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Thanks for tuning in to the Sandals church podcast.

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Our vision as a church is to be real with ourselves, God and others.

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We're glad you're here and we hope you enjoy this message.

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Hi, guys, and welcome to Sandals Church.

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We are wrapping up our series on generosity.

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It's called generous, like Jesus.

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And some of you came to church today and you're like, oh my gosh, of course they're talking

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about money.

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Look, I hate talking about money.

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I couldn't sleep last night.

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I was up all night as I was stressing out, just like you do for the bills that you have to

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pay, the money that you have to raise.

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And that's just the reality.

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Money is a tough, tough issue to talk about, and it's difficult times and it's difficult to

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raise money.

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But if it's your first Sunday with us or you're watching online for the first time, or

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you're at Saturday night for the first time, maybe you missed some steps.

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Anybody ever missed a step?

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Okay, I did last week at our minafe campus.

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Literally missed a step.

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They brought me up on stage.

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Let's put the face to the whole vision.

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And I was up there to encourage people about my leadership and my wisdom.

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Walked off stage, missed a step in front of everybody.

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And if you wonder what it was like, just think of a grown man crashing into a wall.

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And everyone on stage just went.

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And I jumped up and I was like, I'm okay.

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And then I was like, am I okay?

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Because his body's 52, kind of like Taylor Swift, 22, but add 30.

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And I told my wife, she said, she said, were you embarrassed?

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I said, I would be embarrassed if I wasn't so grateful that I was okay.

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So it's conflicting emotions.

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So maybe you missed some steps and you don't realize how much Jesus talks about money.

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I've said this over and over in this series.

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But if you missed it, if you took the New Testament, Matthew, Mark, Luke, John, and you

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numbered the verses every 6th verse, 123456 every 6th verse.

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Jesus is talking about money because he knows what our struggle is.

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And it doesn't matter where you are in your faith, some of you are probably struggling with

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money.

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Okay, God, what's mine?

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What's yours?

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What do I give?

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What is generous?

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What does that look like?

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And so today we're going to wrap up this series talking about what Jesus taught about

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generosity.

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What did he teach about it?

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Because we need to understand, if I'm a Christian following Jesus, I don't need to

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understand what I think is generous.

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I need to understand what he thinks is generous.

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Hey, guys, thank you so much for joining our service today.

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I want to take this quick opportunity to invite you to give.

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You can do so by going to donate.

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Se for now, let's get back into the message with Pastor Matt.

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So let's talk about this.

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Jesus taught that generosity.

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This is so important.

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It's about the heart and not the amount.

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This is so important.

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We began this message today with a video of our students, our kids making an offering.

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They're generous like Jesus offerings.

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Now, I'm going to guess, I don't know.

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We haven't tallied it, but I'm going to guess there wasn't a million dollar check in there.

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Okay, I'm just going to go out on a limb.

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Not a prophet or anything.

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I'm just saying probably we didn't get a million bucks from a four year old.

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Amen.

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I'm kind of curious to see what was in those offerings.

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You know, a couple of weeks ago, I told you I paid 32 50 for salsa and mexican rice.

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I just want to thank all of our Hispanics for all the recipes for rice.

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Thank you so much.

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You might have missed the point of the sermon, but I'm very, very grateful.

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You helped this gringo make mexican rice.

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Somebody actually put that in the offering.

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A recipe for rice.

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Come on.

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You never know what you're going to get at Sandals church.

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And I'm not going to say which campus it was, but it was Anaheim.

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That's all I'm going to say.

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That's all I'm going to say.

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It was Anaheim.

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I told Pastor Moy we'll pay his salary out of that recipe.

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So it's not about the amount, it's about the heart.

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And that's why it's so important for us as a church to have our kids give.

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Because if we don't teach them to give when they're little, they won't give when they're

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And this is so important.

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If your parent, you're like, oh, my gosh, I forgot.

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You can give all through the year and just have your kid give that in.

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And I think it's important that we teach our children, hey, this is what we do.

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My mom and I were talking and she was just sharing some of the difficulties she felt as a

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And I had family members where they made a lot more money and they didn't go to church and

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they weren't tithers.

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And my mom said, I just felt so bad as a mom that we gave 10% to God, and sometimes we

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couldn't give you the things you want.

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I said, mom, I'm so grateful that you taught me as a young man to give to the Lord what's

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the Lord's, and I wouldn't trade that for anything.

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And I just told her, I'm so thankful that you taught me as a young child to give to God

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what's his.

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That's right.

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And so we're going to have an offering today.

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We're going to end the service with an offering.

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If you're watching online, you can do whatever you need to do on the app or whatever God

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leads you.

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But there's actually a story in the Bible where Jesus watches an offering just like we're

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going to take.

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He's watching.

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And so the Bible says in Luke, chapter 21, verses one through four.

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And here's the thing you need to remember.

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The gospel of Luke is written primarily to non jews.

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Luke's wanting people who weren't raised with the Torah, who weren't raised going to

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synagogue, who weren't raised knowing God.

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He's teaching gentiles, who are as far from God as they possibly can be, what it looks like

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to give generously.

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And so Luke tells us this story.

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So Jesus looked up and he saw the rich putting all of their gifts into the offering.

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Now, we don't have a box of sandals.

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We have a bucket, or you give on the app, okay?

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But they had an offering box.

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And he saw a poor widow put in two small copper coins.

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And he said, listen, truly, I tell you, this poor widow has put more than all of them

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For they listen to this.

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They contributed out of their abundance, but she, she gave out of her poverty, and she put

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in all she had to live on.

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Now, if you're broke today, don't put all your money in because you're going to call me

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next week to help pay your bills, okay?

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That's not the point of the story.

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The point of the story is a lot of us feel good when we give big amounts, but it's not

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sacrificial at all.

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It's just not.

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It's out of our abundance.

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And so a lot of us think we're generous because of the dollar amount Jesus defines.

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Generosity is from the heart.

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She gave the least.

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But according to Jesus, listen to this.

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She gave the most.

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It was the most important offering.

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And Jesus is teaching us something here.

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He's teaching that God doesn't care about your money.

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She only had God to look after her.

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And isn't it interesting that God was the one who noticed her offering?

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He was right there.

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You see, it's so easy to focus on the amount and miss the meaning and miss the meaning, as

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Tammy and I, we've been praying.

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So we're in this series called generous, like Jesus.

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And if you don't know, we have a general budget, and I want to thank everyone who gives to

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We're trying to raise an extra $2 million over and above.

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So what this means is families in our church, like Tammy and I, we're going to make a

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special offering that's over and above what we normally give to help us do some really,

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really exciting things, like pave parking lots.

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You know, as I drove in here today to Hunter Park, I looked at our new parking lot.

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I was like, I can't even look at it yet.

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Can't even look at it yet.

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It's brand new.

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But I know how much it cost.

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But oftentimes we just miss the meaning.

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We miss the purpose.

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And really, these moments are heart checks.

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Where is my heart?

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Where's my heart?

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I have gotten so many questions on the debrief about tithing, tithing, tithing, tithing.

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And here's what most christians in our church want to know.

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How much should I be giving?

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And it's the wrong question.

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The right question is, where's your heart?

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And I've met people who say, well, Jesus never said you should tithe.

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Well, they haven't read the Bible, and I'm going to read to you what he said, matthew 23

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He said, what sorrow awaits you, teachers of religious law.

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Hypocrites.

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You see, here's what Jesus is saying.

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There can be a difference between what we profess and how we live.

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Anybody ever met someone like that?

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Jesus couldn't stand hypocrites.

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For you are careful to tithe even the tiniest income from your herb gardens.

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Some of you sell an herb.

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Listen up, listen up.

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You probably should double tithe for what you sell, but you ignore the more important

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aspects of the law.

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What's more important than giving?

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Jesus gives us a couple things.

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Justice, mercy.

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And here's one that people miss, faith.

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And Jesus follows it up with.

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You should tithe.

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But do not neglect the more important things.

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Here's one of the things that I wrestle with as a pastor and as a christian.

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Am I generous?

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Now, here's the thing you need to know.

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I am a tither.

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I don't think you have to tithe.

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I think as Christians, we get to tithe.

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That's a totally different perspective.

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But here's the thing.

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Am I generous because I'm a tither?

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Jesus seems to indicate that we can be very specific in our giving, but we can be very

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bankrupt in our hearts.

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You're so, so careful to tithe.

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I mean, you should see some of the questions I've got on the debrief.

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Does this count as my tithe?

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Does this count as my tithe?

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I mean, people are asking very, very specific questions.

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And what I keep going back and saying is, God doesn't care about the amount.

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He cares about your heart.

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Now, here's what you need to know about tithing.

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Sandals church.

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Not by ourselves, but by outsiders.

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We are considered what's called an evangelical church.

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We're evangelical.

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What that means is we believe the Bible.

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We believe it's God's word.

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We believe you have to be saved only through Jesus.

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So we're considered, like, crazy conservative when it comes to our understanding of

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And I don't want to change that.

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That's who we are.

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The world can call us whatever they want.

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That's who we are.

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But here's the thing you need to know about evangelicals.

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They give the most to the church, more than Catholics, more than orthodox, more than any

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other religious group.

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Evangelicals lead the way in generosity to their local church.

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Do you want to know what the average amount of an evangelical Christian gives to their

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It's 2%.

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2% is number one amongst Christians.

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Amongst Christians.

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And the church that gets ripped.

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The most Catholics, right, because they're so rich.

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Catholics give the least.

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They're at the bottom of generosity.

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And that's not to put you down as a Catholic.

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These are just numbers.

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These are just the statistics.

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And if you feel bad, look, we're at number one at 2%.

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So we're not all that great either.

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But there's this huge problem out there that says I'm super generous, but the reality is

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we're super hypocrites when it comes to this.

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And so many people say, well, pastor, why do you have to talk about this week after week

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after week?

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Well, one of the challenges is since COVID people only attend church about once a month.

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So if I don't preach on it four times, the majority of our church never hears stewardship

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about giving.

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So if you say, well, pastor, that's one verse Luke also puts the same teaching in Luke

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1142.

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It's the exact same teaching, the exact same words.

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You should tithe.

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Yes.

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Now, this is not to pressure you to tithe.

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It's to pressure you to say, lord, am I generous to ask God?

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Because generosity is not about the amount.

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It's about the heart.

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And Jesus points this out so powerfully.

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Look, my executive pastor told me we have about 35,000 people that watch sandals church a

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week.

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If everybody gave $100, we'd raise $3.5 million extra.

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That's how easy it is if we all just get on board.

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Now, some of you, if you give $100, that's a stretch.

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For some of you, that would be an insult to the Lord.

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See what I'm saying?

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And a lot of times, all the rich people say, oh, we all need to do our part.

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I'm like, you need to do a little more than your part.

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You need to put in some parts.

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Amen.

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Your offering should be plural.

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Next.

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Jesus taught that generosity, and this is huge.

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If you got kids, I want you to listen to this.

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This is so important for how you raise your children because this is an epidemic amongst

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many young people today.

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Jesus taught that generosity is believing that giving is better than getting.

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What are all the political discussions about nowadays?

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What you should get?

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We don't call them gets.

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We call them rights.

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We don't use the language like, health care should be a right.

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Okay?

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Do you know how much health care costs?

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College should be a right.

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Does anybody know how much college costs?

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Like, these are extraordinarily expensive things.

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And we just throw these things around here because what we believe as a culture is the most

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important thing is what I get.

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Jesus said the exact opposite.

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It's about what you give.

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Come on.

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In acts 2035, the apostle Paul reminds us of a teaching that didn't make it in the gospels.

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And John tells us that there were so many things that weren't put in his gospel.

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He says this.

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If I wrote down everything Jesus said, he said, there's not enough books in the world to

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contain it.

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I mean, when Jesus said, that's the word of God, that's the word of God, and he didn't put

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it in there.

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Here's what the apostle Paul said in the book of acts.

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He said, you should remember the words of the Lord Jesus.

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If you call yourself a Christian, this is something that you should pray about every day.

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Am I remembering the words of the Lord Jesus?

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Here's what Jesus said.

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It is more blessed to give than to receive.

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We have Christmas coming up, and I love Christmas.

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And one of the discussions my wife and I, we've been having is, what's your favorite

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memory?

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Like, my wife lost her dad years ago.

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He died way too young.

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He was a wonderful man.

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I'm blessed.

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I still have my parents.

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My wife lost her dad when she was 27.

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It's really, really hard.

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We had just planted this church.

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It was a very, very tough time for us.

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And her dad was wonderful.

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And we just said, we were just talking about what's your favorite memory?

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But here's the thing.

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Christmas for me when I was a child was only about what I was going to get.

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Anybody remember not being able to sleep at night?

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It wasn't because I was so excited for what I gave.

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It's because I just was so excited for what I was going to get.

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Here's the switch.

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Now as a parent, now as a husband, I'm not excited for Christmas morning for what I'm going

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to get.

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I'm excited to see the look on faces when they see what I gave them.

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Listen to me, Christians.

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This is the difference between being a christian child and a christian adult.

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Some of you are still babies, craving milk, never growing up.

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And unfortunately, most christians are in this place.

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They think church is all about me.

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What do I need now?

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Hopefully, you are blessed when you come to sandals church.

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But if you're going to become an adult, it's what can I give?

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And if you don't agree with me, wrestle with Jesus.

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Don't wrestle with me.

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Wrestle with Jesus.

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And just so you know, you're going to lose.

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He said, not me.

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He said, it's more blessed to give than to receive.

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Jesus went on to teach this in Luke 638.

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Give, he said, and it will be given to you.

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Good measure pressed down.

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Right?

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Not like our bag of chips.

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Anybody noticed the bags are getting bigger and there's just like, there's three chips in

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there.

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There's three chips.

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My daughter helped me wrap my.

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I shouldn't say help.

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She wrapped my wife's Christmas presents because I want them to look like I care, okay?

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That's why I didn't wrap them.

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But you know what she told me?

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She said, oh, I bought all the wrapping paper.

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She said it was this amount.

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And then she went to wrap them.

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And you know what they did?

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They increased the size of the cardboard in the middle, and they put less paper on it.

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She had to buy three times as much paper as she thought the world.

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They put a lot of air in there.

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They're pumping air in that bag of says, no.

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When you give, there's no air in there.

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It's pressed down, shaken together.

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Listen to me.

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Running over it will be put into your lap.

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It won't even fit in the container.

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When you choose to give to Jesus, listen to what he says.

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For with the measure you use, it will be measured back to you.

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What?

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I thought jesus was a communist.

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Nope.

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You haven't read the gospels.

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He rewards us with what we're faithful with.

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He rewards us.

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And I gotta tell you, rewards come in all shapes and all sizes.

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Last week, or actually two weeks ago, I was preaching at Salles Church, Hunter park, and I

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came out in the lobby, and I just got to tell you, here's why I love giving to our church.

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There are a bunch of great churches in Riverside.

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There are amazing churches in southern California.

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But I want to ask you, how many churches are like this?

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Two weeks ago, I ended the sermon with work hard to keep money in its place because Jesus

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said, you cannot serve both God and money.

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I was in the lobby at Hunter park, and a young woman came up to me with tears in her eyes,

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and she said, can I hug you?

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I said, sure.

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Why?

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She said, you changed my life today.

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She said, you saved my life today.

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And she gave me a hug.

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Security was pressing in, and I said, how did I save your life?

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What changed today?

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She said, I worship money.

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She said, that's my sin.

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I said, what do you do for a living?

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With tears in her eyes, she said, I'm a stripper.

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She said, I hate it.

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She said, hey, I hate everything I do.

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She said, but I love the money.

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And she looked at me and she said, I've been worshiping the wrong God, and this church

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saved my life.

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Now let me ask you, how many churches, not just in Riverside, not just in southern

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California, not just in the world, would a woman walk up to the senior pastor and say, I

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was a stripper, but I've been changed today.

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That's sandals church.

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Amen.

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That's us.

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We welcome the people that fit nowhere else.

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What I tell people is sandals church is the last bus stop in a thing called Christianity.

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We're like the last one.

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One of my favorite stories is a guy in my small group.

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His dad was a meth addict, and he said, I want to go to church.

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And his son Adam said, go to sandals.

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They take anybody.

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And we did.

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And his dad gave his life to Christ.

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Isn't that amazing?

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That's why I give.

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And here's the thing.

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A lot of times we think about rewards just as this transaction.

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And by the way, anybody who gives money to God to get more money to God is missing the

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point.

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The rewards are not just financial.

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I don't know what you did with your week, but I got to look into the eyes of a young woman

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whose life was changed.

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She's a single mom.

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It's not just going to affect her life, but her kids life because she was confronted with

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the fact that she worships a false God.

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I don't know if you've been confronted, but maybe you're worshiping a false God during this

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series.

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So jesus taught that generosity.

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Listen to this.

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Doesn't crave attention.

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This is key.

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This is so key.

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Jesus taught this.

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He said, thus, when you give to the needy, sound no trumpet.

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Don't put it on social media.

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Right.

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Oh, my gosh.

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I mean, everybody on social media is this know person that's trying to get attention for

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all the things that they do.

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He says, don't make a big deal about what you do.

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And here's one of the things I got to confess to you.

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I've been struggling with this because last week on social media, I got slammed by an ex

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church member who literally cussed me out on social media.

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Some of you guys have seen this because I'm trying to raise money so we can have parking

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lots.

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How dare you?

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This person said, came at me, told me to f off and our church to f off.

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And I was just like, oh, my gosh.

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And it's because of all the things going on in the world, you're raising money for

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yourself.

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And I just thought, oh.

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And I told our team, our executive team, I said, we got to do a better job letting people

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know.

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But here's the tension.

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I don't want to be sounding our horn.

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Look at all the good things that we do.

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But I got to let you guys know, hey, here's some of the things that we're doing with the

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money that you're given.

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And so in the next couple of weeks, I'm going to show you some videos of me touring a

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quadplex condo complex that we're building for our missionaries.

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When they come home, it can be a studio apartment, two bedroom, three bedroom, or four

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bedroom with kitchens and everything you say.

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Why is that important?

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Because missionaries come in all shapes, sizes, and families and numbers.

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And when they come back, we want to be able to meet the needs of them.

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They're our goers.

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And when they come back, we want to welcome them.

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And we were able to do that.

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I'm going to show you a video of a laundry facility that we finished in San Bernardino.

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The number one reason kids in San Bernardino give for missing school is they don't have

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clean clothes and sandals.

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Church has built a laundry facility.

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It's fantastic.

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You're going to see it.

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And kids get to come in and use the facility for free.

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All they got to do is sign up for it and kids are coming every day.

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I saw the list of names of the kids that use it the night before I filmed.

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We're doing that.

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We're not just raising money for parking lots.

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We're not just raising money for raises.

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We gave almost $250,000 to Ukraine.

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We're not paying for bombs.

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We're paying for souls.

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We're trying to save people's lives.

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We gave another couple hundred thousand dollars to Turkey, to primarily a muslim community

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that's been rocked by an earthquake.

499
00:23:27,258 --> 00:23:31,518
And I know the world is forgotten, but those people still need houses and our ministry and

500
00:23:31,524 --> 00:23:33,038
our dollars are still working there.

501
00:23:33,124 --> 00:23:36,898
And just so you know, when the time is right and we're able to minister to the people in

502
00:23:36,904 --> 00:23:40,500
Gaza, we will do that at Sandals church because that is who we are.

503
00:23:41,590 --> 00:23:44,466
But we live in this world where everything is.

504
00:23:44,648 --> 00:23:47,306
I've made a post and so therefore I'm generous.

505
00:23:47,358 --> 00:23:48,002
I'm woke.

506
00:23:48,066 --> 00:23:49,160
I am amazing.

507
00:23:50,890 --> 00:23:52,310
Jesus says, don't do that.

508
00:23:52,380 --> 00:23:55,154
It's not who you are on social media that matters.

509
00:23:55,202 --> 00:23:57,750
It's who you are in your real life that matters.

510
00:23:58,090 --> 00:23:59,814
And so when you give.

511
00:24:00,012 --> 00:24:01,830
Don't sound a trumpet.

512
00:24:02,330 --> 00:24:03,560
Don't do that.

513
00:24:04,590 --> 00:24:07,498
It always makes me feel so weird, you know when you're at the grocery store and you want to

514
00:24:07,504 --> 00:24:10,346
give money to kids, cancer or whatever, and they ring the bell.

515
00:24:10,378 --> 00:24:11,674
It's so embarrassing.

516
00:24:11,802 --> 00:24:12,826
Bing, bing, bing, bing, bing.

517
00:24:12,858 --> 00:24:15,054
I'm like, can you just not do that?

518
00:24:15,252 --> 00:24:18,000
Can I give extra for you not to do that?

519
00:24:20,290 --> 00:24:22,510
It's so embarrassing.

520
00:24:23,410 --> 00:24:25,140
But some people love that.

521
00:24:26,070 --> 00:24:28,210
And you just rounded up $0.02.

522
00:24:28,630 --> 00:24:30,050
Do you want to round up for children?

523
00:24:30,120 --> 00:24:31,166
Oh, it's $0.99.

524
00:24:31,198 --> 00:24:33,490
I'll do it because I'm generous.

525
00:24:36,570 --> 00:24:43,190
Jesus says, don't do it like the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets.

526
00:24:44,810 --> 00:24:48,678
A lot of churches when you go there, and I don't want to shame these churches, I just don't

527
00:24:48,684 --> 00:24:49,126
agree with it.

528
00:24:49,148 --> 00:24:50,854
You see people's names on the buildings.

529
00:24:50,902 --> 00:24:52,220
I just don't like that.

530
00:24:53,150 --> 00:24:54,460
I don't like that.

531
00:24:56,030 --> 00:24:57,098
Listen to what he says.

532
00:24:57,184 --> 00:24:59,820
They do it so that they may be praised by others.

533
00:25:00,770 --> 00:25:02,910
Now this teaching is powerful.

534
00:25:04,290 --> 00:25:06,718
Truly, I say to you, this is Jesus speaking.

535
00:25:06,804 --> 00:25:09,280
He says, they have received their reward in full.

536
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:18,696
But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is

537
00:25:18,718 --> 00:25:19,192
doing.

538
00:25:19,326 --> 00:25:20,600
Isn't that incredible?

539
00:25:23,020 --> 00:25:26,440
So that your giving may be in secret.

540
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:27,790
Wow.

541
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:33,212
One of the reasons it's so important that we do that at this church is that we don't treat

542
00:25:33,266 --> 00:25:34,460
people differently.

543
00:25:35,360 --> 00:25:36,430
It's important.

544
00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:44,530
And he says this, and your father, who sees in secret, will reward you.

545
00:25:45,540 --> 00:25:49,330
Man, this is so, so important.

546
00:25:50,420 --> 00:25:55,584
Years ago, I was talking with one of our campus pastors, and he's been with us a long time,

547
00:25:55,622 --> 00:25:58,564
and he said, oh, you remember that time we were trying to raise money?

548
00:25:58,602 --> 00:26:02,480
It was called 24/7 it was our first giving campaign to buy the Hunter park facility.

549
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:04,448
And I preached on Noah's ark.

550
00:26:04,464 --> 00:26:07,696
And I literally said, this is back in my younger days, it was a little offensive.

551
00:26:07,888 --> 00:26:09,176
You guys think I'm offensive now?

552
00:26:09,198 --> 00:26:11,770
You should have come to church, like 20 years ago.

553
00:26:12,300 --> 00:26:14,772
And my whole sermon was, everybody got on the ark.

554
00:26:14,836 --> 00:26:17,740
It was people or animals, and only the people contributed.

555
00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:20,830
So are you an animal or a person?

556
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:24,380
I don't.

557
00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:26,844
Okay.

558
00:26:26,882 --> 00:26:27,928
It was a little rough.

559
00:26:28,024 --> 00:26:29,420
It was a little rough.

560
00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:39,480
But here's what I did, is I told the Church how much I was giving, and this young leader,

561
00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:40,028
he loved that.

562
00:26:40,034 --> 00:26:44,084
And I wrestled with whether or not to tell you guys what Tammy and I are going to do.

563
00:26:44,122 --> 00:26:46,132
And I told the number, amount.

564
00:26:46,186 --> 00:26:49,748
And at the time, I think it inspired a bunch of young people to give, and I'm not going to

565
00:26:49,754 --> 00:26:53,364
tell you what I'm giving because I think that you just need to know that I am.

566
00:26:53,482 --> 00:26:57,160
That I'm going to give over and above, and I'm going to give sacrificially.

567
00:26:57,580 --> 00:27:00,920
But I think it's important that I don't sound the trumpet.

568
00:27:01,420 --> 00:27:02,872
But I want you to know this.

569
00:27:02,926 --> 00:27:06,490
I never ask you to do something that I don't do.

570
00:27:07,900 --> 00:27:09,316
I ask you to serve the church.

571
00:27:09,348 --> 00:27:10,036
I serve the church.

572
00:27:10,068 --> 00:27:11,380
I ask you to give to the church.

573
00:27:11,460 --> 00:27:12,296
I give to the church.

574
00:27:12,328 --> 00:27:13,532
I ask you to be in a small group.

575
00:27:13,586 --> 00:27:14,830
I'm in a small group.

576
00:27:17,450 --> 00:27:20,200
I would never ask you to do something I wouldn't do myself.

577
00:27:22,430 --> 00:27:26,940
Jesus says it's so important to not make a big deal.

578
00:27:29,070 --> 00:27:31,562
There's a lot of ways to show off in your life.

579
00:27:31,696 --> 00:27:36,494
I don't think any of them are good, but it's especially not good to show off with what you

580
00:27:36,532 --> 00:27:41,902
give and make sure that you understand this.

581
00:27:42,036 --> 00:27:46,126
So we're going to work harder to let you guys know what we're doing, just so that you can

582
00:27:46,148 --> 00:27:47,306
know, because I think we're all curious.

583
00:27:47,338 --> 00:27:49,022
Okay, well, where is all this money going?

584
00:27:49,156 --> 00:27:50,866
What happens with all of this?

585
00:27:51,048 --> 00:27:52,242
One of the most exciting things.

586
00:27:52,296 --> 00:27:54,930
Remember last week when I was a menafee and I fell off the stage?

587
00:27:55,910 --> 00:27:56,642
That was awesome.

588
00:27:56,696 --> 00:28:00,760
I told my wife, when we look back and we say, when was the day we became old?

589
00:28:02,490 --> 00:28:03,606
That was the day.

590
00:28:03,708 --> 00:28:05,880
That was the day when I cross over.

591
00:28:06,490 --> 00:28:12,380
When stairs are your enemy, you are now old man.

592
00:28:12,910 --> 00:28:14,246
So it was so embarrassing.

593
00:28:14,278 --> 00:28:20,330
Next service, they put lights on it for me right here, Pastor Matt.

594
00:28:22,350 --> 00:28:24,250
Lastly, stay focused.

595
00:28:25,870 --> 00:28:29,022
Jesus taught that generosity, this is so important.

596
00:28:29,156 --> 00:28:33,886
And some of you have been christians for a long time, and what I'm going to say in this

597
00:28:33,908 --> 00:28:35,620
last point is going to rock you.

598
00:28:37,030 --> 00:28:41,010
Jesus taught that generosity helps to keep me spiritually sharp.

599
00:28:43,110 --> 00:28:46,766
You see, a relationship with Jesus is like all relationships.

600
00:28:46,958 --> 00:28:49,670
There are ups and there are downs.

601
00:28:50,810 --> 00:28:52,530
There are ups and there are downs.

602
00:28:52,690 --> 00:28:56,354
When you first start dating guys, you're all about the gifts.

603
00:28:56,482 --> 00:28:57,654
Then you're married ten years.

604
00:28:57,692 --> 00:29:01,030
Like, was I supposed to get a gift?

605
00:29:01,710 --> 00:29:04,890
Yes, go get a gift.

606
00:29:07,470 --> 00:29:13,466
But, you know, you can tell how you feel about a relationship based upon the gifts that you

607
00:29:13,488 --> 00:29:14,058
want to give.

608
00:29:14,144 --> 00:29:15,180
It's just true.

609
00:29:16,350 --> 00:29:18,522
Jesus understands there are ups and downs.

610
00:29:18,586 --> 00:29:21,280
He doesn't expect you to be on fire all the time.

611
00:29:22,050 --> 00:29:24,110
People that are like that are liars.

612
00:29:24,870 --> 00:29:25,890
They're not on fire.

613
00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:27,250
They're shouters.

614
00:29:28,710 --> 00:29:30,062
Jesus understands.

615
00:29:30,126 --> 00:29:31,230
He understands.

616
00:29:31,310 --> 00:29:32,878
He knows what it's like to be tired.

617
00:29:32,974 --> 00:29:34,210
He was bored.

618
00:29:34,550 --> 00:29:37,422
He gets the mundane aspects of life.

619
00:29:37,496 --> 00:29:38,600
He was a human.

620
00:29:40,010 --> 00:29:43,426
Jesus understands that relationships have ups and downs.

621
00:29:43,458 --> 00:29:45,560
He just doesn't want a dead relationship.

622
00:29:47,370 --> 00:29:54,714
And so in the book of revelation, it begins with a letter to churches who've let their

623
00:29:54,752 --> 00:29:56,890
relationship with God slip.

624
00:29:58,110 --> 00:30:01,450
And there's a particular letter to the church at Laodicea.

625
00:30:01,790 --> 00:30:03,034
And here's the thing you need to know.

626
00:30:03,072 --> 00:30:08,094
This church doesn't exist anymore, but the letter does because Jesus said, my words will

627
00:30:08,132 --> 00:30:08,346
remain.

628
00:30:08,378 --> 00:30:09,150
And he was true.

629
00:30:09,220 --> 00:30:10,286
He was right.

630
00:30:10,468 --> 00:30:14,974
Thousands of years later, we have to excavate where this church was, and it's just

631
00:30:15,012 --> 00:30:20,994
literally stones and dirt and not a lot of life.

632
00:30:21,032 --> 00:30:24,434
But at one time, there was a lot of life there, and there was a lot of people there who had

633
00:30:24,472 --> 00:30:26,020
done really, really well.

634
00:30:27,690 --> 00:30:34,806
And Jesus says to this church at Leodicea, in revelation, chapter three, verses 15 through

635
00:30:34,828 --> 00:30:36,710
18, he says, I know your deeds.

636
00:30:38,650 --> 00:30:40,150
I know your deeds.

637
00:30:41,450 --> 00:30:45,098
My wife and I, man, whenever I go on a vacation, she's always, like, worried about what I'm

638
00:30:45,104 --> 00:30:46,540
going to do when she's not around.

639
00:30:47,470 --> 00:30:49,260
And you know what I just told her one time?

640
00:30:50,030 --> 00:30:52,054
I said, you're scary.

641
00:30:52,182 --> 00:30:53,340
Let's just say that.

642
00:30:54,590 --> 00:30:56,974
But I don't live a righteous life because I fear you.

643
00:30:57,012 --> 00:30:58,270
I fear the Lord.

644
00:30:58,930 --> 00:31:00,880
There's no hiding from God.

645
00:31:01,890 --> 00:31:03,582
And some of you think you can.

646
00:31:03,716 --> 00:31:07,540
That's why the psalmist says, even in the darkness, you are there.

647
00:31:09,990 --> 00:31:11,570
I know your deeds.

648
00:31:12,470 --> 00:31:16,900
And this is Jesus speaking to a christian church 2000 years ago.

649
00:31:17,590 --> 00:31:21,160
He says that you are neither cold nor hot.

650
00:31:23,610 --> 00:31:25,990
You're not on fire, and you're not falling away.

651
00:31:26,060 --> 00:31:27,222
Listen to what Jesus says.

652
00:31:27,276 --> 00:31:29,400
I wish you were either one or the other.

653
00:31:30,830 --> 00:31:31,580
Wow.

654
00:31:33,710 --> 00:31:40,170
So because you are lukewarm, neither hot nor cold, I'm about to spit you out of my mouth.

655
00:31:41,470 --> 00:31:43,360
Now, you've all heard this.

656
00:31:44,930 --> 00:31:49,230
You've all heard this, but many of you have never read it in context.

657
00:31:49,890 --> 00:31:51,200
What's their problem?

658
00:31:51,890 --> 00:31:53,038
Why aren't they hot?

659
00:31:53,124 --> 00:31:54,282
Why aren't they cold?

660
00:31:54,346 --> 00:31:56,290
Because they've been blessed.

661
00:31:57,670 --> 00:31:59,586
And Jesus calls them out.

662
00:31:59,688 --> 00:32:01,970
He says, you say, I'm rich.

663
00:32:02,950 --> 00:32:04,446
I have acquired wealth.

664
00:32:04,478 --> 00:32:07,634
I don't need a thing, man.

665
00:32:07,832 --> 00:32:11,826
For some of you, the worst thing that could ever happen to you is you win the lottery.

666
00:32:12,018 --> 00:32:14,166
It could destroy your life.

667
00:32:14,348 --> 00:32:20,314
You say, I'm rich, but you do not realize that you are wretched, pitiful, poor, blind, and,

668
00:32:20,352 --> 00:32:22,090
oh, by the way, naked.

669
00:32:23,950 --> 00:32:31,020
Jesus says, I counsel you to buy from me gold refined in the fire.

670
00:32:31,710 --> 00:32:36,750
Listen to this so you can become rich.

671
00:32:39,330 --> 00:32:42,810
I have seen this over and over again in our church.

672
00:32:42,970 --> 00:32:46,366
You know how I know when a person is slipping from sandals?

673
00:32:46,558 --> 00:32:48,130
When their giving slips?

674
00:32:49,830 --> 00:32:53,460
The best way to take your spiritual temperature is to look at your giving.

675
00:32:55,910 --> 00:32:57,140
It just is.

676
00:32:58,330 --> 00:33:00,962
And here's what happened to the church at Laodicea.

677
00:33:01,106 --> 00:33:05,510
They were wealthy, they were blessed, and they were just kind of cruising.

678
00:33:07,370 --> 00:33:11,240
Your financial comfort may be your greatest enemy to Christ.

679
00:33:13,530 --> 00:33:14,938
And here's what Jesus said.

680
00:33:15,024 --> 00:33:16,746
If you don't change, I'm going to spit you out.

681
00:33:16,768 --> 00:33:17,258
And listen to me.

682
00:33:17,264 --> 00:33:18,470
There's no one there anymore.

683
00:33:18,550 --> 00:33:20,540
We don't know what happened, but we can guess.

684
00:33:21,870 --> 00:33:24,160
But his words are still here.

685
00:33:26,050 --> 00:33:31,486
And then here I'm going to finish with one of the most misused texts in the history of

686
00:33:31,508 --> 00:33:32,270
scripture.

687
00:33:33,090 --> 00:33:36,366
I wish that you were hot and or cold, but you are not either, because you've fallen in love

688
00:33:36,388 --> 00:33:36,894
with your money.

689
00:33:36,932 --> 00:33:39,054
And some of you say, well, thank God I'm not rich.

690
00:33:39,182 --> 00:33:39,826
Listen to me.

691
00:33:39,848 --> 00:33:48,626
If you make $32,000 more or more, $32,000 a year or more, you are in the top 1% of income

692
00:33:48,658 --> 00:33:50,200
earners in the world.

693
00:33:51,370 --> 00:33:52,440
In the world.

694
00:33:54,010 --> 00:33:59,206
And the only reason you think you're poor is because you haven't gotten out and seen what

695
00:33:59,228 --> 00:34:00,540
poverty is.

696
00:34:03,260 --> 00:34:04,776
You haven't seen it.

697
00:34:04,958 --> 00:34:07,690
You have no idea how blessed you are.

698
00:34:10,460 --> 00:34:14,170
America has many problems, but you are blessed to live here.

699
00:34:15,980 --> 00:34:19,928
And we know this because every day there are thousands upon thousands of people crossing

700
00:34:19,944 --> 00:34:24,824
our border illegally because they would rather be a criminal here than a citizen somewhere

701
00:34:24,872 --> 00:34:25,470
else.

702
00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:27,810
Because they know.

703
00:34:28,340 --> 00:34:29,410
They know.

704
00:34:31,380 --> 00:34:33,184
And we're all upset at what we don't have.

705
00:34:33,222 --> 00:34:35,040
And we haven't thanked God for what we do have.

706
00:34:35,110 --> 00:34:37,440
And here's how this passage ends.

707
00:34:38,420 --> 00:34:39,712
I wish that you were hot.

708
00:34:39,766 --> 00:34:40,944
I wish that you were cold.

709
00:34:40,992 --> 00:34:41,712
But you're neither.

710
00:34:41,776 --> 00:34:43,700
You're just lukewarm.

711
00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:46,400
He says, I'm going to spit you out of my mouth.

712
00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:49,216
And then the passages ends with this verse.

713
00:34:49,328 --> 00:34:52,600
Behold, I stand at the door and knock.

714
00:34:54,780 --> 00:35:00,970
If anyone would answer that door and let me in, I would sit down and eat with them.

715
00:35:02,860 --> 00:35:06,792
We all use this as an invitation for people to accept Christ in their hearts.

716
00:35:06,856 --> 00:35:10,510
This is an invitation for the church and christians to let him back in.

717
00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:13,470
And what happened?

718
00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:16,140
They fell in love with their comfort.

719
00:35:18,340 --> 00:35:20,850
They fell in love with their own money.

720
00:35:21,620 --> 00:35:26,160
They thought they were rich, but according to Jesus, they were broke.

721
00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:33,380
Generosity is the best way I know to keep me spiritually sharp.

722
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:37,510
It's not the only way, but it's a great way.

723
00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:42,496
And so let's just end as we prepare to take an offering.

724
00:35:42,528 --> 00:35:46,170
And by the way, if you're not ready to give today, you can give throughout the year.

725
00:35:46,700 --> 00:35:47,844
There's two calls.

726
00:35:47,972 --> 00:35:49,976
If you're not a regular giver yet, step up.

727
00:35:49,998 --> 00:35:50,836
Become a regular giver.

728
00:35:50,868 --> 00:35:54,916
If you are a regular giver, pray about giving above and beyond, because that's what we're

729
00:35:54,948 --> 00:35:55,770
trying to do.

730
00:35:56,460 --> 00:35:58,808
We still need to raise a couple of million bucks.

731
00:35:58,984 --> 00:36:00,044
We got a long way to go.

732
00:36:00,082 --> 00:36:00,588
Just pray about it.

733
00:36:00,594 --> 00:36:02,844
Say, lord, what do you want me to do?

734
00:36:03,042 --> 00:36:05,070
And whatever God says, do it.

735
00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:10,512
But generosity is a great way to invite Jesus back into our hearts, back into our lives,

736
00:36:10,566 --> 00:36:13,120
and think about that illustration back into our homes.

737
00:36:14,420 --> 00:36:16,960
How sad would that be for us as christians?

738
00:36:17,540 --> 00:36:22,228
You're all offended that it's all about Santa everywhere else, but Jesus saying, is it

739
00:36:22,234 --> 00:36:23,430
about me in your home?

740
00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:29,110
And he's knocking at the door and he's saying, I want to come in.

741
00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:31,860
So let me close by saying this.

742
00:36:32,010 --> 00:36:34,228
I'm just so grateful for those of you who give.

743
00:36:34,394 --> 00:36:35,184
I am.

744
00:36:35,322 --> 00:36:37,480
There is no ministry without your giving.

745
00:36:37,550 --> 00:36:38,612
It doesn't exist.

746
00:36:38,756 --> 00:36:42,388
And I'm so grateful, and I'm looking forward to see what we do as a church.

747
00:36:42,484 --> 00:36:44,520
And just know this, I'm in this with you.

748
00:36:44,590 --> 00:36:47,132
Tammy and I are giving, and I look forward to what we give.

749
00:36:47,266 --> 00:36:53,992
So let's close and pray and ask God to move in our hearts and then to bless and multiply

750
00:36:54,056 --> 00:36:56,140
this offering, okay?

751
00:36:56,290 --> 00:36:57,324
Because God can do that.

752
00:36:57,362 --> 00:36:58,444
He can multiply things.

753
00:36:58,482 --> 00:36:59,584
So let's ask him to do that.

754
00:36:59,622 --> 00:37:00,124
Let's pray.

755
00:37:00,172 --> 00:37:05,952
Heavenly Father, in the name of Jesus, we pray, Lord, that we would give whatever amount

756
00:37:06,006 --> 00:37:10,144
that you're calling us to give for this special offering, Lord, that we would feel good

757
00:37:10,182 --> 00:37:12,796
about it, and that we would give cheerfully, Lord.

758
00:37:12,828 --> 00:37:14,736
And that we would give generously, Lord.

759
00:37:14,768 --> 00:37:16,388
Whatever it is, I pray that we give it.

760
00:37:16,474 --> 00:37:22,516
God, I just ask that as this money comes in, Lord, from online, from our campuses, and from

761
00:37:22,538 --> 00:37:26,720
our friends, from other churches that watch sandals, as well as attend their own church,

762
00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:32,004
God, I just pray that you would bless this and multiply it, just like you did when a young

763
00:37:32,042 --> 00:37:33,340
boy brought some.

764
00:37:33,370 --> 00:37:36,088
Some fishes and loaves of bread.

765
00:37:36,264 --> 00:37:41,784
And God, as you used it to feed the 50,000, Lord, I pray that you would use this offering

766
00:37:41,832 --> 00:37:48,888
to meet the needs that we have as a church so that we can charge in to 2024, Lord, leading

767
00:37:48,984 --> 00:37:50,204
people to Christ.

768
00:37:50,322 --> 00:37:52,172
We pray this in Jesus name.

769
00:37:52,306 --> 00:37:53,048
Amen.

770
00:37:53,144 --> 00:37:53,480
Amen.