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John 14:1–3

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Let not your hearts be troubled.

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Believe in God.

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Believe also in me.

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In my father's house are many rooms.

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If it were not so, would I have told you
that I go to prepare a place for you?

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And if I go and prepare a place for you,

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I will come again,
and I will take you to myself.

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That where I am you may be also.

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Well, good

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good evening.

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Welcome to the weekend here at Christ
Community Chapel.

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My name is Zach,

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I'm one of the pastors here, and I'm
so glad we get to be part of your weekend.

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Hey, if you're watching me on video
on Sunday,

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it's because I'm out in the parking lot
in the tent

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where hopefully the weather is nice.

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But thanks for being here with us.

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We are in week
two of a four week sermon series

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we're calling More Than Religion,
and the basic idea is this,

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we're learning that God wants relationship
with us, that he's not interested

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in religious formality
or religious ritual.

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He wants us.

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He wants our hearts.

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He wants relationship with us.

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This is just one of those things
that is worth saying

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over and over again, even if you know it
already, it's worth saying.

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Let me give you an example of what I mean.

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My son Graham is nine years old.

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He plays football.

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Last year it was his first year of tackle
football and he had a great season.

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I mean, this will give you a little window
into who I am as a dad.

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He played defensive end and I told him
before the season I was going

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to pay him
$1 for a tackle, $2 for a tackle

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behind the line of scrimmage
and $3 for a sack.

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And like 6 or 7 games, he made $98.

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Okay.

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He was dominant.

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He was dominant.

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And what was hilarious is
when he'd make a play on the field,

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he would hold up how much I owed him
so he would sack the quarterback.

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And people are like,
why is he holding up eight fingers?

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I knew why.

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It's because that's how much I owed him.

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And he had a great season and he loved it,
which was so exciting to me.

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And you know, this year football's
just started practices to start it.

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And this week was the first week
of hitting like full pads hitting with it.

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If you played football, you know it means
it's the first real week of football.

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We're going to decide
who really wants to play, right.

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And so I'm driving Graham to practice
on Monday and I'm giving him a pep talk.

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I mean he's a good football player.

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He's a he's a natural football guy.

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He he's a hitter.

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He loves it.

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But things leak, you know,
and you lose your confidence.

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So I'm telling him on the way to practice,
like Graham, everyone is nervous today.

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It's the first day of hitting.
Everybody's nervous.

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Even if they say they're not nervous,
they're nervous.

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It's okay to be nervous.

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But I want you to remember,
you're a great football player.

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You love to hit, like, just hit somebody
and it'll feel it'll come back to you.

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You'll remember football's a violent game
played by violent men, Graham.

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And you are a violent man, right?

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I mean, I'm giving him this pep talk
because here's what I know.

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It doesn't matter if he already knows it.

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He needs to hear it again.
You know what I mean?

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He needs to hear it.
He needs to hear it again and again.

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You know what encouragement means?

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It means literally
to put courage into someone.

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That's what I was doing.

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I was putting some courage in him
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dominate the way
he's capable of dominating.

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Here's my point.

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I don't care
how many times you've heard this,

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my goal all

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month is to put some courage in you,
to speak the truth to you,

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to excite you over the idea
that God wants relationship with you.

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And if it's the first time
you've heard this boy, I cannot wait.

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I cannot wait for you to hear this.

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So we're going to be looking at
John chapter 14.

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It was just read for us.

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If you have a Bible, you can take it out
and open it to John 14.

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If not, don't worry about it.
It's going to be on the screen behind me.

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There are three points I want to use
just to kind of guide our time together.

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And it goes pretty simple.

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It's like this
I want to show you something about houses,

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something about work
and something about you.

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Something about houses, something
about work and something about you.

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Let's just start with something about how
says he does something you already know.

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When you buy a house,

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you're buying a house
based on your values, right?

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I mean, like one person is looking for
in a house is entirely different

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than what someone else is looking for.

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In a house, you buy a house
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and what you love.

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I've bought three houses in my lifetime
over the course of my marriage,

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and I've learned something about my wife,
Amy and I, and that is

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that we're very different
when it comes to home buying.

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For me, buying a house
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like all I'm interested in is,

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you know, are the values
going up in this neighborhood?

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Are there some quick fixes that
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Is anything going to break and cost me
money?

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I mean, it's not romantic.
It's not idealistic.

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It's just a financial decision.

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Not Amy, not Amy.

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When she walks in the house,
she sees what she's going to do with it.

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I mean, I remember
one time we were looking at a house

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and she said, on the way into me, she
said, listen, don't worry about the paint.

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Don't worry about the carpets.
We can change all that.

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We get in and she goes,
what do you think? And I said, I hate it.

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She said, why?
I said, the paint and the carpets.

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I don't know what's going on.

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I just can't visualize it
the way she does.

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One of the things she always visualizes
when we go into a home is, is what

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it will look like when our grandkids
visit us, and that's hilarious to me.

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I'm 42.

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I don't have any grandkids
and I shouldn't have any anytime soon.

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When we bought our first home in South
Euclid, it was so small could barely fit

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my family like grandkids.

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It wasn't going to fit
another human being. But.

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But Amy can't help it.

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She thinks about where the grandkids
are going to sleep

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and where they're going to play games,

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where they're going to open presents
on Christmas morning.

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And the reason is pretty simple.

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That's what Amy loves. She loves family.

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So when she thinks about a home,
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Will this fit the vision of family
that I have?

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Homes tend to reveal your heart,
and her heart is for a family now.

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All the more
when you build a house, right?

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And when you buy a house, you know
you're going to have to make concessions.

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You're not getting everything you want,
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is that you really can build

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all the rooms you want
for all the stuff that matters to you.

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You can start with a blank sheet of paper,
a bare piece of property, and say,

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all right, here's what I love.

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Here's what matters.

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I'm going to create a home that fits that.

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All right.

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You get all that.

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All that was leading to one question.

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If God built a house,

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what kind of house would he build?

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I mean, unlimited budget, right?

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He can do whatever he wants.

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If God were going to build a house,
what kind of house would he build?

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And what would the way he built the house,
the kind of house that he built,

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what would it teach us about his heart?

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Well, here's
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God has built in John chapter 14,
verse two.

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Listen to what he says.

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He says, in my father's house

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are many rooms.

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In my father's house are many rooms.

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Now the context of the passage,
which we'll see in a minute,

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is Jesus saying what he's really saying
to the people he's talking to is my dad.

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My father built a house,
and what mattered to him, what his heart

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was, was to build a lot of rooms
so that you would know

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and you would know and you would know
and you would know there's a room for you.

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That's
what he's saying, that God built a house.

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And what mattered most to him
is that it had a million rooms

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so that he could fill
those rooms with people.

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Because what God values,
what matters to God,

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what he wants his home
to make space for is you.

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So let me just

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ask you, is that what you think of
when you think of God?

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Do you think of a God
who builds a home with you in mind?

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Who builds a room with you in mind?

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A God who, who,

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who just wants a house full of rooms
so that he can get a house full of people?

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Is that the kind of loving God
that you picture?

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Because what Jesus saying,
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when you think of God, you're wrong.

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If you think about God as rigid
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who is wanting just distance,
or to be left alone, or wanting space,

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or only wanting a house
with a certain kind of person.

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You're wrong.

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Jesus says, in my father's house
there are many rooms.

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If homes reveal your heart,
then God's heart is for people.

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Now that begs the question, doesn't it?

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Okay. God's house has many rooms.

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How do I get one?

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How do I get one?

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How can I be sure that one of those rooms
is for me?

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It's a great, great question.
And that's my second point.

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Not just something about houses,
but something about work.

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Now, before I show you
how Jesus says you get a room,

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let me just acknowledge
that if Jesus said, in

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my father's house there are many rooms,
if the very next thing he said was,

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and here's how you earn one,

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here's how you qualify for one.

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Hey, in my father's house
there are many rooms, and the reason

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I'm telling you that
is because I don't want you to miss out.

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So here's who you need to become.

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Here's what you need to do.

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Here's what you need to avoid.

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Here's how you need to live.

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Wouldn't that make absolute sense?

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Like it would still feel kind of kind.

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Like, hey, man, thanks for
thanks for telling me.

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If you hadn't told me what the
requirements were, I might not make it.

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I mean, surely if God has a house,
surely if there are many rooms,

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then you have to do something, be
something, achieve something to get one.

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But you know that isn't what he says.

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In fact, this is what he says.

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This is the how he finishes the sentence.

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In my father's house there are many rooms.

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Then he goes on to say this.

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If it were not so, would

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I have told you that
I go to prepare a place for you?

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And if I go and prepare a place for you,

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I will come again,
and will take you to myself.

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That where I am you may be also.

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Now, if we can just leave that up
for a second.

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Guys, I just want you to notice something.

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Go back to English class, okay?

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Verbs and nouns. Right.

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I want you to notice when you see a
verb who is doing the thing.

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Do you

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see how many times Jesus says, I am going?

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I will prepare a place.

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I will come back. I will take you.

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I want you with me.

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Here's the point I want to make.

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The way you get a room
in God's house is Jesus

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does it for you.

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There is no you in here.

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There are no verbs about you.

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Jesus says, in my father's house
there are many rooms,

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and I am going to make sure you can come.

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That's what he's saying. Here's
what he's talking about.

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Of course he's saying,
that's why I'm going to the cross.

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That's why I have lived the life.

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I've lived a life of complete obedience.

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That's why I'm going to go to the cross
and become the embodiment of the sin

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of all God's people.

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Let the father pour out his anger on me.

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I'm going to die under the weight of that.

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Then I'm going to raise from the dead.

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I'm going to ascend into heaven.

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I'm going to sit on the throne of heaven,
and I am going to make sure

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that one of those rooms is for you.

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See, it makes

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sense to us that if God has a house
with a lot of rooms, you have to earn one.

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It makes sense to us
that if God is a house

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with a lot of rooms,
you have to qualify for one.

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But Jesus says, no,

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I've come to do all that is necessary

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to make sure you get in the house.

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Let me put it to you this way.

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When I was a kid
and we would have people over,

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my mom would become a sociopath
with cleaning, okay?

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Especially if my grandma,
her mom, was coming over then.

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I mean, I loved my grandma.

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I didn't really want her to come visit
because the 72 hours before

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that were going to be awful.

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I mean, my mom would get crazy.

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She would be like, all right, Zach,
I want you to go into all the bedrooms,

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take everything out
from under the bed and vacuum.

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And I'm like, what's going to happen,
mom? Is grandma going to come in?

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And I'm going to be like, grandma.

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She's like, wait, before I hug you,
I need to inspect underneath your bed.

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Zach, did you dust that baseball trophy
from four years ago?

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You know,
let me check under these couch cushions.

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Is the under the kitchen sink.

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Is it still a mess, or did you organize
the bottles alphabetically?

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I mean, my mom was crazy.

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I could never understand it.

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It's like, why does this matter?
Why is this important?

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Of course. Now, as an adult,
I mean, I'm not.

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She probably was still a little
over the top,

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but now as an adult would,
I know my mom was wanting to say

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to someone who came over
was, hey, we're glad you're here.

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We've been excited about you coming.

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She wanted the house to scream,
especially to her mother.

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We have been so excited for you to be here
that we have made sure

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that everything is perfect.

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She knew that grandma would come visit us
either way, but if grandma walked

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into a messy house, what we were saying to
grandma was we haven't.

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Oh yeah. Shoot, we forgot your coming.

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But a clean house said to
her were so excited.

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We have been working
on getting the house ready.

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Can I tell you that's

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exactly what Jesus is saying

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when he says
I go to prepare a place for you.

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What he's saying, this is what
Jesus is saying metaphorically.

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He's saying, listen, in my father's house,
there are many rooms

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I've already paid for yours.

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In my father's house there are many rooms.

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I've already put your name on one of them.

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Like I fluff the pillow

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I cleaned under the bed,
and now Jesus says, I'm standing

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on the front porch and I'm waiting
because I want to walk you in myself.

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You see my point?

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Jesus says that that in my father's house

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there are many rooms and you can have one.

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I'll do it for you.

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But of course, that's the rub, isn't it?

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See, what Jesus is really saying?

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Is that the only way
you miss out on a room

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in the father's house
is if you try to pay for it yourself.

303
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You can't earn it.

304
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You can't qualify for it.

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You have to let Jesus do it.

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That's what the Bible calls
grace. Getting.

307
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Not what you deserve, but what you don't.

308
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And that's hard.

309
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We want to earn it.
But here's the problem.

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And you know this already.

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Whatever you earn,

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you can lose.

313
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You see, if moral character earns
you a room in the father's house,

314
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then what happens
when your character dips?

315
00:15:10,276 --> 00:15:14,513
If character is what earns you a spot,
what happens when you have a bad week?

316
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Listen, I mean, just say this.

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I don't want to disrespect anybody
or disrespect your upbringing,

318
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but some of you I knew, I know, grew up
Roman Catholic, and you need to hear this

319
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because Roman Catholicism
teaches you a scoreboard

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if you go to mass enough,

321
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if you take communion enough,

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if you keep the sacraments.

323
00:15:38,470 --> 00:15:42,041
They even invented
a place called purgatory, which is,

324
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hey, you might not make it
to the father's house,

325
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you might be on the wait list

326
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and all of that when you grow up
with it, teaches you a version of God

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that is a little less like the one being
described here, and a little

328
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more like a God who has a house
but has a bouncer at the door.

329
00:16:01,310 --> 00:16:04,363
And you show up and you say,
I think maybe I have a room there.

330
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I mean, I went to mass, I did confession,
I was married in the church.

331
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I mean, I think I have a room.

332
00:16:09,318 --> 00:16:12,838
And the bouncer looks and he goes, man,
looks like 12th grade was tough.

333
00:16:13,789 --> 00:16:16,759
You're going to have to wait.

334
00:16:16,759 --> 00:16:19,478
And, friends, I don't mean to disrespect
anyone, but you need to hear me.

335
00:16:19,478 --> 00:16:22,481
That is the opposite of what
Jesus is describing here.

336
00:16:23,432 --> 00:16:26,635
What he says is in my father's house
there are many rooms.

337
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I will pay for it.

338
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I will put your name on the door.

339
00:16:31,240 --> 00:16:33,158
I will get it ready.

340
00:16:33,158 --> 00:16:35,077
I will walk you in.

341
00:16:35,077 --> 00:16:36,712
There's nothing conditional about it.

342
00:16:36,712 --> 00:16:39,882
He doesn't say, of course,
if you go to mass, of course,

343
00:16:39,882 --> 00:16:43,318
if you take communion, of course,
if you give to the church.

344
00:16:43,318 --> 00:16:46,071
He doesn't say any of that.
He just says, I'm going to do it.

345
00:16:46,071 --> 00:16:49,758
What Jesus is offering,
what the Bible is telling us, is that God

346
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built a big house with a lot of rooms,
because that's who he is.

347
00:16:52,795 --> 00:16:54,113
He loves people.

348
00:16:54,113 --> 00:16:55,714
He wants you there.

349
00:16:55,714 --> 00:16:59,068
And he said Jesus to make it happen.

350
00:17:00,035 --> 00:17:01,036
Jesus.

351
00:17:01,036 --> 00:17:04,523
Plus, anything means you don't get a room.

352
00:17:06,909 --> 00:17:09,678
But only Jesus

353
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guarantees you a

354
00:17:12,948 --> 00:17:15,200
now, I know when I say that,

355
00:17:15,200 --> 00:17:18,120
that some of us are just so steeped

356
00:17:18,120 --> 00:17:21,874
in that kind of thinking about God
that will really struggle with it.

357
00:17:21,990 --> 00:17:23,876
We don't struggle,
maybe even with the idea

358
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that God has a house with a lot of rooms.

359
00:17:25,477 --> 00:17:27,830
We just struggle
that one of those rooms is for us.

360
00:17:27,830 --> 00:17:29,148
Well, that's my third point.

361
00:17:29,148 --> 00:17:31,350
Something about houses,
something about work.

362
00:17:31,350 --> 00:17:33,602
And hear something about you.

363
00:17:33,602 --> 00:17:36,238
You know,
Jesus knew you would struggle with this.

364
00:17:36,238 --> 00:17:37,639
It's actually why he said this.

365
00:17:37,639 --> 00:17:41,360
Look at what he says at the very beginning
of this passage in John 14 verse one.

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00:17:41,360 --> 00:17:45,798
Here's what he says
let not your hearts be troubled.

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00:17:46,515 --> 00:17:47,916
Believe in God.

368
00:17:47,916 --> 00:17:49,034
Believe also in me.

369
00:17:49,034 --> 00:17:51,386
You see, he he he knows will doubt.

370
00:17:51,386 --> 00:17:53,439
He knows we'll struggle.

371
00:17:53,439 --> 00:17:57,076
He knows we'll think we're disqualified,
that we've lost it.

372
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That's
why he starts with don't be troubled.

373
00:18:00,429 --> 00:18:02,081
Don't worry.

374
00:18:02,081 --> 00:18:03,348
Don't be anxious.

375
00:18:03,348 --> 00:18:05,000
Don't be afraid.

376
00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:06,602
You know, he says, believe in God.

377
00:18:06,602 --> 00:18:07,753
Believe also in me.

378
00:18:07,753 --> 00:18:10,923
He's not saying he and God aren't
the aren't one.

379
00:18:11,039 --> 00:18:11,557
He's not.

380
00:18:11,557 --> 00:18:13,108
He's not shedding himself of deity.

381
00:18:13,108 --> 00:18:14,910
What he's using is a category they have.

382
00:18:14,910 --> 00:18:17,913
He's saying, listen,
you believe in the God of the Bible.

383
00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:21,116
Watch me also because

384
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I've come to keep that God's promises.

385
00:18:24,119 --> 00:18:25,554
You see,
Jesus knows you're going to doubt.

386
00:18:25,554 --> 00:18:27,439
He knows you're going to think
you lost it.

387
00:18:27,439 --> 00:18:28,640
He knows you're going to struggle.

388
00:18:28,640 --> 00:18:30,242
And he's saying, don't worry.

389
00:18:30,242 --> 00:18:32,911
In my father's house there are many rooms.

390
00:18:32,911 --> 00:18:37,749
I am going to make sure one of them
has your name on it.

391
00:18:37,749 --> 00:18:42,237
And even as I say that, I know you're
thinking, man, I just don't think so.

392
00:18:45,641 --> 00:18:47,159
Maybe some people, but.

393
00:18:47,159 --> 00:18:48,627
But not me.

394
00:18:48,627 --> 00:18:49,711
I'll tell you this.

395
00:18:49,711 --> 00:18:53,232
You're only saying that
because you don't know what comes

396
00:18:53,232 --> 00:18:56,235
right before these verses.

397
00:18:57,035 --> 00:18:59,154
Because when I show you in just a second
what comes right

398
00:18:59,154 --> 00:19:01,557
before these verses
are going to blow your mind.

399
00:19:01,557 --> 00:19:03,792
So let me show you John 14 one.

400
00:19:03,792 --> 00:19:05,110
Look at what comes right before that.

401
00:19:05,110 --> 00:19:08,113
John 1336 through 38. Here's what it says.

402
00:19:08,714 --> 00:19:11,717
Simon Peter said to him,

403
00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:14,987
Lord, where are you going?

404
00:19:15,070 --> 00:19:18,841
And Jesus answered him, where I am going,
you cannot follow me now,

405
00:19:18,874 --> 00:19:21,193
but you will follow afterward

406
00:19:21,193 --> 00:19:24,029
that Peter said to him, Lord,
why can I not follow you now?

407
00:19:24,029 --> 00:19:27,032
I will lay down my life for you.

408
00:19:27,149 --> 00:19:30,953
And Jesus answered,
Will you lay down your life for me?

409
00:19:31,553 --> 00:19:34,907
Truly, truly, I say to you,
the rooster will not crow

410
00:19:35,073 --> 00:19:38,677
until you have denied me three times.

411
00:19:40,395 --> 00:19:43,715
Jesus says to the cocky, arrogant Peter.

412
00:19:43,916 --> 00:19:45,601
Jesus says, Where I'm going,
you can't come.

413
00:19:45,601 --> 00:19:49,872
Peter goes, listen, Jesus, I get that
for all these other losers, but not me.

414
00:19:49,872 --> 00:19:53,442
I'm right or die, Jesus,
I will go with you all the way to the end.

415
00:19:53,442 --> 00:19:57,563
And Jesus tells him, Peter,
you are hours away from the worst

416
00:19:57,563 --> 00:20:00,549
moment of your entire life.

417
00:20:00,883 --> 00:20:05,470
You are hours away from betraying me,
from lying to me

418
00:20:05,520 --> 00:20:09,641
for proving to be a coward,
a fraud, a phony like Peter.

419
00:20:09,675 --> 00:20:12,761
You're hours away
from the crucial moment of your life,

420
00:20:12,761 --> 00:20:16,231
and you are going to blow it.

421
00:20:17,115 --> 00:20:20,118
And the very next thing he says is,

422
00:20:20,402 --> 00:20:23,388
let not your heart be troubled.

423
00:20:23,722 --> 00:20:26,708
In my father's house there are many rooms.

424
00:20:26,959 --> 00:20:28,427
Ones for you, Peter.

425
00:20:29,628 --> 00:20:33,599
I'm going to make sure you get it.

426
00:20:33,715 --> 00:20:35,200
Don't you see?

427
00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:38,837
It's one thing if Jesus says this to a guy
at the highest moment of his life,

428
00:20:39,238 --> 00:20:39,755
it's one thing.

429
00:20:39,755 --> 00:20:42,991
If Jesus comes along, somebody who's
crushing it and goes, hey, hey,

430
00:20:42,991 --> 00:20:43,792
buddy, hey.

431
00:20:43,792 --> 00:20:46,194
In my father's house,
there are many rooms.

432
00:20:46,194 --> 00:20:48,113
One is definitely for you.

433
00:20:48,113 --> 00:20:49,798
That would be one passage.

434
00:20:49,798 --> 00:20:51,800
He says this to a man.

435
00:20:51,800 --> 00:20:56,238
He is telling him
you are a fraud and a phony and a coward.

436
00:20:56,238 --> 00:20:59,191
And in ours, everyone's going to know it.

437
00:20:59,191 --> 00:21:02,194
You're going to make a fool of yourself.

438
00:21:02,361 --> 00:21:05,347
Don't be troubled.

439
00:21:05,514 --> 00:21:07,432
There's a room for you.

440
00:21:07,432 --> 00:21:09,401
I've paid for it.

441
00:21:09,401 --> 00:21:12,120
I'll walk you in myself.

442
00:21:12,120 --> 00:21:15,707
You see, if Jesus can make this promise
to Peter hours

443
00:21:15,707 --> 00:21:19,711
before he betrays Jesus, he denies Jesus.

444
00:21:19,711 --> 00:21:21,513
You don't think he can make it to you?

445
00:21:24,399 --> 00:21:27,402
You're too far gone.

446
00:21:27,919 --> 00:21:30,922
You're too disqualified.

447
00:21:31,556 --> 00:21:34,559
You're not welcome.

448
00:21:35,277 --> 00:21:36,194
Friends.

449
00:21:36,194 --> 00:21:43,001
God put this story right after that one
so that people who feel

450
00:21:43,001 --> 00:21:47,439
they are the lowest, people who feel

451
00:21:47,439 --> 00:21:50,442
they are at their worst.

452
00:21:50,876 --> 00:21:57,549
People who are certain if there's a house
with rooms, they are not welcome.

453
00:21:57,632 --> 00:22:01,036
Jesus says,
let not your heart be troubled.

454
00:22:02,921 --> 00:22:05,273
My father has a house.

455
00:22:05,273 --> 00:22:10,278
He has a lot of rooms,
and I'm going to make sure you get one.

456
00:22:10,278 --> 00:22:13,515
The question is whether or not you'll

457
00:22:13,515 --> 00:22:16,518
stop trying to earn it.

458
00:22:16,752 --> 00:22:19,187
Stop trying to deserve it

459
00:22:19,187 --> 00:22:24,109
and simply let Jesus take you there.

460
00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:26,428
Let me pray for you.

461
00:22:26,428 --> 00:22:30,599
Father God,
I pray for all those who come in

462
00:22:30,599 --> 00:22:33,602
at their lowest moment.

463
00:22:34,436 --> 00:22:37,439
The worst version of themselves,

464
00:22:38,240 --> 00:22:40,075
and they hear about your heart

465
00:22:40,075 --> 00:22:43,562
in the home with many rooms
and Jesus taking people in,

466
00:22:43,562 --> 00:22:48,233
and they want it so badly to be for them,
but they just can't believe it.

467
00:22:50,352 --> 00:22:53,555
God, that
they would see not just them and Peter,

468
00:22:53,555 --> 00:22:57,359
but they would see your heart
in the arrangement

469
00:22:57,359 --> 00:23:00,362
of these verses.

470
00:23:00,562 --> 00:23:02,080
This story is their story.

471
00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:03,515
It's there for them.

472
00:23:03,515 --> 00:23:06,151
You're not talking
just to Peter, you're talking to them.

473
00:23:06,151 --> 00:23:09,354
And my prayer is that right now
there would be people saying, God,

474
00:23:09,354 --> 00:23:12,357
I never thought there was a room for me.

475
00:23:14,509 --> 00:23:16,878
But Jesus, if you through your life, death

476
00:23:16,878 --> 00:23:20,148
and resurrection
want to take me in, I want to go.

477
00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:23,468
And Jesus name we pray.

478
00:23:23,468 --> 00:23:24,269
Amen.