Toddler Toolkit

When Play Makes Things Worse: Protecting Your Child Without Breaking Connection | Toddler Toolkit Podcast

This episode is part of a 4 Part Valentine's Series!
Episodes to be linked soon!

🎧 Episode 1 — Why Siblings and Friends Spiral Faster Together (It's not Bad Behavior)
🎧 Episode 2 — Which Role Does Your Child Fall Into? (It’s Not What You Think)
🎧 Episode 3 — When Play Makes Things Worse: Protecting Your Child Without Breaking Connection (this episode)
🎧 Episode 4 — Not a Bully (The moment everyone misreads)(coming soon!)


🎉New YouTube Channel🎉: @TheHeatherSchalk

"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!


In this episode, we talk about finding a balance in your child's social interactions.

Learn how to protect your child's nervous system without cutting out friends or hurting sibling relationships.

We discuss practical strategies like setting playtime boundaries, planning recovery time, and intervening when necessary.

We also delve into understanding different social dynamics and teaching children self-advocacy.

Join us for tips on maintaining healthy, supportive relationships for your child's long-term well-being.

00:00 Introduction: Balancing Time and Relationships
01:08 Reframing Protection: Leadership, Not Rejection
01:57 Understanding Nervous System Capacity
02:56 Containment Strategies for Healthy Relationships
03:22 When to Step In: The Role of Parental Leadership
04:43 Avoiding Power Struggles Among Children
05:49 Reframing the Problem Child Narrative
07:23 The Importance of Recovery Time
08:03 Respecting Boundaries: Avoiding Forced Closeness
11:45 Teaching Self-Advocacy and Social Skills
12:43 Conclusion: Building Safe and Healthy Relationships
13:15 Upcoming Episodes and Resources

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"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!

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Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course.  You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!

Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.

What is Toddler Toolkit?

The complete toolkit for understanding toddler behavior (e.g. hitting, throwing, biting, pushing), navigating tantrums and meltdowns, fostering healthy sibling relationships and dynamics so your kids can get along and raising skilled resilient self-regulated toddlers. If you have toddlers that are close in age or multiple kids then this podcast is made for you! Heather helps parents transform their aggressive toddlers behavior into a calm, kind and caring toddler with a more peaceful and joyful home.

Heather is the Founder of Heather Schalk Parenting, a Twin Mama, Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, Teacher for 10 years (pre-k through 9th grade), specialization in behavior, with her M.Ed.

Heather's passion is helping moms of toddlers who have disruptive tantrums develop proactive and 'in the moment' strategies to Transform their toddlers disruptive tantrums, aggressive ‘button-pushing’ behavior into a Calm, Kind and Caring Toddler so you have a joyful family and enjoy motherhood.

Next Toddler Mom Cohort to Transform Aggressive Toddler Behavior taught by Heather is in September 2024!