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We're trying to do, that's sad, more

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technical difficulties.

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How would you feel if I

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walked watch Rexxum without you?

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Some days you're like, the

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universe wants me to complain.

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I want an impolupa now.

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I want an impolupa now.

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Is that her name, Peruga?

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That's a weird name.

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F-bomb this, S-bomb this,

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hang loose, you're on it.

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We went all Ross Geller

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because of a sandwich.

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But I gave the pep talk, I said, listen,

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everybody huddle up.

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And he glisses.

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[LAUGH]

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We're all in this huddle and I'm looking

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around at everybody,

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I'm about to give a Rudy speech.

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I'm like, we will not

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be that Hawaii family.

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And patience is the one

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virtue that I don't possess.

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He did that to me.

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Those cookies, I don't even know what the

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bottom of it is, but

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then you put a Hershey's

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kiss on the top of them.

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I would eat around the

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Hershey's kiss and then pop a

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little bit of cookie.

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100%.

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That's how you're supposed to eat those?

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I always ate them.

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Good to know.

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You don't eat them that way, I think

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you're eating them wrong.

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Sean, if you're going to be a banker,

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you've got to learn to

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golf.

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I got the all clear.

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I get to go ahead and live my life

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according to my surgeon.

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Except I can't play tackle football.

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One, two, three.

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I'm a little bit of a fan of logistics.

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She said bop sled.

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Would you have been better work?

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Yeah.

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And I'll stay Constantinople next time.

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Yeah.

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Joining.

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Now?

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When you're ready.

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Welcome to the Mr. and

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Mrs. English podcast.

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I'm Megan.

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And I'm Sean.

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We're here to talk about the

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wild ride of raising kids and

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growing careers, keeping life

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together in the middle of all

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the chaos.

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So buckle up, because we're all in this

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crazy journey together.

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We'll try it.

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We'll try without it.

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Oh, technical difficulties.

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You would think by the 30th

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episode, we'd be all good.

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Well, I'm pretty sure.

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Welcome, everybody.

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We're trying to do--

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oh, that's sad.

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More technical difficulties.

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Well, if you're just

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listening, Megan's mic just

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committed--

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I don't know.

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It lost all its air, at least.

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It went from standing at

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attention and being excited

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about this podcast to not.

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There you go.

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All right, technical difficulties.

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That's the second one.

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So I was trying to fix where

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I've noticed on some of these

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it's auto focusing us.

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So it's taking us in and out, in and out.

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We're giving our watchers a

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little bit of motion sickness.

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Motion sickness, that's right.

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So it was one thing

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when we were on the cruise.

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But now that we're in the studio,

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we probably shouldn't be.

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That really was movement.

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We've got to land legs back on now.

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Took a while.

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We did.

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We did.

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Then I just had the saddest mic ever.

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Oh, yeah.

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All right, we're past those, though.

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We're good.

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We're good.

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We got it done.

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What people may not know is that we are

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not actually podcasters

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or technically savvy with any of this.

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Well, you are.

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I'm really not.

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I've learned enough to pull it together.

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But I get emails all the time, right?

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People on LinkedIn or

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people that are just trolling,

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trying to sell me something like, hey,

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I've noticed your

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transitions are pretty rough.

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Or maybe you need this or that.

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Are you serious?

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Yeah, they don't say it that way.

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But they're like, hey,

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we can help your editing

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and make it more like, you know what?

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We've got to dissolve.

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We've got to cross dissolve.

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We've got three different camera angles.

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We're good.

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And that's a little offensive.

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So thanks.

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That's right.

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But I mean, it's not like this is--

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I mean, we're not primetime.

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So I think it's going to be OK.

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If we get smart list viewership, then--

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Yeah, that's right.

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You should probably hire someone.

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Well, you know, SiriusXM, they did knock.

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They did send us something.

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I deleted it, though.

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It's not ready for that kind of thing.

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Yeah, yeah.

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It just sounds like too much.

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It's just too much.

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Yeah, it's not like that show.

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So we've been watching that

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show, "Castle Impossible."

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Yes.

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First season-- I don't know

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if anybody's ever seen it.

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But it's "Castle Impossible."

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These people, they inherited a chateau

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outside of Paris and France.

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And they're both from California.

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The wife, her

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grandfather gifted it to her.

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Yes.

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And this isn't a plug, but I'm going

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somewhere with this.

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Anyways, they just did the first season.

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So it's her and her

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husband, Ian, I think it is.

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And this chateau is like 500 years old,

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so they're redoing it.

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And there's a hidden treasure there.

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And so they're trying

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to make it interesting.

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But it's kind of like a rehab show.

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It is.

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Because they're just refurbishing this.

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This 500-year-old castle.

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And you love it.

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Actually, the whole family loves it.

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The whole family loves it.

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In fact, the 11-year-old was so upset he

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went to a sleepover.

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And the next morning, not

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joking, he was in tears.

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He's like, you watched it without me?

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Yeah.

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He's like, how would you feel if I

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watched "Rexam" without you?

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He was like, OK.

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Pulling a ticket.

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Wow.

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Yeah.

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He was--

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But it's just interesting.

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It's fun.

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I don't know why the

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kids like it so much.

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But it's just one of

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these fixer-upper type shows.

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And it's cool.

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It's in France.

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And it's a castle.

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It's a castle.

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They're fixing up a castle.

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Yeah.

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The way they make money is

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they hold weddings there.

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Yeah.

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So that's how they do it.

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But the reason I

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brought it up is because--

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Yeah, I was going to

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go, where are we going?

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Because I just want people to watch it.

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I want you to write in HGTV.

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They haven't signed

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up for a second season.

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Yeah, but they should.

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But the reason I was saying it is--

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I can't remember her name, Daphne?

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Daphne.

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Oh, I did get it right.

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Daphne and Ian,

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they're both just so likable.

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They are.

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Right?

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Ian's hilarious.

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He looks like Josh Groban.

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100%.

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Sorry, Josh, but he looks

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like a young Josh Groban.

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Because Ian's younger.

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That was--

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Well, Josh is like my age, I think.

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He's maybe a little bit

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younger than me, Josh Groban is.

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But anyways, but they're funny.

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They're just likable people.

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And my point is, as likable as you are,

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I bring this whole thing way down.

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So I'm not likable enough

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for this to go on SiriusXM.

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And thus, we don't

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have the technical support

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or capabilities.

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And that's the end of that story.

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Yeah, you don't bring it down.

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In fact, without you, we

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wouldn't have any of this.

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See, I brought it.

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Well, anyways.

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Anyway, so that's where I

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was trying to go with that,

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is to watch "Castle Impossible."

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Yes. They haven't signed them

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up for a second season yet.

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And we really want-- because, I mean,

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it's like a family thing for us.

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So yeah.

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It is.

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But they're likable people.

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That's why it's funny.

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Because people always talk about--

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we talked about maybe

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on the last podcast of--

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people always think like, oh, we should

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have a reality series.

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Right.

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Right.

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And we had mentioned--

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we have some family members.

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And I listened to us

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when I edited saying that.

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I didn't want to feel like I

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was throwing some family members

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under the bus like, oh,

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he's probably talking about me.

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Or whatever it might be.

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No, but I've had-- we

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have family members.

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And they know who they are.

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They're like, we should

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have cameras in our lives.

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Right.

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And I don't know how much I

286
01:06:52,500 --> 01:06:53,333
can say about those people.

287
01:06:53,333 --> 01:06:54,416
Because they just have

288
01:06:54,416 --> 01:06:55,791
a lot of stuff going on.

289
01:06:56,041 --> 01:06:56,916
I mean, a lot of drama.

290
01:06:57,458 --> 01:06:58,583
Hopefully, everything-- I mean, things

291
01:06:58,583 --> 01:06:59,958
have ebbed and flowed

292
01:06:59,958 --> 01:07:01,500
and gotten better here and there.

293
01:07:01,916 --> 01:07:03,000
But they do have some drama.

294
01:07:03,541 --> 01:07:03,833
Yes.

295
01:07:04,166 --> 01:07:04,375
Yes.

296
01:07:05,041 --> 01:07:06,291
And that might be interesting.

297
01:07:06,291 --> 01:07:07,916
But that's not the kind of things that--

298
01:07:08,791 --> 01:07:10,208
I don't know if people watch that.

299
01:07:10,333 --> 01:07:11,750
Because that's like real life drama.

300
01:07:11,958 --> 01:07:13,625
That's more of a drama versus--

301
01:07:14,500 --> 01:07:14,708
Yeah.

302
01:07:15,541 --> 01:07:18,208
Ours is more like a spoof.

303
01:07:18,958 --> 01:07:19,250
I don't know.

304
01:07:19,625 --> 01:07:20,333
We're not going to do it.

305
01:07:20,333 --> 01:07:21,125
But I'm just saying, if you

306
01:07:21,125 --> 01:07:21,958
look at some of these reality

307
01:07:22,125 --> 01:07:22,916
television shows out there

308
01:07:22,916 --> 01:07:23,875
right now, they're more like--

309
01:07:23,875 --> 01:07:24,583
they're just so fake.

310
01:07:24,583 --> 01:07:25,458
They're not even real life.

311
01:07:26,000 --> 01:07:26,125
Right.

312
01:07:26,625 --> 01:07:29,416
It's the let's go rafting down the Timbs.

313
01:07:29,625 --> 01:07:29,875
Right.

314
01:07:30,208 --> 01:07:30,416
Right.

315
01:07:30,541 --> 01:07:32,458
And they're probably like, oh, wow.

316
01:07:33,041 --> 01:07:33,708
They put them in the

317
01:07:33,708 --> 01:07:35,000
situations to make the drama.

318
01:07:35,416 --> 01:07:35,708
Yeah.

319
01:07:35,708 --> 01:07:39,208
The drama doesn't just come about.

320
01:07:40,041 --> 01:07:42,583
And we don't air enough.

321
01:07:42,583 --> 01:07:43,208
We don't really air

322
01:07:43,208 --> 01:07:44,416
our dirty laundry here.

323
01:07:44,625 --> 01:07:46,083
This is more for fun than--

324
01:07:47,208 --> 01:07:48,583
like I said, I want that other podcast

325
01:07:48,583 --> 01:07:49,583
where we can air some

326
01:07:49,583 --> 01:07:52,458
of that and grievances and whatnot.

327
01:07:52,458 --> 01:07:53,916
But this is more of a

328
01:07:53,916 --> 01:07:55,916
positive one, just for fun, I think.

329
01:07:56,333 --> 01:07:57,250
Yeah, for sure.

330
01:07:57,625 --> 01:07:57,958
For sure.

331
01:07:58,291 --> 01:07:58,500
Yeah.

332
01:07:58,791 --> 01:08:00,583
We want to come across as likable and--

333
01:08:02,083 --> 01:08:03,125
Yeah, it's hard.

334
01:08:03,291 --> 01:08:03,666
But we're trying.

335
01:08:03,666 --> 01:08:04,208
It's really hard,

336
01:08:04,208 --> 01:08:05,291
especially when we're like,

337
01:08:05,333 --> 01:08:06,458
yeah, I want one which

338
01:08:06,458 --> 01:08:08,750
says I'm peeved, where we just

339
01:08:08,958 --> 01:08:11,000
complain and moan about everything.

340
01:08:12,416 --> 01:08:13,458
Sometimes it's easy.

341
01:08:14,083 --> 01:08:15,125
Sometimes it's real easy.

342
01:08:15,500 --> 01:08:15,916
It is.

343
01:08:16,333 --> 01:08:16,500
Yeah.

344
01:08:16,833 --> 01:08:18,000
Some days you're like, the

345
01:08:18,000 --> 01:08:19,250
universe wants me to complain.

346
01:08:19,708 --> 01:08:19,916
Yeah.

347
01:08:20,500 --> 01:08:20,833
Yeah.

348
01:08:20,833 --> 01:08:21,916
Like, that's why they

349
01:08:21,916 --> 01:08:24,291
gave me that situation.

350
01:08:24,625 --> 01:08:25,500
Well, and I don't know if

351
01:08:25,500 --> 01:08:26,500
other couples are like this.

352
01:08:26,500 --> 01:08:27,416
But for you and I, it works

353
01:08:27,416 --> 01:08:28,875
out perfect because I am--

354
01:08:29,250 --> 01:08:31,083
I am definitely, I

355
01:08:31,083 --> 01:08:32,625
guess, a half glass empty guy.

356
01:08:34,458 --> 01:08:35,291
And I didn't used to be like that.

357
01:08:35,583 --> 01:08:36,458
I used to feel like--

358
01:08:37,916 --> 01:08:39,916
I didn't feel like I was pessimistic.

359
01:08:40,708 --> 01:08:41,833
And I've come to realize I am.

360
01:08:42,208 --> 01:08:42,583
So I am.

361
01:08:42,583 --> 01:08:43,000
That's fine.

362
01:08:43,000 --> 01:08:43,583
It is what it is.

363
01:08:43,958 --> 01:08:46,000
But the balance to that is you.

364
01:08:46,000 --> 01:08:48,166
You're a very optimistic person.

365
01:08:48,375 --> 01:08:49,875
You're a glass flowing over

366
01:08:49,875 --> 01:08:51,541
type person, which is fantastic.

367
01:08:51,875 --> 01:08:53,541
So I mean, it levels us out.

368
01:08:53,541 --> 01:08:54,333
It levels us out.

369
01:08:54,708 --> 01:08:56,333
Because either way, you

370
01:08:56,333 --> 01:08:57,583
can't have too much of both.

371
01:08:58,125 --> 01:08:58,791
Or you can't have too

372
01:08:58,791 --> 01:08:59,500
much of one of them.

373
01:08:59,666 --> 01:09:00,375
You got to have--

374
01:09:00,375 --> 01:09:01,000
Yeah, I think we hold

375
01:09:01,000 --> 01:09:01,958
hands and jump off the bridge

376
01:09:01,958 --> 01:09:03,000
if we were both like me.

377
01:09:03,250 --> 01:09:03,583
You know?

378
01:09:05,250 --> 01:09:07,250
And if we're both like me, it's like,

379
01:09:07,500 --> 01:09:08,708
hey, we're going to fly.

380
01:09:10,208 --> 01:09:11,708
We're jumping off the bridge, both.

381
01:09:11,708 --> 01:09:14,416
Either way, one is for a hard splashdown.

382
01:09:15,916 --> 01:09:16,791
And the other is to just--

383
01:09:17,916 --> 01:09:18,083
Float.

384
01:09:18,708 --> 01:09:19,083
Fly away.

385
01:09:20,000 --> 01:09:20,708
This is fun.

386
01:09:21,500 --> 01:09:21,916
Bubbles.

387
01:09:22,833 --> 01:09:24,458
It's like Willy Wonka, right?

388
01:09:24,458 --> 01:09:26,041
Either on the thing.

389
01:09:26,041 --> 01:09:27,000
Don't touch the ceiling.

390
01:09:28,458 --> 01:09:29,291
The bubble room.

391
01:09:29,291 --> 01:09:30,208
And then you start burping.

392
01:09:30,625 --> 01:09:31,000
Oh, yeah.

393
01:09:31,000 --> 01:09:31,750
Oh, you had to get down.

394
01:09:32,000 --> 01:09:32,333
That's right.

395
01:09:32,958 --> 01:09:33,958
Oh, my gosh.

396
01:09:35,208 --> 01:09:38,250
I will now forever associate that movie.

397
01:09:39,166 --> 01:09:40,208
Because that one kid

398
01:09:40,208 --> 01:09:42,791
that we saw on our trip,

399
01:09:43,250 --> 01:09:46,000
he was totally Veruca, right?

400
01:09:46,000 --> 01:09:46,958
And he's like, oh, I

401
01:09:46,958 --> 01:09:48,625
want an impolompa now.

402
01:09:49,041 --> 01:09:50,708
I want an impolompa now.

403
01:09:51,125 --> 01:09:52,666
It was exactly this child.

404
01:09:53,666 --> 01:09:55,291
And yeah, so now I'm always going to be

405
01:09:55,291 --> 01:09:57,125
like, we met Veruca.

406
01:09:57,458 --> 01:09:58,500
You used to use Veruca.

407
01:09:59,375 --> 01:10:00,083
Is that her name, Veruca?

408
01:10:00,541 --> 01:10:01,083
That's a weird name.

409
01:10:03,833 --> 01:10:06,625
I apologize to any Veruca's out there.

410
01:10:06,916 --> 01:10:08,125
But spoiler alert, you

411
01:10:08,125 --> 01:10:09,083
have a very weird name.

412
01:10:09,291 --> 01:10:09,833
Send me an email.

413
01:10:11,875 --> 01:10:13,625
But we used to use her as

414
01:10:13,625 --> 01:10:16,916
an example of what not to be.

415
01:10:17,125 --> 01:10:18,125
Oh, we totally did.

416
01:10:18,125 --> 01:10:20,083
And then we met a real life Veruca.

417
01:10:20,458 --> 01:10:21,083
Real life one.

418
01:10:21,541 --> 01:10:22,166
And you're like, wow.

419
01:10:22,333 --> 01:10:24,708
And I was a little proud that the

420
01:10:24,708 --> 01:10:25,375
children were like--

421
01:10:26,583 --> 01:10:27,500
yeah, they saw it.

422
01:10:27,875 --> 01:10:28,958
Sadly, there was no

423
01:10:28,958 --> 01:10:31,875
blueberry candy to feed her.

424
01:10:32,166 --> 01:10:34,375
I don't know what happened.

425
01:10:34,375 --> 01:10:35,916
Was she the one that got big blueberry?

426
01:10:36,583 --> 01:10:37,500
No, she was a golden egg.

427
01:10:38,208 --> 01:10:38,916
I don't remember.

428
01:10:39,791 --> 01:10:40,208
I don't know.

429
01:10:40,208 --> 01:10:41,000
That movie always creeped me

430
01:10:41,000 --> 01:10:42,083
out, I'm going to be honest.

431
01:10:42,083 --> 01:10:43,458
That reminds me, though,

432
01:10:43,458 --> 01:10:45,250
did we ever get into on this

433
01:10:46,041 --> 01:10:46,666
what we were talking

434
01:10:46,666 --> 01:10:48,333
about, the Hawaii family?

435
01:10:49,125 --> 01:10:50,000
No, we never did.

436
01:10:50,333 --> 01:10:51,375
Yeah, that was one thing we were like,

437
01:10:51,375 --> 01:10:51,833
oh, we should bring up

438
01:10:51,833 --> 01:10:52,625
the Hawaii family.

439
01:10:53,000 --> 01:10:53,208
Yes.

440
01:10:54,666 --> 01:10:55,791
Do you want to bring it up on me?

441
01:10:55,791 --> 01:10:57,250
We should bring up the Hawaii family.

442
01:10:57,791 --> 01:10:58,958
Because, yeah, you go.

443
01:10:59,250 --> 01:10:59,458
OK.

444
01:10:59,666 --> 01:11:00,958
Well, so when we were in

445
01:11:00,958 --> 01:11:02,666
Hawaii two years ago with the Gibbs,

446
01:11:03,208 --> 01:11:04,041
we had a big family

447
01:11:04,041 --> 01:11:05,083
reunion out there, a lot of fun.

448
01:11:06,000 --> 01:11:07,291
We went early, as a

449
01:11:07,291 --> 01:11:08,166
couple of people did, too.

450
01:11:09,083 --> 01:11:11,083
We went early, and we were over on--

451
01:11:12,333 --> 01:11:12,833
Kauai.

452
01:11:13,000 --> 01:11:13,583
Kauai.

453
01:11:13,583 --> 01:11:14,166
I don't know why that

454
01:11:14,166 --> 01:11:15,125
slipped my mind there

455
01:11:15,625 --> 01:11:16,708
for the first couple of days.

456
01:11:17,541 --> 01:11:19,166
And we were going around to

457
01:11:19,166 --> 01:11:20,416
different places and whatnot,

458
01:11:20,416 --> 01:11:21,375
but we went to a beach.

459
01:11:22,666 --> 01:11:26,166
And this left a lasting impression on us.

460
01:11:26,666 --> 01:11:29,125
Because we went to this beach, and there

461
01:11:29,166 --> 01:11:30,875
was a family that was

462
01:11:30,875 --> 01:11:34,000
just getting into us so mad

463
01:11:34,000 --> 01:11:34,583
at themselves.

464
01:11:35,250 --> 01:11:35,875
Oh my gosh.

465
01:11:35,875 --> 01:11:36,291
At each other.

466
01:11:37,083 --> 01:11:39,750
I mean, parents cussing at the kids--

467
01:11:39,750 --> 01:11:42,625
the kids were preteen to teen, right?

468
01:11:43,166 --> 01:11:43,250
Yeah. 15.

469
01:11:43,375 --> 01:11:44,541
Similar ages to our children.

470
01:11:44,750 --> 01:11:45,625
Similar ages, yeah.

471
01:11:45,625 --> 01:11:46,500
Maybe the older two.

472
01:11:46,500 --> 01:11:46,750
I don't--

473
01:11:47,333 --> 01:11:49,541
I would say they ranged from eight to 15.

474
01:11:49,791 --> 01:11:50,000
Yeah.

475
01:11:50,833 --> 01:11:52,083
And there was two or three of them.

476
01:11:52,083 --> 01:11:52,791
Two or three of them.

477
01:11:52,791 --> 01:11:53,000
Yeah.

478
01:11:53,750 --> 01:11:57,000
And they were cussing at each other.

479
01:11:57,375 --> 01:11:59,208
The mom was probably the worst.

480
01:11:59,208 --> 01:12:00,041
Oh, she was awful.

481
01:12:00,041 --> 01:12:01,541
She was losing her stinking mind.

482
01:12:01,916 --> 01:12:03,583
Like, F-bomb this, S-bomb this.

483
01:12:04,083 --> 01:12:05,666
And they were literally just trying

484
01:12:05,666 --> 01:12:07,500
to come down the beach on vacation.

485
01:12:08,083 --> 01:12:09,583
They were just trying to find a place to

486
01:12:09,583 --> 01:12:10,916
put their towels down

487
01:12:10,916 --> 01:12:12,666
on the beach in Kauai.

488
01:12:13,333 --> 01:12:15,291
So I mean, you should be a little--

489
01:12:15,291 --> 01:12:16,500
you know, I mean, hang

490
01:12:16,500 --> 01:12:17,833
loose, Relatics, man.

491
01:12:17,833 --> 01:12:18,000
I mean, hang loose, right?

492
01:12:18,083 --> 01:12:18,375
Yeah.

493
01:12:19,583 --> 01:12:21,375
They were losing their stinking mind.

494
01:12:21,916 --> 01:12:23,500
Everybody-- it was like time stopped.

495
01:12:23,541 --> 01:12:24,375
Everybody was just like--

496
01:12:24,708 --> 01:12:29,500
because they came in like Uncle Eddie.

497
01:12:29,833 --> 01:12:31,333
You remember Uncle Eddie when

498
01:12:31,333 --> 01:12:34,416
he's going to the pool party

499
01:12:34,583 --> 01:12:35,625
on Christmas vacation?

500
01:12:36,250 --> 01:12:37,541
And he's got his white

501
01:12:37,541 --> 01:12:39,083
shirt pulled underneath his--

502
01:12:39,083 --> 01:12:41,583
White feeder with his leopard bikini.

503
01:12:42,166 --> 01:12:42,375
Yeah.

504
01:12:42,791 --> 01:12:43,458
That's like-- they're

505
01:12:43,458 --> 01:12:46,333
like-- and he's got his chairs

506
01:12:47,000 --> 01:12:47,750
and his floaties under

507
01:12:47,750 --> 01:12:48,958
his arms and his goggles on.

508
01:12:49,541 --> 01:12:50,541
That's, in my mind, how

509
01:12:50,541 --> 01:12:51,583
I pictured this family

510
01:12:51,583 --> 01:12:52,541
kind of coming down.

511
01:12:53,583 --> 01:12:54,875
The entryway to the beach.

512
01:12:55,625 --> 01:12:57,416
But just so many,

513
01:12:57,791 --> 01:12:59,041
yelling, yelling at each other.

514
01:12:59,041 --> 01:13:00,291
And I was saying time stopped because

515
01:13:00,291 --> 01:13:01,166
everybody on the beach

516
01:13:01,166 --> 01:13:02,250
was like, what?

517
01:13:03,291 --> 01:13:03,916
Like just--

518
01:13:04,708 --> 01:13:05,500
Everybody stopped to stare.

519
01:13:05,708 --> 01:13:05,958
Yeah.

520
01:13:06,541 --> 01:13:06,958
They did.

521
01:13:07,250 --> 01:13:08,041
And even our kids were

522
01:13:08,041 --> 01:13:10,208
like, what is happening there?

523
01:13:10,541 --> 01:13:11,375
They were out of control.

524
01:13:11,375 --> 01:13:12,125
They were just out of control.

525
01:13:12,125 --> 01:13:13,041
I mean, there's no other way

526
01:13:13,041 --> 01:13:15,291
to say it other than they--

527
01:13:15,583 --> 01:13:15,875
I don't know.

528
01:13:16,458 --> 01:13:17,541
From what I could glean,

529
01:13:18,291 --> 01:13:19,416
it was all about a sandwich.

530
01:13:21,250 --> 01:13:21,958
That's what's crazy.

531
01:13:22,750 --> 01:13:24,125
It went all Ross Geller

532
01:13:24,125 --> 01:13:26,291
because of a sandwich.

533
01:13:26,958 --> 01:13:28,375
And the mom's cussing it.

534
01:13:28,375 --> 01:13:30,291
She's like, he started it.

535
01:13:30,291 --> 01:13:30,666
I was like--

536
01:13:31,208 --> 01:13:32,625
Yeah, blaming their child.

537
01:13:32,625 --> 01:13:33,166
Blaming their child.

538
01:13:33,166 --> 01:13:34,166
She started it.

539
01:13:34,416 --> 01:13:34,875
Yes.

540
01:13:35,208 --> 01:13:37,416
Because he ate my effing sandwich.

541
01:13:37,416 --> 01:13:37,708
We're like--

542
01:13:37,958 --> 01:13:38,416
Yeah.

543
01:13:38,416 --> 01:13:38,875
Oh, yeah.

544
01:13:39,083 --> 01:13:40,083
Thanks for the detail on that.

545
01:13:40,458 --> 01:13:41,708
Because it was so over the top.

546
01:13:42,875 --> 01:13:44,000
For a sandwich.

547
01:13:44,000 --> 01:13:44,833
Over a sandwich.

548
01:13:45,375 --> 01:13:46,875
But it lasted like 20 minutes.

549
01:13:46,875 --> 01:13:48,500
And I won't make this story 20 minutes.

550
01:13:48,500 --> 01:13:50,000
Because I'm just trying to draw it.

551
01:13:50,125 --> 01:13:51,500
I'm just trying to lay the

552
01:13:51,500 --> 01:13:54,291
baseline here for the fact

553
01:13:54,291 --> 01:13:56,125
that they made an lasting impression.

554
01:13:56,875 --> 01:13:58,291
Because there was times when

555
01:13:58,291 --> 01:13:59,375
we were even on that vacation.

556
01:13:59,666 --> 01:14:00,416
But even more so when we

557
01:14:00,416 --> 01:14:01,333
were on this last vacation.

558
01:14:01,833 --> 01:14:03,375
I know we're getting a lot of mileage out

559
01:14:03,375 --> 01:14:04,041
of this last vacation

560
01:14:04,333 --> 01:14:05,041
talking about it.

561
01:14:05,041 --> 01:14:06,500
But we're still a little on high for it.

562
01:14:06,500 --> 01:14:07,250
It was a great vacation.

563
01:14:09,416 --> 01:14:12,000
But there's times when we would be

564
01:14:12,000 --> 01:14:13,125
frustrated with each other.

565
01:14:14,166 --> 01:14:16,208
And we would be like, look.

566
01:14:16,541 --> 01:14:17,708
And I gave the pep talk.

567
01:14:18,000 --> 01:14:18,416
You did.

568
01:14:19,000 --> 01:14:19,583
I don't remember if it

569
01:14:19,583 --> 01:14:20,875
was in Rome or where it was

570
01:14:20,875 --> 01:14:21,458
or in the airport.

571
01:14:21,458 --> 01:14:22,250
It was in Rome.

572
01:14:22,500 --> 01:14:23,625
But I gave the pep talk.

573
01:14:23,625 --> 01:14:24,166
I said, listen.

574
01:14:24,458 --> 01:14:25,833
Everybody huddle up, Englaces.

575
01:14:28,416 --> 01:14:29,250
We're all in this huddle.

576
01:14:29,250 --> 01:14:30,541
And I'm looking around at everybody.

577
01:14:31,083 --> 01:14:32,333
Like, I'm about to give a Rudy speech.

578
01:14:33,208 --> 01:14:34,375
And I'm like, we will

579
01:14:34,375 --> 01:14:37,333
not be that Hawaii family.

580
01:14:38,166 --> 01:14:38,708
And they all know.

581
01:14:38,916 --> 01:14:39,625
I mean, we all know the

582
01:14:39,625 --> 01:14:40,500
Hawaii family when we speak.

583
01:14:40,500 --> 01:14:41,541
You can't forget it.

584
01:14:41,541 --> 01:14:42,250
I wish I could.

585
01:14:42,541 --> 01:14:42,750
Right.

586
01:14:42,958 --> 01:14:43,166
It actually--

587
01:14:43,541 --> 01:14:44,083
Excellent to us.

588
01:14:44,083 --> 01:14:44,875
But we've talked about it.

589
01:14:44,875 --> 01:14:45,708
We've spoken about them before.

590
01:14:46,250 --> 01:14:46,708
Since then, too.

591
01:14:47,208 --> 01:14:48,000
But I was telling everybody,

592
01:14:48,333 --> 01:14:49,125
we're not going to be them.

593
01:14:49,500 --> 01:14:50,500
We're not going to be them.

594
01:14:50,500 --> 01:14:51,291
It's embarrassing.

595
01:14:51,916 --> 01:14:52,875
We're better than that.

596
01:14:53,583 --> 01:14:54,916
And control ourselves.

597
01:14:55,125 --> 01:14:55,291
Right?

598
01:14:55,291 --> 01:14:56,125
I'm talking about me.

599
01:14:56,500 --> 01:14:57,416
I'm talking about kids.

600
01:14:57,416 --> 01:14:57,958
I'm talking about everybody.

601
01:14:58,333 --> 01:14:58,500
Right?

602
01:14:58,500 --> 01:14:59,958
So we will not do that.

603
01:14:59,958 --> 01:15:00,750
We have got to--

604
01:15:01,000 --> 01:15:02,166
there's going to be a lot of people.

605
01:15:02,583 --> 01:15:03,000
There's going to be a

606
01:15:03,000 --> 01:15:03,750
lot of frustrations.

607
01:15:03,958 --> 01:15:04,958
There's going to be a lot of waiting.

608
01:15:05,416 --> 01:15:07,500
And we have to have patience.

609
01:15:08,375 --> 01:15:09,291
And patience is the one

610
01:15:09,291 --> 01:15:10,583
virtue that I don't possess.

611
01:15:12,000 --> 01:15:13,208
And I may have passed that

612
01:15:13,208 --> 01:15:15,291
along to some of our children.

613
01:15:16,458 --> 01:15:17,416
Or all of them.

614
01:15:17,708 --> 01:15:18,291
Or all of them.

615
01:15:18,291 --> 01:15:19,666
Any of them have patience.

616
01:15:19,666 --> 01:15:21,041
So that was the speech.

617
01:15:21,916 --> 01:15:23,291
And there was multiple times

618
01:15:23,291 --> 01:15:25,625
that during the thing, right?

619
01:15:25,625 --> 01:15:26,500
We had to say that.

620
01:15:26,500 --> 01:15:27,208
Where it's like, don't--

621
01:15:27,833 --> 01:15:29,750
we're-- you know, come--

622
01:15:30,291 --> 01:15:31,000
I feel it.

623
01:15:31,000 --> 01:15:32,833
I feel a YE family brewing.

624
01:15:33,375 --> 01:15:33,583
Yeah.

625
01:15:33,875 --> 01:15:35,541
Really, day one was the worst with that.

626
01:15:35,541 --> 01:15:36,416
And we already talked about that.

627
01:15:36,416 --> 01:15:37,000
Because I think we were

628
01:15:37,000 --> 01:15:38,958
just lack of sleep in jet lag.

629
01:15:39,875 --> 01:15:39,916
Yeah.

630
01:15:39,916 --> 01:15:40,416
Yeah, it's pretty mystery.

631
01:15:40,416 --> 01:15:42,208
So patience, no sleep.

632
01:15:42,416 --> 01:15:45,041
I mean, that's like a nightmare cocktail.

633
01:15:45,333 --> 01:15:45,500
Really?

634
01:15:45,666 --> 01:15:45,916
Yeah.

635
01:15:46,458 --> 01:15:47,500
And that was the worst of it.

636
01:15:47,500 --> 01:15:48,208
We got better from there.

637
01:15:48,416 --> 01:15:49,958
But that's our measuring signal.

638
01:15:49,958 --> 01:15:51,375
Like, hey, guys, we will not be that.

639
01:15:51,875 --> 01:15:52,958
People are looking at us.

640
01:15:52,958 --> 01:15:54,458
But you made the comment, though, that

641
01:15:54,458 --> 01:15:55,833
lots of people do that.

642
01:15:56,416 --> 01:15:57,750
So this was eye-opening.

643
01:15:57,958 --> 01:15:59,416
Because I kind of thought that our

644
01:15:59,416 --> 01:16:00,500
family-- we've never,

645
01:16:01,458 --> 01:16:03,666
never come close to Hawaii family level.

646
01:16:04,291 --> 01:16:05,375
Like, for the record.

647
01:16:05,708 --> 01:16:06,666
And every now and

648
01:16:06,666 --> 01:16:07,583
again, you bicker, whatever.

649
01:16:08,791 --> 01:16:09,875
However, there are times

650
01:16:09,875 --> 01:16:10,833
when you're like, oh my gosh,

651
01:16:10,833 --> 01:16:12,041
are we the only family that bickers?

652
01:16:12,500 --> 01:16:14,833
That one kid just cut off the other kid

653
01:16:14,958 --> 01:16:16,291
as we're walking down a sidewalk.

654
01:16:16,291 --> 01:16:17,750
Why would that one kid do that?

655
01:16:19,583 --> 01:16:20,916
So then they're bickering, though.

656
01:16:21,083 --> 01:16:22,208
Yeah, and then they're bickering.

657
01:16:22,208 --> 01:16:23,000
And then I jump in.

658
01:16:23,000 --> 01:16:24,750
I'm like, guys, stop it.

659
01:16:25,625 --> 01:16:27,125
So it's like, if anybody's

660
01:16:27,125 --> 01:16:28,500
watching us during that point

661
01:16:28,500 --> 01:16:31,250
in time, they're like, oh, great family.

662
01:16:31,250 --> 01:16:31,500
Yeah.

663
01:16:31,958 --> 01:16:32,125
Yeah.

664
01:16:32,708 --> 01:16:33,291
And usually it's when

665
01:16:33,291 --> 01:16:34,125
we're walking into church.

666
01:16:35,125 --> 01:16:36,208
You're like the irony here.

667
01:16:37,041 --> 01:16:37,750
It's funny, because our

668
01:16:37,750 --> 01:16:38,958
pastor says it all the time.

669
01:16:38,958 --> 01:16:40,125
He's like, you guys are all yelling at

670
01:16:40,125 --> 01:16:41,000
each other in the car

671
01:16:41,000 --> 01:16:41,833
before you got here.

672
01:16:41,833 --> 01:16:42,666
But now you're in church.

673
01:16:43,125 --> 01:16:43,375
I know.

674
01:16:43,666 --> 01:16:43,916
Yeah.

675
01:16:44,041 --> 01:16:44,750
And now everybody's

676
01:16:44,750 --> 01:16:45,583
acting like it's perfect.

677
01:16:46,291 --> 01:16:47,000
Church-going Christians.

678
01:16:47,625 --> 01:16:47,958
Anyways.

679
01:16:48,666 --> 01:16:51,375
Yeah, but on this vacation, my eyes

680
01:16:51,375 --> 01:16:52,333
were open to the fact

681
01:16:52,333 --> 01:16:53,291
that I can't tell you

682
01:16:53,291 --> 01:16:54,375
how many times I

683
01:16:54,375 --> 01:16:55,458
heard a mom like, you just

684
01:16:55,458 --> 01:16:56,625
stop right now.

685
01:16:56,625 --> 01:16:57,916
She's trying to quietly

686
01:16:57,916 --> 01:17:02,208
scold her child or family.

687
01:17:02,208 --> 01:17:03,750
And I'm like, you did that to me.

688
01:17:03,750 --> 01:17:06,125
And I was like, oh my gosh.

689
01:17:06,125 --> 01:17:07,208
Yeah, I saw a lot of it, too.

690
01:17:07,208 --> 01:17:07,666
I did, too.

691
01:17:08,000 --> 01:17:09,666
I was like, I actually feel normal.

692
01:17:10,208 --> 01:17:10,416
Yeah.

693
01:17:10,791 --> 01:17:12,000
Yeah, because a couple of times--

694
01:17:12,208 --> 01:17:12,875
because I noticed a

695
01:17:12,875 --> 01:17:13,375
couple of that to you,

696
01:17:13,416 --> 01:17:13,916
there's a couple of

697
01:17:13,916 --> 01:17:15,666
people that don't hide it.

698
01:17:16,250 --> 01:17:17,125
And it's like, whoa, that

699
01:17:17,125 --> 01:17:18,541
is just so over the line.

700
01:17:18,875 --> 01:17:19,083
Yeah.

701
01:17:19,208 --> 01:17:19,916
Like, wait.

702
01:17:20,916 --> 01:17:21,583
So it did.

703
01:17:21,583 --> 01:17:23,291
It did normalize a little bit

704
01:17:23,291 --> 01:17:24,541
that we're not the only ones

705
01:17:24,541 --> 01:17:25,750
that do these little bickering.

706
01:17:25,750 --> 01:17:26,958
Never the Hawaii family level.

707
01:17:27,166 --> 01:17:27,375
Yeah.

708
01:17:27,833 --> 01:17:29,166
But they taught us a lesson.

709
01:17:29,416 --> 01:17:30,833
I do not want to be the

710
01:17:30,833 --> 01:17:31,833
center of that attention.

711
01:17:31,833 --> 01:17:32,041
Yeah.

712
01:17:32,458 --> 01:17:32,666
For sure.

713
01:17:33,041 --> 01:17:33,250
Yeah.

714
01:17:35,000 --> 01:17:35,708
Yeah, that was awful.

715
01:17:36,000 --> 01:17:36,750
Anyways, I don't know

716
01:17:36,750 --> 01:17:37,541
what got us onto that.

717
01:17:37,541 --> 01:17:38,458
I don't know what got us onto that.

718
01:17:38,708 --> 01:17:41,625
But this is episode 30, by the way.

719
01:17:42,125 --> 01:17:42,333
30.

720
01:17:42,666 --> 01:17:42,875
Yeah.

721
01:17:44,583 --> 01:17:45,666
We never even thought we would do

722
01:17:45,666 --> 01:17:46,500
something like this.

723
01:17:46,958 --> 01:17:48,000
And now we're on episode 30.

724
01:17:48,250 --> 01:17:49,875
Not that that's like a

725
01:17:49,875 --> 01:17:51,208
milestone of any sort.

726
01:17:51,208 --> 01:17:52,041
But I mean, I just--

727
01:17:52,041 --> 01:17:54,250
I wasn't even sure we'd get to episode 4,

728
01:17:54,250 --> 01:17:54,916
to be honest with you.

729
01:17:54,916 --> 01:17:55,250
Yeah.

730
01:17:55,250 --> 01:17:56,375
Well, I kind of feel like we should have

731
01:17:56,375 --> 01:17:57,166
a cake or something.

732
01:17:57,583 --> 01:17:58,125
We don't.

733
01:17:58,666 --> 01:18:00,416
Well, our daughter is making a cake.

734
01:18:00,416 --> 01:18:00,791
She is.

735
01:18:01,333 --> 01:18:02,833
By the way, first time--

736
01:18:03,250 --> 01:18:04,250
I cannot believe-- one

737
01:18:04,250 --> 01:18:05,000
of my favorite cakes.

738
01:18:05,375 --> 01:18:06,750
OK, everybody-- favorite cakes.

739
01:18:07,458 --> 01:18:07,875
Favorite cakes.

740
01:18:08,125 --> 01:18:08,666
Favorite cakes.

741
01:18:10,041 --> 01:18:10,833
Chocolate lava cake

742
01:18:10,833 --> 01:18:12,083
probably takes it for me.

743
01:18:12,208 --> 01:18:13,958
But I don't know if you've ever made a

744
01:18:13,958 --> 01:18:16,000
chocolate lava cake.

745
01:18:16,000 --> 01:18:16,708
No, I have not made a

746
01:18:16,708 --> 01:18:17,416
chocolate lava cake.

747
01:18:17,416 --> 01:18:18,541
I'd have moist cake.

748
01:18:18,875 --> 01:18:19,333
It's so good.

749
01:18:19,708 --> 01:18:20,833
But last weekend,

750
01:18:21,500 --> 01:18:22,625
Megan, for the first time,

751
01:18:22,625 --> 01:18:24,041
which surprised the heck out of me,

752
01:18:24,041 --> 01:18:25,125
because one of my favorites--

753
01:18:25,833 --> 01:18:26,500
it's my top two.

754
01:18:26,791 --> 01:18:27,583
Probably was my top

755
01:18:27,583 --> 01:18:28,416
one when I was a kid--

756
01:18:29,541 --> 01:18:31,083
is angel food cake.

757
01:18:31,541 --> 01:18:33,041
It's my grandfather's favorite cake too.

758
01:18:34,041 --> 01:18:35,291
And our kids hadn't

759
01:18:35,291 --> 01:18:36,500
had it until last week.

760
01:18:36,791 --> 01:18:38,083
I had not made angel

761
01:18:38,083 --> 01:18:39,666
food cake in 15 years.

762
01:18:40,625 --> 01:18:41,041
15.

763
01:18:41,250 --> 01:18:42,416
I'm an angel food cake man.

764
01:18:42,416 --> 01:18:43,166
I used to make it when

765
01:18:43,166 --> 01:18:44,250
it was just you and I.

766
01:18:44,958 --> 01:18:47,500
So you've had angel food cake with me.

767
01:18:47,500 --> 01:18:47,666
Right.

768
01:18:47,666 --> 01:18:48,166
What are you even doing?

769
01:18:48,625 --> 01:18:49,583
I don't know.

770
01:18:50,500 --> 01:18:51,166
Birth and babies

771
01:18:51,166 --> 01:18:52,958
working, going to soccer games,

772
01:18:53,375 --> 01:18:54,083
the regular stuff.

773
01:18:54,083 --> 01:18:55,041
Angel food cakes, I guess.

774
01:18:55,041 --> 01:18:56,625
Clearly not making angel food cake.

775
01:18:56,958 --> 01:18:57,583
Angel food cake did not

776
01:18:57,583 --> 01:18:58,458
make it to the top of the list.

777
01:18:58,458 --> 01:18:59,666
I made lots of other kinds of cakes.

778
01:18:59,916 --> 01:19:00,500
We had it.

779
01:19:00,500 --> 01:19:01,458
You did the sugar--

780
01:19:02,000 --> 01:19:02,583
whatever those are

781
01:19:02,583 --> 01:19:03,708
called-- but the strawberries.

782
01:19:04,041 --> 01:19:05,000
Yeah, to make the

783
01:19:05,000 --> 01:19:06,750
strawberry compote kind of a thing

784
01:19:06,750 --> 01:19:08,791
that gets poured over it.

785
01:19:09,208 --> 01:19:11,208
And the kids ate it up.

786
01:19:11,875 --> 01:19:13,625
It didn't even last 24 hours.

787
01:19:13,958 --> 01:19:14,708
No, it didn't.

788
01:19:14,708 --> 01:19:15,458
It was super good.

789
01:19:15,916 --> 01:19:16,666
And they're making another

790
01:19:16,666 --> 01:19:18,208
one right now for tonight.

791
01:19:18,208 --> 01:19:18,416
Yeah.

792
01:19:18,583 --> 01:19:20,666
So that's exciting.

793
01:19:21,208 --> 01:19:22,916
But that'll be our cake

794
01:19:22,916 --> 01:19:24,333
to celebrate 30 episodes.

795
01:19:24,583 --> 01:19:25,000
There we go.

796
01:19:25,458 --> 01:19:26,250
Yeah, it's a good one.

797
01:19:26,708 --> 01:19:27,416
Yeah, I don't know why.

798
01:19:27,916 --> 01:19:28,875
It's just a round number.

799
01:19:28,875 --> 01:19:30,500
That's why it stuck out to me, I guess.

800
01:19:31,125 --> 01:19:31,375
Yeah.

801
01:19:31,625 --> 01:19:32,000
Yeah.

802
01:19:32,000 --> 01:19:32,416
I'll bring it up

803
01:19:32,416 --> 01:19:33,166
again when we get to 100.

804
01:19:35,166 --> 01:19:35,750
I might need to do

805
01:19:35,750 --> 01:19:36,291
something a little fier.

806
01:19:36,625 --> 01:19:38,041
Actually, 52 will be a year.

807
01:19:38,041 --> 01:19:38,458
A year.

808
01:19:38,458 --> 01:19:38,708
So--

809
01:19:39,000 --> 01:19:39,500
I might need to do

810
01:19:39,500 --> 01:19:41,666
something fancier than an angel food

811
01:19:41,666 --> 01:19:42,250
cake or something.

812
01:19:42,583 --> 01:19:43,291
Might have to.

813
01:19:43,583 --> 01:19:44,041
Might have to.

814
01:19:44,250 --> 01:19:44,791
I don't know.

815
01:19:45,250 --> 01:19:47,000
You usually like an ice cream cake.

816
01:19:47,458 --> 01:19:47,791
I do.

817
01:19:48,000 --> 01:19:48,333
I do.

818
01:19:48,583 --> 01:19:50,250
So it's tough because in this family--

819
01:19:50,625 --> 01:19:52,000
and again, I don't know how the other

820
01:19:52,000 --> 01:19:53,208
families are out there,

821
01:19:53,208 --> 01:19:54,500
but everybody's different

822
01:19:54,500 --> 01:19:56,583
with their favorite desserts.

823
01:19:56,875 --> 01:19:58,583
You are a cake dessert person.

824
01:19:58,583 --> 01:19:59,583
I love cake.

825
01:19:59,916 --> 01:20:01,375
Your family's big into pies.

826
01:20:02,083 --> 01:20:02,875
You guys have lots of

827
01:20:02,875 --> 01:20:04,166
pies at Thanksgiving.

828
01:20:04,833 --> 01:20:06,500
And we did two growing up.

829
01:20:06,833 --> 01:20:07,541
I'm not a fan of pies.

830
01:20:08,333 --> 01:20:09,500
Yeah, you've never been.

831
01:20:09,500 --> 01:20:10,666
I'll take a spoon of a pie, but I don't

832
01:20:10,666 --> 01:20:12,000
want a whole slice of pie.

833
01:20:12,000 --> 01:20:13,041
I just don't like pie that much.

834
01:20:13,041 --> 01:20:13,958
It's not that fantastic.

835
01:20:14,500 --> 01:20:15,916
But you grow up with pies and cake.

836
01:20:16,250 --> 01:20:17,416
Cake is your favorite by far, right?

837
01:20:17,833 --> 01:20:18,375
Cake and cookies.

838
01:20:18,916 --> 01:20:19,750
Cake and cookies.

839
01:20:19,833 --> 01:20:20,166
Yeah.

840
01:20:20,166 --> 01:20:20,375
Yeah.

841
01:20:20,875 --> 01:20:21,166
Yeah.

842
01:20:21,416 --> 01:20:22,333
I don't know.

843
01:20:22,333 --> 01:20:23,291
Probably cake, maybe a

844
01:20:23,291 --> 01:20:24,125
little bit more than cookies.

845
01:20:24,458 --> 01:20:24,750
Top cookie?

846
01:20:29,291 --> 01:20:30,500
Oatmeal chocolate chip.

847
01:20:31,208 --> 01:20:32,000
Oh my god.

848
01:20:32,000 --> 01:20:32,541
I cannot believe you

849
01:20:32,541 --> 01:20:34,041
said oatmeal chocolate chip.

850
01:20:34,041 --> 01:20:34,250
Seriously?

851
01:20:35,375 --> 01:20:35,708
The only thing that

852
01:20:35,708 --> 01:20:36,291
could have made that worse

853
01:20:36,291 --> 01:20:37,250
is oatmeal raisin.

854
01:20:37,916 --> 01:20:39,000
Oh, I don't like oatmeal raisin.

855
01:20:39,000 --> 01:20:39,208
Yeah.

856
01:20:39,416 --> 01:20:40,125
I don't like raisins.

857
01:20:40,375 --> 01:20:41,583
That's an interesting answer.

858
01:20:42,500 --> 01:20:45,708
A good oatmeal chocolate chip cookie.

859
01:20:45,708 --> 01:20:46,333
Do you like oatmeal?

860
01:20:46,833 --> 01:20:47,833
I've never seen you eat oatmeal.

861
01:20:48,083 --> 01:20:49,291
I mean, yeah, I like oatmeal.

862
01:20:49,291 --> 01:20:49,958
You just like oatmeal

863
01:20:49,958 --> 01:20:51,750
in sugarized cookie form.

864
01:20:52,500 --> 01:20:54,708
Extra sugarized cookie form.

865
01:20:54,916 --> 01:20:55,833
Isn't that what you're--

866
01:20:55,833 --> 01:20:56,041
Yeah.

867
01:20:56,291 --> 01:20:57,416
No, I mean, I do like a

868
01:20:57,416 --> 01:20:58,458
good chocolate chip cookie.

869
01:20:59,500 --> 01:21:00,208
But I don't like it

870
01:21:00,208 --> 01:21:01,083
with semi-sweet chocolate.

871
01:21:01,083 --> 01:21:02,125
I like it with milk chocolate.

872
01:21:02,916 --> 01:21:03,208
Yeah.

873
01:21:03,833 --> 01:21:04,041
Yeah.

874
01:21:04,625 --> 01:21:05,125
Milk chocolate.

875
01:21:08,250 --> 01:21:09,750
You just got me thinking, because there's

876
01:21:09,750 --> 01:21:11,375
different milk chocolate, I

877
01:21:11,375 --> 01:21:12,541
guess, semi-sweet, which--

878
01:21:13,791 --> 01:21:15,208
you know what I'd like to do?

879
01:21:15,375 --> 01:21:15,708
What?

880
01:21:15,708 --> 01:21:17,916
Because I have a taste test of--

881
01:21:17,916 --> 01:21:18,833
let's have different types

882
01:21:18,833 --> 01:21:19,708
of chocolate chip cookies.

883
01:21:20,416 --> 01:21:21,666
My favorite is double chocolate chip.

884
01:21:21,666 --> 01:21:23,458
So I like chocolate chocolate chip.

885
01:21:24,041 --> 01:21:24,250
Yeah.

886
01:21:24,958 --> 01:21:26,208
But I would like to know the difference.

887
01:21:26,208 --> 01:21:26,708
I'd like to be able to

888
01:21:26,708 --> 01:21:27,333
taste the difference,

889
01:21:27,333 --> 01:21:28,083
see if I could taste the

890
01:21:28,083 --> 01:21:28,625
difference between a milk

891
01:21:28,666 --> 01:21:30,041
chocolate, chocolate

892
01:21:30,041 --> 01:21:32,500
chip, whatever, semi-sweet.

893
01:21:32,500 --> 01:21:33,125
Is that what you called it?

894
01:21:33,125 --> 01:21:33,333
Yeah.

895
01:21:33,541 --> 01:21:35,541
Because I didn't really realize until now

896
01:21:35,541 --> 01:21:36,583
that there's a difference there.

897
01:21:37,041 --> 01:21:37,625
And dark chocolate.

898
01:21:38,666 --> 01:21:39,833
Because I just did a morning cereal.

899
01:21:39,833 --> 01:21:40,833
I'm not plugging-- I feel like I talked

900
01:21:40,833 --> 01:21:41,458
about morning cereal

901
01:21:41,458 --> 01:21:42,166
almost every episode.

902
01:21:42,166 --> 01:21:42,958
But I'm not plugging it.

903
01:21:42,958 --> 01:21:44,208
It's just things come up on that one.

904
01:21:44,666 --> 01:21:46,625
But it was National Chocolate Chip Day,

905
01:21:46,625 --> 01:21:47,916
like last week at some point in time.

906
01:21:47,916 --> 01:21:48,583
It was, yeah.

907
01:21:48,583 --> 01:21:49,083
We were talking about

908
01:21:49,083 --> 01:21:50,458
Obama's favorite chip.

909
01:21:51,166 --> 01:21:53,166
He liked dark chocolate in

910
01:21:53,166 --> 01:21:55,000
his chocolate chip cookies.

911
01:21:55,375 --> 01:21:55,750
Yeah.

912
01:21:55,750 --> 01:21:57,375
So anyways, I'd like to try that.

913
01:21:57,875 --> 01:21:58,666
Yeah, OK.

914
01:21:58,666 --> 01:21:59,375
At some point in time, just

915
01:21:59,375 --> 01:22:00,166
to see if I could taste it.

916
01:22:00,166 --> 01:22:00,791
Because maybe dark

917
01:22:00,791 --> 01:22:02,291
chocolate is the way to go for me.

918
01:22:02,291 --> 01:22:03,041
I just love it.

919
01:22:03,583 --> 01:22:03,958
Yeah.

920
01:22:03,958 --> 01:22:05,875
And then I will let you eat all of those

921
01:22:05,875 --> 01:22:06,250
cookies by yourself.

922
01:22:06,375 --> 01:22:06,791
I don't know.

923
01:22:06,791 --> 01:22:07,375
I have to do a

924
01:22:07,375 --> 01:22:08,625
separate batch and all that.

925
01:22:08,625 --> 01:22:09,166
It's OK.

926
01:22:09,166 --> 01:22:09,916
Then you'd get an entire

927
01:22:09,916 --> 01:22:11,416
batch of cookies all to yourself.

928
01:22:11,958 --> 01:22:13,250
Maybe fill a cookie jar with them.

929
01:22:13,958 --> 01:22:14,833
Yeah, obviously.

930
01:22:15,333 --> 01:22:15,708
I don't know.

931
01:22:16,000 --> 01:22:16,791
OK, so now that I'm

932
01:22:16,791 --> 01:22:17,500
thinking about cookies,

933
01:22:18,916 --> 01:22:20,583
my great-grandmother's

934
01:22:20,583 --> 01:22:23,000
recipe for sugar cookies, cutouts

935
01:22:23,000 --> 01:22:26,375
that we do at Christmas time, and then I

936
01:22:26,375 --> 01:22:28,625
do the cookie icing on them.

937
01:22:28,875 --> 01:22:29,125
Yeah.

938
01:22:30,333 --> 01:22:30,833
Those are really good.

939
01:22:31,791 --> 01:22:33,833
My grandmother and I sure yours did too.

940
01:22:34,708 --> 01:22:35,541
That's one thing I really

941
01:22:35,541 --> 01:22:36,625
remember about Christmas time

942
01:22:36,625 --> 01:22:37,875
when I was growing up is

943
01:22:37,875 --> 01:22:39,875
we'd go over to my mother's

944
01:22:39,958 --> 01:22:41,041
grandparents' house, or

945
01:22:41,041 --> 01:22:42,500
my mother's parents' house.

946
01:22:42,708 --> 01:22:42,916
Yeah.

947
01:22:43,083 --> 01:22:44,125
That's how the grandparents' house,

948
01:22:44,125 --> 01:22:44,583
because they lived in

949
01:22:44,583 --> 01:22:45,500
the same city as us.

950
01:22:46,208 --> 01:22:47,083
And all the aunts and uncles

951
01:22:47,083 --> 01:22:47,916
on that side were there too.

952
01:22:48,375 --> 01:22:49,166
And they would, like I said, they

953
01:22:49,166 --> 01:22:50,416
would bring lots of different pies,

954
01:22:50,416 --> 01:22:51,541
lots of different pies there.

955
01:22:52,166 --> 01:22:52,833
And I can't even remember

956
01:22:52,833 --> 01:22:53,958
what my favorite one was,

957
01:22:53,958 --> 01:22:55,041
but there was lots of different pies.

958
01:22:56,166 --> 01:22:57,125
And they would do pumpkin

959
01:22:57,125 --> 01:22:58,500
rolls and stuff like that.

960
01:22:58,500 --> 01:22:59,500
But there were so many desserts.

961
01:22:59,500 --> 01:23:00,583
But my grandmother would make--

962
01:23:01,125 --> 01:23:02,500
and maybe my aunts helped on it too.

963
01:23:02,500 --> 01:23:03,458
I'm not sure who made them all.

964
01:23:04,250 --> 01:23:06,541
But the best, like candies and cookies.

965
01:23:07,333 --> 01:23:08,750
Like they'd make homemade candies,

966
01:23:08,750 --> 01:23:09,750
like the hard candy

967
01:23:09,750 --> 01:23:10,666
that you used to make.

968
01:23:10,666 --> 01:23:11,000
Oh, wow.

969
01:23:12,041 --> 01:23:13,208
They'd make that toffee.

970
01:23:13,875 --> 01:23:15,708
They would make those cookies.

971
01:23:15,916 --> 01:23:16,375
I don't even know

972
01:23:16,375 --> 01:23:17,250
what the bottom of it is.

973
01:23:17,250 --> 01:23:18,166
But then you put a

974
01:23:18,166 --> 01:23:20,041
Hershey's Kiss on the top of them.

975
01:23:21,208 --> 01:23:23,875
I would eat around the Hershey's Kiss

976
01:23:23,875 --> 01:23:25,875
and then pop a little bit of cookie.

977
01:23:26,291 --> 01:23:26,500
100%.

978
01:23:26,583 --> 01:23:27,708
Is that how you're supposed to eat those?

979
01:23:28,375 --> 01:23:29,333
That's how I always ate them.

980
01:23:29,500 --> 01:23:30,083
Good to know.

981
01:23:30,083 --> 01:23:31,166
You don't eat them that way.

982
01:23:31,166 --> 01:23:32,041
I think you're eating them wrong.

983
01:23:33,125 --> 01:23:33,833
Granted, I don't think it

984
01:23:33,833 --> 01:23:34,666
comes with instructions.

985
01:23:34,916 --> 01:23:37,541
But yeah, my grandma always had those.

986
01:23:38,875 --> 01:23:41,666
So the snail cookie jar, which is

987
01:23:41,666 --> 01:23:43,541
infamous in my family.

988
01:23:45,166 --> 01:23:46,666
Never in all the

989
01:23:46,666 --> 01:23:48,416
years that she was alive,

990
01:23:48,708 --> 01:23:49,708
that we walked to the

991
01:23:49,708 --> 01:23:50,625
Earth at the same time,

992
01:23:51,041 --> 01:23:52,166
was that cookie jar not full.

993
01:23:52,500 --> 01:23:53,666
I've eaten from that cookie jar.

994
01:23:53,666 --> 01:23:54,416
Yes, you have.

995
01:23:54,416 --> 01:23:55,291
And it was--

996
01:23:55,291 --> 01:23:55,750
Many a cookie.

997
01:23:56,083 --> 01:23:57,000
Many, many.

998
01:23:57,375 --> 01:23:58,500
And it didn't have a bottom.

999
01:23:58,791 --> 01:24:00,416
It was like Santa's bag.

1000
01:24:01,333 --> 01:24:03,083
So somehow in the middle of the night,

1001
01:24:03,666 --> 01:24:04,625
the cookies could be gone.

1002
01:24:04,625 --> 01:24:05,166
We'd go to bed.

1003
01:24:05,166 --> 01:24:05,958
And then the next morning,

1004
01:24:05,958 --> 01:24:06,875
it's full of cookies again.

1005
01:24:07,875 --> 01:24:08,500
My grandma always had

1006
01:24:08,500 --> 01:24:09,416
extra cookies in the freezer.

1007
01:24:10,708 --> 01:24:11,375
Anyway, but yeah, we

1008
01:24:11,375 --> 01:24:12,958
had the peanut butter

1009
01:24:12,958 --> 01:24:13,958
kind with the chocolate chip.

1010
01:24:13,958 --> 01:24:14,708
Then she always made

1011
01:24:14,708 --> 01:24:16,000
the sugar cookies as well.

1012
01:24:16,000 --> 01:24:18,250
It was her mom's recipe.

1013
01:24:19,416 --> 01:24:20,125
And we've just passed it down.

1014
01:24:20,125 --> 01:24:20,958
That generation did

1015
01:24:20,958 --> 01:24:22,125
such a good job of just--

1016
01:24:22,458 --> 01:24:23,416
they made the best.

1017
01:24:23,416 --> 01:24:23,833
They baked.

1018
01:24:23,833 --> 01:24:25,166
They were such good bakers.

1019
01:24:25,166 --> 01:24:25,375
Yes.

1020
01:24:25,583 --> 01:24:25,791
Right?

1021
01:24:26,000 --> 01:24:26,208
Baking.

1022
01:24:26,583 --> 01:24:26,833
Yeah.

1023
01:24:27,375 --> 01:24:27,625
Yeah.

1024
01:24:29,375 --> 01:24:30,583
And what's cool is that

1025
01:24:30,583 --> 01:24:33,666
over the last two years now,

1026
01:24:34,500 --> 01:24:35,250
I've been able to teach

1027
01:24:35,250 --> 01:24:37,000
our daughter the recipe

1028
01:24:37,541 --> 01:24:40,000
that my great-grandmother had that's

1029
01:24:40,000 --> 01:24:41,125
been passed down through the generation.

1030
01:24:41,708 --> 01:24:44,541
So that, to me, is super special.

1031
01:24:45,041 --> 01:24:45,208
Yeah.

1032
01:24:45,208 --> 01:24:45,500
I wonder how much

1033
01:24:45,500 --> 01:24:46,416
different it is than my mom,

1034
01:24:46,416 --> 01:24:47,583
because my mom makes those things too.

1035
01:24:47,583 --> 01:24:48,666
We would ice those.

1036
01:24:49,125 --> 01:24:50,791
It's got to be a similar recipe, right?

1037
01:24:51,166 --> 01:24:51,375
Similar.

1038
01:24:52,500 --> 01:24:53,916
Do you have a secret ingredient?

1039
01:24:55,250 --> 01:24:55,750
I don't know.

1040
01:24:56,000 --> 01:24:56,750
Yeah, it's got to be similar.

1041
01:24:57,750 --> 01:24:59,833
On the other side of my other grandmother

1042
01:24:59,958 --> 01:25:01,166
made sugar cookies too,

1043
01:25:01,166 --> 01:25:02,041
but they did taste different.

1044
01:25:02,875 --> 01:25:03,666
Something was different.

1045
01:25:03,875 --> 01:25:04,458
I don't know if she

1046
01:25:04,458 --> 01:25:05,833
used nutmeg or something.

1047
01:25:05,833 --> 01:25:06,250
I can't remember.

1048
01:25:06,958 --> 01:25:09,500
But they do taste different.

1049
01:25:09,500 --> 01:25:11,000
Or if you buy them at a cookie store,

1050
01:25:11,208 --> 01:25:13,000
they taste different than the ones that--

1051
01:25:14,333 --> 01:25:15,833
Yeah, probably mayonnaise.

1052
01:25:15,833 --> 01:25:17,000
I know that one cooked with

1053
01:25:17,000 --> 01:25:18,625
a lot of mayo, a mayonnaise.

1054
01:25:19,916 --> 01:25:20,583
My other grandma did.

1055
01:25:21,166 --> 01:25:21,666
All the time.

1056
01:25:22,125 --> 01:25:22,875
That was a secret

1057
01:25:22,875 --> 01:25:24,583
ingredient in everything.

1058
01:25:27,250 --> 01:25:27,750
It's funny.

1059
01:25:28,250 --> 01:25:29,125
She was a great cook.

1060
01:25:29,583 --> 01:25:29,833
Yeah.

1061
01:25:30,916 --> 01:25:31,166
Anyway.

1062
01:25:32,333 --> 01:25:33,333
Well, where are we at?

1063
01:25:33,333 --> 01:25:34,166
What do we got going on?

1064
01:25:34,375 --> 01:25:35,541
I mean, we've just--

1065
01:25:36,333 --> 01:25:36,916
we've talked about

1066
01:25:36,916 --> 01:25:38,375
nothing for 27 minutes here.

1067
01:25:38,375 --> 01:25:38,750
I know.

1068
01:25:38,750 --> 01:25:39,166
We just talked about

1069
01:25:39,166 --> 01:25:39,916
our favorite cookies.

1070
01:25:40,500 --> 01:25:43,041
OK, so you had a fun week,

1071
01:25:43,041 --> 01:25:44,500
because you, for the first time,

1072
01:25:44,500 --> 01:25:45,750
you got to go golfing.

1073
01:25:45,750 --> 01:25:46,333
Oh my gosh.

1074
01:25:46,333 --> 01:25:46,750
Yeah, that was crazy.

1075
01:25:46,833 --> 01:25:47,916
Yeah, we can't forget this.

1076
01:25:48,208 --> 01:25:49,833
I think that was surprising.

1077
01:25:49,833 --> 01:25:50,291
I felt bad.

1078
01:25:50,291 --> 01:25:50,791
I put a little thing

1079
01:25:50,791 --> 01:25:52,000
up on Instagram for it.

1080
01:25:53,125 --> 01:25:55,000
But my oldest son and I went

1081
01:25:55,000 --> 01:25:56,250
golfing for the first time.

1082
01:25:56,500 --> 01:25:57,458
Now, he's been

1083
01:25:57,458 --> 01:25:59,208
showing some interest in it,

1084
01:26:00,041 --> 01:26:00,666
just kind of hitting in the

1085
01:26:00,666 --> 01:26:03,208
backyard with some soft golf

1086
01:26:03,291 --> 01:26:04,666
balls, but with my clubs.

1087
01:26:04,916 --> 01:26:05,833
And then we all went to--

1088
01:26:05,833 --> 01:26:07,500
I took all the kids to a driving range,

1089
01:26:07,500 --> 01:26:08,458
and they all hit off there.

1090
01:26:08,708 --> 01:26:10,125
Because they all like top golf.

1091
01:26:10,666 --> 01:26:11,833
That's kind of where it started, right?

1092
01:26:11,916 --> 01:26:12,166
Top golf.

1093
01:26:12,541 --> 01:26:13,500
What a great idea.

1094
01:26:14,250 --> 01:26:14,583
Top golf.

1095
01:26:14,791 --> 01:26:15,500
Then they wanted to go--

1096
01:26:15,916 --> 01:26:17,000
Yeah, yeah, exactly.

1097
01:26:17,291 --> 01:26:17,708
Then we went to the

1098
01:26:17,708 --> 01:26:18,875
driving range, which was fun.

1099
01:26:19,500 --> 01:26:22,375
But for, I think, the two younger ones,

1100
01:26:22,708 --> 01:26:24,458
I think that got old really quick,

1101
01:26:24,708 --> 01:26:25,416
if anybody's ever

1102
01:26:25,416 --> 01:26:26,958
been to a driving range.

1103
01:26:27,625 --> 01:26:29,250
That got really old really quick.

1104
01:26:29,708 --> 01:26:30,708
But they loved lunch

1105
01:26:30,708 --> 01:26:32,375
afterwards at the golf course.

1106
01:26:32,791 --> 01:26:33,833
Whatever lunch you

1107
01:26:33,833 --> 01:26:36,708
bought them afterward, I still

1108
01:26:36,708 --> 01:26:38,083
hear about how great that lunch is,

1109
01:26:38,083 --> 01:26:39,333
and that we need to go back there.

1110
01:26:39,333 --> 01:26:41,208
Well, that's the 19th hole

1111
01:26:41,208 --> 01:26:43,000
to some degree for youngsters.

1112
01:26:44,041 --> 01:26:45,291
And that's a great time.

1113
01:26:45,791 --> 01:26:46,916
Anyways, oldest wanted

1114
01:26:46,916 --> 01:26:48,083
to go play real golf,

1115
01:26:48,083 --> 01:26:48,916
and he has not been

1116
01:26:48,916 --> 01:26:50,333
on a golf course ever.

1117
01:26:51,083 --> 01:26:53,166
And the funny thing is, I

1118
01:26:53,166 --> 01:26:55,250
was never a good golfer.

1119
01:26:55,791 --> 01:26:57,708
I golfed a lot early in my career.

1120
01:26:58,583 --> 01:26:59,250
Bankers, I think,

1121
01:26:59,250 --> 01:27:00,458
used to golf quite a bit.

1122
01:27:00,750 --> 01:27:01,416
Oh, for sure.

1123
01:27:01,416 --> 01:27:02,041
I think professionals

1124
01:27:02,041 --> 01:27:03,208
used to golf quite a bit.

1125
01:27:03,791 --> 01:27:05,625
But in 24 years in

1126
01:27:05,625 --> 01:27:08,083
banking, that kind of subsided.

1127
01:27:08,666 --> 01:27:10,166
There wasn't enough time to golf anymore.

1128
01:27:11,125 --> 01:27:13,125
It was kind of a lost art, at

1129
01:27:13,125 --> 01:27:15,291
least in my sector of banking.

1130
01:27:15,583 --> 01:27:16,958
We didn't golf much anymore.

1131
01:27:16,958 --> 01:27:18,375
So I didn't get to golf much.

1132
01:27:18,375 --> 01:27:19,500
But while I was golfing,

1133
01:27:19,500 --> 01:27:20,166
when we were in Chicago,

1134
01:27:20,875 --> 01:27:22,041
I golfed at some of the

1135
01:27:22,041 --> 01:27:23,416
most incredible courses.

1136
01:27:24,041 --> 01:27:25,833
Michael Jordan was a

1137
01:27:25,833 --> 01:27:27,250
member at one or two of them.

1138
01:27:27,250 --> 01:27:30,416
I saw his locker in the locker room,

1139
01:27:30,416 --> 01:27:31,500
because it's memberships.

1140
01:27:32,791 --> 01:27:33,875
I played on a bunch of

1141
01:27:33,875 --> 01:27:36,250
PGA ones, Firestone and BMW,

1142
01:27:36,833 --> 01:27:39,666
and just some incredible Kohler--

1143
01:27:40,250 --> 01:27:43,791
some incredible golf courses up there.

1144
01:27:44,125 --> 01:27:44,875
But I was never good.

1145
01:27:44,875 --> 01:27:45,875
And I'll never forget-- and I've told

1146
01:27:45,875 --> 01:27:46,625
anybody who knows me,

1147
01:27:46,625 --> 01:27:47,416
knows this story.

1148
01:27:48,000 --> 01:27:49,041
But I'll never forget I

1149
01:27:49,041 --> 01:27:51,291
was golfing with a client.

1150
01:27:52,291 --> 01:27:52,625
And I don't even know

1151
01:27:52,625 --> 01:27:53,083
what they were talking about.

1152
01:27:53,083 --> 01:27:53,375
It might have been a

1153
01:27:53,375 --> 01:27:54,166
prospect at the time.

1154
01:27:54,500 --> 01:27:57,583
But it was a championship course.

1155
01:27:57,916 --> 01:27:59,750
And it was eating me up.

1156
01:28:00,166 --> 01:28:02,333
It was a hard course.

1157
01:28:02,666 --> 01:28:03,750
And he was a good golfer.

1158
01:28:04,291 --> 01:28:06,125
And he put his arm around me.

1159
01:28:06,541 --> 01:28:07,416
And I was still young.

1160
01:28:07,416 --> 01:28:08,916
I was probably early 30s, right?

1161
01:28:08,916 --> 01:28:10,625
And he was like, Sean, if

1162
01:28:10,625 --> 01:28:11,333
you're going to be a banker,

1163
01:28:12,291 --> 01:28:13,125
you've got to learn to golf.

1164
01:28:14,875 --> 01:28:16,041
I was like, I'm not that bad at him.

1165
01:28:16,625 --> 01:28:17,416
Apparently I was.

1166
01:28:18,416 --> 01:28:18,541
Yeah.

1167
01:28:19,333 --> 01:28:22,333
So all this just to say, I've not--

1168
01:28:22,500 --> 01:28:24,625
I haven't golfed in eight years probably.

1169
01:28:25,250 --> 01:28:26,416
So I'm not a golfer.

1170
01:28:27,208 --> 01:28:28,083
I love the game.

1171
01:28:28,083 --> 01:28:28,791
It's a fun game.

1172
01:28:28,791 --> 01:28:29,583
You get outside.

1173
01:28:29,583 --> 01:28:30,708
The courses are beautiful.

1174
01:28:31,750 --> 01:28:33,333
There's some of the old gentlemen rules

1175
01:28:33,416 --> 01:28:34,625
to it that are just nice.

1176
01:28:34,625 --> 01:28:35,541
You dress up for it.

1177
01:28:35,541 --> 01:28:36,875
And then a drink at the

1178
01:28:36,875 --> 01:28:37,625
end or whatever it is.

1179
01:28:38,041 --> 01:28:38,583
It's fun.

1180
01:28:40,041 --> 01:28:42,833
It's an experience if you do it right.

1181
01:28:43,250 --> 01:28:44,208
With the right people,

1182
01:28:44,500 --> 01:28:45,500
it can be a great time.

1183
01:28:45,500 --> 01:28:46,500
But it's a huge time commitment.

1184
01:28:47,291 --> 01:28:48,333
And that's the reason

1185
01:28:48,333 --> 01:28:50,208
we haven't golfed, right?

1186
01:28:50,208 --> 01:28:51,375
Because you've golfed a couple of times.

1187
01:28:51,583 --> 01:28:52,125
I have.

1188
01:28:52,125 --> 01:28:53,125
It's fun.

1189
01:28:53,125 --> 01:28:54,083
You do it with your work

1190
01:28:54,083 --> 01:28:55,041
colleagues a couple of times.

1191
01:28:55,541 --> 01:28:55,750
Yeah.

1192
01:28:56,333 --> 01:28:57,583
That's more of a--

1193
01:28:58,083 --> 01:28:59,291
Have you golfed more than five times?

1194
01:28:59,750 --> 01:29:00,041
No.

1195
01:29:01,250 --> 01:29:01,500
I bet--

1196
01:29:01,875 --> 01:29:03,416
Like an actual 18 hole.

1197
01:29:03,666 --> 01:29:04,333
Yeah, no, no, no.

1198
01:29:04,333 --> 01:29:06,333
I've probably golfed four times.

1199
01:29:07,291 --> 01:29:08,083
Most five.

1200
01:29:08,416 --> 01:29:08,625
Yeah.

1201
01:29:10,375 --> 01:29:11,375
There was one time with my

1202
01:29:11,375 --> 01:29:13,208
family in the Finger Lakes.

1203
01:29:13,208 --> 01:29:13,916
I remember that one.

1204
01:29:14,208 --> 01:29:15,916
It was like almost your first time.

1205
01:29:15,916 --> 01:29:16,458
That was my first time.

1206
01:29:16,458 --> 01:29:17,000
It was your first time.

1207
01:29:17,000 --> 01:29:18,208
And you actually did pretty well.

1208
01:29:18,416 --> 01:29:20,208
Like it was-- it's fun.

1209
01:29:20,500 --> 01:29:22,541
It's just-- and then all of the charity--

1210
01:29:22,791 --> 01:29:23,625
I've done some charity

1211
01:29:23,625 --> 01:29:25,833
golf events through work.

1212
01:29:26,208 --> 01:29:27,208
And that's Best Ball,

1213
01:29:27,208 --> 01:29:29,041
which is more my style.

1214
01:29:29,458 --> 01:29:30,125
Because every now and

1215
01:29:30,125 --> 01:29:31,500
again, I'll hit a good one.

1216
01:29:32,000 --> 01:29:33,583
Like where you're like, oh, wow, OK.

1217
01:29:34,083 --> 01:29:35,083
But most of the time, it's--

1218
01:29:35,083 --> 01:29:36,041
Best Ball sounds like a lot of fun.

1219
01:29:36,041 --> 01:29:37,000
There's a lot of guys that--

1220
01:29:37,000 --> 01:29:37,833
I mean, some guys that--

1221
01:29:37,833 --> 01:29:39,000
I mean, most guys that play

1222
01:29:39,000 --> 01:29:40,125
golf take it very serious.

1223
01:29:40,583 --> 01:29:41,416
They've got handicaps

1224
01:29:41,416 --> 01:29:42,208
and all that kind of stuff.

1225
01:29:42,208 --> 01:29:43,541
And I'm not like that.

1226
01:29:43,541 --> 01:29:45,041
Best Ball sounds fantastic to

1227
01:29:45,041 --> 01:29:46,041
me because every now and then,

1228
01:29:46,083 --> 01:29:46,833
I'm going to hit a great shot.

1229
01:29:46,833 --> 01:29:48,000
Most of the time, I'm not probably.

1230
01:29:48,708 --> 01:29:49,791
So it's like, if you

1231
01:29:49,791 --> 01:29:50,750
seriously want to play--

1232
01:29:51,625 --> 01:29:53,083
ah, dang, I want to play, but I don't

1233
01:29:53,083 --> 01:29:53,875
want to play with you.

1234
01:29:53,875 --> 01:29:54,500
Right, right.

1235
01:29:54,708 --> 01:29:55,250
I'll tell you another

1236
01:29:55,250 --> 01:29:56,041
story about that in a minute.

1237
01:29:56,125 --> 01:29:57,000
But so anyways, our oldest

1238
01:29:57,000 --> 01:29:58,375
and I, we went to a par three

1239
01:29:58,791 --> 01:29:59,375
because that's the best

1240
01:29:59,375 --> 01:30:00,416
place to start, right?

1241
01:30:00,416 --> 01:30:01,333
It's all irons, which

1242
01:30:01,333 --> 01:30:02,666
are the easiest to hit.

1243
01:30:03,125 --> 01:30:04,208
You're not using your driver.

1244
01:30:04,958 --> 01:30:05,666
So we got out there.

1245
01:30:06,333 --> 01:30:09,291
And man, he hit it really well.

1246
01:30:10,125 --> 01:30:11,458
I was really, really

1247
01:30:11,458 --> 01:30:12,458
impressed with how well

1248
01:30:12,458 --> 01:30:13,500
he played it for his first time.

1249
01:30:14,041 --> 01:30:15,500
And halfway through,

1250
01:30:15,500 --> 01:30:16,125
we got a little pressed

1251
01:30:16,250 --> 01:30:17,166
because people in front of us

1252
01:30:17,166 --> 01:30:19,916
were super slow, which backed

1253
01:30:19,916 --> 01:30:21,833
people up behind-- which backed us up and

1254
01:30:21,833 --> 01:30:22,625
the people behind us

1255
01:30:22,666 --> 01:30:22,958
up.

1256
01:30:22,958 --> 01:30:24,083
And so then there was pressure.

1257
01:30:24,791 --> 01:30:26,000
And that, it's never fun

1258
01:30:26,000 --> 01:30:27,958
on any golf course, right?

1259
01:30:28,000 --> 01:30:29,583
Frankly, in any sport, in any--

1260
01:30:30,041 --> 01:30:30,958
no one wants to be

1261
01:30:30,958 --> 01:30:32,125
pressured by someone else to.

1262
01:30:32,125 --> 01:30:33,000
Well, not when you're learning.

1263
01:30:33,000 --> 01:30:33,708
And that's why you're on a

1264
01:30:33,708 --> 01:30:36,583
par three at literally 6.59

1265
01:30:36,708 --> 01:30:38,875
tee time on a Thursday morning.

1266
01:30:39,500 --> 01:30:41,541
So we were trying to miss the crowd,

1267
01:30:41,625 --> 01:30:42,500
if there was ever a crowd

1268
01:30:42,500 --> 01:30:43,666
to miss, on a par three.

1269
01:30:44,125 --> 01:30:44,833
Not a great course.

1270
01:30:45,958 --> 01:30:47,958
But I had a blast.

1271
01:30:47,958 --> 01:30:49,166
I think he had a blast.

1272
01:30:49,166 --> 01:30:50,833
It was a father-son

1273
01:30:50,833 --> 01:30:52,625
experience that I was really

1274
01:30:52,625 --> 01:30:53,416
trying to enjoy.

1275
01:30:53,416 --> 01:30:54,333
I took five pictures.

1276
01:30:54,333 --> 01:30:54,750
Not that I'm a

1277
01:30:54,750 --> 01:30:56,375
picture freak, but I really

1278
01:30:56,375 --> 01:30:56,958
was just trying to

1279
01:30:56,958 --> 01:30:58,333
soak it in and enjoy it.

1280
01:30:58,666 --> 01:30:59,666
And I think he enjoyed it.

1281
01:30:59,666 --> 01:31:00,958
And I was really, like I said, impressed.

1282
01:31:00,958 --> 01:31:01,791
He's got a nice swing.

1283
01:31:02,500 --> 01:31:03,250
I just wish we had more

1284
01:31:03,250 --> 01:31:05,791
time for it because the chaos

1285
01:31:05,875 --> 01:31:08,125
train that we talk about, there's not

1286
01:31:08,125 --> 01:31:09,000
five hours anywhere.

1287
01:31:09,583 --> 01:31:09,791
No.

1288
01:31:10,333 --> 01:31:11,083
There's not even 2 and

1289
01:31:11,083 --> 01:31:12,083
1,5 hours to play at nine.

1290
01:31:12,500 --> 01:31:12,666
No.

1291
01:31:13,041 --> 01:31:13,916
I mean, you get 30

1292
01:31:13,916 --> 01:31:15,541
minutes max here and there.

1293
01:31:16,000 --> 01:31:17,500
You might be able to cobble together

1294
01:31:17,500 --> 01:31:20,041
2 and 1,5 hours of free time in a week.

1295
01:31:20,541 --> 01:31:20,750
Yeah.

1296
01:31:21,250 --> 01:31:21,625
But--

1297
01:31:21,791 --> 01:31:22,000
Yeah.

1298
01:31:23,750 --> 01:31:24,583
In succession?

1299
01:31:25,000 --> 01:31:25,500
Like, no.

1300
01:31:25,500 --> 01:31:27,000
But that's what I hope we all can do.

1301
01:31:27,000 --> 01:31:27,791
I hope our whole family

1302
01:31:27,791 --> 01:31:28,583
can learn how to do it,

1303
01:31:28,583 --> 01:31:30,750
because that's a great fun family event.

1304
01:31:30,750 --> 01:31:31,333
It is.

1305
01:31:31,333 --> 01:31:31,583
You know what I mean?

1306
01:31:31,583 --> 01:31:32,541
Just to get everybody out

1307
01:31:32,541 --> 01:31:33,625
there, if you can take the time.

1308
01:31:34,041 --> 01:31:36,291
I know my mom and her siblings and her

1309
01:31:36,291 --> 01:31:37,750
mom still gets out there.

1310
01:31:37,750 --> 01:31:38,000
Yeah.

1311
01:31:39,166 --> 01:31:39,750
They still golf.

1312
01:31:40,166 --> 01:31:42,000
They play the best ball.

1313
01:31:42,333 --> 01:31:42,500
Yeah.

1314
01:31:42,791 --> 01:31:43,291
So it's fun.

1315
01:31:43,291 --> 01:31:43,833
But I mean, they're

1316
01:31:43,833 --> 01:31:44,958
just out there having fun,

1317
01:31:45,958 --> 01:31:46,625
getting in trouble.

1318
01:31:48,541 --> 01:31:50,125
Some of actually my happy--

1319
01:31:50,916 --> 01:31:53,750
again, I've only golfed max five times.

1320
01:31:53,750 --> 01:31:55,208
I really think it's four.

1321
01:31:55,208 --> 01:31:58,041
But I would drive the car for you

1322
01:31:58,291 --> 01:31:59,666
when we lived in Las Vegas.

1323
01:32:00,666 --> 01:32:03,708
And your grandparents would come to a

1324
01:32:03,708 --> 01:32:04,875
little town north of Las

1325
01:32:05,000 --> 01:32:05,375
Vegas.

1326
01:32:05,833 --> 01:32:06,333
There was a golf--

1327
01:32:06,708 --> 01:32:06,958
Mesquite.

1328
01:32:07,458 --> 01:32:08,625
Maybe it's not a little town.

1329
01:32:08,625 --> 01:32:09,166
I don't know.

1330
01:32:09,208 --> 01:32:09,791
I think it's little.

1331
01:32:10,500 --> 01:32:11,041
It used to be.

1332
01:32:11,041 --> 01:32:12,250
You know, but they used to golf there.

1333
01:32:12,541 --> 01:32:14,750
And so we would drive up to Mesquite.

1334
01:32:14,750 --> 01:32:15,625
And you would play.

1335
01:32:15,625 --> 01:32:16,833
And I'd drive the cart.

1336
01:32:18,625 --> 01:32:20,166
And that was so much fun.

1337
01:32:20,166 --> 01:32:20,500
I played with my

1338
01:32:20,500 --> 01:32:21,916
grandfather and my grandmother.

1339
01:32:22,208 --> 01:32:23,333
My grandfather was still alive.

1340
01:32:23,708 --> 01:32:25,083
And that was some of my

1341
01:32:25,083 --> 01:32:26,000
most precious moments.

1342
01:32:27,583 --> 01:32:28,375
For those of you who

1343
01:32:28,375 --> 01:32:29,000
don't know, my grandfather

1344
01:32:29,000 --> 01:32:30,541
was a Baptist preacher.

1345
01:32:32,791 --> 01:32:36,416
And the only time we always joked,

1346
01:32:36,416 --> 01:32:37,041
the only time we ever heard

1347
01:32:37,041 --> 01:32:38,416
him talk was behind the pulpit.

1348
01:32:38,833 --> 01:32:39,916
He was very quiet.

1349
01:32:39,916 --> 01:32:40,375
Very quiet.

1350
01:32:42,208 --> 01:32:45,333
But he was a soul, just

1351
01:32:45,333 --> 01:32:47,375
someone I just really, really

1352
01:32:47,375 --> 01:32:48,083
looked up to.

1353
01:32:48,083 --> 01:32:49,375
He was a kind soul.

1354
01:32:49,625 --> 01:32:50,041
He was--

1355
01:32:50,041 --> 01:32:51,166
Who's a gentle soul?

1356
01:32:51,166 --> 01:32:51,833
Just gentle.

1357
01:32:52,083 --> 01:32:53,166
He was a gentle giant.

1358
01:32:53,166 --> 01:32:54,333
I mean, the guy had a chest

1359
01:32:54,333 --> 01:32:55,875
that was just barrel chested.

1360
01:32:55,875 --> 01:32:56,458
He was in the Navy.

1361
01:32:56,666 --> 01:32:57,375
He flew a plane.

1362
01:32:57,833 --> 01:32:59,166
He had a private plane for a while.

1363
01:32:59,458 --> 01:33:00,541
He still-- you know, that was

1364
01:33:00,541 --> 01:33:02,000
the plane I was in a crash in.

1365
01:33:02,375 --> 01:33:03,875
He crash landed it successfully.

1366
01:33:04,166 --> 01:33:05,375
That was my grandfather.

1367
01:33:06,541 --> 01:33:08,791
But growing up, I never

1368
01:33:08,791 --> 01:33:10,000
talked to him, really,

1369
01:33:10,666 --> 01:33:11,458
because he was always--

1370
01:33:12,291 --> 01:33:13,916
because his sons were there, and they

1371
01:33:13,916 --> 01:33:14,583
were running the church.

1372
01:33:14,583 --> 01:33:15,875
And it was a Christian school, too.

1373
01:33:15,875 --> 01:33:16,500
And he was busy doing

1374
01:33:16,500 --> 01:33:17,791
that or getting ready for us.

1375
01:33:18,208 --> 01:33:19,375
So he and I never had a lot of time.

1376
01:33:19,375 --> 01:33:21,916
But when we got older, you and I, that

1377
01:33:21,916 --> 01:33:23,041
was one-on-one time.

1378
01:33:23,375 --> 01:33:24,291
Just you, me, my

1379
01:33:24,291 --> 01:33:25,375
grandfather, my grandmother,

1380
01:33:25,375 --> 01:33:26,416
we would go to the buffet.

1381
01:33:26,750 --> 01:33:28,416
They loved the buffet up there.

1382
01:33:29,458 --> 01:33:31,458
And they would just tell us stories

1383
01:33:32,000 --> 01:33:32,708
about when they were

1384
01:33:32,708 --> 01:33:34,250
younger and this and that.

1385
01:33:35,125 --> 01:33:36,791
I hate that I have a terrible memory,

1386
01:33:36,791 --> 01:33:37,541
because, again, you should

1387
01:33:37,541 --> 01:33:38,541
write those things down for me

1388
01:33:38,541 --> 01:33:39,875
or read together for Cordo somehow.

1389
01:33:40,250 --> 01:33:41,958
But those were incredible times just

1390
01:33:41,958 --> 01:33:43,083
to hear my grandfather talk, because he

1391
01:33:43,083 --> 01:33:44,708
never spoke like that.

1392
01:33:45,000 --> 01:33:45,583
And it wasn't like

1393
01:33:45,583 --> 01:33:46,583
his kids weren't around,

1394
01:33:46,583 --> 01:33:48,375
because that family was always together.

1395
01:33:48,708 --> 01:33:49,000
Always.

1396
01:33:49,583 --> 01:33:51,125
So us to have that one-on-one time was

1397
01:33:51,125 --> 01:33:53,791
just so rare and very,

1398
01:33:54,000 --> 01:33:54,625
very special.

1399
01:33:55,708 --> 01:33:56,375
I remember sitting

1400
01:33:56,375 --> 01:33:58,166
there, whether it was after

1401
01:33:58,375 --> 01:34:00,541
or even in the morning, there were a

1402
01:34:00,541 --> 01:34:01,208
couple of breakfasts

1403
01:34:01,208 --> 01:34:01,791
that we had.

1404
01:34:02,708 --> 01:34:04,166
And just sitting there drinking coffee,

1405
01:34:04,291 --> 01:34:04,958
listening to their

1406
01:34:04,958 --> 01:34:06,958
stories, it was fantastic.

1407
01:34:07,875 --> 01:34:08,875
I'm sure I annoyed him with

1408
01:34:08,875 --> 01:34:10,250
how bad I was at golf, though.

1409
01:34:11,250 --> 01:34:13,708
To give everybody perspective, par 72,

1410
01:34:15,583 --> 01:34:18,500
my goal is hit a 5 on every hole,

1411
01:34:19,333 --> 01:34:20,458
whether it's a par 3 or par 5.

1412
01:34:20,750 --> 01:34:22,041
My goal is to average 5.

1413
01:34:22,291 --> 01:34:23,958
So that gives you an idea where I'm at.

1414
01:34:23,958 --> 01:34:26,083
If I'm hitting a 90 or a 95, I'm happy.

1415
01:34:26,083 --> 01:34:26,625
That's good.

1416
01:34:26,625 --> 01:34:26,875
I'm good.

1417
01:34:27,041 --> 01:34:28,791
So if you want to invite me out, which I

1418
01:34:28,791 --> 01:34:29,375
know a couple people

1419
01:34:29,500 --> 01:34:31,666
have, we have a friend

1420
01:34:31,666 --> 01:34:33,958
that's on our youngest soccer

1421
01:34:34,083 --> 01:34:35,041
team, he invited me to go

1422
01:34:35,041 --> 01:34:36,791
golfing a couple of months

1423
01:34:36,833 --> 01:34:37,125
ago.

1424
01:34:37,125 --> 01:34:38,208
And we never got a chance to do it

1425
01:34:38,208 --> 01:34:39,291
because you're knee.

1426
01:34:39,666 --> 01:34:41,083
So I had to drive you to PT.

1427
01:34:41,416 --> 01:34:42,041
There's a lot of

1428
01:34:42,041 --> 01:34:43,166
extenuating circumstances.

1429
01:34:43,416 --> 01:34:44,291
We just couldn't make it happen.

1430
01:34:45,000 --> 01:34:45,791
But it was one of those

1431
01:34:45,791 --> 01:34:46,583
things where I was like,

1432
01:34:47,166 --> 01:34:48,750
I really want to because it'd

1433
01:34:48,750 --> 01:34:50,000
be great to spend time with you

1434
01:34:50,000 --> 01:34:50,833
and hang out and do all that.

1435
01:34:50,833 --> 01:34:51,500
But I don't want to

1436
01:34:51,500 --> 01:34:52,916
make people upset with me

1437
01:34:52,916 --> 01:34:53,500
when I'm not a good

1438
01:34:53,500 --> 01:34:54,583
golfer because somebody else,

1439
01:34:55,000 --> 01:34:56,666
when I put that reel up,

1440
01:34:57,166 --> 01:34:58,708
someone else has reached out to me

1441
01:34:59,416 --> 01:35:00,666
on Instagram and was like, hey, Sean,

1442
01:35:00,666 --> 01:35:01,875
I didn't know you were a golfer.

1443
01:35:01,875 --> 01:35:02,416
Like, wow.

1444
01:35:02,916 --> 01:35:03,333
I do.

1445
01:35:03,333 --> 01:35:03,916
I like to golf.

1446
01:35:03,958 --> 01:35:04,500
I love to golf.

1447
01:35:04,500 --> 01:35:05,333
And I would love to go golf.

1448
01:35:05,916 --> 01:35:07,291
I'll go golf with anybody, but just know

1449
01:35:07,291 --> 01:35:08,041
I'm not going to be great.

1450
01:35:08,875 --> 01:35:09,916
He's asking for people

1451
01:35:09,916 --> 01:35:11,041
to invite him to golf.

1452
01:35:11,333 --> 01:35:12,166
Is that what I'm doing?

1453
01:35:12,875 --> 01:35:13,583
I don't think so.

1454
01:35:13,583 --> 01:35:14,291
I just thought it'd be funny.

1455
01:35:14,291 --> 01:35:15,625
I got a lot of extra time on my hands.

1456
01:35:15,958 --> 01:35:16,583
Let's do some--

1457
01:35:16,750 --> 01:35:16,958
Yeah.

1458
01:35:16,958 --> 01:35:17,500
Get back out there.

1459
01:35:17,500 --> 01:35:18,166
You have a ton of

1460
01:35:18,166 --> 01:35:19,208
extra time on your hands.

1461
01:35:20,333 --> 01:35:20,875
Like, really?

1462
01:35:22,750 --> 01:35:23,166
That's funny.

1463
01:35:23,750 --> 01:35:25,041
It is fun.

1464
01:35:25,333 --> 01:35:26,166
Like, it's just a good--

1465
01:35:27,416 --> 01:35:28,708
it's good to spend time.

1466
01:35:28,708 --> 01:35:29,791
It's something you can do as you get

1467
01:35:29,791 --> 01:35:31,666
older because it's less

1468
01:35:31,666 --> 01:35:32,125
strenuous than you want.

1469
01:35:32,125 --> 01:35:33,208
But with the right people, it's fun.

1470
01:35:33,750 --> 01:35:34,541
Because I've been in

1471
01:35:34,541 --> 01:35:35,750
groups that wasn't fun at all.

1472
01:35:36,000 --> 01:35:36,875
I'm like, I don't want to be here.

1473
01:35:38,083 --> 01:35:38,791
This is not fun.

1474
01:35:39,875 --> 01:35:41,541
But with the right people, it's a blast.

1475
01:35:41,875 --> 01:35:44,500
And with your own core family like that,

1476
01:35:44,500 --> 01:35:46,375
like, as we can grow older and they get

1477
01:35:46,375 --> 01:35:47,791
their spouses and whatnot

1478
01:35:47,791 --> 01:35:49,291
to make that at outings and do that, I

1479
01:35:49,291 --> 01:35:50,375
think that would be so much fun.

1480
01:35:50,375 --> 01:35:51,083
It would be fun.

1481
01:35:51,083 --> 01:35:52,041
To be able to do at some point.

1482
01:35:52,333 --> 01:35:54,250
But it's one of our to-do lists.

1483
01:35:54,500 --> 01:35:55,416
Put it on the to-do list.

1484
01:35:56,250 --> 01:35:57,958
That to-do list is growing longer.

1485
01:35:57,958 --> 01:35:58,875
After learning Spanish,

1486
01:35:59,375 --> 01:36:00,125
learning to play piano.

1487
01:36:00,750 --> 01:36:01,083
Yeah.

1488
01:36:01,208 --> 01:36:02,125
A little more time with golf.

1489
01:36:02,791 --> 01:36:03,541
Get it on there.

1490
01:36:03,875 --> 01:36:04,041
Yeah.

1491
01:36:04,041 --> 01:36:04,791
Uh-huh.

1492
01:36:05,708 --> 01:36:06,916
I got to learn how to drive a yot.

1493
01:36:07,541 --> 01:36:07,833
Yeah.

1494
01:36:08,500 --> 01:36:09,958
That actually should beat

1495
01:36:09,958 --> 01:36:11,291
some of the others in priority

1496
01:36:11,500 --> 01:36:12,458
because if we're

1497
01:36:12,458 --> 01:36:13,791
going to retire to a yot--

1498
01:36:14,375 --> 01:36:14,708
That's right.

1499
01:36:15,166 --> 01:36:15,458
That's right.

1500
01:36:16,125 --> 01:36:18,500
Which in my mind, I've totally designated

1501
01:36:18,666 --> 01:36:20,083
a yot as different than a yacht.

1502
01:36:20,333 --> 01:36:21,375
Yeah, that's right.

1503
01:36:21,375 --> 01:36:21,666
You know?

1504
01:36:22,125 --> 01:36:23,333
Whether that's how it was meant.

1505
01:36:23,333 --> 01:36:25,375
A yot is a small yacht, right?

1506
01:36:25,541 --> 01:36:26,583
Cross between a yacht and a boat.

1507
01:36:26,875 --> 01:36:27,125
Yeah.

1508
01:36:27,750 --> 01:36:28,541
Even though that's not--

1509
01:36:28,541 --> 01:36:29,416
Well, it's less uppity, too.

1510
01:36:31,208 --> 01:36:31,958
Except no one's going to

1511
01:36:31,958 --> 01:36:32,666
know what we're saying.

1512
01:36:33,291 --> 01:36:33,583
That's OK.

1513
01:36:34,916 --> 01:36:36,083
We just got the yot.

1514
01:36:36,083 --> 01:36:37,125
We're going to hang out on the yot.

1515
01:36:37,333 --> 01:36:38,291
We're going to hang out on the yot.

1516
01:36:38,625 --> 01:36:39,208
They're saying "boat"?

1517
01:36:39,625 --> 01:36:40,291
I don't know what to say.

1518
01:36:40,583 --> 01:36:41,708
Is it "boat" or what?

1519
01:36:42,875 --> 01:36:43,250
It's all right.

1520
01:36:44,291 --> 01:36:44,500
Yot.

1521
01:36:44,958 --> 01:36:46,583
I remember most of the tour guides

1522
01:36:46,583 --> 01:36:47,666
that we had and their names.

1523
01:36:48,458 --> 01:36:49,291
That one I--

1524
01:36:49,291 --> 01:36:50,041
It might have been Billy.

1525
01:36:50,375 --> 01:36:50,583
Yeah.

1526
01:36:51,041 --> 01:36:52,125
We still talk about Giannis.

1527
01:36:52,750 --> 01:36:53,000
Yeah.

1528
01:36:53,291 --> 01:36:54,583
Actually passed his name along to

1529
01:36:54,583 --> 01:36:55,333
somebody else that was going.

1530
01:36:56,958 --> 01:36:57,291
I love it.

1531
01:36:57,291 --> 01:36:58,000
I hope he got the business.

1532
01:36:58,166 --> 01:36:58,708
I hope he did, too.

1533
01:36:58,708 --> 01:36:59,583
He never texted me.

1534
01:36:59,583 --> 01:37:00,416
I should have told him.

1535
01:37:00,833 --> 01:37:01,875
I should have texted him back.

1536
01:37:02,458 --> 01:37:04,041
Did we ever get the recipe for Milk Pie?

1537
01:37:05,291 --> 01:37:05,833
What's app?

1538
01:37:05,833 --> 01:37:07,625
He watched App Dust.

1539
01:37:07,625 --> 01:37:08,500
All that stuff he would.

1540
01:37:08,500 --> 01:37:08,875
He said he would.

1541
01:37:08,875 --> 01:37:09,166
That's awesome.

1542
01:37:09,416 --> 01:37:10,666
I don't know what Milk Pie

1543
01:37:10,666 --> 01:37:14,166
is, but in Greece, apparently,

1544
01:37:14,166 --> 01:37:17,500
it's this thing that is really good?

1545
01:37:19,000 --> 01:37:19,500
[LAUGHTER]

1546
01:37:19,666 --> 01:37:20,166
I don't know.

1547
01:37:20,791 --> 01:37:21,000
Sold.

1548
01:37:22,541 --> 01:37:22,875
Sold.

1549
01:37:24,291 --> 01:37:25,833
Giannis made it sound amazing.

1550
01:37:26,666 --> 01:37:28,000
I mean, he didn't go into description,

1551
01:37:28,000 --> 01:37:29,166
but he's like, oh my gosh, my kids

1552
01:37:29,791 --> 01:37:30,875
devour this Milk Pie.

1553
01:37:31,666 --> 01:37:32,583
He didn't sell it to me.

1554
01:37:32,958 --> 01:37:34,125
I was like, Milk Pie?

1555
01:37:34,458 --> 01:37:35,750
He lost me at Milk Pie.

1556
01:37:36,875 --> 01:37:38,291
Nothing about that goes together for me.

1557
01:37:39,333 --> 01:37:41,333
Anyway, I have to look up that.

1558
01:37:41,333 --> 01:37:42,500
Well, school starts this week.

1559
01:37:42,833 --> 01:37:43,875
I know it will have

1560
01:37:43,875 --> 01:37:45,541
started two days, three days ago

1561
01:37:45,541 --> 01:37:46,916
when this comes out, but--

1562
01:37:47,333 --> 01:37:47,541
Yeah.

1563
01:37:48,083 --> 01:37:49,333
So hopefully we made it.

1564
01:37:49,833 --> 01:37:53,916
The drama around when

1565
01:37:53,916 --> 01:37:55,500
the schedules are released,

1566
01:37:56,541 --> 01:37:59,208
that is either, at least in our house,

1567
01:37:59,208 --> 01:38:00,083
either a day of

1568
01:38:00,083 --> 01:38:02,791
celebration or a day where it's just

1569
01:38:02,791 --> 01:38:04,125
like plain old crying

1570
01:38:04,125 --> 01:38:06,500
and everything is bad.

1571
01:38:07,041 --> 01:38:08,083
And we had a bit of a

1572
01:38:08,083 --> 01:38:09,666
mixture of both this year.

1573
01:38:10,458 --> 01:38:11,166
One child got the

1574
01:38:11,166 --> 01:38:12,333
schedule that she wanted.

1575
01:38:12,708 --> 01:38:14,333
One didn't.

1576
01:38:14,333 --> 01:38:16,166
And one's like, OK.

1577
01:38:19,625 --> 01:38:21,541
So I was like, I dealt with

1578
01:38:21,541 --> 01:38:22,583
quite a bit of drama that day.

1579
01:38:23,333 --> 01:38:24,250
Is that different than we--

1580
01:38:24,583 --> 01:38:25,541
because we did get--

1581
01:38:25,875 --> 01:38:27,166
is that different than when we grew up?

1582
01:38:27,166 --> 01:38:29,708
I don't remember if we got ours the first

1583
01:38:29,708 --> 01:38:31,333
day when we arrived.

1584
01:38:31,333 --> 01:38:32,791
I feel like we got ours the first day.

1585
01:38:32,791 --> 01:38:33,500
I feel like it is, too.

1586
01:38:33,500 --> 01:38:34,000
And then-- because I

1587
01:38:34,000 --> 01:38:35,291
remember going to every class,

1588
01:38:35,291 --> 01:38:36,125
being like, OK, where am I going?

1589
01:38:36,333 --> 01:38:37,750
And who's in this class?

1590
01:38:37,750 --> 01:38:38,041
Yes.

1591
01:38:38,541 --> 01:38:38,750
Yeah.

1592
01:38:38,875 --> 01:38:40,458
It wasn't-- because things

1593
01:38:40,458 --> 01:38:41,250
at times were different there.

1594
01:38:41,250 --> 01:38:43,583
We could have just beeped each other,

1595
01:38:43,583 --> 01:38:45,416
faxed each other our schedules.

1596
01:38:45,833 --> 01:38:47,791
But not everybody had--

1597
01:38:48,583 --> 01:38:49,166
you just didn't

1598
01:38:49,166 --> 01:38:50,500
communicate the same way you did now.

1599
01:38:50,500 --> 01:38:50,708
Right.

1600
01:38:51,000 --> 01:38:51,375
At that point here.

1601
01:38:51,375 --> 01:38:52,291
So I don't think we had

1602
01:38:52,291 --> 01:38:53,208
them till we got to school.

1603
01:38:53,291 --> 01:38:53,500
Yeah.

1604
01:38:53,750 --> 01:38:55,166
Or they mailed them to us

1605
01:38:55,166 --> 01:38:56,291
and we got it the day before.

1606
01:38:56,541 --> 01:38:57,250
I don't know.

1607
01:38:57,250 --> 01:38:58,166
I don't even remember.

1608
01:38:58,166 --> 01:38:59,166
I doubt they mailed them.

1609
01:38:59,583 --> 01:39:01,000
I don't remember how it was either.

1610
01:39:01,000 --> 01:39:01,833
But I do remember just being

1611
01:39:01,833 --> 01:39:02,750
excited the first day of school

1612
01:39:02,750 --> 01:39:03,583
just to see--

1613
01:39:03,583 --> 01:39:04,000
Just to see.

1614
01:39:04,458 --> 01:39:05,583
Who was in my classes.

1615
01:39:05,583 --> 01:39:05,833
Yeah.

1616
01:39:05,833 --> 01:39:07,041
Talked about that last week a little bit.

1617
01:39:07,041 --> 01:39:07,250
Yeah.

1618
01:39:07,625 --> 01:39:10,208
And now it's, mom, text this person.

1619
01:39:10,208 --> 01:39:12,666
Mom, who has this person, you know?

1620
01:39:12,708 --> 01:39:13,041
Yeah.

1621
01:39:13,041 --> 01:39:14,375
Now that the older two,

1622
01:39:14,375 --> 01:39:15,500
they text their own friends.

1623
01:39:15,500 --> 01:39:15,750
But oh my gosh.

1624
01:39:15,750 --> 01:39:16,666
It was just too much.

1625
01:39:16,916 --> 01:39:17,375
And I'm like--

1626
01:39:17,750 --> 01:39:18,291
It's too much.

1627
01:39:18,958 --> 01:39:19,750
Go back to the old way.

1628
01:39:20,250 --> 01:39:21,041
Again, that's another thing.

1629
01:39:21,041 --> 01:39:21,583
We're getting old.

1630
01:39:21,583 --> 01:39:22,791
I'm going back to the old ways.

1631
01:39:23,000 --> 01:39:23,875
I'm going back to the old way.

1632
01:39:24,500 --> 01:39:26,000
Yeah, because it's like, how do you--

1633
01:39:26,250 --> 01:39:28,375
they get really excited or

1634
01:39:28,375 --> 01:39:29,500
really upset about a teacher

1635
01:39:30,208 --> 01:39:30,875
that they got.

1636
01:39:31,250 --> 01:39:32,791
And it's like, you don't even know if

1637
01:39:32,791 --> 01:39:33,916
they're good or bad.

1638
01:39:34,250 --> 01:39:34,500
Yeah.

1639
01:39:34,500 --> 01:39:35,458
Or you heard they're bad.

1640
01:39:36,041 --> 01:39:39,125
So our youngest in fourth grade, I

1641
01:39:39,125 --> 01:39:41,291
will never forget being

1642
01:39:41,291 --> 01:39:42,541
at Dick's Sporting Goods,

1643
01:39:43,416 --> 01:39:44,916
shopping back to school shopping.

1644
01:39:45,458 --> 01:39:46,708
And I got the call.

1645
01:39:46,708 --> 01:39:48,125
And because our youngest was like,

1646
01:39:48,250 --> 01:39:50,208
I will be happy as long as

1647
01:39:50,208 --> 01:39:51,708
I don't get that teacher.

1648
01:39:53,083 --> 01:39:53,500
Get the call.

1649
01:39:53,500 --> 01:39:54,041
And I was like, well,

1650
01:39:54,041 --> 01:39:56,125
hi, that teacher's name.

1651
01:39:56,500 --> 01:39:58,583
And he started bawling in

1652
01:39:58,583 --> 01:40:01,041
the shoe section of Dick's

1653
01:40:01,041 --> 01:40:01,958
Sporting Goods.

1654
01:40:02,458 --> 01:40:03,458
I'm never going to school.

1655
01:40:03,500 --> 01:40:04,000
Turned out--

1656
01:40:04,375 --> 01:40:04,958
What was it?

1657
01:40:04,958 --> 01:40:05,416
Turned out.

1658
01:40:05,875 --> 01:40:06,250
Turned out.

1659
01:40:06,250 --> 01:40:07,458
It was his favorite teacher.

1660
01:40:07,458 --> 01:40:08,208
Yeah, right.

1661
01:40:08,708 --> 01:40:09,541
I remember that, though.

1662
01:40:09,541 --> 01:40:10,916
That was interesting.

1663
01:40:11,375 --> 01:40:11,916
We were still working on

1664
01:40:11,916 --> 01:40:13,416
emotions, managing emotions.

1665
01:40:13,666 --> 01:40:13,875
Yeah.

1666
01:40:14,500 --> 01:40:14,708
Yeah.

1667
01:40:14,875 --> 01:40:15,750
I had a similar-- he

1668
01:40:15,750 --> 01:40:16,666
had a similar reaction

1669
01:40:16,958 --> 01:40:18,458
to a teacher that he got this year.

1670
01:40:18,458 --> 01:40:18,875
I know.

1671
01:40:19,125 --> 01:40:19,375
I know.

1672
01:40:19,875 --> 01:40:21,208
Well, we're getting close on time here.

1673
01:40:21,208 --> 01:40:23,416
And I want to make sure

1674
01:40:23,416 --> 01:40:24,916
we don't leave this episode

1675
01:40:25,000 --> 01:40:26,375
without your big news.

1676
01:40:27,000 --> 01:40:28,708
You got an all clear?

1677
01:40:29,416 --> 01:40:30,791
I got the all clear.

1678
01:40:31,208 --> 01:40:33,666
I get to go ahead and live my life

1679
01:40:33,666 --> 01:40:35,083
according to my surgeon.

1680
01:40:35,625 --> 01:40:37,250
Except I can't play tackle football.

1681
01:40:38,500 --> 01:40:39,875
That's such a good one.

1682
01:40:40,666 --> 01:40:42,250
Except, unfortunately-- and

1683
01:40:42,250 --> 01:40:43,666
here's the bad part of it.

1684
01:40:43,666 --> 01:40:43,958
Just the bad part.

1685
01:40:44,583 --> 01:40:47,625
My tackle football days are behind me,

1686
01:40:48,458 --> 01:40:50,458
as though they were ever in front of me,

1687
01:40:50,708 --> 01:40:52,000
just for the record.

1688
01:40:52,000 --> 01:40:53,000
Or beside you.

1689
01:40:53,000 --> 01:40:53,833
Or beside me.

1690
01:40:53,833 --> 01:40:54,166
Or with you.

1691
01:40:54,500 --> 01:40:54,708
Yeah.

1692
01:40:54,791 --> 01:40:56,291
They were never even with me.

1693
01:40:56,291 --> 01:40:56,666
That's right.

1694
01:40:56,666 --> 01:40:57,458
But your surgeon, you

1695
01:40:57,458 --> 01:40:59,791
had your six months--

1696
01:40:59,791 --> 01:41:00,708
what has it been, six months?

1697
01:41:00,916 --> 01:41:02,083
Six months in surgery.

1698
01:41:02,083 --> 01:41:02,833
So it was six months in

1699
01:41:02,833 --> 01:41:04,125
surgery this last week.

1700
01:41:04,125 --> 01:41:05,583
And you got the all clear.

1701
01:41:05,583 --> 01:41:07,375
He was very happy with your progress.

1702
01:41:08,125 --> 01:41:08,916
I think he said that

1703
01:41:08,916 --> 01:41:09,958
he was very impressed.

1704
01:41:10,166 --> 01:41:10,375
Yeah.

1705
01:41:11,000 --> 01:41:11,333
Yeah.

1706
01:41:11,333 --> 01:41:12,750
And I felt really good about that.

1707
01:41:13,250 --> 01:41:13,708
That's right.

1708
01:41:15,333 --> 01:41:16,583
So yeah, this weekend, I

1709
01:41:16,583 --> 01:41:18,250
was jumping off the high thing

1710
01:41:18,250 --> 01:41:19,583
in our pool and everything.

1711
01:41:20,125 --> 01:41:20,791
Yeah, I was surprised.

1712
01:41:20,791 --> 01:41:21,791
You definitely took it to

1713
01:41:21,791 --> 01:41:23,000
heart because you got up

1714
01:41:23,000 --> 01:41:24,208
on the grotto in the pool

1715
01:41:24,208 --> 01:41:25,833
and you're jumping off of it.

1716
01:41:26,375 --> 01:41:27,166
You wanted to go down the

1717
01:41:27,166 --> 01:41:28,500
slide, but we didn't blow it up.

1718
01:41:28,500 --> 01:41:29,000
We didn't blow it up.

1719
01:41:29,000 --> 01:41:29,500
But that's OK.

1720
01:41:30,958 --> 01:41:31,375
That's good.

1721
01:41:32,041 --> 01:41:33,000
The more things that I

1722
01:41:33,000 --> 01:41:34,416
can do and jump into,

1723
01:41:35,500 --> 01:41:37,416
the more normal I'm going to feel.

1724
01:41:37,666 --> 01:41:38,791
And I just want to not

1725
01:41:38,791 --> 01:41:40,041
ever think about it again.

1726
01:41:40,041 --> 01:41:41,000
What a journey for you.

1727
01:41:41,375 --> 01:41:42,625
And a lot of it was just--

1728
01:41:44,000 --> 01:41:45,291
I mean, gosh, it's hard to

1729
01:41:45,291 --> 01:41:46,291
believe it's been that long

1730
01:41:46,500 --> 01:41:47,625
and that you've been through the process.

1731
01:41:48,708 --> 01:41:50,291
PT is dedication.

1732
01:41:50,916 --> 01:41:52,166
I don't know that

1733
01:41:52,166 --> 01:41:53,291
everybody does it that way,

1734
01:41:53,291 --> 01:41:54,833
but you're a rule follower.

1735
01:41:55,500 --> 01:41:57,291
And you never missed PT.

1736
01:41:57,666 --> 01:41:59,041
You never missed your PT at

1737
01:41:59,041 --> 01:42:00,541
home, your homework for PT.

1738
01:42:01,666 --> 01:42:04,166
And maybe this is just what happens when

1739
01:42:04,166 --> 01:42:05,125
you do it the right way.

1740
01:42:05,125 --> 01:42:07,375
But I mean, you're almost--

1741
01:42:07,833 --> 01:42:08,125
I mean, you're

1742
01:42:08,125 --> 01:42:10,500
basically 100% at this point.

1743
01:42:10,500 --> 01:42:11,583
And honestly, we haven't

1744
01:42:11,583 --> 01:42:12,500
really thought about it

1745
01:42:12,500 --> 01:42:13,666
for two or three

1746
01:42:13,666 --> 01:42:15,541
months, which is incredible.

1747
01:42:16,625 --> 01:42:17,041
I do.

1748
01:42:17,041 --> 01:42:18,083
I still feel it.

1749
01:42:18,083 --> 01:42:19,500
And I look forward to the

1750
01:42:19,500 --> 01:42:21,250
day that I don't feel it.

1751
01:42:22,583 --> 01:42:24,541
But PT, for me,

1752
01:42:24,541 --> 01:42:27,416
honestly, it was so mental.

1753
01:42:27,958 --> 01:42:29,666
It gave me confidence.

1754
01:42:30,625 --> 01:42:31,583
She's like, OK, today we're

1755
01:42:31,583 --> 01:42:33,208
going to work on bounding,

1756
01:42:33,208 --> 01:42:35,125
which I can bound.

1757
01:42:35,916 --> 01:42:38,666
And had I not gone to PT for six months,

1758
01:42:38,916 --> 01:42:39,458
I would have never

1759
01:42:39,458 --> 01:42:41,958
been like, can I do that?

1760
01:42:42,166 --> 01:42:42,791
Can I not?

1761
01:42:43,291 --> 01:42:45,416
Working on lateral movements.

1762
01:42:46,125 --> 01:42:48,500
And well, if my PT said I

1763
01:42:48,500 --> 01:42:50,333
could do it, then I can do it.

1764
01:42:50,333 --> 01:42:51,666
Yeah, you can snag a big

1765
01:42:51,666 --> 01:42:52,958
old rebound off the board,

1766
01:42:53,500 --> 01:42:55,083
like the round mound of rebound.

1767
01:42:55,625 --> 01:42:56,416
Heck yeah.

1768
01:42:56,416 --> 01:42:57,666
But he did a lot of bounding.

1769
01:42:58,333 --> 01:42:58,708
Anyways, that's why

1770
01:42:58,708 --> 01:42:59,625
every time you say bound,

1771
01:42:59,625 --> 01:43:00,750
I think of mound, which makes

1772
01:43:00,750 --> 01:43:01,750
me think of Charles Barkley,

1773
01:43:01,750 --> 01:43:03,166
the round mound of rebound.

1774
01:43:03,708 --> 01:43:04,708
Now I'm thinking about you

1775
01:43:04,708 --> 01:43:08,125
just snagging one-handed rebounds

1776
01:43:08,333 --> 01:43:09,291
off the backboard.

1777
01:43:09,291 --> 01:43:10,708
That was so Dr. Seuss of you.

1778
01:43:10,708 --> 01:43:11,541
That was great.

1779
01:43:12,583 --> 01:43:14,000
And I didn't stutter on it.

1780
01:43:14,416 --> 01:43:15,458
No, that was amazing.

1781
01:43:16,000 --> 01:43:16,500
Amazing, yeah.

1782
01:43:17,791 --> 01:43:18,250
So that's great.

1783
01:43:19,125 --> 01:43:19,333
Congratulations.

1784
01:43:19,375 --> 01:43:19,875
Good for you.

1785
01:43:20,083 --> 01:43:21,041
And I think even more

1786
01:43:21,041 --> 01:43:23,375
so to say that you've

1787
01:43:23,375 --> 01:43:24,125
moved past it

1788
01:43:24,125 --> 01:43:26,083
mentally, I mean, we brought up

1789
01:43:27,041 --> 01:43:28,125
the three-letter word--

1790
01:43:29,250 --> 01:43:29,916
maybe it's more of a

1791
01:43:29,916 --> 01:43:31,458
six-letter word-- in the pool today,

1792
01:43:31,541 --> 01:43:31,791
though.

1793
01:43:31,791 --> 01:43:32,083
Yeah.

1794
01:43:32,458 --> 01:43:32,666
Yeah.

1795
01:43:33,083 --> 01:43:33,333
And--

1796
01:43:33,750 --> 01:43:34,583
That word is?

1797
01:43:35,375 --> 01:43:35,541
Ski.

1798
01:43:36,833 --> 01:43:38,625
I plan to ski again.

1799
01:43:38,625 --> 01:43:39,000
Yeah.

1800
01:43:39,000 --> 01:43:39,791
I mean, mentally, you've

1801
01:43:39,791 --> 01:43:40,833
got your head wrapped around.

1802
01:43:40,833 --> 01:43:42,375
We're going to go skiing again this fall.

1803
01:43:43,250 --> 01:43:45,291
Which I'm not suggesting you

1804
01:43:45,291 --> 01:43:46,583
were ever scared to go back

1805
01:43:46,583 --> 01:43:47,375
on it, because it was kind

1806
01:43:47,375 --> 01:43:48,541
of a fluke that you did it.

1807
01:43:48,541 --> 01:43:49,916
But I mean, you're only six,

1808
01:43:50,208 --> 01:43:51,458
seven months out from that.

1809
01:43:52,333 --> 01:43:53,333
And there's a lot of

1810
01:43:53,333 --> 01:43:54,541
trauma and a lot of hard work

1811
01:43:54,541 --> 01:43:55,083
to get back to this

1812
01:43:55,083 --> 01:43:56,250
point to be immediately--

1813
01:43:57,083 --> 01:43:57,666
after getting the

1814
01:43:57,666 --> 01:43:58,625
green light-- to say, hey,

1815
01:43:59,250 --> 01:43:59,833
I think I'm ready to

1816
01:43:59,833 --> 01:44:00,541
get back on the slopes.

1817
01:44:00,750 --> 01:44:03,250
I think that speaks a lot

1818
01:44:03,250 --> 01:44:05,625
to your courage, your will

1819
01:44:05,750 --> 01:44:06,958
to get back out there, which is huge.

1820
01:44:07,500 --> 01:44:08,291
Well, and the desire

1821
01:44:08,291 --> 01:44:09,333
to be with my family.

1822
01:44:09,541 --> 01:44:11,458
I'm not going to stop my

1823
01:44:11,458 --> 01:44:12,958
family from doing something

1824
01:44:13,666 --> 01:44:15,333
that we have always said

1825
01:44:15,333 --> 01:44:17,000
we love to do together.

1826
01:44:18,208 --> 01:44:19,083
Because I'm scared.

1827
01:44:20,000 --> 01:44:20,708
If I'm being honest

1828
01:44:20,708 --> 01:44:21,750
with myself, I'm scared.

1829
01:44:22,375 --> 01:44:23,541
The second I am at the

1830
01:44:23,541 --> 01:44:26,958
top of that chair lift,

1831
01:44:27,750 --> 01:44:29,125
I'm going to be scared.

1832
01:44:29,125 --> 01:44:29,958
You get pushed a lot in

1833
01:44:29,958 --> 01:44:31,125
this family to do things

1834
01:44:31,125 --> 01:44:32,166
that you're scared of.

1835
01:44:32,166 --> 01:44:33,291
But I think that's good, because our kids

1836
01:44:33,291 --> 01:44:34,375
are a little bit more

1837
01:44:34,791 --> 01:44:37,083
tired of taking chances and being a

1838
01:44:37,083 --> 01:44:37,750
little more risk takers.

1839
01:44:38,000 --> 01:44:39,041
And we pull you along

1840
01:44:39,041 --> 01:44:39,750
with this, which is good.

1841
01:44:40,166 --> 01:44:41,833
But you know that you can

1842
01:44:41,833 --> 01:44:42,916
always do what you want to do.

1843
01:44:42,916 --> 01:44:43,791
Because this was your chance

1844
01:44:43,791 --> 01:44:46,958
to buy some big furry boots,

1845
01:44:47,625 --> 01:44:48,958
a lot of fur, and some

1846
01:44:48,958 --> 01:44:51,166
white, and sit in the lodge

1847
01:44:51,333 --> 01:44:52,708
and sip champagne.

1848
01:44:53,583 --> 01:44:55,541
Yes, that was-- which

1849
01:44:55,541 --> 01:44:56,750
might sound good some days.

1850
01:44:57,083 --> 01:44:57,791
But for the most part,

1851
01:44:58,541 --> 01:44:59,333
knowing what you would--

1852
01:44:59,583 --> 01:45:00,083
yeah, I don't--

1853
01:45:00,541 --> 01:45:01,458
a bit more per second.

1854
01:45:01,458 --> 01:45:02,125
But anyway, I'd be

1855
01:45:02,125 --> 01:45:03,541
missing out on so much.

1856
01:45:03,625 --> 01:45:04,583
And it's like, I'm

1857
01:45:04,583 --> 01:45:05,708
not willing to do that.

1858
01:45:06,875 --> 01:45:10,958
And I also have to say,

1859
01:45:10,958 --> 01:45:13,500
I skied for 40 years, 4-0

1860
01:45:13,583 --> 01:45:14,500
without ever getting hurt.

1861
01:45:15,875 --> 01:45:17,083
What's to say that I

1862
01:45:17,083 --> 01:45:18,250
can't ski for another 40

1863
01:45:18,375 --> 01:45:19,250
without ever getting hurt?

1864
01:45:19,666 --> 01:45:19,875
Yeah.

1865
01:45:20,041 --> 01:45:21,333
And we don't want to blame the binding.

1866
01:45:21,333 --> 01:45:22,791
But the binding never gave on you.

1867
01:45:22,791 --> 01:45:23,041
It didn't.

1868
01:45:23,041 --> 01:45:24,000
You didn't go down, because

1869
01:45:24,000 --> 01:45:25,625
the binding didn't give out.

1870
01:45:25,625 --> 01:45:26,041
It didn't give out.

1871
01:45:26,333 --> 01:45:27,291
There was a couple of extenuating

1872
01:45:27,291 --> 01:45:28,416
circumstances there.

1873
01:45:28,416 --> 01:45:29,375
And it was just kind of freak.

1874
01:45:29,916 --> 01:45:30,125
Yeah.

1875
01:45:30,791 --> 01:45:33,125
So anyway, it'll be--

1876
01:45:33,500 --> 01:45:34,708
but we might be back on the slopes.

1877
01:45:35,458 --> 01:45:36,500
We'll be back on the slopes.

1878
01:45:36,750 --> 01:45:37,041
Exciting.

1879
01:45:37,041 --> 01:45:38,791
The kids are super excited about that.

1880
01:45:38,791 --> 01:45:39,000
Yeah.

1881
01:45:39,291 --> 01:45:40,291
I know that for a fact.

1882
01:45:40,291 --> 01:45:40,500
Yeah.

1883
01:45:40,875 --> 01:45:42,166
So anyway--

1884
01:45:42,625 --> 01:45:43,958
All right, well, we should wrap this.

1885
01:45:44,416 --> 01:45:44,875
We should.

1886
01:45:45,166 --> 01:45:46,208
All right, should we--

1887
01:45:46,208 --> 01:45:47,125
should we think of our word?

1888
01:45:47,541 --> 01:45:48,708
We should think of our word.

1889
01:45:49,208 --> 01:45:50,000
And now this word, again, is

1890
01:45:50,000 --> 01:45:52,000
going to summarize this last

1891
01:45:52,000 --> 01:45:52,666
week, right?

1892
01:45:52,666 --> 01:45:53,208
This week, yes.

1893
01:45:56,958 --> 01:45:57,416
Look at that.

1894
01:45:57,416 --> 01:45:58,750
We both give that big sigh.

1895
01:45:58,750 --> 01:45:59,333
It's the sigh.

1896
01:45:59,708 --> 01:46:01,541
All right, I'm ready.

1897
01:46:01,958 --> 01:46:02,375
OK.

1898
01:46:03,000 --> 01:46:03,541
Ready, here we go.

1899
01:46:04,083 --> 01:46:05,500
One, two, three.

1900
01:46:06,083 --> 01:46:06,458
Logistics.

1901
01:46:08,333 --> 01:46:09,291
Let's just say bobsled.

1902
01:46:10,875 --> 01:46:11,541
It should have been a better word.

1903
01:46:11,833 --> 01:46:12,041
Yeah.

1904
01:46:12,625 --> 01:46:14,458
And I'll stay Constantinople next time.

1905
01:46:15,000 --> 01:46:17,500
Well, bobsled, because last week was--

1906
01:46:17,916 --> 01:46:19,250
you know when you watch bobsled, and you

1907
01:46:19,250 --> 01:46:20,166
got a three-man team,

1908
01:46:20,166 --> 01:46:20,875
and everybody's running.

1909
01:46:21,166 --> 01:46:21,916
Right now, we're running.

1910
01:46:22,291 --> 01:46:23,041
We're at the top.

1911
01:46:23,208 --> 01:46:24,000
We're running, running, running.

1912
01:46:24,583 --> 01:46:26,708
And this week, now that--

1913
01:46:27,208 --> 01:46:28,041
because we're running schools--

1914
01:46:28,500 --> 01:46:30,500
soccer's back in, track's back in,

1915
01:46:31,500 --> 01:46:33,000
we're going to add school back in.

1916
01:46:33,000 --> 01:46:34,125
Everything's going to get back in now.

1917
01:46:34,375 --> 01:46:34,625
Full schedule.

1918
01:46:34,791 --> 01:46:35,166
We're going to be--

1919
01:46:35,666 --> 01:46:37,208
all of us are in that bobsled.

1920
01:46:37,208 --> 01:46:37,958
We're in the bobsled.

1921
01:46:37,958 --> 01:46:39,875
And now we're going to be full, full of

1922
01:46:39,875 --> 01:46:40,750
steam down the hill.

1923
01:46:40,750 --> 01:46:41,000
Yeah.

1924
01:46:42,416 --> 01:46:42,750
I know.

1925
01:46:42,750 --> 01:46:43,375
Does that paint a picture?

1926
01:46:43,791 --> 01:46:44,250
It does.

1927
01:46:44,666 --> 01:46:44,875
Yeah.

1928
01:46:45,500 --> 01:46:45,916
It's making bobsled.

1929
01:46:45,916 --> 01:46:48,791
Even better than logistics and progress.

1930
01:46:49,291 --> 01:46:50,000
It's a great picture.

1931
01:46:50,375 --> 01:46:50,666
Yeah.

1932
01:46:50,666 --> 01:46:51,333
We're hopping in.

1933
01:46:51,708 --> 01:46:52,000
Hopping in.

1934
01:46:53,000 --> 01:46:53,250
All right.

1935
01:46:53,791 --> 01:46:54,125
All right.

1936
01:46:54,291 --> 01:46:55,250
Well, let's bound out.

1937
01:46:55,958 --> 01:46:56,500
That was bad.

1938
01:46:57,291 --> 01:46:58,000
Let's jump out.

1939
01:46:58,833 --> 01:46:59,791
I like the bound out.

1940
01:47:00,625 --> 01:47:01,791
We don't want to fall out.

1941
01:47:01,791 --> 01:47:02,208
Hop out.

1942
01:47:03,000 --> 01:47:03,750
We can hop out.

1943
01:47:04,083 --> 01:47:04,458
All right.

1944
01:47:05,250 --> 01:47:05,833
Let's just say goodbye.

1945
01:47:06,500 --> 01:47:07,041
That's too bad.

1946
01:47:07,333 --> 01:47:07,625
All right.

1947
01:47:08,083 --> 01:47:08,750
Have a great week.

1948
01:47:09,000 --> 01:47:09,875
Good luck back to school.

1949
01:47:10,458 --> 01:47:10,791
Thanks for--

1950
01:47:10,791 --> 01:47:11,000
Don't tell.

1951
01:47:11,625 --> 01:47:13,125
Oh, I was going to say thanks for coming

1952
01:47:13,125 --> 01:47:14,708
and letting me say it.

1953
01:47:14,916 --> 01:47:15,250
Oh, OK.

1954
01:47:15,958 --> 01:47:16,750
You stepped on me.

1955
01:47:17,333 --> 01:47:18,041
Say-- tell everybody

1956
01:47:18,041 --> 01:47:18,958
thanks for joining me.

1957
01:47:18,958 --> 01:47:19,458
And then we'll do it.

1958
01:47:21,416 --> 01:47:21,833
Now?

1959
01:47:22,125 --> 01:47:22,500
Yeah, now.

1960
01:47:23,333 --> 01:47:23,625
Thanks for--

1961
01:47:23,625 --> 01:47:23,833
See?

1962
01:47:24,416 --> 01:47:24,625
Oh.

1963
01:47:25,250 --> 01:47:25,375
[LAUGHTER]

1964
01:47:25,375 --> 01:47:25,833
See how that feels?

1965
01:47:26,541 --> 01:47:27,500
I'm really sorry.

1966
01:47:27,500 --> 01:47:28,041
I'm just scared.

1967
01:47:28,375 --> 01:47:28,416
[LAUGHTER]

1968
01:47:29,000 --> 01:47:30,750
That means it's interrupting.

1969
01:47:30,750 --> 01:47:31,083
All right.

1970
01:47:31,083 --> 01:47:32,458
Thanks for tuning in, everybody.

1971
01:47:32,458 --> 01:47:32,875
Thanks for joining.

1972
01:47:33,500 --> 01:47:33,666
Now?

1973
01:47:34,250 --> 01:47:34,833
When you're ready.

1974
01:47:35,500 --> 01:47:35,958
Ciao, ciao.

1975
01:47:36,833 --> 01:47:37,125
See you.

1976
01:47:37,833 --> 01:47:38,000
Bye.