Nicole & Kate Can Relate

Toxic positivity isn’t a term many people are familiar with - us included. First Michele introduced Nicole to the idea, and then Nicole introduced Kate to it. 

In this episode we’re removing all barriers to discuss how social pressures are preventing us from validating our own - and others - emotions, along with the toll it’s taking on our overall well being.


Points Discussed in this Episode
  • What is toxic positivity exactly? 
  • All emotions are valid; to deny yourself certain emotions just makes things worse
  • Intentional vulnerability and how empathy plays a huge role 
  • Michele shares some examples of toxic positivity
  • How social media plays a role
  • How much of your personal life belongs in your online brand?
  • The importance of self-empathy and being able to move through an emotion versus pushing it away
  • Recognizing activities in your life or business that drain you

Mentioned in this episode: 
Deploy Empathy: A practical guide to interviewing customers
Geocod.io: Michele’s business
Software Social Podcast
Toxic Positivity: The Dark Side of Positive Vibes (article)
MJWHasen.com
Michele's Twitter

Thank you so much for joining us for this special feature episode with Michele Hansen on toxic positivity!

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Our mission with this podcast is to share a candid convo one time per week to help provide love, support, and space for women to share without judgment, speak without hesitation, and learn from each other - even when we don’t agree.

What is Nicole & Kate Can Relate?

We're Nicole & Kate! Friends, confidants, accountability partners, and we’ve been supporting each other over the years sharing our ups and our downs and hashing out the big questions of life - do we want kids? Can we have it all? How do we stay healthy and keep our businesses running smoothly without major stress and overwhelm? We talk things out ‘cause that’s what real friends do - they provide love, support, and space for one another to share without judgement, speak without hesitation, and learn from each other - even when we don’t agree.