Have you ever said, “I don’t even recognize myself anymore” — but your labs come back “normal”?
That gap between how you feel and what you can explain isn’t weakness. It has a name: interoception — the body’s hidden sense that helps you feel safe, centered, and alive. When menopause, neurodivergence, or trauma mutes that internal signal, your nervous system loses its compass. The result? Alexithymia, shutdown, and emotional disconnection.
In this conversation, Dr. Stacey Denise sits down with Dr. Kelly Mahler, award-winning occupational therapist and interoception researcher, to unpack the sensory and emotional truth behind why midlife can feel so flat — and what it takes to feel again.
🧠 What You’ll Learn:
- What interoception is — and why it disappears in midlife
- How alexithymia shows up in high-functioning women
- Why trauma, stress, and ND masking blunt your body’s signals
- The difference between nourishing and numbing rituals
- Gentle ways to rebuild body trust and emotional access (no perfection required)
🎯 This Is For You If:
- You feel emotionally numb, flat, or “not yourself”
- You shut down under stress or can’t explain how you feel
- You’ve been told “everything looks normal” — but it isn’t
- You’re navigating menopause and feeling disconnected from your body
- You’re ND, sensory-sensitive, or just deeply tired of powering through
What is The Nervous System Eats First: Autism Spectrum, Menopause & Beyond?
The Nervous System Eats First is a podcast about the midlife body—when masking stops working, menopause hits hard, and your nervous system demands more than just supplements and willpower.
Hosted by Dr. Stacey Denise, a board-certified physician and founder of the Neuroaesthetic MD™ method, this show invites listeners into a new kind of recovery: one where healing begins through the senses.
Each episode blends science, sensory ritual, and somatic insight to help women reclaim regulation—not as a reward, but as a requirement.
This is not “self-care.” This is nervous system nutrition for:
Autistic and ADHD women unmasking in midlife
Black women and women of color navigating medical gaslighting
Women in menopause who feel invisible, exhausted, and emotionally unmoored
Highly sensitive women trying to feel something without getting overwhelmed
If you’ve ever asked, “What is happening to my body?”—this podcast is your permission slip to find out, slowly and with grace.
🎧 The Nervous System Eats First
Where your body is the expert, and your senses are the medicine.