1 01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:01,166 (upbeat music) 2 01:00:01,916 --> 01:00:02,625 Don't think I have an 3 01:00:02,625 --> 01:00:03,500 addictive personality. 4 01:00:03,750 --> 01:00:04,083 That's probably 5 01:00:04,083 --> 01:00:04,750 something you should know. 6 01:00:04,791 --> 01:00:06,500 I don't know stress, I'm not stressed. 7 01:00:07,000 --> 01:00:08,125 So how do you deal with it? 8 01:00:09,083 --> 01:00:11,000 Not well. 9 01:00:11,250 --> 01:00:11,416 No. 10 01:00:11,458 --> 01:00:12,291 I meditate every 11 01:00:12,291 --> 01:00:13,500 morning for an hour and a half 12 01:00:13,500 --> 01:00:14,291 and then I'm good. 13 01:00:14,625 --> 01:00:15,500 You got that much time 14 01:00:15,500 --> 01:00:16,875 in your day, good for you. 15 01:00:17,125 --> 01:00:22,291 I have to really try now not to be fat. 16 01:00:22,541 --> 01:00:23,250 Are you serious? 17 01:00:23,875 --> 01:00:24,833 This is not a vacation. 18 01:00:25,250 --> 01:00:25,625 Right. 19 01:00:25,625 --> 01:00:26,833 Don't bring swim trunks. 20 01:00:27,166 --> 01:00:28,750 Don't even bring swim trunks. 21 01:00:29,625 --> 01:00:30,666 There's a pool at the hotel. 22 01:00:31,083 --> 01:00:32,208 This is not for fun. 23 01:00:32,208 --> 01:00:33,333 They're behind me aren't they? 24 01:00:34,208 --> 01:00:34,250 (laughing) 25 01:00:34,250 --> 01:00:34,458 Oh. 26 01:00:34,708 --> 01:00:34,916 Sorry. 27 01:00:35,708 --> 01:00:36,000 Sorry. 28 01:00:37,291 --> 01:00:38,666 Introvert, extrovert. 29 01:00:38,916 --> 01:00:39,125 Brain. 30 01:00:39,916 --> 01:00:40,041 Strain. 31 01:00:40,041 --> 01:00:41,416 Not a sprain, strain right? 32 01:00:41,666 --> 01:00:41,875 Sprain. 33 01:00:42,333 --> 01:00:42,500 Strain? 34 01:00:43,125 --> 01:00:43,208 Sprain. 35 01:00:44,000 --> 01:00:44,625 Sprain and ankle. 36 01:00:45,375 --> 01:00:46,333 Strain and muscle. 37 01:00:46,416 --> 01:00:47,666 Then just follow social norms. 38 01:00:47,958 --> 01:00:48,750 Where we are engaged. 39 01:00:49,083 --> 01:00:49,500 Scene of crime. 40 01:00:49,791 --> 01:00:50,333 Someday we'll tell the 41 01:00:50,333 --> 01:00:51,333 story about how I rented out 42 01:00:51,333 --> 01:00:52,458 the entire top. 43 01:00:52,500 --> 01:00:53,000 You did. 44 01:00:53,250 --> 01:00:54,958 Of the Empire State Building to just us. 45 01:00:55,250 --> 01:00:55,625 Yes. 46 01:00:55,625 --> 01:00:55,916 My proposal. 47 01:00:56,291 --> 01:00:57,166 We met on a cruise, 48 01:00:57,166 --> 01:00:58,000 have you seen the movie? 49 01:00:59,625 --> 01:01:03,416 (upbeat music) 50 01:01:14,625 --> 01:01:15,708 All right, we'll give it a go. 51 01:01:16,333 --> 01:01:17,375 Back at it. 52 01:01:18,375 --> 01:01:18,791 How you doing? 53 01:01:19,541 --> 01:01:21,750 I am, well, how are you? 54 01:01:22,166 --> 01:01:23,375 Way to jump into it there. 55 01:01:24,541 --> 01:01:25,791 I'm awkward with you right now 56 01:01:25,791 --> 01:01:27,000 because I haven't seen you in four days. 57 01:01:27,000 --> 01:01:28,708 It's like I gotta get to know you again. 58 01:01:28,958 --> 01:01:29,541 Hi, I'm Megan. 59 01:01:29,541 --> 01:01:30,125 Nice to meet you. 60 01:01:30,125 --> 01:01:30,250 I'm Shawn. 61 01:01:30,250 --> 01:01:31,000 Nice to meet you. 62 01:01:31,000 --> 01:01:31,916 Yeah, you have a great handshake. 63 01:01:32,291 --> 01:01:33,166 Thanks, you do too. 64 01:01:34,208 --> 01:01:34,583 You do. 65 01:01:36,041 --> 01:01:36,916 (laughing) 66 01:01:37,083 --> 01:01:39,375 Oh man, this is one of those odd ones 67 01:01:39,375 --> 01:01:40,041 where we haven't seen 68 01:01:40,041 --> 01:01:41,250 each other in four days 69 01:01:41,458 --> 01:01:42,416 because of the schedule. 70 01:01:43,125 --> 01:01:44,250 So we get to play a 71 01:01:44,250 --> 01:01:45,458 little bit of catch up. 72 01:01:45,583 --> 01:01:45,833 Yes. 73 01:01:46,208 --> 01:01:46,416 Live. 74 01:01:48,375 --> 01:01:49,083 And on recording. 75 01:01:49,958 --> 01:01:51,458 Which is always the best way to do it. 76 01:01:51,500 --> 01:01:53,000 Yeah, live on recording, so. 77 01:01:53,041 --> 01:01:54,083 Yeah, of course. 78 01:01:54,958 --> 01:01:56,166 Oh, what could go wrong with that? 79 01:01:56,416 --> 01:01:57,333 It usually means I'm 80 01:01:57,333 --> 01:01:58,875 spending way too much time 81 01:01:59,000 --> 01:02:00,333 cutting a lot of stuff out. 82 01:02:00,833 --> 01:02:01,208 Probably. 83 01:02:01,833 --> 01:02:02,583 Because we need to start 84 01:02:02,583 --> 01:02:04,416 on a tangent of some sort 85 01:02:04,416 --> 01:02:06,708 and that doesn't make it. 86 01:02:06,958 --> 01:02:08,291 Cut it in four type stuff. 87 01:02:08,666 --> 01:02:10,541 I know, it's like we've welcomed everyone 88 01:02:10,708 --> 01:02:11,583 into our date night. 89 01:02:11,625 --> 01:02:12,041 That's right. 90 01:02:12,208 --> 01:02:13,041 Which is, you know, 91 01:02:13,375 --> 01:02:14,666 often just catch up time. 92 01:02:14,666 --> 01:02:15,541 That's right, yeah. 93 01:02:15,875 --> 01:02:17,833 So that's where we're at on a Monday. 94 01:02:18,208 --> 01:02:18,625 Is it Monday? 95 01:02:18,875 --> 01:02:19,250 It is Monday. 96 01:02:19,500 --> 01:02:20,000 It's a Monday. 97 01:02:20,333 --> 01:02:21,500 Yeah, I flew in with 98 01:02:21,500 --> 01:02:22,875 our youngest last night. 99 01:02:22,875 --> 01:02:24,000 We got in about midnight. 100 01:02:25,083 --> 01:02:27,666 We left on Friday morning for, 101 01:02:28,000 --> 01:02:31,208 it's just insane that he's 12, right? 102 01:02:31,500 --> 01:02:32,750 And we're talking to him about it. 103 01:02:32,750 --> 01:02:34,000 And you talked to him and I did too, 104 01:02:34,375 --> 01:02:36,708 that you guys are, and his 105 01:02:36,708 --> 01:02:37,708 whole team is 12 years old. 106 01:02:38,458 --> 01:02:38,833 Everybody that 107 01:02:38,833 --> 01:02:40,125 watches this regularly knows 108 01:02:40,125 --> 01:02:40,875 that they're at the 109 01:02:40,875 --> 01:02:42,000 highest level on their team. 110 01:02:43,375 --> 01:02:44,541 They're not ranked as high this year as 111 01:02:44,541 --> 01:02:45,125 they were last year, 112 01:02:45,125 --> 01:02:47,041 but they're still playing the same teams. 113 01:02:47,125 --> 01:02:47,708 Right, right. 114 01:02:48,000 --> 01:02:49,041 And honestly, we just 115 01:02:49,041 --> 01:02:49,916 gave some games away, 116 01:02:49,916 --> 01:02:50,916 so we should be doing 117 01:02:50,916 --> 01:02:51,958 better, but we're not. 118 01:02:52,000 --> 01:02:52,166 Agreed. 119 01:02:52,541 --> 01:02:53,458 Just from our record, 120 01:02:53,875 --> 01:02:54,791 this is the classic, 121 01:02:54,875 --> 01:02:56,041 your record doesn't, you know. 122 01:02:56,083 --> 01:02:57,833 Show how good you are, blah, blah, blah. 123 01:02:57,833 --> 01:02:59,000 Yeah, fair. Exactly. 124 01:02:59,000 --> 01:03:00,333 All that aside, these 125 01:03:00,333 --> 01:03:01,458 kids are 12 years old 126 01:03:01,458 --> 01:03:03,666 and we are flying all over the country 127 01:03:03,875 --> 01:03:04,916 so they can play in the tournament. 128 01:03:05,250 --> 01:03:07,250 Three games, you know, and it's like, 129 01:03:07,541 --> 01:03:09,666 do we really, like, do we 130 01:03:09,666 --> 01:03:11,500 really need to spend $2,500 131 01:03:12,041 --> 01:03:13,000 every two or three 132 01:03:13,000 --> 01:03:14,625 weeks just to, you know, 133 01:03:14,625 --> 01:03:15,958 we were in Virginia, you 134 01:03:15,958 --> 01:03:18,666 know, for three days, you know? 135 01:03:18,666 --> 01:03:19,291 And why not? 136 01:03:19,666 --> 01:03:19,875 Right. 137 01:03:20,583 --> 01:03:22,375 Two weekends ago, we were in Oklahoma. 138 01:03:22,875 --> 01:03:23,166 Yeah. 139 01:03:23,708 --> 01:03:24,416 A couple weekends before 140 01:03:24,416 --> 01:03:26,166 that, we were somewhere else. 141 01:03:26,166 --> 01:03:29,375 I mean, right now, I figured it out. 142 01:03:29,375 --> 01:03:31,125 We were traveling six out of, or sorry, 143 01:03:31,125 --> 01:03:31,958 five out of six weekends. 144 01:03:32,375 --> 01:03:33,708 Oh, you figured that out, yeah. 145 01:03:34,458 --> 01:03:35,000 Math on that doesn't 146 01:03:35,000 --> 01:03:36,333 seem like it's too hard, so. 147 01:03:37,875 --> 01:03:38,375 And then we're turning 148 01:03:38,375 --> 01:03:39,708 around midweek this week, 149 01:03:39,916 --> 01:03:41,791 so it's just crazy to 150 01:03:41,791 --> 01:03:42,708 me because the youngest 151 01:03:43,000 --> 01:03:44,500 that I was talking about, his friends, 152 01:03:44,916 --> 01:03:46,250 and I know you asked him this too, 153 01:03:46,250 --> 01:03:47,541 like, do your friends who 154 01:03:47,541 --> 01:03:48,708 are in sixth grade with you, 155 01:03:49,416 --> 01:03:50,333 do they think it's 156 01:03:50,333 --> 01:03:52,250 crazy that you leave school 157 01:03:52,750 --> 01:03:55,875 to go fly places to play soccer? 158 01:03:56,458 --> 01:03:57,916 Like, he already has to 159 01:03:57,916 --> 01:03:58,833 feel like he's a professional. 160 01:04:00,166 --> 01:04:01,458 Exactly, I mean, that's the life 161 01:04:01,583 --> 01:04:03,666 of a professional athlete, right? 162 01:04:03,666 --> 01:04:04,750 You're constantly traveling. 163 01:04:05,250 --> 01:04:05,875 You're always having 164 01:04:05,875 --> 01:04:07,083 to juggle and manage. 165 01:04:07,416 --> 01:04:10,250 And I mean, and he's just so, like, 166 01:04:10,750 --> 01:04:12,541 almost robotic about it, you know? 167 01:04:12,541 --> 01:04:14,416 He's just like, this is what I gotta do. 168 01:04:14,416 --> 01:04:16,208 It's I'm in the zone, I gotta do it. 169 01:04:16,208 --> 01:04:18,125 Yeah, they know, they've got it down now. 170 01:04:18,125 --> 01:04:19,166 It's like not, it's almost, 171 01:04:19,500 --> 01:04:20,500 he said it to you, I think. 172 01:04:20,791 --> 01:04:23,333 It's not, it's fun. 173 01:04:23,541 --> 01:04:24,166 It's fun. 174 01:04:24,208 --> 01:04:26,791 But it's not, like, exciting anymore. 175 01:04:26,875 --> 01:04:27,125 Right. 176 01:04:27,166 --> 01:04:28,500 The whole, he's over it too. 177 01:04:28,500 --> 01:04:29,375 Like, I talked about a 178 01:04:29,375 --> 01:04:30,541 week or two ago, like, 179 01:04:30,708 --> 01:04:31,625 traveling's not sexy. 180 01:04:32,000 --> 01:04:32,708 Nobody likes to travel. 181 01:04:32,916 --> 01:04:35,000 He's over the travel too, to some degree. 182 01:04:35,250 --> 01:04:35,458 Right. 183 01:04:35,500 --> 01:04:36,416 Like, he doesn't like 184 01:04:36,416 --> 01:04:38,208 having to get on the airplanes 185 01:04:38,208 --> 01:04:40,375 because we've had enough bad trips now. 186 01:04:41,000 --> 01:04:42,083 He's like, I don't like traveling. 187 01:04:42,375 --> 01:04:43,208 Like, you never know what's 188 01:04:43,208 --> 01:04:44,291 gonna happen on the airlines. 189 01:04:44,750 --> 01:04:45,666 Right, right. 190 01:04:46,333 --> 01:04:47,458 And he just, but it's 191 01:04:47,458 --> 01:04:49,458 funny because, you know, 192 01:04:49,458 --> 01:04:50,750 kids in his class are like, 193 01:04:51,000 --> 01:04:53,333 you dude, that's so cool, you know? 194 01:04:53,333 --> 01:04:54,083 Yeah, they think it's awesome. 195 01:04:54,416 --> 01:04:55,166 He's like, yeah. 196 01:04:55,500 --> 01:04:56,875 And he's very much like, 197 01:04:56,875 --> 01:04:58,125 I mean, yeah, it's really, 198 01:04:58,125 --> 01:04:59,541 I get a lot of cool experiences, 199 01:04:59,791 --> 01:05:00,666 been a lot of cool places, 200 01:05:00,666 --> 01:05:02,625 but this isn't travel for fun. 201 01:05:02,625 --> 01:05:04,500 He's not sightseeing in these places, 202 01:05:04,500 --> 01:05:05,416 and really none of our kids 203 01:05:05,416 --> 01:05:06,208 are when they're traveling. 204 01:05:07,250 --> 01:05:08,458 And so, it's cool, 205 01:05:08,458 --> 01:05:10,208 he's been to Virginia now, 206 01:05:10,708 --> 01:05:12,875 but it's not like, I don't know, 207 01:05:12,875 --> 01:05:13,541 I guess maybe you dig 208 01:05:13,541 --> 01:05:14,625 it a little bit of-- 209 01:05:15,333 --> 01:05:15,541 Maryland. 210 01:05:15,916 --> 01:05:16,750 In Maryland, yeah. 211 01:05:17,000 --> 01:05:18,500 You got a little bit of culture, I think. 212 01:05:18,500 --> 01:05:21,041 You dig it to, you know, see the sights 213 01:05:21,041 --> 01:05:23,416 of downtown Richmond, I think, this time. 214 01:05:23,416 --> 01:05:25,375 But usually, you're not, right? 215 01:05:25,708 --> 01:05:26,541 Sometimes we do, and I 216 01:05:26,541 --> 01:05:27,916 even thought that this time, 217 01:05:27,916 --> 01:05:29,166 like when I used to travel for the bank, 218 01:05:29,166 --> 01:05:29,958 I would always try to, 219 01:05:30,250 --> 01:05:31,083 there was a while that I tried 220 01:05:31,083 --> 01:05:32,958 to go somewhere to take a fun picture 221 01:05:33,500 --> 01:05:34,375 and send it back to the kids. 222 01:05:34,791 --> 01:05:36,166 So they felt like it was there. 223 01:05:36,625 --> 01:05:37,208 And then there was times 224 01:05:37,208 --> 01:05:38,041 when I was like, you know, 225 01:05:38,041 --> 01:05:39,500 I'm in a city, I should go 226 01:05:39,500 --> 01:05:41,041 see something in the city. 227 01:05:41,041 --> 01:05:41,333 Right. 228 01:05:42,333 --> 01:05:44,333 But usually, more often than not, 229 01:05:44,333 --> 01:05:46,250 I'd be too tired to, or just sit. 230 01:05:46,708 --> 01:05:48,250 But there's a lot of dads on the team, 231 01:05:48,416 --> 01:05:51,166 that they feel this time up. 232 01:05:51,166 --> 01:05:52,416 They come in early, and 233 01:05:52,416 --> 01:05:53,833 they go here or there, 234 01:05:53,833 --> 01:05:54,333 or they're always 235 01:05:54,333 --> 01:05:55,541 checking this or this out. 236 01:05:56,541 --> 01:05:59,208 And I definitely, it's nice, 237 01:05:59,208 --> 01:05:59,750 because sometimes they 238 01:05:59,750 --> 01:06:00,791 pull us along with them. 239 01:06:00,833 --> 01:06:01,083 Yeah, yeah. 240 01:06:01,125 --> 01:06:01,958 Right, so we do it. 241 01:06:01,958 --> 01:06:03,333 And I'm always glad we do 242 01:06:03,333 --> 01:06:04,875 it, but if it was just me, 243 01:06:04,875 --> 01:06:06,916 I'm maybe more of a 244 01:06:06,916 --> 01:06:08,541 homebody, I might not get out. 245 01:06:08,541 --> 01:06:09,583 So I'm glad we do that. 246 01:06:10,125 --> 01:06:11,041 I wish, and I was even 247 01:06:11,041 --> 01:06:12,250 thinking that we should do it more. 248 01:06:12,458 --> 01:06:12,833 Yeah, yeah. 249 01:06:12,833 --> 01:06:14,500 When I'm out there with the kids, like, 250 01:06:15,000 --> 01:06:16,291 I gotta be fun, like we should go 251 01:06:16,291 --> 01:06:17,208 go-karting every time. 252 01:06:17,250 --> 01:06:18,500 Whatever city we're in, we 253 01:06:18,500 --> 01:06:19,416 should go find their best 254 01:06:19,458 --> 01:06:21,458 go-karting and go go-karting. 255 01:06:21,875 --> 01:06:22,333 It's just sometimes 256 01:06:22,333 --> 01:06:24,083 the timing's not there. 257 01:06:24,250 --> 01:06:24,583 Right, right. 258 01:06:24,583 --> 01:06:26,750 Because there's planned team meetings, 259 01:06:26,958 --> 01:06:28,000 there's team meals, 260 01:06:28,791 --> 01:06:29,833 you know, there's games. 261 01:06:30,416 --> 01:06:32,333 So it's very regimented, 262 01:06:32,333 --> 01:06:33,208 and that's why it's not, 263 01:06:33,750 --> 01:06:34,833 and our coach even says, 264 01:06:34,833 --> 01:06:35,666 these aren't vacations. 265 01:06:35,666 --> 01:06:36,375 Like, we've been to San 266 01:06:36,375 --> 01:06:37,708 Diego, we've been to Florida, 267 01:06:37,708 --> 01:06:39,458 we've been all over these places, Vegas. 268 01:06:39,916 --> 01:06:40,583 All these places seem 269 01:06:40,583 --> 01:06:42,083 like, this is not a vacation. 270 01:06:42,833 --> 01:06:44,000 Don't bring swim trunks. 271 01:06:44,291 --> 01:06:45,916 Don't even bring swim trunks. 272 01:06:46,791 --> 01:06:47,500 There's a pool at the 273 01:06:47,500 --> 01:06:49,083 hotel, do not bring, 274 01:06:49,541 --> 01:06:50,750 this is not for fun. 275 01:06:50,791 --> 01:06:51,541 Right, right. 276 01:06:51,541 --> 01:06:52,416 You know, it's like, 277 01:06:52,833 --> 01:06:54,250 but I thought it was. 278 01:06:54,875 --> 01:06:57,541 But I thought, I'm 12, and I 279 01:06:57,541 --> 01:06:59,875 really like to do fun things. 280 01:07:00,291 --> 01:07:01,666 He even said on the way, he's like, 281 01:07:01,666 --> 01:07:03,291 I'm so excited for middle school, 282 01:07:03,291 --> 01:07:04,916 because he gets to play school sports, 283 01:07:04,916 --> 01:07:06,916 and he's like, and that's just for fun. 284 01:07:07,333 --> 01:07:07,625 Yeah. 285 01:07:07,666 --> 01:07:08,416 And I was like, it 286 01:07:08,416 --> 01:07:09,333 kinda hit me, I'm like, 287 01:07:09,333 --> 01:07:10,500 oh, that's sad that 288 01:07:10,500 --> 01:07:12,333 this is like his soccer, 289 01:07:12,333 --> 01:07:15,083 because it's such a competitive level, 290 01:07:16,125 --> 01:07:18,000 that it's not for fun for him. 291 01:07:18,583 --> 01:07:21,583 It's stressful, it's like a job for him. 292 01:07:21,625 --> 01:07:24,708 Yeah, he's there to, you're right, 293 01:07:24,708 --> 01:07:25,791 it's there to do a job, 294 01:07:25,791 --> 01:07:26,833 and I think he loves it, 295 01:07:26,833 --> 01:07:28,958 and I think he does think it's fun, 296 01:07:29,166 --> 01:07:31,625 but it's another when you 297 01:07:31,625 --> 01:07:32,625 go and you're just playing 298 01:07:33,875 --> 01:07:35,083 a pickup game, right? 299 01:07:35,083 --> 01:07:36,625 The levels of intensity 300 01:07:36,625 --> 01:07:38,333 are just night and day, 301 01:07:38,833 --> 01:07:41,791 and so it's not that one is terrible, 302 01:07:42,833 --> 01:07:44,833 but I mean, you do, you have to lock in, 303 01:07:44,875 --> 01:07:47,291 you have to truly pour yourself into that 304 01:07:47,375 --> 01:07:48,416 much more competitive, 305 01:07:48,750 --> 01:07:49,375 versus, you know what, 306 01:07:49,375 --> 01:07:50,208 I'm gonna pick up, I'm 307 01:07:50,208 --> 01:07:50,958 gonna play a pickup game 308 01:07:50,958 --> 01:07:52,041 and have fun with my friends. 309 01:07:52,041 --> 01:07:52,708 Well, there's a national 310 01:07:52,708 --> 01:07:53,916 league they play in ECNL, 311 01:07:53,916 --> 01:07:54,958 if anybody knows it, they know it, 312 01:07:55,291 --> 01:07:57,583 so we play the number one team in ECNL, 313 01:07:57,875 --> 01:07:59,750 we play the number four team in ECNL, 314 01:07:59,750 --> 01:08:02,541 and I think the number 18 team in ECNL, 315 01:08:02,750 --> 01:08:03,916 or number eight, I can't remember, 316 01:08:03,916 --> 01:08:04,791 but we played like 317 01:08:04,791 --> 01:08:06,958 three top 10 ECNL teams. 318 01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:07,625 But here's the thing, 319 01:08:07,625 --> 01:08:08,500 did you see the latest? 320 01:08:09,208 --> 01:08:10,083 Essentially, we will have 321 01:08:10,083 --> 01:08:12,458 played four of the number one 322 01:08:12,541 --> 01:08:14,541 teams in their league 323 01:08:14,541 --> 01:08:17,041 bracket, so even though one is like, 324 01:08:17,291 --> 01:08:18,333 you know, one of the 325 01:08:18,333 --> 01:08:20,500 teams we played this weekend 326 01:08:20,708 --> 01:08:23,000 was the number one team overall, 327 01:08:23,875 --> 01:08:25,041 all of the teams that 328 01:08:25,041 --> 01:08:26,250 we played this weekend 329 01:08:26,250 --> 01:08:30,125 were actually number one in their region. 330 01:08:30,666 --> 01:08:31,375 Yeah. Yeah. 331 01:08:31,708 --> 01:08:32,500 Oh, that's cool. 332 01:08:32,500 --> 01:08:34,291 So he's like, the coach was saying, 333 01:08:34,291 --> 01:08:35,041 like that does not 334 01:08:35,041 --> 01:08:36,875 happen, we will play four 335 01:08:36,875 --> 01:08:39,166 of the number one teams in their region. 336 01:08:39,416 --> 01:08:40,833 Yeah, and we were competitive every game, 337 01:08:40,833 --> 01:08:42,416 we won one of them, we should have won, 338 01:08:42,791 --> 01:08:43,916 honestly, we were in a 339 01:08:43,916 --> 01:08:45,458 position to win the other two. 340 01:08:45,458 --> 01:08:46,000 Yes, we were. 341 01:08:46,791 --> 01:08:47,708 The overall national 342 01:08:47,708 --> 01:08:49,125 number one ECNL team, 343 01:08:49,125 --> 01:08:49,625 now they're not the 344 01:08:49,625 --> 01:08:50,500 number one ranked team 345 01:08:50,500 --> 01:08:51,500 across the country, Sure. 346 01:08:51,541 --> 01:08:52,416 In this league, which 347 01:08:52,416 --> 01:08:54,083 is the second highest 348 01:08:54,416 --> 01:08:55,833 underneath, minimalized, that's too much, 349 01:08:56,666 --> 01:08:59,166 but man, we gave them a 350 01:08:59,166 --> 01:09:00,791 walloping the first half, 351 01:09:00,791 --> 01:09:01,958 we won the first half, we 352 01:09:01,958 --> 01:09:03,250 won the first 15 minutes 353 01:09:03,250 --> 01:09:04,458 of the second half, Yep. 354 01:09:04,500 --> 01:09:06,708 And then we lost, It was, yeah. 355 01:09:06,750 --> 01:09:08,500 The last 20 minutes of the second half, 356 01:09:08,541 --> 01:09:09,958 they scored on us, 357 01:09:09,958 --> 01:09:11,208 and then that got there. 358 01:09:11,916 --> 01:09:12,125 Yep. 359 01:09:12,333 --> 01:09:13,583 I can't remember how they scored, 360 01:09:13,583 --> 01:09:14,458 if it was a PK on 361 01:09:14,458 --> 01:09:15,250 that one, or what it was. 362 01:09:15,500 --> 01:09:17,500 It was a free kick, 363 01:09:17,708 --> 01:09:18,083 right outside the box. 364 01:09:18,083 --> 01:09:19,458 It was a free kick right outside the box, 365 01:09:19,458 --> 01:09:21,125 yeah, that's what it was, so a set play, 366 01:09:21,500 --> 01:09:23,208 we do have trouble defending against, 367 01:09:23,208 --> 01:09:23,750 most of the goals 368 01:09:23,750 --> 01:09:25,041 scored on us are set plays. 369 01:09:25,083 --> 01:09:25,416 Set plays. 370 01:09:25,708 --> 01:09:26,208 And that one was right 371 01:09:26,208 --> 01:09:27,083 outside the penalty box, 372 01:09:27,083 --> 01:09:29,583 anyways, that gave them all the-- 373 01:09:29,750 --> 01:09:30,291 Momentum. 374 01:09:30,666 --> 01:09:31,583 There's so much confidence, 375 01:09:31,583 --> 01:09:32,125 you could see their 376 01:09:32,125 --> 01:09:33,750 confidence went tenfold. 377 01:09:33,750 --> 01:09:34,000 Yep. 378 01:09:34,291 --> 01:09:36,875 The other team, and ours folded in half. 379 01:09:36,916 --> 01:09:37,208 Yep. 380 01:09:38,541 --> 01:09:39,041 In fact, some of the 381 01:09:39,041 --> 01:09:40,125 parents that were there watching, 382 01:09:40,666 --> 01:09:41,750 who play those guys, 383 01:09:41,750 --> 01:09:42,791 they're actually in their league, 384 01:09:43,291 --> 01:09:44,416 they stayed and were watching, 385 01:09:44,625 --> 01:09:45,083 because they're like, 386 01:09:45,083 --> 01:09:46,208 we've never seen anybody 387 01:09:46,375 --> 01:09:48,041 take it to these guys like this, 388 01:09:48,500 --> 01:09:50,875 they don't get walloped like this, 389 01:09:51,166 --> 01:09:51,875 nobody gets these kind 390 01:09:51,875 --> 01:09:52,875 of shots off on them. 391 01:09:52,875 --> 01:09:53,875 Yeah, I hope we were just 392 01:09:53,875 --> 01:09:54,916 getting shot after shot. 393 01:09:55,291 --> 01:09:56,375 Yeah, and that was 394 01:09:56,375 --> 01:09:57,416 probably our son's best game, 395 01:09:58,000 --> 01:09:58,958 from that point, which was good, 396 01:09:58,958 --> 01:10:00,166 he kind of stepped up to that. 397 01:10:00,166 --> 01:10:01,041 It was a really good game. 398 01:10:01,625 --> 01:10:04,791 So, anywho, so we're just kind of 399 01:10:04,791 --> 01:10:05,750 recovering from that, 400 01:10:06,291 --> 01:10:07,375 but part of what I 401 01:10:07,375 --> 01:10:08,333 wanted to get into today, 402 01:10:08,541 --> 01:10:09,375 is kind of the main 403 01:10:09,375 --> 01:10:10,875 topic, maybe, if you will, 404 01:10:11,500 --> 01:10:12,625 was just, we always 405 01:10:12,625 --> 01:10:14,125 talk about being busy, 406 01:10:14,125 --> 01:10:14,750 and all that kind of stuff, 407 01:10:14,916 --> 01:10:15,666 we've been talking 408 01:10:15,666 --> 01:10:16,583 about some of the stress, 409 01:10:16,583 --> 01:10:17,125 and it's even affecting 410 01:10:17,125 --> 01:10:18,500 you physically, the stress. 411 01:10:19,250 --> 01:10:21,291 But how do we deal with that? 412 01:10:21,791 --> 01:10:22,500 Because stress is a part 413 01:10:22,500 --> 01:10:24,166 that everybody lives with, 414 01:10:24,500 --> 01:10:28,125 every day, every month, their whole life, 415 01:10:28,125 --> 01:10:29,208 everybody has stress to some degree. 416 01:10:29,625 --> 01:10:31,083 Very few people are like, I 417 01:10:31,083 --> 01:10:32,083 don't know what stress is. 418 01:10:32,500 --> 01:10:33,333 (laughing) 419 01:10:33,625 --> 01:10:34,875 I want to meet that person. 420 01:10:34,958 --> 01:10:36,583 They're like, well, my yoga class 421 01:10:36,583 --> 01:10:37,916 is pretty stressful this morning. 422 01:10:38,375 --> 01:10:39,250 I had to learn a new 423 01:10:39,250 --> 01:10:41,000 position and hold it for 12 seconds. 424 01:10:41,958 --> 01:10:43,458 Oh my gosh, can you imagine? 425 01:10:44,375 --> 01:10:45,500 Oh, I've never heard 426 01:10:45,500 --> 01:10:46,500 no, I don't know stress, 427 01:10:46,708 --> 01:10:47,458 I'm not stressed. 428 01:10:47,458 --> 01:10:48,500 That one mom in Hobby Lobby, 429 01:10:48,791 --> 01:10:49,875 maybe she doesn't have stress, 430 01:10:49,875 --> 01:10:51,000 because, well, she was stressed, 431 01:10:51,000 --> 01:10:51,541 she was stressed about 432 01:10:51,541 --> 01:10:52,500 all her returns that day. 433 01:10:52,541 --> 01:10:53,708 She was stressed about the 434 01:10:53,708 --> 01:10:54,750 errands that she had to run. 435 01:10:55,041 --> 01:10:56,666 So, the question is, how 436 01:10:56,666 --> 01:10:57,625 does everybody handle stress? 437 01:10:57,625 --> 01:11:00,458 So, how do you find yourself? 438 01:11:00,875 --> 01:11:02,375 Because we always talk about, 439 01:11:02,375 --> 01:11:03,625 we're busy, we're busy, we're busy. 440 01:11:04,333 --> 01:11:05,291 And that doesn't necessarily 441 01:11:05,291 --> 01:11:07,125 mean we're stressed about it, 442 01:11:07,416 --> 01:11:08,416 but the last two years 443 01:11:08,416 --> 01:11:09,583 have been the most stressful 444 01:11:09,583 --> 01:11:11,041 of our life, of our 445 01:11:11,041 --> 01:11:12,166 relationship at least. 446 01:11:12,416 --> 01:11:12,916 Oh yeah. 447 01:11:14,375 --> 01:11:15,750 So, how do you think you've handled, 448 01:11:16,125 --> 01:11:17,166 how do you think, not 449 01:11:17,166 --> 01:11:18,000 have you handled it, 450 01:11:18,000 --> 01:11:19,750 but how have you dealt with it? 451 01:11:19,750 --> 01:11:20,541 How have you tried to 452 01:11:20,541 --> 01:11:22,083 release that stress? 453 01:11:24,375 --> 01:11:25,083 Well, and clearly I'm 454 01:11:25,083 --> 01:11:26,958 not doing a great job of it 455 01:11:27,041 --> 01:11:28,875 because I have TMJ. 456 01:11:29,166 --> 01:11:30,666 Do we talk about this last week? 457 01:11:30,666 --> 01:11:31,458 A little bit, yeah. 458 01:11:31,625 --> 01:11:33,500 Oh my gosh, never heard this before. 459 01:11:33,541 --> 01:11:34,166 I can't bite. 460 01:11:34,791 --> 01:11:35,583 And that's all stress. 461 01:11:35,791 --> 01:11:37,125 I was like, I thought that there actually 462 01:11:37,125 --> 01:11:38,083 was a medical condition. 463 01:11:38,291 --> 01:11:39,083 Nope, turns out that 464 01:11:39,083 --> 01:11:41,291 I'm just really stressed. 465 01:11:41,875 --> 01:11:43,166 And I've never had that before. 466 01:11:43,166 --> 01:11:44,000 And I was like, gosh, I 467 01:11:44,000 --> 01:11:44,791 thought I was coming down 468 01:11:44,791 --> 01:11:45,500 on the stress. 469 01:11:45,500 --> 01:11:47,000 You're not stressed eating anymore 470 01:11:47,250 --> 01:11:47,958 because you can't do that. 471 01:11:48,416 --> 01:11:49,541 Nope, can't do that. 472 01:11:49,916 --> 01:11:51,333 Like, very few 473 01:11:51,333 --> 01:11:52,791 things, can I actually eat? 474 01:11:52,791 --> 01:11:53,000 Yeah. 475 01:11:55,500 --> 01:11:58,416 But, you know, I actually 476 01:11:58,416 --> 01:11:59,916 was feeling quite a bit better 477 01:12:00,500 --> 01:12:03,208 today because I did take the weekend. 478 01:12:03,250 --> 01:12:05,083 You were traveling and I 479 01:12:05,083 --> 01:12:05,833 was like, you know what? 480 01:12:06,875 --> 01:12:07,958 As much as I can, I'm 481 01:12:07,958 --> 01:12:10,125 gonna not look at social media. 482 01:12:10,125 --> 01:12:11,375 I'm gonna not watch the news. 483 01:12:11,375 --> 01:12:14,750 I'm gonna sit here for just a few moments 484 01:12:15,000 --> 01:12:16,875 and work on a crossword puzzle or 485 01:12:16,875 --> 01:12:18,875 something that, you know, 486 01:12:19,166 --> 01:12:21,291 I find relaxing. One thing I know you do. 487 01:12:22,041 --> 01:12:25,000 And so I had like an extra couple of 488 01:12:25,000 --> 01:12:26,125 hours a few weeks ago 489 01:12:26,125 --> 01:12:27,625 and I was up in our attic. 490 01:12:28,666 --> 01:12:30,166 And I was trying to 491 01:12:30,166 --> 01:12:31,333 get that pulled together 492 01:12:31,333 --> 01:12:32,083 a little bit better. 493 01:12:33,166 --> 01:12:33,583 Yeah, that's one of those 494 01:12:33,583 --> 01:12:34,541 places that when you move in 495 01:12:34,541 --> 01:12:35,125 somewhere, you just 496 01:12:35,125 --> 01:12:36,041 throw everything in there. 497 01:12:36,333 --> 01:12:37,583 And I threw it in there pretty nicely. 498 01:12:37,583 --> 01:12:39,000 Don't get me wrong, it was in good shape. 499 01:12:39,000 --> 01:12:39,375 Oh yeah. 500 01:12:39,375 --> 01:12:41,375 But I want it better, right? 501 01:12:41,375 --> 01:12:42,375 I wanna know where things are at. 502 01:12:42,375 --> 01:12:42,791 There's certain things 503 01:12:42,791 --> 01:12:43,666 I want out, yada, yada. 504 01:12:44,250 --> 01:12:45,625 And I found some 505 01:12:45,625 --> 01:12:46,458 crossword puzzles for you. 506 01:12:46,458 --> 01:12:47,000 So I brought them down, 507 01:12:47,000 --> 01:12:47,541 because you used to do 508 01:12:47,541 --> 01:12:48,500 crosswords all the time. 509 01:12:48,500 --> 01:12:49,500 And you don't anymore. 510 01:12:49,500 --> 01:12:50,958 But what I've seen you do 511 01:12:50,958 --> 01:12:52,375 is puzzles on your phone. 512 01:12:52,750 --> 01:12:54,666 Yeah, so I'll do puzzles on my phone. 513 01:12:55,041 --> 01:12:56,208 Like literally, you can get a puzzle app 514 01:12:56,208 --> 01:12:56,875 and put together 515 01:12:56,875 --> 01:12:59,333 puzzles, because I love puzzles. 516 01:12:59,625 --> 01:13:01,041 Like, I don't think I have 517 01:13:01,041 --> 01:13:02,000 an addictive personality, 518 01:13:02,958 --> 01:13:03,791 but I do have a puzzle in 519 01:13:03,791 --> 01:13:05,375 front of me, a jigsaw puzzle. 520 01:13:06,333 --> 01:13:09,583 I will work on that for 20 hours. 521 01:13:10,208 --> 01:13:13,458 20, like, I will lose myself in that. 522 01:13:14,125 --> 01:13:17,125 And so things like that, I do like. 523 01:13:17,125 --> 01:13:18,416 So crossword puzzles, puzzles. 524 01:13:19,083 --> 01:13:20,583 I did not pull out a puzzle this weekend. 525 01:13:21,500 --> 01:13:23,500 On a scale that I would say, on a scale, 526 01:13:23,500 --> 01:13:24,791 if I were judging you, 527 01:13:25,333 --> 01:13:26,416 on a scale of one to 10, 528 01:13:26,416 --> 01:13:27,666 you can judge me on my turn. 529 01:13:28,333 --> 01:13:28,958 But if I were judging 530 01:13:28,958 --> 01:13:29,916 on a scale of one to 10, 531 01:13:30,041 --> 01:13:31,250 how much does your, 532 01:13:31,583 --> 01:13:32,583 what you just talked about, 533 01:13:32,791 --> 01:13:36,041 relieve your stress levels, I would say, 534 01:13:37,458 --> 01:13:39,666 10 is like letting all the air out. 535 01:13:39,666 --> 01:13:41,875 Like, ah, I feel great now. 536 01:13:42,166 --> 01:13:42,541 You know what I mean? 537 01:13:43,208 --> 01:13:44,500 I would say that's like 538 01:13:44,500 --> 01:13:45,833 a two or three for you. 539 01:13:45,833 --> 01:13:46,708 I would say you're still 540 01:13:46,708 --> 01:13:48,458 pin up like seven out of 10 541 01:13:48,458 --> 01:13:49,333 on a stress level. 542 01:13:50,041 --> 01:13:50,375 Probably. 543 01:13:50,708 --> 01:13:53,583 Which, on a long term, it 544 01:13:53,583 --> 01:13:54,833 seems like you might need 545 01:13:54,833 --> 01:13:56,500 to find more stress relief. 546 01:13:57,416 --> 01:13:58,708 And like, where do you go for that? 547 01:13:59,958 --> 01:14:00,416 I don't know. 548 01:14:01,333 --> 01:14:01,958 I mean. 549 01:14:02,708 --> 01:14:03,666 I'm not trying to put you on the spot, 550 01:14:03,916 --> 01:14:04,541 but that's one of 551 01:14:04,541 --> 01:14:05,208 those things that's like, 552 01:14:05,750 --> 01:14:06,125 that's probably 553 01:14:06,125 --> 01:14:06,791 something you should know. 554 01:14:07,166 --> 01:14:11,291 Yeah, I mean, I do like massages. 555 01:14:11,750 --> 01:14:12,708 And I had a facial for the 556 01:14:12,708 --> 01:14:14,333 first time a couple weeks ago. 557 01:14:14,541 --> 01:14:16,041 Actually, maybe second time in my life. 558 01:14:16,916 --> 01:14:17,875 That was phenomenal. 559 01:14:18,208 --> 01:14:18,458 For work. 560 01:14:18,875 --> 01:14:19,875 Yeah, yeah. That was awesome. 561 01:14:19,875 --> 01:14:21,291 I know, it was for work, 562 01:14:21,291 --> 01:14:22,958 so thank you to my boss. 563 01:14:24,625 --> 01:14:25,375 You know, and she's like, 564 01:14:25,375 --> 01:14:26,250 but it's super important 565 01:14:26,250 --> 01:14:27,125 because you do need to 566 01:14:27,125 --> 01:14:27,916 take care of yourself. 567 01:14:27,916 --> 01:14:28,833 And it was just a 568 01:14:28,833 --> 01:14:30,541 great way to say thank you. 569 01:14:30,583 --> 01:14:31,958 And I truly appreciated it. 570 01:14:32,250 --> 01:14:33,791 It was so nice. 571 01:14:35,125 --> 01:14:37,208 And so massages do help. 572 01:14:37,208 --> 01:14:37,833 Like there is something 573 01:14:37,833 --> 01:14:41,583 about walking into a spa 574 01:14:42,541 --> 01:14:45,416 that instantly relaxes me. 575 01:14:46,375 --> 01:14:48,583 I think that gets me to almost like, 576 01:14:48,583 --> 01:14:50,750 that's like a stress relief. 577 01:14:50,750 --> 01:14:52,958 That's like a seven out of 10 for me. 578 01:14:53,500 --> 01:14:54,833 Yeah, I agree. 579 01:14:54,833 --> 01:14:57,625 Cause we do try to hit a spa night 580 01:14:58,458 --> 01:14:59,500 where we get couples massage. 581 01:15:00,458 --> 01:15:02,291 We sit in there, we do all this stuff. 582 01:15:02,791 --> 01:15:03,833 We didn't do like a facial or anything 583 01:15:03,833 --> 01:15:04,541 like that beforehand. 584 01:15:06,708 --> 01:15:09,458 But then, you know, you do 585 01:15:09,458 --> 01:15:10,916 all like the comfort-y stuff 586 01:15:10,958 --> 01:15:12,291 before and after, and 587 01:15:12,291 --> 01:15:13,250 then you go to a nice dinner. 588 01:15:14,041 --> 01:15:15,625 All that is very nice. 589 01:15:17,000 --> 01:15:18,041 And it is relaxing, but 590 01:15:18,041 --> 01:15:18,791 I don't know that it's, 591 01:15:19,708 --> 01:15:20,916 that's like a nine out of 592 01:15:20,916 --> 01:15:24,125 10 in the moment, right? 593 01:15:24,166 --> 01:15:24,541 Yeah. 594 01:15:24,583 --> 01:15:25,791 But after you go to bed that night 595 01:15:25,791 --> 01:15:26,916 and you wake up the next morning, 596 01:15:27,958 --> 01:15:28,958 if that stress level 597 01:15:28,958 --> 01:15:30,333 has come down from a 10, 598 01:15:30,791 --> 01:15:33,291 down to like a four because of that, 599 01:15:34,208 --> 01:15:36,333 it's probably back up to like a six-ish. 600 01:15:36,916 --> 01:15:38,333 It's pushing five or six again. 601 01:15:38,541 --> 01:15:39,916 It's like, if I could 602 01:15:39,916 --> 01:15:42,458 do that every day, right? 603 01:15:42,791 --> 01:15:43,083 Totally would. 604 01:15:43,375 --> 01:15:45,916 That might be, then I'm down for that. 605 01:15:45,958 --> 01:15:47,041 Right, right. 606 01:15:47,416 --> 01:15:47,958 And that's partially 607 01:15:47,958 --> 01:15:48,791 how we built this house. 608 01:15:49,166 --> 01:15:51,125 We built our house, like our 609 01:15:51,125 --> 01:15:54,250 bathroom is spa influenced. 610 01:15:54,583 --> 01:15:55,041 Oh yeah. 611 01:15:55,041 --> 01:15:57,083 Right, in fact, the room we're in now 612 01:15:57,750 --> 01:15:59,916 was originally supposed to 613 01:15:59,916 --> 01:16:02,000 be more for like a relaxation, 614 01:16:02,666 --> 01:16:04,458 spa environment that we 615 01:16:04,458 --> 01:16:05,875 turned into the studio. 616 01:16:06,208 --> 01:16:08,333 Studio, it's not quite as spa-like, but. 617 01:16:08,333 --> 01:16:09,416 It's still really, it's a 618 01:16:09,416 --> 01:16:10,833 nice room to sit in though. 619 01:16:10,833 --> 01:16:11,333 It is. 620 01:16:11,333 --> 01:16:11,625 It's relaxing. 621 01:16:11,958 --> 01:16:12,750 It's very relaxing. 622 01:16:13,375 --> 01:16:14,041 You know, and outside 623 01:16:14,041 --> 01:16:14,875 of this room is nice. 624 01:16:14,875 --> 01:16:17,750 So we've tried to incorporate that feel. 625 01:16:18,500 --> 01:16:19,958 And I do, I would say every 626 01:16:19,958 --> 01:16:21,375 time I walk into our bathroom, 627 01:16:22,666 --> 01:16:23,791 I get a notch. 628 01:16:24,500 --> 01:16:25,291 I do, yeah. 629 01:16:25,291 --> 01:16:26,791 Because it's just like, okay, I've left, 630 01:16:27,291 --> 01:16:27,791 even though we work 631 01:16:27,791 --> 01:16:29,250 from our house, right, 632 01:16:29,250 --> 01:16:30,041 your office is just 633 01:16:30,041 --> 01:16:31,583 outside of our, you know, 634 01:16:31,583 --> 01:16:33,500 kind of our primary wing. 635 01:16:33,750 --> 01:16:33,958 Yeah. 636 01:16:34,250 --> 01:16:35,916 Not wing, but primary area. 637 01:16:36,666 --> 01:16:38,000 You know, and mine's just around there. 638 01:16:38,250 --> 01:16:39,000 But once we come 639 01:16:39,000 --> 01:16:40,125 through those two double doors 640 01:16:40,125 --> 01:16:41,208 and we see that big 641 01:16:41,208 --> 01:16:43,416 picture of walking off a dock, 642 01:16:44,291 --> 01:16:45,458 like, and then into 643 01:16:45,458 --> 01:16:47,500 that room, that every time. 644 01:16:47,500 --> 01:16:48,750 We, when we do that specific. 645 01:16:49,208 --> 01:16:49,375 Yeah. 646 01:16:49,666 --> 01:16:50,458 Because we knew even 647 01:16:50,458 --> 01:16:51,833 then it was like, you know, 648 01:16:51,833 --> 01:16:53,041 we just, we go hard. 649 01:16:53,458 --> 01:16:54,000 We do. 650 01:16:54,083 --> 01:16:55,375 You're regardless of the kid's schedule, 651 01:16:56,166 --> 01:16:57,625 our work schedules, we go hard. 652 01:16:58,166 --> 01:17:00,208 There's just no down time on that. 653 01:17:01,166 --> 01:17:02,166 And so, you know, that 654 01:17:02,166 --> 01:17:05,083 stress relief is important. 655 01:17:05,750 --> 01:17:06,083 Yeah. 656 01:17:06,083 --> 01:17:07,250 To continue that on. 657 01:17:07,583 --> 01:17:07,833 Yeah. 658 01:17:08,333 --> 01:17:09,458 So how do you deal with it? 659 01:17:11,750 --> 01:17:15,041 Not well, either, probably. 660 01:17:16,000 --> 01:17:16,416 I don't know that 661 01:17:16,416 --> 01:17:17,708 anybody deals with stress well. 662 01:17:18,000 --> 01:17:19,000 Like, I'm really good 663 01:17:19,000 --> 01:17:20,041 at my stress, you know. 664 01:17:20,083 --> 01:17:21,041 Right, right, I'm great 665 01:17:21,041 --> 01:17:22,500 at stress management, like. 666 01:17:22,500 --> 01:17:23,416 Yeah, I. 667 01:17:23,625 --> 01:17:24,583 Yeah, no. 668 01:17:24,833 --> 01:17:25,458 I meditate every 669 01:17:25,458 --> 01:17:26,666 morning for an hour and a half 670 01:17:26,666 --> 01:17:27,458 and then I'm good. 671 01:17:28,083 --> 01:17:29,125 No, it's funny, you read all 672 01:17:29,125 --> 01:17:30,333 these things that people do 673 01:17:30,500 --> 01:17:32,541 and you try to incorporate what you can. 674 01:17:32,541 --> 01:17:34,041 And like, meditation's one that I've 675 01:17:34,041 --> 01:17:35,333 heard is really good. 676 01:17:35,625 --> 01:17:35,875 Yeah. 677 01:17:36,833 --> 01:17:37,666 No time for that. 678 01:17:38,000 --> 01:17:40,041 And I'm not, and you're not either, 679 01:17:40,583 --> 01:17:42,125 we're not getting out of bed earlier. 680 01:17:42,541 --> 01:17:42,916 No. 681 01:17:43,333 --> 01:17:45,250 Like, I do actually, so 682 01:17:45,250 --> 01:17:47,500 the way I do it is exercise. 683 01:17:47,833 --> 01:17:49,250 That's my biggest way of 684 01:17:49,250 --> 01:17:51,041 doing it, on a daily basis, right? 685 01:17:51,041 --> 01:17:51,791 Like, yeah, I do love 686 01:17:51,791 --> 01:17:52,500 going to the, you know, 687 01:17:52,500 --> 01:17:53,291 getting a massage and 688 01:17:53,291 --> 01:17:53,750 all that kind of stuff, 689 01:17:53,791 --> 01:17:55,875 but those are once or twice a year. 690 01:17:55,875 --> 01:17:56,416 Yeah, yeah. 691 01:17:56,416 --> 01:17:57,708 So it's like, I can't wait 692 01:17:57,708 --> 01:17:59,375 till then to get it all out. 693 01:17:59,416 --> 01:17:59,625 Yeah. 694 01:18:01,041 --> 01:18:02,375 So exercise is big for me 695 01:18:02,500 --> 01:18:03,916 and I've talked about it on here before 696 01:18:03,916 --> 01:18:05,375 and you and I have talked about it a lot. 697 01:18:06,083 --> 01:18:08,500 When I was younger, as an 698 01:18:08,500 --> 01:18:10,041 athlete and playing sports, 699 01:18:10,208 --> 01:18:10,833 you know, into 700 01:18:10,833 --> 01:18:12,291 college and then, you know, 701 01:18:12,291 --> 01:18:13,666 in playing in leagues 702 01:18:13,666 --> 01:18:15,416 after college and, you know, 703 01:18:15,416 --> 01:18:16,791 as an adult and all these kind of things, 704 01:18:17,250 --> 01:18:19,583 that's where I got all my angst out. 705 01:18:19,666 --> 01:18:20,000 Yeah. 706 01:18:20,125 --> 01:18:21,375 You know, I mean, I would play basketball 707 01:18:21,583 --> 01:18:22,958 and I was an intense player. 708 01:18:23,166 --> 01:18:25,333 You watched me play into my, 709 01:18:26,291 --> 01:18:29,083 like before my back just was not good 710 01:18:29,083 --> 01:18:29,916 enough to do it anymore 711 01:18:29,916 --> 01:18:30,750 but I was still playing 712 01:18:30,750 --> 01:18:31,541 at a pretty high level 713 01:18:32,041 --> 01:18:33,458 when you watched me in that last one. 714 01:18:34,291 --> 01:18:34,875 Would you say I was 715 01:18:34,875 --> 01:18:35,833 pretty intense in that? 716 01:18:36,250 --> 01:18:36,458 Yeah. 717 01:18:37,333 --> 01:18:37,500 Yeah. 718 01:18:37,958 --> 01:18:38,000 Yeah. 719 01:18:38,000 --> 01:18:38,958 I was very intense. 720 01:18:38,958 --> 01:18:40,791 Like, I was overly intense. 721 01:18:41,125 --> 01:18:41,458 Yeah. 722 01:18:41,458 --> 01:18:42,666 Like, I've had people 723 01:18:42,666 --> 01:18:43,791 many times say like, 724 01:18:44,166 --> 01:18:45,083 you don't look like you're 725 01:18:45,083 --> 01:18:46,750 having fun playing basketball, 726 01:18:46,750 --> 01:18:46,958 Sean. 727 01:18:47,625 --> 01:18:48,541 I'm like, I love it. 728 01:18:48,541 --> 01:18:49,750 It's the best time of my life. 729 01:18:50,166 --> 01:18:52,041 But I'm super intense. 730 01:18:52,583 --> 01:18:53,166 You know what I mean? 731 01:18:53,166 --> 01:18:54,166 And if you're on my team, 732 01:18:54,166 --> 01:18:55,208 expect for high expectations. 733 01:18:56,708 --> 01:18:57,583 Not anymore, because I'm 734 01:18:57,583 --> 01:18:58,166 probably the worst player 735 01:18:58,166 --> 01:18:58,750 on the team now, 736 01:18:58,750 --> 01:18:59,666 because I just, I haven't 737 01:18:59,666 --> 01:19:00,750 played around in a long time. 738 01:19:01,875 --> 01:19:03,500 But that's where I got all of it out. 739 01:19:03,708 --> 01:19:07,541 Like, I was so much less stressed then, 740 01:19:07,541 --> 01:19:08,416 but I also had a lot of 741 01:19:08,416 --> 01:19:09,708 less on my plate then. 742 01:19:09,875 --> 01:19:10,041 Yeah. 743 01:19:11,125 --> 01:19:13,666 Hence why I want to start 744 01:19:13,666 --> 01:19:14,541 playing basketball again. 745 01:19:14,541 --> 01:19:15,375 I was, I'm just curious. 746 01:19:15,666 --> 01:19:16,583 Because I did play, 747 01:19:16,583 --> 01:19:17,833 remember like a year or two ago? 748 01:19:17,833 --> 01:19:18,041 Yeah. 749 01:19:18,625 --> 01:19:19,500 And it was great. 750 01:19:19,500 --> 01:19:20,166 It was fantastic. 751 01:19:20,666 --> 01:19:20,875 Yeah. 752 01:19:21,666 --> 01:19:22,500 It was, yeah. 753 01:19:23,500 --> 01:19:24,750 And that's something you can 754 01:19:24,750 --> 01:19:27,208 do every day and get it out. 755 01:19:27,458 --> 01:19:28,416 Well, I'm not gonna do it every day, 756 01:19:28,416 --> 01:19:29,250 but if I can do it, you 757 01:19:29,250 --> 01:19:30,416 know, two or three times a week 758 01:19:30,416 --> 01:19:32,500 with a bunch of old guys, you know, 759 01:19:33,666 --> 01:19:34,458 hobbling up and down the 760 01:19:34,458 --> 01:19:35,750 court, great, you know. 761 01:19:36,250 --> 01:19:37,166 I actually bought two new 762 01:19:37,166 --> 01:19:38,583 pairs of basketball shorts, 763 01:19:38,583 --> 01:19:39,000 because I don't have any 764 01:19:39,000 --> 01:19:39,958 basketball shorts anymore, 765 01:19:41,083 --> 01:19:41,458 to wear. 766 01:19:42,583 --> 01:19:44,916 So, I think I'm gonna go join that club. 767 01:19:45,125 --> 01:19:46,208 I'm gonna go join it and see 768 01:19:46,208 --> 01:19:47,166 if I can get in some games. 769 01:19:47,166 --> 01:19:48,875 Hopefully my back cooperates, 770 01:19:48,875 --> 01:19:49,541 because that's the biggest thing. 771 01:19:49,791 --> 01:19:51,791 And I'm nervous about my knee too, 772 01:19:51,791 --> 01:19:53,166 hoping my knee cooperates. 773 01:19:53,500 --> 01:19:53,791 Yeah. 774 01:19:53,833 --> 01:19:54,958 You know, I don't want to be on crutches 775 01:19:54,958 --> 01:19:55,916 when we go on vacation. 776 01:19:56,791 --> 01:19:57,125 No. 777 01:19:57,125 --> 01:19:58,125 You know, but I also can't 778 01:19:58,125 --> 01:19:59,250 live my life scared of it. 779 01:19:59,333 --> 01:19:59,541 Right. 780 01:20:00,291 --> 01:20:02,166 I know, it's such a fine balance. 781 01:20:03,083 --> 01:20:03,958 And to be clear, this 782 01:20:03,958 --> 01:20:04,583 is one of those things, 783 01:20:04,875 --> 01:20:06,333 and this is an insight into our marriage, 784 01:20:06,333 --> 01:20:07,291 because everybody's real 785 01:20:07,291 --> 01:20:09,458 people, you know, that, 786 01:20:11,333 --> 01:20:12,125 how do I say this? 787 01:20:13,625 --> 01:20:14,625 Whenever I say 788 01:20:14,625 --> 01:20:17,416 exercising and staying in shape 789 01:20:17,416 --> 01:20:18,333 is important to me, 790 01:20:18,708 --> 01:20:20,583 when I say that, you immediately say, 791 01:20:20,833 --> 01:20:22,375 what you hear me saying is that, 792 01:20:22,791 --> 01:20:24,416 you're not good enough, right? 793 01:20:24,666 --> 01:20:25,125 Because that's kind 794 01:20:25,125 --> 01:20:26,125 of where you went too, 795 01:20:26,125 --> 01:20:27,500 like, I'm not happy with the way I look. 796 01:20:27,500 --> 01:20:28,750 And it's like, no, you look fantastic. 797 01:20:29,000 --> 01:20:29,750 You really do. 798 01:20:29,750 --> 01:20:30,416 You look incredible. 799 01:20:30,416 --> 01:20:32,875 You've had three children, you're mid, 800 01:20:35,125 --> 01:20:35,166 (imitates 801 01:20:48,708 --> 01:20:50,041 dog barking) 802 01:20:50,041 --> 01:20:51,166 walking 30 minutes a day 803 01:20:51,166 --> 01:20:53,041 or jogging 30 minutes a day, 804 01:20:53,333 --> 01:20:54,375 is it gonna get you in shape? 805 01:20:55,083 --> 01:20:55,833 It's a stress relief. 806 01:20:56,125 --> 01:20:56,333 Yeah. 807 01:20:57,083 --> 01:20:57,500 You know what I mean? 808 01:20:57,833 --> 01:20:58,000 Yeah. 809 01:20:58,000 --> 01:20:59,166 And if that stress release 810 01:20:59,166 --> 01:21:01,625 ends up making your life better 811 01:21:02,125 --> 01:21:03,375 because you can enjoy it more, 812 01:21:03,791 --> 01:21:05,291 that was kind of where I was coming from, 813 01:21:05,291 --> 01:21:07,541 not from, hey Megan, you're fat. 814 01:21:08,125 --> 01:21:08,500 You know what I mean? 815 01:21:08,500 --> 01:21:09,125 Right, right. 816 01:21:09,375 --> 01:21:10,166 I don't think you're fat. 817 01:21:10,500 --> 01:21:11,958 I think everybody out there 818 01:21:11,958 --> 01:21:14,625 would drag me behind a horse 819 01:21:14,916 --> 01:21:17,125 tied up if I thought you were fat 820 01:21:17,125 --> 01:21:18,250 or I insinuated you're fat. 821 01:21:18,500 --> 01:21:20,958 You're incredibly good shape, right? 822 01:21:20,958 --> 01:21:22,291 You're a small person. 823 01:21:23,375 --> 01:21:24,541 That's not the point of it. 824 01:21:24,583 --> 01:21:24,833 Yeah. 825 01:21:24,875 --> 01:21:25,416 You know what I'm saying? 826 01:21:25,875 --> 01:21:27,375 But I think there's more to life, 827 01:21:27,416 --> 01:21:28,291 especially when we're 828 01:21:28,291 --> 01:21:31,125 trying to extend, you know, 829 01:21:32,291 --> 01:21:35,458 enjoyable life, you know, being healthy. 830 01:21:36,041 --> 01:21:36,166 Right. 831 01:21:36,500 --> 01:21:36,750 Right? 832 01:21:37,125 --> 01:21:37,250 Yeah. 833 01:21:37,250 --> 01:21:37,541 Because we have 834 01:21:37,541 --> 01:21:39,500 plenty of time to get fat. 835 01:21:40,250 --> 01:21:40,375 Yeah, I don't-- 836 01:21:40,375 --> 01:21:41,500 I'm just not ready to be there yet. 837 01:21:41,500 --> 01:21:42,833 I'm not ready to be there either. 838 01:21:42,916 --> 01:21:43,666 And if I'm being honest, 839 01:21:43,666 --> 01:21:44,583 I hope you're not ready to be there. 840 01:21:44,625 --> 01:21:45,875 No, I'm not ready to be there. 841 01:21:46,125 --> 01:21:47,125 Like, no. 842 01:21:47,125 --> 01:21:47,875 And you're not there. 843 01:21:48,666 --> 01:21:49,833 And you're not saying that to me. 844 01:21:49,833 --> 01:21:50,041 No. 845 01:21:50,333 --> 01:21:50,708 Right? 846 01:21:50,708 --> 01:21:52,458 So I'm just trying to be clear about that 847 01:21:52,458 --> 01:21:54,958 because I wasn't trying to be accusatory 848 01:21:54,958 --> 01:21:56,166 when I used the word sedentary. 849 01:21:56,750 --> 01:21:57,875 But after our conversation, 850 01:21:57,875 --> 01:21:59,041 it just felt like you're like, 851 01:21:59,416 --> 01:22:00,416 there's no time for it. 852 01:22:00,666 --> 01:22:01,416 I'm not gonna, it's 853 01:22:01,416 --> 01:22:02,083 just not gonna happen. 854 01:22:02,458 --> 01:22:05,083 Well, I would love it if there was, 855 01:22:05,791 --> 01:22:07,000 if I could do something 856 01:22:07,000 --> 01:22:08,291 other than wake up at, 857 01:22:08,875 --> 01:22:10,625 right now, the only option I have, 858 01:22:10,625 --> 01:22:11,375 maybe I should say this, 859 01:22:11,666 --> 01:22:15,000 right now the only option would be 5 a.m. 860 01:22:15,375 --> 01:22:15,750 Like-- 861 01:22:16,208 --> 01:22:17,625 And I literally said 20 minutes ago, 862 01:22:17,958 --> 01:22:18,500 we're not gonna do that. 863 01:22:18,500 --> 01:22:19,500 I don't wanna do that. 864 01:22:19,500 --> 01:22:20,416 We're gonna get to bed early. 865 01:22:20,416 --> 01:22:23,208 And I am not 866 01:22:23,208 --> 01:22:26,166 disciplined enough to do that. 867 01:22:28,000 --> 01:22:31,833 There was five years there where I was 868 01:22:31,833 --> 01:22:32,916 really good about it. 869 01:22:32,916 --> 01:22:33,458 And the kids' 870 01:22:33,458 --> 01:22:34,708 schedules were perfect, right? 871 01:22:34,708 --> 01:22:35,375 They were on the bus 872 01:22:35,375 --> 01:22:38,291 by 6.50 in the morning. 873 01:22:38,291 --> 01:22:39,666 I could get my workout in. 874 01:22:39,958 --> 01:22:41,541 I could shower and be at my 875 01:22:41,541 --> 01:22:42,916 desk by 8.15 in the morning. 876 01:22:42,916 --> 01:22:43,583 That was perfect. 877 01:22:43,791 --> 01:22:45,791 And then schedules. 878 01:22:46,000 --> 01:22:46,875 And then I was like, okay, 879 01:22:46,875 --> 01:22:48,000 well, let me do it after. 880 01:22:48,208 --> 01:22:48,458 Yeah. 881 01:22:49,958 --> 01:22:51,833 And then, you know, it's just, 882 01:22:52,791 --> 01:22:54,291 our children's evolving schedules. 883 01:22:54,291 --> 01:22:56,583 It's not necessarily our schedule. 884 01:22:56,791 --> 01:22:58,083 It's theirs that have 885 01:22:58,083 --> 01:22:59,458 evolved and make it, 886 01:22:59,750 --> 01:23:01,125 I feel like a brand new challenge. 887 01:23:01,125 --> 01:23:03,083 And right now we have two kids 888 01:23:04,125 --> 01:23:06,416 in not only their school season, 889 01:23:06,416 --> 01:23:08,833 but also still doing 890 01:23:08,833 --> 01:23:11,041 club stuff for their sport. 891 01:23:11,916 --> 01:23:16,041 So we have more things now in a week day, 892 01:23:16,750 --> 01:23:18,125 like our week nights. 893 01:23:19,000 --> 01:23:20,000 I know you're not into 894 01:23:20,000 --> 01:23:20,750 New Year's resolutions. 895 01:23:21,083 --> 01:23:22,500 We covered that earlier this year. 896 01:23:23,000 --> 01:23:25,541 But I would do, I'd be 897 01:23:25,541 --> 01:23:28,375 willing to do a mid-March 898 01:23:29,708 --> 01:23:31,583 resolution with you and say, 899 01:23:31,583 --> 01:23:32,458 if you wanna get up, 900 01:23:32,458 --> 01:23:33,166 I'll get up with you. 901 01:23:33,500 --> 01:23:34,291 If that's what we wanna 902 01:23:34,291 --> 01:23:35,500 do, I'll do it with you. 903 01:23:35,500 --> 01:23:35,958 And then we can hold 904 01:23:35,958 --> 01:23:36,583 each other accountable. 905 01:23:36,875 --> 01:23:37,583 Like, do you wanna sleep in? 906 01:23:38,333 --> 01:23:39,500 One of us has to say no. 907 01:23:40,583 --> 01:23:41,500 We gotta get out of bed. 908 01:23:42,000 --> 01:23:43,500 You don't have to commit to it now. 909 01:23:43,916 --> 01:23:44,416 I don't either. 910 01:23:45,083 --> 01:23:46,208 But I think we should 911 01:23:46,208 --> 01:23:47,583 find times to do that. 912 01:23:47,583 --> 01:23:48,500 Because it's hard for me, 913 01:23:48,833 --> 01:23:50,333 and I have a way more 914 01:23:50,333 --> 01:23:51,916 flexible schedule than you. 915 01:23:52,500 --> 01:23:54,416 I mean, we're exactly 916 01:23:54,416 --> 01:23:55,833 opposite in our schedules. 917 01:23:56,833 --> 01:23:57,750 I have complete 918 01:23:57,750 --> 01:23:59,000 flexibility for the most part, 919 01:23:59,250 --> 01:23:59,791 on most days. 920 01:24:00,875 --> 01:24:02,375 And even then, I'm like 921 01:24:02,375 --> 01:24:04,458 rushing to try to find the time 922 01:24:04,458 --> 01:24:05,916 to put it in my schedule too. 923 01:24:06,500 --> 01:24:06,958 You know what I mean? 924 01:24:07,666 --> 01:24:09,958 If I do it at eight, by 925 01:24:09,958 --> 01:24:10,833 the time I'm showered now, 926 01:24:11,041 --> 01:24:11,583 it's 9.15. 927 01:24:11,958 --> 01:24:14,000 And in my mind, I'm like, gosh, 9.15. 928 01:24:14,625 --> 01:24:15,583 Or if I ended up doing 929 01:24:15,583 --> 01:24:17,291 something from eight to nine, 930 01:24:17,291 --> 01:24:17,791 because I just needed to 931 01:24:17,791 --> 01:24:19,000 get that done off my desk. 932 01:24:19,666 --> 01:24:20,750 And now it's 10.15. 933 01:24:21,708 --> 01:24:22,375 Now I feel like, oh my 934 01:24:22,375 --> 01:24:24,166 gosh, my whole morning shot. 935 01:24:25,000 --> 01:24:26,000 And all I did was work out. 936 01:24:26,000 --> 01:24:26,750 Not true, I've already done 937 01:24:26,750 --> 01:24:27,666 two and a half hours of work. 938 01:24:28,416 --> 01:24:30,833 But my mind doesn't work that way. 939 01:24:31,541 --> 01:24:32,958 It tells me like, oh my God, 940 01:24:32,958 --> 01:24:34,416 you're getting your day started at 10.15. 941 01:24:35,166 --> 01:24:35,541 Totally. 942 01:24:36,000 --> 01:24:36,875 And then I would've thought we'd do. 943 01:24:38,333 --> 01:24:39,583 Yeah, even when I was at the bank, 944 01:24:39,583 --> 01:24:41,791 I knew guys all the time, every day 945 01:24:41,791 --> 01:24:44,291 they'd go 12 to 1.15 946 01:24:44,291 --> 01:24:45,833 and get their workout in, over lunch. 947 01:24:46,208 --> 01:24:46,583 You know what I mean? 948 01:24:47,000 --> 01:24:48,250 And I never did that. 949 01:24:48,250 --> 01:24:49,333 I hated that, because it 950 01:24:49,333 --> 01:24:50,333 was like, are you kidding me? 951 01:24:51,083 --> 01:24:52,708 You got that much time in your day? 952 01:24:52,708 --> 01:24:53,458 Good for you. 953 01:24:53,791 --> 01:24:55,583 I know, I knew people that did that too. 954 01:24:56,250 --> 01:24:57,083 First off, then I'm 955 01:24:57,083 --> 01:24:58,166 sweating the rest of the day, 956 01:24:58,166 --> 01:24:59,666 because I didn't have time to cool down. 957 01:25:00,083 --> 01:25:00,291 Yeah. 958 01:25:00,708 --> 01:25:01,125 You know? 959 01:25:01,958 --> 01:25:02,666 Right, right. 960 01:25:03,583 --> 01:25:06,166 Well, I think that's harder for women. 961 01:25:06,416 --> 01:25:07,708 And if those watching 962 01:25:07,708 --> 01:25:09,041 are one of those women who 963 01:25:09,666 --> 01:25:12,250 wakes up and is like, I'm good to go, 964 01:25:12,500 --> 01:25:14,458 and maybe splash some water on my face 965 01:25:14,458 --> 01:25:15,291 and brush my teeth, and 966 01:25:15,291 --> 01:25:16,375 I'm ready to go for the date. 967 01:25:17,125 --> 01:25:18,000 Kudos to you. 968 01:25:18,500 --> 01:25:19,833 I am not one of those women. 969 01:25:20,166 --> 01:25:23,166 It, as unmade up as I 970 01:25:23,166 --> 01:25:24,833 am, most of the time, 971 01:25:26,125 --> 01:25:27,291 it still takes a long time. 972 01:25:28,333 --> 01:25:29,875 Like, it really does. 973 01:25:30,500 --> 01:25:31,500 I don't, you know, I 974 01:25:31,500 --> 01:25:33,041 have to flat iron my hair, 975 01:25:33,083 --> 01:25:34,041 because I have really bad hair. 976 01:25:34,375 --> 01:25:37,250 Like, if I let it go, 977 01:25:38,375 --> 01:25:39,500 people would be like, 978 01:25:39,500 --> 01:25:41,083 what happened to you? 979 01:25:41,583 --> 01:25:42,333 You know, like, did 980 01:25:42,333 --> 01:25:43,791 you shower anytime soon? 981 01:25:43,833 --> 01:25:44,916 Did you just come in from the rain? 982 01:25:45,125 --> 01:25:45,250 Right. 983 01:25:45,250 --> 01:25:45,916 It was a quote. 984 01:25:45,958 --> 01:25:47,500 I believe I've gotten that, yes. 985 01:25:47,791 --> 01:25:48,666 Someone did look at me and 986 01:25:48,666 --> 01:25:50,333 like, oh, is it raining outside? 987 01:25:50,333 --> 01:25:51,083 And I was like, no, I 988 01:25:51,083 --> 01:25:52,125 just didn't do my hair. 989 01:25:53,500 --> 01:25:56,000 So I do need to put in 990 01:25:56,000 --> 01:25:57,166 a little bit of effort. 991 01:25:57,208 --> 01:25:58,541 That wouldn't hurt, that wouldn't hurt. 992 01:25:58,541 --> 01:25:59,041 If you know who you 993 01:25:59,041 --> 01:26:00,000 are, that wouldn't hurt. 994 01:26:02,041 --> 01:26:04,541 Yeah, it's like, no, no, it's actually a 995 01:26:04,541 --> 01:26:05,500 beautiful sunny day. 996 01:26:06,000 --> 01:26:07,500 Well, I just, I mean, I 997 01:26:07,500 --> 01:26:08,625 didn't mean to cut you off there, 998 01:26:08,625 --> 01:26:10,166 but I bring all that up because, I mean, 999 01:26:10,250 --> 01:26:10,833 everybody out there, I 1000 01:26:10,833 --> 01:26:12,125 mean, like, I know, you know, 1001 01:26:12,125 --> 01:26:12,791 there's people in my 1002 01:26:12,791 --> 01:26:14,000 family, older generations, 1003 01:26:14,000 --> 01:26:14,666 but not that, you 1004 01:26:14,666 --> 01:26:15,500 know, they're still like, 1005 01:26:16,083 --> 01:26:16,458 trying to figure out 1006 01:26:16,458 --> 01:26:17,000 how to stay in shape. 1007 01:26:17,625 --> 01:26:19,166 I mean, that's a whole other generation. 1008 01:26:19,166 --> 01:26:21,166 That's another 20, that's another quarter 1009 01:26:21,166 --> 01:26:22,333 century ahead of us. 1010 01:26:22,375 --> 01:26:22,666 Yeah. 1011 01:26:22,750 --> 01:26:24,958 That we're still gonna be thinking 1012 01:26:24,958 --> 01:26:26,458 about this exact same thing. 1013 01:26:26,458 --> 01:26:26,833 Oh yeah. 1014 01:26:28,791 --> 01:26:29,750 I mean, I kind of pivoted 1015 01:26:29,750 --> 01:26:31,250 there from stress mitigation 1016 01:26:31,625 --> 01:26:34,583 to staying in shape, but it's similar. 1017 01:26:34,875 --> 01:26:35,083 Yeah. 1018 01:26:35,125 --> 01:26:35,875 Because I think a lot of 1019 01:26:35,875 --> 01:26:37,541 people, if you look at things, 1020 01:26:37,541 --> 01:26:38,458 how to mitigate stress, 1021 01:26:39,041 --> 01:26:40,458 exercise is in the top three 1022 01:26:40,458 --> 01:26:40,875 every time. 1023 01:26:40,875 --> 01:26:41,500 All the time. 1024 01:26:41,791 --> 01:26:42,083 Right? 1025 01:26:42,083 --> 01:26:43,666 It might even be the number one. 1026 01:26:43,666 --> 01:26:44,458 It may even be number one 1027 01:26:44,458 --> 01:26:45,458 across the board all the time. 1028 01:26:45,458 --> 01:26:46,958 So that's why I'm always like, you know, 1029 01:26:46,958 --> 01:26:47,791 we just gotta find, you 1030 01:26:47,791 --> 01:26:50,000 gotta, you, in these times, 1031 01:26:50,000 --> 01:26:51,125 when we're as stressed as we are, 1032 01:26:51,500 --> 01:26:53,041 gotta find a way to get that out. 1033 01:26:53,083 --> 01:26:53,125 Yeah. 1034 01:26:53,125 --> 01:26:53,458 You know what I mean? 1035 01:26:53,875 --> 01:26:55,625 Pickleball, you gotta get a hobby. 1036 01:26:56,250 --> 01:26:57,250 You gotta find some hobby 1037 01:26:57,250 --> 01:27:01,166 that gets your heart rate up. 1038 01:27:01,166 --> 01:27:01,500 Yeah. You know what I mean? 1039 01:27:01,708 --> 01:27:01,916 Yeah. 1040 01:27:02,333 --> 01:27:03,958 Gets you in an un-collection of money. 1041 01:27:03,958 --> 01:27:04,291 Because that's the only 1042 01:27:04,291 --> 01:27:06,041 way I can de-stress for me. 1043 01:27:06,666 --> 01:27:08,291 Usually it is exercising, 1044 01:27:08,791 --> 01:27:09,708 because then my mind goes 1045 01:27:09,875 --> 01:27:11,750 somewhere else and competition's huge. 1046 01:27:12,333 --> 01:27:14,416 But if it's not, then it's like, I gotta, 1047 01:27:14,833 --> 01:27:15,875 I gotta watch a movie or 1048 01:27:15,875 --> 01:27:17,000 I gotta work on a project 1049 01:27:17,000 --> 01:27:18,291 and that's how I detach, you know? 1050 01:27:18,291 --> 01:27:18,708 But I mean, I know 1051 01:27:18,708 --> 01:27:19,666 there's people watching this 1052 01:27:19,666 --> 01:27:21,250 that have been, they've 1053 01:27:21,250 --> 01:27:22,000 been having to figure it out 1054 01:27:22,000 --> 01:27:24,791 for the last life of theirs as well. 1055 01:27:24,916 --> 01:27:25,208 Yeah. 1056 01:27:25,750 --> 01:27:27,041 It's not easy. 1057 01:27:27,041 --> 01:27:27,958 I think everybody, it's 1058 01:27:27,958 --> 01:27:29,416 something that every human deals 1059 01:27:29,583 --> 01:27:30,375 with. Yeah. 1060 01:27:30,375 --> 01:27:32,166 Every human deals with, you know, like, 1061 01:27:32,166 --> 01:27:33,833 I don't wanna let 1062 01:27:33,833 --> 01:27:35,875 myself go, but, you know, 1063 01:27:36,041 --> 01:27:37,791 10 years ago, it just kinda started going 1064 01:27:37,791 --> 01:27:39,166 and now I'm 10 years down that road. 1065 01:27:39,166 --> 01:27:40,125 And how do I get that back? 1066 01:27:40,166 --> 01:27:40,625 Get it back. 1067 01:27:41,041 --> 01:27:42,208 You know, because I feel like that, like, 1068 01:27:42,208 --> 01:27:43,000 three years ago, I had 1069 01:27:43,000 --> 01:27:43,791 to kinda turn the corner. 1070 01:27:45,000 --> 01:27:47,208 And that's getting into my late 40s. 1071 01:27:47,208 --> 01:27:48,041 So I mean, I know my 1072 01:27:48,041 --> 01:27:49,416 metabolism is all, you know, 1073 01:27:49,416 --> 01:27:50,291 just getting older, 1074 01:27:50,291 --> 01:27:51,125 but like three years ago, 1075 01:27:51,125 --> 01:27:51,708 I was like, man, I 1076 01:27:51,708 --> 01:27:53,333 turned a corner where I'm not, 1077 01:27:54,708 --> 01:27:58,208 I have to really try now not to be 1078 01:27:59,625 --> 01:27:59,875 fat. 1079 01:28:01,083 --> 01:28:01,583 (laughs) You know what I mean? 1080 01:28:01,916 --> 01:28:03,833 I mean, I could be fat real quick. 1081 01:28:04,375 --> 01:28:05,208 I don't think you could. 1082 01:28:05,666 --> 01:28:06,458 Oh no, I could. 1083 01:28:07,416 --> 01:28:08,750 (laughs) I'm surprised you say that. 1084 01:28:10,000 --> 01:28:11,208 You've always had a 1085 01:28:11,208 --> 01:28:12,916 really good metabolism and-- 1086 01:28:12,958 --> 01:28:13,833 No, I don't anymore. 1087 01:28:14,083 --> 01:28:15,750 It's because I watch what I eat as much, 1088 01:28:15,750 --> 01:28:16,750 and I still eat horrible. 1089 01:28:17,166 --> 01:28:17,541 Yeah. 1090 01:28:17,625 --> 01:28:19,000 I'll gain like 10 pounds and it's like, 1091 01:28:19,000 --> 01:28:20,125 I gotta get rid of that 10 pounds. 1092 01:28:20,166 --> 01:28:20,375 Yeah. 1093 01:28:20,791 --> 01:28:23,083 And that's the biggest difference 1094 01:28:23,250 --> 01:28:24,000 in the last five years. 1095 01:28:24,291 --> 01:28:25,291 My late 40s to my 1096 01:28:25,291 --> 01:28:27,125 early 40s, that 10 pounds, 1097 01:28:27,708 --> 01:28:28,791 I could drop it in two 1098 01:28:28,791 --> 01:28:30,875 weeks in my younger years. 1099 01:28:30,916 --> 01:28:31,750 Oh, for sure. 1100 01:28:31,833 --> 01:28:32,083 Right? 1101 01:28:32,125 --> 01:28:32,375 Yeah. 1102 01:28:32,791 --> 01:28:33,333 And it would be like, 1103 01:28:33,333 --> 01:28:34,416 okay, no harm, no foul. 1104 01:28:34,833 --> 01:28:38,416 Now, it's like, first off, can't drop it. 1105 01:28:39,041 --> 01:28:41,083 Second off, it's not no harm, no foul. 1106 01:28:41,541 --> 01:28:41,916 Right. 1107 01:28:41,916 --> 01:28:43,791 It's that permanent fat, you know. 1108 01:28:44,125 --> 01:28:44,916 It's there. 1109 01:28:44,958 --> 01:28:46,500 That I know exactly where it's at. 1110 01:28:47,083 --> 01:28:47,666 You know what I mean? 1111 01:28:47,666 --> 01:28:48,916 And I hate it. 1112 01:28:49,416 --> 01:28:51,625 Because it's not 24 year old Sean. 1113 01:28:52,000 --> 01:28:53,541 I have the same thing about myself. 1114 01:28:54,166 --> 01:28:55,083 I mean, everybody does, 1115 01:28:55,083 --> 01:28:56,125 and that's something that's hard. 1116 01:28:56,916 --> 01:28:57,833 Now we have pivoted 1117 01:28:57,833 --> 01:28:59,708 into what you look like, 1118 01:28:59,708 --> 01:29:01,333 which wasn't the point really on. 1119 01:29:01,666 --> 01:29:01,875 Right. 1120 01:29:02,083 --> 01:29:02,958 I still think you're sexy. 1121 01:29:03,208 --> 01:29:04,125 I will put it out there again. 1122 01:29:06,708 --> 01:29:08,708 (laughing) So, all right, well, let's see. 1123 01:29:09,708 --> 01:29:10,958 We're trying to keep these shorter 1124 01:29:10,958 --> 01:29:11,750 because they're getting 1125 01:29:11,750 --> 01:29:13,625 longer and longer and longer, 1126 01:29:13,625 --> 01:29:14,750 especially when we haven't seen each 1127 01:29:14,750 --> 01:29:15,041 other for four days. 1128 01:29:15,083 --> 01:29:15,333 Yes. 1129 01:29:17,000 --> 01:29:19,083 So, do you have any I'm Peeped? 1130 01:29:19,083 --> 01:29:20,416 I have one, but do you have any? 1131 01:29:20,458 --> 01:29:21,791 You go for your I'm Peeped. 1132 01:29:21,875 --> 01:29:22,708 I'll go first. 1133 01:29:22,708 --> 01:29:23,125 Yeah. 1134 01:29:23,541 --> 01:29:24,333 Just since I'll give you 1135 01:29:24,333 --> 01:29:25,208 time to think about it. 1136 01:29:25,208 --> 01:29:27,291 But I was flying home last night 1137 01:29:27,833 --> 01:29:28,666 and Southwest has 1138 01:29:28,666 --> 01:29:30,458 changed their new thing, right? 1139 01:29:30,458 --> 01:29:32,666 So now it's not, so we have all, 1140 01:29:32,666 --> 01:29:33,916 I've been with Southwest forever. 1141 01:29:33,916 --> 01:29:34,125 Yeah. 1142 01:29:34,125 --> 01:29:34,958 So we have points, we have 1143 01:29:34,958 --> 01:29:36,000 all the status with them. 1144 01:29:36,000 --> 01:29:36,708 Everybody flies free. 1145 01:29:36,708 --> 01:29:38,333 We never pay for flights 1146 01:29:38,333 --> 01:29:38,958 because we have points. 1147 01:29:39,250 --> 01:29:39,458 Yeah. 1148 01:29:39,958 --> 01:29:41,875 So it's always been, I'm 1149 01:29:41,875 --> 01:29:42,791 one of the first ones on, 1150 01:29:43,041 --> 01:29:43,833 no big deal, we get 1151 01:29:43,833 --> 01:29:45,625 on wherever the seat is 1152 01:29:45,625 --> 01:29:47,000 and the bin space, we get on. 1153 01:29:47,458 --> 01:29:47,500 Right. 1154 01:29:47,500 --> 01:29:48,541 Now they have assigned seats. 1155 01:29:49,041 --> 01:29:49,916 So the way it works is 1156 01:29:49,916 --> 01:29:51,375 there's like eight groups to get on. 1157 01:29:51,791 --> 01:29:53,125 Right, and you're in group one, 1158 01:29:53,125 --> 01:29:54,500 which is like 20 people, group two, 1159 01:29:54,500 --> 01:29:56,500 which is like 20 people and God forbid 1160 01:29:56,500 --> 01:29:57,708 I was anything after that. 1161 01:29:58,750 --> 01:29:58,791 (laughing) 1162 01:29:58,958 --> 01:29:59,083 Right. 1163 01:30:01,083 --> 01:30:02,833 Anyways, because group, 1164 01:30:02,833 --> 01:30:04,041 because pre-boards get on 1165 01:30:04,041 --> 01:30:05,666 and then group one gets on, I'm in group 1166 01:30:05,666 --> 01:30:06,166 one most of the time 1167 01:30:06,166 --> 01:30:06,916 but now you're 1168 01:30:06,916 --> 01:30:08,125 fighting in that group one. 1169 01:30:08,125 --> 01:30:11,250 There's no like, oh hey, you know, 1170 01:30:11,250 --> 01:30:12,250 you're number one in group one, 1171 01:30:12,250 --> 01:30:12,833 you're number two, 1172 01:30:12,833 --> 01:30:13,625 number three, number four. 1173 01:30:13,625 --> 01:30:16,083 It's just whoever lines up first gets on. 1174 01:30:16,791 --> 01:30:18,125 Right, so even though I 1175 01:30:18,125 --> 01:30:19,500 might have the most seniority 1176 01:30:19,500 --> 01:30:21,375 at everybody there, I might be number 20 1177 01:30:21,458 --> 01:30:22,291 because I showed up late. 1178 01:30:22,333 --> 01:30:22,541 Right. 1179 01:30:22,958 --> 01:30:25,000 But the problem is now, it's great you 1180 01:30:25,000 --> 01:30:26,000 have your seat there 1181 01:30:26,666 --> 01:30:27,958 and even if I show up late 1182 01:30:27,958 --> 01:30:29,458 and I'm like the last person on, 1183 01:30:29,458 --> 01:30:32,333 my seat's there, row two, right? 1184 01:30:32,833 --> 01:30:33,916 Because I get priority, I 1185 01:30:33,916 --> 01:30:35,625 get priority picking my seat. 1186 01:30:35,625 --> 01:30:35,875 Right. 1187 01:30:36,291 --> 01:30:37,625 Row two or three is where we're gonna be 1188 01:30:38,541 --> 01:30:39,333 but there's no bin space. 1189 01:30:40,333 --> 01:30:41,666 There is no bin space. 1190 01:30:41,916 --> 01:30:43,791 So that's half my peeved 1191 01:30:43,791 --> 01:30:45,458 but here's my real pee from last night. 1192 01:30:45,916 --> 01:30:47,000 Because of that, last 1193 01:30:47,000 --> 01:30:48,708 night our youngest and I got, 1194 01:30:49,250 --> 01:30:50,666 we're group one. 1195 01:30:51,041 --> 01:30:52,166 We got in line, we happen to 1196 01:30:52,166 --> 01:30:53,541 be the first people in the line. 1197 01:30:54,125 --> 01:30:55,791 Not because I'm that anal about it 1198 01:30:55,791 --> 01:30:57,125 but it just happened to be that time, 1199 01:30:57,125 --> 01:30:58,333 it was the right time we got in. 1200 01:30:58,333 --> 01:30:59,208 Another guy got up right 1201 01:30:59,208 --> 01:31:00,541 behind us, I was talking to him. 1202 01:31:02,166 --> 01:31:03,708 And we're sitting there 1203 01:31:03,708 --> 01:31:04,875 and she calls everybody up 1204 01:31:04,875 --> 01:31:05,500 and everybody's sitting 1205 01:31:05,500 --> 01:31:07,125 there and this other lady, 1206 01:31:08,166 --> 01:31:09,958 a younger girl, gets 1207 01:31:09,958 --> 01:31:12,041 up, their headphones on, 1208 01:31:12,041 --> 01:31:12,833 one, one headphone, 1209 01:31:12,833 --> 01:31:13,541 she had the other one off 1210 01:31:13,541 --> 01:31:14,958 so I know she could hear things, whatnot. 1211 01:31:15,958 --> 01:31:17,833 She meanders and 1212 01:31:17,833 --> 01:31:19,750 stands right in front of me. 1213 01:31:20,500 --> 01:31:21,208 And I've been first in 1214 01:31:21,208 --> 01:31:22,291 this line the whole time. 1215 01:31:23,125 --> 01:31:25,958 Just meanders, she has no idea what's 1216 01:31:25,958 --> 01:31:26,583 going on in the world, 1217 01:31:26,583 --> 01:31:27,875 looking up at the ceiling 1218 01:31:29,250 --> 01:31:30,083 and just plants 1219 01:31:30,083 --> 01:31:32,333 herself dead in front of me. 1220 01:31:34,291 --> 01:31:35,083 In front of the line. 1221 01:31:35,083 --> 01:31:35,750 Are you serious? 1222 01:31:36,375 --> 01:31:37,250 She wasn't sitting 1223 01:31:37,250 --> 01:31:38,541 there, she wasn't waiting, 1224 01:31:38,541 --> 01:31:39,833 she just meandered up. 1225 01:31:40,375 --> 01:31:41,250 It's not like she was sitting, 1226 01:31:41,250 --> 01:31:41,958 because there's a chair right 1227 01:31:41,958 --> 01:31:42,625 there, you know what I mean? 1228 01:31:42,958 --> 01:31:44,000 If she was the one sitting there, 1229 01:31:44,000 --> 01:31:44,625 I'd be like, oh, you've been 1230 01:31:44,625 --> 01:31:45,333 sitting here for two hours, 1231 01:31:45,333 --> 01:31:46,458 that's fine, I get it. 1232 01:31:46,666 --> 01:31:47,750 You might've, I would've 1233 01:31:47,750 --> 01:31:48,833 allowed that a little bit. 1234 01:31:48,833 --> 01:31:49,291 Right, right. 1235 01:31:50,208 --> 01:31:51,958 I look at the guy who was 1236 01:31:51,958 --> 01:31:53,500 number three right behind us. 1237 01:31:53,541 --> 01:31:53,750 Yeah. 1238 01:31:54,916 --> 01:31:57,875 And he's like, are you kidding me? 1239 01:31:58,333 --> 01:31:59,541 He's like, what? 1240 01:32:00,375 --> 01:32:01,541 He was mad about it too. 1241 01:32:02,583 --> 01:32:03,750 Yeah. I'm like, I don't know, 1242 01:32:04,416 --> 01:32:05,041 and it's not like I'm 1243 01:32:05,041 --> 01:32:06,083 gonna get mad about it 1244 01:32:06,083 --> 01:32:07,375 and be like, excuse me. 1245 01:32:08,333 --> 01:32:08,958 I would? 1246 01:32:09,750 --> 01:32:11,041 No, it wasn't the right time, 1247 01:32:11,041 --> 01:32:12,166 it was not the right whatever. 1248 01:32:12,916 --> 01:32:13,958 But I was just, I cannot 1249 01:32:13,958 --> 01:32:15,416 believe people do that. 1250 01:32:15,416 --> 01:32:16,541 It's just, our youngest 1251 01:32:16,541 --> 01:32:17,375 son, you know what he says? 1252 01:32:17,916 --> 01:32:20,291 He goes, M.I.P. 1253 01:32:21,916 --> 01:32:23,625 Which in our family, M.I.P. 1254 01:32:24,291 --> 01:32:26,541 means most important person. 1255 01:32:26,916 --> 01:32:27,333 They're the most 1256 01:32:27,333 --> 01:32:28,375 important person in the world 1257 01:32:28,875 --> 01:32:29,708 and they're all over the place. 1258 01:32:29,708 --> 01:32:32,166 So any ever, anytime anybody does that, 1259 01:32:32,166 --> 01:32:33,625 cuts you off or whatever we call them, 1260 01:32:33,625 --> 01:32:35,000 oh, they must be an M.I.P. 1261 01:32:35,000 --> 01:32:36,750 They're the most important person ever. 1262 01:32:37,000 --> 01:32:37,208 Yeah. 1263 01:32:38,083 --> 01:32:39,625 Oh my, okay, so you 1264 01:32:39,625 --> 01:32:41,041 have left your mark on, 1265 01:32:41,458 --> 01:32:43,166 wow, I am so glad that he said that 1266 01:32:43,166 --> 01:32:44,375 because it's so true 1267 01:32:44,375 --> 01:32:46,083 and you just kind of let it go, I mean. 1268 01:32:46,583 --> 01:32:50,458 No wonder that peeved you, that's awful. 1269 01:32:50,458 --> 01:32:51,500 She did it twice too, 1270 01:32:51,500 --> 01:32:52,208 just to carry it on. 1271 01:32:52,416 --> 01:32:53,625 Now we are getting along. 1272 01:32:54,208 --> 01:32:55,208 She actually wandered 1273 01:32:55,208 --> 01:32:58,416 off and sat and I was like, 1274 01:32:58,416 --> 01:32:59,333 oh my gosh, and so then I 1275 01:32:59,333 --> 01:33:00,083 was talking to our youngest, 1276 01:33:00,083 --> 01:33:00,750 I was like, did you see 1277 01:33:00,750 --> 01:33:01,833 that girl come up here? 1278 01:33:01,833 --> 01:33:03,125 She like, just out of nowhere, stood 1279 01:33:03,125 --> 01:33:04,208 right in front of us. 1280 01:33:05,125 --> 01:33:05,833 And then I turned 1281 01:33:05,833 --> 01:33:07,500 around, oh, she sat in the seat 1282 01:33:07,500 --> 01:33:08,583 right behind me, so I'm 1283 01:33:08,583 --> 01:33:09,833 talking trash about her. 1284 01:33:10,375 --> 01:33:11,333 She's sitting right 1285 01:33:11,333 --> 01:33:12,625 behind me in the seat. 1286 01:33:13,166 --> 01:33:14,708 It was like perfect, like, 1287 01:33:14,708 --> 01:33:16,083 they're behind me, aren't they? 1288 01:33:17,500 --> 01:33:18,458 Right there, she's 1289 01:33:18,458 --> 01:33:19,750 right behind me, isn't she? 1290 01:33:22,666 --> 01:33:23,958 And I know before she had 1291 01:33:23,958 --> 01:33:25,083 one headphone on and one off, 1292 01:33:25,083 --> 01:33:26,208 so she probably heard me. 1293 01:33:27,833 --> 01:33:29,375 But I guess she was waiting for them to 1294 01:33:29,375 --> 01:33:30,333 do like another call 1295 01:33:30,333 --> 01:33:32,083 or whatever it was, or finally start 1296 01:33:32,083 --> 01:33:32,875 boarding pre-boarding. 1297 01:33:33,416 --> 01:33:34,125 But then she gets up 1298 01:33:34,125 --> 01:33:35,000 and she does it again, 1299 01:33:35,000 --> 01:33:35,708 just stands right in front 1300 01:33:35,708 --> 01:33:37,166 of us, like that's her spot. 1301 01:33:38,125 --> 01:33:40,041 Now, the last thing I'll say about this 1302 01:33:40,041 --> 01:33:40,750 and I'll turn it over, 1303 01:33:41,500 --> 01:33:43,291 she did have row number one. 1304 01:33:44,666 --> 01:33:49,250 So, I'm going to suggest that she is low, 1305 01:33:49,250 --> 01:33:53,291 I lower intelligence and 1306 01:33:53,291 --> 01:33:55,375 thought in her small brain 1307 01:33:56,875 --> 01:33:59,791 that because she was in row one, 1308 01:34:00,291 --> 01:34:02,166 that she gets in the front of the line. 1309 01:34:03,791 --> 01:34:04,666 Even though that has 1310 01:34:04,666 --> 01:34:05,625 nothing to do with anything. 1311 01:34:05,625 --> 01:34:05,958 No, it doesn't. 1312 01:34:05,958 --> 01:34:07,250 It has nothing to do with anything. 1313 01:34:07,500 --> 01:34:08,291 No, it doesn't, no. 1314 01:34:08,833 --> 01:34:10,375 I also noted when she got on 1315 01:34:10,500 --> 01:34:12,166 because she piqued my interest. 1316 01:34:13,916 --> 01:34:15,500 I also noted when she got on, 1317 01:34:15,875 --> 01:34:19,041 she had no idea that she 1318 01:34:19,041 --> 01:34:20,791 couldn't have stuff on her seat, 1319 01:34:20,791 --> 01:34:21,375 she didn't know where 1320 01:34:21,375 --> 01:34:22,416 to put her suitcase. 1321 01:34:23,583 --> 01:34:25,083 So, she had never 1322 01:34:25,083 --> 01:34:27,083 probably, she had no idea 1323 01:34:27,291 --> 01:34:28,333 what she was doing. Ever. 1324 01:34:29,166 --> 01:34:32,000 But clueless and I just, I don't 1325 01:34:32,000 --> 01:34:33,208 appreciate clueless people. 1326 01:34:34,375 --> 01:34:37,125 That is rich. Yeah. 1327 01:34:37,291 --> 01:34:38,625 The fact that she did it again. 1328 01:34:38,875 --> 01:34:41,666 Yeah, anyways, that's my peeve. 1329 01:34:41,666 --> 01:34:42,500 After you were talking 1330 01:34:42,500 --> 01:34:44,125 trash, which you know what? 1331 01:34:45,500 --> 01:34:46,333 Anybody is going to 1332 01:34:46,333 --> 01:34:47,000 look at that and be like, 1333 01:34:47,708 --> 01:34:48,916 are you serious? 1334 01:34:49,625 --> 01:34:50,750 Yeah, yeah. 1335 01:34:51,000 --> 01:34:52,166 Anybody, that is the 1336 01:34:52,166 --> 01:34:53,500 natural reaction there. 1337 01:34:54,041 --> 01:34:54,916 And so, if you don't 1338 01:34:54,916 --> 01:34:57,916 want people to talk smack, 1339 01:34:58,625 --> 01:35:00,500 then just follow social norms. 1340 01:35:00,916 --> 01:35:03,083 That's an unspoken rule. 1341 01:35:03,083 --> 01:35:04,125 Too hard, too hard. 1342 01:35:04,791 --> 01:35:06,041 Inside our household, we talk, 1343 01:35:06,375 --> 01:35:06,708 everybody knows 1344 01:35:06,708 --> 01:35:08,291 common sense is not common. 1345 01:35:08,916 --> 01:35:10,833 And that's putting it lightly. 1346 01:35:12,583 --> 01:35:13,333 There's a good 1347 01:35:13,333 --> 01:35:14,541 percentage of people out there 1348 01:35:14,541 --> 01:35:15,333 that don't get the world. 1349 01:35:15,666 --> 01:35:16,750 It's hard, the world's hard 1350 01:35:16,750 --> 01:35:17,833 for a lot of people, I think. 1351 01:35:18,250 --> 01:35:19,500 And I think she might be one of them. 1352 01:35:19,958 --> 01:35:20,250 Maybe. 1353 01:35:21,041 --> 01:35:21,708 And maybe she just 1354 01:35:21,708 --> 01:35:22,791 doesn't fly a whole lot. 1355 01:35:23,708 --> 01:35:24,125 Or ever. 1356 01:35:25,750 --> 01:35:27,208 Yeah, but that's only one of the boxes. 1357 01:35:27,916 --> 01:35:29,666 That's only one, that's 1358 01:35:29,666 --> 01:35:31,208 one percentage of the excuse 1359 01:35:31,208 --> 01:35:33,000 of just all the social norms that she 1360 01:35:33,000 --> 01:35:34,250 totally just stepped on. 1361 01:35:34,500 --> 01:35:35,583 You know she went through that metal 1362 01:35:35,583 --> 01:35:36,916 detector five times. 1363 01:35:37,208 --> 01:35:38,250 Like, was this line, were 1364 01:35:38,250 --> 01:35:39,291 you already standing here? 1365 01:35:39,666 --> 01:35:41,333 I'm number one, that's where I should go. 1366 01:35:42,000 --> 01:35:43,458 Nothing, you know what I mean? 1367 01:35:43,666 --> 01:35:44,583 The second time she came up there, 1368 01:35:44,958 --> 01:35:46,708 I looked at that guy, he looked at me, 1369 01:35:46,708 --> 01:35:49,791 and it was like we were brothers in rage. 1370 01:35:50,541 --> 01:35:52,416 Brothers in rage is what we were. 1371 01:35:53,000 --> 01:35:54,583 We had a tattoo on the plane together. 1372 01:35:56,333 --> 01:35:59,625 We got our tramp stamp, it's all right. 1373 01:36:00,375 --> 01:36:02,083 Oh my gosh. 1374 01:36:02,083 --> 01:36:03,416 But he was a talkative guy too, 1375 01:36:03,416 --> 01:36:04,416 so I was actually having 1376 01:36:04,416 --> 01:36:05,500 to put my headphones in. 1377 01:36:05,500 --> 01:36:07,625 They're like, "Oh, sorry, sorry." 1378 01:36:09,250 --> 01:36:10,708 I'm actually watching this game. 1379 01:36:12,208 --> 01:36:12,416 What? 1380 01:36:13,250 --> 01:36:13,458 Oh. 1381 01:36:15,708 --> 01:36:16,500 Oh my gosh, that's weird. 1382 01:36:16,500 --> 01:36:18,083 Like our moment of connection's over. 1383 01:36:18,083 --> 01:36:18,541 It's over. 1384 01:36:19,041 --> 01:36:22,375 Introvert, extrovert, I've famished. 1385 01:36:23,750 --> 01:36:25,916 Done a lot of communication. 1386 01:36:26,833 --> 01:36:28,083 I'm done, I'm done. 1387 01:36:29,416 --> 01:36:30,041 Anyways, that's it, I 1388 01:36:30,041 --> 01:36:30,791 got a lot of good stories. 1389 01:36:31,000 --> 01:36:32,541 Fun seeing all the family, you know, 1390 01:36:32,541 --> 01:36:33,666 all the dads out there and whatnot. 1391 01:36:34,041 --> 01:36:34,583 A lot of good stories 1392 01:36:34,583 --> 01:36:35,541 that I can tell you offline. 1393 01:36:36,041 --> 01:36:36,541 I love it. 1394 01:36:36,791 --> 01:36:37,583 Anything else for you? 1395 01:36:37,875 --> 01:36:40,750 I don't, and even if I 1396 01:36:40,750 --> 01:36:42,416 did, it could not touch that. 1397 01:36:42,875 --> 01:36:44,333 Because I think that would trigger 1398 01:36:44,625 --> 01:36:46,250 just about any rational person. 1399 01:36:47,041 --> 01:36:48,375 There's not many people who are like, 1400 01:36:48,791 --> 01:36:49,416 "You know, you put on 1401 01:36:49,416 --> 01:36:50,291 the Good Christian hat." 1402 01:36:50,291 --> 01:36:52,000 I'm like, "Sure, like one by one." 1403 01:36:52,000 --> 01:36:53,000 If someone asks, like, 1404 01:36:53,000 --> 01:36:54,041 "Would you mind if I..." 1405 01:36:55,375 --> 01:36:56,791 In that case, you say, "Yes." 1406 01:36:56,958 --> 01:36:58,000 Or, "Oh my gosh, am I 1407 01:36:58,000 --> 01:36:59,125 supposed to be here?" 1408 01:36:59,416 --> 01:37:01,583 In that case, you're all forgiven. 1409 01:37:02,166 --> 01:37:03,541 Right, that's right. 1410 01:37:03,791 --> 01:37:05,416 I think of what my buddy Troy would do. 1411 01:37:05,958 --> 01:37:06,750 Our good buddy Troy. 1412 01:37:07,708 --> 01:37:11,875 Troy would bestow a blessing upon her 1413 01:37:12,500 --> 01:37:14,708 and wish her well. 1414 01:37:15,250 --> 01:37:15,625 Pray for her. 1415 01:37:15,625 --> 01:37:16,000 What would Troy, 1416 01:37:16,000 --> 01:37:18,125 WWTD, what would Troy do? 1417 01:37:18,125 --> 01:37:21,250 WWTD, maybe pray for her to 1418 01:37:21,250 --> 01:37:23,500 get a little more observant 1419 01:37:23,583 --> 01:37:24,833 of social norms. 1420 01:37:25,083 --> 01:37:26,208 I've been looking for a 1421 01:37:26,208 --> 01:37:27,208 way to get Troy a shout out. 1422 01:37:27,458 --> 01:37:28,791 (laughing) 1423 01:37:29,208 --> 01:37:29,666 Hi, Troy. 1424 01:37:31,083 --> 01:37:31,916 (laughing) 1425 01:37:32,416 --> 01:37:33,000 Oh my gosh. 1426 01:37:33,333 --> 01:37:34,916 All right, well, let's call it then. 1427 01:37:35,416 --> 01:37:35,958 What do we got? 1428 01:37:35,958 --> 01:37:36,625 Anything you wanna highlight? 1429 01:37:37,000 --> 01:37:39,000 We're going to New York this week. 1430 01:37:39,000 --> 01:37:39,958 Going to New York this week. 1431 01:37:40,291 --> 01:37:41,166 This is Ayers, we'll all be back. 1432 01:37:42,208 --> 01:37:44,166 Our daughter is running at nationals. 1433 01:37:44,791 --> 01:37:45,083 Yeah. 1434 01:37:45,375 --> 01:37:45,750 It'll be interesting. 1435 01:37:46,000 --> 01:37:47,083 She's been dealing with this... 1436 01:37:48,208 --> 01:37:48,500 Injury? 1437 01:37:49,416 --> 01:37:50,541 Quad injury that we've been, 1438 01:37:51,125 --> 01:37:52,791 we spent a small fortune to tell 1439 01:37:52,791 --> 01:37:53,625 everybody to tell us. 1440 01:37:53,625 --> 01:37:54,291 It's a mild sprain. 1441 01:37:54,750 --> 01:37:54,791 Sprain? 1442 01:37:55,833 --> 01:37:56,916 Not a sprain, strain, right? 1443 01:37:57,208 --> 01:37:57,541 Sprain. 1444 01:37:57,875 --> 01:37:58,125 Strain? 1445 01:37:58,708 --> 01:37:58,916 Sprain. 1446 01:37:59,625 --> 01:38:01,041 Oh, you can sprain a quad? 1447 01:38:01,041 --> 01:38:02,250 I thought you strained a quad. 1448 01:38:02,916 --> 01:38:05,000 Oh, I don't know. 1449 01:38:05,541 --> 01:38:06,208 Sprain and ankle. 1450 01:38:06,708 --> 01:38:07,958 You strain a muscle. 1451 01:38:07,958 --> 01:38:08,750 Oh, there you go then. 1452 01:38:09,000 --> 01:38:09,333 I don't know. 1453 01:38:09,666 --> 01:38:10,875 You sprain a joint. 1454 01:38:10,875 --> 01:38:11,958 I think you strain a muscle. 1455 01:38:11,958 --> 01:38:12,458 Strain a muscle? 1456 01:38:12,708 --> 01:38:13,791 Well then, yeah, it's mild strain. 1457 01:38:14,083 --> 01:38:14,291 Great one. 1458 01:38:14,541 --> 01:38:15,291 You've been to two of the 1459 01:38:15,291 --> 01:38:16,375 three medical appointments. 1460 01:38:16,750 --> 01:38:18,208 Been to two, three, yeah. 1461 01:38:20,500 --> 01:38:20,625 Yeah. 1462 01:38:21,250 --> 01:38:22,250 Dr. Jenny was great, huh? 1463 01:38:22,333 --> 01:38:23,375 Dr. Jenny was great. 1464 01:38:23,375 --> 01:38:24,375 She's a riot. 1465 01:38:25,000 --> 01:38:25,791 Oh my gosh. 1466 01:38:25,875 --> 01:38:26,291 Hilarious. 1467 01:38:26,666 --> 01:38:27,750 I will tell you though, 1468 01:38:27,750 --> 01:38:28,500 I mean, that was like 1469 01:38:28,500 --> 01:38:30,041 boot camp for our daughter. 1470 01:38:30,541 --> 01:38:31,250 Holy moly. 1471 01:38:31,500 --> 01:38:32,125 First time was too. 1472 01:38:32,541 --> 01:38:32,791 Like, 1473 01:38:34,750 --> 01:38:35,708 I was just like, 1474 01:38:35,708 --> 01:38:36,791 "Oof, you got it. 1475 01:38:37,041 --> 01:38:37,708 "You go, girl." 1476 01:38:37,833 --> 01:38:38,750 I also was so 1477 01:38:38,750 --> 01:38:40,291 impressed with how our daughter 1478 01:38:40,458 --> 01:38:42,500 was doing all these exercises. 1479 01:38:43,000 --> 01:38:43,750 I was just like, 1480 01:38:44,166 --> 01:38:45,333 "Oh my gosh, I would 1481 01:38:45,333 --> 01:38:47,041 cripple, like most people would." 1482 01:38:47,041 --> 01:38:47,541 And she's like, "You 1483 01:38:47,541 --> 01:38:48,500 didn't see me shaking?" 1484 01:38:48,500 --> 01:38:49,416 I was like, "Well, I did." 1485 01:38:49,416 --> 01:38:50,500 And she was like, "It was that hard." 1486 01:38:51,333 --> 01:38:52,166 But, no. 1487 01:38:52,708 --> 01:38:53,458 She's gonna continue to 1488 01:38:53,458 --> 01:38:54,666 compete at these high levels. 1489 01:38:54,666 --> 01:38:56,000 I mean, that's what it's gonna be. 1490 01:38:56,250 --> 01:38:56,458 Yeah. 1491 01:38:56,458 --> 01:38:56,916 She's like, "These 1492 01:38:56,916 --> 01:38:58,125 elite athletes, I mean, 1493 01:38:58,916 --> 01:39:00,458 "those are what you see them doing." 1494 01:39:00,458 --> 01:39:00,791 Yeah. 1495 01:39:00,791 --> 01:39:01,958 I mean, it's crazy. 1496 01:39:02,750 --> 01:39:03,375 Insanity. 1497 01:39:03,583 --> 01:39:04,625 Just how much stronger they'll be 1498 01:39:04,708 --> 01:39:06,708 in all the different muscle groups. 1499 01:39:06,708 --> 01:39:07,500 And it's crazy. 1500 01:39:07,875 --> 01:39:08,625 It was cool, yeah. 1501 01:39:09,083 --> 01:39:10,291 But yeah, we'll head out again. 1502 01:39:11,250 --> 01:39:12,166 And, you know, 1503 01:39:12,916 --> 01:39:14,125 really quick turnaround 1504 01:39:14,125 --> 01:39:15,583 for you, unfortunately. 1505 01:39:17,291 --> 01:39:18,416 I feel a little more rested. 1506 01:39:19,583 --> 01:39:21,000 You had your week two weeks ago, so. 1507 01:39:21,500 --> 01:39:21,791 Yeah. 1508 01:39:22,625 --> 01:39:23,916 Yeah, we had some busy 1509 01:39:23,916 --> 01:39:26,000 times, but it'll be fun. 1510 01:39:27,208 --> 01:39:28,416 We'll get to show our daughter Manhattan. 1511 01:39:29,083 --> 01:39:29,375 Mm. 1512 01:39:30,291 --> 01:39:31,208 You're good. 1513 01:39:31,250 --> 01:39:31,958 Good job. 1514 01:39:32,708 --> 01:39:33,625 Where we were engaged. 1515 01:39:34,125 --> 01:39:34,333 Yeah. 1516 01:39:35,166 --> 01:39:36,083 We should take her there. 1517 01:39:36,333 --> 01:39:36,791 Scene of the crime. 1518 01:39:37,958 --> 01:39:38,500 (laughs) 1519 01:39:38,750 --> 01:39:39,416 There's no crime. 1520 01:39:41,125 --> 01:39:41,458 (laughs) 1521 01:39:42,291 --> 01:39:43,000 It was all good. 1522 01:39:43,000 --> 01:39:43,791 Someday we'll tell the story 1523 01:39:43,791 --> 01:39:45,750 about how I rented out the entire top. 1524 01:39:45,750 --> 01:39:46,166 You did. 1525 01:39:46,166 --> 01:39:48,208 Of the Empire State Building to just us. 1526 01:39:48,500 --> 01:39:48,750 Yes. 1527 01:39:48,750 --> 01:39:49,166 My proposal. 1528 01:39:50,041 --> 01:39:51,375 It, you did. 1529 01:39:52,166 --> 01:39:52,583 That was magical. 1530 01:39:52,791 --> 01:39:53,333 It was magical. 1531 01:39:53,541 --> 01:39:55,083 It was so magical. 1532 01:39:55,916 --> 01:39:56,708 We will have to tell the 1533 01:39:56,708 --> 01:39:57,666 story of that engagement 1534 01:39:57,666 --> 01:39:58,625 at some point in time. 1535 01:39:58,916 --> 01:40:00,083 You cannot beat it. 1536 01:40:00,708 --> 01:40:02,666 And I always feel bad. 1537 01:40:03,041 --> 01:40:04,500 I'm gonna brag a little bit. 1538 01:40:04,875 --> 01:40:05,500 I always feel bad. 1539 01:40:05,500 --> 01:40:06,666 People tell their engagement stories, 1540 01:40:06,666 --> 01:40:07,750 and I have to just be like, 1541 01:40:08,875 --> 01:40:09,583 stop, Megan. 1542 01:40:09,583 --> 01:40:10,583 That is so special. 1543 01:40:10,583 --> 01:40:11,333 That's beautiful for 1544 01:40:11,333 --> 01:40:12,375 them, and blah, blah, blah. 1545 01:40:12,375 --> 01:40:13,458 Like, do not tell your story. 1546 01:40:14,166 --> 01:40:14,291 (laughs) 1547 01:40:14,291 --> 01:40:14,500 Yeah. 1548 01:40:14,708 --> 01:40:16,000 So the ring was in the cake. 1549 01:40:16,291 --> 01:40:16,541 Wow. 1550 01:40:17,583 --> 01:40:19,000 Oh, it was in the champagne glass? 1551 01:40:19,000 --> 01:40:20,500 That's so special. 1552 01:40:20,958 --> 01:40:21,208 Yeah. 1553 01:40:22,375 --> 01:40:23,041 And unique. 1554 01:40:23,666 --> 01:40:25,250 And very unique. 1555 01:40:25,250 --> 01:40:26,500 I'm sure people get engaged 1556 01:40:26,500 --> 01:40:28,333 on the top of the Empire State 1557 01:40:28,333 --> 01:40:29,166 Building all the time, too. 1558 01:40:29,208 --> 01:40:30,916 So ours is that unique, 1559 01:40:30,916 --> 01:40:33,166 but very few are all alone. 1560 01:40:33,166 --> 01:40:33,416 All alone. 1561 01:40:33,416 --> 01:40:34,291 Whole thing to themselves. 1562 01:40:34,541 --> 01:40:35,000 In the clouds. 1563 01:40:35,291 --> 01:40:35,875 In the clouds. 1564 01:40:36,375 --> 01:40:38,666 Like, it does not get better. 1565 01:40:39,000 --> 01:40:39,291 It was glowing. 1566 01:40:39,583 --> 01:40:40,458 That was crazy. 1567 01:40:40,958 --> 01:40:43,208 It was the cool, oh my gosh. 1568 01:40:43,208 --> 01:40:43,875 No visibility, you 1569 01:40:43,875 --> 01:40:44,666 don't wanna go up there. 1570 01:40:44,666 --> 01:40:45,958 No visibility, no, we do. 1571 01:40:46,333 --> 01:40:47,166 I wanna go up there. 1572 01:40:47,791 --> 01:40:48,083 (laughs) 1573 01:40:48,458 --> 01:40:49,333 Yes, I do. 1574 01:40:50,041 --> 01:40:50,916 We met on a cruise. 1575 01:40:50,916 --> 01:40:51,750 Have you seen the movie? 1576 01:40:52,250 --> 01:40:52,625 I know. 1577 01:40:54,291 --> 01:40:55,333 Anyways, if you know. 1578 01:40:55,333 --> 01:40:56,333 If you know, you know. 1579 01:40:56,333 --> 01:40:56,750 You know. 1580 01:40:57,291 --> 01:40:58,833 Best romance ever. 1581 01:40:59,541 --> 01:40:59,750 Yeah. 1582 01:41:00,333 --> 01:41:00,666 All right, honey. 1583 01:41:00,875 --> 01:41:01,666 We gotta let these people go. 1584 01:41:02,500 --> 01:41:04,166 All right, well, until next time. 1585 01:41:04,166 --> 01:41:04,666 Ciao, ciao. 1586 01:41:04,666 --> 01:41:05,500 All right, thanks for joining. 1587 01:41:05,500 --> 01:41:05,916 We'll see ya. 1588 01:41:06,125 --> 01:41:06,333 Thanks. 1589 01:59:59,916 --> 02:00:01,083 (upbeat music) 1590 02:00:01,833 --> 02:00:02,541 Don't think I have an 1591 02:00:02,541 --> 02:00:03,416 addictive personality. 1592 02:00:03,666 --> 02:00:04,000 That's probably 1593 02:00:04,000 --> 02:00:04,666 something you should know. 1594 02:00:04,708 --> 02:00:06,416 I don't know stress, I'm not stressed. 1595 02:00:06,916 --> 02:00:08,041 So how do you deal with it? 1596 02:00:09,000 --> 02:00:10,916 Not well. 1597 02:00:11,166 --> 02:00:11,333 No. 1598 02:00:11,375 --> 02:00:12,208 I meditate every 1599 02:00:12,208 --> 02:00:13,416 morning for an hour and a half 1600 02:00:13,416 --> 02:00:14,208 and then I'm good. 1601 02:00:14,541 --> 02:00:15,416 You got that much time 1602 02:00:15,416 --> 02:00:16,791 in your day, good for you. 1603 02:00:17,041 --> 02:00:22,208 I have to really try now not to be fat. 1604 02:00:22,458 --> 02:00:23,166 Are you serious? 1605 02:00:23,791 --> 02:00:24,791 This is not a vacation. 1606 02:00:25,166 --> 02:00:25,541 Right. 1607 02:00:25,541 --> 02:00:26,791 Don't bring swim trunks. 1608 02:00:27,083 --> 02:00:28,666 Don't even bring swim trunks. 1609 02:00:29,625 --> 02:00:30,583 There's a pool at the hotel. 1610 02:00:30,958 --> 02:00:32,125 This is not for fun. 1611 02:00:32,125 --> 02:00:33,250 They're behind me, aren't they? 1612 02:00:34,125 --> 02:00:34,375 (laughing) Oh. 1613 02:00:34,666 --> 02:00:34,875 Head pull. 1614 02:00:35,625 --> 02:00:36,333 Sorry, sorry. 1615 02:00:37,166 --> 02:00:38,791 Introvert, extrovert. 1616 02:00:38,833 --> 02:00:39,000 Brain? 1617 02:00:39,500 --> 02:00:39,708 Strain. 1618 02:00:39,958 --> 02:00:41,291 Not a sprain, strain, right? 1619 02:00:41,583 --> 02:00:41,791 Sprain. 1620 02:00:42,250 --> 02:00:42,416 Strain? 1621 02:00:43,041 --> 02:00:43,125 Sprain. 1622 02:00:43,916 --> 02:00:44,541 Sprain and ankle. 1623 02:00:45,041 --> 02:00:46,208 You strain a muscle. 1624 02:00:46,333 --> 02:00:47,583 Then just follow social norms. 1625 02:00:47,916 --> 02:00:48,666 Where we are engaged. 1626 02:00:49,000 --> 02:00:49,458 Scene of the crime. 1627 02:00:49,708 --> 02:00:50,250 Someday we'll tell the 1628 02:00:50,250 --> 02:00:51,291 story about how I rented out 1629 02:00:51,291 --> 02:00:52,166 the entire top. 1630 02:00:52,416 --> 02:00:52,833 You did. 1631 02:00:53,166 --> 02:00:54,833 Of the Empire State Building to just us. 1632 02:00:55,166 --> 02:00:55,541 Yes. 1633 02:00:55,541 --> 02:00:55,833 My proposal. 1634 02:00:56,208 --> 02:00:57,083 We met on a cruise, 1635 02:00:57,083 --> 02:00:57,916 have you seen the movie?