At our core we all want to be seen, heard, valued, and connected. But few of us know how to live this in real life.
Today’s guest, Jason VanRuler therapist, Onsite Guide, and author of the new book “Get Past Your Past,” joins Hannah and Mickenzie to provide a blueprint for creating connection with the people around us . Together the three define what it means to truly connect, how our attachment style impacts our connections, why not everyone can hold our vulnerability, and how to identify safe people.
In this episode:
6:36 – Our deepest needs to be seen, heard, valued, and connection in realtionships
9:56 – Forming safe connections and community
15:58 – How to find safe people in our lives
21:14 – Why our Attachment styles impacts our connection with others
31:39 – How to navigate conflict in relationships and identifying our non-negotiables
34:56 – Identifying what really matters in our relationships
37:56 – Jason’s encouragement to lean into community when it doesn’t feel safe
39:31 – How to celebrate growth within ourselves
41:22 – A practice that keeps Jason connection to the people in his life
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So many of us go through life feeling out of touch with ourselves, others, and the world around us. We feel disconnected, overwhelmed, distracted, and uncertain of how to find the clarity, purpose, and direction we so deeply, so authentically, desire. The Living Centered Podcast in an invitation to another way of living.
Every episode, we sit down with mental health experts, artists, and friends for a practical and honest conversation about how to pursue a more centered life—rediscovering, reclaiming, and rooting in who we truly are.