1 01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:02,625 (gentle music) 2 01:00:05,083 --> 01:00:07,000 You're back on land. 3 01:00:07,375 --> 01:00:08,041 If you're pregnant or 4 01:00:08,041 --> 01:00:09,750 if you have COVID, right? 5 01:00:10,083 --> 01:00:11,250 Same concept to some degree. 6 01:00:11,500 --> 01:00:12,625 Same concept, different drip. 7 01:00:13,125 --> 01:00:13,958 We should put you guys all 8 01:00:13,958 --> 01:00:16,000 in a rafting boat with a bear. 9 01:00:16,500 --> 01:00:17,250 It doesn't flush, it 10 01:00:17,250 --> 01:00:18,583 just sprays everywhere. 11 01:00:18,791 --> 01:00:20,000 It wasn't just a really 12 01:00:20,000 --> 01:00:21,666 tough trip to the restroom. 13 01:00:21,666 --> 01:00:23,291 I mean, like, you were in there. 14 01:00:23,333 --> 01:00:25,833 The floor is so, yeah. 15 01:00:26,500 --> 01:00:26,625 Woo! 16 01:00:28,000 --> 01:00:30,291 Has anybody else got in a fight with 17 01:00:30,291 --> 01:00:32,208 Alexa, the chat GPT? 18 01:00:33,083 --> 01:00:33,583 You did. 19 01:00:34,000 --> 01:00:34,791 I got in a fight with 20 01:00:34,791 --> 01:00:36,333 full question mark enter. 21 01:00:36,708 --> 01:00:37,541 All right, let's see what they say. 22 01:00:37,916 --> 01:00:39,041 Up-a-dee, the Up-a-dee English is, 23 01:00:39,458 --> 01:00:40,041 oh, that should be, 24 01:00:40,041 --> 01:00:40,750 that could be another name. 25 01:00:41,083 --> 01:00:42,541 Yeah, that could be our new name. 26 01:00:44,625 --> 01:00:45,250 It might be catchy. 27 01:00:45,750 --> 01:00:47,041 It might be. 28 01:00:47,125 --> 01:00:48,500 Let me get a look at these two. 29 01:00:49,166 --> 01:00:50,125 Let's just check these two out, let's see 30 01:00:50,125 --> 01:00:50,916 how Up-a-dee they are. 31 01:00:51,208 --> 01:00:52,458 Ooh, they are Up-a-dee. 32 01:00:52,458 --> 01:00:53,291 They are Up-a-dee. 33 01:00:53,333 --> 01:00:54,083 Very Up-a-dee. 34 01:00:54,500 --> 01:00:55,333 Do it all over again. 35 01:00:56,041 --> 01:00:56,250 Absolutely. 36 01:00:56,750 --> 01:00:57,500 I know, it was so worth it. 37 01:00:57,541 --> 01:00:58,041 Absolutely, no question 38 01:00:58,041 --> 01:00:59,125 about it, that was incredible. 39 01:00:59,458 --> 01:01:00,333 It was so worth it. 40 01:01:00,625 --> 01:01:01,625 Welcome to the Mr. and 41 01:01:01,625 --> 01:01:02,666 Mrs. English podcast. 42 01:01:03,000 --> 01:01:03,375 I'm Megan. 43 01:01:03,791 --> 01:01:04,375 And I'm Sean. 44 01:01:04,625 --> 01:01:05,666 We're here to talk about 45 01:01:05,666 --> 01:01:07,291 the wild ride of raising kids 46 01:01:07,291 --> 01:01:08,250 and growing careers, 47 01:01:08,625 --> 01:01:09,583 keeping life together 48 01:01:09,583 --> 01:01:10,833 in the middle of all the chaos. 49 01:01:11,541 --> 01:01:13,500 So buckle up, because we're all 50 01:01:13,500 --> 01:01:14,916 in this crazy journey together. 51 01:01:16,666 --> 01:01:17,666 Which is my butt. 52 01:01:18,250 --> 01:01:18,500 Oh, and a bop. 53 01:01:18,500 --> 01:01:19,458 I'm gonna do my bops. 54 01:01:20,041 --> 01:01:20,625 Bops are good. 55 01:01:21,125 --> 01:01:22,000 Okay, and the land. 56 01:01:23,125 --> 01:01:25,041 Land, yeah, let's not go into that. 57 01:01:25,041 --> 01:01:26,541 Everybody knows that, I gotta get that. 58 01:01:26,541 --> 01:01:27,833 So we'll jump into it now. 59 01:01:28,083 --> 01:01:29,333 We are back in the studio. 60 01:01:29,541 --> 01:01:31,416 We are back on land. 61 01:01:32,000 --> 01:01:33,416 Back on land, yeah. 62 01:01:34,166 --> 01:01:34,333 Right? 63 01:01:34,625 --> 01:01:35,791 We've landed back on land. 64 01:01:36,375 --> 01:01:36,500 Yeah. 65 01:01:36,541 --> 01:01:36,875 What do you mean? 66 01:01:37,083 --> 01:01:38,208 We've landed back in. 67 01:01:39,000 --> 01:01:39,625 In the US. 68 01:01:39,958 --> 01:01:40,875 That's right, in the US. 69 01:01:40,916 --> 01:01:43,500 And the last few, we were not on land. 70 01:01:43,833 --> 01:01:44,958 That's right, we were on the boat, yeah. 71 01:01:44,958 --> 01:01:45,875 We were, we were. 72 01:01:46,166 --> 01:01:46,375 Floating. 73 01:01:46,791 --> 01:01:47,166 We were floating. 74 01:01:47,458 --> 01:01:48,000 That's right. 75 01:01:48,000 --> 01:01:50,500 Right, so see, it was a great segue. 76 01:01:50,958 --> 01:01:51,958 Yeah, it was great. 77 01:01:52,125 --> 01:01:53,000 And I missed it, I'm sorry. 78 01:01:54,333 --> 01:01:55,291 Cloudy, and I'll get into that. 79 01:01:55,500 --> 01:01:56,541 Really got a little bit of a cloud. 80 01:01:56,791 --> 01:01:58,000 So do you, we'll get into that though. 81 01:01:58,000 --> 01:01:58,750 We're a little bit of foggy. 82 01:01:59,416 --> 01:02:01,250 But we are, like you 83 01:02:01,250 --> 01:02:02,208 said, we're back, obviously, 84 01:02:02,208 --> 01:02:03,791 but we're so new back, 85 01:02:03,791 --> 01:02:05,541 it's only been a week or so. 86 01:02:06,291 --> 01:02:07,666 Almost two now, but yes. 87 01:02:08,000 --> 01:02:08,541 Is it really? 88 01:02:08,541 --> 01:02:09,458 But we're still on the 89 01:02:09,458 --> 01:02:11,458 high of a couple things, 90 01:02:11,666 --> 01:02:13,875 but of the, we're still on 91 01:02:13,875 --> 01:02:15,083 the high of that vacation. 92 01:02:15,291 --> 01:02:15,625 It was incredible. 93 01:02:16,000 --> 01:02:16,541 It was incredible. 94 01:02:16,833 --> 01:02:17,875 I mean, I keep saying it's incredible. 95 01:02:17,875 --> 01:02:19,291 I'd be, if you're having, 96 01:02:19,291 --> 01:02:20,291 if you're playing a shot game 97 01:02:20,291 --> 01:02:20,875 for the amount of time 98 01:02:20,875 --> 01:02:21,500 Shawn said the vacation 99 01:02:21,708 --> 01:02:23,625 was incredible, yeah, someone-- 100 01:02:23,875 --> 01:02:24,791 Or Megan, I mean, like 101 01:02:24,791 --> 01:02:26,458 either one of us really, yeah. 102 01:02:26,458 --> 01:02:27,666 Just start drinking water instead. 103 01:02:28,250 --> 01:02:29,041 Right, right, and 104 01:02:29,041 --> 01:02:29,958 you'll be really hydrated. 105 01:02:30,166 --> 01:02:31,458 You'll be very hydrated 106 01:02:31,458 --> 01:02:32,833 instead, that's right. 107 01:02:34,416 --> 01:02:38,166 But yeah, it is incredible to be back. 108 01:02:38,166 --> 01:02:40,666 I mean, we obviously talked at length in, 109 01:02:41,250 --> 01:02:42,458 you know, over the last couple episodes, 110 01:02:42,958 --> 01:02:45,500 but before, you know, as we wrap it up, 111 01:02:45,750 --> 01:02:47,333 any, anything else that 112 01:02:47,333 --> 01:02:49,166 you would want to share or-- 113 01:02:49,208 --> 01:02:50,583 Well, I was gonna ask you that question. 114 01:02:50,916 --> 01:02:52,458 I totally stole it. 115 01:02:52,500 --> 01:02:53,458 You stole the question. 116 01:02:54,166 --> 01:02:57,083 You know, now that we're back, it's, 117 01:02:58,500 --> 01:03:01,291 as some of those great vacations seem, 118 01:03:02,083 --> 01:03:03,166 again, I didn't count 119 01:03:03,166 --> 01:03:04,125 it down when I was on it. 120 01:03:04,125 --> 01:03:05,125 I felt like I really 121 01:03:05,125 --> 01:03:06,458 enjoyed it while we were there. 122 01:03:06,791 --> 01:03:08,000 And it's tough for me 123 01:03:08,000 --> 01:03:09,500 to be in any moment. 124 01:03:09,541 --> 01:03:10,500 It really is for you. 125 01:03:10,583 --> 01:03:12,166 But I feel like I was in those moments 126 01:03:12,166 --> 01:03:13,208 just really trying to 127 01:03:13,208 --> 01:03:15,125 immerse myself, enjoy it, 128 01:03:15,125 --> 01:03:16,541 enjoy it with the kids. 129 01:03:18,291 --> 01:03:19,708 Because there's gonna come a time 130 01:03:19,791 --> 01:03:20,083 when we don't have all 131 01:03:20,083 --> 01:03:21,291 the kids with us as children 132 01:03:21,500 --> 01:03:23,166 that still like want 133 01:03:23,166 --> 01:03:24,541 to be around mom and dad 134 01:03:24,541 --> 01:03:25,666 to some degree, you know? 135 01:03:25,666 --> 01:03:27,291 And our oldest is right at that age 136 01:03:27,291 --> 01:03:28,083 where he's becoming 137 01:03:28,083 --> 01:03:29,000 much more independent, 138 01:03:29,000 --> 01:03:29,791 getting more friends, 139 01:03:29,791 --> 01:03:30,750 spending time with them. 140 01:03:31,500 --> 01:03:33,583 We had them all, and we had them all, 141 01:03:33,583 --> 01:03:34,375 we had all their attention. 142 01:03:34,666 --> 01:03:34,916 Yes. 143 01:03:35,958 --> 01:03:37,916 It was incredible to walk 144 01:03:37,916 --> 01:03:40,625 around wherever we were walking. 145 01:03:41,291 --> 01:03:42,958 And like the kids would just talk to you. 146 01:03:42,958 --> 01:03:45,000 Even if it was something that, 147 01:03:45,958 --> 01:03:47,166 whether it was a YouTube 148 01:03:47,166 --> 01:03:48,333 thing that they had seen 149 01:03:48,458 --> 01:03:50,250 and they wanted to share or whatever. 150 01:03:50,250 --> 01:03:53,666 It was just time that we were together. 151 01:03:54,125 --> 01:03:55,375 There wasn't a screen 152 01:03:55,375 --> 01:03:56,333 in front of anybody. 153 01:03:56,791 --> 01:03:59,583 And so they just talked. 154 01:03:59,750 --> 01:03:59,958 Right. 155 01:04:00,541 --> 01:04:01,250 Whether it was their 156 01:04:01,250 --> 01:04:02,333 deepest, darkest moments 157 01:04:02,333 --> 01:04:03,458 or whether it was something 158 01:04:03,458 --> 01:04:05,916 that they had seen on YouTube. 159 01:04:06,291 --> 01:04:07,500 As shallow as that is. 160 01:04:08,000 --> 01:04:09,208 They were talking to us. 161 01:04:09,416 --> 01:04:10,083 Right, right. 162 01:04:10,666 --> 01:04:12,041 And they never fought it either 163 01:04:12,166 --> 01:04:14,541 because we're pretty good in this house 164 01:04:14,541 --> 01:04:15,416 still about not having a 165 01:04:15,416 --> 01:04:17,000 lot of cell phone time. 166 01:04:17,000 --> 01:04:17,791 We've learned we have to take 167 01:04:17,791 --> 01:04:18,708 the cell phones in at night. 168 01:04:18,708 --> 01:04:19,958 We've just gotten better at that. 169 01:04:19,958 --> 01:04:21,125 But we never felt like we had to 170 01:04:21,125 --> 01:04:22,541 institute that previously 171 01:04:23,083 --> 01:04:25,083 because our kids, as far as we knew, 172 01:04:25,083 --> 01:04:26,333 aren't constantly on their phone. 173 01:04:27,000 --> 01:04:28,125 Now more so than I want 174 01:04:28,125 --> 01:04:29,583 them to be in video games. 175 01:04:29,583 --> 01:04:31,333 We've held back on all 176 01:04:31,333 --> 01:04:33,041 these things as much as we can. 177 01:04:33,291 --> 01:04:34,666 I get it, that's the generation, 178 01:04:34,875 --> 01:04:36,208 that's things they need to have. 179 01:04:36,208 --> 01:04:38,000 That's social interaction at this age. 180 01:04:39,500 --> 01:04:41,375 But they didn't fight it on the cruise 181 01:04:42,250 --> 01:04:42,916 because I don't think 182 01:04:42,916 --> 01:04:46,666 they're not completely addicted 183 01:04:46,875 --> 01:04:47,541 to it at home. 184 01:04:48,208 --> 01:04:48,833 And they had them ripped 185 01:04:48,833 --> 01:04:49,583 from them on the cruise 186 01:04:49,666 --> 01:04:51,250 because there was zero, 187 01:04:51,250 --> 01:04:52,208 we've talked about it. 188 01:04:52,750 --> 01:04:54,333 There was zero internet. 189 01:04:54,958 --> 01:04:55,125 Zero. 190 01:04:55,708 --> 01:04:59,083 Even the 400, $500 internet I purchased 191 01:04:59,333 --> 01:05:01,000 for the higher level on the ship. 192 01:05:01,916 --> 01:05:02,875 Yeah, how'd that work for you? 193 01:05:03,083 --> 01:05:03,750 I'd need to call and 194 01:05:03,750 --> 01:05:04,375 see if I can get a refund. 195 01:05:04,625 --> 01:05:05,375 I couldn't download a 196 01:05:05,375 --> 01:05:06,916 text, a picture on a text. 197 01:05:07,833 --> 01:05:09,000 No, I could. 198 01:05:09,666 --> 01:05:10,791 And I didn't have the internet. 199 01:05:10,916 --> 01:05:11,541 Anytime you were in a 200 01:05:11,541 --> 01:05:13,083 port, you'd get them in. 201 01:05:13,083 --> 01:05:13,500 That's right. 202 01:05:13,500 --> 01:05:14,333 You weren't connected to 203 01:05:14,333 --> 01:05:15,416 the ship's wifi though. 204 01:05:15,875 --> 01:05:17,333 And I didn't, hijacked everything. 205 01:05:18,041 --> 01:05:19,291 And when I was doing, I know we've talked 206 01:05:19,291 --> 01:05:20,166 about the Instagram pics, 207 01:05:20,166 --> 01:05:21,208 but we did Instagram pics, 208 01:05:22,041 --> 01:05:23,333 basically a reel for 209 01:05:23,333 --> 01:05:24,833 every port we were in. 210 01:05:25,541 --> 01:05:27,000 And I've told it, I may 211 01:05:27,000 --> 01:05:27,833 have mentioned on the last one, 212 01:05:27,833 --> 01:05:28,333 I don't know when I've 213 01:05:28,333 --> 01:05:29,541 mentioned this to several people, 214 01:05:29,541 --> 01:05:31,750 but it's like, I had so many great videos 215 01:05:32,333 --> 01:05:33,125 that I was intending, 216 01:05:33,125 --> 01:05:33,750 because I think videos 217 01:05:33,750 --> 01:05:35,458 are more enjoyable to watch 218 01:05:35,791 --> 01:05:37,166 on a reel, you know what I mean? 219 01:05:37,166 --> 01:05:38,041 I know they're long, 220 01:05:38,041 --> 01:05:39,000 they're a minute and a half, 221 01:05:39,000 --> 01:05:40,000 90 seconds, because 222 01:05:40,000 --> 01:05:40,833 that's as long as you can use 223 01:05:40,833 --> 01:05:42,875 the music for, at least that I know, 224 01:05:42,875 --> 01:05:43,500 and I'm not gonna get 225 01:05:43,500 --> 01:05:44,208 any deeper than that. 226 01:05:45,000 --> 01:05:46,166 But I enjoy watching videos 227 01:05:46,166 --> 01:05:47,250 more than do just picture, 228 01:05:47,250 --> 01:05:48,583 picture, picture, picture scrolling. 229 01:05:49,458 --> 01:05:51,375 And I couldn't use any of the videos, 230 01:05:51,375 --> 01:05:52,583 which I had intended to 231 01:05:52,583 --> 01:05:54,583 put on these Instagram reels, 232 01:05:54,916 --> 01:05:57,000 just to show people that do care. 233 01:05:57,000 --> 01:05:58,083 And not for any other 234 01:05:58,083 --> 01:05:59,375 reason than other people do care 235 01:05:59,875 --> 01:06:00,375 to see them. 236 01:06:00,375 --> 01:06:00,958 And I have had 237 01:06:00,958 --> 01:06:02,125 several people actually say, 238 01:06:02,125 --> 01:06:03,500 you should post those again, 239 01:06:03,875 --> 01:06:05,416 like repost for every port, 240 01:06:05,416 --> 01:06:06,625 but with videos this time. 241 01:06:06,625 --> 01:06:08,166 Right, with all your extra time. 242 01:06:09,500 --> 01:06:11,916 Yeah, it is the bane of my life. 243 01:06:11,958 --> 01:06:13,541 Like I enjoy it, it's fun 244 01:06:13,541 --> 01:06:14,791 to show it when it's done. 245 01:06:15,500 --> 01:06:17,083 Because now that I figured 246 01:06:17,083 --> 01:06:18,083 out how to download them, 247 01:06:18,416 --> 01:06:19,166 these are actually like 248 01:06:19,166 --> 01:06:20,333 home movies for us now. 249 01:06:20,416 --> 01:06:21,083 For sure. 250 01:06:21,416 --> 01:06:22,458 Right, so I mean, the 251 01:06:22,458 --> 01:06:23,458 way I think about it now 252 01:06:23,458 --> 01:06:24,791 is not hey, I'm being 253 01:06:24,791 --> 01:06:26,208 annoying and posting stuff, 254 01:06:26,208 --> 01:06:26,583 that's great. 255 01:06:26,750 --> 01:06:27,666 If you care, you'll look at it. 256 01:06:27,666 --> 01:06:28,333 If you don't, you'll scroll. 257 01:06:28,500 --> 01:06:30,166 I've gotten past that to some degree, 258 01:06:30,166 --> 01:06:31,916 because there's a lot of stuff up there, 259 01:06:31,916 --> 01:06:34,000 like morning cereal every day, I get it. 260 01:06:34,000 --> 01:06:34,500 Some people probably 261 01:06:34,500 --> 01:06:35,458 roll their eyes at it, 262 01:06:35,458 --> 01:06:36,416 and they scroll, that's fine. 263 01:06:36,958 --> 01:06:38,416 But there's some people that like it, 264 01:06:38,666 --> 01:06:39,833 and they listen to the, you know, 265 01:06:39,833 --> 01:06:40,750 that's less than a minute every time. 266 01:06:41,625 --> 01:06:42,416 So I'm gonna have a long story short, 267 01:06:42,958 --> 01:06:43,916 now that I can 268 01:06:43,916 --> 01:06:46,750 download those, and save them, 269 01:06:46,750 --> 01:06:47,916 and now we can share, 270 01:06:47,916 --> 01:06:48,958 we have shared folders 271 01:06:48,958 --> 01:06:49,875 so the kids can have these 272 01:06:49,875 --> 01:06:51,166 pictures for their entire life, 273 01:06:51,166 --> 01:06:52,333 right, because it's shared to their 274 01:06:52,333 --> 01:06:53,625 iTunes account and stuff. 275 01:06:54,583 --> 01:06:56,375 These are home videos now that they'll 276 01:06:56,375 --> 01:06:58,166 take forever, right? 277 01:06:58,458 --> 01:07:01,291 These are the old VHS tapes, you know, 278 01:07:01,291 --> 01:07:02,458 but in digital form. 279 01:07:02,458 --> 01:07:03,375 So that's why I 280 01:07:03,375 --> 01:07:04,375 actually enjoy doing them, 281 01:07:04,375 --> 01:07:06,000 and that's why when I do 282 01:07:06,000 --> 01:07:07,000 take the time to do it, 283 01:07:07,000 --> 01:07:07,916 it's like I wanna do it right. 284 01:07:09,000 --> 01:07:10,000 I like using the videos, 285 01:07:10,000 --> 01:07:10,416 because they're more 286 01:07:10,416 --> 01:07:12,416 fun to watch, I think. 287 01:07:12,416 --> 01:07:12,625 Yeah. 288 01:07:13,458 --> 01:07:13,958 But they take a lot 289 01:07:13,958 --> 01:07:14,875 of time, you're right. 290 01:07:14,875 --> 01:07:15,250 They do. 291 01:07:15,666 --> 01:07:17,875 The other thing, you did such a good job 292 01:07:17,875 --> 01:07:20,125 of on the reels that you posted, 293 01:07:20,625 --> 01:07:21,291 and there's something 294 01:07:21,291 --> 01:07:22,500 about this, I mean, obviously. 295 01:07:22,875 --> 01:07:23,625 I know what you're gonna say. 296 01:07:23,625 --> 01:07:25,000 There's a part of an award for music editing. 297 01:07:25,583 --> 01:07:27,250 The music that you paired 298 01:07:27,250 --> 01:07:29,583 with each one was so thoughtful, 299 01:07:30,250 --> 01:07:31,416 and I don't even know, so 300 01:07:31,416 --> 01:07:33,625 I mean, in Malta, right? 301 01:07:34,000 --> 01:07:34,625 Like, that's where 302 01:07:34,625 --> 01:07:36,916 Game of Thrones was shot. 303 01:07:36,916 --> 01:07:40,000 Anything that happened, you know, 304 01:07:40,500 --> 01:07:41,125 any of the southern 305 01:07:41,125 --> 01:07:42,250 ones, anything at the north, 306 01:07:42,250 --> 01:07:43,166 obviously, was not in Malta. 307 01:07:43,916 --> 01:07:45,625 You put the Game of Thrones music to it. 308 01:07:45,625 --> 01:07:45,833 Right. 309 01:07:45,833 --> 01:07:47,583 You did the Godfather in Sicily. 310 01:07:48,000 --> 01:07:51,041 Like, just those little tidbits. 311 01:07:51,041 --> 01:07:52,875 Yeah, I found that one little gem 312 01:07:53,000 --> 01:07:54,500 to take me to Mykonos. 313 01:07:54,500 --> 01:07:54,958 Mykonos. 314 01:07:54,958 --> 01:07:55,708 In Mykonos. 315 01:07:56,208 --> 01:07:57,250 Like, I actually really like that song, 316 01:07:57,250 --> 01:07:58,041 I need to download it. 317 01:07:59,583 --> 01:07:59,958 It's a great song. 318 01:07:59,958 --> 01:08:01,000 It's a very Mykonos song. 319 01:08:01,375 --> 01:08:03,000 It 100% is. 320 01:08:03,041 --> 01:08:04,666 You're right, most of them, and I love, 321 01:08:04,958 --> 01:08:06,458 music is a passion of mine. 322 01:08:06,500 --> 01:08:07,791 I know most people have a passion. 323 01:08:08,916 --> 01:08:11,250 God, I wish I was musical, talented, 324 01:08:11,250 --> 01:08:12,333 in any way, shape, or form, because, 325 01:08:13,250 --> 01:08:14,000 you know when they talk about, 326 01:08:14,000 --> 01:08:14,333 if you could do 327 01:08:14,333 --> 01:08:17,000 something you love for work, 328 01:08:18,125 --> 01:08:19,208 it doesn't feel like work. 329 01:08:19,625 --> 01:08:21,125 Like, mine would be music somehow. 330 01:08:21,375 --> 01:08:21,625 Yeah. 331 01:08:22,250 --> 01:08:25,708 Creating any shape, fashion to music, 332 01:08:26,000 --> 01:08:29,000 I just, it just is in my soul. 333 01:08:29,000 --> 01:08:30,583 I love it, and I have 334 01:08:30,583 --> 01:08:32,791 not a drop of talent in it. 335 01:08:32,791 --> 01:08:34,083 But I do like picking the songs out, 336 01:08:34,125 --> 01:08:36,083 because I mean, to me, it's, you know, 337 01:08:36,541 --> 01:08:38,500 music evokes such emotion. 338 01:08:38,791 --> 01:08:39,000 Yes. 339 01:08:39,791 --> 01:08:40,416 From within. 340 01:08:40,708 --> 01:08:40,958 Yeah. 341 01:08:41,000 --> 01:08:42,375 To me, it touches me. 342 01:08:42,375 --> 01:08:43,541 I know people feel that too. 343 01:08:44,916 --> 01:08:45,541 And so if you pick 344 01:08:45,541 --> 01:08:46,500 the right one, you know. 345 01:08:46,958 --> 01:08:48,000 You pick that emotion. 346 01:08:48,416 --> 01:08:50,708 That, now, I've never heard you sing. 347 01:08:50,750 --> 01:08:51,750 You set the emotion. 348 01:08:51,750 --> 01:08:52,666 You set the emotion. 349 01:08:53,000 --> 01:08:55,291 You set, and that maybe is your talent. 350 01:08:55,750 --> 01:08:57,041 Maybe you're an incredible singer, 351 01:08:57,041 --> 01:08:58,708 because in the more than 20 352 01:08:58,708 --> 01:08:59,625 years we've been together, 353 01:08:59,916 --> 01:09:01,041 he's never sung in front of me. 354 01:09:01,958 --> 01:09:02,166 You-- 355 01:09:02,541 --> 01:09:03,750 Can we just unpack that for a second? 356 01:09:03,958 --> 01:09:04,958 How many people have sung 357 01:09:04,958 --> 01:09:05,666 in front of other people? 358 01:09:05,666 --> 01:09:06,833 You've never really sung in front of me. 359 01:09:07,000 --> 01:09:08,000 I sing all the time. 360 01:09:08,250 --> 01:09:10,250 Well, I feel like I sing all the time. 361 01:09:10,750 --> 01:09:11,416 No, you don't. 362 01:09:11,916 --> 01:09:12,333 I do. 363 01:09:13,041 --> 01:09:13,875 Just not when I'm around. 364 01:09:14,000 --> 01:09:15,458 I sing when people are around. 365 01:09:15,916 --> 01:09:17,375 Well, I do too, when people are around. 366 01:09:17,708 --> 01:09:19,958 But it's always like in like a, you know, 367 01:09:19,958 --> 01:09:21,208 but it's how I sing. 368 01:09:21,458 --> 01:09:21,583 Yeah. 369 01:09:23,041 --> 01:09:23,833 I'm not gonna stand up 370 01:09:23,833 --> 01:09:25,000 to a mic and, you know, 371 01:09:25,000 --> 01:09:26,916 just belt out the "Star Spinkle Banner" 372 01:09:26,916 --> 01:09:27,916 or something like that. 373 01:09:27,916 --> 01:09:29,541 That's not how real I've worked. 374 01:09:30,166 --> 01:09:31,041 The bottom line is I 375 01:09:31,041 --> 01:09:32,041 don't have a lick of talent. 376 01:09:32,041 --> 01:09:33,083 I can't sing, unfortunately. 377 01:09:33,416 --> 01:09:34,208 My mom can sing. 378 01:09:35,000 --> 01:09:35,625 You can sing. 379 01:09:37,500 --> 01:09:40,000 I think there's things in my genealogy 380 01:09:40,541 --> 01:09:41,083 that would suggest 381 01:09:41,083 --> 01:09:41,958 there's musical talent. 382 01:09:42,625 --> 01:09:44,875 It was on my mother's side. 383 01:09:44,875 --> 01:09:45,583 And I think even on my 384 01:09:45,583 --> 01:09:46,500 paternal father's side, 385 01:09:46,500 --> 01:09:46,875 there was some, 386 01:09:48,208 --> 01:09:49,291 fortunately, I didn't get any of that. 387 01:09:50,000 --> 01:09:51,250 Well, maybe your talent, 388 01:09:52,166 --> 01:09:53,666 in addition to any other hidden talent 389 01:09:53,666 --> 01:09:54,750 that we haven't found musically, 390 01:09:55,791 --> 01:09:56,666 that's in your genealogy, 391 01:09:57,666 --> 01:10:00,250 is being able to 392 01:10:00,250 --> 01:10:02,666 connect music to any motion 393 01:10:03,083 --> 01:10:04,208 and bring that to other people 394 01:10:04,208 --> 01:10:05,416 so that they feel what 395 01:10:05,416 --> 01:10:07,208 you want them to feel. 396 01:10:07,791 --> 01:10:08,041 Yeah, yeah. 397 01:10:08,583 --> 01:10:09,166 Well, if anybody's 398 01:10:09,166 --> 01:10:10,708 hiring for somebody like that, 399 01:10:10,708 --> 01:10:11,500 just let me know. 400 01:10:11,791 --> 01:10:12,125 Sure. 401 01:10:12,125 --> 01:10:12,916 Drop me a DM. 402 01:10:14,500 --> 01:10:14,625 (laughs) 403 01:10:16,166 --> 01:10:16,708 Now that I know what 404 01:10:16,708 --> 01:10:17,708 that is, direct message. 405 01:10:17,708 --> 01:10:18,625 Yeah, yeah. I had no idea. 406 01:10:19,458 --> 01:10:21,916 Anyways, we're off topic there. 407 01:10:22,750 --> 01:10:24,666 But yeah, I think, you 408 01:10:24,666 --> 01:10:25,500 know, if anything else, 409 01:10:25,500 --> 01:10:26,125 that we just kind of 410 01:10:26,125 --> 01:10:27,333 wrapping up the vacation, 411 01:10:27,333 --> 01:10:28,000 not to talk about it. 412 01:10:28,000 --> 01:10:28,583 We're still a little 413 01:10:28,583 --> 01:10:29,833 bit on a high from it. 414 01:10:29,833 --> 01:10:30,791 Yes, yes. 415 01:10:31,583 --> 01:10:33,250 Maybe there'll be some more reels on that 416 01:10:33,250 --> 01:10:34,791 if I take the time to do it. 417 01:10:34,958 --> 01:10:35,458 We're busy. 418 01:10:35,958 --> 01:10:36,375 That's the other thing 419 01:10:36,375 --> 01:10:37,291 coming back from vacation, 420 01:10:37,500 --> 01:10:38,000 just like. 421 01:10:38,458 --> 01:10:41,708 We were dropped in, you know, headfirst. 422 01:10:42,666 --> 01:10:44,666 And another thing that we learned 423 01:10:45,291 --> 01:10:48,000 is that COVID does not respect 424 01:10:48,000 --> 01:10:49,208 international boundaries. 425 01:10:50,000 --> 01:10:51,625 Yeah, apparently COVID's still a thing. 426 01:10:51,875 --> 01:10:52,750 It is still a thing. 427 01:10:52,791 --> 01:10:54,416 Because we brought that back with us. 428 01:10:54,500 --> 01:10:55,333 We did. 429 01:10:55,666 --> 01:10:55,916 Yeah. 430 01:10:56,166 --> 01:10:59,291 Or maybe you did. 431 01:11:00,583 --> 01:11:02,916 I mean, I haven't been sick since the 432 01:11:02,916 --> 01:11:03,666 last time I had COVID, 433 01:11:03,666 --> 01:11:04,583 which was like three years ago. 434 01:11:05,333 --> 01:11:06,625 I don't get sick that often. 435 01:11:06,833 --> 01:11:07,333 Ironically, it was 436 01:11:07,333 --> 01:11:08,541 only like two, but yeah. 437 01:11:08,541 --> 01:11:09,541 It was two years ago now? 438 01:11:09,791 --> 01:11:10,916 Ironically, either way. 439 01:11:11,833 --> 01:11:12,541 Oh yeah, ironic. 440 01:11:12,625 --> 01:11:13,166 That was the wrong. 441 01:11:13,208 --> 01:11:13,750 Well, that's fine. 442 01:11:14,416 --> 01:11:15,000 No, I wasn't trying to 443 01:11:15,000 --> 01:11:15,625 call you out on that. 444 01:11:15,958 --> 01:11:18,916 But yeah, I don't get sick that often. 445 01:11:18,916 --> 01:11:21,958 And I guess COVID just influenza, right? 446 01:11:22,583 --> 01:11:24,333 So I mean, like we know what it is now. 447 01:11:24,333 --> 01:11:25,208 The only reason we say COVID 448 01:11:25,208 --> 01:11:26,250 is because we had extra COVID 449 01:11:26,250 --> 01:11:26,791 tests laying around 450 01:11:26,791 --> 01:11:28,041 the house and I used one. 451 01:11:28,875 --> 01:11:29,791 Well, the thing with 452 01:11:29,791 --> 01:11:32,041 influenza that is different 453 01:11:32,166 --> 01:11:33,125 is that, and the 454 01:11:33,125 --> 01:11:35,000 reason that prompted you, 455 01:11:35,000 --> 01:11:36,208 A, you felt like crap. 456 01:11:36,750 --> 01:11:38,166 And you had been for a few days. 457 01:11:38,458 --> 01:11:39,375 The first time I had this. 458 01:11:39,875 --> 01:11:40,583 This was the first 459 01:11:40,583 --> 01:11:41,541 symptom of you completely 460 01:11:41,666 --> 01:11:42,416 lost your taste. 461 01:11:42,750 --> 01:11:43,666 Yeah, I've never lost my 462 01:11:43,666 --> 01:11:44,333 taste with COVID before. 463 01:11:44,791 --> 01:11:46,333 I don't think that is influenza. 464 01:11:46,708 --> 01:11:48,416 And I thought maybe it was just jet lag 465 01:11:48,750 --> 01:11:49,458 and I had to dive 466 01:11:49,458 --> 01:11:51,500 straight back into work, busy. 467 01:11:52,208 --> 01:11:52,833 And I was just like, 468 01:11:53,583 --> 01:11:55,291 I was busy before it, 469 01:11:55,625 --> 01:11:56,000 like going to the 470 01:11:56,000 --> 01:11:57,875 vacation, like trying to lead up 471 01:11:57,916 --> 01:11:58,500 to all the stuff getting 472 01:11:58,500 --> 01:11:59,500 done to prepare for it, 473 01:11:59,500 --> 01:12:00,000 as were you. 474 01:12:00,458 --> 01:12:02,208 But I was not rested going into vacation. 475 01:12:02,833 --> 01:12:04,083 And as you heard on, if 476 01:12:04,083 --> 01:12:05,416 you watched last week's, 477 01:12:05,416 --> 01:12:06,333 we were not rested on 478 01:12:06,333 --> 01:12:07,208 the vacation either. 479 01:12:07,208 --> 01:12:08,375 It was not a restful vacation. 480 01:12:08,958 --> 01:12:10,625 So then we get dropped back out of it. 481 01:12:10,625 --> 01:12:12,375 You're unpacking from emails, 482 01:12:12,375 --> 01:12:13,916 I'm unpacking from emails and bills 483 01:12:14,166 --> 01:12:15,125 and all the other 484 01:12:15,125 --> 01:12:16,708 businesses, all that kind of stuff. 485 01:12:17,375 --> 01:12:18,666 So, and jet lag. 486 01:12:18,666 --> 01:12:19,250 And jet lag. 487 01:12:19,875 --> 01:12:21,500 And then, so I'm like, I 488 01:12:21,500 --> 01:12:22,583 don't get sick that often, 489 01:12:22,583 --> 01:12:25,333 but you're cooking food one night 490 01:12:25,333 --> 01:12:27,166 and I'm tasting something that I love. 491 01:12:27,458 --> 01:12:28,958 And I'm like, I cannot taste this. 492 01:12:29,375 --> 01:12:31,208 Put some more of the dressing on it. 493 01:12:31,208 --> 01:12:32,125 I'm like, I can't taste it. 494 01:12:32,583 --> 01:12:33,416 Then the next day at church, 495 01:12:33,416 --> 01:12:34,666 I always put in some of 496 01:12:34,666 --> 01:12:36,875 those wintergreen mints. 497 01:12:36,875 --> 01:12:37,083 Yeah. 498 01:12:37,416 --> 01:12:39,000 You know, can't taste a mint. 499 01:12:39,416 --> 01:12:39,791 A mint. 500 01:12:40,208 --> 01:12:42,250 Like what if the strongest flavors? 501 01:12:43,125 --> 01:12:44,166 I can taste a 502 01:12:44,166 --> 01:12:46,291 lifesaver's mint for like hours. 503 01:12:46,750 --> 01:12:46,958 Yeah. 504 01:12:47,583 --> 01:12:49,541 And yeah, you're like, 505 01:12:49,541 --> 01:12:50,875 nope, I can't taste it. 506 01:12:51,500 --> 01:12:51,750 So. 507 01:12:52,416 --> 01:12:53,875 So I had to be left over COVID test. 508 01:12:53,875 --> 01:12:54,666 So I took the COVID test 509 01:12:54,666 --> 01:12:55,875 and I've taken them before 510 01:12:56,000 --> 01:12:56,666 it's like, you gotta wait for 511 01:12:56,666 --> 01:12:57,750 that second line to show up. 512 01:12:57,750 --> 01:12:58,458 And you're like, maybe 513 01:12:58,458 --> 01:13:00,000 there's a faint line there. 514 01:13:00,000 --> 01:13:01,125 Maybe not hard to tell. 515 01:13:01,375 --> 01:13:02,333 This one was like, bam. 516 01:13:03,416 --> 01:13:06,375 I was like, so when did you do the test? 517 01:13:06,375 --> 01:13:06,833 When you told me, 518 01:13:06,833 --> 01:13:08,666 you're like, it's positive. 519 01:13:09,166 --> 01:13:09,833 And you're like, I 520 01:13:09,833 --> 01:13:11,083 don't know, 20 seconds ago. 521 01:13:11,125 --> 01:13:12,291 We've all taken them, right? 522 01:13:12,291 --> 01:13:13,208 Cause I mean, like, you 523 01:13:13,208 --> 01:13:14,458 need to take these back. 524 01:13:14,750 --> 01:13:15,750 When first COVID hit, 525 01:13:15,750 --> 01:13:16,375 we had to take these. 526 01:13:16,791 --> 01:13:17,750 We would, when we 527 01:13:17,750 --> 01:13:18,625 finally could travel again 528 01:13:18,625 --> 01:13:19,541 to go see clients, 529 01:13:20,250 --> 01:13:20,958 there were some clients 530 01:13:20,958 --> 01:13:22,500 that wanted us to take COVID tests 531 01:13:22,500 --> 01:13:23,458 before we went into like 532 01:13:23,458 --> 01:13:25,125 the actual like meeting room. 533 01:13:25,166 --> 01:13:25,416 Sure. 534 01:13:25,750 --> 01:13:27,500 So everybody's used to the swab 535 01:13:27,833 --> 01:13:28,833 and then you gotta do it. 536 01:13:28,833 --> 01:13:29,375 And then you gotta do the 537 01:13:29,375 --> 01:13:30,958 drips on the test, you know, 538 01:13:30,958 --> 01:13:31,750 to see if you're pregnant 539 01:13:31,750 --> 01:13:33,583 or if you have COVID, right? 540 01:13:33,916 --> 01:13:35,291 Same, same concept to some degree. 541 01:13:35,416 --> 01:13:36,458 Same concept, different drip. 542 01:13:36,708 --> 01:13:37,416 Yeah, different drip. 543 01:13:38,166 --> 01:13:39,458 Very well, we'll leave it at that. 544 01:13:40,250 --> 01:13:41,333 But sometimes you get away. 545 01:13:41,333 --> 01:13:42,791 It says, wait 20 minutes, just to make 546 01:13:42,791 --> 01:13:44,083 sure 15 to 20 minutes. 547 01:13:45,041 --> 01:13:46,416 And I've had that before where it's like, 548 01:13:46,416 --> 01:13:47,708 gosh, I don't know, but not this time. 549 01:13:47,708 --> 01:13:49,125 It was like drip, drip, bam. 550 01:13:50,500 --> 01:13:51,000 Second line. 551 01:13:51,291 --> 01:13:52,375 Yeah, second line showed up. 552 01:13:52,666 --> 01:13:54,833 So anyways, Sunday was my worst day. 553 01:13:54,916 --> 01:13:55,166 And then 554 01:13:55,166 --> 01:13:57,541 unfortunately, slowly but surely, 555 01:13:57,916 --> 01:13:58,958 it made its way to you. 556 01:13:59,000 --> 01:14:00,125 Yeah, Monday, I woke 557 01:14:00,125 --> 01:14:01,208 up with a sore throat. 558 01:14:01,333 --> 01:14:01,833 Yeah. 559 01:14:02,000 --> 01:14:03,000 Ignored it for a day. 560 01:14:03,375 --> 01:14:06,125 Then I'm like, this is not good. 561 01:14:06,500 --> 01:14:07,000 And yeah. 562 01:14:07,625 --> 01:14:08,166 You're about a week 563 01:14:08,166 --> 01:14:08,958 behind me in symptoms. 564 01:14:09,125 --> 01:14:09,791 It was about a week, yeah. 565 01:14:09,791 --> 01:14:10,166 Yeah. 566 01:14:10,208 --> 01:14:12,250 I think Friday was my worst. 567 01:14:12,958 --> 01:14:13,875 I was probably the blue monkey 568 01:14:13,875 --> 01:14:14,916 that brought it home, unfortunately. 569 01:14:15,250 --> 01:14:15,791 I think so. 570 01:14:16,208 --> 01:14:16,500 Yeah. 571 01:14:16,833 --> 01:14:17,291 I don't know. 572 01:14:17,583 --> 01:14:18,666 Someone sitting next to you on the 573 01:14:18,666 --> 01:14:19,500 airplane or something, 574 01:14:19,500 --> 01:14:20,333 who knows, but yeah. 575 01:14:20,375 --> 01:14:21,458 Could be, could be. 576 01:14:21,833 --> 01:14:24,583 You know it's bad when just this morning, 577 01:14:24,833 --> 01:14:26,666 you know, the failure was asking, 578 01:14:26,916 --> 01:14:27,958 like, oh, how are you feeling? 579 01:14:27,958 --> 01:14:29,166 I was like, I'm feeling better, thanks. 580 01:14:30,083 --> 01:14:31,291 And I was like, I think 581 01:14:31,291 --> 01:14:32,541 Friday was the worst for me. 582 01:14:32,541 --> 01:14:33,666 And our 11 year old was like, 583 01:14:33,958 --> 01:14:34,875 yeah, I didn't want to say anything, 584 01:14:34,875 --> 01:14:36,125 but you looked really bad. 585 01:14:36,750 --> 01:14:38,625 I was like, thanks. 586 01:14:39,750 --> 01:14:41,000 I mean, you didn't 587 01:14:41,000 --> 01:14:42,333 kick me while I was down. 588 01:14:42,750 --> 01:14:43,791 Yeah, he's learning. 589 01:14:44,208 --> 01:14:45,208 He's learning some things. 590 01:14:45,208 --> 01:14:45,833 Yeah, yeah. 591 01:14:45,833 --> 01:14:46,875 You didn't get that from me though. 592 01:14:46,875 --> 01:14:47,875 I'm pretty, I hit you in 593 01:14:47,875 --> 01:14:49,083 between the eyes all the time. 594 01:14:49,125 --> 01:14:50,916 Yeah, you were working all day Friday. 595 01:14:50,916 --> 01:14:51,791 I said, you seen me, you 596 01:14:51,791 --> 01:14:52,833 probably would have been like. 597 01:14:53,125 --> 01:14:54,166 I saw your eyes that night. 598 01:14:54,166 --> 01:14:55,375 I mean, you could just, there's a tell, 599 01:14:55,458 --> 01:14:56,416 there's a tell, tell. 600 01:14:56,833 --> 01:14:57,500 Yeah, yeah. 601 01:14:57,500 --> 01:14:58,458 When people are sick like that. 602 01:14:58,458 --> 01:14:59,791 Your eyes just don't look right. 603 01:14:59,833 --> 01:15:00,916 Mine were like that most of the week. 604 01:15:00,958 --> 01:15:02,541 They were, they were a little glassy. 605 01:15:02,708 --> 01:15:02,916 Yeah. 606 01:15:03,083 --> 01:15:03,500 Dark circles. 607 01:15:03,916 --> 01:15:04,250 Yeah. 608 01:15:04,750 --> 01:15:07,041 It's all good, but I don't know. 609 01:15:08,250 --> 01:15:08,833 Knowing that you're going 610 01:15:08,833 --> 01:15:10,166 to come back to jet lag, 611 01:15:10,625 --> 01:15:13,458 the busyness of ignoring, you know, 612 01:15:13,625 --> 01:15:15,000 regular life for two weeks 613 01:15:15,208 --> 01:15:16,750 and that you were going to get COVID, 614 01:15:16,750 --> 01:15:17,833 would you do it all over again? 615 01:15:18,416 --> 01:15:18,750 Absolutely. 616 01:15:19,333 --> 01:15:19,875 I know, it was so-- 617 01:15:20,083 --> 01:15:21,166 Absolutely, no question about it. 618 01:15:21,166 --> 01:15:21,750 That was incredible. 619 01:15:22,000 --> 01:15:22,916 It was so worth it. 620 01:15:23,208 --> 01:15:23,875 You gotta take a drink. 621 01:15:24,250 --> 01:15:25,458 Now it was totally worth it. 622 01:15:26,625 --> 01:15:28,208 Yeah, I mean, when can we go back? 623 01:15:29,458 --> 01:15:29,666 Right? 624 01:15:29,708 --> 01:15:31,958 You said it at some point in time saying, 625 01:15:32,250 --> 01:15:33,833 I could be a professional vacationer, 626 01:15:33,833 --> 01:15:34,791 like on this kind of thing. 627 01:15:35,083 --> 01:15:36,125 I really could. 628 01:15:36,208 --> 01:15:37,041 I think all of us could. 629 01:15:37,541 --> 01:15:38,791 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 630 01:15:38,958 --> 01:15:39,583 You got friends there 631 01:15:39,583 --> 01:15:41,250 in Costa Rica this week, 632 01:15:41,625 --> 01:15:42,750 watching some of their things. 633 01:15:42,750 --> 01:15:43,833 I'm like, well, I could go there too. 634 01:15:43,833 --> 01:15:44,375 I could go there. 635 01:15:44,416 --> 01:15:45,166 I miss Costa Rica. 636 01:15:45,166 --> 01:15:46,541 We were there two or three years ago. 637 01:15:47,916 --> 01:15:48,375 I don't know. 638 01:15:49,708 --> 01:15:51,125 And how snobby did we just sound? 639 01:15:51,375 --> 01:15:53,375 I can't remember when it was Costa Rica. 640 01:15:54,208 --> 01:15:54,958 Well, I think if we've 641 01:15:54,958 --> 01:15:55,958 established anything, 642 01:15:57,000 --> 01:15:57,541 very uppity. 643 01:15:59,250 --> 01:15:59,583 We're uppity. 644 01:16:00,333 --> 01:16:01,500 Uppity, the uppity Englaces. 645 01:16:02,000 --> 01:16:03,250 Oh, that could be another name. 646 01:16:03,500 --> 01:16:05,000 Yeah, that could be our new name. 647 01:16:05,583 --> 01:16:06,750 The uppity Englaces. 648 01:16:07,125 --> 01:16:07,833 It might be catchy. 649 01:16:08,250 --> 01:16:09,500 It might be. 650 01:16:09,625 --> 01:16:11,000 Let me get a look at these two. 651 01:16:11,666 --> 01:16:12,458 Let's just check these two. 652 01:16:12,458 --> 01:16:13,416 I'll say how uppity they are. 653 01:16:13,666 --> 01:16:14,708 Ooh, they are uppity. 654 01:16:14,958 --> 01:16:15,791 They are uppity. 655 01:16:15,833 --> 01:16:16,416 Very uppity. 656 01:16:17,333 --> 01:16:18,541 And then they could just laugh at us. 657 01:16:19,166 --> 01:16:20,583 We were more like a reality show, right? 658 01:16:20,583 --> 01:16:21,333 Yeah, that's right. 659 01:16:21,958 --> 01:16:22,583 We'd be boring. 660 01:16:23,708 --> 01:16:25,958 Yeah, we're not Kardashian level drama. 661 01:16:26,208 --> 01:16:27,000 No, we have some family 662 01:16:27,000 --> 01:16:28,000 members though that I think 663 01:16:28,416 --> 01:16:30,208 that could definitely do it. 664 01:16:30,208 --> 01:16:30,875 And I'm not calling anybody 665 01:16:30,875 --> 01:16:32,041 out in a negative way there, 666 01:16:32,041 --> 01:16:33,333 but there's people that have said like, 667 01:16:33,333 --> 01:16:34,958 oh, I could be, they should watch us. 668 01:16:34,958 --> 01:16:35,291 We should have 669 01:16:35,291 --> 01:16:36,500 cameras following us around. 670 01:16:36,625 --> 01:16:37,000 Yes. 671 01:16:37,000 --> 01:16:37,208 Yeah. 672 01:16:38,041 --> 01:16:39,166 And I might agree with that. 673 01:16:39,458 --> 01:16:41,541 We would have, we would be signed up 674 01:16:41,833 --> 01:16:42,916 if we were a reality show, 675 01:16:42,916 --> 01:16:44,291 we'd be signed up for 10 676 01:16:44,291 --> 01:16:46,250 shows for the first season 677 01:16:46,875 --> 01:16:47,708 and we'd be canceled after 678 01:16:47,708 --> 01:16:48,708 a show of three probably. 679 01:16:49,250 --> 01:16:50,708 Cause it's like, there's just not enough. 680 01:16:51,083 --> 01:16:52,541 There's just not enough here guys. 681 01:16:52,541 --> 01:16:54,708 Like you're pretty darn normal. 682 01:16:54,708 --> 01:16:56,250 Yeah, that's when all those people, 683 01:16:56,500 --> 01:16:57,958 I think that's the point of 684 01:16:57,958 --> 01:16:58,666 some of those reality shows. 685 01:16:59,041 --> 01:16:59,708 Like they're normal 686 01:16:59,708 --> 01:17:00,250 and then they're like, 687 01:17:00,250 --> 01:17:01,000 you know what we should do? 688 01:17:01,375 --> 01:17:02,208 We should put you guys 689 01:17:02,208 --> 01:17:03,375 all on a rafting boat 690 01:17:04,041 --> 01:17:04,500 with a bear. 691 01:17:04,875 --> 01:17:05,208 Right. 692 01:17:05,291 --> 01:17:06,125 For this episode. 693 01:17:06,125 --> 01:17:06,333 Right. 694 01:17:06,625 --> 01:17:06,833 Right? 695 01:17:06,833 --> 01:17:07,416 And then that'll make, 696 01:17:07,583 --> 01:17:08,291 that'll be interesting 697 01:17:08,291 --> 01:17:09,666 cause that's what you would have done. 698 01:17:09,666 --> 01:17:10,416 And like, you know, they 699 01:17:10,416 --> 01:17:11,041 start doing all these things 700 01:17:11,041 --> 01:17:12,166 to make people more interesting. 701 01:17:13,416 --> 01:17:13,500 Yeah. 702 01:17:14,041 --> 01:17:14,500 If you haven't done it, I 703 01:17:14,500 --> 01:17:15,791 can't stand reality people. 704 01:17:15,791 --> 01:17:17,208 That's why, you know, 705 01:17:17,208 --> 01:17:18,833 people probably, again, 706 01:17:18,833 --> 01:17:20,750 I'm very aware of the fact that we do 707 01:17:20,750 --> 01:17:21,750 this kind of podcasty 708 01:17:21,750 --> 01:17:23,000 stuff now and whatnot, but 709 01:17:23,000 --> 01:17:24,583 not the intention at all. 710 01:17:24,791 --> 01:17:26,083 If you know us, that's not us. 711 01:17:26,125 --> 01:17:26,375 Yeah. 712 01:17:26,375 --> 01:17:26,583 Whatever. 713 01:17:27,083 --> 01:17:28,125 But everyone has the 714 01:17:28,125 --> 01:17:30,000 stories out there that are just 715 01:17:30,500 --> 01:17:33,916 silly and like it, and some people, 716 01:17:34,375 --> 01:17:35,375 sometimes it does feel like 717 01:17:35,375 --> 01:17:36,500 it happens more to our family. 718 01:17:36,750 --> 01:17:38,375 Like we did a quote of the day. 719 01:17:38,375 --> 01:17:39,500 You actually put a quote of the day 720 01:17:39,500 --> 01:17:40,500 when you posted on Instagram, 721 01:17:40,916 --> 01:17:43,000 but like one of my 722 01:17:43,000 --> 01:17:44,250 favorite quotes of the day 723 01:17:45,000 --> 01:17:48,958 was, it came about, our 724 01:17:48,958 --> 01:17:50,166 youngest had to use the restroom. 725 01:17:50,750 --> 01:17:51,291 And he comes out, we're 726 01:17:51,291 --> 01:17:53,000 like, did you flush, man? 727 01:17:53,208 --> 01:17:54,041 Like, and he's like, 728 01:17:54,041 --> 01:17:55,666 well, it doesn't flush. 729 01:17:55,666 --> 01:17:57,041 It just sprays everywhere. 730 01:17:57,083 --> 01:17:58,041 This is in Rome, first night in Rome. 731 01:17:58,041 --> 01:17:58,791 This is in Rome. 732 01:17:58,791 --> 01:17:58,958 Yeah. 733 01:17:58,958 --> 01:18:02,875 And we're all like, oh my gosh. 734 01:18:02,875 --> 01:18:04,750 Like, is this really happening to us? 735 01:18:05,291 --> 01:18:06,500 Like, what other 736 01:18:06,500 --> 01:18:08,625 family is using the bidet 737 01:18:08,791 --> 01:18:11,291 instead of like the handle to flush? 738 01:18:11,500 --> 01:18:12,416 It was just like. 739 01:18:12,416 --> 01:18:12,916 Yeah, I was like, why 740 01:18:12,916 --> 01:18:13,875 are you using our bathroom? 741 01:18:14,875 --> 01:18:15,666 Because he rushed in and I 742 01:18:15,666 --> 01:18:16,375 had to go to the restroom too. 743 01:18:16,375 --> 01:18:17,166 He rushed into ours. 744 01:18:17,166 --> 01:18:18,041 I'm like, why are you using ours? 745 01:18:18,041 --> 01:18:18,791 Go to your bathroom. 746 01:18:19,833 --> 01:18:21,083 And he's like, ours doesn't work. 747 01:18:21,083 --> 01:18:21,458 I'm like, what do 748 01:18:21,458 --> 01:18:22,500 you, I'm like, oh great. 749 01:18:22,500 --> 01:18:23,333 Like, what do you mean it doesn't work? 750 01:18:23,333 --> 01:18:24,458 And I got to fix something else, you 751 01:18:24,458 --> 01:18:25,416 know, or call someone. 752 01:18:25,416 --> 01:18:26,416 We broke the verbal. 753 01:18:26,875 --> 01:18:27,791 Yeah, we broke the verbal. 754 01:18:28,000 --> 01:18:29,375 And then he's like, would I 755 01:18:29,375 --> 01:18:30,708 flush it just sprays everywhere? 756 01:18:31,750 --> 01:18:33,333 At least he was using the actual toilet, 757 01:18:33,791 --> 01:18:35,375 but using the wrong flushing mechanism. 758 01:18:35,375 --> 01:18:37,375 I mean, it was like, are 759 01:18:37,375 --> 01:18:38,583 we getting punked here? 760 01:18:39,208 --> 01:18:41,750 Like, this kind of stuff. 761 01:18:41,791 --> 01:18:42,208 I mean, at least it 762 01:18:42,208 --> 01:18:42,958 wasn't a drinking fountain. 763 01:18:43,333 --> 01:18:43,916 It's true. 764 01:18:44,708 --> 01:18:45,416 Although what grossed me 765 01:18:45,416 --> 01:18:47,708 out was the next exclamation 766 01:18:47,958 --> 01:18:49,416 that came that we didn't post anywhere 767 01:18:49,416 --> 01:18:50,375 was from our daughter. 768 01:18:50,375 --> 01:18:51,458 And she's like, is that 769 01:18:51,458 --> 01:18:52,625 why the floor's all wet 770 01:18:52,625 --> 01:18:54,416 when you're done using the restroom? 771 01:18:56,958 --> 01:18:57,916 And she didn't tell anybody. 772 01:18:58,208 --> 01:18:59,791 I know, like, oh, now 773 01:18:59,791 --> 01:19:00,875 I'm connecting the dots. 774 01:19:01,708 --> 01:19:03,000 It wasn't just a really 775 01:19:03,000 --> 01:19:04,666 tough trip to the restroom. 776 01:19:06,333 --> 01:19:08,000 The floor is soaked. 777 01:19:08,000 --> 01:19:08,500 I threw a top in there. 778 01:19:09,583 --> 01:19:11,916 Whoo, don't nobody use the bathroom. 779 01:19:12,208 --> 01:19:13,000 25 out of five minutes. 780 01:19:14,541 --> 01:19:18,041 It was just, I was like, yeah. 781 01:19:18,500 --> 01:19:21,000 So these things do tend to happen to us. 782 01:19:21,000 --> 01:19:21,833 I feel like a little 783 01:19:21,833 --> 01:19:23,750 more than some people, 784 01:19:23,750 --> 01:19:25,291 which is one more reason why we're like, 785 01:19:26,208 --> 01:19:27,916 they must happen to everybody. 786 01:19:28,208 --> 01:19:29,166 I don't think that's 787 01:19:29,166 --> 01:19:30,375 what I love about this 788 01:19:30,375 --> 01:19:31,125 is that it doesn't. 789 01:19:31,125 --> 01:19:32,666 And I think it's funny, 790 01:19:32,666 --> 01:19:33,875 so other people are looking 791 01:19:33,875 --> 01:19:34,791 at their spouse or 792 01:19:34,791 --> 01:19:36,000 whatever in their lives right now 793 01:19:36,000 --> 01:19:37,041 saying like, that's 794 01:19:37,041 --> 01:19:38,000 just like when we did this, 795 01:19:38,000 --> 01:19:38,666 or just like this. 796 01:19:38,875 --> 01:19:40,875 It's like, we're all on this chaos train. 797 01:19:40,875 --> 01:19:41,625 It's the same thing. 798 01:19:42,416 --> 01:19:43,458 There's lots of people I know that are 799 01:19:43,458 --> 01:19:44,375 way more charismatic 800 01:19:44,708 --> 01:19:45,541 than me and can tell better 801 01:19:45,541 --> 01:19:46,750 stories than me and whatnot. 802 01:19:47,208 --> 01:19:49,333 And that's fine. 803 01:19:49,875 --> 01:19:51,375 It's just, it's so funny 804 01:19:51,375 --> 01:19:53,125 that I think when people put it 805 01:19:53,125 --> 01:19:53,958 out there, because I'd 806 01:19:53,958 --> 01:19:54,625 love to hear that story 807 01:19:54,625 --> 01:19:55,375 from other people. 808 01:19:55,416 --> 01:19:56,166 Right, I would too. 809 01:19:56,500 --> 01:19:57,208 Because these things 810 01:19:57,208 --> 01:19:58,500 happen, but they're not captured. 811 01:19:58,500 --> 01:19:59,000 There's just no way 812 01:19:59,000 --> 01:20:00,333 usually to capture them, right? 813 01:20:00,541 --> 01:20:00,916 Right, right. 814 01:20:01,583 --> 01:20:02,083 I don't know. 815 01:20:02,083 --> 01:20:02,791 It's pretty funny. 816 01:20:02,791 --> 01:20:03,958 But that, to your point, there was all, 817 01:20:04,458 --> 01:20:05,875 there was so many funny 818 01:20:05,875 --> 01:20:07,708 quotes the day that never made it 819 01:20:07,875 --> 01:20:08,500 on there. 820 01:20:08,750 --> 01:20:08,916 Right. 821 01:20:09,666 --> 01:20:10,541 Because I actually started 822 01:20:10,541 --> 01:20:11,916 writing them down on my notes 823 01:20:12,500 --> 01:20:13,333 on my phone, because it 824 01:20:13,333 --> 01:20:14,000 was like, there's a quarter 825 01:20:14,000 --> 01:20:14,458 of the day. 826 01:20:14,458 --> 01:20:15,208 There's a quarter of the day. 827 01:20:15,208 --> 01:20:16,666 So we had to kind of pick one that fit. 828 01:20:16,958 --> 01:20:17,458 And that was funny. 829 01:20:17,875 --> 01:20:18,708 Yeah, yeah. 830 01:20:19,458 --> 01:20:21,208 So, but that's one reason why 831 01:20:21,208 --> 01:20:22,375 we wanted to do the podcast, 832 01:20:22,375 --> 01:20:22,666 right? 833 01:20:22,666 --> 01:20:23,666 To capture those silly 834 01:20:23,666 --> 01:20:26,583 moments that oftentimes in life, 835 01:20:27,166 --> 01:20:28,208 that everyone has been in 836 01:20:28,208 --> 01:20:29,875 life, like maybe these jar, 837 01:20:29,875 --> 01:20:31,000 that memory that happened 838 01:20:31,000 --> 01:20:32,166 in your family, you know? 839 01:20:32,375 --> 01:20:32,541 Yeah. 840 01:20:33,041 --> 01:20:34,000 I think the final thing, just 841 01:20:34,000 --> 01:20:35,166 to wrap up the vacation one, 842 01:20:35,166 --> 01:20:36,375 is what we're going to do, 843 01:20:36,375 --> 01:20:37,166 and we're not going to post it 844 01:20:37,166 --> 01:20:37,666 or anything, but it's 845 01:20:37,666 --> 01:20:38,625 just for our family, 846 01:20:39,416 --> 01:20:40,458 is since we got all 847 01:20:40,458 --> 01:20:41,666 this equipment and stuff, 848 01:20:41,750 --> 01:20:42,083 we're going to bring the 849 01:20:42,083 --> 01:20:43,916 whole family into the room here, 850 01:20:44,416 --> 01:20:44,875 bring some more chairs 851 01:20:44,875 --> 01:20:45,791 in, I guess, and whatnot. 852 01:20:45,791 --> 01:20:46,708 We can put pictures up on 853 01:20:46,708 --> 01:20:48,125 this video monitor back here, 854 01:20:48,125 --> 01:20:48,791 but we're just going to 855 01:20:48,791 --> 01:20:51,625 do like a family vlog, 856 01:20:51,625 --> 01:20:52,041 I think is what they're 857 01:20:52,041 --> 01:20:53,833 called, video, vlog, whatever, 858 01:20:54,041 --> 01:20:55,541 just kind of, it's kind 859 01:20:55,541 --> 01:20:56,708 of, again, it's like the VHS, 860 01:20:57,458 --> 01:20:58,500 but just talking about 861 01:20:58,500 --> 01:20:59,500 everybody's favorite parts 862 01:20:59,500 --> 01:21:00,458 and what we loved about it, 863 01:21:00,458 --> 01:21:01,708 since it's still so fresh, 864 01:21:03,250 --> 01:21:04,333 because it was just so 865 01:21:04,333 --> 01:21:07,083 amazing and incredible, 866 01:21:08,541 --> 01:21:11,250 that just to put that down, 867 01:21:12,625 --> 01:21:13,250 I can't think of the word 868 01:21:13,250 --> 01:21:14,416 I'm looking for there, but. 869 01:21:14,708 --> 01:21:16,125 Yeah, it's to just 870 01:21:16,125 --> 01:21:17,958 capture it, document it, 871 01:21:18,250 --> 01:21:20,250 but also, I think it's 872 01:21:20,250 --> 01:21:22,541 a great way to look back 873 01:21:22,541 --> 01:21:23,541 at these memories, I 874 01:21:23,541 --> 01:21:24,958 think the kids still enjoy 875 01:21:25,041 --> 01:21:26,875 talking about it, and 876 01:21:26,875 --> 01:21:29,166 hopefully it's a really good. 877 01:21:29,541 --> 01:21:31,375 I am feeling very, I'm 878 01:21:31,375 --> 01:21:33,000 feeling the sands of time right now 879 01:21:33,000 --> 01:21:34,750 for some reason, I don't know why, 880 01:21:35,000 --> 01:21:36,375 I just, I was 881 01:21:36,375 --> 01:21:37,000 thinking about it yesterday, 882 01:21:37,375 --> 01:21:40,625 sitting in the pool, right, where again, 883 01:21:40,625 --> 01:21:42,833 our oldest is 15 and 13 and 11, 884 01:21:43,750 --> 01:21:45,583 and he's starting to spend more time 885 01:21:46,333 --> 01:21:47,666 with friends that are 886 01:21:47,666 --> 01:21:48,833 girls, friends that are boys, 887 01:21:51,791 --> 01:21:54,500 he's going to have his license here, 888 01:21:54,500 --> 01:21:55,541 he's driving around now, 889 01:21:55,541 --> 01:21:56,833 which we haven't talked about yet, 890 01:21:56,833 --> 01:21:59,208 so that's weird, but we've 891 01:21:59,208 --> 01:22:00,625 moved into that phase of life, 892 01:22:00,625 --> 01:22:02,333 he's doing his permit, so 893 01:22:02,333 --> 01:22:03,458 he's going to have his license 894 01:22:03,458 --> 01:22:05,375 in six months, and by 895 01:22:05,375 --> 01:22:06,083 the time that happens, 896 01:22:06,125 --> 01:22:06,791 I mean, he's going to 897 01:22:06,791 --> 01:22:07,541 be gone all the time, 898 01:22:07,791 --> 01:22:08,083 because he's going to 899 01:22:08,083 --> 01:22:09,000 drive himself to soccer, 900 01:22:09,541 --> 01:22:10,833 he's going to go to his friend's house, 901 01:22:10,833 --> 01:22:11,291 his girlfriend's 902 01:22:11,291 --> 01:22:12,291 house, whatever it might be, 903 01:22:12,958 --> 01:22:13,541 and I was just sitting 904 01:22:13,541 --> 01:22:14,500 there in the pool yesterday, 905 01:22:14,791 --> 01:22:16,291 making myself sad a little bit, 906 01:22:16,750 --> 01:22:17,416 and I know this is part 907 01:22:17,416 --> 01:22:18,291 of that empty-nester thing 908 01:22:18,291 --> 01:22:19,000 that we all have to go 909 01:22:19,000 --> 01:22:19,708 through at some point, 910 01:22:19,708 --> 01:22:20,458 people have gone through it, 911 01:22:20,458 --> 01:22:21,500 people are going through it 912 01:22:21,500 --> 01:22:23,625 right now, but, I'm like, 913 01:22:23,625 --> 01:22:25,125 this is one of those last moments 914 01:22:25,541 --> 01:22:29,458 of just the innocence of 915 01:22:29,458 --> 01:22:31,583 our family's childhood, right, 916 01:22:31,916 --> 01:22:32,708 like, it makes me sad 917 01:22:32,708 --> 01:22:33,375 thinking about the innocence 918 01:22:33,375 --> 01:22:34,250 of my childhood being 919 01:22:34,250 --> 01:22:35,625 gone sometimes, you know, 920 01:22:35,625 --> 01:22:36,541 I'm like, I'm an old man 921 01:22:36,541 --> 01:22:38,208 now, people call me sir, 922 01:22:38,583 --> 01:22:41,208 you know, and they see me, you know, 923 01:22:41,208 --> 01:22:43,166 and now our children are like that too, 924 01:22:43,166 --> 01:22:45,833 because next week we start soccer again, 925 01:22:46,500 --> 01:22:48,375 and so I was just thinking, like, 926 01:22:48,375 --> 01:22:49,083 this is one of the last 927 01:22:49,083 --> 01:22:51,375 family moments in the pool together 928 01:22:51,375 --> 01:22:52,375 where they want to be 929 01:22:52,375 --> 01:22:53,750 here, with just us five. 930 01:22:54,000 --> 01:22:55,500 Yeah, just playing together with us. 931 01:22:55,791 --> 01:22:57,583 Right, right, and I don't know, 932 01:22:57,583 --> 01:22:59,791 that's tugging on my heartstrings, 933 01:23:00,166 --> 01:23:02,500 it's hard to get through, because I just, 934 01:23:02,500 --> 01:23:03,625 I am not ready for my 935 01:23:03,625 --> 01:23:04,666 kids not to be in my house, 936 01:23:04,708 --> 01:23:05,708 I know it's a while away, 937 01:23:05,708 --> 01:23:07,000 but it's not that far away. 938 01:23:07,250 --> 01:23:10,083 Right, it'll go so fast, I mean, 939 01:23:10,291 --> 01:23:12,375 it just goes faster every 940 01:23:12,375 --> 01:23:14,333 year, the busier you are, 941 01:23:14,666 --> 01:23:15,875 and it just, it's flying. 942 01:23:17,208 --> 01:23:18,291 The irony of this 943 01:23:18,291 --> 01:23:19,916 though, is that I'm trying 944 01:23:19,916 --> 01:23:21,791 to slow it down, like I am, 945 01:23:21,791 --> 01:23:23,041 I'm trying to slow it down, 946 01:23:23,041 --> 01:23:25,125 I want to be involved, I want to do this, 947 01:23:25,125 --> 01:23:26,458 but it's like you're 948 01:23:26,458 --> 01:23:28,041 caught in this riptide of life 949 01:23:28,041 --> 01:23:29,708 where it's like, I'm 950 01:23:29,708 --> 01:23:30,791 trying to hold onto my kids 951 01:23:32,166 --> 01:23:34,625 as children, and being a dad 952 01:23:34,625 --> 01:23:37,083 that they want to do things 953 01:23:37,125 --> 01:23:38,541 with, and have fun with, 954 01:23:38,541 --> 01:23:40,125 and choose to do things with, 955 01:23:40,958 --> 01:23:43,375 and life's currents are pulling me away, 956 01:23:43,375 --> 01:23:44,583 even though that's what I want, 957 01:23:45,333 --> 01:23:46,291 and I'm like missing out 958 01:23:46,291 --> 01:23:47,750 on both I almost feel like. 959 01:23:48,958 --> 01:23:50,250 I'm in a weird place, 960 01:23:50,250 --> 01:23:51,916 partially because I've got 961 01:23:51,916 --> 01:23:53,041 COVID fog brain. 962 01:23:54,291 --> 01:23:55,833 It's real, it's a real thing. 963 01:23:57,166 --> 01:23:58,750 But that's something that's 964 01:23:58,750 --> 01:23:59,875 really struggling with me, 965 01:24:00,000 --> 01:24:01,375 it's not a midlife crisis, 966 01:24:01,375 --> 01:24:02,083 I've already been through that, 967 01:24:02,375 --> 01:24:02,833 I already bought the 968 01:24:02,833 --> 01:24:04,166 Porsches and already sold them, 969 01:24:05,000 --> 01:24:05,541 so I've already been 970 01:24:05,541 --> 01:24:06,500 through that midlife crisis. 971 01:24:07,000 --> 01:24:07,791 But this one is about 972 01:24:07,791 --> 01:24:09,041 family and getting old, 973 01:24:09,333 --> 01:24:11,583 and you double my 974 01:24:11,583 --> 01:24:12,666 life, I always say that, 975 01:24:12,958 --> 01:24:14,500 you double my life, I'm almost 100, 976 01:24:15,416 --> 01:24:16,250 and that's an old man. 977 01:24:16,625 --> 01:24:20,250 Right, right, and I think there's, 978 01:24:21,291 --> 01:24:22,750 I don't know, I don't 979 01:24:22,750 --> 01:24:23,625 have the right answer, 980 01:24:24,458 --> 01:24:25,458 but it's trying to 981 01:24:25,458 --> 01:24:27,458 appreciate the phase that you're in, 982 01:24:27,500 --> 01:24:30,791 and each phase feels like it is so busy, 983 01:24:30,791 --> 01:24:31,791 and there's so much 984 01:24:31,791 --> 01:24:33,666 in that phase going on, 985 01:24:34,291 --> 01:24:36,000 that it's hard to capture it, 986 01:24:36,000 --> 01:24:38,791 and I think that Riptide, if I'm honest, 987 01:24:39,083 --> 01:24:40,041 I mean I feel it 988 01:24:40,041 --> 01:24:42,125 constantly, and I really do try, 989 01:24:42,125 --> 01:24:43,083 and I think I'm probably 990 01:24:43,083 --> 01:24:44,125 better at this than you are. 991 01:24:44,125 --> 01:24:45,166 You're really good at that. 992 01:24:45,333 --> 01:24:48,250 Being in that moment, and 993 01:24:48,250 --> 01:24:49,333 remembering that moment, 994 01:24:49,916 --> 01:24:51,500 but it's like if I look back, even when 995 01:24:51,500 --> 01:24:53,125 the kids were little, 996 01:24:53,583 --> 01:24:55,000 like that first year 997 01:24:55,000 --> 01:24:56,000 of our youngest life, 998 01:24:56,708 --> 01:24:57,375 I look back at 999 01:24:57,375 --> 01:24:59,375 pictures, I'm like, oh my gosh, 1000 01:24:59,375 --> 01:25:01,125 and I like to think I 1001 01:25:01,125 --> 01:25:02,291 have a really good memory. 1002 01:25:02,291 --> 01:25:02,708 You do. 1003 01:25:04,500 --> 01:25:08,000 That year when we had a newborn, 1004 01:25:08,000 --> 01:25:10,125 I mean our middle child wasn't even, 1005 01:25:10,375 --> 01:25:12,541 she was still one when he was born, 1006 01:25:12,541 --> 01:25:13,791 and our oldest was three. 1007 01:25:14,375 --> 01:25:16,583 So we had three in three years, 1008 01:25:16,875 --> 01:25:18,083 and it was just like, 1009 01:25:18,833 --> 01:25:19,833 I'm changing diapers, 1010 01:25:20,000 --> 01:25:20,916 I'm not sleeping, I 1011 01:25:20,916 --> 01:25:22,208 don't have many memories. 1012 01:25:22,583 --> 01:25:23,625 Most of my memories, 1013 01:25:23,625 --> 01:25:25,375 honestly, are sleeping, 1014 01:25:25,916 --> 01:25:26,958 taking a nap on the couch 1015 01:25:26,958 --> 01:25:28,166 with a baby on my chest. 1016 01:25:28,166 --> 01:25:29,375 Yeah, yeah. 1017 01:25:29,416 --> 01:25:30,833 That's most of my memories. 1018 01:25:30,875 --> 01:25:31,500 Yeah, it's precious. 1019 01:25:31,833 --> 01:25:33,291 And it's like, I can't, 1020 01:25:33,583 --> 01:25:34,625 how do I even remember 1021 01:25:35,500 --> 01:25:37,500 all of that, and it's the same here, 1022 01:25:37,500 --> 01:25:39,166 it's like how do I capture 1023 01:25:39,166 --> 01:25:41,625 the joy or disappointment 1024 01:25:41,958 --> 01:25:44,000 on, sadly sometimes disappointment, 1025 01:25:44,375 --> 01:25:46,750 after a game that is on my kid's face, 1026 01:25:46,750 --> 01:25:50,375 or you know, it's just, it's crazy. 1027 01:25:50,875 --> 01:25:53,458 You know, yeah, it is the moments, 1028 01:25:54,250 --> 01:25:55,625 and for me it's really 1029 01:25:55,625 --> 01:25:56,666 hard to do that, you're right. 1030 01:25:58,250 --> 01:25:59,041 The key to it is just 1031 01:25:59,041 --> 01:26:00,083 being present in that moment 1032 01:26:00,083 --> 01:26:01,416 and enjoying it as much as you can, 1033 01:26:01,416 --> 01:26:02,541 and I'm terrible at that. 1034 01:26:02,833 --> 01:26:04,250 I mean out of 10 moments to capture, 1035 01:26:04,250 --> 01:26:05,541 I might capture half of one. 1036 01:26:06,541 --> 01:26:07,791 And I don't know why that is, 1037 01:26:07,791 --> 01:26:09,041 it's just, it's the 1038 01:26:09,041 --> 01:26:10,791 way I'm built internally. 1039 01:26:12,166 --> 01:26:13,333 And I just keep thinking, 1040 01:26:13,333 --> 01:26:14,541 I don't wanna look towards the future, 1041 01:26:14,541 --> 01:26:15,083 I don't wanna miss the 1042 01:26:15,083 --> 01:26:16,125 path, I wanna enjoy now. 1043 01:26:16,750 --> 01:26:18,416 But I do hope it just continuously, 1044 01:26:19,416 --> 01:26:21,666 you know, we are in a 1045 01:26:21,666 --> 01:26:23,500 season of change in our family, 1046 01:26:24,250 --> 01:26:24,958 to some degree in 1047 01:26:24,958 --> 01:26:27,208 multiple aspects, right? 1048 01:26:27,583 --> 01:26:30,000 Seasons of new pathways and doors 1049 01:26:30,000 --> 01:26:31,333 that have been opening and closing. 1050 01:26:32,375 --> 01:26:34,541 And I'll never forget, even spiritually, 1051 01:26:35,000 --> 01:26:36,125 I've always gone to church and whatnot, 1052 01:26:36,833 --> 01:26:39,166 we've been spiritual of faith, 1053 01:26:39,541 --> 01:26:40,375 and I've struggled through 1054 01:26:40,375 --> 01:26:43,583 that this last season as well, 1055 01:26:44,000 --> 01:26:45,583 because I just feel 1056 01:26:45,583 --> 01:26:46,666 like it's been difficult. 1057 01:26:47,958 --> 01:26:49,208 You always, we talk about 1058 01:26:49,208 --> 01:26:51,791 pathways being opened up 1059 01:26:51,791 --> 01:26:53,291 and doors opened where you want, 1060 01:26:53,875 --> 01:26:54,208 where you're supposed 1061 01:26:54,208 --> 01:26:55,166 to be led to go, right? 1062 01:26:55,458 --> 01:26:56,166 Sure. In a certain way. 1063 01:26:56,333 --> 01:26:57,500 And you don't wait for 1064 01:26:57,500 --> 01:26:58,958 that, I go, I always go, go, go. 1065 01:26:58,958 --> 01:26:59,708 But it's like, hey, make sure, 1066 01:27:00,125 --> 01:27:00,500 hopefully I'm going 1067 01:27:00,500 --> 01:27:01,500 the right pathway here. 1068 01:27:03,916 --> 01:27:05,458 Where I was going with that is, 1069 01:27:06,041 --> 01:27:08,583 there was a preacher that was preaching, 1070 01:27:08,583 --> 01:27:09,625 he's not one of our main ones. 1071 01:27:09,625 --> 01:27:10,458 I may have already said 1072 01:27:10,458 --> 01:27:12,166 that on this podcast before, 1073 01:27:12,166 --> 01:27:13,791 but it just keeps coming back to me, 1074 01:27:13,791 --> 01:27:15,291 and he keeps saying like, my 1075 01:27:15,291 --> 01:27:16,583 best times aren't behind me. 1076 01:27:16,750 --> 01:27:17,666 Yeah. Right? 1077 01:27:17,833 --> 01:27:19,125 My best times aren't behind me. 1078 01:27:19,125 --> 01:27:19,875 And it's really hard for 1079 01:27:19,875 --> 01:27:20,833 me right now to think like, 1080 01:27:21,833 --> 01:27:23,083 that they're not. Right. 1081 01:27:23,125 --> 01:27:23,916 Because I am in such a 1082 01:27:23,916 --> 01:27:25,125 weird season right now 1083 01:27:25,125 --> 01:27:26,791 of just change and whatnot. 1084 01:27:26,791 --> 01:27:30,041 I think back to being 43, 1085 01:27:30,375 --> 01:27:31,333 and where I was in my 1086 01:27:31,333 --> 01:27:32,416 career, in my house, 1087 01:27:32,416 --> 01:27:34,416 and all the financially, 1088 01:27:34,666 --> 01:27:35,333 all that kind of stuff. 1089 01:27:35,333 --> 01:27:37,000 I mean, we are right and high. 1090 01:27:37,583 --> 01:27:39,333 Not that we're not still right and high, 1091 01:27:39,333 --> 01:27:40,333 but it's just different. 1092 01:27:40,583 --> 01:27:41,916 And because of some of the shifts, 1093 01:27:44,541 --> 01:27:47,500 who said it the other day too? 1094 01:27:47,500 --> 01:27:48,541 I'm talking a lot here, so 1095 01:27:48,541 --> 01:27:49,500 feel free to interrupt you, 1096 01:27:49,500 --> 01:27:50,500 but I got one more thing to say. 1097 01:27:50,791 --> 01:27:51,625 So interrupt me now. 1098 01:27:52,708 --> 01:27:53,250 Certainly won't, I don't 1099 01:27:53,250 --> 01:27:54,375 wanna stop your train of thought. 1100 01:27:54,958 --> 01:27:55,500 This is good. 1101 01:27:55,750 --> 01:27:57,125 It's not good stuff, but it's just, 1102 01:27:57,125 --> 01:27:58,625 it's not how I feel. 1103 01:27:59,000 --> 01:27:59,458 I don't know if other 1104 01:27:59,458 --> 01:28:00,583 people have felt that way or not, 1105 01:28:00,583 --> 01:28:02,250 but I was listening to a podcast, 1106 01:28:02,583 --> 01:28:04,208 one of my favorite podcast, "Smart List." 1107 01:28:05,000 --> 01:28:07,458 And somebody said on there, 1108 01:28:07,458 --> 01:28:07,916 I can't remember if it 1109 01:28:07,916 --> 01:28:09,125 was Bateman or Arnett 1110 01:28:09,125 --> 01:28:10,000 or something like that, 1111 01:28:10,416 --> 01:28:11,208 but maybe it was 1112 01:28:11,208 --> 01:28:12,500 something they had on there. 1113 01:28:12,500 --> 01:28:13,541 But they talked about it. 1114 01:28:13,541 --> 01:28:14,500 Same thing that we always say. 1115 01:28:14,500 --> 01:28:16,000 It's like, if I get this 1116 01:28:16,000 --> 01:28:17,916 role, if I get this and I land it, 1117 01:28:18,375 --> 01:28:19,541 my life will change forever, 1118 01:28:19,541 --> 01:28:20,958 and I will finally have made it. 1119 01:28:21,666 --> 01:28:23,708 I'll hit that calmness way. 1120 01:28:23,750 --> 01:28:25,250 Everybody's like, it's what 1121 01:28:25,250 --> 01:28:26,416 we talk about the horizons. 1122 01:28:26,416 --> 01:28:27,083 Why don't you get to that? 1123 01:28:27,083 --> 01:28:29,000 Once I do this, everything will be fine. 1124 01:28:30,250 --> 01:28:31,958 And there's a whole thing about like, 1125 01:28:31,958 --> 01:28:33,541 you get there, even for them, 1126 01:28:33,791 --> 01:28:34,916 who now may, they may 1127 01:28:34,916 --> 01:28:36,083 remember me on that one thing, 1128 01:28:36,083 --> 01:28:37,333 probably they don't make my entire life, 1129 01:28:37,791 --> 01:28:38,583 but they still don't have 1130 01:28:38,583 --> 01:28:40,083 that sense of fulfillment, 1131 01:28:40,625 --> 01:28:41,083 the sense of 1132 01:28:41,083 --> 01:28:42,916 accomplishment, that sense of peace. 1133 01:28:43,916 --> 01:28:45,166 And that's what we're 1134 01:28:45,166 --> 01:28:46,375 searching for in these times. 1135 01:28:46,375 --> 01:28:48,000 Even though the Riptides 1136 01:28:48,000 --> 01:28:49,250 have taken us different places, 1137 01:28:50,083 --> 01:28:51,750 life has taken us different places, 1138 01:28:52,166 --> 01:28:52,958 what you're looking for is 1139 01:28:52,958 --> 01:28:54,958 that peace to enjoy that moment. 1140 01:28:57,375 --> 01:28:58,291 And that's easier said and done 1141 01:28:58,750 --> 01:28:59,250 depending on different 1142 01:28:59,250 --> 01:29:00,500 scenarios that you find yourself in. 1143 01:29:01,000 --> 01:29:02,708 It is, it really is. 1144 01:29:03,125 --> 01:29:06,000 And there is no right way to find it. 1145 01:29:06,000 --> 01:29:06,791 And I think some people 1146 01:29:06,791 --> 01:29:08,208 struggle with it more than others. 1147 01:29:08,416 --> 01:29:11,416 And I don't have any advice, 1148 01:29:11,416 --> 01:29:13,125 but I know you're not alone. 1149 01:29:14,083 --> 01:29:15,500 All of our listeners 1150 01:29:15,500 --> 01:29:16,833 have experienced that 1151 01:29:16,833 --> 01:29:18,666 because that's part of life, right? 1152 01:29:18,666 --> 01:29:19,541 It's that full summit. 1153 01:29:20,916 --> 01:29:22,333 Well, I think, yeah, you're 1154 01:29:22,333 --> 01:29:22,916 right, it's a full summit. 1155 01:29:23,083 --> 01:29:25,458 I think it's just so much in life. 1156 01:29:25,458 --> 01:29:25,958 And we've talked about 1157 01:29:25,958 --> 01:29:27,000 this a little bit before too, 1158 01:29:27,208 --> 01:29:30,208 is you see people on Instagram reels 1159 01:29:30,208 --> 01:29:31,083 and you see people on 1160 01:29:31,083 --> 01:29:32,375 Facebook or whatever it is, 1161 01:29:32,375 --> 01:29:33,125 you see people on TV, 1162 01:29:33,916 --> 01:29:35,458 whatever people watch YouTube now. 1163 01:29:36,416 --> 01:29:38,291 And everybody's happy, everybody's great, 1164 01:29:38,291 --> 01:29:39,750 everybody's living a celebrity life. 1165 01:29:40,375 --> 01:29:42,166 Everybody only shows you 1166 01:29:42,166 --> 01:29:44,208 the highs of their life. 1167 01:29:44,791 --> 01:29:45,791 I mean, that's just reality. 1168 01:29:46,458 --> 01:29:47,458 And I'm not saying we're lows, 1169 01:29:47,916 --> 01:29:48,958 I'm not saying that at all, 1170 01:29:48,958 --> 01:29:49,750 but I mean, we are in 1171 01:29:49,750 --> 01:29:50,708 more difficult times. 1172 01:29:50,708 --> 01:29:51,541 It's not horrible by 1173 01:29:51,541 --> 01:29:52,666 any means, but you know. 1174 01:29:53,458 --> 01:29:54,000 But if people are to 1175 01:29:54,000 --> 01:29:55,416 look at our Instagram feed, 1176 01:29:55,875 --> 01:29:57,000 I mean, we just came back from Rome, 1177 01:29:57,375 --> 01:29:57,666 but they've been 1178 01:29:57,666 --> 01:29:59,541 living the good life for us. 1179 01:30:00,041 --> 01:30:00,458 I mean, we're never 1180 01:30:00,458 --> 01:30:01,791 gonna be Richie Riches, 1181 01:30:02,500 --> 01:30:03,125 but we're doing fine. 1182 01:30:04,041 --> 01:30:04,333 Exactly. 1183 01:30:04,750 --> 01:30:05,208 And there's people that 1184 01:30:05,208 --> 01:30:06,166 would love to do what we've done. 1185 01:30:06,916 --> 01:30:08,416 We understand we're blessed on that. 1186 01:30:08,875 --> 01:30:09,958 But there's always just, 1187 01:30:10,500 --> 01:30:11,916 every person has that struggle 1188 01:30:11,916 --> 01:30:13,458 wherever they are in their life 1189 01:30:14,125 --> 01:30:15,541 to feel that sense of 1190 01:30:15,541 --> 01:30:17,250 peace and contentment. 1191 01:30:17,750 --> 01:30:19,958 Contentment's a big word, I think. 1192 01:30:19,958 --> 01:30:21,250 It is, it is. 1193 01:30:22,291 --> 01:30:25,000 And I think that's something that 1194 01:30:25,000 --> 01:30:26,916 everybody has a different, 1195 01:30:27,416 --> 01:30:29,208 everyone strives to get there 1196 01:30:29,208 --> 01:30:30,750 and based on different personalities. 1197 01:30:31,208 --> 01:30:32,625 And sometimes, especially, 1198 01:30:32,625 --> 01:30:36,083 I think the more ambitious someone is, 1199 01:30:36,416 --> 01:30:39,166 the less able they are to feel content. 1200 01:30:39,166 --> 01:30:40,791 Easy it is to find contentment. 1201 01:30:41,250 --> 01:30:42,333 You and I have talked about that. 1202 01:30:43,166 --> 01:30:45,166 Where I should be content. 1203 01:30:46,250 --> 01:30:46,791 And I-- 1204 01:30:47,583 --> 01:30:49,500 Yeah, I don't, sorry, keep going. 1205 01:30:49,541 --> 01:30:50,500 No, no, no, I interrupted you. 1206 01:30:50,916 --> 01:30:52,291 I think when we always talk about it, 1207 01:30:52,291 --> 01:30:53,916 you are like the white 1208 01:30:53,916 --> 01:30:55,750 water rapids guy, right? 1209 01:30:56,000 --> 01:30:58,166 You're like, "Woo, this is gonna be fun. 1210 01:30:58,166 --> 01:30:59,000 Let's go, let's go, 1211 01:30:59,000 --> 01:31:00,500 let's pick the next rapids." 1212 01:31:00,500 --> 01:31:01,500 And I'm like, "I like 1213 01:31:01,500 --> 01:31:03,458 the lazy river," right? 1214 01:31:03,458 --> 01:31:06,625 And that's because I find 1215 01:31:06,625 --> 01:31:08,375 contentment in the lazy river. 1216 01:31:09,208 --> 01:31:10,416 And then you're like, "Oh, 1217 01:31:10,416 --> 01:31:12,000 no, no, no, let's change it up 1218 01:31:12,000 --> 01:31:14,041 and let's go whitewater rafting." 1219 01:31:14,166 --> 01:31:15,333 I'm the risk taker that 1220 01:31:15,333 --> 01:31:17,541 will ask the question, what if? 1221 01:31:17,666 --> 01:31:19,041 Right, right. What if we did this? 1222 01:31:19,041 --> 01:31:19,833 What if this happened? 1223 01:31:19,833 --> 01:31:20,583 What if I could do this? 1224 01:31:21,250 --> 01:31:21,458 Right. 1225 01:31:21,625 --> 01:31:23,666 And that's one reason why I think we 1226 01:31:23,666 --> 01:31:24,916 balance each other out 1227 01:31:24,916 --> 01:31:25,875 and why we work well. 1228 01:31:26,083 --> 01:31:29,250 Like sometimes, Megan, you can't always 1229 01:31:29,250 --> 01:31:30,291 have the lazy river. 1230 01:31:30,291 --> 01:31:31,708 The lazy river isn't 1231 01:31:31,708 --> 01:31:32,916 maybe not gonna get you 1232 01:31:32,916 --> 01:31:34,000 to the place you need. 1233 01:31:34,291 --> 01:31:35,291 And sometimes you need 1234 01:31:35,291 --> 01:31:36,500 a lazy river, you know? 1235 01:31:36,500 --> 01:31:37,375 We both have influenced 1236 01:31:37,375 --> 01:31:39,041 each other's decisions in life 1237 01:31:39,541 --> 01:31:40,416 one way or the other 1238 01:31:40,416 --> 01:31:41,750 based on kind of what our 1239 01:31:42,333 --> 01:31:43,625 natural North Star is. 1240 01:31:44,166 --> 01:31:45,333 Exactly. Yeah. 1241 01:31:45,333 --> 01:31:46,125 And some of those have been right 1242 01:31:46,125 --> 01:31:46,500 and some of those have 1243 01:31:46,500 --> 01:31:48,291 been wrong, I feel like. 1244 01:31:48,500 --> 01:31:49,583 But either way, where 1245 01:31:49,583 --> 01:31:51,375 we're at, we're here. 1246 01:31:51,375 --> 01:31:52,000 You know what? 1247 01:31:52,000 --> 01:31:54,541 We are still in the raft rowing the, 1248 01:31:54,541 --> 01:31:55,791 like, we wouldn't like. 1249 01:31:56,875 --> 01:31:58,416 Are we rowing towards rapids? 1250 01:31:58,416 --> 01:31:59,416 Are we rowing upstream 1251 01:31:59,416 --> 01:32:01,208 towards the, I'm just trying 1252 01:32:01,208 --> 01:32:02,166 to figure out where we're, yeah. 1253 01:32:02,458 --> 01:32:03,625 We got too much water in 1254 01:32:03,625 --> 01:32:04,875 our face right now to know. 1255 01:32:05,000 --> 01:32:05,208 Yeah. 1256 01:32:05,250 --> 01:32:05,708 I think we're in the 1257 01:32:05,708 --> 01:32:06,500 middle of the rapids. 1258 01:32:06,541 --> 01:32:07,000 I think we're in the 1259 01:32:07,000 --> 01:32:07,666 middle of the rapids. 1260 01:32:07,666 --> 01:32:08,875 This is class five, baby. 1261 01:32:10,166 --> 01:32:10,916 Class five, baby. 1262 01:32:11,583 --> 01:32:12,458 Which brings me to one 1263 01:32:12,458 --> 01:32:13,750 of our memories from Rome. 1264 01:32:14,833 --> 01:32:16,250 Just to kind of break this deep one. 1265 01:32:16,541 --> 01:32:18,000 We're crossing, what's 1266 01:32:18,000 --> 01:32:18,875 the, I don't remember. 1267 01:32:18,875 --> 01:32:19,500 Do you remember the main 1268 01:32:19,500 --> 01:32:20,958 river that divides Rome 1269 01:32:20,958 --> 01:32:22,666 from basically where Vatican City's at? 1270 01:32:23,000 --> 01:32:23,916 A tiber, I think. 1271 01:32:23,958 --> 01:32:24,500 Is it the tiber? 1272 01:32:24,750 --> 01:32:25,791 Okay, I'll put that on you. 1273 01:32:26,000 --> 01:32:26,791 Yep, yep, yep, okay, question 1274 01:32:26,791 --> 01:32:27,875 mark over that just in case. 1275 01:32:27,875 --> 01:32:28,416 You're probably right. 1276 01:32:28,958 --> 01:32:30,500 Anyways, a long bridge going over there, 1277 01:32:30,500 --> 01:32:31,500 because it's fairly wide. 1278 01:32:32,250 --> 01:32:34,375 You know, 100, 200 yards wide, maybe? 1279 01:32:35,125 --> 01:32:35,958 Anyways, there's like, 1280 01:32:36,208 --> 01:32:37,791 there's some rowers on there 1281 01:32:37,791 --> 01:32:39,541 that are like doing like the old college. 1282 01:32:39,958 --> 01:32:41,000 Oh yeah, it's a crew team. 1283 01:32:42,000 --> 01:32:44,208 Yeah, just row and streamline 1284 01:32:44,208 --> 01:32:45,375 right down the middle of it. 1285 01:32:45,791 --> 01:32:47,666 Going, maybe upstream, I don't remember. 1286 01:32:47,666 --> 01:32:48,625 They had to be going upstream. 1287 01:32:48,916 --> 01:32:49,750 They had to be back. 1288 01:32:49,791 --> 01:32:50,625 We're watching them and 1289 01:32:50,625 --> 01:32:51,333 then slowly but surely, 1290 01:32:51,333 --> 01:32:53,250 another boat comes going downstream. 1291 01:32:54,000 --> 01:32:57,166 And it is literally a white water raft 1292 01:32:57,750 --> 01:32:59,708 with people in it with the helmets on, 1293 01:32:59,708 --> 01:33:03,458 the orange helmets, the orange life vest. 1294 01:33:03,458 --> 01:33:05,666 They all have paddles, just 1295 01:33:05,666 --> 01:33:06,666 like they're on the Colorado 1296 01:33:06,666 --> 01:33:08,291 or Arkansas River, right? 1297 01:33:08,333 --> 01:33:11,208 Go get ready for the class five rapids. 1298 01:33:11,375 --> 01:33:13,125 And it was glass. 1299 01:33:13,166 --> 01:33:14,791 It was totally glass. 1300 01:33:15,041 --> 01:33:16,666 It was like, what? 1301 01:33:17,000 --> 01:33:18,250 Like that was being punked. 1302 01:33:18,541 --> 01:33:20,500 Like again, that's the 1303 01:33:20,500 --> 01:33:22,333 reality family that we were, 1304 01:33:22,333 --> 01:33:23,625 that's probably some reality family. 1305 01:33:23,625 --> 01:33:24,875 That's like, you know what? 1306 01:33:25,583 --> 01:33:26,708 The show's not, it's 1307 01:33:26,708 --> 01:33:27,916 kind of been boring lately. 1308 01:33:28,250 --> 01:33:28,833 You guys are just going to 1309 01:33:28,833 --> 01:33:30,208 work and going to soccer practice. 1310 01:33:30,208 --> 01:33:32,166 So let's throw you in a raft 1311 01:33:32,166 --> 01:33:33,166 and put you on the Tiber River. 1312 01:33:34,416 --> 01:33:36,625 Oh my gosh, it was the funniest thing. 1313 01:33:36,625 --> 01:33:39,583 Like the whole like-- 1314 01:33:39,583 --> 01:33:40,458 I take a picture out of T. 1315 01:33:40,791 --> 01:33:42,333 Absolutely, because I 1316 01:33:42,333 --> 01:33:43,333 mean, even the kids, 1317 01:33:43,583 --> 01:33:44,791 the irony of this was 1318 01:33:44,791 --> 01:33:45,875 not lost on the kids. 1319 01:33:45,875 --> 01:33:46,708 Slow down. 1320 01:33:48,000 --> 01:33:48,875 Don't get thrown out 1321 01:33:48,875 --> 01:33:50,250 of the boat, you know? 1322 01:33:50,541 --> 01:33:51,208 How they were-- 1323 01:33:51,333 --> 01:33:51,625 Heffling them. 1324 01:33:52,125 --> 01:33:53,041 I have no idea. 1325 01:33:53,083 --> 01:33:53,791 They're going down, 1326 01:33:53,791 --> 01:33:55,250 they're just floating downstream. 1327 01:33:55,291 --> 01:33:55,833 They were floating. 1328 01:33:56,625 --> 01:33:58,416 Like I bet their oars 1329 01:33:58,416 --> 01:33:59,666 never had to touch the water. 1330 01:34:01,125 --> 01:34:01,875 Well, if they wanted to 1331 01:34:01,875 --> 01:34:03,083 go faster than, you know. 1332 01:34:03,583 --> 01:34:04,541 (laughing) 1333 01:34:05,500 --> 01:34:06,833 I mean, a baby could have crawled faster 1334 01:34:06,833 --> 01:34:07,500 than they were moving. 1335 01:34:07,541 --> 01:34:08,166 Oh yeah, yeah. 1336 01:34:08,166 --> 01:34:08,708 On that water. 1337 01:34:08,708 --> 01:34:09,541 This was not like-- 1338 01:34:09,916 --> 01:34:10,750 It was hilarious. 1339 01:34:11,666 --> 01:34:12,750 Now I don't know, I mean, 1340 01:34:12,750 --> 01:34:13,958 you can only see, you know, 1341 01:34:14,291 --> 01:34:15,916 800 yards up, 800 yards down. 1342 01:34:15,916 --> 01:34:17,291 So maybe it was got 1343 01:34:17,291 --> 01:34:19,375 crazy after that next band. 1344 01:34:19,708 --> 01:34:20,416 Maybe, maybe. 1345 01:34:21,000 --> 01:34:23,250 But I mean, we all know that, you know, 1346 01:34:23,250 --> 01:34:25,208 in the largest cities in the world, 1347 01:34:25,458 --> 01:34:26,500 they're usually built on 1348 01:34:26,500 --> 01:34:28,416 high rapid rivers, right? 1349 01:34:28,625 --> 01:34:29,375 Yeah. Yeah. 1350 01:34:29,416 --> 01:34:29,958 Yeah, is that true? 1351 01:34:29,958 --> 01:34:30,583 I didn't know that. 1352 01:34:30,625 --> 01:34:32,500 Yeah, it is known. 1353 01:34:33,791 --> 01:34:36,000 Nope, pretty sure they needed calm water 1354 01:34:36,000 --> 01:34:36,791 to draw their water 1355 01:34:36,791 --> 01:34:37,833 source, blah, blah, blah. 1356 01:34:38,791 --> 01:34:39,041 Anyway. 1357 01:34:39,500 --> 01:34:41,208 Well, here's something that I 1358 01:34:41,208 --> 01:34:42,333 did wanna talk about briefly 1359 01:34:42,625 --> 01:34:44,000 because we're into 1360 01:34:44,000 --> 01:34:44,875 this a little bit here, 1361 01:34:45,208 --> 01:34:46,458 but tell me, has anybody 1362 01:34:46,458 --> 01:34:47,958 done, this is new, right? 1363 01:34:47,958 --> 01:34:48,750 This is something new. 1364 01:34:48,750 --> 01:34:49,375 I've never heard of this before. 1365 01:34:49,750 --> 01:34:50,166 It's something I've 1366 01:34:50,166 --> 01:34:51,250 never done before either. 1367 01:34:51,833 --> 01:34:53,791 But I couldn't have done it 10 years ago. 1368 01:34:54,000 --> 01:34:54,666 I couldn't have done it 1369 01:34:54,666 --> 01:34:55,541 two years ago probably. 1370 01:34:56,500 --> 01:34:59,083 But I got into two arguments this week. 1371 01:35:00,666 --> 01:35:02,541 Two arguments with AI. 1372 01:35:03,458 --> 01:35:04,375 Artificial intelligence. 1373 01:35:05,458 --> 01:35:06,208 Yes, you did. 1374 01:35:07,250 --> 01:35:08,041 Yes, you did. 1375 01:35:09,125 --> 01:35:10,166 I don't know what else do you-- 1376 01:35:10,166 --> 01:35:12,375 Has anybody else gotten a fight with, 1377 01:35:12,958 --> 01:35:15,541 well, one was with Alexa, okay? 1378 01:35:15,541 --> 01:35:17,041 And one was with chat GPT. 1379 01:35:17,916 --> 01:35:18,416 You did. 1380 01:35:18,875 --> 01:35:20,541 I got in a fight with both of them. 1381 01:35:21,208 --> 01:35:22,541 And it was literally verbally. 1382 01:35:22,916 --> 01:35:24,208 So just briefly, I'm just curious 1383 01:35:24,208 --> 01:35:25,125 if anybody else has done this, 1384 01:35:25,125 --> 01:35:26,000 because this was my first time. 1385 01:35:26,625 --> 01:35:27,875 So the music, we 1386 01:35:27,875 --> 01:35:28,666 listen to music all the time 1387 01:35:28,666 --> 01:35:29,500 and here I've talked about 1388 01:35:29,500 --> 01:35:30,125 it a little bit earlier today. 1389 01:35:30,125 --> 01:35:32,166 So always have music on in the bathroom 1390 01:35:32,250 --> 01:35:33,375 when I'm getting ready, okay? 1391 01:35:33,666 --> 01:35:34,833 And it's just like, hey, 1392 01:35:35,208 --> 01:35:36,500 Alexa, turn on and play music. 1393 01:35:36,500 --> 01:35:37,208 Whatever it is, right? 1394 01:35:37,208 --> 01:35:39,333 And she plays based on our iTunes list. 1395 01:35:40,083 --> 01:35:41,625 So all of a sudden she stops 1396 01:35:41,916 --> 01:35:43,083 and she's done this a couple of times. 1397 01:35:43,083 --> 01:35:43,791 The music just stops. 1398 01:35:44,208 --> 01:35:47,041 So I decided because AI is so smart now. 1399 01:35:47,125 --> 01:35:47,541 So smart. 1400 01:35:47,916 --> 01:35:49,791 I decided just to ask, hey, Alexa, 1401 01:35:50,250 --> 01:35:52,125 why did you stop playing the music? 1402 01:35:53,000 --> 01:35:54,791 And she's like, because you asked me to. 1403 01:35:56,541 --> 01:35:59,166 And I'm like, Alexa, I did not ask you 1404 01:35:59,166 --> 01:36:00,458 to stop playing the music. 1405 01:36:00,500 --> 01:36:01,875 Why did you stop playing the music? 1406 01:36:02,375 --> 01:36:04,958 And she's like, because you asked me to 1407 01:36:05,166 --> 01:36:08,208 at 1.06 p.m. in 32 seconds. 1408 01:36:08,750 --> 01:36:09,916 So she gives me more information. 1409 01:36:10,833 --> 01:36:12,250 And it did feel like 1410 01:36:12,250 --> 01:36:13,125 she had a little attitude, 1411 01:36:13,916 --> 01:36:14,583 but it's her new voice. 1412 01:36:14,833 --> 01:36:15,833 It's smart, Alexa now. 1413 01:36:15,833 --> 01:36:16,250 Yeah, yeah. 1414 01:36:16,916 --> 01:36:18,583 And I'm like, Alexa, I 1415 01:36:18,583 --> 01:36:20,833 didn't even talk to you. 1416 01:36:21,291 --> 01:36:23,291 I didn't even say anything to you. 1417 01:36:24,000 --> 01:36:25,250 And she's like, you did. 1418 01:36:25,916 --> 01:36:26,583 Dot, dot, dot. 1419 01:36:26,583 --> 01:36:27,875 She starts giving me more 1420 01:36:27,875 --> 01:36:30,125 data about it on this dot 1421 01:36:30,416 --> 01:36:31,166 and all this kind of stuff. 1422 01:36:31,166 --> 01:36:32,375 I'm like, Alexa, what 1423 01:36:32,375 --> 01:36:33,541 dot did it come from? 1424 01:36:34,000 --> 01:36:36,250 Was it told from the master bathroom dot? 1425 01:36:36,666 --> 01:36:37,500 So now I'm trying to get into, 1426 01:36:37,708 --> 01:36:39,250 so I'm literally arguing with her, 1427 01:36:39,250 --> 01:36:40,583 trying to get her to back down on this. 1428 01:36:41,041 --> 01:36:42,041 And she's like, yes, 1429 01:36:42,041 --> 01:36:43,041 it was from this dot. 1430 01:36:43,375 --> 01:36:44,791 And I was like, are you sure it's not 1431 01:36:44,791 --> 01:36:46,083 from Liam's room dot? 1432 01:36:46,083 --> 01:36:47,333 Because I think that's what it is. 1433 01:36:47,333 --> 01:36:48,375 That one's got an issue. 1434 01:36:48,375 --> 01:36:49,375 So he's saying stop 1435 01:36:49,375 --> 01:36:50,750 playing the music in his room. 1436 01:36:51,250 --> 01:36:52,625 And she's stopping it in our room. 1437 01:36:53,541 --> 01:36:55,666 And she was dead set that it came from me 1438 01:36:56,375 --> 01:36:57,666 in the master bathroom 1439 01:36:57,666 --> 01:36:59,166 with the candlestick. 1440 01:36:59,750 --> 01:36:59,958 Right? 1441 01:37:01,750 --> 01:37:02,500 So I gave up on it 1442 01:37:02,500 --> 01:37:03,500 because she was dead set. 1443 01:37:04,125 --> 01:37:04,875 I ended up just being 1444 01:37:04,875 --> 01:37:06,041 like, Alexa, you're an idiot. 1445 01:37:06,041 --> 01:37:07,041 And she didn't respond to that. 1446 01:37:07,666 --> 01:37:08,958 I said that to her in the kitchen before 1447 01:37:08,958 --> 01:37:09,875 and she did respond to it. 1448 01:37:09,875 --> 01:37:11,083 Like, I'm sorry, you feel that way? 1449 01:37:11,083 --> 01:37:12,333 I don't remember. 1450 01:37:12,833 --> 01:37:13,500 No, you're an idiot. 1451 01:37:15,500 --> 01:37:16,000 I'm an idiot. 1452 01:37:16,833 --> 01:37:17,875 Oh my gosh. You're an idiot. 1453 01:37:18,166 --> 01:37:18,750 I'm an idiot. 1454 01:37:19,500 --> 01:37:20,541 That's a great reference. 1455 01:37:20,541 --> 01:37:20,875 Well done. 1456 01:37:21,916 --> 01:37:23,958 But what is so funny is 1457 01:37:23,958 --> 01:37:25,208 that this is truly an argument 1458 01:37:25,375 --> 01:37:26,708 you cannot win. 1459 01:37:28,000 --> 01:37:31,708 You're fighting with a non person. 1460 01:37:32,583 --> 01:37:32,750 Yeah. 1461 01:37:34,916 --> 01:37:36,041 And even yesterday, like-- 1462 01:37:36,083 --> 01:37:36,500 Well, she was being 1463 01:37:36,500 --> 01:37:37,541 passive progressive though. 1464 01:37:38,583 --> 01:37:39,125 (laughs) 1465 01:37:39,125 --> 01:37:40,541 She doesn't have feelings. 1466 01:37:40,958 --> 01:37:41,333 She might. 1467 01:37:41,625 --> 01:37:42,500 And this is AI now. 1468 01:37:42,500 --> 01:37:43,916 I mean, this is, it's the next level. 1469 01:37:45,333 --> 01:37:45,958 Oh my gosh. 1470 01:37:46,333 --> 01:37:47,250 Last night, I mean, 1471 01:37:47,250 --> 01:37:48,125 we were in the kitchen 1472 01:37:48,125 --> 01:37:49,875 and you were fighting with chat GPT. 1473 01:37:50,125 --> 01:37:51,250 And even our daughters like, 1474 01:37:51,958 --> 01:37:55,166 dad, are you fighting with chat GPT? 1475 01:37:55,541 --> 01:37:56,875 Like, it was-- 1476 01:37:57,708 --> 01:37:58,166 Hilarious. 1477 01:37:58,208 --> 01:37:59,166 That was a typing fight. 1478 01:37:59,166 --> 01:38:00,541 So I was typing it out to 1479 01:38:00,541 --> 01:38:02,583 chat GPT on my computer. 1480 01:38:02,583 --> 01:38:04,416 And for the record, it was wrong. 1481 01:38:05,000 --> 01:38:06,000 Chat GPT was wrong. 1482 01:38:06,458 --> 01:38:07,375 Yeah, totally wrong. 1483 01:38:07,625 --> 01:38:08,083 Completely wrong. 1484 01:38:08,916 --> 01:38:11,166 And oh my gosh, it was hilarious. 1485 01:38:12,041 --> 01:38:13,791 I was, I actually got 1486 01:38:13,791 --> 01:38:15,000 some enjoyment out of this. 1487 01:38:15,083 --> 01:38:16,375 Because I was reading the back and forth. 1488 01:38:16,833 --> 01:38:18,458 So I'd read, I'd read 1489 01:38:18,458 --> 01:38:19,291 out what I'm typing. 1490 01:38:20,708 --> 01:38:22,083 Why are you giving me 1491 01:38:22,083 --> 01:38:23,291 the wrong information? 1492 01:38:23,750 --> 01:38:25,375 You already said this was wrong. 1493 01:38:26,083 --> 01:38:26,666 Question mark, enter. 1494 01:38:27,041 --> 01:38:27,875 All right, let's see what they say. 1495 01:38:28,416 --> 01:38:30,208 And then I'd read back what chat GPT say. 1496 01:38:30,583 --> 01:38:31,500 You are absolutely 1497 01:38:31,500 --> 01:38:32,791 right for calling me out. 1498 01:38:32,791 --> 01:38:34,750 You should expect me to be accurate. 1499 01:38:35,166 --> 01:38:35,666 And they'd have this 1500 01:38:35,666 --> 01:38:37,375 long, like perfect apology. 1501 01:38:37,666 --> 01:38:38,250 I should be better. 1502 01:38:38,583 --> 01:38:39,458 I'm gonna do better. 1503 01:38:39,458 --> 01:38:40,083 And here's what you can 1504 01:38:40,083 --> 01:38:41,125 do to help me be better. 1505 01:38:41,791 --> 01:38:42,416 So we went through this 1506 01:38:42,416 --> 01:38:43,416 whole long thing about, 1507 01:38:43,416 --> 01:38:44,416 they gave me some wrong 1508 01:38:44,416 --> 01:38:46,708 dates, incorrect dates. 1509 01:38:46,708 --> 01:38:48,958 I said, I called chat GPT out on it. 1510 01:38:48,958 --> 01:38:50,000 This date is wrong. 1511 01:38:50,875 --> 01:38:52,083 You're absolutely right, it's wrong. 1512 01:38:52,583 --> 01:38:53,208 Here's the note. 1513 01:38:53,208 --> 01:38:53,666 I'll get here. 1514 01:38:54,125 --> 01:38:55,333 Do you want me to double check it? 1515 01:38:55,416 --> 01:38:57,125 I'll go deeper, double check, yes. 1516 01:38:57,791 --> 01:38:59,500 And then after like three or 1517 01:38:59,500 --> 01:39:00,541 four or five minutes of this. 1518 01:39:00,583 --> 01:39:01,541 You have like double, triple, 1519 01:39:01,541 --> 01:39:02,625 quadruple check. Yeah, back and forth, 1520 01:39:02,625 --> 01:39:03,416 back and forth, back and forth. 1521 01:39:03,416 --> 01:39:04,708 She's like, here's the final list 1522 01:39:04,708 --> 01:39:06,125 that has been double quadruple checked 1523 01:39:06,125 --> 01:39:08,500 and is accurate now. 1524 01:39:09,083 --> 01:39:10,041 She gave it to me. 1525 01:39:10,708 --> 01:39:11,750 Still wrong. So I'm reading it. 1526 01:39:12,166 --> 01:39:13,166 The one that started 1527 01:39:13,166 --> 01:39:14,208 the whole conversation 1528 01:39:14,750 --> 01:39:15,416 that I knew was wrong 1529 01:39:15,416 --> 01:39:17,041 was back on the list. 1530 01:39:18,916 --> 01:39:19,500 For the record, 1531 01:39:20,375 --> 01:39:23,125 Wil Wheaton's birthday is July 29th. 1532 01:39:23,125 --> 01:39:24,291 It is not July 30th. 1533 01:39:24,500 --> 01:39:26,416 It is not July 30th. 1534 01:39:26,458 --> 01:39:27,500 Which was this all, 1535 01:39:28,291 --> 01:39:30,958 she put Wil Wheaton back 1536 01:39:30,958 --> 01:39:33,208 on there for July 30th. 1537 01:39:33,375 --> 01:39:35,541 So Wil Wheaton, if you're watching, 1538 01:39:36,416 --> 01:39:38,166 the English is know your birthday. 1539 01:39:38,166 --> 01:39:38,625 That's right. 1540 01:39:38,958 --> 01:39:40,083 Chat GPT does not. 1541 01:39:40,083 --> 01:39:41,625 That's right, super confused. 1542 01:39:42,083 --> 01:39:44,083 So you're welcome, Wil Wheaton. 1543 01:39:44,125 --> 01:39:45,416 Oh my gosh. 1544 01:39:46,875 --> 01:39:47,625 But that's the truth and 1545 01:39:47,625 --> 01:39:48,416 we've talked about that. 1546 01:39:48,541 --> 01:39:49,875 Everybody, well not everybody knows, 1547 01:39:49,875 --> 01:39:51,708 but people should know that 1548 01:39:51,708 --> 01:39:53,125 when you do like Google AI 1549 01:39:53,125 --> 01:39:54,125 and all that kind of stuff. 1550 01:39:54,375 --> 01:39:56,666 It's like 80% incorrect. 1551 01:39:57,625 --> 01:39:58,041 And everybody talks 1552 01:39:58,041 --> 01:40:00,666 about Chat GPT being so great 1553 01:40:00,666 --> 01:40:01,166 and you can get so 1554 01:40:01,166 --> 01:40:02,208 much more done on that. 1555 01:40:02,208 --> 01:40:02,666 And it is, it's 1556 01:40:02,666 --> 01:40:03,625 helpful for writing things, 1557 01:40:03,625 --> 01:40:05,583 but you can't use it for factual stuff. 1558 01:40:06,000 --> 01:40:06,208 You cannot. 1559 01:40:07,166 --> 01:40:08,166 You still have to fact check it. 1560 01:40:08,208 --> 01:40:10,625 You absolutely have to fact check it. 1561 01:40:10,625 --> 01:40:11,500 It defeats the purpose of 1562 01:40:11,500 --> 01:40:12,625 using it in the first place. 1563 01:40:12,625 --> 01:40:13,416 Same with Google AI. 1564 01:40:14,083 --> 01:40:14,916 I've got things on there 1565 01:40:14,916 --> 01:40:15,875 that I've just double checked. 1566 01:40:16,416 --> 01:40:18,708 And here's another ironic point of it. 1567 01:40:19,041 --> 01:40:20,208 Who do I double check it with? 1568 01:40:20,625 --> 01:40:21,333 Google. Google. 1569 01:40:21,791 --> 01:40:23,125 (laughs) 1570 01:40:23,666 --> 01:40:24,708 So I'm fact checking 1571 01:40:24,708 --> 01:40:25,833 Google's AI with Google. 1572 01:40:26,666 --> 01:40:26,958 I know. 1573 01:40:27,541 --> 01:40:29,333 But the other thing is though, 1574 01:40:29,333 --> 01:40:31,375 it honestly scares me when 1575 01:40:31,375 --> 01:40:33,791 AI finally does get it right. 1576 01:40:34,041 --> 01:40:34,166 Yeah. 1577 01:40:34,666 --> 01:40:37,208 Like humans are rendered useless. 1578 01:40:38,541 --> 01:40:38,833 Well. 1579 01:40:39,458 --> 01:40:41,000 So I'm actually okay that it's wrong 1580 01:40:41,166 --> 01:40:42,541 because then I'm still needed. 1581 01:40:42,541 --> 01:40:43,041 There's a lot of 1582 01:40:43,041 --> 01:40:43,958 worthless humans already. 1583 01:40:45,375 --> 01:40:47,166 (blows raspberry) I can't believe you just said that. 1584 01:40:48,416 --> 01:40:49,833 I want a podcast so bad 1585 01:40:49,833 --> 01:40:51,708 that I can just say the truth. 1586 01:40:52,083 --> 01:40:52,625 You know what I mean? 1587 01:40:53,083 --> 01:40:55,458 Just put it like it is, but I can't. 1588 01:40:55,458 --> 01:40:56,250 We can't. 1589 01:40:56,375 --> 01:40:57,166 But that's one of them 1590 01:40:57,166 --> 01:40:58,083 that you can talk about. 1591 01:40:58,083 --> 01:40:59,000 There's a lot of... 1592 01:41:01,625 --> 01:41:02,916 We'll drop that one for the time being. 1593 01:41:03,791 --> 01:41:05,166 We'll just drop. 1594 01:41:05,958 --> 01:41:07,333 I might be one of them, which is fine. 1595 01:41:07,791 --> 01:41:08,916 I might be included in that. 1596 01:41:08,916 --> 01:41:09,666 So I'm not saying I'm 1597 01:41:09,666 --> 01:41:10,291 better than anybody. 1598 01:41:10,291 --> 01:41:11,416 I could very well be one of them. 1599 01:41:11,416 --> 01:41:12,708 I could be included in that really big list. 1600 01:41:12,958 --> 01:41:13,125 Yeah. 1601 01:41:14,500 --> 01:41:18,375 I don't disagree that that exists. 1602 01:41:18,916 --> 01:41:19,875 If there is a list somewhere, 1603 01:41:20,125 --> 01:41:21,458 we may or may not be on there. 1604 01:41:21,833 --> 01:41:23,333 Yeah, I'm sure I'm on a lot of lists, 1605 01:41:23,333 --> 01:41:24,791 especially now AI's making lists 1606 01:41:24,791 --> 01:41:25,958 with people that are fighting with them. 1607 01:41:27,041 --> 01:41:28,750 (laughing) You're the first person. 1608 01:41:28,791 --> 01:41:30,583 I'm toward the top of the list. 1609 01:41:31,166 --> 01:41:32,291 Like you're the first person 1610 01:41:32,291 --> 01:41:33,250 who's gonna have to be 1611 01:41:33,250 --> 01:41:34,083 plugged into the matrix. 1612 01:41:34,458 --> 01:41:35,333 Yeah, yeah. 1613 01:41:35,541 --> 01:41:36,708 They're gonna go after me first 1614 01:41:36,708 --> 01:41:37,666 because like this guy started. 1615 01:41:38,083 --> 01:41:38,916 Anyway. He started it. 1616 01:41:39,541 --> 01:41:41,000 Well, I will try not to 1617 01:41:41,000 --> 01:41:42,916 pick fights with AI anymore. 1618 01:41:43,833 --> 01:41:46,291 So we just ended with me saying 1619 01:41:46,500 --> 01:41:47,208 that I'm not gonna pick 1620 01:41:47,208 --> 01:41:48,166 fights with AI anymore. 1621 01:41:48,625 --> 01:41:51,208 And then I had a major audio video error. 1622 01:41:52,041 --> 01:41:53,583 Luckily we were wrapping this thing up. 1623 01:41:55,000 --> 01:41:58,583 We were. (laughing) And we ran out of audio. 1624 01:41:59,375 --> 01:42:00,750 It was recording no audio. 1625 01:42:01,083 --> 01:42:02,916 So we could just give you silent. 1626 01:42:03,958 --> 01:42:04,791 Oh yeah, yeah. 1627 01:42:05,125 --> 01:42:06,833 Actually, isn't that thing on HBO 1628 01:42:06,833 --> 01:42:09,041 where they have like comedians voiceover? 1629 01:42:09,041 --> 01:42:10,500 Yeah, just voiceover the rest of the way. 1630 01:42:10,833 --> 01:42:12,500 Yeah, talkies or whatever they were. 1631 01:42:13,583 --> 01:42:14,041 That's funny. 1632 01:42:14,291 --> 01:42:15,583 It's like Mystery Science Theater. 1633 01:42:15,833 --> 01:42:16,208 Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. 1634 01:42:16,208 --> 01:42:17,416 From 2000, whatever it is. 1635 01:42:17,416 --> 01:42:18,083 That was so funny. 1636 01:42:19,500 --> 01:42:20,291 Those are always hilarious. 1637 01:42:20,791 --> 01:42:21,541 Well, we were just 1638 01:42:21,541 --> 01:42:22,541 kind of wrapping it up, 1639 01:42:22,541 --> 01:42:23,125 talking about getting 1640 01:42:23,125 --> 01:42:25,666 back to going back to school. 1641 01:42:26,000 --> 01:42:26,541 I know. 1642 01:42:26,583 --> 01:42:27,333 Two and a half weeks of 1643 01:42:27,333 --> 01:42:28,791 summer left, which is crazy. 1644 01:42:29,458 --> 01:42:31,666 It has gone by so fast. 1645 01:42:32,250 --> 01:42:34,708 It just evaporated. 1646 01:42:35,000 --> 01:42:35,291 It did. 1647 01:42:36,125 --> 01:42:38,208 Just like that, like water gone. 1648 01:42:38,583 --> 01:42:39,833 Yeah, like our pool. 1649 01:42:39,833 --> 01:42:41,541 I was just about to say that. 1650 01:42:42,625 --> 01:42:44,458 A lot of evaporation happening right now. 1651 01:42:44,458 --> 01:42:45,291 A lot of evaporation happening. 1652 01:42:45,666 --> 01:42:47,833 But no, it's just sad, moving into it. 1653 01:42:48,291 --> 01:42:48,958 I don't remember. 1654 01:42:48,958 --> 01:42:51,291 Did I go into all that after AI 1655 01:42:51,291 --> 01:42:51,958 where I was talking 1656 01:42:51,958 --> 01:42:53,041 about just the time of life? 1657 01:42:53,625 --> 01:42:54,125 That was before. 1658 01:42:54,875 --> 01:42:55,791 I don't remember. 1659 01:42:56,375 --> 01:42:57,708 So it's again, the sands of time. 1660 01:42:57,708 --> 01:42:59,125 I'll give you guys the whole tear, 1661 01:43:00,583 --> 01:43:01,208 the whole tearful. 1662 01:43:01,583 --> 01:43:02,833 I feel like I'm getting old and the kids. 1663 01:43:03,458 --> 01:43:03,916 But the kids are going 1664 01:43:03,916 --> 01:43:06,916 back and our R&R of summer, 1665 01:43:06,916 --> 01:43:08,916 our summer of R&R is coming to an end. 1666 01:43:09,750 --> 01:43:14,083 Soccer, track, school, pick up drop offs. 1667 01:43:14,416 --> 01:43:16,583 All of it, the constant like, 1668 01:43:17,166 --> 01:43:18,791 I gotta go here, gotta go here. 1669 01:43:19,083 --> 01:43:22,666 Oh, school physicals, all the things. 1670 01:43:22,708 --> 01:43:23,833 We gotta head back to the train station 1671 01:43:23,833 --> 01:43:24,958 and get on the Chaos Express. 1672 01:43:25,500 --> 01:43:26,958 It hasn't been as chaotic. 1673 01:43:27,291 --> 01:43:28,083 No, it really hasn't. 1674 01:43:28,416 --> 01:43:32,000 I really enjoy the non Chaos Express 1675 01:43:32,000 --> 01:43:33,958 every now and again. 1676 01:43:34,750 --> 01:43:35,708 But you know what, 1677 01:43:35,708 --> 01:43:36,791 hopefully we're rested for it 1678 01:43:36,791 --> 01:43:37,750 because we had a whole month off. 1679 01:43:39,500 --> 01:43:40,125 Two and a half more weeks 1680 01:43:40,125 --> 01:43:42,166 to really get our relaxation in. 1681 01:43:42,833 --> 01:43:44,666 Well, without school, I guess. 1682 01:43:45,500 --> 01:43:46,333 Sports are starting up. 1683 01:43:47,500 --> 01:43:50,291 8 a.m. practices all weekend. 1684 01:43:50,583 --> 01:43:50,875 I know. 1685 01:43:51,833 --> 01:43:54,000 Today, the day we're filming this 1686 01:43:54,000 --> 01:43:55,708 was the last day that we get to sleep in 1687 01:43:55,916 --> 01:43:57,708 until goodness knows when. 1688 01:43:58,750 --> 01:43:59,833 The apocalypse. 1689 01:44:00,625 --> 01:44:01,958 Let me try it one more time. 1690 01:44:03,375 --> 01:44:03,958 The apocalypse. 1691 01:44:04,583 --> 01:44:06,333 (laughs) 1692 01:44:06,333 --> 01:44:08,541 It feels like that sometimes. 1693 01:44:09,500 --> 01:44:10,416 Or until like Christmas break. 1694 01:44:11,541 --> 01:44:14,000 (laughs) Or maybe even, no, because we don't get, 1695 01:44:15,000 --> 01:44:16,208 now that we have a fall break, 1696 01:44:16,750 --> 01:44:17,958 but soccer doesn't take that off. 1697 01:44:18,000 --> 01:44:19,000 No, no. 1698 01:44:19,791 --> 01:44:21,291 Don't even get me started on fall break. 1699 01:44:22,375 --> 01:44:23,208 It's the dumbest thing ever. 1700 01:44:23,541 --> 01:44:25,166 Just like any working parent knows. 1701 01:44:25,750 --> 01:44:27,083 Like, really, why does 1702 01:44:27,083 --> 01:44:28,250 the school district hate us? 1703 01:44:28,291 --> 01:44:30,000 I think at some point 1704 01:44:30,000 --> 01:44:31,166 over the last few years, 1705 01:44:31,166 --> 01:44:31,833 maybe when it happened, 1706 01:44:32,125 --> 01:44:33,208 COVID happened or something like that, 1707 01:44:33,291 --> 01:44:36,000 people stopped, schools in particular, 1708 01:44:36,000 --> 01:44:38,541 stopped and sports teams, I think. 1709 01:44:38,916 --> 01:44:39,458 They stopped 1710 01:44:39,458 --> 01:44:41,291 remembering that people work. 1711 01:44:41,583 --> 01:44:42,625 I totally agree. 1712 01:44:43,250 --> 01:44:44,791 There's no such thing as working a job. 1713 01:44:45,500 --> 01:44:47,250 Leaving at 7 a.m. in the morning, 1714 01:44:47,250 --> 01:44:47,958 getting to the office, 1715 01:44:48,208 --> 01:44:49,791 leaving the office at five, 1716 01:44:49,791 --> 01:44:50,416 getting home at six. 1717 01:44:50,875 --> 01:44:51,708 Those are work hours. 1718 01:44:52,166 --> 01:44:53,000 You got to commute, 1719 01:44:53,000 --> 01:44:53,541 all that kind of stuff. 1720 01:44:54,250 --> 01:44:55,750 I think at some point, people forgot. 1721 01:44:55,750 --> 01:44:56,833 People have to work to make money. 1722 01:44:58,125 --> 01:44:59,208 Actually, to pay the 1723 01:44:59,208 --> 01:45:01,666 taxes which help fund schools. 1724 01:45:03,250 --> 01:45:06,333 Or pay for all the sports fees. 1725 01:45:06,750 --> 01:45:07,000 Exactly. 1726 01:45:08,000 --> 01:45:10,958 But instead, they seem to be scheduling 1727 01:45:11,125 --> 01:45:12,333 more and more and more within 1728 01:45:12,333 --> 01:45:14,750 that eight to five timeframe. 1729 01:45:15,416 --> 01:45:15,791 It's crazy. 1730 01:45:16,458 --> 01:45:16,916 It's insane. 1731 01:45:17,458 --> 01:45:17,958 It's insane. 1732 01:45:18,750 --> 01:45:19,916 So that's what we're coming back to. 1733 01:45:20,166 --> 01:45:21,083 We feel your pain, 1734 01:45:21,083 --> 01:45:21,583 because I know everybody 1735 01:45:21,583 --> 01:45:22,666 else is there too on that. 1736 01:45:22,708 --> 01:45:22,916 Yeah. 1737 01:45:23,625 --> 01:45:24,458 Oh goodness gracious. 1738 01:45:25,833 --> 01:45:27,166 All right, well, next 1739 01:45:27,166 --> 01:45:28,041 week will be one more week 1740 01:45:28,041 --> 01:45:28,791 closer to that, so 1741 01:45:28,791 --> 01:45:29,583 we'll see where we are. 1742 01:45:29,916 --> 01:45:31,916 Hopefully we're more healthy, recovered. 1743 01:45:32,208 --> 01:45:33,375 I feel like I'm better, 1744 01:45:33,375 --> 01:45:34,208 but still kind of 1745 01:45:34,208 --> 01:45:36,541 just recuperating energy. 1746 01:45:36,875 --> 01:45:38,125 Still not where it should be. 1747 01:45:38,375 --> 01:45:40,083 You're even more in the midst of it, 1748 01:45:40,083 --> 01:45:41,208 but recuperating as well. 1749 01:45:41,541 --> 01:45:42,166 Recuperating as well. 1750 01:45:43,541 --> 01:45:44,000 It's all good. 1751 01:45:44,000 --> 01:45:44,625 What better time? 1752 01:45:45,250 --> 01:45:46,875 All right, well, do you have a word? 1753 01:45:47,125 --> 01:45:47,875 Oh, were you gonna say something? 1754 01:45:48,083 --> 01:45:50,125 Yes, I do have a word, yeah. 1755 01:45:50,875 --> 01:45:53,041 So, do you have a word? 1756 01:45:53,125 --> 01:45:53,791 Well, this is funny, 1757 01:45:53,791 --> 01:45:54,916 because everybody already knows 1758 01:45:55,208 --> 01:45:56,125 that we finished this 1759 01:45:56,125 --> 01:45:57,708 podcast and came back. 1760 01:45:57,708 --> 01:45:59,041 So we could cheat now and 1761 01:45:59,041 --> 01:46:00,166 totally say the same word. 1762 01:46:00,458 --> 01:46:00,916 But we're not. 1763 01:46:01,375 --> 01:46:02,166 Stick to our original ones. 1764 01:46:02,833 --> 01:46:03,833 We are going to stick 1765 01:46:03,833 --> 01:46:05,083 to our original ones 1766 01:46:05,083 --> 01:46:06,541 to keep the authenticity. 1767 01:46:07,125 --> 01:46:07,541 That's right. 1768 01:46:08,291 --> 01:46:09,416 Of this podcast. 1769 01:46:09,875 --> 01:46:10,958 That's right, that's right. 1770 01:46:10,958 --> 01:46:12,541 I was totally acting there too. 1771 01:46:12,541 --> 01:46:13,500 Like, do you have a word? 1772 01:46:13,958 --> 01:46:16,083 Yeah, your acting is so good, honey. 1773 01:46:16,125 --> 01:46:16,958 Yeah, everybody would have been like, 1774 01:46:16,958 --> 01:46:17,500 well, I thought I already, 1775 01:46:18,000 --> 01:46:18,625 maybe nobody would 1776 01:46:18,625 --> 01:46:19,500 have picked up on that. 1777 01:46:19,541 --> 01:46:20,166 Maybe not. 1778 01:46:20,208 --> 01:46:20,416 Yeah. 1779 01:46:20,750 --> 01:46:21,875 Unfortunately, now we've told them. 1780 01:46:21,875 --> 01:46:22,666 Now we've told them. 1781 01:46:22,666 --> 01:46:24,791 This whole thing is just a sham. 1782 01:46:25,500 --> 01:46:25,833 It's a sham. 1783 01:46:26,250 --> 01:46:27,916 We are going to keep it authentic 1784 01:46:28,333 --> 01:46:29,541 by using our-- 1785 01:46:29,583 --> 01:46:30,500 The original words, yeah. 1786 01:46:30,500 --> 01:46:30,958 The original words. 1787 01:46:31,333 --> 01:46:32,416 Okay, here we go. 1788 01:46:32,958 --> 01:46:34,000 One, two, and three. 1789 01:46:34,416 --> 01:46:34,708 Routine. 1790 01:46:36,458 --> 01:46:37,250 Recovery. (laughing) Oh, really? 1791 01:46:38,041 --> 01:46:39,416 Recovery, why would you say that? 1792 01:46:40,458 --> 01:46:41,916 Well, but because we're 1793 01:46:41,916 --> 01:46:43,416 recovering from COVID, 1794 01:46:43,416 --> 01:46:45,000 we're recovering from vacation. 1795 01:46:45,791 --> 01:46:47,916 We're getting back to the more routine. 1796 01:46:48,208 --> 01:46:51,000 So very, very similar concept. 1797 01:46:51,666 --> 01:46:53,291 To my beating back into the routine. 1798 01:46:53,500 --> 01:46:54,416 Routine, yeah, exactly. 1799 01:46:54,458 --> 01:46:54,750 That's right. 1800 01:46:55,375 --> 01:46:55,666 Exactly. 1801 01:46:56,125 --> 01:46:57,250 Everyone has to recover a 1802 01:46:57,250 --> 01:46:58,458 little bit from vacation, right? 1803 01:46:59,000 --> 01:47:00,041 The laundry's piled up. 1804 01:47:00,500 --> 01:47:02,875 The mail is piled up. 1805 01:47:02,875 --> 01:47:03,083 Yeah. 1806 01:47:03,375 --> 01:47:04,375 All of that, you know? 1807 01:47:04,375 --> 01:47:05,583 It takes a little bit of time 1808 01:47:05,583 --> 01:47:08,500 to get back into the routine, see? 1809 01:47:09,000 --> 01:47:10,166 So you were kind of thinking about 1810 01:47:10,416 --> 01:47:11,666 what the last week has been, 1811 01:47:11,666 --> 01:47:13,041 which is what the point of that was. 1812 01:47:13,250 --> 01:47:14,750 And I was thinking a little bit more 1813 01:47:14,750 --> 01:47:15,916 of going into the future, 1814 01:47:15,916 --> 01:47:17,000 getting back into a routine. 1815 01:47:17,583 --> 01:47:19,250 So your point's better. 1816 01:47:19,958 --> 01:47:20,666 It's a better point. 1817 01:47:21,083 --> 01:47:21,916 Because that was the intent, 1818 01:47:22,125 --> 01:47:23,083 is like what we felt. 1819 01:47:24,458 --> 01:47:25,541 But it's, I mean, really, 1820 01:47:27,750 --> 01:47:28,500 mine is just the 1821 01:47:28,500 --> 01:47:29,791 vehicle to get to your word. 1822 01:47:29,875 --> 01:47:30,583 The vehicle. 1823 01:47:32,458 --> 01:47:33,250 Very nice, very nice. 1824 01:47:33,250 --> 01:47:34,000 We're stretching now, 1825 01:47:34,000 --> 01:47:34,750 because we're reinventing 1826 01:47:34,750 --> 01:47:35,708 words that we've already said. 1827 01:47:36,333 --> 01:47:36,708 That's right. 1828 01:47:38,500 --> 01:47:39,625 Trying to recreate the magic 1829 01:47:39,625 --> 01:47:41,291 that was in those lost plans. 1830 01:47:41,666 --> 01:47:43,083 It was so good, you guys. 1831 01:47:43,083 --> 01:47:43,958 You guys missed it. 1832 01:47:43,958 --> 01:47:44,416 It was incredible. 1833 01:47:45,166 --> 01:47:46,083 I mean, it was honestly, 1834 01:47:46,083 --> 01:47:46,708 I was thinking about 1835 01:47:46,708 --> 01:47:48,250 editing that portion out 1836 01:47:48,250 --> 01:47:50,291 and sending it to the 1837 01:47:50,291 --> 01:47:52,000 Emmys or something like that. 1838 01:47:52,416 --> 01:47:53,625 The Academy, for sure. 1839 01:47:54,333 --> 01:47:54,750 For sure. 1840 01:47:55,000 --> 01:47:56,500 Right, because I don't know. 1841 01:47:56,500 --> 01:47:58,166 They would have, I 1842 01:47:58,166 --> 01:47:59,000 think it's all for not now, 1843 01:47:59,041 --> 01:47:59,958 but it would have been impressive. 1844 01:48:01,000 --> 01:48:02,041 It would have been, I mean, 1845 01:48:02,958 --> 01:48:03,625 we would have put that in. 1846 01:48:03,625 --> 01:48:04,625 I would just like to tell me 1847 01:48:04,625 --> 01:48:06,708 the Emmy is right back here. 1848 01:48:07,541 --> 01:48:08,208 It's pretty crazy. 1849 01:48:09,000 --> 01:48:09,541 Oh, my God. 1850 01:48:09,958 --> 01:48:10,416 Oh, no. 1851 01:48:10,458 --> 01:48:11,125 All right, so sad. 1852 01:48:11,875 --> 01:48:13,750 Well, we will leave ya, 1853 01:48:13,750 --> 01:48:14,708 and we will repeat 1854 01:48:14,708 --> 01:48:15,625 this one too, because... 1855 01:48:16,458 --> 01:48:17,750 So I've always kind of 1856 01:48:17,750 --> 01:48:19,250 wondered about the sign off, right? 1857 01:48:19,250 --> 01:48:20,625 And I never liked my sign off. 1858 01:48:20,875 --> 01:48:21,375 What do you do? 1859 01:48:21,708 --> 01:48:23,000 And anyway, I'm going to adopt 1860 01:48:23,166 --> 01:48:24,291 what our cruise director 1861 01:48:24,291 --> 01:48:26,833 just owed on the cruise. 1862 01:48:26,833 --> 01:48:28,583 So every day, he would talk 1863 01:48:28,791 --> 01:48:30,166 and give you the day's schedule, 1864 01:48:30,166 --> 01:48:30,750 wind up, you're back on 1865 01:48:30,750 --> 01:48:31,500 the boat, blah, blah, blah. 1866 01:48:31,708 --> 01:48:33,000 We always ended it the same way. 1867 01:48:33,000 --> 01:48:34,166 And so I'm going to 1868 01:48:34,166 --> 01:48:35,500 adopt that as my sign off. 1869 01:48:35,750 --> 01:48:36,458 And it grew on me, 1870 01:48:36,458 --> 01:48:37,291 because the first day I was like, 1871 01:48:37,291 --> 01:48:38,916 oh, that was kind of a lot. 1872 01:48:39,833 --> 01:48:41,500 But once he did it for 12 days 1873 01:48:41,500 --> 01:48:43,750 and however many times a day he did it, 1874 01:48:44,000 --> 01:48:45,125 it kind of grew on me. 1875 01:48:45,541 --> 01:48:46,958 And now it definitely has a place. 1876 01:48:48,416 --> 01:48:50,416 Somewhere deep down in my heart, I guess. 1877 01:48:50,583 --> 01:48:50,875 Exactly. 1878 01:48:51,291 --> 01:48:51,666 All right, so that's 1879 01:48:51,666 --> 01:48:52,375 gonna be your new one. 1880 01:48:52,375 --> 01:48:53,375 I'll say it with you this time. 1881 01:48:53,375 --> 01:48:54,333 I don't know if it will be mine. 1882 01:48:55,333 --> 01:48:56,708 It's not true to me, I don't think, 1883 01:48:56,708 --> 01:48:57,500 but I'll use it today. 1884 01:48:58,416 --> 01:48:59,000 I think we used it on 1885 01:48:59,000 --> 01:48:59,791 the last one too, though. 1886 01:49:00,000 --> 01:49:01,333 We may have, but that's okay. 1887 01:49:01,625 --> 01:49:02,875 All right, well, thanks 1888 01:49:02,875 --> 01:49:03,666 for joining today, guys. 1889 01:49:03,916 --> 01:49:05,125 We will see you next time. 1890 01:49:05,916 --> 01:49:06,958 Ciao, ciao. Ciao, ciao. 1891 01:49:08,125 --> 01:49:09,041 All right, see ya.