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Good morning and

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welcome to Morning Serial.

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Okay, good morning

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and welcome to Thursday.

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Well, this is Morning Serial's first

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episode on location and

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we're here at the beautiful

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University of Oregon for the Nike Outdoor

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National Track Meet.

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And that's the stadium right behind me

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where it's going to happen tomorrow.

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Well, if your morning started off with

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tripping over an empty

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Amazon box while you're fumbling

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for your coffee, well, congrats!

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You're right on brand for June 19th.

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It's International Box Day.

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So go ahead and embrace the cardboard

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chaos and get those

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Amazon boxes into the recycle

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bin.

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Well, it's also World Sauntering Day.

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It's a reminder to take life

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at a nice chill pace today.

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And there might be some people sauntering

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behind me at some point tonight too.

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And of course it's June 10th, so it's a

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significant day in American

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history, marking the end of

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slavery and occasion for reflection and

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celebration and progress.

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Well, today we kickstart our day with a

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quote from Zoe Saldana

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who said, "It's okay to say

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this is what I want and go after it."

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And it's a reminder for us to stop

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settling, speak up and

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make a go for the life that we

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really want.

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All right, well, today's news, facts and

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birthdays are for June 19th.

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So we're going to start off today with a

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fun fact from right

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here at the University

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of Oregon.

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And this is in fact the only mascot in

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the United States that

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is modeled after a Disney

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character, Donald Duck, right?

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But it's not Donald Duck, it is

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officially the duck.

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And they have an agreement with Disney to

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use the likeness of Donald Duck.

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So fun little fact there for you.

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Well, our first fact

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from today is from 1865.

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And that's when the Union troops arrived

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in Galveston, Texas, delivering the news

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of the Emancipation Proclamation.

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And that was marking Juneteenth.

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Then moving on to 1978, that's when

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Garfield, the lasagna

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loving cat, well, it debuted in

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comic strips.

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Then moving up to 1981, Superman II.

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On this date, it topped the US box office

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and my birthday cake.

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Then in 1987, The Untouchables starring

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Kevin Costner and Sean

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Connery, well, it was released.

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And lastly, on this date in 1991,

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Colombian drug lord Pablo

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Escobar, well, he surrendered

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to the police.

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Well, happy birthday to you.

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If today is your birthday, you share a

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birthday with the rapper

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who likes to give a little

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speed to the great

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white shark on Shark Week.

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That's Macklemore.

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He's 41 today.

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Then the actress from Guardian of the

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Galaxies and Avatar, Zoe Saldana.

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She's 46.

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And singer and

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choreographer, Paul Abdul, she's 62.

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And lastly, actress

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from Romancing the Stone.

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You remember that movie, right?

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I think an alligator ate

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the stone at one point.

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Well, Kathleen

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Turner, she turned 70 today.

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And the number one song on this date back

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in 1980 was Funkytown

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by Lips Incorporated.

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Now, this song was a disco-fueled jam

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that still inspires

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spontaneous dance moves in

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kitchens and cul-de-sacs, right?

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Well, the song defined the early 80s club

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culture and it

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remains a certified earworm

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to this day.

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And you know what else is funky?

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Steven R. Kobe's The 7

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Habits of Highly Effective People.

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And I'll admit that was a bit of a

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stretch, but today we're

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continuing through with habit

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three and diving into the sub-chapter,

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what it takes to say no.

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And Kobe argues that learning to say no

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is a central part of

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living in a principle-centered

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life.

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It's not about being disagreeable or

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rigid, but it's about

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knowing what truly matters

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to you and protecting that time.

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Kobe reminds us that, quote, "You have to

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decide what your

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highest priorities are and

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have the courage,

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pleasantly, smilingly, right?

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Nonapologetically to

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say no to other things.

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And the way you do that is by having a

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bigger yes burning inside," end quote.

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So habit three is about

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putting first things first.

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That means choosing activities that align

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with your deepest

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values and long-term vision

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rather than reacting to external

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pressures or fleeting urgencies, right?

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Kobe connects this habit three directly

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to the first two habits.

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Habit one, being proactive, it's about

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taking responsibility for your life.

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And habit two, beginning with the end in

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mind, it's about

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defining what truly matters.

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Without those two foundations, habit

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three becomes just another to-do list.

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So you remember, Kobe shared two

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essential questions to

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help guide our focus.

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The first one being, what one thing could

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you do that you aren't

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doing now that if you

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did it on a regular basis would make a

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tremendous positive

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difference in your personal life?

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And the second one was, what one thing in

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your business or

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professional life would bring

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similar results?

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Okay?

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So these questions are designed to push

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us into quadrant two,

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thinking, focusing on important,

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but not urgent priorities.

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Saying no then becomes

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an act of self-leadership.

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It's not about guilt or rejection.

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It's about choosing the best yes.

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And in doing so, you build

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credibility with yourself.

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You honor your own time and

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you live more intentionally.

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Okay, so here's your takeaway.

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Don't let your calendar be a to-do list

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of everyone else's priorities.

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Say no with grace because you have a

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deeper yes that drives your choices.

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That's not selfish, that's self-respect.

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All right.

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So whether you're celebrating freedom,

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dancing to disco, or just

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sauntering around like some

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of these people during the show,

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remember, today is yours to prioritize.

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Thanks for kicking off

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your morning with us.

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We'll see you here tomorrow.

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And as always, have a fantastic day.

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So join us.

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It'll be a good time, I promise.

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Thanks again for listening.

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Have a fantastic day and

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we'll see you tomorrow.