1 01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:03,333 (upbeat music) 2 01:00:05,625 --> 01:00:07,750 My back does not appreciate that at all. 3 01:00:08,291 --> 01:00:09,208 Was it worth it? 4 01:00:09,333 --> 01:00:10,208 No, not at all. 5 01:00:10,583 --> 01:00:11,500 No, no. 6 01:00:11,583 --> 01:00:12,875 I mean, I've got some stories. 7 01:00:13,250 --> 01:00:15,916 Oh, you have some incredible stories. 8 01:00:16,375 --> 01:00:17,500 Acquiring minds want to know, 9 01:00:17,500 --> 01:00:19,500 well, we'll just tell you what it was. 10 01:00:20,333 --> 01:00:21,708 Getting old, this is what 11 01:00:21,708 --> 01:00:22,833 they say about getting old. 12 01:00:22,833 --> 01:00:24,666 It's not necessarily graceful. 13 01:00:25,625 --> 01:00:26,333 I'm talking to the 14 01:00:26,333 --> 01:00:27,291 lady that's in an e-brace. 15 01:00:27,750 --> 01:00:28,541 I know, like 16 01:00:28,541 --> 01:00:31,500 stereotypical, like old couple. 17 01:00:32,333 --> 01:00:34,375 I don't enjoy running at all. 18 01:00:35,125 --> 01:00:36,791 They had to drag me off the 19 01:00:36,791 --> 01:00:38,708 floor as I'm like whimpering. 20 01:00:39,375 --> 01:00:40,416 And I'm laying there 21 01:00:40,416 --> 01:00:41,458 for like 20 more minutes 22 01:00:41,458 --> 01:00:42,625 because I can't move. 23 01:00:43,250 --> 01:00:46,125 No, I laid there like a limp dead fish. 24 01:00:46,666 --> 01:00:47,708 That day was the greatest thing. 25 01:00:47,708 --> 01:00:48,500 They gave me laughing 26 01:00:48,500 --> 01:00:50,250 gas, I got a shot, but yeah. 27 01:00:52,458 --> 01:00:53,333 That couple's in trouble. 28 01:00:53,625 --> 01:00:54,333 Did you know it? 29 01:00:54,375 --> 01:00:55,416 The physics of being 30 01:00:55,416 --> 01:00:56,541 nine months pregnant, 31 01:00:57,041 --> 01:00:58,458 bending down, trying to, you know, 32 01:00:58,458 --> 01:00:59,916 they're all about you 33 01:00:59,916 --> 01:01:01,458 and taking care of you. 34 01:01:02,500 --> 01:01:03,000 Hello? 35 01:01:04,166 --> 01:01:05,541 Yeah, I totally stole 36 01:01:05,541 --> 01:01:08,250 your show that night. 37 01:01:08,916 --> 01:01:09,916 I mean, I did get a 38 01:01:09,916 --> 01:01:10,708 medal of honor for it. 39 01:01:10,750 --> 01:01:11,583 You did, you did. 40 01:01:12,166 --> 01:01:13,458 You got that gold medal. 41 01:01:14,083 --> 01:01:14,625 Gold star. 42 01:01:15,125 --> 01:01:15,625 Hey, Jesus. 43 01:01:15,958 --> 01:01:16,458 Yeah, praise Jesus. 44 01:01:16,916 --> 01:01:17,125 Ha! 45 01:01:18,083 --> 01:01:19,291 You're not gonna win this. 46 01:01:19,291 --> 01:01:20,500 Yeah, yeah. 47 01:01:21,958 --> 01:01:22,791 We're both smiling at 48 01:01:22,791 --> 01:01:24,500 each other because I think 49 01:01:24,500 --> 01:01:25,000 that's one of those 50 01:01:25,000 --> 01:01:26,166 things that you believe 51 01:01:26,291 --> 01:01:27,083 that you help a lot. 52 01:01:28,083 --> 01:01:28,708 And then there's things 53 01:01:28,708 --> 01:01:29,750 that we pay people for. 54 01:01:30,000 --> 01:01:30,708 And then there's things 55 01:01:30,708 --> 01:01:31,791 that we pay people for. 56 01:01:31,958 --> 01:01:33,541 Which gets longer and longer. 57 01:01:34,583 --> 01:01:37,500 You ran head first into a moving car. 58 01:01:37,791 --> 01:01:38,000 Yes. 59 01:01:39,083 --> 01:01:40,541 My brother, which just got hit by a car. 60 01:01:41,666 --> 01:01:42,750 I still think it was a sabotage. 61 01:01:44,000 --> 01:01:46,541 Someone cut his brake 62 01:01:46,541 --> 01:01:47,458 line, his brake line. 63 01:01:47,791 --> 01:01:48,000 Yeah. 64 01:01:49,166 --> 01:01:51,000 Yeah, it's a pretty wicked scar. 65 01:01:51,916 --> 01:01:53,083 Isn't that always how it happens? 66 01:01:53,083 --> 01:01:53,791 It's always how it happens. 67 01:01:54,041 --> 01:01:55,250 It's always the one more time. 68 01:01:56,583 --> 01:01:59,458 And it is a gash that you could measure. 69 01:01:59,458 --> 01:02:01,583 And I was like, I will 70 01:02:01,583 --> 01:02:02,375 go with a little master. 71 01:02:03,083 --> 01:02:04,250 And I've been there for a while now. 72 01:02:04,250 --> 01:02:05,208 It's like when I was younger. 73 01:02:06,250 --> 01:02:08,541 So for the record, don't do this. 74 01:02:08,583 --> 01:02:09,125 Don't do this. 75 01:02:09,125 --> 01:02:11,416 Just, you know, I was like, what? 76 01:02:11,416 --> 01:02:14,500 And I, 2008, believe it or not, was a 77 01:02:14,500 --> 01:02:15,666 really long time ago. 78 01:02:16,083 --> 01:02:17,625 Yeah, I mean, and that's bad, 79 01:02:17,958 --> 01:02:19,041 but I think her 80 01:02:19,041 --> 01:02:21,333 justification, even after the fact, 81 01:02:21,875 --> 01:02:22,875 that's almost worse. 82 01:02:23,500 --> 01:02:24,500 Blase about it. 83 01:02:24,500 --> 01:02:25,375 I just wanted you to 84 01:02:25,375 --> 01:02:26,666 have a dose of reality. 85 01:02:27,666 --> 01:02:30,041 And who gave her, who, 86 01:02:30,041 --> 01:02:31,666 I mean, who named her? 87 01:02:32,583 --> 01:02:34,250 Don't you dare have a positive attitude 88 01:02:34,250 --> 01:02:35,000 going into something that 89 01:02:35,000 --> 01:02:36,625 could just ruin your life. 90 01:02:37,291 --> 01:02:38,333 They got a name for that lady. 91 01:02:39,583 --> 01:02:39,791 Aww. 92 01:02:42,291 --> 01:02:42,958 No, I'm coming. 93 01:02:43,416 --> 01:02:44,250 Oh, yeah. 94 01:02:44,541 --> 01:02:45,666 I'm gearing up and I'm coming. 95 01:02:45,958 --> 01:02:46,666 I will get you. 96 01:02:47,458 --> 01:02:48,166 Megan's back to back 97 01:02:48,166 --> 01:02:49,041 to back to back to back. 98 01:02:49,041 --> 01:02:51,333 You are a very important person. 99 01:02:51,583 --> 01:02:53,250 A Blensingney-Burner incident. 100 01:02:54,666 --> 01:02:55,375 Once in Burners, I lost 101 01:02:55,375 --> 01:02:56,625 my eyelashes, by the way. 102 01:02:56,833 --> 01:02:57,666 I don't know what that 103 01:02:57,666 --> 01:02:58,791 means, but that sounds dangerous. 104 01:02:59,416 --> 01:03:02,333 Well, that don't go well together, right? 105 01:03:02,333 --> 01:03:03,750 Because we're idiots, right? 106 01:03:05,250 --> 01:03:06,458 I, you know, I got away with it. 107 01:03:07,041 --> 01:03:07,958 One was super fun. 108 01:03:08,208 --> 01:03:09,291 That was the Halloween blizzard. 109 01:03:10,125 --> 01:03:10,708 Yeah, we couldn't even 110 01:03:10,708 --> 01:03:11,791 see out some of our windows 111 01:03:11,958 --> 01:03:14,000 because there was just too much snow. 112 01:03:14,500 --> 01:03:14,791 Yeah. 113 01:03:14,791 --> 01:03:15,750 The actual temperature 114 01:03:15,750 --> 01:03:17,833 was negative 36 degrees 115 01:03:18,583 --> 01:03:19,500 and the wind chill was 116 01:03:19,500 --> 01:03:22,041 negative 66, I think. 117 01:03:22,958 --> 01:03:24,125 We were wearing heated 118 01:03:24,125 --> 01:03:25,458 apparel at this point. 119 01:03:26,500 --> 01:03:26,666 Randy. 120 01:03:26,958 --> 01:03:27,208 Randy. 121 01:03:27,541 --> 01:03:29,916 I can't put my arms down. 122 01:03:31,291 --> 01:03:32,291 Aww, if you have a 123 01:03:32,291 --> 01:03:34,000 doxy, they hate snow, so. 124 01:03:34,625 --> 01:03:35,833 We're not on the same page all the time 125 01:03:35,833 --> 01:03:36,375 because you're not 126 01:03:36,375 --> 01:03:38,791 necessarily finishing my excursions. 127 01:03:39,166 --> 01:03:39,750 There you go. 128 01:03:40,000 --> 01:03:40,541 That one works. 129 01:03:41,708 --> 01:03:43,458 Welcome to the Mr. and 130 01:03:43,458 --> 01:03:44,291 Mrs. English podcast. 131 01:03:44,791 --> 01:03:45,166 I'm Megan. 132 01:03:45,583 --> 01:03:46,125 And I'm Sean. 133 01:03:46,416 --> 01:03:47,458 We're here to talk about 134 01:03:47,458 --> 01:03:49,083 the wild ride of raising kids 135 01:03:49,083 --> 01:03:50,000 and growing careers, 136 01:03:50,458 --> 01:03:51,541 and keeping life together in 137 01:03:51,541 --> 01:03:52,708 the middle of all the chaos. 138 01:03:53,375 --> 01:03:55,291 So buckle up because we're all 139 01:03:55,291 --> 01:03:56,750 in this crazy journey together. 140 01:03:58,583 --> 01:04:02,416 How did you know it was 141 01:04:02,416 --> 01:04:03,333 episode 11 so quickly? 142 01:04:05,333 --> 01:04:06,416 Episode 11 so quickly? 143 01:04:06,458 --> 01:04:07,833 Yeah. Well, last week was episode 10. 144 01:04:08,208 --> 01:04:09,666 Oh, okay. 145 01:04:10,916 --> 01:04:11,125 Seriously? 146 01:04:11,833 --> 01:04:13,208 Yeah, I haven't been counting, I guess, 147 01:04:13,208 --> 01:04:14,041 as well as you have. 148 01:04:16,208 --> 01:04:17,000 When I do the video, 149 01:04:17,541 --> 01:04:18,541 when I put the things up, 150 01:04:18,583 --> 01:04:20,583 everything's episode 10 or 151 01:04:20,583 --> 01:04:22,458 episode 10 teaser, episode 10. 152 01:04:22,541 --> 01:04:23,416 Yeah, yeah. 153 01:04:23,458 --> 01:04:24,833 So yeah, I'm very aware. 154 01:04:24,833 --> 01:04:25,291 You are. 155 01:04:25,291 --> 01:04:25,916 Episode 11, yeah, 156 01:04:25,916 --> 01:04:26,666 we're into double digits. 157 01:04:27,000 --> 01:04:27,333 It's crazy. 158 01:04:27,875 --> 01:04:29,583 Wow, yay, we made it. 159 01:04:29,625 --> 01:04:30,750 Yeah, great stuff. 160 01:04:31,208 --> 01:04:32,541 Well, welcome everybody, episode 11. 161 01:04:33,083 --> 01:04:33,500 Episode 11. 162 01:04:34,000 --> 01:04:34,458 That's right. 163 01:04:35,500 --> 01:04:36,833 Well, I know we, if you 164 01:04:36,833 --> 01:04:37,916 see me looking uncomfortable 165 01:04:37,916 --> 01:04:39,333 and squirming a little bit if you're 166 01:04:39,333 --> 01:04:40,208 watching it on YouTube, 167 01:04:40,583 --> 01:04:41,791 I know you can't tell when, 168 01:04:42,375 --> 01:04:43,791 maybe I'll groan a little bit or whatnot, 169 01:04:43,791 --> 01:04:44,666 but we were taught, I 170 01:04:44,666 --> 01:04:45,625 left you last week saying, 171 01:04:45,625 --> 01:04:46,375 "Hey, it's spring." 172 01:04:46,625 --> 01:04:48,000 And we're gonna start 173 01:04:48,000 --> 01:04:49,791 cleaning up for spring 174 01:04:49,791 --> 01:04:50,500 and doing some of this. 175 01:04:50,500 --> 01:04:51,416 Well, I was yesterday. 176 01:04:51,708 --> 01:04:52,791 You were, you worked 177 01:04:52,791 --> 01:04:54,375 outside a lot yesterday. 178 01:04:54,375 --> 01:04:55,375 Yeah, I got a lot of 179 01:04:55,375 --> 01:04:56,875 some weed pulling going on, 180 01:04:56,875 --> 01:04:58,416 some of the weeds, 181 01:04:58,416 --> 01:04:59,458 cleaned up some of the bushes, 182 01:05:01,208 --> 01:05:02,000 trimmed up some of these 183 01:05:02,000 --> 01:05:03,375 trees and stuff in the backyard. 184 01:05:03,791 --> 01:05:05,875 But the long and the short of it is, 185 01:05:05,875 --> 01:05:07,500 my back did not appreciate it. 186 01:05:07,500 --> 01:05:09,000 No, it did not. 187 01:05:09,000 --> 01:05:10,000 As much as you appreciate it 188 01:05:10,000 --> 01:05:11,458 and I appreciate the house looking nicer, 189 01:05:12,333 --> 01:05:14,541 my back does not appreciate that at all. 190 01:05:15,291 --> 01:05:15,958 Was it worth it? 191 01:05:16,333 --> 01:05:17,166 No, not at all. 192 01:05:17,666 --> 01:05:18,708 No, no, no. 193 01:05:18,708 --> 01:05:20,250 I feel terrible for you. 194 01:05:20,250 --> 01:05:21,875 I mean, you've been 195 01:05:21,875 --> 01:05:23,750 plagued by back spasms 196 01:05:24,041 --> 01:05:26,958 and herniated discs and 197 01:05:26,958 --> 01:05:28,458 all of that for years now. 198 01:05:29,416 --> 01:05:30,833 Well, yeah, but I mean, 199 01:05:30,833 --> 01:05:32,000 I had it under control. 200 01:05:33,333 --> 01:05:34,333 It was really from my 201 01:05:34,333 --> 01:05:37,875 early 20s to maybe my early 30s 202 01:05:37,875 --> 01:05:40,250 because the last real bad one was the 203 01:05:40,250 --> 01:05:41,208 night bear was born. 204 01:05:41,250 --> 01:05:42,083 Yeah, uh-huh. 205 01:05:42,125 --> 01:05:44,250 We know that story pretty well, but yeah. 206 01:05:45,500 --> 01:05:46,750 No, I mean, I didn't know 207 01:05:46,750 --> 01:05:47,833 what it was for the longest time 208 01:05:47,833 --> 01:05:48,541 and I don't know if it was 209 01:05:48,541 --> 01:05:49,625 just because I stopped playing 210 01:05:49,625 --> 01:05:50,666 so many sports and I 211 01:05:50,666 --> 01:05:52,458 wasn't stretching as much. 212 01:05:52,458 --> 01:05:54,333 But I think the long and the short of it, 213 01:05:54,333 --> 01:05:55,583 the root cause is just lack of 214 01:05:55,583 --> 01:05:58,458 flexibility in my hamstrings, 215 01:05:59,000 --> 01:06:01,916 which causes back spasms kind of. 216 01:06:02,750 --> 01:06:03,916 And this isn't just your 217 01:06:03,916 --> 01:06:05,041 run of the mill back spasm. 218 01:06:05,458 --> 01:06:06,708 I mean, I've got some stories. 219 01:06:07,041 --> 01:06:09,875 Oh, you have some incredible stories. 220 01:06:09,875 --> 01:06:10,750 And this is also, a lot 221 01:06:10,750 --> 01:06:11,750 of people would probably, 222 01:06:12,000 --> 01:06:12,666 they see you stretching. 223 01:06:13,000 --> 01:06:14,083 You stretch a lot. 224 01:06:14,125 --> 01:06:14,541 All the time. 225 01:06:15,291 --> 01:06:16,333 Especially soccer games on the sidelines 226 01:06:16,333 --> 01:06:17,083 where you've been standing 227 01:06:17,083 --> 01:06:18,833 or sitting in lawn chairs, 228 01:06:18,833 --> 01:06:20,291 which aren't great support. 229 01:06:21,041 --> 01:06:22,458 And I don't think anyone's 230 01:06:22,458 --> 01:06:23,416 ever really asked you like, 231 01:06:24,166 --> 01:06:25,541 hey, why are you stretching, 232 01:06:25,750 --> 01:06:27,333 like in the middle of just everyone? 233 01:06:27,375 --> 01:06:28,875 Yeah, it's not my gymnastics career. 234 01:06:30,041 --> 01:06:30,583 No, no. 235 01:06:31,125 --> 01:06:32,750 So for those of you who have always, 236 01:06:33,125 --> 01:06:34,458 inquiring minds want to know, 237 01:06:34,458 --> 01:06:36,583 well, we'll just tell you why it's 238 01:06:36,583 --> 01:06:37,750 because of the bad back. 239 01:06:38,416 --> 01:06:39,708 Yeah, I hate to say it's bad back 240 01:06:39,708 --> 01:06:40,166 because now that I 241 01:06:40,166 --> 01:06:41,041 know for the longest time, 242 01:06:41,041 --> 01:06:41,875 I didn't know what it was. 243 01:06:42,541 --> 01:06:45,250 So I do have a couple, what is it? 244 01:06:45,250 --> 01:06:45,916 Bulging discs. 245 01:06:46,500 --> 01:06:49,541 I've got a couple degenerative discs. 246 01:06:50,083 --> 01:06:51,458 So I do, I have got some 247 01:06:51,458 --> 01:06:53,041 back issues in the future 248 01:06:53,041 --> 01:06:54,875 that are gonna really kind of come to, 249 01:06:56,166 --> 01:06:57,583 it's gonna come to a head at some point. 250 01:06:57,583 --> 01:06:59,208 That hasn't yet. 251 01:06:59,208 --> 01:06:59,916 I've also got another 252 01:06:59,916 --> 01:07:01,250 issue in my neck now too, 253 01:07:01,250 --> 01:07:03,416 where I've got a pinched 254 01:07:03,416 --> 01:07:05,708 nerve in my neck through my spine 255 01:07:05,708 --> 01:07:07,000 because that's, now 256 01:07:07,000 --> 01:07:08,375 that's another new issue. 257 01:07:08,750 --> 01:07:10,083 Getting old, this is what 258 01:07:10,083 --> 01:07:11,208 they say about getting old. 259 01:07:11,208 --> 01:07:13,083 It's not necessarily graceful. 260 01:07:13,958 --> 01:07:14,875 I'm talking to the lady 261 01:07:14,875 --> 01:07:15,958 that's in a knee brace. 262 01:07:16,000 --> 01:07:17,541 I know, like one 263 01:07:17,541 --> 01:07:19,958 simple fall on a ski slope, 264 01:07:20,166 --> 01:07:21,500 like not doing anything crazy. 265 01:07:21,750 --> 01:07:22,791 Yeah, I know, we are at 266 01:07:22,791 --> 01:07:25,708 like the just stereotypical 267 01:07:26,458 --> 01:07:28,958 like old couple with these injuries, 268 01:07:29,541 --> 01:07:30,750 which is ironic because 269 01:07:30,750 --> 01:07:33,958 you especially work out, 270 01:07:33,958 --> 01:07:35,708 you keep it loose, you went for a run 271 01:07:36,000 --> 01:07:36,791 right before you were 272 01:07:36,791 --> 01:07:38,083 out doing yard work, 273 01:07:38,083 --> 01:07:39,208 which really helps your 274 01:07:39,208 --> 01:07:40,166 back most of the time. 275 01:07:40,250 --> 01:07:41,916 That's why, that is why I run. 276 01:07:42,541 --> 01:07:44,708 I don't enjoy running at all. 277 01:07:44,958 --> 01:07:46,208 I know some people love it and whatnot. 278 01:07:46,458 --> 01:07:47,666 I do like getting out and 279 01:07:47,666 --> 01:07:48,666 it's nice in the morning 280 01:07:48,666 --> 01:07:49,708 and the sun and the birds 281 01:07:49,708 --> 01:07:50,416 and all that kind of stuff. 282 01:07:50,416 --> 01:07:51,708 I do like that, it's in then, 283 01:07:52,458 --> 01:07:54,375 but it's mainly to keep my back loose. 284 01:07:54,833 --> 01:07:55,875 So I have to stretch, I 285 01:07:55,875 --> 01:07:57,083 have to get at least a run 286 01:07:57,083 --> 01:07:59,625 in every other day to get my back loose 287 01:07:59,625 --> 01:08:01,125 or else I get these back spasms. 288 01:08:01,125 --> 01:08:02,291 But to my point earlier, 289 01:08:02,625 --> 01:08:03,958 I've had it under control 290 01:08:04,125 --> 01:08:07,416 for 10 years now, almost 15 years now. 291 01:08:07,916 --> 01:08:08,750 This is kind of the first 292 01:08:08,750 --> 01:08:09,916 time, and I'm not bad right now. 293 01:08:09,958 --> 01:08:10,958 It's just tweaked just 294 01:08:10,958 --> 01:08:13,708 slightly, but more so than usual. 295 01:08:13,708 --> 01:08:15,500 I don't know why this time is worse, 296 01:08:15,750 --> 01:08:18,000 but I mean, I've been, 297 01:08:18,791 --> 01:08:19,500 I used to always do it 298 01:08:19,500 --> 01:08:21,208 playing basketball after, 299 01:08:21,791 --> 01:08:23,375 now this is just in my 20s. 300 01:08:23,375 --> 01:08:25,000 So this is after I was done 301 01:08:25,000 --> 01:08:27,125 on actual teams and whatnot. 302 01:08:27,125 --> 01:08:27,958 So I'd be playing pickup 303 01:08:27,958 --> 01:08:29,875 games at 24 hour fitness 304 01:08:29,875 --> 01:08:30,666 or something like that. 305 01:08:30,666 --> 01:08:32,416 But I remember one 306 01:08:32,416 --> 01:08:34,333 time I went up to jump, 307 01:08:35,125 --> 01:08:36,583 to get a rebound or something like that, 308 01:08:36,583 --> 01:08:37,958 and I felt it the second I jumped 309 01:08:38,083 --> 01:08:39,000 and I literally came 310 01:08:39,000 --> 01:08:40,416 down crashing to the floor. 311 01:08:40,958 --> 01:08:41,458 And again, these are 312 01:08:41,458 --> 01:08:42,416 not just run of the mill, 313 01:08:42,625 --> 01:08:44,250 like I'm gonna limp around back spasms. 314 01:08:44,708 --> 01:08:45,666 These are back spasms 315 01:08:45,666 --> 01:08:48,416 that I'm literally yelling, 316 01:08:49,000 --> 01:08:50,666 whimpering in public 317 01:08:50,666 --> 01:08:52,458 on the basketball floor. 318 01:08:53,208 --> 01:08:55,250 They had to drag me off the floor 319 01:08:55,666 --> 01:08:58,708 as I'm like whimpering, like grimacing. 320 01:08:59,708 --> 01:09:00,500 Because it's, I mean, 321 01:09:00,500 --> 01:09:02,791 it is, it's full body. 322 01:09:02,791 --> 01:09:05,208 I mean, outside of my kidney stones, 323 01:09:06,750 --> 01:09:07,833 this is by far the 324 01:09:07,833 --> 01:09:08,958 worst pain I've ever had. 325 01:09:09,333 --> 01:09:11,000 Oh, yeah, well I remember. 326 01:09:11,375 --> 01:09:12,416 You've had them now. 327 01:09:13,041 --> 01:09:14,041 Yeah, at once. 328 01:09:14,083 --> 01:09:14,583 You had something 329 01:09:14,583 --> 01:09:16,291 similar a year ago or so? 330 01:09:16,416 --> 01:09:18,083 A couple years ago, yeah, it was awful. 331 01:09:18,375 --> 01:09:18,833 It was awful. 332 01:09:19,208 --> 01:09:19,916 And I remember saying, I'm 333 01:09:19,916 --> 01:09:21,375 like, I hate that you have it, 334 01:09:21,375 --> 01:09:22,041 but I'm glad you have an 335 01:09:22,041 --> 01:09:23,416 idea of what I went through 336 01:09:23,416 --> 01:09:24,625 back then because I 337 01:09:24,625 --> 01:09:27,375 mean, I remember at CSU even, 338 01:09:27,708 --> 01:09:29,208 I had this one of the first times 339 01:09:29,208 --> 01:09:30,375 and I was just on the couch, 340 01:09:30,583 --> 01:09:31,666 they got me back to the couch. 341 01:09:31,708 --> 01:09:32,500 I have to have people. 342 01:09:32,791 --> 01:09:33,416 So literally to finish 343 01:09:33,416 --> 01:09:34,500 that 24 hour fitness one, 344 01:09:35,375 --> 01:09:38,000 they dragged me off the 345 01:09:38,000 --> 01:09:39,166 court of basketball court, 346 01:09:39,166 --> 01:09:39,541 which is a pickup 347 01:09:39,541 --> 01:09:40,291 court, you know what I mean? 348 01:09:40,291 --> 01:09:40,916 Like all these guys who 349 01:09:40,916 --> 01:09:41,708 don't know each other, 350 01:09:42,041 --> 01:09:43,875 they're like, get the guy off the court, 351 01:09:44,083 --> 01:09:44,625 you know what I mean? 352 01:09:44,625 --> 01:09:45,833 Like what is wrong with this guy? 353 01:09:46,625 --> 01:09:48,125 Writing the chalk around you, apparently. 354 01:09:48,500 --> 01:09:49,250 Yeah, well no, they 355 01:09:49,250 --> 01:09:50,125 dragged me off the court. 356 01:09:50,125 --> 01:09:52,166 I'm a foot off the line now 357 01:09:52,666 --> 01:09:53,500 and I'm laying there 358 01:09:53,500 --> 01:09:54,583 for like 20 more minutes 359 01:09:54,583 --> 01:09:55,791 because I can't move. 360 01:09:57,000 --> 01:09:59,125 I cannot move anything in my body 361 01:09:59,125 --> 01:10:00,750 and if you've ever done this, 362 01:10:00,750 --> 01:10:01,458 you know everything 363 01:10:01,458 --> 01:10:02,500 runs through your back, 364 01:10:03,250 --> 01:10:05,125 your posture, your core, 365 01:10:05,583 --> 01:10:06,208 all that kind of stuff. 366 01:10:06,500 --> 01:10:07,583 So moving your neck, 367 01:10:07,958 --> 01:10:09,041 moving your head anyway 368 01:10:09,583 --> 01:10:10,500 goes through your core. 369 01:10:11,833 --> 01:10:13,625 So I literally cannot move without it 370 01:10:13,625 --> 01:10:14,833 sending just a shock 371 01:10:15,875 --> 01:10:18,083 of the second worst pain I've ever had 372 01:10:18,583 --> 01:10:19,916 and it's lasting. 373 01:10:20,166 --> 01:10:21,708 So I laid on the side of the basketball 374 01:10:21,708 --> 01:10:23,000 court for 20 minutes. 375 01:10:23,625 --> 01:10:25,666 Like I can't only imagine 376 01:10:25,666 --> 01:10:26,666 what those people thought. 377 01:10:27,416 --> 01:10:28,250 They didn't know you. 378 01:10:28,250 --> 01:10:29,833 What is that guy doing? 379 01:10:30,708 --> 01:10:31,375 Well, especially if you're 380 01:10:31,375 --> 01:10:32,333 playing with like older players 381 01:10:32,541 --> 01:10:33,875 in your 20s and 382 01:10:33,875 --> 01:10:34,750 they're looking at you like, 383 01:10:34,750 --> 01:10:35,500 you're in your prime, 384 01:10:35,500 --> 01:10:36,416 man, what's going on? 385 01:10:36,666 --> 01:10:38,250 It's not like I got off the court 386 01:10:38,250 --> 01:10:39,541 and went and sat down on the bench 387 01:10:39,541 --> 01:10:40,083 and you know, I was 388 01:10:40,083 --> 01:10:41,208 just putting my head down 389 01:10:41,208 --> 01:10:42,625 and like just taking a 390 01:10:42,625 --> 01:10:44,875 moment to catch myself. 391 01:10:45,208 --> 01:10:48,041 No, I laid there like a limp dead fish 392 01:10:48,500 --> 01:10:49,208 on the side of the 393 01:10:49,208 --> 01:10:50,375 basketball court for like 20 minutes 394 01:10:51,000 --> 01:10:52,375 till finally I think 395 01:10:52,375 --> 01:10:53,916 somebody like went and got a manager 396 01:10:53,916 --> 01:10:55,625 or maybe I asked for that. 397 01:10:55,625 --> 01:10:55,916 Right. 398 01:10:57,041 --> 01:10:57,916 Like I need help. 399 01:10:58,625 --> 01:11:00,708 I gotta get home now. 400 01:11:00,791 --> 01:11:01,791 Cause I can't walk. 401 01:11:02,166 --> 01:11:03,875 I can't move, let alone walk. 402 01:11:03,875 --> 01:11:04,541 I drove there. 403 01:11:05,291 --> 01:11:05,916 Long story short on 404 01:11:05,916 --> 01:11:07,250 this particular event, 405 01:11:07,250 --> 01:11:09,375 I've done this badly 406 01:11:09,375 --> 01:11:11,875 during that 10, 15 year period. 407 01:11:11,916 --> 01:11:12,083 Yeah. 408 01:11:12,625 --> 01:11:13,333 More than a handful of 409 01:11:13,333 --> 01:11:14,375 times, maybe less than 10, 410 01:11:14,541 --> 01:11:16,000 but I mean the bad, bad, 411 01:11:16,083 --> 01:11:17,375 I've tweaked it a million times. 412 01:11:17,458 --> 01:11:17,708 Right. 413 01:11:17,791 --> 01:11:19,416 But the bad, bad ones like this one, 414 01:11:19,875 --> 01:11:21,458 I was in Kansas City at this time 415 01:11:22,291 --> 01:11:26,125 and the manager of 24 hour fitness 416 01:11:26,833 --> 01:11:27,166 Uh huh. 417 01:11:28,125 --> 01:11:29,416 And three other guys 418 01:11:29,416 --> 01:11:32,833 carried me to my car, 419 01:11:33,166 --> 01:11:34,791 put me in the backseat of my car. 420 01:11:35,291 --> 01:11:37,333 The manager had have somebody follow him 421 01:11:37,333 --> 01:11:39,666 as he drove my car 15 422 01:11:39,666 --> 01:11:41,041 minutes to my apartment 423 01:11:42,000 --> 01:11:43,208 in Kansas City where 424 01:11:43,208 --> 01:11:44,958 they then had to drag me 425 01:11:45,708 --> 01:11:48,791 up to the stairs and lay me on the floor, 426 01:11:49,250 --> 01:11:50,916 my third bedroom apartment building. 427 01:11:51,875 --> 01:11:52,291 What? 428 01:11:52,541 --> 01:11:53,875 Where I had a roommate at the time 429 01:11:54,791 --> 01:12:00,500 and I laid on that floor sweaty, right? 430 01:12:00,500 --> 01:12:01,250 I had been playing basketball. 431 01:12:01,250 --> 01:12:02,583 Oh yeah, yeah, you're not clean. 432 01:12:03,083 --> 01:12:04,333 For two days, for 48 433 01:12:04,333 --> 01:12:07,041 hours, just grimacing in pain. 434 01:12:07,041 --> 01:12:08,458 I tried to like wash 435 01:12:08,458 --> 01:12:10,500 myself with like a wash rag 436 01:12:10,500 --> 01:12:11,791 because I was sweaty. 437 01:12:12,125 --> 01:12:12,458 Yeah. 438 01:12:12,458 --> 01:12:13,458 And now it's all dried on me, 439 01:12:13,458 --> 01:12:15,166 but I cannot move because 440 01:12:15,166 --> 01:12:16,708 the back spasms are so bad. 441 01:12:17,333 --> 01:12:19,125 48 hours into it, you know, 442 01:12:19,125 --> 01:12:20,208 at the time I was in college, 443 01:12:20,500 --> 01:12:21,833 I was, you know, I worked at 444 01:12:21,833 --> 01:12:22,875 like the Cheesecake Factory 445 01:12:22,875 --> 01:12:23,500 or something stupid. 446 01:12:24,083 --> 01:12:26,250 Not stupid, but just what 447 01:12:26,250 --> 01:12:27,250 you do when you're in college. 448 01:12:27,291 --> 01:12:27,500 Right. 449 01:12:27,500 --> 01:12:28,083 You know, I had three 450 01:12:28,083 --> 01:12:29,250 jobs at the time probably, 451 01:12:29,250 --> 01:12:31,500 but I didn't have medical insurance 452 01:12:31,500 --> 01:12:32,833 because I'm working all part time jobs 453 01:12:32,833 --> 01:12:35,500 to work around 20 credit hours. 454 01:12:35,500 --> 01:12:37,333 You know, now I'm a non-traditional 455 01:12:37,333 --> 01:12:38,416 student at the time. 456 01:12:38,708 --> 01:12:39,500 So, you know, I'm just 457 01:12:39,500 --> 01:12:40,250 trying to make things work. 458 01:12:40,250 --> 01:12:41,791 Don't have, it was so bad. 459 01:12:42,375 --> 01:12:44,958 Well, I'm also having to use the restroom 460 01:12:45,333 --> 01:12:46,166 in the middle of the 461 01:12:46,166 --> 01:12:47,333 floor of the family room 462 01:12:47,333 --> 01:12:48,500 because I can't get to the bathroom. 463 01:12:48,833 --> 01:12:49,833 I literally did not 464 01:12:49,833 --> 01:12:51,916 move from that position, 465 01:12:52,583 --> 01:12:55,125 just writhing in pain all 466 01:12:55,125 --> 01:12:56,708 night long, all the next day. 467 01:12:57,250 --> 01:12:59,333 So I called an ambulance to come get me. 468 01:12:59,333 --> 01:13:00,416 They gave me laughing gas. 469 01:13:00,416 --> 01:13:01,208 They took me down the 470 01:13:01,208 --> 01:13:02,125 stairs in a stretcher. 471 01:13:02,916 --> 01:13:04,958 So when I have these things, 472 01:13:05,500 --> 01:13:08,166 and if you've ever had them, they're bad. 473 01:13:08,791 --> 01:13:09,083 Horrible. 474 01:13:09,458 --> 01:13:11,166 And I don't know, I think everybody says 475 01:13:11,166 --> 01:13:11,625 they have a high 476 01:13:11,625 --> 01:13:12,791 tolerance, pain tolerance. 477 01:13:13,166 --> 01:13:14,666 I have a high pain tolerance. 478 01:13:15,250 --> 01:13:16,541 I mean, I can't feel, whatever. 479 01:13:16,916 --> 01:13:17,708 I have a high pain tolerance. 480 01:13:18,166 --> 01:13:18,708 Yeah, yeah. 481 01:13:19,000 --> 01:13:19,875 These bring me to my 482 01:13:19,875 --> 01:13:21,041 knees, not even to my knees, 483 01:13:21,125 --> 01:13:21,958 prostrate to the ground 484 01:13:21,958 --> 01:13:23,875 for hours, days on end. 485 01:13:24,208 --> 01:13:26,958 So I figured out that laying down on them 486 01:13:26,958 --> 01:13:28,333 was the worst thing I could do. 487 01:13:28,375 --> 01:13:28,666 Yeah. 488 01:13:29,000 --> 01:13:30,500 Like that day was the greatest thing. 489 01:13:30,500 --> 01:13:31,666 They gave me laughing gas. 490 01:13:31,666 --> 01:13:32,708 I got a shot in the butt. 491 01:13:32,708 --> 01:13:33,291 I mean, yeah. 492 01:13:33,875 --> 01:13:34,875 (laughing) So like adrenaline 493 01:13:34,875 --> 01:13:37,125 and all kinds of stuff. 494 01:13:38,458 --> 01:13:39,958 But staying active, 495 01:13:40,416 --> 01:13:42,666 staying loose, walking on it, 496 01:13:42,666 --> 01:13:44,541 trying to keep it loose is what helps. 497 01:13:45,125 --> 01:13:47,041 So if I kept the cameras rolling 498 01:13:47,041 --> 01:13:48,333 after I sit here for 40 499 01:13:48,333 --> 01:13:49,458 minutes and then try to get up, 500 01:13:49,458 --> 01:13:50,208 it would be pretty funny. 501 01:13:50,333 --> 01:13:52,083 It'll look like I'm 98 trying to get up. 502 01:13:52,291 --> 01:13:53,416 Oh, we should try that though. 503 01:13:53,791 --> 01:13:54,500 I'll go for a walk. 504 01:13:54,958 --> 01:13:56,500 We're gonna have to go for a walk, yeah. 505 01:13:56,500 --> 01:13:57,375 And then watching you 506 01:13:57,375 --> 01:13:58,083 get up and you're... 507 01:13:58,375 --> 01:14:00,916 Oh man, you all are gonna be like, 508 01:14:02,166 --> 01:14:03,000 that couple's in trouble. 509 01:14:03,250 --> 01:14:04,208 But you know it now, 510 01:14:04,208 --> 01:14:04,833 because when you did 511 01:14:04,833 --> 01:14:06,500 it, I remember being like, 512 01:14:06,541 --> 01:14:08,000 see, you can't put your 513 01:14:08,000 --> 01:14:08,916 socks on, it's impossible. 514 01:14:09,500 --> 01:14:11,000 You gotta bend your neck, everything. 515 01:14:11,958 --> 01:14:14,583 Well, I say, so I've really only been 516 01:14:14,583 --> 01:14:16,833 through one of these. 517 01:14:16,833 --> 01:14:18,291 I think one of the really bad ones, 518 01:14:18,291 --> 01:14:19,708 we were still living in separate cities. 519 01:14:19,750 --> 01:14:21,125 And so I wasn't there to 520 01:14:21,125 --> 01:14:23,708 see all the nitty gritty. 521 01:14:24,625 --> 01:14:27,250 But I jokingly say that you're the reason 522 01:14:27,250 --> 01:14:29,250 I went into labor with our first one, 523 01:14:29,958 --> 01:14:30,833 our first child, 524 01:14:30,833 --> 01:14:32,708 because you were getting ready 525 01:14:32,708 --> 01:14:34,375 to go to work that day 526 01:14:34,375 --> 01:14:36,250 and I was very pregnant 527 01:14:36,250 --> 01:14:36,916 and you couldn't put 528 01:14:36,916 --> 01:14:37,916 on your socks or shoes. 529 01:14:37,916 --> 01:14:39,583 And so I had to help you 530 01:14:39,583 --> 01:14:41,250 put on your shoes that day. 531 01:14:42,333 --> 01:14:45,541 And just, you know, the physics of being 532 01:14:45,541 --> 01:14:46,500 nine months pregnant, 533 01:14:47,166 --> 01:14:48,125 bending down, trying to 534 01:14:48,125 --> 01:14:50,083 help a man put his shoes on 535 01:14:50,375 --> 01:14:52,041 was probably enough to send me into labor 536 01:14:52,041 --> 01:14:52,875 because I went to the 537 01:14:52,875 --> 01:14:53,625 doctor and they're like, 538 01:14:54,000 --> 01:14:56,333 yeah, you should probably stay here. 539 01:14:57,166 --> 01:14:57,708 You're welcome. 540 01:14:58,083 --> 01:14:58,666 Yeah, yeah. 541 01:14:58,958 --> 01:15:01,041 But then you poor thing, you 542 01:15:01,041 --> 01:15:03,208 had to walk with me for hours. 543 01:15:04,208 --> 01:15:05,125 You know, that's what you do 544 01:15:05,125 --> 01:15:06,500 when you're in labor, you walk. 545 01:15:07,083 --> 01:15:07,625 Yeah, you literally 546 01:15:07,625 --> 01:15:08,583 went into labor that night. 547 01:15:08,875 --> 01:15:10,333 So to make sure people go, 548 01:15:10,333 --> 01:15:11,375 and everybody that's had a kid knows it, 549 01:15:11,375 --> 01:15:12,125 like they tell you, 550 01:15:12,125 --> 01:15:13,125 like, you're not quite ready, 551 01:15:13,375 --> 01:15:14,250 do some laps. Do some laps. 552 01:15:14,875 --> 01:15:15,875 And at one point you're 553 01:15:15,875 --> 01:15:17,833 like, I gotta sit down. 554 01:15:17,875 --> 01:15:18,500 And being a good 555 01:15:18,500 --> 01:15:19,625 supportive husband, I'm like, well, 556 01:15:19,875 --> 01:15:20,791 I mean, obviously I can't 557 01:15:20,791 --> 01:15:21,750 just like send my pregnant, 558 01:15:22,083 --> 01:15:23,750 my nine, my literally giving birth 559 01:15:23,750 --> 01:15:24,708 and the next 24 hours 560 01:15:24,708 --> 01:15:26,500 wife on her own out there. 561 01:15:27,083 --> 01:15:28,833 So I mean-- You walked with me. 562 01:15:28,833 --> 01:15:29,875 You were faster than me. 563 01:15:30,541 --> 01:15:31,500 I'm dragging a leg. 564 01:15:31,791 --> 01:15:32,833 You were, you were. 565 01:15:33,375 --> 01:15:35,291 And then, quite 566 01:15:35,291 --> 01:15:37,833 literally, as I'm giving birth, 567 01:15:39,791 --> 01:15:41,041 the nurses are like, do 568 01:15:41,041 --> 01:15:42,500 you need a place to sit, hon? 569 01:15:42,500 --> 01:15:44,333 You know, they're all about 570 01:15:44,333 --> 01:15:46,458 you and taking care of you. 571 01:15:46,750 --> 01:15:46,958 Very concerned about me. 572 01:15:47,708 --> 01:15:48,250 And like making sure 573 01:15:48,250 --> 01:15:49,166 that you're comfortable. 574 01:15:49,458 --> 01:15:49,958 And I'm like-- 575 01:15:50,125 --> 01:15:50,791 As I'm standing 576 01:15:50,791 --> 01:15:52,375 bedside, but trying, you know. 577 01:15:52,916 --> 01:15:53,333 Trying to-- 578 01:15:53,333 --> 01:15:54,000 Standing straight up 579 01:15:54,000 --> 01:15:55,041 on a hard floor though, 580 01:15:55,416 --> 01:15:57,250 is the worst. Was really, was the worst. 581 01:15:57,958 --> 01:15:58,875 For a long period of 582 01:15:58,875 --> 01:15:59,916 time in the same spot. 583 01:15:59,958 --> 01:16:02,000 Right, which the first is 584 01:16:02,000 --> 01:16:04,708 always a very long process 585 01:16:04,958 --> 01:16:06,000 to get that baby out. 586 01:16:06,375 --> 01:16:10,541 So I just remember being like, hello. 587 01:16:11,333 --> 01:16:15,333 I totally stole your show that night. 588 01:16:15,333 --> 01:16:16,083 It was pretty funny. 589 01:16:16,333 --> 01:16:18,000 Yeah, as you gave birth. 590 01:16:18,291 --> 01:16:18,708 Yeah. 591 01:16:18,791 --> 01:16:19,583 They're more concerned 592 01:16:19,583 --> 01:16:20,708 with my pain than yours. 593 01:16:21,750 --> 01:16:22,500 Well really, because they 594 01:16:22,500 --> 01:16:24,000 see the pain that I had, 595 01:16:24,000 --> 01:16:25,041 they see that all the time. 596 01:16:25,041 --> 01:16:26,125 And they're like, she's gonna be fine. 597 01:16:26,500 --> 01:16:27,500 Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's probably true. 598 01:16:27,541 --> 01:16:28,041 She's fine. 599 01:16:28,583 --> 01:16:29,500 This is just the process. 600 01:16:29,791 --> 01:16:30,000 Yeah. 601 01:16:31,125 --> 01:16:33,583 But this guy, he's in a lot of pain. 602 01:16:33,875 --> 01:16:35,000 You were probably white as a sheet. 603 01:16:35,458 --> 01:16:37,791 I don't really, sadly, 604 01:16:38,000 --> 01:16:38,708 I don't really remember 605 01:16:39,833 --> 01:16:42,458 your face being pale or whatever. 606 01:16:42,458 --> 01:16:43,125 I remember being very 607 01:16:43,125 --> 01:16:44,000 conscious of the fact 608 01:16:44,000 --> 01:16:44,833 that you were in pain and 609 01:16:44,833 --> 01:16:45,791 that this was a sacrifice 610 01:16:46,291 --> 01:16:47,333 for you to be like-- 611 01:16:48,375 --> 01:16:49,125 It's going too far, 612 01:16:49,125 --> 01:16:49,875 it's saying sacrifice. 613 01:16:49,916 --> 01:16:51,458 Well, yeah, yeah, it was very-- 614 01:16:51,666 --> 01:16:53,833 I was in pain, it was uncomfortable. 615 01:16:54,166 --> 01:16:55,041 I was probably grimacing. 616 01:16:55,875 --> 01:16:58,583 I mean, you do what you do. 617 01:16:58,833 --> 01:16:59,541 Anybody else would 618 01:16:59,541 --> 01:17:00,291 have done the same thing. 619 01:17:00,625 --> 01:17:00,833 Oh yeah. 620 01:17:01,500 --> 01:17:02,250 I mean, I did get a 621 01:17:02,250 --> 01:17:03,083 medal of honor for it. 622 01:17:03,083 --> 01:17:03,916 You did, you did. 623 01:17:04,458 --> 01:17:05,791 You got that gold medal. 624 01:17:06,541 --> 01:17:07,791 Gold star, no, I didn't. 625 01:17:07,833 --> 01:17:09,708 And that's why I always 626 01:17:09,708 --> 01:17:11,125 laugh in church, right? 627 01:17:11,666 --> 01:17:13,041 When you have to stand and 628 01:17:13,041 --> 01:17:15,041 sing during the worship period. 629 01:17:15,958 --> 01:17:17,291 I'm swaying back and 630 01:17:17,291 --> 01:17:18,833 forth because I cannot stand 631 01:17:18,833 --> 01:17:20,083 straight up on a hard surface. 632 01:17:20,125 --> 01:17:21,291 Yeah, well I just thought it was 633 01:17:21,291 --> 01:17:22,708 because the spirit was moving you. 634 01:17:23,083 --> 01:17:24,291 Well, that's what I was going with this. 635 01:17:24,541 --> 01:17:26,000 I think people behind us think, 636 01:17:26,000 --> 01:17:27,333 oh man, that guy is into it. 637 01:17:27,333 --> 01:17:29,500 He's got the sway going on. 638 01:17:29,791 --> 01:17:31,166 The spirit is in him. 639 01:17:31,541 --> 01:17:32,041 Praise Jesus. 640 01:17:32,166 --> 01:17:32,750 Praise Jesus. 641 01:17:33,916 --> 01:17:34,083 (laughing) 642 01:17:34,208 --> 01:17:34,458 Holy. 643 01:17:36,041 --> 01:17:36,916 Can I get a witness? 644 01:17:37,125 --> 01:17:38,541 Yeah, no, that's me 645 01:17:38,541 --> 01:17:41,000 keeping my back loose. 646 01:17:41,500 --> 01:17:43,166 Yeah, well, because it's a cement floor. 647 01:17:43,416 --> 01:17:44,791 You're just trying to keep it loose. 648 01:17:45,666 --> 01:17:46,541 People that know know. 649 01:17:46,875 --> 01:17:47,833 Oh yeah, yeah. 650 01:17:47,833 --> 01:17:49,083 You know, it's, and I 651 01:17:49,083 --> 01:17:49,958 don't want to do it again. 652 01:17:50,208 --> 01:17:52,000 It was, my day's a 653 01:17:52,000 --> 01:17:53,125 bit, I guess pulling weeds 654 01:17:53,250 --> 01:17:55,750 and bending over all that 655 01:17:55,750 --> 01:17:56,666 kind of stuff in the backyard. 656 01:17:57,000 --> 01:17:58,000 It's got to come to an 657 01:17:58,000 --> 01:17:59,041 end, I'm getting old for that. 658 01:17:59,833 --> 01:18:02,125 Yeah, or at least a shorter duration. 659 01:18:02,458 --> 01:18:03,541 It would have been helpful 660 01:18:03,541 --> 01:18:04,708 had I been able to help you. 661 01:18:05,250 --> 01:18:07,416 I don't have that bending radius yet. 662 01:18:08,250 --> 01:18:09,875 I mean, I've pulled quite a few weeds. 663 01:18:10,458 --> 01:18:11,375 I can help. 664 01:18:11,750 --> 01:18:13,333 So we could get twice the 665 01:18:13,333 --> 01:18:14,500 work done if I were to help. 666 01:18:15,958 --> 01:18:18,833 Yeah, we're both smiling at each other 667 01:18:18,875 --> 01:18:20,208 because I think 668 01:18:20,208 --> 01:18:20,916 that's one of those things 669 01:18:20,916 --> 01:18:23,041 that you believe that you help a lot in. 670 01:18:23,500 --> 01:18:25,625 No, no, no, I wouldn't say I help a lot, 671 01:18:25,625 --> 01:18:27,083 especially since we've moved here. 672 01:18:27,916 --> 01:18:29,458 I haven't done any yard 673 01:18:29,458 --> 01:18:30,750 work since we've moved here. 674 01:18:31,166 --> 01:18:32,583 It's a big property. 675 01:18:32,583 --> 01:18:33,833 So it would be a shocker 676 01:18:34,208 --> 01:18:35,750 if you actually got out there and helped. 677 01:18:35,791 --> 01:18:36,541 Yeah, I haven't 678 01:18:36,541 --> 01:18:37,708 pulled weed, you're right. 679 01:18:38,000 --> 01:18:38,958 I pulled weeds though at 680 01:18:38,958 --> 01:18:40,666 our house down the street. 681 01:18:40,708 --> 01:18:44,958 Yeah, I don't, I will make sure I say 682 01:18:45,791 --> 01:18:48,125 you pull more than your 683 01:18:48,125 --> 01:18:49,500 weight at this household 684 01:18:49,750 --> 01:18:51,625 that in no way, shape or form say that. 685 01:18:52,791 --> 01:18:53,625 You're lazy about that. 686 01:18:53,958 --> 01:18:55,666 You're busy doing your 687 01:18:55,666 --> 01:18:56,541 own stuff the whole time. 688 01:18:56,958 --> 01:18:57,750 We've always been really 689 01:18:57,750 --> 01:18:58,958 good about divvying up things 690 01:18:59,041 --> 01:19:00,833 and generally speaking, that's one 691 01:19:00,833 --> 01:19:01,916 you don't have a lot of time for. 692 01:19:03,166 --> 01:19:05,000 You don't have a green thumb, 693 01:19:05,000 --> 01:19:06,208 so it's nothing that you enjoy. 694 01:19:06,916 --> 01:19:07,208 No. 695 01:19:07,583 --> 01:19:09,208 But I always get a laugh at it. 696 01:19:09,208 --> 01:19:09,875 Every time you do it, 697 01:19:09,875 --> 01:19:10,708 you've done it for 20 years 698 01:19:10,708 --> 01:19:11,416 that I've known you like, 699 01:19:11,416 --> 01:19:12,666 oh yeah, let's go do weeds. 700 01:19:12,666 --> 01:19:13,250 And I'm like, okay. 701 01:19:13,583 --> 01:19:13,791 Yeah. 702 01:19:14,458 --> 01:19:16,083 I think in your mind, 703 01:19:16,083 --> 01:19:17,416 you're doing more weeding 704 01:19:17,416 --> 01:19:19,000 than you really actually are. 705 01:19:19,250 --> 01:19:20,875 Like springtime, I think I would help, 706 01:19:20,875 --> 01:19:21,416 but it's like the 707 01:19:21,416 --> 01:19:24,208 weeding is like a three season 708 01:19:24,208 --> 01:19:25,916 out of the year kind of a thing. 709 01:19:25,958 --> 01:19:26,750 You gotta keep up on it. 710 01:19:26,791 --> 01:19:27,833 And you gotta keep up on it. 711 01:19:27,833 --> 01:19:29,500 And that's where I fall off. 712 01:19:29,750 --> 01:19:30,833 Like I'm like all gung ho 713 01:19:30,958 --> 01:19:33,041 those first couple really nice weekends. 714 01:19:33,375 --> 01:19:34,000 I'm like, let's pull 715 01:19:34,000 --> 01:19:35,083 weeds and let's mulch. 716 01:19:35,958 --> 01:19:37,458 And then I'm like, okay, we did that 717 01:19:37,458 --> 01:19:39,041 for two, three weekends, I'm good. 718 01:19:39,375 --> 01:19:40,125 Yeah, yeah. 719 01:19:42,041 --> 01:19:42,625 It's not one of those things 720 01:19:42,625 --> 01:19:43,833 you can just kind of be over. 721 01:19:43,833 --> 01:19:44,541 I'm over this one. 722 01:19:45,083 --> 01:19:45,541 Right, right. 723 01:19:45,958 --> 01:19:46,541 It's like, oh, I did 724 01:19:46,541 --> 01:19:49,166 laundry two months ago. 725 01:19:49,208 --> 01:19:49,750 Two months ago. 726 01:19:49,750 --> 01:19:50,333 Do it again? 727 01:19:50,541 --> 01:19:50,916 Yeah. 728 01:19:50,916 --> 01:19:51,583 Yeah, you imagine? 729 01:19:52,208 --> 01:19:52,416 Yeah. 730 01:19:52,708 --> 01:19:54,208 And that is, I mean, I'd be interested 731 01:19:54,416 --> 01:19:55,458 how our listeners kind of 732 01:19:55,458 --> 01:19:57,458 divvy up chores in the house. 733 01:19:58,041 --> 01:20:01,041 Like we have, we kind of 734 01:20:01,041 --> 01:20:02,333 have like a pretty clear line 735 01:20:02,333 --> 01:20:04,916 of like, these are the things you do. 736 01:20:04,916 --> 01:20:06,666 These are the things I usually do. 737 01:20:07,041 --> 01:20:07,583 And then there's a few 738 01:20:07,583 --> 01:20:09,250 things that we do together, but. 739 01:20:09,666 --> 01:20:10,375 And then there's things 740 01:20:10,375 --> 01:20:11,625 that we pay people to do. 741 01:20:11,625 --> 01:20:12,375 And then there's things 742 01:20:12,375 --> 01:20:13,166 that we pay people to do. 743 01:20:13,541 --> 01:20:14,791 Which gets longer and 744 01:20:14,791 --> 01:20:16,416 longer and longer every year. 745 01:20:16,416 --> 01:20:16,875 And now. 746 01:20:17,166 --> 01:20:18,541 It's gonna get even longer. 747 01:20:18,541 --> 01:20:19,791 Well, it's gonna get even longer, yeah. 748 01:20:19,791 --> 01:20:20,208 We're gonna get some 749 01:20:20,208 --> 01:20:21,583 people to weed for us. 750 01:20:21,833 --> 01:20:22,000 Fantastic. 751 01:20:24,750 --> 01:20:26,041 It's just, you just put 752 01:20:26,041 --> 01:20:27,000 more things on that list 753 01:20:27,125 --> 01:20:28,500 until you're in an old person's home 754 01:20:28,500 --> 01:20:29,375 and you're paying people to 755 01:20:29,375 --> 01:20:30,166 help you go to the bathroom. 756 01:20:30,666 --> 01:20:31,583 That's just where it ends. 757 01:20:31,958 --> 01:20:33,333 And we're about halfway down that list. 758 01:20:33,625 --> 01:20:34,083 We are. 759 01:20:35,625 --> 01:20:36,416 Oh man, if they start 760 01:20:36,416 --> 01:20:37,583 helping us go to the bathroom, 761 01:20:37,583 --> 01:20:38,416 we're in trouble. 762 01:20:38,916 --> 01:20:39,666 Yeah, I mean. 763 01:20:40,333 --> 01:20:40,583 Yeah. 764 01:20:41,000 --> 01:20:42,083 Yeah, don't, yeah. 765 01:20:43,458 --> 01:20:44,166 Well, cause we've tried 766 01:20:44,166 --> 01:20:45,041 to have our kids help. 767 01:20:45,625 --> 01:20:46,208 Help with what? 768 01:20:46,541 --> 01:20:47,375 Like some of the. 769 01:20:47,375 --> 01:20:48,500 Let's be clear what we're help. 770 01:20:48,500 --> 01:20:49,458 Not going to the bathroom. 771 01:20:49,500 --> 01:20:50,416 Not going to the bathroom. 772 01:20:50,416 --> 01:20:51,708 Gosh, they've never, no. 773 01:20:52,250 --> 01:20:54,041 But like the weeding, 774 01:20:54,583 --> 01:20:56,041 wasn't it a couple of weeks ago, 775 01:20:56,083 --> 01:20:58,750 I was, where was I? 776 01:20:58,750 --> 01:21:00,291 Cause I can't really go outside. 777 01:21:00,291 --> 01:21:01,833 You were probably weeding, helping honey. 778 01:21:02,041 --> 01:21:02,833 I was, yeah. 779 01:21:02,875 --> 01:21:03,833 You know how much you like to do that? 780 01:21:04,458 --> 01:21:05,333 Such a help on it. 781 01:21:05,375 --> 01:21:05,916 Such a help. 782 01:21:06,416 --> 01:21:07,333 You had the kids doing 783 01:21:07,333 --> 01:21:08,583 hard labor outside though. 784 01:21:09,333 --> 01:21:10,458 Just a few weekends ago. 785 01:21:11,000 --> 01:21:12,708 I honestly don't remember where I was. 786 01:21:12,708 --> 01:21:13,750 Well, our oldest is still 787 01:21:13,750 --> 01:21:15,375 paying off from the hood, 788 01:21:15,583 --> 01:21:16,875 the $600 hood that we had 789 01:21:16,875 --> 01:21:17,958 to replace on somebody's car. 790 01:21:18,833 --> 01:21:21,000 Quick side note story here. 791 01:21:21,750 --> 01:21:24,916 Eight months ago, our oldest is blazing 792 01:21:25,666 --> 01:21:27,000 down a little hill 793 01:21:27,000 --> 01:21:27,916 right next to our house, 794 01:21:27,958 --> 01:21:30,125 literally 300 feet down the street. 795 01:21:30,583 --> 01:21:32,500 It's a hill down to a T intersection 796 01:21:33,125 --> 01:21:34,666 that to one side is a 797 01:21:34,666 --> 01:21:35,791 cul-de-sac and the other side, 798 01:21:35,791 --> 01:21:37,750 I mean, it's not heavily used. 799 01:21:37,750 --> 01:21:38,041 No, it's not. 800 01:21:38,083 --> 01:21:39,416 Especially from the cul-de-sac one. 801 01:21:39,791 --> 01:21:41,000 No, no. 802 01:21:41,041 --> 01:21:42,833 Long story short, I mean, 803 01:21:43,166 --> 01:21:44,166 when do we teach our oldest 804 01:21:44,166 --> 01:21:45,750 to look both ways in crossing the street? 805 01:21:46,083 --> 01:21:46,500 I don't know. 806 01:21:46,500 --> 01:21:47,666 I think that's been a standard rule 807 01:21:47,666 --> 01:21:49,416 since he learned to follow directions. 808 01:21:49,541 --> 01:21:50,791 Yeah, I think so. 809 01:21:50,791 --> 01:21:51,833 Most kids know that by 810 01:21:51,833 --> 01:21:52,750 the time they're walking. 811 01:21:53,125 --> 01:21:53,708 Yeah, yeah. 812 01:21:54,250 --> 01:21:56,041 Anyways, he didn't do this on a bike 813 01:21:56,291 --> 01:21:59,916 and he ran head first into a moving car. 814 01:21:59,958 --> 01:22:00,625 Yes, he did. 815 01:22:00,625 --> 01:22:01,333 On the street. 816 01:22:01,958 --> 01:22:04,583 He went over the handlebars, landed. 817 01:22:04,958 --> 01:22:06,166 He's fine, a little scuffed up. 818 01:22:06,500 --> 01:22:07,541 Hopefully learned a lesson. 819 01:22:08,083 --> 01:22:08,416 Yeah. 820 01:22:08,458 --> 01:22:11,708 But bent in the front wheel of his bike 821 01:22:11,833 --> 01:22:14,916 and same thing with this person's hood. 822 01:22:15,208 --> 01:22:20,750 Yep, so we agreed to help with the cost 823 01:22:20,750 --> 01:22:21,625 of the hood of the car. 824 01:22:23,041 --> 01:22:24,875 Of course, our youngest is traumatized. 825 01:22:25,291 --> 01:22:26,041 I don't think he's 826 01:22:26,041 --> 01:22:27,083 ridden his bike since then 827 01:22:27,083 --> 01:22:28,250 because he watched the whole thing. 828 01:22:30,500 --> 01:22:33,583 That's always a very unsettling thing 829 01:22:33,625 --> 01:22:34,666 when your youngest 830 01:22:34,666 --> 01:22:36,041 comes home and is like, 831 01:22:37,291 --> 01:22:38,875 my brother just got hit by a car. 832 01:22:41,416 --> 01:22:42,875 It doesn't help the same hill. 833 01:22:43,333 --> 01:22:44,458 A year earlier, he went 834 01:22:44,458 --> 01:22:45,750 down there and his brakes-- 835 01:22:46,333 --> 01:22:47,250 Oh, the little one. 836 01:22:47,291 --> 01:22:48,125 Veiled, yeah, our youngest. 837 01:22:48,791 --> 01:22:50,583 Why he was already 838 01:22:50,583 --> 01:22:51,875 traumatized by that hill. 839 01:22:52,250 --> 01:22:52,333 Yes. 840 01:22:52,375 --> 01:22:54,375 And that just took it to the next level. 841 01:22:54,791 --> 01:22:55,958 And he hasn't gotten on his bike since. 842 01:22:56,916 --> 01:22:57,958 Early's gone down that hill. 843 01:22:57,958 --> 01:22:59,500 His brakes failed going down 844 01:22:59,500 --> 01:23:00,833 and he ended up getting 845 01:23:00,833 --> 01:23:03,000 stopped by the trash cans 846 01:23:03,000 --> 01:23:04,333 when we're out. 847 01:23:05,541 --> 01:23:07,416 I still think it was a sabotage deal, 848 01:23:07,791 --> 01:23:11,375 but someone cut his brake lines. 849 01:23:13,375 --> 01:23:14,333 Insurance money or something. 850 01:23:15,416 --> 01:23:16,625 They went out and he 851 01:23:16,625 --> 01:23:17,666 just went straight in, 852 01:23:17,708 --> 01:23:19,083 yelling straight into the-- 853 01:23:19,083 --> 01:23:20,208 I mean, actually, 854 01:23:20,500 --> 01:23:21,416 thank God it was trash day 855 01:23:21,500 --> 01:23:23,041 because he ran into some 856 01:23:23,041 --> 01:23:25,291 big plastic trash cans. 857 01:23:25,291 --> 01:23:27,583 Trash cans instead of a brick house. 858 01:23:27,583 --> 01:23:29,208 At full speed going 859 01:23:29,208 --> 01:23:29,875 down that little hill. 860 01:23:29,875 --> 01:23:30,500 So anyways, yeah. 861 01:23:31,375 --> 01:23:33,125 And we've had some trauma in our family 862 01:23:33,125 --> 01:23:34,083 because that's where my 863 01:23:34,083 --> 01:23:35,375 scar on my chin came from. 864 01:23:35,375 --> 01:23:36,458 Most people can't see that, 865 01:23:36,750 --> 01:23:39,416 but I had 11 stitches before they knew 866 01:23:39,416 --> 01:23:40,958 how to do stitches back in the day, 867 01:23:40,958 --> 01:23:42,458 so I still have a nice scar on my chin. 868 01:23:42,500 --> 01:23:44,166 Yeah, it's a pretty wicked scar. 869 01:23:44,833 --> 01:23:46,541 And that's from riding a 870 01:23:46,541 --> 01:23:49,083 bike down a hill one more time. 871 01:23:49,541 --> 01:23:50,500 My mom's like, "Hey, 872 01:23:50,916 --> 01:23:51,666 we're going somewhere." 873 01:23:51,916 --> 01:23:53,375 And I said, "One more time, of course." 874 01:23:53,958 --> 01:23:55,666 Ran down the hill, little jump in the-- 875 01:23:55,750 --> 01:23:56,916 Isn't that always how it happens? 876 01:23:56,958 --> 01:23:57,666 It's always how it happens. 877 01:23:57,916 --> 01:23:59,208 It's always the one more time. 878 01:23:59,500 --> 01:24:00,583 Yeah, I was trying to do 879 01:24:00,583 --> 01:24:02,208 a jump at the bottom of it 880 01:24:02,208 --> 01:24:02,625 because it was a nice 881 01:24:02,625 --> 01:24:03,625 little dip down there. 882 01:24:04,375 --> 01:24:06,291 Not only did I catch air, 883 01:24:06,291 --> 01:24:07,250 but I jumped off my bike 884 01:24:07,250 --> 01:24:08,666 same time, landed right on my chin. 885 01:24:10,291 --> 01:24:10,541 Wow. 886 01:24:10,958 --> 01:24:11,250 I can't remember if 887 01:24:11,250 --> 01:24:12,666 that was 11 or 14 stitches. 888 01:24:12,666 --> 01:24:13,208 I had a couple. 889 01:24:13,833 --> 01:24:15,375 Yeah, and that's a pretty wicked one. 890 01:24:17,041 --> 01:24:18,375 Our youngest has had the same-- 891 01:24:18,958 --> 01:24:20,166 They've gotten better at stitches, 892 01:24:20,166 --> 01:24:21,291 because his little-- 893 01:24:21,375 --> 01:24:22,041 He had half the 894 01:24:22,041 --> 01:24:23,958 stitches, but he has no scar now. 895 01:24:23,958 --> 01:24:24,416 He has no scar. Already. 896 01:24:24,916 --> 01:24:25,750 Or, I mean, it's right. 897 01:24:25,750 --> 01:24:26,708 You can't see it. 898 01:24:27,125 --> 01:24:28,041 And it's-- Yeah. 899 01:24:28,375 --> 01:24:29,416 Yeah, his was just, 900 01:24:29,833 --> 01:24:32,500 someone landed on him at daycare. 901 01:24:32,500 --> 01:24:34,458 I remember, I get a call from daycare, 902 01:24:34,458 --> 01:24:36,208 and they're like, "You're gonna have to 903 01:24:36,208 --> 01:24:37,166 come pick your son up. 904 01:24:37,166 --> 01:24:38,458 Like, he needs stitches." 905 01:24:38,458 --> 01:24:40,583 And I'm like, "Show me a pic." 906 01:24:40,583 --> 01:24:41,166 I'm thinking that 907 01:24:41,166 --> 01:24:42,500 they're overreacting, right? 908 01:24:42,541 --> 01:24:42,833 Yeah. 909 01:24:43,291 --> 01:24:43,708 I was like, "Can you 910 01:24:43,708 --> 01:24:44,500 just send me a picture? 911 01:24:44,500 --> 01:24:45,291 I'm on my way, but can 912 01:24:45,291 --> 01:24:46,208 you send me a picture?" 913 01:24:46,333 --> 01:24:46,541 Yeah. 914 01:24:47,166 --> 01:24:50,000 And it is a gash that you could measure. 915 01:24:50,000 --> 01:24:52,000 And I was like, "I 916 01:24:52,000 --> 01:24:53,000 will go a little faster." 917 01:24:53,916 --> 01:24:54,916 Yeah. But that one was pretty-- 918 01:24:55,291 --> 01:24:56,791 He wasn't doing anything bad, 919 01:24:57,000 --> 01:24:58,666 or his friend didn't mean to hurt him. 920 01:24:58,708 --> 01:25:00,708 Yeah, straight down to the tile floor. 921 01:25:00,708 --> 01:25:02,000 Yeah, straight down to the tile floor. 922 01:25:02,625 --> 01:25:03,833 And what, four years 923 01:25:03,833 --> 01:25:04,791 old, three years old? 924 01:25:04,833 --> 01:25:05,333 Yeah, three. 925 01:25:05,666 --> 01:25:07,041 Yeah, three, three. 926 01:25:07,041 --> 01:25:07,916 He was still up there. 927 01:25:07,958 --> 01:25:08,791 He was, yeah. 928 01:25:09,291 --> 01:25:10,458 Yeah, because the poor kid, 929 01:25:10,458 --> 01:25:11,666 as he was getting stitches, 930 01:25:11,666 --> 01:25:14,166 he's like yelling, "I have a gold potty." 931 01:25:15,208 --> 01:25:15,791 And he was like 932 01:25:15,791 --> 01:25:17,000 strapped down at that time, 933 01:25:17,083 --> 01:25:18,291 and literally she was sewing, 934 01:25:18,625 --> 01:25:19,750 and we were like, "Just 935 01:25:19,750 --> 01:25:21,500 go in your pants, buddy." 936 01:25:22,125 --> 01:25:24,125 And he was, yeah, poor kiddo. 937 01:25:24,125 --> 01:25:25,041 Was that how they made him do? 938 01:25:25,208 --> 01:25:26,083 Because I wasn't there for that. 939 01:25:26,083 --> 01:25:26,666 Where was I? 940 01:25:26,666 --> 01:25:28,458 You were with the two older kids 941 01:25:28,458 --> 01:25:29,833 out in the waiting room, yeah. 942 01:25:30,375 --> 01:25:31,625 Oh, I'd got there, I showed up late. 943 01:25:31,916 --> 01:25:32,750 You showed up late. And I was with them. 944 01:25:32,958 --> 01:25:34,000 That's right. Yep, yep. 945 01:25:34,083 --> 01:25:34,958 And you were inside there. 946 01:25:35,000 --> 01:25:36,750 Yeah, so I think you were just, 947 01:25:37,708 --> 01:25:38,291 you were man on the 948 01:25:38,291 --> 01:25:39,125 fort with the other two. 949 01:25:39,541 --> 01:25:40,458 I felt so bad. 950 01:25:41,000 --> 01:25:42,208 Well, they've come a long ways on that. 951 01:25:42,208 --> 01:25:43,458 We were talking about, just today, 952 01:25:43,458 --> 01:25:45,166 you're looking at your incisions, 953 01:25:45,958 --> 01:25:46,416 and I don't think 954 01:25:46,416 --> 01:25:48,625 you're gonna have any scars. 955 01:25:49,875 --> 01:25:53,208 No, it'll be so, within three years, 956 01:25:53,208 --> 01:25:54,083 I will have zero scars. 957 01:25:54,333 --> 01:25:55,333 Maybe in a year, I'll have 958 01:25:55,333 --> 01:25:56,666 just these teeny tiny ones. 959 01:25:57,083 --> 01:26:00,208 I mean, the surgeon was saying, 960 01:26:00,208 --> 01:26:00,875 he's like, "I like to 961 01:26:00,875 --> 01:26:02,458 channel my inner plastic surgeon." 962 01:26:03,125 --> 01:26:05,000 And he gave me internal sutures. 963 01:26:05,666 --> 01:26:06,250 It's like, I don't even 964 01:26:06,250 --> 01:26:08,208 have external stitches. 965 01:26:09,291 --> 01:26:12,291 So this is one of those things, again, 966 01:26:12,541 --> 01:26:13,750 we're getting to that age where, 967 01:26:14,666 --> 01:26:15,875 and I've been there for a while now, 968 01:26:15,875 --> 01:26:16,833 it's like, when I was younger. 969 01:26:18,625 --> 01:26:18,666 (laughing) 970 01:26:18,666 --> 01:26:19,666 This could be a segment, 971 01:26:19,666 --> 01:26:20,875 this could be a segment of the show, 972 01:26:20,875 --> 01:26:22,458 recurring one, like, "When I was younger, 973 01:26:22,458 --> 01:26:23,625 "we didn't have this, we did this." 974 01:26:24,125 --> 01:26:26,125 But does anybody get staples anymore? 975 01:26:26,625 --> 01:26:27,000 Do you know? 976 01:26:27,791 --> 01:26:28,416 I think so. 977 01:26:28,875 --> 01:26:30,333 People do get staples, okay. 978 01:26:30,333 --> 01:26:32,291 Well, I mean, I think so. 979 01:26:33,083 --> 01:26:33,833 Because I've got all these 980 01:26:33,833 --> 01:26:35,458 scars on my lower legs, right? 981 01:26:36,000 --> 01:26:38,750 That's what ended my college career. 982 01:26:39,375 --> 01:26:40,291 I call it a career, 983 01:26:40,291 --> 01:26:41,000 but, you know, I mean, 984 01:26:42,041 --> 01:26:43,041 it ended my college 985 01:26:43,041 --> 01:26:44,291 playing basketball days. 986 01:26:44,375 --> 01:26:45,000 Yeah, yeah. 987 01:26:45,000 --> 01:26:47,833 Was I had surgeries 988 01:26:47,833 --> 01:26:49,166 on both my lower legs. 989 01:26:49,416 --> 01:26:50,500 One of them, a nerve was 990 01:26:50,500 --> 01:26:51,958 cut, and there was an issue, 991 01:26:51,958 --> 01:26:53,125 and there was a long-standing medical 992 01:26:53,125 --> 01:26:54,958 follow-up after that. 993 01:26:54,958 --> 01:26:55,958 But because of that, and there was 994 01:26:55,958 --> 01:26:56,958 exploratory surgeries, 995 01:26:56,958 --> 01:26:57,583 they'd go and reopen 996 01:26:57,583 --> 01:26:58,750 it multiple times, but-- 997 01:26:58,875 --> 01:26:59,666 It makes me knee hurt 998 01:26:59,666 --> 01:27:00,583 to even talk about-- 999 01:27:00,625 --> 01:27:02,750 I remember when they opened it up 1000 01:27:03,375 --> 01:27:04,541 for the big exploratory 1001 01:27:04,541 --> 01:27:05,750 one, trying to fix the nerve 1002 01:27:06,500 --> 01:27:07,666 in my lower leg, 1003 01:27:08,916 --> 01:27:14,041 they used staples to close it up, 1004 01:27:14,458 --> 01:27:15,291 and I had like 20 1005 01:27:15,291 --> 01:27:17,458 staples going down my leg, 1006 01:27:17,458 --> 01:27:19,708 and it's like, I got a big 1007 01:27:19,708 --> 01:27:20,833 old nasty scar from that now. 1008 01:27:20,833 --> 01:27:21,541 You do, mm-hmm. 1009 01:27:21,958 --> 01:27:23,666 I mean, do they not think 1010 01:27:23,666 --> 01:27:24,666 of that kind of thing then? 1011 01:27:25,125 --> 01:27:26,708 Or is this, because it was a different, 1012 01:27:27,375 --> 01:27:28,625 no, I was the same doctor then. 1013 01:27:28,958 --> 01:27:30,416 I ended up suing this guy, I mean, 1014 01:27:30,416 --> 01:27:31,250 it's not like I didn't 1015 01:27:31,250 --> 01:27:32,208 make any money off of it. 1016 01:27:32,666 --> 01:27:34,333 I did, but such a minimal 1017 01:27:34,333 --> 01:27:35,291 amount that it was ridiculous. 1018 01:27:36,750 --> 01:27:39,875 For losing my basketball scholarship, 1019 01:27:40,333 --> 01:27:41,333 I never played again 1020 01:27:41,333 --> 01:27:43,333 after that at a high level. 1021 01:27:43,833 --> 01:27:45,250 At least, organized. 1022 01:27:46,333 --> 01:27:48,500 I have permanent nerve damage down there. 1023 01:27:49,583 --> 01:27:51,500 And now I have a nice scar from it too. 1024 01:27:52,000 --> 01:27:53,375 That was a big tangent there too. 1025 01:27:53,958 --> 01:27:54,583 When I was young, 1026 01:27:55,333 --> 01:27:56,333 they still used staples, 1027 01:27:57,333 --> 01:27:58,750 and they didn't care about cosmetic, 1028 01:27:59,208 --> 01:28:00,375 not having a big old scar, 1029 01:28:00,375 --> 01:28:01,166 because I've got scars 1030 01:28:01,166 --> 01:28:04,041 all over from the few times 1031 01:28:04,125 --> 01:28:07,708 I've had either staples or stitches. 1032 01:28:08,083 --> 01:28:09,000 Mm-hmm, mm-hmm. 1033 01:28:10,125 --> 01:28:10,958 And I don't know, I think 1034 01:28:10,958 --> 01:28:12,791 they do use staples sometimes, 1035 01:28:12,791 --> 01:28:14,083 but I think there is, 1036 01:28:15,250 --> 01:28:17,750 medicine has progressed to a point 1037 01:28:17,750 --> 01:28:19,333 that they don't always have to. 1038 01:28:19,333 --> 01:28:20,875 I mean, I remember even 1039 01:28:20,875 --> 01:28:23,000 when our youngest cut his chin, 1040 01:28:23,458 --> 01:28:26,125 it was such a clean cut that it was like, 1041 01:28:26,125 --> 01:28:26,833 well, maybe they can 1042 01:28:26,833 --> 01:28:28,291 glue that close, you know? 1043 01:28:28,875 --> 01:28:29,833 And I was too wide. 1044 01:28:30,833 --> 01:28:34,750 (laughs) But yeah, it's amazing what they do. 1045 01:28:34,916 --> 01:28:37,000 Yeah. Like, I don't know. 1046 01:28:38,916 --> 01:28:40,791 I mean, I know my sister 1047 01:28:40,791 --> 01:28:42,750 had similar surgery to me, 1048 01:28:42,750 --> 01:28:44,625 and she has a massive scar on her knee. 1049 01:28:44,666 --> 01:28:45,833 I was just gonna bring that up, yeah. 1050 01:28:46,166 --> 01:28:47,000 I don't know what 1051 01:28:47,000 --> 01:28:49,000 extent of her injury was, 1052 01:28:49,000 --> 01:28:50,541 but I know yours, you know, you checked 1053 01:28:50,541 --> 01:28:51,416 at least three boxes 1054 01:28:51,625 --> 01:28:52,416 of things that had to be 1055 01:28:52,416 --> 01:28:53,541 fixed while they were in there. 1056 01:28:53,583 --> 01:28:55,916 Yeah, yeah, and she had two, 1057 01:28:56,708 --> 01:28:58,958 but I mean, she has a big old scar. 1058 01:28:58,958 --> 01:29:00,291 Yeah, they opened her up. Mm-hmm. 1059 01:29:00,375 --> 01:29:02,875 So, five little incisions for you. 1060 01:29:03,250 --> 01:29:04,166 Yeah, and again, I 1061 01:29:04,166 --> 01:29:05,416 don't know how much more 1062 01:29:05,541 --> 01:29:07,083 or less damage, but 1063 01:29:07,083 --> 01:29:09,250 still, it's just crazy how, 1064 01:29:09,875 --> 01:29:10,500 well, and even when I 1065 01:29:10,500 --> 01:29:12,000 was talking to someone 1066 01:29:12,166 --> 01:29:15,333 about this surgery, this person told me 1067 01:29:15,333 --> 01:29:16,000 it was the worst pain 1068 01:29:16,000 --> 01:29:17,250 she's ever had in her whole life. 1069 01:29:17,250 --> 01:29:17,708 She's like, "I've had 1070 01:29:17,708 --> 01:29:18,458 multiple surgeries." 1071 01:29:18,833 --> 01:29:21,000 So for the record, don't do this. 1072 01:29:21,000 --> 01:29:21,500 Don't do this. 1073 01:29:21,541 --> 01:29:22,416 This person still 1074 01:29:22,416 --> 01:29:23,500 thinks she's in the right. 1075 01:29:23,500 --> 01:29:24,291 Like, I just wanted to 1076 01:29:24,291 --> 01:29:25,458 bring you back to reality. 1077 01:29:25,750 --> 01:29:27,291 Yeah, because I was like, "Oh, you know, 1078 01:29:27,291 --> 01:29:28,333 "I'll probably, I'll 1079 01:29:28,333 --> 01:29:29,625 be fine, it's all good." 1080 01:29:30,125 --> 01:29:31,125 Part of it was I kept saying 1081 01:29:31,125 --> 01:29:32,458 these things for my own self 1082 01:29:32,583 --> 01:29:33,958 because-- You were staying positive. 1083 01:29:33,958 --> 01:29:34,458 I was trying to stay 1084 01:29:34,458 --> 01:29:35,916 positive and because-- 1085 01:29:36,333 --> 01:29:37,916 Try not to freak yourself out. 1086 01:29:38,125 --> 01:29:39,958 Right, like, because I don't know. 1087 01:29:39,958 --> 01:29:42,833 It's scary enough going into surgery, 1088 01:29:43,208 --> 01:29:44,875 even if it is a routine surgery. 1089 01:29:45,375 --> 01:29:46,875 There's a lot of unknowns, and so I was, 1090 01:29:47,250 --> 01:29:48,875 I kept being positive 1091 01:29:48,875 --> 01:29:51,666 for my own self to be like, 1092 01:29:51,666 --> 01:29:53,208 "I got this, I can do this." 1093 01:29:53,208 --> 01:29:54,208 She's like, "It was the 1094 01:29:54,208 --> 01:29:55,500 worst pain I've ever had. 1095 01:29:55,500 --> 01:29:56,875 "I've had multiple surgeries. 1096 01:29:56,875 --> 01:29:58,333 "I've never felt anything this bad." 1097 01:29:59,416 --> 01:30:00,625 And I was like, "What?" 1098 01:30:00,625 --> 01:30:01,500 And I did ask her at 1099 01:30:01,500 --> 01:30:02,083 the time, I was like, 1100 01:30:02,083 --> 01:30:03,666 "When did you have this done?" 1101 01:30:04,625 --> 01:30:05,416 She was like, "2008." 1102 01:30:06,250 --> 01:30:08,208 And I was like, "Okay, that 1103 01:30:08,208 --> 01:30:09,541 was a long time ago, 2008." 1104 01:30:10,708 --> 01:30:11,375 Believe it or not, it 1105 01:30:11,375 --> 01:30:12,791 was a really long time ago. 1106 01:30:13,500 --> 01:30:14,666 And so I'm like, 1107 01:30:14,666 --> 01:30:16,333 "Well, medicine's probably 1108 01:30:16,333 --> 01:30:18,666 "come a long way, I hope." 1109 01:30:19,833 --> 01:30:21,416 Yeah, and that's bad, but 1110 01:30:21,416 --> 01:30:23,166 I think her justification, 1111 01:30:23,750 --> 01:30:25,500 even after the fact, that's 1112 01:30:25,500 --> 01:30:27,416 almost worse of what she said. 1113 01:30:27,458 --> 01:30:28,833 I know. Tell them what she said. 1114 01:30:29,666 --> 01:30:30,958 She's like, "You were 1115 01:30:30,958 --> 01:30:32,625 just being so positive 1116 01:30:32,791 --> 01:30:36,250 "and so blase about it, I just wanted you 1117 01:30:36,250 --> 01:30:37,583 "to have a dose of reality." 1118 01:30:38,625 --> 01:30:41,041 And who gave her, who, 1119 01:30:41,083 --> 01:30:42,625 I mean, who named her 1120 01:30:43,000 --> 01:30:44,500 the reality queen of America? 1121 01:30:44,791 --> 01:30:46,125 I just need to make sure everybody's feet 1122 01:30:46,125 --> 01:30:47,000 are on the ground here. 1123 01:30:47,458 --> 01:30:49,125 Don't you dare have a positive attitude 1124 01:30:49,125 --> 01:30:49,916 going to something that 1125 01:30:49,916 --> 01:30:51,541 could just ruin your life. 1126 01:30:52,291 --> 01:30:53,000 What if they cut an 1127 01:30:53,000 --> 01:30:54,125 artery and you lose a leg? 1128 01:30:55,000 --> 01:30:55,583 It's happened. 1129 01:30:56,083 --> 01:30:57,666 I mean, you got a name for that lady. 1130 01:30:58,916 --> 01:30:59,916 Aww. Aww. 1131 01:31:01,833 --> 01:31:02,916 Debbie Downer. 1132 01:31:04,333 --> 01:31:06,666 Jeez, I mean, I know. 1133 01:31:06,666 --> 01:31:06,875 It's just-- 1134 01:31:07,708 --> 01:31:09,166 That bugged me, 1135 01:31:09,166 --> 01:31:10,250 though, that somebody took it 1136 01:31:10,250 --> 01:31:12,333 upon themselves to be like, "You're just 1137 01:31:12,333 --> 01:31:13,125 being too positive." 1138 01:31:13,416 --> 01:31:13,833 Yeah. 1139 01:31:14,250 --> 01:31:16,125 "I need to give you a dose of reality, 1140 01:31:16,125 --> 01:31:17,208 "bring you back down to the--" 1141 01:31:17,625 --> 01:31:19,500 Yeah, because it honestly sent me to-- 1142 01:31:20,333 --> 01:31:21,541 Because it changed the way you thought. 1143 01:31:21,541 --> 01:31:22,875 It made you nervous again. 1144 01:31:22,916 --> 01:31:24,250 I was terrified. 1145 01:31:24,541 --> 01:31:25,791 In that instant, my 1146 01:31:25,791 --> 01:31:28,000 instinct was to call and cancel 1147 01:31:28,291 --> 01:31:30,541 and make up some excuse to cancel. 1148 01:31:30,541 --> 01:31:33,833 Now, logic pulled through and I was like, 1149 01:31:33,833 --> 01:31:35,375 "You can't do that. 1150 01:31:35,416 --> 01:31:36,958 "That's absolutely stupid." 1151 01:31:37,416 --> 01:31:40,583 But for that split second, I wanted, 1152 01:31:41,416 --> 01:31:43,916 my reaction was to run and avoid. 1153 01:31:44,625 --> 01:31:45,708 Because it scared me. 1154 01:31:46,541 --> 01:31:50,625 But anyway, it is what it is. 1155 01:31:50,625 --> 01:31:53,083 But I mean, yeah, I think the injuries 1156 01:31:53,375 --> 01:31:55,166 have just, I don't 1157 01:31:55,166 --> 01:31:56,125 know, hopefully we can, 1158 01:31:56,375 --> 01:31:57,000 hopefully your back 1159 01:31:57,000 --> 01:31:58,958 isn't, it doesn't seem to be 1160 01:31:59,208 --> 01:32:01,875 one of those high watermark, 1161 01:32:02,208 --> 01:32:04,000 super, super horrible ones yet. 1162 01:32:04,791 --> 01:32:06,375 But you're definitely uncomfortable. 1163 01:32:07,458 --> 01:32:08,041 Yeah, I'm uncomfortable. 1164 01:32:08,250 --> 01:32:09,583 It's one of those things where, I mean, 1165 01:32:10,208 --> 01:32:11,000 it's gonna go one way 1166 01:32:11,000 --> 01:32:12,208 or the other, right? 1167 01:32:12,208 --> 01:32:13,333 And sometimes you just don't know. 1168 01:32:13,333 --> 01:32:14,416 Sometimes another little 1169 01:32:14,416 --> 01:32:15,750 tweak just sends it over the edge 1170 01:32:15,750 --> 01:32:18,125 and then it's two weeks till 1171 01:32:18,125 --> 01:32:19,416 your back to moving normal. 1172 01:32:20,583 --> 01:32:23,500 So I will ask though, what is worse, 1173 01:32:24,666 --> 01:32:26,375 back spasms or kidney stones? 1174 01:32:27,250 --> 01:32:27,541 Kidney stones. 1175 01:32:28,041 --> 01:32:28,750 Yeah, okay. 1176 01:32:29,083 --> 01:32:30,083 Kidney stones are the worst. 1177 01:32:30,541 --> 01:32:32,916 I mean, the last time I had them, 1178 01:32:32,916 --> 01:32:34,916 I think I said to you in one of those, 1179 01:32:34,916 --> 01:32:36,208 and it was like, it took me 1180 01:32:36,208 --> 01:32:38,541 four days to pass these ones. 1181 01:32:39,250 --> 01:32:40,750 And I remember saying like, 1182 01:32:40,750 --> 01:32:42,208 I can understand why people just wanna, 1183 01:32:43,000 --> 01:32:44,791 if you're in the worst 1184 01:32:44,791 --> 01:32:46,041 pain you've ever been in 1185 01:32:46,333 --> 01:32:47,666 for an extended period of time, 1186 01:32:48,375 --> 01:32:49,541 I literally said, I can see 1187 01:32:49,541 --> 01:32:50,833 how people might just say, 1188 01:32:51,000 --> 01:32:51,875 I'll call it a day. 1189 01:32:52,500 --> 01:32:53,541 Like, it's been a good life. 1190 01:32:54,000 --> 01:32:55,750 And I wasn't ready to call it a day then, 1191 01:32:55,750 --> 01:32:56,625 but I mean, because I 1192 01:32:56,625 --> 01:32:57,500 knew this would pass. 1193 01:32:58,291 --> 01:32:59,500 But at that moment I was like, 1194 01:32:59,500 --> 01:33:00,833 I can see living in 1195 01:33:00,833 --> 01:33:02,416 that kind of pain for, 1196 01:33:02,625 --> 01:33:03,333 and at that point it 1197 01:33:03,333 --> 01:33:04,208 had just been four days. 1198 01:33:04,208 --> 01:33:05,000 It had been four days. 1199 01:33:05,000 --> 01:33:06,416 So I mean, I was short of 100 hours 1200 01:33:06,416 --> 01:33:09,041 of just pure, exhausting pain. 1201 01:33:09,500 --> 01:33:10,208 That was rolling. 1202 01:33:10,666 --> 01:33:11,750 Don't get me wrong, it was rolling, 1203 01:33:12,708 --> 01:33:13,750 but it was rolling, I mean. 1204 01:33:14,208 --> 01:33:15,541 It was, I mean, it was crippling. 1205 01:33:15,583 --> 01:33:16,083 We saw it. 1206 01:33:16,083 --> 01:33:17,375 It was crippling, yeah. 1207 01:33:17,416 --> 01:33:20,125 So no, back spasms, I don't wanna pick, 1208 01:33:20,125 --> 01:33:20,708 I don't wanna have to 1209 01:33:20,708 --> 01:33:21,791 pick one or the other, but. 1210 01:33:22,125 --> 01:33:22,750 I was just curious. 1211 01:33:24,000 --> 01:33:24,458 Not even close. 1212 01:33:24,875 --> 01:33:25,125 I mean, they're 1213 01:33:25,125 --> 01:33:26,125 terrible, don't get me wrong. 1214 01:33:26,166 --> 01:33:26,875 Both are awful. 1215 01:33:28,666 --> 01:33:29,958 I mean, back spasms, you know, 1216 01:33:29,958 --> 01:33:31,583 on a level of nine to 10 are a 10. 1217 01:33:31,958 --> 01:33:32,208 Yeah. 1218 01:33:32,833 --> 01:33:34,000 Kidney stones are a thousand. 1219 01:33:34,291 --> 01:33:35,041 A thousand, yeah. 1220 01:33:35,083 --> 01:33:35,875 I wouldn't want either. 1221 01:33:36,666 --> 01:33:37,833 Or wish them on my, well, 1222 01:33:37,833 --> 01:33:38,458 I probably would wish them 1223 01:33:38,458 --> 01:33:39,125 on my worst enemies. 1224 01:33:40,166 --> 01:33:41,083 Only the worst of the 1225 01:33:41,083 --> 01:33:42,041 worst enemies though. 1226 01:33:42,041 --> 01:33:42,791 Worst of the worst. 1227 01:33:43,791 --> 01:33:44,541 The worst of the worst. 1228 01:33:45,416 --> 01:33:46,000 We were talking about 1229 01:33:46,000 --> 01:33:46,750 things that we don't, 1230 01:33:46,791 --> 01:33:48,541 that we don't have today. 1231 01:33:48,708 --> 01:33:48,958 Yeah. 1232 01:33:48,958 --> 01:33:50,500 That we do differently 1233 01:33:50,500 --> 01:33:51,291 when we were younger. 1234 01:33:51,958 --> 01:33:52,458 And one of those things 1235 01:33:52,458 --> 01:33:54,000 that we had just this week, 1236 01:33:54,000 --> 01:33:55,500 which was scary for us, 1237 01:33:55,875 --> 01:33:57,166 was there was a 1238 01:33:57,166 --> 01:33:59,041 lockdown at one of our schools. 1239 01:33:59,041 --> 01:33:59,833 Yep, yep. 1240 01:34:00,416 --> 01:34:01,583 And we didn't, you know, I 1241 01:34:01,583 --> 01:34:02,375 didn't even know about it. 1242 01:34:02,375 --> 01:34:03,875 I didn't even get the 1243 01:34:03,875 --> 01:34:05,375 email or the notification. 1244 01:34:05,666 --> 01:34:06,541 You did, so at least you 1245 01:34:06,541 --> 01:34:07,666 knew about it real time. 1246 01:34:07,791 --> 01:34:09,500 I did, although I think the, 1247 01:34:09,875 --> 01:34:10,500 I didn't really think 1248 01:34:10,500 --> 01:34:11,875 through it all the way 1249 01:34:12,041 --> 01:34:12,791 because it said, you 1250 01:34:12,791 --> 01:34:14,166 know, this type of lockdown, 1251 01:34:14,375 --> 01:34:15,625 here there was activity in the area 1252 01:34:15,791 --> 01:34:17,291 is how they phrased it in the email. 1253 01:34:17,916 --> 01:34:18,000 Okay. 1254 01:34:18,000 --> 01:34:19,666 And so I'm like, okay, 1255 01:34:19,666 --> 01:34:20,791 nothing is at the school. 1256 01:34:21,000 --> 01:34:21,916 And that, you know, 1257 01:34:22,916 --> 01:34:23,875 classrooms are teaching 1258 01:34:23,875 --> 01:34:25,583 and everything is resuming as normal. 1259 01:34:25,583 --> 01:34:26,333 It's just, we don't let 1260 01:34:26,333 --> 01:34:27,458 anyone in or out of the school. 1261 01:34:27,833 --> 01:34:28,000 Yeah. 1262 01:34:28,916 --> 01:34:31,541 What I failed to connect the dots to 1263 01:34:31,541 --> 01:34:32,833 is that our daughter 1264 01:34:32,833 --> 01:34:35,250 was outside at athletics. 1265 01:34:35,708 --> 01:34:35,875 Yeah. 1266 01:34:36,958 --> 01:34:39,166 And so she was outside the school. 1267 01:34:40,666 --> 01:34:42,125 Potentially near to the 1268 01:34:42,125 --> 01:34:43,750 perimeter of where it was. 1269 01:34:43,791 --> 01:34:44,500 Wherever it was. 1270 01:34:45,250 --> 01:34:46,333 Yeah, and I also 1271 01:34:46,333 --> 01:34:48,666 failed to appreciate that 1272 01:34:49,166 --> 01:34:50,166 the coaches and 1273 01:34:50,166 --> 01:34:51,333 teachers that were outside 1274 01:34:51,333 --> 01:34:52,083 with the children at 1275 01:34:52,083 --> 01:34:54,750 athletics probably had less context 1276 01:34:55,125 --> 01:34:56,458 than those that were in the school. 1277 01:34:56,875 --> 01:34:57,083 Yeah. 1278 01:34:57,125 --> 01:34:58,000 Because there was 1279 01:34:58,000 --> 01:34:59,000 something going on the intercom 1280 01:34:59,000 --> 01:34:59,500 or something. 1281 01:35:00,375 --> 01:35:03,166 And so I think there was, not I think, 1282 01:35:03,166 --> 01:35:05,000 I know based on my daughter's, 1283 01:35:05,791 --> 01:35:07,416 just based on her explanation 1284 01:35:07,416 --> 01:35:10,333 that it was chaotic and scary. 1285 01:35:10,583 --> 01:35:11,166 Well, she said that 1286 01:35:11,166 --> 01:35:13,333 they're yelling, run, run. 1287 01:35:13,708 --> 01:35:14,166 They're trying to get 1288 01:35:14,166 --> 01:35:15,583 them inside the school, 1289 01:35:15,583 --> 01:35:16,458 into the locker rooms. 1290 01:35:16,875 --> 01:35:18,416 When somebody says that, I mean, 1291 01:35:18,916 --> 01:35:19,791 literally it was on the 1292 01:35:19,791 --> 01:35:21,000 national news, I think, 1293 01:35:21,000 --> 01:35:21,875 but just two weeks ago, 1294 01:35:21,875 --> 01:35:22,791 some of our daughter's friends 1295 01:35:22,791 --> 01:35:24,125 were at a cheerleading competition 1296 01:35:24,416 --> 01:35:27,625 where two dads got into a fight 1297 01:35:27,625 --> 01:35:28,583 and were yelling back and 1298 01:35:28,583 --> 01:35:30,458 forth and something fell. 1299 01:35:31,166 --> 01:35:31,500 Right. 1300 01:35:31,541 --> 01:35:31,916 In there. 1301 01:35:31,916 --> 01:35:32,208 Right. 1302 01:35:32,208 --> 01:35:33,000 And when it hit the 1303 01:35:33,000 --> 01:35:34,083 ground inside this gym, 1304 01:35:34,083 --> 01:35:35,000 or a cheerleader, 1305 01:35:35,000 --> 01:35:36,166 gymnasium, wherever they were at, 1306 01:35:36,500 --> 01:35:37,791 it sounded like gunshots. 1307 01:35:38,291 --> 01:35:39,875 It wasn't, but it sounded like it. 1308 01:35:40,333 --> 01:35:40,958 And there was stuff, 1309 01:35:40,958 --> 01:35:42,041 social media was on the news, 1310 01:35:42,125 --> 01:35:43,750 all of our people ran for their lives. 1311 01:35:43,791 --> 01:35:44,000 Yep. 1312 01:35:44,833 --> 01:35:47,000 And I just, the different, my point was, 1313 01:35:47,291 --> 01:35:48,916 we grew up in an age where, 1314 01:35:48,916 --> 01:35:50,625 we did not grow up in an age 1315 01:35:50,833 --> 01:35:52,875 where, at least where I lived, 1316 01:35:53,791 --> 01:35:54,791 where that was 1317 01:35:54,791 --> 01:35:56,000 something we had to live through 1318 01:35:56,000 --> 01:35:57,791 or worry about, code reds. 1319 01:35:57,791 --> 01:35:58,916 And we tell our kids, I 1320 01:35:58,916 --> 01:36:00,791 mean, how sad and scary 1321 01:36:00,791 --> 01:36:01,750 is that you have to tell our kids, 1322 01:36:01,750 --> 01:36:03,041 like, if it's true, you're in a code red, 1323 01:36:03,666 --> 01:36:05,000 like, I'm sorry, but you need to be in 1324 01:36:05,000 --> 01:36:06,708 the back of the room, 1325 01:36:06,916 --> 01:36:08,750 don't be in the front row, play dead. 1326 01:36:09,375 --> 01:36:10,833 You need to text me. 1327 01:36:10,875 --> 01:36:12,625 If you can do it safely, quietly, 1328 01:36:12,625 --> 01:36:13,583 put your phone, you know what I mean? 1329 01:36:13,875 --> 01:36:14,791 Know that dad's coming. 1330 01:36:15,000 --> 01:36:15,791 I mean, after we saw what 1331 01:36:15,791 --> 01:36:16,875 happens in some of these places, 1332 01:36:17,375 --> 01:36:19,000 in Yuvaldi, in Texas, stuff like that, 1333 01:36:19,416 --> 01:36:21,458 if these first responders 1334 01:36:21,458 --> 01:36:22,958 aren't gonna take it serious, 1335 01:36:23,250 --> 01:36:24,041 and I mean, I get it. 1336 01:36:24,958 --> 01:36:25,500 I don't wanna see 1337 01:36:25,500 --> 01:36:26,416 anybody lose their lives. 1338 01:36:26,458 --> 01:36:26,625 No. 1339 01:36:27,166 --> 01:36:29,250 But if that's your chosen profession, 1340 01:36:29,791 --> 01:36:30,750 and you're sworn to 1341 01:36:30,750 --> 01:36:33,000 protect, you better protect. 1342 01:36:33,458 --> 01:36:33,750 Yeah. 1343 01:36:33,833 --> 01:36:34,750 At risk, because you 1344 01:36:34,750 --> 01:36:35,958 know that's part of the job. 1345 01:36:36,208 --> 01:36:36,458 Yeah. 1346 01:36:36,500 --> 01:36:37,583 But I told my kids, you 1347 01:36:37,583 --> 01:36:39,208 know, like, know I'm coming. 1348 01:36:39,750 --> 01:36:40,541 Oh, yeah. 1349 01:36:40,833 --> 01:36:42,000 I'm gearing up and I'm coming. 1350 01:36:42,208 --> 01:36:42,958 I will get you. 1351 01:36:43,458 --> 01:36:44,708 Well, and I think some parents did. 1352 01:36:46,041 --> 01:36:47,166 And that's why I didn't know about it. 1353 01:36:47,166 --> 01:36:48,333 So I was a little mad after the fact 1354 01:36:48,333 --> 01:36:49,500 that I didn't even know about it. 1355 01:36:49,500 --> 01:36:53,291 Yeah, and I, because it was, you know, 1356 01:36:53,291 --> 01:36:55,500 it seemed innocuous, and 1357 01:36:55,500 --> 01:36:57,125 that it was precautionary, 1358 01:36:57,541 --> 01:36:58,666 and me not making the 1359 01:36:58,666 --> 01:36:59,583 connection, like, hey, 1360 01:37:00,208 --> 01:37:01,208 you know, she's outside. 1361 01:37:01,458 --> 01:37:03,541 Still think of text to me in the future. 1362 01:37:03,625 --> 01:37:05,000 Yeah, is like, hey, did you-- 1363 01:37:05,000 --> 01:37:05,916 Just so I can be, at 1364 01:37:05,916 --> 01:37:07,208 least I can stay on top of it. 1365 01:37:07,416 --> 01:37:09,208 My schedule, Megan's back to 1366 01:37:09,208 --> 01:37:10,208 back to back to back to back. 1367 01:37:10,208 --> 01:37:12,250 You are a very important 1368 01:37:12,250 --> 01:37:13,375 person when it comes to work. 1369 01:37:14,125 --> 01:37:14,166 So-- 1370 01:37:14,208 --> 01:37:15,416 No, I just have a lot of meetings. 1371 01:37:15,583 --> 01:37:16,166 Yeah. 1372 01:37:16,208 --> 01:37:17,791 That's my job, to do meetings. 1373 01:37:18,125 --> 01:37:21,125 Yeah, and, but you've got to, 1374 01:37:21,125 --> 01:37:22,208 when it comes to something like that, 1375 01:37:23,250 --> 01:37:24,916 you gotta at least let me know, right? 1376 01:37:25,250 --> 01:37:26,541 I'm sorry that you're meeting. 1377 01:37:26,541 --> 01:37:27,125 I know you guys are 1378 01:37:27,125 --> 01:37:28,583 solving the world's problems 1379 01:37:28,583 --> 01:37:30,000 in that particular meeting, 1380 01:37:30,000 --> 01:37:32,041 but our kids are way 1381 01:37:32,041 --> 01:37:33,000 more important than that. 1382 01:37:33,000 --> 01:37:33,208 Yeah. 1383 01:37:33,833 --> 01:37:34,166 Yeah, and it-- 1384 01:37:34,166 --> 01:37:35,583 So I've gotta know about that. 1385 01:37:35,916 --> 01:37:36,125 Yeah. 1386 01:37:37,750 --> 01:37:38,750 So that I can stay on top of it, 1387 01:37:38,750 --> 01:37:39,750 because I just have a more flexible 1388 01:37:39,750 --> 01:37:40,625 schedule than you do. 1389 01:37:41,208 --> 01:37:42,208 I can look it up, I 1390 01:37:42,208 --> 01:37:43,000 can, you know what I mean? 1391 01:37:43,041 --> 01:37:43,875 Yeah, yeah. 1392 01:37:43,958 --> 01:37:44,625 If it's really that 1393 01:37:44,625 --> 01:37:45,833 bad, I'll drive over there. 1394 01:37:45,833 --> 01:37:46,500 When I looked it up and 1395 01:37:46,500 --> 01:37:47,458 there was nothing, I mean-- 1396 01:37:48,041 --> 01:37:48,916 There's nothing all day long 1397 01:37:48,916 --> 01:37:50,125 once I found out about it. 1398 01:37:50,458 --> 01:37:51,625 And there was like, there was something 1399 01:37:51,625 --> 01:37:53,041 on Keller neighborly-- 1400 01:37:53,791 --> 01:37:55,166 There was a bomb threat is what it was. 1401 01:37:55,208 --> 01:37:55,458 Yeah, there was a bomb. 1402 01:37:55,458 --> 01:37:56,625 At the church next to it. 1403 01:37:56,625 --> 01:37:58,875 But, you know, to bring this back around 1404 01:37:58,875 --> 01:38:00,041 to more silly things, 1405 01:38:00,041 --> 01:38:00,583 I mean, like the things 1406 01:38:00,583 --> 01:38:02,250 that we got evacuated for 1407 01:38:02,250 --> 01:38:03,458 school, it was never for that. 1408 01:38:03,458 --> 01:38:04,333 I don't ever, I mean, 1409 01:38:04,333 --> 01:38:05,875 Columbine obviously was the first time 1410 01:38:05,958 --> 01:38:06,833 and that was well after. 1411 01:38:07,291 --> 01:38:08,250 Columbine was crazy too, 1412 01:38:08,250 --> 01:38:09,666 because it was in Colorado 1413 01:38:09,666 --> 01:38:11,041 and I had played basketball 1414 01:38:11,041 --> 01:38:12,458 in that school many times. 1415 01:38:12,500 --> 01:38:13,250 That's crazy to me. 1416 01:38:13,250 --> 01:38:13,666 So I had been to that 1417 01:38:13,666 --> 01:38:15,750 school, obviously not my school, 1418 01:38:15,750 --> 01:38:17,333 but I had played basketball up there. 1419 01:38:17,333 --> 01:38:18,125 And so I was aware of the 1420 01:38:18,125 --> 01:38:19,083 school, I had been there. 1421 01:38:19,208 --> 01:38:19,500 Yeah. 1422 01:38:19,625 --> 01:38:20,208 And that was where the 1423 01:38:20,208 --> 01:38:21,041 first big one happened, 1424 01:38:21,041 --> 01:38:21,916 school shooting happened. 1425 01:38:22,333 --> 01:38:22,500 Yeah. 1426 01:38:22,833 --> 01:38:26,250 But that's just, that's a new world thing 1427 01:38:26,500 --> 01:38:28,083 that you gotta find a way to fix. 1428 01:38:28,375 --> 01:38:29,500 But, you know, when we 1429 01:38:29,500 --> 01:38:31,083 were younger, you know, 1430 01:38:31,083 --> 01:38:32,625 we got let out for much 1431 01:38:32,625 --> 01:38:33,791 stupor stuff, you know, 1432 01:38:33,833 --> 01:38:35,708 we read evacuate or whatever. 1433 01:38:36,041 --> 01:38:37,958 I remember one time in science class, 1434 01:38:38,333 --> 01:38:39,875 I was actually the one 1435 01:38:39,875 --> 01:38:40,708 that caused the school 1436 01:38:40,708 --> 01:38:43,083 to evacuate accidentally. 1437 01:38:44,125 --> 01:38:47,041 Me and I think his name was Paul, 1438 01:38:47,666 --> 01:38:48,333 and I will all leave 1439 01:38:48,333 --> 01:38:49,416 last names out of this. 1440 01:38:50,875 --> 01:38:50,916 (laughing) 1441 01:38:51,000 --> 01:38:52,458 But we were in science class and like, 1442 01:38:52,625 --> 01:38:53,166 do they still have 1443 01:38:53,166 --> 01:38:54,791 beakers and stuff like that? 1444 01:38:54,791 --> 01:38:57,208 You know, test, what was the-- 1445 01:38:57,958 --> 01:38:58,750 Oh, like the Bunsen burner. 1446 01:38:59,083 --> 01:38:59,875 Yeah, the Bunsen burner. 1447 01:38:59,916 --> 01:39:00,958 Bunsen burners are how I lost my 1448 01:39:00,958 --> 01:39:01,958 eyelashes, by the way, 1449 01:39:01,958 --> 01:39:03,166 which you don't believe me that, 1450 01:39:03,208 --> 01:39:04,291 but our youngest has 1451 01:39:04,291 --> 01:39:05,666 incredibly long eyelashes. 1452 01:39:05,750 --> 01:39:06,041 Yes. 1453 01:39:06,041 --> 01:39:07,250 And I used to, I used to 1454 01:39:07,250 --> 01:39:08,916 have comments on my eyelashes 1455 01:39:09,291 --> 01:39:11,500 until unfortunately a 1456 01:39:11,500 --> 01:39:13,166 Bunsen burner incident. 1457 01:39:13,500 --> 01:39:14,708 (laughing) Yeah. 1458 01:39:15,625 --> 01:39:16,750 They, it singed them off. 1459 01:39:17,000 --> 01:39:18,166 They're blonde because 1460 01:39:18,166 --> 01:39:19,333 they were singed for a while. 1461 01:39:19,333 --> 01:39:20,125 I blonde one. 1462 01:39:20,125 --> 01:39:20,833 That's crazy. 1463 01:39:20,833 --> 01:39:21,500 And then they've just never 1464 01:39:21,500 --> 01:39:22,625 grown back to that extent. 1465 01:39:23,000 --> 01:39:23,291 Yeah. 1466 01:39:23,291 --> 01:39:25,833 So again, another failure of mine, 1467 01:39:25,833 --> 01:39:29,000 I lost my L'Oreal scholarship there, 1468 01:39:29,000 --> 01:39:30,666 my chance to go professional with this. 1469 01:39:30,666 --> 01:39:31,291 I know, you could have 1470 01:39:31,291 --> 01:39:32,333 been an eyelash model. 1471 01:39:32,583 --> 01:39:33,833 Eyelash model. (laughing) 1472 01:39:33,833 --> 01:39:35,083 Anyways, long story short, 1473 01:39:35,500 --> 01:39:36,500 we ended up putting 1474 01:39:36,500 --> 01:39:40,541 something like sulfur nitrate 1475 01:39:40,833 --> 01:39:43,000 in sulfuric acid or something like that, 1476 01:39:43,000 --> 01:39:43,708 these little black 1477 01:39:43,708 --> 01:39:45,458 nitrate, something like that. 1478 01:39:45,500 --> 01:39:46,250 I don't know what that means, 1479 01:39:46,250 --> 01:39:47,208 but that sounds dangerous. 1480 01:39:47,875 --> 01:39:50,416 Well, A, we're in 1481 01:39:50,416 --> 01:39:51,125 seventh or eighth grade, 1482 01:39:51,458 --> 01:39:53,416 so don't give us, maybe ninth grade, 1483 01:39:53,416 --> 01:39:54,791 because I went, my junior high was 1484 01:39:54,791 --> 01:39:55,375 seventh, eighth, ninth, 1485 01:39:55,791 --> 01:39:58,041 but don't give us two elements 1486 01:39:58,750 --> 01:40:01,333 that don't go well together, right? 1487 01:40:01,375 --> 01:40:02,916 Because we're idiots, right? 1488 01:40:02,958 --> 01:40:03,125 What? 1489 01:40:03,791 --> 01:40:05,375 So for some reason, we thought, 1490 01:40:05,750 --> 01:40:06,750 whether we did it right or 1491 01:40:06,750 --> 01:40:07,666 wrong, I don't even know, 1492 01:40:07,666 --> 01:40:09,625 maybe it was innocuous or whatnot, 1493 01:40:09,625 --> 01:40:10,291 but we ended up putting 1494 01:40:10,291 --> 01:40:12,333 the nitrate into the sulfur, 1495 01:40:14,166 --> 01:40:15,208 the acidic, whatever it 1496 01:40:15,208 --> 01:40:16,291 was, I don't even remember now, 1497 01:40:16,291 --> 01:40:17,500 but I just said it. 1498 01:40:18,666 --> 01:40:23,708 And it created the worst smell 1499 01:40:24,666 --> 01:40:25,583 you have ever smelled. 1500 01:40:25,583 --> 01:40:26,458 I mean, it was like 1501 01:40:26,458 --> 01:40:28,750 rotten eggs, but on, you know. 1502 01:40:29,708 --> 01:40:30,791 (laughing) 1503 01:40:31,291 --> 01:40:33,916 I can't believe you were not a 1504 01:40:33,916 --> 01:40:35,125 troublemaker growing up. 1505 01:40:35,500 --> 01:40:35,666 No. 1506 01:40:36,375 --> 01:40:38,791 But you made the school evacuate. 1507 01:40:39,083 --> 01:40:39,916 I did, yeah. 1508 01:40:39,916 --> 01:40:40,958 Because it smelled so bad, 1509 01:40:41,166 --> 01:40:43,375 not because you set a fire or-- 1510 01:40:43,375 --> 01:40:44,166 It must have been ninth grade, 1511 01:40:44,166 --> 01:40:47,166 because this was honors biology or 1512 01:40:47,166 --> 01:40:47,750 something like that, 1513 01:40:47,750 --> 01:40:48,708 now that I think about it. 1514 01:40:48,750 --> 01:40:49,875 Probably chemistry, even. 1515 01:40:49,875 --> 01:40:51,000 Honors chemistry or something like that, 1516 01:40:51,000 --> 01:40:53,166 but this was an honors class, and I 1517 01:40:53,166 --> 01:40:56,250 remember my friend Paul, 1518 01:40:56,541 --> 01:40:57,708 he took the hit for it. 1519 01:40:57,708 --> 01:40:59,000 He actually got kicked out of the class 1520 01:40:59,416 --> 01:40:59,916 because of it. 1521 01:40:59,958 --> 01:41:00,291 What? 1522 01:41:00,541 --> 01:41:01,791 Yeah, and I think that's 1523 01:41:01,791 --> 01:41:02,958 just because I was maybe 1524 01:41:02,958 --> 01:41:05,666 a little better well-known at the school. 1525 01:41:06,500 --> 01:41:06,750 Just, you know. 1526 01:41:06,791 --> 01:41:07,500 Really get a little 1527 01:41:07,500 --> 01:41:08,666 preferential treatment there? 1528 01:41:09,041 --> 01:41:09,708 Yeah, I mean, I was 1529 01:41:09,708 --> 01:41:10,333 in student government, 1530 01:41:10,333 --> 01:41:11,958 I was in yearbook, I was, you know, 1531 01:41:12,291 --> 01:41:13,833 I was voted best of this, 1532 01:41:13,833 --> 01:41:14,875 certain things, you know, 1533 01:41:14,875 --> 01:41:17,375 so I was a known quantity at the school, 1534 01:41:17,375 --> 01:41:19,416 and I, you know, I got away with it. 1535 01:41:20,291 --> 01:41:22,291 I mean, I did, I fessed up to it. 1536 01:41:22,333 --> 01:41:23,083 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 1537 01:41:23,125 --> 01:41:23,916 But I didn't get-- 1538 01:41:23,916 --> 01:41:24,666 You didn't get the consequence. 1539 01:41:25,083 --> 01:41:25,958 I didn't get any repercussions for it, right, exactly. 1540 01:41:27,291 --> 01:41:28,500 That's hilarious. 1541 01:41:29,166 --> 01:41:30,958 I wonder how they got the smell out, 1542 01:41:31,500 --> 01:41:32,666 or did it just reek for a long time? 1543 01:41:32,875 --> 01:41:33,500 We ended up going 1544 01:41:33,500 --> 01:41:34,458 back in after two hours, 1545 01:41:34,458 --> 01:41:35,500 but we were all outside, it 1546 01:41:35,500 --> 01:41:36,708 was a great break, it was fun, 1547 01:41:36,708 --> 01:41:38,000 but it reeked. 1548 01:41:38,833 --> 01:41:39,583 It was horrible. 1549 01:41:42,083 --> 01:41:42,833 That's hilarious. 1550 01:41:43,583 --> 01:41:44,166 See, we were never 1551 01:41:44,166 --> 01:41:45,458 evacuated for anything. 1552 01:41:45,666 --> 01:41:48,208 I mean, we had snow days that 1553 01:41:48,208 --> 01:41:49,500 would close down the school, 1554 01:41:49,500 --> 01:41:52,166 but we were, I don't, I 1555 01:41:52,166 --> 01:41:53,208 think we were ever evacuated, 1556 01:41:53,458 --> 01:41:54,500 and for the record, there 1557 01:41:54,500 --> 01:41:55,500 were only two snow days. 1558 01:41:56,458 --> 01:41:58,666 I went to school primarily in Minnesota. 1559 01:41:59,000 --> 01:41:59,291 Okay. 1560 01:41:59,833 --> 01:42:02,250 A couple years in Chicago, but for the 1561 01:42:02,250 --> 01:42:03,333 most part, for all-- 1562 01:42:03,375 --> 01:42:04,375 Good snow in both places. 1563 01:42:04,375 --> 01:42:05,416 Good snow in both places, 1564 01:42:05,416 --> 01:42:06,291 but there were only two, 1565 01:42:06,916 --> 01:42:07,875 and in all those 1566 01:42:07,875 --> 01:42:09,333 years, and we have, what, 1567 01:42:09,333 --> 01:42:10,625 at least two a year here in Texas? 1568 01:42:11,125 --> 01:42:12,083 Yeah, well, I mean, yeah. 1569 01:42:12,666 --> 01:42:13,333 Colorado, we didn't 1570 01:42:13,333 --> 01:42:14,708 have very many snow days. 1571 01:42:14,708 --> 01:42:15,500 We did get some early 1572 01:42:15,500 --> 01:42:17,333 releases and some late starts 1573 01:42:17,333 --> 01:42:19,458 because of snow, you know, but-- 1574 01:42:20,041 --> 01:42:20,916 Occasionally we'd get those. 1575 01:42:20,958 --> 01:42:21,666 They're prepared, those 1576 01:42:21,666 --> 01:42:23,500 cities are prepared for it, 1577 01:42:23,500 --> 01:42:25,000 drivers are prepared for it, I mean. 1578 01:42:25,791 --> 01:42:26,666 Texas or something else. 1579 01:42:26,916 --> 01:42:27,833 Yeah, yeah. 1580 01:42:28,458 --> 01:42:30,250 I do remember, though, the one that was, 1581 01:42:30,500 --> 01:42:31,583 one was super fun. 1582 01:42:31,791 --> 01:42:32,875 That was the Halloween Blizzard. 1583 01:42:33,250 --> 01:42:33,458 Yeah. 1584 01:42:33,958 --> 01:42:35,333 That was so fun, and then 1585 01:42:35,333 --> 01:42:36,833 my older brother's friend 1586 01:42:36,833 --> 01:42:38,416 had to stay with us 1587 01:42:38,416 --> 01:42:39,416 because his mom was traveling 1588 01:42:39,416 --> 01:42:40,458 and couldn't, she was a 1589 01:42:40,458 --> 01:42:41,750 single mom and couldn't come back, 1590 01:42:41,750 --> 01:42:44,250 and so, I mean, it was just 1591 01:42:44,250 --> 01:42:45,625 like, we got to play outside, 1592 01:42:45,625 --> 01:42:47,375 it was warm enough, and we had, you know, 1593 01:42:47,375 --> 01:42:50,666 I think we got 38 inches of snow 1594 01:42:50,666 --> 01:42:51,666 overnight, or something. 1595 01:42:51,666 --> 01:42:52,541 By warm enough, do you 1596 01:42:52,541 --> 01:42:53,916 mean it was like negative 20? 1597 01:42:53,958 --> 01:42:55,083 It was like 30, it 1598 01:42:55,083 --> 01:42:56,291 was, you know, 25 degrees, 1599 01:42:56,291 --> 01:42:57,375 and so when you're in Minnesota 1600 01:42:57,708 --> 01:42:59,083 and it's snowing in 25 degrees. 1601 01:42:59,083 --> 01:43:00,041 Short weather, yeah. 1602 01:43:00,041 --> 01:43:01,541 That's like the best. 1603 01:43:03,416 --> 01:43:04,083 But yeah, we couldn't even 1604 01:43:04,083 --> 01:43:05,166 see out some of our windows 1605 01:43:05,333 --> 01:43:07,583 because there was just too much snow. 1606 01:43:07,833 --> 01:43:08,000 Yeah. 1607 01:43:08,500 --> 01:43:09,166 It was up all over the 1608 01:43:09,166 --> 01:43:10,625 windows, but the worst. 1609 01:43:11,500 --> 01:43:12,333 They canceled school 1610 01:43:12,333 --> 01:43:14,375 because the actual temperature 1611 01:43:14,375 --> 01:43:15,916 was negative 36 1612 01:43:15,916 --> 01:43:17,833 degrees, and the wind chill 1613 01:43:17,833 --> 01:43:20,625 was negative 66, I think. 1614 01:43:22,625 --> 01:43:23,541 So if your memory's 1615 01:43:23,541 --> 01:43:24,958 wrong, worst case scenario, 1616 01:43:24,958 --> 01:43:26,583 you're off by 10 degrees, negative 56, 1617 01:43:26,958 --> 01:43:27,750 but you think it's negative 60? 1618 01:43:27,791 --> 01:43:29,708 It was somewhere in the negative 60s. 1619 01:43:29,708 --> 01:43:31,041 In the negative 60s wind chill. 1620 01:43:31,083 --> 01:43:32,208 Yeah, it was. 1621 01:43:32,208 --> 01:43:32,541 It's gotta be a 1622 01:43:32,541 --> 01:43:33,500 record, that's incredible. 1623 01:43:33,875 --> 01:43:35,375 It was incredible, it was. 1624 01:43:35,791 --> 01:43:36,500 Did you go outside in 1625 01:43:36,500 --> 01:43:37,375 it, just to feel it? 1626 01:43:37,416 --> 01:43:37,666 No. 1627 01:43:37,708 --> 01:43:38,291 How old were you? 1628 01:43:39,083 --> 01:43:39,958 I was in high school. 1629 01:43:40,416 --> 01:43:40,708 Okay. 1630 01:43:41,125 --> 01:43:42,125 At what year, I don't know, but. 1631 01:43:42,166 --> 01:43:43,416 You gotta be such a cracket reporter. 1632 01:43:43,916 --> 01:43:44,541 How old were you? 1633 01:43:44,541 --> 01:43:45,083 Did you go outside? 1634 01:43:45,291 --> 01:43:45,833 What were you wearing? 1635 01:43:46,500 --> 01:43:46,958 When your parents... 1636 01:43:47,958 --> 01:43:50,916 I didn't go outside because, I mean, 1637 01:43:50,958 --> 01:43:52,125 it was so cold. 1638 01:43:52,125 --> 01:43:54,833 It was dangerous. It was dangerous, and I remember it was 1639 01:43:55,083 --> 01:43:56,041 beautiful sunny day. 1640 01:43:56,875 --> 01:43:57,666 I'm surprised your family 1641 01:43:57,666 --> 01:43:58,625 didn't go running in it. 1642 01:43:58,708 --> 01:43:59,125 Yeah, no. 1643 01:43:59,125 --> 01:44:00,208 They pride themselves in running in 1644 01:44:00,208 --> 01:44:01,250 the coldest, stupidest brother. 1645 01:44:01,250 --> 01:44:02,333 The coldest brother, yeah, they. 1646 01:44:02,333 --> 01:44:03,083 We're gonna go for a walk. 1647 01:44:03,250 --> 01:44:04,375 We used to go there for Thanksgiving, 1648 01:44:04,625 --> 01:44:06,750 and they're like, it's negative 20, 1649 01:44:07,000 --> 01:44:08,416 or it's negative five 1650 01:44:08,416 --> 01:44:09,291 with the wind chill, 1651 01:44:09,291 --> 01:44:11,541 it's six actual, and they're like, 1652 01:44:11,750 --> 01:44:13,125 does anybody wanna go for a walk? 1653 01:44:14,083 --> 01:44:15,416 Well, and they all live in cold climates, 1654 01:44:15,416 --> 01:44:16,583 so that's like normal. 1655 01:44:16,833 --> 01:44:17,166 I know. 1656 01:44:17,208 --> 01:44:18,333 And we're like, no. 1657 01:44:19,000 --> 01:44:19,333 I know. 1658 01:44:20,333 --> 01:44:21,125 It's the same family that 1659 01:44:21,125 --> 01:44:22,041 made fun of our kids, though, 1660 01:44:22,041 --> 01:44:23,333 for not knowing how to make a snowball. 1661 01:44:23,333 --> 01:44:24,166 It's like, my kids 1662 01:44:24,166 --> 01:44:25,000 have never been in snow. 1663 01:44:25,250 --> 01:44:25,791 This was before we 1664 01:44:25,791 --> 01:44:26,916 went skiing and all that. 1665 01:44:27,208 --> 01:44:28,750 Yeah, they had never seen snow before. 1666 01:44:29,083 --> 01:44:30,625 I wasn't happy about that comment. 1667 01:44:30,625 --> 01:44:31,125 I'm like, really? 1668 01:44:32,000 --> 01:44:33,625 Anyways, but they, yeah, 1669 01:44:34,000 --> 01:44:35,041 some people forget that 1670 01:44:35,041 --> 01:44:37,000 it's not normal to be in negative 66, 1671 01:44:37,666 --> 01:44:38,791 or negative five all the time, 1672 01:44:38,791 --> 01:44:40,000 because our blood down 1673 01:44:40,000 --> 01:44:40,833 here definitely thins. 1674 01:44:41,041 --> 01:44:42,000 It definitely thins. 1675 01:44:42,000 --> 01:44:43,375 I mean, if we're out at the sidelines, 1676 01:44:43,375 --> 01:44:45,416 and it's anywhere close to, 1677 01:44:46,541 --> 01:44:48,916 anywhere between 30 and 50, I mean... 1678 01:44:50,208 --> 01:44:51,041 We're wearing heated 1679 01:44:51,041 --> 01:44:52,333 apparel at this point. 1680 01:44:53,083 --> 01:44:54,916 If there's a six on it, there is, 1681 01:44:54,916 --> 01:44:55,833 because the wind's cold. 1682 01:44:56,041 --> 01:44:56,875 Yeah, it's cold here. 1683 01:44:57,375 --> 01:44:58,958 I mean, some people 1684 01:44:58,958 --> 01:44:59,625 would think that's crazy, 1685 01:44:59,625 --> 01:45:00,541 but it gets cold here. 1686 01:45:01,000 --> 01:45:01,875 What's that kid's name 1687 01:45:01,875 --> 01:45:03,375 in "The Christmas Story" 1688 01:45:03,625 --> 01:45:04,750 who's wearing so many-- 1689 01:45:05,125 --> 01:45:05,333 Randy. 1690 01:45:05,958 --> 01:45:07,583 Randy, yeah, I am Randy on the sidelines. 1691 01:45:07,916 --> 01:45:08,125 Yeah. 1692 01:45:08,333 --> 01:45:08,916 All the time. 1693 01:45:08,958 --> 01:45:11,416 I can't put my arms down. 1694 01:45:11,458 --> 01:45:12,166 Yeah, but I'm warm. 1695 01:45:12,791 --> 01:45:14,083 And I look like a fool, 1696 01:45:14,083 --> 01:45:15,291 because I know I'm just like state puff 1697 01:45:15,291 --> 01:45:16,291 marshmallow man out. 1698 01:45:16,750 --> 01:45:18,291 I've got, there have been times 1699 01:45:18,458 --> 01:45:19,750 I've had upwards of 1700 01:45:19,750 --> 01:45:20,500 seven or eight layers. 1701 01:45:20,500 --> 01:45:20,958 Yes, you have. 1702 01:45:20,958 --> 01:45:21,541 On the top. 1703 01:45:21,541 --> 01:45:23,541 And I've had one, two, three, four, 1704 01:45:23,833 --> 01:45:24,791 I've had up to four 1705 01:45:24,791 --> 01:45:26,041 layers on the bottom at a time. 1706 01:45:26,041 --> 01:45:27,041 Yeah, yeah. 1707 01:45:27,125 --> 01:45:28,916 Normally it's two, but one 1708 01:45:28,916 --> 01:45:30,666 of those is fleece lined. 1709 01:45:30,750 --> 01:45:31,666 Yeah, yeah. 1710 01:45:32,166 --> 01:45:33,125 So that technically 1711 01:45:33,125 --> 01:45:34,625 should count as two, but yeah. 1712 01:45:34,666 --> 01:45:35,250 Good self, yeah. 1713 01:45:36,000 --> 01:45:37,500 I remember one our daughter had, 1714 01:45:38,000 --> 01:45:38,958 and that way we both 1715 01:45:38,958 --> 01:45:40,208 had our ski pants on. 1716 01:45:40,666 --> 01:45:40,791 Yeah. 1717 01:45:41,750 --> 01:45:44,250 But, yeah, I don't know 1718 01:45:44,250 --> 01:45:46,750 why it feels colder in Texas, 1719 01:45:47,625 --> 01:45:48,666 at like the same 1720 01:45:48,666 --> 01:45:52,125 temperature that they have all over. 1721 01:45:52,125 --> 01:45:52,916 And you're like, gosh, in 1722 01:45:52,916 --> 01:45:54,625 Minnesota, 50 degrees feels fine. 1723 01:45:54,625 --> 01:45:56,500 In Texas, it is but cold. 1724 01:45:56,958 --> 01:45:58,625 Well, and in Colorado, you can be, 1725 01:45:58,625 --> 01:45:59,541 I mean, literally it is 1726 01:45:59,541 --> 01:46:01,500 shorts weather at 40 degrees 1727 01:46:01,583 --> 01:46:03,291 outside, and a long sleeve t-shirt. 1728 01:46:03,666 --> 01:46:04,625 Sun is so hot. 1729 01:46:04,791 --> 01:46:05,291 It's incredible. 1730 01:46:06,416 --> 01:46:08,208 It's got the best climate there. 1731 01:46:09,250 --> 01:46:10,666 Yeah, but that's why we get to go back. 1732 01:46:11,166 --> 01:46:12,958 Yeah, we get to go and 1733 01:46:12,958 --> 01:46:14,875 enjoy the snow and play in it, 1734 01:46:15,291 --> 01:46:16,250 but not have to shovel it. 1735 01:46:16,916 --> 01:46:18,791 Because with your back, I don't know 1736 01:46:18,791 --> 01:46:19,208 that you should be 1737 01:46:19,208 --> 01:46:21,208 shoveling snow either at this point. 1738 01:46:21,250 --> 01:46:22,250 Just hire that one out too. 1739 01:46:22,625 --> 01:46:23,708 I gotta get some more jobs 1740 01:46:25,208 --> 01:46:27,083 to afford all these people we're hiring. 1741 01:46:27,750 --> 01:46:28,125 Look, I think it 1742 01:46:28,125 --> 01:46:29,666 doesn't snow here very often. 1743 01:46:29,666 --> 01:46:30,500 Yeah, yeah. 1744 01:46:30,750 --> 01:46:32,708 Like it melts pretty quickly too. 1745 01:46:32,750 --> 01:46:34,416 No, we never, well, no, 1746 01:46:34,416 --> 01:46:35,208 we've never shoveled here. 1747 01:46:35,333 --> 01:46:35,916 We do have a shovel. 1748 01:46:36,166 --> 01:46:37,000 We have a shovel. 1749 01:46:37,583 --> 01:46:40,041 Actually, I did shovel this last time. 1750 01:46:40,041 --> 01:46:40,541 You did? 1751 01:46:40,583 --> 01:46:42,125 Remember I had to shovel the walkway 1752 01:46:42,208 --> 01:46:43,375 to Paris's little-- 1753 01:46:43,625 --> 01:46:44,500 Oh, yep, yep. 1754 01:46:44,833 --> 01:46:45,166 Potty spot. 1755 01:46:45,583 --> 01:46:48,708 Yes, if you have a doxy, they hate snow. 1756 01:46:49,291 --> 01:46:50,791 So yeah, we had to shovel the way 1757 01:46:50,791 --> 01:46:52,083 and we actually had to shovel off a spot 1758 01:46:52,083 --> 01:46:54,500 where she would even go to the bathroom. 1759 01:46:54,916 --> 01:46:55,083 Yeah. 1760 01:46:55,666 --> 01:46:57,125 She did not like snow. 1761 01:46:57,875 --> 01:46:58,958 Well, what do we got coming up here? 1762 01:46:58,958 --> 01:46:59,541 We gotta keep this thing. 1763 01:47:00,625 --> 01:47:02,625 Let's see, well, it's 1764 01:47:02,625 --> 01:47:03,333 a spring break week. 1765 01:47:03,833 --> 01:47:06,250 So we'll have, I mean, we're working. 1766 01:47:06,833 --> 01:47:09,291 So, you know, the kids will be around. 1767 01:47:09,291 --> 01:47:10,791 We'll have to, you know, 1768 01:47:10,958 --> 01:47:12,166 find ways to keep them entertained. 1769 01:47:13,291 --> 01:47:16,458 But yeah, we're, I don't know. 1770 01:47:16,458 --> 01:47:18,333 We got the NCAA tournament coming up. 1771 01:47:18,375 --> 01:47:19,041 That's right, we have to 1772 01:47:19,041 --> 01:47:19,916 fill out our brackets today. 1773 01:47:20,250 --> 01:47:21,166 Fill out brackets, yeah, 1774 01:47:21,250 --> 01:47:23,541 selection Sunday as we're recording. 1775 01:47:25,083 --> 01:47:27,166 So it'll be, do you have an idea 1776 01:47:27,166 --> 01:47:28,166 of who you're gonna put for, 1777 01:47:28,791 --> 01:47:29,875 who's in the championship game? 1778 01:47:32,625 --> 01:47:33,500 I don't know, you know, 1779 01:47:33,500 --> 01:47:35,833 I might've put my money on Duke early, 1780 01:47:35,833 --> 01:47:37,541 but they had two injuries this last week. 1781 01:47:38,375 --> 01:47:39,625 Player of the year, I think, up there. 1782 01:47:39,916 --> 01:47:40,708 He sprained his ankle. 1783 01:47:41,000 --> 01:47:42,333 Sometimes that's tough to come back from. 1784 01:47:43,291 --> 01:47:44,958 In such a short period of time. 1785 01:47:46,125 --> 01:47:47,166 So no, I don't know. 1786 01:47:47,166 --> 01:47:48,000 It's not my Jayhawks this 1787 01:47:48,000 --> 01:47:48,916 year though, that's for sure. 1788 01:47:49,416 --> 01:47:50,750 In fact, by the time this airs, 1789 01:47:50,750 --> 01:47:51,875 they may not even be in it anymore. 1790 01:47:52,250 --> 01:47:53,708 It was so bad this year. 1791 01:47:53,833 --> 01:47:54,208 Possibly. 1792 01:47:54,500 --> 01:47:55,625 It's been frustrating to watch. 1793 01:47:55,666 --> 01:47:56,458 Hopefully they show up. 1794 01:47:57,125 --> 01:47:58,500 Yeah, I think I saw that Tar Heels 1795 01:47:58,500 --> 01:48:00,250 might not even make it. 1796 01:48:00,541 --> 01:48:01,541 Michael Jordan's armor modder. 1797 01:48:01,541 --> 01:48:02,375 Are you kidding? 1798 01:48:02,666 --> 01:48:03,416 Yeah, that's a long way. 1799 01:48:03,416 --> 01:48:04,333 Has that ever happened? 1800 01:48:05,541 --> 01:48:06,875 No, I don't know. 1801 01:48:06,875 --> 01:48:07,708 I don't think so though. 1802 01:48:08,375 --> 01:48:09,708 They've been low seeds before, 1803 01:48:09,708 --> 01:48:11,083 but I don't think they've ever been 1804 01:48:12,000 --> 01:48:13,000 in danger of not actually 1805 01:48:13,000 --> 01:48:15,250 making the NCAA tournament. 1806 01:48:15,291 --> 01:48:16,458 Yeah, they'll end up in NIT. 1807 01:48:17,083 --> 01:48:17,291 Yeah. 1808 01:48:18,333 --> 01:48:19,583 So I think that maybe there 1809 01:48:19,583 --> 01:48:20,750 was one year that did happen. 1810 01:48:22,041 --> 01:48:24,416 But anyways, it's always fun to watch. 1811 01:48:24,416 --> 01:48:25,541 So we'll have that coming up. 1812 01:48:25,541 --> 01:48:26,250 We got spring break. 1813 01:48:27,458 --> 01:48:29,083 We're trying to figure out how to, 1814 01:48:29,916 --> 01:48:31,375 we're about 100 days out from our 1815 01:48:31,375 --> 01:48:32,666 vacation going overseas 1816 01:48:33,000 --> 01:48:34,666 and that's taken all kinds of planning. 1817 01:48:35,291 --> 01:48:36,458 So we're trying to figure that out. 1818 01:48:36,458 --> 01:48:37,833 We're figuring out, we plan differently 1819 01:48:37,833 --> 01:48:38,750 for these kind of things. 1820 01:48:39,125 --> 01:48:40,000 I don't think we should 1821 01:48:40,000 --> 01:48:41,041 show up on foreign shores 1822 01:48:41,250 --> 01:48:42,250 with no plans. 1823 01:48:42,625 --> 01:48:42,833 Nope. 1824 01:48:43,583 --> 01:48:45,375 You're like, oh, we should. 1825 01:48:45,375 --> 01:48:47,708 Yeah, I think you just haven't thought 1826 01:48:47,708 --> 01:48:48,625 that far down the road yet 1827 01:48:48,625 --> 01:48:49,625 that we need to have a lot 1828 01:48:49,625 --> 01:48:50,625 of things planned out here. 1829 01:48:51,625 --> 01:48:52,208 I have. 1830 01:48:52,208 --> 01:48:56,375 I just, I'm not urgently planning it. 1831 01:48:56,875 --> 01:48:58,666 No, we need, I wanna 1832 01:48:58,666 --> 01:49:01,125 map out some of them. 1833 01:49:01,125 --> 01:49:03,041 I think the whole timeline of like, 1834 01:49:03,041 --> 01:49:04,291 oh, it's still 100 days. 1835 01:49:04,291 --> 01:49:05,083 We still have time. 1836 01:49:05,625 --> 01:49:06,458 No, I mean, again, I 1837 01:49:06,458 --> 01:49:08,875 use the Disney example. 1838 01:49:10,083 --> 01:49:11,916 These hardcore vacationers, 1839 01:49:12,083 --> 01:49:12,708 these things have been 1840 01:49:12,708 --> 01:49:14,583 booked for millennia. 1841 01:49:15,125 --> 01:49:15,708 I mean, those Disney 1842 01:49:15,708 --> 01:49:16,750 people are all over it. 1843 01:49:16,750 --> 01:49:17,500 There's so many things that 1844 01:49:17,500 --> 01:49:18,500 we didn't get to do at Disney 1845 01:49:19,541 --> 01:49:21,500 because we tried to do it five months out 1846 01:49:21,500 --> 01:49:22,833 and people did it 12 months out. 1847 01:49:23,416 --> 01:49:25,166 I think this is kind of the same way. 1848 01:49:26,000 --> 01:49:28,208 We didn't get into the steakhouse. 1849 01:49:28,208 --> 01:49:29,083 We wanted to get into, 1850 01:49:30,208 --> 01:49:31,708 we'll figure that stuff out. 1851 01:49:34,000 --> 01:49:35,333 It's one of the few instances probably 1852 01:49:35,708 --> 01:49:38,000 that we're not finishing each other's. 1853 01:49:38,208 --> 01:49:38,458 Sandwiches. 1854 01:49:39,291 --> 01:49:40,750 Sandwiches, vacations. 1855 01:49:41,291 --> 01:49:41,958 Vacations. 1856 01:49:41,958 --> 01:49:43,541 Sand castles, beach. 1857 01:49:44,500 --> 01:49:45,000 I was trying to think how 1858 01:49:45,000 --> 01:49:45,958 you could make that come around 1859 01:49:45,958 --> 01:49:49,041 to the vacation. 1860 01:49:49,708 --> 01:49:50,208 A little bit more 1861 01:49:50,208 --> 01:49:52,166 towards what we were saying. 1862 01:49:53,291 --> 01:49:53,916 You could try it again. 1863 01:49:54,166 --> 01:49:55,375 Excursion, I mean, like we could. 1864 01:49:55,375 --> 01:49:56,375 We would just have to-- 1865 01:49:56,666 --> 01:49:58,208 Finish, you could try it again. 1866 01:49:58,750 --> 01:49:59,833 Like, you know, it's 1867 01:49:59,833 --> 01:50:01,041 just one of the few things 1868 01:50:01,333 --> 01:50:03,041 that we just haven't, we're not on the 1869 01:50:03,041 --> 01:50:03,875 same page all the time 1870 01:50:03,875 --> 01:50:04,333 because you're not 1871 01:50:04,333 --> 01:50:05,958 necessarily finishing mine. 1872 01:50:06,583 --> 01:50:06,791 Excursions. 1873 01:50:07,166 --> 01:50:07,750 There you go. 1874 01:50:08,166 --> 01:50:09,250 Oh, it works, right? 1875 01:50:09,250 --> 01:50:09,541 A little bit? 1876 01:50:09,583 --> 01:50:10,500 It does, it does. 1877 01:50:10,708 --> 01:50:11,333 I like that one. 1878 01:50:12,500 --> 01:50:13,458 All right, that works. 1879 01:50:13,458 --> 01:50:14,791 Well, let's say goodbye to everybody 1880 01:50:14,791 --> 01:50:15,625 unless you have anything else. 1881 01:50:16,041 --> 01:50:17,458 No, until next time, everyone. 1882 01:50:17,833 --> 01:50:18,666 All right, until next time. 1883 01:50:18,666 --> 01:50:19,125 Have a great one. 1884 01:50:19,500 --> 01:50:19,708 Bye. 1885 01:50:19,916 --> 01:50:20,250 Rock on.