The Way of The Confident Husband - Chuck Chapman, M.A.

In this video, I explore the concept of 'Monogamous to Mom,' and The Nice Guy Syndrome. The concept that Dr. Glover Talks about in No More Mr. Nice is how many nice guys,  have with their mothers and how these bonds influence our romantic relationships. I discuss the common pattern of seeking motherly approval, which often leads to choosing partners who remind us of our mothers and developing codependent dynamics. I present various strategies for breaking free from these patterns, including building connections with other men, reevaluating father-child relationships, establishing independence from parents, and cutting ties with maternal enmeshment. I emphasize the importance of personal growth, setting boundaries, and cultivating healthy relationships as crucial steps for nice guys like us looking to resolve our 'mommy issues' and develop a more solid, masculine identity

What is The Way of The Confident Husband - Chuck Chapman, M.A.?

The Confident Husband Podcast is for the man who’s done settling.

If you’re tired of feeling disconnected in your marriage, confused by your wife’s needs, or unsure how to lead without controlling or caretaking—this podcast is for you.

I’m Chuck Chapman, a licensed professional counselor, a men’s relationship expert and creator of The Confident Husband Solution. After 20,000+ hours working with men, I’ve seen the patterns that keep us stuck—and I’ve built the roadmap to help you lead with strength, presence, and purpose.

Each week, we dive into what it really means to be a husband, how to rebuild trust, reignite intimacy, and take full ownership of your life and marriage—without losing yourself in the process.

Real tools, real stories, and real transformation.

Because your marriage won’t change until you do.
Let’s do the work—together.