1 01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:02,958 (upbeat music) 2 01:00:05,166 --> 01:00:07,041 I was either arresting 3 01:00:07,041 --> 01:00:09,375 people or marrying people. 4 01:00:09,625 --> 01:00:10,500 Here's a tangent to your 5 01:00:10,500 --> 01:00:11,458 tangent of the tangent. 6 01:00:11,750 --> 01:00:13,125 School sponsored make out sessions. 7 01:00:13,375 --> 01:00:14,583 This is what it sounds like to me. 8 01:00:14,666 --> 01:00:16,750 I was always too busy working it. 9 01:00:17,041 --> 01:00:18,458 You get five minutes in the closet. 10 01:00:20,375 --> 01:00:21,458 Yeah, no, no, no, no, no. 11 01:00:21,458 --> 01:00:21,666 Yeah. 12 01:00:22,083 --> 01:00:23,125 It's true colors haven't 13 01:00:23,125 --> 01:00:24,625 shown in quite some time. 14 01:00:25,000 --> 01:00:26,666 But I feel one coming in the air tonight. 15 01:00:27,125 --> 01:00:28,041 It's my prerogative, 16 01:00:28,041 --> 01:00:28,708 I can do what I want. 17 01:00:29,416 --> 01:00:31,041 More or less just pointing out 18 01:00:31,041 --> 01:00:32,333 that we've been lazy for a long time. 19 01:00:32,666 --> 01:00:33,833 Just text yourself and 20 01:00:33,833 --> 01:00:35,666 check, check, and then Chigaty, 21 01:00:35,666 --> 01:00:36,291 check yourself. 22 01:00:36,500 --> 01:00:38,500 I'll be up, Chigaty, check myself. 23 01:00:39,375 --> 01:00:41,000 Was that it may have been the night of 24 01:00:41,000 --> 01:00:41,916 the homecoming dance, 25 01:00:42,125 --> 01:00:44,000 but nobody goes to the dance. 26 01:00:44,458 --> 01:00:47,041 Yeah, 12 and a half, 13, I 27 01:00:47,041 --> 01:00:48,083 mean, that's just way too long. 28 01:00:49,083 --> 01:00:51,083 (humming) 29 01:00:54,208 --> 01:00:54,333 Same. 30 01:00:54,625 --> 01:00:54,875 Same. 31 01:00:55,791 --> 01:00:56,000 (laughing) 32 01:00:56,208 --> 01:00:57,375 You need to explain it. 33 01:00:57,625 --> 01:00:58,458 Welcome to the Mr. and 34 01:00:58,458 --> 01:00:59,458 Mrs. English Podcast. 35 01:00:59,791 --> 01:01:00,166 I'm Megan. 36 01:01:00,541 --> 01:01:01,125 And I'm Sean. 37 01:01:01,375 --> 01:01:02,458 We're here to talk about 38 01:01:02,458 --> 01:01:04,083 the wild ride of raising kids, 39 01:01:04,375 --> 01:01:06,416 growing careers, keeping life together 40 01:01:06,416 --> 01:01:07,625 in the middle of all the chaos. 41 01:01:08,291 --> 01:01:10,333 So buckle up because we're all 42 01:01:10,333 --> 01:01:11,708 in this crazy journey together. 43 01:01:13,833 --> 01:01:16,375 Ah, did we start off the last one? 44 01:01:16,375 --> 01:01:16,791 (laughing) 45 01:01:17,208 --> 01:01:18,291 I think we may have. 46 01:01:18,958 --> 01:01:19,833 Well, because we were in 47 01:01:19,833 --> 01:01:21,500 Mexico, so we were already like, 48 01:01:22,666 --> 01:01:22,875 ah. 49 01:01:24,166 --> 01:01:25,000 Maybe it was one before 50 01:01:25,000 --> 01:01:25,833 that we were just like, 51 01:01:26,416 --> 01:01:27,166 because that was more of 52 01:01:27,166 --> 01:01:28,791 like a really like, oh my gosh, 53 01:01:29,000 --> 01:01:30,500 we're slowing down for just a moment. 54 01:01:30,500 --> 01:01:32,666 And how different is this 55 01:01:32,666 --> 01:01:34,208 moment from the last time 56 01:01:34,208 --> 01:01:35,291 we sat down to do this? 57 01:01:35,333 --> 01:01:36,583 I know, I know. 58 01:01:36,583 --> 01:01:38,791 I'm really missing the, you 59 01:01:38,791 --> 01:01:40,375 know, Latin music behind us. 60 01:01:41,041 --> 01:01:42,416 (laughing) Yeah. 61 01:01:43,000 --> 01:01:45,166 And the sound of the waves and. 62 01:01:45,416 --> 01:01:46,125 Yeah, yeah. 63 01:01:46,125 --> 01:01:46,791 Now you're getting into 64 01:01:46,791 --> 01:01:47,833 the stuff I'm more missing. 65 01:01:48,166 --> 01:01:49,041 I know, sorry. 66 01:01:49,166 --> 01:01:51,166 The cabana, all the good stuff, yeah. 67 01:01:51,666 --> 01:01:52,166 Oh my gosh. 68 01:01:52,500 --> 01:01:53,041 But doing nothing. 69 01:01:54,083 --> 01:01:56,000 How wonderful is doing nothing? 70 01:01:56,333 --> 01:01:58,041 It is, it was really great. 71 01:01:58,666 --> 01:02:00,708 I don't, it makes me feel 72 01:02:00,708 --> 01:02:02,041 a little bit bad to say, 73 01:02:02,041 --> 01:02:04,166 oh, it felt so good to do nothing. 74 01:02:04,791 --> 01:02:06,625 Like does that, is that a sign that 75 01:02:06,625 --> 01:02:07,458 you're a lazy person 76 01:02:07,458 --> 01:02:08,875 that you like to do nothing? 77 01:02:09,666 --> 01:02:10,416 I don't think so. 78 01:02:10,708 --> 01:02:11,250 I mean, you and I have 79 01:02:11,250 --> 01:02:12,000 talked about it, right? 80 01:02:12,291 --> 01:02:12,791 Like if, 81 01:02:15,791 --> 01:02:17,666 we couldn't just do nothing every day. 82 01:02:18,083 --> 01:02:19,458 No, it wouldn't be fun. 83 01:02:19,458 --> 01:02:20,500 You know, I think maybe a 84 01:02:20,500 --> 01:02:21,583 lot of people think they could, 85 01:02:21,583 --> 01:02:22,500 you know, and I think I could 86 01:02:22,500 --> 01:02:23,875 do nothing for quite a while. 87 01:02:24,500 --> 01:02:26,083 (laughing) I don't know how 88 01:02:26,083 --> 01:02:27,666 that's gonna be, you know, 89 01:02:27,666 --> 01:02:29,916 but honestly eight, nine days into it, 90 01:02:29,916 --> 01:02:30,875 I'm sure I'd be like, well, 91 01:02:30,875 --> 01:02:32,208 it's probably time to do something. 92 01:02:33,333 --> 01:02:33,666 Yeah. 93 01:02:33,916 --> 01:02:34,791 You know, that's why 94 01:02:34,791 --> 01:02:35,791 this one was just perfect. 95 01:02:35,791 --> 01:02:36,500 I mean, two or three days 96 01:02:36,500 --> 01:02:38,125 of doing nothing left you 97 01:02:38,125 --> 01:02:39,666 with just enough of like, 98 01:02:39,666 --> 01:02:41,791 well, that was a good reset. 99 01:02:41,791 --> 01:02:42,625 Yeah, yeah. 100 01:02:43,041 --> 01:02:43,916 I'm missing the kids. 101 01:02:44,208 --> 01:02:44,750 Yeah. 102 01:02:44,791 --> 01:02:45,875 Because we were really missing the kids, 103 01:02:45,875 --> 01:02:46,416 the first time we've been 104 01:02:46,416 --> 01:02:47,791 away from them since our tenure, 105 01:02:47,791 --> 01:02:48,833 which was eight years ago. 106 01:02:48,916 --> 01:02:49,916 Right, right. 107 01:02:50,500 --> 01:02:52,791 And this time I think 108 01:02:52,791 --> 01:02:54,583 they missed us a little bit. 109 01:02:55,041 --> 01:02:55,666 I don't know. 110 01:02:55,666 --> 01:02:56,416 We keep trying to 111 01:02:56,416 --> 01:02:57,916 convince ourselves they did. 112 01:02:57,916 --> 01:02:59,291 I think they did a little bit too, 113 01:02:59,291 --> 01:03:00,458 but I definitely missed them. 114 01:03:00,750 --> 01:03:03,250 I mean, you know, 115 01:03:03,250 --> 01:03:03,750 that's why I was saying, 116 01:03:04,125 --> 01:03:05,750 I guess that was part of it too, right? 117 01:03:05,916 --> 01:03:06,416 Like, could I relax? 118 01:03:06,750 --> 01:03:08,500 I probably could have relaxed even more 119 01:03:08,708 --> 01:03:09,666 if the whole family was there. 120 01:03:10,208 --> 01:03:11,625 I agree, I agree. 121 01:03:11,625 --> 01:03:14,125 And we were all relaxing together and-- 122 01:03:14,458 --> 01:03:14,916 But it wouldn't have 123 01:03:14,916 --> 01:03:15,458 been that way because-- 124 01:03:15,458 --> 01:03:16,291 But it wouldn't have been that way. 125 01:03:16,291 --> 01:03:18,166 My boy's like, do this, let's do that. 126 01:03:18,166 --> 01:03:19,541 And let's go look at this and that. 127 01:03:19,791 --> 01:03:20,791 Yeah, we literally, yeah, 128 01:03:20,791 --> 01:03:22,041 that was fantastic to sit 129 01:03:22,041 --> 01:03:22,958 and literally do nothing. 130 01:03:23,000 --> 01:03:23,958 So maybe that was the 131 01:03:23,958 --> 01:03:27,083 perfect just three night getaway 132 01:03:27,916 --> 01:03:28,500 of doing nothing. 133 01:03:29,125 --> 01:03:31,416 I, it was for us. 134 01:03:31,416 --> 01:03:32,791 I mean, it certainly was for me. 135 01:03:33,083 --> 01:03:34,583 It was so nice. 136 01:03:36,083 --> 01:03:36,625 I probably could have 137 01:03:36,625 --> 01:03:37,416 done it one more day. 138 01:03:38,500 --> 01:03:38,958 I know. 139 01:03:39,291 --> 01:03:42,750 I remember when we went to Atlantis 140 01:03:43,500 --> 01:03:45,458 in the Bahamas a few years back 141 01:03:46,166 --> 01:03:48,125 and we had gone to Disney 142 01:03:48,125 --> 01:03:49,583 World like two years beforehand. 143 01:03:50,083 --> 01:03:51,000 Yep, yep. 144 01:03:51,500 --> 01:03:54,625 And we were there and what's the big one? 145 01:03:55,708 --> 01:03:56,750 The Star Wars or-- 146 01:03:56,916 --> 01:03:58,291 Star Wars, where's Star Wars at though? 147 01:03:58,333 --> 01:03:58,750 It's at-- 148 01:03:59,333 --> 01:03:59,875 Animal Kingdom. 149 01:04:00,375 --> 01:04:00,875 Hollywood Studios. 150 01:04:01,250 --> 01:04:02,625 So the Hollywood Studios one. 151 01:04:02,666 --> 01:04:02,875 Yeah. 152 01:04:03,833 --> 01:04:05,666 So the Star Wars one wasn't done yet. 153 01:04:05,666 --> 01:04:07,125 And we're big Star Wars fans. 154 01:04:07,375 --> 01:04:09,125 We're not Star Wars nerds by any means, 155 01:04:09,125 --> 01:04:10,000 but we like Star Wars. 156 01:04:10,000 --> 01:04:10,541 Yeah, we do. 157 01:04:11,000 --> 01:04:13,000 And it wasn't done, so 158 01:04:13,000 --> 01:04:13,958 we're like, gosh dang, 159 01:04:13,958 --> 01:04:15,541 we gotta go back at some point in time 160 01:04:15,541 --> 01:04:17,541 because all this stuff. 161 01:04:17,750 --> 01:04:18,833 The Millennium Falcon was 162 01:04:18,833 --> 01:04:19,958 there, so you'd kind of see that. 163 01:04:20,375 --> 01:04:21,291 Oh no, it was just a picture. 164 01:04:21,291 --> 01:04:21,625 It was just a picture. 165 01:04:21,916 --> 01:04:23,083 We took a picture in 166 01:04:23,083 --> 01:04:24,041 front of the picture. 167 01:04:24,041 --> 01:04:24,666 You could see the 168 01:04:24,666 --> 01:04:25,500 mountains and everything. 169 01:04:25,791 --> 01:04:26,708 They were almost done. 170 01:04:26,708 --> 01:04:27,666 It opened up like three 171 01:04:27,666 --> 01:04:28,666 months after we were there. 172 01:04:29,000 --> 01:04:29,916 So we had just missed it. 173 01:04:29,916 --> 01:04:30,541 Maybe even a month. 174 01:04:31,666 --> 01:04:34,458 So we said, we're gonna go back. 175 01:04:34,458 --> 01:04:35,708 So we ended up going back 176 01:04:35,708 --> 01:04:37,833 there two years after that 177 01:04:37,833 --> 01:04:39,708 and we went for two days? 178 01:04:40,833 --> 01:04:41,958 Yeah, two or three. 179 01:04:42,000 --> 01:04:42,625 Two or three days. 180 01:04:42,916 --> 01:04:43,500 It was two days. 181 01:04:43,500 --> 01:04:44,333 It was two days. 182 01:04:44,791 --> 01:04:46,666 Because we did one at Animal Kingdom 183 01:04:47,458 --> 01:04:50,000 so that we could do the one ride again. 184 01:04:50,333 --> 01:04:50,375 Avatar ride. 185 01:04:50,416 --> 01:04:51,708 Avatar ride, which I still 186 01:04:51,708 --> 01:04:52,833 think is my favorite ride. 187 01:04:52,875 --> 01:04:54,916 Oh my gosh, that ride is so cool. 188 01:04:54,916 --> 01:04:56,166 I love that ride. 189 01:04:56,208 --> 01:04:56,583 So cool. 190 01:04:56,916 --> 01:05:01,500 But we should clarify the VR Avatar ride. 191 01:05:01,500 --> 01:05:02,708 Not the one where you're 192 01:05:02,708 --> 01:05:03,416 floating on the laser beam. 193 01:05:03,500 --> 01:05:04,458 Yeah, the floaty lazy 194 01:05:04,458 --> 01:05:05,750 river one is terrible. 195 01:05:06,000 --> 01:05:07,166 No offense, Disney. 196 01:05:09,000 --> 01:05:10,416 Anyways, but yeah, the 197 01:05:10,416 --> 01:05:11,416 one where you're like, 198 01:05:11,500 --> 01:05:12,708 all five senses, 199 01:05:14,125 --> 01:05:15,166 you're sitting in the thing, 200 01:05:15,458 --> 01:05:16,500 you're almost riding a motorcycle, 201 01:05:16,500 --> 01:05:17,500 you're riding an avid, 202 01:05:17,500 --> 01:05:18,208 you're riding one of 203 01:05:18,208 --> 01:05:19,375 the dragons, supposedly. 204 01:05:19,750 --> 01:05:22,166 It actually gives you that drop. 205 01:05:22,791 --> 01:05:24,041 The first time, the 206 01:05:24,041 --> 01:05:24,916 second time not as much 207 01:05:24,916 --> 01:05:26,000 because I expected it, but 208 01:05:26,000 --> 01:05:26,916 the first time I was like, 209 01:05:26,916 --> 01:05:28,458 I got the feeling in my 210 01:05:28,458 --> 01:05:29,541 stomach, like I'm falling. 211 01:05:29,833 --> 01:05:30,000 Yeah. 212 01:05:30,583 --> 01:05:30,875 It's cool. 213 01:05:31,625 --> 01:05:33,083 And like the seat even moves, 214 01:05:33,083 --> 01:05:35,541 like the breathing of the, 215 01:05:35,541 --> 01:05:36,916 what are those things called? 216 01:05:36,916 --> 01:05:37,666 Oh, the banshees. 217 01:05:38,166 --> 01:05:38,958 The banshees. 218 01:05:38,958 --> 01:05:39,250 Yeah. 219 01:05:39,708 --> 01:05:42,000 Oh my gosh, that one is so cool. 220 01:05:42,041 --> 01:05:44,125 Yeah, so we did that one 221 01:05:44,125 --> 01:05:45,000 because it was such a great, 222 01:05:45,000 --> 01:05:46,875 cool, you know, Animal Kingdom's cool. 223 01:05:47,583 --> 01:05:48,833 And then we went to Star Wars. 224 01:05:49,041 --> 01:05:50,458 So we had one day in Star Wars 225 01:05:50,458 --> 01:05:51,750 and we tried to hit everything there. 226 01:05:51,750 --> 01:05:52,500 Probably should have 227 01:05:52,500 --> 01:05:53,500 done it over two days. 228 01:05:54,750 --> 01:05:54,958 Probably. 229 01:05:55,125 --> 01:05:56,958 I think we got a little tired, maybe. 230 01:05:57,291 --> 01:05:58,416 But that was perfect too, 231 01:05:58,791 --> 01:05:59,500 because it was kind of 232 01:05:59,500 --> 01:06:00,708 like this last little vacation 233 01:06:00,708 --> 01:06:01,958 that we had, this little getaway, 234 01:06:01,958 --> 01:06:02,958 because it was like, all 235 01:06:02,958 --> 01:06:04,416 right, two days hard, guys, 236 01:06:04,416 --> 01:06:05,791 at Disney and everybody 237 01:06:05,791 --> 01:06:07,000 that goes to Disney, you know, 238 01:06:07,291 --> 01:06:07,958 it's pretty hard. 239 01:06:07,958 --> 01:06:08,750 If you know, you know. 240 01:06:08,833 --> 01:06:09,666 If you know, you know. 241 01:06:09,666 --> 01:06:10,625 But that's what we always, 242 01:06:10,916 --> 01:06:12,291 I feel like we do that well with our, 243 01:06:12,291 --> 01:06:13,541 here's what we do with our vacations. 244 01:06:13,958 --> 01:06:14,625 I know this is a 245 01:06:14,625 --> 01:06:15,750 tangent of a tangent now, 246 01:06:16,375 --> 01:06:18,000 but we always, and the 247 01:06:18,000 --> 01:06:18,791 first time we went to Disney 248 01:06:18,916 --> 01:06:19,041 and we were with the 249 01:06:19,041 --> 01:06:21,541 kids, we would park one day. 250 01:06:21,791 --> 01:06:23,416 We do a park, hard, right? 251 01:06:23,583 --> 01:06:25,125 You're there at park 252 01:06:25,125 --> 01:06:26,625 opening and you close it down. 253 01:06:26,625 --> 01:06:27,791 Fireworks, you know, 254 01:06:27,791 --> 01:06:28,500 and then you head home. 255 01:06:28,500 --> 01:06:29,166 And then you head home. 256 01:06:29,166 --> 01:06:30,708 But the next day we 257 01:06:30,708 --> 01:06:32,208 went to the pool all day. 258 01:06:32,208 --> 01:06:33,750 Yeah, we just had a pool day. 259 01:06:34,000 --> 01:06:35,666 Yeah, which is the way to do it. 260 01:06:36,375 --> 01:06:37,375 Relax yourself, get 261 01:06:37,375 --> 01:06:38,583 yourself charged up for the next. 262 01:06:38,958 --> 01:06:39,166 Yep. 263 01:06:39,791 --> 01:06:40,541 Right, the next park day. 264 01:06:41,000 --> 01:06:42,333 That was exactly right. 265 01:06:42,333 --> 01:06:43,583 And you planned that. 266 01:06:43,583 --> 01:06:44,125 You're like, I think 267 01:06:44,125 --> 01:06:45,291 we're gonna like it this way, 268 01:06:45,291 --> 01:06:46,666 because you did all the, 269 01:06:46,833 --> 01:06:47,375 well, you do all the 270 01:06:47,375 --> 01:06:48,083 planning for all the trips. 271 01:06:49,833 --> 01:06:50,833 I wasn't looking for 272 01:06:50,833 --> 01:06:51,583 the pad on the back there. 273 01:06:51,583 --> 01:06:51,958 Thank you. 274 01:06:52,625 --> 01:06:53,250 More or less just 275 01:06:53,250 --> 01:06:54,708 pointing out that we've been lazy 276 01:06:54,708 --> 01:06:55,791 for a long time. 277 01:06:57,041 --> 01:06:57,666 No, no, no, no. 278 01:06:57,666 --> 01:06:58,041 We're gonna get the 279 01:06:58,041 --> 01:06:59,000 thing that I've been lazy 280 01:06:59,000 --> 01:07:00,291 while you plan our trips. 281 01:07:00,541 --> 01:07:00,916 No, no, no. 282 01:07:00,916 --> 01:07:01,833 And you do it so well, 283 01:07:01,833 --> 01:07:02,791 because it really was 284 01:07:02,791 --> 01:07:04,083 like the best balance, 285 01:07:04,083 --> 01:07:05,250 but we've replicated 286 01:07:05,250 --> 01:07:07,208 that outside of our trip 287 01:07:07,208 --> 01:07:08,166 to Europe this summer, 288 01:07:08,166 --> 01:07:09,750 which there really wasn't any, 289 01:07:10,833 --> 01:07:11,333 there wasn't really 290 01:07:11,333 --> 01:07:12,458 any downtime on that one. 291 01:07:13,041 --> 01:07:14,000 But now I'm gonna go 292 01:07:14,000 --> 01:07:15,000 back to the other tangent, 293 01:07:15,000 --> 01:07:15,666 the first tangent, 294 01:07:15,666 --> 01:07:16,541 because that's what we did 295 01:07:17,083 --> 01:07:18,875 two hardcore days at Disney, 296 01:07:18,875 --> 01:07:20,208 just to make sure we saw Star Wars, 297 01:07:20,208 --> 01:07:21,375 since we just missed it. 298 01:07:22,041 --> 01:07:23,500 Then we went over to 299 01:07:23,500 --> 01:07:25,416 the Bahamas in Atlantis 300 01:07:25,416 --> 01:07:26,083 and we stayed there 301 01:07:26,083 --> 01:07:29,291 for a week and relaxed. 302 01:07:29,958 --> 01:07:30,791 And that was perfect. 303 01:07:31,041 --> 01:07:31,708 I mean, I think we need to 304 01:07:31,708 --> 01:07:32,666 find more places like that, 305 01:07:32,666 --> 01:07:34,000 because the kids loved it. 306 01:07:34,250 --> 01:07:34,708 Loved it. 307 01:07:34,708 --> 01:07:35,833 There was stuff for them to do. 308 01:07:36,166 --> 01:07:37,208 We had already figured 309 01:07:37,208 --> 01:07:38,416 out the whole cabana thing 310 01:07:38,416 --> 01:07:39,416 by that point in time. 311 01:07:39,416 --> 01:07:41,666 So we had our own home base. 312 01:07:41,708 --> 01:07:41,916 Yup. 313 01:07:42,666 --> 01:07:44,041 And that was fantastic. 314 01:07:44,416 --> 01:07:45,375 So they could go, mom 315 01:07:45,375 --> 01:07:46,458 and dad were at the cabana. 316 01:07:46,916 --> 01:07:47,791 Yup, yeah. 317 01:07:48,125 --> 01:07:50,500 Well, and there's water slides there. 318 01:07:51,041 --> 01:07:51,791 Right, there's so much to do. 319 01:07:51,791 --> 01:07:52,250 There's great beaches. 320 01:07:52,250 --> 01:07:53,166 I mean, gosh, how long 321 01:07:53,166 --> 01:07:54,625 did you follow a sea turtle 322 01:07:54,625 --> 01:07:55,958 while you were just 323 01:07:55,958 --> 01:07:57,416 snorkeling right off one of the beaches 324 01:07:57,750 --> 01:07:58,375 with the kids? 325 01:07:58,625 --> 01:07:59,083 I mean, like-- 326 01:07:59,416 --> 01:07:59,750 So cool. 327 01:08:00,083 --> 01:08:02,500 It was, there was so much to do there, 328 01:08:02,500 --> 01:08:03,375 but yet you could either 329 01:08:03,375 --> 01:08:04,458 do a whole bunch of stuff 330 01:08:04,458 --> 01:08:05,166 or do nothing. 331 01:08:05,875 --> 01:08:06,500 And you would be 332 01:08:06,500 --> 01:08:07,708 perfectly happy either way. 333 01:08:07,791 --> 01:08:08,625 Yeah, but it was great. 334 01:08:09,041 --> 01:08:09,583 Now that the kids are a 335 01:08:09,583 --> 01:08:10,416 little bit older though too, 336 01:08:10,416 --> 01:08:11,208 it's even easier, 337 01:08:11,416 --> 01:08:12,916 because they don't necessarily want us. 338 01:08:13,875 --> 01:08:14,750 I think they want us to, 339 01:08:14,750 --> 01:08:15,666 but then it's like they're okay 340 01:08:15,958 --> 01:08:16,458 if we're not doing it 341 01:08:16,458 --> 01:08:17,083 every time with them 342 01:08:17,083 --> 01:08:18,791 to go like down the water slide or 343 01:08:18,791 --> 01:08:19,791 whatever it might be. 344 01:08:20,291 --> 01:08:22,958 You know, so that was fantastic. 345 01:08:23,750 --> 01:08:25,333 But all that to say, 346 01:08:25,333 --> 01:08:25,875 like we've kind of 347 01:08:25,875 --> 01:08:27,166 figured out this whole like, 348 01:08:27,375 --> 01:08:30,000 just rest, go hard. 349 01:08:30,000 --> 01:08:30,500 We did that in Costa 350 01:08:30,500 --> 01:08:31,541 Rica and most places, 351 01:08:31,541 --> 01:08:32,166 and you're right, when we 352 01:08:32,166 --> 01:08:33,458 went to Italy and Greece, 353 01:08:33,458 --> 01:08:34,666 there was none of that really. 354 01:08:35,125 --> 01:08:35,375 No. 355 01:08:35,416 --> 01:08:36,416 That was not a vacation, 356 01:08:36,583 --> 01:08:38,583 but that was an incredible getaway. 357 01:08:38,666 --> 01:08:39,583 It was incredible. 358 01:08:39,875 --> 01:08:41,208 So we were not gonna go into that again. 359 01:08:42,250 --> 01:08:43,500 But here's what I was gonna say. 360 01:08:43,583 --> 01:08:43,916 Yeah. 361 01:08:44,000 --> 01:08:45,541 And I've talked 90% of the time, 362 01:08:45,625 --> 01:08:46,791 so I'll stop so you can talk. 363 01:08:47,083 --> 01:08:49,125 But does that seem like 364 01:08:49,125 --> 01:08:50,583 it was a million years ago 365 01:08:50,791 --> 01:08:51,875 that we just had like a 366 01:08:51,875 --> 01:08:53,208 very relaxing two days? 367 01:08:53,833 --> 01:08:54,041 Yeah. 368 01:08:54,750 --> 01:08:55,541 I mean, I need to go back. 369 01:08:56,041 --> 01:08:56,541 I know. 370 01:08:57,333 --> 01:08:59,375 I feel like we, 371 01:09:00,708 --> 01:09:02,166 so we were raced into the 372 01:09:02,166 --> 01:09:04,208 finish line to even get there. 373 01:09:05,375 --> 01:09:07,625 And then we just, 374 01:09:09,166 --> 01:09:10,125 I don't know, skydived 375 01:09:10,125 --> 01:09:11,541 into then regular life 376 01:09:11,541 --> 01:09:12,375 when we got back. 377 01:09:13,000 --> 01:09:14,375 Yeah, with no parachute. 378 01:09:15,000 --> 01:09:15,958 We just jumped. 379 01:09:15,958 --> 01:09:18,666 We just head first straight down into it. 380 01:09:18,708 --> 01:09:19,875 Yeah, I mean, this is the 381 01:09:19,875 --> 01:09:22,416 first time that we've sat down. 382 01:09:22,833 --> 01:09:23,333 I was gonna say, we've 383 01:09:23,333 --> 01:09:24,500 sat together since then. 384 01:09:24,541 --> 01:09:24,833 Yeah. 385 01:09:24,875 --> 01:09:27,375 Yeah, we had, your parents were in town. 386 01:09:27,375 --> 01:09:27,583 Yep. 387 01:09:28,250 --> 01:09:31,666 And we had the actual homecoming 388 01:09:32,166 --> 01:09:34,000 other festivities this weekend. 389 01:09:34,000 --> 01:09:35,375 Actual, it was the actual dance. 390 01:09:35,416 --> 01:09:36,125 If you will. 391 01:09:37,416 --> 01:09:39,166 It was the date of the actual dance, 392 01:09:39,166 --> 01:09:40,791 is how I should phrase this. 393 01:09:40,791 --> 01:09:42,000 The homecoming dance, that's right. 394 01:09:42,125 --> 01:09:42,750 Homecoming dance. 395 01:09:43,708 --> 01:09:45,875 And we had everyone to our house 396 01:09:45,875 --> 01:09:46,583 because the pictures were 397 01:09:46,583 --> 01:09:47,583 being taken near our house. 398 01:09:47,583 --> 01:09:48,500 I mean, it's, everybody 399 01:09:48,500 --> 01:09:49,875 knows it's a big thing. 400 01:09:49,875 --> 01:09:52,541 You do your pictures, you, anyway. 401 01:09:53,791 --> 01:09:55,958 But I think what took us by surprise, 402 01:09:56,250 --> 01:09:57,750 given this is our first time through it, 403 01:09:58,666 --> 01:10:00,333 was that it may have been the night of 404 01:10:00,333 --> 01:10:01,291 the homecoming dance, 405 01:10:02,833 --> 01:10:04,541 but nobody goes to the dance. 406 01:10:05,958 --> 01:10:06,625 I say this because 407 01:10:06,625 --> 01:10:07,666 that's what we were told. 408 01:10:07,916 --> 01:10:09,333 Like, I don't get that. 409 01:10:09,416 --> 01:10:10,000 Quote unquote from 410 01:10:10,000 --> 01:10:11,416 sophomores, nobody goes to the dance. 411 01:10:11,666 --> 01:10:12,500 Nobody goes to the dance. 412 01:10:12,500 --> 01:10:14,666 Well, then apparently freshmen do. 413 01:10:14,916 --> 01:10:16,500 Yeah, well, and now I'm hearing 414 01:10:16,500 --> 01:10:17,708 it's actually freshmen and seniors. 415 01:10:19,125 --> 01:10:19,333 Oh. 416 01:10:19,666 --> 01:10:19,916 So. 417 01:10:20,583 --> 01:10:21,958 Then I heard someone say too, like, 418 01:10:21,958 --> 01:10:22,708 oh no, people will go 419 01:10:22,708 --> 01:10:23,916 over to take for 12 minutes. 420 01:10:24,208 --> 01:10:26,125 Not 13, but like 12 minutes. 421 01:10:26,458 --> 01:10:29,083 Yeah, well, 12 and a half, 13. 422 01:10:29,083 --> 01:10:30,166 I mean, that's just way too long. 423 01:10:31,291 --> 01:10:32,208 12 minutes max. 424 01:10:32,500 --> 01:10:33,750 So I'm like, let me just 425 01:10:33,750 --> 01:10:35,000 get this straight then. 426 01:10:36,250 --> 01:10:38,500 We're going out buying a brand new suit. 427 01:10:38,791 --> 01:10:39,541 She's going out and 428 01:10:39,541 --> 01:10:41,125 buying a brand new dress. 429 01:10:42,000 --> 01:10:43,458 You're doing all these stuff. 430 01:10:43,666 --> 01:10:44,708 You're going to dinner. 431 01:10:45,250 --> 01:10:46,500 Yeah, nails done. 432 01:10:46,583 --> 01:10:46,833 Nails. 433 01:10:46,875 --> 01:10:47,750 You're done. 434 01:10:47,750 --> 01:10:49,458 Yeah, all the homecoming stuff, 435 01:10:49,666 --> 01:10:52,000 but we're not actually doing homecoming. 436 01:10:52,291 --> 01:10:52,541 Yeah. 437 01:10:52,708 --> 01:10:53,791 So why are we going to homecoming? 438 01:10:53,791 --> 01:10:55,041 Why are we buying all this stuff? 439 01:10:55,208 --> 01:10:55,375 Right. 440 01:10:55,958 --> 01:10:56,833 Makes no sense to me. 441 01:10:56,833 --> 01:10:59,166 I mean, just like, I don't know. 442 01:10:59,208 --> 01:10:59,583 You're going out to 443 01:10:59,583 --> 01:11:00,416 eat and then coming over 444 01:11:00,416 --> 01:11:01,500 to our house for a party. 445 01:11:01,875 --> 01:11:02,708 That's exactly right. 446 01:11:02,708 --> 01:11:03,166 That's all you're doing. 447 01:11:04,166 --> 01:11:05,125 Why does everybody need 448 01:11:05,125 --> 01:11:07,708 to spend $400 on that? 449 01:11:08,083 --> 01:11:09,583 I don't understand this. 450 01:11:10,083 --> 01:11:14,166 And so I reached out to the other mom 451 01:11:14,166 --> 01:11:15,291 and I was like, so I 452 01:11:15,291 --> 01:11:16,208 hear these are our plans. 453 01:11:16,666 --> 01:11:17,458 The plan that I don't 454 01:11:17,458 --> 01:11:18,291 hear about is the dance 455 01:11:18,291 --> 01:11:19,791 because it's like we wanted to make sure 456 01:11:19,916 --> 01:11:23,208 that all parents were okay with the fact 457 01:11:23,208 --> 01:11:25,375 that there was no going to the dance. 458 01:11:26,541 --> 01:11:27,208 Turns out all parents 459 01:11:27,208 --> 01:11:27,750 were okay with that, 460 01:11:27,750 --> 01:11:29,375 but that's not just for our high school. 461 01:11:29,750 --> 01:11:31,708 That was, we then go to a 462 01:11:31,708 --> 01:11:32,833 soccer game the next day 463 01:11:33,416 --> 01:11:35,250 and other parents were talking about it 464 01:11:35,250 --> 01:11:37,541 and how nobody goes to the dance. 465 01:11:37,583 --> 01:11:38,208 I don't know if that's 466 01:11:38,208 --> 01:11:39,083 a Texas thing too or not 467 01:11:39,166 --> 01:11:40,375 because you're exactly right. 468 01:11:40,375 --> 01:11:41,541 Just to back up that just slightly, 469 01:11:42,375 --> 01:11:43,875 absolutely you and I are 470 01:11:43,875 --> 01:11:44,958 on the same page there too 471 01:11:45,208 --> 01:11:46,166 because I was like, can you 472 01:11:46,166 --> 01:11:49,541 just text our oldest son's mom, 473 01:11:50,333 --> 01:11:51,708 our oldest son's girlfriend's mom? 474 01:11:52,750 --> 01:11:54,041 Don't text yourself the way I said it. 475 01:11:54,958 --> 01:11:56,125 Just text yourself and 476 01:11:56,125 --> 01:11:57,625 check, check, and then 477 01:11:57,666 --> 01:11:58,708 chickadee check yourself. 478 01:11:58,708 --> 01:12:00,750 I'll be chickadee check myself. 479 01:12:03,875 --> 01:12:05,750 Yeah, you can chickadee check. 480 01:12:05,750 --> 01:12:06,958 You can chickadee check yourself? 481 01:12:07,000 --> 01:12:08,125 Yeah, microphone check one. 482 01:12:09,083 --> 01:12:10,041 Microphone check two. 483 01:12:10,083 --> 01:12:11,791 Check two, check check. 484 01:12:12,000 --> 01:12:13,375 People that know know, okay, 485 01:12:13,375 --> 01:12:14,250 but we're gonna go back to the story. 486 01:12:16,666 --> 01:12:18,541 Because it's our son and 487 01:12:18,541 --> 01:12:20,791 you want him to be chivalrous. 488 01:12:21,125 --> 01:12:21,375 Yes. 489 01:12:21,625 --> 01:12:21,875 Right? 490 01:12:22,333 --> 01:12:22,666 Yes. 491 01:12:22,791 --> 01:12:23,333 Chivalrous? 492 01:12:23,333 --> 01:12:24,041 Chivalrous. 493 01:12:24,041 --> 01:12:25,500 Yeah, I thought it, I could see it. 494 01:12:25,833 --> 01:12:27,208 Chivalrous, you want him 495 01:12:27,208 --> 01:12:29,208 to be chivalrous, right? 496 01:12:29,208 --> 01:12:30,041 And be a gentleman. 497 01:12:31,000 --> 01:12:32,000 And I didn't want it 498 01:12:32,000 --> 01:12:32,958 happening at their house 499 01:12:32,958 --> 01:12:33,791 that they're like, well, 500 01:12:35,083 --> 01:12:36,875 your boyfriend doesn't want 501 01:12:36,875 --> 01:12:37,791 to go to the dance. 502 01:12:37,833 --> 01:12:39,208 Why is he not taking you to the dance? 503 01:12:39,333 --> 01:12:40,708 He should take you to the dance. 504 01:12:40,750 --> 01:12:41,000 Right. 505 01:12:41,208 --> 01:12:42,875 You know, happening on both sides. 506 01:12:43,333 --> 01:12:44,333 We were definitely on 507 01:12:44,333 --> 01:12:45,291 the same page saying that. 508 01:12:45,583 --> 01:12:47,166 But then, and all the parents 509 01:12:47,166 --> 01:12:48,500 were like, what is going on? 510 01:12:48,541 --> 01:12:50,125 Yes, we all thought this was strange. 511 01:12:50,583 --> 01:12:52,625 Because for pictures, 512 01:12:52,625 --> 01:12:53,583 everybody came to our house. 513 01:12:54,041 --> 01:12:54,333 Because there was a 514 01:12:54,333 --> 01:12:55,291 little pond in the neighborhood 515 01:12:55,291 --> 01:12:56,291 near us that we went down 516 01:12:56,291 --> 01:12:57,333 to, it was really pretty. 517 01:12:58,000 --> 01:12:58,875 It was fun for the kids, 518 01:12:59,250 --> 01:13:00,375 great pictures and stuff. 519 01:13:00,958 --> 01:13:01,875 But every one of them was, 520 01:13:02,041 --> 01:13:03,458 we all were all kind of still 521 01:13:03,750 --> 01:13:04,750 touching base with each other. 522 01:13:04,750 --> 01:13:05,416 Are you sure? 523 01:13:05,416 --> 01:13:06,500 This is weird, right? 524 01:13:06,750 --> 01:13:07,375 No dance? 525 01:13:08,375 --> 01:13:10,458 I know, we all thought this was weird. 526 01:13:10,500 --> 01:13:11,375 Yeah, yeah. 527 01:13:12,291 --> 01:13:13,416 And then, lo and 528 01:13:13,416 --> 01:13:15,041 behold, the next day we go 529 01:13:15,041 --> 01:13:16,750 to a soccer game and 530 01:13:16,750 --> 01:13:18,583 all over the Metroplex, 531 01:13:18,583 --> 01:13:18,958 they're like, yeah, 532 01:13:18,958 --> 01:13:19,833 my kid's at homecoming. 533 01:13:19,833 --> 01:13:20,958 We're like, oh, did they go to the dance? 534 01:13:20,958 --> 01:13:22,500 No, no one goes to the dance. 535 01:13:22,500 --> 01:13:23,000 I mean, we're here. 536 01:13:23,000 --> 01:13:24,375 No one goes to the dance. 537 01:13:24,875 --> 01:13:25,458 For you one. 538 01:13:26,000 --> 01:13:27,250 Yeah, is that a Texas thing? 539 01:13:27,250 --> 01:13:28,916 Maybe it's a Texas thing, I have no idea. 540 01:13:29,208 --> 01:13:31,291 I don't know, mums and no dance? 541 01:13:31,583 --> 01:13:32,500 Mums and no dance. 542 01:13:33,000 --> 01:13:34,333 I don't know, I don't know. 543 01:13:34,375 --> 01:13:37,458 Because this really did make me feel 544 01:13:37,458 --> 01:13:39,333 a little old fashioned. 545 01:13:40,041 --> 01:13:40,916 It did. At least. 546 01:13:41,250 --> 01:13:41,541 It did. 547 01:13:42,125 --> 01:13:42,208 Right? 548 01:13:42,541 --> 01:13:42,958 It did. 549 01:13:43,875 --> 01:13:45,208 Back in my day, we went 550 01:13:45,208 --> 01:13:46,333 to the homecoming dance 551 01:13:46,333 --> 01:13:47,000 and danced. 552 01:13:47,541 --> 01:13:50,041 Well, yeah, and I 553 01:13:50,041 --> 01:13:51,875 would think that in Texas, 554 01:13:52,208 --> 01:13:52,833 they would want to go, 555 01:13:52,833 --> 01:13:54,000 like that of all places 556 01:13:54,000 --> 01:13:55,041 seems like the place where 557 01:13:55,041 --> 01:13:56,666 you'd want to have a dance. 558 01:13:57,750 --> 01:13:58,500 I don't know, because I 559 01:13:58,500 --> 01:13:59,666 think about line dancing. 560 01:13:59,666 --> 01:14:00,333 There's a lot of that 561 01:14:00,333 --> 01:14:01,208 here, you know, like. 562 01:14:01,583 --> 01:14:02,750 Mm, mm. 563 01:14:03,333 --> 01:14:05,000 I don't know, I don't know. 564 01:14:05,791 --> 01:14:06,708 Maybe it's because 565 01:14:06,708 --> 01:14:07,875 they don't have, I mean, 566 01:14:07,875 --> 01:14:08,583 I think of all the 567 01:14:08,583 --> 01:14:11,208 awesome songs that we danced to 568 01:14:11,541 --> 01:14:12,666 in the 80s and early 569 01:14:12,666 --> 01:14:13,875 90s when we were going 570 01:14:13,875 --> 01:14:14,583 to school dances. 571 01:14:15,416 --> 01:14:16,958 So many, that was like the era, 572 01:14:17,458 --> 01:14:19,500 and here's a good tangent for you. 573 01:14:19,541 --> 01:14:19,833 Okay. 574 01:14:20,500 --> 01:14:21,000 Everybody remembers 575 01:14:21,000 --> 01:14:23,166 watching on, you know, 576 01:14:23,458 --> 01:14:24,625 it was probably later at 577 01:14:24,625 --> 01:14:25,916 night or maybe during the day 578 01:14:25,916 --> 01:14:27,000 or whatnot, but you 579 01:14:27,000 --> 01:14:28,791 remember when they would like 580 01:14:29,625 --> 01:14:32,041 advertise on television 581 01:14:32,041 --> 01:14:37,208 sets of CDs that were, 582 01:14:38,083 --> 01:14:38,708 the one I'm talking 583 01:14:38,708 --> 01:14:39,791 about is like the love one. 584 01:14:39,791 --> 01:14:40,750 It's Reflections of Love. 585 01:14:40,750 --> 01:14:41,833 It's Reflections of Love. 586 01:14:41,833 --> 01:14:42,750 And Body Language. 587 01:14:43,125 --> 01:14:44,458 Oh yeah, oh Body Talk. 588 01:14:44,500 --> 01:14:45,166 Body Talk. 589 01:14:45,833 --> 01:14:46,791 Oh, I remember Body Talk. 590 01:14:46,833 --> 01:14:49,958 So because there were so many great, 591 01:14:50,666 --> 01:14:51,666 I should go get those CD 592 01:14:51,666 --> 01:14:53,208 backs and just read them off. 593 01:14:53,625 --> 01:14:54,666 I've been listening to it lately. 594 01:14:54,666 --> 01:14:55,333 I've been in the mood, 595 01:14:55,333 --> 01:14:56,333 it's on one of my playlists. 596 01:14:56,333 --> 01:14:57,541 It's my love song playlist. 597 01:14:57,583 --> 01:14:58,708 I have been hearing it 598 01:14:58,708 --> 01:14:59,833 while you've been in the shower. 599 01:15:00,541 --> 01:15:01,916 Oh my goodness, yeah, 600 01:15:01,916 --> 01:15:03,125 there's been a lot of it lately. 601 01:15:03,125 --> 01:15:04,333 And some of those are a little bit older, 602 01:15:04,333 --> 01:15:05,375 but like Die in Your 603 01:15:05,375 --> 01:15:07,125 Arms Tonight, I mean, 604 01:15:07,500 --> 01:15:08,416 there's just so many. 605 01:15:08,625 --> 01:15:09,791 You go through Phil 606 01:15:09,791 --> 01:15:12,041 Collins, Genesis, Whitney Houston. 607 01:15:12,041 --> 01:15:15,041 I mean, you just, classics, classic songs 608 01:15:15,041 --> 01:15:16,083 from that time period, 609 01:15:16,541 --> 01:15:18,375 which meant we had lots 610 01:15:18,375 --> 01:15:20,041 of great love songs 611 01:15:20,041 --> 01:15:21,125 because ultimately, right? 612 01:15:21,375 --> 01:15:23,791 I mean, like you may not remember 613 01:15:23,791 --> 01:15:25,458 because you went to the 614 01:15:25,458 --> 01:15:26,208 dance with your friends though, 615 01:15:26,291 --> 01:15:27,250 but I mean, did you 616 01:15:27,250 --> 01:15:28,166 guys go out and dance? 617 01:15:28,791 --> 01:15:30,750 So my experience would 618 01:15:30,750 --> 01:15:31,541 have been totally different 619 01:15:31,541 --> 01:15:32,416 because the only 620 01:15:32,416 --> 01:15:33,416 dances I went to were ones 621 01:15:33,416 --> 01:15:34,833 that I literally had to 622 01:15:34,833 --> 01:15:37,166 work at because when I was one 623 01:15:37,166 --> 01:15:37,875 of the people on the 624 01:15:37,875 --> 01:15:39,083 committee hosting it, 625 01:15:40,708 --> 01:15:42,000 I had to work it. 626 01:15:42,750 --> 01:15:43,875 So did you get-- 627 01:15:44,291 --> 01:15:46,000 Now that's not like a Ru Paul work it. 628 01:15:46,000 --> 01:15:47,000 You weren't working. 629 01:15:47,000 --> 01:15:49,833 I wasn't at work, no, I actually was. 630 01:15:50,625 --> 01:15:51,500 And I'll give you a little, 631 01:15:51,666 --> 01:15:53,375 this is now a tangent to another tangent. 632 01:15:53,708 --> 01:15:54,583 So we had what was 633 01:15:54,583 --> 01:15:55,750 called the Sadie Hawkins dance 634 01:15:56,000 --> 01:15:57,000 and that's where it's 635 01:15:57,000 --> 01:15:58,416 called different things all over, 636 01:15:58,416 --> 01:16:00,000 but it's where the girls ask the guys. 637 01:16:01,458 --> 01:16:03,000 And it's, I have no idea 638 01:16:03,000 --> 01:16:05,041 the Genesis of Sadie Hawkins, 639 01:16:05,041 --> 01:16:05,916 who this girl was or 640 01:16:05,916 --> 01:16:07,500 whatever, but it's more of like a 641 01:16:07,791 --> 01:16:08,083 country. 642 01:16:08,500 --> 01:16:10,416 It was called Morp, where I'm from. 643 01:16:10,583 --> 01:16:11,166 Yes, yes. 644 01:16:11,500 --> 01:16:11,750 It's opposite prom. 645 01:16:12,166 --> 01:16:13,375 Yes, I've heard that, 646 01:16:13,375 --> 01:16:14,333 yes, okay, thank you. 647 01:16:15,833 --> 01:16:17,916 But at this dance, there 648 01:16:17,916 --> 01:16:19,666 was, you put together this jail. 649 01:16:20,250 --> 01:16:22,666 And so if the couple isn't holding hands, 650 01:16:23,250 --> 01:16:24,166 then you have to put 651 01:16:24,166 --> 01:16:26,125 the guy goes into jail. 652 01:16:26,958 --> 01:16:28,333 And to get him out, you 653 01:16:28,333 --> 01:16:29,625 have to either give him a kiss 654 01:16:29,833 --> 01:16:31,083 or you have to pay. 655 01:16:31,875 --> 01:16:35,666 So you were either working to find people 656 01:16:35,666 --> 01:16:37,083 who weren't paired up on the dance floor, 657 01:16:37,083 --> 01:16:37,500 it was different, you 658 01:16:37,500 --> 01:16:38,208 didn't have to hold hands 659 01:16:38,208 --> 01:16:39,125 on the dance floor, but if you were 660 01:16:39,125 --> 01:16:40,166 walking around the dance, 661 01:16:40,500 --> 01:16:41,500 you had to hold hands. 662 01:16:41,500 --> 01:16:43,916 Was it normal to encourage PDA, 663 01:16:44,291 --> 01:16:45,333 think about the Grease movie, 664 01:16:45,333 --> 01:16:46,166 here's a tangent to your 665 01:16:46,166 --> 01:16:47,083 tangent of the tangent. 666 01:16:47,291 --> 01:16:48,000 But Grease movie, 667 01:16:48,208 --> 01:16:49,333 there was kissing booths. 668 01:16:49,875 --> 01:16:50,125 Yeah. 669 01:16:50,666 --> 01:16:51,833 You know, you weren't how 670 01:16:51,833 --> 01:16:52,833 herpes of the mouth spreads. 671 01:16:53,333 --> 01:16:54,250 That's how it happened. 672 01:16:54,250 --> 01:16:54,875 That's how it happened. 673 01:16:54,916 --> 01:16:55,916 Anyways, back to yours. 674 01:16:56,208 --> 01:16:58,291 Well, I think usually it was more like, 675 01:16:58,625 --> 01:16:59,500 you give him a kiss on 676 01:16:59,500 --> 01:17:01,000 the cheek, was more or less. 677 01:17:01,583 --> 01:17:04,375 But then we also had a chapel that you 678 01:17:04,375 --> 01:17:05,666 could get married in. 679 01:17:06,166 --> 01:17:08,791 And so I was either 680 01:17:08,791 --> 01:17:12,208 arresting people or marrying people. 681 01:17:12,625 --> 01:17:13,291 I was either a policeman 682 01:17:13,291 --> 01:17:15,041 or a priest, I was both. 683 01:17:15,958 --> 01:17:18,750 Wow, there's a lot to unpack at your, 684 01:17:19,708 --> 01:17:20,666 this backwards dance 685 01:17:20,666 --> 01:17:21,708 of yours, Sadie Hawkins. 686 01:17:22,291 --> 01:17:24,083 It was a lot of fun, and that's why 687 01:17:24,083 --> 01:17:24,958 people like to do it. 688 01:17:24,958 --> 01:17:25,666 Cause there were all these 689 01:17:25,666 --> 01:17:26,833 just kind of like fun things 690 01:17:26,833 --> 01:17:28,333 to do at the dance. 691 01:17:29,500 --> 01:17:32,458 And so I had to... 692 01:17:32,541 --> 01:17:34,041 School sponsored make out sessions, 693 01:17:34,250 --> 01:17:35,375 is what it sounds like to me. 694 01:17:36,750 --> 01:17:37,083 I guess. 695 01:17:37,708 --> 01:17:37,916 Yeah. 696 01:17:38,250 --> 01:17:40,000 I don't know, I never had a date. 697 01:17:40,291 --> 01:17:43,500 So I was always too busy working it. 698 01:17:44,000 --> 01:17:44,833 Yeah, did you guys 699 01:17:44,833 --> 01:17:45,708 play spin the bottle tool? 700 01:17:45,958 --> 01:17:47,000 Or maybe it was like, 701 01:17:47,000 --> 01:17:48,166 hey, you get five minutes 702 01:17:48,166 --> 01:17:48,708 in the closet. 703 01:17:50,666 --> 01:17:52,208 Yeah, no, no, no, no, no. 704 01:17:52,708 --> 01:17:53,708 For the record, there 705 01:17:53,708 --> 01:17:55,166 were parent chaperones. 706 01:17:55,833 --> 01:17:55,875 Yeah. 707 01:17:56,458 --> 01:17:59,666 And so, if you couldn't do 708 01:17:59,666 --> 01:18:00,791 it in front of your parents, 709 01:18:00,791 --> 01:18:01,958 you shouldn't be doing it. 710 01:18:01,958 --> 01:18:04,000 I just want to go out there and say that. 711 01:18:05,291 --> 01:18:07,916 There was a parent or a teacher chaperone 712 01:18:07,916 --> 01:18:09,500 right at the gate of the jail. 713 01:18:09,833 --> 01:18:12,041 So like, it was like a very 714 01:18:12,041 --> 01:18:14,000 G rated peck on the cheek. 715 01:18:14,500 --> 01:18:15,083 So I was just thinking, 716 01:18:15,291 --> 01:18:16,791 I was just trying to think back to my 717 01:18:16,791 --> 01:18:18,375 homecomings and proms. 718 01:18:18,416 --> 01:18:20,500 And it was like, I don't, 719 01:18:20,500 --> 01:18:22,416 we went to all the dances for sure. 720 01:18:22,833 --> 01:18:24,041 But I don't remember 721 01:18:24,041 --> 01:18:25,833 the dances being like, 722 01:18:27,208 --> 01:18:27,958 clearly they weren't like 723 01:18:27,958 --> 01:18:29,208 Grease dances or like any, 724 01:18:29,416 --> 01:18:30,083 there's no high school 725 01:18:30,083 --> 01:18:31,291 musical happening in real life. 726 01:18:31,291 --> 01:18:32,458 At least where I grew up, right? 727 01:18:32,458 --> 01:18:33,333 I mean, the dance floor was 728 01:18:33,333 --> 01:18:35,458 not full most of the time. 729 01:18:36,125 --> 01:18:38,666 Maybe, you know, the really outgoing kids 730 01:18:38,666 --> 01:18:40,750 were doing the worm or something goofy. 731 01:18:41,125 --> 01:18:41,791 Maybe, yeah. 732 01:18:41,958 --> 01:18:42,583 You know? 733 01:18:43,125 --> 01:18:44,208 But the only time 734 01:18:44,208 --> 01:18:45,083 people ever got out there 735 01:18:45,083 --> 01:18:47,291 was to slow dance, right? 736 01:18:47,791 --> 01:18:48,166 And then so 737 01:18:48,166 --> 01:18:49,250 everybody's just doing the rock, 738 01:18:49,583 --> 01:18:51,166 the two step rock or 739 01:18:51,166 --> 01:18:52,500 whatever you call it, you know? 740 01:18:52,958 --> 01:18:53,875 So my whole point to 741 01:18:53,875 --> 01:18:54,958 that whole thing was, 742 01:18:55,416 --> 01:18:57,166 they don't have any love songs these days 743 01:18:57,166 --> 01:18:58,000 that I'm aware of, 744 01:18:58,125 --> 01:18:59,250 other than like maybe 745 01:18:59,250 --> 01:19:00,208 some Taylor Swift songs. 746 01:19:00,916 --> 01:19:01,291 Yeah. 747 01:19:01,333 --> 01:19:02,750 So I mean, like there's no, you know, 748 01:19:02,750 --> 01:19:03,791 that's the only time 749 01:19:03,791 --> 01:19:04,958 people got onto the dance floors 750 01:19:04,958 --> 01:19:05,708 when I was there. 751 01:19:06,166 --> 01:19:07,375 Was with the love songs. 752 01:19:07,416 --> 01:19:08,291 Was with the love song. 753 01:19:08,583 --> 01:19:09,291 And they don't have 754 01:19:09,291 --> 01:19:10,166 those kind of, you know, 755 01:19:10,166 --> 01:19:11,541 Phil Collins hasn't made a 756 01:19:11,541 --> 01:19:13,625 new song in a while, you know? 757 01:19:15,166 --> 01:19:15,458 Yeah. 758 01:19:15,833 --> 01:19:17,208 His true colors haven't shown 759 01:19:17,375 --> 01:19:18,583 in quite some time. 760 01:19:18,625 --> 01:19:19,583 Oh, that was well done. 761 01:19:19,791 --> 01:19:20,750 I was actually trying to 762 01:19:20,750 --> 01:19:22,333 find one to fit in there. 763 01:19:22,333 --> 01:19:23,750 I'm actually kind of excited that I 764 01:19:23,750 --> 01:19:24,791 worked that in there. 765 01:19:25,750 --> 01:19:27,125 That was good, that was good. 766 01:19:28,000 --> 01:19:29,583 Yeah, but I feel one 767 01:19:29,583 --> 01:19:30,708 coming in the air tonight, 768 01:19:30,708 --> 01:19:31,208 but that's okay. 769 01:19:31,625 --> 01:19:33,000 I mean, we could go on with Phil Collins. 770 01:19:33,125 --> 01:19:34,750 Apparently you could, I can't apparently. 771 01:19:36,500 --> 01:19:38,250 I can see his CD cover in 772 01:19:38,250 --> 01:19:39,083 my head of his greatest hits 773 01:19:39,083 --> 01:19:40,833 and all that, like Sousa Studio and all 774 01:19:40,833 --> 01:19:41,291 those kind of things. 775 01:19:41,291 --> 01:19:41,833 But I was trying to find 776 01:19:41,833 --> 01:19:42,875 the light in the air tonight. 777 01:19:42,875 --> 01:19:43,833 Yeah, yeah, you got it. 778 01:19:44,083 --> 01:19:45,041 Anyways, so that's 779 01:19:45,041 --> 01:19:45,791 where I was going with that 780 01:19:45,916 --> 01:19:46,750 is maybe there's just, 781 01:19:47,250 --> 01:19:49,541 their music today is not, 782 01:19:51,208 --> 01:19:53,416 you know, like Golden's huge right now. 783 01:19:53,416 --> 01:19:53,916 Like they're all, 784 01:19:53,916 --> 01:19:55,791 everything's like a party song. 785 01:19:55,791 --> 01:19:57,083 It is, yeah, yeah. 786 01:19:57,625 --> 01:19:59,125 Although we did have quite 787 01:19:59,125 --> 01:20:02,041 a few non-love songs, like. 788 01:20:02,083 --> 01:20:03,208 Oh, they did, they played those, 789 01:20:03,208 --> 01:20:04,625 but nobody danced to those. 790 01:20:04,666 --> 01:20:04,916 Yeah. 791 01:20:05,208 --> 01:20:07,208 You know, nobody's doing the Roger Rabbit 792 01:20:07,541 --> 01:20:10,208 or, you know, the Running Man, you know. 793 01:20:11,166 --> 01:20:11,875 Unless you're in like a 794 01:20:11,875 --> 01:20:13,291 Bobby Brown video or something 795 01:20:13,291 --> 01:20:14,458 like that, maybe you are. 796 01:20:14,666 --> 01:20:14,916 Both played. 797 01:20:15,583 --> 01:20:17,000 Both played, was Bobby Brown on any 798 01:20:17,000 --> 01:20:18,125 of those body talk CDs? 799 01:20:19,625 --> 01:20:20,708 I don't know, you know, 800 01:20:21,166 --> 01:20:22,125 every little step he took. 801 01:20:23,208 --> 01:20:25,541 I don't know, we should do a 802 01:20:25,541 --> 01:20:26,666 whole thing of that, you know. 803 01:20:26,958 --> 01:20:27,333 I mean, it's my 804 01:20:27,333 --> 01:20:28,458 prerogative, I can do what I want. 805 01:20:30,583 --> 01:20:33,458 Oh my gosh, that was pretty funny. 806 01:20:33,833 --> 01:20:35,166 That's really bad, so anyway. 807 01:20:35,833 --> 01:20:37,375 So I guess we're getting, 808 01:20:37,625 --> 01:20:38,541 we're kind of tying the, 809 01:20:38,833 --> 01:20:39,500 you know, coming around 810 01:20:39,500 --> 01:20:40,833 with tying it up with Hoko. 811 01:20:41,500 --> 01:20:42,083 But it was really cute 812 01:20:42,083 --> 01:20:43,750 to see them and, you know, 813 01:20:44,416 --> 01:20:45,833 even I, it was so funny 814 01:20:45,833 --> 01:20:47,000 because I made a little 815 01:20:48,333 --> 01:20:50,791 Instagram reel of our oldest. 816 01:20:51,958 --> 01:20:53,625 And I literally, it was so funny because 817 01:20:53,625 --> 01:20:54,958 I had just posted it. 818 01:20:55,250 --> 01:20:57,250 In like, within 10 seconds you called me. 819 01:20:58,833 --> 01:20:59,958 And you called, why? 820 01:21:00,666 --> 01:21:03,625 And I called because it made me, 821 01:21:04,208 --> 01:21:04,916 like I just started 822 01:21:04,916 --> 01:21:06,166 crying when I watched it. 823 01:21:06,583 --> 01:21:09,541 I just, I think at the 824 01:21:09,541 --> 01:21:11,541 time, so it was so busy, right? 825 01:21:12,041 --> 01:21:13,750 We had, and I think we 826 01:21:13,750 --> 01:21:15,041 were so focused on all, 827 01:21:15,041 --> 01:21:16,208 or at least I was so 828 01:21:16,208 --> 01:21:18,083 focused on the things that needed 829 01:21:18,083 --> 01:21:19,000 to be done that day. 830 01:21:19,000 --> 01:21:19,875 And I enjoyed the 831 01:21:19,875 --> 01:21:21,541 moment while we were there, 832 01:21:21,583 --> 01:21:22,791 taking pictures, it was 833 01:21:22,791 --> 01:21:24,458 gorgeous and all of that. 834 01:21:25,500 --> 01:21:31,083 But what I didn't really let sink in was 835 01:21:31,083 --> 01:21:32,541 the passage of time. 836 01:21:34,000 --> 01:21:37,000 And seeing the reel and 837 01:21:37,000 --> 01:21:38,958 seeing pictures from like a, 838 01:21:39,791 --> 01:21:41,541 out of that moment perspective. 839 01:21:43,125 --> 01:21:44,291 And I saw a young man. 840 01:21:44,791 --> 01:21:45,750 Yeah, big time. 841 01:21:46,000 --> 01:21:47,166 And that was all I saw. 842 01:21:48,208 --> 01:21:52,208 There was not the little boy anymore 843 01:21:52,416 --> 01:21:53,500 in any of those pictures. 844 01:21:54,583 --> 01:21:55,625 And even still it's 845 01:21:55,625 --> 01:21:56,666 hitting me really hard. 846 01:21:56,958 --> 01:21:58,791 It hit me like a ton of bricks. 847 01:22:00,250 --> 01:22:01,000 And it was like, I 848 01:22:01,000 --> 01:22:02,333 never let it sink in that, 849 01:22:02,333 --> 01:22:04,500 I mean, this is, this is 850 01:22:04,500 --> 01:22:06,041 his, this isn't his childhood 851 01:22:06,250 --> 01:22:08,958 anymore, this is him growing up. 852 01:22:09,000 --> 01:22:10,708 Oh yeah, he's a, yeah, 853 01:22:10,958 --> 01:22:12,000 sophomore, you're right. 854 01:22:12,000 --> 01:22:15,000 I mean, a sophomore, I told all our kids, 855 01:22:15,208 --> 01:22:16,166 sixth grade was kind of 856 01:22:16,166 --> 01:22:17,750 the first time I realized, 857 01:22:18,666 --> 01:22:19,833 kind of a person now. 858 01:22:20,333 --> 01:22:22,583 I remember, it was kind of mostly me, 859 01:22:23,166 --> 01:22:24,916 it's most infantile point, right? 860 01:22:25,416 --> 01:22:28,166 But I was mostly me in sixth grade. 861 01:22:28,166 --> 01:22:28,750 I kind of remember 862 01:22:28,750 --> 01:22:29,875 that, coming to that one, 863 01:22:29,875 --> 01:22:31,833 and I grew and all that 864 01:22:31,833 --> 01:22:32,666 stuff since then, similar. 865 01:22:33,000 --> 01:22:33,833 I don't know what your 866 01:22:33,833 --> 01:22:35,083 age group was for that, 867 01:22:35,250 --> 01:22:36,500 but for sure by sophomore 868 01:22:36,500 --> 01:22:37,250 year, I mean, they're there. 869 01:22:37,291 --> 01:22:39,916 I mean, he's doing his life. 870 01:22:40,250 --> 01:22:40,541 Yeah. 871 01:22:40,791 --> 01:22:42,333 You know, and you scared me 872 01:22:42,333 --> 01:22:43,208 when you called me though, 873 01:22:43,208 --> 01:22:43,666 because I had just 874 01:22:43,666 --> 01:22:44,458 put it up and I'm like, 875 01:22:44,458 --> 01:22:45,125 oh shoot, did I just 876 01:22:45,125 --> 01:22:46,000 post something wrong? 877 01:22:46,750 --> 01:22:47,583 Did I put a picture on 878 01:22:47,583 --> 01:22:48,500 there I shouldn't have, 879 01:22:48,500 --> 01:22:49,333 or did I mess up? 880 01:22:50,125 --> 01:22:52,083 But after you said that, I rewatched it 881 01:22:52,083 --> 01:22:53,041 in the exact same 882 01:22:53,041 --> 01:22:54,541 thing, like tears to my eyes, 883 01:22:54,541 --> 01:22:55,250 because when I put 884 01:22:55,250 --> 01:22:56,416 them up, it's almost like, 885 01:22:57,000 --> 01:22:58,625 everybody else has already done it, 886 01:22:59,041 --> 01:23:00,416 I'm two days behind, I 887 01:23:00,416 --> 01:23:01,583 just got to get this thing up. 888 01:23:02,458 --> 01:23:05,000 And of course, I chose an old song, 889 01:23:05,000 --> 01:23:06,208 Forever Young by Rod Stewart, 890 01:23:06,541 --> 01:23:08,500 which all those old songs, they tear, 891 01:23:08,833 --> 01:23:09,916 they just tug at my heart, 892 01:23:10,541 --> 01:23:11,333 strings and stuff like that, 893 01:23:11,333 --> 01:23:12,125 and you watch it and 894 01:23:12,125 --> 01:23:13,208 listen to it and take it all in, 895 01:23:13,458 --> 01:23:14,333 yeah, it was just like, 896 01:23:14,333 --> 01:23:16,333 he's growing into a young man. 897 01:23:17,166 --> 01:23:18,041 And what I love about it is 898 01:23:18,041 --> 01:23:19,041 that there's pictures in there 899 01:23:19,125 --> 01:23:22,125 that he's showing his, 900 01:23:25,250 --> 01:23:27,833 he's got real smiles in there, 901 01:23:27,833 --> 01:23:30,333 he's got real laughs with his friends. 902 01:23:30,583 --> 01:23:30,791 Yep. 903 01:23:31,291 --> 01:23:33,916 It wasn't because dad was being goofy, 904 01:23:33,916 --> 01:23:35,458 it wasn't because mom told a funny joke 905 01:23:35,458 --> 01:23:36,000 or anything like that, 906 01:23:36,916 --> 01:23:37,375 it was because he was 907 01:23:37,375 --> 01:23:38,500 enjoying the time with his friends. 908 01:23:39,625 --> 01:23:40,750 And we were just-- 909 01:23:40,958 --> 01:23:41,375 Bystanders. 910 01:23:41,750 --> 01:23:42,375 Bystanders in it. 911 01:23:43,166 --> 01:23:44,041 Which takes me to that 912 01:23:44,041 --> 01:23:46,375 reel that I saw last night. 913 01:23:46,875 --> 01:23:47,583 Oh gosh. 914 01:23:47,625 --> 01:23:50,250 That was said, you, we 915 01:23:50,250 --> 01:23:51,500 raise, what did it say, 916 01:23:51,500 --> 01:23:51,875 do you remember? 917 01:23:52,208 --> 01:23:53,291 We raise the people 918 01:23:53,291 --> 01:23:54,750 that we can't live without, 919 01:23:55,625 --> 01:23:56,541 to live without us. 920 01:23:56,791 --> 01:23:58,000 That's right, we raise the 921 01:23:58,000 --> 01:23:59,041 people that we can't live 922 01:23:59,166 --> 01:24:00,291 without, so that they 923 01:24:00,291 --> 01:24:01,208 can live without us. 924 01:24:02,208 --> 01:24:03,375 Yeah, and I was just like, 925 01:24:03,375 --> 01:24:05,708 yeah, this is where we're at. 926 01:24:06,416 --> 01:24:09,791 And it was crazy, I didn't 927 01:24:09,791 --> 01:24:11,333 even, I mean, it was fun, 928 01:24:11,541 --> 01:24:13,541 and it was exciting on 929 01:24:13,541 --> 01:24:15,208 Saturday when all this was happening, 930 01:24:15,750 --> 01:24:17,583 but that emotion didn't hit 931 01:24:17,583 --> 01:24:19,291 me until I took a step back. 932 01:24:20,083 --> 01:24:24,000 And I saw it so plainly that here we are, 933 01:24:24,916 --> 01:24:27,125 just taking pictures of his life. 934 01:24:28,333 --> 01:24:30,125 Like we were just the bystanders there. 935 01:24:31,000 --> 01:24:33,041 And it was okay, it's not like we're, 936 01:24:33,875 --> 01:24:35,250 you're mad, but it's 937 01:24:35,250 --> 01:24:36,333 a natural transition, 938 01:24:36,333 --> 01:24:39,333 but it just hit me like a ton of bricks. 939 01:24:39,333 --> 01:24:39,833 Did I talk about that 940 01:24:39,833 --> 01:24:40,833 last week on the show, 941 01:24:40,833 --> 01:24:42,708 that I had that conversation with him? 942 01:24:42,708 --> 01:24:43,208 I know I was telling 943 01:24:43,208 --> 01:24:44,291 someone else about it, 944 01:24:44,291 --> 01:24:45,416 but we were just at 945 01:24:45,416 --> 01:24:46,791 that point where it's like, 946 01:24:47,916 --> 01:24:50,083 I get it, you're going into a young man, 947 01:24:50,083 --> 01:24:51,083 and we've always said this, 948 01:24:51,083 --> 01:24:52,500 we've heard this from other people too, 949 01:24:52,833 --> 01:24:54,416 that at some point, 950 01:24:55,750 --> 01:24:56,541 I'm still at the point 951 01:24:56,541 --> 01:24:57,333 where I can't imagine not 952 01:24:57,333 --> 01:24:58,375 having our kids in our house. 953 01:24:58,375 --> 01:24:59,541 I know I've said that on here before. 954 01:25:00,166 --> 01:25:01,458 But at some point, the way 955 01:25:01,458 --> 01:25:03,000 life works is they gotta go. 956 01:25:03,583 --> 01:25:04,000 They do. 957 01:25:04,250 --> 01:25:07,875 You know, and I hope that this is wrong, 958 01:25:07,875 --> 01:25:09,625 and that I never want my kids to go, 959 01:25:09,625 --> 01:25:10,833 because there's quote too 960 01:25:10,833 --> 01:25:12,375 many adults in the house. 961 01:25:12,458 --> 01:25:13,000 Yeah, yeah. 962 01:25:13,291 --> 01:25:14,083 But at some point that may 963 01:25:14,083 --> 01:25:15,333 or may not happen inevitably, 964 01:25:15,541 --> 01:25:17,333 and that's the way nature works too, 965 01:25:17,750 --> 01:25:18,583 is that you gotta break away. 966 01:25:18,791 --> 01:25:19,916 They have to do that. 967 01:25:20,125 --> 01:25:21,166 They're gonna go either way, 968 01:25:21,833 --> 01:25:24,166 but I hope it's in a way 969 01:25:24,166 --> 01:25:26,916 that it's like tears and hugs, 970 01:25:26,916 --> 01:25:28,083 and I'm proud of you, and go 971 01:25:28,083 --> 01:25:29,125 get them, spread your wings, 972 01:25:29,375 --> 01:25:30,041 you know what I mean, 973 01:25:30,041 --> 01:25:31,708 versus you gotta go. 974 01:25:32,083 --> 01:25:32,375 Yeah. 975 01:25:32,416 --> 01:25:33,000 You know what I mean, 976 01:25:33,250 --> 01:25:35,041 like, whatever you do, 977 01:25:35,041 --> 01:25:36,250 you gotta get out of my house though, 978 01:25:36,250 --> 01:25:37,375 because you know what I mean? 979 01:25:37,458 --> 01:25:38,000 Yeah, yeah. 980 01:25:38,750 --> 01:25:40,958 And I think, you know, I don't think 981 01:25:40,958 --> 01:25:43,041 that's always reflective of the way you 982 01:25:43,041 --> 01:25:44,208 raise someone either, 983 01:25:44,208 --> 01:25:45,916 because that's just, at some point 984 01:25:45,916 --> 01:25:47,000 they're their own person. 985 01:25:47,000 --> 01:25:47,291 They can make their 986 01:25:47,291 --> 01:25:48,666 own choices, good or bad. 987 01:25:49,041 --> 01:25:51,291 Yeah, yeah. 988 01:25:51,500 --> 01:25:52,958 Normally they come around, I think, but. 989 01:25:53,291 --> 01:25:54,000 That's what I hear. 990 01:25:54,250 --> 01:25:55,000 They're raised right. 991 01:25:55,708 --> 01:25:57,458 I hear that they do come around. 992 01:25:57,750 --> 01:25:59,666 Someone that I was talking to one time, 993 01:26:00,083 --> 01:26:02,750 who has three kids who have all, 994 01:26:02,750 --> 01:26:04,250 like, oldest is in college, right, 995 01:26:04,250 --> 01:26:04,958 and the other two are 996 01:26:04,958 --> 01:26:06,583 working, career-wise. 997 01:26:07,541 --> 01:26:08,291 And they called it, 998 01:26:08,750 --> 01:26:10,250 especially that last year, 999 01:26:10,250 --> 01:26:11,750 they call it, like, soiling the nest. 1000 01:26:13,333 --> 01:26:14,041 I was like. 1001 01:26:14,708 --> 01:26:15,875 And that paints a picture. 1002 01:26:16,083 --> 01:26:17,500 Wow, okay, that paints a picture, 1003 01:26:17,750 --> 01:26:20,000 but they're like, it really is like that, 1004 01:26:20,000 --> 01:26:21,375 it gets kinda harder as 1005 01:26:21,375 --> 01:26:22,833 it gets closer to the time, 1006 01:26:23,250 --> 01:26:25,166 and I think there's probably a lot of, 1007 01:26:25,166 --> 01:26:26,666 I'm sure every psychiatrist or 1008 01:26:26,666 --> 01:26:27,708 psychologist right now 1009 01:26:27,708 --> 01:26:28,500 is like, oh yeah, there's 1010 01:26:28,500 --> 01:26:29,500 a total reason for that, 1011 01:26:29,500 --> 01:26:32,125 but they said that those 1012 01:26:32,125 --> 01:26:34,083 last few months get really hard. 1013 01:26:35,208 --> 01:26:37,458 And that's kinda the final straw, 1014 01:26:37,458 --> 01:26:38,166 usually of like, yep, 1015 01:26:38,166 --> 01:26:39,250 you're gonna go to college, 1016 01:26:39,250 --> 01:26:40,875 and can't wait to see 1017 01:26:40,875 --> 01:26:41,500 your Christmas break. 1018 01:26:42,083 --> 01:26:43,166 I bet they do, and that's 1019 01:26:43,166 --> 01:26:44,166 where I was going with that, 1020 01:26:44,166 --> 01:26:47,208 is I had a conversation with our oldest, 1021 01:26:47,666 --> 01:26:48,625 three, four weeks ago, 1022 01:26:48,625 --> 01:26:49,750 probably, three weeks ago, maybe, 1023 01:26:50,000 --> 01:26:51,958 where he didn't think I handled the 1024 01:26:51,958 --> 01:26:52,916 situation very well. 1025 01:26:53,625 --> 01:26:55,958 Nothing negative, and I 1026 01:26:55,958 --> 01:26:57,000 could tell he was trying 1027 01:26:57,541 --> 01:26:59,250 to kinda be adult about 1028 01:26:59,250 --> 01:27:01,125 giving me some feedback, 1029 01:27:01,583 --> 01:27:02,416 which was great, and 1030 01:27:02,416 --> 01:27:03,541 I was okay with that, 1031 01:27:04,208 --> 01:27:06,083 but it was just kinda bordering on, 1032 01:27:06,083 --> 01:27:06,625 because I know he was 1033 01:27:06,625 --> 01:27:07,208 trying to figure it out, 1034 01:27:07,208 --> 01:27:07,958 but it was bordering on 1035 01:27:07,958 --> 01:27:08,583 just being a little bit 1036 01:27:08,666 --> 01:27:11,000 disrespectful, and really, 1037 01:27:11,000 --> 01:27:11,666 I think there was emotion 1038 01:27:11,875 --> 01:27:12,625 behind it from something 1039 01:27:12,625 --> 01:27:13,708 else that was pushing it, 1040 01:27:13,708 --> 01:27:14,958 and so it just kinda made 1041 01:27:14,958 --> 01:27:16,541 that come out a little bit less, 1042 01:27:17,500 --> 01:27:18,791 you know, maybe finely 1043 01:27:18,791 --> 01:27:20,125 tuned or as respectful 1044 01:27:20,125 --> 01:27:21,333 as he would have liked it, 1045 01:27:21,791 --> 01:27:22,166 because we've talked 1046 01:27:22,166 --> 01:27:23,083 about it since, obviously, 1047 01:27:23,250 --> 01:27:23,875 but it opened the 1048 01:27:23,875 --> 01:27:25,500 door to me saying to him, 1049 01:27:25,500 --> 01:27:27,875 like, buddy, this is hard for me to say, 1050 01:27:27,875 --> 01:27:29,000 and I know I get it, but 1051 01:27:29,000 --> 01:27:30,416 it's okay, I understand, 1052 01:27:30,958 --> 01:27:31,875 I'm gonna go from being 1053 01:27:31,875 --> 01:27:33,416 Superman in your life, 1054 01:27:33,625 --> 01:27:35,041 trying to be, you know, 1055 01:27:35,333 --> 01:27:36,750 to I'm gonna be subbed out 1056 01:27:36,750 --> 01:27:38,375 onto the sideline, you 1057 01:27:38,375 --> 01:27:39,625 know, and I get that, 1058 01:27:39,625 --> 01:27:42,125 and I'm okay with that, 1059 01:27:42,125 --> 01:27:43,416 because that's what's supposed to happen. 1060 01:27:43,416 --> 01:27:44,041 It's supposed to. 1061 01:27:44,083 --> 01:27:45,500 And you're gonna put your friends 1062 01:27:45,916 --> 01:27:47,041 into that number one 1063 01:27:47,041 --> 01:27:48,375 spot, they're gonna be 1064 01:27:48,375 --> 01:27:50,375 what you turn to and this and that, 1065 01:27:51,000 --> 01:27:52,958 but I just ask of you to 1066 01:27:52,958 --> 01:27:56,041 not ignore me on the sideline, 1067 01:27:56,541 --> 01:27:56,833 you know what I mean, 1068 01:27:56,833 --> 01:27:58,166 don't shut me out out there, 1069 01:27:58,166 --> 01:27:59,875 you know, I want to be that dad that, 1070 01:28:00,666 --> 01:28:01,833 you know, everybody wants to 1071 01:28:01,833 --> 01:28:02,875 be that parent that's like, 1072 01:28:02,875 --> 01:28:04,208 oh, you don't wanna be the parent that 1073 01:28:04,208 --> 01:28:05,708 dad's gonna kill me, 1074 01:28:05,708 --> 01:28:07,375 I can't tell him, like, 1075 01:28:07,375 --> 01:28:08,666 shoot, I gotta figure out 1076 01:28:08,666 --> 01:28:09,541 what's dad gonna, you know, 1077 01:28:10,250 --> 01:28:11,541 dad will know how to fix this. 1078 01:28:11,583 --> 01:28:13,208 Yeah, yeah, yup. 1079 01:28:13,916 --> 01:28:15,583 And that's where you hope, again, 1080 01:28:15,583 --> 01:28:16,000 that's where you hope 1081 01:28:16,000 --> 01:28:17,375 we've done it right, 1082 01:28:17,375 --> 01:28:19,041 I've done it right, you've done it right. 1083 01:28:20,208 --> 01:28:22,125 And there is no manual for this. 1084 01:28:22,875 --> 01:28:24,500 Like that, I mean, we 1085 01:28:24,500 --> 01:28:26,166 say that, we all know that, 1086 01:28:26,791 --> 01:28:27,750 every kid is different, 1087 01:28:28,208 --> 01:28:29,416 every parent is different, 1088 01:28:29,875 --> 01:28:31,750 every situation is different, 1089 01:28:31,750 --> 01:28:32,791 and it's just like, 1090 01:28:33,083 --> 01:28:34,583 the stakes are so high, 1091 01:28:36,083 --> 01:28:38,125 I think this is why I get so tired, 1092 01:28:38,500 --> 01:28:40,291 because the stakes are so high with that, 1093 01:28:40,291 --> 01:28:40,916 and it's like, if I 1094 01:28:40,916 --> 01:28:41,958 don't respond appropriately, 1095 01:28:42,500 --> 01:28:43,500 what is the damage that 1096 01:28:43,500 --> 01:28:44,708 I'm going to cause, you know? 1097 01:28:45,833 --> 01:28:48,375 It's just, like, I don't 1098 01:28:48,375 --> 01:28:49,958 know, I struggle with that. 1099 01:28:51,000 --> 01:28:53,958 You know, here's my thought, 1100 01:28:53,958 --> 01:28:54,875 my first initial 1101 01:28:54,875 --> 01:28:56,666 thought right off of that is, 1102 01:28:57,291 --> 01:28:58,125 I think you're gonna be okay, 1103 01:28:58,625 --> 01:28:59,708 I think you're doing really good. 1104 01:29:01,833 --> 01:29:03,291 And partially why I say that is because, 1105 01:29:03,625 --> 01:29:04,875 kids are incredibly resilient, 1106 01:29:05,125 --> 01:29:07,375 you see kids that have grown up in 1107 01:29:07,375 --> 01:29:09,125 horrific households, 1108 01:29:10,000 --> 01:29:12,541 horrific, they don't know different, 1109 01:29:13,541 --> 01:29:15,916 and they love those people that are 1110 01:29:15,916 --> 01:29:16,625 taking care of them, 1111 01:29:16,625 --> 01:29:18,166 even if those people are doing things 1112 01:29:18,166 --> 01:29:19,500 they shouldn't be doing to them, 1113 01:29:19,500 --> 01:29:20,541 they're not taking care of them, 1114 01:29:20,541 --> 01:29:20,833 they're not 1115 01:29:20,833 --> 01:29:22,000 providing, they're not loving, 1116 01:29:23,125 --> 01:29:26,083 they still, kids still connect with them. 1117 01:29:26,708 --> 01:29:28,125 And sometimes to an 1118 01:29:28,125 --> 01:29:31,625 incredibly unhealthy level, 1119 01:29:32,083 --> 01:29:33,333 where they don't want to 1120 01:29:33,333 --> 01:29:34,500 be taken away from that 1121 01:29:34,750 --> 01:29:36,125 horrible situation. 1122 01:29:37,500 --> 01:29:40,166 So I always, in the back of my mind, 1123 01:29:40,458 --> 01:29:42,708 when I think like, "Gah, I'm just, 1124 01:29:43,208 --> 01:29:43,916 "I'm dropping the ball." 1125 01:29:44,250 --> 01:29:44,708 You know what I mean? 1126 01:29:45,125 --> 01:29:45,833 I think about those 1127 01:29:45,833 --> 01:29:46,958 situations to some degree, 1128 01:29:47,208 --> 01:29:48,750 not that that's a 1129 01:29:48,750 --> 01:29:50,000 measuring stick by any means, 1130 01:29:50,375 --> 01:29:51,041 I'd like to think we're a 1131 01:29:51,041 --> 01:29:52,041 little higher than that, 1132 01:29:52,708 --> 01:29:53,666 and I know you are honey. 1133 01:29:54,666 --> 01:29:54,708 (laughing) 1134 01:29:54,708 --> 01:29:56,333 But that's where it's just 1135 01:29:56,333 --> 01:29:57,583 like, you hope you do okay, 1136 01:29:58,666 --> 01:30:02,000 and, you know, like we said 1137 01:30:02,000 --> 01:30:03,041 to him just this last week, 1138 01:30:03,208 --> 01:30:03,916 I've already taught you 1139 01:30:03,916 --> 01:30:04,625 what's right and wrong. 1140 01:30:05,208 --> 01:30:07,500 I don't have anything else to teach you 1141 01:30:08,083 --> 01:30:10,375 about how to be a kind 1142 01:30:10,375 --> 01:30:12,041 person, a moral person, 1143 01:30:12,041 --> 01:30:13,708 the difference between right and wrong. 1144 01:30:14,166 --> 01:30:16,666 In our household, we've 1145 01:30:16,666 --> 01:30:17,666 got that thing upstairs 1146 01:30:17,916 --> 01:30:18,583 that talks about the 1147 01:30:18,583 --> 01:30:19,375 fruits of the spirit, 1148 01:30:20,083 --> 01:30:20,750 right next to 1149 01:30:20,750 --> 01:30:22,750 something about just how to be, 1150 01:30:23,583 --> 01:30:24,083 traits of being 1151 01:30:24,083 --> 01:30:25,666 successful, right next to another one 1152 01:30:25,791 --> 01:30:27,416 about just going out and 1153 01:30:27,416 --> 01:30:29,291 being a king or a queen, 1154 01:30:30,041 --> 01:30:31,416 just really digging in 1155 01:30:31,416 --> 01:30:34,166 and pumping yourself up. 1156 01:30:34,166 --> 01:30:37,166 So I mean, at some point it's like, 1157 01:30:37,250 --> 01:30:39,166 we've given you everything we can, 1158 01:30:39,666 --> 01:30:41,250 we're just trying to steer 1159 01:30:41,250 --> 01:30:42,375 you in that one direction, 1160 01:30:42,375 --> 01:30:44,458 please, please, please. 1161 01:30:45,041 --> 01:30:45,625 Please go that way. 1162 01:30:45,958 --> 01:30:47,000 That's exactly right, 1163 01:30:47,458 --> 01:30:48,541 that's exactly right. 1164 01:30:48,958 --> 01:30:51,250 And it's a little scary, 1165 01:30:51,500 --> 01:30:52,416 although we did say this 1166 01:30:52,416 --> 01:30:54,666 quite a few times throughout the years, 1167 01:30:54,666 --> 01:30:56,708 we're like, people way 1168 01:30:56,708 --> 01:30:57,875 less equipped than us 1169 01:30:57,875 --> 01:30:59,750 have done this just fine. 1170 01:31:00,500 --> 01:31:03,333 Like, so hopefully we're okay. 1171 01:31:04,833 --> 01:31:06,458 Do we say that or that seems like, 1172 01:31:07,000 --> 01:31:08,583 way less equipped, how do we define that? 1173 01:31:09,333 --> 01:31:12,333 You know, there's people who, you know, 1174 01:31:13,291 --> 01:31:14,875 had kids when maybe they 1175 01:31:14,875 --> 01:31:16,208 weren't ready to have kids, 1176 01:31:16,208 --> 01:31:17,708 and it popped out a little 1177 01:31:17,708 --> 01:31:19,750 bit sooner or later or whatever. 1178 01:31:20,250 --> 01:31:20,791 I was trying to put 1179 01:31:20,791 --> 01:31:21,791 you in a spot to like, 1180 01:31:21,916 --> 01:31:22,666 seeing anybody out. 1181 01:31:23,166 --> 01:31:25,166 Period, and ended up with kids. 1182 01:31:25,208 --> 01:31:26,333 You're talking about Mike and Mary, 1183 01:31:26,333 --> 01:31:27,291 is who you're talking about. 1184 01:31:27,333 --> 01:31:29,041 Oh yeah, Mike and Mary, obviously. 1185 01:31:29,458 --> 01:31:30,375 Well, we know Mike, I 1186 01:31:30,375 --> 01:31:31,166 shouldn't use that one. 1187 01:31:31,833 --> 01:31:32,625 Yeah, but we don't know a 1188 01:31:32,625 --> 01:31:34,291 Mike and Mary to a Mary. 1189 01:31:35,375 --> 01:31:36,416 Right, right. 1190 01:31:37,083 --> 01:31:38,416 You know, a Jesus and a Joseph. 1191 01:31:39,875 --> 01:31:41,000 And Mary, yeah. 1192 01:31:43,458 --> 01:31:46,000 God, if I know them, I mean, you know, 1193 01:31:46,000 --> 01:31:47,166 like we've read about them. 1194 01:31:47,208 --> 01:31:47,958 They're in my heart. 1195 01:31:47,958 --> 01:31:48,750 They're in my heart. 1196 01:31:49,000 --> 01:31:50,000 Deep down in my heart. 1197 01:31:51,500 --> 01:31:52,458 What's the next line I 1198 01:31:52,458 --> 01:31:53,541 wish I could remember? 1199 01:31:54,541 --> 01:31:56,666 Don't let Satan get it out. 1200 01:31:56,666 --> 01:31:57,791 Oh yeah, there you go. 1201 01:31:57,791 --> 01:31:59,083 Just let that light shine, hon. 1202 01:32:00,125 --> 01:32:00,791 That little light, 1203 01:32:01,125 --> 01:32:02,375 that little light of mine. 1204 01:32:02,416 --> 01:32:03,125 Of yours, yep. 1205 01:32:03,541 --> 01:32:04,000 Needs to shine. 1206 01:32:04,708 --> 01:32:06,166 So that was fun. 1207 01:32:06,166 --> 01:32:07,416 So that's all that Hoko stuff. 1208 01:32:07,416 --> 01:32:08,125 It was great to get 1209 01:32:08,125 --> 01:32:09,875 to know their parents. 1210 01:32:09,875 --> 01:32:10,083 Yes. 1211 01:32:10,583 --> 01:32:11,083 Because there's a 1212 01:32:11,083 --> 01:32:12,041 couple of such parents there. 1213 01:32:12,041 --> 01:32:12,791 So we got to see, we 1214 01:32:12,791 --> 01:32:13,583 got to meet some parents. 1215 01:32:14,875 --> 01:32:17,083 And that's always, it's not awkward, 1216 01:32:18,166 --> 01:32:19,000 but it's a little awkward. 1217 01:32:19,000 --> 01:32:19,416 I was trying to think 1218 01:32:19,416 --> 01:32:20,541 back if my parents ever met 1219 01:32:20,541 --> 01:32:22,458 like my girlfriends in high school. 1220 01:32:22,500 --> 01:32:22,916 Yeah. 1221 01:32:23,250 --> 01:32:23,458 Parents. 1222 01:32:23,708 --> 01:32:25,083 And I know they did at some point, but. 1223 01:32:25,750 --> 01:32:26,500 Well, yeah, I think, 1224 01:32:26,791 --> 01:32:28,458 I know that they have, 1225 01:32:28,458 --> 01:32:29,083 because your mom's still 1226 01:32:29,083 --> 01:32:30,250 friends with some of them, 1227 01:32:30,500 --> 01:32:32,250 but one of them. 1228 01:32:32,375 --> 01:32:33,041 With one of them, but yeah, 1229 01:32:33,041 --> 01:32:33,875 I think she did her hair 1230 01:32:33,875 --> 01:32:34,416 or something like that. 1231 01:32:34,458 --> 01:32:36,083 That's why that one was. 1232 01:32:36,708 --> 01:32:37,583 Until way after we 1233 01:32:37,583 --> 01:32:38,750 were no longer a thing. 1234 01:32:39,125 --> 01:32:40,833 But I don't think they 1235 01:32:40,833 --> 01:32:42,666 ever came to what we just did. 1236 01:32:43,000 --> 01:32:45,166 They took pictures of me, I thought, 1237 01:32:45,416 --> 01:32:46,583 by myself at the house. 1238 01:32:47,333 --> 01:32:48,458 And then when I went to the other place, 1239 01:32:48,791 --> 01:32:49,333 I think they got 1240 01:32:49,333 --> 01:32:50,333 pictures from other people. 1241 01:32:50,916 --> 01:32:52,000 Oh, okay. 1242 01:32:52,208 --> 01:32:52,958 So that was a little 1243 01:32:52,958 --> 01:32:53,791 different than how we did it. 1244 01:32:53,833 --> 01:32:55,333 I could be misremembering that too, 1245 01:32:55,333 --> 01:32:56,166 but it was totally different. 1246 01:32:56,166 --> 01:32:57,541 I was actually telling your parents this 1247 01:32:57,708 --> 01:32:58,375 while they were there. 1248 01:32:58,958 --> 01:33:00,625 Wow, there's all these things going on. 1249 01:33:00,625 --> 01:33:02,000 But I mean, everybody knows this. 1250 01:33:02,000 --> 01:33:02,791 I mean, how funny. 1251 01:33:02,833 --> 01:33:03,208 It's just so 1252 01:33:03,208 --> 01:33:04,875 different now with the cameras 1253 01:33:04,875 --> 01:33:06,375 we all have on our back pockets. 1254 01:33:06,833 --> 01:33:07,041 Yep. 1255 01:33:07,291 --> 01:33:07,541 Right? 1256 01:33:07,916 --> 01:33:11,583 I mean, I took 160 pictures probably. 1257 01:33:12,083 --> 01:33:14,416 And I'm never gonna go through them 1258 01:33:14,416 --> 01:33:16,166 and erase the bad ones, ever. 1259 01:33:18,208 --> 01:33:19,541 But when we were in high school, 1260 01:33:19,875 --> 01:33:20,708 it was literally, you 1261 01:33:20,708 --> 01:33:23,666 had a 24 on that roll. 1262 01:33:24,458 --> 01:33:25,125 And maybe you already 1263 01:33:25,125 --> 01:33:26,041 used two or three of them, 1264 01:33:26,041 --> 01:33:27,000 so you got 21, 1265 01:33:27,250 --> 01:33:27,666 because you're not gonna 1266 01:33:27,666 --> 01:33:28,500 put a whole nother roll 1267 01:33:28,500 --> 01:33:29,791 in while you're there, right? 1268 01:33:30,083 --> 01:33:30,416 It's true. 1269 01:33:30,666 --> 01:33:32,500 You don't have a chance to check it. 1270 01:33:32,541 --> 01:33:37,291 So you get your 12 best poses, 1271 01:33:37,541 --> 01:33:38,208 and it's like, well, 1272 01:33:38,666 --> 01:33:39,833 maybe I'll save five of these 1273 01:33:39,833 --> 01:33:41,166 pictures for something else. 1274 01:33:42,416 --> 01:33:42,541 (laughing) 1275 01:33:42,625 --> 01:33:44,208 You get what you get, 1276 01:33:44,208 --> 01:33:45,583 and you don't get upset. 1277 01:33:46,000 --> 01:33:46,208 Don't get upset. 1278 01:33:46,625 --> 01:33:47,791 Yeah, because you're never gonna know 1279 01:33:47,791 --> 01:33:49,000 if they're good pictures or bad pictures 1280 01:33:49,000 --> 01:33:50,125 until after they're developed. 1281 01:33:50,333 --> 01:33:50,541 Right. 1282 01:33:50,958 --> 01:33:52,166 So when I took the kids out, 1283 01:33:52,500 --> 01:33:54,833 so I drove the kids to 1284 01:33:54,833 --> 01:33:57,666 their restaurant afterwards. 1285 01:33:58,500 --> 01:33:59,333 And then I drove them 1286 01:33:59,333 --> 01:34:01,000 back the whole way there, 1287 01:34:01,000 --> 01:34:02,208 and I think a lot of the way back, 1288 01:34:02,250 --> 01:34:03,458 and I know there was some discussion 1289 01:34:03,625 --> 01:34:05,000 about what happened at the restaurant, 1290 01:34:05,708 --> 01:34:06,875 they were going through the pictures. 1291 01:34:08,583 --> 01:34:09,708 (laughing) And I know some posts 1292 01:34:09,708 --> 01:34:11,291 were made in that meantime, 1293 01:34:11,666 --> 01:34:12,416 whatnot, you know, so 1294 01:34:12,416 --> 01:34:13,458 they were constantly 1295 01:34:13,708 --> 01:34:14,458 leaning over, showing 1296 01:34:14,458 --> 01:34:15,250 each other the pictures 1297 01:34:15,250 --> 01:34:16,291 and stuff like that, so. 1298 01:34:16,333 --> 01:34:17,166 That's so funny. 1299 01:34:17,208 --> 01:34:18,500 That is this generation. 1300 01:34:18,958 --> 01:34:19,208 It is? 1301 01:34:19,250 --> 01:34:20,000 Whereas ours was, 1302 01:34:20,416 --> 01:34:22,333 pictures are over, done. 1303 01:34:22,833 --> 01:34:23,458 Doesn't matter, we're 1304 01:34:23,458 --> 01:34:24,291 never gonna see them. 1305 01:34:24,583 --> 01:34:24,916 Right. 1306 01:34:24,958 --> 01:34:27,083 Like, I literally have two 1307 01:34:27,083 --> 01:34:28,875 pictures from prom, probably. 1308 01:34:29,458 --> 01:34:30,416 One's because I had a crazy girlfriend 1309 01:34:30,416 --> 01:34:31,416 that threw most of it away. 1310 01:34:31,708 --> 01:34:32,416 Yeah, which is crazy. 1311 01:34:32,625 --> 01:34:34,083 By the way, thanks for that. 1312 01:34:34,083 --> 01:34:34,875 Yeah, thank you. 1313 01:34:35,000 --> 01:34:36,416 Because it matters now, right? 1314 01:34:37,000 --> 01:34:37,166 Jeez. 1315 01:34:37,916 --> 01:34:39,583 But, well, I'd like to see them. 1316 01:34:39,625 --> 01:34:40,583 I know, that's what I'm saying. 1317 01:34:40,583 --> 01:34:42,541 I would've, those were my memories. 1318 01:34:42,583 --> 01:34:42,875 Those were your memories. 1319 01:34:42,916 --> 01:34:43,708 That still makes me mad. 1320 01:34:43,916 --> 01:34:44,958 Well, next episode, 1321 01:34:44,958 --> 01:34:46,041 we'll get deep into that. 1322 01:34:46,041 --> 01:34:46,333 Yeah. 1323 01:34:46,750 --> 01:34:47,833 But that wasn't a big 1324 01:34:47,833 --> 01:34:49,166 deal for us, though, right? 1325 01:34:49,166 --> 01:34:50,250 The pictures at the time, 1326 01:34:50,750 --> 01:34:51,750 it was almost like we 1327 01:34:51,750 --> 01:34:52,666 had to check that box. 1328 01:34:53,166 --> 01:34:54,416 Everybody stand on the staircase. 1329 01:34:55,333 --> 01:34:55,708 Yeah. 1330 01:34:55,750 --> 01:34:56,416 You know, okay, now 1331 01:34:56,416 --> 01:34:57,958 everybody put your arm around them. 1332 01:34:58,500 --> 01:35:00,250 Obviously, when you and I were there, 1333 01:35:00,333 --> 01:35:01,416 we just did a little, you 1334 01:35:01,416 --> 01:35:03,916 know, small flowers, corsages. 1335 01:35:03,958 --> 01:35:05,375 Yes, yes, you have to 1336 01:35:05,375 --> 01:35:06,166 have the flower exchanged 1337 01:35:06,166 --> 01:35:07,958 to the boutonniere and then the corsage, 1338 01:35:07,958 --> 01:35:09,458 the wrist corsage or whatever. 1339 01:35:10,375 --> 01:35:10,541 Like. 1340 01:35:10,875 --> 01:35:11,791 And then we went on, 1341 01:35:11,791 --> 01:35:13,375 then we got in the limo 1342 01:35:13,375 --> 01:35:14,916 or someone drove us or whatever it was. 1343 01:35:15,750 --> 01:35:16,416 You went to the dance, 1344 01:35:16,625 --> 01:35:17,416 or you went to dinner, 1345 01:35:17,416 --> 01:35:18,500 then the dance, and then maybe to 1346 01:35:18,500 --> 01:35:19,208 someone's house afterward. 1347 01:35:19,583 --> 01:35:20,000 That's exactly. 1348 01:35:20,458 --> 01:35:20,541 Yeah. 1349 01:35:20,541 --> 01:35:21,541 That's exactly what it was. 1350 01:35:21,541 --> 01:35:21,750 Yeah. 1351 01:35:21,958 --> 01:35:23,083 Back in the good old days. 1352 01:35:23,458 --> 01:35:24,333 Yeah, yeah. 1353 01:35:25,000 --> 01:35:28,125 That's, I mean, it's a big part of it, 1354 01:35:28,125 --> 01:35:29,250 back in those good old days. 1355 01:35:29,875 --> 01:35:31,500 Although when I was looking at the reels, 1356 01:35:32,000 --> 01:35:33,000 I did notice a couple pictures. 1357 01:35:33,333 --> 01:35:34,708 There was one where I was like, you know, 1358 01:35:34,708 --> 01:35:35,666 I was tying his tie and 1359 01:35:35,666 --> 01:35:36,666 there's another boy here, 1360 01:35:37,291 --> 01:35:40,541 our oldest son, our oldest son's friend, 1361 01:35:41,083 --> 01:35:41,875 his parents weren't 1362 01:35:41,875 --> 01:35:43,416 actually able to be here for it. 1363 01:35:43,833 --> 01:35:45,208 He didn't know how to tie a tie either. 1364 01:35:45,208 --> 01:35:46,291 So I was teaching them 1365 01:35:46,291 --> 01:35:47,875 both how to tie a tie. 1366 01:35:47,875 --> 01:35:50,208 I tied his tie for him, you know, 1367 01:35:50,208 --> 01:35:51,083 and then, you know, 1368 01:35:51,083 --> 01:35:51,708 just some of those things 1369 01:35:51,708 --> 01:35:53,166 that you pass on, like, you know, 1370 01:35:53,166 --> 01:35:54,041 the right buttons to 1371 01:35:54,041 --> 01:35:55,750 button on your jackets 1372 01:35:56,125 --> 01:35:57,333 and stuff like that, so. 1373 01:35:57,375 --> 01:35:57,541 Yeah. 1374 01:35:58,208 --> 01:35:59,041 There was a picture of 1375 01:35:59,041 --> 01:36:00,333 me talking to our oldest 1376 01:36:00,666 --> 01:36:02,291 or doing something with the tie, right? 1377 01:36:02,291 --> 01:36:02,958 You probably took it 1378 01:36:02,958 --> 01:36:04,833 or our daughter took it 1379 01:36:04,833 --> 01:36:05,291 because I know both 1380 01:36:05,291 --> 01:36:05,958 of you are taking some. 1381 01:36:07,125 --> 01:36:09,166 I look so old, I'm like looking down, 1382 01:36:09,166 --> 01:36:10,500 I'm like, oh my wrinkled 1383 01:36:10,500 --> 01:36:12,583 chin, like what is going on? 1384 01:36:12,583 --> 01:36:13,375 No, it's horrible. 1385 01:36:13,791 --> 01:36:15,000 I was like, that was one of 1386 01:36:15,000 --> 01:36:15,916 the first ones I looked at. 1387 01:36:16,375 --> 01:36:17,666 That's a picture that I, 1388 01:36:17,666 --> 01:36:19,166 one of my first pictures I looked at 1389 01:36:19,833 --> 01:36:21,000 and I really thought, 1390 01:36:21,458 --> 01:36:24,333 wow, time is hitting me. 1391 01:36:24,625 --> 01:36:25,375 Because these are the years. 1392 01:36:26,458 --> 01:36:28,250 Didn't we just recently hear somewhere 1393 01:36:28,250 --> 01:36:31,583 that it's like the years 46 to 52 1394 01:36:32,416 --> 01:36:36,333 that life just crushes you? 1395 01:36:37,125 --> 01:36:38,416 I didn't mean to hear this. 1396 01:36:39,000 --> 01:36:40,166 From like an aging perspective. 1397 01:36:41,333 --> 01:36:42,625 Oh, I didn't hear that, 1398 01:36:42,625 --> 01:36:45,166 but I mean, I believe it. 1399 01:36:45,458 --> 01:36:47,291 I feel like I turned 46 and just. 1400 01:36:47,541 --> 01:36:48,833 I must have heard it independently, 1401 01:36:49,125 --> 01:36:50,625 but it's like somewhere in there, 1402 01:36:50,625 --> 01:36:53,250 most people look very young, excuse me, 1403 01:36:53,708 --> 01:36:54,958 most people look very young, 1404 01:36:54,958 --> 01:36:55,791 even the young looking 1405 01:36:55,791 --> 01:36:57,250 ones look really young 1406 01:36:57,333 --> 01:37:00,125 until they get to about 48-ish. 1407 01:37:01,041 --> 01:37:02,000 And then between like 48 1408 01:37:02,000 --> 01:37:05,000 and like 52, 46, 53, 54, 1409 01:37:05,166 --> 01:37:08,541 somewhere in there, old man 1410 01:37:08,541 --> 01:37:12,166 time turns the page on you 1411 01:37:12,791 --> 01:37:13,833 and you start looking. 1412 01:37:14,291 --> 01:37:15,000 Because most 50 year 1413 01:37:15,000 --> 01:37:16,375 olds, they look 50, right? 1414 01:37:16,625 --> 01:37:18,375 And I don't mean to offend anybody there, 1415 01:37:18,375 --> 01:37:22,958 but I mean, I could say most people, 1416 01:37:23,000 --> 01:37:25,333 or I can nail their decade, right? 1417 01:37:25,541 --> 01:37:26,291 And 50 year olds are a 1418 01:37:26,291 --> 01:37:27,208 little bit easier to pick out 1419 01:37:27,208 --> 01:37:29,041 than a 40 year old versus a 30 year old. 1420 01:37:29,458 --> 01:37:30,250 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 1421 01:37:30,666 --> 01:37:31,375 And I think that's 1422 01:37:31,375 --> 01:37:32,708 because father time is. 1423 01:37:33,500 --> 01:37:34,875 Just like hits you with a pan. 1424 01:37:35,500 --> 01:37:36,708 And I think I'm being 1425 01:37:36,708 --> 01:37:38,333 hit, I've just noticed. 1426 01:37:39,000 --> 01:37:40,375 And I'm not looking for anything there, 1427 01:37:40,375 --> 01:37:42,291 but I did notice in that picture, 1428 01:37:42,875 --> 01:37:44,041 because I was looking down and I'm like, 1429 01:37:44,041 --> 01:37:46,166 oh, look at those, I look like a, 1430 01:37:46,166 --> 01:37:47,791 what are those dogs that all like wriggly 1431 01:37:47,791 --> 01:37:48,666 and stuff like that? 1432 01:37:48,750 --> 01:37:50,083 You do not look like a Sharpay. 1433 01:37:50,083 --> 01:37:51,250 So now it's like, I 1434 01:37:51,250 --> 01:37:52,333 gotta get the nip and tuck. 1435 01:37:52,375 --> 01:37:53,083 That's what I'm saying. 1436 01:37:53,458 --> 01:37:54,791 Gotta get the nip and tuck. 1437 01:37:55,083 --> 01:37:56,125 Little bit of nip. 1438 01:37:56,625 --> 01:37:57,833 And a little bit of tuck. 1439 01:37:57,833 --> 01:37:58,500 Little bit of tuck. 1440 01:37:59,083 --> 01:38:00,375 I don't know. 1441 01:38:00,833 --> 01:38:02,708 That is the one piece of plastic surgery 1442 01:38:02,708 --> 01:38:04,208 I would totally have. 1443 01:38:05,166 --> 01:38:07,083 You have a family history. 1444 01:38:07,125 --> 01:38:08,375 If I have that genetic 1445 01:38:08,375 --> 01:38:10,625 thing where we called it, 1446 01:38:10,625 --> 01:38:11,791 so my grandmother had it, 1447 01:38:11,791 --> 01:38:13,041 and we called it her gobble, 1448 01:38:13,041 --> 01:38:14,416 and I remember being 1449 01:38:14,416 --> 01:38:16,250 a kid playing with it. 1450 01:38:16,250 --> 01:38:17,166 And so if I get that. 1451 01:38:17,875 --> 01:38:19,291 You played with it and she let you? 1452 01:38:19,791 --> 01:38:21,291 I don't think she liked it. 1453 01:38:21,625 --> 01:38:22,916 I was probably pretty young. 1454 01:38:24,500 --> 01:38:26,125 You were like, look at your gobble. 1455 01:38:26,666 --> 01:38:28,833 If I get a gobble, I 100% 1456 01:38:29,708 --> 01:38:30,875 am getting that removed. 1457 01:38:30,875 --> 01:38:32,708 I am not too proud to have 1458 01:38:32,708 --> 01:38:34,916 that bit of plastic surgery. 1459 01:38:35,500 --> 01:38:37,375 Ain't too proud to beg. 1460 01:38:37,416 --> 01:38:38,833 I ain't too proud to beg. 1461 01:38:40,041 --> 01:38:40,833 That's not the name of the song. 1462 01:38:41,500 --> 01:38:41,916 It's not? 1463 01:38:43,041 --> 01:38:44,000 No, is it? 1464 01:38:44,000 --> 01:38:44,583 Yeah, it is. 1465 01:38:44,791 --> 01:38:45,333 I thought so. 1466 01:38:46,000 --> 01:38:46,666 Is it Salt and Pepper? 1467 01:38:47,166 --> 01:38:47,750 It's Salt and Pepper. 1468 01:38:48,625 --> 01:38:49,583 I thought it was like My 1469 01:38:49,583 --> 01:38:50,625 Man or something like that. 1470 01:38:51,291 --> 01:38:52,916 Maybe it is Ain't Too Proud to Beg. 1471 01:38:53,083 --> 01:38:53,500 I was just trying to 1472 01:38:53,500 --> 01:38:54,375 throw out another song. 1473 01:38:54,416 --> 01:38:54,708 I know. 1474 01:38:55,083 --> 01:38:56,125 A little throwback there. 1475 01:38:56,166 --> 01:38:57,000 I do like this. 1476 01:38:57,250 --> 01:38:57,666 We should just 1477 01:38:57,666 --> 01:39:00,083 interject random 80s, 90s songs. 1478 01:39:00,333 --> 01:39:01,250 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 1479 01:39:01,250 --> 01:39:01,875 I've done a couple of 1480 01:39:01,875 --> 01:39:02,666 lyrics here and there. 1481 01:39:04,041 --> 01:39:06,416 Yeah, that's one, depending 1482 01:39:06,416 --> 01:39:08,041 on what age you are in you. 1483 01:39:09,083 --> 01:39:09,833 But I feel like I'm 1484 01:39:09,833 --> 01:39:11,000 getting a gobble before you do. 1485 01:39:11,500 --> 01:39:11,833 Anyways. 1486 01:39:12,833 --> 01:39:14,333 Yeah, you're not. 1487 01:39:15,250 --> 01:39:16,708 But you have two years on me, just wait. 1488 01:39:16,958 --> 01:39:20,125 Oh my gosh, if I'm 48 and-- 1489 01:39:20,250 --> 01:39:21,833 I'm just nervous what the next two years 1490 01:39:21,833 --> 01:39:23,166 are gonna do to me if 1491 01:39:23,166 --> 01:39:24,833 I'm just really seeing it. 1492 01:39:24,833 --> 01:39:27,000 Because I've said it before on here too, 1493 01:39:27,000 --> 01:39:29,250 not to get into this stuff too deeply, 1494 01:39:29,250 --> 01:39:30,708 but it's like I've just, 1495 01:39:33,250 --> 01:39:34,041 there aren't very many 1496 01:39:34,041 --> 01:39:36,083 thin men in their 50s either. 1497 01:39:36,750 --> 01:39:37,166 You know what I mean? 1498 01:39:37,625 --> 01:39:38,000 Or women. 1499 01:39:39,125 --> 01:39:41,583 Or, you know, what's the word, not thin, 1500 01:39:41,583 --> 01:39:43,166 but sleek, still kind of tight. 1501 01:39:43,208 --> 01:39:44,916 Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, like really fit. 1502 01:39:45,416 --> 01:39:46,208 Well, even fit. 1503 01:39:46,458 --> 01:39:47,916 But I mean, and I think a 1504 01:39:47,916 --> 01:39:48,916 lot of that is just because 1505 01:39:49,333 --> 01:39:50,958 we're just in the middle of our highest 1506 01:39:51,041 --> 01:39:52,208 earning potential years. 1507 01:39:52,708 --> 01:39:53,708 There's zero time, we 1508 01:39:53,708 --> 01:39:54,500 talked about it a little bit 1509 01:39:54,500 --> 01:39:56,041 last week, you can only pick 1510 01:39:56,041 --> 01:39:57,375 three of the top four things. 1511 01:39:58,083 --> 01:40:01,458 Exercise does get kicked to 1512 01:40:01,458 --> 01:40:03,041 the curb a lot of the times 1513 01:40:03,208 --> 01:40:04,041 in this scenario. 1514 01:40:04,583 --> 01:40:06,000 And it's not until you, after you retire, 1515 01:40:06,000 --> 01:40:08,083 that you have that ability and time 1516 01:40:08,083 --> 01:40:09,416 to get yourself back in shape. 1517 01:40:10,458 --> 01:40:12,250 So it's like, your dad 1518 01:40:12,250 --> 01:40:13,250 was in really good shape 1519 01:40:13,250 --> 01:40:14,500 when he was, after he retired. 1520 01:40:15,083 --> 01:40:18,416 But I did see videos of him in his 40s. 1521 01:40:18,833 --> 01:40:21,375 And he was not in that same shape then, 1522 01:40:21,750 --> 01:40:22,166 you know what I mean? 1523 01:40:22,166 --> 01:40:22,791 And I'm not throwing him 1524 01:40:22,791 --> 01:40:23,458 under the bus or anything, 1525 01:40:23,458 --> 01:40:24,458 because he was working 1526 01:40:24,458 --> 01:40:25,250 and raising kids too. 1527 01:40:25,750 --> 01:40:26,416 Same thing we're doing. 1528 01:40:26,416 --> 01:40:27,833 So I just see that so 1529 01:40:27,833 --> 01:40:28,708 much of myself right now, 1530 01:40:28,708 --> 01:40:29,208 where it's like, I'm 1531 01:40:29,208 --> 01:40:30,750 skipping so many workouts. 1532 01:40:31,083 --> 01:40:32,208 I'm not consistent in the 1533 01:40:32,208 --> 01:40:34,000 last, since I hurt my knee, 1534 01:40:34,000 --> 01:40:35,000 since you hurt your knee, 1535 01:40:35,916 --> 01:40:37,041 this has been a tough year. 1536 01:40:37,041 --> 01:40:39,083 And I am just not taking that weight off. 1537 01:40:39,083 --> 01:40:41,250 So I mean, you know, I 1538 01:40:41,250 --> 01:40:42,625 haven't moved up in belt sizes yet, 1539 01:40:43,666 --> 01:40:44,375 but I mean, I feel 1540 01:40:44,375 --> 01:40:45,333 like I'm getting close. 1541 01:40:46,750 --> 01:40:47,916 And I still wear what 1542 01:40:47,916 --> 01:40:48,708 I wore in high school. 1543 01:40:48,958 --> 01:40:49,166 Yeah. 1544 01:40:50,000 --> 01:40:52,041 And, you know, one inch 1545 01:40:52,041 --> 01:40:53,000 a year from here on out, 1546 01:40:53,000 --> 01:40:53,333 it's not good. 1547 01:40:55,041 --> 01:40:57,000 So I also still wear 1548 01:40:57,000 --> 01:40:58,583 what I wore in high school, 1549 01:40:58,916 --> 01:40:59,791 or even before. 1550 01:41:00,041 --> 01:41:01,208 And so much so that when we were, 1551 01:41:01,916 --> 01:41:02,750 when my parents came, 1552 01:41:02,750 --> 01:41:03,166 they brought a whole 1553 01:41:03,166 --> 01:41:04,666 bunch of like pictures 1554 01:41:04,958 --> 01:41:08,000 and all kinds of stuff of my memorabilia, 1555 01:41:08,125 --> 01:41:09,208 whether I want it or not. 1556 01:41:09,458 --> 01:41:10,458 I got it, yay. 1557 01:41:10,875 --> 01:41:12,125 But there were pictures of me 1558 01:41:12,125 --> 01:41:13,791 and I was wearing clothes 1559 01:41:13,791 --> 01:41:14,750 that I still wear today. 1560 01:41:15,000 --> 01:41:16,125 In fact, our daughter was like, 1561 01:41:16,125 --> 01:41:16,833 yeah, you wore that 1562 01:41:16,833 --> 01:41:18,625 sweater just like yesterday 1563 01:41:18,833 --> 01:41:20,041 or like last week. 1564 01:41:20,125 --> 01:41:21,833 Yeah, it's a vest turtleneck. 1565 01:41:22,041 --> 01:41:22,916 I mean, it's hard to miss. 1566 01:41:23,875 --> 01:41:25,541 No, it's a sleeveless turtleneck. 1567 01:41:26,375 --> 01:41:27,750 (laughs) Okay. A vest? 1568 01:41:28,500 --> 01:41:29,833 You're right, yeah, yeah, sleeveless. 1569 01:41:29,833 --> 01:41:30,333 What are they thinking? 1570 01:41:30,333 --> 01:41:30,916 Like a tank top. 1571 01:41:30,916 --> 01:41:32,208 I was thinking tank top. Yeah, yeah. 1572 01:41:32,250 --> 01:41:33,041 Tank top turtleneck. 1573 01:41:33,583 --> 01:41:33,791 TT. 1574 01:41:34,250 --> 01:41:35,750 TT, tank top turtleneck. 1575 01:41:35,791 --> 01:41:37,208 Yeah, there's not a lot of those. 1576 01:41:37,208 --> 01:41:38,916 That might be a one of a kind in fact. 1577 01:41:39,833 --> 01:41:40,708 Okay, here's the thing though. 1578 01:41:40,708 --> 01:41:42,000 I get so many compliments on it. 1579 01:41:42,416 --> 01:41:43,250 And I did back then too. 1580 01:41:43,750 --> 01:41:45,791 I was like, that thing is-- 1581 01:41:45,916 --> 01:41:46,750 No, it looks great on you. 1582 01:41:47,416 --> 01:41:48,250 25 years old. You wear, 1583 01:41:48,250 --> 01:41:48,750 it's not like you're 1584 01:41:48,750 --> 01:41:49,625 sleeveless in it though. 1585 01:41:49,625 --> 01:41:50,375 Do you wear a sleeveless? 1586 01:41:51,333 --> 01:41:51,958 Yeah, it's a tank top. 1587 01:41:52,166 --> 01:41:52,375 Skin? 1588 01:41:52,750 --> 01:41:53,916 Like you have bare shoulders? 1589 01:41:54,333 --> 01:41:54,833 Yeah. Yeah, okay. 1590 01:41:55,416 --> 01:41:57,208 I mean, it goes out 1591 01:41:57,208 --> 01:41:59,000 like it's work appropriate. 1592 01:41:59,000 --> 01:41:59,291 It's not like 1593 01:41:59,291 --> 01:42:00,375 spaghetti straps or anything. 1594 01:42:00,958 --> 01:42:01,750 No, it's not. 1595 01:42:01,750 --> 01:42:01,958 Yeah. 1596 01:42:02,458 --> 01:42:03,041 So there's spaghetti 1597 01:42:03,041 --> 01:42:04,208 straps to a turtleneck? 1598 01:42:05,666 --> 01:42:06,291 Yeah, I don't know 1599 01:42:06,291 --> 01:42:07,375 what that would look like. 1600 01:42:07,625 --> 01:42:08,375 Then it's like one of those 1601 01:42:08,375 --> 01:42:09,625 things that cousin Eddie wears. 1602 01:42:09,833 --> 01:42:10,708 It's a total dicky. 1603 01:42:11,208 --> 01:42:12,291 Dicky, is that what that's called? 1604 01:42:13,125 --> 01:42:13,958 Oh my gosh. 1605 01:42:16,125 --> 01:42:17,166 You're gonna sing. 1606 01:42:18,041 --> 01:42:19,500 I'd have to call you out on that one. 1607 01:42:19,500 --> 01:42:20,833 That would be really stupid. 1608 01:42:24,541 --> 01:42:25,666 Oh my gosh. 1609 01:42:26,208 --> 01:42:28,166 Anyway, but I still have those things. 1610 01:42:28,916 --> 01:42:29,416 Yeah, we didn't leave 1611 01:42:29,416 --> 01:42:30,375 ourselves enough time to go there. 1612 01:42:30,375 --> 01:42:30,875 We'll have to go through that 1613 01:42:30,875 --> 01:42:32,041 because I know there's 1614 01:42:32,041 --> 01:42:33,500 generations that listen to this. 1615 01:42:33,833 --> 01:42:35,208 And if you're the older generation, 1616 01:42:36,000 --> 01:42:36,500 you've probably 1617 01:42:36,500 --> 01:42:38,000 already started pawning off 1618 01:42:38,250 --> 01:42:39,791 all the stuff that was our 1619 01:42:39,791 --> 01:42:41,458 generations to your kids. 1620 01:42:42,625 --> 01:42:44,166 Like you've given it back to them. 1621 01:42:44,166 --> 01:42:45,250 Like, oh, here's a tub 1622 01:42:45,250 --> 01:42:46,166 or here's all the boxes 1623 01:42:46,166 --> 01:42:47,875 of all your junk, your high school, 1624 01:42:47,875 --> 01:42:49,458 your childhood stuff. 1625 01:42:50,416 --> 01:42:51,208 Cause we helped out, 1626 01:42:51,208 --> 01:42:52,166 we held onto it forever, 1627 01:42:52,166 --> 01:42:53,250 which we're doing the same thing. 1628 01:42:53,958 --> 01:42:54,666 All that stuff's upstairs 1629 01:42:54,666 --> 01:42:55,666 in our attic right now too. 1630 01:42:55,958 --> 01:42:56,500 And one day. 1631 01:42:57,458 --> 01:42:59,000 Yeah, so heads up kids, 1632 01:43:00,041 --> 01:43:03,000 it might be episode 984 1633 01:43:03,416 --> 01:43:05,625 that we're gonna present it to you. 1634 01:43:05,625 --> 01:43:07,208 Yeah, exactly. 1635 01:43:07,666 --> 01:43:08,750 Cause we'll still be doing this. 1636 01:43:08,750 --> 01:43:10,500 We'll still be doing this. 1637 01:43:10,500 --> 01:43:11,458 We're gonna get to a thousand 1638 01:43:11,666 --> 01:43:12,625 and then we're gonna stop. 1639 01:43:14,791 --> 01:43:16,166 I do the math to figure out how old 1640 01:43:16,166 --> 01:43:17,250 we're gonna be at that time, 1641 01:43:17,250 --> 01:43:18,833 but yeah, that just seems too hard. 1642 01:43:19,000 --> 01:43:19,208 Yeah. 1643 01:43:20,541 --> 01:43:22,166 Mapping is not working for me right now. 1644 01:43:22,458 --> 01:43:24,916 Yeah, the mapping, yeah, it's been, 1645 01:43:25,625 --> 01:43:26,958 like we said, we started out with this. 1646 01:43:27,958 --> 01:43:28,833 We have not sat down. 1647 01:43:28,833 --> 01:43:29,291 This is the first time 1648 01:43:29,291 --> 01:43:30,083 we've sat down together 1649 01:43:30,125 --> 01:43:32,333 since we were in 1650 01:43:32,333 --> 01:43:34,291 Cancun and it's been crazy. 1651 01:43:35,666 --> 01:43:38,791 You were so right when we took off 1652 01:43:38,791 --> 01:43:40,625 for the last flight to come home. 1653 01:43:41,458 --> 01:43:43,000 After our layover, you're like, 1654 01:43:43,000 --> 01:43:46,750 "Well, enjoy your last bit of rest." 1655 01:43:49,000 --> 01:43:51,708 And you were right, you called it. 1656 01:43:51,708 --> 01:43:51,958 Yeah. 1657 01:43:52,875 --> 01:43:53,625 You called it. 1658 01:43:55,041 --> 01:43:56,458 Well, I mean, that's not news to me. 1659 01:43:56,458 --> 01:43:57,791 I hear that often. 1660 01:43:59,333 --> 01:43:59,541 Kidding. 1661 01:44:01,083 --> 01:44:01,875 You know everything. 1662 01:44:02,541 --> 01:44:03,666 No, I don't, I definitely don't. 1663 01:44:03,666 --> 01:44:05,583 I definitely do not, so. 1664 01:44:06,541 --> 01:44:07,833 Well, what else? 1665 01:44:08,791 --> 01:44:09,208 Well-- 1666 01:44:09,208 --> 01:44:10,125 As we round this thing up. 1667 01:44:10,625 --> 01:44:11,500 As we round this out, I mean, 1668 01:44:12,500 --> 01:44:15,083 I don't think the crazy 1669 01:44:15,083 --> 01:44:16,583 train is stopping anytime soon 1670 01:44:16,583 --> 01:44:18,166 because this weekend 1671 01:44:18,166 --> 01:44:20,000 you're headed to San Diego 1672 01:44:20,000 --> 01:44:20,833 with our youngest. 1673 01:44:21,291 --> 01:44:22,750 Four days, four days. 1674 01:44:23,250 --> 01:44:24,583 I know, because, you know. 1675 01:44:24,666 --> 01:44:25,625 Friday through Monday. 1676 01:44:25,666 --> 01:44:26,541 We don't have to have jobs 1677 01:44:26,541 --> 01:44:28,083 to pay for all this stuff. 1678 01:44:28,500 --> 01:44:28,708 I don't have a job, yeah. 1679 01:44:28,875 --> 01:44:31,500 Like, to pay for all this travel, 1680 01:44:31,916 --> 01:44:32,708 you do realize we 1681 01:44:32,708 --> 01:44:33,791 have to be employed to-- 1682 01:44:34,250 --> 01:44:34,541 Yeah. 1683 01:44:34,583 --> 01:44:35,541 Yeah, it's crazy. 1684 01:44:36,291 --> 01:44:37,666 And we still don't, and the craziest 1685 01:44:37,666 --> 01:44:38,416 thing about it to me 1686 01:44:38,541 --> 01:44:39,166 is we still don't 1687 01:44:39,166 --> 01:44:40,250 know when we're playing. 1688 01:44:41,291 --> 01:44:42,916 So our flight back's on Monday. 1689 01:44:42,916 --> 01:44:45,208 I looked, it's not uploaded yet, is it? 1690 01:44:45,916 --> 01:44:46,500 I haven't seen it. 1691 01:44:47,208 --> 01:44:47,958 So we just had to buy a 1692 01:44:47,958 --> 01:44:49,500 random flight on Monday 1693 01:44:49,500 --> 01:44:50,166 because we don't know what 1694 01:44:50,166 --> 01:44:51,333 time we come back on Monday. 1695 01:44:51,333 --> 01:44:51,541 Yeah. 1696 01:44:52,083 --> 01:44:55,250 Which is crazy to me. 1697 01:44:55,666 --> 01:44:55,708 I know. 1698 01:44:56,000 --> 01:44:56,958 Again, luckily our kids are 1699 01:44:56,958 --> 01:44:58,166 all going professional, so. 1700 01:44:58,333 --> 01:44:58,875 Obviously. 1701 01:44:59,666 --> 01:45:00,291 I mean, what are we spending 1702 01:45:00,291 --> 01:45:01,166 all this time and money for 1703 01:45:01,166 --> 01:45:01,625 if they're not? 1704 01:45:03,708 --> 01:45:04,291 I mean, we're 1705 01:45:04,291 --> 01:45:05,541 doubling down at this point. 1706 01:45:05,541 --> 01:45:06,416 We are, yeah. 1707 01:45:07,166 --> 01:45:07,500 I mean. 1708 01:45:08,250 --> 01:45:09,791 Putting ourselves in a financial ruin. 1709 01:45:11,416 --> 01:45:13,041 Just in the chance, or just 1710 01:45:13,041 --> 01:45:14,416 to make sure that they go pro 1711 01:45:14,416 --> 01:45:15,750 and hopefully they pay us back then. 1712 01:45:16,375 --> 01:45:17,541 No, in the knowledge and 1713 01:45:17,541 --> 01:45:18,916 fact that they'll go pro. 1714 01:45:18,916 --> 01:45:20,000 Oh yeah, obviously. 1715 01:45:20,416 --> 01:45:21,833 Yeah, no chances, but I mean, 1716 01:45:22,041 --> 01:45:23,083 this is our only play 1717 01:45:23,083 --> 01:45:23,916 in life at this point. 1718 01:45:26,625 --> 01:45:27,291 I've already told them, 1719 01:45:27,500 --> 01:45:28,625 I've already made them sign 1720 01:45:29,000 --> 01:45:30,583 my contract that I'm their manager. 1721 01:45:31,125 --> 01:45:31,458 Yeah. 1722 01:45:31,500 --> 01:45:33,458 And I get 90% of their 1723 01:45:33,458 --> 01:45:35,416 first paycheck, year's paycheck. 1724 01:45:35,791 --> 01:45:36,416 I'm gonna add an 1725 01:45:36,416 --> 01:45:37,333 amendment for that right now. 1726 01:45:37,416 --> 01:45:38,666 Oh, okay, first year's paycheck? 1727 01:45:38,916 --> 01:45:40,458 Yeah, first year's salary. 1728 01:45:40,500 --> 01:45:41,541 Okay, okay. 1729 01:45:42,125 --> 01:45:43,666 I don't know what job I'm gonna do, 1730 01:45:44,708 --> 01:45:47,416 but maybe they'll employ me too. 1731 01:45:48,291 --> 01:45:48,458 Yeah. 1732 01:45:48,791 --> 01:45:49,458 I could do their laundry. 1733 01:45:49,750 --> 01:45:50,416 We'll have multiple. 1734 01:45:51,458 --> 01:45:53,625 Yeah, and then they could just sign up. 1735 01:45:54,125 --> 01:45:54,666 Well, if they take 1736 01:45:54,666 --> 01:45:56,583 90%, well, you know, like, 1737 01:45:56,875 --> 01:45:57,500 what's left for me? 1738 01:45:57,500 --> 01:45:58,291 That's a rabbit hole, 1739 01:45:58,291 --> 01:45:59,375 that's a rabbit hole, so. 1740 01:45:59,958 --> 01:46:01,666 Yeah, we got a big one, but you don't, 1741 01:46:01,666 --> 01:46:03,041 you have nothing going on this weekend. 1742 01:46:04,333 --> 01:46:05,083 Yeah, no. 1743 01:46:05,083 --> 01:46:05,833 Since you're staying home. 1744 01:46:06,000 --> 01:46:08,125 I'll be kinda quiet, I think, 1745 01:46:08,583 --> 01:46:10,500 because it's fall break coming up, 1746 01:46:10,500 --> 01:46:11,750 so it's not like the 1747 01:46:11,750 --> 01:46:12,500 kids will have homework. 1748 01:46:12,500 --> 01:46:13,583 I think someone has a 1749 01:46:13,583 --> 01:46:14,916 birthday party, I mean, so I'll be. 1750 01:46:15,000 --> 01:46:16,666 The traditional fall break. 1751 01:46:17,000 --> 01:46:18,500 Yeah, the traditional more 1752 01:46:18,500 --> 01:46:20,416 than one week fall break. 1753 01:46:20,916 --> 01:46:21,375 You know what, that's 1754 01:46:21,375 --> 01:46:21,833 what I was gonna say. 1755 01:46:21,833 --> 01:46:26,375 That is the one, that is the balance to, 1756 01:46:27,000 --> 01:46:27,958 they say like school's so 1757 01:46:27,958 --> 01:46:29,083 much crazier than them now, 1758 01:46:29,083 --> 01:46:29,958 but they get way more 1759 01:46:29,958 --> 01:46:31,083 time off than we ever did. 1760 01:46:32,125 --> 01:46:32,250 Yeah. 1761 01:46:32,625 --> 01:46:33,250 Way more time off. 1762 01:46:34,375 --> 01:46:36,500 A week and a day in October. 1763 01:46:36,875 --> 01:46:37,208 Yeah. 1764 01:46:37,250 --> 01:46:38,500 And then a week in November. 1765 01:46:39,125 --> 01:46:40,291 Yeah, I mean, we used to go to school 1766 01:46:40,291 --> 01:46:42,875 like Monday, Tuesday for Thanksgiving. 1767 01:46:43,291 --> 01:46:43,583 Oh yeah, we would. 1768 01:46:43,625 --> 01:46:43,916 You get like 1769 01:46:43,916 --> 01:46:45,041 Wednesday, Thursday, Friday off. 1770 01:46:45,375 --> 01:46:46,541 We didn't even get Wednesday off. 1771 01:46:46,958 --> 01:46:48,291 Yeah, I don't think we did either. 1772 01:46:48,291 --> 01:46:49,250 I'm just saying that to be. 1773 01:46:49,291 --> 01:46:49,916 Isn't that crazy? 1774 01:46:49,916 --> 01:46:50,125 Yeah. 1775 01:46:50,458 --> 01:46:51,291 Now they get the full week. 1776 01:46:51,583 --> 01:46:51,875 Yeah. 1777 01:46:52,250 --> 01:46:53,000 And then our kids don't 1778 01:46:53,000 --> 01:46:53,916 usually go back to school 1779 01:46:53,916 --> 01:46:55,000 until like a couple 1780 01:46:55,000 --> 01:46:56,000 days into the new year. 1781 01:46:56,041 --> 01:46:56,750 There's not a full month 1782 01:46:56,750 --> 01:46:58,125 of school, not even one. 1783 01:46:58,666 --> 01:47:00,000 April might be the only, I 1784 01:47:00,000 --> 01:47:01,208 might step on myself here, but. 1785 01:47:01,500 --> 01:47:01,916 Maybe April. 1786 01:47:02,416 --> 01:47:03,041 Maybe April. 1787 01:47:03,500 --> 01:47:05,291 It's the only month 1788 01:47:05,291 --> 01:47:06,083 that they may not have, 1789 01:47:06,083 --> 01:47:07,916 they may have a full month of school. 1790 01:47:09,833 --> 01:47:10,916 It's crazy, right? 1791 01:47:11,208 --> 01:47:11,833 It is, it is. 1792 01:47:11,833 --> 01:47:13,083 They do, it is not easy, but 1793 01:47:13,083 --> 01:47:13,916 they get a lot of time off. 1794 01:47:14,166 --> 01:47:14,833 They do. 1795 01:47:14,875 --> 01:47:15,333 I think. 1796 01:47:15,375 --> 01:47:15,666 I know. 1797 01:47:16,875 --> 01:47:19,291 Candidly, I mean, if I'm being honest, 1798 01:47:19,291 --> 01:47:20,750 not that I actually 1799 01:47:20,750 --> 01:47:21,416 would rather have them 1800 01:47:21,416 --> 01:47:22,500 an extra week of the summer 1801 01:47:22,500 --> 01:47:23,416 and have a shorter 1802 01:47:23,416 --> 01:47:25,208 fall break, my opinion, 1803 01:47:25,208 --> 01:47:27,916 but I do like the time 1804 01:47:27,916 --> 01:47:29,291 off even during the year 1805 01:47:29,291 --> 01:47:30,291 because that makes our schedule 1806 01:47:30,583 --> 01:47:32,083 a little bit better for that one week. 1807 01:47:33,208 --> 01:47:34,291 I mean, it's not like 1808 01:47:34,291 --> 01:47:36,416 fly out of it at 5.45 1809 01:47:36,708 --> 01:47:38,375 and hit the ground running. 1810 01:47:38,916 --> 01:47:41,625 You sleep in a little bit, it's just a 1811 01:47:41,625 --> 01:47:43,458 little more relaxed. 1812 01:47:44,000 --> 01:47:44,583 So that's a good point. 1813 01:47:45,041 --> 01:47:46,541 There is a benefit to it. 1814 01:47:46,875 --> 01:47:47,083 It just. 1815 01:47:47,791 --> 01:47:49,333 Yeah, but you're 1816 01:47:49,333 --> 01:47:52,375 presenting for two days that week, 1817 01:47:53,416 --> 01:47:54,583 in the office. 1818 01:47:54,583 --> 01:47:55,083 In the office. 1819 01:47:55,583 --> 01:47:57,500 So it's, we should have 1820 01:47:57,500 --> 01:47:59,708 rescheduled those thousand people. 1821 01:48:00,250 --> 01:48:02,083 This is my fall break, 1822 01:48:02,083 --> 01:48:02,958 if you wouldn't mind. 1823 01:48:03,000 --> 01:48:05,791 If you could just move this for me. 1824 01:48:07,250 --> 01:48:08,125 I'd love it. 1825 01:48:10,208 --> 01:48:11,583 All right, well, we should 1826 01:48:11,583 --> 01:48:14,291 probably sum this up here. 1827 01:48:14,333 --> 01:48:15,000 All right. 1828 01:48:15,000 --> 01:48:15,750 This last week up. 1829 01:48:16,208 --> 01:48:16,500 Okay. 1830 01:48:17,875 --> 01:48:19,583 (humming) 1831 01:48:20,333 --> 01:48:22,583 (humming) 1832 01:48:25,458 --> 01:48:29,708 Do we wait till the end of the song? 1833 01:48:30,083 --> 01:48:31,208 No, I thought you might join in. 1834 01:48:31,958 --> 01:48:32,333 Oh. 1835 01:48:32,708 --> 01:48:33,291 Do you know that song? 1836 01:48:33,625 --> 01:48:33,958 Yeah. 1837 01:48:33,958 --> 01:48:34,916 Okay, I'm just curious. 1838 01:48:35,291 --> 01:48:36,000 I thought maybe I 1839 01:48:36,000 --> 01:48:36,916 wasn't getting it at all. 1840 01:48:37,833 --> 01:48:38,583 Oh gosh, no, no. 1841 01:48:38,583 --> 01:48:39,125 It was way off. 1842 01:48:39,125 --> 01:48:39,833 Well then I was going 1843 01:48:39,833 --> 01:48:41,375 through, oh, in jeopardy, 1844 01:48:42,000 --> 01:48:42,791 like do they have to wait 1845 01:48:42,791 --> 01:48:43,458 till the end of the song 1846 01:48:43,458 --> 01:48:44,458 before they present their answers? 1847 01:48:45,291 --> 01:48:46,083 (humming) 1848 01:48:47,041 --> 01:48:48,500 (humming) 1849 01:48:50,125 --> 01:48:52,125 I don't think the song that never ends. 1850 01:48:53,750 --> 01:48:54,500 All right, here we go. 1851 01:48:55,041 --> 01:48:56,250 One, two, three. 1852 01:48:56,291 --> 01:48:56,541 Sprint. 1853 01:48:56,791 --> 01:48:57,000 Blur. 1854 01:48:58,041 --> 01:48:58,291 Oh yeah. 1855 01:48:58,875 --> 01:48:59,875 Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 1856 01:49:00,041 --> 01:49:00,291 Same thing. 1857 01:49:00,583 --> 01:49:01,333 Yeah, totally same. 1858 01:49:02,875 --> 01:49:03,041 Same. 1859 01:49:03,250 --> 01:49:03,458 Same. 1860 01:49:04,291 --> 01:49:04,458 (laughing) 1861 01:49:04,708 --> 01:49:05,500 You need to explain. 1862 01:49:06,708 --> 01:49:07,708 We're already logged in. 1863 01:49:08,333 --> 01:49:09,250 I love it. 1864 01:49:09,958 --> 01:49:10,500 Love it. 1865 01:49:11,083 --> 01:49:12,208 I think it goes with all tang. 1866 01:49:12,500 --> 01:49:12,958 It does. 1867 01:49:13,208 --> 01:49:15,333 It was a sprint and it was a blur. 1868 01:49:15,416 --> 01:49:16,291 We did through it and 1869 01:49:16,291 --> 01:49:17,250 everything on the sidelines 1870 01:49:17,250 --> 01:49:17,833 was a blur. 1871 01:49:17,833 --> 01:49:18,166 It was a blur. 1872 01:49:18,708 --> 01:49:21,083 Yep, so we got it. 1873 01:49:21,083 --> 01:49:22,208 Keep on sprinting I guess. 1874 01:49:23,083 --> 01:49:24,541 Yeah, at some point we're 1875 01:49:24,541 --> 01:49:25,750 like, I'm still sprinting 1876 01:49:25,750 --> 01:49:26,916 and I'm running a 1877 01:49:26,916 --> 01:49:28,000 marathon, I'm exhausted. 1878 01:49:30,041 --> 01:49:32,833 All right. 1879 01:49:32,833 --> 01:49:34,250 You gotta find those moments to enjoy it. 1880 01:49:34,541 --> 01:49:36,791 I know, I know, and we did. 1881 01:49:37,333 --> 01:49:38,333 A little bit too in there. 1882 01:49:38,750 --> 01:49:38,958 Yeah. 1883 01:49:39,541 --> 01:49:40,291 Well we'll wrap up because 1884 01:49:40,291 --> 01:49:41,250 you gotta go cook a dinner. 1885 01:49:41,583 --> 01:49:42,416 I have to go cook dinner. 1886 01:49:43,500 --> 01:49:44,541 Because I have to get back to the sprint. 1887 01:49:45,166 --> 01:49:46,083 You're calling me on the track. 1888 01:49:46,666 --> 01:49:47,166 Big walk. 1889 01:49:48,125 --> 01:49:49,791 (laughing) 1890 01:49:49,791 --> 01:49:54,625 All right, thanks for joining. 1891 01:49:54,958 --> 01:49:56,166 We will see you next time. 1892 01:49:56,791 --> 01:49:57,500 Yeah, chow chow. 1893 01:49:58,166 --> 01:49:58,500 See ya.