Trigger Proof Transmissions (Cyclebreaker Collective)

If you’re a parent with a struggling child, 
this is for you.

See if you can relate:

Your child is acting out again.

Maybe it's meltdowns. 
Maybe it's defiance. 
Maybe it's withdrawal.

Maybe they're anxious, 
depressed, or just... 
different than other kids.

Your first thought is probably:

"They need help. 
They need therapy. 
They need to be fixed."

But what if the problem isn't with your child at all?

If I told you that your child's behavior 
is actually showing you something much deeper…

Would you believe me?

Sounds crazy to many of our clients I share this with.
They get defensive when I say “the kid is reflecting
something within you that needs healing.”

But eventually they come around 
when they gather the courage to look.

Here's what most parents don't realize:

Your child is your mirror.

Every behavior in them that triggers you 
is reflecting something unhealed in you.

When they have big emotions 
and you feel overwhelmed...

When they act out and you lose your patience...

When they struggle and you feel helpless...

You're not just reacting to their behavior.

You're reacting to a younger part inside of you.

The part of you that was told to be quiet.

The part that was shamed for having big feelings.

The part that learned emotions weren't safe.

(Often they’re the exact age you were at when you were struggling). 

Your child then becomes your spiritual practice.

They show up exactly as they need to, 
to help uncover the parts of you that were rejected long ago.

When your 8-year-old has a meltdown, 
they're not just processing their emotions—

They're giving you a chance to heal the 8-year-old inside you 
who never got to have those meltdowns 
without a painful consequence.

When your teenager pushes boundaries, 
they're not just being difficult—

They're showing you where YOUR boundaries 
were violated as a child.

This is why sending them to therapy 
often doesn't work long-term.

You're treating the symptom, not the source.

The source is the unhealed wounding you carry.

The judgments you hold about parts of yourself.

The emotional patterns you unconsciously pass down.

Your nervous system speaks to their nervous system.

You might think that’s “woo” but 
when you're dysregulated, 
they become dysregulated.

When you judge their emotions, 
they learn to judge their own.

When you can't hold space for your own pain,
you can't hold space for theirs.

But here's the beautiful truth:

When you heal yourself, you heal them too.

When you stop judging the wounded parts of yourself, 
you stop judging those parts in your child.

When you learn to regulate your own nervous system, 
you create safety for theirs.

When you integrate your own shadows, 
your child no longer needs to act them out.

The child in front of you 
is showing you the child inside of you.

Every trigger then has the opportunity 
to become a gift.

Every challenging behavior is a doorway.

Every moment of struggle 
is an invitation to heal—

Not just them, 
but the generational patterns 
that created this in the first place.

Imagine this instead:

Your child has a meltdown, 
and instead of losing it yourself, 
you become their calm anchor.

Your teenager pushes back, 
and instead of taking it personally, 
you see their need for autonomy and safety.

Your child struggles with anxiety,
and instead of trying to fix it,
you help them learn that all emotions are welcome.

This happens when YOU do the inner work first.

When you parent the younger version of yourself.

When you give yourself the love and acceptance you never received.

When you become the parent to yourself that you want to be to your child.

Your healing is
their healing.

If you're ready to transform your relationship with your child 
by transforming your relationship with yourself—

You're exactly where you're supposed to be.

Your wingman on the adventure,

Nima
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P.S.

If your child's behavior is triggering unhealed parts of you, 
I'm offering a free Intuitive Blind Spot Session (normally $497).

In just 30 minutes, I'll help you:

  • Discover which parts of your own childhood 
    are being reflected in your child's behavior
  • Identify the unconscious patterns 
    you're passing down without realizing it
  • Understand how healing yourself 
    creates the energetic shift your kid needs
  • Learn to become the regulated, 
    grounded presence that transforms your family dynamic

This isn't about perfect parenting—it's about conscious healing.

Real change happens when you realize 
it's not about the child in front of you, 
it's about the kid inside of you.

Comment or DM with:
  • Your biggest challenge with your child right now
  • What you've already tried that hasn't worked
  • What kind of family dynamic you want to create
End with your response : "Nima, can I please get a link to your private calendar?"

If you're ready to heal yourself to help your child, 
I'd love to help you break the cycle. Just make sure you include the back story.

What is Trigger Proof Transmissions (Cyclebreaker Collective)?

Welcome to the TriggerProof podcast.
This is the first season of the Podcast which are audio renditions of
Facebook Live Video Transmissions done for the “TriggerProof” Facebook Community.
These were set up by request of our community members who wanted an opportunity to listen
to insights, tools, and strategies to help heal relationship dynamics, deepen intimacy,
and master the fine art of Autonomic Nervous System Regulation so that we can build resilience,
heal from the past, and become active operators of our mind, body, and life.

This first season wasn’t designed to be a podcast, so you’ll notice the audio isn’t
Professional Studio Quality (like it is on season 2 as we’ve upgraded incrementally).

These trainings are designed to introduce and deepen you to the most critical 2 skills we’ve never been taught:
1) The skill and practice of taking our triggers (Nervous System Activations) and turning them into deeper safety and self-love,
2) The skill and practice of taking conflict (that happens in any relationship) and turning them into deeper intimacy between the parties involved.

Not learning these two critical skills at this time in history costs us dearly: Physical and Mental health is on the DECLINE.
Doing this deep level of healing work can break the cycle of Intergenerational Trauma that didn’t start with you.

It didn’t start with you, but it can end with you,
#Cyclebreaker.
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