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Hey everyone, I am so excited to have
a guest with us today, who is someone

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I have talked to on Twitter a lot, um,
and shared a lot of dog pictures with,

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but have never actually spoken to.

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So it is Marie Ng, AKA three hour coffee.

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The force behind Lama life.

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Marie, welcome to Software Social.

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Marie: Thank you.

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That was a good intro.

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Michele: So excited to have you here.

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As I was thinking about this, I
realized that we actually haven't

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talked about business very much.

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Like we mostly just trade pictures
of your adorable dog, and then like

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my strawberries on my farm, and my
dog and used to like fleet together

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when that was a thing on Twitter.

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Marie: Yeah, I was gonna say it
all started with fleet, right.

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Because um, I think we've sort of seen
each other around and  amongst the

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Twitter, like indie hacker audience.

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There were a handful of us that
were really using fleets a lot.

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Michele: Yeah and Vic.

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Marie: And Vic as well.

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Um, Hey Vic, if you're listening and
um, I, I think what I liked about your

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fleets is that you used it to show
a glimpse into your personal life.

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And I tried to do the same as well,
like just showing pictures of my

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dog and when we are walking and
just  not so much business stuff.

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And I think some people were using
it for more business and a bit

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more like promotions and marketing.

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And I tended not to not to
follow those fleets as much.

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So I think we ended up just
kind of looking at each other's

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fleets a lot and just commenting.

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And  um, I feel like I kind of got to
know you a little bit through that,

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but yes, we haven't really talked
about business or, you know, indie

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hacker journey or anything like that.

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It's just been more personal stuff.

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But that's great as well.

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Michele: Yeah, and I think it's like,
I don't, so I don't know how you

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feel about Twitter, but like, I guess
I have this like, reticence about

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sharing stuff that's too far, you know,
sort of like off brand, so to speak.

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Right.

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Like I, I honestly like hate
the concept of personal brand.

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Like I find it really stifling.

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I think that was actually a part of
like what dealt with like the burnout

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I had last fall that I felt like
really just, kind of pigeon holds

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of my own doing and my own pressure.

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What I loved about fleets is I
felt like I could just share.

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Yeah.

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Like what was going on
with my strawberries?

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Or like how the tomatoes like weren't
doing well, or, like, you know, just

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like pictures of my dog playing.

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I guess I feel like if I shared that kind
of thing, I guess I'm always afraid like,

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oh,  people follow me because they want
me to be this  business person who's gonna

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help them grow their business or whatever.

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They don't care about my strawberries.

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Right.

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And I don't know if that's true, but
like, that's how I felt about it.

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And so I felt like fleets
kind of gave me that freedom.

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Marie: Yeah, I'd have to agree with that.

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I think when I started Twitter,
I had the same kind of concern.

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So I remember early on, I was kind
of writing down, like, here's kind of

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what I want my account to be about.

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And here's like the tone that I want.

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I had this list of, I don't
know, like 10 different things.

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And I was trying really
hard to fit within that.

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And in the end I just kind of threw
that all out and I was like, all

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right, well, I think the easiest
way to do it is just be myself.

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And,  I actually have a rule for
myself, which is like, when I

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tweet, I generally don't take more
than two minutes to do the tweet.

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So it's a two minute rule and the reason
for that, and it might not work for

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everyone, but I find this helps for me
is that if I take more than two minutes,

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it's not, I feel like I'm not being off
the, or I'm not, or I'm overthinking it.

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So for me, it's like, all right,
well, if I can't write it in two

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minutes, I just delete it because
probably wasn't really meant to be

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shared or the thought behind it.

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Wasn't clear enough to be shared.

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And yeah, that's just kind of how I do it.

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I'm just trying to be
myself, I guess, on Twitter.

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And there's a lot of typos in my tweets
too, just because, because I'm doing it

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quickly and I'm like, well, that's, I
guess I, It's just part of my account.

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There's typos in there and I'll leave it.

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That's fine.

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Michele: It's your account.

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And if people don't like it, they can go.

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Marie: Yeah.

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Yeah.

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That's the thing.

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It's not a book, you know, like,
I think if you're writing a book,

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then obviously you wanna spell
check it, make sure everything's

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Michele: Books still have typos.

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Talking about someone who may be me,
who was finding typos in their book

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Marie: oh, is that when you have like

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the next

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Michele: recently as like six months ago.

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And I was like, oh my God.

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I thought I found all of them.

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I hired a copy editor.

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Like

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Marie: Yeah.

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Michele: Or proofreader, like I just,

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Marie: That's when you do like, you
know, sec, second edition, third edition.

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you fixable in that?

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Michele: Introduce more
errors in the process.

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Yeah.

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So, okay, so you built Lama life
which speaking of branding,  the

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Lama branding is fantastic.

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And it's like a, a to do
list productivity thing.

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Like.

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Marie: Close enough.

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Yeah.

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Yep.

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It is a to do list  at the core,
but  the main sort of focus for it,

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no pun intended is to help you focus.

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So,  I still use a
separate to-do list app.

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I put everything in notion.

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That's kind of like my master to-do
list, but when I'm working for the

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day, I transfer stuff to Lama Life.

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And the thing that's different about
Lama life is it lets you add a timer,

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a countdown timer, not a stopwatch, a
countdown timer to every single task.

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And the concept behind that is
kind of like a time boxing concept,

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kind of like a slightly different
spin on the pomodoro technique.

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A slightly more flexible pomodoro
technique, cause you can assign any

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amount of time that you want to a task.

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And I find that just helps
me focus because I know I've

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got a set amount of time.

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Um, Maybe it's 10 minutes, maybe it is 15.

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And I try not to do anything
else during that time.

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And I just focus on whatever
task it is that is in Lama Life.

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And I guess on top of that, it's a little
bit, the design is a little bit fun.

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So it's designed to feel
kind of low pressure.

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There's a lot of emoji in there  and
it's designed to make you feel

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good when you complete a task.

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So you get things like confetti
animations when you finish something

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and lots of little sound effects
that, that are kind of cute in nature.

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And yeah, so it's a it's enough that
helps you focus at the end of the day.

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Michele: It's sort of like a todo
list, but that has all like these

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sort of built in dopamine boosters
on top of actually completing a task.

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Because it sounds like it's really
important that the person using,

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it feels a sense of accomplishment

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Marie: mm-hmm

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Michele: from it and that it
pressures them into do it.

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Like a lot of these things sound like
basically things I have had to somehow

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build into how I work, like manually with
paper checklists and stuff like that as

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somebody with ADHD, because I have spent

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Marie: Mm.

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Michele: so much time over my life
trying to figure out how to make

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myself focus, how to, you know,
get tasks done and everything.

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I'm curious, why did you make it?

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Not just the reason of like, you didn't
like existing to-do lists, but like,

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Marie: Mm.

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Michele: Why?

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Why were you so motivated  to build this?

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Marie: Yeah, so I don't know if we've
ever talked about this on fleets or DMS

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or whatever, but I've got ADHD as well.

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Michele: Can I just, okay.

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I feel, I was like, I feel this is
like the kind of thing that would

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be built by an ADHDer tier,  but
like, I don't wanna ask that, like

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that's up to her to like, offer that.

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Okay.

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No.

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Yep.

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I get it.

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Marie: It's, it's funny.

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It's funny, cause like I had this
challenge right of, you know, do I

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put this on the landing page or not?

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When I was putting together the
landing page, I wasn't sure if I should

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kind of mention that, but at the end
of the day, I decided to just make

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it  a bit more general because other
people can benefit from this as well.

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So my thinking is that if I design
it with neurodiversity in mind, like,

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and I I'm coming from that background,
then, you know, everybody in my mind

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is kind of on a spectrum anyway.

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So even if you are further along
the spectrum, if it's designed with

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neurodiversity in mind, then you
probably still get some benefit from it.

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And that's kind of what I'm finding.

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I don't think all of Lama
life's customers have ADHD.

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I'm pretty sure that's not the case,
but I do know a large number of them do.

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And I know that because they actually
email me and they, oh my god like

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this t  is like you you've designed
this tool that works for my brain.

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Like, This is exactly kind of
the thing I'm looking for I've

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been looking for a long time.

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And yeah, it's kind of interesting.

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So when you say, you know,
why did you build this?

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There's two reasons.

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One is, I couldn't find a tool that
worked for me, and I was trying to do

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all these hacks with other tools that
were out there, but they just felt like

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it just was too, it was just too much.

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Like I was trying to do too many
things, and it was getting in the

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way of the actual productivity.

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So I started just trying to
put in features that like I

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wanted and that worked for me.

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That was the first reason.

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The second reason is I was
just learning how to code.

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I taught myself how to code about two
years ago just by watching YouTube

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videos and, you know, when you're
learning to code, one of the first

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things you you make is a to-do list.

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I think a lot of, you know, new
developers are like, let me make

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a to-do list because it's a really
good way to practice web development.

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Cuz you get to, you know, you work with
a database, and you can create a task.

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You can edit a task, you can right
to the database retrieve tasks.

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There's a lot of good things that you
can learn by making a to-do list app.

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So it started off as like
a really simple to-do list.

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And then  I put it on Twitter and
people were like, I really want this.

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So I just started building it out more
and more, and then adding in features

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that like I just wanted, and it
started getting a following from that.

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From just sharing the stuff that I
was, is working on and just the fact

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that some of the features were a little
bit different, a little bit kind of

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quirky, or just a little bit focused
on the fact that I've got really bad

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time blindness, so I was putting in
a lot of features to help with that.

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And people  liked that, they were either
surprised because they'd never seen that

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before, or they were just searching for
that because they already had that need.

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Michele: I love that.

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I mean, there's so many things in there
like that I, I'm exploding to talk about.

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So like the first thing is like building
something as an ADHD, or basically for

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ADHD years without actually saying it.

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Like That reminds me a lot of what
Marie Poulin does with notion mastery.

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Because she started using notion,
sounds like you do as well, sort

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of as her like second brain,
because we forget things a lot.

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We need a place to store things, and
I think there's this thing, um, you

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know, I I believe that like all of
the things we have that like, that are

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deficiencies or seen as deficiencies,
if you can master those,  you can then

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turn them into this thing that like
massively helps other people, even

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if they don't have that  struggle.

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And so I think because those of
us with ADHD have to spend so much

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time, like learning these very basic
things about how do you focus, and

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what makes you feel accomplished, and
what makes you go onto another task?

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And like, what are all of the things
that can go wrong when you're trying

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to just get one stupidly simple thing
done, and you've been at your desk

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for four hours and still not done it.

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And it would take you 10 seconds to do it.

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How do you prevent yourself from
getting in that situation, like

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we've had to think about that

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Marie: yep.

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Michele: so much.

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Like more than somebody who maybe
doesn't have ADHD that we end up being

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really good at, like communicate.

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Like, I feel like that's for me as
like listening to people like between

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being ADHD and being from the Northeast
where we interrupt people constantly,

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like,  I really had to learn how to
listen to people  at a level that most

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people just never even think about.

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And then in turn, I was like, oh
wait, I have all of this knowledge

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about like how to have a conversation
and how to listen to people.

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And I guess other people haven't
really thought about that.

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That could use that to like help them.

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it sounds like you are doing that  with
Lama Life, but then I also love, okay,

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sorry, so how  you were like learning to
code, got yourself watching like YouTube

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videos building the basic to-do list app.

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I remember like my God, like years
ago going to like a rails girls

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thing and like, yeah, starting out
building a very basic to-do list,

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but then like, you  got into it.

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It sounds like you got that little
hyperfocused bug, and then you went

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from like doing these YouTube videos and
then you're just in very ADHD fashion,

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completely off somewhere else, like
totally on the other side, like running

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off with something completely unrelated,
but it is related, but like, you're

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just like, just way off on a tangent.

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And, and like now it's your business.

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Marie: Yeah,  I think that's the thing
like with, with, with no, that's pretty

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much what happened because so with
hyper focus,  I think so I've been

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thinking like the reason why  we tend
to hyper focus is because when we find

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something that really lights up our
brain, like you just love that feeling

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and you don't, you don't wanna stop.

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And that's  how I felt about coding.

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So it's interesting though, because I,
this is actually my third attempt to

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learn how to code, the first two times I
tried to read a book and it did not work.

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It didn't, it didn't click for me.

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I tried reading a couple of chapters
and just couldn't get into it.

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And this third time, I  tried
to think about, you know,

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what is my learning style?

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What works for me?

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I am terrible at reading books,
fiction, nonfiction, it doesn't matter.

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So I don't know why I thought reading
a coding book was a good idea.

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But I just guess, I guess I
saw people online doing that.

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So I was like, yeah, these
books have good reviews.

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Let me try it.

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But in the end I thought, well,
I really like watching videos.

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I'm really good with audio.

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And I'm really good with video
from a learning perspective.

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So then I just started watching
YouTube videos and I supplemented

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that with a Udemy course.

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I think I paid 20 bucks for it.

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And that became, you know,
my whole, like how to learn

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JavaScript  and I love it now.

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I just, I absolutely love it.

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I was spending, I don't know, four
hours, five hours a day, just hyper

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focusing and just being obsessed,
learning everything I could about coding.

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And it was just a very natural thing.

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It was first a to-do list.

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And then I was like, okay,
well it's just a to-do list.

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Maybe I should connect a data base to it
so I can actually save stuff for people.

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Let me add like a user profile
and an account and authentication.

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And every time I Did An extra thing.

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It was, it was all about learning.

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Like, okay, well I wanna learn
how to add Stripe payments next.

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And if I look back now, it's sort of, it
looks kind of like a larger app now, but

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it didn't feel overwhelming at the time.

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Cause I was just doing it in little bits
and it was all about me learning to code.

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So it was just kind of this very
natural progression,  weirdly so.

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Like just very weirdly.

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So, and I just love it.

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So it didn't feel like a chore to me.

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It was quite fun to do.

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And yeah.

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And it's just kind of become
what it is today from that.

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Michele: Did you use Lama Life to build
Lama Life like, like when you were

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like, oh, like learn how to use Stripe.

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Did you have  a, to do list item
that was like, you know, learn how

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to integrate Stripe and then like
you check off the item and you're

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like, oh, that could be more fun.

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Like, let me add some confetti.

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Okay.

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Hold, let me add like a to-do list item
to add confetti when I complete an item

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and then like 10 steps down, you're like,
oh, I was gonna add Stripe checkout.

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That's why I started doing
this in the first place.

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Marie: A little bit like that, yeah.

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I guess it's, it's kind
of meta, meta in that way.

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Isn't it?

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But, um, yeah, it does keep me on track,
and  yeah, there's kind of all sorts of

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weird things that I've built into there.

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So it's not just When, when you
finish a task or when the timer

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runs out, there's an alarm, but I
also have kind of the reverse where

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if you're doing a task and you get
distracted, you might need something

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to kind of bring you back to focus.

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So I I've created this thing called
chimes, and you can just have it play

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like a chime, like a little sound
every five minutes or every 10 minutes.

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And it's just something to kind
of snap you back in case you're

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hyper focusing on the wrong thing.

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So it's kind of like a
reverse, a reverse thing.

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A lot of people have liked that feature.

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I guess It's just having
an, an alarm on an interval

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Michele: It sounds like, you know,
an alarm is very like,   an alarm

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says pay attention to this now.

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It's very, very startling, but it
almost sounds like you're building

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this kind of like Pavlovian sort of
like you snap your fingers and it's

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like, oh, and when I hear that snap,
that means I'm supposed to figure out

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what I was doing in the first place.

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And so it's not as in intrusive, or
like yeah, as intrusive as an alarm

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is, but more of the like, oh, I
hear, you know, the whistle sound.

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And then I know that I need to, you know,
get off of my Wikipedia rabbit hole.

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Marie: Yep.

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Yeah.

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It's really designed to be
kind of a companion to you.

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Like while you're working kind of like a
friend, and that's, I think that's where

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the branding comes in with  the Lama,
cause the Lama looks kind of friendly

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and  quirky and fun, but it's really
just meant to be with you while you work.

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And it almost like hold
your hand and guide you.

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So you stay focused and not get
distracted on, you know, down a

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rabbit hole for something else.

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Michele: So I'm curious, do you remember
like was there any particular person's

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YouTube videos you were watching when
you were learning to code or was it

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like a whole bunch of different things?

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Like, what did that look like?

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But also like, how did you
find four to five hours a day

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to watch YouTube videos about

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Marie: Mm.

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So I I had actually quit my job.

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I was working  in like the innovation
team for a healthcare company,  and  that

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was good in a lot of different ways,
but it wasn't really what I wanted.

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It wasn't really kind
of what I wanted to do.

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Like I wanted to create
like a lot of products.

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I'd actually done a few
startups in the past.

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So with those previous startups, I
was working with a friend and that

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friend was doing all the coding, and
the dev work, and I was doing more the

00:18:36.979 --> 00:18:40.893
marketing and sort of the product and
business side, but I've always just

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wanted to create like my own stuff.

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And  I don't know, I kind of just hit
this point in corporate life where

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I was like, okay, I think I just
wanna, I just wanna do my own thing.

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And I think, I think this decision is a
very personal one and it's different for

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everybody because some people say, you
know, I'll, I'll do my, my corporate gig

00:19:00.738 --> 00:19:05.518
and I'll do my indie hacking stuff on
the side until I reach a certain level

00:19:05.538 --> 00:19:08.558
of MRR and then I can afford to quit.

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With me, I think it was quite,  I
was quite lucky in the sense that I'd

00:19:13.241 --> 00:19:18.073
saved up a lot of money with previous
work that I I'd kind of worked out,

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I had a certain amount of runway
where I could quit and support myself

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for X amount of, you know, months.

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For a bit more context, I don't have kids
either,  and so in terms of supporting

00:19:29.510 --> 00:19:31.110
myself, it's really just supporting me.

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There's less responsibility in that
sense, cause there's no one sort

00:19:34.510 --> 00:19:38.421
of under my care,  except my dog,
Homer, which we can talk about later.

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Um, So I'd kind of just.

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Yeah, I kind of just quit, and
I knew I had a certain amount of

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time to make something happen.

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And because of that,  I think
this works for my brain as well.

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There's a sense of urgency for me.

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You know, there's a sense of like, if you
don't do this, you're kind of screwed.

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And that really helps
me get into gear year.

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Personally, if I kept working, and I had a
regular income, and I was trying to learn

00:20:05.421 --> 00:20:09.811
this on the side, personally, that doesn't
work for me because it's not as urgent.

00:20:10.038 --> 00:20:12.658
And I think that's just something
for me, like that's just how

00:20:12.658 --> 00:20:14.218
my life has been in general.

00:20:14.528 --> 00:20:18.738
When I'm thrown into like a really
crazy situation, I tend to get

00:20:18.858 --> 00:20:23.015
a lot of focus, and I find it
exciting,  and stuff gets done.

00:20:23.115 --> 00:20:26.695
But if there's no urgency for
me, then it could just drag on.

00:20:27.095 --> 00:20:31.075
I probably wouldn't have spent four hours
a day,  if there was no urgency behind it.

00:20:31.255 --> 00:20:33.715
But I, I think everyone's a little
bit different, but that's kind of

00:20:33.715 --> 00:20:35.275
how that's kind of how I did It.

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Michele: But it me, it makes sense, like
on a sort of macro level, like knowing

00:20:39.516 --> 00:20:45.516
that you had, you know, X months of
living expenses, basically time boxed you

00:20:46.001 --> 00:20:46.221
Marie: Mm.

00:20:46.866 --> 00:20:48.110
Michele: into doing this.

00:20:48.130 --> 00:20:51.190
Now, some people also like they, if
they did that, like they might also just

00:20:51.370 --> 00:20:56.025
get really stressed that like it wasn't
going to happen in that amount of time,

00:20:56.450 --> 00:20:56.670
Marie: Yep.

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Michele: it sounds like you were, it was
able to be a productive force for you.

00:21:02.496 --> 00:21:05.496
I mean, I'm one of those people who, you
know, had the side project on the side,

00:21:05.596 --> 00:21:10.329
and the corporate jobs, and like,  and
just like kept putting it off, and putting

00:21:10.329 --> 00:21:16.069
it off, and putting it off because I
was so scared of, you know, I, I think

00:21:16.069 --> 00:21:19.549
like there's a really this question
of like, not only can I afford it.

00:21:19.852 --> 00:21:23.109
But also like,  am I capable  of this?

00:21:23.382 --> 00:21:26.296
Those are feel like two
very different questions.

00:21:26.516 --> 00:21:30.459
And it sounds like you believed
you were capable of running your

00:21:30.459 --> 00:21:34.662
own business for me, it took me
a really long time to believe it.

00:21:35.011 --> 00:21:35.231
Marie: Mm.

00:21:35.531 --> 00:21:35.821
Yeah.

00:21:35.931 --> 00:21:36.741
It's Hmm.

00:21:36.741 --> 00:21:37.381
It's interesting.

00:21:37.401 --> 00:21:41.701
So, the other way I look at it is, so
obviously if you quit your job, there's no

00:21:41.721 --> 00:21:45.781
income coming in and you are spending time
kind of getting a business off the ground.

00:21:45.911 --> 00:21:46.261
Right.

00:21:46.641 --> 00:21:47.861
But I kind of think of it.

00:21:48.241 --> 00:21:52.341
You know, sometimes people take a gap year
or, you know, they're working and they

00:21:52.341 --> 00:21:54.341
might stop and do an MBA or something.

00:21:54.851 --> 00:21:58.211
They might go back to
university, and they're spending

00:21:58.481 --> 00:22:00.091
time and money doing that.

00:22:01.131 --> 00:22:04.791
For me, the way I justified it in my
head was okay, well, I'm not gonna go

00:22:04.791 --> 00:22:10.437
back to university and pay for another
degree, but what I will do is, you know,

00:22:10.587 --> 00:22:12.637
I'll just take time off work to do it.

00:22:12.657 --> 00:22:15.947
And in effect, I'm kind of paying
for that experience because

00:22:15.947 --> 00:22:17.107
there's no money coming in.

00:22:17.407 --> 00:22:20.977
So I kind of justify it that way as like,
I'm not paying for an degree, but I'm

00:22:20.977 --> 00:22:22.934
paying for experience, in a, in a way.

00:22:22.984 --> 00:22:23.464
In a fashion.

00:22:23.867 --> 00:22:27.767
And that kind of really helped me
think about the value behind it.

00:22:28.427 --> 00:22:30.887
And obviously you're not, you're
not going to a lecture and being

00:22:30.887 --> 00:22:32.247
taught, but you are teaching yourself.

00:22:32.387 --> 00:22:35.927
And for me, that actually worked
out really well because I could

00:22:35.927 --> 00:22:39.244
never sit in a lecture and pay
attention for the whole time.

00:22:39.254 --> 00:22:39.604
Right.

00:22:39.764 --> 00:22:44.994
I just, I struggled so badly to do
that, but if I'm teaching myself and

00:22:44.994 --> 00:22:49.279
I'm watching a video, I could fast
forward the video if I get it and I

00:22:49.279 --> 00:22:51.099
can rewind the video if I don't get it.

00:22:51.099 --> 00:22:54.919
If the video itself wasn't working
for me, if that particular channel

00:22:55.059 --> 00:22:58.239
on YouTube wasn't working, I would
just go and find someone else.

00:22:58.593 --> 00:23:01.809
And I think you have a lot more control
over your learning when you're doing it

00:23:01.809 --> 00:23:05.732
that way, and you asked before, like, are
there particular channels that I follow?

00:23:06.112 --> 00:23:08.612
And I think what I did was
I had like two or three.

00:23:09.052 --> 00:23:12.014
So there's one called
JavaScript 30 by Wes Boss.

00:23:12.298 --> 00:23:15.948
There's a guy called Dev Ed on
YouTube, which I really like.

00:23:16.328 --> 00:23:20.399
And also Traversy media, they're kind
of the three that I was looking at.

00:23:20.699 --> 00:23:23.559
Uh, We can put some, some links
maybe in the show notes later.

00:23:23.876 --> 00:23:26.846
Um, They were kind of like
three sort of staple ones.

00:23:26.946 --> 00:23:30.646
And then if there was a specific
topic that I was struggling on,

00:23:30.646 --> 00:23:32.906
like a specific coding challenge.

00:23:33.066 --> 00:23:33.946
I was struggling on.

00:23:34.186 --> 00:23:39.386
I would just go Google like that specific
thing and hunt for anybody who had

00:23:39.566 --> 00:23:41.546
solved that or who could explain it.

00:23:41.566 --> 00:23:44.943
So it was kind of like a mixture, but
I think the main point I'm trying to

00:23:44.943 --> 00:23:48.609
make is that like, you have to really
just go with what works for you.

00:23:48.719 --> 00:23:52.679
That was kind of like a big thing for
me was I don't really fit into some

00:23:52.679 --> 00:23:57.229
of these more traditional learning
models, university, reading books,

00:23:57.329 --> 00:24:00.676
et cetera, but  I kind of know what
works for me and because I'm doing

00:24:00.676 --> 00:24:03.676
my own thing, I have so much more
freedom to go, well, that doesn't work.

00:24:03.836 --> 00:24:04.596
I don't wanna do that.

00:24:04.956 --> 00:24:08.503
I don't wanna sit, you know, for several
hours doing that one thing, listening

00:24:08.503 --> 00:24:12.363
to this one teacher on YouTube, if they
don't work for me, if they don't click

00:24:12.363 --> 00:24:13.923
with how I'm thinking about things.

00:24:14.423 --> 00:24:17.838
Well, I don't click with the way
they're explaining it, but that's fine

00:24:17.838 --> 00:24:19.718
because I can control my own learning.

00:24:19.918 --> 00:24:21.118
I can go somewhere else.

00:24:21.414 --> 00:24:22.804
Maybe it's not YouTube.

00:24:22.804 --> 00:24:25.404
Maybe it was stack overflow
or maybe it's Reddit.

00:24:25.694 --> 00:24:29.514
You have so much more freedom to
figure out what works for you, and

00:24:29.514 --> 00:24:31.074
you can just go in that direction.

00:24:31.377 --> 00:24:33.427
Michele: Yeah, I mean, it
sounds like you basically built

00:24:33.777 --> 00:24:36.189
your own  education,  in this.

00:24:36.289 --> 00:24:40.991
And really got so much satisfaction
out of  building it, but also you

00:24:40.991 --> 00:24:44.511
were like, sounds like from the very
early stages, you were also getting

00:24:45.161 --> 00:24:48.581
feedback from people who wanted to
use it, who wanted to try using it.

00:24:48.581 --> 00:24:52.221
And I think this is something really
like, there's something really magical

00:24:52.511 --> 00:24:56.931
about getting  feedback from users that
not only does it help you make sure

00:24:56.931 --> 00:25:00.371
you're kind of building the right thing
or building in the right direction.

00:25:00.695 --> 00:25:05.801
But having people who are using
it is so like motivating, right?

00:25:05.965 --> 00:25:10.045
I think people talk about like how do
you keep motivation as an indie hacker

00:25:10.145 --> 00:25:11.485
or as an independent business owner?

00:25:11.889 --> 00:25:15.369
And  for me like that, that
motivation comes from just like

00:25:15.369 --> 00:25:16.529
knowing that I'm helping people.

00:25:17.002 --> 00:25:20.622
And it sounds like that like, like I
almost like took you by surprise that

00:25:20.622 --> 00:25:24.462
people wanted to use it, but then
that like kind of kept you going.

00:25:24.765 --> 00:25:25.875
Marie: Yeah, a hundred percent.

00:25:25.875 --> 00:25:29.868
You know, I think I tweeted about
this a few weeks ago, but it was

00:25:29.868 --> 00:25:35.348
maybe nine o'clock at night, and I was
ready to, you know, just relax, put

00:25:35.348 --> 00:25:37.388
my feet up, maybe watch some Netflix.

00:25:37.884 --> 00:25:41.304
And then somebody emailed me with
some really positive feedback about

00:25:41.494 --> 00:25:44.864
Lama Life, and then I was like, oh,
I'm like, I've got a second win.

00:25:45.194 --> 00:25:47.774
And then I was like, okay,
let me get my laptop back out.

00:25:47.774 --> 00:25:52.038
And I started just coding, like a
new feature because  you're right,

00:25:52.038 --> 00:25:53.438
like, it's just so motivating.

00:25:53.438 --> 00:25:53.638
Right.

00:25:53.638 --> 00:25:58.838
It's just so empowering, and it just feels
so good that someone else appreciates

00:25:58.858 --> 00:26:04.701
the work  and yeah, it really just is
like my energy for this, and um, yeah.

00:26:04.701 --> 00:26:08.781
So I always, whenever I look at other
indie hacker products, I'm like, if I

00:26:08.971 --> 00:26:13.093
like it, even if it's just a small part
of it, I will write to that person because

00:26:13.173 --> 00:26:16.773
I know how good it feels when someone
writes to me and says, hey, you know,

00:26:16.937 --> 00:26:18.217
I really love what you've done here.

00:26:18.317 --> 00:26:20.137
And here's a feature suggestion.

00:26:20.713 --> 00:26:21.763
It's just it's, yeah.

00:26:21.763 --> 00:26:23.563
It's just so much, it's like fuel.

00:26:24.113 --> 00:26:25.563
It's fuel that keeps me going.

00:26:25.882 --> 00:26:29.970
Michele: I think the world would be
a much nicer place if like, every

00:26:29.970 --> 00:26:34.410
day, like each one of us had a goal
to just compliment somebody's work.

00:26:34.430 --> 00:26:38.493
And as you said, it can just be
like  a small thing about it.

00:26:38.523 --> 00:26:41.720
It doesn't have to be like, you know,
I love the business model you've

00:26:41.720 --> 00:26:43.240
created here and like, this is amazing.

00:26:43.270 --> 00:26:46.030
It should be like, I love how there's
confetti when I check something

00:26:46.030 --> 00:26:47.390
off, like, it just makes me happy.

00:26:47.750 --> 00:26:53.197
Just like something small, but  taking
the time to appreciate someone else,

00:26:53.647 --> 00:26:55.907
can feel awkward, but it's so powerful.

00:26:56.247 --> 00:27:02.027
And once you get in the habit of doing
it and receiving appreciation, right?

00:27:02.027 --> 00:27:04.340
Like It's just,  it's amazing.

00:27:04.643 --> 00:27:08.403
Like I, for me, it is
the best dopamine fuel.

00:27:08.953 --> 00:27:09.673
Marie: Mm-hmm . Yep.

00:27:09.933 --> 00:27:10.153
Yep.

00:27:10.473 --> 00:27:12.633
I think it's also a good way
to make friends, as well.

00:27:12.713 --> 00:27:16.543
You know, obviously the feedback that
you're giving needs to be genuine, but

00:27:16.839 --> 00:27:19.899
if someone reaches out to me and they
have something nice to say about the

00:27:19.899 --> 00:27:25.279
website that is truly genuine, then I'm
probably gonna write back, and say hi,

00:27:25.379 --> 00:27:27.159
or, you know, thanks for, thanks for that.

00:27:27.524 --> 00:27:30.826
I don't know about you, but I'm
starting to get a lot more like random

00:27:31.446 --> 00:27:35.910
DMS on Twitter,  and I used to have
this thing where like every time I

00:27:35.910 --> 00:27:40.990
looked at my DMS, especially the ones
that are message requests, so these

00:27:40.990 --> 00:27:42.860
are people that  you don't follow.

00:27:43.160 --> 00:27:43.510
Right.

00:27:43.510 --> 00:27:45.390
And they just, they just message you.

00:27:45.686 --> 00:27:48.886
I used to have kind of this anxiety
moment where I was like, I don't

00:27:48.886 --> 00:27:53.180
really know what this person's gonna
say, and is it just gonna be something

00:27:53.210 --> 00:27:56.450
like, they want something from me.

00:27:56.770 --> 00:27:59.090
I get a lot of requests
saying, can you review this?

00:27:59.110 --> 00:28:01.600
Or can you, vote me on product hunt.

00:28:01.700 --> 00:28:05.776
And I just sometimes like, if I don't
know someone, I probably won't do it.

00:28:06.080 --> 00:28:09.880
I probably won't accept the message
request unless it's constructive,

00:28:09.980 --> 00:28:13.473
unless it's something like it's a
compliment or they're giving feedback.

00:28:13.873 --> 00:28:17.160
But I think there's this, this
trend where a lot of people ex

00:28:17.160 --> 00:28:18.750
just ex expect you to reply.

00:28:18.890 --> 00:28:21.706
And that was actually really
getting to me for some time.

00:28:22.011 --> 00:28:24.471
But now when, now when I go
into my message request, I

00:28:24.471 --> 00:28:25.311
kind of take a deep breath.

00:28:25.371 --> 00:28:28.591
I'm like, okay, let me see what
there is, but I don't know if you've

00:28:28.591 --> 00:28:30.101
ever had that with your account.

00:28:30.221 --> 00:28:33.661
I think as you get more followers, it
gets, it kind of gets exponentially worse.

00:28:33.963 --> 00:28:36.453
Michele: This is, well, that's
something weird about Twitter, right?

00:28:36.453 --> 00:28:40.733
Is like the more you use the product,
the worse, the experience gets like,

00:28:41.323 --> 00:28:43.493
like if you have a viral tweet,
like, I don't know if you've ever

00:28:43.493 --> 00:28:48.285
had a viral tweet, but like your
mentions just become a  dumpster fire.

00:28:48.565 --> 00:28:52.855
Like, like leaving your little safe little
community, like is dangerous on Twitter.

00:28:53.221 --> 00:28:56.901
I was thinking about this the other day,
like I'm really struggling with how to

00:28:57.298 --> 00:29:00.708
like, manage like the whole thing of DMS.

00:29:00.708 --> 00:29:02.868
Because like, if it's like somebody
that I know and I follow and like we're

00:29:02.908 --> 00:29:03.908
chatting about something, like, it's fine.

00:29:03.928 --> 00:29:07.235
But there's, there's the whole thing
about, like, I, I used to be able

00:29:07.235 --> 00:29:09.875
to just, you know, someone reach
out to me, like I used to be able

00:29:09.875 --> 00:29:12.555
to just  hop on a phone call with
them and chat and like, whatever.

00:29:12.641 --> 00:29:13.121
I just don't.

00:29:13.161 --> 00:29:15.041
I have so many people
asking me for that now.

00:29:15.141 --> 00:29:18.681
And I just don't have time for
it, in which people say, oh, well

00:29:18.681 --> 00:29:19.561
then you should do consulting.

00:29:19.561 --> 00:29:22.291
And I'm like, these are like other,
people who are just trying to get

00:29:22.291 --> 00:29:24.211
their business started, they're
trying to figure something out.

00:29:24.351 --> 00:29:26.911
I can't just like charge
'em $500 for a phone call.

00:29:27.128 --> 00:29:28.088
I would feel bad.

00:29:28.298 --> 00:29:30.818
Even if they could pay it, I
would feel bad taking their money.

00:29:31.718 --> 00:29:35.378
And so sometimes like, I have, I
feel like I'm kind of rude and I'm

00:29:35.378 --> 00:29:37.128
like, and like, they're like, oh,
how did you start your business?

00:29:37.128 --> 00:29:40.988
And I'm like, I have done  so many
podcasts where I talked about that.

00:29:40.988 --> 00:29:46.373
And I'm really bored of talking about
that like, uh, I have to like start

00:29:46.670 --> 00:29:51.686
either ignoring people or  not like not,
you know, they say they want a phone

00:29:51.686 --> 00:29:53.206
call and I just like, I can't do it.

00:29:53.396 --> 00:29:56.416
And I feel so bad, cause that's why
I, like, I love talking to people.

00:29:56.576 --> 00:29:58.256
I just like love making
friends and everything.

00:29:58.316 --> 00:30:01.276
And I just feel like I
can't  do that  anymore.

00:30:01.568 --> 00:30:04.378
Like, you know, if it's someone I've
been like tweeting with and they like

00:30:04.378 --> 00:30:05.958
ask me up vote them on product hunt.

00:30:05.958 --> 00:30:06.598
And like, that's it.

00:30:06.658 --> 00:30:07.318
I'm like, okay, fine.

00:30:07.318 --> 00:30:07.798
I'll do that.

00:30:07.898 --> 00:30:08.668
Marie: Yeah, yeah, totally.

00:30:08.793 --> 00:30:11.613
Michele: Though, then again, if I say
this now, and I end up getting like 50 of

00:30:11.613 --> 00:30:13.293
those a day, like, I can't do it anymore.

00:30:13.619 --> 00:30:15.319
You know, like as the problem, right?

00:30:15.319 --> 00:30:18.159
Like I'm actually really struggling
with this, but then there also are

00:30:18.159 --> 00:30:21.519
like conversation I do have with people
like where there actually needs to

00:30:21.519 --> 00:30:23.559
be something I need to do out of it.

00:30:23.859 --> 00:30:29.116
And then, because  the Twitter DMS
experience itself is just  not organized,

00:30:29.116 --> 00:30:32.236
like I end up forgetting about it and
like, I needed to email someone and like

00:30:32.539 --> 00:30:34.299
Marie: I'm quite behind on my DMS.

00:30:34.409 --> 00:30:36.259
Like I feel like, they build up and um,

00:30:36.634 --> 00:30:37.354
Michele: I lose them.

00:30:38.204 --> 00:30:38.324
Marie: I.

00:30:38.374 --> 00:30:40.874
Michele: And then so like if somebody
DMS me something, then I actually

00:30:40.874 --> 00:30:44.872
need to like, do an action out of, I
feel so bad, but I end up being like,

00:30:44.872 --> 00:30:46.512
Hey, like, can you email this to me?

00:30:46.512 --> 00:30:49.309
Because otherwise I'm
going to forget about it.

00:30:49.419 --> 00:30:53.189
And I feel like I'm like
imposing my process on people.

00:30:53.482 --> 00:30:56.775
But yeah, I I am  struggling
with  dMS, but it, it's

00:30:56.820 --> 00:30:58.914
Marie: somebody create
a product to to manage

00:30:59.749 --> 00:31:02.199
Michele: But also, I don't even like,
like the experience most of the time.

00:31:02.199 --> 00:31:03.559
I don't think I would pay for it.

00:31:03.679 --> 00:31:07.409
I feel like this is Twitter's
responsibility to have a better

00:31:07.479 --> 00:31:12.179
product experience here that like,
but, but it's like, where is that?

00:31:12.483 --> 00:31:15.313
Where is that like, line and
like protecting your own time

00:31:15.453 --> 00:31:19.033
and like it's, I have, have
not,  I have not figured that out.

00:31:19.336 --> 00:31:19.556
Um,

00:31:19.761 --> 00:31:23.899
Marie: Of the things I do is if I
get a lot of DMS about  a particular

00:31:24.129 --> 00:31:28.832
like topic, then  I'll say to that
person,  let me tweet about it.

00:31:28.832 --> 00:31:34.600
So then everyone can sort of hear, hear
the answer or just, you can kind, you can

00:31:34.600 --> 00:31:38.440
kind of use it as feedback in a way, like,
this is what everyone's asking about.

00:31:39.100 --> 00:31:42.520
So for your case, if it's, you know,
how did you start your business then

00:31:42.850 --> 00:31:44.080
maybe you could just do a tweet.

00:31:44.340 --> 00:31:47.120
You probably already done this a
billion times, but you could do

00:31:47.120 --> 00:31:50.384
another tweet on it and just say,
well, I'll tweet about it again.

00:31:50.564 --> 00:31:51.984
So then everybody  can learn.

00:31:52.335 --> 00:31:54.675
Michele: So I don't think I actually
have, like, I don't think I've

00:31:54.675 --> 00:31:57.385
ever made a threat of like, this
is how we started our business.

00:31:57.485 --> 00:32:02.115
Or like, here's like, you know, five of
the , you know, dozens and dozens I've

00:32:02.115 --> 00:32:05.675
done where we talk about how we, or like,
here's a talk I did or whatever,  I don't

00:32:05.675 --> 00:32:11.630
have those references for myself that
I can basically use as a safe reply.

00:32:11.927 --> 00:32:12.387
That's a

00:32:12.442 --> 00:32:12.722
Marie: time.

00:32:13.337 --> 00:32:13.627
Michele: Yeah.

00:32:13.847 --> 00:32:14.307
That's a

00:32:14.322 --> 00:32:15.962
Marie: I hate threads
normally though, but um,

00:32:16.447 --> 00:32:16.727
Michele: I know.

00:32:16.727 --> 00:32:16.967
Yeah.

00:32:17.020 --> 00:32:20.495
It's like how much time do I actually
wanna spend thinking about twitter.

00:32:20.755 --> 00:32:23.875
I think of, you know, cause we had
Arvid on a couple of weeks ago, like

00:32:23.875 --> 00:32:26.669
talking about Twitter strategy and I
was like, oh, I should like really, I

00:32:26.669 --> 00:32:27.989
should really think more about this.

00:32:28.009 --> 00:32:33.105
I should go through his course, like,
and you were saying how, because you

00:32:33.105 --> 00:32:36.939
have like ADHD, you find it really hard
to sit in traditional classes and read

00:32:36.939 --> 00:32:42.009
books and you prefer watching videos
and said,  I  hate watching videos.

00:32:42.254 --> 00:32:47.204
Like, I like, if you send me a video
to watch, I will probably not watch it

00:32:47.344 --> 00:32:52.504
because I can read so much faster that
like, someone asked me the other day,

00:32:52.504 --> 00:32:56.224
if I'd listened to their podcast and I
was like uh, no, there's no transcript.

00:32:56.380 --> 00:32:59.490
I only listen to podcasts when
I'm driving a long distance.

00:32:59.890 --> 00:33:02.124
And so, and I don't do that very often.

00:33:02.530 --> 00:33:07.470
That's really the only time I can sit
down long enough to listen to audio and

00:33:07.540 --> 00:33:11.830
deal with the fact that I could absorb
the information so much faster and text,

00:33:11.970 --> 00:33:13.310
and also be able to reference it later.

00:33:13.310 --> 00:33:16.464
Cause I feel like in a video,
I can't reference it later.

00:33:16.564 --> 00:33:19.784
And like I love like checking
off things in a, like, like a

00:33:19.944 --> 00:33:23.094
syllabus with all of the homework
assignments, list it in chapters.

00:33:23.094 --> 00:33:24.254
Like that's a to do list to me.

00:33:24.410 --> 00:33:24.970
I love that.

00:33:25.217 --> 00:33:25.937
I have an MBA.

00:33:26.037 --> 00:33:30.440
I am all in on  structure like,
cause I don't have any myself.

00:33:30.705 --> 00:33:34.785
Marie: I think, I think, but I think,
you know, that's, this is the, so I

00:33:34.785 --> 00:33:36.185
think everybody's different, right?

00:33:36.185 --> 00:33:39.665
So it's just about, it's just
about figuring out what works for

00:33:39.765 --> 00:33:44.529
you,  and  you having a system to go
through that and to check things off.

00:33:45.012 --> 00:33:50.192
And that's why I like notion so much
because it's so flexible as a tool, right.

00:33:50.192 --> 00:33:53.112
It can be as simple as you want
or as complicated as you want.

00:33:53.472 --> 00:33:57.999
And you can have multiple databases in
notion and you can also link to those

00:33:58.279 --> 00:34:02.079
databases, kind of create, you know,
relational databases, but that's, what's

00:34:02.079 --> 00:34:05.902
so cool about it is that it kind of
gives you all the building blocks and

00:34:06.362 --> 00:34:10.192
you can design something that works
for you based on what they give you.

00:34:10.797 --> 00:34:13.657
And that's kind of what I I'm trying
to do with Lama Life, as well.

00:34:13.757 --> 00:34:17.137
I'm trying to make it flexible
enough that you can tweak stuff.

00:34:17.137 --> 00:34:18.417
There's a lot of settings.

00:34:18.837 --> 00:34:21.497
So when you look at it,
initially, it looks really simple.

00:34:21.800 --> 00:34:25.900
And I don't know if that's worked against
me in some ways that people come and they

00:34:25.900 --> 00:34:27.220
look at it and they think it's so simple.

00:34:27.280 --> 00:34:29.700
And they're like, well, no,
I don't need that, but that's

00:34:29.700 --> 00:34:30.970
kind know how I've designed it.

00:34:31.030 --> 00:34:34.584
So it looks simple on the surface,
but if you go into settings,

00:34:34.764 --> 00:34:36.184
you can actually customize it.

00:34:36.864 --> 00:34:37.184
A lot.

00:34:37.564 --> 00:34:41.584
And that's just because like, I feel
like everybody's slightly different.

00:34:41.644 --> 00:34:44.584
So what works for me might
not necessarily work for you.

00:34:44.834 --> 00:34:47.914
Conceptually obviously there's like
a core of it and it's always around

00:34:48.014 --> 00:34:51.958
timers and time boxing, but in terms
of how you wanna set it up and tweak,

00:34:51.978 --> 00:34:57.108
it turns, sounds off, turns sounds on,
um, have different types of alarms.

00:34:57.108 --> 00:35:00.388
So there's like a, there's a
visual alarm, that's just silent.

00:35:01.018 --> 00:35:04.788
Some people don't want to have
a sound that startles them.

00:35:05.128 --> 00:35:09.628
So you can just have it flush at you like
in red or whatever color you choose just

00:35:09.628 --> 00:35:11.828
to kind of catch at the side of your eye.

00:35:12.178 --> 00:35:15.038
But that's kind of one of the
design, like the core things of it.

00:35:15.038 --> 00:35:18.328
When I think about the design, it's I
wanna make sure it's really flexible.

00:35:18.678 --> 00:35:22.462
Um, so what we'll see if that hurts
it in the long run, but now it's just

00:35:22.462 --> 00:35:26.222
something I, I constantly think about
like, well, if someone, someone might

00:35:26.222 --> 00:35:29.782
not like that, so let me put in like a
toggle switch and you can choose to turn

00:35:29.782 --> 00:35:32.342
it on or off depending what works for you.

00:35:32.625 --> 00:35:35.465
Michele: I love that because like,
your neurodiversity is not, mine

00:35:35.645 --> 00:35:39.665
is not somebody else's is not
like, you know, like, like your

00:35:39.665 --> 00:35:43.288
expression of that, or like, even
for,  people who don't know what the

00:35:43.288 --> 00:35:47.248
word neurodiverse is, which probably
means they're neurotypical in word,

00:35:47.373 --> 00:35:49.613
Marie: you said, I thought
you said nerd as in like

00:35:49.658 --> 00:35:51.478
Michele: Oh, nerd diversity.

00:35:51.803 --> 00:35:52.093
Marie: nerd.

00:35:52.243 --> 00:35:52.533
Yeah.

00:35:53.373 --> 00:35:56.373
I like, I like, I've
never heard that before.

00:35:56.373 --> 00:35:59.893
And I was like, that's actually kind
of a cool little phrase neurodiversity.

00:35:59.893 --> 00:36:00.253
Gotcha.

00:36:00.283 --> 00:36:00.733
Yeah, yeah.

00:36:00.806 --> 00:36:01.156
Michele: Right.

00:36:01.186 --> 00:36:04.426
You know, like accepting like, your way
of viewing something and getting something

00:36:04.426 --> 00:36:09.089
done is not everybody else's and like,
there's a certain hum in that, that I

00:36:09.089 --> 00:36:13.431
think, you know, people talk about whether
products should be opinionated, right?

00:36:13.554 --> 00:36:15.594
Whether they should have a
specific flow for things.

00:36:15.814 --> 00:36:20.164
And there, it sounds like you, there are
some certain things that your product is

00:36:20.274 --> 00:36:25.137
opinionated about, like the concept of
time boxing, but then  a lot of things

00:36:25.377 --> 00:36:27.863
actually extremely flexible on it.

00:36:28.139 --> 00:36:31.765
I think what I'm I'm pulling
from this is that you can build

00:36:31.765 --> 00:36:35.494
something that other people have
already quote unquote built, right?

00:36:35.494 --> 00:36:37.450
Like you built a to-do list app.

00:36:37.634 --> 00:36:41.107
That has been built literally millions
of times because so many people

00:36:41.127 --> 00:36:42.907
do it as their first code project.

00:36:43.087 --> 00:36:46.450
But what made that different
was that you really applied

00:36:46.450 --> 00:36:48.490
your own perspective on this.

00:36:48.870 --> 00:36:54.894
And  it reminds me of a famous
um,  Goethe to quote, which is

00:36:54.894 --> 00:36:58.214
that, you know, all truly wise
thoughts have already been thought.

00:36:58.314 --> 00:37:01.530
And what is simply need to be
done is to, you know, rethink

00:37:01.530 --> 00:37:03.324
them  in our own experience.

00:37:03.535 --> 00:37:07.995
I'm probably butchering that, sorry, my
apologies to the great German philosopher,

00:37:08.295 --> 00:37:09.745
but like, you know, it doesn't matter.

00:37:09.745 --> 00:37:12.265
Like people ask this question all the
time of  indie hacking businesses.

00:37:12.265 --> 00:37:15.025
It's like, well, like somebody
already built, you know, a to-do

00:37:15.025 --> 00:37:17.105
list, somebody already built a
Twitter scheduler, somebody already

00:37:17.105 --> 00:37:20.995
built like whatever, you know, a
calendar app, like whatever that is.

00:37:21.205 --> 00:37:21.555
Right.

00:37:21.625 --> 00:37:24.495
Like,  but have they really.

00:37:24.848 --> 00:37:28.008
Like you have this unique lens to it.

00:37:28.108 --> 00:37:31.688
And if you can find like there's
something there that you feel like

00:37:31.688 --> 00:37:36.108
hasn't been done yet,  you can make
something really magical about it.

00:37:36.138 --> 00:37:39.818
I, I spent so much time thinking about,
am I writing a book that already exists?

00:37:39.818 --> 00:37:42.338
It was really important to me that I
didn't write a book that already existed.

00:37:42.632 --> 00:37:46.162
And so I read a million book books on
it and, and the more I read about them,

00:37:46.465 --> 00:37:49.517
the more other books I read, I was
like, you know what, my perspective, and

00:37:49.517 --> 00:37:52.877
the thing that I notice resonates with
people, cause it's not just about your

00:37:52.877 --> 00:37:57.113
own experiences, how do people  react
when you share your perspective on it?

00:37:57.158 --> 00:37:58.258
Marie: mm-hmm yep.

00:37:58.638 --> 00:37:58.858
yep.

00:37:59.203 --> 00:38:00.143
Michele: that's not here.

00:38:00.443 --> 00:38:04.387
And so,  you saw that, and you
ran with that and really made

00:38:04.387 --> 00:38:06.404
it into this flexible  tool.

00:38:06.824 --> 00:38:11.529
This thing that people kind of take for
granted and and made it kind of exciting.

00:38:11.898 --> 00:38:15.658
Marie: I think it's a good example of,
you know, nicheing, nicheing, nicheing

00:38:16.008 --> 00:38:18.178
depends how you say it nicheing down.

00:38:18.504 --> 00:38:23.803
So it is kind of this to do list
app, but it's got timers and then it

00:38:23.803 --> 00:38:27.764
is really kind of,  not everybody,
it's not gonna work for everybody.

00:38:28.064 --> 00:38:31.954
So it is, it's really obvious to me
cause I can see when someone signs

00:38:31.954 --> 00:38:35.996
up, and when they convert to a paid
user,  and typically what happens is

00:38:36.306 --> 00:38:40.296
they convert like really quickly  or
they just leave really quickly.

00:38:40.406 --> 00:38:44.136
Like, I can see all the activity
on their account has just stopped.

00:38:44.236 --> 00:38:45.756
They're not returning like the next day.

00:38:46.026 --> 00:38:48.996
It's just, they've looked at
it and they've decided no,

00:38:48.996 --> 00:38:49.916
that doesn't work for me.

00:38:50.218 --> 00:38:54.129
Or, or they go, yeah, I'm just gonna pay
for like an annual plan straight away,

00:38:54.129 --> 00:38:56.849
because it just clicked so, so strongly.

00:38:57.069 --> 00:39:00.519
So,  I think it's a maybe a good
example of, you know, your product

00:39:00.519 --> 00:39:02.119
doesn't need to be for everyone.

00:39:02.149 --> 00:39:04.709
It can be for a specific kind of audience.

00:39:05.083 --> 00:39:08.856
And because it's polarizing, like I can
see that I can see that in the data.

00:39:08.856 --> 00:39:12.686
Like it's completely polarizing,
and it's not a bad thing because

00:39:12.686 --> 00:39:16.126
that means I can, when I design
it, I'm designing for my audience.

00:39:16.766 --> 00:39:18.596
I don't have, have to design for everyone.

00:39:18.899 --> 00:39:21.759
That's when it kind of gets
to be like a nothing product,

00:39:22.269 --> 00:39:23.759
because it becomes so general.

00:39:23.899 --> 00:39:27.153
And then it becomes like any other
like you said any other to-do list.

00:39:27.244 --> 00:39:30.864
That's kind of not where I want it
to go, but because it's slightly

00:39:30.864 --> 00:39:32.584
opinionated in, in the way it's going.

00:39:32.684 --> 00:39:34.621
And the design is a little bit different.

00:39:34.911 --> 00:39:36.995
It just makes it, and the
audience is different.

00:39:36.995 --> 00:39:39.035
It just makes it a lot easier
for me when I'm thinking,

00:39:39.035 --> 00:39:40.315
like, what features can I add?

00:39:40.615 --> 00:39:44.688
I don't need to satisfy everyone and I can
just go, well, if I satisfy myself, that's

00:39:44.688 --> 00:39:48.903
the first step, because I know that I'm
definitely someone who really needs it.

00:39:49.043 --> 00:39:50.863
The pain point for me is so strong.

00:39:50.923 --> 00:39:54.063
And like you said, I've been kind
of thinking about this so much.

00:39:54.290 --> 00:39:55.210
What works for me?

00:39:55.210 --> 00:39:59.610
What can I, you know, conceptually
what works for me and if it works

00:39:59.610 --> 00:40:03.103
for me, that's kind of the first step
and I might build it in, or at least

00:40:03.213 --> 00:40:07.693
talk to some customers like I've got
some super fans for Llama Life life.

00:40:07.753 --> 00:40:10.773
So I sometimes will just say, hey,
I'm thinking about doing this.

00:40:11.353 --> 00:40:12.223
Would you want that?

00:40:12.243 --> 00:40:15.023
And then they're like, yeah, yeah, we
would like, we would really want that.

00:40:15.023 --> 00:40:16.043
And then,  I'll just build it.

00:40:16.343 --> 00:40:19.450
But I think it helps to kind
of, yeah, get laser focused

00:40:19.450 --> 00:40:20.703
on it and, sort of niche down.

00:40:21.010 --> 00:40:23.660
Michele: Well, like crucially
important, there is that your audience

00:40:23.660 --> 00:40:25.380
is willing to pay for it, right?

00:40:25.483 --> 00:40:30.963
If you niche down on an audience, and
a way of doing things or a problem

00:40:31.233 --> 00:40:35.400
that nobody else experiences or only 10
other people experience, and they're not

00:40:35.400 --> 00:40:39.736
willing to pay for it, then, you know that
that's sign to move away from it, right?

00:40:39.766 --> 00:40:44.826
Like there's, there's dangers in following
a niche,  but for you, you, you have

00:40:44.826 --> 00:40:49.306
struck on something that other people
experience, other people under, like other

00:40:49.306 --> 00:40:51.546
people understand your perspective on it.

00:40:51.546 --> 00:40:54.480
And you also understand other
people's perspective on it  and

00:40:54.480 --> 00:40:55.880
they are willing to pay for.

00:40:56.183 --> 00:40:58.833
Marie: Yeah, that's the key
thing, you know, cuz at the

00:40:58.833 --> 00:41:00.313
beginning it was just free.

00:41:00.610 --> 00:41:03.700
Like when I started partly cuz I
didn't know how to add payments.

00:41:04.000 --> 00:41:05.300
So it was just this free app.

00:41:05.603 --> 00:41:09.583
It kind of went through stages, so
originally it was free and then it

00:41:09.583 --> 00:41:13.786
became buy me a coffee, so I added
the, the buy me a coffee link.

00:41:13.855 --> 00:41:18.186
Then it became a one time payment for
like a crazy, like, it was like $4

00:41:18.286 --> 00:41:20.673
or something crazy, like super small.

00:41:20.961 --> 00:41:24.041
And then it went to $6, I think, $9.

00:41:24.351 --> 00:41:28.274
It's like the typical thing where
everybody tells you to raise your price,

00:41:28.374 --> 00:41:32.274
but you are kind of super nervous to
do it cuz you always underestimate

00:41:32.334 --> 00:41:34.554
how much your own product Is worth.

00:41:34.854 --> 00:41:37.674
So I think it went for $4 to $6 to $9.

00:41:37.974 --> 00:41:40.424
Then it went to $19.99.

00:41:40.724 --> 00:41:42.814
Then it went to subscription.

00:41:42.954 --> 00:41:46.254
So it started off just that one time
payment, then it went to subscription

00:41:46.557 --> 00:41:50.944
and now it's, now it's 49 99 per
year for an annual subscription.

00:41:51.284 --> 00:41:55.401
And that seems to be kind of the price
point where, you know, obviously you

00:41:55.401 --> 00:42:00.111
wanna look at your overall revenue that
that's not go down, but for now, And

00:42:00.111 --> 00:42:03.511
this might change in future, but for
now, like I'm happy to have slightly

00:42:03.681 --> 00:42:07.571
fewer customers at a higher price
point  and really make sure that those

00:42:07.771 --> 00:42:09.128
customers are getting value from it.

00:42:09.384 --> 00:42:12.564
And then I guess we'll see from there,
but that's kind of where, where it's

00:42:12.564 --> 00:42:16.484
at at the moment, rather than having
like a crazy number of users at a

00:42:16.484 --> 00:42:19.938
super cheap price point, I'd rather
have it  a a slightly less number

00:42:19.938 --> 00:42:21.218
of users for a high price point.

00:42:21.521 --> 00:42:23.961
Because that means I can have a
relationship with those users.

00:42:24.261 --> 00:42:28.561
We can email more if they have requests
or any support requests as well.

00:42:28.864 --> 00:42:29.984
I can attend to them.

00:42:30.281 --> 00:42:32.061
You know, there's kind of
always this balance, right?

00:42:32.061 --> 00:42:35.791
In terms of how much time you have when
you're a really small team, and I wanna

00:42:35.791 --> 00:42:38.941
make sure that everyone that's using
it is like super happy people with it.

00:42:39.208 --> 00:42:42.268
And that can't happen if there's too many
users, you know, at a low price point,

00:42:42.566 --> 00:42:47.146
Michele: Is that 49 99 a year
price point sustainable for you?

00:42:47.263 --> 00:42:51.343
I guess what I'm wondering, like does the
business as it is right now, like, does

00:42:51.343 --> 00:42:55.823
it cover your, not only like business
expenses, but like living expenses?

00:42:56.124 --> 00:42:59.348
Marie: Not at the moment, not at
the moment,  but I I've shared

00:42:59.348 --> 00:43:03.508
this on Twitter before, Um, I did
get into an accelerator program.

00:43:04.343 --> 00:43:04.563
Michele: Ooh,

00:43:05.108 --> 00:43:07.318
Marie: Yeah, so this was a,
this was a while back now.

00:43:07.318 --> 00:43:11.691
This was in May in 2021,  actually
it's almost coming up to a year.

00:43:11.691 --> 00:43:12.211
That's crazy.

00:43:12.671 --> 00:43:17.561
Um, But in May, 2021, it's funny,
cuz I was just doing my usual thing

00:43:17.561 --> 00:43:22.058
on Twitter, kind of just building in
public sharing stuff  and Ja you know,

00:43:22.058 --> 00:43:24.783
Jason K Calacanis  um, angel investor.

00:43:25.293 --> 00:43:25.583
Yeah.

00:43:25.683 --> 00:43:26.463
So yeah.

00:43:26.483 --> 00:43:29.903
So someone on his team
saw Lama Life on Twitter.

00:43:30.495 --> 00:43:32.625
They bought it and they liked it.

00:43:32.885 --> 00:43:37.505
And then they reached out to me over
Twitter DMS and said, hey, like, I really

00:43:37.505 --> 00:43:38.785
like what you're doing with Lama Life.

00:43:38.865 --> 00:43:40.265
I can see that you're bootstrapping it.

00:43:40.355 --> 00:43:44.025
Would you ever consider, you know,
raising a little bit of money and

00:43:44.025 --> 00:43:45.865
joining an accelerator program?

00:43:46.168 --> 00:43:50.658
And I was like, well, I hadn't thought
of it, but now that you see it and

00:43:50.958 --> 00:43:53.528
because you are in my DMS, yeah.

00:43:53.528 --> 00:43:54.328
Let's have a chat.

00:43:54.642 --> 00:43:55.682
So we had a chat.

00:43:55.753 --> 00:43:57.653
He said, why don't you apply?

00:43:57.753 --> 00:44:01.053
So I applied, went through
all the interview process and

00:44:01.102 --> 00:44:02.425
as part of that accelerator.

00:44:02.525 --> 00:44:06.538
So this is, the launch accelerator
that's run by Jason Calcanis.

00:44:06.842 --> 00:44:10.062
And as part of that, they give
you a hundred K and you go

00:44:10.062 --> 00:44:12.982
through the accelerator program
in exchange for equity, which

00:44:12.982 --> 00:44:15.012
is a, are 6% of the business.

00:44:15.332 --> 00:44:18.915
And that has really helped kind
of, you know, sustain it, take a

00:44:18.915 --> 00:44:20.915
little bit of pressure off as well.

00:44:21.435 --> 00:44:25.295
And um, yeah, I think that's a tricky
thing when you are you're bootstrapping

00:44:25.295 --> 00:44:29.858
and indie hacking is that you kind of,
you want a price point that is acceptable

00:44:29.858 --> 00:44:33.738
to your, your consumers, but based
on the volume you get at the time, it

00:44:33.738 --> 00:44:38.208
might not be sustainable for you from
a living perspective is, and in which

00:44:38.208 --> 00:44:40.362
case, a lot of businesses just fail.

00:44:40.658 --> 00:44:43.908
Just because you, you just, it's just
hard to keep going when you got no money.

00:44:44.208 --> 00:44:46.748
But I think with this, it kind of
just gave me a little bit of a buffer,

00:44:47.288 --> 00:44:51.688
so I could  focus a bit less on the
price and just try to figure out what

00:44:51.928 --> 00:44:55.922
customers are, are wanting, make sure
the initial customers are very happy.

00:44:56.322 --> 00:45:01.762
Um,  and I think that's one Llama life
because the user base isn't massive, but

00:45:01.762 --> 00:45:05.522
the user base it has, they're, they're
pretty like happy with the product.

00:45:05.828 --> 00:45:10.088
And  I have a, I have a good relationship
with a lot of them as well, because if

00:45:10.088 --> 00:45:14.078
they email me, I'm gonna email back and
we have a dialogue going and it's kind

00:45:14.078 --> 00:45:16.638
of one of those things where you've got
a small group of people who love it,

00:45:16.898 --> 00:45:21.272
and they're all really kind of loyal and
they generate word of mouth and you can

00:45:21.272 --> 00:45:24.512
kind of grow it out from their, whereas
I think if you take the opposite approach

00:45:24.512 --> 00:45:28.762
where you just going for like volume,
you can kind of spread yourself too thin.

00:45:29.067 --> 00:45:32.277
Both from a, you know, a customer
support perspective, but also just

00:45:32.317 --> 00:45:33.677
a community building perspective.

00:45:34.080 --> 00:45:37.260
And when you're too thin, like
it can fall apart really quickly.

00:45:37.330 --> 00:45:40.340
It's kind of just held if you
kind of imagine it's kind of just

00:45:40.340 --> 00:45:43.420
held together just by like thin
whistles of thread or something.

00:45:43.440 --> 00:45:46.884
And I think that's kind of where things
can break apart where Llama Life's a

00:45:46.884 --> 00:45:50.799
bit different, it's of it's quite solid,
like the community around it and it

00:45:50.799 --> 00:45:54.399
might not be growing like exponentially
at the moment, but it's growing quite

00:45:54.599 --> 00:45:56.319
steadily with a really strong community.

00:45:56.619 --> 00:46:00.562
And at some point, you know, at some
point you can start adding fuel to

00:46:00.562 --> 00:46:02.402
that to make it grow exponentially.

00:46:02.662 --> 00:46:06.482
But for now, I'm just trying to make sure
that everyone who uses it really likes it.

00:46:06.702 --> 00:46:07.522
And they're really happy.

00:46:08.152 --> 00:46:09.002
They felt heard.

00:46:09.262 --> 00:46:13.606
So, you know, I play to every single
email might take me a little bit

00:46:13.606 --> 00:46:16.916
longer, but Yeah, everyone who
emails me, they get an email back.

00:46:17.204 --> 00:46:20.334
And yeah, that's, that's kind of
the approach we're taking right now.

00:46:20.637 --> 00:46:23.337
And I actually hired my friend,
as well so now there's two people.

00:46:23.607 --> 00:46:24.457
It's me and my friend.

00:46:24.754 --> 00:46:29.287
So it started off just myself, but
getting that sort of injection of cash has

00:46:29.287 --> 00:46:31.361
allowed me to hire, hire somebody as well.

00:46:31.391 --> 00:46:32.921
That took a little bit of pressure off.

00:46:33.219 --> 00:46:34.469
Michele: Yeah, it sounds like it.

00:46:34.649 --> 00:46:39.279
I'm curious,  do you have a sense
for,  you said somebody on Jason's

00:46:39.349 --> 00:46:44.402
team bought it and started using it, do
you have a sense for for whether like

00:46:44.707 --> 00:46:49.399
because it sounds like this product is
both B to C  and potentially B to B.

00:46:49.399 --> 00:46:54.599
Like, Do you have a sense for what
percentage of your customers consider

00:46:54.629 --> 00:46:58.835
this to be a business expense that
they charge to their business or

00:46:58.995 --> 00:47:03.372
a business versus what percentage
are paying for it  personally?

00:47:03.722 --> 00:47:04.882
Marie: I don't know that for sure.

00:47:04.882 --> 00:47:08.762
Cause I don't ask them, but there
is a little note on Lama life's

00:47:08.762 --> 00:47:13.105
website that says, you know, a hot
tip is that you could ex you could

00:47:13.105 --> 00:47:16.785
possibly expense this as a work
expense, but check with your boss.

00:47:17.182 --> 00:47:20.262
I think it's kind of the right time for
a product like this because a lot of us

00:47:20.262 --> 00:47:24.974
are working from home and that kind of
expense is a lot more acceptable nowadays.

00:47:25.271 --> 00:47:26.411
But I don't know for sure.

00:47:26.532 --> 00:47:31.765
In my mind it's still very much a B2C
product  and if it, that there are plans

00:47:31.785 --> 00:47:35.788
to take it  to enterprise, but I think
that has to be managed like very, very

00:47:35.788 --> 00:47:41.770
carefully because I would never want it to
be a product where somebody in a corporate

00:47:41.770 --> 00:47:47.803
environment is sort of mandating that you
use Lama Life because they wanna make sure

00:47:47.803 --> 00:47:49.443
everybody on their team is productive.

00:47:49.463 --> 00:47:51.983
That's definitely  not
where I want to take it.

00:47:52.273 --> 00:47:55.563
When it goes into enterprise, I
want it to be a lot more bottom up.

00:47:55.823 --> 00:48:02.433
So it would be a tool that the
employees and selves use or want to use.

00:48:02.573 --> 00:48:06.283
And they go to their manager and
say, can we have this for the team?

00:48:06.333 --> 00:48:07.273
Can we expense it?

00:48:07.653 --> 00:48:11.077
That's definitely the way I want
to go in versus the micromanagement

00:48:11.307 --> 00:48:12.637
sort of top down approach.

00:48:13.020 --> 00:48:17.870
And, you know, I think  it's, it's
a hard transition to make and it's

00:48:17.870 --> 00:48:19.550
not anywhere near that at the moment.

00:48:19.897 --> 00:48:23.947
I'm still focusing very much just
on B2C, but at eventually I think in

00:48:23.947 --> 00:48:28.839
order for it to become very profitable,
Selling the enterprise or selling it,

00:48:28.899 --> 00:48:31.749
you know, a, a bulk deal for licenses.

00:48:32.054 --> 00:48:35.034
You know, maybe a company says
our employees really want this.

00:48:35.517 --> 00:48:38.977
Um, or maybe they wanna offer it
as part of a wellness package.

00:48:39.217 --> 00:48:42.737
I see a lot of big companies doing
that nowadays, you know, as part

00:48:42.737 --> 00:48:46.530
of a wellness package, a working
from home package,  we will give

00:48:46.550 --> 00:48:51.347
you access to a meditation app like
calm.com and maybe a productivity app.

00:48:51.651 --> 00:48:54.991
Here's like a hamper of like chocolates
or something to help make your

00:48:54.991 --> 00:48:56.471
work from home experience better.

00:48:56.778 --> 00:48:59.978
I can kind of see it going that
direction where a company says,

00:49:00.038 --> 00:49:04.974
hey, we'll buy a hundred  licenses
for Lama Life, a hundred accounts.

00:49:05.394 --> 00:49:08.894
And we'll distribute that to our
employees as part of a, a package

00:49:09.294 --> 00:49:11.214
I've like to try that kind of route.

00:49:11.528 --> 00:49:13.268
Um, But it's pretty early days.

00:49:13.288 --> 00:49:14.308
So we'll see how that goes.

00:49:14.739 --> 00:49:17.359
We haven't, we've had
one customer do that.

00:49:17.539 --> 00:49:24.559
So one customer shout out to Preshan, he
bought 10 licenses uh, or 10 annual plans

00:49:25.059 --> 00:49:27.546
for Lama Life, so that was, that was good.

00:49:27.926 --> 00:49:32.026
I'm not sure how exactly he's using
it, but I think he plans to give it

00:49:32.026 --> 00:49:35.552
out to his, his team or at least,
you know, people in his family.

00:49:35.856 --> 00:49:39.502
So that was a really good, that was kind
of a really good moment for me because

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I was like, well, This could happen.

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Like somebody else has wanted to buy
it in bulk and give it out to people

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on their team or to their family
to, to help them with productivity.

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Michele: Yeah, I love how you're thinking
of that as like, you don't want, you

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don't want it to become this like forced
pro activity tool that's, you know,

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the, the factory manager, like walking
around and, you know, getting the data

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back on whether the employees are being
productive and using it, cuz like that

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could get really, that could get toxic.

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So I love that you're
being conscious about that.

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But perhaps this is a good place
to stop, but also to mention that

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when you get to that point of thing,
thinking about company wide plans and

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enterprise and whatnot, maybe we should
have you back on because that sales

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process that you described where the
employees want to use it themselves.

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And then they ask their
boss if they can use it.

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And then the boss reaches out to you and
says, hey, my employees wanna use this.

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How do we make it work?

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That is our sales process.

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Like we don't do any
outbound sales at all.

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Like we just have people calling us
up and then willing to pay us tens of

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thousands of dollars a year for something.

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So that can definitely work.

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It does take a lot of care and sort
of how you, how you structure that.

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But yeah, I I feel like this,
you know,  that's gonna be one of

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the next stages for you and that,
that could be a fun conversation.

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Marie: It is definitely the next
stage, I think the next 12 months

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or so are gonna be very interesting.

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Michele: Indeed.

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So if people want to follow all of the
interesting things that are going to

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happen, where should they check you out
and where should they check out Lama Life?

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Marie: So you can follow me on Twitter.

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I'm at three hour coffee that pelts out
the word three hour coffee and Lama Life

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is@lamalife.co that's dot co Lama Life.co.

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Michele: Well, Marie Ng, thank
you so much for joining us.

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This has been really lovely.

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And uh, speaking for myself personally, I
cannot wait to see more pictures of your

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adorable dog, Homer on Twitter, cause it
only makes me wanna follow you even more.

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So thank you so much for
coming on software social.

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This has been really fun.

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Marie: Yeah.

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Thank you so much for having me.

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I'll see you on Twitter.

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Michele: See ya.