Show Notes
The wedding band - who the hell buys them?
(And why do we wait till the last minute to make this decision)
We start with a history lesson educating you on where the rings originated from and the symbolism behind them among society.
Bringing it back full circle, the wedding band, the ring is worn on the left finger. The wedding band, suggests that the wearer is married, is also worn on the left ring finger, usually in addition with the engagement ring. It was believed that the finger contained the vena amoris vein, that led to the heart. Aww!
Ancient Rome + Greece, and as far back as 6000 years ago in Ancient Egypt where they found evidence of braided rings made of hemp or reeds. It wasn't until later the bands were made of gold, silver and metals till much later. However they got creative in the 17th - 19th century.
- Gimmel rings or joint rings
- Posie rings
- Puzzle rings - these were incredibly hard to get off!
Think about the type of couple you are.
- Are you traditional? Younger, just starting out, saving money to buy a house, house items, starting a family, etc.
- Are you modern? A little older, have a home, home items, living together, funds are tied together, etc.
Things to consider
- Have you been together for a long time?
- Do you live together?
- What are your expectations?
- Do you have a budget in mind?
- Do you want a diamond, or something alternative?
- Don't be afraid to ask questions and take your time!
- Keep it true to your personal style, you are wearing this for life!
Don't forget, you can always upgrade. As time goes on, as a couple you work together, consider your 10 year anniversary and get a bigger ring!
Materials available for your band
- Gold (white, yellow, rose)
- Platinum
- Palladium
- Tungsten
- Titanium
- Silver
- Silicone
Think of it like buying a car. You wouldn't walk in and buy the first one you see. Take your time, do some research, keep it to your personal style, it's an investment! And we cannot stress this enough, try it on!
Have an open conversation about who is buying the ring and what is your budget. Consider each others feelings and your overall wedding budget and set that expectation before walking in the store.
What is The Wedding Session?
Welcome to The Wedding Session with SAY Events
Educational, inspirational, behind-the-scenes, no bullsh$t look into the wedding industry, where we explore topics, trends and regions from around the world. With a combined total of almost fifteen years experience in weddings, listen in, as we pull back the lace and share the inside details on what goes into creating a wedding.