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Marriage can be the most exciting, amazing, and fulfilling relationship that we ever experience. At least, that is what we think we sign up for it and walk down the aisle. But what happens when we encounter addictions like porn that may have caused extensive trauma in our marriage? Where do we turn? And what support do we need as couples to navigate our marriages in all seasons of life, so that we continue to grow and become better? Listen in, as Matt and Braden discuss the support that marriages need in all seasons and stages of life!
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Welcome to episode #85!
In this episode, Matt and Braden chat about why marriages need support in all seasons and all stages of life!
Support for Marriage (3 A's)
When there is the presence of addictions, abuse or adultery in a marriage, third party help is not just an option but is vital/essential to the survival of the relationship. These are areas that need the support of professionals, and often the ongoing presence of support till the issues are dealt with to the point that the marriage can continue. But it does take an active decision on the part of the couple to get help, it can't be one sided or forced. In the area of pornography, support groups are needed for both husband and wife as the addiction is in the marriage, and the marriage needs support to get the porn out and to heal from its effects.
Be Proactive!
A great marriage isn't something that just happens all on its own, it takes proactive decisions to learn and grow as a couple. We need to learn from others, to engage as a couple with good resources, and to make the choice to stay connected as a couple. Even if things are going great, we can't coast in our marriage and expect it to continue growing. We need support that is ongoing, and to be intentional in maintaining that support. That can be in having a mentor couple, attending marriage workshops or conferences, reading a book together, or engaging with a church community together.
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In this episode, Matt and Braden chat about why marriages need support in all seasons and all stages of life!
Support for Marriage (3 A's)
When there is the presence of addictions, abuse or adultery in a marriage, third party help is not just an option but is vital/essential to the survival of the relationship. These are areas that need the support of professionals, and often the ongoing presence of support till the issues are dealt with to the point that the marriage can continue. But it does take an active decision on the part of the couple to get help, it can't be one sided or forced. In the area of pornography, support groups are needed for both husband and wife as the addiction is in the marriage, and the marriage needs support to get the porn out and to heal from its effects.
Be Proactive!
A great marriage isn't something that just happens all on its own, it takes proactive decisions to learn and grow as a couple. We need to learn from others, to engage as a couple with good resources, and to make the choice to stay connected as a couple. Even if things are going great, we can't coast in our marriage and expect it to continue growing. We need support that is ongoing, and to be intentional in maintaining that support. That can be in having a mentor couple, attending marriage workshops or conferences, reading a book together, or engaging with a church community together.
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Podcast Hosts
BRADEN HAFNER
Braden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He has been married for 12 years to his wife Kristen, and they live in Edmonton, Alberta. He is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.com
MATT CLINE
Matt and his wife Louise raise their little guys, David and Oliver, in Edmonton, Alberta. He is honored to do what he can to tackle the epidemic of pornography and sexual perversion in every way possible. Seeing lives and marriages get free and experience the love of God in profound ways is what drives him every day. He leads Restored Ministries, is a certified speaker and coach for the John Maxwell Team, and formerly played hockey in the WHL and for Hockey Canada. You can visit www.restoredministries.ca.
Creators & Guests
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Matt Cline
Matt Cline is the founder and director of Restored Ministries, focused on leading men and women out of sexual bondage and into a life of impact and freedom in Christ. He is a leading speaker and coach in Canada on the topic of sexual brokenness and has seen countless lives radically changed all around the world. You can learn more about Restored Ministries at www.restoredministries.ca.
What is Pure Victory Podcast?
Faith-based inspiration to win at sex, conquer porn, and find purpose in staying free forever.