Scott and Brittney are in a rut. Work, kids, life — all of it has been filling the space where intimacy used to live. And they're naming it publicly because they know they're not alone.
In Episode 42, they share a 7-Day Intimacy Reset — a gentle, progressive plan for couples who feel stuck. Not a dare game. Not a challenge. A reset that starts exactly where you are and builds from there, one day at a time. Each day's practice takes fifteen minutes or less. The bar is low by design. Because consistency matters more than intensity when you're rebuilding something.
The reset starts outside the bedroom because intimacy doesn't begin between the sheets. It begins in the morning hold, the real conversation, the appreciation said out loud, the slow dinner with no phones, the non-sexual touch that asks nothing in return. By Day 6, the foundation is there. And what happens on Day 6 feels different because of it.
Scott and Brittney are doing this alongside their listeners. Not from a place of having it all figured out from a place of being right in the middle of it.
In this episode:
- Why ruts happen to good couples and why naming it is the first step out
- Why intimacy outside the bedroom matters more than what happens inside it
- Day 1: The Reconnection Touch — sixty seconds before the day takes over
- Day 2: The Real Check-In — one question that goes beneath the surface
- Day 3: The Appreciation Letter — written, specific, and read out loud
- Day 4: The Slow Dinner — one real conversation starter and no phones
- Day 5: The Non-Sexual Touch Practice — fifteen minutes, no agenda, both ways
- Day 6: The Intentional Intimate Encounter — arrived at, not stumbled into
- Day 7: The Reset Debrief — what shifts, what stays, what becomes permanent
- Scott & Brittney's honest reflection on their own current season
Remember — intimacy is not automatic... it's guided.
Couples Intimacy Resources
Looking to improve your sex life, strengthen your marriage, or deepen intimacy in your relationship?
Download Coelle, our guided audio intimacy app for couples, designed to strengthen communication, build confidence, and support emotional and physical connection.
For personalized support, Scott offers Sex & Intimacy Coaching focused on marriage, desire differences, and building stronger sexual confidence.
What is Do You Feel That? | A Couples Intimacy & Sex Podcast?
Do You Feel That? is a couples intimacy and sex podcast about love, connection, desire, and building a stronger relationship in and out of the bedroom.
Hosted by Scott and Brittney, a married couple exploring modern intimacy, each episode blends honest conversations, personal stories, and practical tools to help couples improve communication, deepen emotional connection, and create better sex in long-term relationships.
We talk about:
• Marriage and intimacy
• Sexual communication
• Desire differences
• Erotic exploration
• Guided audio intimacy
• Confidence in the bedroom
• Reigniting passion after kids
• Sex toys, play, and connection
• Building emotional safety
• Strengthening relationships through intentional intimacy
Whether you’re navigating mismatched desire, looking to improve your sex life, or simply wanting to feel closer to your partner, Do You Feel That? offers grounded, real-world conversations to help couples grow together.
New episodes every week.