How connected are you — really?
Not how connected you used to be. Not how connected you intend to be. Right now, today — how well do you actually know what your partner is carrying, what they need, and how satisfied they are?
In Episode 25, Scott and Brittney do something a little different: they walk through a 7-question Intimacy Audit live — answering each question honestly, reacting to each other's answers in real time, and inviting you to sit with your own answers as you listen.
These aren't trick questions. They're the ones most couples never think to ask — until the drift has already happened. Questions about initiation, laughter, the things you haven't said, how seen your partner feels, and whether you actually know the answers or just think you do.
This is a lighter episode — fun, honest, a little revealing — but don't be surprised if it opens a conversation you didn't know you needed.
In this episode:
- Why slow drift is more dangerous than a big fight — and how to catch it early
- 7 audit questions that reveal more than you expect
- Scott and Brittney answer live — including the ones that hit hardest
- What to do with what you discover — without turning it into a grievance list
- How the audit connects back to the daily practices from Episode 24
Remember — intimacy is not automatic... it's guided.
Couples Intimacy Resources
Looking to improve your sex life, strengthen your marriage, or deepen intimacy in your relationship?
Download Coelle, our guided audio intimacy app for couples, designed to strengthen communication, build confidence, and support emotional and physical connection.
For personalized support, Scott offers Sex & Intimacy Coaching focused on marriage, desire differences, and building stronger sexual confidence.
Explore both here:
What is Do You Feel That? | A Couples Intimacy & Sex Podcast?
Do You Feel That? is a couples intimacy and sex podcast about love, connection, desire, and building a stronger relationship in and out of the bedroom.
Hosted by Scott and Brittney, a married couple exploring modern intimacy, each episode blends honest conversations, personal stories, and practical tools to help couples improve communication, deepen emotional connection, and create better sex in long-term relationships.
We talk about:
• Marriage and intimacy
• Sexual communication
• Desire differences
• Erotic exploration
• Guided audio intimacy
• Confidence in the bedroom
• Reigniting passion after kids
• Sex toys, play, and connection
• Building emotional safety
• Strengthening relationships through intentional intimacy
Whether you’re navigating mismatched desire, looking to improve your sex life, or simply wanting to feel closer to your partner, Do You Feel That? offers grounded, real-world conversations to help couples grow together.
New episodes every week.