, 752 01:20:29,125 --> 01:20:31,375 it scared the heck out of me 753 01:20:31,375 --> 01:20:32,583 because it was a story of a person 754 01:20:33,500 --> 01:20:34,666 that apparently lost 755 01:20:34,666 --> 01:20:37,000 both legs and they liked to, 756 01:20:37,000 --> 01:20:37,875 I don't know if they, I don't even 757 01:20:37,875 --> 01:20:38,541 remember the story anymore, 758 01:20:38,666 --> 01:20:39,625 they were like a killer or whatever, 759 01:20:40,291 --> 01:20:41,625 but everybody could hear them coming 760 01:20:41,625 --> 01:20:42,333 because they didn't have legs. 761 01:20:42,541 --> 01:20:45,333 It would be them Thump Thump Drag. 762 01:20:46,083 --> 01:20:47,791 So they'd put a hand down, a hand down 763 01:20:47,791 --> 01:20:49,000 and then drag their body. 764 01:20:49,500 --> 01:20:50,833 What kind of short 765 01:20:50,833 --> 01:20:52,583 story were you reading? 766 01:20:53,041 --> 01:20:54,833 Yeah, it scarred me, scarred me. 767 01:20:55,041 --> 01:20:56,791 Not that I heard it, but I always thought 768 01:20:56,791 --> 01:20:58,333 I was gonna see the shadow 769 01:20:58,666 --> 01:20:59,291 because I could see the 770 01:20:59,291 --> 01:21:00,541 shadows come down the stairs 771 01:21:01,000 --> 01:21:02,208 before they got to my door. 772 01:21:03,541 --> 01:21:07,333 And so similarly, the 773 01:21:07,333 --> 01:21:09,041 noise that your brace makes, 774 01:21:10,958 --> 01:21:11,791 it's not a Thump Thump 775 01:21:11,791 --> 01:21:13,083 Drag, but it's definitely, 776 01:21:13,083 --> 01:21:14,083 I can hear you coming. 777 01:21:16,500 --> 01:21:19,916 So I'm excited for you to not have to 778 01:21:19,916 --> 01:21:20,750 deal with that anymore 779 01:21:20,958 --> 01:21:22,583 because, you know, but 780 01:21:22,583 --> 01:21:23,333 when you're on the crutches, 781 01:21:23,333 --> 01:21:25,708 it is the little, you know what I mean? 782 01:21:25,958 --> 01:21:27,000 There's a lot of noise with your 783 01:21:27,000 --> 01:21:27,875 movements these days. 784 01:21:28,250 --> 01:21:28,833 I know. 785 01:21:30,166 --> 01:21:32,750 Man, I'm so glad that I could remind you 786 01:21:32,750 --> 01:21:35,583 of a traumatizing childhood memory. 787 01:21:35,916 --> 01:21:36,625 That's horrible. 788 01:21:37,041 --> 01:21:37,750 Yeah, isn't that funny? 789 01:21:37,750 --> 01:21:39,250 And I'm really sorry about that. 790 01:21:39,291 --> 01:21:40,125 No, it's funny. 791 01:21:40,125 --> 01:21:40,375 It's good. 792 01:21:40,375 --> 01:21:41,291 You're making it better for me. 793 01:21:41,875 --> 01:21:43,666 It's like, what is it called? 794 01:21:44,000 --> 01:21:44,166 Exposure. 795 01:21:44,541 --> 01:21:45,583 Oh, aversion therapy. 796 01:21:45,583 --> 01:21:46,291 Aversion therapy. 797 01:21:46,291 --> 01:21:46,791 Yeah. Yeah. 798 01:21:47,333 --> 01:21:48,791 I am your aversion therapy. 799 01:21:48,791 --> 01:21:49,458 Yeah, yeah. 800 01:21:50,125 --> 01:21:50,833 So as long as you don't 801 01:21:50,833 --> 01:21:52,416 start throwing spiders on me now, 802 01:21:52,416 --> 01:21:52,958 I'll be all right. 803 01:21:53,500 --> 01:21:54,500 Well, I don't like spiders either. 804 01:21:54,708 --> 01:21:56,125 Yeah, well, that's one aversion therapy 805 01:21:56,375 --> 01:21:59,500 I will not participate in. 806 01:21:59,500 --> 01:22:01,208 Yeah, avoid that at all costs. 807 01:22:01,208 --> 01:22:01,791 At all costs. 808 01:22:02,125 --> 01:22:02,916 Yeah. Yeah. 809 01:22:03,541 --> 01:22:05,208 By the way, did you ever kill the spider 810 01:22:05,458 --> 01:22:06,500 in our daughter's bathroom? 811 01:22:06,833 --> 01:22:07,458 I looked for it. 812 01:22:07,458 --> 01:22:07,958 I couldn't find it. 813 01:22:08,583 --> 01:22:10,291 Oh, because she slept since then? 814 01:22:10,500 --> 01:22:10,708 Cause... 815 01:22:13,375 --> 01:22:14,583 So our daughter saw a 816 01:22:14,583 --> 01:22:15,541 spider in the bathroom 817 01:22:15,541 --> 01:22:16,416 and she tried to kill 818 01:22:16,416 --> 01:22:17,333 it, but it got away. 819 01:22:17,541 --> 01:22:20,083 And so instead of looking for it, 820 01:22:20,083 --> 01:22:21,916 she decided to close her bathroom door, 821 01:22:21,916 --> 01:22:23,583 put a towel under the door 822 01:22:23,583 --> 01:22:24,791 so that it couldn't, you know, 823 01:22:24,875 --> 01:22:26,041 come out of the gap at the bottom. 824 01:22:26,458 --> 01:22:27,500 And then just went to 825 01:22:27,500 --> 01:22:28,625 bed and then was like, 826 01:22:28,625 --> 01:22:30,250 hey, everybody, I need 827 01:22:30,250 --> 01:22:30,875 you to kill the spider 828 01:22:30,875 --> 01:22:31,500 in my bathroom. 829 01:22:32,041 --> 01:22:33,416 A day later. A day later. 830 01:22:33,500 --> 01:22:33,833 Yeah. 831 01:22:33,833 --> 01:22:35,291 So she hadn't used her bathroom 832 01:22:35,291 --> 01:22:36,625 cause she was too scared to go in there 833 01:22:36,625 --> 01:22:37,375 because of the spider. 834 01:22:38,083 --> 01:22:39,208 I did, I looked at it. 835 01:22:39,208 --> 01:22:40,791 I looked at 80% of the bathroom. 836 01:22:40,791 --> 01:22:41,833 I couldn't find it. 837 01:22:42,333 --> 01:22:43,541 And I mean, it could have been hiding 838 01:22:43,541 --> 01:22:44,333 somewhere somewhere, 839 01:22:44,333 --> 01:22:44,958 but the way I think I 840 01:22:44,958 --> 01:22:47,083 got away with it was honey, 841 01:22:47,583 --> 01:22:48,416 spiders can fit through 842 01:22:48,416 --> 01:22:49,500 all kinds of little cracks. 843 01:22:49,500 --> 01:22:50,416 So it probably already 844 01:22:50,416 --> 01:22:52,000 crawled out through the towel 845 01:22:52,000 --> 01:22:53,041 and it's on its way 846 01:22:53,041 --> 01:22:54,000 wherever it wanted to go. 847 01:22:55,208 --> 01:22:55,875 And so I don't think she 848 01:22:55,875 --> 01:22:57,041 thinks it's in there anymore. 849 01:22:57,083 --> 01:22:57,708 Oh, okay. 850 01:22:57,708 --> 01:22:59,166 So now it's just like in her bedroom. 851 01:22:59,458 --> 01:23:01,291 Plus I told her that spiders have a 852 01:23:01,291 --> 01:23:02,458 lifespan of 24 hours. 853 01:23:04,041 --> 01:23:05,000 You lied to her. 854 01:23:05,250 --> 01:23:06,083 Well, I told her, I said, 855 01:23:06,083 --> 01:23:08,166 I wasn't sure if that was quite true, 856 01:23:09,333 --> 01:23:10,416 but I'd get back to her on it. 857 01:23:10,625 --> 01:23:12,500 Okay, so what is the 858 01:23:12,500 --> 01:23:13,750 life expectancy of a spider? 859 01:23:15,958 --> 01:23:17,791 I'm gonna say, I'm 860 01:23:17,791 --> 01:23:19,541 gonna say it is 17 days. 861 01:23:21,250 --> 01:23:22,041 I have no idea. 862 01:23:22,458 --> 01:23:23,375 Actually, remember when 863 01:23:23,375 --> 01:23:24,125 we saw that wolf spider? 864 01:23:24,541 --> 01:23:26,833 It was like 15 years old. 865 01:23:26,833 --> 01:23:28,208 It was like two or 866 01:23:28,208 --> 01:23:28,875 three years old though, 867 01:23:28,875 --> 01:23:29,541 to get that big. 868 01:23:30,125 --> 01:23:31,458 Yeah. Yeah, we were playing in Colorado. 869 01:23:33,250 --> 01:23:34,208 Our youngest was a baby, 870 01:23:34,583 --> 01:23:36,166 so it was 10 years ago. 871 01:23:37,041 --> 01:23:38,166 And we were playing in the 872 01:23:38,166 --> 01:23:39,541 backyard, Barefoot, Colorado. 873 01:23:39,958 --> 01:23:41,708 And I thought there was a 874 01:23:41,708 --> 01:23:43,500 blade of grass tickling my foot. 875 01:23:43,500 --> 01:23:45,291 I looked down, there was a 876 01:23:45,291 --> 01:23:49,041 massive hairy wolf spider. 877 01:23:50,000 --> 01:23:51,250 Size of my fist. 878 01:23:51,875 --> 01:23:52,416 I mean, it was huge. 879 01:23:53,666 --> 01:23:54,958 It was massive. 880 01:23:55,333 --> 01:23:56,750 Just put your fingers 881 01:23:56,750 --> 01:23:58,041 together with your two thumbs 882 01:23:58,041 --> 01:23:58,583 and your two pointer 883 01:23:58,583 --> 01:23:59,708 fingers together, makes a circle. 884 01:24:00,083 --> 01:24:00,833 That's how big it was. 885 01:24:01,250 --> 01:24:02,291 On my bare foot. 886 01:24:02,541 --> 01:24:02,833 Yep. 887 01:24:03,458 --> 01:24:05,041 And it was probably my 888 01:24:05,041 --> 01:24:06,500 greatest parenting moment. 889 01:24:06,541 --> 01:24:07,500 You did not. 890 01:24:07,500 --> 01:24:07,708 To date. 891 01:24:08,375 --> 01:24:09,791 You did not throw the child down. 892 01:24:10,666 --> 01:24:12,708 No, and the reason we bring this up is, 893 01:24:13,875 --> 01:24:15,000 if there's one thing I 894 01:24:15,000 --> 01:24:16,083 can't deal with, it's spiders. 895 01:24:16,500 --> 01:24:17,541 And I've learned to deal 896 01:24:17,541 --> 01:24:18,458 with the smaller ones now 897 01:24:18,458 --> 01:24:19,166 because I'm dad. 898 01:24:19,416 --> 01:24:19,875 Yeah, yeah. 899 01:24:20,291 --> 01:24:21,041 I gotta kill them. 900 01:24:21,833 --> 01:24:22,500 I don't like it. 901 01:24:22,791 --> 01:24:24,541 I hate spiders, they're creepy crawly. 902 01:24:25,208 --> 01:24:26,291 And that huge stinking 903 01:24:26,291 --> 01:24:27,958 thing was on my foot. 904 01:24:28,916 --> 01:24:29,125 Yeah. 905 01:24:29,416 --> 01:24:30,333 My bare foot. 906 01:24:30,583 --> 01:24:31,333 Your bare foot. 907 01:24:32,125 --> 01:24:34,625 I was cooking dinner and I 908 01:24:34,625 --> 01:24:37,541 heard high pitch screaming. 909 01:24:37,541 --> 01:24:39,458 I assumed it was in our neighbor's yard. 910 01:24:39,458 --> 01:24:41,333 Like, oh, I wonder what is going on in 911 01:24:41,333 --> 01:24:42,041 our neighbor's house. 912 01:24:42,041 --> 01:24:43,958 And I go outside and 913 01:24:43,958 --> 01:24:45,208 you're holding our youngest. 914 01:24:46,000 --> 01:24:49,208 And I was what, 20, 30 feet away from you 915 01:24:49,208 --> 01:24:50,291 and I could see it. 916 01:24:50,541 --> 01:24:50,750 Yeah. 917 01:24:51,250 --> 01:24:51,875 Oh yeah, it was huge. 918 01:24:53,208 --> 01:24:53,416 Yeah. 919 01:24:54,416 --> 01:24:58,458 And yeah, you did not throw 920 01:24:58,458 --> 01:25:01,000 the baby down or anything. 921 01:25:01,458 --> 01:25:02,500 And you killed it. 922 01:25:02,500 --> 01:25:04,125 You're very, like, 923 01:25:05,125 --> 01:25:06,750 you're very calm about it. 924 01:25:06,750 --> 01:25:07,833 But you probably still have nightmares. 925 01:25:08,166 --> 01:25:09,416 I slid my foot out for a minute. 926 01:25:10,041 --> 01:25:12,541 I slid my foot, I, hmm. 927 01:25:13,583 --> 01:25:13,875 I just, 928 01:25:14,458 --> 01:25:15,250 (laughs) 929 01:25:16,625 --> 01:25:18,125 yeah, that's the sign that 930 01:25:18,125 --> 01:25:18,875 I'm gonna say this again. 931 01:25:19,833 --> 01:25:20,125 (laughs) 932 01:25:22,583 --> 01:25:24,416 I slid my foot out from it 933 01:25:24,916 --> 01:25:26,541 and then I went and got a shovel. 934 01:25:27,666 --> 01:25:28,541 And maybe I think I had 935 01:25:28,541 --> 01:25:29,375 to run over it with a car 936 01:25:29,375 --> 01:25:29,916 because it was huge. 937 01:25:30,500 --> 01:25:31,750 And it was like a, boom, 938 01:25:31,750 --> 01:25:33,291 boom, as you drove over it. 939 01:25:33,458 --> 01:25:34,416 Yeah, like 15 times. 940 01:25:35,208 --> 01:25:35,666 Just to make sure. 941 01:25:36,125 --> 01:25:37,916 In that picture, we still have, 942 01:25:38,250 --> 01:25:39,541 and it shows up on our 943 01:25:39,541 --> 01:25:40,708 Alexa every now and again. 944 01:25:41,083 --> 01:25:43,708 And it creeps me out every time. 945 01:25:44,208 --> 01:25:46,500 Yeah, she likes that picture. 946 01:25:46,500 --> 01:25:47,375 She likes that picture. 947 01:25:47,458 --> 01:25:49,291 Of all the pictures, 15,000 948 01:25:49,291 --> 01:25:50,375 pictures she could choose from. 949 01:25:50,875 --> 01:25:54,458 That dead spider mutant 950 01:25:54,458 --> 01:25:56,208 comes up all the time. 951 01:25:57,250 --> 01:25:58,458 It was like a men in black spider. 952 01:25:59,750 --> 01:26:00,791 Yes, it was. 953 01:26:01,916 --> 01:26:03,375 So between that and the 954 01:26:03,375 --> 01:26:04,750 pictures of our insurance cards 955 01:26:04,791 --> 01:26:06,458 also show up all the time. 956 01:26:06,833 --> 01:26:07,833 And those, yeah, right. 957 01:26:08,666 --> 01:26:10,750 I mean, all the thousands 958 01:26:10,750 --> 01:26:11,875 and thousands of pictures 959 01:26:11,875 --> 01:26:15,583 we have of our babies growing up, 960 01:26:15,583 --> 01:26:17,916 of us taking fun vacations. 961 01:26:18,458 --> 01:26:20,625 Yeah, insurance cards and spiders. 962 01:26:21,416 --> 01:26:21,625 Yeah. 963 01:26:23,333 --> 01:26:24,000 I don't know. 964 01:26:24,375 --> 01:26:24,541 That's right. 965 01:26:25,250 --> 01:26:26,333 AI's taking over, and 966 01:26:26,333 --> 01:26:27,291 if that's an indication 967 01:26:27,291 --> 01:26:28,083 of where it's going, it 968 01:26:28,083 --> 01:26:29,208 does freak me out a little bit, 969 01:26:29,208 --> 01:26:30,416 because those are the things I don't care 970 01:26:30,416 --> 01:26:31,166 to see all the time. 971 01:26:31,166 --> 01:26:32,166 That's what memories are made of. 972 01:26:33,583 --> 01:26:34,750 It is a great story, though. 973 01:26:35,125 --> 01:26:36,500 I do look back, I 974 01:26:36,500 --> 01:26:38,333 vividly remember that night. 975 01:26:38,916 --> 01:26:39,750 It was a beautiful evening. 976 01:26:40,500 --> 01:26:42,000 It was fantastic, it really was. 977 01:26:42,000 --> 01:26:42,958 Ruined by a spider. 978 01:26:43,375 --> 01:26:46,208 Ruined by a mutant giant spider. 979 01:26:46,791 --> 01:26:48,791 Yeah, but our oldest, 980 01:26:50,000 --> 01:26:51,500 he is the one, I would 981 01:26:51,500 --> 01:26:52,458 say, of all the kids, 982 01:26:52,458 --> 01:26:53,166 so clearly our daughter 983 01:26:53,166 --> 01:26:54,083 does not like spiders, 984 01:26:54,083 --> 01:26:56,541 so she gets that aversion from you and I, 985 01:26:56,541 --> 01:26:57,541 like she does not like them. 986 01:26:58,000 --> 01:26:59,958 Our oldest is a champ about it, though. 987 01:27:00,458 --> 01:27:01,708 He'll help you. He's pretty good, yeah. 988 01:27:02,458 --> 01:27:03,208 There's been times when 989 01:27:03,208 --> 01:27:05,166 he's had to kill a big one. 990 01:27:05,916 --> 01:27:06,791 Yeah, he steps up, he 991 01:27:06,791 --> 01:27:07,791 does a really good job. 992 01:27:07,791 --> 01:27:10,541 He's getting old, and he's getting older, 993 01:27:10,541 --> 01:27:11,791 and he's starting to take on those, 994 01:27:12,125 --> 01:27:12,791 so there's responsibilities. 995 01:27:13,458 --> 01:27:15,291 He wears the big 996 01:27:15,291 --> 01:27:16,333 brother. He likes her, yeah. 997 01:27:16,708 --> 01:27:17,500 He wears that big 998 01:27:17,500 --> 01:27:18,875 brother robe really well. 999 01:27:19,000 --> 01:27:20,833 Yeah, he does, yeah, he does. 1000 01:27:21,291 --> 01:27:23,958 Just like our daughter wears 1001 01:27:23,958 --> 01:27:25,625 the princess robe pretty well, 1002 01:27:26,041 --> 01:27:28,666 and yeah, she's total diva. 1003 01:27:28,666 --> 01:27:29,125 I think she's more of 1004 01:27:29,125 --> 01:27:30,375 a diva, I would say, 1005 01:27:30,375 --> 01:27:31,208 than a princess, would you? 1006 01:27:31,208 --> 01:27:31,750 You're right, yeah, 1007 01:27:31,750 --> 01:27:33,708 she's a diva, you're right. 1008 01:27:33,708 --> 01:27:36,958 She's not princess, she's just diva. 1009 01:27:37,000 --> 01:27:39,833 But still a likable diva, I would say. 1010 01:27:39,833 --> 01:27:41,125 She hasn't crossed over 1011 01:27:41,125 --> 01:27:44,333 to the unlikable diva. 1012 01:27:44,375 --> 01:27:47,166 Not yet, no, hopefully that doesn't come. 1013 01:27:47,458 --> 01:27:48,916 Yeah, good parenting is gonna make sure 1014 01:27:48,916 --> 01:27:49,583 that doesn't happen. 1015 01:27:49,625 --> 01:27:51,500 Yeah, yeah, she can turn on the drama, 1016 01:27:51,875 --> 01:27:54,000 but she's still good, yeah. 1017 01:27:54,208 --> 01:27:54,875 And our youngest wears 1018 01:27:54,875 --> 01:27:57,166 that robe really well too. 1019 01:28:01,541 --> 01:28:02,208 He's the baby. 1020 01:28:02,208 --> 01:28:03,083 He's the baby, and birth 1021 01:28:03,083 --> 01:28:04,666 order really does matter. 1022 01:28:04,666 --> 01:28:05,541 In that one, it does. 1023 01:28:05,791 --> 01:28:06,625 Some people don't believe in it, 1024 01:28:06,625 --> 01:28:08,041 but I think there's 1025 01:28:08,041 --> 01:28:09,416 something to it in a lot of cases. 1026 01:28:10,083 --> 01:28:11,208 It's been our experience. 1027 01:28:11,500 --> 01:28:12,458 It's been our experience. 1028 01:28:12,458 --> 01:28:14,541 That it's pretty spot on. 1029 01:28:14,541 --> 01:28:16,083 Hey, that's another one of 1030 01:28:16,083 --> 01:28:17,500 the names for this podcast. 1031 01:28:18,166 --> 01:28:19,166 It's been our experience. 1032 01:28:19,458 --> 01:28:20,708 It's been our experience, yeah. 1033 01:28:20,750 --> 01:28:21,791 What was the one that you had last week 1034 01:28:21,791 --> 01:28:22,541 that was pretty funny too? 1035 01:28:22,875 --> 01:28:23,750 Hashtag relatable. 1036 01:28:23,750 --> 01:28:24,416 There it is, yeah, 1037 01:28:24,416 --> 01:28:25,166 that one's better, but. 1038 01:28:25,583 --> 01:28:26,833 Yeah, it's true. 1039 01:28:27,583 --> 01:28:28,000 It's a better experience. 1040 01:28:28,958 --> 01:28:31,083 Yeah, so, anyway. 1041 01:28:32,291 --> 01:28:36,041 Well, I mean, going back to birth order, 1042 01:28:36,041 --> 01:28:38,500 you're the oldest in your family, 1043 01:28:39,583 --> 01:28:41,458 and you are the oldest who, 1044 01:28:41,458 --> 01:28:42,750 by the time this podcast airs, 1045 01:28:43,000 --> 01:28:44,791 will have celebrated another birthday. 1046 01:28:44,791 --> 01:28:45,625 Yep, yep. 1047 01:28:46,458 --> 01:28:47,958 And how is that feeling for you? 1048 01:28:48,333 --> 01:28:49,208 Hey, the sands of time, 1049 01:28:49,208 --> 01:28:51,000 they keep falling, so. 1050 01:28:51,666 --> 01:28:53,916 You know, it's weird, it is weird. 1051 01:28:53,916 --> 01:28:56,125 I mean, growing up's great, right? 1052 01:28:56,125 --> 01:28:57,333 Because life does get better, 1053 01:28:57,541 --> 01:28:59,375 because you're just, once 1054 01:28:59,375 --> 01:29:00,375 you get to a certain point, 1055 01:29:01,000 --> 01:29:02,291 you kind of can slow 1056 01:29:02,291 --> 01:29:03,708 down, smell the roses, 1057 01:29:03,708 --> 01:29:04,750 even though it's crazy. 1058 01:29:05,833 --> 01:29:10,666 But, you know, it is weird knowing that 1059 01:29:10,666 --> 01:29:12,125 I'm on the downhill side of life, 1060 01:29:12,125 --> 01:29:13,458 and I'm not trying to be morbid to that, 1061 01:29:13,500 --> 01:29:14,416 but I'm a realistic 1062 01:29:14,416 --> 01:29:17,708 person to a fault, right? 1063 01:29:18,000 --> 01:29:18,875 I mean, and I know that. 1064 01:29:20,041 --> 01:29:21,875 And it is weird to think, you know, 1065 01:29:21,875 --> 01:29:24,208 if you double my lifetime, you know, 1066 01:29:24,208 --> 01:29:27,375 I'm in late night, in my late 90s, which, 1067 01:29:29,333 --> 01:29:30,750 you know, I gotta live a 1068 01:29:30,750 --> 01:29:31,958 pretty good life to make it there, 1069 01:29:31,958 --> 01:29:32,750 which means I'm on the 1070 01:29:32,750 --> 01:29:33,791 downhill side of my life, 1071 01:29:33,791 --> 01:29:34,916 even though I wanna be over 100, 1072 01:29:35,791 --> 01:29:36,833 as long as I'm healthy. Yeah. 1073 01:29:36,875 --> 01:29:37,750 As long as I'm healthy. Yeah. 1074 01:29:38,916 --> 01:29:41,583 But, you bring it up, 1075 01:29:41,583 --> 01:29:42,666 because we talked about it, 1076 01:29:43,500 --> 01:29:44,166 it's interesting, 1077 01:29:44,166 --> 01:29:46,833 because when we all grew up, 1078 01:29:47,083 --> 01:29:48,083 it was a big deal when 1079 01:29:48,083 --> 01:29:49,416 our parents turned 40. 1080 01:29:49,916 --> 01:29:51,458 It was the, over the hill. Yes. 1081 01:29:51,791 --> 01:29:52,750 Over the hill was 40, 1082 01:29:52,750 --> 01:29:53,625 everybody was, you know, 1083 01:29:53,750 --> 01:29:55,500 we'd had parties, you 1084 01:29:55,500 --> 01:29:56,916 know, everybody dressed up old, 1085 01:29:57,125 --> 01:29:58,541 and, you know, dyed their hair gray, 1086 01:29:58,541 --> 01:29:59,916 or put gray in their hair, 1087 01:30:00,125 --> 01:30:01,666 and pillows in their shirts, 1088 01:30:01,666 --> 01:30:02,583 and stuff, they're old, 1089 01:30:02,583 --> 01:30:04,541 you know, 40 was so old then. 1090 01:30:04,583 --> 01:30:05,041 It was. 1091 01:30:05,916 --> 01:30:07,208 And we touched on it last week, 1092 01:30:07,208 --> 01:30:08,875 and I don't think, I 1093 01:30:08,875 --> 01:30:09,791 don't think 40's that old. 1094 01:30:10,000 --> 01:30:11,708 Like, I feel like I was young at 40, 1095 01:30:12,375 --> 01:30:13,875 now that I'm almost 48, 1096 01:30:13,875 --> 01:30:15,541 I turn 48 in three days, 1097 01:30:15,541 --> 01:30:16,583 four days, whatever it is. Right. 1098 01:30:17,166 --> 01:30:19,875 And I don't feel 48, I don't 1099 01:30:19,875 --> 01:30:22,541 even close to feel near 50, 1100 01:30:22,541 --> 01:30:25,125 so I think that over 1101 01:30:25,125 --> 01:30:26,875 the hill is no longer 40. 1102 01:30:27,875 --> 01:30:29,041 I don't think it is either. 1103 01:30:29,833 --> 01:30:30,000 Yeah. 1104 01:30:30,666 --> 01:30:34,375 Is it more like 50, or 50, 60? 1105 01:30:34,750 --> 01:30:35,791 What is the age then 1106 01:30:35,791 --> 01:30:37,458 that's over the hill? 1107 01:30:37,916 --> 01:30:39,666 I don't know, I think it's closer to 60, 1108 01:30:40,333 --> 01:30:41,083 than it is 50. 1109 01:30:41,500 --> 01:30:42,583 I mean, I am turning the 1110 01:30:42,583 --> 01:30:44,166 page, don't get me wrong, 1111 01:30:44,166 --> 01:30:45,291 I can tell things are 1112 01:30:45,291 --> 01:30:46,875 changing in life, you know, 1113 01:30:47,416 --> 01:30:47,458 (laughs) 1114 01:30:47,458 --> 01:30:49,791 as far as getting older, but, 1115 01:30:51,166 --> 01:30:53,291 I do think, you know, back 1116 01:30:53,291 --> 01:30:55,083 in the 60's, 70's, and 80's, 1117 01:30:55,958 --> 01:30:57,750 it was just a different generation. 1118 01:30:58,541 --> 01:30:58,750 Right. 1119 01:30:59,500 --> 01:31:00,916 A, I guess life expectancy 1120 01:31:00,916 --> 01:31:02,291 wasn't as long as it is now. 1121 01:31:03,166 --> 01:31:05,958 But B, you know, you turned 40 or 45, 1122 01:31:07,791 --> 01:31:08,625 I feel like people 1123 01:31:08,625 --> 01:31:10,500 thought it was their birthright, 1124 01:31:11,333 --> 01:31:12,291 and the correct thing 1125 01:31:12,291 --> 01:31:14,041 to just start being old, 1126 01:31:14,583 --> 01:31:15,166 at that point. 1127 01:31:15,166 --> 01:31:15,500 Yeah. 1128 01:31:15,791 --> 01:31:17,291 Right, like, you start 1129 01:31:17,291 --> 01:31:20,041 wearing your jeans higher, right? 1130 01:31:20,041 --> 01:31:20,375 Yeah, yeah. 1131 01:31:21,166 --> 01:31:21,208 (laughs) 1132 01:31:22,000 --> 01:31:23,500 You start wearing black socks. 1133 01:31:23,875 --> 01:31:24,958 Yep, with your shorts. 1134 01:31:25,000 --> 01:31:25,250 Everywhere. 1135 01:31:25,916 --> 01:31:27,208 You wear a button up everywhere. 1136 01:31:27,500 --> 01:31:27,791 Everywhere. 1137 01:31:28,083 --> 01:31:28,666 You know, and it's just 1138 01:31:28,666 --> 01:31:29,916 what you're supposed to do, 1139 01:31:29,916 --> 01:31:30,583 that's just what you 1140 01:31:30,583 --> 01:31:31,500 did when you were over 40, 1141 01:31:31,500 --> 01:31:33,333 you just started acting old. 1142 01:31:33,458 --> 01:31:33,666 Right. 1143 01:31:34,125 --> 01:31:35,458 And apparently dressing old. 1144 01:31:35,833 --> 01:31:36,458 Yeah, yeah. 1145 01:31:36,666 --> 01:31:37,500 And I just don't think 1146 01:31:37,500 --> 01:31:38,791 that's where our generation's at. 1147 01:31:39,500 --> 01:31:40,291 I agree. 1148 01:31:41,000 --> 01:31:42,750 And what's interesting, I think back, 1149 01:31:42,750 --> 01:31:46,166 I have a picture of me as a baby, 1150 01:31:47,416 --> 01:31:49,041 and it's my, you see my parents, 1151 01:31:49,250 --> 01:31:50,083 and two of my grandparents. 1152 01:31:51,250 --> 01:31:52,958 And my grandparents must 1153 01:31:52,958 --> 01:31:56,000 only be between 50 and 55. 1154 01:31:56,541 --> 01:31:57,083 I mean, I-- 1155 01:31:57,500 --> 01:31:59,083 And they look classic. 1156 01:31:59,125 --> 01:32:01,125 They look classic grandparents. 1157 01:32:01,833 --> 01:32:02,375 Classic old people 1158 01:32:02,375 --> 01:32:03,833 from like the 40's, right? 1159 01:32:03,958 --> 01:32:04,208 Yes. 1160 01:32:05,583 --> 01:32:06,166 I've seen the picture. 1161 01:32:06,375 --> 01:32:07,291 You've seen the picture, 1162 01:32:07,291 --> 01:32:08,916 and I love these 1163 01:32:08,916 --> 01:32:11,416 pictures, they're dear to me, 1164 01:32:11,416 --> 01:32:13,083 but they look like grandparents, 1165 01:32:13,375 --> 01:32:15,000 and it's like, I mean, my 1166 01:32:15,000 --> 01:32:16,000 grandmother in that picture 1167 01:32:16,000 --> 01:32:17,375 is probably only two 1168 01:32:17,375 --> 01:32:18,708 years older than you. 1169 01:32:19,375 --> 01:32:21,416 (laughs) Yeah, that's what I'm saying. 1170 01:32:21,833 --> 01:32:22,541 Maybe they lived a harder, 1171 01:32:22,791 --> 01:32:24,208 they did live a harder life. 1172 01:32:24,500 --> 01:32:25,708 We're blessed to be living 1173 01:32:25,708 --> 01:32:27,000 in certain generations, right? 1174 01:32:27,416 --> 01:32:29,666 Yes, yeah, I mean, my grandparents were, 1175 01:32:30,041 --> 01:32:30,500 lived through the 1176 01:32:30,500 --> 01:32:32,000 Depression and World War II, 1177 01:32:32,000 --> 01:32:32,708 I mean, they were the 1178 01:32:32,708 --> 01:32:33,500 greatest generation. 1179 01:32:33,541 --> 01:32:34,125 It's the greatest generation. 1180 01:32:35,083 --> 01:32:35,916 They truly are. 1181 01:32:36,083 --> 01:32:36,833 The things they went 1182 01:32:36,833 --> 01:32:37,583 through is incredible. 1183 01:32:37,875 --> 01:32:39,250 Yeah, but here's the thing. 1184 01:32:39,291 --> 01:32:40,750 Those baby boomers though, they're soft. 1185 01:32:41,916 --> 01:32:42,666 So soft. 1186 01:32:43,500 --> 01:32:44,083 Anyways, go ahead. 1187 01:32:45,708 --> 01:32:46,333 That's pretty funny. 1188 01:32:48,500 --> 01:32:50,833 I think, and my 1189 01:32:50,833 --> 01:32:51,916 grandmother would say this, 1190 01:32:51,916 --> 01:32:53,000 when we were talking to 1191 01:32:53,000 --> 01:32:54,000 her, I will never forget, 1192 01:32:54,708 --> 01:32:56,250 she moved out of her house in 1193 01:32:56,250 --> 01:32:59,000 her mid to late 90's, right? 1194 01:32:59,000 --> 01:33:00,625 Lived independently in her own house. 1195 01:33:01,083 --> 01:33:02,750 And we went to visit her, she was. 1196 01:33:03,375 --> 01:33:04,041 And this is the same 1197 01:33:04,041 --> 01:33:06,375 grandmother that looked old 1198 01:33:06,750 --> 01:33:08,958 in these pictures as she's holding me. 1199 01:33:10,166 --> 01:33:13,458 And she looked at us at what, 99, 1200 01:33:13,791 --> 01:33:15,375 and she's talking to us and she's like, 1201 01:33:16,375 --> 01:33:17,750 you know, I really like it here, 1202 01:33:17,750 --> 01:33:18,333 their people are 1203 01:33:18,333 --> 01:33:20,708 nice, but they're so old. 1204 01:33:21,291 --> 01:33:22,666 (laughs) You're probably one 1205 01:33:22,666 --> 01:33:24,583 of the older ones here. 1206 01:33:25,875 --> 01:33:29,958 And in her mind, she was not old. 1207 01:33:29,958 --> 01:33:32,708 And in it, she kept herself so young. 1208 01:33:33,500 --> 01:33:34,666 She definitely looked old. 1209 01:33:35,333 --> 01:33:37,000 I mean, when she was 50. 1210 01:33:37,208 --> 01:33:37,625 You hit the nail on 1211 01:33:37,625 --> 01:33:38,666 the head though, right? 1212 01:33:39,416 --> 01:33:42,208 I think age is a mentality. 1213 01:33:42,791 --> 01:33:43,250 It is. 1214 01:33:43,916 --> 01:33:44,708 If you think you're 1215 01:33:44,708 --> 01:33:46,458 old, you're gonna get old. 1216 01:33:47,916 --> 01:33:49,375 It's a mindset there. 1217 01:33:49,833 --> 01:33:50,625 So I mean, if you think 1218 01:33:50,625 --> 01:33:52,041 you're young, you wanna stay young. 1219 01:33:52,625 --> 01:33:54,625 I mean, my mom's, I think, a good. 1220 01:33:54,958 --> 01:33:55,708 Oh yeah. 1221 01:33:55,708 --> 01:33:57,375 Your mom's even like that too. 1222 01:33:57,875 --> 01:33:59,000 Both my parents are, yeah. 1223 01:33:59,833 --> 01:34:03,208 They haven't accepted the 1224 01:34:03,208 --> 01:34:04,666 fact that they're one foot 1225 01:34:04,666 --> 01:34:05,291 in the grave. 1226 01:34:05,291 --> 01:34:06,125 I mean, they're done 1227 01:34:06,125 --> 01:34:07,208 with life at this point. 1228 01:34:07,208 --> 01:34:08,458 I'm just kidding, totally kidding. 1229 01:34:09,416 --> 01:34:12,166 They just, they think, they 1230 01:34:12,166 --> 01:34:13,833 probably think of themselves 1231 01:34:14,375 --> 01:34:15,125 the same way we think 1232 01:34:15,125 --> 01:34:16,291 of ourselves, right? 1233 01:34:16,541 --> 01:34:17,333 Like, I'm still young. 1234 01:34:17,333 --> 01:34:18,291 I'm like, I'm still 40. 1235 01:34:18,666 --> 01:34:18,875 Right. 1236 01:34:19,291 --> 01:34:19,958 They probably still 1237 01:34:19,958 --> 01:34:21,333 think they're still 45. 1238 01:34:22,166 --> 01:34:23,000 That's exactly right. 1239 01:34:23,541 --> 01:34:24,458 I'm sure they do. 1240 01:34:24,666 --> 01:34:25,041 And I think-- 1241 01:34:25,041 --> 01:34:25,750 And they act like it. 1242 01:34:25,750 --> 01:34:27,416 And they act like it, right? 1243 01:34:27,458 --> 01:34:27,750 It's embarrassing. 1244 01:34:28,500 --> 01:34:29,458 (laughs) 1245 01:34:29,583 --> 01:34:30,000 I'm sorry. 1246 01:34:31,000 --> 01:34:31,666 I don't know why. 1247 01:34:31,958 --> 01:34:33,750 I always, I always interrupt you just 1248 01:34:34,000 --> 01:34:35,291 because I think I got these one-liners. 1249 01:34:35,333 --> 01:34:36,375 That's a great one-liner. 1250 01:34:36,375 --> 01:34:36,625 Yeah. 1251 01:34:37,500 --> 01:34:38,375 Yeah. Dun, dun, dun. 1252 01:34:39,000 --> 01:34:40,000 But it gives us a good 1253 01:34:40,000 --> 01:34:41,541 blueprint for how to be 1254 01:34:41,541 --> 01:34:42,958 because we see them as 1255 01:34:42,958 --> 01:34:44,375 so active and vibrant. 1256 01:34:44,750 --> 01:34:47,125 And I mean, they're still doing fun stuff 1257 01:34:47,125 --> 01:34:49,041 with their friends, maybe 1258 01:34:49,041 --> 01:34:50,166 silly stuff with their friends 1259 01:34:50,166 --> 01:34:51,791 that would embarrass us if we were there 1260 01:34:51,791 --> 01:34:53,291 because of course that 1261 01:34:53,291 --> 01:34:54,583 is every parent's right 1262 01:34:54,583 --> 01:34:55,708 to embarrass their child. 1263 01:34:55,708 --> 01:34:58,750 But, you know, it's a great blueprint. 1264 01:34:59,000 --> 01:34:59,250 Yeah. 1265 01:34:59,833 --> 01:35:01,833 Although I did tell my dad total tangent, 1266 01:35:01,833 --> 01:35:03,416 but I did tell my dad at one point, 1267 01:35:03,416 --> 01:35:04,583 he was being really silly 1268 01:35:04,583 --> 01:35:05,791 and trying to embarrass me. 1269 01:35:05,791 --> 01:35:07,166 I was probably 20, 21. 1270 01:35:07,166 --> 01:35:08,291 I was like, "Dad, when 1271 01:35:08,291 --> 01:35:08,875 are you gonna realize 1272 01:35:08,875 --> 01:35:10,125 that you're actually not embarrassing me? 1273 01:35:10,125 --> 01:35:10,333 You're just 1274 01:35:10,333 --> 01:35:11,708 embarrassing yourself right now?" 1275 01:35:12,750 --> 01:35:12,875 (laughs) 1276 01:35:13,416 --> 01:35:14,291 Yeah, he was just being funny, 1277 01:35:14,541 --> 01:35:16,875 but he's just living his life. 1278 01:35:17,666 --> 01:35:17,916 Yeah. 1279 01:35:18,583 --> 01:35:19,250 When you said that, that 1280 01:35:19,250 --> 01:35:20,291 makes me think of like, 1281 01:35:20,291 --> 01:35:21,375 we say the same things to our kids. 1282 01:35:21,625 --> 01:35:22,041 Oh yeah. 1283 01:35:22,333 --> 01:35:22,833 Like, "You're so 1284 01:35:22,833 --> 01:35:23,875 embarrassed by us right now, 1285 01:35:23,875 --> 01:35:24,500 but you're actually the one 1286 01:35:24,500 --> 01:35:25,083 that's being embarrassing." 1287 01:35:25,583 --> 01:35:26,500 Yeah, yeah. 1288 01:35:26,541 --> 01:35:27,250 No? 1289 01:35:27,250 --> 01:35:27,541 I know. 1290 01:35:28,291 --> 01:35:29,083 It's like, we're just 1291 01:35:29,083 --> 01:35:30,541 passing through this life 1292 01:35:30,666 --> 01:35:31,416 slowly but surely and 1293 01:35:31,416 --> 01:35:33,000 everybody on both sides of us, 1294 01:35:33,000 --> 01:35:33,750 they're just acting 1295 01:35:33,750 --> 01:35:34,666 crazy and embarrassing 1296 01:35:34,666 --> 01:35:35,250 while we're just 1297 01:35:35,250 --> 01:35:36,625 totally natural and normal. 1298 01:35:36,666 --> 01:35:37,833 Oh yeah, we never do 1299 01:35:37,833 --> 01:35:38,583 anything embarrassing. 1300 01:35:39,791 --> 01:35:40,000 Not. 1301 01:35:41,000 --> 01:35:41,708 Try not to. 1302 01:35:41,708 --> 01:35:42,458 We try not to. 1303 01:35:42,708 --> 01:35:42,958 Yeah. 1304 01:35:43,541 --> 01:35:45,250 Maybe, no, we don't. 1305 01:35:45,666 --> 01:35:47,791 No, we're above doing 1306 01:35:47,791 --> 01:35:48,791 embarrassing things. 1307 01:35:48,791 --> 01:35:49,666 There was a time maybe 1308 01:35:49,666 --> 01:35:50,750 on the soccer sidelines 1309 01:35:51,083 --> 01:35:51,666 that I might've done 1310 01:35:51,666 --> 01:35:52,583 some embarrassing things 1311 01:35:52,583 --> 01:35:53,541 that I've grown through. 1312 01:35:53,625 --> 01:35:55,041 We've grown through and we 1313 01:35:55,041 --> 01:35:57,541 still see it though a lot 1314 01:35:57,541 --> 01:35:58,166 on the scene. 1315 01:35:58,333 --> 01:35:58,583 Yeah, oh yeah. 1316 01:35:58,833 --> 01:36:00,041 Especially on the soccer sidelines. 1317 01:36:00,875 --> 01:36:01,500 I don't know if 1318 01:36:01,500 --> 01:36:02,541 because people are outside, 1319 01:36:02,833 --> 01:36:03,791 they think, "Hey, I 1320 01:36:03,791 --> 01:36:04,958 can just say whatever." 1321 01:36:05,416 --> 01:36:08,625 I mean, we have, like, 1322 01:36:08,916 --> 01:36:10,416 there is one parent on, 1323 01:36:11,000 --> 01:36:12,250 we hear him in the big 1324 01:36:12,250 --> 01:36:13,583 stands at the stadiums. 1325 01:36:14,833 --> 01:36:15,791 This is on the high school team. 1326 01:36:15,791 --> 01:36:16,875 High school team, yeah. 1327 01:36:17,125 --> 01:36:17,375 Yeah. 1328 01:36:18,083 --> 01:36:18,458 And... 1329 01:36:19,125 --> 01:36:20,333 But I think, well, 1330 01:36:21,083 --> 01:36:21,541 everybody's kind of 1331 01:36:21,541 --> 01:36:22,625 grown through that, right? 1332 01:36:23,000 --> 01:36:23,208 Yeah. 1333 01:36:23,500 --> 01:36:26,541 And I think for me, 1334 01:36:27,208 --> 01:36:29,541 as I've watched some of the dads 1335 01:36:29,541 --> 01:36:32,375 that are more tough and loud and 1336 01:36:32,375 --> 01:36:33,583 obnoxious on the sidelines, 1337 01:36:33,583 --> 01:36:35,208 which included me early on, 1338 01:36:35,875 --> 01:36:37,875 I don't even know, I can still get under, 1339 01:36:37,875 --> 01:36:39,250 I can still get under my skin now too, 1340 01:36:39,541 --> 01:36:41,416 if a ref's bad and it's 1341 01:36:41,416 --> 01:36:42,458 not being safe for the kids. 1342 01:36:42,708 --> 01:36:44,833 But I think a lot of these dads 1343 01:36:46,375 --> 01:36:48,708 were probably very competitive when they 1344 01:36:48,708 --> 01:36:49,833 were younger, right? 1345 01:36:49,833 --> 01:36:50,708 They were probably athletic. 1346 01:36:50,708 --> 01:36:52,625 They probably competed at a high level. 1347 01:36:53,375 --> 01:36:54,541 Maybe some of them played college, 1348 01:36:54,541 --> 01:36:55,291 whatever it might be, 1349 01:36:55,291 --> 01:36:57,208 right, but they were competitive. 1350 01:36:58,041 --> 01:36:58,166 Correct, yeah. 1351 01:36:58,208 --> 01:36:59,833 Played sports at a competitive level. 1352 01:37:00,833 --> 01:37:01,541 And I hate saying that 1353 01:37:01,541 --> 01:37:02,458 because sometimes, you know, 1354 01:37:02,458 --> 01:37:02,958 people are like, "Oh, 1355 01:37:02,958 --> 01:37:03,875 I played high school." 1356 01:37:03,875 --> 01:37:05,000 And it's like, "High school? Okay." 1357 01:37:05,375 --> 01:37:06,458 When you played, at 1358 01:37:06,458 --> 01:37:07,375 least you played college, 1359 01:37:07,666 --> 01:37:08,541 that counts for something. 1360 01:37:08,541 --> 01:37:09,583 But anyways, that's a 1361 01:37:09,583 --> 01:37:11,041 little thing I have. 1362 01:37:12,083 --> 01:37:13,458 But they're the ones that are generally 1363 01:37:13,583 --> 01:37:15,291 yelling on the sideline, right? 1364 01:37:15,500 --> 01:37:16,750 And it's because they know and it's just, 1365 01:37:17,125 --> 01:37:18,333 for me, it's like, you've 1366 01:37:18,333 --> 01:37:19,375 got that competitive juice 1367 01:37:19,625 --> 01:37:21,250 and by the time you're 40 1368 01:37:21,250 --> 01:37:22,916 and you got these young kids 1369 01:37:22,916 --> 01:37:24,541 that are out there doing their thing too, 1370 01:37:24,916 --> 01:37:25,791 you don't really have 1371 01:37:25,791 --> 01:37:28,500 that athletic outlet anymore 1372 01:37:29,041 --> 01:37:31,041 to get that testosterone out, right? 1373 01:37:31,041 --> 01:37:32,500 So it's like, "Yeah, I 1374 01:37:32,500 --> 01:37:34,083 can yell now. This is good. 1375 01:37:34,083 --> 01:37:34,583 Like, come on." 1376 01:37:35,000 --> 01:37:35,958 And I think that's where it 1377 01:37:35,958 --> 01:37:38,208 comes from a little bit, right? 1378 01:37:38,958 --> 01:37:40,416 And then it does kind 1379 01:37:40,416 --> 01:37:41,916 of, if your kid's good, 1380 01:37:42,416 --> 01:37:43,708 then start having expectations, 1381 01:37:44,041 --> 01:37:46,333 start forming expectations of them to 1382 01:37:46,333 --> 01:37:47,583 continue that, right? 1383 01:37:48,833 --> 01:37:49,666 So, I mean, yeah, I was 1384 01:37:49,666 --> 01:37:50,750 bad for a while on that, 1385 01:37:50,750 --> 01:37:52,083 but I've learned to get through that 1386 01:37:52,083 --> 01:37:53,708 because it only hurts the kids, you know? 1387 01:37:53,708 --> 01:37:54,375 And like, when the refs 1388 01:37:54,375 --> 01:37:55,375 get mad at the parents, 1389 01:37:55,375 --> 01:37:56,375 it only hurts the kids. 1390 01:37:57,041 --> 01:37:58,291 But to your point, we got 1391 01:37:58,291 --> 01:38:01,000 this guy at the high school games 1392 01:38:01,666 --> 01:38:03,125 that's just yelling. 1393 01:38:03,875 --> 01:38:04,916 And nobody, everybody else has already 1394 01:38:04,916 --> 01:38:05,708 matured through this. 1395 01:38:05,708 --> 01:38:06,666 It's kind of my point, right? 1396 01:38:07,000 --> 01:38:08,125 100%, yeah, by the time 1397 01:38:08,125 --> 01:38:09,125 your kid reaches high school, 1398 01:38:09,416 --> 01:38:11,083 most parents have grown through this 1399 01:38:11,208 --> 01:38:13,166 and already learned and 1400 01:38:13,166 --> 01:38:15,166 been counseled by the coaches. 1401 01:38:16,000 --> 01:38:16,500 What's never happened? 1402 01:38:16,875 --> 01:38:18,583 Your coaches, no, no, no, not one-on-one. 1403 01:38:18,833 --> 01:38:19,125 To me. 1404 01:38:19,125 --> 01:38:21,833 I'm just saying, coaches, as a group, 1405 01:38:22,041 --> 01:38:24,500 coaches will tell you, you know, stop. 1406 01:38:24,500 --> 01:38:25,208 And then also in high 1407 01:38:25,208 --> 01:38:26,041 school, it gets important 1408 01:38:26,125 --> 01:38:26,750 because if you have 1409 01:38:26,750 --> 01:38:27,708 college scouts at the game, 1410 01:38:27,708 --> 01:38:29,416 they actually do focus on the parents 1411 01:38:29,416 --> 01:38:31,375 and, you know, how 1412 01:38:31,375 --> 01:38:32,333 that reflects on the kids. 1413 01:38:32,666 --> 01:38:34,375 So I think by the time 1414 01:38:34,375 --> 01:38:35,166 your kid's in high school, 1415 01:38:35,208 --> 01:38:36,583 you're pretty buttoned up 1416 01:38:36,583 --> 01:38:38,250 and you're cheering appropriately. 1417 01:38:38,625 --> 01:38:39,458 But man, this- 1418 01:38:39,833 --> 01:38:40,500 There's two dads. 1419 01:38:40,791 --> 01:38:41,541 They sit next to each other 1420 01:38:41,541 --> 01:38:43,250 because birds have a feather, man. 1421 01:38:44,291 --> 01:38:45,125 Come on, guys. 1422 01:38:45,583 --> 01:38:45,791 Yeah. 1423 01:38:47,500 --> 01:38:49,083 Pass the bomb, Massey. 1424 01:38:49,083 --> 01:38:49,708 Yeah, and it's- 1425 01:38:49,750 --> 01:38:51,000 I mean, and they're, go 1426 01:38:51,000 --> 01:38:51,708 ahead, you were gonna say it. 1427 01:38:51,750 --> 01:38:54,333 Yeah, it's degrading to other players. 1428 01:38:54,833 --> 01:38:56,375 I would say even at your 1429 01:38:56,375 --> 01:38:59,250 loudest on the sidelines, 1430 01:39:00,291 --> 01:39:01,333 you would only- 1431 01:39:01,833 --> 01:39:02,583 I only yell at my own kid. 1432 01:39:02,583 --> 01:39:04,083 You would only yell at your own kid. 1433 01:39:04,125 --> 01:39:04,458 Yeah. 1434 01:39:04,500 --> 01:39:04,958 You would- 1435 01:39:05,041 --> 01:39:06,500 I only tear down my own child. 1436 01:39:06,500 --> 01:39:07,458 Well, no, you wouldn't do that, 1437 01:39:07,458 --> 01:39:09,916 but you would coach your 1438 01:39:09,916 --> 01:39:12,750 own child or speak, you know. 1439 01:39:12,875 --> 01:39:13,958 I'm positive to everybody else. 1440 01:39:14,333 --> 01:39:15,125 If somebody else's 1441 01:39:15,125 --> 01:39:16,458 kid did what my kid did, 1442 01:39:16,916 --> 01:39:19,041 I would be like, well done, way to go. 1443 01:39:19,041 --> 01:39:20,000 Don't worry about it, buddy, 1444 01:39:20,000 --> 01:39:21,458 if it was even close to a mess up. 1445 01:39:21,875 --> 01:39:21,958 Right. 1446 01:39:22,000 --> 01:39:22,791 No worries at all. 1447 01:39:22,875 --> 01:39:23,333 Learn from it, you 1448 01:39:23,333 --> 01:39:25,125 know, like, so positive. 1449 01:39:25,125 --> 01:39:26,000 It's only your own kid. 1450 01:39:26,375 --> 01:39:29,083 What this particular, or these two dads, 1451 01:39:29,083 --> 01:39:30,166 like, they're saying bad 1452 01:39:30,166 --> 01:39:31,333 things about other kids. 1453 01:39:31,333 --> 01:39:32,166 Other people's kids. 1454 01:39:32,208 --> 01:39:33,291 Yeah, or other kids. 1455 01:39:33,291 --> 01:39:35,708 And I mean, you were at a game 1456 01:39:36,458 --> 01:39:37,458 and like all the other parents 1457 01:39:37,458 --> 01:39:41,125 are just staring at this wild one baron. 1458 01:39:41,208 --> 01:39:41,500 Yeah. 1459 01:39:41,541 --> 01:39:42,000 Awkward. 1460 01:39:42,041 --> 01:39:43,000 Yeah, it's like they have the plague. 1461 01:39:43,750 --> 01:39:43,916 And it's like, yeah, 1462 01:39:43,916 --> 01:39:44,791 I mean, it's like they're just sitting within 20 feet of them. 1463 01:39:45,458 --> 01:39:46,291 Unlike, I did put an 1464 01:39:46,291 --> 01:39:47,833 Instagram post up just last night, 1465 01:39:47,833 --> 01:39:49,083 I think it was, we were 1466 01:39:49,083 --> 01:39:50,125 like the only ones in the, 1467 01:39:50,375 --> 01:39:51,000 it was so cold, we 1468 01:39:51,000 --> 01:39:51,833 were like the only ones. 1469 01:39:52,250 --> 01:39:52,833 It was so cold. 1470 01:39:53,291 --> 01:39:53,833 I thought it was funny, 1471 01:39:54,041 --> 01:39:54,750 but generally there 1472 01:39:54,750 --> 01:39:55,666 are other parents there 1473 01:39:55,666 --> 01:39:56,458 and we're sitting in them, 1474 01:39:56,458 --> 01:39:57,125 but in this other one, 1475 01:39:57,125 --> 01:39:58,000 there's a lot of people there, 1476 01:39:58,250 --> 01:40:00,708 but nobody was within 20 feet of them. 1477 01:40:01,000 --> 01:40:01,625 It was like they had the 1478 01:40:01,625 --> 01:40:03,000 plague and they're just, 1479 01:40:03,291 --> 01:40:04,708 and then, yeah, to your point, 1480 01:40:05,375 --> 01:40:06,708 people are looking at them, 1481 01:40:06,708 --> 01:40:07,208 people are actually 1482 01:40:07,208 --> 01:40:08,500 jawing with them a little bit 1483 01:40:08,500 --> 01:40:09,541 and they're jawing back. 1484 01:40:09,541 --> 01:40:11,250 I mean, there's, I mean, at some point, 1485 01:40:12,708 --> 01:40:16,208 Yeah, and I mean, it kind of reaches the 1486 01:40:16,208 --> 01:40:16,833 point where it's like, 1487 01:40:17,291 --> 01:40:18,625 do we let the coach know? 1488 01:40:18,625 --> 01:40:19,708 Like, can the coach hear this? 1489 01:40:20,041 --> 01:40:23,375 Because I mean, thank goodness he wasn't 1490 01:40:23,375 --> 01:40:25,000 tearing down our kid. 1491 01:40:25,250 --> 01:40:27,916 Otherwise, I may have had a more 1492 01:40:27,916 --> 01:40:30,000 emotionally strong reaction. 1493 01:40:30,000 --> 01:40:32,208 But like, it could be my kid. 1494 01:40:32,208 --> 01:40:33,583 It could be my kid in the next game. 1495 01:40:34,541 --> 01:40:36,458 And that's when I would say something. 1496 01:40:36,458 --> 01:40:37,583 Yeah, that's just not. 1497 01:40:37,583 --> 01:40:38,541 That's why I don't know if I've got the 1498 01:40:38,541 --> 01:40:39,500 self-control of humor to 1499 01:40:39,500 --> 01:40:40,416 be saying it to my kid. 1500 01:40:40,500 --> 01:40:41,375 Maybe I should be standing up for other 1501 01:40:41,375 --> 01:40:42,125 people's kids too, 1502 01:40:43,416 --> 01:40:44,750 because they're crossing a line. 1503 01:40:45,250 --> 01:40:46,208 Yeah, I agree. 1504 01:40:46,208 --> 01:40:47,291 They need to join that AA 1505 01:40:47,291 --> 01:40:48,583 for dads that have grown. 1506 01:40:49,041 --> 01:40:49,583 There's a couple of 1507 01:40:49,583 --> 01:40:51,375 dads on our youngest team. 1508 01:40:51,666 --> 01:40:52,208 Athletics Anonymous? 1509 01:40:52,791 --> 01:40:53,291 Athletics Anonymous. 1510 01:40:53,291 --> 01:40:54,125 Yeah, what else would it be? 1511 01:40:54,250 --> 01:40:54,750 Yeah, obviously. 1512 01:40:56,750 --> 01:40:58,083 But I know there's a couple 1513 01:40:58,083 --> 01:40:58,916 of dads on the other team. 1514 01:40:59,625 --> 01:41:01,791 One in particular that I know that for a 1515 01:41:01,791 --> 01:41:03,583 while there, he and I 1516 01:41:03,583 --> 01:41:05,041 were like, two yellers at 1517 01:41:05,041 --> 01:41:05,500 our son. 1518 01:41:07,041 --> 01:41:08,541 If we felt they were, even if they were 1519 01:41:08,541 --> 01:41:09,250 six out of ten 1520 01:41:09,250 --> 01:41:10,541 performance on that day, we'd 1521 01:41:10,541 --> 01:41:12,041 be like, "Come on, you got to get there." 1522 01:41:12,666 --> 01:41:13,333 The truth about these 1523 01:41:13,333 --> 01:41:14,750 kids is they're up and down. 1524 01:41:15,375 --> 01:41:17,500 Even when you get to a certain age, 1525 01:41:17,708 --> 01:41:19,791 you're still going to have good and bad 1526 01:41:19,791 --> 01:41:20,500 days, unfortunately. 1527 01:41:20,916 --> 01:41:23,625 But he's turned it around completely. 1528 01:41:24,083 --> 01:41:25,583 He doesn't say hardly 1529 01:41:25,583 --> 01:41:26,833 anything on the fields now. 1530 01:41:27,125 --> 01:41:27,500 No. 1531 01:41:27,500 --> 01:41:30,083 He's just so positive and good guy. 1532 01:41:31,041 --> 01:41:31,541 He was competitive 1533 01:41:31,541 --> 01:41:32,458 too when he was younger. 1534 01:41:33,125 --> 01:41:34,291 It was nice spending more time with him 1535 01:41:34,291 --> 01:41:35,375 when they were at the house here. 1536 01:41:35,375 --> 01:41:35,583 Yeah. 1537 01:41:36,541 --> 01:41:36,833 That's because I'm a 1538 01:41:36,833 --> 01:41:37,708 lot in common, I think. 1539 01:41:38,666 --> 01:41:39,666 Yeah, I'll never forget what he said. 1540 01:41:40,875 --> 01:41:42,041 I think his wife 1541 01:41:42,041 --> 01:41:43,375 probably said something to him. 1542 01:41:43,375 --> 01:41:44,541 Actually he said that she did. 1543 01:41:44,541 --> 01:41:46,208 He's like, "Then I realized it wasn't 1544 01:41:46,208 --> 01:41:47,416 actually helping my kid 1545 01:41:47,416 --> 01:41:49,500 and it was only hurting him." 1546 01:41:49,500 --> 01:41:52,083 It's like, because as a parent, it's 1547 01:41:52,083 --> 01:41:54,625 coming from a good place when you do it. 1548 01:41:55,333 --> 01:41:56,333 It really is. 1549 01:41:56,333 --> 01:41:57,416 I truly believe that. 1550 01:41:57,416 --> 01:41:57,708 To a point. 1551 01:41:58,000 --> 01:42:00,666 You only want what's best for your kid. 1552 01:42:00,666 --> 01:42:01,208 Yeah, that's true. 1553 01:42:01,500 --> 01:42:03,958 It all stems from a really good place. 1554 01:42:04,000 --> 01:42:05,416 But then when you realize it's not 1555 01:42:05,416 --> 01:42:06,708 achieving what I want it to 1556 01:42:06,708 --> 01:42:09,166 achieve, it's like, "Okay, 1557 01:42:09,166 --> 01:42:09,625 I got to." 1558 01:42:10,166 --> 01:42:10,708 It's just when it rolls 1559 01:42:10,708 --> 01:42:12,208 downhill too far, right? 1560 01:42:12,208 --> 01:42:13,875 It started in a good place and then it 1561 01:42:13,875 --> 01:42:16,166 ended up probably in a bad place, sadly. 1562 01:42:18,583 --> 01:42:20,000 That dad and mom, by the way, they keep 1563 01:42:20,000 --> 01:42:20,625 taking our parking 1564 01:42:20,625 --> 01:42:22,166 spots just for the record. 1565 01:42:22,166 --> 01:42:22,583 Do they? 1566 01:42:22,833 --> 01:42:23,000 Yeah. 1567 01:42:23,666 --> 01:42:24,333 I told them I was going to 1568 01:42:24,333 --> 01:42:25,250 mention it on the podcast. 1569 01:42:25,500 --> 01:42:26,000 Oh, okay. 1570 01:42:26,000 --> 01:42:27,250 Well, they keep taking our spots. 1571 01:42:27,375 --> 01:42:28,416 I'm just calling him out. 1572 01:42:29,500 --> 01:42:30,541 By the way, we love this family. 1573 01:42:30,541 --> 01:42:31,041 They're fantastic. 1574 01:42:32,250 --> 01:42:32,500 Yeah. 1575 01:42:32,500 --> 01:42:33,333 No, they're great. 1576 01:42:33,958 --> 01:42:34,541 They really are. 1577 01:42:35,291 --> 01:42:40,708 We are blessed that our kids, aside from 1578 01:42:40,708 --> 01:42:42,000 the other two that we 1579 01:42:42,000 --> 01:42:42,541 were talking about in the 1580 01:42:42,541 --> 01:42:43,958 big stands on the high school team, 1581 01:42:44,291 --> 01:42:44,833 they're really 1582 01:42:44,833 --> 01:42:49,375 surrounded by really good kids and 1583 01:42:49,375 --> 01:42:50,000 families. 1584 01:42:50,583 --> 01:42:50,833 Yeah. 1585 01:42:51,291 --> 01:42:52,250 The club teams, right? 1586 01:42:52,250 --> 01:42:52,541 The club teams. 1587 01:42:52,541 --> 01:42:54,416 High school teams, it's just a different 1588 01:42:54,416 --> 01:42:54,958 ... A lot of those 1589 01:42:54,958 --> 01:42:56,458 players aren't playing at the 1590 01:42:56,458 --> 01:42:58,416 same level that the club kids play at. 1591 01:42:58,416 --> 01:42:58,583 Yeah. 1592 01:42:59,041 --> 01:42:59,250 Yeah. 1593 01:42:59,500 --> 01:43:00,791 They don't even know soccer. 1594 01:43:01,375 --> 01:43:02,833 A lot of the things they say is just ... 1595 01:43:02,875 --> 01:43:03,958 It's embarrassing that it 1596 01:43:03,958 --> 01:43:04,833 comes out of their mouth, 1597 01:43:04,833 --> 01:43:06,041 but they don't know the game. 1598 01:43:06,500 --> 01:43:06,708 Yeah. 1599 01:43:06,958 --> 01:43:10,166 One of the things that I think is really 1600 01:43:10,166 --> 01:43:11,666 cool about what I've seen 1601 01:43:11,666 --> 01:43:13,208 from a high school soccer 1602 01:43:13,666 --> 01:43:16,791 standpoint is that those have become our 1603 01:43:16,791 --> 01:43:18,666 oldest good friends. 1604 01:43:19,291 --> 01:43:20,916 It's harder on club teams. 1605 01:43:21,541 --> 01:43:22,875 You have those good friends, but you're 1606 01:43:22,875 --> 01:43:23,541 not going to school 1607 01:43:23,541 --> 01:43:24,916 with them most of the time 1608 01:43:24,916 --> 01:43:28,708 because the club teams that ... They're 1609 01:43:28,708 --> 01:43:30,250 drawing kids from all over, 1610 01:43:30,250 --> 01:43:31,291 in our case, the Metroplex. 1611 01:43:31,333 --> 01:43:34,000 You could have someone on your team who 1612 01:43:34,000 --> 01:43:35,250 lives 45 minutes to an 1613 01:43:35,250 --> 01:43:36,791 hour away from you, so it's 1614 01:43:36,791 --> 01:43:38,458 not like you can necessarily get together 1615 01:43:38,458 --> 01:43:40,375 really easily on a night 1616 01:43:40,375 --> 01:43:42,041 to hang out or anything 1617 01:43:42,041 --> 01:43:42,833 like that. 1618 01:43:43,666 --> 01:43:45,250 For our oldest, at least, that high 1619 01:43:45,250 --> 01:43:46,500 school team has become 1620 01:43:46,500 --> 01:43:49,583 his core group of friends 1621 01:43:50,083 --> 01:43:51,125 in high school, which 1622 01:43:51,125 --> 01:43:53,125 is really good to see. 1623 01:43:53,583 --> 01:43:54,166 I like that. 1624 01:43:54,541 --> 01:43:54,750 Yeah. 1625 01:43:54,791 --> 01:43:57,416 Most of them are upperclassmen, though, 1626 01:43:57,416 --> 01:43:58,833 because there's only a 1627 01:43:58,833 --> 01:43:59,750 handful of freshmen on that 1628 01:43:59,750 --> 01:44:00,041 team. 1629 01:44:00,750 --> 01:44:02,208 That's interesting. 1630 01:44:03,541 --> 01:44:07,500 What we're now discovering is that new 1631 01:44:07,500 --> 01:44:09,083 era of, "Hey, 1632 01:44:09,583 --> 01:44:11,458 everybody's jumping in so-and-so's 1633 01:44:11,458 --> 01:44:14,708 car and going somewhere to get food." 1634 01:44:15,541 --> 01:44:18,333 Our oldest really hasn't had an allowance 1635 01:44:18,333 --> 01:44:21,250 up to this point, so he's like, "Hey, can 1636 01:44:21,250 --> 01:44:24,708 I get $13 today to go 1637 01:44:24,708 --> 01:44:26,625 eat and get some chicken? 1638 01:44:26,916 --> 01:44:29,250 I need $10 for donuts for breakfast." 1639 01:44:30,583 --> 01:44:32,250 That doesn't bother me as much, because 1640 01:44:32,250 --> 01:44:34,500 he will get an 1641 01:44:34,500 --> 01:44:35,791 allowance at some point that's 1642 01:44:35,833 --> 01:44:36,166 consistent. 1643 01:44:36,416 --> 01:44:40,416 He needs to learn how to use money and be 1644 01:44:40,416 --> 01:44:41,916 responsible and that kind of stuff. 1645 01:44:43,458 --> 01:44:45,250 I'm not comfortable yet not knowing the 1646 01:44:45,250 --> 01:44:47,458 kids that are driving him around. 1647 01:44:47,750 --> 01:44:48,916 I want to be able to look at the kid and 1648 01:44:48,916 --> 01:44:50,125 say, "Hey, you've got my 1649 01:44:50,125 --> 01:44:52,708 son and his life in your 1650 01:44:52,791 --> 01:44:53,083 hands. 1651 01:44:54,000 --> 01:44:54,958 You need to drive safe 1652 01:44:54,958 --> 01:44:55,916 when my son's in your car." 1653 01:44:56,250 --> 01:44:57,833 If I don't know those people and I want 1654 01:44:57,833 --> 01:44:58,500 to look at them in the 1655 01:44:58,500 --> 01:44:59,000 eye, it's a little bit 1656 01:44:59,000 --> 01:45:03,083 like the shotgun in my arm, in my hand, 1657 01:45:03,083 --> 01:45:03,750 when the boyfriend 1658 01:45:03,750 --> 01:45:04,708 comes over for our middle. 1659 01:45:05,333 --> 01:45:05,708 You know what I mean? 1660 01:45:06,083 --> 01:45:07,583 I want to make sure it's safe. 1661 01:45:08,750 --> 01:45:10,250 That's a little uncomfortable right now. 1662 01:45:10,250 --> 01:45:10,458 Yeah. 1663 01:45:10,875 --> 01:45:12,833 Well, I did talk to him about that last 1664 01:45:12,833 --> 01:45:14,375 night actually on the way home. 1665 01:45:15,208 --> 01:45:17,791 I reiterated to him that on Friday he 1666 01:45:17,791 --> 01:45:19,166 needs to introduce you. 1667 01:45:19,166 --> 01:45:21,916 I won't be at the game, but he will need 1668 01:45:21,916 --> 01:45:23,833 to introduce you to the 1669 01:45:23,833 --> 01:45:24,500 kid that he's been getting 1670 01:45:24,500 --> 01:45:25,166 rights with. 1671 01:45:26,500 --> 01:45:27,625 He's like, "Yeah, I will." 1672 01:45:28,375 --> 01:45:29,625 I already told him that 1673 01:45:29,625 --> 01:45:31,083 that's what I was going to do. 1674 01:45:31,625 --> 01:45:32,250 Thank you. 1675 01:45:32,250 --> 01:45:33,208 Thank you for mentioning that. 1676 01:45:33,208 --> 01:45:33,416 Yeah. 1677 01:45:33,833 --> 01:45:36,958 I did kind of like a whole grilling like, 1678 01:45:37,333 --> 01:45:38,166 "Oh, so are you guys 1679 01:45:38,166 --> 01:45:39,333 wearing seatbelts in the 1680 01:45:39,333 --> 01:45:39,500 car?" 1681 01:45:39,500 --> 01:45:40,291 He's like, "Yeah." 1682 01:45:41,250 --> 01:45:42,208 He's like, "I don't know about the other 1683 01:45:42,208 --> 01:45:42,916 car that was going," 1684 01:45:42,916 --> 01:45:44,208 but he's like, "We were 1685 01:45:44,208 --> 01:45:45,000 all wearing seatbelts." 1686 01:45:45,000 --> 01:45:47,000 In fact, he told me the kid actually 1687 01:45:47,000 --> 01:45:49,500 asked everyone to put their seatbelts on. 1688 01:45:49,791 --> 01:45:50,041 Okay. 1689 01:45:50,666 --> 01:45:51,208 He's like, "I did 1690 01:45:51,208 --> 01:45:53,666 anyway, but I figured that." 1691 01:45:54,625 --> 01:45:56,750 I think it's pretty normal now for people 1692 01:45:56,750 --> 01:45:57,791 to just automatically 1693 01:45:57,791 --> 01:45:59,083 put a seatbelt on, right? 1694 01:46:00,291 --> 01:46:00,708 I don't know. 1695 01:46:01,208 --> 01:46:03,333 I don't recall the last time I was in a 1696 01:46:03,333 --> 01:46:05,125 car and like, "Oh, I forgot my seatbelt." 1697 01:46:05,125 --> 01:46:05,666 I don't know. 1698 01:46:06,083 --> 01:46:08,958 I remember, well, I mean, we're old 1699 01:46:08,958 --> 01:46:11,916 enough to tell a lot of 1700 01:46:11,916 --> 01:46:12,958 stories about how different 1701 01:46:12,958 --> 01:46:13,916 things were when we were kids. 1702 01:46:13,916 --> 01:46:14,083 True. 1703 01:46:14,166 --> 01:46:14,416 True. 1704 01:46:14,416 --> 01:46:14,708 Oh yeah. 1705 01:46:15,041 --> 01:46:15,250 Yeah. 1706 01:46:15,291 --> 01:46:17,208 But not as old as your grandmother that 1707 01:46:17,208 --> 01:46:18,291 you're speaking about that 1708 01:46:18,291 --> 01:46:20,083 used to drive a horse and 1709 01:46:20,208 --> 01:46:21,916 buggy to town. 1710 01:46:21,916 --> 01:46:22,083 Yes. 1711 01:46:22,250 --> 01:46:22,458 Yeah. 1712 01:46:22,708 --> 01:46:24,166 Like a horse drunk whale again. 1713 01:46:24,208 --> 01:46:24,458 Yeah. 1714 01:46:25,250 --> 01:46:26,791 When she was like six. 1715 01:46:27,041 --> 01:46:29,041 Or your dad who remembers them putting 1716 01:46:29,041 --> 01:46:31,708 coal in the fireplace 1717 01:46:31,708 --> 01:46:33,708 to keep the kids warm. 1718 01:46:34,125 --> 01:46:34,333 Yeah. 1719 01:46:34,583 --> 01:46:36,541 I mean, that's just different. 1720 01:46:36,541 --> 01:46:37,291 That's a different era. 1721 01:46:37,291 --> 01:46:37,958 It's a different era. 1722 01:46:38,500 --> 01:46:38,666 Yeah. 1723 01:46:39,958 --> 01:46:41,125 What was I going to 1724 01:46:41,125 --> 01:46:41,708 talk about there though? 1725 01:46:41,708 --> 01:46:41,916 Yes, the belts. 1726 01:46:41,916 --> 01:46:42,625 What we did differently? 1727 01:46:42,875 --> 01:46:44,208 Oh yeah, but we didn't have shoulder 1728 01:46:44,208 --> 01:46:45,291 strap seat belts, so 1729 01:46:45,291 --> 01:46:46,250 we had a really hard... 1730 01:46:46,250 --> 01:46:46,708 Not in the back seat. 1731 01:46:47,250 --> 01:46:47,583 Yeah. 1732 01:46:47,583 --> 01:46:48,125 Not in the back seat. 1733 01:46:48,500 --> 01:46:48,708 Yeah. 1734 01:46:48,750 --> 01:46:49,791 I don't even know if it... 1735 01:46:50,083 --> 01:46:50,958 Maybe it was a law. 1736 01:46:52,083 --> 01:46:52,666 Law while we were 1737 01:46:52,666 --> 01:46:54,000 children that we had to wear it. 1738 01:46:54,291 --> 01:46:55,416 Because we would take cross country 1739 01:46:55,416 --> 01:46:57,291 vacations in a station 1740 01:46:57,291 --> 01:46:58,750 wagon and those were the best 1741 01:46:58,750 --> 01:47:00,583 because I'd roll out my sleeping bag. 1742 01:47:00,583 --> 01:47:00,833 Oh yeah. 1743 01:47:00,833 --> 01:47:01,916 Because we'd put all the seats down. 1744 01:47:02,125 --> 01:47:02,333 Yeah. 1745 01:47:02,791 --> 01:47:03,791 And roll out sleeping bags. 1746 01:47:04,041 --> 01:47:04,250 Yeah. 1747 01:47:04,625 --> 01:47:05,458 Greatest cross country car. 1748 01:47:05,750 --> 01:47:08,000 18 hours, 55 miles an hour, 1749 01:47:08,250 --> 01:47:10,125 maybe even 58 miles an hour. 1750 01:47:10,541 --> 01:47:10,916 Right? 1751 01:47:10,916 --> 01:47:11,291 Yeah. 1752 01:47:11,583 --> 01:47:13,083 Just living the dream. 1753 01:47:13,375 --> 01:47:13,583 Mm-hmm. 1754 01:47:13,916 --> 01:47:14,750 But we can't do that now. 1755 01:47:15,791 --> 01:47:16,083 No. 1756 01:47:16,500 --> 01:47:18,250 Oh, so my whole point to that was I had a 1757 01:47:18,250 --> 01:47:19,083 cousin at that point 1758 01:47:19,083 --> 01:47:20,708 in time back in the late 1759 01:47:20,875 --> 01:47:21,541 80s, I think. 1760 01:47:21,791 --> 01:47:24,000 She's older than me, lives in Illinois. 1761 01:47:24,458 --> 01:47:26,333 And I remember her saying, "I just don't 1762 01:47:26,333 --> 01:47:27,500 want to put my seat belt on." 1763 01:47:27,916 --> 01:47:29,750 She's like, "What if I crash and the 1764 01:47:29,750 --> 01:47:31,083 car's on fire and I can't get out?" 1765 01:47:32,291 --> 01:47:33,416 Well, that's one way 1766 01:47:33,416 --> 01:47:34,250 to think of it, I guess. 1767 01:47:34,250 --> 01:47:36,041 I was 14 though, so I didn't have a good 1768 01:47:36,041 --> 01:47:37,000 answer to come back. 1769 01:47:37,375 --> 01:47:38,000 That's a really good 1770 01:47:38,000 --> 01:47:39,000 reason not to wear one. 1771 01:47:41,541 --> 01:47:41,791 Okay. 1772 01:47:42,250 --> 01:47:43,875 So to this day, I don't wear a seat belt. 1773 01:47:46,125 --> 01:47:47,416 Well, that's just a thing. 1774 01:47:48,625 --> 01:47:51,791 So yes, we did take a couple where we 1775 01:47:51,791 --> 01:47:52,458 would roll out the 1776 01:47:52,458 --> 01:47:54,291 seats, or put the seats down 1777 01:47:54,291 --> 01:47:55,666 and sleep. 1778 01:47:56,125 --> 01:47:58,958 But really, by the time I was like seven 1779 01:47:58,958 --> 01:47:59,958 or eight, we didn't do 1780 01:47:59,958 --> 01:48:00,666 that anymore, probably 1781 01:48:00,666 --> 01:48:01,791 because we had a lot of kids 1782 01:48:01,791 --> 01:48:02,958 and everyone needed a seat belt. 1783 01:48:04,916 --> 01:48:06,250 My parents always 1784 01:48:06,250 --> 01:48:07,125 made us wear seat belts. 1785 01:48:07,750 --> 01:48:11,500 And so from most of my memory, it truly 1786 01:48:11,500 --> 01:48:14,166 was, "Okay, everyone buckle up." 1787 01:48:14,833 --> 01:48:18,458 And so to me, I don't 1788 01:48:18,458 --> 01:48:19,458 even think about it. 1789 01:48:20,291 --> 01:48:21,625 It's not even like, "Oh gosh, I don't 1790 01:48:21,625 --> 01:48:22,333 have my seat belt on." 1791 01:48:22,333 --> 01:48:23,333 I mean, that's the first thing 1792 01:48:23,333 --> 01:48:24,166 I do every time I get the car. 1793 01:48:24,166 --> 01:48:25,583 I don't have the memory to recall that, 1794 01:48:25,583 --> 01:48:28,291 but just going off the 1795 01:48:28,291 --> 01:48:29,750 fact that my parents would 1796 01:48:29,750 --> 01:48:31,791 not, when we do these 18-hour 1797 01:48:31,791 --> 01:48:34,375 cross-country drives, they 1798 01:48:34,375 --> 01:48:35,958 would not take the time to pull 1799 01:48:35,958 --> 01:48:38,208 over, stop the car, put it in park on the 1800 01:48:38,208 --> 01:48:40,833 side of the highway and do a Chinese fire 1801 01:48:40,833 --> 01:48:42,250 drill and switch drivers. 1802 01:48:43,208 --> 01:48:44,000 They didn't do that. 1803 01:48:45,583 --> 01:48:47,416 Actually, we added 1804 01:48:47,416 --> 01:48:48,666 cruise control to the car. 1805 01:48:48,666 --> 01:48:49,291 It didn't come with 1806 01:48:49,291 --> 01:48:50,458 cruise control back then. 1807 01:48:50,791 --> 01:48:53,333 So I remember they added cruise control, 1808 01:48:53,791 --> 01:48:55,041 maybe just for this, but 1809 01:48:55,041 --> 01:48:56,500 they'd put it on cruise 1810 01:48:56,500 --> 01:48:58,250 control at 58 miles an 1811 01:48:58,250 --> 01:48:59,291 hour, whatever it was. 1812 01:49:00,250 --> 01:49:02,500 And they would do a driver switch in the 1813 01:49:02,500 --> 01:49:03,750 front seat while one 1814 01:49:03,750 --> 01:49:04,833 person's holding the wheel, 1815 01:49:04,833 --> 01:49:06,416 the other one's climbing out of the 1816 01:49:06,416 --> 01:49:07,958 driver's seat because it's 1817 01:49:07,958 --> 01:49:09,291 a cruise control and they're 1818 01:49:09,291 --> 01:49:10,208 just steering it straight. 1819 01:49:10,875 --> 01:49:12,416 None of us are seat belted in our 1820 01:49:12,416 --> 01:49:13,666 sleeping bags in the back. 1821 01:49:13,958 --> 01:49:17,250 So I don't know. 1822 01:49:19,166 --> 01:49:21,875 That's the household I grew up in. 1823 01:49:21,875 --> 01:49:23,250 That is next level 1824 01:49:23,250 --> 01:49:25,500 commitment to hitting your ETA. 1825 01:49:26,541 --> 01:49:29,708 I mean, if Waze was around back then, it 1826 01:49:29,708 --> 01:49:31,416 was like, "You are a rock star." 1827 01:49:31,416 --> 01:49:33,291 Yeah, you just made up 12 minutes. 1828 01:49:35,333 --> 01:49:36,416 Your arrival time. 1829 01:49:37,750 --> 01:49:38,458 Wow. 1830 01:49:38,458 --> 01:49:38,708 That's funny. 1831 01:49:39,666 --> 01:49:40,625 How did you go to the bathroom? 1832 01:49:40,625 --> 01:49:41,541 How did you guys do 1833 01:49:41,541 --> 01:49:43,208 restroom stops and stuff like that? 1834 01:49:43,208 --> 01:49:43,708 We weren't allowed to. 1835 01:49:44,208 --> 01:49:44,500 Windows. 1836 01:49:45,750 --> 01:49:46,250 I'm just kidding. 1837 01:49:46,625 --> 01:49:47,500 I was like, "Wow, 1838 01:49:47,500 --> 01:49:48,541 sisters, that's impressive." 1839 01:49:49,000 --> 01:49:50,625 Yeah, I think the side of the road we had 1840 01:49:50,625 --> 01:49:51,541 to do at that point in time. 1841 01:49:51,541 --> 01:49:52,166 Oh yeah, yeah. 1842 01:49:52,375 --> 01:49:52,583 Okay. 1843 01:49:52,750 --> 01:49:54,333 But if it wasn't around a bathroom break, 1844 01:49:54,333 --> 01:49:55,416 I mean, that's what they would do. 1845 01:49:55,750 --> 01:49:56,208 Oh wow. 1846 01:49:56,416 --> 01:49:56,666 Yeah. 1847 01:49:57,250 --> 01:49:58,833 Maybe because you were all sleeping too. 1848 01:49:58,833 --> 01:49:59,708 They didn't want to wake you up. 1849 01:50:00,625 --> 01:50:01,041 I don't know. 1850 01:50:01,041 --> 01:50:02,250 It was 18 hours, so we 1851 01:50:02,250 --> 01:50:03,000 weren't sleeping the whole time. 1852 01:50:03,708 --> 01:50:03,833 Wow. 1853 01:50:04,875 --> 01:50:05,166 Yeah. 1854 01:50:05,708 --> 01:50:06,416 I mean, we were better though than waking 1855 01:50:06,416 --> 01:50:08,250 up at 2 a.m. at a gas station. 1856 01:50:09,125 --> 01:50:09,333 Yeah. 1857 01:50:09,416 --> 01:50:11,041 Scroggy and the lights and the dark. 1858 01:50:11,500 --> 01:50:11,958 Yeah. 1859 01:50:12,541 --> 01:50:14,291 You guys took more cross-country things 1860 01:50:14,291 --> 01:50:15,916 in the middle of the night than we did. 1861 01:50:15,916 --> 01:50:16,708 We didn't do that. 1862 01:50:16,708 --> 01:50:18,041 We just do it in one go. 1863 01:50:18,041 --> 01:50:19,083 I mean, we probably drove about the same 1864 01:50:19,083 --> 01:50:19,833 amount because we went 1865 01:50:19,833 --> 01:50:21,500 to Colorado to Michigan or 1866 01:50:21,625 --> 01:50:23,416 Chicago and then Michigan, and then you'd 1867 01:50:23,416 --> 01:50:25,083 come from Minneapolis down to Colorado. 1868 01:50:25,541 --> 01:50:26,000 Colorado, yeah. 1869 01:50:26,250 --> 01:50:27,708 We always stopped though in Grand Island, 1870 01:50:27,916 --> 01:50:29,875 Nebraska, and there 1871 01:50:29,875 --> 01:50:30,875 was a holiday in there. 1872 01:50:32,125 --> 01:50:33,125 It was a real treat for 1873 01:50:33,125 --> 01:50:34,041 us to stay at a hotel. 1874 01:50:34,500 --> 01:50:34,875 Yeah. 1875 01:50:35,416 --> 01:50:37,666 I mean, with five kids, it's not like we 1876 01:50:37,666 --> 01:50:38,916 fit in one hotel room, 1877 01:50:38,916 --> 01:50:41,666 so it was always a treat. 1878 01:50:42,250 --> 01:50:42,750 You guys have the free 1879 01:50:42,750 --> 01:50:43,791 cash flow to do that though. 1880 01:50:44,291 --> 01:50:45,208 I think the economics might 1881 01:50:45,208 --> 01:50:45,958 have been slightly different. 1882 01:50:46,333 --> 01:50:46,541 Yeah. 1883 01:50:48,125 --> 01:50:48,333 Maybe. 1884 01:50:49,500 --> 01:50:51,250 So, I mean, it was fun. 1885 01:50:52,916 --> 01:50:54,541 My parents didn't switch 1886 01:50:54,541 --> 01:50:57,208 drivers driving on a highway. 1887 01:50:57,583 --> 01:50:58,916 I think they would have pulled over. 1888 01:50:59,416 --> 01:51:00,583 I don't ever remember my mom. 1889 01:51:01,041 --> 01:51:02,750 If my dad was in the car, my dad was 1890 01:51:02,750 --> 01:51:04,375 driving, so I don't know 1891 01:51:04,375 --> 01:51:05,416 that they switched drivers. 1892 01:51:07,083 --> 01:51:07,875 She never drove? 1893 01:51:09,041 --> 01:51:11,333 No, not on car trips with my dad. 1894 01:51:13,291 --> 01:51:14,166 My dad did. 1895 01:51:15,000 --> 01:51:16,166 Pre Madonna. 1896 01:51:17,208 --> 01:51:19,250 I got to cut that one. 1897 01:51:19,541 --> 01:51:20,000 Pre Madonna? 1898 01:51:20,833 --> 01:51:21,000 Yeah. 1899 01:51:21,166 --> 01:51:22,000 Can you say Pre Madonna? 1900 01:51:22,416 --> 01:51:22,583 Yeah. 1901 01:51:23,000 --> 01:51:23,833 I'm just kidding. 1902 01:51:24,583 --> 01:51:26,375 Yeah, he would do the driving. 1903 01:51:26,375 --> 01:51:27,416 I'm surprised at that because she's kind 1904 01:51:27,416 --> 01:51:29,041 of a take charge kind of 1905 01:51:29,041 --> 01:51:30,041 woman, so I'm surprised 1906 01:51:30,083 --> 01:51:30,458 that she... 1907 01:51:31,083 --> 01:51:32,208 I don't recall my mom 1908 01:51:32,208 --> 01:51:34,375 ever driving on a road trip. 1909 01:51:34,833 --> 01:51:35,000 Yeah. 1910 01:51:35,333 --> 01:51:36,708 He just gave her the stiff arm, huh? 1911 01:51:37,041 --> 01:51:37,541 He just... 1912 01:51:37,541 --> 01:51:38,250 I'm the man, I would 1913 01:51:38,250 --> 01:51:40,333 drive this 19 hours straight. 1914 01:51:40,541 --> 01:51:41,625 So my mom, I think, 1915 01:51:41,625 --> 01:51:43,500 probably used that as... 1916 01:51:43,500 --> 01:51:44,416 There's only eight hours though. 1917 01:51:44,416 --> 01:51:45,041 If you guys didn't drive it 1918 01:51:45,041 --> 01:51:45,541 all the way, that would be nice. 1919 01:51:45,541 --> 01:51:47,250 You didn't drive it all the way, yeah. 1920 01:51:47,250 --> 01:51:49,041 So it's not like someone needed to sleep, 1921 01:51:49,041 --> 01:51:49,625 it was the middle of 1922 01:51:49,625 --> 01:51:50,375 the night or anything 1923 01:51:50,458 --> 01:51:51,041 like that. 1924 01:51:51,250 --> 01:51:51,458 Yeah. 1925 01:51:53,166 --> 01:51:53,875 But, yeah. 1926 01:51:54,333 --> 01:51:54,416 That makes sense. 1927 01:51:55,416 --> 01:51:56,166 My mom probably thought 1928 01:51:56,166 --> 01:51:59,125 all the kids are buckled in. 1929 01:52:00,375 --> 01:52:01,041 They're all safe. 1930 01:52:01,458 --> 01:52:03,625 They're all entertained by their cassette 1931 01:52:03,625 --> 01:52:05,708 tapes or whatever they have, their books. 1932 01:52:06,291 --> 01:52:08,000 So she probably just got a little bit of 1933 01:52:08,000 --> 01:52:10,500 time to decompress and read a book. 1934 01:52:10,500 --> 01:52:11,291 Because she can read in the car. 1935 01:52:12,791 --> 01:52:13,500 Which I don't blame. 1936 01:52:13,500 --> 01:52:14,666 With five kids, I probably would have 1937 01:52:14,666 --> 01:52:15,583 wanted to do that too. 1938 01:52:17,083 --> 01:52:18,083 I think three is insane. 1939 01:52:18,916 --> 01:52:19,125 Yeah. 1940 01:52:19,875 --> 01:52:20,083 Yeah. 1941 01:52:20,666 --> 01:52:20,916 So. 1942 01:52:21,750 --> 01:52:23,083 I'm glad that wasn't the expectation 1943 01:52:23,083 --> 01:52:24,958 because I grew up with 1944 01:52:24,958 --> 01:52:26,041 four, you grew up with five. 1945 01:52:26,291 --> 01:52:26,625 That's... 1946 01:52:26,916 --> 01:52:27,083 Yeah. 1947 01:52:27,291 --> 01:52:28,375 Those are busy households. 1948 01:52:28,375 --> 01:52:29,958 Those are busy, busy households. 1949 01:52:30,333 --> 01:52:30,500 Yeah. 1950 01:52:30,750 --> 01:52:34,333 But, I mean, road trips, just speaking of 1951 01:52:34,333 --> 01:52:36,083 road trips, I got to 1952 01:52:36,083 --> 01:52:38,458 say I'm jonesing for a 1953 01:52:38,458 --> 01:52:38,791 vacation. 1954 01:52:40,041 --> 01:52:40,250 You? 1955 01:52:41,458 --> 01:52:41,791 Definitely. 1956 01:52:42,958 --> 01:52:47,541 It feels like that when 1957 01:52:47,541 --> 01:52:48,666 we lived in Chicago, right? 1958 01:52:48,750 --> 01:52:50,916 It was just those gloomy, gray days and 1959 01:52:50,916 --> 01:52:51,916 everybody would take a 1960 01:52:51,916 --> 01:52:53,583 January beach vacation just to 1961 01:52:53,583 --> 01:52:54,125 get some sun. 1962 01:52:54,500 --> 01:52:54,666 Yeah. 1963 01:52:55,041 --> 01:52:55,500 Yeah. 1964 01:52:55,500 --> 01:52:57,000 It's just cold down here. 1965 01:52:57,583 --> 01:52:57,958 It is. 1966 01:52:58,666 --> 01:53:00,083 And, I mean, our kids keep looking at 1967 01:53:00,083 --> 01:53:01,125 pictures of vacations 1968 01:53:01,125 --> 01:53:02,166 like, "Can we go here? 1969 01:53:02,166 --> 01:53:02,791 Can we go here?" 1970 01:53:03,000 --> 01:53:03,291 I just... 1971 01:53:03,750 --> 01:53:03,958 Yeah. 1972 01:53:04,458 --> 01:53:04,708 Man. 1973 01:53:05,208 --> 01:53:07,666 I've been talking about road trips and 1974 01:53:07,666 --> 01:53:09,458 it's like, "Oh, even that would be nice." 1975 01:53:10,041 --> 01:53:10,708 We should talk about 1976 01:53:10,708 --> 01:53:11,750 vacations to the next podcast. 1977 01:53:12,083 --> 01:53:12,458 We should. 1978 01:53:13,041 --> 01:53:14,000 Because it would be closer to spring 1979 01:53:14,000 --> 01:53:14,708 break and who knows? 1980 01:53:15,166 --> 01:53:15,583 Who knows? 1981 01:53:16,250 --> 01:53:18,458 I might be feeling fantastic and we could 1982 01:53:18,458 --> 01:53:19,916 take a little spring break. 1983 01:53:20,166 --> 01:53:20,375 Yeah. 1984 01:53:20,833 --> 01:53:21,958 We could be doing cartwheels by that 1985 01:53:21,958 --> 01:53:22,958 time, so we'll be good. 1986 01:53:23,291 --> 01:53:24,208 Certainly hope so. 1987 01:53:24,500 --> 01:53:24,958 That's the plan. 1988 01:53:25,750 --> 01:53:26,041 Soitenly. 1989 01:53:26,750 --> 01:53:27,083 Soitenly. 1990 01:53:27,916 --> 01:53:31,083 Anyway, well, you know what? 1991 01:53:31,083 --> 01:53:32,875 For not having too much of an agenda, I 1992 01:53:32,875 --> 01:53:33,708 think we've filled up 1993 01:53:33,708 --> 01:53:34,791 quite a bit of time. 1994 01:53:35,333 --> 01:53:35,541 Yeah. 1995 01:53:36,166 --> 01:53:36,375 Yeah. 1996 01:53:36,583 --> 01:53:36,833 So. 1997 01:53:37,291 --> 01:53:38,958 We're nothing if not 1998 01:53:38,958 --> 01:53:40,083 full of a lot of hot air. 1999 01:53:40,625 --> 01:53:40,833 Right. 2000 01:53:41,541 --> 01:53:43,875 And again, welcome to 2001 01:53:43,875 --> 01:53:44,875 Sean and Megan's date night. 2002 01:53:45,791 --> 01:53:46,083 Yeah. 2003 01:53:46,500 --> 01:53:46,750 Yeah. 2004 01:53:46,750 --> 01:53:47,583 Let's go drink some... 2005 01:53:50,083 --> 01:53:50,208 Wine? 2006 01:53:51,000 --> 01:53:51,583 There you go. 2007 01:53:51,583 --> 01:53:52,208 You did it again. 2008 01:53:52,583 --> 01:53:53,875 You're always finishing my... 2009 01:53:56,041 --> 01:53:56,416 Snow cones. 2010 01:53:57,375 --> 01:53:57,666 Yeah. 2011 01:53:57,666 --> 01:53:58,958 I totally set that one up way better. 2012 01:53:59,291 --> 01:53:59,583 Come on. 2013 01:53:59,583 --> 01:54:00,958 See, that one was set up better. 2014 01:54:01,166 --> 01:54:02,583 That one was set up really well. 2015 01:54:02,916 --> 01:54:04,750 You look like you're confused though. 2016 01:54:04,750 --> 01:54:06,458 I was like, "Well, did I go back to the 2017 01:54:06,458 --> 01:54:07,083 one I used in the 2018 01:54:07,083 --> 01:54:08,000 beginning of the episode? 2019 01:54:08,375 --> 01:54:08,708 Do I?" 2020 01:54:09,208 --> 01:54:09,416 Yeah. 2021 01:54:11,125 --> 01:54:11,166 See ya. 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