How to Split a Toaster: A Divorce Podcast About Saving Your Relationships

In this episode of How to Split a Toaster, Seth Nelson and Pete Wright dive into the crucial topic of preparing for a deposition in your divorce case. Seth, our seasoned divorce attorney, guides Pete through a mock deposition, providing invaluable insights and strategies to help you navigate this challenging process with confidence.

Throughout the episode, Seth and Pete engage in a lively and informative discussion, highlighting the importance of understanding the rules of a deposition and how to effectively respond to questions. Seth emphasizes the need to listen carefully, answer honestly, and provide concise responses while avoiding the temptation to over-explain or become defensive. He also shares real-life examples that demonstrate how seemingly simple questions can potentially trip you up if you're not properly prepared.

Questions we answer in this episode:
• What are the key rules to follow during a deposition?
• How can I prepare myself mentally for a deposition?
• What are some common mistakes to avoid when being deposed?

Key Takeaways:
• Listen carefully to each question and only answer what is asked
• Keep your responses concise and honest
• Trust your attorney to defend your case and tell your story

By the end of this episode, listeners will have a clearer understanding of what to expect during a deposition and how to approach this critical aspect of their divorce case. Seth's expertise and Pete's relatable perspective combine to create an engaging and informative listening experience that will leave you feeling more empowered and prepared to face the challenges ahead. Whether you're in the midst of a divorce or simply seeking to educate yourself, this episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the complex world of divorce law.

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(00:00) - Welcome to How to Split a Toaster
(00:26) - Preparing for Your Deposition
(02:39) - Rules of a Deposition
(03:47) - Time to Practice
(10:26) - Make Them Do Their Job
(11:24) - Don't Get Defensive
(19:21) - It’s Not Your Job
(19:58) - Question-Answer-Question-Answer
(21:49) - Only Answer What Was Asked
(23:19) - Watch Out for Exaggerated Language
(25:05) - Prep to Avoid Getting Flustered
(26:30) - Time Needed
(27:33) - Don't Guess
(30:21) - Love Should Be Apparent
(33:13) - Hearsay vs. Describing Something
(36:44) - Your Job Is to Answer the Question
(37:42) - Take Your Time
(39:09) - Use Your Child’s Name
(39:39) - Look at the Judge
(40:23) - Wrapping Up

Creators & Guests

Host

Pete Wright

Podcaster and co-host, Pete Wright brings years of marriage and a spirit of curiosity to the divorce process. He's spent the last two decades interviewing experts and thinkers in emotional healing and brings that with him to the law, divorce, and saving relationships in the process.

Host

Seth R. Nelson

Seth Nelson is the founding attorney and managing partner at NLG Divorce & Family Law. He is a Tampa-based family lawyer known for devising creative solutions to difficult problems.

Producer

Andy Nelson

Hailing from nearly 25 years in the world of film, television, and commercial production, Andy has always had a passion for storytelling, no matter the size of the package.

What is How to Split a Toaster: A Divorce Podcast About Saving Your Relationships?

Seth Nelson is a Tampa based family lawyer known for devising creative solutions to difficult problems. In How to Split a Toaster, Nelson and co-host Pete Wright take on the challenge of divorce with a central objective — saving your most important relationships with your family, your former spouse, and yourself.