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The Tya Podcast.

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Discover the daily practice that makes spirituality actually work.

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Going beyond law of attraction to turn struggle into prosperity and success into real happiness.

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Tya is an advanced operating system for life, and you're about to learn it right now.

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Welcome to the Tya Podcast.

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I am here with Tya Coach Derek.

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And I have to start off with, you've been on before.

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People loved you when you were on, so I think they're going to love you this time.

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Okay.

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And the interesting thing about you is that you actually have a scientific education.

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You have a degree in physics.

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But somehow you landed over here in the woo-woo world with mindset and energy work

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and things that are beyond physical.

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The first question that I have for you that I want to dig into,

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and I know we have a second topic we're going to get into in this episode as well.

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But the first one is how do you marry or how did you marry your scientific

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education and you still work in a related field with energy work like this?

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The truth is, is that when I was growing up, I wasn't really involved in a particular religion.

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And my dream was to become an astronaut when I was a kid and

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I liked building spaceships with different things around the house.

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And so I decided to become an aerospace engineer.

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And on the way to becoming that, I needed to get a physics degree as part of it.

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I was in a double degree program.

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And while I was working my way through that program, I had a few strange experiences happen.

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And I don't recall the first one,

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to be honest with you,

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but there were a few different events that all happened around the same time.

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And some of them got me a little scared, like maybe I need to pay attention to religion.

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And then the very last thing happened, and that was my Kung Fu teacher.

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My hobby was Kung Fu when I was a student.

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And my Kung Fu teacher actually pushed me with...

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with chi or ki.

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And this wasn't something that I believed in.

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And it really caused a big problem for me because his studio where we practice

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martial arts was just a garage with center block walls that had been painted over

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and a fan to cool it off,

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not even air conditioning.

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Like there was literally nothing around that room

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that could have pushed me from a distance.

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And it bothered me so much.

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And I actually had kind of a mini stressful,

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not breakdown,

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but it was a really bad time for me because my belief system was being crashed.

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And I went to my physics professors.

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I went to the head of the department and he said, well, it didn't happen.

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It was your imagination.

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And I just kind of quickly discounted him.

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I moved on to the other professors.

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The second one told me,

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well,

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science doesn't look at things that it doesn't have the tools to measure.

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So there may be many things out there that are true,

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but if we don't have the tools to measure those things,

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we don't look at them.

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And I thought, huh, okay.

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The third one told me, well,

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Science doesn't really look too far away from the current model or theory that it's

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operating from.

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And that what we call science is actually our best, our current best model of reality.

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It's not meant to be the final say on everything.

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It's still growing and expanding.

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And so a lot of times we don't look at things that are too far outside of the current model.

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And this really bothered me because I had built my, my model of reality on science.

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For me, science was kind of like my religion or my God.

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And now

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Here are two of my professors telling me,

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well,

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look,

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there are a lot of things that science just won't look at.

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And so this, you know, this really bothered me.

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And I thought,

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well,

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how many things out there are actually true that I've had a closed mind to or have

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been ignoring because I built my entire model of reality on science?

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And then I just thought that I would rather know what's actually true.

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And at that point it was tough because I couldn't ask anyone around me because

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people pretty much believe the same things.

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Even the things they don't believe in,

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they pretty much don't believe in the things that they don't believe in because

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other people around them don't believe in the things.

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And it's not because they've tested it for themselves and they knew and they

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learned,

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it's just because it's kind of all secondhand information.

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And so I decided, well, nobody else is looking at these things really around me.

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If I really wanna know,

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was true or not, I'm going to have to study and test and experiment for myself.

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And I think that ties into something that you said earlier related to Tya,

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to test for yourself.

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And that's what I did.

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Everything I had previously had a closed mind to before that point,

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I just made a list and I had an open mind and I would go and I would get a book on

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it and I would study it and I would experiment with it.

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And I went through

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a host of different things like that,

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like astrology,

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numerology,

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palmistry,

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different world religions and philosophy,

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like in metaphysics,

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just anything I'd had a closed mind to.

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And a lot of this stuff worked.

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And some of it worked, but I couldn't find a practical application for it, so I shelved it.

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Some of it didn't work, and that stuff got pushed aside.

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And then some of it did work.

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And I played with that stuff, and

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It evolved over time,

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you know,

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it worked its way back into religion and it kind of tied into science.

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If you look at like quantum theory or quantum mechanics,

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the idea that the idea that at the subatomic particle level that it's actually

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responding to the expectations or the

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uh,

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what the observer has in mind is like,

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we're not actually outside of the experiment,

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but we're,

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we're a part of nature.

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And so our,

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our observation and expectation actually influences the probability of what,

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what shows up.

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So, and I was able to tie it all back in through things like, like that.

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And if you look at the, uh, you know, different, um,

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David Price- ancient texts and things like that,

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you know they all start to hint that you know mind is creating our reality.

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David Price- And this is where it tied back into kind of the quantum the quantum

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theory,

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and so I was able to resolve it in that way,

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but then it put it put all of the responsibility back on the observer because.

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Now what I do and how I show up is actually influencing the results I get.

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And even though that quantum mechanics and quantum theory has been out for more

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than 100 years now,

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people still don't live their everyday life from this perspective that I'm actually

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walking around an interactive universe and

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you know, my vibration and how I show up is influencing what I get.

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I mean,

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and I guess this goes back to culture,

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you know,

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and I guess in normal everyday culture or what you would call matrix thinking,

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we do have this,

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there is some social reward for being a victim.

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You know,

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you get support,

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you can commiserate with people,

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you know,

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so there is some of that,

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but,

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and it's easier for people

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guess psychologically if they don't take responsibility but in reality if you do

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take responsibility for what shows up in your life even the things that you you

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don't like then it empowers you and you know that you can start to work on it and

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shift it and uh and a lot of i guess the last thing i should say about that is is

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that

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A lot of the results that we are creating for ourselves in our lives are also

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showing up from a subconscious level,

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not the conscious mind.

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I'm not saying people consciously go out and create accidents or attacks or things

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like this for themselves.

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Yeah, yeah.

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And so that entails, I guess, a certain amount of cleanup work, you know.

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Yeah.

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Well, in the matrix, again, that's victim blaming.

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How dare you?

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I used to interact a lot.

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We post a lot on social media and share a lot of teaching on social media.

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I used to interact a lot more on social media when I had more time.

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And when I did,

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I would always run into these people that sort of wanted to argue about Tya or

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conscious creation or law of attraction or any of these things that we talk about.

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And I'm always amazed and a bit amused by people who

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claim to be highly intelligent and present themselves this way,

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but then they refuse to believe anything that isn't proven by science.

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And people say, well, where's the science behind this?

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I need scientific evidence.

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And I would always say, well, why don't you prove it to yourself?

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Why don't you apply it in your life and see if it works?

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Because the scientific community, if there is one,

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It's kind of like the LGBTQ community.

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There's not really a community.

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It's just a whole bunch of people lumped together that,

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you know,

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we're told as a community that's not true.

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But the scientific community,

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quote unquote,

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would call law of attraction or anything that we really teach us pseudoscience,

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that it's something that's presented as scientific fact.

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I don't really present it as scientific fact,

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or a lot of people may believe that it's scientific fact and it's not.

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There are certain things that I do believe just cannot be proven because,

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for example,

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conscious creation,

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it's very easy in the matrix thinking to look at someone who is an abused child and

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say,

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okay,

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You know, how is that child creating their own abuse from their consciousness?

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So it's kind of like they go to the most outlying extreme example to disprove

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something immediately before exploring it kind of between A and B,

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right?

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And I always say,

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well,

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I do believe there's an element of that present,

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but that's a very complex scenario.

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And the reason that we can't prove conscious creation is because you don't know

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what's really going on in someone else's subconscious mind.

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And we don't know because we don't have a recollection of what we project into this life with.

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Are we an energy force that existed before conception that we're bringing something else in?

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Pat, yeah.

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And a lot of people believe that we're,

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I know there's some religions even that believe that we're here paying a debt for

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things that we did in the past.

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I think karma sort of has some elements of that in it.

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And

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We also just don't know what that person,

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even a very young person,

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is absorbing in their environment.

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I remember at a very young age, my grandmother telling me this horrific story.

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We were on a vacation, and it was my brother and I and my mother and my grandmother.

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Well,

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my brother and I,

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I was really young,

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like six,

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seven years old,

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and we needed to go to the bathroom.

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And she goes, oh, you can't go to the bathroom by yourself.

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I'll never forget this.

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You cannot go to the bathroom by yourself.

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You need your older brother to go to the bathroom with you because there was a man

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waiting in the bathroom one time and he cut this boy's penis off and killed him in

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the bathroom.

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And I'm seven years old just needing to pee and I'm trying to process this.

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So you absorb this thing.

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And I would imagine in my grandmother's mind,

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And, you know, she was raised in a German immigrant household.

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So probably very matter of fact and to the point.

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Right.

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And in her mind,

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she was probably looking out for me saying,

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hey,

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you know,

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you're seven years old.

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You should go to the bathroom by yourself.

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And here's the very practical reason why.

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But good God, when you're seven, that's all you've got.

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I can't go to the bathroom now.

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Somebody's got to cut my dick off in the bathroom.

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Yeah.

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I know that's how we pick these things up and then you absorb these fears and then

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you carry these fears into your life.

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Right?

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So we just don't know what's going on in someone else's subconscious mind.

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So you can't judge anyone else's creation at any time in their life because you just don't know.

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So there's a reason that you really can't prove what's going on subconsciously.

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And I've gone very deep in conversation with my source, with my stream,

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And why has science never been able to prove or disprove God or source or whatever

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we want to call that?

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And the stream came back saying,

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because we,

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source,

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whatever you want to call that,

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is in everything.

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So if source consciousness is present always at all times and all things,

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the statue behind me and you and me everywhere,

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how do you prove or disprove something like that?

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You can't isolate it, right?

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You can't really test it because source is the most benevolent person on the planet

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and the most evil,

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damaging person on the planet simultaneously and everything in between.

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Source is all of it.

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So how do you prove that?

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But what you can prove is your own ability to create from your consciousness.

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And when Law of Attraction came online as a mainstream thing,

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of course,

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there's been books and theories about this,

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as you said,

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for at least 100 years and probably even beyond that.

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But I think The Secret did a lot to sort of bring...

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law of attraction,

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at least into the mainstream,

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because it was just so well presented and well marketed and Oprah's talking about

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it.

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And suddenly the secret, it was everywhere.

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And people don't really talk about it as much anymore, but people still hear about it.

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And I was talking to somebody the other day that was 28 years old and he knew about the secret.

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So it's still a thing.

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And that book presented it as something so simplistic that you can just dream of

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something and boof,

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it's just going to pop in front of you.

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And

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I think that was part of its success,

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giving people a lot of hope that you can change your life through your

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consciousness.

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And I believe it was sort of a gateway into consciousness creation or whatever you

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want to call it,

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spirituality.

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It was a gateway for a whole lot of people and it drove a mass awakening.

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So I think that book was pivotal for humanity,

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though flawed,

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because the flaws in it are this conscious creation process is

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We are absolutely able to do this,

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but we're operating in an environment that teaches us the contrary all the time,

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all over the place.

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And I say that because, and I call this the matrix, the collective consciousness of humanity.

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I say that because I think we needed the matrix, right?

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I think we needed to sort of say,

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okay,

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enable for humanity to advance beyond where all the other beings on our planet are

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operating,

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create things,

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technology and travel and all these things.

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We need to have some structure.

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And how do we create structure?

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How do we reign all these wild people that are out there killing each other and

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doing who knows what before we were in organized societies?

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How do we reign all that in?

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How do we reign that behavior in?

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Well, you create a God, you create a deity, you say there's rules.

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If you don't follow the rules, you're going to suffer because you don't follow the rules.

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So these systems that we created that are very limiting actually did propel us.

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But I believe we've outgrown them now.

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We just simply don't need them anymore.

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It's like we're just in a giant thought projection field,

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you know,

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almost like the holodeck from Star Trek.

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But how do you actually know what you have in your consciousness if you can't see it?

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How do you know what's in your subconscious mind or even at times your conscious mind?

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While you're active in the world, sometimes you can't see these things.

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But if they get reflected back to you in experiences and people and events,

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then you know what's happening.

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You know,

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and I think the secret,

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I think the secret was amazing because it did bring so many people.

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It did put conscious creation on so many people's radar.

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And for the first time,

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a lot of people did start experimenting with it and a lot of people did start

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seeing results and a lot of people didn't because,

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yeah,

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there was some some information missing as well,

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too.

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But as a starter, I think it got a lot of people

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in the lane.

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Like you said, I think it was pivotal for awakening a large group of people.

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And I think there's going to be a ripple.

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And a lot of those people continued on with other material like Abraham Hicks or

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even the Tya material now.

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Could you just come off of the street and into Tya without having any kind of

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previous exposure to

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the law of attraction or through some of those other, like you called gateway teachings.

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Like it's almost like you needed some experience with it to see the full benefit of

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a practice like,

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like Tya.

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Yeah.

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It's funny that you say that because,

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uh,

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I I've always said I didn't create Tya for the novice because there's so many

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other things out there.

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I mean,

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if you go put law of attraction in Google search or go to Facebook and you're going

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to find hundreds,

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if not thousands of

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people teaching that and books about it.

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And it's just everywhere.

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I didn't think that I needed to teach that because I I've understood this my whole life.

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I didn't know what it was called when I was a kid,

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but I understood law of attraction very early on and it worked.

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I look back at my high school life and those of you that have been listening for

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years,

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I apologize.

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You're going to have to sit through the story again, but I promise it'll be done in two minutes.

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I grew up in a very poor household and I was envious of my extended family who were

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upper middle class,

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my half sister,

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my cousins,

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they all were upper middle class,

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four bedroom,

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two story houses,

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new cars every couple of years,

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vacations.

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And we were not,

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we were two bedroom,

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roach infested apartment,

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prostitutes in my community,

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no money,

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you know,

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can of beans for dinner.

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We were,

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We were the trash of the family, if you will.

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We weren't trashy, but we were certainly poor.

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And when you grow up like that, I think it's almost worse.

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I think if you grow up around just poor people,

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you don't really know you're poor until you get a little older.

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We were very aware that we were poor at a very young age.

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And being exposed, we would, again...

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wear hand-me-down clothes, have nothing.

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And then we'd go to my half sister's house.

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She got a swimming pool for Christmas one year.

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It was a very different existence.

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Her bedroom suite was the size of our whole apartment that we lived in.

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So it was just very, very different, very unbalanced.

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Oh my gosh, it was so in my face.

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And that motivated me to want to figure out, I really hated where I was

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And the only thing that I had,

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because I wasn't a good student,

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if I had been a good student,

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I probably said,

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I'm going to become a physician or an attorney or something,

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and I'm going to make a lot of money and it's going to be great.

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I was a terrible student.

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Now we know I had ADHD and dyslexia and all these lovely things,

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but it wasn't diagnosed in Louisiana public schools at that time.

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So the only thing I had was my mindset.

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And that inner knowing that, let me go into that.

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Let me keep going into that.

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And I did.

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And again, by the time I was in high school, I looked like one of the rich kids in town.

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Brand new car, nice clothes, fancy watch, ran around with all the rich kids.

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You know, we ran around in BMWs and IROC Zs.

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And, you know, I had a brand new Ford Thunderbird, which was a nice car at the time.

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And, you know, I manifested in my teens.

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And I continue doing that until I finally realized,

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well,

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wait a minute,

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there's more than just money and material things to all this.

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So I'm glad that I went through all of that.

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But the gateway of law of attraction is a wonderful gateway.

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But if you just stop there, you're going to be very frustrated by it, I think.

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And to answer your question about can you pick this up as a novice,

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I've never necessarily focused on that.

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But I will tell you that Carrie, who works with us,

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Uh,

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she knew she never was into law of attraction or any of these things ever,

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ever,

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ever until she met me.

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Something about this really resonated with her.

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She got into it.

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She took our program and she's worked for me ever since.

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She's been so into it, grew ups and downs on everything.

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So she's really that into it.

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So I guess you can, but it's not really designed necessarily for that.

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I think there's just, that's so prolific out there.

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I don't need to talk about it and teach it.

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I'm going into, okay, now, you know, all of that.

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what is it?

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You use the term practical application.

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What is the practical application of universal law?

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That's what Tya is.

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Like, okay, you know, all of these things exist.

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Spirituality can be a big tent of a lot of confusing things.

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I believe everything has the power that you choose to give to it.

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So there's nothing wrong with any of it, but what is a practical application?

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How you can

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operate your life in harmony with universal law in our modern day society.

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And that's why I created Tya.

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So I know there's another topic you want to dive into, and I love it.

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And it's about, and it kind of ties to all of this.

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Yeah.

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Changing

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deeply held beliefs that were established probably in early childhood that continue

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to recycle and haunt us.

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We'll also touch on the how do you identify what's going on in your subconscious

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mind and start to shift that.

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We're going to take a quick break.

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We come back,

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we will be talking again to Coach Derek,

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Tya Coach Derek,

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about exactly how to do that.

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We'll be right back.

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We are back with Thai coach Derek, and we're talking about all kinds of things.

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As always,

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we're all over the place,

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but we're going to rein it back in now and get a little more into the meat and

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potatoes of how do we,

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first of all,

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identify what's going on in our subconscious mind so we're just aware of it,

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and more importantly,

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these deeply held subconscious beliefs that we believe are so deeply rooted in us

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that we can't

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get away from them we can't solve or heal them how do we do that let's get into

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that so let's start with you you kind of give me your take on it and then i'll i

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mean obviously we we have tools we can chip we can chip away at it um but i was

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really wondering if if if you in this dream had your own take on this because like

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i'll take i'll give you an example like for example diet diet and fitness you know

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And it's one thing to eat a healthy diet.

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It's one thing to eat a healthy diet.

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And it's another thing to eat the healthy diet or exercise because of a fear of sickness.

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Like the, what you're doing is different.

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Why you're doing it is more important than what you're doing because it's,

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there's a base like emotion and feeling behind it.

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So

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If you grow up in a situation where there's a lot of sickness around you or,

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or parents are sick or things like that.

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And you,

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you take on this belief system that,

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you know,

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sickness is real and it's something I need to protect against.

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And so you,

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you start living your life and you,

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you,

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you,

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you follow the latest scientific research studies.

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And I know,

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I don't know if you've been paying attention,

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but over the years,

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all of those things have changed back and forth.

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Oh yeah.

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But it's good, but it's bad, but it's good again.

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Yeah,

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I remember the era of where everyone was trying to figure out what caused cancer,

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and it was sort of everything.

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Life causes cancer, and then now you just don't hear about that anymore.

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You just hear about treatment for cancer, and that's it.

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I will tell you that I did not, my household was not a sickness-oriented household.

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My mother was raised in a German household.

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Neither of my parents, they were both healthy, health-minded people.

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And my mother, I can't recall her ever missing a day of work for illness.

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Ever, ever, ever, ever.

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The woman had an amazing work ethic.

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And

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I just didn't grow up as a sickly kid, and I just didn't think of myself as a sickly person.

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However, I have always, always, always been challenged with weight.

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Always.

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When I was a little kid, I was a fat little kid.

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I would sit on the couch every day after school with my bag of Lay's potato chips

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and watch all the reruns.

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I wasn't very active.

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And I was a chubby little kid.

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And then when I got a little older, I didn't want to be that anymore.

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And I changed all that for a while.

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And that lasted until my late 20s.

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And then in my 30s, I got really overweight, like 300 pounds overweight.

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And all these back problems, all these things came up as a result of being overweight.

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And then when I got into my early 40s, I decided I'm going to shift all of that.

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I have this, you know, I know how to manifest money and material things really well.

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Why can't I apply this to health and fitness?

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And I did.

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I lost 70 pounds and started working out with a trainer and basically ate a keto

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diet most of the time and stayed fit for quite some time.

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Still healthy.

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And now I'm very much, I will flow into a period where I'm never weight conscious anymore.

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I'm never overly conscious about what I eat.

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I love food.

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I enjoy food.

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I love cooking.

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I love going to good restaurants.

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You know, I just love food.

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I'm from the South.

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We're all about food in the South.

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And so I just don't worry about that.

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I will go through periods where I'm really into going to gym.

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I love lifting weights, love going to gym.

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And then I'll kind of fall off that a little bit and then I'll get back into it.

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And I'm just like that.

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And I'm just consistently healthy.

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I'm not sick.

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And I have a cousin who I did not grow up with,

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but she's somebody that I see her on Facebook and things like that.

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And I know her.

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And she is always fitness oriented.

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She has never been an ounce overweight that I'm aware of in her life.

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She's always in the gym.

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She's always eating healthy.

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She's always health crazed and always sick.

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All of her Facebook communication almost is what's wrong with her health now.

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And she's around my age.

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And so I look at that and then I think about the people that I grew up with and my

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two friends that were unrelated different times in my life.

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But these two people were both fitness fanatics.

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Both of them died from cancer in their 30s.

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And it was sort of,

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the message I got was sort of like,

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okay,

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you know,

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there's nothing wrong with being healthy,

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nothing wrong with being fit,

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certainly.

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And when I'm, my weight is down, I feel better, have more energy.

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So yeah, there's benefits to that.

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But when you are so fitness crazed that you are trying,

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that it's fear-based,

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I believe that you are,

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you're either afraid of something that you believe is inevitable and you're

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manifesting that,

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or

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you are creating illness with all of this hyper-focus on your fitness.

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And even the Steve Jobs,

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I reference Steve Jobs and Apple a lot because I was very fascinated by him at one

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time in my life.

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He was very health-obsessed.

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He died at 54 from cancer.

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So...

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I am not saying that being overweight is the way to be.

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Certainly not.

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But I'm also not going to beat myself up about it.

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I'm going to be the weight that I am and love myself the way that I am,

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take care of myself because I do want to live a nice long life.

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I want to teach Tya for a long, long time and just enjoy life.

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But I'm just not going to be hyper-focused in a fear-based sense.

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And when I go to the doctor and the doctor says,

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you know,

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you could stand to lose 20,

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30 pounds.

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I'm just,

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okay,

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I'm sure you're right,

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but I'm just not going to be so focused on that,

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that I torture myself with some diet that I don't enjoy and probably won't sustain.

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Yeah, you, I think you touched on it.

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Like there's been lots of, everybody knows the case of the,

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The person that lives to 9,402 and they smoke.

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You know, I love that.

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The woman who's lighting her cigarette on her 100 birthday candles.

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I love that.

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I love that.

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It's kind of in your face.

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It's belief over everything else.

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And I do operate that way.

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And then that's that's that's still what it is.

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And that's that's why I'm bringing this question up today,

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because if you you're lucky enough to not grow up in a in a household where that

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belief in sickness was taken on by you as a child.

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But if you did grow up in a place like that or have parents around you that were

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you know,

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very concerned about that and that just got absorbed into your subconscious while

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you were a child,

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then you may be taking all the action you can think of to try to counter that fear,

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to avoid that outcome while your subconscious is still focused on it.

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Yeah,

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you're wanting to think one thing and you're monitoring one thing and your

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subconscious is back there saying,

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no,

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that's not true.

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You're poor, you're fat, you're this, you're that, whatever.

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You know, sickness is coming.

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Yeah, basically.

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So how do you...

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How do you go about like what you mentioned earlier was basically willpower?

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Like you made a very firm,

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strong decision that I'm going to turn this whole ship around and we're going to do

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this differently.

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Like it's, it takes a lot of, you know, resolve or willpower.

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And then you start the process using the tools that you have to shift it.

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But

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But if you go out into the world,

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like we're in the US,

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when you turn on the TV,

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drug commercials are on every other,

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every 15 minutes is a drug commercial on telling you,

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trying to scare you into all of these things that you're gonna get if you don't

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take these drugs.

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And so there are,

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I think a lot of us that have these belief systems of sickness and a fear of

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getting sick.

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So if they're entrenched and deep seated, then how do you release these?

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Yeah, that's a very good...

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question because most people suffer on some level.

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And usually we talk about the big three, right?

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Money, health, and relationships.

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There's other things that are spinoffs of that.

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But for most people,

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money,

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health,

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and relationships is going to have a big impact on how happy you are in life.

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And usually we all absorb one,

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at least one of those is somewhere where we are deficient in some way.

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And

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The only way,

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first of all,

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to reprogram your subconscious mind is to,

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first of all,

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know what's back there.

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I call this your vibrational basement.

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It's just a teaching point.

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Know what's there, and it reveals itself to you.

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We have been taught to systematically ignore it by and large,

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but what I find is that as we move through detuning our life's transgressors,

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anything about our life,

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present,

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past,

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whatever,

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that we cannot appreciate fully,

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And we detune it by finding deeper understanding of it.

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And that's what allows us to release these things.

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So understanding what's buried in our vibrational basement.

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And if you want to know what your belief system is, just look at your life.

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Your life is a reflection of that.

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So I would say step one is claiming ownership,

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taking inventory of what your life is without beating yourself up for where you

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are.

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That's so important because if you say, well, gosh, I'm always broke.

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I'm always underemployed.

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I never have enough money.

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I'm always struggling.

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I'm terrified about the economy and money.

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And that's just the way that I am.

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You need to embrace that.

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This is an experience that you've had and all physical experience is temporary.

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So a physical experience,

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no matter what we're talking about,

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whether it's your entire lifetime or just something that we're experiencing,

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is going to have a beginning,

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middle,

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and an end to it.

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So if the physical experience of believing that you're not good enough or you're

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always broke or going to be poor or you're not worthy of love or money or good

(00:34:51):
health or you're always sick,

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whatever it is,

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understand that it can have a beginning,

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middle,

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and an end.

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And you might be in the middle of it right now and you can create the end of it.

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You have the power to do that.

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So that's why I say,

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take a look at what your life is right now and understand that it's a reflection of

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your foundational belief system.

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And then absolutely start embracing exactly what you've created for yourself.

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Because I promise you,

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your source being,

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which absolutely you have,

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you have this soul,

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the source being in you,

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we all do.

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That being is loving every experience that you create for it.

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So your ego is the thing that's beating you up about not being thin enough or

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beautiful enough or young appearing enough or rich enough or famous enough or

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whatever it is.

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And your ego is plugged into this matrix of beliefs.

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You go on Instagram,

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you go on social media,

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and I just saw something about the Kardashian mother.

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Kris Jenner had a 70th birthday party.

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My God, this woman looks amazing.

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She had this facelift that she's very public about that she looks like she's 30.

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She just looks incredible.

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It'd be very easy to look at that and flip through.

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Oh, that must be so nice.

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Oh, isn't that wonderful?

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Oh, I wish I was that.

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I'm less that.

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No, they're here having a different experience.

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You're having a different experience than them.

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So whatever it is you've got going on in your life,

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love it and embrace it and make peace with it as a first step.

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as a first step, understanding that's not sticking you there.

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But the more you say, I'm always broke.

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I'm always poor.

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This is just how I am.

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I can't change it.

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Or I'm always overweight or I'm always sick or whatever it is.

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The more you're creating more of that, you're fueling it.

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You are feeding that subconscious belief exactly what it wants.

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Oh yeah.

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More of that.

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Yeah.

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That's a belief.

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So you're flipping the script saying, you know, I'm okay.

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I'm okay with this.

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Maybe I'll be this for a while longer.

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Maybe I'll be this for my entire life.

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This is how I've been.

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This is what I've experienced.

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My soul loves it.

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I came here to have this unique one-off experience.

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The matrix is telling me I'm supposed to be something specific, but source is not saying that.

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Source is not saying that.

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So get really, really, really dialed into that as a first big step.

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Loving what is.

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Then understand that the only way to shift from there is a daily practice that's

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going to allow you the tools to start changing those beliefs.

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And you've got to be diligent about it.

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You've got to put the work in.

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And I found that

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There are a whole lot of people in the world that on the surface say, I want to be thinner.

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I want to be wealthier.

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I want to be more successful.

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I want to be happier.

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I want to be in a great relationship.

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And then you start telling them what they need to do to do it.

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Oh, I have to do work.

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Oh, this takes effort.

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I want the magic pill.

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I can't tell you one of the things that really frustrated me when I was into the

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Abraham Hicks teachings was all this concept of,

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I'm just going to shift my mindset.

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It's going to happen instantly.

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It's going to be easy.

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I'm going to sit on my butt and I want to manifest millions of dollars with no

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effort whatsoever.

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And the overriding message that sold lots of tickets to events was, of course you can do that.

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Of course you can.

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I will say that anything is possible.

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The stream says that anything is possible, but what's probable?

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Is it probable that you're going to sit and just decide that you're a

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multimillionaire when you've always been broke and that suddenly you're just going

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to manifest that?

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Probably not.

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So let's kind of bring a little science back into this and deal with probability.

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What can you do, however?

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What you can do is start momentum building in the direction where you want it to go.

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And it's a daily thing.

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And it takes work.

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So if it's going to take work and it's going to be something you do every day,

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why not enjoy the process?

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Right?

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That's why we want to make Tya fun.

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When I spin out,

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when I go down my spiral,

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even if I hate it in the moment,

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I'm really thinking,

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gosh,

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this is good information.

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Right?

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I catch myself and realize and rationalize I'm just operating in low vibration right now.

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That's why life seems dark and hopeless and terrible,

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not because this is my life,

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but it's just because I'm operating in that vibrational wavelength right now.

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But instead of running from it the way spirituality teaches us to do,

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oh,

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I need my crystals and my oils and I need to clear my chakras and let me meditate

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and get up my spiral.

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It's good to know how to do that when you need to do it,

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when you need a fast action up the spiral.

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But why not lean into, I'm DTS right now.

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I'm down the spiral right now.

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Let me explore what's down here before I take myself back up.

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So in Tya, we don't hide from low vibration and we don't even run from it.

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The steps are, just to clarify, identify what's going on in low vibe.

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rationalize that you're just in low vibe.

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Life may seem hopeless, but just remember, oh, I'm just in low vibration right now.

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That's why life seems hopeless.

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I'm listening to that channel.

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You know, I always say I love all kinds of music except bluegrass.

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If you play bluegrass,

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It's my version of hell.

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I'll listen to rap.

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I'll listen to country.

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I'll listen to pop.

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I'll listen to, you know, old music, whatever it is.

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But if you start playing bluegrass music around me,

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which,

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you know,

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I don't think there is a bluegrass station,

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certainly not Southern California.

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But if I were exposed to that, I would just think this is the most awful thing.

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I can't stand listening to this.

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Turn it off.

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Well, that's what low vibration feels like, right?

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And we want to rush out of there.

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But we're trained to rush out of there.

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Spirituality teaches us to rush out of there.

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That's why I say spirituality, by and large, is just another product of the matrix, really.

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It's been matrixized, if you will.

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And when you rush out of there,

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you never really solve and heal the things that are available down there.

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That's where the good stuff is.

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That's where the root of, I'm not good enough.

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I'm not pretty enough.

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I'm not worthy.

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I'm not smart enough.

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I'm never going to be rich.

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I'm never going to

(00:41:17):
you know, get ahead on my bills, whatever it is, that's where all that stuff is.

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So you've got to use your low vibration time in a rational way to identify what's down there.

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Then you go and sit with it in what we call quiet contemplation because you do want

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to get your vibe up a bit to have the tools available to you to solve it.

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But what I find is that once I get the clarity of what's there,

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I love that so much and give that so much power.

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That shoots my vibration right back up.

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And now I'm back up in source territory.

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Source is present on the top half of your spiral.

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That's where all the solving, healing, creative power resides.

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And I can actually heal myself.

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and solve and change that deeply rooted belief.

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And then things do change as a result of that.

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And when you really love this practice and you love doing that as a way of life,

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then that's where you start solving and healing and evolving and changing things.

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And you start manifesting differently.

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Can I ask you specifically what your practice is once you're back up the spiral and

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in this source source range?

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How do you deal with what you found?

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Do you reason it out?

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Reasoning it out is a good way to put it.

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It's just seeing that, oh, wow.

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We will have to end up on this one.

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That's where what I call firewalking comes in.

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You know, the path to detuning any transgressor is to find authentic appreciation for it.

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Authentic.

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And you can't.

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There is no transgressor that you cannot find ultimately authentic appreciation for.

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I don't care what it is.

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I have known people and worked with people in our programs that have been through

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the worst of the worst that you could possibly imagine.

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And they have found authentic appreciation for it.

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And I didn't know if that was possible because that's how I detuned my mother.

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You know,

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my mother disowned me for,

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you know,

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the last 20 years of her life and we never reconciled and that's how it ended.

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And I detuned that.

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And I knew how powerful that was.

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And then there was this video floating around on Facebook about 10 years ago of

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this woman who was an identical twin.

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And she was in Germany during the Holocaust.

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And she had been sent to a concentration camp with her identical twin sister.

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And they did all of these horrible experiments on she and her sister.

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And she talks about how her sister died.

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Her whole family was murdered.

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you know, in the concentration camp, starved to death essentially.

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And she was the only one left.

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And the only thing she had left was to, to forgive her captors, to forgive the remaining Nazis.

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And she made her life work forgiving Nazis.

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And that she just glowed when she talked about that.

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And that the,

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the relationships that she forged with these people that were her torturers and her

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captors,

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including the doctor that,

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that damaged her so much and killed her sister.

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And,

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So when I heard that,

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I thought,

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okay,

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my little being disowned by my mother pales in comparison into my whole family was

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murdered.

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I was captured and systematically tortured for, for years.

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if she could do that, then any of us can, can move through anything.

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So I want to find that video.

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I forget where it is now or what her name was.

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I don't think she's still with us, but that was so powerful.

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And that's when I really took the ball.

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It ran with this concept of appreciation of all things.

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So I do this thing called firewalking and it's not the Tony Robbins walking on hot coals thing.

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It is, I'm going to walk into the fire of my biggest fear to detune it.

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So there was a deep-rooted fear that if I didn't have a business around what I teach...

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I wouldn't be able to continue to teach this the way that I do.

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Of course, there's a business functionality to all of this.

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And I'm not a charity.

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I'm not a church.

(00:45:18):
I'm not saying send me donations.

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The academy is the business function.

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We offer a lot of value for it,

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but it's a high ticket thing and people come in and them coming in and taking our

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programs is highly transformative for them.

(00:45:31):
And that allows me to do this, right?

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But reinventing the program this year

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businesses shifted.

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And I think there was a fear back there that,

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wow,

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if this doesn't take off and work the way it's been working,

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I'll have to maybe go get a job.

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And I said years ago,

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I'll never work for anyone else again,

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which was a wonderful proclamation,

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right?

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I was told by a psychologist in my last career,

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I was interviewing to be the president of a pretty significant company,

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And they loved me and they sent me to the psychologist.

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The psychologist said, you have no business working for anyone else.

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You're very entrepreneurial.

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You're very headstrong.

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You should be running your own thing.

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I quit right after that and have done this ever since.

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So I didn't realize that that proclamation of I will never work for anyone again

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was actually a fear of having to work for someone again.

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Boom.

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Boom.

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There it was.

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There's a fear because somebody in my neighborhood saw our home and

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And I,

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I used to be an interior designer in that field and they saw our home and said,

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this is the most beautiful home I've ever seen.

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I either want to buy it.

(00:46:38):
They made us an offer that we didn't accept,

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or we want to hire you to design the same,

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you know,

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something similar to it for us.

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And I was like, God, no, I don't ever want to work for anybody again.

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I don't want to be in that business again.

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And it wasn't just because I would rather do this and I don't have the time to do it.

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It was really like, there was a fear behind that.

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Like, I don't want to do that.

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So I detuned it.

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I firewalked it.

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I went right into, Tya completely blows up and goes away.

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I have to go work again somehow, somewhere.

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Big deal.

(00:47:12):
That's not so bad.

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Big deal.

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If that were to happen, let's just firewalk that happening.

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And then after I did that, I was fine.

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I was fine.

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I know Tya will be fine.

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I know that that's, but I'm not worried about it.

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But that solid proclamation was actually rooted in fear.

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And so often they are.

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As God is my witness, you know, all that sort of thing.

(00:47:32):
That's always, there's fear under that, right?

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I'll never be poor again.

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You probably never watched that movie, but... So...

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Yeah, that's the process.

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Firewalk it.

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Identify what your greatest fear is and sit down and emotionally allow yourself.

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And I will tell you,

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I've had people whose biggest fear was something happening to their children.

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And I've also had people for whom something did happen to their children.

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I've dealt with both.

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And I have guided people.

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Why not just sit and experience that mentally so you can go through it,

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come out the other side of it,

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and then just release it?

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It is such a powerful thing to do.

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That's the ultimate detuning is just allow yourself to vibrationally experience it

(00:48:19):
and then realize,

(00:48:20):
wow,

(00:48:20):
on the other side of that,

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I'm still an eternal being.

(00:48:24):
Even death.

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Even death.

(00:48:27):
On the other side of death, we're also afraid of death.

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The one thing that we all know we're going to experience,

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but the matrix says fear this,

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but why?

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We're all going to experience.

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Why fear it?

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It might happen tomorrow.

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It might happen 20 years from now, 30 years.

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Who knows?

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move through it vibrationally to detune it.

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Very healing, very powerful, very, very powerful.

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And yes, people are challenged with identifying their root transgressors and dealing with that.

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This is why we have a coaching program.

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You work with these people all the time.

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You know this.

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This is the value of high-stakes change is,

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yes,

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sometimes you just can't figure all that out for yourself.

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That's why we have a program where we take you deep into all of that in a very

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intensive way over a period of time so that you are exploring these things over

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several weeks and

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detuning, identifying.

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And really the process is you are learning the practice on a very deep level.

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You're clearing out a lot of things while you're in there.

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But then when you leave, you now know how to do this for the rest of your life.

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That's the value there,

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which is why we have people like coach Derek coaching in the program with his very

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scientific mind.

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All right.

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We need to wrap up.

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Always a good conversation with you.

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I love the way that you think in your,

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yeah,

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I love the blending of science and what you might call metaphysics.

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I use the term spirituality,

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but I think,

(00:49:53):
you know,

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spirituality just means so many things to so many people.

(00:49:56):
I do like the way that you use the term metaphysics because it really is more of

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that than,

(00:50:03):
you know,

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talking to dead people and aliens and all that fun stuff.

(00:50:06):
So Derek, thank you so much for being on.

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