1 01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:02,708 (upbeat music) 2 01:00:05,125 --> 01:00:05,791 Cheers. Cheers. 3 01:00:05,791 --> 01:00:06,541 To the weekend. 4 01:00:07,000 --> 01:00:07,958 When I sip, you sip. 5 01:00:08,625 --> 01:00:09,750 You get hearing it. 6 01:00:09,791 --> 01:00:11,166 Smash that like button. 7 01:00:13,541 --> 01:00:15,000 You get the Roach Killer. 8 01:00:16,000 --> 01:00:17,083 You get the hearing it. 9 01:00:17,125 --> 01:00:19,416 You get the steering wheel. 10 01:00:19,916 --> 01:00:21,791 Long story short, it's like Christmas 11 01:00:22,916 --> 01:00:24,625 for a lot of weird stuff. 12 01:00:25,000 --> 01:00:26,041 It is the weirdest. 13 01:00:26,125 --> 01:00:26,958 We're not wanting to talk. 14 01:00:26,958 --> 01:00:27,750 We met on a cruise. 15 01:00:28,291 --> 01:00:28,833 Yes, we did. 16 01:00:29,333 --> 01:00:31,291 I honestly think that that's one of 17 01:00:31,291 --> 01:00:32,333 life's biggest lies. 18 01:00:33,000 --> 01:00:35,833 Is that at some point, you figure it out. 19 01:00:36,000 --> 01:00:36,166 Yeah. 20 01:00:36,666 --> 01:00:38,000 Because everybody always 21 01:00:38,000 --> 01:00:39,250 looks like they have it together. 22 01:00:39,250 --> 01:00:39,500 Yeah. 23 01:00:39,916 --> 01:00:40,500 Everyone does. 24 01:00:40,791 --> 01:00:41,041 Yeah. 25 01:00:41,083 --> 01:00:42,458 And you're like, how do I not? 26 01:00:43,125 --> 01:00:44,583 I think that's profound though. 27 01:00:44,791 --> 01:00:45,625 I think that's profound. 28 01:00:45,625 --> 01:00:46,916 That's life's biggest lie is 29 01:00:46,916 --> 01:00:48,208 that at some point you make it. 30 01:00:48,500 --> 01:00:48,875 Yeah. 31 01:00:48,916 --> 01:00:50,416 It's AI on AI action. 32 01:00:50,708 --> 01:00:51,000 Yeah. 33 01:00:51,458 --> 01:00:53,000 And nobody's actually doing anything. 34 01:00:53,833 --> 01:00:55,791 This is on their wall for a long time. 35 01:00:55,791 --> 01:00:56,416 It said, there's two things 36 01:00:56,416 --> 01:00:57,333 you need to give your children. 37 01:00:58,000 --> 01:00:59,375 One is roots and one is wings. 38 01:00:59,916 --> 01:01:01,625 That hit one with me for sure. 39 01:01:01,666 --> 01:01:02,041 Yeah. 40 01:01:02,041 --> 01:01:02,625 Roots and wings. 41 01:01:02,916 --> 01:01:03,500 Roots and wings. 42 01:01:03,541 --> 01:01:03,916 Totally. 43 01:01:04,541 --> 01:01:06,916 And it's like, am I 44 01:01:06,916 --> 01:01:07,791 gonna be strong enough 45 01:01:07,791 --> 01:01:09,291 to make sure that they have the wings? 46 01:01:09,791 --> 01:01:10,041 Yeah. 47 01:01:10,666 --> 01:01:11,583 But the key for me 48 01:01:11,583 --> 01:01:12,875 and those wings is that 49 01:01:12,875 --> 01:01:14,416 they carry them on too. 50 01:01:14,791 --> 01:01:16,375 I mean, I'm happy to do a cha-cha slot. 51 01:01:17,250 --> 01:01:19,041 Okay, I think we've just solidified. 52 01:01:19,625 --> 01:01:20,291 We're both a little 53 01:01:20,291 --> 01:01:21,625 uppity and that's okay. 54 01:01:22,000 --> 01:01:22,666 Instead of the chaos 55 01:01:22,666 --> 01:01:23,958 train, it's the uppity train. 56 01:01:24,000 --> 01:01:24,750 The uppity train. 57 01:01:24,791 --> 01:01:25,000 Yeah. 58 01:01:25,250 --> 01:01:27,208 It's the first class steerage. 59 01:01:27,333 --> 01:01:28,000 We're not first class. 60 01:01:28,000 --> 01:01:28,375 That's right. 61 01:01:28,875 --> 01:01:29,875 We're first class steerage. 62 01:01:30,125 --> 01:01:30,958 First class steerage. 63 01:01:31,333 --> 01:01:32,208 You threw out a lot of 64 01:01:32,208 --> 01:01:33,375 Minnesota radio names. 65 01:01:34,291 --> 01:01:34,375 (laughing) 66 01:01:34,666 --> 01:01:35,416 I have never. 67 01:01:35,416 --> 01:01:36,166 I don't know that guy. 68 01:01:36,166 --> 01:01:37,000 That's a Minnesota thing. 69 01:01:38,041 --> 01:01:39,583 This is not a Garrison Keeler thing. 70 01:01:40,166 --> 01:01:41,000 He knows what he's doing. 71 01:01:41,000 --> 01:01:42,333 See, another name nobody knows. 72 01:01:42,708 --> 01:01:43,291 No, not Minnesota. 73 01:01:44,416 --> 01:01:45,541 And it was very lonely. 74 01:01:46,083 --> 01:01:47,208 I can still picture myself 75 01:01:47,208 --> 01:01:48,250 laying in the bottom bunk 76 01:01:48,500 --> 01:01:49,541 in my dorm room in Birch 77 01:01:49,541 --> 01:01:51,416 Hall at the University of Iowa. 78 01:01:52,750 --> 01:01:55,416 And just being scared and lonely. 79 01:01:55,791 --> 01:01:56,083 Yeah. 80 01:01:57,375 --> 01:01:59,625 But we're just still 25 81 01:01:59,625 --> 01:02:00,583 year olds trying to figure out 82 01:02:00,833 --> 01:02:01,708 our way in the world. 83 01:02:01,750 --> 01:02:01,958 Yes. 84 01:02:02,416 --> 01:02:02,916 You know what I mean? 85 01:02:03,375 --> 01:02:03,541 100%. 86 01:02:04,208 --> 01:02:05,500 And although we have a 87 01:02:05,500 --> 01:02:06,458 couple of things figured out. 88 01:02:07,250 --> 01:02:08,291 All right, until next time. 89 01:02:08,625 --> 01:02:09,833 At a medium pace. 90 01:02:11,666 --> 01:02:11,708 (laughing) 91 01:02:12,041 --> 01:02:13,083 Welcome to the Mr. and 92 01:02:13,083 --> 01:02:14,125 Mrs. English podcast. 93 01:02:14,500 --> 01:02:14,833 I'm Megan. 94 01:02:15,250 --> 01:02:15,875 And I'm Sean. 95 01:02:16,125 --> 01:02:17,125 We're here to talk about 96 01:02:17,125 --> 01:02:18,791 the wild ride of raising kids 97 01:02:18,791 --> 01:02:19,708 and growing careers, 98 01:02:20,083 --> 01:02:21,041 keeping life together 99 01:02:21,041 --> 01:02:22,291 in the middle of all the chaos. 100 01:02:23,000 --> 01:02:25,000 So buckle up because we're all 101 01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:26,541 in this crazy journey together. 102 01:02:26,750 --> 01:02:28,500 (upbeat music) 103 01:02:28,833 --> 01:02:29,375 Imma name it. 104 01:02:29,708 --> 01:02:31,291 Morning mayhem, I could have been it. 105 01:02:32,291 --> 01:02:33,541 (clapping) 106 01:02:33,791 --> 01:02:37,958 Tater tots, tater tots, la la land. 107 01:02:38,583 --> 01:02:39,875 Tater tots, la la land. 108 01:02:40,750 --> 01:02:42,791 Oh wow, we added land and tater tots. 109 01:02:43,083 --> 01:02:43,541 L's are good. 110 01:02:43,958 --> 01:02:44,708 Oh, a lot. 111 01:02:45,125 --> 01:02:46,041 I've noticed, yeah. 112 01:02:46,083 --> 01:02:46,625 Oh, that's cool. 113 01:02:47,208 --> 01:02:47,500 Yeah. 114 01:02:48,083 --> 01:02:48,291 Interesting. 115 01:02:48,958 --> 01:02:51,791 Well, and I do like your mayhem. 116 01:02:52,458 --> 01:02:53,166 Morning mayhem. 117 01:02:53,166 --> 01:02:54,000 Morning mayhem. 118 01:02:54,041 --> 01:02:54,291 Yeah. 119 01:02:54,666 --> 01:02:56,000 It really does fit. 120 01:02:56,333 --> 01:02:59,958 Yeah, I don't, that's my brain. 121 01:02:59,958 --> 01:03:01,375 Again, messing up words all the time. 122 01:03:02,000 --> 01:03:04,375 Regular watchers of this know that 123 01:03:05,958 --> 01:03:07,166 I do struggle to find words 124 01:03:07,166 --> 01:03:08,625 and mash up words all the time. 125 01:03:09,875 --> 01:03:11,416 (laughing) I don't think you do it that often. 126 01:03:11,416 --> 01:03:12,041 I don't think you do it 127 01:03:12,041 --> 01:03:13,458 nearly as much as you think you do. 128 01:03:13,458 --> 01:03:14,333 You've always said that, 129 01:03:14,333 --> 01:03:15,625 but maybe everybody 130 01:03:15,625 --> 01:03:17,375 notices their own mess ups 131 01:03:17,375 --> 01:03:18,708 more than other people do sometimes, 132 01:03:19,333 --> 01:03:21,833 but I'm always well aware of it. 133 01:03:22,041 --> 01:03:22,583 Top of mind. 134 01:03:22,958 --> 01:03:23,250 I know. 135 01:03:23,625 --> 01:03:24,625 Mine usually then I 136 01:03:24,625 --> 01:03:25,416 kind of have that pause 137 01:03:25,583 --> 01:03:26,083 because I'm trying to think 138 01:03:26,083 --> 01:03:27,250 of what is the right phrase. 139 01:03:27,583 --> 01:03:27,791 Yeah. 140 01:03:28,291 --> 01:03:28,625 Well, cheers. 141 01:03:29,208 --> 01:03:29,291 Cheers. 142 01:03:29,708 --> 01:03:31,416 To a holiday weekend. 143 01:03:32,333 --> 01:03:33,416 So here, we gotta get in here 144 01:03:33,416 --> 01:03:34,583 because when we need to 145 01:03:34,583 --> 01:03:35,791 put these on like TikToks, 146 01:03:35,791 --> 01:03:36,708 I need you all, I need your 147 01:03:36,708 --> 01:03:38,000 like face in here a little bit 148 01:03:38,333 --> 01:03:39,583 because they can't see us. 149 01:03:39,583 --> 01:03:40,708 Oh, there it is. 150 01:03:41,458 --> 01:03:42,250 All right, that's fine. 151 01:03:43,500 --> 01:03:45,458 (laughing) That was really good for the listeners. 152 01:03:45,875 --> 01:03:46,416 Oh, I'm sure. 153 01:03:46,708 --> 01:03:48,000 I need to do that at the very beginning. 154 01:03:48,000 --> 01:03:49,833 Like when I first do tater tots. 155 01:03:50,333 --> 01:03:50,541 Yeah. 156 01:03:50,916 --> 01:03:51,125 Yeah. 157 01:03:51,916 --> 01:03:52,625 Because you have to 158 01:03:52,625 --> 01:03:55,416 put like a cover for it. 159 01:03:55,458 --> 01:03:55,791 Oh yeah. 160 01:03:56,250 --> 01:03:56,458 Yeah. 161 01:03:56,958 --> 01:03:57,291 Okay. 162 01:03:57,500 --> 01:03:59,500 Are our phones dinging away 163 01:03:59,500 --> 01:04:00,541 if you were sending us texts? 164 01:04:00,958 --> 01:04:01,541 I know. 165 01:04:01,875 --> 01:04:02,875 It's good. 166 01:04:03,041 --> 01:04:06,666 We, so it's been a strange weekend, 167 01:04:06,666 --> 01:04:07,708 even though holiday weekend, 168 01:04:07,708 --> 01:04:08,500 but with our daughter 169 01:04:08,500 --> 01:04:10,166 being away for her first 170 01:04:10,500 --> 01:04:12,875 like trip with another family, 171 01:04:13,291 --> 01:04:13,833 we're actually getting 172 01:04:13,833 --> 01:04:14,833 pictures of them right now. 173 01:04:14,833 --> 01:04:16,083 That's why it's dinging away. 174 01:04:16,416 --> 01:04:19,166 And I'm fighting every urge like to not 175 01:04:19,166 --> 01:04:20,000 look at the pictures 176 01:04:20,500 --> 01:04:21,791 and see what they're doing. 177 01:04:22,125 --> 01:04:22,416 Yeah. 178 01:04:22,958 --> 01:04:23,708 They've had a fun trip. 179 01:04:24,208 --> 01:04:25,000 They really have. 180 01:04:25,375 --> 01:04:25,958 But it's one of those ones 181 01:04:25,958 --> 01:04:27,208 where we're talking about 182 01:04:27,541 --> 01:04:29,583 where it's just, we're happy 183 01:04:29,583 --> 01:04:30,458 that she's getting to do it 184 01:04:30,458 --> 01:04:32,083 because we did that as kids, right? 185 01:04:32,083 --> 01:04:33,250 Either we went with friends 186 01:04:33,250 --> 01:04:35,166 or we had friends come with us at times, 187 01:04:36,083 --> 01:04:37,916 but it's when your own kids, 188 01:04:38,875 --> 01:04:40,375 it's sad. 189 01:04:41,250 --> 01:04:41,625 I know. 190 01:04:42,416 --> 01:04:42,875 Like I think your 191 01:04:42,875 --> 01:04:44,250 brothers feel a little lost. 192 01:04:46,916 --> 01:04:48,083 We miss our middle. 193 01:04:48,333 --> 01:04:49,708 We miss our daughter no matter what. 194 01:04:50,000 --> 01:04:51,000 Yesterday was okay though, 195 01:04:51,000 --> 01:04:52,416 because it was a nice day outside. 196 01:04:52,416 --> 01:04:53,291 We're all at the pool. 197 01:04:53,916 --> 01:04:54,291 There's a couple of 198 01:04:54,291 --> 01:04:55,000 things here and there, 199 01:04:55,083 --> 01:04:56,291 but it was a really fun day, 200 01:04:57,208 --> 01:04:58,416 games at night and whatnot. 201 01:04:58,583 --> 01:04:59,958 So that was fun. 202 01:05:00,958 --> 01:05:01,958 We're stuck inside today 203 01:05:01,958 --> 01:05:03,500 because it's rainy and thunderstorm. 204 01:05:04,083 --> 01:05:04,791 Literally, I don't 205 01:05:04,791 --> 01:05:05,916 know if you can hear it, 206 01:05:05,916 --> 01:05:07,250 but it's thundering right now. 207 01:05:07,500 --> 01:05:08,250 I can hear it. 208 01:05:08,250 --> 01:05:09,916 I don't know if they can hear it. 209 01:05:10,291 --> 01:05:11,208 But yeah. 210 01:05:11,791 --> 01:05:13,000 So I think now that we're 211 01:05:13,000 --> 01:05:15,416 inside and we're one man down. 212 01:05:15,750 --> 01:05:17,250 No, it's really sad. 213 01:05:18,083 --> 01:05:18,791 It is. 214 01:05:18,791 --> 01:05:19,625 It's, I miss her. 215 01:05:20,000 --> 01:05:22,250 I know she's having a good time. 216 01:05:23,000 --> 01:05:24,750 I know she is just 217 01:05:24,750 --> 01:05:27,750 having a blast and laughing 218 01:05:27,958 --> 01:05:28,708 and getting to do all 219 01:05:28,708 --> 01:05:29,500 kinds of cool things, 220 01:05:29,500 --> 01:05:30,666 but there's an emptiness 221 01:05:30,666 --> 01:05:32,833 that's kind of left at home. 222 01:05:33,166 --> 01:05:33,375 Yeah. 223 01:05:33,500 --> 01:05:35,000 First off, I'm just heating up my, 224 01:05:35,291 --> 01:05:36,500 we haven't cheers yet. 225 01:05:36,500 --> 01:05:37,500 We've got these sippers. 226 01:05:38,500 --> 01:05:40,000 And I'm just heating it up, holding it. 227 01:05:40,000 --> 01:05:41,208 Cause I haven't, I haven't cheers Jesus. 228 01:05:41,416 --> 01:05:41,875 Cheers. 229 01:05:41,916 --> 01:05:42,041 Cheers. 230 01:05:42,041 --> 01:05:42,833 It should be a weekend. 231 01:05:45,541 --> 01:05:47,500 All right, everybody take a sip. 232 01:05:48,125 --> 01:05:49,000 It's a drinking game. 233 01:05:49,416 --> 01:05:50,125 Yeah, I know. 234 01:05:51,458 --> 01:05:52,500 When I sip, you sip. 235 01:05:53,958 --> 01:05:54,625 It's a song too. 236 01:05:54,666 --> 01:05:55,416 Yeah, what is it? 237 01:05:55,625 --> 01:05:55,791 I sip, you sip. 238 01:05:55,833 --> 01:05:56,791 When I dip, you dip. 239 01:05:58,500 --> 01:05:59,250 (laughing) You know it? 240 01:05:59,458 --> 01:05:59,750 Yeah, yeah. 241 01:06:00,291 --> 01:06:01,333 I probably did that on a 242 01:06:01,333 --> 01:06:02,708 cruise at some point, right? 243 01:06:02,708 --> 01:06:02,958 Yeah. 244 01:06:03,500 --> 01:06:04,583 Somewhere like the cha cha slide. 245 01:06:05,125 --> 01:06:05,416 Yeah. 246 01:06:06,000 --> 01:06:06,625 Oh my gosh. 247 01:06:06,916 --> 01:06:10,333 So we are going on a cruise this summer. 248 01:06:10,458 --> 01:06:10,666 Yeah. 249 01:06:11,458 --> 01:06:13,791 But it's not the cruise that, 250 01:06:14,333 --> 01:06:15,041 well, we can talk about 251 01:06:15,041 --> 01:06:15,875 our cruise a little bit, 252 01:06:15,875 --> 01:06:17,041 but it's not the cruise that 253 01:06:17,041 --> 01:06:18,916 some of the families went on. 254 01:06:18,916 --> 01:06:19,375 One of the families 255 01:06:19,375 --> 01:06:21,208 went on on the soccer team. 256 01:06:21,500 --> 01:06:21,750 Yes. 257 01:06:22,333 --> 01:06:22,833 Oh man. 258 01:06:23,416 --> 01:06:24,875 Which you talk about the cha cha 259 01:06:25,458 --> 01:06:26,500 and everybody up top 260 01:06:26,500 --> 01:06:28,000 dancing, line dancing. 261 01:06:28,416 --> 01:06:30,708 Cause I've seen some of these reels 262 01:06:30,875 --> 01:06:32,250 where cruises are just 263 01:06:32,250 --> 01:06:34,416 like old school block party. 264 01:06:34,541 --> 01:06:34,833 Yes. 265 01:06:35,166 --> 01:06:35,583 You know? 266 01:06:35,583 --> 01:06:35,833 Yeah. 267 01:06:36,125 --> 01:06:36,666 Which would have been 268 01:06:36,666 --> 01:06:37,750 fun at a point in my life. 269 01:06:38,583 --> 01:06:39,000 Yes. 270 01:06:40,041 --> 01:06:41,125 I don't think we're there anymore. 271 01:06:41,166 --> 01:06:42,041 I'm just not sure I'm at 272 01:06:42,041 --> 01:06:43,166 that point in my life anymore 273 01:06:43,166 --> 01:06:44,583 where I'm ready to get up and do the, 274 01:06:44,583 --> 01:06:46,125 I mean, I'm happy to do a cha cha slide. 275 01:06:47,333 --> 01:06:47,750 Heck yeah. 276 01:06:48,125 --> 01:06:49,708 I mean, you just heard our, 277 01:06:49,708 --> 01:06:50,416 I just heard our 278 01:06:50,416 --> 01:06:51,875 youngest doing the cha cha slide 279 01:06:52,000 --> 01:06:52,041 and then he was like, 280 01:06:52,041 --> 01:06:52,291 "Oh, I'm gonna have to go up in his 281 01:06:52,291 --> 01:06:53,125 bathroom the other day 282 01:06:53,125 --> 01:06:53,833 after the shower." 283 01:06:54,041 --> 01:06:56,750 And I was like, "Wow, it's 9.30 284 01:06:56,750 --> 01:06:57,708 and we're cha cha sliding." 285 01:06:57,958 --> 01:07:00,750 But still, yeah, it 286 01:07:00,750 --> 01:07:03,041 hopefully isn't quite like... 287 01:07:03,583 --> 01:07:04,541 Yeah, but they were going, 288 01:07:04,541 --> 01:07:05,208 what was there? 289 01:07:05,208 --> 01:07:06,125 There was like a three 290 01:07:06,125 --> 01:07:07,083 nighter or something. 291 01:07:07,083 --> 01:07:08,458 It was a three nighter and it was, 292 01:07:08,458 --> 01:07:09,791 it was her mother-in-law's 293 01:07:09,791 --> 01:07:11,666 like 90th birthday party. 294 01:07:11,666 --> 01:07:14,958 And it was almost like a 295 01:07:14,958 --> 01:07:17,291 booze cruise just overnight. 296 01:07:17,500 --> 01:07:17,833 Yeah. 297 01:07:20,916 --> 01:07:21,083 It was wild. 298 01:07:21,083 --> 01:07:22,291 I mean, it's like a party ship. 299 01:07:22,291 --> 01:07:23,000 And they were just like, 300 01:07:23,625 --> 01:07:24,833 "What are we gonna do with 301 01:07:24,833 --> 01:07:27,166 our 90 or 95 year old mother?" 302 01:07:27,833 --> 01:07:29,500 But it's the one she wanted to go on. 303 01:07:30,166 --> 01:07:31,333 Yeah, yeah. 304 01:07:31,541 --> 01:07:33,458 It's funny that it's a booze cruise and, 305 01:07:34,166 --> 01:07:35,166 you know, like I said, 306 01:07:35,166 --> 01:07:36,375 you just get to a certain age. 307 01:07:36,375 --> 01:07:38,333 Like the booze cruise is not, 308 01:07:39,000 --> 01:07:40,625 I mean, we're not wanting to talk. 309 01:07:40,625 --> 01:07:41,500 We met on a cruise. 310 01:07:41,875 --> 01:07:42,500 Yes, we did. 311 01:07:42,791 --> 01:07:43,458 It wasn't a, 312 01:07:44,041 --> 01:07:45,291 I guess it was a booze cruise probably 313 01:07:45,291 --> 01:07:46,291 because it was a carnival. 314 01:07:46,416 --> 01:07:47,541 Kind of, it was. 315 01:07:48,875 --> 01:07:49,750 Almost 20 years ago. 316 01:07:50,250 --> 01:07:52,541 No, it was 20 years ago. 317 01:07:52,583 --> 01:07:53,750 You're right, it was 20 years ago. 318 01:07:53,750 --> 01:07:55,125 It was 20 years ago last month. 319 01:07:55,125 --> 01:07:56,083 That's right, that's crazy. 320 01:07:56,916 --> 01:07:59,500 So maybe a lot has changed at carnivals. 321 01:08:00,416 --> 01:08:01,250 We were there, but. 322 01:08:02,000 --> 01:08:03,500 I don't remember it being that. 323 01:08:03,791 --> 01:08:06,000 I mean, obviously there was drinking. 324 01:08:06,708 --> 01:08:08,666 I mean, we were well into our twenties, 325 01:08:10,125 --> 01:08:11,875 but I don't recall it being. 326 01:08:12,375 --> 01:08:13,041 There's just a difference 327 01:08:13,041 --> 01:08:14,666 between like a block party 328 01:08:15,125 --> 01:08:16,833 and like celebrating the 329 01:08:16,833 --> 01:08:18,166 fact that you're, you know, 330 01:08:18,208 --> 01:08:19,958 casting off on a, you 331 01:08:19,958 --> 01:08:20,750 know, seven night cruise. 332 01:08:21,083 --> 01:08:22,000 Yeah, yeah. 333 01:08:22,291 --> 01:08:22,666 To me. 334 01:08:23,000 --> 01:08:24,125 It was a total, yeah. 335 01:08:25,083 --> 01:08:26,500 I'm not trying to be 336 01:08:26,500 --> 01:08:27,500 judgmental about this. 337 01:08:27,750 --> 01:08:30,666 I just think as you mature, 338 01:08:31,500 --> 01:08:32,000 there's some things that 339 01:08:32,000 --> 01:08:32,833 you're just not as much into. 340 01:08:33,250 --> 01:08:34,791 I totally agree. 341 01:08:35,458 --> 01:08:36,958 And getting blasted on a cruise ship is 342 01:08:36,958 --> 01:08:37,666 one of those things. 343 01:08:37,958 --> 01:08:39,833 Getting blasted on a cruise ship. 344 01:08:40,083 --> 01:08:41,541 Not that we got blasted, 345 01:08:41,541 --> 01:08:43,541 but you know, you hear stories about, 346 01:08:43,750 --> 01:08:45,250 I mean, we saw plenty of people. 347 01:08:45,666 --> 01:08:46,208 Oh yeah. 348 01:08:46,833 --> 01:08:48,375 I mean, on the cruises that we've taken, 349 01:08:48,375 --> 01:08:49,958 we've seen plenty of people who was like, 350 01:08:49,958 --> 01:08:51,000 whoa, you are over-served. 351 01:08:51,291 --> 01:08:52,583 Yeah, we've only been on two cruises. 352 01:08:52,583 --> 01:08:53,416 The one that we met on 353 01:08:53,416 --> 01:08:55,041 down in the Caribbean, 354 01:08:55,291 --> 01:08:56,166 which was a what? 355 01:08:57,208 --> 01:08:58,000 Western Caribbean? 356 01:09:00,375 --> 01:09:01,041 No, Western, Western Caribbean. 357 01:09:01,041 --> 01:09:02,083 Yeah, I think it was Western Caribbean. 358 01:09:02,333 --> 01:09:04,250 And then our honeymoon, we went on a 359 01:09:04,250 --> 01:09:05,958 Hawaiian Islands cruise 360 01:09:05,958 --> 01:09:07,791 that left from the mainland. 361 01:09:07,791 --> 01:09:08,583 Yes. California. 362 01:09:09,000 --> 01:09:13,125 And that one I thought was really uppity. 363 01:09:13,375 --> 01:09:15,250 Like I didn't, I don't know. 364 01:09:16,125 --> 01:09:16,625 Oh, you're right. 365 01:09:16,875 --> 01:09:17,875 Apparently I needed that 366 01:09:17,875 --> 01:09:19,458 move to make it uppity. 367 01:09:19,916 --> 01:09:20,833 That one I don't feel 368 01:09:20,833 --> 01:09:21,833 like had any of that. 369 01:09:21,875 --> 01:09:23,875 So you're saying we fit much more 370 01:09:23,875 --> 01:09:25,291 into the uppity cruises now? 371 01:09:26,416 --> 01:09:26,833 Wow. 372 01:09:26,875 --> 01:09:27,916 Okay, if the shoe fits. 373 01:09:28,583 --> 01:09:29,833 Yeah, I mean, you're 374 01:09:29,833 --> 01:09:30,750 really painting a picture. 375 01:09:30,750 --> 01:09:32,666 Last week it's like, I'm not gonna camp, 376 01:09:32,666 --> 01:09:34,166 I'm an indoor gal, kinda gal. 377 01:09:34,833 --> 01:09:37,083 Now it's, I prefer the uppity cruises. 378 01:09:37,541 --> 01:09:38,666 I prefer the uppity cruises. 379 01:09:39,625 --> 01:09:41,458 Well, I mean, I do remember 380 01:09:41,458 --> 01:09:43,750 the guy who was super drunk 381 01:09:43,750 --> 01:09:44,833 and he like fell off of 382 01:09:44,833 --> 01:09:45,916 a dock and broke his leg 383 01:09:46,041 --> 01:09:46,541 and then he walked 384 01:09:46,541 --> 01:09:48,291 around, I mean, it just-- 385 01:09:49,000 --> 01:09:51,666 He was like the class clown, 386 01:09:51,958 --> 01:09:53,333 but he was the cruise clown. 387 01:09:53,333 --> 01:09:53,916 He was. 388 01:09:53,916 --> 01:09:54,750 Everybody knew that guy. 389 01:09:54,750 --> 01:09:55,708 Everybody knew that guy. 390 01:09:55,750 --> 01:09:56,208 He was everywhere. 391 01:09:56,583 --> 01:09:58,375 Yes, he's actually in 392 01:09:58,375 --> 01:09:59,250 some of our pictures. 393 01:09:59,250 --> 01:09:59,916 We don't know this 394 01:09:59,916 --> 01:10:01,625 man just for the record. 395 01:10:02,291 --> 01:10:03,208 We have no idea who he was, 396 01:10:03,208 --> 01:10:04,291 but like everybody 397 01:10:04,291 --> 01:10:06,083 knew of him on the cruise 398 01:10:06,166 --> 01:10:09,125 because he was the life of the party. 399 01:10:09,458 --> 01:10:11,208 Life of the party, he was everywhere. 400 01:10:11,250 --> 01:10:11,500 Everywhere. 401 01:10:12,208 --> 01:10:15,041 Until he was too drunk 402 01:10:15,041 --> 01:10:16,208 and he fell off a dock 403 01:10:16,208 --> 01:10:17,125 and broke his leg. 404 01:10:17,125 --> 01:10:18,500 Yes, and even then he 405 01:10:18,500 --> 01:10:20,000 was still like splinted 406 01:10:20,000 --> 01:10:21,333 because they couldn't cast him. 407 01:10:21,708 --> 01:10:24,458 Still just drinking up a storm. 408 01:10:24,500 --> 01:10:25,666 Do you remember how much he sweat? 409 01:10:27,291 --> 01:10:29,541 I don't recall that, I 410 01:10:29,541 --> 01:10:30,458 probably blocked that out. 411 01:10:30,708 --> 01:10:33,291 He was just drenched 412 01:10:33,291 --> 01:10:34,291 in sweat the whole time. 413 01:10:35,000 --> 01:10:36,666 He was, I mean, but he was always like, 414 01:10:37,333 --> 01:10:38,458 even in the, cause he 415 01:10:38,458 --> 01:10:39,708 got a wheelchair, right? 416 01:10:39,833 --> 01:10:40,583 I remember him on the 417 01:10:40,583 --> 01:10:41,958 dance floor in a wheelchair 418 01:10:42,500 --> 01:10:43,750 because he didn't now have a 419 01:10:43,750 --> 01:10:45,625 cast on his fully broken leg. 420 01:10:45,916 --> 01:10:46,125 Yeah. 421 01:10:46,958 --> 01:10:48,916 And yet still drinking. 422 01:10:49,750 --> 01:10:50,041 Wow. 423 01:10:51,875 --> 01:10:54,333 That's the type of like 424 01:10:54,333 --> 01:10:56,416 thing that we tend to avoid 425 01:10:56,541 --> 01:10:57,583 now on cruises. 426 01:10:58,500 --> 01:10:58,916 And then. 427 01:10:59,541 --> 01:11:00,583 I guess they have that. 428 01:11:00,583 --> 01:11:01,666 Now and then, yeah. 429 01:11:01,666 --> 01:11:02,458 Now and then, yeah. 430 01:11:02,458 --> 01:11:03,500 That's right, that's right. 431 01:11:04,125 --> 01:11:06,833 So the cruise that we're going to, 432 01:11:06,875 --> 01:11:09,375 we've just spent this holiday week 433 01:11:09,375 --> 01:11:12,083 and we spent hours and hours and hours 434 01:11:12,666 --> 01:11:14,041 kind of rebooking our excursions. 435 01:11:14,541 --> 01:11:14,750 Yes. 436 01:11:16,250 --> 01:11:17,625 I mean, almost every 437 01:11:17,625 --> 01:11:19,666 excursion we rebooked, 438 01:11:19,666 --> 01:11:21,000 but now it's all, I mean, 439 01:11:21,000 --> 01:11:22,541 every excursion is planned at this point. 440 01:11:23,375 --> 01:11:25,000 It is, it's better planned. 441 01:11:25,541 --> 01:11:27,041 Cause I've been nervous 442 01:11:27,041 --> 01:11:29,541 that we're getting closer 443 01:11:29,541 --> 01:11:31,000 and closer to it and 444 01:11:31,000 --> 01:11:31,666 we don't have everything 445 01:11:31,666 --> 01:11:32,666 kind of nailed down. 446 01:11:32,666 --> 01:11:33,750 I don't want to show up and be like, 447 01:11:33,750 --> 01:11:34,791 it's all going to turn out great. 448 01:11:35,000 --> 01:11:36,000 And we can't get a 449 01:11:36,000 --> 01:11:37,541 cabana, we can't get a beach. 450 01:11:37,958 --> 01:11:39,708 We can't, I don't like to be the family 451 01:11:39,708 --> 01:11:41,458 that didn't get the perk. 452 01:11:41,750 --> 01:11:42,000 Yeah. 453 01:11:42,500 --> 01:11:42,958 You know? 454 01:11:43,166 --> 01:11:44,833 Or in the front of the line or whatever. 455 01:11:45,416 --> 01:11:46,541 Maybe that's a little uppity too. 456 01:11:46,791 --> 01:11:47,125 I don't know. 457 01:11:47,375 --> 01:11:47,750 I know. 458 01:11:48,416 --> 01:11:49,125 It comes with maturity, 459 01:11:49,500 --> 01:11:50,583 comes with maturity, I guess. 460 01:11:51,458 --> 01:11:53,333 Okay, I think we've just solidified. 461 01:11:53,791 --> 01:11:54,541 We're both a little 462 01:11:54,541 --> 01:11:55,916 uppity and that's okay. 463 01:11:56,500 --> 01:11:57,083 So yeah. 464 01:11:57,458 --> 01:11:59,083 That's why we fit together so well. 465 01:11:59,125 --> 01:12:00,041 Yeah, that's right. 466 01:12:00,041 --> 01:12:01,250 So we're changing maybe 467 01:12:01,250 --> 01:12:03,666 the quote for the show. 468 01:12:05,000 --> 01:12:06,708 Mr. and Mrs., instead of the chaos train, 469 01:12:06,708 --> 01:12:07,541 it's the uppity train. 470 01:12:07,583 --> 01:12:08,375 It's the uppity train. 471 01:12:08,375 --> 01:12:10,708 Yeah, it's the first class steerage. 472 01:12:11,625 --> 01:12:13,208 It's the first class steerage. 473 01:12:13,791 --> 01:12:15,250 That might be the best. 474 01:12:16,208 --> 01:12:18,125 Because it's definitely not first class. 475 01:12:18,666 --> 01:12:19,458 We're not first class. 476 01:12:19,458 --> 01:12:19,833 That's right. 477 01:12:20,375 --> 01:12:21,416 We're first class steerage. 478 01:12:21,416 --> 01:12:22,500 We're first class steerage. 479 01:12:22,500 --> 01:12:22,708 Yeah. 480 01:12:23,458 --> 01:12:25,375 So anyways, so that's been 481 01:12:25,375 --> 01:12:27,541 fun getting all that kind of, 482 01:12:27,541 --> 01:12:28,208 you know, I mean, I'm 483 01:12:28,208 --> 01:12:29,416 really looking forward to it now. 484 01:12:29,416 --> 01:12:30,166 It's going to be incredible. 485 01:12:30,166 --> 01:12:31,375 I've never been over to Italy. 486 01:12:31,625 --> 01:12:32,250 We're going to hit like 487 01:12:32,250 --> 01:12:33,375 four or five countries. 488 01:12:34,541 --> 01:12:37,250 You know, it's an 11 day cruise. 489 01:12:37,958 --> 01:12:39,500 So the kids are going to enjoy it. 490 01:12:39,500 --> 01:12:40,791 It's going to be a go 491 01:12:40,791 --> 01:12:42,583 vacation and we're not goers. 492 01:12:42,583 --> 01:12:43,291 We're not goers. 493 01:12:43,750 --> 01:12:44,541 We're not goers. 494 01:12:44,750 --> 01:12:47,208 We did plan, I think a couple excursions 495 01:12:47,375 --> 01:12:49,000 where it's a little more 496 01:12:49,000 --> 01:12:50,916 chill that day, you know? 497 01:12:51,750 --> 01:12:51,875 Yeah. 498 01:12:52,458 --> 01:12:52,708 It's like-- 499 01:12:52,958 --> 01:12:54,041 A couple boat outings, a couple, 500 01:12:54,791 --> 01:12:55,291 like when you get 501 01:12:55,291 --> 01:12:56,375 there, we'll go on a boat 502 01:12:56,500 --> 01:12:58,458 and swim here or there, a couple beach. 503 01:12:58,833 --> 01:12:59,375 A couple beach. 504 01:12:59,708 --> 01:13:01,083 And then a couple where it's just like, 505 01:13:01,125 --> 01:13:01,791 hey, we're hitting 506 01:13:01,791 --> 01:13:02,958 this archeological site 507 01:13:02,958 --> 01:13:03,541 and then to this one 508 01:13:03,541 --> 01:13:04,458 and then to this one. 509 01:13:04,458 --> 01:13:05,875 And we're going to grab lunch in between. 510 01:13:05,875 --> 01:13:06,583 I mean, those are the days 511 01:13:06,583 --> 01:13:07,666 that we're going to be like, 512 01:13:08,000 --> 01:13:08,583 I'm so tired. 513 01:13:08,875 --> 01:13:09,916 But I know it's going to happen. 514 01:13:10,250 --> 01:13:11,666 I mean, our youngest is still young. 515 01:13:11,708 --> 01:13:11,958 Yes. 516 01:13:12,166 --> 01:13:13,000 And I'll never forget, 517 01:13:13,000 --> 01:13:13,500 I probably have already 518 01:13:13,500 --> 01:13:14,583 told this story on this, 519 01:13:14,583 --> 01:13:16,291 but when I went to the middle East, 520 01:13:17,041 --> 01:13:22,000 when I was 21 and I was just taken aback 521 01:13:22,375 --> 01:13:25,500 by the history of it, how 522 01:13:25,500 --> 01:13:27,458 old it was, the architecture. 523 01:13:27,750 --> 01:13:28,791 I mean, it's just, to 524 01:13:28,791 --> 01:13:30,000 me, it just hit you, 525 01:13:31,000 --> 01:13:34,708 like a 30 foot wave of just the cultural, 526 01:13:34,875 --> 01:13:35,916 historical significance 527 01:13:35,916 --> 01:13:36,916 of what you're standing in, 528 01:13:36,916 --> 01:13:37,666 just everything that's 529 01:13:37,666 --> 01:13:38,541 come before you and that, 530 01:13:39,458 --> 01:13:40,166 it's incredible. 531 01:13:40,875 --> 01:13:42,000 And then I look over and 532 01:13:42,000 --> 01:13:43,250 there's these 18 year olds 533 01:13:43,250 --> 01:13:45,000 who are just picking apart 534 01:13:45,000 --> 01:13:48,875 this 4,000 year old fence 535 01:13:49,000 --> 01:13:51,166 or stone wall, like 536 01:13:51,166 --> 01:13:52,583 knocking a brick off of it. 537 01:13:52,583 --> 01:13:55,250 I'm like, are you stinking kidding me? 538 01:13:55,833 --> 01:13:56,041 Yeah. 539 01:13:56,666 --> 01:13:58,166 So, I mean, I'll slap 540 01:13:58,166 --> 01:13:59,000 the heck out of our kids. 541 01:13:59,083 --> 01:14:00,625 I won't, but I'll slap our kids 542 01:14:00,625 --> 01:14:02,041 if they were to do something like that. 543 01:14:02,041 --> 01:14:03,458 But I know we're going 544 01:14:03,458 --> 01:14:04,916 to hear the first church 545 01:14:04,916 --> 01:14:06,166 is going to be really cool, right? 546 01:14:06,416 --> 01:14:07,791 Like, oh, that's incredible. 547 01:14:08,375 --> 01:14:09,166 The third church. 548 01:14:09,750 --> 01:14:10,625 Is going to be like, okay, 549 01:14:10,625 --> 01:14:11,708 we've seen a lot of churches. 550 01:14:11,708 --> 01:14:12,625 They're going to be so bored. 551 01:14:13,041 --> 01:14:13,875 I know, I know. 552 01:14:13,916 --> 01:14:14,500 So bored. 553 01:14:15,208 --> 01:14:16,625 Well, that's one of the cool things, 554 01:14:16,875 --> 01:14:18,500 I think if I'm 555 01:14:18,500 --> 01:14:19,750 looking back at every port, 556 01:14:20,375 --> 01:14:21,416 it's almost like we 557 01:14:21,416 --> 01:14:23,166 don't have too many days 558 01:14:23,416 --> 01:14:25,083 of that sightseeing or 559 01:14:25,083 --> 01:14:26,708 archeological or like church things, 560 01:14:26,958 --> 01:14:27,416 like, you know, where 561 01:14:27,416 --> 01:14:28,458 it's a gorgeous city. 562 01:14:29,750 --> 01:14:31,083 Looking at sites, we don't 563 01:14:31,083 --> 01:14:32,166 have too many of those in a row 564 01:14:32,166 --> 01:14:33,750 because then they're broken up by, 565 01:14:33,750 --> 01:14:35,000 oh, we're going to be on a catamaran 566 01:14:35,291 --> 01:14:38,000 and going snorkeling the following day. 567 01:14:38,000 --> 01:14:38,625 Right, right. 568 01:14:39,000 --> 01:14:41,500 So, I'm hoping that helps. 569 01:14:42,000 --> 01:14:43,250 Yeah, yeah. 570 01:14:43,250 --> 01:14:43,666 We'll see. 571 01:14:44,166 --> 01:14:44,791 We'll see. 572 01:14:44,791 --> 01:14:46,833 I just, talking about 573 01:14:46,833 --> 01:14:48,083 being uppity and all that, 574 01:14:48,083 --> 01:14:51,333 I just, since we're on a large ship 575 01:14:51,666 --> 01:14:53,000 with, you know, 3,000 576 01:14:53,000 --> 01:14:53,958 of our best friends, 577 01:14:54,791 --> 01:14:57,000 you know, it's just, that's very, 578 01:14:57,041 --> 01:14:57,916 we talked about it when 579 01:14:57,916 --> 01:15:00,333 we were at the soccer game, 580 01:15:00,750 --> 01:15:02,083 you know, when there was like 60,000 581 01:15:02,083 --> 01:15:03,000 of our best friends over there. 582 01:15:03,000 --> 01:15:03,291 Oh my gosh, there were 583 01:15:03,291 --> 01:15:04,083 so many people there. 584 01:15:04,083 --> 01:15:05,166 Yeah, but those big crowds and stuff, 585 01:15:05,375 --> 01:15:06,250 you know, getting on and off 586 01:15:06,250 --> 01:15:07,583 the boat and waiting in line 587 01:15:07,583 --> 01:15:08,333 and, you know, people 588 01:15:08,333 --> 01:15:09,708 that are just not thinking 589 01:15:09,708 --> 01:15:10,458 of other people. 590 01:15:10,666 --> 01:15:10,875 Yep. 591 01:15:11,791 --> 01:15:12,750 I'm just going to have to 592 01:15:12,750 --> 01:15:15,666 either grow some patience, 593 01:15:15,666 --> 01:15:16,541 because I don't have patience, 594 01:15:16,541 --> 01:15:18,375 I was not blessed with patience. 595 01:15:18,416 --> 01:15:20,000 That is the virtue you do not have. 596 01:15:20,000 --> 01:15:21,541 That's the virtue I do not possess, 597 01:15:21,541 --> 01:15:22,375 I've always said that. 598 01:15:23,916 --> 01:15:25,875 Or I just need to drink a lot, so. 599 01:15:26,750 --> 01:15:27,708 Let's do a little bit of both. 600 01:15:28,375 --> 01:15:28,916 Oh, okay. 601 01:15:28,916 --> 01:15:29,166 After that. 602 01:15:30,208 --> 01:15:31,458 I guess, you'll bring the patience 603 01:15:31,458 --> 01:15:32,375 and I'll bring the drinking. 604 01:15:32,791 --> 01:15:33,625 Yeah, that works. 605 01:15:34,500 --> 01:15:35,375 That's how it always works. 606 01:15:35,416 --> 01:15:36,333 That's how it always works. 607 01:15:37,208 --> 01:15:40,125 I mean, we're going to 608 01:15:40,125 --> 01:15:43,291 classic wine places, right? 609 01:15:43,291 --> 01:15:44,208 You have Greece, you 610 01:15:44,208 --> 01:15:46,125 have Italy, you have France, 611 01:15:46,125 --> 01:15:48,666 like we're, Sicily. 612 01:15:50,208 --> 01:15:51,375 There's going to be. 613 01:15:51,708 --> 01:15:52,416 It's going to be incredible. 614 01:15:52,666 --> 01:15:54,125 Oh my gosh, it's going to be incredible. 615 01:15:54,500 --> 01:15:55,500 And there will be good wine. 616 01:15:56,125 --> 01:15:56,666 There will be. 617 01:15:56,708 --> 01:15:57,250 There will be. 618 01:15:57,500 --> 01:15:58,750 The kids did tell me, they're like, 619 01:15:58,750 --> 01:16:00,041 "Mom, you can't go to the wineries." 620 01:16:00,041 --> 01:16:01,458 I'm just like, "All right, I mean, 621 01:16:02,250 --> 01:16:02,833 guess I'll have to go 622 01:16:02,833 --> 01:16:03,708 back to go to those." 623 01:16:03,833 --> 01:16:04,708 We didn't even, yeah, we 624 01:16:04,708 --> 01:16:05,791 will go back for those, 625 01:16:05,791 --> 01:16:06,375 but we didn't even 626 01:16:06,375 --> 01:16:07,208 consider going to those. 627 01:16:07,625 --> 01:16:08,541 Trying to do fun things. 628 01:16:08,541 --> 01:16:09,625 No, we're trying to do fun things 629 01:16:09,625 --> 01:16:10,291 and things that the 630 01:16:10,291 --> 01:16:11,541 kids would enjoy as well. 631 01:16:11,958 --> 01:16:14,791 This isn't a Shawn and Megan vacation, 632 01:16:15,041 --> 01:16:15,666 we'd probably do 633 01:16:15,666 --> 01:16:16,541 things a little differently 634 01:16:16,791 --> 01:16:18,666 on a vacation for just us. 635 01:16:18,708 --> 01:16:20,333 This is a very go-go vacation though, 636 01:16:20,333 --> 01:16:21,333 but the reason I 637 01:16:21,333 --> 01:16:22,458 brought up the one in Hawaii 638 01:16:22,458 --> 01:16:23,708 was because that was really nice. 639 01:16:23,708 --> 01:16:25,291 I had never been to Hawaii before that. 640 01:16:25,375 --> 01:16:25,958 I had neither. 641 01:16:26,375 --> 01:16:27,875 And so that trip, we 642 01:16:27,875 --> 01:16:29,666 went to four of the islands 643 01:16:30,500 --> 01:16:32,000 and then back to maybe one or 644 01:16:32,000 --> 01:16:33,000 two of them on the way back. 645 01:16:33,333 --> 01:16:33,583 Correct, yeah. 646 01:16:33,583 --> 01:16:34,458 So we got to disembark 647 01:16:34,458 --> 01:16:35,416 on every one of those 648 01:16:35,500 --> 01:16:38,625 and explore them, but it was a great way 649 01:16:38,625 --> 01:16:40,291 just to get to know each island 650 01:16:40,291 --> 01:16:40,916 because they're all so 651 01:16:40,916 --> 01:16:42,000 different out there obviously. 652 01:16:43,166 --> 01:16:44,166 And then we knew what we 653 01:16:44,166 --> 01:16:45,625 wanted to do when we went back. 654 01:16:45,625 --> 01:16:46,333 And so I think this is a 655 01:16:46,333 --> 01:16:48,000 little similar over there. 656 01:16:48,000 --> 01:16:49,250 Okay, I want to do this. 657 01:16:49,666 --> 01:16:50,958 We're going to see all these spots. 658 01:16:50,958 --> 01:16:51,791 Like when we go to 659 01:16:51,791 --> 01:16:53,083 cans, how do you say it? 660 01:16:53,083 --> 01:16:53,583 Cans or cons? 661 01:16:54,041 --> 01:16:54,250 Cans. 662 01:16:55,125 --> 01:16:56,250 I think it's can, yeah, can. 663 01:16:56,791 --> 01:16:57,041 Okay. 664 01:16:58,125 --> 01:16:59,500 The can can, is it from can can? 665 01:17:00,541 --> 01:17:00,750 Sure. 666 01:17:01,500 --> 01:17:02,000 Why not? 667 01:17:02,375 --> 01:17:03,500 Yeah, but we're going 668 01:17:03,500 --> 01:17:06,000 up to Nice, up to... 669 01:17:07,125 --> 01:17:07,416 Monaco. 670 01:17:08,041 --> 01:17:08,125 Monaco. 671 01:17:09,041 --> 01:17:12,625 So seeing, just seeing all those places 672 01:17:12,875 --> 01:17:14,041 and putting eyeballs on 673 01:17:14,041 --> 01:17:14,958 them and putting your feet, 674 01:17:15,333 --> 01:17:16,458 then you'll know like, I 675 01:17:16,458 --> 01:17:18,458 want to go back to Nice. 676 01:17:18,458 --> 01:17:19,041 It was incredible. 677 01:17:19,666 --> 01:17:20,208 Or just some of the 678 01:17:20,208 --> 01:17:22,708 places on the Sicilian coast. 679 01:17:23,708 --> 01:17:24,125 It's going to be incredible. 680 01:17:24,500 --> 01:17:26,916 One of the places, just 681 01:17:26,916 --> 01:17:27,875 as we were researching, 682 01:17:28,375 --> 01:17:29,291 Malta is the one I'm 683 01:17:29,291 --> 01:17:31,708 like, this one might be one. 684 01:17:31,708 --> 01:17:33,625 I'm actually, Malta was one 685 01:17:33,625 --> 01:17:34,250 of those where I was like, 686 01:17:34,250 --> 01:17:35,916 oh, it might be an easy day, whatever. 687 01:17:36,375 --> 01:17:37,500 Go back to the ship early. 688 01:17:37,500 --> 01:17:39,125 After we started doing the research, 689 01:17:39,791 --> 01:17:40,541 Malta seems incredible. 690 01:17:40,833 --> 01:17:41,333 We'll see. 691 01:17:41,958 --> 01:17:43,333 We'll have to do a Rick 692 01:17:43,333 --> 01:17:47,791 Steves style, like podcast after. 693 01:17:48,083 --> 01:17:49,666 I don't know who Rick Steves is. 694 01:17:50,041 --> 01:17:51,416 Oh, he's like a big travel guy. 695 01:17:52,833 --> 01:17:53,166 Is or was? 696 01:17:55,208 --> 01:17:56,125 That's a good question. 697 01:17:56,125 --> 01:17:56,666 I don't know. 698 01:17:56,666 --> 01:17:57,916 I thought he still did it. 699 01:17:58,041 --> 01:17:58,958 Oh, I've never heard of him. 700 01:17:58,958 --> 01:18:00,416 Is he from Minnesota radio? 701 01:18:00,791 --> 01:18:01,500 No, you'll-- 702 01:18:01,500 --> 01:18:02,375 You threw out a lot of 703 01:18:02,375 --> 01:18:03,500 Minnesota radio names. 704 01:18:04,291 --> 01:18:05,500 (laughing) I have never-- 705 01:18:05,541 --> 01:18:06,250 I don't know that guy. 706 01:18:06,250 --> 01:18:07,125 That's a Minnesota thing. 707 01:18:08,208 --> 01:18:09,750 This is not a Gary Sinkeler thing. 708 01:18:10,708 --> 01:18:12,291 See, another name nobody knows. 709 01:18:12,958 --> 01:18:13,625 Unless you're from Minnesota. 710 01:18:14,250 --> 01:18:15,541 No, Rick Steves, like he 711 01:18:15,541 --> 01:18:16,583 does a whole bunch of like, 712 01:18:16,583 --> 01:18:18,416 travel guides and stuff like that. 713 01:18:19,625 --> 01:18:20,500 I don't know. 714 01:18:21,041 --> 01:18:21,708 The name is-- 715 01:18:22,000 --> 01:18:22,166 Okay. 716 01:18:22,208 --> 01:18:23,583 Fair enough. 717 01:18:23,875 --> 01:18:24,166 Yeah. 718 01:18:24,625 --> 01:18:25,666 There's a lot of names I don't know. 719 01:18:25,666 --> 01:18:26,541 A lot of people I don't know. 720 01:18:27,125 --> 01:18:27,833 You can find him in 721 01:18:27,833 --> 01:18:29,000 the Google pretty easily. 722 01:18:29,625 --> 01:18:31,416 I'll have to do that. 723 01:18:32,041 --> 01:18:33,250 Yeah, you'll have to Google that one. 724 01:18:33,250 --> 01:18:34,291 Okay, interesting. 725 01:18:34,291 --> 01:18:35,458 Or chat GPT at like-- 726 01:18:36,291 --> 01:18:37,750 Chat GPT, oh my gosh. 727 01:18:37,750 --> 01:18:38,541 That'll be a whole nother 728 01:18:38,541 --> 01:18:39,833 episode of just talking about 729 01:18:39,833 --> 01:18:41,250 these kids, this generation. 730 01:18:42,208 --> 01:18:43,583 I've even seen some articles 731 01:18:43,583 --> 01:18:44,916 about how even teachers now 732 01:18:44,916 --> 01:18:46,583 are using AI or A1. 733 01:18:47,875 --> 01:18:48,666 People that aren't familiar. 734 01:18:49,791 --> 01:18:52,416 AI to like grade things even now. 735 01:18:52,625 --> 01:18:53,416 So-- Well, that's cool. 736 01:18:53,416 --> 01:18:54,958 It's AI on AI action. 737 01:18:55,291 --> 01:18:55,500 Yeah. 738 01:18:55,958 --> 01:18:57,500 And nobody's actually doing anything. 739 01:18:58,666 --> 01:19:01,333 Just sounds like a really weird porn, 740 01:19:01,625 --> 01:19:02,333 just for the record. 741 01:19:02,833 --> 01:19:04,333 AI on AI action. 742 01:19:04,375 --> 01:19:05,041 I know, well that's 743 01:19:05,041 --> 01:19:05,750 why I said it that way. 744 01:19:05,750 --> 01:19:06,500 And you just had to 745 01:19:06,500 --> 01:19:08,083 put a spotlight on it. 746 01:19:08,250 --> 01:19:09,166 I just dropped a nice 747 01:19:09,166 --> 01:19:10,875 little funny, you know, 748 01:19:11,750 --> 01:19:13,500 maybe people go like one eyebrow up, go, 749 01:19:13,500 --> 01:19:14,500 "I wonder if he knew he did that." 750 01:19:14,500 --> 01:19:15,125 Yeah, I did. 751 01:19:15,125 --> 01:19:15,500 I did. 752 01:19:16,375 --> 01:19:16,458 (laughs) 753 01:19:16,625 --> 01:19:18,041 You just went there and punched it in. 754 01:19:18,083 --> 01:19:18,708 I did. 755 01:19:19,125 --> 01:19:19,833 Just make sure people 756 01:19:19,833 --> 01:19:20,666 bite you in the face. 757 01:19:20,708 --> 01:19:22,000 I'm gonna drive that one home. 758 01:19:22,041 --> 01:19:23,041 Make sure you know you got that one. 759 01:19:24,375 --> 01:19:25,791 (laughs) There's subtle, subtlety about it. 760 01:19:25,833 --> 01:19:27,875 There's no subtlety about that one. 761 01:19:31,000 --> 01:19:32,166 Although I bet people at home, like, 762 01:19:32,166 --> 01:19:32,708 they're gonna be like, 763 01:19:33,625 --> 01:19:35,000 "I don't really know what that means." 764 01:19:35,291 --> 01:19:35,500 Like. 765 01:19:36,500 --> 01:19:37,750 (laughs) Yeah, I wonder how 766 01:19:37,750 --> 01:19:39,000 many people don't follow 767 01:19:39,000 --> 01:19:40,000 what we talk about. 768 01:19:40,708 --> 01:19:41,791 Like, okay, now they're back. 769 01:19:42,166 --> 01:19:42,458 Yeah. 770 01:19:42,458 --> 01:19:43,500 I don't really understand what happened 771 01:19:43,500 --> 01:19:45,291 for the last 60 seconds or so, but I 772 01:19:45,291 --> 01:19:46,250 understand words now. 773 01:19:46,500 --> 01:19:47,333 Yeah, yeah. 774 01:19:47,625 --> 01:19:48,250 (laughs) 775 01:19:48,833 --> 01:19:49,458 It's probably a lot. 776 01:19:49,708 --> 01:19:51,000 Yeah, probably a lot. 777 01:19:51,166 --> 01:19:52,458 Happens in this house all the time. 778 01:19:52,458 --> 01:19:53,375 Nobody, one of my pet 779 01:19:53,375 --> 01:19:54,958 peeves, nobody can hear me. 780 01:19:56,125 --> 01:19:56,791 I mean, I repeat 781 01:19:56,791 --> 01:19:57,958 everything I say three times 782 01:19:57,958 --> 01:19:58,708 in this house probably. 783 01:19:58,916 --> 01:19:59,416 I should just 784 01:19:59,416 --> 01:20:01,708 automatically repeat everything I say 785 01:20:01,708 --> 01:20:02,208 no matter what, 786 01:20:02,208 --> 01:20:03,500 because every time it's like, 787 01:20:03,500 --> 01:20:04,375 "What, huh? 788 01:20:04,958 --> 01:20:05,458 "What'd you say? 789 01:20:05,458 --> 01:20:06,250 "Are you talking to me?" 790 01:20:07,458 --> 01:20:07,625 Yeah. 791 01:20:08,291 --> 01:20:09,083 Like, "Yeah, I am. 792 01:20:09,375 --> 01:20:11,625 "I gotta, I don't know what that is. 793 01:20:11,916 --> 01:20:13,208 "I'm just gonna say it's my tone, 794 01:20:13,208 --> 01:20:13,875 "but it's probably 795 01:20:13,875 --> 01:20:15,041 nobody cares to hear it." 796 01:20:15,833 --> 01:20:18,208 No, no, I don't know 797 01:20:18,208 --> 01:20:19,083 what it is, obviously. 798 01:20:19,458 --> 01:20:20,833 I would have changed it if I knew. 799 01:20:21,166 --> 01:20:22,250 Yeah, no, not the 800 01:20:22,250 --> 01:20:23,166 point on bringing it up. 801 01:20:24,458 --> 01:20:25,375 Switching gears, but what 802 01:20:25,375 --> 01:20:26,666 we kinda started on earlier 803 01:20:26,958 --> 01:20:30,041 was just this fact that we're spending 804 01:20:30,041 --> 01:20:30,750 a little bit more money 805 01:20:30,750 --> 01:20:33,125 on vacations right now, 806 01:20:33,250 --> 01:20:35,708 because I know I'm, 807 01:20:35,708 --> 01:20:36,750 and probably you are too, 808 01:20:36,750 --> 01:20:38,041 I'm starting to feel that squeeze 809 01:20:39,208 --> 01:20:40,500 of our kids have 810 01:20:40,500 --> 01:20:42,333 limited time in our house. 811 01:20:42,375 --> 01:20:42,583 Yeah. 812 01:20:43,083 --> 01:20:43,875 Oh my gosh. 813 01:20:44,333 --> 01:20:45,208 The sands of time. 814 01:20:45,666 --> 01:20:47,375 I cannot bring myself 815 01:20:47,375 --> 01:20:50,000 to really think about, 816 01:20:50,000 --> 01:20:52,208 we have a sophomore in high school. 817 01:20:52,583 --> 01:20:52,750 Yeah. 818 01:20:53,458 --> 01:20:55,125 I can't bring myself to 819 01:20:55,125 --> 01:20:57,291 think about three more years. 820 01:20:57,333 --> 01:20:58,125 We will have, yeah. 821 01:20:58,125 --> 01:20:59,666 And three years from right now, 822 01:21:00,125 --> 01:21:01,250 we're like, "Well, we get, 823 01:21:02,916 --> 01:21:04,208 "not even, what, six, 824 01:21:04,416 --> 01:21:06,833 maybe eight weeks with him 825 01:21:06,833 --> 01:21:07,791 "in the summer before 826 01:21:07,791 --> 01:21:09,291 he'll go off to college." 827 01:21:09,500 --> 01:21:09,750 Yeah. 828 01:21:10,583 --> 01:21:12,125 I can't bring myself to think about that. 829 01:21:12,625 --> 01:21:14,416 I know, but we have to start doing it. 830 01:21:14,416 --> 01:21:15,541 He teases me about it now. 831 01:21:15,541 --> 01:21:16,375 He was teasing me about it 832 01:21:16,375 --> 01:21:17,125 in the car the other day. 833 01:21:17,583 --> 01:21:17,750 What? 834 01:21:18,125 --> 01:21:18,750 Yeah, because he's 835 01:21:18,750 --> 01:21:20,000 like, "What's only gonna be 836 01:21:20,000 --> 01:21:21,500 "three more years and I'm outta here." 837 01:21:22,000 --> 01:21:23,291 Not that he's looking forward to it, 838 01:21:23,291 --> 01:21:24,041 because I know once he starts 839 01:21:24,041 --> 01:21:24,958 thinking about it, he won't. 840 01:21:25,458 --> 01:21:26,875 The world's, he's still young enough 841 01:21:26,875 --> 01:21:28,541 that the world is overwhelming still. 842 01:21:28,708 --> 01:21:29,500 Yes, yeah. 843 01:21:29,833 --> 01:21:31,500 But he'll, the next three 844 01:21:31,500 --> 01:21:32,416 years would be eye-opening, 845 01:21:32,416 --> 01:21:35,791 but I just, I am not ready. 846 01:21:35,791 --> 01:21:36,333 I know there's people 847 01:21:36,333 --> 01:21:37,166 that listen to this podcast 848 01:21:37,166 --> 01:21:38,250 that are in the same 849 01:21:38,250 --> 01:21:41,041 time of life that we're in, 850 01:21:41,375 --> 01:21:43,458 and they're starting to 851 01:21:43,458 --> 01:21:44,666 spend those last few years. 852 01:21:45,166 --> 01:21:46,666 Some of them have already sent their 853 01:21:46,666 --> 01:21:48,208 first one to college. 854 01:21:48,208 --> 01:21:48,875 Yeah, yeah. 855 01:21:49,333 --> 01:21:49,666 And there's people 856 01:21:49,666 --> 01:21:51,500 that did it 20 years ago 857 01:21:51,500 --> 01:21:52,500 and they have grandchildren. 858 01:21:53,250 --> 01:21:54,125 There's people that span 859 01:21:54,125 --> 01:21:55,750 all kinds that listen to this, 860 01:21:56,000 --> 01:21:59,208 but every one of us that have got to this 861 01:21:59,208 --> 01:22:02,000 or been through it have dealt with it, 862 01:22:02,000 --> 01:22:04,041 because it's heart-wrenching. 863 01:22:04,083 --> 01:22:04,458 It is. 864 01:22:05,458 --> 01:22:06,250 But everybody says, 865 01:22:06,500 --> 01:22:08,416 "When it's time, it's time." 866 01:22:08,916 --> 01:22:09,125 Yeah. 867 01:22:11,125 --> 01:22:11,875 It's not time. 868 01:22:11,875 --> 01:22:12,750 It's not time. 869 01:22:12,791 --> 01:22:13,250 For us. 870 01:22:13,583 --> 01:22:16,541 And I just, it breaks my heart to think 871 01:22:16,541 --> 01:22:17,125 that there will become 872 01:22:17,125 --> 01:22:18,000 a time when it's like, 873 01:22:18,000 --> 01:22:19,125 but it's time for you to go. 874 01:22:19,583 --> 01:22:20,666 Yeah, yeah. 875 01:22:20,666 --> 01:22:21,666 Too many adults in the 876 01:22:21,666 --> 01:22:23,500 house, spread your wings. 877 01:22:23,500 --> 01:22:24,500 All these things that everybody says. 878 01:22:25,000 --> 01:22:25,250 Yeah, yeah. 879 01:22:26,000 --> 01:22:29,250 And will I have the 880 01:22:29,250 --> 01:22:31,916 strength and wisdom to be like, 881 01:22:32,416 --> 01:22:35,375 I want you to go where you need to go 882 01:22:36,916 --> 01:22:39,375 if they get a job in Seattle, 883 01:22:39,625 --> 01:22:41,041 which is a really long 884 01:22:41,041 --> 01:22:42,208 plane right away from us. 885 01:22:43,583 --> 01:22:44,541 But because that's 886 01:22:44,541 --> 01:22:45,291 the best thing for him. 887 01:22:45,708 --> 01:22:47,458 I mean, at this point in time, 888 01:22:47,458 --> 01:22:49,250 I would love to keep them as close to me 889 01:22:49,750 --> 01:22:51,833 from a proximity standpoint as possible. 890 01:22:52,541 --> 01:22:54,000 Will I have the courage to be like, 891 01:22:54,000 --> 01:22:54,791 that's the best thing for 892 01:22:54,791 --> 01:22:59,000 you is to go there and do that? 893 01:22:59,000 --> 01:22:59,208 Yep. 894 01:22:59,916 --> 01:23:01,291 And like, I don't 895 01:23:01,291 --> 01:23:02,208 know, my parents did have, 896 01:23:02,416 --> 01:23:04,333 this was on their wall for a long time. 897 01:23:04,333 --> 01:23:05,000 It said, "There's two things 898 01:23:05,000 --> 01:23:06,000 you need to give your children. 899 01:23:06,541 --> 01:23:07,791 One is roots and one is wings." 900 01:23:08,583 --> 01:23:11,250 And it's like, I like to think we've done 901 01:23:11,833 --> 01:23:13,000 a pretty good job with the roots. 902 01:23:14,833 --> 01:23:15,333 This was what, 903 01:23:15,458 --> 01:23:16,666 scribbled in blood on the wall? 904 01:23:16,916 --> 01:23:17,958 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 905 01:23:18,000 --> 01:23:18,750 I'm just trying to get a feel. 906 01:23:18,875 --> 01:23:19,875 It was in a picture? 907 01:23:20,083 --> 01:23:20,750 Yeah, oh yeah. 908 01:23:20,750 --> 01:23:22,791 Was your mom crochet it? 909 01:23:23,125 --> 01:23:24,333 No, it was like a 910 01:23:24,333 --> 01:23:26,166 saying in nice calligraphy 911 01:23:26,166 --> 01:23:27,708 and it was framed. 912 01:23:28,041 --> 01:23:28,250 Okay. 913 01:23:29,083 --> 01:23:29,208 Yeah. 914 01:23:29,250 --> 01:23:29,500 Okay. 915 01:23:29,833 --> 01:23:32,666 And it was really nice. 916 01:23:32,666 --> 01:23:33,625 It was on one of the shelves. 917 01:23:33,750 --> 01:23:35,458 Actually, it is really nice. 918 01:23:35,750 --> 01:23:37,541 I probably diluted it there a little bit, 919 01:23:37,541 --> 01:23:38,583 but that is, I mean, that 920 01:23:38,583 --> 01:23:40,041 hit home with me for sure. 921 01:23:40,083 --> 01:23:40,458 Yeah. 922 01:23:40,500 --> 01:23:41,041 Roots and wings. 923 01:23:41,291 --> 01:23:41,958 Roots and wings. 924 01:23:42,000 --> 01:23:42,291 Totally. 925 01:23:42,958 --> 01:23:45,166 And it's like, hmm, am 926 01:23:45,166 --> 01:23:46,208 I gonna be strong enough 927 01:23:46,208 --> 01:23:47,708 to make sure that they have the wings? 928 01:23:48,250 --> 01:23:50,583 Yeah, but the key for me in those wings 929 01:23:51,041 --> 01:23:52,791 is that they carry them home too. 930 01:23:53,000 --> 01:23:54,333 I know, I know. 931 01:23:54,958 --> 01:23:55,375 I know. 932 01:23:55,416 --> 01:23:57,000 I know our oldest, he 933 01:23:57,000 --> 01:23:57,750 wants to live in Colorado. 934 01:23:58,041 --> 01:23:58,500 He knows that. 935 01:23:58,500 --> 01:23:58,750 He does. 936 01:23:59,291 --> 01:24:00,791 Texas is too hot, which I 937 01:24:00,791 --> 01:24:03,000 agree with a lot of the time. 938 01:24:04,000 --> 01:24:05,208 But as I get older, we 939 01:24:05,208 --> 01:24:06,208 talk about it all the time. 940 01:24:06,416 --> 01:24:08,166 I'm freezing, I don't know that I could 941 01:24:08,166 --> 01:24:10,750 handle a full winter, 942 01:24:11,083 --> 01:24:12,375 but Colorado winters are great, 943 01:24:12,375 --> 01:24:14,083 because it's 70 every 944 01:24:14,083 --> 01:24:15,166 other day, I feel like. 945 01:24:15,208 --> 01:24:15,416 Yeah. 946 01:24:16,083 --> 01:24:16,541 It's not Minnesota. 947 01:24:17,125 --> 01:24:18,166 It's not Minnesota. 948 01:24:18,750 --> 01:24:21,500 Yeah, I've never handled the cold well. 949 01:24:22,208 --> 01:24:23,625 Let's just, ironically. 950 01:24:24,416 --> 01:24:25,208 I know, I don't know how, 951 01:24:25,333 --> 01:24:26,250 we always come back to that, 952 01:24:26,250 --> 01:24:27,458 yet you lived in Minnesota. 953 01:24:27,708 --> 01:24:28,250 And Chicago. 954 01:24:28,791 --> 01:24:29,125 Yeah. 955 01:24:29,125 --> 01:24:29,791 And Montana. 956 01:24:30,416 --> 01:24:30,625 Yeah. 957 01:24:31,875 --> 01:24:33,666 And, I mean, Colorado does get cold. 958 01:24:34,291 --> 01:24:34,500 Yeah. 959 01:24:35,375 --> 01:24:36,166 Usually, than here. 960 01:24:37,416 --> 01:24:38,708 You've been here for 10 years now. 961 01:24:38,750 --> 01:24:39,833 I've been here for 10 years. 962 01:24:40,125 --> 01:24:40,333 Yeah. 963 01:24:41,000 --> 01:24:42,583 I mean, that's a long time, anyway. 964 01:24:44,250 --> 01:24:45,625 Before we moved here, 965 01:24:45,625 --> 01:24:47,333 though, almost everywhere 966 01:24:47,541 --> 01:24:48,500 I had ever lived, with 967 01:24:48,500 --> 01:24:49,541 the exception of Las Vegas, 968 01:24:50,041 --> 01:24:52,083 was a cold weather climate. 969 01:24:52,500 --> 01:24:53,625 Yeah, yeah. 970 01:24:53,666 --> 01:24:56,916 So, but I never did like the winter. 971 01:24:57,291 --> 01:24:59,041 That was never my favorite part of it. 972 01:24:59,458 --> 01:24:59,791 Yeah. 973 01:25:01,416 --> 01:25:03,625 Anyway, but it's, I can't 974 01:25:03,625 --> 01:25:06,875 believe time is moving that fast. 975 01:25:07,416 --> 01:25:09,000 I just wonder how other 976 01:25:09,000 --> 01:25:10,208 people have handled that, 977 01:25:10,208 --> 01:25:11,833 because, I mean, again, I 978 01:25:11,833 --> 01:25:12,708 go back to everybody says, 979 01:25:12,958 --> 01:25:14,041 when it's time, it's time. 980 01:25:14,916 --> 01:25:16,375 And when it was time for me to leave, 981 01:25:16,375 --> 01:25:17,500 it was a different situation. 982 01:25:17,791 --> 01:25:18,666 I was ready to go. 983 01:25:19,208 --> 01:25:20,458 Just, you know, it was time. 984 01:25:21,083 --> 01:25:22,125 It was time before that, 985 01:25:22,125 --> 01:25:23,000 unfortunately, probably. 986 01:25:23,416 --> 01:25:23,625 Yeah. 987 01:25:23,833 --> 01:25:26,708 I mean, when you left, was it time? 988 01:25:28,625 --> 01:25:28,791 Yeah. 989 01:25:29,916 --> 01:25:32,875 But it didn't mean that I wasn't scared. 990 01:25:34,125 --> 01:25:35,166 I don't even remember if I 991 01:25:35,166 --> 01:25:36,125 talked about it on the podcast. 992 01:25:37,041 --> 01:25:38,708 I remember that first 993 01:25:38,708 --> 01:25:39,750 night in the dorm room. 994 01:25:39,875 --> 01:25:40,083 Yeah. 995 01:25:40,625 --> 01:25:42,000 And my parents, my 996 01:25:42,000 --> 01:25:43,333 grandmother lived in the same city 997 01:25:43,333 --> 01:25:45,500 as I was going to college in. 998 01:25:46,000 --> 01:25:47,000 And so I could have spent 999 01:25:47,000 --> 01:25:48,083 the night just at her house 1000 01:25:48,083 --> 01:25:49,250 with my parents, because they were just 1001 01:25:49,250 --> 01:25:50,250 staying at her house 1002 01:25:50,250 --> 01:25:51,416 when they were dropping me off. 1003 01:25:51,416 --> 01:25:52,416 And they're like, "Hey, do you want to 1004 01:25:52,416 --> 01:25:53,458 stay at grandma's house 1005 01:25:53,458 --> 01:25:54,708 "or do you want to stay at the dorm?" 1006 01:25:54,708 --> 01:25:57,208 And I, as hard as it was, I was like, 1007 01:25:57,208 --> 01:25:58,166 "I need to stay at the dorm." 1008 01:25:58,583 --> 01:26:00,208 And I will never forget my roommates 1009 01:26:00,208 --> 01:26:01,125 hadn't moved in yet. 1010 01:26:02,458 --> 01:26:03,750 And it was very lonely. 1011 01:26:04,291 --> 01:26:05,333 I can still picture myself 1012 01:26:05,333 --> 01:26:06,416 laying in the bottom bunk 1013 01:26:06,541 --> 01:26:07,708 in my dorm room in Birch 1014 01:26:07,708 --> 01:26:09,500 Hall at the University of Iowa. 1015 01:26:10,791 --> 01:26:13,791 And just being scared and lonely. 1016 01:26:13,958 --> 01:26:14,416 Yeah. 1017 01:26:14,458 --> 01:26:15,583 But knowing I had to do it. 1018 01:26:15,958 --> 01:26:16,125 Yeah. 1019 01:26:16,500 --> 01:26:18,291 So it was kind of like the baby bird, 1020 01:26:18,291 --> 01:26:18,791 you got to take that 1021 01:26:18,791 --> 01:26:19,791 step out of the nest, 1022 01:26:19,958 --> 01:26:20,791 even though you're not going to fall. 1023 01:26:21,250 --> 01:26:21,458 Yep. 1024 01:26:21,791 --> 01:26:22,000 Yeah. 1025 01:26:22,250 --> 01:26:22,666 Yep. 1026 01:26:22,666 --> 01:26:23,375 Well, that's what you hope 1027 01:26:23,375 --> 01:26:26,416 your parents have prepared you. 1028 01:26:26,416 --> 01:26:27,291 And that's what we hope our, 1029 01:26:27,375 --> 01:26:28,750 we have prepared our children for that. 1030 01:26:28,750 --> 01:26:29,375 And we've got three more 1031 01:26:29,375 --> 01:26:31,833 years and our kids are doing well 1032 01:26:31,833 --> 01:26:32,458 with their stings. 1033 01:26:32,458 --> 01:26:33,000 I'm like, there's no 1034 01:26:33,000 --> 01:26:33,833 way they're ready now. 1035 01:26:33,833 --> 01:26:34,750 They need those three years. 1036 01:26:34,791 --> 01:26:35,875 They need those three years. 1037 01:26:36,500 --> 01:26:37,291 Although I wonder if our 1038 01:26:37,291 --> 01:26:38,500 parents thought that about us. 1039 01:26:39,333 --> 01:26:39,875 Like, hmm. 1040 01:26:40,291 --> 01:26:40,458 Yeah. 1041 01:26:41,125 --> 01:26:42,208 Well, whatever they don't know, 1042 01:26:42,208 --> 01:26:43,333 I guess they'll figure out. 1043 01:26:43,458 --> 01:26:43,750 Yeah. 1044 01:26:44,291 --> 01:26:46,416 I bet your parents knew you'd be fine. 1045 01:26:47,666 --> 01:26:49,291 I think so. 1046 01:26:49,333 --> 01:26:49,833 I think so. 1047 01:26:50,083 --> 01:26:51,291 I think you've always been very, 1048 01:26:52,291 --> 01:26:53,791 just by the book responsible, 1049 01:26:54,458 --> 01:26:56,541 knowing Megan's going to be fine. 1050 01:26:56,625 --> 01:26:57,416 Other than, you know, 1051 01:26:57,416 --> 01:26:58,958 you're a hundred pounds and five, 1052 01:26:58,958 --> 01:26:59,625 three, that was probably the 1053 01:26:59,625 --> 01:27:00,208 only thing they were worried 1054 01:27:00,208 --> 01:27:01,458 about you getting, you know, 1055 01:27:02,000 --> 01:27:03,625 blown away in a twister or something. 1056 01:27:03,666 --> 01:27:04,583 Right, right. 1057 01:27:04,958 --> 01:27:06,458 (both laughing) 1058 01:27:06,458 --> 01:27:07,625 Which I think we doesn't 1059 01:27:07,625 --> 01:27:08,958 have that many tornadoes, 1060 01:27:08,958 --> 01:27:09,833 but you know, hey. 1061 01:27:09,958 --> 01:27:10,333 (both laughing) 1062 01:27:10,625 --> 01:27:11,666 A stiff breeze then. 1063 01:27:11,666 --> 01:27:12,166 Stiff breeze. 1064 01:27:13,625 --> 01:27:14,458 Oh my gosh. 1065 01:27:14,708 --> 01:27:15,500 There actually was. 1066 01:27:16,875 --> 01:27:18,041 When it got cold, 1067 01:27:18,041 --> 01:27:19,083 there was like between two 1068 01:27:19,083 --> 01:27:20,000 of these buildings, I would 1069 01:27:20,000 --> 01:27:21,375 go into the chemistry building 1070 01:27:22,000 --> 01:27:23,916 and there was this super 1071 01:27:23,916 --> 01:27:25,333 steep hill down to the river. 1072 01:27:25,375 --> 01:27:25,583 Okay. 1073 01:27:26,458 --> 01:27:28,166 And it was like a wind tunnel. 1074 01:27:29,416 --> 01:27:31,416 And we would get a lot 1075 01:27:31,416 --> 01:27:33,875 of ice storms in Iowa. 1076 01:27:34,708 --> 01:27:35,333 And so we're talking 1077 01:27:35,333 --> 01:27:36,125 about being blown away. 1078 01:27:36,125 --> 01:27:39,500 I remember being like, I am going to die 1079 01:27:39,791 --> 01:27:43,500 on this super slick hill 1080 01:27:43,500 --> 01:27:45,000 that's just a sheet of ice 1081 01:27:45,000 --> 01:27:46,208 with this wind blowing 1082 01:27:46,208 --> 01:27:47,750 that I can barely stand up 1083 01:27:47,750 --> 01:27:48,458 because it acted like 1084 01:27:48,458 --> 01:27:49,583 a wind tunnel in here. 1085 01:27:50,333 --> 01:27:51,250 People would actually take 1086 01:27:51,250 --> 01:27:53,000 the trays from our cafeteria 1087 01:27:53,916 --> 01:27:56,583 and ride down the hill like a sled 1088 01:27:56,583 --> 01:27:58,750 on those cafeteria trays. 1089 01:27:59,333 --> 01:28:00,041 It was so steep. 1090 01:28:00,041 --> 01:28:00,541 Because it was so 1091 01:28:00,541 --> 01:28:02,166 steep, so icy and so windy. 1092 01:28:02,166 --> 01:28:02,583 Yeah. 1093 01:28:02,583 --> 01:28:03,166 So I guess-- 1094 01:28:03,166 --> 01:28:04,166 And the wind blew you down. 1095 01:28:04,208 --> 01:28:04,875 And it blew us down. 1096 01:28:04,875 --> 01:28:05,666 Yeah, yeah. Yeah. 1097 01:28:05,666 --> 01:28:05,833 Interesting. 1098 01:28:05,833 --> 01:28:06,791 Yeah, we'd go down to the river. 1099 01:28:06,791 --> 01:28:09,583 I mean, so maybe being 1100 01:28:09,583 --> 01:28:10,958 scared about me blowing away 1101 01:28:11,000 --> 01:28:13,375 was valid, at least going 1102 01:28:13,375 --> 01:28:14,250 into the chemistry building. 1103 01:28:16,791 --> 01:28:16,833 (both laughing) 1104 01:28:18,000 --> 01:28:18,708 Oh yeah. 1105 01:28:18,791 --> 01:28:21,000 So anyways, we're trying to, in my mind, 1106 01:28:21,000 --> 01:28:22,583 I feel like just 1107 01:28:22,583 --> 01:28:24,083 really trying to make sure 1108 01:28:24,083 --> 01:28:26,375 we hold onto these because again, 1109 01:28:26,375 --> 01:28:27,500 this is one of those weird things. 1110 01:28:27,500 --> 01:28:28,291 We talk about it off and 1111 01:28:28,291 --> 01:28:29,916 on here, maybe earlier on, 1112 01:28:30,333 --> 01:28:33,208 but with me, and I think you feel the 1113 01:28:33,208 --> 01:28:34,666 same way with this too, 1114 01:28:35,458 --> 01:28:37,708 but we're just still 25 year olds 1115 01:28:37,708 --> 01:28:39,416 trying to figure our way in the world. 1116 01:28:39,458 --> 01:28:39,666 Yes. 1117 01:28:40,166 --> 01:28:40,625 You know what I mean? 1118 01:28:41,125 --> 01:28:41,250 100%. 1119 01:28:41,958 --> 01:28:43,250 And although we have a 1120 01:28:43,250 --> 01:28:44,166 couple of things figured out 1121 01:28:44,166 --> 01:28:45,916 and we've figured out a couple of things, 1122 01:28:45,916 --> 01:28:46,708 you know, we've done all right, 1123 01:28:48,166 --> 01:28:49,333 we're still figuring out our lives. 1124 01:28:49,333 --> 01:28:50,875 We're still living our lives, you know, 1125 01:28:50,916 --> 01:28:51,500 like we talked about 1126 01:28:51,500 --> 01:28:52,208 for the last three months, 1127 01:28:52,208 --> 01:28:53,666 we've had a lot of doors closed on us, 1128 01:28:53,666 --> 01:28:54,583 a lot of pathways that we 1129 01:28:54,583 --> 01:28:55,541 thought were gonna be open, 1130 01:28:55,708 --> 01:28:57,000 weren't open, you know, 1131 01:28:57,000 --> 01:28:58,458 and we're working out 1132 01:28:58,458 --> 01:29:00,125 how to maneuver that. 1133 01:29:00,125 --> 01:29:00,708 And that's just part of 1134 01:29:00,708 --> 01:29:01,541 life where you thought, 1135 01:29:02,000 --> 01:29:04,583 oh, you know, you always think your 1136 01:29:04,583 --> 01:29:05,791 parents had it together. 1137 01:29:05,958 --> 01:29:06,125 Yes. 1138 01:29:06,833 --> 01:29:07,666 And, you know, I'm in my 1139 01:29:07,666 --> 01:29:09,791 late 40s and I can't say, 1140 01:29:10,125 --> 01:29:11,375 I mean, I've got it together, 1141 01:29:12,208 --> 01:29:13,708 but it's not like I'm just 1142 01:29:13,708 --> 01:29:15,041 smooth sailing every day. 1143 01:29:15,041 --> 01:29:17,291 There's, it's like you're bobbing and 1144 01:29:17,291 --> 01:29:18,208 weaving through life. 1145 01:29:19,166 --> 01:29:22,458 It's just the constant track circle, 1146 01:29:23,250 --> 01:29:24,875 or track oval with hurdles. 1147 01:29:25,208 --> 01:29:26,500 Just every 10 yards, 1148 01:29:26,500 --> 01:29:27,041 there's another hurdle. 1149 01:29:27,375 --> 01:29:27,625 Yeah. 1150 01:29:28,291 --> 01:29:28,833 I don't know if everybody 1151 01:29:28,833 --> 01:29:29,875 else's lives are like that, 1152 01:29:30,791 --> 01:29:34,416 but amid that, right? 1153 01:29:34,625 --> 01:29:36,125 Trying to just navigate your own life 1154 01:29:36,125 --> 01:29:37,333 because you don't have it all together 1155 01:29:37,333 --> 01:29:38,000 because we still just 1156 01:29:38,000 --> 01:29:39,500 think, we feel like we're 25, 1157 01:29:39,500 --> 01:29:41,083 but we're turning the 1158 01:29:41,083 --> 01:29:41,958 corner towards 50 years 1159 01:29:41,958 --> 01:29:42,791 in the next couple of years. 1160 01:29:45,000 --> 01:29:46,291 And our kids are about to leave us. 1161 01:29:46,291 --> 01:29:47,583 I mean, like talk about a change. 1162 01:29:48,458 --> 01:29:48,916 There's people that are 1163 01:29:48,916 --> 01:29:49,833 gonna be empty nesters 1164 01:29:49,833 --> 01:29:50,833 that we're friends with. 1165 01:29:51,208 --> 01:29:51,500 Yeah. 1166 01:29:51,541 --> 01:29:51,958 It's crazy. 1167 01:29:52,416 --> 01:29:53,583 It is insane. 1168 01:29:53,916 --> 01:29:54,125 Yeah. 1169 01:29:54,375 --> 01:29:56,416 I honestly think that that's one of 1170 01:29:56,416 --> 01:29:57,500 life's biggest lies, 1171 01:29:58,125 --> 01:30:00,708 is that at some point you figure it out. 1172 01:30:01,125 --> 01:30:02,000 Yeah, yeah. 1173 01:30:02,375 --> 01:30:04,291 I think that is a lie that, 1174 01:30:05,000 --> 01:30:07,500 I mean, it's life's lie to everybody 1175 01:30:07,958 --> 01:30:09,708 because, and everybody always looks like 1176 01:30:09,708 --> 01:30:10,583 they have it together. 1177 01:30:10,583 --> 01:30:10,916 Yeah. 1178 01:30:11,291 --> 01:30:11,958 Everyone does. 1179 01:30:12,166 --> 01:30:12,416 Yeah. 1180 01:30:12,458 --> 01:30:13,833 And you're like, how do I not? 1181 01:30:14,041 --> 01:30:15,833 Because on like social media, even now, 1182 01:30:15,833 --> 01:30:17,708 everybody's pictures make them look like 1183 01:30:17,791 --> 01:30:18,666 they've got it together. 1184 01:30:18,666 --> 01:30:18,791 Yes. 1185 01:30:18,791 --> 01:30:19,250 Like they're all, 1186 01:30:19,250 --> 01:30:20,166 everybody's a billionaire. 1187 01:30:20,541 --> 01:30:20,833 Yeah. 1188 01:30:21,083 --> 01:30:21,541 Riding in private 1189 01:30:21,541 --> 01:30:22,666 jets and stuff like that. 1190 01:30:23,500 --> 01:30:24,833 Even as simple as filters, 1191 01:30:24,833 --> 01:30:26,166 when you take your picture, 1192 01:30:26,166 --> 01:30:27,416 you're like, I could put that filter on 1193 01:30:27,416 --> 01:30:28,458 and I can look like that. 1194 01:30:29,208 --> 01:30:30,250 Awesome, wow. 1195 01:30:31,541 --> 01:30:33,166 I, I've never used a 1196 01:30:33,166 --> 01:30:34,458 filter just for the record. 1197 01:30:34,458 --> 01:30:35,625 I did just the other day, remember? 1198 01:30:36,041 --> 01:30:37,708 Oh, you did. 1199 01:30:38,541 --> 01:30:40,500 Not to make yourself look better though. 1200 01:30:41,416 --> 01:30:44,125 I used a bald filter just to see, 1201 01:30:44,125 --> 01:30:45,750 show what I looked like being bald. 1202 01:30:46,250 --> 01:30:46,791 It was horrible. 1203 01:30:47,458 --> 01:30:48,541 I deleted the picture, it was so bad. 1204 01:30:49,791 --> 01:30:50,458 Gotta keep my hair. 1205 01:30:51,625 --> 01:30:52,875 Oh, I think you'll be just fine. 1206 01:30:53,250 --> 01:30:53,458 Yeah. 1207 01:30:54,625 --> 01:30:55,000 Hopefully, yeah. 1208 01:30:55,000 --> 01:30:57,000 Your papa had beautiful silver hair, 1209 01:30:57,000 --> 01:30:57,208 so you'll be fine. 1210 01:30:57,208 --> 01:30:57,833 I agree to. 1211 01:30:58,583 --> 01:30:59,166 Yeah. 1212 01:30:59,500 --> 01:30:59,708 Yeah. 1213 01:31:00,500 --> 01:31:01,791 I think that's profound though. 1214 01:31:02,000 --> 01:31:02,833 I think that's profound. 1215 01:31:02,833 --> 01:31:04,041 That's life's biggest lie is 1216 01:31:04,041 --> 01:31:05,666 that at some point you make it. 1217 01:31:05,666 --> 01:31:05,916 Yeah. 1218 01:31:06,625 --> 01:31:09,291 And maybe a small handful of people do. 1219 01:31:09,583 --> 01:31:11,500 And that's similar to, not 1220 01:31:11,500 --> 01:31:12,958 to get too deep into it here, 1221 01:31:12,958 --> 01:31:15,291 but everybody's like, you know, 1222 01:31:15,291 --> 01:31:16,750 do what you're passionate about 1223 01:31:16,833 --> 01:31:18,416 and you'll never work a day in your life. 1224 01:31:19,041 --> 01:31:21,208 And that's a great goal to have. 1225 01:31:21,541 --> 01:31:22,375 And some people hit that, 1226 01:31:22,375 --> 01:31:23,250 but I think it's the minority. 1227 01:31:24,166 --> 01:31:24,958 I think it's the minority. 1228 01:31:24,958 --> 01:31:26,500 Now you can still like what you do. 1229 01:31:27,333 --> 01:31:28,375 You can still even love what you do 1230 01:31:28,375 --> 01:31:29,041 and the people that 1231 01:31:29,041 --> 01:31:30,041 you work with and stuff. 1232 01:31:30,708 --> 01:31:32,708 But it may not be your life's passion. 1233 01:31:33,458 --> 01:31:34,875 I might not choose to do that 1234 01:31:34,875 --> 01:31:36,000 if someone handed me a 1235 01:31:36,000 --> 01:31:37,000 half a billion dollars. 1236 01:31:38,541 --> 01:31:39,125 I might choose to do 1237 01:31:39,125 --> 01:31:39,708 something totally different 1238 01:31:39,708 --> 01:31:40,708 because it's not my passion. 1239 01:31:41,000 --> 01:31:41,375 Right. 1240 01:31:41,416 --> 01:31:41,833 You know what I mean? 1241 01:31:42,166 --> 01:31:42,375 Right. 1242 01:31:42,583 --> 01:31:43,291 And I'm someone who I 1243 01:31:43,291 --> 01:31:44,250 love what I do, right? 1244 01:31:45,708 --> 01:31:47,166 But at the same time, is it, 1245 01:31:47,750 --> 01:31:52,083 I give everything I can to my job. 1246 01:31:52,666 --> 01:31:53,291 But at the end of the 1247 01:31:53,291 --> 01:31:56,583 day, it's who I come home to. 1248 01:31:56,791 --> 01:31:56,958 Yeah. 1249 01:31:57,458 --> 01:31:58,875 That is paramount. 1250 01:31:59,750 --> 01:32:02,541 And it's the reminder of why I work hard, 1251 01:32:03,083 --> 01:32:04,000 not just because it 1252 01:32:04,000 --> 01:32:05,500 helps provide for them, 1253 01:32:05,500 --> 01:32:08,333 but it shows them an example of hard work 1254 01:32:08,333 --> 01:32:09,666 and dedication and all of that. 1255 01:32:10,041 --> 01:32:14,375 Like it, but I don't know that 1256 01:32:15,708 --> 01:32:16,958 I don't know that anybody 1257 01:32:16,958 --> 01:32:18,250 ever has it figured out. 1258 01:32:18,583 --> 01:32:21,708 And even people who are 1259 01:32:21,708 --> 01:32:23,625 living like that ideal life, 1260 01:32:23,625 --> 01:32:25,666 you think about musicians and whatever, 1261 01:32:25,666 --> 01:32:27,500 I mean, truly they have to be passionate 1262 01:32:27,500 --> 01:32:28,625 about what they do. 1263 01:32:28,625 --> 01:32:28,833 Yeah. 1264 01:32:30,916 --> 01:32:33,750 But at the same time, there's actually, 1265 01:32:34,041 --> 01:32:34,791 I don't know any of 1266 01:32:34,791 --> 01:32:35,916 them, but you hear interviews 1267 01:32:35,916 --> 01:32:38,041 and things like that of all 1268 01:32:38,041 --> 01:32:39,750 the downsides to what they do. 1269 01:32:39,791 --> 01:32:40,958 You were just at your convention 1270 01:32:41,458 --> 01:32:42,333 and that guy told you he 1271 01:32:42,333 --> 01:32:43,583 wrote a whole song about that. 1272 01:32:43,583 --> 01:32:44,416 Whole song about it, yeah. 1273 01:32:44,833 --> 01:32:46,583 He sang the song, it's a great song. 1274 01:32:48,541 --> 01:32:49,291 Tyler Rich, I'll give 1275 01:32:49,291 --> 01:32:50,208 a little plug for him. 1276 01:32:50,208 --> 01:32:51,041 It was a great song, I 1277 01:32:51,041 --> 01:32:52,333 can't remember the name of it, 1278 01:32:52,333 --> 01:32:54,000 but it was about, he's like, 1279 01:32:54,000 --> 01:32:54,625 "You're on stage for 1280 01:32:54,625 --> 01:32:55,708 two hours out of the day." 1281 01:32:55,708 --> 01:32:56,541 This song is about the 1282 01:32:56,541 --> 01:32:58,208 other 22 hours out of the day. 1283 01:32:58,500 --> 01:32:58,708 Yeah. 1284 01:32:59,541 --> 01:33:00,125 And it-- 1285 01:33:00,750 --> 01:33:01,375 That you're missing. 1286 01:33:01,833 --> 01:33:03,000 That you're missing, he's like, 1287 01:33:03,000 --> 01:33:04,541 "Yeah, every big event 1288 01:33:04,541 --> 01:33:06,583 and anyone that I love, 1289 01:33:06,583 --> 01:33:07,250 any big event in 1290 01:33:07,250 --> 01:33:08,083 their life, I've missed." 1291 01:33:09,000 --> 01:33:09,791 And it's like, wow, 1292 01:33:10,875 --> 01:33:12,666 that's, it's really sad. 1293 01:33:14,000 --> 01:33:17,083 Because everybody just sees the sexy side 1294 01:33:17,083 --> 01:33:19,458 of what they think success is. 1295 01:33:20,125 --> 01:33:21,000 Again, we could get 1296 01:33:21,000 --> 01:33:22,041 really deep into this one, 1297 01:33:22,041 --> 01:33:22,625 but I think it is 1298 01:33:22,625 --> 01:33:23,708 important to talk through it 1299 01:33:23,708 --> 01:33:26,958 because we've been blessed in our lives. 1300 01:33:28,041 --> 01:33:29,041 If someone who told me 1301 01:33:29,041 --> 01:33:33,208 I live a life like this, 1302 01:33:34,291 --> 01:33:35,958 I would have said, "Oh 1303 01:33:35,958 --> 01:33:36,666 my God, you're kidding me, 1304 01:33:36,666 --> 01:33:37,291 that's fantastic." 1305 01:33:37,916 --> 01:33:38,375 You know what I mean? 1306 01:33:40,791 --> 01:33:41,500 We've been blessed. 1307 01:33:42,708 --> 01:33:45,125 But I still have 1308 01:33:45,125 --> 01:33:47,125 conversations with you all the time 1309 01:33:47,958 --> 01:33:48,833 that I don't know how 1310 01:33:48,833 --> 01:33:50,750 other people do certain things 1311 01:33:50,916 --> 01:33:53,083 with, like afford certain things, 1312 01:33:53,083 --> 01:33:55,041 because we do well, 1313 01:33:56,208 --> 01:33:57,041 and there's people that 1314 01:33:57,041 --> 01:33:58,541 do way better than us, 1315 01:33:59,416 --> 01:34:02,375 but I just, being in finance, 1316 01:34:02,375 --> 01:34:03,541 I have an idea of where we sit, 1317 01:34:03,916 --> 01:34:04,750 you know what I mean? Yeah, yeah. 1318 01:34:04,875 --> 01:34:05,875 For the most part, and 1319 01:34:05,875 --> 01:34:07,500 I just, I can't imagine, 1320 01:34:07,666 --> 01:34:08,625 it just blows my mind that 1321 01:34:08,625 --> 01:34:09,916 other people do certain things, 1322 01:34:09,916 --> 01:34:11,291 and I'm like, wow, I don't know how 1323 01:34:11,291 --> 01:34:12,000 they're affording that. 1324 01:34:12,750 --> 01:34:15,791 Because we do well, and if 1325 01:34:15,791 --> 01:34:17,291 we were to just show off, 1326 01:34:17,916 --> 01:34:19,041 if we were to show all the 1327 01:34:19,041 --> 01:34:20,375 positive parts of our life, 1328 01:34:20,375 --> 01:34:20,916 it would probably look 1329 01:34:20,916 --> 01:34:22,208 really good from the outset, 1330 01:34:22,208 --> 01:34:22,791 like we're just living 1331 01:34:22,791 --> 01:34:23,666 this incredible life. 1332 01:34:24,000 --> 01:34:25,708 But it's not, I mean, it is 1333 01:34:25,708 --> 01:34:26,625 great, we have a great life, 1334 01:34:26,625 --> 01:34:27,875 but there's ups and downs in it, 1335 01:34:28,083 --> 01:34:29,583 and nobody talks about that part of it. 1336 01:34:29,583 --> 01:34:30,375 No one talks about it. 1337 01:34:30,416 --> 01:34:30,958 And that's the part I 1338 01:34:30,958 --> 01:34:32,000 was talking about earlier, 1339 01:34:32,000 --> 01:34:32,791 it's like I'm 48 1340 01:34:32,791 --> 01:34:33,875 years old, and it's like, 1341 01:34:34,333 --> 01:34:35,458 I do have a lot figured 1342 01:34:35,458 --> 01:34:36,791 out, but gosh, dang it, 1343 01:34:37,250 --> 01:34:38,458 I have a lot I don't have figured out. 1344 01:34:39,041 --> 01:34:40,708 Am I a better person than I used to be? 1345 01:34:40,916 --> 01:34:42,000 Yeah, am I more mature? 1346 01:34:42,041 --> 01:34:43,166 Yeah, do I make better decisions? 1347 01:34:43,166 --> 01:34:43,583 Yeah, all these 1348 01:34:43,583 --> 01:34:44,291 things, do I make more money? 1349 01:34:44,458 --> 01:34:45,000 All these things are 1350 01:34:45,000 --> 01:34:46,458 yeses, but that doesn't mean 1351 01:34:47,458 --> 01:34:48,166 the top of the hill has 1352 01:34:48,166 --> 01:34:49,458 been reached, to your point. 1353 01:34:50,083 --> 01:34:51,208 And I don't know if you ever do. 1354 01:34:51,416 --> 01:34:53,708 I think at some point, you just start 1355 01:34:53,708 --> 01:34:54,958 getting tired of it, 1356 01:34:55,291 --> 01:34:56,916 and you're okay with what you have, 1357 01:34:56,916 --> 01:34:58,208 because the top of that hill that 1358 01:34:58,208 --> 01:34:59,416 everybody thinks they want 1359 01:34:59,916 --> 01:35:04,041 in this culture, maybe just ends up 1360 01:35:04,041 --> 01:35:05,416 being a little bit unattainable. 1361 01:35:05,958 --> 01:35:08,000 Yeah, I think part of that is, 1362 01:35:08,583 --> 01:35:10,000 I think that's partly true. 1363 01:35:10,625 --> 01:35:13,291 I don't know, maybe I'll cut all that. 1364 01:35:13,916 --> 01:35:16,291 I think it's true though, it really is. 1365 01:35:18,041 --> 01:35:19,166 And I think you're all just searching. 1366 01:35:19,625 --> 01:35:20,208 I remember a couple 1367 01:35:20,208 --> 01:35:21,166 years ago at Thanksgiving, 1368 01:35:21,333 --> 01:35:22,833 we were at my parents' 1369 01:35:22,833 --> 01:35:26,375 house, and my dad was like, 1370 01:35:26,375 --> 01:35:28,958 I always pretended like 1371 01:35:28,958 --> 01:35:29,625 I had it all together, 1372 01:35:29,625 --> 01:35:31,458 but I was scared to death every day. 1373 01:35:32,250 --> 01:35:32,875 I didn't know how to be a 1374 01:35:32,875 --> 01:35:34,166 dad, I didn't know how to do it. 1375 01:35:34,625 --> 01:35:37,416 I didn't even know he was 1376 01:35:37,416 --> 01:35:38,500 actually talking about work, 1377 01:35:38,541 --> 01:35:39,666 and there's so many 1378 01:35:39,666 --> 01:35:40,416 things where it was like, 1379 01:35:41,083 --> 01:35:42,416 I don't know how to do 1380 01:35:42,416 --> 01:35:44,291 that, but I'll figure it out. 1381 01:35:44,833 --> 01:35:46,125 Yeah, rare moment behind 1382 01:35:46,125 --> 01:35:47,291 the curtain with your dad. 1383 01:35:47,875 --> 01:35:48,958 I've never seen that side of him, 1384 01:35:48,958 --> 01:35:50,375 but I'm glad he had that with you. 1385 01:35:51,208 --> 01:35:51,458 Because we were 1386 01:35:51,458 --> 01:35:52,333 talking about how it's like, 1387 01:35:52,541 --> 01:35:54,000 you don't have it figured out. 1388 01:35:54,208 --> 01:35:56,541 Why did our parents have it figured out? 1389 01:35:56,541 --> 01:35:57,666 And he looked at, when 1390 01:35:57,666 --> 01:35:58,250 we were talking to him, 1391 01:35:58,250 --> 01:35:59,291 he was like, I didn't 1392 01:35:59,291 --> 01:36:00,041 have it figured out. 1393 01:36:00,041 --> 01:36:01,333 I still don't have it figured out. 1394 01:36:02,041 --> 01:36:03,166 Glad you all thought I did. 1395 01:36:04,208 --> 01:36:05,875 And he's in his 70s now, so that's great. 1396 01:36:06,500 --> 01:36:07,250 20 more years of not 1397 01:36:07,250 --> 01:36:08,125 having it figured out. 1398 01:36:10,875 --> 01:36:11,500 But what we do have to 1399 01:36:11,500 --> 01:36:12,750 figure out is enjoying the kids, 1400 01:36:12,750 --> 01:36:13,833 enjoying the life that we have. 1401 01:36:13,833 --> 01:36:14,541 I talk about it all the 1402 01:36:14,541 --> 01:36:15,458 time, that's paramount. 1403 01:36:15,458 --> 01:36:16,958 It's just enjoying the time we have now, 1404 01:36:16,958 --> 01:36:18,541 as tough as it is. 1405 01:36:19,708 --> 01:36:21,166 Yeah, in just a little 1406 01:36:21,166 --> 01:36:23,958 moment, I think that's key. 1407 01:36:25,375 --> 01:36:29,125 But, you know, one step forward, 1408 01:36:30,000 --> 01:36:31,666 and I think that, I 1409 01:36:31,666 --> 01:36:32,291 think a lot of people-- 1410 01:36:32,291 --> 01:36:32,916 Another step forward? 1411 01:36:33,333 --> 01:36:34,333 Not two steps back, right? 1412 01:36:35,500 --> 01:36:36,291 Step forward. 1413 01:36:36,333 --> 01:36:37,500 Just, that's it. 1414 01:36:37,500 --> 01:36:38,000 Please don't take too 1415 01:36:38,000 --> 01:36:39,041 many steps back, yeah. 1416 01:36:39,416 --> 01:36:40,458 Stop period. 1417 01:36:40,458 --> 01:36:41,750 Yeah, mm-hmm. 1418 01:36:42,916 --> 01:36:43,333 Too funny. 1419 01:36:44,291 --> 01:36:44,708 We'll see. 1420 01:36:45,541 --> 01:36:46,708 Well-- Where did we get there? 1421 01:36:46,708 --> 01:36:48,125 What else we got going on this weekend? 1422 01:36:48,125 --> 01:36:48,875 We had, it was Memorial 1423 01:36:48,875 --> 01:36:49,958 Day weekend this weekend. 1424 01:36:50,708 --> 01:36:52,916 You had your first day off in-- 1425 01:36:53,500 --> 01:36:54,375 My first three day weekend 1426 01:36:54,500 --> 01:36:55,541 since Martin Luther 1427 01:36:55,541 --> 01:36:58,083 King Jr. Day, in January. 1428 01:36:58,916 --> 01:37:00,083 So I am loving having 1429 01:37:00,083 --> 01:37:00,958 a three day weekend. 1430 01:37:01,625 --> 01:37:02,666 We've also been getting 1431 01:37:02,666 --> 01:37:03,916 lots and lots of surprises 1432 01:37:04,333 --> 01:37:06,125 that Amazon is delivering to us. 1433 01:37:06,583 --> 01:37:08,375 So that's been, it 1434 01:37:08,375 --> 01:37:09,375 was a little bit anxiety 1435 01:37:09,541 --> 01:37:11,000 provoking over the last few weeks, 1436 01:37:11,000 --> 01:37:12,000 but you called Amazon, 1437 01:37:12,583 --> 01:37:14,041 but I'll let you get into the story. 1438 01:37:14,458 --> 01:37:15,625 Well, I mean, there's not a 1439 01:37:15,625 --> 01:37:16,541 whole lot of the story to it. 1440 01:37:16,541 --> 01:37:17,250 We are getting a lot of 1441 01:37:17,250 --> 01:37:19,166 packages, a lot of packages-- 1442 01:37:19,250 --> 01:37:19,458 A lot. 1443 01:37:20,000 --> 01:37:21,250 For, I'm gonna say Sam Smith. 1444 01:37:21,875 --> 01:37:22,541 It wasn't Sam Smith. 1445 01:37:23,333 --> 01:37:25,791 It was not our name, but to our address. 1446 01:37:26,041 --> 01:37:26,333 100%. 1447 01:37:26,750 --> 01:37:27,791 Every single one of them to our address. 1448 01:37:28,416 --> 01:37:29,541 Packages and packages and packages. 1449 01:37:30,583 --> 01:37:32,833 And I, finally I caught, one time I 1450 01:37:32,833 --> 01:37:33,750 caught the Amazon guy. 1451 01:37:34,291 --> 01:37:36,125 And I said, look, this is not me. 1452 01:37:36,125 --> 01:37:36,916 These aren't my packages. 1453 01:37:37,666 --> 01:37:38,875 Cause he was delivering like three more. 1454 01:37:38,875 --> 01:37:39,583 And I said, I've got like 1455 01:37:39,583 --> 01:37:40,625 seven more in my garage. 1456 01:37:40,958 --> 01:37:43,833 So I gave them all to him to take back 1457 01:37:43,833 --> 01:37:44,750 cause they're not ours. 1458 01:37:45,416 --> 01:37:47,833 Well, the next day, those 1459 01:37:47,833 --> 01:37:49,583 plus like five more showed up. 1460 01:37:49,583 --> 01:37:50,583 He redelivered them 1461 01:37:50,583 --> 01:37:51,750 and added like five more. 1462 01:37:52,125 --> 01:37:54,208 So we have like 16 1463 01:37:54,208 --> 01:37:56,500 Amazon packages to Sam Smith, 1464 01:37:57,166 --> 01:37:58,083 to our address. 1465 01:37:58,333 --> 01:37:59,583 Our address. Just sitting in our garage. 1466 01:38:00,208 --> 01:38:01,500 The guy asked you, right? 1467 01:38:01,500 --> 01:38:02,500 Like, well, did this 1468 01:38:02,500 --> 01:38:03,750 person used to live here? 1469 01:38:03,791 --> 01:38:05,000 I think your response was, well, 1470 01:38:05,000 --> 01:38:06,166 the person who lived on this property 1471 01:38:06,541 --> 01:38:07,916 has been deceased for five years. 1472 01:38:07,916 --> 01:38:08,833 So I hope not. 1473 01:38:10,166 --> 01:38:11,250 Yeah, I didn't say it that 1474 01:38:11,250 --> 01:38:12,500 way, but no, I mean, I mean, 1475 01:38:12,958 --> 01:38:13,833 I mean, I told him, I said, no, 1476 01:38:13,833 --> 01:38:14,416 we're the only ones that 1477 01:38:14,416 --> 01:38:15,416 have lived here, you know, 1478 01:38:15,416 --> 01:38:16,250 in the last, we've owned this 1479 01:38:16,250 --> 01:38:17,916 property for four years now. 1480 01:38:17,916 --> 01:38:19,083 We built a house on here. 1481 01:38:19,083 --> 01:38:20,541 So I mean, no, the person, it was a 1482 01:38:20,541 --> 01:38:21,708 vacant home before this. 1483 01:38:22,541 --> 01:38:24,375 So anyways, yeah. 1484 01:38:24,583 --> 01:38:27,458 So twice though I sent them back, twice, 1485 01:38:28,041 --> 01:38:29,333 and they redelivered them. 1486 01:38:30,125 --> 01:38:31,208 So I finally called 1487 01:38:31,208 --> 01:38:32,083 cause there's some scams 1488 01:38:32,333 --> 01:38:33,416 that could potentially happen. 1489 01:38:33,416 --> 01:38:34,333 I don't know how they work, 1490 01:38:34,333 --> 01:38:35,041 cause I can't figure out 1491 01:38:35,041 --> 01:38:36,125 how we're getting scammed. 1492 01:38:36,125 --> 01:38:37,791 I think Amazon or someone 1493 01:38:37,791 --> 01:38:38,666 else is getting scammed. 1494 01:38:38,666 --> 01:38:40,333 I don't think we're getting scammed. 1495 01:38:40,333 --> 01:38:40,916 I hope not. 1496 01:38:40,958 --> 01:38:42,083 We're just the beneficiaries 1497 01:38:42,458 --> 01:38:43,500 of just getting all these things. 1498 01:38:43,500 --> 01:38:45,875 So I called Amazon and they're like, 1499 01:38:47,000 --> 01:38:47,583 they looked it up, they 1500 01:38:47,583 --> 01:38:48,458 looked up the tracking number 1501 01:38:48,541 --> 01:38:50,375 because I'm not the account 1502 01:38:50,375 --> 01:38:51,833 holder, they can't verify it. 1503 01:38:51,833 --> 01:38:53,708 And she said, well, at this point, 1504 01:38:54,000 --> 01:38:55,375 we appreciate you calling in 1505 01:38:55,375 --> 01:38:56,000 and letting us know and 1506 01:38:56,000 --> 01:38:57,041 being honest about it, 1507 01:38:57,500 --> 01:38:58,958 but you can just open the 1508 01:38:58,958 --> 01:39:00,125 packages and donate them 1509 01:39:00,125 --> 01:39:01,041 to whoever might need them. 1510 01:39:01,916 --> 01:39:03,541 And when this other person calls in 1511 01:39:03,916 --> 01:39:05,208 and realizes that there's a problem, 1512 01:39:05,750 --> 01:39:07,791 because backtracking here. 1513 01:39:08,791 --> 01:39:09,625 This is what's crazy. 1514 01:39:11,000 --> 01:39:12,916 Amazon is quick to deliver. 1515 01:39:13,458 --> 01:39:14,875 This has been going on for two weeks now. 1516 01:39:15,458 --> 01:39:16,125 Yeah, and some of 1517 01:39:16,125 --> 01:39:17,458 these things are like, hi, 1518 01:39:17,875 --> 01:39:19,375 now that I've opened the boxes. 1519 01:39:20,375 --> 01:39:21,333 Cause we hadn't. 1520 01:39:21,416 --> 01:39:22,458 Cause we had not up 1521 01:39:22,458 --> 01:39:24,000 until last night, really. 1522 01:39:24,083 --> 01:39:24,583 Right, right. 1523 01:39:24,958 --> 01:39:27,291 And if these things had not showed up 1524 01:39:27,291 --> 01:39:29,083 within a day or two at my house after 1525 01:39:29,083 --> 01:39:30,000 having said delivered, 1526 01:39:30,458 --> 01:39:31,625 I mean, if the dog 1527 01:39:31,625 --> 01:39:32,750 food says it's delivered 1528 01:39:32,750 --> 01:39:34,333 and it's not sitting on our doorstop, 1529 01:39:34,625 --> 01:39:36,458 I'm questioning where it's at. 1530 01:39:37,000 --> 01:39:38,333 Like, do they stuff it in the mailbox? 1531 01:39:38,541 --> 01:39:39,833 Or is it across the street? 1532 01:39:40,500 --> 01:39:41,291 Where's the dog food? 1533 01:39:41,583 --> 01:39:43,583 Right, and that's not a high value item. 1534 01:39:43,875 --> 01:39:44,000 No. 1535 01:39:44,833 --> 01:39:45,583 But there were some high 1536 01:39:45,583 --> 01:39:46,708 value items, not super high, 1537 01:39:46,708 --> 01:39:48,625 but just some nicer items. 1538 01:39:48,625 --> 01:39:50,291 I would be wondering where they were 1539 01:39:50,291 --> 01:39:51,916 when they say they're delivered. 1540 01:39:52,250 --> 01:39:52,500 Yeah. 1541 01:39:53,250 --> 01:39:54,458 Anyways, long story short, 1542 01:39:54,666 --> 01:39:55,833 it's like Christmas 1543 01:39:55,833 --> 01:39:58,500 for a lot of weird stuff. 1544 01:39:59,000 --> 01:39:59,833 It is the weirdest thing. 1545 01:39:59,875 --> 01:40:01,041 We got another one today, 1546 01:40:02,125 --> 01:40:04,083 which was an automatic 1547 01:40:04,083 --> 01:40:06,000 ear cleansing system. 1548 01:40:06,083 --> 01:40:06,416 Uh-huh. 1549 01:40:07,000 --> 01:40:07,625 Or Sam Smith. 1550 01:40:08,875 --> 01:40:09,875 I don't know what. 1551 01:40:11,250 --> 01:40:12,500 Sam Smith is actually a singer. 1552 01:40:12,500 --> 01:40:12,958 Maybe we should have 1553 01:40:12,958 --> 01:40:13,958 picked a different name. 1554 01:40:13,958 --> 01:40:14,416 It's fine. 1555 01:40:14,916 --> 01:40:14,958 Anyway. 1556 01:40:15,000 --> 01:40:15,708 It's very gentle. 1557 01:40:15,750 --> 01:40:18,041 Are Sam Smith, I don't know 1558 01:40:18,041 --> 01:40:18,958 what is wrong with his ears 1559 01:40:18,958 --> 01:40:20,083 or why you would ever 1560 01:40:20,083 --> 01:40:21,333 want to clean your ears. 1561 01:40:21,666 --> 01:40:23,083 It's like a massive thing 1562 01:40:23,083 --> 01:40:24,458 that goes, I was reading it. 1563 01:40:24,458 --> 01:40:26,083 I was like, what is that? 1564 01:40:26,083 --> 01:40:27,458 It's a whole contraption that 1565 01:40:27,458 --> 01:40:28,416 goes to the side of your head 1566 01:40:28,416 --> 01:40:29,625 and somehow cleans your ear. 1567 01:40:29,666 --> 01:40:31,166 But we've got so many weird 1568 01:40:31,166 --> 01:40:32,625 things, so many weird things. 1569 01:40:32,666 --> 01:40:33,583 So many weird things. 1570 01:40:33,583 --> 01:40:35,833 One's like a steering wheel to a car. 1571 01:40:36,083 --> 01:40:37,625 One's a solar fan. 1572 01:40:38,250 --> 01:40:39,041 Couple of DeWalt 1573 01:40:39,041 --> 01:40:40,791 batteries, which are expensive. 1574 01:40:41,708 --> 01:40:41,833 Yeah. 1575 01:40:42,875 --> 01:40:43,625 I mean, a bunch of 1576 01:40:43,625 --> 01:40:44,708 just weird little things 1577 01:40:44,708 --> 01:40:45,958 and they keep coming. 1578 01:40:46,875 --> 01:40:49,583 How many have been delivered just today? 1579 01:40:50,000 --> 01:40:51,083 Just the one, because we 1580 01:40:51,083 --> 01:40:52,208 actually delivered ours. 1581 01:40:52,583 --> 01:40:53,166 Oh, okay. 1582 01:40:53,166 --> 01:40:54,000 That was the ear one, 1583 01:40:54,000 --> 01:40:54,875 the ear cleansing one. 1584 01:40:55,416 --> 01:40:56,333 Oh, I thought there was another one 1585 01:40:56,333 --> 01:40:58,750 that was on the front door 1586 01:40:58,875 --> 01:41:00,833 when you came out, but. 1587 01:41:01,208 --> 01:41:02,583 Oh, there was, I haven't opened it. 1588 01:41:02,583 --> 01:41:03,166 Yeah, you're right, 1589 01:41:03,166 --> 01:41:04,208 there is another one there. 1590 01:41:04,208 --> 01:41:05,833 We have another one, yay. 1591 01:41:06,625 --> 01:41:08,333 I mean, it's like, what 1592 01:41:08,333 --> 01:41:10,833 weird item are we gonna get now? 1593 01:41:10,875 --> 01:41:11,791 And is there a list I 1594 01:41:11,791 --> 01:41:13,583 can put my wants on, 1595 01:41:13,583 --> 01:41:15,333 like a wish list instead? 1596 01:41:15,333 --> 01:41:16,333 Because some of these are worthless. 1597 01:41:17,000 --> 01:41:18,916 I have a good wish list. 1598 01:41:19,416 --> 01:41:20,958 Okay, and that's the other thing, 1599 01:41:20,958 --> 01:41:21,791 because the lady was like, 1600 01:41:21,791 --> 01:41:23,125 you can just donate them. 1601 01:41:24,458 --> 01:41:26,000 Who's gonna want an automatic wish list? 1602 01:41:26,000 --> 01:41:26,958 Guess what, family? 1603 01:41:28,333 --> 01:41:30,250 No more checks for Christmas this year. 1604 01:41:30,791 --> 01:41:32,083 Oh my gosh, weird. 1605 01:41:32,125 --> 01:41:33,041 You guys are getting some 1606 01:41:33,041 --> 01:41:35,125 good Amazon redeliveries. 1607 01:41:35,541 --> 01:41:37,166 You're kidding, the Roach Killer? 1608 01:41:38,041 --> 01:41:39,958 Yeah, a supersonic 1609 01:41:39,958 --> 01:41:42,000 something killer, yeah. 1610 01:41:42,291 --> 01:41:43,708 Yeah, uh-huh, I'm like 1611 01:41:43,708 --> 01:41:45,333 white elephant gifts. 1612 01:41:45,875 --> 01:41:47,375 Automatic bird feeder. 1613 01:41:47,416 --> 01:41:47,750 Yeah. 1614 01:41:48,500 --> 01:41:51,791 Two personal, what are they? 1615 01:41:52,333 --> 01:41:54,000 Air conditioning units, we 1616 01:41:54,000 --> 01:41:55,833 actually have one of those. 1617 01:41:55,875 --> 01:41:57,500 We actually do, but now we have-- 1618 01:41:57,541 --> 01:41:59,000 We've never used it, now we have three, 1619 01:41:59,000 --> 01:41:59,750 so everybody can have 1620 01:41:59,750 --> 01:42:00,750 their own personal one 1621 01:42:00,750 --> 01:42:01,875 around a chain or something. 1622 01:42:02,625 --> 01:42:04,375 Anyway, so that's been fun, so we'll see. 1623 01:42:04,541 --> 01:42:05,500 Hopefully that just keeps on coming. 1624 01:42:05,500 --> 01:42:06,083 That's the gift that 1625 01:42:06,083 --> 01:42:07,583 doesn't stop giving, Clark. 1626 01:42:08,083 --> 01:42:08,916 It's better than the 1627 01:42:08,916 --> 01:42:09,916 Jelly of the Month Club. 1628 01:42:09,958 --> 01:42:11,333 Better than the Jelly of the Month Club. 1629 01:42:12,500 --> 01:42:14,166 I don't really even know 1630 01:42:14,166 --> 01:42:15,000 what to do with this stuff. 1631 01:42:16,250 --> 01:42:17,791 I know, I will donate quite a bit of it, 1632 01:42:17,791 --> 01:42:19,875 because I don't need any of it really. 1633 01:42:20,333 --> 01:42:21,416 Right, but where do 1634 01:42:21,416 --> 01:42:21,791 you go to donate this? 1635 01:42:21,833 --> 01:42:22,916 Some of it's so weird. 1636 01:42:23,416 --> 01:42:27,166 Like, I just, if you're going to a place 1637 01:42:27,416 --> 01:42:30,666 where Goodwill or a 1638 01:42:30,666 --> 01:42:31,541 place where you can get 1639 01:42:31,541 --> 01:42:34,250 donated items, are you really getting 1640 01:42:34,250 --> 01:42:35,625 an automatic ear cleaner? 1641 01:42:37,166 --> 01:42:38,458 Oh, one of them's a really 1642 01:42:38,458 --> 01:42:40,708 nice pair of hearing aids. 1643 01:42:40,708 --> 01:42:41,291 So if anybody needs 1644 01:42:41,291 --> 01:42:42,458 hearing aids, hit us up. 1645 01:42:44,500 --> 01:42:46,208 Maybe these are our freebie giveaways 1646 01:42:46,458 --> 01:42:47,583 for some sort of 1647 01:42:47,583 --> 01:42:49,125 podcast thing that we do. 1648 01:42:49,958 --> 01:42:51,166 We'll do some sort of contest 1649 01:42:51,166 --> 01:42:52,833 when we're on the cruise ship, right? 1650 01:42:52,875 --> 01:42:53,458 Yeah, yeah. 1651 01:42:53,458 --> 01:42:54,291 And these are our 1652 01:42:54,291 --> 01:42:55,500 freebies that people get. 1653 01:42:56,083 --> 01:42:57,250 You get hearing aids. 1654 01:42:57,583 --> 01:42:58,666 Smash that like button. 1655 01:43:00,041 --> 01:43:00,208 (laughing) 1656 01:43:01,333 --> 01:43:02,541 You get the Roach Killer. 1657 01:43:03,166 --> 01:43:04,583 You get the hearing aids. 1658 01:43:04,625 --> 01:43:06,916 You get the steering wheel. 1659 01:43:07,166 --> 01:43:08,875 Like a steering wheel? 1660 01:43:09,000 --> 01:43:10,208 It's like for a nice car. 1661 01:43:11,458 --> 01:43:12,750 I bet that one's probably the most, 1662 01:43:13,000 --> 01:43:14,083 that one's worth the most money. 1663 01:43:14,875 --> 01:43:15,666 That one might be 1664 01:43:15,666 --> 01:43:17,000 weirder than the ear cleaner. 1665 01:43:17,916 --> 01:43:19,125 What do you do with the steering wheel? 1666 01:43:19,125 --> 01:43:19,625 It looks like a 1667 01:43:19,625 --> 01:43:21,500 sports car steering wheel, 1668 01:43:21,500 --> 01:43:22,333 like aftermarket one. 1669 01:43:23,416 --> 01:43:25,000 Do people change their steering wheels? 1670 01:43:25,750 --> 01:43:25,958 Apparently. 1671 01:43:26,750 --> 01:43:28,375 We also got like an 1672 01:43:28,375 --> 01:43:31,708 oil, no, a brake bleeding, 1673 01:43:31,708 --> 01:43:35,458 a brake fluid bleeding system. 1674 01:43:37,291 --> 01:43:37,541 Wow. 1675 01:43:38,000 --> 01:43:38,333 Yeah. 1676 01:43:39,000 --> 01:43:40,458 So if you need that too, hit me up. 1677 01:43:40,541 --> 01:43:41,083 Just, yeah. 1678 01:43:42,250 --> 01:43:44,500 Just DM us or whatever, I don't know. 1679 01:43:45,000 --> 01:43:46,625 DM, man, you sound so in the end. 1680 01:43:46,666 --> 01:43:48,083 I sound so tacky. 1681 01:43:49,000 --> 01:43:49,750 All right, well let's 1682 01:43:49,750 --> 01:43:51,208 start wrapping this one up. 1683 01:43:51,875 --> 01:43:52,041 Yeah. 1684 01:43:53,291 --> 01:43:54,166 That was fun, yeah, that 1685 01:43:54,166 --> 01:43:55,083 was a fun one, so we'll see. 1686 01:43:55,583 --> 01:43:56,083 I don't know, that is 1687 01:43:56,083 --> 01:43:57,583 so, it's the oddest thing. 1688 01:43:58,333 --> 01:43:59,000 It feels wrong. 1689 01:43:59,541 --> 01:44:01,208 Lastly, I told her, I 1690 01:44:01,208 --> 01:44:03,000 did say to the Amazon lady, 1691 01:44:03,000 --> 01:44:04,666 like I just want to be sure 1692 01:44:04,666 --> 01:44:06,083 I'm doing the right thing here. 1693 01:44:06,208 --> 01:44:06,583 Yes. 1694 01:44:06,625 --> 01:44:07,500 Because I don't know what 1695 01:44:07,500 --> 01:44:08,083 to do with these packages. 1696 01:44:08,333 --> 01:44:09,333 They are not mine. 1697 01:44:09,375 --> 01:44:10,125 They are not yours. 1698 01:44:10,416 --> 01:44:11,625 And she said, "We 1699 01:44:11,625 --> 01:44:12,666 appreciate your honesty." 1700 01:44:13,416 --> 01:44:14,083 A lot of people may not 1701 01:44:14,083 --> 01:44:15,333 have called in and said this, 1702 01:44:15,750 --> 01:44:17,708 but those, we'll take 1703 01:44:17,708 --> 01:44:19,125 care of him when he calls in. 1704 01:44:19,500 --> 01:44:20,750 As of right now, those packages, 1705 01:44:21,083 --> 01:44:21,750 you can donate to 1706 01:44:21,750 --> 01:44:22,750 whoever might need them, so. 1707 01:44:23,875 --> 01:44:26,791 Well, if anybody needs the 1708 01:44:26,791 --> 01:44:28,000 items that we referenced. 1709 01:44:28,708 --> 01:44:30,875 If you guys have really dirty ears, 1710 01:44:31,541 --> 01:44:33,666 we're happy to donate that. 1711 01:44:34,416 --> 01:44:36,541 Absolutely, it is all yours. 1712 01:44:36,833 --> 01:44:37,625 No pictures for that 1713 01:44:37,625 --> 01:44:39,041 though, just we'll trust you. 1714 01:44:40,125 --> 01:44:41,000 We don't need proof. 1715 01:44:43,375 --> 01:44:44,541 Just like we don't need proof that you 1716 01:44:44,541 --> 01:44:45,250 need a steering wheel, 1717 01:44:45,500 --> 01:44:46,625 like just let us know. 1718 01:44:47,083 --> 01:44:48,958 It's sitting in our garage at this point, 1719 01:44:49,416 --> 01:44:50,458 just taking up space. 1720 01:44:50,708 --> 01:44:51,958 I might put that one on, 1721 01:44:52,166 --> 01:44:54,000 I was gonna say YouTube, 1722 01:44:54,291 --> 01:44:55,875 not YouTube, what's the eBay? 1723 01:44:56,583 --> 01:44:58,000 Yeah, I'm gonna put that one on eBay. 1724 01:44:58,416 --> 01:44:58,916 It'll be like $500. 1725 01:45:00,833 --> 01:45:02,333 And then we'll do a 500 hour cash prize. 1726 01:45:02,791 --> 01:45:03,041 Yeah. 1727 01:45:05,291 --> 01:45:06,000 I don't know, do I do 1728 01:45:06,000 --> 01:45:06,625 what I'm talking about? 1729 01:45:07,083 --> 01:45:09,875 Okay, let's come up with our endings. 1730 01:45:10,541 --> 01:45:12,541 Okay, got our word for the week. 1731 01:45:13,416 --> 01:45:14,083 All right, so we're 1732 01:45:14,083 --> 01:45:14,916 gonna come up with our word. 1733 01:45:15,375 --> 01:45:16,750 Everybody come up with your word too. 1734 01:45:16,750 --> 01:45:18,708 This just sums up our last week, right? 1735 01:45:18,833 --> 01:45:19,875 See if anybody gets the 1736 01:45:19,875 --> 01:45:20,791 same thing that we do. 1737 01:45:21,291 --> 01:45:22,458 And I on the third 1738 01:45:22,458 --> 01:45:25,208 episode, got the same exact word. 1739 01:45:25,208 --> 01:45:26,458 Yeah, exact same word. 1740 01:45:26,458 --> 01:45:27,041 Which was pretty crazy. 1741 01:45:27,041 --> 01:45:27,958 And we haven't done it since, 1742 01:45:28,041 --> 01:45:30,000 but I might cheat a 1743 01:45:30,000 --> 01:45:30,958 little bit on this one 1744 01:45:31,458 --> 01:45:32,833 and put a hyphen in one of my words. 1745 01:45:34,041 --> 01:45:35,583 So I just checked with the 1746 01:45:35,583 --> 01:45:37,500 rule guy and he's okaying it. 1747 01:45:37,583 --> 01:45:38,375 Okay, okay. 1748 01:45:38,416 --> 01:45:39,375 All right, so here we go, ready? 1749 01:45:40,416 --> 01:45:42,958 One, two, three. 1750 01:45:43,833 --> 01:45:44,500 Check the box. 1751 01:45:46,625 --> 01:45:47,375 Check the box. 1752 01:45:48,500 --> 01:45:48,916 Is that hyphen? 1753 01:45:50,166 --> 01:45:51,041 No, I like that. 1754 01:45:52,250 --> 01:45:53,250 We're checking a lot of boxes. 1755 01:45:53,541 --> 01:45:54,708 Checking a lot of boxes off. 1756 01:45:54,958 --> 01:45:56,958 I've had a lot of to-do list items done. 1757 01:45:57,000 --> 01:45:57,916 Yeah, you did. 1758 01:45:57,958 --> 01:45:59,166 Vacation to this island. 1759 01:46:00,250 --> 01:46:00,958 Yep, yeah. 1760 01:46:01,458 --> 01:46:02,708 Going to Oregon for the 1761 01:46:02,708 --> 01:46:04,291 track meet with our daughter. 1762 01:46:04,541 --> 01:46:04,833 Yeah. 1763 01:46:05,666 --> 01:46:08,541 Lots, checking the boxes this week. 1764 01:46:09,583 --> 01:46:10,166 Lots of it. 1765 01:46:10,625 --> 01:46:12,416 I was just thinking like summertime, 1766 01:46:12,416 --> 01:46:12,791 so I mean, we're 1767 01:46:12,791 --> 01:46:13,875 thinking about the same stuff 1768 01:46:13,875 --> 01:46:14,500 because mine was like 1769 01:46:14,500 --> 01:46:16,083 summertime and all the plans 1770 01:46:16,083 --> 01:46:16,875 that you're making and all 1771 01:46:16,875 --> 01:46:18,208 the fun stuff that you're doing. 1772 01:46:18,250 --> 01:46:20,250 I mean, all the check the boxes things, 1773 01:46:20,250 --> 01:46:21,291 have all been fun things 1774 01:46:21,291 --> 01:46:23,250 that we've been planning for. 1775 01:46:23,250 --> 01:46:24,041 It felt a little bit 1776 01:46:24,041 --> 01:46:25,916 summertime-ish yesterday 1777 01:46:26,166 --> 01:46:27,708 because we really kind of just sat 1778 01:46:27,708 --> 01:46:28,541 outside by the pool. 1779 01:46:29,083 --> 01:46:31,291 Yeah, we had some to-dos here and there, 1780 01:46:31,291 --> 01:46:33,000 but we spent more time with the pool 1781 01:46:33,000 --> 01:46:33,708 than we have in a while. 1782 01:46:34,083 --> 01:46:36,166 Oh yeah, I mean, we were cool. 1783 01:46:36,666 --> 01:46:37,833 We were in our, I mean, we 1784 01:46:37,833 --> 01:46:39,125 were sitting there outside 1785 01:46:39,375 --> 01:46:42,250 and doing a lot of the to-dos, right? 1786 01:46:42,541 --> 01:46:44,250 Like, so. Yeah, yeah, nice. 1787 01:46:44,916 --> 01:46:45,333 I love it. 1788 01:46:45,625 --> 01:46:46,291 All right, well, what 1789 01:46:46,291 --> 01:46:46,875 are we looking forward 1790 01:46:47,000 --> 01:46:48,166 to this next week? 1791 01:46:48,541 --> 01:46:51,125 No school, first full week without, 1792 01:46:51,125 --> 01:46:52,416 I guess it's not even a full week. 1793 01:46:52,666 --> 01:46:53,583 It's a short work week. 1794 01:46:54,708 --> 01:46:55,708 All the kids are home, 1795 01:46:55,708 --> 01:46:56,916 so hopefully that won't be too chaotic. 1796 01:46:57,500 --> 01:46:57,708 Yeah. 1797 01:46:58,833 --> 01:46:59,166 Get outside. 1798 01:46:59,833 --> 01:47:01,541 Get outside, go play. 1799 01:47:01,875 --> 01:47:02,875 Oh, it'll be fun. 1800 01:47:02,916 --> 01:47:04,000 Get your touches in. 1801 01:47:05,125 --> 01:47:07,125 Yeah, that'll be, yeah. 1802 01:47:08,291 --> 01:47:09,958 Oh yeah, we'll be looking forward to 1803 01:47:09,958 --> 01:47:11,041 having our daughter back. 1804 01:47:12,208 --> 01:47:12,875 And you don't travel, 1805 01:47:12,875 --> 01:47:13,583 do you travel next week 1806 01:47:13,583 --> 01:47:14,541 or is it two weeks that you travel? 1807 01:47:15,250 --> 01:47:15,916 Weeks. All right. 1808 01:47:16,083 --> 01:47:16,666 We still have a little 1809 01:47:16,666 --> 01:47:18,375 while there, but yeah. 1810 01:47:19,208 --> 01:47:20,333 Short week. Yep. 1811 01:47:20,833 --> 01:47:22,541 And it's just the summer pace. 1812 01:47:23,291 --> 01:47:25,166 Like, we still have practices at night 1813 01:47:25,166 --> 01:47:25,875 and things like that, 1814 01:47:25,875 --> 01:47:27,583 but it's still the summer pace. 1815 01:47:28,041 --> 01:47:28,875 Medium pace. 1816 01:47:32,791 --> 01:47:34,166 Oh, I love that, Sandler. 1817 01:47:34,916 --> 01:47:35,583 All out there. 1818 01:47:36,500 --> 01:47:37,791 Girl, I gotta laugh at you. 1819 01:47:39,416 --> 01:47:40,833 I always liked that, you did it twice. 1820 01:47:41,041 --> 01:47:42,208 Like, I throw out a joke, 1821 01:47:42,208 --> 01:47:43,583 so either my joke is 1822 01:47:43,583 --> 01:47:44,750 an inside joke too much 1823 01:47:44,916 --> 01:47:45,958 or not funny enough that 1824 01:47:45,958 --> 01:47:47,416 you always explain it like, 1825 01:47:47,666 --> 01:47:48,958 that was Adam Sandler, right? 1826 01:47:49,708 --> 01:47:51,458 (laughing) 1827 01:47:52,333 --> 01:47:53,375 Just reinforcing that 1828 01:47:53,375 --> 01:47:54,083 I thought it was funny. 1829 01:47:54,791 --> 01:47:56,458 Yeah, yeah, that's funny, yeah. 1830 01:47:56,625 --> 01:47:57,625 Thank you for doing that. 1831 01:47:57,625 --> 01:47:59,416 I love him there, it's funny, 1832 01:47:59,416 --> 01:48:00,250 so I'd love to throw it 1833 01:48:00,250 --> 01:48:01,083 back to him, that's great. 1834 01:48:01,500 --> 01:48:02,083 Yeah, it's funny. 1835 01:48:02,666 --> 01:48:04,500 All right, well, let's say goodbye. 1836 01:48:05,166 --> 01:48:06,000 Thanks for joining us. 1837 01:48:06,500 --> 01:48:08,083 I always appreciate you guys tuning in. 1838 01:48:08,833 --> 01:48:09,791 All right, until next time. 1839 01:48:10,041 --> 01:48:11,416 Until next time, see ya. See ya. 1840 01:48:11,875 --> 01:48:12,916 (upbeat music) 1841 01:48:14,875 --> 01:48:17,041 (upbeat music)