“My Wife Calmly Told Me She’s Not Attracted to Me Anymore” – What That REALLY Means

Seventeen years of marriage. Three kids. Nice house. Dead bedroom for almost a decade.
 Then, during an argument, she looks him in the eye and says the words that’ll haunt him forever:
 “I’m just not attracted to you anymore.”

No yelling. No drama. Just a calm, matter-of-fact gut punch.

This is what happens when a woman has emotionally and physically checked out — and finally wants you to get the message.
 In today’s Dear DSO submission, I break down why this happens, what it really means, and what your options are when your wife finally says what she’s been feeling for years.

This one hits hard.

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Welcome to the Dad Starting Over podcast! "Starting Over" means different things to different people. It could be that you're newly divorced and starting over fresh with a new life. It could be that you're still married and wanting to hit the reset button and finally do things right within your marriage. Whatever your story may be, you're in the right place.

I'm Ralph, a.k.a DSO, the author of books including "The Dead Bedroom Fix", "Divorce Panic", "Real Talk" "Red Flags" and "REBUILD: The Complete Guide to Starting Over as a Man". You can learn more about me, my books, one-on-one coaching, and the member-only part of my site called the Brotherhood at https://helpformen.com