We talk about relational patterns that turn disagreements into permanent divisions, including unrealistic expectations, avoidance, passive-aggressive communication, gossip, pride, and unresolved offense. Through the conflicts of the apostle Paul with Peter, Barnabas, and Mark, we see that it is possible to confront wrongdoing, disagree strongly, and even go separate ways without destroying the relationship. Humility, honest communication, personal responsibility, and a commitment to peace can preserve trust and leave the door open for future reconciliation.
QUESTIONS
- How do you typically respond when conflict or disappointment enters a relationship?
- Where do you need to own your part in a conflict, even if the other person never does?
- How can you speak with honor about someone even when the relationship has changed?
READ MORE ABOUT
- Working for peace in Matthew 5:9
- Confronting conflict with truth and humility in Galatians 2:11–14
- Receiving honest correction from a faithful friend in Proverbs 27:6
- Handling sharp disagreement without dishonor in Acts 15:36–40
- Speaking well of people after conflict in 1 Corinthians 9:6 and 2 Timothy 4:11
- Living at peace as much as it depends on you in Romans 12:18
What is The Overflow?
Welcome to The Overflow—the bonus round of faith and real-life conversation with Brandon and Susan Thomas. Every week, they unpack the powerful insights, behind-the-scenes experiences, and personal reflections that didn’t quite fit into Sunday’s sermon.
This is where the conversation gets practical, honest, and a little bit unscripted. Whether it's an encouraging word, a deeper dive into Scripture, or a hilarious moment from their week, Brandon and Susan bring fresh perspective and spiritual fuel to keep you going.
It’s real talk, fresh takes, and full hearts.
These are the conversations too good to cut and too real to miss.