The Purple Pawedcast

In this episode, I have a great conversation with Mona Lazar, an artist, writer, and relationship coach.  Mona and I contemplate finding reflection in a relationship, why social roles must change for humanity to survive, and how filled doughnuts probably roll downhill better than those with holes in the middle.

REFERENCES:
Mona's personal website:  https://monalazar.com/
Find Mona on Medium:  https://medium.com/@monalazzar
Find Mona on Substack:  https://wordwhisperers.substack.com
"And Then All the Women Wanted to Be Lesbians":  https://medium.com/the-soulciety/and-then-all-the-women-wished-they-were-lesbians-419923cf10f
Gender Identity Today:  https://genderidentitytoday.com/

  • (00:00) - Show opening
  • (00:37) - Introducing Mona
  • (04:32) - And Then All the Women Wanted to Be Lesbians
  • (07:44) - Being completed in a relationship
  • (13:36) - Is it being a lesbian or finding reflection?
  • (18:21) - The difficulty with most relationships
  • (23:57) - Permission to be ourselves
  • (29:26) - Breaking out of social roles
  • (36:04) - The value of other gender roles
  • (41:46) - So how do we be ourselves?
  • (49:18) - We need those people who challenge social expectations
  • (55:43) - Mona reflects Ami
  • (00:19) - Of moving reproduction and rotating pastries
  • (01:04:35) - Show closing
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Creators and Guests

Host
Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D.
Scientist, storyteller, and professional overthinker of all things identity. Also, I happen to be a transgender woman.

What is The Purple Pawedcast?

Welcome to The Purple Pawedcast, where we unpack the complexities of gender, identity, and what it truly means to be human—without the academic jargon (okay, maybe just a little, but only the fun kind).

Curated by Amethysta Herrick. Ph.D., this pod is where science, philosophy, and lived experience collide to challenge assumptions and spark new perspectives. Whether you’re here to explore your own identity, stay informed on the latest research, or just enjoy a deep dive into the human experience, we deliver thoughtful, engaging, and refreshingly honest discussions. No fluff. No gatekeeping. Just real conversations about who we are and how we navigate the world. Dive in, stay curious, and let’s rethink identity together.