Brandon The Dom

How can you support a partner with trauma while exploring sex or BDSM safely and lovingly? Learn trauma-informed ways to build trust, create emotional safety, and help your partner reconnect with their body, pleasure, and power.

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๐Ÿ‘‰ Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room
๐Ÿ‘‰ Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
๐Ÿ‘‰ Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/sex-menu-template
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
  • (00:00) - Intro
  • (00:17) - What Is Trauma?
  • (02:36) - How Trauma May Manifest in BDSM
  • (05:33) - How Trauma Impacts Pleasure
  • (06:14) - How Trauma Impacts Power Exchange
  • (07:35) - How to Support a Partner with Trauma
  • (10:02) - Stage 1: Safety & Stabilization
  • (16:59) - Stage 2: Remembrance and Mourning
  • (18:57) - Stage 3: Reconnecting and Integrating
  • (28:27) - Stage 4: Consolidation and Resolution

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
๐Ÿ”ฅ Trauma Support Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/trauma-support
๐Ÿ“– Dom Sub Relationship: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dom-sub-relationship
๐Ÿ“– Shame: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/shame
๐Ÿ“– Sexual Performance Anxiety: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sexual-performance-anxiety
๐Ÿ“– Subdrop: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sub-drop
๐Ÿ“– Praise: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/praise-kink
๐Ÿ”— Trauma-Informed Consensual Kink: https://www.instagram.com/traumainformedkink
๐Ÿ”— The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture: https://amzn.to/47cfOIJ
๐Ÿ”— Attachment Disturbances in Adults: Treatment for Comprehensive Repair: https://amzn.to/3J21zNr
๐Ÿ”— PESI: https://www.pesi.com/
๐Ÿ”— NAMI Family Support Groups: https://www.nami.org/support-education/support-groups/nami-family-support-group/

What is Brandon The Dom?

Hey, Iโ€™m Brandon the Dom. I am a sex and relationship coach - and I want to guide you towards deeper connection, kinky and wild sex, and fulfilling emotional intimacy. Together, we will explore your boundaries, pleasure and willingness to move past barriers toward full self-expression. In a safe and trusting environment, I will help you tap into the vulnerable side of your sexuality - free from judgement and shame.