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Lindsay: Welcome, welcome to
the Lifting Lindsay podcast.

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I am so excited today to
have Taryn Nettles on.

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I think everybody who has been listening
to my podcast for a while knows I'm

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really picky about who I have on.

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So, Taryn, if you didn't know
that, just this is a compliment

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to you because I am really picky.

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Tarryn: Oh, I feel honored,
like with you just saying that.

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I'm just like, oh my gosh, I
will, I will wear that badge like.

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Lindsay: I, I love it.

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No, I am really picky because I,  I
want people who I have followed

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for a while who I feel like.

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If I ever had a client that I didn't
know how to help them, I could pass

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them off to this person because this
is their per, this is their specialty.

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I don't just want people, I, I just
recently hired a woman and, and we were

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kind of talking about like who we, she
was saying, do you want me to give you

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a list of names that are big namers
that maybe can come on your podcast?

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I'm like, no.

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'cause I probably will disagree with them.

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Tarryn: Yeah, absolutely.

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Lindsay: Do you know what I'm saying?

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It's like, no, I'm actually really,
really picky about who I have on here.

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So I'm really excited.

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I'm gonna, I'm gonna have you
introduce yourself though.

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Talk a little bit about your specialty.

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You talk a lot about hormones.

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If, if anybody who follows her
on Instagram, we'll notice that.

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But I also want to hear
kind of your background.

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I love hearing how people got into
health and fitness and even coaching.

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Tarryn: For me, like just kind
of like going like way, way back.

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Like I started like getting into health
and fitness when I was in the Navy

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because I didn't, I didn't really have
a choice because I had to, you know, run

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a mile and a half under a certain time.

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I had to do so many sit-ups and
pushups, like based upon my age group.

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So I didn't really have a choice.

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So I, you know, started
off like most women.

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Just cardio bunny doing all the
cardio, not really a lot of lifting.

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Um, and then that's when.

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I actually started to get into
lifting was through, through Gillis.

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So my, my significant other, um,
he's the one that brought me in and

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started to show me the ropes on that.

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And then I just fell in love with
it and I just, I started training

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and I was like, oh, I'm gonna,
you know, I'm gonna compete.

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So I decided like I'm gonna compete
in like my first, you know, figure

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competition and going through all of that.

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Needless to say, it wasn't the best
experience of my life because, the coach I

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had at the time  wasn't really helping me.

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I wasn't really responding that well.

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Um, I dieted for six months and
I only lost like five pounds.

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So I know what that struggle's like
with being told like, oh yeah, you

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know, you're good, you're fine.

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You're making all the progress.

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You'll be ready.

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And not being told like the truth.

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And from that moment on, like that
really sat with me and that's what

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got me into the whole coaching space
was like, I don't want any other woman

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going through what I went through.

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Having things like sugarcoated, give me
the truth, don't, don't sugarcoat it.

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And then during all of that
time, I decided, I'm like,

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well, I really wanna learn.

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I want to educate myself.

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If I'm gonna do this, I want to
be the best I can be for people.

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So I.

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I got my bachelor's in
nutrition and dietetics.

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And then I wanted to further
my education after that.

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So I wanted to kind of tie the training
component into the nutrition component

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because, you know, at that time,
like competing was like my thing.

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I loved it.

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I mean, I still love it.

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I just don't, I just don't do it anymore.

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Um, so I decided, I'm like, I'm gonna
get my master's degree in exercise

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science and advanced nutrition.

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So I went ahead and I did that.

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And then during all of that, I
was working on just trying to,

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you know, build my coaching up and
try to try to figure it all out.

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Um, and so once I graduated, I
decided I was gonna compete again.

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And I noticed that my body was
just not responding very well.

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I couldn't figure it out.

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I was following everything to a tea,
like from the diet to the training.

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Like everything I had to do, I
was, I was doing it, but just

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something was not connecting and
I didn't really know what it was.

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And I just remember feeling like I'm
so broken, like my body is broken.

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Like I see all these women out here.

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They're making the progress that I
should be making and I'm not making it.

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So that kind of led me down this
rabbit hole of just trying to dig

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a little bit deeper and figure out,
well, there's there, there's more

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to it than just calories and in,
calories out because I'm doing all

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of that, but nothing's happening.

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Um, and at that time, Gillis, my
significant other, he was actually

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working in a hormone clinic.

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So we decided, hey, let's kind of
go down the rabbit hole and get your

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hormones tested and see what's going on.

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From that point on, like that was
kind of like the game changer for me.

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The aha moment of, okay, it's
way deeper than just the calories

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and calories out, you know, diet
really hard, train really hard.

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You know, I had like some hormonal
issues going on, you know, thyroid.

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Wasn't in the best place.

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Um, I had some sex hormone imbalances that
also play into thyroid function, and I

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was like, okay, that, that was my problem.

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So from that point on, I was like,
I'm gonna learn everything and every,

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and everything about this as much
as I can learn to not only help

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myself and recover myself, but also
to be able to help other women who

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felt the way I felt, just hopeless,
broken, not happy in their body.

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Because that's a really
hard, hard place to be.

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'cause I remember when I was in
that place, just how low I felt.

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I felt so low, I felt so depressed, and
I was like, I, I gotta figure this out.

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So that's what got me into the,
like the functional space of just

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looking deeper at things like, in
regards to lining it up with, okay.

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Here's fitness, here's
your internal health.

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Let's merge it together.

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You know, because it, it is deeper.

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It is deeper than just, just go work out
and just eat or eat less and, and do more.

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Um, which is kind of like
the biggest pain in my side.

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But that's, that's my
backstory in a nutshell.

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Lindsay: I love it.

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Well, I mean, I, I, I don't
love that you experienced that

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because of the frustration.

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At the same time, it's kind of a blessing
though, because now look at where it's

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pushed you, because if you hadn't had
those experiences, you never, well, I,

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I shouldn't say never, but maybe you
wouldn't have gone down the rabbit hole

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and been able to help other people.

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Tarryn: Absolutely.

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And I look at it as like the negative
experiences, like they sucked at

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the time, but it's lessons, it's
lessons for something bigger.

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And so that's, that's how I see it.

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So yeah, you're a hundred percent
right, like that's what pushed me

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to be where I'm at in this moment.

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Lindsay: Before we started recording,
I, I kind of started going down

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this question with you, and then
I realized we need to hit record.

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We need to have, need to, we need to have
all this recorded, to help other people.

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This is where I'm torn.

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Tarryn: Mm-Hmm.

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Lindsay: I feel like there's two camps.

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And there's two camps of clients, and
there's two camps of coaches, right?

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There's clients who are like,
oh, I, I think it's my hormones.

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I think I'm broken, but really
they're just not being compliant.

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So there's that camp and then
there's those that are just,

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I kinda gave this description earlier
to you that type A personality,

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they will be so hardcore.

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They will follow things to a t.

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They will like die before they break
and don't follow through what their

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coach is asked them to do and, and
yet they're not seeing the results.

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Probably a lot of what you
are experiencing, I mean,

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you're somebody who's,

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you were in the Navy, you know, hard, you
know how to, you know, grit, you know how

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to just like put your head down and do it.

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So I wouldn't say that you fall
into this category of, well,

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you're just not following the plan.

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Right.

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But how do you know who you are?

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Because there's so many voices
too in fitness where sometimes I

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feel like  coaches that are like,

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it's not hormones, just
follow the plan, eat less.

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Then there's the other coaches
that are, it's all hormones.

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And I'm like, where are the
people that fall in the middle?

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Like, those are my people.

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I want them and I want their
voices to be bigger, but I feel

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like their voices aren't sexy.

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It's not like cool, it's not inciting.

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And so nobody turns to real wisdom.

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But my main question for you
is how do you know, as a woman,

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which camp that you're in?

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Tarryn: So the biggest, okay, the
biggest thing is, is, you really

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gotta be honest with yourself.

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You need to self-reflect.

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You need to call yourself out.

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You know, if it's something where, if
you're not fully following something

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or being compliant internally,
we know, like we know, it's just

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something that maybe we don't wanna
address or, you know what I'm saying?

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Where you just, you don't
wanna come to terms with it.

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So I say, so I would say that would
be the first place you need to start.

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Um, and then for the person who
like, you know, for like, without

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a doubt, like you're like, no, like
I'm Type A, you tell me what to do.

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I will track my macros to
the TI will get it on point.

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Like every little thing
is gonna be perfect.

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Like, if you are that individual,
it's like one of those situations

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where you know you're that person.

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But you also need to learn to unwind
that, you know, so like in regards

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to, like, is it like, is it hormonal?

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Is it not hormonal?

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Like what is it?

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Again, it's, it's gray.

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It's, it's a lot of gray.

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It's not black or white.

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It's not, oh, it's just hormones.

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It's not hormones.

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It's, it's a combination of both.

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Because the more I, the more I
coach people, like I, I'm learning

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that, people conflict their own
like hormonal issues on themselves.

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Like for example, if we're talking
about the people who's like very

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type A, they're very wound tightly,
they're living off of stress.

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That's not a good place to be because that
constant stress and perfectionism like.

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That is stress, that is a hundred percent
stress that you're putting on yourself.

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So it's like if you end up having some
kind of hormonal issue, like if I had

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a client that came to me and you know,
I, you can pick up on these people

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who are wound so tightly, you gotta
have a conversation of like, look,

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we, we need to like decompress you.

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You need to stop being
wound so tightly, like.

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It's not all or nothing, you know?

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So that would be the place I would
start with them and the ones who are

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not consistent, rather than saying,
oh, well I have hormone issues.

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That's, you know, that's
why I'm not making progress.

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Let's be honest.

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And let's talk about
your lack of consistency.

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So before you point the finger and say
it's hormones, let's try to be consistent

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first, and then we can address that.

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Lindsay: I would say that most of the
time, the question then that would

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follow from clients would be, well, how
long do I need to be consistent, right?

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so how long?

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Okay, cool.

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I can be consistent for two days.

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Tarryn: For a week.

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Lindsay: is that, is that it

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Tarryn: Right, exactly.

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Yeah.

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And it's just like, it, it takes time.

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It's, you know, it's one of these things
I think about like, when I have someone

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who comes to me, and this is, this is like
a pain in my side too, is when someone's

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just like, I wanna look like this person.

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You know?

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Well, you'll never look like this
person 'cause you're not this person.

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But the biggest thing that you're
missing that this individual has, that

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you don't, is the consistency factor.

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Like, they've been consistent for years
on end, you know, and I, I don't wanna

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like scare people and thinking like, oh
my gosh, I gotta be like consistent for

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five years before I start seeing progress.

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And it's like, no, like start small.

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Like, hey, I'm gonna be consistent,
you know, for this week and then at

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the end of the week, okay, I'm gonna
be consistent next week and next week.

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And just build the habits.

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Those habits is what
brings the consistency.

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Lindsay: I love it.

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I think that's so smart.

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I, I really did wanna start this
conversation just kind of letting

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people know, like, we can't just
blame hormones for everything,

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Tarryn: Absolutely.

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Lindsay: there, there are
definitely those individuals.

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That we can get them in a much
better place so that they feel

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better to even put in the work.

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'cause sometimes with some people,
maybe it's hormones aren't stopping

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the work, but they're having a
hard time even starting because

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they feel so crappy because of it.

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Tarryn: Yes.

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And, and that's the other thing
there too is, it's one of those

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things like if you, like, you gotta
address the lifestyle factors first.

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Like, what's going on
in your, in your life.

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I like to go down a checklist
with people before I even get

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into the hormone world with them.

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So if they're like, oh, I have a
hormone issue, or let's say they

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legitimately do have a hormone issue,
we ran blood work, we, we saw the issue.

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Before I even go into that, we have to
have the foundational things down first.

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Like.

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People overlook the foundation,
like they want to skip that and just

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dive into the more advanced stuff,
and it's like, no, no, no, no, no.

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It's like, okay, let's back up.

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Are we getting seven to
eight hours of sleep?

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Are we eating fruits and vegetables?

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Are we consistent with following, you
know, like whatever your macro plan is or

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whatever your diet is, are you consistent?

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Are you managing your stress?

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Are you getting sunlight?

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Are you having bowel movements every day?

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You know, are you drinking water.

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The basics matter so, so much.

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And you know, before you even dive
into that world, you gotta check off

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those boxes first, because if those
boxes are not checked off, it's,

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it's not going to be a easy road
for you, especially if you're trying

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to skip from a all the way to Z.

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It just, it won't work for you.

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Lindsay: Do you know what?

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As a coach, I will tell you,
getting people to do the,

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it is really fascinating.

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I could tell somebody to do the
weirdest thing in the world, so weird,

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Tarryn: It?

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Lindsay: will do it because they think
there's something magic about it.

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Tarryn: Yes.

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Lindsay: But when I tell them to do
the basics, it is like pulling teeth.

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I have literally asked them to
give me their, like first born.

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I don't know.

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It's, it is the wildest thing to me.

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Tarryn: Yeah, well I think it, it's coming
down to the, like extremism, you know,

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like if you tell me do something extreme,
okay, coach Lindsay told me to do this.

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It's, it's extreme.

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I'm gonna do it and it's gonna
work and it's gonna be magical.

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But lord forbid you say, please
eat a fruit and vegetable.

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Oh, no, no, I can't do that.

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That's not gonna work for me.

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You know?

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So it's like, it's just the all or nothing
and people are looking for, for magic.

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It's the basics.

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That's the quote unquote magic.

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But that's not the sexy side of it.

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You know?

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Like that's the boring, like,
oh, who cares about that?

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But that's everything.

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Lindsay: Mm-Hmm.

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It really is.

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It really is.

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I, so I love that you talk about how
you have this checklist of basics

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before you even go into the hormones,
because, I feel like that right there

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is a really good sign of a good coach.

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We're not gonna skip
the foundational stuff.

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Because even if we found something with
your blood work, it, it doesn't matter.

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I mean, it still go back to the
foundations, like that's, it

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still needs to be addressed.

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Tarryn: Absolutely,
yes, a hundred percent.

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'cause it's like, you know, if
you're having all these issues, but

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you haven't even, you never even
really sat down to eat a fruit or

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vegetable in your whole entire life.

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Like we have to, we gotta start there.

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We can't just.

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We can't skip all these steps and expect
magic because even with something like

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as like something as like complicated,
um, as hormone recovery, it's one of

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those things where the simple things
is what's going to get you there?

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Not doing all this crazy stuff.

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Just the simple things like
there's power in simplicity.

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Lindsay: Mm-Hmm.

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Yep.

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I love it.

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Okay.

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I'm gonna ask you, um, to talk about a few
of your posts that I really, really like.

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The first one you said, it's not that your
metabolism is broken, damaged, or slow.

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It's adapted to your lifestyle.

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Okay?

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Elaborate on that.

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I love it.

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Tarryn: So with that post,  I think of
the woman who is a chronic under eater,

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you know, and, you know, she can't
figure out like, why am I struggling

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like with my, with my metabolism?

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Like, what's, what's going on?

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But it's like one of those things like
you keep under eating and you're, you're

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struggling here and you're thinking,
or you're being told your metabolism's

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broken when it's a easy fix, like.

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Start eating more food or, you know,
you are a stress case and you are like,

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you're always stressed out to the max.

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And you know, you can't figure out like,
why is my metabolism not upregulating?

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Why is it quote unquote broken?

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And it's like, well, it's your stress.

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Like your stress is
killing your metabolism.

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And I hate to use that like, as like an
extreme term, but it's, it's so true.

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You know, people don't understand.

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Metabolism.

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It's like a mirror to our
lifestyle and what we do in our

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day-to-Day life internally, our
body is going to reflect that.

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So if you are always eating low
calories, if you are running yourself

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into the ground, if you are chronically
stressing over things internally, your

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body is going to adapt to that because,

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we have to understand that like our
brain is always like searching for

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things like, just to keep us safe.

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You know, like, what's going on?

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What's going on?

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Oh my gosh, there's a lot of stress.

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Okay, let's go ahead and let's, you know,
downregulate some things, or, you know,

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do whatever it has to do to keep us safe.

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So it's just kind of like a, an adaptation
to what you're doing and you know, kind

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of like what I said earlier, like if
there's an issue going on internally

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with you, like with metabolism or your
metabolism's quote unquote broken, or you

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think it's broken, it's ultimately, and
this may sound a little harsh, but it's

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ultimately something that is your fault.

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Now I understand like there's
situations where it's like, you know.

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Genetic components, like, you know,
say hyperthyroidism, hashimoto's,

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like it runs in the family.

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I get that and I'm not disregarding
that, but what we do in our day-to-Day

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life, it's playing into that.

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It's, it's causing things
to adapt to, to what we do.

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Lindsay: Hmm.

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I, I often refer to it
as like the light switch.

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Like you may have the genetics,
you may have that light switch

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sitting right there, but you're
the one who turns it on or off.

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Tarryn: Yes.

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Yes.

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Lindsay: lifestyle, your choices every
single day,  I love that, that it is a

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reflection of what you choose every day.

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So typically when people say chronic
undereating, but they're like, but

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if I'm chronically undereating, then
wouldn't I always be losing weight?

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Therefore always be
hitting my fat loss goals.

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Tarryn: So that's a really good question.

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Very good question.

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And we have to, we have
to think of it like this.

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Like whenever I have a client
that I am, I'm taking into a fat

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loss, we have to understand that
eating in a caloric deficit.

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Is an intentional stressor
that we're putting on our body.

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So if you are someone where you
are chronically undereating, you're

00:21:24.689 --> 00:21:30.684
chronically dieting, um, or we'll just
say undereating, you probably will

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not achieve that goal of fat loss or
have the quote unquote dream body that

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you want because of all of the stress
that you're conflicting on your body.

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And it goes back to what I said, you
know, a few minutes ago about how.

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Your body is going to internally
reflect off of what you're doing.

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So if you're chronically putting a
stress on your body of not undereating,

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your body is going to a adapt to
that and it's not going to feel

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safe because it's not getting the
energy it needs, and so therefore

00:22:03.589 --> 00:22:06.289
it's going to downregulate systems.

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And the little bit of energy that
you are consuming, which energy,

00:22:12.004 --> 00:22:17.549
I'm, I'm referring to calories, it's
really gonna be put forth to the

00:22:17.549 --> 00:22:20.442
things that need to keep you alive.

00:22:20.562 --> 00:22:24.042
Like your, your vital
organs, you keep you alive.

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Um, so we have to think of it like that.

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So it's, it's the stress component and
when there's a lot of stress on the body.

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Your body is not going to, it's not
gonna cave in and be like, okay,

00:22:36.627 --> 00:22:39.237
we're chronically undereating,
or We're always dieting.

00:22:39.627 --> 00:22:41.427
Let's just go ahead and
magically lose weight.

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We have to work with the
body, not against the body.

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Lindsay: I love that.

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I love how you keep bringing up.

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The body adapts and it will start.

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And people often look at adaptation
as, oh, it's a bad thing.

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It's like, no, that actually the body
is doing exactly what it's meant to do.

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It's keeping you alive,

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Tarryn: a hundred

00:23:02.149 --> 00:23:07.139
Lindsay: and it's gonna say, okay,
menstruation don't need that.

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You need to live so that you can
actually then take care of a baby.

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But right now you're struggling
living getting enough.

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I'm just gonna stop that.

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Like that's why it starts and
it also becomes more efficient

00:23:20.624 --> 00:23:22.274
with the energy that's coming in.

00:23:22.499 --> 00:23:23.159
Tarryn: yes.

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Lindsay: So what I found, is that
clients who are chronic undereaters

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and yet they're not losing weight.

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It's like they found
this, this almost, uh.

00:23:35.584 --> 00:23:40.094
The sweet spot is the, wrong word, but
it, it kind of is the sweet spot of

00:23:41.574 --> 00:23:47.574
point where energy coming in is low
enough to start turning systems off

00:23:47.604 --> 00:23:52.674
or the body adapting it, becoming more
efficient in a lot of ways, doing with

00:23:52.679 --> 00:24:01.054
far less, but yet it's not low enough
to keep pushing the drive of fat loss.

00:24:01.459 --> 00:24:09.259
But it's low enough to lower, um,
sex hormones, thyroid, and all of

00:24:09.259 --> 00:24:14.779
these things that when those things
are on point, you actually can have

00:24:14.989 --> 00:24:17.959
a healthy fat loss phase phase.

00:24:18.049 --> 00:24:19.939
Not fat, fat loss life,

00:24:20.554 --> 00:24:21.004
Tarryn: Yes.

00:24:22.339 --> 00:24:24.229
Lindsay: So that's kind
of how I look at it.

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What am I missing something there.

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Tarryn: No, so that, I mean,
that's a hundred percent like

00:24:31.264 --> 00:24:32.974
you're on point with that because.

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When you were talking about that, I
kind of like, my brain went back to,

00:24:38.489 --> 00:24:43.109
the famine days, you know, where there
wasn't a lot of food or you know, for

00:24:43.114 --> 00:24:47.549
people, but what they found, and I forget
what study it was, I'll have to like

00:24:47.549 --> 00:24:50.999
go back, I'm like drawing in a blank on
this, this study here from way back when.

00:24:51.349 --> 00:24:56.809
But basically like back then, like if
you took like a man or woman and like

00:24:56.809 --> 00:25:01.779
there's famine there,  the males are more
than likely going to end up dying than

00:25:01.779 --> 00:25:08.559
the female because the female's body,
it's so resilient, like to stress, to

00:25:08.559 --> 00:25:13.899
adaptation, and that's why, you know,
when we're not given enough energy, like

00:25:13.904 --> 00:25:18.519
energy availability or food calories,
you know, our systems downregulate

00:25:18.519 --> 00:25:20.169
because of what is our purpose.

00:25:20.229 --> 00:25:22.059
A woman's purpose in life is, hey.

00:25:22.439 --> 00:25:24.774
Bare children and keep
those children alive.

00:25:24.894 --> 00:25:29.484
So our bodies are smart enough where it's
like, okay, we're not getting enough food.

00:25:29.754 --> 00:25:31.764
All right, we're gonna keep her alive.

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There goes the sex hormones,
the reproductive organs.

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We're not sending energy to that.

00:25:36.559 --> 00:25:40.819
We just need to send it to her
vital organs to keep her alive

00:25:40.819 --> 00:25:42.259
and keep her going because.

00:25:43.259 --> 00:25:46.469
She has young to take care
of, you know, so, so to speak.

00:25:46.469 --> 00:25:50.039
So, no, you, you're a hundred
percent like on point with that.

00:25:50.039 --> 00:25:57.119
And when the body feels safe and you're
giving it enough food and calories like

00:25:57.119 --> 00:26:03.389
to, to function, like all the systems
are quote unquote happy, you know, that's

00:26:03.389 --> 00:26:07.409
when the body's going to lose weight is
when it feels like it's safe and it's

00:26:07.409 --> 00:26:10.049
not in a fight or flight mode of like.

00:26:10.589 --> 00:26:13.769
Oh my gosh, I only have like
so many calories available.

00:26:13.769 --> 00:26:17.009
Like, let me just push it to
what I need to keep me alive.

00:26:17.459 --> 00:26:17.759
You know?

00:26:17.759 --> 00:26:22.289
So that's, I think that's the biggest like
misunderstanding for women in general,

00:26:22.559 --> 00:26:26.899
especially when they are chronic dieters
and they can't figure out,  I don't

00:26:26.904 --> 00:26:28.309
understand why I'm not losing weight.

00:26:28.519 --> 00:26:30.679
And then you're like,
well, you need to eat more.

00:26:31.009 --> 00:26:33.169
And they, they can't
wrap their brains around.

00:26:33.829 --> 00:26:37.879
Well, that doesn't make sense, you know,
but it's like, it makes perfect sense.

00:26:38.554 --> 00:26:43.714
Lindsay: Yeah, especially, that's why
I love the re the, a lot of people say

00:26:43.714 --> 00:26:49.264
reverse dieting, but I, I actually love
talking about like post diet recovery.

00:26:50.004 --> 00:26:50.224
Tarryn: Yes.

00:26:50.344 --> 00:26:55.894
Lindsay: feel like post diet recovery
really does encompass the message of

00:26:55.894 --> 00:27:02.534
what needs to happen post diet in that
your body has adapted, as it should have.

00:27:03.479 --> 00:27:09.239
And now it needs to go
back to this flourishing.

00:27:09.239 --> 00:27:10.919
You talked about famine, right?

00:27:11.249 --> 00:27:15.749
So it is kind of a famine
response, and now it needs to go

00:27:15.754 --> 00:27:23.249
back to this flourishing, this
feast response of, now I'm safe.

00:27:23.879 --> 00:27:32.734
Now I can send energy to these systems in
the body that, weren't getting it before.

00:27:33.004 --> 00:27:38.264
It is interesting though, to hear a
lot of people talk about,  how well it.

00:27:38.609 --> 00:27:41.579
If your body's not responding, I
said, there's this sweet spot, right?

00:27:41.579 --> 00:27:46.259
There's this sweet spot of you're
getting all the, you're low enough

00:27:46.259 --> 00:27:50.369
in calories where you're getting
all of the negatives of a diet

00:27:50.369 --> 00:27:52.259
without getting any of the positives.

00:27:52.469 --> 00:27:55.979
So the negatives are your body's adapting.

00:27:56.309 --> 00:28:01.889
You're, um, feeling sluggish, not
feeling your best, but you're not

00:28:01.889 --> 00:28:05.339
getting any of the positives of
you're actually seeing fat loss.

00:28:05.339 --> 00:28:06.929
So people will say, well, but it's.

00:28:07.544 --> 00:28:09.434
It's calories and calories out.

00:28:09.434 --> 00:28:11.354
Just push your calories lower.

00:28:11.834 --> 00:28:14.144
So at what point do you finally say that?

00:28:14.144 --> 00:28:14.954
That's insane.

00:28:15.164 --> 00:28:18.494
Tarryn: I would say like
that, that's insanity.

00:28:18.644 --> 00:28:23.114
Or you're on like the insanity like
wagon because you know, the definition

00:28:23.114 --> 00:28:26.684
of insanity is doing the same thing
over and over and expecting, you

00:28:26.684 --> 00:28:28.034
know, a different outcome each time.

00:28:28.584 --> 00:28:32.214
I would say when you just keep
taking calories lower and lower and

00:28:32.214 --> 00:28:36.654
lower and you're, you know, having
higher and higher energy output,

00:28:36.659 --> 00:28:38.754
like you're exercising more, but.

00:28:39.249 --> 00:28:40.419
Nothing is happening.

00:28:40.689 --> 00:28:44.379
That's like, that's the,
like, insanity of it.

00:28:44.379 --> 00:28:49.629
And that's when it's like, okay, you need
to, you need to kind of check yourself on

00:28:49.629 --> 00:28:51.849
that in, in regards to what's going on.

00:28:52.299 --> 00:28:56.499
Um, because I've had clients come to me,
they've been caught up in that, you know,

00:28:56.499 --> 00:29:01.449
vicious cycle and then I'm like, you know,
all we have to do is we feed you more

00:29:01.449 --> 00:29:04.569
food and things should start happening.

00:29:05.379 --> 00:29:06.794
And sure enough, I.

00:29:06.864 --> 00:29:07.704
That's what happened.

00:29:07.704 --> 00:29:09.774
I mean, that's not like every case.

00:29:09.774 --> 00:29:12.144
So I don't wanna like paint
like the perfect picture.

00:29:12.144 --> 00:29:14.874
Like, oh yeah, I, I can
promise the world to you.

00:29:14.904 --> 00:29:15.894
Most definitely not.

00:29:15.924 --> 00:29:21.054
'cause there's a lot of different layers
there, but in most instances, like when

00:29:21.444 --> 00:29:26.664
I start feeding them more food and again,
letting the body feel safe and like,

00:29:26.664 --> 00:29:29.214
okay, energy availability, we're good.

00:29:29.574 --> 00:29:31.344
That's when we'll start
to see the progress.

00:29:32.344 --> 00:29:33.094
Lindsay: I love that.

00:29:33.154 --> 00:29:33.574
I love that.

00:29:33.814 --> 00:29:34.234
Okay.

00:29:34.414 --> 00:29:35.944
Let's shift gears a little bit.

00:29:35.949 --> 00:29:40.914
I wanna talk about how sex
hormones may impact metabolic rate.

00:29:41.499 --> 00:29:41.919
Tarryn: Hmm.

00:29:41.949 --> 00:29:41.979
Okay.

00:29:42.009 --> 00:29:45.729
Lindsay: Because a lot of times people
are like, well, they're, they're separate.

00:29:45.729 --> 00:29:46.749
They're different.

00:29:46.809 --> 00:29:51.429
They shouldn't, it's a natural thing
for, you know, in men, testosterone just

00:29:51.429 --> 00:29:53.979
comes down during a diet that's natural.

00:29:54.279 --> 00:29:58.419
It doesn't impede fat loss of, you
know, these bodybuilders or whatever.

00:29:58.785 --> 00:30:05.055
Can you explain how it actually
connects to their metabolism.

00:30:05.670 --> 00:30:06.660
Tarryn: Absolutely.

00:30:06.660 --> 00:30:10.350
So I don't, okay, so I don't
wanna go down, I don't want to

00:30:10.355 --> 00:30:11.760
go down a deep rabbit hole here.

00:30:11.760 --> 00:30:15.390
So we'll just, we'll keep it
very, the basic of the basic.

00:30:15.420 --> 00:30:15.750
Okay.

00:30:15.750 --> 00:30:15.930
So.

00:30:16.930 --> 00:30:18.790
All of our systems play together.

00:30:18.850 --> 00:30:21.820
Our systems do not work
independently of one another.

00:30:21.820 --> 00:30:27.610
So let's say for example, we have
a woman who is estrogen dominant.

00:30:27.700 --> 00:30:28.060
Okay?

00:30:28.060 --> 00:30:29.740
So let's say she is.

00:30:30.325 --> 00:30:35.515
We refer to as relative estrogen
dominance, where your progesterone

00:30:35.515 --> 00:30:38.065
is low relative to your estrogen.

00:30:38.875 --> 00:30:44.995
That within itself can decrease thyroid
function, or even if it's on the other

00:30:45.000 --> 00:30:50.485
side of the fence, estrogen dominance,
where estrogen's just very high, they

00:30:50.485 --> 00:30:55.735
both can decrease our, our thyroid
function, our metabolic rate, because

00:30:55.735 --> 00:30:58.975
of what it's causing the liver to do.

00:30:58.975 --> 00:30:59.455
So.

00:31:00.355 --> 00:31:06.845
If there is really high estrogen,
what it can cause is the liver

00:31:06.845 --> 00:31:13.475
to produce a protein that can
attach to free thyroid hormones.

00:31:13.475 --> 00:31:21.005
So think free T four, free T three, and it
can downregulate things because now those

00:31:21.005 --> 00:31:27.845
free thyroid hormones are attached to a
protein and they're not as bioavailable.

00:31:27.845 --> 00:31:27.905
I.

00:31:28.160 --> 00:31:33.710
So it can decrease our metabolic
rate in regards to that.

00:31:33.810 --> 00:31:39.100
Lindsay: Can a woman though go to
her doctor, have her thyroid tested?

00:31:40.100 --> 00:31:46.410
Her thyroid looks normal
and fine, but yet it's not.

00:31:47.410 --> 00:31:49.810
Tarryn: So yes, a hundred percent.

00:31:49.810 --> 00:31:52.870
And let me kind of, let me
explain this a little bit more.

00:31:52.870 --> 00:31:57.700
So when it comes to like the thyroid,
like being told, Hey, you're normal.

00:31:58.165 --> 00:32:01.165
You gotta understand like when
you're going to like say a, just

00:32:01.225 --> 00:32:05.485
a regular doctor, like hormones is
not their specialty or even, I hate

00:32:05.485 --> 00:32:08.215
to say it, even an endocrinologist.

00:32:08.545 --> 00:32:14.785
They're just looking at you in regards
to, or your values in regards to clinical.

00:32:15.295 --> 00:32:21.540
And when we're looking at clinical,
you're in this pool of sickly people,

00:32:21.600 --> 00:32:26.100
so to speak, and if they're like, oh,
you're normal, but your values are not

00:32:26.100 --> 00:32:29.910
normal, or maybe you feel some kind of
way, you're like, well, I'm being told

00:32:29.910 --> 00:32:32.160
I'm normal, but I don't feel normal.

00:32:32.670 --> 00:32:36.210
You have to understand they're
comparing it to a clinical reference

00:32:36.210 --> 00:32:42.090
range and not necessarily like a
optimal or functional reference range

00:32:42.090 --> 00:32:48.840
where it's looking at your values in
comparison to an optimal range for you.

00:32:49.840 --> 00:32:53.440
Lindsay: Okay, and will sex
hormones influence that?

00:32:53.440 --> 00:32:56.890
So you go in, everything
looks fine, thyroid.

00:32:57.010 --> 00:32:59.470
So why check, why check sex hormones?

00:33:00.049 --> 00:33:00.269
Tarryn: So,

00:33:00.884 --> 00:33:05.444
Lindsay: people only focus on
thyroid when they feel like there's

00:33:06.044 --> 00:33:07.994
a problem with their metabolism.

00:33:08.324 --> 00:33:09.704
That's kind of what I'm trying to get to.

00:33:10.189 --> 00:33:13.789
Tarryn: You always want to check both
because they both play into one another.

00:33:13.819 --> 00:33:18.619
You know, like even like the hormone
progesterone, if say a woman has

00:33:18.619 --> 00:33:22.039
like lower progesterone, you know,
well, there's receptors on the

00:33:22.039 --> 00:33:27.559
thyroid for progesterone that can
positively impact thyroid function.

00:33:27.859 --> 00:33:28.069
So.

00:33:28.909 --> 00:33:33.919
You wanna look at both because they,
they both do play into one another.

00:33:34.279 --> 00:33:38.209
Um, you know, even looking at
things like your adrenals, for

00:33:38.209 --> 00:33:43.639
example, you know, your adrenals and
thyroid, they're on the same access.

00:33:43.669 --> 00:33:48.139
And your adrenals, you know,
cortisol comes from those.

00:33:48.139 --> 00:33:53.659
So if there's something going on there
that can also, you know, decrease

00:33:53.659 --> 00:33:56.299
thyroid function or, or metabolic rate.

00:33:57.299 --> 00:34:03.989
Lindsay: Okay, so then cortisol has a
direct link to metabolism as well, like

00:34:04.379 --> 00:34:05.849
Tarryn: Technically Yes.

00:34:05.909 --> 00:34:07.679
Lindsay: so indirect you would say.

00:34:07.859 --> 00:34:10.739
Tarryn: I would say,
well, it absolutely can.

00:34:10.739 --> 00:34:13.829
Like I would say directly, but indirectly.

00:34:13.859 --> 00:34:17.189
I know that's kind of like a yes but no.

00:34:17.204 --> 00:34:18.254
Lindsay: A safe answer.

00:34:18.449 --> 00:34:19.289
Tarryn: Yes, exactly.

00:34:19.289 --> 00:34:21.089
Well, let's say it depends.

00:34:21.089 --> 00:34:21.599
That's that's

00:34:21.614 --> 00:34:22.094
Lindsay: you go.

00:34:23.094 --> 00:34:26.524
Tarryn: But I mean, like if you
have someone where, you know, their

00:34:26.524 --> 00:34:28.834
cortisol's just off the charts.

00:34:28.834 --> 00:34:33.664
And then again, going back to the place
of internally, your body is so stressed

00:34:33.664 --> 00:34:40.684
out, you know, like it will cause the
thyroid or metabolism to adapt and be

00:34:40.684 --> 00:34:42.664
lower because it doesn't feel safe.

00:34:43.594 --> 00:34:43.864
Lindsay: Okay.

00:34:43.984 --> 00:34:44.884
That's really interesting.

00:34:45.094 --> 00:34:50.674
It's interesting because we live in a
world where all of our, for the most part,

00:34:50.824 --> 00:34:53.554
the people listening to this podcast.

00:34:53.854 --> 00:35:00.184
Most, uh, I mean most of their needs
are met and so oftentimes it's really

00:35:00.184 --> 00:35:06.304
hard when so much stress nowadays
I feel like is very self-induced.

00:35:07.039 --> 00:35:07.259
Tarryn: Yes.

00:35:07.744 --> 00:35:08.584
Lindsay: That's hard.

00:35:08.734 --> 00:35:15.274
That's hard as a coach to address that
because it's like, I just think you need

00:35:15.274 --> 00:35:17.969
to calm down a little bit, you know?

00:35:18.469 --> 00:35:19.579
Tarryn: a hundred percent.

00:35:19.609 --> 00:35:23.599
Like it's, it's one of those things
like, I know, like I was doing like,

00:35:23.689 --> 00:35:27.229
you know, my, my birthday was this past
weekend and I always like to kind of

00:35:27.229 --> 00:35:31.069
look back and do like self-reflection
on the last year of my life.

00:35:31.069 --> 00:35:32.659
Like what are some things I've learned?

00:35:32.989 --> 00:35:37.249
And one of the biggest things I
remember I wrote down in my journal was,

00:35:38.164 --> 00:35:43.414
I create my own stress and my own problems
in my head by overthinking things.

00:35:43.924 --> 00:35:48.624
And when I, when I wrote that down, I was
just like,  I mean, I already knew this,

00:35:48.624 --> 00:35:52.954
but like that light bulb kind of got a
little brighter and I was like, this is,

00:35:53.014 --> 00:35:55.084
this is the problem with some clients.

00:35:55.084 --> 00:35:59.614
Like y'all are just creating it
in your head and you're thinking

00:35:59.614 --> 00:36:02.644
things are worse than what it
is, or this is such a problem.

00:36:03.334 --> 00:36:04.384
It's, it's here.

00:36:04.384 --> 00:36:06.844
It's your overthinking
that's causing the problems.

00:36:06.844 --> 00:36:08.494
That's causing the stress.

00:36:08.804 --> 00:36:10.364
Lindsay: Mm-Hmm, 100%.

00:36:10.664 --> 00:36:13.244
That is a hard point to coach on.

00:36:13.554 --> 00:36:20.664
I often refer people to the book,
loving What is by Brian, uh, uh, Byron.

00:36:20.664 --> 00:36:24.724
Sorry, Byron Katie, it's the work.

00:36:25.069 --> 00:36:26.209
Of letting go.

00:36:26.569 --> 00:36:29.929
And a lot of times the the
stress is because we are

00:36:29.929 --> 00:36:31.729
holding on, we want control.

00:36:31.729 --> 00:36:32.059
we

00:36:32.294 --> 00:36:32.714
Tarryn: Mm-Hmm

00:36:32.814 --> 00:36:33.829
Lindsay: can't let it go.

00:36:33.834 --> 00:36:36.529
If we worry about it, if we think
about it, then it almost won't

00:36:36.534 --> 00:36:38.989
happen or we think it will happen.

00:36:38.994 --> 00:36:44.089
And it's like, no, the real work in life
is learning to love what is and let go

00:36:44.869 --> 00:36:50.149
of so much her book to those listening,
this is the second time in the past

00:36:50.149 --> 00:36:51.529
month that I've thrown that out there.

00:36:51.559 --> 00:36:53.479
'cause I, I do think that it is.

00:36:53.929 --> 00:36:55.519
Really, really, really important.

00:36:55.949 --> 00:37:02.559
You said a lot of times you just feeding
people, they'll start feeling better.

00:37:02.909 --> 00:37:07.589
And another post that you wrote, you said
the solution to hypothyroidism is not

00:37:07.589 --> 00:37:09.689
just increase calories and lift weights.

00:37:09.694 --> 00:37:10.499
There's layers to it.

00:37:11.189 --> 00:37:13.164
I love that you brought this up because.

00:37:13.417 --> 00:37:19.960
I probably would say I am one of those
coaches who too often lean to that because

00:37:19.960 --> 00:37:22.540
for majority of people doing it does help.

00:37:22.810 --> 00:37:25.270
It's like the biggest mover.

00:37:25.540 --> 00:37:29.290
If you're looking at all the little
rocks and the big rocks, it's like just

00:37:29.410 --> 00:37:35.500
walk, get sunlight, lift weights, eat
more around maintenance, learn to thrive

00:37:35.500 --> 00:37:38.470
there, and you just watch people blossom.

00:37:39.040 --> 00:37:39.850
But not everybody.

00:37:40.345 --> 00:37:41.125
Not everybody.

00:37:41.305 --> 00:37:46.405
So let's speak now a little bit to
those that maybe the reverse dieting

00:37:46.435 --> 00:37:50.605
isn't the solution and, and all
of a sudden they found that, no,

00:37:50.605 --> 00:37:52.705
actually I put on tons of weight.

00:37:53.005 --> 00:37:56.155
I'm in a worse place and now
I'm even more frustrated.

00:37:57.155 --> 00:38:04.775
Tarryn: So with that, you know, again,
it, it can go back to the lifestyle.

00:38:04.775 --> 00:38:06.305
It can go back to like.

00:38:07.305 --> 00:38:08.325
mental health too.

00:38:08.325 --> 00:38:11.145
Like that's a really,
really big one there.

00:38:11.505 --> 00:38:17.265
But, you know, for like these individuals,
it is about looking, looking deeper, like

00:38:17.265 --> 00:38:24.375
pulling back the layers to figure out,
well why is, you know, is there maybe an

00:38:24.375 --> 00:38:28.875
underlining root issue like internally,
like with your health markers that.

00:38:29.220 --> 00:38:30.540
Have never been addressed.

00:38:30.600 --> 00:38:35.760
You know, is it maybe, um, the types
of foods that you're eating, you

00:38:35.760 --> 00:38:41.760
know, you're not getting, you know,
specific nutrients that you need to

00:38:41.760 --> 00:38:46.830
thrive and, you know, the thyroid's
like going under because of that.

00:38:46.964 --> 00:38:50.714
you know, It's just a lot of
like lifestyle factors, you know,

00:38:50.714 --> 00:38:52.724
play, play into those people.

00:38:52.724 --> 00:38:56.624
But then again, it, it could
be deeper rooted, so it's just.

00:38:57.524 --> 00:38:58.334
It's gray.

00:38:58.334 --> 00:39:00.374
It's, it's a lot of gray with that too.

00:39:01.149 --> 00:39:03.614
Lindsay: At what point do you
start looking at gut health?

00:39:03.814 --> 00:39:07.894
Tarryn: Well for me specifically,
um, I'm not like, I'm not.

00:39:08.749 --> 00:39:10.609
In the gut health, like scope.

00:39:10.609 --> 00:39:13.129
Like if I said, if I
said I was, I'd be lying.

00:39:13.459 --> 00:39:17.059
Um, I look at like the hormone
component, thyroid component.

00:39:17.089 --> 00:39:20.059
Um, yes, gut plays into all of that stuff.

00:39:20.459 --> 00:39:25.679
But there's, like, for me, you know, I
know enough to be dangerous, but that's

00:39:25.679 --> 00:39:27.989
not like my, my scope of practice.

00:39:28.289 --> 00:39:34.304
So if I had someone where,
we were having gut issues.

00:39:34.694 --> 00:39:38.354
The first place that I would
probably start with is, okay,

00:39:38.954 --> 00:39:40.184
let's look at your diet.

00:39:40.364 --> 00:39:41.834
Let's look at your stress.

00:39:41.864 --> 00:39:45.284
Because those are the biggest
things here that can play into that.

00:39:45.284 --> 00:39:49.844
Like I know, um, I had some clients,
like stress was extremely high.

00:39:50.234 --> 00:39:53.894
They were not going to the bathroom,
they weren't having any bowel movements.

00:39:54.224 --> 00:39:58.544
And before like diving into like
the gut and just throwing all these

00:39:58.544 --> 00:40:00.674
different protocols and stuff at people.

00:40:01.049 --> 00:40:02.219
Let's start simple.

00:40:02.309 --> 00:40:07.079
Let's address your stress, let's dive
into your lifestyle and let's pull back

00:40:07.079 --> 00:40:09.359
your layers and see what we can find.

00:40:09.359 --> 00:40:14.269
And most of the time in these
situations,  it's the matter of stress

00:40:14.269 --> 00:40:17.359
that's causing the GI issues, you know?

00:40:17.359 --> 00:40:22.774
Um, that's of course not to
disregard actual GI issues 'cause

00:40:22.804 --> 00:40:24.544
they're real and they exist.

00:40:24.844 --> 00:40:28.564
It's just, for me that's, you
know, that's just not my, my

00:40:28.569 --> 00:40:30.634
area that I, I like to get into.

00:40:30.684 --> 00:40:36.504
If there's a severe issue, I will go
ahead and, Hey, let's, let's go meet up

00:40:36.504 --> 00:40:41.064
with, you know, this coach who specializes
in it and see what we can, we can do.

00:40:41.064 --> 00:40:41.484
Lindsay: Mm-Hmm.

00:40:42.074 --> 00:40:47.484
I love that you said that as sometimes
I think, uh, coaches, try to speak on

00:40:47.514 --> 00:40:51.714
everything for everyone and it's, you
can always trust somebody who says,

00:40:51.924 --> 00:40:53.514
you know, that's not my specialty.

00:40:54.514 --> 00:40:54.754
Tarryn: Absolutely.

00:40:54.759 --> 00:40:58.809
Lindsay: I know enough to have like,
oh, to see red flags, and then to

00:40:58.809 --> 00:41:00.759
guide you to somebody who knows better.

00:41:01.089 --> 00:41:03.129
And that's kind of how I
feel about hormones is.

00:41:03.584 --> 00:41:09.344
I know enough to see red flags,
and I can refer you to somebody

00:41:09.344 --> 00:41:10.874
who's gonna help you a lot more.

00:41:11.114 --> 00:41:15.044
I will touch on these basics, and if
we're doing all these basics and the

00:41:15.044 --> 00:41:21.464
foundational things, and sometimes
it heals itself, if it doesn't, I'm

00:41:21.469 --> 00:41:23.234
gonna pass you off to somebody else.

00:41:23.684 --> 00:41:26.114
And so I, I think that that's really good.

00:41:26.664 --> 00:41:29.814
As coaches, I think it's really
good that we know our space.

00:41:29.814 --> 00:41:30.954
We're not therapists.

00:41:31.284 --> 00:41:32.334
Sometimes we try to be,

00:41:32.964 --> 00:41:33.534
Tarryn: Yes.

00:41:33.624 --> 00:41:35.454
Yeah, that, that's a big one too.

00:41:35.454 --> 00:41:35.784
And

00:41:35.969 --> 00:41:36.179
Lindsay: hard.

00:41:36.684 --> 00:41:38.424
Tarryn: I, it is, it is really hard.

00:41:38.479 --> 00:41:42.499
I say this a lot, like for some people,
you know, it's one of those things

00:41:42.499 --> 00:41:48.199
like, look, if you have like deep, like
really, really like deeply rooted issues,

00:41:48.199 --> 00:41:53.149
like that's affecting like your mental
health, you don't need a nutrition coach.

00:41:53.449 --> 00:41:55.309
You need a therapist, like.

00:41:56.014 --> 00:42:00.634
Go work out your stuff and then you
can kind of circle back around to me.

00:42:00.724 --> 00:42:06.334
But I, if there's a lot of stuff going
on there, I can't help you until you

00:42:06.334 --> 00:42:10.984
learn how to help yourself with coping
or working through, you know, whatever

00:42:10.984 --> 00:42:15.214
you're dealing with, like mentally or
trauma or whatever you're holding onto.

00:42:15.754 --> 00:42:15.904
Lindsay: Hmm.

00:42:16.534 --> 00:42:18.124
Yes, 100%.

00:42:18.604 --> 00:42:19.144
Oh my goodness.

00:42:19.144 --> 00:42:20.824
I love this conversation.

00:42:20.824 --> 00:42:22.144
I'm so glad I had you on.

00:42:22.444 --> 00:42:27.664
Is there anything that comes to your
mind that you just kind of wish, one

00:42:27.664 --> 00:42:32.734
last thing that you just wish if, if
women just understood this one thing

00:42:32.739 --> 00:42:39.154
or these two things, I wish that more
women would do this for their health.

00:42:39.664 --> 00:42:40.564
What would that be?

00:42:40.964 --> 00:42:42.824
Tarryn: Eat food and lift weights.

00:42:43.364 --> 00:42:46.814
And what I mean by eat
food is not like diet.

00:42:47.684 --> 00:42:54.494
Stay out of a deficit and lift
weights and actually push yourself.

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Don't be as, don't be afraid to lift
heavy challenge yourself, because those

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two things I swear it can probably
solve like 90% of your problems

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if you just did those two things.

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Lindsay: Yep.

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100%.

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I love it.

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Okay.

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Thank you so, so much for coming on.

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It has been amazing.

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Um, in the notes, we're gonna have a link.

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Do you have a website?

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Is it your Instagram account?

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What is the best way for
people to get ahold of you?

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Tarryn: Instagram would be the

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Lindsay: best.

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That's true.

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Okay.

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We'll put a link to your handle in
the show notes so that those that feel

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like they need a little bit more of
you in their life can reach out to you

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and so that you can help more people.

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I love it.

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Empower more women.

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Tarryn: Thank you for having me.

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I really appreciate it.

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Lindsay: Of course.

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We'll talk to you later.