If you’ve ever wanted to change your relationship,
and your partner wasn’t on board…
pay close attention.
Constant arguments,
feeling gaslit,
having your emotions invalidated.
When you give feedback— they jump and become defensive and tell you why you’re wrong.
You want to feel seen and heard and understood.
You’ve read all the books and done the podcasts,
and I am sure you’ve talked to a therapist or counsellor at least once,
But your partner is still like a brick wall.
If you’re going through all of these,
just know it’s not your fault.
There are unconscious forces at play that have brought the two of you together.
Unresolved childhood dynamics intertwining your story,
and you were NEVER given the tools to deal with it.
You didn’t have the awareness to become Trigger-Proof and create conscious polarity.
How could you have?
Look at the relationship of your parents.
Can you see any pattern here?
Can you see yourself reliving it with your family and children?
Luckily, with a short term plan of learning how to regulate your nervous system,
and a long term vision of mastering the conflict/repair cycle,
you won’t have to get anxious about the push-pull dynamic anymore.
You won’t have to settle for breadcrumbs.
You won’t have to go through constantly wondering “should I stay or go?”
Because you’ve learned how to turn conflicts into deeper intimacy.
You’ve learned to love yourself and KNOW your sense of self worth.
When you do— you’re able to leave a shitty situation that isn’t meeting you at the level you know you deserve.
Because we don’t have relationships based on what we desire.
We have relationships based on what we FEEL WE deserve.
You can’t change a stalemate in a relationship by trying to get the OTHER person to change.
It’s gotta begin internally— and you know it.
When you do, the other person treats you differently as a reflection of how you’re treating yourself differently.
Or, if they don’t, (as I shared in this video warning I made to men who refuse to do the work)
you will have the courage to leave.
Healing work is like weight loss…
Ideally you can get healthier as a couple.
But in reality, you don’t need the other person to do it with you.
It’s your own inner journey where ultimately the reward is feeling safer in your own skin,
no matter what’s happening on the outside.
That’s when the stalemate begins to move forward and you have access to what you truly want.
A secure relationship that has magnetism.
You deserve it.
Your wingman on the adventure,
Nima.
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Upcoming Masterclass "SHOULD I STAY OR GO?" Live Event (Every month)
If you’re stuck in limbo, in repetitive relationship patterns, same arguments, attracting the same patterns, and you want to gain the clarity, confidence, and Courage to create secure relationships
https://drnima.com/lp/should-i-stay-or-go/?sl=transistor-podcast
Upcoming Overview Experience Virtual Event (Every month)
Dissolve your current relationship resentment, heal your attachment wounds, resolve your past and bring clarity to your next step.
https://go.drnima.com/oevw?sl=transistor-podcast
Or if you are wanting to hop on a call and discuss how we can support you through your transition and you're wanting deeper guidance on your healing journey and you're ready to break the cycle of inter-generational trauma (divorce, separation, relationship limbo, past trauma spilling into present)
https://drnima.com/discovery/application/?sl=transistor-podcast
Join my Facebook Group to help you understand yourself, control your triggers, regulate your nervous system and know what's keeping you stuck in these times of crisis:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/triggerproof
Are you on Telegram? Click link below to join my channel for some TriggerProof wisdom to keep your nervous system regulated, your soul in your body, and your heart aligned with your purpose.
https://t.me/joinchat/TPQjyH2MCBKHonIR
What is Trigger Proof Transmissions (Cyclebreaker Collective)?
Welcome to the TriggerProof podcast.
This is the first season of the Podcast which are audio renditions of
Facebook Live Video Transmissions done for the “TriggerProof” Facebook Community.
These were set up by request of our community members who wanted an opportunity to listen
to insights, tools, and strategies to help heal relationship dynamics, deepen intimacy,
and master the fine art of Autonomic Nervous System Regulation so that we can build resilience,
heal from the past, and become active operators of our mind, body, and life.
This first season wasn’t designed to be a podcast, so you’ll notice the audio isn’t
Professional Studio Quality (like it is on season 2 as we’ve upgraded incrementally).
These trainings are designed to introduce and deepen you to the most critical 2 skills we’ve never been taught:
1) The skill and practice of taking our triggers (Nervous System Activations) and turning them into deeper safety and self-love,
2) The skill and practice of taking conflict (that happens in any relationship) and turning them into deeper intimacy between the parties involved.
Not learning these two critical skills at this time in history costs us dearly: Physical and Mental health is on the DECLINE.
Doing this deep level of healing work can break the cycle of Intergenerational Trauma that didn’t start with you.
It didn’t start with you, but it can end with you,
#Cyclebreaker.
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When you're ready, here's what we got:
Upcoming Masterclass "SHOULD I STAY OR GO?" Live Event (Every month)
If you’re stuck in limbo, in repetitive relationship patterns, same arguments, attracting the same patterns, and you want to gain the clarity, confidence, and Courage to create secure relationships
https://drnima.com/lp/should-i-stay-or-go/?sl=transistor-podcast
Upcoming "Breathwork and Badassery" Live Event (Every month)
Regulate Your stress, deepen your connection to your inner child, process your stuck emotions and improve your capacity
https://go.drnima.com/bbvw?sl=transistor-podcast
Upcoming Overview Experience Virtual Event (Every month)
Dissolve your current relationship resentment, heal your attachment wounds, resolve your past and bring clarity to your next step.
https://go.drnima.com/oevw?sl=transistor-podcast
Or if you are wanting to hop on a call and discuss how we can support you through your transition and you're wanting deeper guidance on your healing journey and you're ready to break the cycle of inter-generational trauma (divorce, separation, relationship limbo, past trauma spilling into present)
https://drnima.com/discovery/application/?sl=transistor-podcast
Join my Facebook Group to help you understand yourself, control your triggers, regulate your nervous system and know what's keeping you stuck in these times of crisis:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/triggerproof