1 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:11,759 Well, hello all you beautiful people. 2 00:00:09,040 --> 00:00:15,519 You know what time it is. 3 00:00:11,759 --> 00:00:18,240 Ladies and gents, guys and dolls and 4 00:00:15,519 --> 00:00:20,880 everyone in between. 5 00:00:18,240 --> 00:00:25,039 Gather around. Get you something real 6 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:28,960 nice to sip on and comfy to slip on. 7 00:00:25,039 --> 00:00:32,350 Cuz it's time for Smite Club. Here's 8 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:35,920 your hosts, Chelsea and Hannah. 9 00:00:32,350 --> 00:00:39,280 [Music] 10 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:42,320 Announcement time. Um, so we have been 11 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:44,879 doing this podcast for several years 12 00:00:42,320 --> 00:00:46,879 now. Um, we launched in 2022 and we've 13 00:00:44,879 --> 00:00:48,719 built such a wonderful community over 14 00:00:46,879 --> 00:00:51,520 these last several years and are looking 15 00:00:48,719 --> 00:00:54,320 for new ways to kind of expand and be 16 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:55,920 able to connect more deeply. So, the 17 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:58,239 first one of those ways that we've been 18 00:00:55,920 --> 00:00:59,920 talking about is life coaching. um which 19 00:00:58,239 --> 00:01:01,920 is a chance to work one-on-one 20 00:00:59,920 --> 00:01:04,400 individually to help make life feel a 21 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:06,960 little less sticky. Um spots will be 22 00:01:04,400 --> 00:01:10,240 limited as we launch that. So if you're 23 00:01:06,960 --> 00:01:12,400 interested, we will have a link in our 24 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:14,320 show notes and in our Insta bio. 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And 36 00:01:37,680 --> 00:01:43,119 now back to the show. 37 00:01:39,790 --> 00:01:45,119 [Music] 38 00:01:43,119 --> 00:01:47,759 Hey everybody and welcome to Smuck Club. 39 00:01:45,119 --> 00:01:49,600 I'm Hannah. And I'm Chelsea. And this is 40 00:01:47,759 --> 00:01:51,520 the show where we are two licensed 41 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:55,680 professional counselors and life 42 00:01:51,520 --> 00:01:57,600 coachers. Life no life coach who offer 43 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:58,799 life who offer therapy and life 44 00:01:57,600 --> 00:02:00,640 coaching. Is that what I'm trying to 45 00:01:58,799 --> 00:02:04,079 say? Man, I have [ __ ] our elevator 46 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:05,439 pitch today. I I should just try again. 47 00:02:04,079 --> 00:02:05,840 I was going to say, do you want to start 48 00:02:05,439 --> 00:02:08,160 over? 49 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:11,200 I don't. Life is about embracing our 50 00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:13,440 moments where And you know what? 51 00:02:11,200 --> 00:02:15,680 The people knew what you meant. 52 00:02:13,440 --> 00:02:18,160 Yes. Spiritually, everyone knew what I 53 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:20,800 meant. Yeah. Welcome to Smut Club. We're 54 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:23,840 Chelsea and Hannah, two licensed 55 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:26,640 therapist and life coaches who enjoy 56 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:29,680 reading romance novels of varying 57 00:02:26,640 --> 00:02:33,440 caliber and reviewing them together 58 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:35,440 while we drink alcohol of different 59 00:02:33,440 --> 00:02:38,080 types. 60 00:02:35,440 --> 00:02:40,080 Still not my best elevator pitch, but 61 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:41,280 again, the people knew what you meant, 62 00:02:40,080 --> 00:02:42,720 you know. 63 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:44,879 And if you didn't like that elevator 64 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:45,519 pitch, then maybe maybe we're not a 65 00:02:44,879 --> 00:02:46,959 match. 66 00:02:45,519 --> 00:02:48,720 Yeah. And that's okay, 67 00:02:46,959 --> 00:02:49,120 right? But I I think it was a good 68 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:49,599 pitch. 69 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:51,040 It was 70 00:02:49,599 --> 00:02:52,000 I think it shows who we are. 71 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:54,000 It does. Yeah. 72 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:57,519 It shows our zest. 73 00:02:54,000 --> 00:03:00,319 Zesty. Yeah. 74 00:02:57,519 --> 00:03:02,239 Off to a strong start today. Le Let's 75 00:03:00,319 --> 00:03:07,040 just jump in. What book are we 76 00:03:02,239 --> 00:03:09,760 reviewing? We are reviewing Give Me More 77 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:11,040 by Sarah Kate, which is 78 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:12,080 Kate with a C. 79 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:13,200 Kate with a C, 80 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:13,599 not with a K. 81 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:14,400 Correct. 82 00:03:13,599 --> 00:03:18,480 Yes. 83 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:22,080 And um this is the third standalone in 84 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:24,800 the Salacious Players Club series. 85 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:25,599 Okay. I haven't made it that far in the 86 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:26,319 series. 87 00:03:25,599 --> 00:03:27,680 Yes. So, 88 00:03:26,319 --> 00:03:28,959 by that I think I made it through one 89 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:31,200 and a half. 90 00:03:28,959 --> 00:03:32,720 So, I think it's like actually coming 91 00:03:31,200 --> 00:03:34,400 back to me now as I'm talking about it. 92 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:35,360 The first one is praise which we have 93 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:39,280 talked about. 94 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:40,000 The second one I think is Eyes on Me. I 95 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:41,760 think 96 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:44,080 that feels correct. 97 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:45,200 And then this one is Give Me More. And 98 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:47,519 this is the one we're talking about 99 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:50,560 today. So you don't really need to know 100 00:03:47,519 --> 00:03:54,400 anything about the previous books except 101 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:57,360 that we open the prologue 7 years ago. 102 00:03:54,400 --> 00:03:59,920 Everybody's prologue starts seven years 103 00:03:57,360 --> 00:04:02,480 ago. So, they were all at a bar 104 00:03:59,920 --> 00:04:03,599 drinking, talking about how they all 105 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:04,879 have different kids. 106 00:04:03,599 --> 00:04:07,280 Yes. 107 00:04:04,879 --> 00:04:09,360 And they are having a really hard time 108 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:10,640 finding compatible partners 109 00:04:09,360 --> 00:04:12,879 who are accepting. 110 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:13,439 Exactly. So, how do they handle that to 111 00:04:12,879 --> 00:04:17,120 me? 112 00:04:13,439 --> 00:04:19,359 So, this is where like at this bar, this 113 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:21,440 group of friends who all work together, 114 00:04:19,359 --> 00:04:24,800 they decide they're going to launch a 115 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:27,759 dating service specific for the kink 116 00:04:24,800 --> 00:04:32,720 community. And then they expanded past 117 00:04:27,759 --> 00:04:36,880 that around year 6 or 7 to an actual 118 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:38,560 physical club. And so that's kind of the 119 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:41,280 vibe of where we're starting. You know 120 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:42,960 what I like about that? I was expecting 121 00:04:41,280 --> 00:04:45,520 it to go from like they started as with 122 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:47,440 a dating service and then went to an app 123 00:04:45,520 --> 00:04:48,960 and made it more accessible instead. 124 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:51,280 It's like they started with a dating 125 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:53,440 service and then went to a more 126 00:04:51,280 --> 00:04:55,840 exclusive brickandmortar. 127 00:04:53,440 --> 00:04:59,199 Yeah, they did. They did. I was going to 128 00:04:55,840 --> 00:05:01,040 say what would the app be just field? 129 00:04:59,199 --> 00:05:04,000 Well, kind of. And that's sort of the 130 00:05:01,040 --> 00:05:05,840 vibe that it gives, but it also they 131 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:07,520 they try to say that it's more like 132 00:05:05,840 --> 00:05:09,520 boutique and individualized for people 133 00:05:07,520 --> 00:05:11,120 and stuff and they're they have like 134 00:05:09,520 --> 00:05:11,840 safety measures in place and things like 135 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:15,680 that. 136 00:05:11,840 --> 00:05:21,280 Um, so we opened 7 years ago. They 137 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:25,600 Hunter is our main guy. Um, and he and 138 00:05:21,280 --> 00:05:27,280 uh his wife whose name I should know 139 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:28,720 Isabelle, sorry. 140 00:05:27,280 --> 00:05:31,039 Hunter and Isabelle. 141 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:33,280 Yes. So, currently his girlfriends, they 142 00:05:31,039 --> 00:05:36,560 are at the bar with their friends 143 00:05:33,280 --> 00:05:39,919 hanging out. Um, his best friend Drake 144 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:41,600 is also there and he is a contractor. 145 00:05:39,919 --> 00:05:42,160 They've been best friends their whole 146 00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:44,080 lives. 147 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:46,400 Drake the contractor who likes to [ __ ] 148 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:47,840 everyone in the club. I remember him 149 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:50,479 because he was there was some tension 150 00:05:47,840 --> 00:05:52,800 with Drake in the first book and praise. 151 00:05:50,479 --> 00:05:54,720 Yeah. where he hit on the guy's 152 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:55,440 girlfriend, love interest at the time or 153 00:05:54,720 --> 00:05:58,800 whatever. 154 00:05:55,440 --> 00:06:00,880 So Drake is there. He is already off 155 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:02,800 like about to get it with a birthday 156 00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:03,840 girl who's got like a sash and a tiara 157 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:05,840 tiara on and stuff. 158 00:06:03,840 --> 00:06:06,639 That does seem to be Drake's energy. 159 00:06:05,840 --> 00:06:08,319 And um 160 00:06:06,639 --> 00:06:10,880 have vagina will travel. 161 00:06:08,319 --> 00:06:14,319 Exactly. And Hunter's like, you know, I 162 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:17,520 have literally known him my entire life. 163 00:06:14,319 --> 00:06:19,680 Like we came up really hard. Our lives 164 00:06:17,520 --> 00:06:22,319 were really hard. we got out of that 165 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:24,319 together. We will always be like 166 00:06:22,319 --> 00:06:26,479 together like we will always be best 167 00:06:24,319 --> 00:06:29,440 friends and 168 00:06:26,479 --> 00:06:30,800 we will always be bonded no matter where 169 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:34,400 life takes us. 170 00:06:30,800 --> 00:06:35,759 Exactly. And um as they're having this 171 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:38,400 conversation around the table about 172 00:06:35,759 --> 00:06:41,919 kinks and stuff, his girlfriend, who had 173 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:44,240 been a virgin when they met, all of a 174 00:06:41,919 --> 00:06:48,639 sudden reveals that her fantasy is to 175 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:51,520 have a threesome. And um he's like 176 00:06:48,639 --> 00:06:52,560 absolutely flabbergasted, floored, like 177 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:55,440 oh my god. Like 178 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:56,479 like Isabelle like like excited or like 179 00:06:55,440 --> 00:07:00,240 horrified 180 00:06:56,479 --> 00:07:01,360 more confused because he was like really 181 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:02,880 like and 182 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:05,599 like that really hadn't been on my bingo 183 00:07:02,880 --> 00:07:06,880 card for what you for like anything I 184 00:07:05,599 --> 00:07:09,360 thought you were going to say that like 185 00:07:06,880 --> 00:07:11,680 was your fantasy that was not on on my 186 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:13,199 list of of guesses. Okay. So, like not 187 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:16,080 like he's like 188 00:07:13,199 --> 00:07:17,759 disgusted by the idea. He just didn't 189 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:19,440 anticipate it. 190 00:07:17,759 --> 00:07:21,520 And one of the other guys is like, "Oh, 191 00:07:19,440 --> 00:07:23,199 okay. So, like boy or girl?" And she's 192 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:26,160 like, "I don't know. I guess either kind 193 00:07:23,199 --> 00:07:28,880 of." And he was like, "Damn, okay." 194 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:30,160 Like, interesting. 195 00:07:28,880 --> 00:07:30,560 Boy for me, 196 00:07:30,160 --> 00:07:32,240 right? 197 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:36,479 And I think for Vance it would be a 198 00:07:32,240 --> 00:07:38,880 girl, which is likely why 199 00:07:36,479 --> 00:07:39,599 that that likely is not written in our 200 00:07:38,880 --> 00:07:41,759 stars. 201 00:07:39,599 --> 00:07:45,199 Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, I'm reading a book 202 00:07:41,759 --> 00:07:48,080 right now where there is uh three dudes 203 00:07:45,199 --> 00:07:51,199 and one woman and two of the men are 204 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:53,840 together and the third one is the um 205 00:07:51,199 --> 00:07:55,440 axle diesel energy of the group. He's 206 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:57,599 truly insane. 207 00:07:55,440 --> 00:07:59,039 And so he like approaches the two guys 208 00:07:57,599 --> 00:08:01,599 one day and he's like, "Listen, I get 209 00:07:59,039 --> 00:08:03,840 it. We're all together. So I think that 210 00:08:01,599 --> 00:08:05,280 means like I'm pretty sure I'm pretty 211 00:08:03,840 --> 00:08:08,479 sure I could [ __ ] you guys." And they 212 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:10,960 were like, "What?" 213 00:08:08,479 --> 00:08:12,479 And so they like call his bluff and 214 00:08:10,960 --> 00:08:15,039 they're like, "No time like the present, 215 00:08:12,479 --> 00:08:16,639 babe. Come on over." And like 216 00:08:15,039 --> 00:08:18,479 immediately when they start touching 217 00:08:16,639 --> 00:08:20,400 him, he's like, "Nope, nope. Straight. 218 00:08:18,479 --> 00:08:22,479 I'm straight. Never mind. I'm so I can't 219 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:26,280 do it." And they're like, "Dude, we know 220 00:08:22,479 --> 00:08:26,280 we weren't going to 221 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:33,279 I feel like that almost reads like a my 222 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:36,080 ego says I could do this." 223 00:08:33,279 --> 00:08:38,800 Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. like my ego says 224 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:42,479 that you would want to and so I should 225 00:08:38,800 --> 00:08:44,080 be also into it. 226 00:08:42,479 --> 00:08:44,880 But it's also like the truest thing 227 00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:45,600 ever, right? Where I'm like, 228 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:49,519 "Yeah, 229 00:08:45,600 --> 00:08:52,160 yeah." You know, I think I am the first 230 00:08:49,519 --> 00:08:56,880 person to compliment a stranger's ass at 231 00:08:52,160 --> 00:08:58,560 the grocery store 100%. And I also don't 232 00:08:56,880 --> 00:09:00,640 personally look at women and think like 233 00:08:58,560 --> 00:09:03,040 I want to make out with them. Like I'm 234 00:09:00,640 --> 00:09:04,480 not sexually attracted, but I can 235 00:09:03,040 --> 00:09:05,200 appreciate 236 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:07,920 the aesthetic. 237 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:09,839 The aesthetic, their beauty, and the 238 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:11,519 same with men, right? And want to 239 00:09:09,839 --> 00:09:11,920 compliment everyone all the time. 240 00:09:11,519 --> 00:09:13,600 Yeah. 241 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:14,880 But I do think that like it might be a 242 00:09:13,600 --> 00:09:16,800 similar thing for me 243 00:09:14,880 --> 00:09:18,560 where I'm like, "Yeah, I not that you 244 00:09:16,800 --> 00:09:19,920 and I are going to start making out by 245 00:09:18,560 --> 00:09:25,080 any what?" 246 00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:25,080 That's on our Patreon. Just kidding. 247 00:09:26,720 --> 00:09:30,880 If you're wondering what our exclusive 248 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:34,000 content looks like, it's actually going 249 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:37,959 to be nothing like that. 250 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:37,959 Nothing like that. 251 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:42,640 That's when Smut Club ends up on Only 252 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:43,920 Fans and we all have more questions than 253 00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:46,160 answers at this point. 254 00:09:43,920 --> 00:09:47,360 Yeah, 100%. But 255 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:49,839 but all that said, 256 00:09:47,360 --> 00:09:50,959 so that's kind of the the vibe is 257 00:09:49,839 --> 00:09:53,279 they're all talking about their 258 00:09:50,959 --> 00:09:54,959 different kinks. So, one guy is like, "I 259 00:09:53,279 --> 00:09:56,880 like to watch." One is like, "You know, 260 00:09:54,959 --> 00:09:58,000 I like to dominate." Like all these 261 00:09:56,880 --> 00:10:02,640 different things that they're into, 262 00:09:58,000 --> 00:10:05,279 which is fine. And um 263 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:07,120 they launch it. They decide like the 264 00:10:05,279 --> 00:10:08,959 company they all work for goes under 265 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:11,839 literally like the next day. They all 266 00:10:08,959 --> 00:10:14,000 get laid off. And so the guy from 267 00:10:11,839 --> 00:10:15,360 Praise, the main guy from Praise, is 268 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:17,839 kind of the 269 00:10:15,360 --> 00:10:19,680 the driver behind most of the stuff in 270 00:10:17,839 --> 00:10:21,360 their friend group anyway. And so he 271 00:10:19,680 --> 00:10:23,680 calls everybody and is like, "We're 272 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:26,959 doing it." Like sign from the universe. 273 00:10:23,680 --> 00:10:29,279 This is it. So 274 00:10:26,959 --> 00:10:31,519 we are now 7 years in the future and we 275 00:10:29,279 --> 00:10:33,680 get Drake's perspective. 276 00:10:31,519 --> 00:10:35,839 So Drake, the best friends, 277 00:10:33,680 --> 00:10:37,200 Hunter, Isabelle, and Drake. 278 00:10:35,839 --> 00:10:41,120 Drake, correct? 279 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:43,519 So Drake, these are his words. He is a 280 00:10:41,120 --> 00:10:44,880 man [ __ ] He's like, I prefer a 281 00:10:43,519 --> 00:10:47,440 scoundrel. 282 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:50,399 That's a little dated. I am a [ __ ] 283 00:10:47,440 --> 00:10:51,200 He's like, "That's just the truth." Like 284 00:10:50,399 --> 00:10:53,120 whatever. 285 00:10:51,200 --> 00:10:55,360 It feels different when you're using it 286 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:57,519 as your own self-proclaimed title 287 00:10:55,360 --> 00:10:59,920 versus someone else using Cuz if someone 288 00:10:57,519 --> 00:11:02,399 else calls you a [ __ ] it's never meant 289 00:10:59,920 --> 00:11:04,240 as a compliment. It's always meant to be 290 00:11:02,399 --> 00:11:06,720 degrading at some level. 291 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:08,560 Yeah. Except for my one friend Gary, he 292 00:11:06,720 --> 00:11:10,800 calls me a [ __ ] a lot, and it's usually 293 00:11:08,560 --> 00:11:14,399 from a place of love. 294 00:11:10,800 --> 00:11:16,240 I I feel like we all have one friend who 295 00:11:14,399 --> 00:11:17,680 doesn't. It's It's the same friend who's 296 00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:18,959 going to be like, "You know me, I'm a 297 00:11:17,680 --> 00:11:20,240 [ __ ] for a sandwich." 298 00:11:18,959 --> 00:11:20,560 Literally. Yes. 299 00:11:20,240 --> 00:11:22,880 Yes. 300 00:11:20,560 --> 00:11:25,920 He got another friend of ours a cake 301 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:27,519 that said, "Boo you [ __ ] when she quit 302 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:29,200 her job where we all worked and was 303 00:11:27,519 --> 00:11:31,519 going somewhere else." Like brought it 304 00:11:29,200 --> 00:11:34,640 to work. Boo you [ __ ] 305 00:11:31,519 --> 00:11:35,680 Um Okay. What's the Is it Carll? Is that 306 00:11:34,640 --> 00:11:36,399 the ice cream? 307 00:11:35,680 --> 00:11:39,360 Yes. Yeah. 308 00:11:36,399 --> 00:11:42,399 Okay. Um, I had a friend who worked at a 309 00:11:39,360 --> 00:11:44,560 carell growing up and like with all of 310 00:11:42,399 --> 00:11:46,800 the fudgy the whale ice cream cakes. 311 00:11:44,560 --> 00:11:50,079 Ironically, he like worked there through 312 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:52,079 college and is a dentist now. Um, 313 00:11:50,079 --> 00:11:54,399 sometimes I like got to just hanging out 314 00:11:52,079 --> 00:11:55,839 with him. I'd help like fill the soft 315 00:11:54,399 --> 00:11:57,360 serve machine and like learned a little 316 00:11:55,839 --> 00:11:59,839 bit about ice cream along the way. But 317 00:11:57,360 --> 00:12:03,120 my favorite was just watching this dude 318 00:11:59,839 --> 00:12:05,760 who you would have no idea he could pipe 319 00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:08,880 lettering so beautifully with frosting. 320 00:12:05,760 --> 00:12:11,040 And one day, one day I was there and 321 00:12:08,880 --> 00:12:13,519 like the a girl was quitting like the 322 00:12:11,040 --> 00:12:15,680 local Hooters or something like that. 323 00:12:13,519 --> 00:12:19,760 And so I'm watching him pipe onto the 324 00:12:15,680 --> 00:12:24,000 cake. Boo you [ __ ] We'll miss you. 325 00:12:19,760 --> 00:12:28,079 Love all the [ __ ] 326 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:30,480 That's lovely. And he did it so well. He 327 00:12:28,079 --> 00:12:30,959 fit it all on the cake. The spacing was 328 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:33,600 great. 329 00:12:30,959 --> 00:12:35,360 I love that Gary put you [ __ ] on the 330 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:37,360 cake himself because he didn't think the 331 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:38,639 Engles in Cleveland, Georgia would be 332 00:12:37,360 --> 00:12:40,160 willing to do it for him. 333 00:12:38,639 --> 00:12:41,760 Don't dox yourself, Hannah. 334 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:43,600 Well, 335 00:12:41,760 --> 00:12:44,880 that's not where I live. But 336 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:46,959 you're right. That's not where you live. 337 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:47,760 But where But the Engles in North 338 00:12:46,959 --> 00:12:49,040 Georgia 339 00:12:47,760 --> 00:12:51,040 Yeah. They weren't going to be willing 340 00:12:49,040 --> 00:12:53,200 to do that. And so he did it himself. 341 00:12:51,040 --> 00:12:54,560 And it was not professional, but that 342 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:56,560 made it better. 343 00:12:54,560 --> 00:12:57,360 Yeah. Yeah, I feel like that adds to the 344 00:12:56,560 --> 00:12:59,680 aesthetic. 345 00:12:57,360 --> 00:13:01,279 It does. It does when it's your own. 346 00:12:59,680 --> 00:13:04,720 How if you ever need a polished one, you 347 00:13:01,279 --> 00:13:06,079 need to go back to Carll in like 348 00:13:04,720 --> 00:13:09,600 09 349 00:13:06,079 --> 00:13:11,600 in Palm Harbor, Florida. Ali will hook 350 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:13,200 you straight up. 351 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:15,279 Shout out to Ollie. Um 352 00:13:13,200 --> 00:13:16,720 Oh, I miss him. I should find out where 353 00:13:15,279 --> 00:13:18,000 he is and call him. 354 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:19,760 Shoot him a little message. How you 355 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:22,000 doing, Ollie? Did I tell you I did that 356 00:13:19,760 --> 00:13:23,839 recently with someone where I had like 357 00:13:22,000 --> 00:13:25,839 an old friend been had been thinking of 358 00:13:23,839 --> 00:13:27,839 them constantly 359 00:13:25,839 --> 00:13:30,000 and like hadn't probably hadn't talked 360 00:13:27,839 --> 00:13:32,560 in almost 20 years text them and was 361 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:33,920 like, "Hey, is this still your this is 362 00:13:32,560 --> 00:13:35,120 like this is Chelsea. I was just 363 00:13:33,920 --> 00:13:36,560 thinking about you. I thought about you 364 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:38,320 like five times in the last couple 365 00:13:36,560 --> 00:13:40,079 weeks." So like I felt like the universe 366 00:13:38,320 --> 00:13:43,519 was telling me to check in just like I 367 00:13:40,079 --> 00:13:45,440 hope you're well wherever you are. 368 00:13:43,519 --> 00:13:47,920 Like 10 minutes later, I get a text back 369 00:13:45,440 --> 00:13:52,079 that just says, "They're no longer at 370 00:13:47,920 --> 00:13:52,880 this number, but this is lovely." A 371 00:13:52,079 --> 00:13:55,600 that's nice. 372 00:13:52,880 --> 00:13:57,440 I was like, "Oh, well, I wish all those 373 00:13:55,600 --> 00:13:58,880 good things for you as well. Have a 374 00:13:57,440 --> 00:14:00,720 great day." They're like, "Thank you. 375 00:13:58,880 --> 00:14:02,320 You, too." 376 00:14:00,720 --> 00:14:04,160 These sentiments were not limited to 377 00:14:02,320 --> 00:14:04,720 this one person. This is my hope for 378 00:14:04,160 --> 00:14:06,320 humanity. 379 00:14:04,720 --> 00:14:09,279 And then I deleted the contact since it 380 00:14:06,320 --> 00:14:10,720 was clearly no longer correct. 381 00:14:09,279 --> 00:14:12,880 Won't be making that mistake again. 382 00:14:10,720 --> 00:14:14,240 Nope. Okay. Sorry. I'm deeply directed. 383 00:14:12,880 --> 00:14:18,079 No, we're good. We're good. We're good. 384 00:14:14,240 --> 00:14:22,000 So, Drake is on a cross-country road 385 00:14:18,079 --> 00:14:23,199 trip with his two best friends, Hunter 386 00:14:22,000 --> 00:14:24,800 and Isabelle. 387 00:14:23,199 --> 00:14:25,440 Does she go by Isabelle? 388 00:14:24,800 --> 00:14:26,000 She does. 389 00:14:25,440 --> 00:14:27,440 Okay. Yeah. 390 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:28,800 I feel like a lot of books we end up 391 00:14:27,440 --> 00:14:30,720 with Izzy. So, 392 00:14:28,800 --> 00:14:33,680 every now and then one of them will call 393 00:14:30,720 --> 00:14:36,000 her Izzy, but primarily or is even, but 394 00:14:33,680 --> 00:14:39,279 primarily they refer to her as Isabelle. 395 00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:42,160 So, um they are touring different sex 396 00:14:39,279 --> 00:14:44,639 clubs around the country. um just trying 397 00:14:42,160 --> 00:14:46,959 to get fresh ideas and kind of see how 398 00:14:44,639 --> 00:14:48,000 they stack up um how the club they have 399 00:14:46,959 --> 00:14:49,760 opened stacks up. 400 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:52,880 I've done that with psychiatric 401 00:14:49,760 --> 00:14:54,160 psychiatric facilities. I get it. Like, 402 00:14:52,880 --> 00:14:55,760 oh yeah, we got to go around. We're 403 00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:57,600 opening a new one. Got to see what what 404 00:14:55,760 --> 00:14:58,160 safety features other companies are 405 00:14:57,600 --> 00:14:59,920 using. 406 00:14:58,160 --> 00:15:01,680 Yeah. Yes. Um 407 00:14:59,920 --> 00:15:02,639 and I like that that also happens with 408 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:05,279 sex clubs. 409 00:15:02,639 --> 00:15:06,079 Yes. And it is really interesting like 410 00:15:05,279 --> 00:15:07,519 Oh, I bet 411 00:15:06,079 --> 00:15:09,920 they go to several different ones 412 00:15:07,519 --> 00:15:11,680 throughout this which is part of the fun 413 00:15:09,920 --> 00:15:13,680 I think of it is like all the different 414 00:15:11,680 --> 00:15:16,079 sort of vibes and energy. Um 415 00:15:13,680 --> 00:15:17,199 so are they just like on a sex club road 416 00:15:16,079 --> 00:15:18,480 trip on this whole book? 417 00:15:17,199 --> 00:15:19,199 Yes. Yeah. 418 00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:22,079 Ooh. 419 00:15:19,199 --> 00:15:24,160 Yeah. And all of these sex clubs like 420 00:15:22,079 --> 00:15:26,560 know they are coming. These are business 421 00:15:24,160 --> 00:15:29,760 trips. They are going to meet with the 422 00:15:26,560 --> 00:15:31,839 owners like all that stuff, right? So 423 00:15:29,760 --> 00:15:34,000 yeah, they're going during daylight 424 00:15:31,839 --> 00:15:34,959 hours. No, they're going while they're 425 00:15:34,000 --> 00:15:37,360 open. But 426 00:15:34,959 --> 00:15:39,360 welfare, I meant to get a general tour 427 00:15:37,360 --> 00:15:41,199 of the facility. Like there can be 428 00:15:39,360 --> 00:15:41,600 business meetings that are happening, 429 00:15:41,199 --> 00:15:43,839 right? 430 00:15:41,600 --> 00:15:46,000 Like with this sort of 431 00:15:43,839 --> 00:15:46,880 business trip is really more more how 432 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:49,440 that was meant. 433 00:15:46,880 --> 00:15:50,720 Yes, it is all very structured like the 434 00:15:49,440 --> 00:15:53,920 plans for the trip. 435 00:15:50,720 --> 00:15:56,959 So Drake can hear Hunter and Isabelle 436 00:15:53,920 --> 00:15:58,959 [ __ ] like in the next room. Um and he 437 00:15:56,959 --> 00:16:03,920 is currently with two women whose names 438 00:15:58,959 --> 00:16:06,160 he cannot recall. and um he is just kind 439 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:09,279 of bored with it 440 00:16:06,160 --> 00:16:11,360 and he is like 441 00:16:09,279 --> 00:16:13,199 let's see how loud I can get him to be 442 00:16:11,360 --> 00:16:14,959 right if I have have to listen to 443 00:16:13,199 --> 00:16:16,800 Isabelle and Hunter [ __ ] then they're 444 00:16:14,959 --> 00:16:20,320 going to have to listen to me and the 445 00:16:16,800 --> 00:16:22,000 the Double Mint twins or whatever. Um he 446 00:16:20,320 --> 00:16:24,160 does not refer to them that way. He does 447 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:28,560 not refer to them that way. 448 00:16:24,160 --> 00:16:31,839 Um he's actually fairly respectful. Um, 449 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:33,440 but he is also kind of processing he's 450 00:16:31,839 --> 00:16:36,800 never been in a relationship with 451 00:16:33,440 --> 00:16:39,519 anybody before. Um, he's always been uh 452 00:16:36,800 --> 00:16:42,240 the third wheel in Hunter and Isabelle's 453 00:16:39,519 --> 00:16:45,680 marriage. Like when they go on vacation, 454 00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:47,680 he is there. When they have dinner, he's 455 00:16:45,680 --> 00:16:49,839 there like three or four nights a week. 456 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:52,560 Like that's just kind of the dynamic 457 00:16:49,839 --> 00:16:56,240 that they have. Um, 458 00:16:52,560 --> 00:16:58,720 and he does construction for the club. 459 00:16:56,240 --> 00:17:01,600 So, I was thinking like, isn't that a 460 00:16:58,720 --> 00:17:03,519 sort of one-time deal? But in the other 461 00:17:01,600 --> 00:17:05,760 books, they talk about different events 462 00:17:03,519 --> 00:17:08,799 they're putting on, and he will create 463 00:17:05,760 --> 00:17:10,480 structures like for all the different 464 00:17:08,799 --> 00:17:12,079 like events and stuff that they do. 465 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:14,559 Yeah. I knew someone who had that exact 466 00:17:12,079 --> 00:17:16,319 job at a church. 467 00:17:14,559 --> 00:17:16,720 Each sermon series needed a whole 468 00:17:16,319 --> 00:17:18,400 different 469 00:17:16,720 --> 00:17:20,559 different background. Yeah. So, 470 00:17:18,400 --> 00:17:24,160 literally the same, 471 00:17:20,559 --> 00:17:25,919 but a little different. 472 00:17:24,160 --> 00:17:26,720 just like there's a code word to get 473 00:17:25,919 --> 00:17:29,280 into this one. 474 00:17:26,720 --> 00:17:31,120 The work is the same, the vibes very 475 00:17:29,280 --> 00:17:34,799 different. 476 00:17:31,120 --> 00:17:37,520 So, um he is also thinking about like he 477 00:17:34,799 --> 00:17:40,559 was there the first day that Hunter 478 00:17:37,520 --> 00:17:43,919 first saw Isabelle um and has been there 479 00:17:40,559 --> 00:17:45,039 pretty much every day since. And um how 480 00:17:43,919 --> 00:17:49,200 old are they? 481 00:17:45,039 --> 00:17:52,000 So, they are like 30sish and Isabelle I 482 00:17:49,200 --> 00:17:54,880 want to say is like 28. The guys are 483 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:56,480 like 3 or four years older than her, 484 00:17:54,880 --> 00:17:57,840 but not by a lot. I want to say it's 485 00:17:56,480 --> 00:18:01,679 three. Yeah. 486 00:17:57,840 --> 00:18:04,480 So, um, he and Hunter were actually like 487 00:18:01,679 --> 00:18:07,360 drug dealers and really not doing very 488 00:18:04,480 --> 00:18:09,440 well kind of in life in general. Um, but 489 00:18:07,360 --> 00:18:11,760 Hunter literally as soon as he saw 490 00:18:09,440 --> 00:18:12,480 Isabelle like from a distance, he was 491 00:18:11,760 --> 00:18:14,559 like, 492 00:18:12,480 --> 00:18:16,080 "Well, I got to clean it up cuz that 493 00:18:14,559 --> 00:18:18,480 woman is going to be my wife and she's 494 00:18:16,080 --> 00:18:19,600 not going to be into all this." Um, and 495 00:18:18,480 --> 00:18:22,480 so literally, 496 00:18:19,600 --> 00:18:23,120 I've never been that sure of anything in 497 00:18:22,480 --> 00:18:27,039 my life. 498 00:18:23,120 --> 00:18:29,120 Never once. No. No. But he starts going, 499 00:18:27,039 --> 00:18:31,520 they're outside the library trying to 500 00:18:29,120 --> 00:18:33,760 sell drugs and they see this girl with 501 00:18:31,520 --> 00:18:35,840 her arms full of books and he's like, 502 00:18:33,760 --> 00:18:38,960 "That's the one." And so they start 503 00:18:35,840 --> 00:18:42,320 going to the library every day so that 504 00:18:38,960 --> 00:18:44,640 she can see him and then he like slowly 505 00:18:42,320 --> 00:18:45,360 starts to like talk to her and stuff, 506 00:18:44,640 --> 00:18:48,799 her. 507 00:18:45,360 --> 00:18:50,640 Yeah. And so basically Hunter was like, 508 00:18:48,799 --> 00:18:52,240 "Well, if I'm clean up cleaning up my 509 00:18:50,640 --> 00:18:54,960 act, Drake, you have to clean up your 510 00:18:52,240 --> 00:18:56,559 act. So what do you want to do? 511 00:18:54,960 --> 00:18:59,440 Construction?" 512 00:18:56,559 --> 00:18:59,919 He's like, like, "You will rise with 513 00:18:59,440 --> 00:19:02,080 me." 514 00:18:59,919 --> 00:19:04,799 So Drake works construction because 515 00:19:02,080 --> 00:19:05,360 Hunter saw Isabelle from a distance and 516 00:19:04,799 --> 00:19:05,760 was like, 517 00:19:05,360 --> 00:19:07,039 "Yeah, 518 00:19:05,760 --> 00:19:07,679 so we're going to get our [ __ ] together 519 00:19:07,039 --> 00:19:08,080 for her." 520 00:19:07,679 --> 00:19:10,559 Yeah. 521 00:19:08,080 --> 00:19:13,280 And Drake's like, "We're doing what?" 522 00:19:10,559 --> 00:19:15,200 Drake's like, "We who tanto the fuck?" 523 00:19:13,280 --> 00:19:16,880 But also he's like really grateful 524 00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:19,440 because he's like yeah I would be in 525 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:24,080 jail or dead by now like if it weren't 526 00:19:19,440 --> 00:19:26,720 for the two of them. And so he also he's 527 00:19:24,080 --> 00:19:29,679 just kind of like you know what I am 528 00:19:26,720 --> 00:19:32,080 happy with my life. Like I love these 529 00:19:29,679 --> 00:19:35,520 two people. They are my family and I 530 00:19:32,080 --> 00:19:38,880 also love banging randoms. So like it is 531 00:19:35,520 --> 00:19:41,120 all coming up golden. Like 532 00:19:38,880 --> 00:19:43,520 but is it Drake? Is it 533 00:19:41,120 --> 00:19:45,600 It feels like like Drake is trying to 534 00:19:43,520 --> 00:19:47,840 convince himself of that. 535 00:19:45,600 --> 00:19:50,799 Yeah. The Lady Doth protest too much. 536 00:19:47,840 --> 00:19:52,799 Yeah. In that way of like, 537 00:19:50,799 --> 00:19:54,559 you know, no, like I guess I have a 538 00:19:52,799 --> 00:19:58,400 beautiful life and like if this is what 539 00:19:54,559 --> 00:19:58,559 it is, I'm I'm Yeah. I'm happy with it. 540 00:19:58,400 --> 00:20:01,200 Yeah. 541 00:19:58,559 --> 00:20:02,799 And you're like, are are you 542 00:20:01,200 --> 00:20:05,919 right when they say it as a question? 543 00:20:02,799 --> 00:20:09,039 I'm really happy with it. Are are you 544 00:20:05,919 --> 00:20:12,080 I'm happy. Right. 545 00:20:09,039 --> 00:20:16,400 No, really. Really? Really? 546 00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:18,000 Yeah. Yeah. No, I definitely I I am I 547 00:20:16,400 --> 00:20:20,400 am. 548 00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:22,559 Yeah, for sure. 549 00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:23,919 So, we switch perspectives here. We get 550 00:20:22,559 --> 00:20:24,240 all three perspectives throughout this 551 00:20:23,919 --> 00:20:25,039 book. 552 00:20:24,240 --> 00:20:27,840 Oh, that's nice. 553 00:20:25,039 --> 00:20:30,080 So, we switch perspectives here um to 554 00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:32,320 Isabelle. So, this is a few hours 555 00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:35,039 earlier in the night. She and Hunter are 556 00:20:32,320 --> 00:20:37,760 at an anniversary dinner um for the two 557 00:20:35,039 --> 00:20:39,520 of them and she feels weird that Drake 558 00:20:37,760 --> 00:20:42,320 isn't there because he has literally 559 00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:43,760 been there for everything. 560 00:20:42,320 --> 00:20:46,159 Yeah, that's definitely a sign cuz I'll 561 00:20:43,760 --> 00:20:48,400 say my anniversary was last week and no 562 00:20:46,159 --> 00:20:49,600 part of me was like someone else should 563 00:20:48,400 --> 00:20:53,760 be 564 00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:55,679 I had that thought too. I was like who? 565 00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:58,880 Nope. There are people who have been 566 00:20:55,679 --> 00:21:01,440 with us from the moment like we met and 567 00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:03,520 everything, but still I don't I don't 568 00:21:01,440 --> 00:21:06,320 know that I would invite them to my 569 00:21:03,520 --> 00:21:08,000 anniversary dinner. You know, it's 570 00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:10,799 different vibes. I guess 571 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:12,080 it's it's a it's an increased level of 572 00:21:10,799 --> 00:21:15,919 intimacy for sure. 573 00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:18,080 Yeah, 100%. Um, so 574 00:21:15,919 --> 00:21:20,720 Isabelle is also reminiscing about when 575 00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:23,919 she and Hunter first met. Um, and how 576 00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:26,400 he's like dark and covered in tattoos. 577 00:21:23,919 --> 00:21:30,080 Um, you know, dark hair, dark eyes, kind 578 00:21:26,400 --> 00:21:33,600 of the whole bad boy vibes. Um, 579 00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:36,320 but he was always gentle and kind and 580 00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:39,840 patient with her. And she was like, 581 00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:42,159 that was like, if there was a version of 582 00:21:39,840 --> 00:21:44,720 kryptonite for me, it would be the bad 583 00:21:42,159 --> 00:21:48,720 boy aesthetic with like this gentleness, 584 00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:51,760 you know? And so, um, 585 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:54,159 she was really grateful for him. And, 586 00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:57,120 oh, here's where we get for sure. So, 587 00:21:54,159 --> 00:22:00,480 she was a virgin and not quite 18 and he 588 00:21:57,120 --> 00:22:01,440 was 22. So, he refused to touch her 589 00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:02,080 really at all. 590 00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:04,480 Hunter 591 00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:07,600 Hunter refused to touch her. Yes. Until 592 00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:09,280 Isabelle was about was 18. 593 00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:09,679 Thank you for removing the about from 594 00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:12,159 that. 595 00:22:09,679 --> 00:22:14,240 But even then, he waited like 6 months 596 00:22:12,159 --> 00:22:16,799 after she turned 18 for them to actually 597 00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:19,280 have sex. It's like he never touched her 598 00:22:16,799 --> 00:22:21,280 at all before that, but then was really 599 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:22,000 intentional with everything they did 600 00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:24,400 physically. 601 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:27,200 Oh man, I remember listening to the 602 00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:29,120 radio when Billy Isish was about like 603 00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:30,080 her like 18th birthday was on the 604 00:22:29,120 --> 00:22:31,679 horizon. 605 00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:32,960 And the way in which people were talking 606 00:22:31,679 --> 00:22:36,000 about her. 607 00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:38,320 It's so gross. Especially because like 608 00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:40,000 as with like the the six month of like 609 00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:41,520 hey before this like really escalated. 610 00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:44,000 I'm like yeah. You know we don't go from 611 00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:47,120 like one day they're a child to the next 612 00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:51,679 day they're a human. So the way we view 613 00:22:47,120 --> 00:22:53,919 them is now okay or different or like we 614 00:22:51,679 --> 00:22:55,919 suddenly feel justified. 615 00:22:53,919 --> 00:22:58,640 It's okay to objectify them now or 616 00:22:55,919 --> 00:23:02,080 something like it's very icky. But this 617 00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:04,559 felt much more like like wanting to do 618 00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:06,400 right by her and also not being sure 619 00:23:04,559 --> 00:23:08,720 what that even means because he didn't 620 00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:10,880 have that experience in life. Well, this 621 00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:12,400 and I'm obviously looking through the 622 00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:15,200 best case and I haven't haven't read 623 00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:18,159 this book, but just less of the um the 624 00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:19,919 grooming lens if you like less of like 625 00:23:18,159 --> 00:23:23,360 the oh 626 00:23:19,919 --> 00:23:27,039 I found her when I was 22 and she was 17 627 00:23:23,360 --> 00:23:30,000 and we were just like preparing the way 628 00:23:27,039 --> 00:23:32,720 for this versus like hey like we're in 629 00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:34,240 each other's orbit. We're interested in 630 00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:36,240 each other, but there's there's clearly 631 00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:38,159 several things at play, and we're very 632 00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:40,240 mindful and conscientious of those 633 00:23:38,159 --> 00:23:40,880 dynamics as we navigate them. 634 00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:43,280 Yes. Which 635 00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:47,039 and she was only like 3 or 4 months shy 636 00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:49,919 of 18 when they met. Um, but still he 637 00:23:47,039 --> 00:23:52,320 was very intentional with like making 638 00:23:49,919 --> 00:23:53,679 sure that she was always on board for 639 00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:55,600 everything and comfortable with 640 00:23:53,679 --> 00:23:57,120 everything to the point where at one 641 00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:58,559 point in the book she says like it was 642 00:23:57,120 --> 00:24:02,720 honestly kind of annoying. I'm like, 643 00:23:58,559 --> 00:24:05,120 dude, like come on. like, okay, 644 00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:06,799 it's been slow enough. Like, let's go. 645 00:24:05,120 --> 00:24:08,720 Um, but so, 646 00:24:06,799 --> 00:24:10,720 but I do think we all appreciate that. 647 00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:12,320 Yes, I would rather him be overly 648 00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:13,200 cautious. Um, 649 00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:15,279 every time. 650 00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:17,840 But when they get back to the rental, so 651 00:24:15,279 --> 00:24:20,000 they're basically doing like Airbnbs for 652 00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:22,080 the most part. Couple of hotels, but for 653 00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:24,320 the most part, they're doing like 654 00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:26,159 apartments or small houses, and they're 655 00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:27,919 all staying in them together. So, they 656 00:24:26,159 --> 00:24:32,159 get back to the rental and they can hear 657 00:24:27,919 --> 00:24:34,559 Drake with two women in the room. Um, 658 00:24:32,159 --> 00:24:38,640 and 659 00:24:34,559 --> 00:24:41,760 uh they go to bed themselves, Hunter and 660 00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:45,120 Isabelle do. And he starts like taking 661 00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:48,000 her from behind and she starts thinking 662 00:24:45,120 --> 00:24:50,640 about what Drake is doing in the other 663 00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:52,480 room with those other women. And she's 664 00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:54,480 like kind of turned on by that and like 665 00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:57,440 wondering what he's doing. And then 666 00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:59,200 she's like, "Oh, 667 00:24:57,440 --> 00:25:01,679 shouldn't be thinking about my husband's 668 00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:05,279 best friend while he's inside me." Like 669 00:25:01,679 --> 00:25:06,880 awkward, you know? Um, so she doesn't 670 00:25:05,279 --> 00:25:10,000 feel great about that, but she also kind 671 00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:12,480 of lets it go. Like on some level, it is 672 00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:14,240 normal for your imagination to do stuff 673 00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:16,240 while you're listening to it on the 674 00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:17,919 other side. Yeah, that that was the 675 00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:20,320 thought that I just had was like, oh, if 676 00:25:17,919 --> 00:25:23,360 you're listening to him bone these other 677 00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:25,679 two women in real time. That feels 678 00:25:23,360 --> 00:25:27,120 really different than like, yeah, so 679 00:25:25,679 --> 00:25:29,600 Hunter and I are on this like 680 00:25:27,120 --> 00:25:34,320 cross-country road trip and Drake is 681 00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:36,400 back home and I'm daydreaming about him 682 00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:39,520 in that, 683 00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:42,159 right? Um it it is different, but 684 00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:43,600 there's a lot of um very open 685 00:25:42,159 --> 00:25:45,440 communication in this book, which I 686 00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:46,960 really appreciate, which we'll get to in 687 00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:49,440 a minute. But 688 00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:52,400 we now switch to Hunter. So Hunter can't 689 00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:56,640 sleep and he finds Drake in the kitchen. 690 00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:58,320 Um and Hunter is like noticing that he's 691 00:25:56,640 --> 00:26:01,360 admiring 692 00:25:58,320 --> 00:26:04,080 Drake's physique of like he's so lucky 693 00:26:01,360 --> 00:26:06,640 that he does construction and barely has 694 00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:09,120 to go to the gym. Like he looks awesome. 695 00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:11,840 that kind of like framing where it's 696 00:26:09,120 --> 00:26:14,799 like dude bro admiring 697 00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:16,960 your how cut you are or whatever. I saw 698 00:26:14,799 --> 00:26:18,799 a Tik Tok earlier this week where this 699 00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:20,559 woman was saying her teenage son had 700 00:26:18,799 --> 00:26:23,120 come home and he was like no I'm 701 00:26:20,559 --> 00:26:25,760 straight but like I'm a homiesexual 702 00:26:23,120 --> 00:26:27,200 like stop it right now. 703 00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:28,960 I'm just like a little gay for my 704 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:32,559 friends. 705 00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:34,960 That's so good. Oh my god that's really 706 00:26:32,559 --> 00:26:35,520 good. And that's what it feels like in 707 00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:36,400 this moment. 708 00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:37,600 Very much. 709 00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:39,039 Like Hunter's like, "No, like I'm not 710 00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:41,760 into dudes. I'm just like a homie 711 00:26:39,039 --> 00:26:43,679 sexual." Like Drake works hard at his 712 00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:45,440 construction job. Like good for him, 713 00:26:43,679 --> 00:26:46,960 man. I see it. I respect it. 714 00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:49,360 That's literally in my notes. It says 715 00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:51,360 strictly platonic because he's like very 716 00:26:49,360 --> 00:26:53,279 much couching it in his own head. 717 00:26:51,360 --> 00:26:55,440 Nobody's talking to you about it, dude. 718 00:26:53,279 --> 00:26:59,120 Nobody's questioning your sexuality. 719 00:26:55,440 --> 00:27:02,400 He's like totally straight though. Like 720 00:26:59,120 --> 00:27:04,799 nobody panic. So, see, and that's where 721 00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:07,520 when I I've complimented women's asses 722 00:27:04,799 --> 00:27:10,240 to their faces at daycare drop off that 723 00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:13,120 I don't know, and I'm like, I see we 724 00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:14,240 both dropped off our children. 725 00:27:13,120 --> 00:27:15,919 I also see your ass. 726 00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:16,480 We're all fighting mom butt at this 727 00:27:15,919 --> 00:27:19,200 point. 728 00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:21,200 Mom, but 729 00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:23,440 got to keep doing my squats to stay on 730 00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:25,679 top of it, right? But I'm like, 731 00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:27,120 hey, not to be weird since we don't know 732 00:27:25,679 --> 00:27:28,640 each other, but our kids are in the same 733 00:27:27,120 --> 00:27:31,120 class. Your ass looks great. 734 00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:32,000 Yeah. Have nobody told you today like 735 00:27:31,120 --> 00:27:33,039 100%. 736 00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:33,919 Yeah, 737 00:27:33,039 --> 00:27:36,400 I feel it. 738 00:27:33,919 --> 00:27:40,640 And when I've done that, I haven't had 739 00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:43,440 to be like purely platonically that like 740 00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:45,760 I'm not actually looking for a third. 741 00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:47,840 Hey, hey, that was just to be a mood 742 00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:49,520 booster for you. That was not to boost 743 00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:50,880 anything for me personally. 744 00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:51,919 Right. Right. This is about you. 745 00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:53,279 Stay in your lane. 746 00:27:51,919 --> 00:27:55,520 Right. Don't make it weird. 747 00:27:53,279 --> 00:27:59,200 Yeah. No, I'm not into you that way. 748 00:27:55,520 --> 00:28:01,440 Men are such weird creatures. So, 749 00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:02,960 at this point, Isabelle then gets up 750 00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:04,320 because she can like hear them talking 751 00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:06,559 in the kitchen. 752 00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:07,520 Are the two women still asleep? 753 00:28:06,559 --> 00:28:08,720 They're gone. Okay, they're gone. 754 00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:13,440 They're gone. 755 00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:16,399 Um, and Hunter notices that Isabelle, 756 00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:19,600 she's in like her tank top and shorts 757 00:28:16,399 --> 00:28:23,760 and is scantily clad in her PJs or 758 00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:27,200 whatever, super casual. Um, and but 759 00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:30,559 Drake's eyes never leave her face. He's 760 00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:32,640 like, "She is like serving cleavage 761 00:28:30,559 --> 00:28:35,200 right now." And he is not. That is a 762 00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:36,480 best [ __ ] friend, dude. Incredible 763 00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:38,480 work. Like, 764 00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:40,640 and Drake's just like, "Keep your eyes 765 00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:42,880 on her face. Keep your eyes on her face. 766 00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:45,520 Keep your eyes on her face. Do not 767 00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:46,080 blink. It might be construed as looking 768 00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:48,559 down." 769 00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:50,880 Exactly. Meanwhile, he's like, Isabelle 770 00:28:48,559 --> 00:28:53,440 is definitely giving him elevator eyes 771 00:28:50,880 --> 00:28:55,279 like up and down. 772 00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:57,760 And he's like, but also I get it 773 00:28:55,279 --> 00:28:58,799 platonically. So 774 00:28:57,760 --> 00:29:01,120 platonically 775 00:28:58,799 --> 00:29:03,360 he's like, you know, cuz they're having 776 00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:05,919 like banter, making each other laugh and 777 00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:08,480 being kind of goofy. And he's like, I am 778 00:29:05,919 --> 00:29:10,000 so grateful that the two people that are 779 00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:12,000 the most important to me in the world 780 00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:13,919 like make each other laugh and like each 781 00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:16,559 other. Like this is really incredible 782 00:29:13,919 --> 00:29:18,320 that I've struck the lottery this way. 783 00:29:16,559 --> 00:29:20,000 Um, 784 00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:22,559 and 785 00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:25,360 he does notice that Drake kind of 786 00:29:22,559 --> 00:29:26,960 deflates a little bit when he starts to 787 00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:28,720 take Isabelle when Hunter starts to take 788 00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:31,120 Isabelle back to bed and he's like, I'm 789 00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:33,279 going to check on him. Like, 790 00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:36,159 maybe things aren't as good as he's 791 00:29:33,279 --> 00:29:39,520 trying to make them out to be. 792 00:29:36,159 --> 00:29:43,200 Um, so the next night they are touring a 793 00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:44,880 sex club in Phoenix and they Where are 794 00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:47,520 they out of? Remind me. 795 00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:50,080 California, I think. like the LA area. 796 00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:51,520 Oh, wow. I would have lost that bet. It 797 00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:52,000 It's been a while since I've read this 798 00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:52,880 series. 799 00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:55,600 I'm pretty sure. 800 00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:57,520 Girl, I was going to say Milwaukee. 801 00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:59,760 Like, are there a lot of sex clubs in 802 00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:01,360 Milwaukee? Like, no judgment, but like 803 00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:03,600 that's why I assumed they were so 804 00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:06,000 successful. 805 00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:08,399 They have very limited options. 806 00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:09,919 I can't wait for us to get a slew of DMs 807 00:30:08,399 --> 00:30:11,840 that are like, "You know nothing about 808 00:30:09,919 --> 00:30:14,799 the sex club scene. Milwaukee is 809 00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:17,279 popping." I was going to say like I know 810 00:30:14,799 --> 00:30:21,520 enough to know I don't know about the 811 00:30:17,279 --> 00:30:21,840 sex club energy in Milwaukee. 812 00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:23,840 No, 813 00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:25,600 outside of that I I don't have a lot to 814 00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:27,600 give you. I don't know much about 815 00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:29,600 Milwaukee. Full stop. It's not that I 816 00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:32,240 don't know about just the sex clubs in 817 00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:33,279 Milwaukee. It's just in general I don't 818 00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:35,039 know very much about it. 819 00:30:33,279 --> 00:30:37,279 My knowledge about Milwaukee is not 820 00:30:35,039 --> 00:30:38,399 limited just because of the sex clubs. 821 00:30:37,279 --> 00:30:40,640 Right. 822 00:30:38,399 --> 00:30:42,399 It's just because I live in Georgia and 823 00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:43,120 I've never needed to know about 824 00:30:42,399 --> 00:30:44,960 Milwaukee. 825 00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:45,440 I have not needed that. No, it's never 826 00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:47,679 come up. 827 00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:50,399 All I know is I once accidentally left 828 00:30:47,679 --> 00:30:52,159 my wallet at the airport there and they 829 00:30:50,399 --> 00:30:54,159 mailed it back to me on like and they 830 00:30:52,159 --> 00:30:56,799 were so kind Midwestern [ __ ] 831 00:30:54,159 --> 00:30:58,960 That was my exact experience. Yep. I was 832 00:30:56,799 --> 00:30:59,679 like, "This feels like the Midwest. Got 833 00:30:58,960 --> 00:30:59,919 to love them." 834 00:30:59,679 --> 00:31:01,200 Yeah. 835 00:30:59,919 --> 00:31:02,000 And I'm like, "That's all I can tell 836 00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:04,240 you." 837 00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:07,200 They were so kind when I when I left my 838 00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:09,360 wallet in their state. 839 00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:12,320 So, they're in Phoenix. They are not in 840 00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:14,960 Milwaukee. They're in Phoenix. Um, and 841 00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:15,760 they do not like the vibes of this club 842 00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:16,880 when they get there. 843 00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:19,440 Oh, the vibes are off. 844 00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:23,039 It's like super uptight. So, like 845 00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:26,159 there's no space to mingle. Like, they 846 00:31:23,039 --> 00:31:28,799 show up and the host person is like, 847 00:31:26,159 --> 00:31:31,279 "Oh, yeah. Like, the owner is aware that 848 00:31:28,799 --> 00:31:33,600 you're coming tonight. Um, she set aside 849 00:31:31,279 --> 00:31:35,840 a room for you guys. Feel free to use 850 00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:38,640 it. Hang out in it. she'll be with you 851 00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:41,679 in about an hour. And Hunter is pissed. 852 00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:43,840 He's like, "Uh, no, 853 00:31:41,679 --> 00:31:46,080 we didn't come here for that. We came 854 00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:47,200 here for a meeting." Like, this is 855 00:31:46,080 --> 00:31:49,200 weird. 856 00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:51,519 Um, and there was other stuff in the way 857 00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:53,200 the guy was saying it that sort of 858 00:31:51,519 --> 00:31:54,799 justified his response a little bit 859 00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:56,720 more. 860 00:31:54,799 --> 00:32:01,440 Um, 861 00:31:56,720 --> 00:32:04,159 and Isabelle is like super nervous 862 00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:07,519 because the only sex club she's ever 863 00:32:04,159 --> 00:32:09,519 been to is theirs and she knows she is 864 00:32:07,519 --> 00:32:11,440 always going to be safe there. And like 865 00:32:09,519 --> 00:32:16,320 what are their jobs? 866 00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:17,840 So Hunter's job was in developing the 867 00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:20,880 compatibility 868 00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:24,720 like tests and stuff for the dating 869 00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:26,640 service app or whatever. And so he his 870 00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:29,200 whole job was to learn as much as he 871 00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:31,600 could about different kinks and how to 872 00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:33,440 keep people safe and like all of that 873 00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:36,000 kind of stuff. And he put that sort of 874 00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:38,640 thing into place. And now basically he's 875 00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:40,880 sort of like in charge of membership 876 00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:42,000 like recruiting new members and stuff. 877 00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:44,960 Mhm. 878 00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:48,399 Um Isabelle doesn't really work there. 879 00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:50,080 She's a yoga instructor. Um 880 00:32:48,399 --> 00:32:51,760 but she's there all the time. her 881 00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:53,679 husband owns it 882 00:32:51,760 --> 00:32:55,519 and all of their friends like this is a 883 00:32:53,679 --> 00:32:56,799 friend group that started this business 884 00:32:55,519 --> 00:33:01,519 very much so. 885 00:32:56,799 --> 00:33:03,200 So, um they go to the private room uh 886 00:33:01,519 --> 00:33:07,279 and 887 00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:09,440 basically the guy is like 888 00:33:07,279 --> 00:33:11,120 as they are being dropped off in the 889 00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:13,039 room or maybe it was the owner, I don't 890 00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:15,679 really remember but it doesn't matter. 891 00:33:13,039 --> 00:33:18,480 Somebody was like, "Hey, it's really 892 00:33:15,679 --> 00:33:20,799 weird that like you're just shuttling 893 00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:24,799 people into this room and there's no 894 00:33:20,799 --> 00:33:27,840 space to mingle. It feels very like 895 00:33:24,799 --> 00:33:29,600 uptight or whatever, like awkward." 896 00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:31,519 Well, and mind you, as someone who 897 00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:33,120 hasn't spent a lot of time in sex clubs, 898 00:33:31,519 --> 00:33:36,320 so like take everything I say with a 899 00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:39,360 grain of salt. I do just like always 900 00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:41,919 imagine every sex club has like a hub 901 00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:43,840 room like with a bar even if that's like 902 00:33:41,919 --> 00:33:44,960 non-alcoholic options, right? Like 903 00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:48,320 there's a 904 00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:50,799 a communal space for people and you 905 00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:52,799 aren't just automatically like siphoned 906 00:33:50,799 --> 00:33:54,320 off into 907 00:33:52,799 --> 00:33:57,840 because at that point it might as well 908 00:33:54,320 --> 00:34:01,360 be a hotel room basically. And so, um, 909 00:33:57,840 --> 00:34:03,760 the owner is like, "Have you ever The 910 00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:05,760 owner is a woman." And she's like, "I 911 00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:07,200 understand that, you know, that's how 912 00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:11,119 you have your club set up." And that's 913 00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:12,960 great. Um, but for safety reasons and 914 00:34:11,119 --> 00:34:15,839 for the comfort of some of our members, 915 00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:17,440 we keep it as anonymous as possible. And 916 00:34:15,839 --> 00:34:19,119 Hunter is like, 917 00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:22,159 "We don't think people should have to 918 00:34:19,119 --> 00:34:26,480 hide if they don't want to." And so we 919 00:34:22,159 --> 00:34:28,159 want people to be proud and like, you 920 00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:28,399 know, secure in who they are and to feel 921 00:34:28,159 --> 00:34:30,079 safe. 922 00:34:28,399 --> 00:34:31,760 We want it to be a safe space, not a 923 00:34:30,079 --> 00:34:33,839 space where people like come and then 924 00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:36,159 still feel like they have to cower. 925 00:34:33,839 --> 00:34:37,679 Yeah. He was like, that's that is our 926 00:34:36,159 --> 00:34:39,599 goal for the women who come into our 927 00:34:37,679 --> 00:34:41,839 club that they feel safe and comfortable 928 00:34:39,599 --> 00:34:45,440 every single time, 100% of the time. 929 00:34:41,839 --> 00:34:48,320 Cuz it almost feels like a club who 930 00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:50,399 forces you to be as anonymous as 931 00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:54,079 possible. Yeah. Like there's almost like 932 00:34:50,399 --> 00:34:56,000 a a shame element kind of 933 00:34:54,079 --> 00:34:56,800 unintentionally built into their 934 00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:58,720 structure. 935 00:34:56,800 --> 00:35:00,480 Exactly. And so they're basically having 936 00:34:58,720 --> 00:35:01,040 a conversation around that. And the 937 00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:02,240 owner 938 00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:03,920 fascinating conversation. 939 00:35:02,240 --> 00:35:06,960 Super interesting. And the owner is 940 00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:09,760 like, I really admire that that is the 941 00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:12,480 stance you are taking. And I wonder if 942 00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:14,640 you have spoken to your wife or any of 943 00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:15,599 your female members about how safe they 944 00:35:14,640 --> 00:35:17,839 feel 945 00:35:15,599 --> 00:35:19,599 when others are able to see them and 946 00:35:17,839 --> 00:35:22,079 know who they are. 947 00:35:19,599 --> 00:35:23,599 And it was very like oh like we're 948 00:35:22,079 --> 00:35:25,839 talking about real [ __ ] right now. Oh 949 00:35:23,599 --> 00:35:28,720 yeah. Um, 950 00:35:25,839 --> 00:35:30,720 but there's like this awkward tension 951 00:35:28,720 --> 00:35:33,839 between all of them and Hunter is 952 00:35:30,720 --> 00:35:36,720 basically like, you know, Isabelle and 953 00:35:33,839 --> 00:35:38,800 Drake don't really need to be around for 954 00:35:36,720 --> 00:35:40,800 the rest of the tour and conversation. 955 00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:42,720 There's a Shabari workshop going on. Why 956 00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:44,880 don't you guys go to the Shabari 957 00:35:42,720 --> 00:35:46,320 workshop, right? You know where this is 958 00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:48,240 going. 959 00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:49,680 Yes. As we all casually go to our 960 00:35:48,240 --> 00:35:54,240 Shabari workshop, 961 00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:56,720 right? And um Isabelle at that point is 962 00:35:54,240 --> 00:35:59,920 a little bit irritated because the guys 963 00:35:56,720 --> 00:36:02,560 do this like macho eye contact headnod 964 00:35:59,920 --> 00:36:04,400 where it's like you got her cool and 965 00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:09,280 she's like I really don't need to be 966 00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:11,440 handed off. I'm not like you know 967 00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:14,320 the nuclear codes or something where we 968 00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:16,880 need to have like a firm hand-tohand 969 00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:19,359 transfer. very few times where that like 970 00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:21,680 head nod transfer you're like 971 00:36:19,359 --> 00:36:22,079 yeah oh I feel safer 972 00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:23,200 right 973 00:36:22,079 --> 00:36:26,880 this feels better 974 00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:28,560 right she's like in fairness it is sweet 975 00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:30,640 that they're doing this when we're in a 976 00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:33,680 new club and we don't know anybody 977 00:36:30,640 --> 00:36:37,280 that's sweet but also guys I'm a grown 978 00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:38,720 woman hey guys all we do is sex club 979 00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:40,079 what's our hobby 980 00:36:38,720 --> 00:36:41,920 it is the hobby 981 00:36:40,079 --> 00:36:45,200 we've been together for 10 years like 982 00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:47,520 can we chill out no answer is no So, 983 00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:48,880 but on the flip side, we do also love 984 00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:51,280 that they're like, "Hey, it's a new 985 00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:52,880 space and the vibes are off here. We are 986 00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:57,119 going to be vigilant." 987 00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:58,480 Yes. And so, she and Drake are just 988 00:36:57,119 --> 00:37:00,960 hanging out, watching the the 989 00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:03,359 demonstration, and it's a lot, you know? 990 00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:05,119 I mean, there's a fully nude dude there 991 00:37:03,359 --> 00:37:07,839 getting tied up and then blown, I think, 992 00:37:05,119 --> 00:37:11,200 if I'm remembering right. And then the 993 00:37:07,839 --> 00:37:12,960 instructor is like, "You two, beautiful 994 00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:15,359 couple. You would be great for my next 995 00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:18,480 demonstration. and what do you think? 996 00:37:15,359 --> 00:37:19,920 And um Isabelle is like, "Yeah, that 997 00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:25,520 sounds great." And Drake is like, "The 998 00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:27,119 [ __ ] is it? Is it great?" 999 00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:28,880 Um she's like, "What?" 1000 00:37:27,119 --> 00:37:30,320 Drake's literally about to like opening 1001 00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:32,400 his mouth to be like, "Oh, no, thank 1002 00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:33,680 you. We're just here to observe." Yeah. 1003 00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:34,800 As Isabelle's like, 1004 00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:36,480 "Sounds fun." 1005 00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:37,440 "Oh, yeah. Take my shoes off. Put them 1006 00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:39,280 there. No problem." 1007 00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:41,520 Yeah. She's like, "Oh, I need to get 1008 00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:42,720 naked. Cool beans." and she's like 1009 00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:44,160 standing there in her underwear and 1010 00:37:42,720 --> 00:37:46,079 she's like, "This is not really 1011 00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:49,280 something I do regularly, even at our 1012 00:37:46,079 --> 00:37:51,839 own club." But again, I trust Drake. The 1013 00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:53,680 instructor was really like intentional 1014 00:37:51,839 --> 00:37:56,160 and kind with the way he was like 1015 00:37:53,680 --> 00:37:58,240 coaching the two of them and, you know, 1016 00:37:56,160 --> 00:38:01,520 undressed to your comfort level, all 1017 00:37:58,240 --> 00:38:03,680 that kind of stuff. And so just think of 1018 00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:06,560 John Melany being like, "So I put on 1019 00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:09,520 three sweaters and then I felt safe, 1020 00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:09,520 right?" 1021 00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:16,000 Um, so, okay. Also, not related to 1022 00:38:13,359 --> 00:38:17,680 anything at all. Have you seen photos of 1023 00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:18,880 John Molany more recently? 1024 00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:20,560 No, not recently. 1025 00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:23,920 Damn it, Anna. Okay, we'll have to have 1026 00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:26,079 an off-pod convo about this. 1027 00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:28,079 I think he got jaw filler. 1028 00:38:26,079 --> 00:38:29,680 Oh, yeah. 1029 00:38:28,079 --> 00:38:34,359 And I think Vance just thinks he might 1030 00:38:29,680 --> 00:38:34,359 be a man now. And I'm like, "No, I 1031 00:38:37,119 --> 00:38:42,240 his jaw did not look like that and knew 1032 00:38:39,359 --> 00:38:44,240 it in town." No. 1033 00:38:42,240 --> 00:38:47,960 Jaws or size is not going to do that 1034 00:38:44,240 --> 00:38:47,960 much for anyone. 1035 00:38:49,119 --> 00:38:52,560 I have questions. 1036 00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:54,079 I'm going to have to look it up now. 1037 00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:55,839 Yeah. Like different questions than I 1038 00:38:54,079 --> 00:38:57,920 have about like Bradley Cooper's face 1039 00:38:55,839 --> 00:39:01,200 right now. But I still have questions 1040 00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:04,000 because John Melan's jaw like it's like 1041 00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:05,200 Zack Efron's jaw where you're like, "Oh, 1042 00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:06,640 no, that shifted." 1043 00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:08,720 Yeah. Yeah. 1044 00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:10,960 And I don't think it was just like 1045 00:39:08,720 --> 00:39:13,960 sucking on hard candies gave you that 1046 00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:13,960 definition. 1047 00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:18,400 Either way, God bless. As long as you're 1048 00:39:16,079 --> 00:39:19,520 happy with your face. But 1049 00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:22,640 well, and all Yeah. thinking I'm like, 1050 00:39:19,520 --> 00:39:23,520 "Oh, that like any level of 1051 00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:25,280 sure 1052 00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:27,760 construction is what I was 1053 00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:31,200 construction." 1054 00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:32,960 Yeah. Face construction 1055 00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:33,280 like Yeah, you're going to feel that. 1056 00:39:32,960 --> 00:39:35,040 Yeah. 1057 00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:36,640 His jaw doesn't look bad by any stretch. 1058 00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:38,560 Please do not hear me dogging on John 1059 00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:41,760 Melany. It was just more of like a 1060 00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:44,400 That's different than it used to be. 1061 00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:47,839 All I could think is he said, "Thanks, 1062 00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:50,560 Drake." I was like, well, you know, 1063 00:39:47,839 --> 00:39:55,119 Isabelle does do a lot of facial yoga by 1064 00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:56,730 the end of this, so facial yoga. I mean, 1065 00:39:55,119 --> 00:39:59,599 a lot happens. 1066 00:39:56,730 --> 00:40:01,440 [Music] 1067 00:39:59,599 --> 00:40:04,400 Follow-up announcement time. 1068 00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:06,240 Announcement two, Electric Booaloo. 1069 00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:08,480 Friendly reminder that if you have any 1070 00:40:06,240 --> 00:40:10,720 interest in life coaching or Smut Club 1071 00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:12,960 book club with your fellow smut [ __ ] 1072 00:40:10,720 --> 00:40:14,850 follow the link in our Instagram bio or 1073 00:40:12,960 --> 00:40:16,800 the show notes. 1074 00:40:14,850 --> 00:40:19,119 [Music] 1075 00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:20,960 Okay. So, like two weeks ago, I went and 1076 00:40:19,119 --> 00:40:24,560 tried out a new yoga studio. 1077 00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:26,240 Oh, that's always like a kind of a 1078 00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:27,760 harrowing experience. 1079 00:40:26,240 --> 00:40:29,920 And like, and you know me, right? Like I 1080 00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:32,640 taught for years. I feel I feel pretty 1081 00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:33,760 confident walking into any yoga space 1082 00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:35,200 for the first time that I'm like, I 1083 00:40:33,760 --> 00:40:36,480 might not nail everything that's 1084 00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:36,880 happening here, but like 1085 00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:38,640 yeah, 1086 00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:40,400 I can navigate this well. 1087 00:40:38,640 --> 00:40:43,520 Comfortable enough. 1088 00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:46,320 I thought she was trying to kill us. 1089 00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:48,720 Like at the end of class, she was laying 1090 00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:51,440 the lavender towels on like all of our 1091 00:40:48,720 --> 00:40:54,720 heads and I literally went I was I'm 1092 00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:58,560 willing to do unspeakable things for 1093 00:40:54,720 --> 00:41:01,119 this towel. Like it was that level. Like 1094 00:40:58,560 --> 00:41:03,839 an hour and a half later, I had made it 1095 00:41:01,119 --> 00:41:05,119 home, showered, and was still sweating 1096 00:41:03,839 --> 00:41:06,880 on my couch. 1097 00:41:05,119 --> 00:41:09,680 Oh no. 1098 00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:11,680 Oh no. Yeah. I went to a class like that 1099 00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:13,920 where I was like, you know, I've been 1100 00:41:11,680 --> 00:41:16,960 doing a lot of yoga for a long time. I 1101 00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:19,680 haven't necessarily done a ton of like 1102 00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:21,440 the ashtanga, like really intense yoga 1103 00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:24,000 that I've done in the past, but like 1104 00:41:21,440 --> 00:41:26,640 I've still kept up my practice. I'll go 1105 00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:28,800 to this flow class. It'll be fine cuz I' 1106 00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:31,200 I've been doing flow. And I was like, 1107 00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:33,280 "Oh, your definition of flow and my 1108 00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:34,000 definition of flow are different 1109 00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:35,599 definitions." 1110 00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:37,760 I'm like, "We're both flowing. We're 1111 00:41:35,599 --> 00:41:39,280 flowing at different speeds and and 1112 00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:40,560 rates. Yeah. This class. 1113 00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:43,920 Yeah. And depths. 1114 00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:46,000 Oh my gosh. Yeah. Like I was like, "Oh, 1115 00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:48,160 we don't even have the fans on." Like 1116 00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:51,119 the way in which we were just like 1117 00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:53,200 building heat in that room. 1118 00:41:51,119 --> 00:41:54,720 And as soon as the instructor got on the 1119 00:41:53,200 --> 00:41:57,200 mat and like she was one of those women, 1120 00:41:54,720 --> 00:41:58,400 I loved her. Like she's the ideal 1121 00:41:57,200 --> 00:42:02,720 iconic. 1122 00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:05,839 Yeah. lots, tons of tattoos in a small 1123 00:42:02,720 --> 00:42:08,560 town that you don't see tattoos. She has 1124 00:42:05,839 --> 00:42:12,480 not a ounce of fat on her body. I'm 1125 00:42:08,560 --> 00:42:14,000 like, all you do is hot yoga all day, 1126 00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:15,200 every day. And you 1127 00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:18,400 raw vegan or something. 1128 00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:21,440 But yes, as soon as I saw how loose her 1129 00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:23,920 her like tight leggings were on her 1130 00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:25,680 figure, I was like, I I've made a 1131 00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:26,240 horrible mistake. 1132 00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:28,319 Oh, no. 1133 00:42:26,240 --> 00:42:29,200 Will I go back? Absolutely. 1134 00:42:28,319 --> 00:42:33,040 Yeah, for sure. 1135 00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:35,920 It was the most humbling thing. 1136 00:42:33,040 --> 00:42:36,560 But yeah, it it was Sorry. Once again, I 1137 00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:38,000 am really 1138 00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:40,079 That's all right. I'm having fun. 1139 00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:40,400 We have a book we're we're reviewing 1140 00:42:40,079 --> 00:42:44,079 today. 1141 00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:46,800 We are. And they're doing Shabari. So, 1142 00:42:44,079 --> 00:42:50,560 um, which for the uninitiated, I guess, 1143 00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:54,640 is, uh, a particular ti type type of 1144 00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:57,839 Japanese rope bondage, um, that's really 1145 00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:59,760 focused on the aesthetics of the knots 1146 00:42:57,839 --> 00:43:02,640 and the different ties and how they 1147 00:42:59,760 --> 00:43:04,480 look. Um, as well as the emotions that 1148 00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:06,560 can be pulled up. Um, 1149 00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:09,119 there's like a lot of beauty in the 1150 00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:10,079 practice and a ton of intention in it. 1151 00:43:09,119 --> 00:43:13,200 It is. 1152 00:43:10,079 --> 00:43:15,280 It's not just like a we threw we slapped 1153 00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:15,920 a sailor's knot on this and called it a 1154 00:43:15,280 --> 00:43:18,800 day, 1155 00:43:15,920 --> 00:43:21,440 right? There's a lot of safety stuff. 1156 00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:24,079 There's a lot of focus on the aesthetic. 1157 00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:25,839 Um, all those different things. And 1158 00:43:24,079 --> 00:43:27,760 Isabelle is getting more and more turned 1159 00:43:25,839 --> 00:43:31,200 on like as they're going through these 1160 00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:35,920 things. Um, and then the instructor asks 1161 00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:39,680 Drake to um demonstrate thrusting in a 1162 00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:43,200 particular like hold. And 1163 00:43:39,680 --> 00:43:46,319 um she at that moment realizes that 1164 00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:50,960 Drake is also pretty turned on. She's 1165 00:43:46,319 --> 00:43:52,800 like, "Whoop! Okie do." Um, which Yeah, 1166 00:43:50,960 --> 00:43:55,760 of of course he is. 1167 00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:58,319 Yeah. And then she's like, "Oh, good. 1168 00:43:55,760 --> 00:44:00,319 Hunter is here. 1169 00:43:58,319 --> 00:44:02,480 Oh, so Hunter's tour has ended. 1170 00:44:00,319 --> 00:44:06,240 Hunter reappeared and she's like, 1171 00:44:02,480 --> 00:44:09,920 "Okay." Um, he doesn't seem mad at all, 1172 00:44:06,240 --> 00:44:11,520 but she is kind of freaked out. Um, and 1173 00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:13,599 he 1174 00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:16,000 Hunter is basically like, "That was 1175 00:44:13,599 --> 00:44:20,319 really amazing. Like, you guys did a 1176 00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:22,480 great job. That was really cool." Um, so 1177 00:44:20,319 --> 00:44:25,599 let's go home. Let's get some rest. 1178 00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:28,800 Like, no issues at all. 1179 00:44:25,599 --> 00:44:30,480 And the ride home is so awkward. And 1180 00:44:28,800 --> 00:44:33,280 we're in Hunter's point of view and he's 1181 00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:35,359 like, it is hilarious how uncomfortable 1182 00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:38,480 they are right now. He's like, it is not 1183 00:44:35,359 --> 00:44:42,319 that deep. Like, y'all need to chill 1184 00:44:38,480 --> 00:44:45,200 out. Um, he's like, I know that these 1185 00:44:42,319 --> 00:44:47,920 two people would not ever go behind my 1186 00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:50,240 back. Like, the fact that they are being 1187 00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:52,800 so weird about doing something in front 1188 00:44:50,240 --> 00:44:54,720 of my face that wasn't even really doing 1189 00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:57,599 anything is ridiculous right now. was 1190 00:44:54,720 --> 00:44:59,680 like a clinical shabari demonstration 1191 00:44:57,599 --> 00:45:00,560 and they're like, "Oh my gosh, 1192 00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:05,280 we're so sorry." 1193 00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:07,680 Betrayal. And so he's like, "Also, uh, 1194 00:45:05,280 --> 00:45:09,760 that was super hot." He was like, "I 1195 00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:11,040 mean, I was kind of turned on, so like, 1196 00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:13,119 oh, who cares?" 1197 00:45:11,040 --> 00:45:15,280 Like, I think we're all experiencing new 1198 00:45:13,119 --> 00:45:18,160 emotions from this 1199 00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:20,480 experience. He's like, "Oh, I'm 1200 00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:21,760 experiencing different sensations than I 1201 00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:24,319 had in the past. Look at that." 1202 00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:27,839 Where do you feel that in your body? in 1203 00:45:24,319 --> 00:45:29,920 my downstairs. So, sematic therapy does 1204 00:45:27,839 --> 00:45:31,280 not work in that moment. 1205 00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:35,599 That's where you go. 1206 00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:37,760 You do. Um, if I ever said to a client, 1207 00:45:35,599 --> 00:45:39,599 where do you feel that in your body? And 1208 00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:43,400 they said 1209 00:45:39,599 --> 00:45:43,400 in my downstairs. 1210 00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:51,280 Oh my god. So, I listened to this 1211 00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:54,000 podcast that does a lot of like wellness 1212 00:45:51,280 --> 00:45:56,960 stuff and really interesting things. And 1213 00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:59,839 they were talking about this medication 1214 00:45:56,960 --> 00:46:02,800 or food additive or something from the 1215 00:45:59,839 --> 00:46:04,640 '90s that gave everybody like brutal 1216 00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:07,680 diarrhea. 1217 00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:11,040 And he cannot stand poop talk. That's 1218 00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:13,280 like one of the things that he discusses 1219 00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:15,680 regularly. He cannot stand it. And he's 1220 00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:17,440 like, "Why did I pick this topic?" and 1221 00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:21,319 he just kept saying like it makes you 1222 00:46:17,440 --> 00:46:21,319 feel funny in your downstairs. 1223 00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:25,760 So yeah, shout out to maintenance phase 1224 00:46:24,240 --> 00:46:27,839 Michael Hobbs. There you go. 1225 00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:29,040 Although if anyone tells me something is 1226 00:46:27,839 --> 00:46:30,319 going to make me feel funny in my 1227 00:46:29,040 --> 00:46:32,400 downstairs, it sounds like we have 1228 00:46:30,319 --> 00:46:32,880 different definitions of downstairs. 1229 00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:33,440 Yeah. 1230 00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:34,800 Um 1231 00:46:33,440 --> 00:46:37,599 Yeah. 1232 00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:38,560 So I'll have more questions if if he's 1233 00:46:37,599 --> 00:46:40,720 like, "You'll feel it in your 1234 00:46:38,560 --> 00:46:42,800 downstairs. Don't worry about it." Oh, 1235 00:46:40,720 --> 00:46:43,839 I'm worrying. We have different 1236 00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:48,000 downstairs. 1237 00:46:43,839 --> 00:46:50,480 Yeah, we do. We do. So, 1238 00:46:48,000 --> 00:46:53,119 they get back to the rental. Isabelle 1239 00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:55,920 goes um to take a bath, which is kind of 1240 00:46:53,119 --> 00:46:58,319 her ritual that she does, like a 1241 00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:59,680 lavender Epsom salt bath kind of a few 1242 00:46:58,319 --> 00:47:01,280 times a week or whatever. 1243 00:46:59,680 --> 00:47:04,800 I don't know if I poured too much Epsom 1244 00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:06,160 salt in a bath, but one time I my legs 1245 00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:09,200 broke out. 1246 00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:12,160 I remember you telling me about that. 1247 00:47:09,200 --> 00:47:13,599 Like it. Do you remember like salt burns 1248 00:47:12,160 --> 00:47:15,599 where you like do like that? You pour 1249 00:47:13,599 --> 00:47:18,560 put the salt and the ice. Like that's 1250 00:47:15,599 --> 00:47:20,319 what the backs of my thighs looked like 1251 00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:21,040 after this salt. 1252 00:47:20,319 --> 00:47:22,960 Yeah, I think you 1253 00:47:21,040 --> 00:47:24,960 But there wasn't a there wasn't a lot in 1254 00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:25,680 there. 1255 00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:27,280 So 1256 00:47:25,680 --> 00:47:29,839 maybe the water wasn't hot enough. Maybe 1257 00:47:27,280 --> 00:47:30,560 it didn't like dissolve. 1258 00:47:29,839 --> 00:47:32,640 I don't know. 1259 00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:35,040 I don't know either. 1260 00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:37,599 I'm gonna have to do some more research 1261 00:47:35,040 --> 00:47:39,920 because Epsom salt baths sound so lovely 1262 00:47:37,599 --> 00:47:41,839 in theory, but I'm like I can't have my 1263 00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:43,520 legs 1264 00:47:41,839 --> 00:47:45,520 looking 1265 00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:47,440 like I've had an allergic reaction 1266 00:47:45,520 --> 00:47:48,880 whenever I've done one. 1267 00:47:47,440 --> 00:47:50,640 They're just like really the backs of my 1268 00:47:48,880 --> 00:47:52,319 thighs that are touching the 1269 00:47:50,640 --> 00:47:52,880 bottom of the tub where there's extra 1270 00:47:52,319 --> 00:47:54,800 salt, 1271 00:47:52,880 --> 00:47:55,119 right? Itchy. 1272 00:47:54,800 --> 00:47:57,760 Yeah. 1273 00:47:55,119 --> 00:48:00,640 Yeah. Like fully red. Like can't do that 1274 00:47:57,760 --> 00:48:04,160 in summer. Not if you're wearing shorts. 1275 00:48:00,640 --> 00:48:05,280 Nope. make everyone feel a little weird. 1276 00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:07,119 Fair enough. 1277 00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:09,200 Okay, so she's taking her bath where she 1278 00:48:07,119 --> 00:48:10,240 does not have an allergic reaction to 1279 00:48:09,200 --> 00:48:12,640 the salt. 1280 00:48:10,240 --> 00:48:14,400 Um, and Hunter and Drake are kind of 1281 00:48:12,640 --> 00:48:16,880 having a drink in the kitchen. And 1282 00:48:14,400 --> 00:48:19,200 finally Drake like loses his [ __ ] and 1283 00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:20,720 starts having a meltdown. Um, and he's 1284 00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:22,240 like, "Go ahead and hit me. Like just 1285 00:48:20,720 --> 00:48:24,160 hit me. Just punch me in the face. I get 1286 00:48:22,240 --> 00:48:26,000 it. I deserve it. I earned it. Like it's 1287 00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:27,599 cool. I can't believe I did that shit." 1288 00:48:26,000 --> 00:48:28,720 And Hunter's like, "Dude, 1289 00:48:27,599 --> 00:48:31,119 what? 1290 00:48:28,720 --> 00:48:33,760 Chill out. Like 1291 00:48:31,119 --> 00:48:35,280 it was a clinical demonstration, dude. 1292 00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:36,960 Yeah. Um 1293 00:48:35,280 --> 00:48:39,119 you were not in a private room. There 1294 00:48:36,960 --> 00:48:39,599 was an instructor guiding you through 1295 00:48:39,119 --> 00:48:41,920 it. 1296 00:48:39,599 --> 00:48:43,440 Yeah. Yeah. And Hunter's like, "You 1297 00:48:41,920 --> 00:48:44,880 should literally be punching me in the 1298 00:48:43,440 --> 00:48:46,480 face. Why are you not punching me in the 1299 00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:47,440 face?" 1300 00:48:46,480 --> 00:48:48,559 So there's a lot of like 1301 00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:49,920 Wait, Drake. 1302 00:48:48,559 --> 00:48:50,720 Drake is saying that to Hunter 1303 00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:53,119 to Hunter. Okay. 1304 00:48:50,720 --> 00:48:55,839 Yes. And so Hunter's like, "Man, I am 1305 00:48:53,119 --> 00:48:58,640 really I am really not upset. Like it is 1306 00:48:55,839 --> 00:49:00,480 really okay." And so then he goes in to 1307 00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:02,160 the bathroom where Isabelle is taking 1308 00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:03,760 her bath and basically has the same 1309 00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:05,359 conversation with her minus the punching 1310 00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:07,119 in the face where she's like, "I'm so 1311 00:49:05,359 --> 00:49:10,000 sorry. I can't believe I did that. Oh my 1312 00:49:07,119 --> 00:49:13,680 god." And he's like, "Sweetheart, it's 1313 00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:17,359 really really okay." Um, and then he 1314 00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:18,559 finger bangs her in the tub. And um, 1315 00:49:17,359 --> 00:49:19,520 hopefully that made her feel better 1316 00:49:18,559 --> 00:49:23,359 about it all. 1317 00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:25,760 Yeah. Yeah. Um, and there's a moment 1318 00:49:23,359 --> 00:49:27,680 when Hunter is like, you know, Drake 1319 00:49:25,760 --> 00:49:29,520 should be here. He's here for everything 1320 00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:32,400 else. And then he's like, that's [ __ ] 1321 00:49:29,520 --> 00:49:34,400 weird. He's like, 1322 00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:35,920 never had thoughts like that before. Big 1323 00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:37,760 yikes. Not into that. 1324 00:49:35,920 --> 00:49:39,920 We'll call that pre-contemplative. 1325 00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:44,240 We will call it pre-contemplative. And 1326 00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:48,160 it is hilarious how fast um Hunter moves 1327 00:49:44,240 --> 00:49:50,720 through the stages of change. So 1328 00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:53,200 the next day they are at like a 1329 00:49:50,720 --> 00:49:55,839 roadside, you know, touristy trap kind 1330 00:49:53,200 --> 00:49:58,720 of place um where they're it's like a 1331 00:49:55,839 --> 00:50:00,160 UFO thing. It's ridiculous. But Drake 1332 00:49:58,720 --> 00:50:02,400 has gotten a phone call from his 1333 00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:05,599 landlord. He is being evicted because 1334 00:50:02,400 --> 00:50:08,480 they sold his building and uh he only 1335 00:50:05,599 --> 00:50:12,079 has a month to find a new place. So 1336 00:50:08,480 --> 00:50:14,480 Isabelle is immediately like, "Oh, well, 1337 00:50:12,079 --> 00:50:16,240 just move in with us, right? Like you've 1338 00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:17,839 lived with us before, like way back. 1339 00:50:16,240 --> 00:50:19,200 We have the space. Yeah. Stay with us 1340 00:50:17,839 --> 00:50:22,880 till you figure out your next step. 1341 00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:24,800 Exactly. Um and cuz Hunter or Drake, 1342 00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:26,720 sorry, Drake is like, "I'm going to have 1343 00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:28,400 to go like I'll just catch the quickest 1344 00:50:26,720 --> 00:50:29,760 flight back home cuz I'm going to have 1345 00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:32,160 to move and find a new place. I'm going 1346 00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:34,400 to have to do this and that." And and 1347 00:50:32,160 --> 00:50:36,480 Isabel Isabelle is like, "No, like 1348 00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:38,960 obviously just stay with us for a 1349 00:50:36,480 --> 00:50:43,280 while." Um 1350 00:50:38,960 --> 00:50:47,040 and um Hunter comes out cuz he had been 1351 00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:48,559 in wherever they were and Isabelle turns 1352 00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:50,319 to him with no context and is like, 1353 00:50:48,559 --> 00:50:52,480 "Tell Drake to move in with us." And 1354 00:50:50,319 --> 00:50:55,680 Hunter is like, "Drake, move in with 1355 00:50:52,480 --> 00:50:56,480 us." Like he's like, "What? 1356 00:50:55,680 --> 00:51:00,079 Sure. Okay, 1357 00:50:56,480 --> 00:51:03,440 sounds great. Whatever." Um, and Drake 1358 00:51:00,079 --> 00:51:06,880 is trying to like 1359 00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:08,559 ignore the new tension there is in their 1360 00:51:06,880 --> 00:51:09,599 dynamic that hasn't been there before. 1361 00:51:08,559 --> 00:51:12,079 Why? 1362 00:51:09,599 --> 00:51:14,319 Cuz he's uncomfy. And he's like, I 1363 00:51:12,079 --> 00:51:17,040 really want to just leave because this 1364 00:51:14,319 --> 00:51:18,720 is so [ __ ] awkward for me right now. 1365 00:51:17,040 --> 00:51:20,640 Because Isabelle is kind of the girl of 1366 00:51:18,720 --> 00:51:22,800 my dreams, but 1367 00:51:20,640 --> 00:51:25,200 I have never allowed myself to look at 1368 00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:26,960 her that way. Because from day one, 1369 00:51:25,200 --> 00:51:29,680 Hunter was all in. and I would never 1370 00:51:26,960 --> 00:51:32,640 ever do that. And so now that I have 1371 00:51:29,680 --> 00:51:37,839 allowed myself to sort of consider that, 1372 00:51:32,640 --> 00:51:41,200 I'm kind of freaking out. And so, um, it 1373 00:51:37,839 --> 00:51:43,280 does feel good that they are still 1374 00:51:41,200 --> 00:51:46,800 kind of goofing off and joking in the 1375 00:51:43,280 --> 00:51:48,960 same way. Um, and Hunter and Isabelle 1376 00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:51,200 still very clearly want him around. 1377 00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:53,040 They're like, "No, man. Like, this trip 1378 00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:54,640 was for the three of us. Like, you can't 1379 00:51:53,040 --> 00:51:57,200 leave. like 1380 00:51:54,640 --> 00:52:00,240 we're doing this together. Um, but he's 1381 00:51:57,200 --> 00:52:02,640 like, "How am I going to feel 1382 00:52:00,240 --> 00:52:04,400 living with them again and having to 1383 00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:08,720 listen to them together?" 1384 00:52:04,400 --> 00:52:10,559 And like I can't bring people home. 1385 00:52:08,720 --> 00:52:13,040 Like 1386 00:52:10,559 --> 00:52:16,480 I could have before, but like I don't 1387 00:52:13,040 --> 00:52:18,160 think I can now. Like I feel real weird 1388 00:52:16,480 --> 00:52:22,079 about all of it. 1389 00:52:18,160 --> 00:52:24,160 So, um, Hunter 1390 00:52:22,079 --> 00:52:27,760 is having an internal dialogue about 1391 00:52:24,160 --> 00:52:31,040 like, "What kink have I unlocked 1392 00:52:27,760 --> 00:52:33,599 cuz something is different?" And, uh, 1393 00:52:31,040 --> 00:52:37,040 I've done a lot of research on all the 1394 00:52:33,599 --> 00:52:39,680 kinks. And he is like, "Uh, 1395 00:52:37,040 --> 00:52:42,000 is it cuckleding? 1396 00:52:39,680 --> 00:52:44,240 Is it hot wifeing?" 1397 00:52:42,000 --> 00:52:47,440 Which is a kink where like you share 1398 00:52:44,240 --> 00:52:48,720 your wife cuz she's hot or whatever. Um, 1399 00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:52,800 and he's like, "I don't think it's 1400 00:52:48,720 --> 00:52:56,400 cuckleding." Cuz it's not about like my 1401 00:52:52,800 --> 00:52:58,000 embarrassment or like the humiliation of 1402 00:52:56,400 --> 00:53:00,000 watching your partner with someone else, 1403 00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:02,640 which is for some people the kink. 1404 00:53:00,000 --> 00:53:05,200 He's like, "That's not it." 1405 00:53:02,640 --> 00:53:08,880 So, what is it? I'm not really sure, but 1406 00:53:05,200 --> 00:53:10,640 it's something cuz woo. All right. Yeah. 1407 00:53:08,880 --> 00:53:12,640 We're moving into contemplation for 1408 00:53:10,640 --> 00:53:14,240 those of you who are 1409 00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:14,720 following along with the stages of 1410 00:53:14,240 --> 00:53:16,400 change, 1411 00:53:14,720 --> 00:53:18,480 following the motivational interviewing 1412 00:53:16,400 --> 00:53:21,280 stages of change. 1413 00:53:18,480 --> 00:53:24,559 Um, but he does think about it and he's 1414 00:53:21,280 --> 00:53:25,680 like, it is only Drake though. Like if I 1415 00:53:24,559 --> 00:53:27,680 think about 1416 00:53:25,680 --> 00:53:30,720 even one of his other friends from the 1417 00:53:27,680 --> 00:53:32,720 club, he's like, "No, don't like it. 1418 00:53:30,720 --> 00:53:35,119 Don't like the thought of any of them 1419 00:53:32,720 --> 00:53:37,680 with her." Um, it is literally only 1420 00:53:35,119 --> 00:53:41,599 Drake I feel good about. 1421 00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:42,960 And so Isabelle is like in their 1422 00:53:41,599 --> 00:53:46,319 apartment, whatever that they're staying 1423 00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:48,640 in in the next town, and she is like 1424 00:53:46,319 --> 00:53:50,000 scrolling through different brunch 1425 00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:52,240 options. She's like, "Where should we 1426 00:53:50,000 --> 00:53:56,800 have breakfast?" You know, she's looking 1427 00:53:52,240 --> 00:53:59,280 and Hunter just blurts out like, "Hey, 1428 00:53:56,800 --> 00:54:01,119 would uh you and Drake want to have sex, 1429 00:53:59,280 --> 00:54:04,359 you guys, the two of you together with 1430 00:54:01,119 --> 00:54:04,359 me watching?" 1431 00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:14,720 And Drake is [ __ ] livid. Like he is 1432 00:54:09,520 --> 00:54:17,760 so angry. He is like, "How dare you say 1433 00:54:14,720 --> 00:54:20,480 that [ __ ] to me?" And like takes off. 1434 00:54:17,760 --> 00:54:23,359 Like leaves. 1435 00:54:20,480 --> 00:54:26,000 And um 1436 00:54:23,359 --> 00:54:28,160 he's like, "I'm going to get a drink. 1437 00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:31,920 I'll see you when I see you." And is 1438 00:54:28,160 --> 00:54:35,599 gone, right? And so Isabelle is like in 1439 00:54:31,920 --> 00:54:35,920 tears and she's like, "Oh, 1440 00:54:35,599 --> 00:54:37,440 is 1441 00:54:35,920 --> 00:54:40,319 well that was uncomfy, 1442 00:54:37,440 --> 00:54:42,720 right?" She's like, "So you don't want 1443 00:54:40,319 --> 00:54:43,280 me anymore? Like this is your way of 1444 00:54:42,720 --> 00:54:46,640 telling me? 1445 00:54:43,280 --> 00:54:48,559 Oh, I misunderstood some different cues 1446 00:54:46,640 --> 00:54:50,480 that I thought I'd been picking up on." 1447 00:54:48,559 --> 00:54:53,280 Yeah. She's like, "Okay, so you don't 1448 00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:56,400 want me anymore, and this is your way of 1449 00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:58,000 like telling me that? Like, what are you 1450 00:54:56,400 --> 00:55:00,079 doing here?" Because there was no 1451 00:54:58,000 --> 00:55:01,680 context. They're like hanging out 1452 00:55:00,079 --> 00:55:04,079 deciding where to have breakfast and 1453 00:55:01,680 --> 00:55:05,440 he's like, "You guys want to fuck?" 1454 00:55:04,079 --> 00:55:08,640 Like, "What?" 1455 00:55:05,440 --> 00:55:10,480 And he's like, "No." And I'm so mad that 1456 00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:12,240 you would ever imply it that I'm going 1457 00:55:10,480 --> 00:55:15,440 to leave. And then you're like, "Oh, 1458 00:55:12,240 --> 00:55:17,440 well, now I'm just in this awkward 1459 00:55:15,440 --> 00:55:18,880 moment." So then Hunter does explain 1460 00:55:17,440 --> 00:55:20,400 himself. He's like, "Hey, listen. 1461 00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:22,400 Watching you guys do that Shabari 1462 00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:25,760 demonstration like really turned me on 1463 00:55:22,400 --> 00:55:28,400 and if you would be into it, like I 1464 00:55:25,760 --> 00:55:31,280 would enjoy watching it, I think." And 1465 00:55:28,400 --> 00:55:34,240 so like, you know, yeah, but if you say 1466 00:55:31,280 --> 00:55:37,599 no, I will never bring it up again. And 1467 00:55:34,240 --> 00:55:38,000 she's immediately like, yeah, no, 1468 00:55:37,599 --> 00:55:39,440 no, 1469 00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:40,240 no need to bring that up. Thank you for 1470 00:55:39,440 --> 00:55:42,880 asking. 1471 00:55:40,240 --> 00:55:44,800 And there is no like, 1472 00:55:42,880 --> 00:55:46,720 why would you even [ __ ] think of that 1473 00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:48,160 or anything like that. It's very much 1474 00:55:46,720 --> 00:55:51,760 like, 1475 00:55:48,160 --> 00:55:54,160 I'm not trying to shame you, but this is 1476 00:55:51,760 --> 00:55:56,960 arguably the most important person in 1477 00:55:54,160 --> 00:56:00,000 our lives. I refuse to potentially 1478 00:55:56,960 --> 00:56:02,880 damage relationships by doing this for 1479 00:56:00,000 --> 00:56:05,200 you to explore your kink just for fun. 1480 00:56:02,880 --> 00:56:06,640 Like that is not gonna I'm not 1481 00:56:05,200 --> 00:56:08,000 comfortable with that. 1482 00:56:06,640 --> 00:56:09,599 And so Hunter is like, 1483 00:56:08,000 --> 00:56:11,200 "Yeah, don't put us in the line of fire 1484 00:56:09,599 --> 00:56:13,680 for your curiosity, 1485 00:56:11,200 --> 00:56:16,480 right? Because what if it turns out 1486 00:56:13,680 --> 00:56:19,119 you're not okay with it?" Or what if it 1487 00:56:16,480 --> 00:56:21,599 turns out like Drake and I get weird 1488 00:56:19,119 --> 00:56:24,960 feelings? Or what if it turns out like 1489 00:56:21,599 --> 00:56:29,920 this could destroy our marriage? the end 1490 00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:30,799 like our best friend like wow that's a 1491 00:56:29,920 --> 00:56:32,319 lot you know 1492 00:56:30,799 --> 00:56:33,119 yeah for you to throw it out there so 1493 00:56:32,319 --> 00:56:34,880 flippantly 1494 00:56:33,119 --> 00:56:36,960 right and I don't think Hunter was 1495 00:56:34,880 --> 00:56:39,280 considering all of that he was just like 1496 00:56:36,960 --> 00:56:40,000 that's hot 1497 00:56:39,280 --> 00:56:41,760 full stop 1498 00:56:40,000 --> 00:56:43,760 yeah if they want to explore it let me 1499 00:56:41,760 --> 00:56:44,480 like make it a safe space for them to do 1500 00:56:43,760 --> 00:56:47,119 so 1501 00:56:44,480 --> 00:56:48,240 right but that his intent did not match 1502 00:56:47,119 --> 00:56:50,640 his impact on that 1503 00:56:48,240 --> 00:56:51,280 no intent versus impact very much 1504 00:56:50,640 --> 00:56:54,559 matters 1505 00:56:51,280 --> 00:56:57,119 100% so Hunter then takes off to find 1506 00:56:54,559 --> 00:57:00,240 Drake. And we switch to Drake's point of 1507 00:56:57,119 --> 00:57:03,280 view. He is drinking alone. Um, and he 1508 00:57:00,240 --> 00:57:05,760 is basically of the mind that Hunter was 1509 00:57:03,280 --> 00:57:06,799 just testing his loyalty. He's like, 1510 00:57:05,760 --> 00:57:08,640 "Oh, that'd be gross," 1511 00:57:06,799 --> 00:57:11,119 right? He's like, "I pushed him too far 1512 00:57:08,640 --> 00:57:13,599 with that Shabari thing." And so, like, 1513 00:57:11,119 --> 00:57:15,760 this was his way of testing if I would 1514 00:57:13,599 --> 00:57:19,520 cross the line, right, given the 1515 00:57:15,760 --> 00:57:21,359 opportunity. Um, and he is livid that 1516 00:57:19,520 --> 00:57:24,960 Hunter would do such a thing, which he 1517 00:57:21,359 --> 00:57:28,720 did not do, but he is really upset even 1518 00:57:24,960 --> 00:57:32,640 at the idea. Um, and so then Hunter 1519 00:57:28,720 --> 00:57:34,640 shows up and uh he's like, "No, it's not 1520 00:57:32,640 --> 00:57:37,200 a test, [ __ ] Like, that was really 1521 00:57:34,640 --> 00:57:39,920 hot. Like, you guys are hot. I don't 1522 00:57:37,200 --> 00:57:42,559 like you guys are hot. There's clearly 1523 00:57:39,920 --> 00:57:44,319 some sort of tension between you. I had 1524 00:57:42,559 --> 00:57:46,319 really just been trying to create a safe 1525 00:57:44,319 --> 00:57:48,880 space for y'all to have a conversation 1526 00:57:46,319 --> 00:57:52,000 and explore it if you'd like. I realized 1527 00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:53,119 maybe how I worded it didn't make y'all 1528 00:57:52,000 --> 00:57:54,079 feel that way. 1529 00:57:53,119 --> 00:57:56,640 Yeah. Yeah. 1530 00:57:54,079 --> 00:57:58,240 But but no, it was never to test you. It 1531 00:57:56,640 --> 00:58:02,240 was just because I love you. 1532 00:57:58,240 --> 00:58:03,760 Yeah. Yeah. And so 1533 00:58:02,240 --> 00:58:07,680 Drake is like, "Yeah, I don't believe 1534 00:58:03,760 --> 00:58:10,319 you." like like I I don't believe that 1535 00:58:07,680 --> 00:58:12,400 you would want to watch another man have 1536 00:58:10,319 --> 00:58:15,599 sex with your wife. Like that's I don't 1537 00:58:12,400 --> 00:58:18,319 believe that. And so Hunter's like, 1538 00:58:15,599 --> 00:58:20,480 "What about this? Let's make a bet. We 1539 00:58:18,319 --> 00:58:22,000 have a new club to go to tonight." I 1540 00:58:20,480 --> 00:58:23,119 think they're in Austin, Texas at this 1541 00:58:22,000 --> 00:58:26,160 point. 1542 00:58:23,119 --> 00:58:27,920 And he's like, "What if you guys go to 1543 00:58:26,160 --> 00:58:30,880 the club together and pretend that 1544 00:58:27,920 --> 00:58:34,000 you're together and just behave as if 1545 00:58:30,880 --> 00:58:36,319 you're on a date, right? and let's just 1546 00:58:34,000 --> 00:58:39,200 see how it goes. Let's see how it feels. 1547 00:58:36,319 --> 00:58:41,760 And as long as Isabelle is on board, if 1548 00:58:39,200 --> 00:58:44,720 it goes badly, if I get crazy jealous or 1549 00:58:41,760 --> 00:58:47,599 if anything weird happens, um I will 1550 00:58:44,720 --> 00:58:51,440 never bring it up again. 1551 00:58:47,599 --> 00:58:54,880 And so that's what they decide to do. So 1552 00:58:51,440 --> 00:58:58,400 they go to the club, which again is not 1553 00:58:54,880 --> 00:59:01,200 the vibe. It is very bright. Like as 1554 00:58:58,400 --> 00:59:03,680 soon as you walk in, it sort of has like 1555 00:59:01,200 --> 00:59:05,440 um almost strip club energy where all of 1556 00:59:03,680 --> 00:59:07,520 the women are topless, like serving 1557 00:59:05,440 --> 00:59:10,480 drinks and stuff, which is fine, 1558 00:59:07,520 --> 00:59:12,079 but they just weren't really prepared 1559 00:59:10,480 --> 00:59:14,720 for that. And there's a lot of 1560 00:59:12,079 --> 00:59:15,839 It's a different club energy than than 1561 00:59:14,720 --> 00:59:17,440 their club for sure. 1562 00:59:15,839 --> 00:59:21,040 Right. And there's a lot of people like 1563 00:59:17,440 --> 00:59:23,760 openly having sex like out in the middle 1564 00:59:21,040 --> 00:59:25,839 of everything. Um 1565 00:59:23,760 --> 00:59:28,880 uh but they're still trying to be open 1566 00:59:25,839 --> 00:59:31,680 to the vibes and it's very much like um 1567 00:59:28,880 --> 00:59:33,680 comfort and support and safety are all 1568 00:59:31,680 --> 00:59:34,960 really like you know honed in on and 1569 00:59:33,680 --> 00:59:37,119 everything. 1570 00:59:34,960 --> 00:59:39,680 I forgot to mention the previous club 1571 00:59:37,119 --> 00:59:42,960 they were at no alcohol at all. 1572 00:59:39,680 --> 00:59:45,839 Their club is a two drink max and this 1573 00:59:42,960 --> 00:59:48,000 club does not have any rules around 1574 00:59:45,839 --> 00:59:50,240 alcohol consumption which 1575 00:59:48,000 --> 00:59:52,480 is not the norm for most sex clubs. 1576 00:59:50,240 --> 00:59:54,799 They're usually very intentional about 1577 00:59:52,480 --> 00:59:58,799 any substances just so there are no 1578 00:59:54,799 --> 01:00:00,240 questions about consent and stuff. Um, 1579 00:59:58,799 --> 01:00:02,559 I haven't spent a lot of time in sex 1580 01:00:00,240 --> 01:00:05,359 clubs, but I do feel like a sex club 1581 01:00:02,559 --> 01:00:07,040 with an unlimited alcohol policy. 1582 01:00:05,359 --> 01:00:08,559 Red flag for me personally. 1583 01:00:07,040 --> 01:00:11,200 Yeah. Would make like that just like 1584 01:00:08,559 --> 01:00:16,000 makes me very nervy. 1585 01:00:11,200 --> 01:00:17,680 Mhm. So, Hunter went ahead of them to 1586 01:00:16,000 --> 01:00:20,000 meet with the owner and stuff. So 1587 01:00:17,680 --> 01:00:22,240 Isabelle and Drake get there together. 1588 01:00:20,000 --> 01:00:24,319 Um they get a few drinks. They talk 1589 01:00:22,240 --> 01:00:28,240 about the whole situation with Hunter. 1590 01:00:24,319 --> 01:00:30,400 Um and then they start making out. Like 1591 01:00:28,240 --> 01:00:32,880 Drake is like, "All right, he said to do 1592 01:00:30,400 --> 01:00:36,640 it. Let's do it." So they start making 1593 01:00:32,880 --> 01:00:38,960 out. He puts his hand up her dress and 1594 01:00:36,640 --> 01:00:42,079 Isabella is like kind of shocked by how 1595 01:00:38,960 --> 01:00:44,720 turned on she is. Um, and then Hunter 1596 01:00:42,079 --> 01:00:47,040 shows up and like rips her away from 1597 01:00:44,720 --> 01:00:50,640 Drake and takes her to a private room 1598 01:00:47,040 --> 01:00:52,720 and like apparently he's so turned on he 1599 01:00:50,640 --> 01:00:55,359 doesn't know what to do with himself and 1600 01:00:52,720 --> 01:00:59,680 so they [ __ ] like crazy in this private 1601 01:00:55,359 --> 01:01:01,280 room. Um, and Isabelle is like, "Listen, 1602 01:00:59,680 --> 01:01:03,680 has that been explained to Drake as to 1603 01:01:01,280 --> 01:01:05,920 why he like pulled her away or Blake or 1604 01:01:03,680 --> 01:01:09,040 No, Blake. Drake just saw 1605 01:01:05,920 --> 01:01:09,599 Hunter showed up looking ragy, ripped 1606 01:01:09,040 --> 01:01:11,920 her away, 1607 01:01:09,599 --> 01:01:12,480 when really the ragy was just horniness. 1608 01:01:11,920 --> 01:01:13,920 Correct. Yeah. 1609 01:01:12,480 --> 01:01:16,720 But I'm guessing Drake is now going to 1610 01:01:13,920 --> 01:01:20,000 be like in his head about like, oh, 1611 01:01:16,720 --> 01:01:22,960 whoops. Um, and so Isabelle is like, 1612 01:01:20,000 --> 01:01:24,720 "Listen, if Drake is down with it, if it 1613 01:01:22,960 --> 01:01:27,119 turns you on this much, like, all 1614 01:01:24,720 --> 01:01:28,400 right." She's like, "Cuz it also turned 1615 01:01:27,119 --> 01:01:29,520 me on this much, so 1616 01:01:28,400 --> 01:01:32,880 yeah, had a great time. 1617 01:01:29,520 --> 01:01:34,960 I guess we can give it a chance." 1618 01:01:32,880 --> 01:01:37,119 Meanwhile, they're having this beautiful 1619 01:01:34,960 --> 01:01:38,880 moment and Drake is like, "I am the 1620 01:01:37,119 --> 01:01:40,160 worst piece of [ __ ] that has ever lived 1621 01:01:38,880 --> 01:01:41,920 on the planet." 1622 01:01:40,160 --> 01:01:42,880 I felt it. I felt that. 1623 01:01:41,920 --> 01:01:45,119 Yeah. Yeah. 1624 01:01:42,880 --> 01:01:45,920 Once again, intent versus impact. 1625 01:01:45,119 --> 01:01:47,200 Mhm. 1626 01:01:45,920 --> 01:01:50,079 Very much matters. 1627 01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:51,599 Hunter is not great at understanding 1628 01:01:50,079 --> 01:01:57,359 those things. M. 1629 01:01:51,599 --> 01:02:01,280 So, um Isabelle then appears next to him 1630 01:01:57,359 --> 01:02:04,400 looking very clearly freshly [ __ ] and 1631 01:02:01,280 --> 01:02:07,119 uh tells him like they should go back to 1632 01:02:04,400 --> 01:02:09,359 the rental or whatever. And he's like, 1633 01:02:07,119 --> 01:02:11,200 "Yeah, no. I think I'm going to hang out 1634 01:02:09,359 --> 01:02:14,319 and just hook up hook up with somebody 1635 01:02:11,200 --> 01:02:17,599 here. Like I don't want to go back." And 1636 01:02:14,319 --> 01:02:19,680 she's really hurt by that. But another 1637 01:02:17,599 --> 01:02:22,640 dude overhears 1638 01:02:19,680 --> 01:02:27,040 Drake rejecting her. 1639 01:02:22,640 --> 01:02:29,040 And so this other dude is like, "Hey, 1640 01:02:27,040 --> 01:02:30,720 if he doesn't want to go, I'll come. 1641 01:02:29,040 --> 01:02:32,880 Like you don't have to beg, honey. Like 1642 01:02:30,720 --> 01:02:34,960 I'll be there." And she's like, "No, 1643 01:02:32,880 --> 01:02:37,440 thank you." And like tries to walk away 1644 01:02:34,960 --> 01:02:40,960 and he like grabs her and like pulls her 1645 01:02:37,440 --> 01:02:43,520 into him. And Drake loses his [ __ ] and 1646 01:02:40,960 --> 01:02:46,960 he and Hunter basically start a brawl in 1647 01:02:43,520 --> 01:02:49,839 this sex club because this man like 1648 01:02:46,960 --> 01:02:52,720 manhandled her and then a bouncer showed 1649 01:02:49,839 --> 01:02:55,280 up and also manhandled her like to get 1650 01:02:52,720 --> 01:02:57,599 her away from them cuz she was like like 1651 01:02:55,280 --> 01:02:59,760 that guy was trying to hurt me like they 1652 01:02:57,599 --> 01:03:01,760 were just protecting me and the the 1653 01:02:59,760 --> 01:03:03,280 bouncer like calls her a mouthy [ __ ] or 1654 01:03:01,760 --> 01:03:07,119 something and like shoves her out of the 1655 01:03:03,280 --> 01:03:11,040 way. So, they get kicked out of the 1656 01:03:07,119 --> 01:03:11,760 club. Uh, which is no um 1657 01:03:11,040 --> 01:03:13,920 not a loss. 1658 01:03:11,760 --> 01:03:16,160 I was going to say it's no loss really. 1659 01:03:13,920 --> 01:03:18,160 So, they're walking back to the hotel, 1660 01:03:16,160 --> 01:03:20,559 which is just a couple blocks away. And 1661 01:03:18,160 --> 01:03:23,359 Drake gives Isabelle like a piggyback 1662 01:03:20,559 --> 01:03:26,240 ride um cuz she's wearing heels or 1663 01:03:23,359 --> 01:03:29,760 whatever. And they get street food and 1664 01:03:26,240 --> 01:03:33,280 they hang out and everything seems like 1665 01:03:29,760 --> 01:03:35,520 it's going to be okay. um until they 1666 01:03:33,280 --> 01:03:38,880 talk about continuing the arrangement 1667 01:03:35,520 --> 01:03:41,920 and Drake is like what? 1668 01:03:38,880 --> 01:03:44,480 Like are what? 1669 01:03:41,920 --> 01:03:46,720 Okay. So, okay. So, you weren't mad. You 1670 01:03:44,480 --> 01:03:48,799 were into it, but also like it seems 1671 01:03:46,720 --> 01:03:50,880 like for as open as their communication 1672 01:03:48,799 --> 01:03:52,079 is, they're not really great at 1673 01:03:50,880 --> 01:03:52,480 communicating. 1674 01:03:52,079 --> 01:03:54,400 No. 1675 01:03:52,480 --> 01:03:56,880 Like they're very willing to engage in 1676 01:03:54,400 --> 01:03:58,880 like some like harder conversations, but 1677 01:03:56,880 --> 01:04:00,240 like they aren't always great at 1678 01:03:58,880 --> 01:04:02,880 navigating them, 1679 01:04:00,240 --> 01:04:06,079 right? or like the timeliness of them 1680 01:04:02,880 --> 01:04:08,079 isn't great. But um Drake essentially is 1681 01:04:06,079 --> 01:04:11,359 like I don't 1682 01:04:08,079 --> 01:04:13,760 I don't think my heart can take this 1683 01:04:11,359 --> 01:04:16,319 because also up until this point it 1684 01:04:13,760 --> 01:04:19,440 hasn't really been highlighted but he's 1685 01:04:16,319 --> 01:04:21,599 by and he very regularly hooks up with 1686 01:04:19,440 --> 01:04:23,680 dudes and stuff as well. like primarily 1687 01:04:21,599 --> 01:04:25,920 it's women, but it's also men. And he's 1688 01:04:23,680 --> 01:04:28,400 like, "Yeah, 1689 01:04:25,920 --> 01:04:31,039 these are the two people I could fall in 1690 01:04:28,400 --> 01:04:34,319 love with, and I'm not sure that I can 1691 01:04:31,039 --> 01:04:35,760 blur that line and come back from it, 1692 01:04:34,319 --> 01:04:36,079 basically." 1693 01:04:35,760 --> 01:04:38,480 So, 1694 01:04:36,079 --> 01:04:41,760 which makes sense. They haven't really 1695 01:04:38,480 --> 01:04:46,400 decided anything until they get to New 1696 01:04:41,760 --> 01:04:48,799 Orleans and there's some kind of um jazz 1697 01:04:46,400 --> 01:04:51,440 festival in town and they messed up 1698 01:04:48,799 --> 01:04:55,599 their booking and oh my stars, the hotel 1699 01:04:51,440 --> 01:05:00,160 only has one bed. So Drake admits to 1700 01:04:55,599 --> 01:05:02,880 Hunter that basically he says, "I know 1701 01:05:00,160 --> 01:05:04,960 you think that I am just a man [ __ ] and 1702 01:05:02,880 --> 01:05:07,760 that I could just bang anybody and not 1703 01:05:04,960 --> 01:05:08,720 have emotion around it, but Isabelle is 1704 01:05:07,760 --> 01:05:11,520 different 1705 01:05:08,720 --> 01:05:13,039 and I don't think I can do that." And 1706 01:05:11,520 --> 01:05:15,599 Hunter's like, "I don't think that." And 1707 01:05:13,039 --> 01:05:18,799 he's like, "Dude, yes you do, because I 1708 01:05:15,599 --> 01:05:20,480 think that." Like, it's not a bad thing, 1709 01:05:18,799 --> 01:05:22,559 but I'm telling you that Isabelle is 1710 01:05:20,480 --> 01:05:24,240 different. like it's not going to be the 1711 01:05:22,559 --> 01:05:26,880 same. 1712 01:05:24,240 --> 01:05:29,599 Um so they all get in bed together cuz 1713 01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:32,559 again there's only one bed and Hunter is 1714 01:05:29,599 --> 01:05:36,799 like maybe you guys should just cuddle 1715 01:05:32,559 --> 01:05:40,000 and um eventually like Drake is eating 1716 01:05:36,799 --> 01:05:41,680 her out and like Hunter's giving a lot 1717 01:05:40,000 --> 01:05:43,760 of instruction. Everybody's very into 1718 01:05:41,680 --> 01:05:45,520 it. There's a lot of like pausing and 1719 01:05:43,760 --> 01:05:46,319 checking for consent. Everybody's still 1720 01:05:45,520 --> 01:05:48,799 good. 1721 01:05:46,319 --> 01:05:51,119 All of that kind of stuff. Um, and then 1722 01:05:48,799 --> 01:05:53,599 Isabelle goes to like she's like, "What 1723 01:05:51,119 --> 01:05:55,599 do I do now?" She's like, "Should I You 1724 01:05:53,599 --> 01:05:56,960 guys are both hard. Like, should I do 1725 01:05:55,599 --> 01:05:59,680 something about that?" And they're like, 1726 01:05:56,960 --> 01:06:02,480 "Just go to sleep." Like, like, "This 1727 01:05:59,680 --> 01:06:06,960 was for you. Just go to sleep. 1728 01:06:02,480 --> 01:06:09,440 Whatever." Okay. And um they're like, 1729 01:06:06,960 --> 01:06:11,200 "No need to reciprocate or anything like 1730 01:06:09,440 --> 01:06:15,039 that." And then while Drake is in the 1731 01:06:11,200 --> 01:06:18,480 bathroom, Hunter asks Isabelle to cuddle 1732 01:06:15,039 --> 01:06:20,400 with Drake. He's like, Drake said he was 1733 01:06:18,480 --> 01:06:23,039 worried that like we were just using 1734 01:06:20,400 --> 01:06:25,119 him. That is not what this is at all. 1735 01:06:23,039 --> 01:06:28,160 And I want him to know that like 1736 01:06:25,119 --> 01:06:29,680 he is important and he matters. Um, so 1737 01:06:28,160 --> 01:06:31,440 he's trying to be very intentional with 1738 01:06:29,680 --> 01:06:34,480 his feelings. And there is I'm kind of 1739 01:06:31,440 --> 01:06:37,280 like skating over some of like 1740 01:06:34,480 --> 01:06:40,240 Hunter is not pushing it as hard as it 1741 01:06:37,280 --> 01:06:42,400 I'm making it sound like. It feels very 1742 01:06:40,240 --> 01:06:45,440 organic when you're reading it that it's 1743 01:06:42,400 --> 01:06:48,319 not him being like, "Now go eat her 1744 01:06:45,440 --> 01:06:52,319 out." It's very like a gradual build 1745 01:06:48,319 --> 01:06:54,079 that everybody's on board with. Um, 1746 01:06:52,319 --> 01:06:55,920 so 1747 01:06:54,079 --> 01:06:58,640 the next day, Isabelle and Drake wind up 1748 01:06:55,920 --> 01:07:00,720 in the hotel like gym or whatever, and 1749 01:06:58,640 --> 01:07:03,520 they're like, "Hey, so uh, we need to 1750 01:07:00,720 --> 01:07:06,880 have rules." Yeah, cuz this is weird. 1751 01:07:03,520 --> 01:07:09,359 And so, um, they are like, "Yeah, okay. 1752 01:07:06,880 --> 01:07:11,520 No touching in a sexual way without 1753 01:07:09,359 --> 01:07:13,599 Hunter present. Obviously, 1754 01:07:11,520 --> 01:07:16,480 um, open communication always. If 1755 01:07:13,599 --> 01:07:17,920 anybody's emotions around it changes or 1756 01:07:16,480 --> 01:07:19,359 if we want to stop, we got to tell each 1757 01:07:17,920 --> 01:07:22,160 other immediately. 1758 01:07:19,359 --> 01:07:22,799 Our safe word is namaste. 1759 01:07:22,160 --> 01:07:26,640 Walls. 1760 01:07:22,799 --> 01:07:28,960 Um, and they are going to use protection 1761 01:07:26,640 --> 01:07:30,319 every time, like condoms all the time, 1762 01:07:28,960 --> 01:07:32,000 even though they're both clean and 1763 01:07:30,319 --> 01:07:34,480 everything. 1764 01:07:32,000 --> 01:07:37,760 Um, and Isabelle is on birth control. 1765 01:07:34,480 --> 01:07:40,480 Um, and then they also say Hunter can 1766 01:07:37,760 --> 01:07:41,839 get involved if he wants. So, if he 1767 01:07:40,480 --> 01:07:46,079 doesn't want to just watch, he can 1768 01:07:41,839 --> 01:07:47,760 partake. Um, and it's a very sweet like 1769 01:07:46,079 --> 01:07:49,599 emotional 1770 01:07:47,760 --> 01:07:52,160 moment. And Drake is like, I just want 1771 01:07:49,599 --> 01:07:54,000 you to know like I am treating this 1772 01:07:52,160 --> 01:07:56,240 seriously. Like, I know I'm not always a 1773 01:07:54,000 --> 01:07:58,559 serious person, but like 1774 01:07:56,240 --> 01:08:01,520 I was there the day that Hunter first 1775 01:07:58,559 --> 01:08:05,119 saw you in that green dress. I remember 1776 01:08:01,520 --> 01:08:07,200 like, you know, you are you are 1777 01:08:05,119 --> 01:08:08,480 important to me and I want you to know 1778 01:08:07,200 --> 01:08:13,599 that. 1779 01:08:08,480 --> 01:08:15,920 Um, and so Drake also says, "I want what 1780 01:08:13,599 --> 01:08:17,679 you guys have and I refuse to settle for 1781 01:08:15,920 --> 01:08:20,000 less." I think that's why I've been 1782 01:08:17,679 --> 01:08:23,279 single all this time is I'm looking for 1783 01:08:20,000 --> 01:08:24,799 that like love at first sight immediate 1784 01:08:23,279 --> 01:08:26,880 like feeling 1785 01:08:24,799 --> 01:08:29,120 and I know not everybody gets that, but 1786 01:08:26,880 --> 01:08:31,359 like that's what I want. I want what you 1787 01:08:29,120 --> 01:08:33,199 guys have and I'm not gonna like waiver 1788 01:08:31,359 --> 01:08:33,839 from that which is really really sweet. 1789 01:08:33,199 --> 01:08:35,359 Yeah. 1790 01:08:33,839 --> 01:08:39,359 Um 1791 01:08:35,359 --> 01:08:41,440 and so at this Austin sex club they are 1792 01:08:39,359 --> 01:08:43,359 at a Shabbar or sorry New Orleans. 1793 01:08:41,440 --> 01:08:45,920 They're in New Orleans now. New Orleans 1794 01:08:43,359 --> 01:08:47,279 sex club. They are at a Shabari workshop 1795 01:08:45,920 --> 01:08:48,159 again. 1796 01:08:47,279 --> 01:08:50,000 And um 1797 01:08:48,159 --> 01:08:50,880 are the vibes better at this club? 1798 01:08:50,000 --> 01:08:54,640 Much. Okay. 1799 01:08:50,880 --> 01:08:58,000 Yeah. And Drake gets tied up and there's 1800 01:08:54,640 --> 01:09:01,040 major flirting with the instructor. Like 1801 01:08:58,000 --> 01:09:04,319 he is flirting hardcore with this woman. 1802 01:09:01,040 --> 01:09:07,359 And Hunter is 1803 01:09:04,319 --> 01:09:09,920 livid. Like 1804 01:09:07,359 --> 01:09:12,000 only for Isabelle's sake, obviously. 1805 01:09:09,920 --> 01:09:15,679 Like, how could you do this to Isabelle, 1806 01:09:12,000 --> 01:09:18,080 right? Um and he like storms off and 1807 01:09:15,679 --> 01:09:20,640 Hunter is like or sorry, Drake is like, 1808 01:09:18,080 --> 01:09:21,440 "We've had no discussion about this." 1809 01:09:20,640 --> 01:09:23,279 Like, yeah. 1810 01:09:21,440 --> 01:09:26,159 What am I? 1811 01:09:23,279 --> 01:09:29,040 I'm flirt. I didn't [ __ ] her. Like, I 1812 01:09:26,159 --> 01:09:30,719 always flirt with everybody. Like, what? 1813 01:09:29,040 --> 01:09:32,400 I don't understand what I did wrong 1814 01:09:30,719 --> 01:09:34,400 here. 1815 01:09:32,400 --> 01:09:36,400 But he's also on some level trying to 1816 01:09:34,400 --> 01:09:37,359 protect himself emotionally because he's 1817 01:09:36,400 --> 01:09:39,199 like, 1818 01:09:37,359 --> 01:09:40,880 I can't just be a part of their 1819 01:09:39,199 --> 01:09:41,359 marriage. So, like, 1820 01:09:40,880 --> 01:09:43,600 right, 1821 01:09:41,359 --> 01:09:46,799 I can't like what am I supposed to do 1822 01:09:43,600 --> 01:09:49,520 here? So, the instructor invites Drake 1823 01:09:46,799 --> 01:09:51,440 on a tour of the place. Um, which is 1824 01:09:49,520 --> 01:09:55,440 clearly code for like, let's go to a 1825 01:09:51,440 --> 01:09:58,560 private room and [ __ ] Um, and he goes 1826 01:09:55,440 --> 01:10:01,440 with her, but then Drake is like, I'm 1827 01:09:58,560 --> 01:10:04,080 I'm turning her down, I think. Why am I 1828 01:10:01,440 --> 01:10:07,840 doing that? Like, she's pretty hot, 1829 01:10:04,080 --> 01:10:10,239 but like it doesn't feel right. And then 1830 01:10:07,840 --> 01:10:12,640 the vibes are better at the club, but 1831 01:10:10,239 --> 01:10:15,199 off with her specifically, 1832 01:10:12,640 --> 01:10:16,719 right? And so he winds up, he's like, 1833 01:10:15,199 --> 01:10:18,480 "Oh, 1834 01:10:16,719 --> 01:10:20,560 this woman is a stranger. I'm never 1835 01:10:18,480 --> 01:10:22,239 going to see her again. I am going to 1836 01:10:20,560 --> 01:10:24,480 process everything that's happening to 1837 01:10:22,239 --> 01:10:26,960 me right now." Which as a therapist is 1838 01:10:24,480 --> 01:10:28,640 my worst nightmare. Like on a plane or 1839 01:10:26,960 --> 01:10:31,960 whatever is people being like, "Oh, 1840 01:10:28,640 --> 01:10:31,960 you're a therapist. 1841 01:10:32,000 --> 01:10:37,440 My cousin's 1842 01:10:33,840 --> 01:10:39,360 third niece removed from whatever might 1843 01:10:37,440 --> 01:10:43,040 have bipolar. Do you think she has 1844 01:10:39,360 --> 01:10:44,800 bipolar?" I What? I once had someone be 1845 01:10:43,040 --> 01:10:46,880 like, "You're a therapist. Can you tell 1846 01:10:44,800 --> 01:10:48,960 me what these dreams mean?" 1847 01:10:46,880 --> 01:10:49,760 Yeah. Yeah. 1848 01:10:48,960 --> 01:10:50,480 Still no. 1849 01:10:49,760 --> 01:10:50,880 No. 1850 01:10:50,480 --> 01:10:52,800 Right. 1851 01:10:50,880 --> 01:10:55,440 I really can't. 1852 01:10:52,800 --> 01:10:57,199 What do you think they mean? 1853 01:10:55,440 --> 01:10:59,040 I mean, Google it, I guess. 1854 01:10:57,199 --> 01:11:00,239 Yeah. As the person who experienced 1855 01:10:59,040 --> 01:11:01,520 them, 1856 01:11:00,239 --> 01:11:04,000 right? 1857 01:11:01,520 --> 01:11:05,360 Why don't Why don't you process through 1858 01:11:04,000 --> 01:11:07,440 that? Oh, you want someone to process 1859 01:11:05,360 --> 01:11:11,159 through it with you? No, that I can do, 1860 01:11:07,440 --> 01:11:11,159 right? For a fee. 1861 01:11:11,679 --> 01:11:16,000 It did. That did happen to me once while 1862 01:11:14,159 --> 01:11:18,560 I was getting a massage and I was like a 1863 01:11:16,000 --> 01:11:21,360 baby therapist. Like I had just 1864 01:11:18,560 --> 01:11:24,159 graduated and I did not know that you 1865 01:11:21,360 --> 01:11:27,440 have to lie about your profession 1866 01:11:24,159 --> 01:11:28,640 sometimes. And so or just 1867 01:11:27,440 --> 01:11:30,480 couch it. Yep. 1868 01:11:28,640 --> 01:11:32,800 You know, in a certain way. 1869 01:11:30,480 --> 01:11:35,199 I wasn't aware of that. So I had booked 1870 01:11:32,800 --> 01:11:40,080 like a 90minute massage which was a big 1871 01:11:35,199 --> 01:11:44,560 deal for me on my like very pitiful 1872 01:11:40,080 --> 01:11:46,560 fresh graduate money deal. 1873 01:11:44,560 --> 01:11:48,480 I but I was like I'm investing in my 1874 01:11:46,560 --> 01:11:51,360 self-care or whatever and I go and this 1875 01:11:48,480 --> 01:11:53,679 woman no [ __ ] talked for the full time 1876 01:11:51,360 --> 01:11:55,360 about like personal family issues she 1877 01:11:53,679 --> 01:11:58,480 had and I was like this is the worst 1878 01:11:55,360 --> 01:12:01,280 thing ever. I once had a woman talk 1879 01:11:58,480 --> 01:12:03,280 through the entire facial that she was 1880 01:12:01,280 --> 01:12:04,960 giving me to the point that I've never 1881 01:12:03,280 --> 01:12:07,120 respected a business owner more. At the 1882 01:12:04,960 --> 01:12:08,800 end of it, she went, "I'm so sorry. I 1883 01:12:07,120 --> 01:12:11,199 talked that entire time and this was 1884 01:12:08,800 --> 01:12:14,960 meant to be relaxing for you. Let me 1885 01:12:11,199 --> 01:12:17,760 reschedu you for next week where we can 1886 01:12:14,960 --> 01:12:20,960 try this again." 1887 01:12:17,760 --> 01:12:21,440 That is so mindful. 1888 01:12:20,960 --> 01:12:23,120 Yes. 1889 01:12:21,440 --> 01:12:23,840 So, demure. 1890 01:12:23,120 --> 01:12:25,280 Truly, 1891 01:12:23,840 --> 01:12:27,280 we love that. 1892 01:12:25,280 --> 01:12:29,360 1,000. Yeah. I was like, I've never seen 1893 01:12:27,280 --> 01:12:30,640 someone this self-aware in this moment 1894 01:12:29,360 --> 01:12:31,920 cuz like while it was happening, it was 1895 01:12:30,640 --> 01:12:33,920 kind of like, man, like we're talking. 1896 01:12:31,920 --> 01:12:35,280 It's been a fine conversation. Like it 1897 01:12:33,920 --> 01:12:36,080 wasn't draining, but it was also just 1898 01:12:35,280 --> 01:12:38,080 like 1899 01:12:36,080 --> 01:12:41,040 I would have liked quiet maybe. 1900 01:12:38,080 --> 01:12:41,679 Yeah, we we've been And the next time 1901 01:12:41,040 --> 01:12:42,719 silence. 1902 01:12:41,679 --> 01:12:44,480 Incredible. Love it. 1903 01:12:42,719 --> 01:12:46,159 But yeah, love that she was like, I'm 1904 01:12:44,480 --> 01:12:49,440 aware that this is not what this 1905 01:12:46,159 --> 01:12:54,239 typically looks like. Let me redo it. 1906 01:12:49,440 --> 01:12:55,760 Incredible. Um, so Drake does not have 1907 01:12:54,239 --> 01:12:58,800 that self-awareness 1908 01:12:55,760 --> 01:12:59,840 and like basically word vomits on this 1909 01:12:58,800 --> 01:13:01,120 woman and is like 1910 01:12:59,840 --> 01:13:03,360 who's trying to [ __ ] him, 1911 01:13:01,120 --> 01:13:05,440 right? He's like, "Listen, you're super 1912 01:13:03,360 --> 01:13:07,040 hot. Please don't think that this has 1913 01:13:05,440 --> 01:13:08,640 anything to do with you, but I'm sort of 1914 01:13:07,040 --> 01:13:10,880 seeing someone or maybe I'm not. I'm 1915 01:13:08,640 --> 01:13:13,440 really not sure." And she's like, "The 1916 01:13:10,880 --> 01:13:15,040 couple that you were with, 1917 01:13:13,440 --> 01:13:16,159 all of you were making eyes at each 1918 01:13:15,040 --> 01:13:18,320 other. That 1919 01:13:16,159 --> 01:13:20,480 picked up." I picked up on the vibes. 1920 01:13:18,320 --> 01:13:22,400 And he's like, "I can't just like be a 1921 01:13:20,480 --> 01:13:25,040 part of their marriage." And she's like, 1922 01:13:22,400 --> 01:13:27,120 "Literally, why not? 1923 01:13:25,040 --> 01:13:29,920 I'm not understanding if everybody's 1924 01:13:27,120 --> 01:13:34,080 into it. Why are you being weird?" 1925 01:13:29,920 --> 01:13:37,199 Basically, is her energy. Um, and she's 1926 01:13:34,080 --> 01:13:39,760 like, "Hey, you know what? Why don't you 1927 01:13:37,199 --> 01:13:41,600 take the key for this private room and 1928 01:13:39,760 --> 01:13:43,199 maybe go find them and have this 1929 01:13:41,600 --> 01:13:46,800 conversation because you're not going to 1930 01:13:43,199 --> 01:13:48,960 solve it talking to me. And if you 1931 01:13:46,800 --> 01:13:51,520 decide that they are not for you and you 1932 01:13:48,960 --> 01:13:53,679 want to find me later, hit me up. Have a 1933 01:13:51,520 --> 01:13:54,080 great day. 1934 01:13:53,679 --> 01:13:55,360 Which 1935 01:13:54,080 --> 01:13:58,960 we love a self-aware queen. 1936 01:13:55,360 --> 01:14:02,000 She is a queen. She's a queen. So Drake 1937 01:13:58,960 --> 01:14:03,679 finds them. Um Hunter immediately as 1938 01:14:02,000 --> 01:14:06,080 soon as he sees Drake is like, "The deal 1939 01:14:03,679 --> 01:14:07,760 is off." And he's like, "What?" And he's 1940 01:14:06,080 --> 01:14:10,239 like, "How could you?" And he's like, 1941 01:14:07,760 --> 01:14:12,400 "Dude, 1942 01:14:10,239 --> 01:14:14,320 follow me. This is some weird [ __ ] 1943 01:14:12,400 --> 01:14:15,679 that we're not doing out at the bar in 1944 01:14:14,320 --> 01:14:17,920 this sex club. But 1945 01:14:15,679 --> 01:14:20,719 this one finally has a communal area, 1946 01:14:17,920 --> 01:14:22,239 but we're not using the communal area to 1947 01:14:20,719 --> 01:14:26,640 air our business. 1948 01:14:22,239 --> 01:14:28,960 Correct. Um, and so Drake then explains 1949 01:14:26,640 --> 01:14:31,840 like she was giving me a key to this 1950 01:14:28,960 --> 01:14:35,280 room, guys, like so that we can use it 1951 01:14:31,840 --> 01:14:37,920 if we want to. And Hunter is like, 1952 01:14:35,280 --> 01:14:39,920 we do want to. 1953 01:14:37,920 --> 01:14:41,840 Why don't you guys dance? And so he 1954 01:14:39,920 --> 01:14:45,600 literally like puts music on for the two 1955 01:14:41,840 --> 01:14:49,440 of them to slow dance together. Um, and 1956 01:14:45,600 --> 01:14:50,239 there is a ton of dirty talk and a lot 1957 01:14:49,440 --> 01:14:51,760 of consent. 1958 01:14:50,239 --> 01:14:53,440 I'm glad And I'm glad that like there's 1959 01:14:51,760 --> 01:14:55,440 sexual tension in the scene's clearly 1960 01:14:53,440 --> 01:14:58,880 going to build because in my head right 1961 01:14:55,440 --> 01:15:01,600 now, if Vance was like, 1962 01:14:58,880 --> 01:15:04,239 "Dance for me. Go dance with that man 1963 01:15:01,600 --> 01:15:06,000 for me." I'd be like, "The I'm putting 1964 01:15:04,239 --> 01:15:06,320 on this music for you to dance with that 1965 01:15:06,000 --> 01:15:08,000 man." 1966 01:15:06,320 --> 01:15:12,080 Literally. 1967 01:15:08,000 --> 01:15:13,840 Yeah. It's like some Ed Sheeran song and 1968 01:15:12,080 --> 01:15:16,560 I think it's perfect maybe. I don't 1969 01:15:13,840 --> 01:15:21,120 remember but it's some Ed Sheeran song 1970 01:15:16,560 --> 01:15:23,280 and so like there is a lot of dirty 1971 01:15:21,120 --> 01:15:26,000 talk, a lot of consent, a lot of like 1972 01:15:23,280 --> 01:15:29,280 buildup and emotion in it. Isabelle is 1973 01:15:26,000 --> 01:15:32,800 having a really great time and she comes 1974 01:15:29,280 --> 01:15:35,360 very hard while Drake is [ __ ] her and 1975 01:15:32,800 --> 01:15:38,960 then Drake kind of like picks her up and 1976 01:15:35,360 --> 01:15:41,679 sets her in Hunter's lap and then 1977 01:15:38,960 --> 01:15:43,760 Isabelle and Hunter also [ __ ] but when 1978 01:15:41,679 --> 01:15:45,360 they finish they realize that Drake is 1979 01:15:43,760 --> 01:15:50,719 gone. Like 1980 01:15:45,360 --> 01:15:53,760 oh he like did his part, handed her off 1981 01:15:50,719 --> 01:15:55,440 and then left the room. Um. 1982 01:15:53,760 --> 01:15:59,360 Ooh, that feels weirder. 1983 01:15:55,440 --> 01:16:01,280 Yeah. So, Drake is at the bar and he is 1984 01:15:59,360 --> 01:16:03,280 really confused. He's like, "Yeah, 1985 01:16:01,280 --> 01:16:05,440 that's the best sex I've ever had." And 1986 01:16:03,280 --> 01:16:07,520 not because we did anything particularly 1987 01:16:05,440 --> 01:16:10,320 different, but because it was Isabelle 1988 01:16:07,520 --> 01:16:11,920 and because Hunter was watching. Like, 1989 01:16:10,320 --> 01:16:14,800 what am I supposed to do with this? 1990 01:16:11,920 --> 01:16:16,800 Like, Isabelle is truly my best friend. 1991 01:16:14,800 --> 01:16:18,159 Like, yeah, it's Hunter, but really at 1992 01:16:16,800 --> 01:16:22,400 the end of the day, it's also kind of 1993 01:16:18,159 --> 01:16:25,280 Isabelle. And so Hunter comes out to 1994 01:16:22,400 --> 01:16:28,080 clear the air and he's like, "What what 1995 01:16:25,280 --> 01:16:30,400 are you doing?" And he's like, "Well, I 1996 01:16:28,080 --> 01:16:32,800 I served my function in the scene, 1997 01:16:30,400 --> 01:16:36,159 right? Like I didn't want to intrude on 1998 01:16:32,800 --> 01:16:39,360 you guys." And Hunter is like, "Dude, 1999 01:16:36,159 --> 01:16:42,159 you are not intruding. You are not like 2000 01:16:39,360 --> 01:16:44,159 a rando we picked up at the bar. Like 2001 01:16:42,159 --> 01:16:45,360 you're important to us. You're a part of 2002 01:16:44,159 --> 01:16:46,640 this with us." 2003 01:16:45,360 --> 01:16:50,800 Yes. 2004 01:16:46,640 --> 01:16:52,880 And so um he's he's also like and uh we 2005 01:16:50,800 --> 01:16:56,480 are doing that again. Like this, you 2006 01:16:52,880 --> 01:17:00,480 know, like that was pretty good. Um and 2007 01:16:56,480 --> 01:17:02,960 Drake is like, "Oh man, 2008 01:17:00,480 --> 01:17:04,000 I really love both of them a lot. 2009 01:17:02,960 --> 01:17:06,320 Like 2010 01:17:04,000 --> 01:17:09,199 this is going to suck, but also if this 2011 01:17:06,320 --> 01:17:10,560 is what I get, I'm gonna take it." 2012 01:17:09,199 --> 01:17:11,440 And it's really sad, actually. 2013 01:17:10,560 --> 01:17:13,360 My heart. 2014 01:17:11,440 --> 01:17:15,360 I know. I know. I know. 2015 01:17:13,360 --> 01:17:18,239 Drake is just like, I love them so much. 2016 01:17:15,360 --> 01:17:20,560 And like if if I can get scraps from 2017 01:17:18,239 --> 01:17:21,760 their relationship, I'll take it. 2018 01:17:20,560 --> 01:17:24,080 Yeah, a little bit. 2019 01:17:21,760 --> 01:17:25,600 But like neither Hunter or Isabelle want 2020 01:17:24,080 --> 01:17:27,679 to give him scraps, 2021 01:17:25,600 --> 01:17:29,600 right? They want to give him all of it. 2022 01:17:27,679 --> 01:17:32,239 But I don't think any of them are fully 2023 01:17:29,600 --> 01:17:33,520 conscious of that really yet. 2024 01:17:32,239 --> 01:17:36,560 Like none of them know what they're 2025 01:17:33,520 --> 01:17:39,199 doing. Like like the idea of polyamory 2026 01:17:36,560 --> 01:17:43,040 has never like come up. This is just 2027 01:17:39,199 --> 01:17:46,239 like is it a kink that you have? Cool. 2028 01:17:43,040 --> 01:17:48,880 Let's try it. Uh, so 2029 01:17:46,239 --> 01:17:52,480 they're on the road to Nashville. 2030 01:17:48,880 --> 01:17:55,040 Isabelle is like, you know, 2031 01:17:52,480 --> 01:17:57,360 I'm pretty sure that Hunter needs to 2032 01:17:55,040 --> 01:17:59,520 explore his sexuality 2033 01:17:57,360 --> 01:18:02,880 cuz I don't think he realizes the way 2034 01:17:59,520 --> 01:18:04,960 that he looks at Drake sometimes. Like 2035 01:18:02,880 --> 01:18:07,840 I see it, 2036 01:18:04,960 --> 01:18:12,080 but and this is where we get some 2037 01:18:07,840 --> 01:18:14,000 illusion to like Hunter grew up um in a 2038 01:18:12,080 --> 01:18:16,640 pretty abusive home. there was a lot of 2039 01:18:14,000 --> 01:18:18,560 homophobia going on and so he has a lot 2040 01:18:16,640 --> 01:18:19,440 of internalized messages around that 2041 01:18:18,560 --> 01:18:20,719 stuff. 2042 01:18:19,440 --> 01:18:24,880 Um, 2043 01:18:20,719 --> 01:18:27,679 and so she's like, you know, 2044 01:18:24,880 --> 01:18:29,600 this is like hot as a fantasy, but 2045 01:18:27,679 --> 01:18:31,199 really like 2046 01:18:29,600 --> 01:18:33,679 I wish that this were a real 2047 01:18:31,199 --> 01:18:36,400 relationship that like we could all just 2048 01:18:33,679 --> 01:18:38,960 like be together, but I don't know how 2049 01:18:36,400 --> 01:18:41,280 we do that. Like I don't know what that 2050 01:18:38,960 --> 01:18:43,840 actually looks like. 2051 01:18:41,280 --> 01:18:47,040 And then they get to the Airbnb, 2052 01:18:43,840 --> 01:18:50,800 which Hunter booked, which he forgot and 2053 01:18:47,040 --> 01:18:52,719 did not tell anyone is a kink Airbnb. So 2054 01:18:50,800 --> 01:18:56,080 they walk in and it looks like a normal 2055 01:18:52,719 --> 01:18:58,000 Airbnb. And then Hunter or no, sorry, 2056 01:18:56,080 --> 01:18:59,840 Drake goes into his room and is like, 2057 01:18:58,000 --> 01:19:01,840 "What the [ __ ] There's like a St. 2058 01:18:59,840 --> 01:19:03,679 Andrews cross and like a spanking 2059 01:19:01,840 --> 01:19:05,679 bench." And then you start looking 2060 01:19:03,679 --> 01:19:08,000 around and it's like, "Oh, there there 2061 01:19:05,679 --> 01:19:11,040 are eye hooks in the walls in a lot of 2062 01:19:08,000 --> 01:19:13,360 places." And that Sha's lounge has some 2063 01:19:11,040 --> 01:19:17,199 movable parts that a standard Sha's 2064 01:19:13,360 --> 01:19:20,719 lounge does not have. So 2065 01:19:17,199 --> 01:19:23,280 Hunter's like, "Oh yeah, I did do that." 2066 01:19:20,719 --> 01:19:26,000 So um 2067 01:19:23,280 --> 01:19:27,840 they're also like Hunter is like this 2068 01:19:26,000 --> 01:19:31,040 could also be a potential like business 2069 01:19:27,840 --> 01:19:32,640 making thing if we opened like a small 2070 01:19:31,040 --> 01:19:34,800 resort or something with different 2071 01:19:32,640 --> 01:19:36,159 cabins that are like dedicated to 2072 01:19:34,800 --> 01:19:38,080 different kinks. Like all of these 2073 01:19:36,159 --> 01:19:39,520 things like this could be part of the 2074 01:19:38,080 --> 01:19:41,600 business. And meanwhile, I'm out here 2075 01:19:39,520 --> 01:19:43,760 being like, you know what? I have no 2076 01:19:41,600 --> 01:19:44,880 interest in doing 2077 01:19:43,760 --> 01:19:49,040 the cleaning crew. 2078 01:19:44,880 --> 01:19:50,560 100% for a shortterm rental. 2079 01:19:49,040 --> 01:19:52,480 Yes. Yes. Yes. You're correct. 2080 01:19:50,560 --> 01:19:54,560 The number of black lights you your 2081 01:19:52,480 --> 01:19:56,719 cleaning crew needs to have just to make 2082 01:19:54,560 --> 01:19:59,360 sure everything. 2083 01:19:56,719 --> 01:20:00,719 So, I cannot credit this person because 2084 01:19:59,360 --> 01:20:02,960 I don't remember the name of the 2085 01:20:00,719 --> 01:20:04,960 stand-up comedian, but I saw a bit on 2086 01:20:02,960 --> 01:20:08,719 Tik Tok, I think, where the stand-up 2087 01:20:04,960 --> 01:20:11,679 comedian was like, "Listen, period sex, 2088 01:20:08,719 --> 01:20:13,679 there is no shame in it. Sounds great. 2089 01:20:11,679 --> 01:20:16,080 You just got to lay a towel down and be 2090 01:20:13,679 --> 01:20:18,320 careful and intentional about it. It's 2091 01:20:16,080 --> 01:20:20,159 more about me having to clean my sheets 2092 01:20:18,320 --> 01:20:21,679 than it is about the blood. But I'm not 2093 01:20:20,159 --> 01:20:23,840 here to judge. If other people aren't 2094 01:20:21,679 --> 01:20:27,040 into it, you're not into it. I will tell 2095 01:20:23,840 --> 01:20:30,239 you in a hotel all bets are off. He's 2096 01:20:27,040 --> 01:20:33,760 like, "It's not my sheets. 2097 01:20:30,239 --> 01:20:37,840 It's not my sheets." And man, that is a 2098 01:20:33,760 --> 01:20:40,880 similar vibe to the Kink Airbnb. 2099 01:20:37,840 --> 01:20:42,800 Yeah. Yikes. 2100 01:20:40,880 --> 01:20:45,040 I hope their cleaning fee is 2101 01:20:42,800 --> 01:20:46,480 astronomical. The number of Airbnbs. And 2102 01:20:45,040 --> 01:20:48,400 I'm like, "Wait, why do you want me to 2103 01:20:46,480 --> 01:20:50,239 spend as much as I'm spending per night 2104 01:20:48,400 --> 01:20:52,960 on the cleaning fee? This is ridiculous. 2105 01:20:50,239 --> 01:20:55,679 I'm not going to pay that." Um, a a kink 2106 01:20:52,960 --> 01:20:56,560 Airbnb. Yeah, take triple, baby girl. I 2107 01:20:55,679 --> 01:20:58,480 will give it all. 2108 01:20:56,560 --> 01:21:00,400 That plus tip. God bless. Like, I'm 2109 01:20:58,480 --> 01:21:04,159 leaving cash on the nightstand. I am so 2110 01:21:00,400 --> 01:21:07,760 sorry. Like, what the [ __ ] So, so 2111 01:21:04,159 --> 01:21:11,280 anyway, Drake goes out for takeout. He 2112 01:21:07,760 --> 01:21:13,280 brings back Indian food and Isabelle 2113 01:21:11,280 --> 01:21:16,080 goes to like grab one of the boxes and 2114 01:21:13,280 --> 01:21:19,280 he freaks out and he is like, "I said 2115 01:21:16,080 --> 01:21:21,040 the like the box without the X on it is 2116 01:21:19,280 --> 01:21:23,360 like what are you doing?" And she's 2117 01:21:21,040 --> 01:21:25,840 like, "I'm sorry, Jesus." And he's like, 2118 01:21:23,360 --> 01:21:29,120 "Honey, you are allergic to coconut. 2119 01:21:25,840 --> 01:21:32,159 Like, those two don't have coconut." And 2120 01:21:29,120 --> 01:21:34,000 she's like, "You remembered that I'm 2121 01:21:32,159 --> 01:21:34,640 allergic to coconut?" And he's like, 2122 01:21:34,000 --> 01:21:36,560 "What? 2123 01:21:34,640 --> 01:21:38,800 You have literally been my best friend 2124 01:21:36,560 --> 01:21:39,920 for 10 years, Isabelle?" Yes, I 2125 01:21:38,800 --> 01:21:42,239 remember. Jesus Christ. 2126 01:21:39,920 --> 01:21:43,840 Okay, Isabelle, as someone who's rooting 2127 01:21:42,239 --> 01:21:44,719 for you, I need you to respect yourself 2128 01:21:43,840 --> 01:21:48,400 a little more. Like, 2129 01:21:44,719 --> 01:21:52,239 right. Come on, babe. I do anticipate 2130 01:21:48,400 --> 01:21:52,560 that my husband's best friend of how 2131 01:21:52,239 --> 01:21:53,760 like 2132 01:21:52,560 --> 01:21:57,040 right 2133 01:21:53,760 --> 01:21:58,719 knows what I can't eat if I haven't been 2134 01:21:57,040 --> 01:22:01,760 able to eat it 2135 01:21:58,719 --> 01:22:02,159 the entire time we've known each other 2136 01:22:01,760 --> 01:22:03,920 you know 2137 01:22:02,159 --> 01:22:05,679 and they're not trying to [ __ ] me 2138 01:22:03,920 --> 01:22:08,159 they're just thoughtful humans 2139 01:22:05,679 --> 01:22:10,000 correct so like the direct quote that I 2140 01:22:08,159 --> 01:22:12,080 wrote is like you've been my best friend 2141 01:22:10,000 --> 01:22:13,840 for 10 years of course I remember why do 2142 01:22:12,080 --> 01:22:16,719 you think I don't eat coconut cream pie 2143 01:22:13,840 --> 01:22:19,120 anymore you always eat my crusts 2144 01:22:16,719 --> 01:22:21,120 And she was like, "Oh my god, he doesn't 2145 01:22:19,120 --> 01:22:23,199 eat coconut cream pie anymore, but he 2146 01:22:21,120 --> 01:22:25,120 did when we first like when I first 2147 01:22:23,199 --> 01:22:26,880 started dating Hunter." And like he 2148 01:22:25,120 --> 01:22:28,800 intentionally did that so she could eat 2149 01:22:26,880 --> 01:22:29,520 his crusts. And he has been doing that 2150 01:22:28,800 --> 01:22:31,360 for 10 years. 2151 01:22:29,520 --> 01:22:32,719 The crust off his pie. 2152 01:22:31,360 --> 01:22:33,040 Yeah. 2153 01:22:32,719 --> 01:22:35,280 Yeah. 2154 01:22:33,040 --> 01:22:35,760 That's never been a sharable crust in my 2155 01:22:35,280 --> 01:22:37,360 head. 2156 01:22:35,760 --> 01:22:40,000 Me either. That is always something I'm 2157 01:22:37,360 --> 01:22:41,360 going to consume. 2158 01:22:40,000 --> 01:22:43,920 Like that's not the same as like me 2159 01:22:41,360 --> 01:22:46,639 cutting the crust off my son. Like, 2160 01:22:43,920 --> 01:22:47,120 right. Eating a PB&J crust. It's a very 2161 01:22:46,639 --> 01:22:50,800 niche. 2162 01:22:47,120 --> 01:22:51,280 You You always eat the crust off my pie. 2163 01:22:50,800 --> 01:22:53,520 What? 2164 01:22:51,280 --> 01:22:55,120 Get your own pie. 2165 01:22:53,520 --> 01:22:55,600 This This one is sweet, but I have 2166 01:22:55,120 --> 01:22:57,120 questions. 2167 01:22:55,600 --> 01:22:59,440 It is very sweet. Um, 2168 01:22:57,120 --> 01:23:00,960 and yes, girl, you've been like that 2169 01:22:59,440 --> 01:23:02,400 allergic to coconut. 2170 01:23:00,960 --> 01:23:04,800 Yeah. He's like, "Oh my god." She's 2171 01:23:02,400 --> 01:23:06,239 like, "Oh my god, he 2172 01:23:04,800 --> 01:23:08,000 he he cares." 2173 01:23:06,239 --> 01:23:10,320 Set the bar higher. 2174 01:23:08,000 --> 01:23:13,280 He does. He does care. 2175 01:23:10,320 --> 01:23:15,360 So that night, we're going from 6:00 to 2176 01:23:13,280 --> 01:23:19,120 midnight. They cuff Isabelle to the 2177 01:23:15,360 --> 01:23:21,440 spanking bench. Hunter Hunter because of 2178 01:23:19,120 --> 01:23:23,520 his childhood trauma has never been able 2179 01:23:21,440 --> 01:23:25,600 to like spank her even though he knows 2180 01:23:23,520 --> 01:23:27,360 she might be into it. And he's like, I'm 2181 01:23:25,600 --> 01:23:29,520 pretty sure I could watch though. I 2182 01:23:27,360 --> 01:23:32,960 think that would be okay. But like me 2183 01:23:29,520 --> 01:23:34,719 doing it feels like like I don't want to 2184 01:23:32,960 --> 01:23:36,960 I don't want to be engaging in anything 2185 01:23:34,719 --> 01:23:41,440 that could be violent. But maybe it 2186 01:23:36,960 --> 01:23:43,679 would be okay if Drake did it. So 2187 01:23:41,440 --> 01:23:47,600 they do a spanking spit roast and it is 2188 01:23:43,679 --> 01:23:50,320 a lot to experience. Um 2189 01:23:47,600 --> 01:23:53,600 Hannah, you've read so much smut. So you 2190 01:23:50,320 --> 01:23:56,960 saying it's a lot to experience is like 2191 01:23:53,600 --> 01:23:58,239 I'm like you read almost 300 books 2192 01:23:56,960 --> 01:23:59,040 a year. 2193 01:23:58,239 --> 01:24:01,040 Yeah. 2194 01:23:59,040 --> 01:24:04,080 You've read a lot of sex scenes. 2195 01:24:01,040 --> 01:24:05,520 I have. Yeah. But it's a lot of like 2196 01:24:04,080 --> 01:24:07,280 Okay. Okay. All right. 2197 01:24:05,520 --> 01:24:09,120 Oh, okay. 2198 01:24:07,280 --> 01:24:11,360 Yeah, sure. Why? Why not? We're doing 2199 01:24:09,120 --> 01:24:13,440 that now. Okay. So, um 2200 01:24:11,360 --> 01:24:16,400 the question marks return, 2201 01:24:13,440 --> 01:24:18,480 right? So, Hunter finds himself making a 2202 01:24:16,400 --> 01:24:22,560 lot of eye contact with Drake while they 2203 01:24:18,480 --> 01:24:24,639 are engaging in this spit roast and um 2204 01:24:22,560 --> 01:24:27,679 he's questioning things himself now. 2205 01:24:24,639 --> 01:24:30,080 A little bit. Yeah. So, later he like 2206 01:24:27,679 --> 01:24:33,040 Hunter does Isabel like does afterare 2207 01:24:30,080 --> 01:24:35,360 for Isabelle and then Hunter goes out 2208 01:24:33,040 --> 01:24:37,440 and talks to Drake and Drake is like, 2209 01:24:35,360 --> 01:24:39,760 "Is she okay? Did you make sure she had 2210 01:24:37,440 --> 01:24:41,840 like a whole glass of water? Like 2211 01:24:39,760 --> 01:24:44,880 and Hunter's like, "Dude, you know, you 2212 01:24:41,840 --> 01:24:46,480 can help with afterare if you want. Like 2213 01:24:44,880 --> 01:24:48,080 that would be okay." 2214 01:24:46,480 --> 01:24:49,760 And Drake's like, "Well, I just didn't 2215 01:24:48,080 --> 01:24:51,840 want to cross any boundaries." And 2216 01:24:49,760 --> 01:24:53,920 Hunter's like, "Hey, I appreciate that 2217 01:24:51,840 --> 01:24:55,600 fully and I'm inviting you. Like clearly 2218 01:24:53,920 --> 01:24:57,760 it's something that is important to you 2219 01:24:55,600 --> 01:25:03,800 and I want you to be a part of it." And 2220 01:24:57,760 --> 01:25:03,800 it's very nice. So, um, 2221 01:25:04,239 --> 01:25:09,679 yeah, there's a lot Yeah, because then 2222 01:25:07,440 --> 01:25:11,679 we go straight into another sex scene 2223 01:25:09,679 --> 01:25:15,600 and like, 2224 01:25:11,679 --> 01:25:19,840 okay, so Hunter is sitting and Drake 2225 01:25:15,600 --> 01:25:23,920 puts Isabelle onto 2226 01:25:19,840 --> 01:25:26,000 Hunter facing him and he is still 2227 01:25:23,920 --> 01:25:29,040 [ __ ] her. Like Drake is still [ __ ] 2228 01:25:26,000 --> 01:25:31,679 her while she's on top of Hunter. Okay. 2229 01:25:29,040 --> 01:25:33,840 Which is important because 2230 01:25:31,679 --> 01:25:35,920 Drake is then like, "What happens if I 2231 01:25:33,840 --> 01:25:36,560 touch his leg a little bit?" 2232 01:25:35,920 --> 01:25:39,760 Yep. 2233 01:25:36,560 --> 01:25:42,320 Nothing. Okay. Maybe he's into it 2234 01:25:39,760 --> 01:25:44,719 actually. Maybe it's not nothing. Maybe 2235 01:25:42,320 --> 01:25:46,639 it's a lot of something and it's good. 2236 01:25:44,719 --> 01:25:50,159 He's like, "Okay." 2237 01:25:46,639 --> 01:25:52,239 And so he's like making a lot of lusty 2238 01:25:50,159 --> 01:25:54,800 eye contact and there's a lot of 2239 01:25:52,239 --> 01:25:57,840 touching between the two of them. M 2240 01:25:54,800 --> 01:26:00,400 um and then 2241 01:25:57,840 --> 01:26:03,120 Drake is eventually just more confused. 2242 01:26:00,400 --> 01:26:05,040 He's like, is he just not aware that I'm 2243 01:26:03,120 --> 01:26:07,520 touching him because I'm [ __ ] his 2244 01:26:05,040 --> 01:26:11,679 wife on top of him or like is he into 2245 01:26:07,520 --> 01:26:14,080 it? I don't really know. So after they 2246 01:26:11,679 --> 01:26:16,239 finish again, Isabelle is, you know, 2247 01:26:14,080 --> 01:26:17,840 asleep or whatever. 2248 01:26:16,239 --> 01:26:19,920 They are in the kitchen again. It's 2249 01:26:17,840 --> 01:26:21,840 another late night heartto-heart. And 2250 01:26:19,920 --> 01:26:25,520 Hunter is like, I want to try something. 2251 01:26:21,840 --> 01:26:29,840 and then just like kisses him. And Drake 2252 01:26:25,520 --> 01:26:31,840 is like, "Okay, um, listen, 2253 01:26:29,840 --> 01:26:34,639 that was hot and all, but also we've 2254 01:26:31,840 --> 01:26:37,520 been naked together a lot in the last 2255 01:26:34,639 --> 01:26:41,199 week, and I don't know if this is like 2256 01:26:37,520 --> 01:26:43,920 real life or if you're confusing things, 2257 01:26:41,199 --> 01:26:45,679 so it's totally cool. Maybe let's get 2258 01:26:43,920 --> 01:26:47,600 some sleep. 2259 01:26:45,679 --> 01:26:49,600 Love you. Bye." 2260 01:26:47,600 --> 01:26:51,920 It's weird because I feel like there's 2261 01:26:49,600 --> 01:26:53,840 both like a lot of self-awareness and 2262 01:26:51,920 --> 01:26:56,560 insight and then there are other moments 2263 01:26:53,840 --> 01:26:57,440 with like no self-awareness and insight. 2264 01:26:56,560 --> 01:27:01,440 Mhm. 2265 01:26:57,440 --> 01:27:04,000 And we're all taking turns having both. 2266 01:27:01,440 --> 01:27:06,719 Like it's not like Drake has all of the 2267 01:27:04,000 --> 01:27:08,239 insight and Hunter has none. No. Like it 2268 01:27:06,719 --> 01:27:10,080 feels like all of them are having a 2269 01:27:08,239 --> 01:27:11,679 moment of like having their own insight 2270 01:27:10,080 --> 01:27:13,199 but then just like having a moment that 2271 01:27:11,679 --> 01:27:13,920 like they're missing 2272 01:27:13,199 --> 01:27:16,239 Yeah. 2273 01:27:13,920 --> 01:27:17,920 within it. Well, and in some ways I 2274 01:27:16,239 --> 01:27:20,239 almost feel like that's more real 2275 01:27:17,920 --> 01:27:22,800 because I don't think any of us are like 2276 01:27:20,239 --> 01:27:25,199 totally aware in all ways and have like 2277 01:27:22,800 --> 01:27:27,440 good insight into everything. 2278 01:27:25,199 --> 01:27:29,840 It feels so much more accurate of like, 2279 01:27:27,440 --> 01:27:31,679 oh yeah, this is a messy thing to to 2280 01:27:29,840 --> 01:27:34,400 navigate and figure out, 2281 01:27:31,679 --> 01:27:37,280 right? But we can still do it with 2282 01:27:34,400 --> 01:27:37,760 intention and then own it when we mess 2283 01:27:37,280 --> 01:27:40,159 up. 2284 01:27:37,760 --> 01:27:43,360 Yes. Intention and curiosity and not 2285 01:27:40,159 --> 01:27:46,560 like this like anger or frustration 2286 01:27:43,360 --> 01:27:49,120 along the way. Mhm. So then the next 2287 01:27:46,560 --> 01:27:51,360 day, Hunter is kind of freaking out and 2288 01:27:49,120 --> 01:27:54,639 he's trying to sort of like downplay his 2289 01:27:51,360 --> 01:27:57,280 own feelings for Drake. He's like, "It's 2290 01:27:54,639 --> 01:28:00,239 he was right. Like this is just really 2291 01:27:57,280 --> 01:28:02,880 confusing. It's none of that. Whatever." 2292 01:28:00,239 --> 01:28:05,280 Um, and the other thing I appreciate is 2293 01:28:02,880 --> 01:28:06,960 that Hunter immediately is like, 2294 01:28:05,280 --> 01:28:09,040 "Isabelle, I have to tell you something. 2295 01:28:06,960 --> 01:28:12,159 I kissed Hunter. There was or I kissed 2296 01:28:09,040 --> 01:28:13,679 Drake." There was no like hiding it or 2297 01:28:12,159 --> 01:28:15,600 like, "Oh my god, she's gonna be so 2298 01:28:13,679 --> 01:28:17,840 mad." or any of that. It was immediately 2299 01:28:15,600 --> 01:28:21,280 like, "Hey, I did this thing. You need 2300 01:28:17,840 --> 01:28:23,440 to know about it." Um, and Isabelle is 2301 01:28:21,280 --> 01:28:26,639 like, "Hey, 2302 01:28:23,440 --> 01:28:28,480 okay, did you like it?" Like, that's 2303 01:28:26,639 --> 01:28:30,239 cool. Like, feel free to 2304 01:28:28,480 --> 01:28:32,960 I was sitting on you yesterday while I 2305 01:28:30,239 --> 01:28:35,360 [ __ ] him. So, 2306 01:28:32,960 --> 01:28:36,000 feels like you guys kissing is not that 2307 01:28:35,360 --> 01:28:37,520 deep. 2308 01:28:36,000 --> 01:28:39,600 Yeah, not really a problem for my 2309 01:28:37,520 --> 01:28:41,440 purposes. If anything, it'll actually 2310 01:28:39,600 --> 01:28:45,120 maybe make things a little more fun. 2311 01:28:41,440 --> 01:28:47,199 Yeah. Yeah. Feels good to me. So, um, 2312 01:28:45,120 --> 01:28:50,239 Isabelle is on her period and not 2313 01:28:47,199 --> 01:28:53,360 feeling great. And so, she's like, "Hey, 2314 01:28:50,239 --> 01:28:56,320 you had me and Drake try out pretending 2315 01:28:53,360 --> 01:28:59,120 to be together at that last club, right? 2316 01:28:56,320 --> 01:29:02,320 So, maybe you guys do that tonight 2317 01:28:59,120 --> 01:29:04,800 because I don't feel good." And it it's 2318 01:29:02,320 --> 01:29:07,920 funny in the book, not like funny funny, 2319 01:29:04,800 --> 01:29:09,600 but kind of nice. Hunter is like, "Oh, 2320 01:29:07,920 --> 01:29:11,440 yeah. No, I know that you're basically 2321 01:29:09,600 --> 01:29:13,040 like out of commission for life on the 2322 01:29:11,440 --> 01:29:14,880 first day of your period. I get it." And 2323 01:29:13,040 --> 01:29:16,560 he's like, "They're really bad for her. 2324 01:29:14,880 --> 01:29:18,000 So, we'll set her up with snacks and 2325 01:29:16,560 --> 01:29:20,960 water and everything and make sure she's 2326 01:29:18,000 --> 01:29:24,639 okay." It's like, "No stress." Like I 2327 01:29:20,960 --> 01:29:26,719 was like, "First of all, relatable." 2328 01:29:24,639 --> 01:29:29,040 So, we set her up with some snacks and 2329 01:29:26,719 --> 01:29:30,880 water. Yeah. And like movies that she 2330 01:29:29,040 --> 01:29:33,280 wants to watch. And like basically they 2331 01:29:30,880 --> 01:29:38,000 made her a little nest before they went 2332 01:29:33,280 --> 01:29:40,080 to this next sex club. And um Hunter is 2333 01:29:38,000 --> 01:29:41,600 like, "Okay, I'm just going to try to be 2334 01:29:40,080 --> 01:29:43,520 open 2335 01:29:41,600 --> 01:29:45,920 and honest and let's just see what 2336 01:29:43,520 --> 01:29:49,280 happens." And this next club is 2337 01:29:45,920 --> 01:29:52,639 fascinating. It is in Nashville and it's 2338 01:29:49,280 --> 01:29:54,880 called Pitch. And I was like, "Is this a 2339 01:29:52,639 --> 01:29:56,320 softball fetish?" It's not. That was 2340 01:29:54,880 --> 01:29:59,360 literally my first thought. I was like, 2341 01:29:56,320 --> 01:29:59,920 "Pitch, like pitch perfect. Are is this 2342 01:29:59,360 --> 01:30:01,760 a chorus? 2343 01:29:59,920 --> 01:30:04,080 Is this an ac capella fetish?" 2344 01:30:01,760 --> 01:30:05,360 Right? I was like, "What is it? It's 2345 01:30:04,080 --> 01:30:09,679 darkness. 2346 01:30:05,360 --> 01:30:12,320 So they have three rooms set up, right? 2347 01:30:09,679 --> 01:30:15,840 One room is all men, one room is all 2348 01:30:12,320 --> 01:30:18,159 women, and one room is for all. Whoever 2349 01:30:15,840 --> 01:30:20,080 would like to enter is welcome to do so. 2350 01:30:18,159 --> 01:30:22,880 So basically, it's very, very 2351 01:30:20,080 --> 01:30:25,360 fascinating. They have like condoms are 2352 01:30:22,880 --> 01:30:27,440 mandatory, so you have to put a condom 2353 01:30:25,360 --> 01:30:30,400 on before you enter the room and the 2354 01:30:27,440 --> 01:30:32,080 bouncer checks, which is a lot, but it's 2355 01:30:30,400 --> 01:30:34,080 a safety thing. We're making sure 2356 01:30:32,080 --> 01:30:36,719 everybody is safe. 2357 01:30:34,080 --> 01:30:40,080 Um, you undress only to your comfort 2358 01:30:36,719 --> 01:30:42,639 level and there are bouncers inside that 2359 01:30:40,080 --> 01:30:44,880 have night vision goggles for safety and 2360 01:30:42,639 --> 01:30:48,320 they do not allow alcohol or substances 2361 01:30:44,880 --> 01:30:51,840 of any kind for safety. 2362 01:30:48,320 --> 01:30:53,840 Super fascinating. I'm 2363 01:30:51,840 --> 01:30:55,360 I was thinking like, can you imagine 2364 01:30:53,840 --> 01:30:56,960 being a bouncer? 2365 01:30:55,360 --> 01:30:59,040 That's all I'm thinking of. 2366 01:30:56,960 --> 01:31:00,960 Yeah. With militaryra 2367 01:30:59,040 --> 01:31:03,920 night vision goggles watching people 2368 01:31:00,960 --> 01:31:08,080 [ __ ] Incredible. 2369 01:31:03,920 --> 01:31:09,760 Even if it only pays $12 an hour, you're 2370 01:31:08,080 --> 01:31:11,679 what benefits? 2371 01:31:09,760 --> 01:31:12,880 I've done 2372 01:31:11,679 --> 01:31:17,239 a lot worse for a lot 2373 01:31:12,880 --> 01:31:17,239 for a lot, right? Like 2374 01:31:17,360 --> 01:31:19,360 Yeah. 2375 01:31:17,840 --> 01:31:21,360 Like Yeah. 2376 01:31:19,360 --> 01:31:24,239 It's a little above minimum wage, but 2377 01:31:21,360 --> 01:31:24,719 like what a fascinating position to 2378 01:31:24,239 --> 01:31:27,199 hold, 2379 01:31:24,719 --> 01:31:30,000 right? And you get to see a lot of 2380 01:31:27,199 --> 01:31:33,280 fascinating positions held for varying 2381 01:31:30,000 --> 01:31:35,520 lengths of time. So Drake when they get 2382 01:31:33,280 --> 01:31:36,960 there is like, "Hey Hunter, why don't 2383 01:31:35,520 --> 01:31:39,760 you go do your thing? I'm just going to 2384 01:31:36,960 --> 01:31:41,920 go to the lounge, you know." Um, and 2385 01:31:39,760 --> 01:31:43,440 then he's like, "Actually, 2386 01:31:41,920 --> 01:31:45,440 I kind of want to go check out the 2387 01:31:43,440 --> 01:31:47,600 rooms." Kind of. I do want to do that. 2388 01:31:45,440 --> 01:31:50,400 So there's a lounge and then the three 2389 01:31:47,600 --> 01:31:52,639 rooms. So there's a communal area and 2390 01:31:50,400 --> 01:31:53,840 then male only, female only. 2391 01:31:52,639 --> 01:31:54,800 Yes. And then they have 2392 01:31:53,840 --> 01:31:57,440 mixed living. 2393 01:31:54,800 --> 01:32:00,239 Other mixed living. Yes. They also have 2394 01:31:57,440 --> 01:32:02,080 other like um events and different types 2395 01:32:00,239 --> 01:32:03,600 of rooms, but this is really kind of 2396 01:32:02,080 --> 01:32:05,280 their 2397 01:32:03,600 --> 01:32:05,920 gimmick. This is their shtick that they 2398 01:32:05,280 --> 01:32:06,560 do. 2399 01:32:05,920 --> 01:32:10,000 Okay. 2400 01:32:06,560 --> 01:32:12,239 So, fully dressed, Drake goes into the 2401 01:32:10,000 --> 01:32:13,679 men's only room because he's like, I 2402 01:32:12,239 --> 01:32:15,199 don't want to be doing that to Isabelle, 2403 01:32:13,679 --> 01:32:16,880 right? 2404 01:32:15,199 --> 01:32:20,960 Just with his dick out with a condom on. 2405 01:32:16,880 --> 01:32:24,320 Fully dressed. Okay. I forget 2406 01:32:20,960 --> 01:32:26,800 who this was. Oh god. I just remember 2407 01:32:24,320 --> 01:32:28,400 hearing the story at some point of like 2408 01:32:26,800 --> 01:32:30,320 a high school boy 2409 01:32:28,400 --> 01:32:30,960 Yes. putting the condom on first thing 2410 01:32:30,320 --> 01:32:32,000 in the morning. 2411 01:32:30,960 --> 01:32:33,920 Yes. Because they're like, "I'm going to 2412 01:32:32,000 --> 01:32:36,639 lose my virginity after school." So, he 2413 01:32:33,920 --> 01:32:38,960 wore the condom all day. 2414 01:32:36,639 --> 01:32:41,280 I'm like, "Did you take it off to use 2415 01:32:38,960 --> 01:32:43,920 the bathroom then put it back?" I had so 2416 01:32:41,280 --> 01:32:44,800 many questions that I don't want answers 2417 01:32:43,920 --> 01:32:46,159 to. 2418 01:32:44,800 --> 01:32:46,400 But yes, that is what it made me think 2419 01:32:46,159 --> 01:32:48,000 of. 2420 01:32:46,400 --> 01:32:50,239 That's the vibe is like all of these 2421 01:32:48,000 --> 01:32:50,960 people pre-conumed. 2422 01:32:50,239 --> 01:32:53,840 Yeah. 2423 01:32:50,960 --> 01:32:56,159 But fully dressed. Yeah. Well, and most 2424 01:32:53,840 --> 01:32:58,159 of them are nude. Drake just chose to 2425 01:32:56,159 --> 01:33:00,000 Oh, no. I fully understand that. But for 2426 01:32:58,159 --> 01:33:02,080 the mental image I have in my head, 2427 01:33:00,000 --> 01:33:03,920 they're all just dick out. 2428 01:33:02,080 --> 01:33:05,520 It's all just like a bunch of high 2429 01:33:03,920 --> 01:33:07,199 school boys who are excited to lose 2430 01:33:05,520 --> 01:33:09,679 their virginity. So, they all put the 2431 01:33:07,199 --> 01:33:11,440 condom on under their clothes and 2432 01:33:09,679 --> 01:33:12,800 they're all doing the wallflower like at 2433 01:33:11,440 --> 01:33:14,080 a middle school dance where they're all 2434 01:33:12,800 --> 01:33:16,000 just standing there looking at each 2435 01:33:14,080 --> 01:33:18,080 other, which is literally what Drake 2436 01:33:16,000 --> 01:33:19,600 does cuz he goes in and he's like, "I 2437 01:33:18,080 --> 01:33:21,199 don't want to participate. Like, I'm 2438 01:33:19,600 --> 01:33:23,040 literally just trying to do research." 2439 01:33:21,199 --> 01:33:23,920 the group. He's in the the 2440 01:33:23,040 --> 01:33:25,520 the men's only room. 2441 01:33:23,920 --> 01:33:27,760 The men's only room. Okay. 2442 01:33:25,520 --> 01:33:29,280 So, um 2443 01:33:27,760 --> 01:33:32,719 he is like, "This is really 2444 01:33:29,280 --> 01:33:35,120 interesting." And then my notes say a 2445 01:33:32,719 --> 01:33:36,639 little guy comes up and offers him a BJ. 2446 01:33:35,120 --> 01:33:40,480 Basically, he's like a 20-year-old 2447 01:33:36,639 --> 01:33:42,480 twink, like very young guy based on the 2448 01:33:40,480 --> 01:33:44,719 voice cuz he can't really see him, but 2449 01:33:42,480 --> 01:33:47,840 he's like he's very short and he's 2450 01:33:44,719 --> 01:33:50,080 touching me a lot and he sounds very 2451 01:33:47,840 --> 01:33:51,679 young like, "Thank you, sweetheart. 2452 01:33:50,080 --> 01:33:53,040 appreciate it so much. I'm not 2453 01:33:51,679 --> 01:33:53,440 participating tonight. 2454 01:33:53,040 --> 01:33:55,760 Yeah, 2455 01:33:53,440 --> 01:34:00,560 you have a good time. 2456 01:33:55,760 --> 01:34:04,320 And as soon as he turns down this guy, 2457 01:34:00,560 --> 01:34:06,560 um, suddenly someone is in front of him 2458 01:34:04,320 --> 01:34:08,320 and grabbing him and kissing him and 2459 01:34:06,560 --> 01:34:10,080 he's like, I'm pretty sure this is 2460 01:34:08,320 --> 01:34:15,040 Hunter. 2461 01:34:10,080 --> 01:34:17,679 Hunter. I am feeling some um uh night 2462 01:34:15,040 --> 01:34:21,199 vision goggles and I really hope it is 2463 01:34:17,679 --> 01:34:24,000 not an excited bouncer. Awkward. He's 2464 01:34:21,199 --> 01:34:26,960 like, "What is happening?" 2465 01:34:24,000 --> 01:34:29,679 But he hears the goggles hit the floor. 2466 01:34:26,960 --> 01:34:31,199 He hears Hunter's voice. He's like, 2467 01:34:29,679 --> 01:34:33,440 "Okay, I'm pretty sure this is Hunter." 2468 01:34:31,199 --> 01:34:35,840 Like, I've never really heard him this 2469 01:34:33,440 --> 01:34:37,760 like sexed up before, but I'm pretty 2470 01:34:35,840 --> 01:34:39,280 sure. And so 2471 01:34:37,760 --> 01:34:40,560 I think we're we're all hoping it's 2472 01:34:39,280 --> 01:34:44,239 Hunter at this point. 2473 01:34:40,560 --> 01:34:46,159 Yes. And it is. So Hunter basically like 2474 01:34:44,239 --> 01:34:50,400 grabs him by the throat and puts him on 2475 01:34:46,159 --> 01:34:52,080 his knees and [ __ ] him his face with no 2476 01:34:50,400 --> 01:34:54,639 condom. He's like, "Oh, so this is 2477 01:34:52,080 --> 01:34:58,639 Hunter." He just like walked in here. 2478 01:34:54,639 --> 01:35:01,040 Um, and literally as soon as he comes, 2479 01:34:58,639 --> 01:35:04,080 Hunter disappears 2480 01:35:01,040 --> 01:35:08,080 and Drake is on his knees in the pitch 2481 01:35:04,080 --> 01:35:09,199 dark like what what the [ __ ] just 2482 01:35:08,080 --> 01:35:11,040 happened? 2483 01:35:09,199 --> 01:35:14,560 That's a valid question. 2484 01:35:11,040 --> 01:35:17,520 And he is extremely hurt by that. Um, so 2485 01:35:14,560 --> 01:35:19,360 he makes his way out and sees Hunter 2486 01:35:17,520 --> 01:35:22,880 like in the main area and he's like, 2487 01:35:19,360 --> 01:35:26,159 "Yeah, um, I'm going to go to a bar. do 2488 01:35:22,880 --> 01:35:27,679 not follow me. Like, do not follow me 2489 01:35:26,159 --> 01:35:29,600 this time. Like, I'm really serious 2490 01:35:27,679 --> 01:35:31,360 about this. And Hunter is like, "Please, 2491 01:35:29,600 --> 01:35:33,600 can we just talk? I'm really I I really 2492 01:35:31,360 --> 01:35:35,600 need to." And he's like, "No, I don't 2493 01:35:33,600 --> 01:35:37,840 really care what you need right now. I 2494 01:35:35,600 --> 01:35:39,760 am going to a bar. 2495 01:35:37,840 --> 01:35:42,719 Follow me." Right. 2496 01:35:39,760 --> 01:35:44,800 So, Isabelle is asleep on the couch. and 2497 01:35:42,719 --> 01:35:48,560 she knows that something is wrong 2498 01:35:44,800 --> 01:35:51,679 because Hunter came home in a foul mood, 2499 01:35:48,560 --> 01:35:53,520 like really bad mood, and basically went 2500 01:35:51,679 --> 01:35:55,120 straight to bed. And she's like, "I 2501 01:35:53,520 --> 01:35:55,920 don't know what happened, but clearly it 2502 01:35:55,120 --> 01:35:57,840 was something." 2503 01:35:55,920 --> 01:36:00,320 Yeah. You're like, "Drake's not here. 2504 01:35:57,840 --> 01:36:02,000 Hunter is livid about something." 2505 01:36:00,320 --> 01:36:05,520 Yeah. She's like, "Something went wrong, 2506 01:36:02,000 --> 01:36:07,440 obviously." So Drake comes home drunk 2507 01:36:05,520 --> 01:36:10,480 off his ass 2508 01:36:07,440 --> 01:36:12,080 and she gets him into bed and she lays 2509 01:36:10,480 --> 01:36:14,480 down with him, which is something that 2510 01:36:12,080 --> 01:36:17,040 they have done in the past, like you 2511 01:36:14,480 --> 01:36:20,880 know, so it's not weird or anything. 2512 01:36:17,040 --> 01:36:24,719 And Drake tells her everything. 2513 01:36:20,880 --> 01:36:28,960 And she is really disappointed in 2514 01:36:24,719 --> 01:36:31,120 Hunter. She's like, "I am so sorry that 2515 01:36:28,960 --> 01:36:36,800 he did that to you, Drake. like you did 2516 01:36:31,120 --> 01:36:39,760 not deserve that. I am really sorry that 2517 01:36:36,800 --> 01:36:42,159 Isabelle decides to stay in bed with 2518 01:36:39,760 --> 01:36:44,719 Drake and just like basically holds him 2519 01:36:42,159 --> 01:36:45,280 all night cuz he's really emotional and 2520 01:36:44,719 --> 01:36:46,320 everything. 2521 01:36:45,280 --> 01:36:48,400 Yeah. 2522 01:36:46,320 --> 01:36:50,480 And one thing that this is just an 2523 01:36:48,400 --> 01:36:52,960 aside, but I did appreciate the reality 2524 01:36:50,480 --> 01:36:54,560 of sometimes I will sleep on the couch 2525 01:36:52,960 --> 01:36:57,360 when I'm on my period because my 2526 01:36:54,560 --> 01:36:59,760 insomnia is really bad. And so like if 2527 01:36:57,360 --> 01:37:01,920 my cramps feel funny or if like I just 2528 01:36:59,760 --> 01:37:04,080 don't quite feel right, I will just go 2529 01:37:01,920 --> 01:37:05,840 like snooze on the couch. If anything 2530 01:37:04,080 --> 01:37:08,639 isn't right, like Princess in the Pea 2531 01:37:05,840 --> 01:37:10,560 style, I was like, "She gets it. She 2532 01:37:08,639 --> 01:37:12,080 really does." 2533 01:37:10,560 --> 01:37:13,920 Um 2534 01:37:12,080 --> 01:37:17,199 that does not work in my relationship 2535 01:37:13,920 --> 01:37:20,719 with Vance. If I go to the couch, he'll 2536 01:37:17,199 --> 01:37:25,440 be like, "Oh, we're going to the couch." 2537 01:37:20,719 --> 01:37:28,880 So, so years ago I was going through a 2538 01:37:25,440 --> 01:37:30,880 really bad spell of insomnia and Matt 2539 01:37:28,880 --> 01:37:33,360 had started snoring a little bit at 2540 01:37:30,880 --> 01:37:36,480 night which is like 2541 01:37:33,360 --> 01:37:38,800 you might as well run a chainsaw for me, 2542 01:37:36,480 --> 01:37:40,880 right? I am very 2543 01:37:38,800 --> 01:37:42,480 a very soft snore and it's still like 2544 01:37:40,880 --> 01:37:43,440 well there goes the whole night. I'll 2545 01:37:42,480 --> 01:37:44,880 try again tomorrow. 2546 01:37:43,440 --> 01:37:47,040 Like we could make the argument that 2547 01:37:44,880 --> 01:37:51,600 you're just breathing like that level of 2548 01:37:47,040 --> 01:37:54,000 snoring I'm out. And so he got so upset 2549 01:37:51,600 --> 01:37:56,320 about me sleeping on the couch so much 2550 01:37:54,000 --> 01:38:00,320 that he just started buying all of these 2551 01:37:56,320 --> 01:38:02,880 different like snore remedy things like 2552 01:38:00,320 --> 01:38:05,440 a band to go around your head to keep 2553 01:38:02,880 --> 01:38:07,760 your mouth from opening and like all of 2554 01:38:05,440 --> 01:38:10,000 these different things. And it's mostly 2555 01:38:07,760 --> 01:38:13,199 fine now. But he did he would get really 2556 01:38:10,000 --> 01:38:14,719 upset every time I would go like sleep 2557 01:38:13,199 --> 01:38:16,239 on the couch. 2558 01:38:14,719 --> 01:38:18,480 Well, like even like cuz I've been like, 2559 01:38:16,239 --> 01:38:19,520 "Oh, like I'm sick. I should go sleep in 2560 01:38:18,480 --> 01:38:20,239 the guest room, 2561 01:38:19,520 --> 01:38:22,320 right? 2562 01:38:20,239 --> 01:38:24,480 And Vance is like, I've already been 2563 01:38:22,320 --> 01:38:26,400 exposed to your germs 15 times today. Do 2564 01:38:24,480 --> 01:38:28,320 you think being exposed overnight will 2565 01:38:26,400 --> 01:38:31,520 make a lick of difference to me? 2566 01:38:28,320 --> 01:38:32,080 You are not sleeping in another room. 2567 01:38:31,520 --> 01:38:33,360 Okay. 2568 01:38:32,080 --> 01:38:35,199 Same energy. 2569 01:38:33,360 --> 01:38:38,159 It'll be like 2:00 a.m. and I'm like, 2570 01:38:35,199 --> 01:38:40,719 "Yeah, I think I'm just going to go like 2571 01:38:38,159 --> 01:38:42,719 turn the TV on something stupid and like 2572 01:38:40,719 --> 01:38:45,040 maybe sort of snooze cuz I'm not really 2573 01:38:42,719 --> 01:38:46,080 going to sleep tonight." And Matt the 2574 01:38:45,040 --> 01:38:48,480 next morning will be like, "What 2575 01:38:46,080 --> 01:38:51,600 happened? Are you okay? Was I snoring? 2576 01:38:48,480 --> 01:38:54,480 What? I You should You should be You 2577 01:38:51,600 --> 01:38:55,520 should be in in the bed. 2578 01:38:54,480 --> 01:38:56,239 Why were you there? Why were you not 2579 01:38:55,520 --> 01:38:57,119 where you're supposed to be? 2580 01:38:56,239 --> 01:38:59,040 Yeah. What? What? 2581 01:38:57,119 --> 01:39:00,639 Like what? What? I don't I didn't like 2582 01:38:59,040 --> 01:39:02,560 it. 2583 01:39:00,639 --> 01:39:03,920 I don't have a deviated septum, but I 2584 01:39:02,560 --> 01:39:05,440 did buy the thing just in case I have a 2585 01:39:03,920 --> 01:39:05,760 deviated septum because I want you in 2586 01:39:05,440 --> 01:39:07,520 bed. 2587 01:39:05,760 --> 01:39:08,880 Yeah. Literally. Um 2588 01:39:07,520 --> 01:39:11,040 what a beautiful angel baby. 2589 01:39:08,880 --> 01:39:12,719 I know. Bless is the most precious 2590 01:39:11,040 --> 01:39:14,639 person on the planet. 2591 01:39:12,719 --> 01:39:16,719 So, 2592 01:39:14,639 --> 01:39:18,239 okay. to the point where I have to tell 2593 01:39:16,719 --> 01:39:20,320 this very cute anecdote about my 2594 01:39:18,239 --> 01:39:22,080 husband. So, I told you a couple of 2595 01:39:20,320 --> 01:39:22,880 friends of mine found a couple of 2596 01:39:22,080 --> 01:39:23,440 kittens. 2597 01:39:22,880 --> 01:39:24,880 Yeah. 2598 01:39:23,440 --> 01:39:27,280 And gave them to different people, 2599 01:39:24,880 --> 01:39:30,400 whatever. And we were trying to name one 2600 01:39:27,280 --> 01:39:31,760 of them a very sweet little black boy 2601 01:39:30,400 --> 01:39:32,480 cat. 2602 01:39:31,760 --> 01:39:34,800 Mhm. 2603 01:39:32,480 --> 01:39:36,639 Totally precious little snuggle bug. 2604 01:39:34,800 --> 01:39:39,679 Just as like happy to be in people's 2605 01:39:36,639 --> 01:39:41,199 laps. And so I was texting Matt about it 2606 01:39:39,679 --> 01:39:42,560 and I was like, "Yeah, so these are some 2607 01:39:41,199 --> 01:39:44,880 of the names we thought of, but like 2608 01:39:42,560 --> 01:39:46,880 none of them are hitting." And I got 2609 01:39:44,880 --> 01:39:48,480 home and Matt presented me with a list 2610 01:39:46,880 --> 01:39:50,000 that he had written. He was like, "I 2611 01:39:48,480 --> 01:39:51,760 also brainstormed. Here are some 2612 01:39:50,000 --> 01:39:53,199 thoughts that I have. Maybe share them 2613 01:39:51,760 --> 01:39:55,920 with Aaron, who's my friend who had the 2614 01:39:53,199 --> 01:39:57,520 kitten." And I was like, I took a 2615 01:39:55,920 --> 01:40:00,560 picture and I sent it to her. And she 2616 01:39:57,520 --> 01:40:03,840 was like, I literally love him. I was 2617 01:40:00,560 --> 01:40:06,080 like, I know. It's so cute. 2618 01:40:03,840 --> 01:40:10,199 He's like circling the ones that he 2619 01:40:06,080 --> 01:40:10,199 liked the most. Like 2620 01:40:10,480 --> 01:40:15,520 so precious. 2621 01:40:13,360 --> 01:40:17,280 And the funniest part is I've never met 2622 01:40:15,520 --> 01:40:22,600 your husband in person. We've text. 2623 01:40:17,280 --> 01:40:22,600 We've never we've never met in person. 2624 01:40:22,880 --> 01:40:27,600 For those who have never even seen a 2625 01:40:24,560 --> 01:40:29,520 photo of Hannah's husband does have like 2626 01:40:27,600 --> 01:40:31,119 a little bit of like an like when you 2627 01:40:29,520 --> 01:40:33,199 look at photos of him, you don't think 2628 01:40:31,119 --> 01:40:33,920 this is like a warm, cuddly, you don't 2629 01:40:33,199 --> 01:40:35,679 think that 2630 01:40:33,920 --> 01:40:37,840 man who's like 2631 01:40:35,679 --> 01:40:39,679 just wants to take care of everyone and 2632 01:40:37,840 --> 01:40:41,920 the animals around him. 2633 01:40:39,679 --> 01:40:42,480 That is not the vibe that his look 2634 01:40:41,920 --> 01:40:44,719 gives. No. 2635 01:40:42,480 --> 01:40:46,159 No. His aesthetic does not align with 2636 01:40:44,719 --> 01:40:47,360 his like 2637 01:40:46,159 --> 01:40:48,960 I'm not even going to say golden 2638 01:40:47,360 --> 01:40:49,760 retriever cuz I wouldn't say he's a 2639 01:40:48,960 --> 01:40:51,119 golden retriever. 2640 01:40:49,760 --> 01:40:53,520 Cinnamon roll. 2641 01:40:51,119 --> 01:40:54,560 Yes. Very cinnamon rolly. 2642 01:40:53,520 --> 01:40:56,000 Yeah. 2643 01:40:54,560 --> 01:40:57,360 But you would not anticipate it from 2644 01:40:56,000 --> 01:40:58,960 from photos. 2645 01:40:57,360 --> 01:41:00,480 No, you wouldn't. You wouldn't. I love 2646 01:40:58,960 --> 01:41:02,639 it so much. 2647 01:41:00,480 --> 01:41:05,280 So anyway, the next day. 2648 01:41:02,639 --> 01:41:07,119 So, okay. Isabelle stays in Drake's room 2649 01:41:05,280 --> 01:41:07,679 that night and it's now the next day. 2650 01:41:07,119 --> 01:41:11,840 I've got it. 2651 01:41:07,679 --> 01:41:14,800 Yes. So, Hunter wakes up alone um after 2652 01:41:11,840 --> 01:41:17,840 having very weird and chaotic dreams 2653 01:41:14,800 --> 01:41:19,760 about like his dad and Hunter and Drake 2654 01:41:17,840 --> 01:41:21,360 and Isabelle all together doing weird. 2655 01:41:19,760 --> 01:41:24,320 He's like, "What the fuck?" He's like 2656 01:41:21,360 --> 01:41:26,800 super overwhelmed and freaked out. Um 2657 01:41:24,320 --> 01:41:30,560 and he realizes that Drake and Isabelle 2658 01:41:26,800 --> 01:41:32,239 are in bed together and he's like sort 2659 01:41:30,560 --> 01:41:34,400 of standing there in the doorway and 2660 01:41:32,239 --> 01:41:36,000 he's like, "You know, even if they did 2661 01:41:34,400 --> 01:41:38,159 do something together, I probably 2662 01:41:36,000 --> 01:41:40,080 deserve that." But then he's like, 2663 01:41:38,159 --> 01:41:41,920 they're fully clothed, so clearly they 2664 01:41:40,080 --> 01:41:43,360 didn't do anything. And also Isabelle 2665 01:41:41,920 --> 01:41:45,520 wouldn't on the first day of her period 2666 01:41:43,360 --> 01:41:45,920 just cuz of how she feels physically. 2667 01:41:45,520 --> 01:41:49,360 Yeah. 2668 01:41:45,920 --> 01:41:52,080 But like I [ __ ] up real bad. And 2669 01:41:49,360 --> 01:41:53,440 however Hunter chose to deal with that 2670 01:41:52,080 --> 01:41:54,159 is probably okay. 2671 01:41:53,440 --> 01:41:56,719 Drake. 2672 01:41:54,159 --> 01:41:58,880 Yes. However Drake chose to Sorry. 2673 01:41:56,719 --> 01:42:00,000 However Drake chose to deal with that is 2674 01:41:58,880 --> 01:42:00,800 kind of okay. 2675 01:42:00,000 --> 01:42:05,040 Mhm. 2676 01:42:00,800 --> 01:42:07,280 And so he admits to himself that Drake 2677 01:42:05,040 --> 01:42:08,719 has done nothing wrong. He has been 2678 01:42:07,280 --> 01:42:10,800 incredible and perfect. 2679 01:42:08,719 --> 01:42:12,639 Do we have insight into why Hunter did 2680 01:42:10,800 --> 01:42:13,840 that at this point? 2681 01:42:12,639 --> 01:42:14,480 So, not yet. 2682 01:42:13,840 --> 01:42:18,480 Okay. 2683 01:42:14,480 --> 01:42:21,760 But he is like, "Yeah, I [ __ ] up real 2684 01:42:18,480 --> 01:42:23,440 bad." And so, he gets into bed with 2685 01:42:21,760 --> 01:42:26,320 them. 2686 01:42:23,440 --> 01:42:29,440 Um, as Drake is waking up and is 2687 01:42:26,320 --> 01:42:31,440 immediately like, "I am so sorry. Like, 2688 01:42:29,440 --> 01:42:34,639 I never should have done that." 2689 01:42:31,440 --> 01:42:37,520 And he's like, "Listen, I just got 2690 01:42:34,639 --> 01:42:39,440 really freaked out and in my head and I 2691 01:42:37,520 --> 01:42:43,199 should never have treated you that way. 2692 01:42:39,440 --> 01:42:46,239 Like, you are not like disposable like 2693 01:42:43,199 --> 01:42:48,159 that. Like, you're important to me." And 2694 01:42:46,239 --> 01:42:51,360 basically, they talk about they're about 2695 01:42:48,159 --> 01:42:53,600 to go home and Drake is like, "Listen, 2696 01:42:51,360 --> 01:42:55,600 this was a fun road trip experiment or 2697 01:42:53,600 --> 01:42:57,679 whatever and I get that it's coming to 2698 01:42:55,600 --> 01:42:59,520 an end. We don't have to talk about it 2699 01:42:57,679 --> 01:43:01,119 anymore." like 2700 01:42:59,520 --> 01:43:04,880 and 2701 01:43:01,119 --> 01:43:07,440 Hunter is like I don't Isabelle wants to 2702 01:43:04,880 --> 01:43:09,600 continue this and so do I. I think that 2703 01:43:07,440 --> 01:43:12,560 like maybe we could still explore it 2704 01:43:09,600 --> 01:43:14,719 when we go home and I would really like 2705 01:43:12,560 --> 01:43:17,600 a second chance because I know that I 2706 01:43:14,719 --> 01:43:20,159 messed up and I want to make it right. 2707 01:43:17,600 --> 01:43:25,040 And Drake is like 2708 01:43:20,159 --> 01:43:27,119 no. He's like no thank you. Um, 2709 01:43:25,040 --> 01:43:28,880 like it's one thing to be with Isabelle, 2710 01:43:27,119 --> 01:43:31,600 but the way that you treated me was not 2711 01:43:28,880 --> 01:43:34,239 okay and I'm not comfortable like being 2712 01:43:31,600 --> 01:43:36,560 vulnerable with you like that anymore. 2713 01:43:34,239 --> 01:43:37,840 Full stop. And so 2714 01:43:36,560 --> 01:43:40,239 way to hold that boundary. 2715 01:43:37,840 --> 01:43:44,639 Yeah. Really? So, they're on their way 2716 01:43:40,239 --> 01:43:48,639 back and Isabelle is driving the last 4 2717 01:43:44,639 --> 01:43:50,639 hours back to LA when she sees a sign 2718 01:43:48,639 --> 01:43:53,520 for Vegas and is like, 2719 01:43:50,639 --> 01:43:56,560 you know, shit's been real weird since 2720 01:43:53,520 --> 01:44:01,440 yesterday. Why don't we check out Vegas 2721 01:43:56,560 --> 01:44:03,920 and see what happens? And so, um, 2722 01:44:01,440 --> 01:44:05,840 they go out together, like all dressed 2723 01:44:03,920 --> 01:44:08,000 to the nines. They're all dancing 2724 01:44:05,840 --> 01:44:11,119 together and all of them are making out 2725 01:44:08,000 --> 01:44:14,480 and just having a really good time. And 2726 01:44:11,119 --> 01:44:17,760 um my notes say DP threesome to end the 2727 01:44:14,480 --> 01:44:20,239 night which is a lot but a good time for 2728 01:44:17,760 --> 01:44:21,520 everybody apparently. 2729 01:44:20,239 --> 01:44:23,199 So um 2730 01:44:21,520 --> 01:44:25,360 I mean we did go from we're not going to 2731 01:44:23,199 --> 01:44:26,239 explore this any further to 2732 01:44:25,360 --> 01:44:27,520 right 2733 01:44:26,239 --> 01:44:29,600 DP threesome. 2734 01:44:27,520 --> 01:44:32,000 Well they're all like just because we're 2735 01:44:29,600 --> 01:44:34,639 going home doesn't mean we have to stop 2736 01:44:32,000 --> 01:44:36,400 like you know. Um, but Drake, I think, 2737 01:44:34,639 --> 01:44:38,400 is very much trying to protect himself 2738 01:44:36,400 --> 01:44:41,440 from getting hurt. So, he just assumes 2739 01:44:38,400 --> 01:44:44,000 it's gonna end rather than like actually 2740 01:44:41,440 --> 01:44:47,760 having the conversation. So, the next 2741 01:44:44,000 --> 01:44:49,760 night, um, Drake is like, "Oh, 2742 01:44:47,760 --> 01:44:53,040 we're not really [ __ ] anymore, are 2743 01:44:49,760 --> 01:44:56,080 we?" Like, this is emotional. Like, 2744 01:44:53,040 --> 01:44:58,080 there's a lot of like emotion coming up. 2745 01:44:56,080 --> 01:45:01,520 Um, and he's like, "I don't know really 2746 01:44:58,080 --> 01:45:03,040 what to do about that 2747 01:45:01,520 --> 01:45:04,719 because I'm moving in with them." So, 2748 01:45:03,040 --> 01:45:05,040 like the next day he's moving all their 2749 01:45:04,719 --> 01:45:06,159 [ __ ] 2750 01:45:05,040 --> 01:45:08,400 I forgot about that. 2751 01:45:06,159 --> 01:45:13,040 I Me, too. They're moving all of his 2752 01:45:08,400 --> 01:45:16,560 [ __ ] into their house. Um, and Drake and 2753 01:45:13,040 --> 01:45:18,000 Hunter go to the the their sex club for 2754 01:45:16,560 --> 01:45:19,119 a meeting to kind of talk about the trip 2755 01:45:18,000 --> 01:45:20,080 and everything they learned and blah 2756 01:45:19,119 --> 01:45:22,320 blah blah. 2757 01:45:20,080 --> 01:45:25,520 And Drake is just hanging out at the 2758 01:45:22,320 --> 01:45:26,960 bar. Um, and he has genuinely no idea 2759 01:45:25,520 --> 01:45:28,800 what the [ __ ] is going on between the 2760 01:45:26,960 --> 01:45:30,960 three of them because they've talked 2761 01:45:28,800 --> 01:45:32,719 about like it'd be cool to continue, but 2762 01:45:30,960 --> 01:45:34,800 they haven't talked about that means 2763 01:45:32,719 --> 01:45:37,199 we're exclusive or that means the three 2764 01:45:34,800 --> 01:45:40,800 of us are in a relationship or anything 2765 01:45:37,199 --> 01:45:43,199 else. So, he's like, 2766 01:45:40,800 --> 01:45:44,239 normally I'd be here [ __ ] 2767 01:45:43,199 --> 01:45:46,000 Yeah. So, 2768 01:45:44,239 --> 01:45:46,639 but also not going to like piss him off 2769 01:45:46,000 --> 01:45:47,600 by 2770 01:45:46,639 --> 01:45:48,719 Right. So, like 2771 01:45:47,600 --> 01:45:51,040 flirting with Rand. 2772 01:45:48,719 --> 01:45:53,199 Should I be [ __ ] He's like, I'm not 2773 01:45:51,040 --> 01:45:54,239 really sure. I don't know. 2774 01:45:53,199 --> 01:45:56,000 And so, um, 2775 01:45:54,239 --> 01:45:57,199 he's like, "What's my role here? Just 2776 01:45:56,000 --> 01:45:58,960 someone tell me." 2777 01:45:57,199 --> 01:46:01,360 He does have the thought. He's like, "I 2778 01:45:58,960 --> 01:46:04,880 probably need to start like [ __ ] 2779 01:46:01,360 --> 01:46:07,119 somebody. Like, I this has to end. Like, 2780 01:46:04,880 --> 01:46:09,280 I can't just be their third wheel 2781 01:46:07,119 --> 01:46:12,800 forever. Like, this is worse now than it 2782 01:46:09,280 --> 01:46:15,119 was before. Like, I want a relationship. 2783 01:46:12,800 --> 01:46:16,639 I don't want to keep doing this." And 2784 01:46:15,119 --> 01:46:18,480 so, he starts flirting with the 2785 01:46:16,639 --> 01:46:21,600 bartender. 2786 01:46:18,480 --> 01:46:24,880 And um Hunter is feeling very 2787 01:46:21,600 --> 01:46:26,960 overwhelmed and he's like 2788 01:46:24,880 --> 01:46:29,040 in this room board meeting with all of 2789 01:46:26,960 --> 01:46:31,040 his friends and he's like they're all 2790 01:46:29,040 --> 01:46:33,920 going to know. Everybody's going to know 2791 01:46:31,040 --> 01:46:36,400 that we've all been [ __ ] Oh god. 2792 01:46:33,920 --> 01:46:38,159 Oh, I don't think they give a [ __ ] 2793 01:46:36,400 --> 01:46:39,679 Like they can't see it on you, dude. 2794 01:46:38,159 --> 01:46:41,440 Like 2795 01:46:39,679 --> 01:46:43,840 you're not wearing a name tag. 2796 01:46:41,440 --> 01:46:45,760 You work in a sex club. It's not like 2797 01:46:43,840 --> 01:46:47,360 you work in a nursing home or something 2798 01:46:45,760 --> 01:46:49,440 and the board of directors is going to 2799 01:46:47,360 --> 01:46:51,360 take issue with you having a threesome. 2800 01:46:49,440 --> 01:46:53,600 You literally started this business 2801 01:46:51,360 --> 01:46:55,760 because none of you could find a safe 2802 01:46:53,600 --> 01:46:57,119 space to show up authentically 2803 01:46:55,760 --> 01:46:59,280 and you're literally doing the most 2804 01:46:57,119 --> 01:47:00,560 vanilla [ __ ] of anybody else in the 2805 01:46:59,280 --> 01:47:05,840 room. Like 2806 01:47:00,560 --> 01:47:08,560 dude, chill out. Like chill out. Um but 2807 01:47:05,840 --> 01:47:10,719 he does share about like all the ideas 2808 01:47:08,560 --> 01:47:13,600 that he has for all these different 2809 01:47:10,719 --> 01:47:15,600 things and he's like, "Yeah, um we 2810 01:47:13,600 --> 01:47:17,760 thought about quickie closets, right? 2811 01:47:15,600 --> 01:47:20,239 Like rooms where it's like we don't need 2812 01:47:17,760 --> 01:47:23,040 to rent a full room for an hour. We just 2813 01:47:20,239 --> 01:47:25,760 want a spot to bang it out like real 2814 01:47:23,040 --> 01:47:28,000 quick, you know?" And one of the guys 2815 01:47:25,760 --> 01:47:29,280 was like, "Oh, did you guys like try 2816 01:47:28,000 --> 01:47:32,159 that out?" And he's like, "I was with 2817 01:47:29,280 --> 01:47:32,719 Isabelle." And they were like, "Yeah, 2818 01:47:32,159 --> 01:47:35,199 but like 2819 01:47:32,719 --> 01:47:36,480 Yeah. So, did you try out a closet like 2820 01:47:35,199 --> 01:47:38,320 that with Isabelle? 2821 01:47:36,480 --> 01:47:41,280 Did you think like maybe Drake could 2822 01:47:38,320 --> 01:47:44,960 build one is what we were asking you? 2823 01:47:41,280 --> 01:47:47,920 Like what are you doing?" 2824 01:47:44,960 --> 01:47:49,520 Um, and it's very, very awkward. And 2825 01:47:47,920 --> 01:47:53,600 it's clear that everybody in the room is 2826 01:47:49,520 --> 01:47:56,719 like, "What? What? Are you good? You're 2827 01:47:53,600 --> 01:47:58,719 being [ __ ] weird, dude." So then he 2828 01:47:56,719 --> 01:48:03,920 finds Drake flirting with the bartender 2829 01:47:58,719 --> 01:48:05,760 and is mad. And Drake is like, "Hey, 2830 01:48:03,920 --> 01:48:07,920 we all said we would like it to 2831 01:48:05,760 --> 01:48:10,159 continue, but we never said yes, this is 2832 01:48:07,920 --> 01:48:12,080 what we're doing. I can't keep doing 2833 01:48:10,159 --> 01:48:13,840 this." Like, 2834 01:48:12,080 --> 01:48:15,600 yeah, it's an it's a bit of a no man's 2835 01:48:13,840 --> 01:48:16,639 land right now. We need a little bit 2836 01:48:15,600 --> 01:48:20,239 more clarity. 2837 01:48:16,639 --> 01:48:24,000 Exactly. So then Hunter says some 2838 01:48:20,239 --> 01:48:26,000 hateful stuff to Drake about his mom 2839 01:48:24,000 --> 01:48:28,960 because Drake's mom kind of had a 2840 01:48:26,000 --> 01:48:30,239 revolving door of men throughout Drake's 2841 01:48:28,960 --> 01:48:31,199 childhood and stuff. 2842 01:48:30,239 --> 01:48:33,840 No. 2843 01:48:31,199 --> 01:48:35,360 And immediately, like as soon as it 2844 01:48:33,840 --> 01:48:39,199 comes out of his mouth, he's like, "Holy 2845 01:48:35,360 --> 01:48:41,360 [ __ ] I am so like that. I'm like, I 2846 01:48:39,199 --> 01:48:45,280 didn't mean it like that. Oh my god." 2847 01:48:41,360 --> 01:48:47,679 And Drake is like, "Hey, you know what? 2848 01:48:45,280 --> 01:48:50,560 you did mean it and that's okay. 2849 01:48:47,679 --> 01:48:52,639 I understand. And I've been thinking for 2850 01:48:50,560 --> 01:48:56,080 a while now that maybe it is time for me 2851 01:48:52,639 --> 01:48:58,480 to settle down. So, um I think I am 2852 01:48:56,080 --> 01:49:01,920 maybe going to start dating. 2853 01:48:58,480 --> 01:49:03,600 Um so, yeah. No, I know. I know about 2854 01:49:01,920 --> 01:49:07,119 myself. Thank you. 2855 01:49:03,600 --> 01:49:08,719 And Hunter is like he can't quite get 2856 01:49:07,119 --> 01:49:10,560 the words out of like, please don't do 2857 01:49:08,719 --> 01:49:13,280 that. Like, please just come home with 2858 01:49:10,560 --> 01:49:15,119 me. And so he just leaves Drake there at 2859 01:49:13,280 --> 01:49:17,040 the bar and goes home. 2860 01:49:15,119 --> 01:49:18,719 Hunter is the person I'm getting annoyed 2861 01:49:17,040 --> 01:49:20,880 with the most throughout all of this. 2862 01:49:18,719 --> 01:49:23,119 And that is like the consistent theme is 2863 01:49:20,880 --> 01:49:25,360 like Hunter is the one that seems to 2864 01:49:23,119 --> 01:49:27,760 lack the most insight and to struggle 2865 01:49:25,360 --> 01:49:30,480 with the communication the most 2866 01:49:27,760 --> 01:49:32,159 because then Isabelle is very 2867 01:49:30,480 --> 01:49:33,760 disappointed in Hunter's lack of 2868 01:49:32,159 --> 01:49:35,360 willingness to open up about his 2869 01:49:33,760 --> 01:49:38,159 feelings 2870 01:49:35,360 --> 01:49:41,840 because he comes home without Drake and 2871 01:49:38,159 --> 01:49:44,159 Isabelle is like what happened and he is 2872 01:49:41,840 --> 01:49:46,239 having a very difficult time kind of 2873 01:49:44,159 --> 01:49:48,960 processing it and she's very gentle with 2874 01:49:46,239 --> 01:49:51,360 him but she does kind of call him out. 2875 01:49:48,960 --> 01:49:53,760 And she's like, "You need to be honest." 2876 01:49:51,360 --> 01:49:55,119 Um, but he just keeps saying like, "I'm 2877 01:49:53,760 --> 01:49:57,440 straight. I'm straight. I'm straight." 2878 01:49:55,119 --> 01:49:59,360 And she's like, "Okay." 2879 01:49:57,440 --> 01:50:01,840 And it's cool if you're not, right? 2880 01:49:59,360 --> 01:50:03,040 Yeah. And if you're not, what does that 2881 01:50:01,840 --> 01:50:05,520 Right. 2882 01:50:03,040 --> 01:50:07,040 Nothing in our dynamic has to shift 2883 01:50:05,520 --> 01:50:11,679 unless we want it to. 2884 01:50:07,040 --> 01:50:14,639 Yes. So then that night, Drake gets home 2885 01:50:11,679 --> 01:50:17,040 pretty late and Hunter is asleep. So 2886 01:50:14,639 --> 01:50:18,480 Isabelle goes out and they have they do 2887 01:50:17,040 --> 01:50:19,920 like all of their heartto-he hearts at 2888 01:50:18,480 --> 01:50:22,239 like midnight in the kitchen. 2889 01:50:19,920 --> 01:50:23,920 They really do. So Isabelle goes out and 2890 01:50:22,239 --> 01:50:25,920 has a heartto-he heart with Drake and 2891 01:50:23,920 --> 01:50:27,920 they basically declare their feelings 2892 01:50:25,920 --> 01:50:31,840 for each other and they're like yeah 2893 01:50:27,920 --> 01:50:33,920 like I love you and I have loved you for 2894 01:50:31,840 --> 01:50:35,679 a long time and this trip has kind of 2895 01:50:33,920 --> 01:50:38,719 like opened it up into a different kind 2896 01:50:35,679 --> 01:50:42,320 of love that I wasn't expecting but like 2897 01:50:38,719 --> 01:50:45,360 I do like I really care about you and 2898 01:50:42,320 --> 01:50:47,440 without Hunter being fully on board 2899 01:50:45,360 --> 01:50:51,840 this has 2900 01:50:47,440 --> 01:50:54,800 yeah we can't continue and So, um, Drake 2901 01:50:51,840 --> 01:50:57,760 then says like, "You've always been my 2902 01:50:54,800 --> 01:50:59,360 girl and you will always be my girl." 2903 01:50:57,760 --> 01:51:02,560 And I think it's at this point he 2904 01:50:59,360 --> 01:51:04,880 reveals that like Hunter didn't remember 2905 01:51:02,560 --> 01:51:06,480 the green dress, but Drake remembers 2906 01:51:04,880 --> 01:51:08,159 like he's the one that remembers the 2907 01:51:06,480 --> 01:51:10,080 green dress when they saw her for the 2908 01:51:08,159 --> 01:51:11,920 first time and stuff like that. 2909 01:51:10,080 --> 01:51:13,840 So, 2910 01:51:11,920 --> 01:51:15,520 Drake decides he is going to go out with 2911 01:51:13,840 --> 01:51:17,040 the bartender. 2912 01:51:15,520 --> 01:51:19,520 We're going to go on a date and see how 2913 01:51:17,040 --> 01:51:22,719 it goes. and he's like, "Yeah, the spark 2914 01:51:19,520 --> 01:51:27,040 just isn't really there." Um, and he's 2915 01:51:22,719 --> 01:51:29,600 like, "Yeah, I could [ __ ] him, but like 2916 01:51:27,040 --> 01:51:31,760 the desire to wake up with him and like 2917 01:51:29,600 --> 01:51:32,960 do life with him isn't there." 2918 01:51:31,760 --> 01:51:35,760 Mhm. 2919 01:51:32,960 --> 01:51:38,800 And he just goes home feeling more 2920 01:51:35,760 --> 01:51:42,000 confused and sad. 2921 01:51:38,800 --> 01:51:44,400 And he finds Isabelle doing what I refer 2922 01:51:42,000 --> 01:51:47,599 to in my notes as baked baking, which is 2923 01:51:44,400 --> 01:51:50,000 where you get high and bake. 2924 01:51:47,599 --> 01:51:51,440 which is one of my favorite activities. 2925 01:51:50,000 --> 01:51:53,199 Yeah. 2926 01:51:51,440 --> 01:51:55,280 And so she's like dancing around the 2927 01:51:53,199 --> 01:51:57,760 kitchen and she has not clocked that 2928 01:51:55,280 --> 01:51:58,960 he's there and Hunter comes in and 2929 01:51:57,760 --> 01:52:00,000 Drake or Hunter. 2930 01:51:58,960 --> 01:52:02,560 Hunter comes in. 2931 01:52:00,000 --> 01:52:04,159 Okay. and Drake is while Drake is 2932 01:52:02,560 --> 01:52:08,320 watching her and they kind of have a 2933 01:52:04,159 --> 01:52:11,040 laugh at her antics and stuff and um 2934 01:52:08,320 --> 01:52:13,760 they suddenly engage in some like light 2935 01:52:11,040 --> 01:52:17,840 food play ex like and it starts to 2936 01:52:13,760 --> 01:52:21,840 escalate and stuff and Hunter like sucks 2937 01:52:17,840 --> 01:52:23,599 whipped cream off of Drake's dick 2938 01:52:21,840 --> 01:52:25,920 and then 2939 01:52:23,599 --> 01:52:27,599 things did escalate quickly. They then 2940 01:52:25,920 --> 01:52:30,080 do 2941 01:52:27,599 --> 01:52:31,520 DVP 2942 01:52:30,080 --> 01:52:34,760 and 2943 01:52:31,520 --> 01:52:34,760 that one 2944 01:52:35,280 --> 01:52:39,520 makes me drier than the Sahara. 2945 01:52:37,760 --> 01:52:42,239 The thought of DVP 2946 01:52:39,520 --> 01:52:43,679 like locked up. Yeah. I'm like, that 2947 01:52:42,239 --> 01:52:45,760 seems like a I was reading a book where 2948 01:52:43,679 --> 01:52:48,719 he shoved his fing like two fingers in 2949 01:52:45,760 --> 01:52:52,239 with his dick and even that I'm like 2950 01:52:48,719 --> 01:52:55,760 see that I'm more like but 2951 01:52:52,239 --> 01:52:56,239 I think it depends on I'm also like why 2952 01:52:55,760 --> 01:52:58,800 right 2953 01:52:56,239 --> 01:53:02,239 who's that for in this moment 2954 01:52:58,800 --> 01:53:03,199 right who is that for 2955 01:53:02,239 --> 01:53:04,800 because I feel like there are times 2956 01:53:03,199 --> 01:53:06,880 where it sounds hot but then I'm like in 2957 01:53:04,800 --> 01:53:09,119 practice not is it 2958 01:53:06,880 --> 01:53:10,880 yes okay so DVP 2959 01:53:09,119 --> 01:53:13,840 Yep. 2960 01:53:10,880 --> 01:53:17,280 And um Drake then starts to admit to 2961 01:53:13,840 --> 01:53:18,800 himself that like the reason that he 2962 01:53:17,280 --> 01:53:20,480 didn't feel that spark with the 2963 01:53:18,800 --> 01:53:22,080 bartender is because 2964 01:53:20,480 --> 01:53:24,080 he hunter, 2965 01:53:22,080 --> 01:53:24,400 right? He feels it with the two of them. 2966 01:53:24,080 --> 01:53:27,040 Yeah. 2967 01:53:24,400 --> 01:53:29,280 Right. So the next few days they're 2968 01:53:27,040 --> 01:53:29,679 respectfully. We've all [ __ ] known 2969 01:53:29,280 --> 01:53:32,159 this. 2970 01:53:29,679 --> 01:53:34,320 Oh yeah. Like literally everybody. 2971 01:53:32,159 --> 01:53:35,679 Oh what? This is brand new information 2972 01:53:34,320 --> 01:53:37,520 that we've been watching the three of 2973 01:53:35,679 --> 01:53:40,560 you figure out this whole time. 2974 01:53:37,520 --> 01:53:42,639 Shock and all. So, the next few days, 2975 01:53:40,560 --> 01:53:46,239 um, Drake is doing renovations at the 2976 01:53:42,639 --> 01:53:49,280 club for the the Quickie closets. Um, 2977 01:53:46,239 --> 01:53:52,560 and Hunter goes in to help. And then he 2978 01:53:49,280 --> 01:53:56,080 finally admits how attracted to Drake he 2979 01:53:52,560 --> 01:53:59,280 is. Mutual handies in the shower at the 2980 01:53:56,080 --> 01:54:02,800 club. It's all very hot. 2981 01:53:59,280 --> 01:54:05,119 And Isabelle wakes up as the guys are 2982 01:54:02,800 --> 01:54:08,560 coming through the door. And she hears 2983 01:54:05,119 --> 01:54:10,880 them like kind of banging around. 2984 01:54:08,560 --> 01:54:13,440 and go into the guest room and she's 2985 01:54:10,880 --> 01:54:13,920 like, "This is it." She's like, "This 2986 01:54:13,440 --> 01:54:15,280 has landed. 2987 01:54:13,920 --> 01:54:19,440 It's finally happening." 2988 01:54:15,280 --> 01:54:22,960 She's like, "Nobody panic." And so, um, 2989 01:54:19,440 --> 01:54:23,599 she eaves drops on them while they are 2990 01:54:22,960 --> 01:54:24,560 [ __ ] 2991 01:54:23,599 --> 01:54:28,000 Mhm. 2992 01:54:24,560 --> 01:54:30,320 And she is like touching herself in the 2993 01:54:28,000 --> 01:54:32,560 hallway, but then also really emotional 2994 01:54:30,320 --> 01:54:35,360 that like they're finally getting there. 2995 01:54:32,560 --> 01:54:37,840 I, as respectfully as I can say this, 2996 01:54:35,360 --> 01:54:40,080 it's taken them so long to get there. I 2997 01:54:37,840 --> 01:54:42,320 kind of don't give a [ __ ] at this point. 2998 01:54:40,080 --> 01:54:46,719 I'm like I feel like we like needed to 2999 01:54:42,320 --> 01:54:49,520 get there like 15 back and forths ago. 3000 01:54:46,719 --> 01:54:51,760 Yeah. Well, and I think that that is one 3001 01:54:49,520 --> 01:54:53,440 of the only qualms I have with this book 3002 01:54:51,760 --> 01:54:55,440 is that it is like we could have done 3003 01:54:53,440 --> 01:54:58,239 this in like a hundred fewer pages and 3004 01:54:55,440 --> 01:55:00,480 had like one or two less of these. Um, 3005 01:54:58,239 --> 01:55:03,360 and it would have felt maybe a little 3006 01:55:00,480 --> 01:55:06,400 bit more like exciting when it finally 3007 01:55:03,360 --> 01:55:07,840 happened. But regardless, the next 3008 01:55:06,400 --> 01:55:11,760 morning, Hunter tells Isabelle 3009 01:55:07,840 --> 01:55:16,560 everything. Um, and uh they're like, 3010 01:55:11,760 --> 01:55:19,040 "Okay, so like what do we do now?" And 3011 01:55:16,560 --> 01:55:21,199 um lots of like calling each other on 3012 01:55:19,040 --> 01:55:23,440 their [ __ ] of like this is serious. 3013 01:55:21,199 --> 01:55:24,960 Like Drake is important to us, blah blah 3014 01:55:23,440 --> 01:55:25,599 blah stuff we already know. 3015 01:55:24,960 --> 01:55:26,880 Yes. 3016 01:55:25,599 --> 01:55:29,679 Things you've been telling him for the 3017 01:55:26,880 --> 01:55:32,480 last 150 pages that you like weren't 3018 01:55:29,679 --> 01:55:36,080 acting out in practice. Hunter. 3019 01:55:32,480 --> 01:55:36,400 Hunter is like, "I'll think about it." 3020 01:55:36,080 --> 01:55:36,960 Which, 3021 01:55:36,400 --> 01:55:37,840 oh my god, 3022 01:55:36,960 --> 01:55:39,440 Isabelle's like, "Okay, 3023 01:55:37,840 --> 01:55:43,280 shut the [ __ ] up, Hunter." 3024 01:55:39,440 --> 01:55:45,520 So, a lot of stuff happens where like 3025 01:55:43,280 --> 01:55:48,639 the Shabari instructor from New Orleans 3026 01:55:45,520 --> 01:55:51,280 shows up because they liked her so much 3027 01:55:48,639 --> 01:55:54,960 they brought her in to do a workshop and 3028 01:55:51,280 --> 01:55:58,000 then Drake's like, "Oh, balls." Um, 3029 01:55:54,960 --> 01:55:59,599 and basically she's like, "Hey, have you 3030 01:55:58,000 --> 01:56:02,400 ever thought that maybe you deserve 3031 01:55:59,599 --> 01:56:04,560 better and you should ask for that?" 3032 01:56:02,400 --> 01:56:06,639 Like, "Love you. Bye." She's like the 3033 01:56:04,560 --> 01:56:10,000 drive by therapist throughout this whole 3034 01:56:06,639 --> 01:56:12,159 thing. She's like, "Um, that's [ __ ] 3035 01:56:10,000 --> 01:56:15,280 Have you thought about not doing that? 3036 01:56:12,159 --> 01:56:19,440 Call me later." Like, that's her energy 3037 01:56:15,280 --> 01:56:22,159 the whole time. So, 3038 01:56:19,440 --> 01:56:24,880 yeah. Basically, Drake finally confronts 3039 01:56:22,159 --> 01:56:26,400 Hunter. Um, and he's like, "How long are 3040 01:56:24,880 --> 01:56:26,800 we going to do this? This is [ __ ] 3041 01:56:26,400 --> 01:56:28,159 stupid." 3042 01:56:26,800 --> 01:56:31,920 I'm saying, 3043 01:56:28,159 --> 01:56:33,840 so Hunter is like, "Please tell me what 3044 01:56:31,920 --> 01:56:34,639 to do." He's like, "I just don't know 3045 01:56:33,840 --> 01:56:36,320 what to do." Like, 3046 01:56:34,639 --> 01:56:38,080 oh my god, Hunter, what the [ __ ] do you 3047 01:56:36,320 --> 01:56:38,639 mean you don't know what to do at this 3048 01:56:38,080 --> 01:56:41,280 point? 3049 01:56:38,639 --> 01:56:45,679 Yeah. So, at this point, Drake's vibe is 3050 01:56:41,280 --> 01:56:48,639 similar to your vibe where he's like, I 3051 01:56:45,679 --> 01:56:49,520 [ __ ] figure it out, dude. Like 3052 01:56:48,639 --> 01:56:51,119 seriously, 3053 01:56:49,520 --> 01:56:53,520 do you want me to be a part of this or 3054 01:56:51,119 --> 01:56:56,239 do you not want me to be a part of this? 3055 01:56:53,520 --> 01:56:57,520 Stop saying I matter and I'm important 3056 01:56:56,239 --> 01:56:58,960 and then be like, but I just don't know 3057 01:56:57,520 --> 01:56:59,679 what to do with the fact that he 3058 01:56:58,960 --> 01:57:00,080 matters. 3059 01:56:59,679 --> 01:57:00,719 Right, 3060 01:57:00,080 --> 01:57:03,520 Hunter? 3061 01:57:00,719 --> 01:57:06,960 So, at this point, Drake is like, "Yeah, 3062 01:57:03,520 --> 01:57:08,960 so um I have a job offer from that sex 3063 01:57:06,960 --> 01:57:11,440 club in New Orleans. I've made a lot of 3064 01:57:08,960 --> 01:57:15,440 my own connections. Maybe it's time for 3065 01:57:11,440 --> 01:57:17,679 me to go." Like, I this is hurting me. 3066 01:57:15,440 --> 01:57:21,119 Like, I can't do this anymore. And 3067 01:57:17,679 --> 01:57:24,719 Hunter is like, "Oh my god, don't leave 3068 01:57:21,119 --> 01:57:27,760 me." Like, and so 3069 01:57:24,719 --> 01:57:30,560 basically then Hunter goes home and 3070 01:57:27,760 --> 01:57:34,320 packs all his bags and waits for them to 3071 01:57:30,560 --> 01:57:36,320 come home together. So they show up and 3072 01:57:34,320 --> 01:57:39,119 he's like, "Hey, listen. You told me to 3073 01:57:36,320 --> 01:57:42,400 fix it and the only part of this that is 3074 01:57:39,119 --> 01:57:44,320 broken is me. So I'm going to go fix 3075 01:57:42,400 --> 01:57:48,239 myself and then I'm going to come back 3076 01:57:44,320 --> 01:57:48,239 and we're all going to be together. 3077 01:57:50,719 --> 01:57:56,800 Yeah. For a couple of months. He leaves 3078 01:57:53,760 --> 01:57:59,199 for a couple of months 3079 01:57:56,800 --> 01:58:02,320 and goes and stays with a friend and 3080 01:57:59,199 --> 01:58:04,880 they have almost no contact for a couple 3081 01:58:02,320 --> 01:58:07,440 of months. 3082 01:58:04,880 --> 01:58:09,040 So Hunter is like, "You guys stay here. 3083 01:58:07,440 --> 01:58:14,080 Take care of each other. I love you guys 3084 01:58:09,040 --> 01:58:16,000 so much. We'll get through this." So 3085 01:58:14,080 --> 01:58:17,920 yeah, she and Drake are basically 3086 01:58:16,000 --> 01:58:20,159 platonically supporting each other 3087 01:58:17,920 --> 01:58:22,320 because they don't feel good about like 3088 01:58:20,159 --> 01:58:26,239 exploring sexual stuff without Hunter 3089 01:58:22,320 --> 01:58:29,599 there. So 2 months later, Drake is very 3090 01:58:26,239 --> 01:58:33,040 pent up because they've had no sex for 2 3091 01:58:29,599 --> 01:58:35,280 months. And so um he's also really 3092 01:58:33,040 --> 01:58:37,760 depressed because 3093 01:58:35,280 --> 01:58:39,599 Hunter is just like not around. Like 3094 01:58:37,760 --> 01:58:42,080 they see him in the distance at the 3095 01:58:39,599 --> 01:58:43,760 club, but like they have no interaction 3096 01:58:42,080 --> 01:58:46,000 with the club. Yes, he's staying with 3097 01:58:43,760 --> 01:58:47,920 one of the other owners. 3098 01:58:46,000 --> 01:58:51,199 I thought he like at least like went 3099 01:58:47,920 --> 01:58:54,080 from like LA to Vegas. Like he was gone. 3100 01:58:51,199 --> 01:58:55,520 No, he's just lurking around. 3101 01:58:54,080 --> 01:58:57,440 I'm okay. 3102 01:58:55,520 --> 01:58:59,520 So, he sometimes calls Isabelle to do 3103 01:58:57,440 --> 01:59:01,280 brief check-ins of like, "Are you okay? 3104 01:58:59,520 --> 01:59:03,040 How's things going? Hang up." Like, 3105 01:59:01,280 --> 01:59:05,599 oh, good for him, checking on his wife. 3106 01:59:03,040 --> 01:59:08,080 He gets all of the kudos and credit for 3107 01:59:05,599 --> 01:59:09,520 that. I love how agitated you are with 3108 01:59:08,080 --> 01:59:09,920 him right now. 3109 01:59:09,520 --> 01:59:12,000 So, 3110 01:59:09,920 --> 01:59:12,960 and with each new thing you say, 3111 01:59:12,000 --> 01:59:14,880 get more mad. 3112 01:59:12,960 --> 01:59:18,320 It's just like twisting the night. I'm 3113 01:59:14,880 --> 01:59:21,199 like, "Hun, I know. I know. I know." So, 3114 01:59:18,320 --> 01:59:23,599 Drake gets home to a sobbing Isabelle 3115 01:59:21,199 --> 01:59:25,920 cuz she cut all of her hair off. So, she 3116 01:59:23,599 --> 01:59:27,840 had really long like auburn hair like 3117 01:59:25,920 --> 01:59:30,400 down to her ass and she cut it up to her 3118 01:59:27,840 --> 01:59:32,560 collar bones and she's like sobbing her 3119 01:59:30,400 --> 01:59:34,639 eyes out and she's like, "What if Hunter 3120 01:59:32,560 --> 01:59:37,679 hates it and he doesn't come back?" And 3121 01:59:34,639 --> 01:59:40,719 it's very like clearly her own childhood 3122 01:59:37,679 --> 01:59:42,719 stuff coming up. And Drake, who also has 3123 01:59:40,719 --> 01:59:44,400 long blonde hair, is like, "No stress, 3124 01:59:42,719 --> 01:59:47,199 babe." And shaves his head. He's like, 3125 01:59:44,400 --> 01:59:49,760 "See, it's just hair." And he's like, 3126 01:59:47,199 --> 01:59:52,960 "What have I done?" Like, like in the 3127 01:59:49,760 --> 01:59:55,440 moment in his head, he's like, "Oh, 3128 01:59:52,960 --> 01:59:57,440 that might have been too far." But it's 3129 01:59:55,440 --> 01:59:59,199 a lot of very sweet support for each 3130 01:59:57,440 --> 02:00:02,080 other and like showing up together. And 3131 01:59:59,199 --> 02:00:03,280 then they finally [ __ ] and declare their 3132 02:00:02,080 --> 02:00:04,800 love for each other. They've been 3133 02:00:03,280 --> 02:00:06,560 holding off for 2 months and they're 3134 02:00:04,800 --> 02:00:08,880 like, "Yeah, no, we do love each other 3135 02:00:06,560 --> 02:00:11,840 without Hunter present." 3136 02:00:08,880 --> 02:00:15,599 Hunter is finally ready to come back and 3137 02:00:11,840 --> 02:00:18,159 to admit that he is by. Um, he comes out 3138 02:00:15,599 --> 02:00:20,880 to all of his friends who are like, 3139 02:00:18,159 --> 02:00:22,480 "Uh-huh." Yeah. 3140 02:00:20,880 --> 02:00:25,280 The reason you've been living with us 3141 02:00:22,480 --> 02:00:27,840 for the past 2 months, this is brand new 3142 02:00:25,280 --> 02:00:30,159 information. Well, they're all like, 3143 02:00:27,840 --> 02:00:32,639 "Dude, we've literally thought the three 3144 02:00:30,159 --> 02:00:35,520 of you guys were [ __ ] this whole time 3145 02:00:32,639 --> 02:00:37,440 for years." Like, 3146 02:00:35,520 --> 02:00:38,960 okay, 3147 02:00:37,440 --> 02:00:40,400 should we throw you a party or 3148 02:00:38,960 --> 02:00:41,119 something? Like, what? 3149 02:00:40,400 --> 02:00:43,360 Oh my gosh. 3150 02:00:41,119 --> 02:00:44,800 And Drake has or Hunter has obviously 3151 02:00:43,360 --> 02:00:47,760 like really built this up in his own 3152 02:00:44,800 --> 02:00:50,719 head. So, then Hunter shows up at 3153 02:00:47,760 --> 02:00:52,639 Isabelle's yoga studio to apologize with 3154 02:00:50,719 --> 02:00:54,000 like, you know, a bouquet of flowers and 3155 02:00:52,639 --> 02:00:57,040 everything and says he's ready to 3156 02:00:54,000 --> 02:00:59,760 commit. Um, 3157 02:00:57,040 --> 02:01:00,560 I know, I know, I know, I know. 3158 02:00:59,760 --> 02:01:04,000 I'm sorry. I 3159 02:01:00,560 --> 02:01:06,560 I know. So then he's already married to 3160 02:01:04,000 --> 02:01:09,920 her. 3161 02:01:06,560 --> 02:01:13,040 He showed up with flowers for his wife. 3162 02:01:09,920 --> 02:01:15,199 His wife wife who he has a legally 3163 02:01:13,040 --> 02:01:16,639 binding contract with and is like, "I'm 3164 02:01:15,199 --> 02:01:18,639 finally ready to commit to you, baby. 3165 02:01:16,639 --> 02:01:22,840 File our taxes together. How much more 3166 02:01:18,639 --> 02:01:22,840 committed do you need to be? [ __ ] 3167 02:01:24,960 --> 02:01:29,920 We've bought property together and 3168 02:01:27,520 --> 02:01:32,000 you're telling me now that our name our 3169 02:01:29,920 --> 02:01:33,840 name is on the property deed of a of a 3170 02:01:32,000 --> 02:01:35,840 place and you're telling me now you're 3171 02:01:33,840 --> 02:01:38,080 ready to commit. 3172 02:01:35,840 --> 02:01:39,280 Good. We've only been together for 10 3173 02:01:38,080 --> 02:01:41,599 [ __ ] years, dude. 3174 02:01:39,280 --> 02:01:43,360 Muscle top hunter like what what do you 3175 02:01:41,599 --> 02:01:47,280 want a cookie? Like 3176 02:01:43,360 --> 02:01:50,159 oh my god. So they go to the club. They 3177 02:01:47,280 --> 02:01:52,000 find Drake. He takes them to one of the 3178 02:01:50,159 --> 02:01:55,440 rooms he has recently built and it's a 3179 02:01:52,000 --> 02:01:59,520 pitch dark room that he built and so he 3180 02:01:55,440 --> 02:02:02,960 shuts all the lights off. Um 3181 02:01:59,520 --> 02:02:04,800 Hunter tells Drake to [ __ ] him while he 3182 02:02:02,960 --> 02:02:06,880 [ __ ] Isabelle. It's a very big moment 3183 02:02:04,800 --> 02:02:09,199 for everyone. 3184 02:02:06,880 --> 02:02:11,920 Um they have a debrief conversation 3185 02:02:09,199 --> 02:02:14,320 afterwards clearing the air. Everybody's 3186 02:02:11,920 --> 02:02:15,920 committed. Hunter is like while I've 3187 02:02:14,320 --> 02:02:18,800 been away. I've been doing research 3188 02:02:15,920 --> 02:02:20,880 about polyamory. I understand now we're 3189 02:02:18,800 --> 02:02:22,800 all together. Open communication blah 3190 02:02:20,880 --> 02:02:25,440 blah blah. What are the boundaries? Like 3191 02:02:22,800 --> 02:02:28,480 it's a really good like conversation 3192 02:02:25,440 --> 02:02:30,400 related to my a decade of doing research 3193 02:02:28,480 --> 02:02:32,239 for the sex club he opened and this is 3194 02:02:30,400 --> 02:02:34,320 the first time where he's like and now 3195 02:02:32,239 --> 02:02:36,480 that it's applicable to me. 3196 02:02:34,320 --> 02:02:41,520 Yeah, I finally get it. 3197 02:02:36,480 --> 02:02:44,159 And then they a few days later do 3198 02:02:41,520 --> 02:02:45,840 they have sex in her yoga studio in like 3199 02:02:44,159 --> 02:02:47,280 her aerial 3200 02:02:45,840 --> 02:02:52,080 area. Oh. 3201 02:02:47,280 --> 02:02:54,080 Um, so that was a lot suspension. Um, 3202 02:02:52,080 --> 02:02:57,599 I was going to say I too have had sex in 3203 02:02:54,080 --> 02:02:59,440 the yoga studio I was working at. 3204 02:02:57,599 --> 02:03:01,440 There was there were no straps. It was 3205 02:02:59,440 --> 02:03:04,000 I was going to say in Ariel's because 3206 02:03:01,440 --> 02:03:06,000 that's like I'm impressed by that. That 3207 02:03:04,000 --> 02:03:08,719 feels like a lot of coordination. 3208 02:03:06,000 --> 02:03:11,199 No. Bless my husband who had attended 3209 02:03:08,719 --> 02:03:13,599 the class that I was teaching and then 3210 02:03:11,199 --> 02:03:14,400 stayed as I was mopping the floors. 3211 02:03:13,599 --> 02:03:18,119 Hot, 3212 02:03:14,400 --> 02:03:18,119 right? Yeah, that's 3213 02:03:18,560 --> 02:03:24,480 so at the epilogue 6 months later, 3214 02:03:22,400 --> 02:03:26,400 Isabella is pregnant with twins. They 3215 02:03:24,480 --> 02:03:28,320 don't know who the dad is, but they are 3216 02:03:26,400 --> 02:03:31,119 going to find out. She's like all that 3217 02:03:28,320 --> 02:03:33,840 weird [ __ ] about like it's everybody's 3218 02:03:31,119 --> 02:03:36,080 baby. She's like, okay, like we're not 3219 02:03:33,840 --> 02:03:39,440 going to treat them any differently, but 3220 02:03:36,080 --> 02:03:41,520 if these kids are Drake's, I would also 3221 02:03:39,440 --> 02:03:42,960 like Hunter to have his own biological 3222 02:03:41,520 --> 02:03:44,960 children. So, like we're going to find 3223 02:03:42,960 --> 02:03:47,280 out, which I appreciated cuz in a lot of 3224 02:03:44,960 --> 02:03:49,520 these it's like we don't need to know. 3225 02:03:47,280 --> 02:03:51,760 And then it's like but look into his 3226 02:03:49,520 --> 02:03:53,199 cornflour blue eyes just like his 3227 02:03:51,760 --> 02:03:55,360 father. And it's like okay. 3228 02:03:53,199 --> 02:03:57,760 Or my favorite is when like it's reverse 3229 02:03:55,360 --> 02:03:59,040 her and the men are multiple races. And 3230 02:03:57,760 --> 02:04:04,000 they're like we don't need to know. And 3231 02:03:59,040 --> 02:04:05,520 I'm like respectfully you will though. 3232 02:04:04,000 --> 02:04:09,760 No DNA test needed. 3233 02:04:05,520 --> 02:04:13,440 Respectfully. Um so um they are happy 3234 02:04:09,760 --> 02:04:15,440 and healthy. The club is doing great and 3235 02:04:13,440 --> 02:04:21,000 that's the end. They're getting their 3236 02:04:15,440 --> 02:04:21,000 their nursery ready for the Bet. 3237 02:04:21,280 --> 02:04:26,480 So, I will say what I liked about this 3238 02:04:24,000 --> 02:04:28,000 one was a lot of the angst did not come 3239 02:04:26,480 --> 02:04:30,639 from where I thought it was going to 3240 02:04:28,000 --> 02:04:33,280 come from. Like, it didn't come from any 3241 02:04:30,639 --> 02:04:35,679 secret keeping or like hurting each 3242 02:04:33,280 --> 02:04:37,520 other in that way. It was much more 3243 02:04:35,679 --> 02:04:39,119 Hunter needed to work through his own 3244 02:04:37,520 --> 02:04:40,960 [ __ ] 3245 02:04:39,119 --> 02:04:45,840 and Drake needed to work on his own 3246 02:04:40,960 --> 02:04:48,719 self-esteem, but like it wasn't the 3247 02:04:45,840 --> 02:04:50,480 I needed like at I needed at least four 3248 02:04:48,719 --> 02:04:52,080 to five less back and forth. 3249 02:04:50,480 --> 02:04:53,520 Yeah, that is my only complaint. 3250 02:04:52,080 --> 02:04:54,639 Like at at some point I'm like, "Okay, 3251 02:04:53,520 --> 02:04:56,400 I'm with you. I'm with you. I'm with 3252 02:04:54,639 --> 02:04:58,000 you." I'm like, "Wait, we're still we're 3253 02:04:56,400 --> 02:05:01,119 we're again 3254 02:04:58,000 --> 02:05:06,159 again." I do think in reading it, it 3255 02:05:01,119 --> 02:05:08,639 felt more of a gradual build like 3256 02:05:06,159 --> 02:05:10,560 than me trying to explain it. It felt a 3257 02:05:08,639 --> 02:05:13,040 little bit more like they got deeper 3258 02:05:10,560 --> 02:05:15,920 every time and like it was a different 3259 02:05:13,040 --> 02:05:19,199 Hey, it was a different vibe reading it, 3260 02:05:15,920 --> 02:05:22,639 but it was irritating by like the last 3261 02:05:19,199 --> 02:05:25,280 time. And I was I really don't like in a 3262 02:05:22,639 --> 02:05:27,520 lot of books where there's a big gap 3263 02:05:25,280 --> 02:05:30,480 where they go away from each other and 3264 02:05:27,520 --> 02:05:32,320 then come back. I often just personally 3265 02:05:30,480 --> 02:05:33,920 dislike that sort of trope. 3266 02:05:32,320 --> 02:05:35,760 There are very few times where I feel 3267 02:05:33,920 --> 02:05:36,320 like that trope is justified. 3268 02:05:35,760 --> 02:05:38,239 Right. 3269 02:05:36,320 --> 02:05:41,199 And this is not a situation in which I 3270 02:05:38,239 --> 02:05:44,560 necessarily felt like it was justified. 3271 02:05:41,199 --> 02:05:46,159 Right. On some level I was like, "Okay, 3272 02:05:44,560 --> 02:05:48,639 I get it. you're working through your 3273 02:05:46,159 --> 02:05:52,960 own internalized like homophobia and 3274 02:05:48,639 --> 02:05:54,719 stuff like okay okay okay um but at the 3275 02:05:52,960 --> 02:05:56,800 same time it felt like he did it in a 3276 02:05:54,719 --> 02:05:59,360 really hurtful way and probably could 3277 02:05:56,800 --> 02:06:00,719 have gone about it differently. Um yeah 3278 02:05:59,360 --> 02:06:02,239 because the number of times in which 3279 02:06:00,719 --> 02:06:04,800 they're like telling Drake he matters 3280 02:06:02,239 --> 02:06:07,440 and that he's important and then their 3281 02:06:04,800 --> 02:06:08,960 actions and behaviors 3282 02:06:07,440 --> 02:06:12,000 directly 3283 02:06:08,960 --> 02:06:14,880 show Drake that that is not true. 3284 02:06:12,000 --> 02:06:16,639 Right. Like there are only so many times 3285 02:06:14,880 --> 02:06:19,520 that like someone can tell you you're 3286 02:06:16,639 --> 02:06:21,280 important and then show you you're not 3287 02:06:19,520 --> 02:06:21,920 before you need to accept 3288 02:06:21,280 --> 02:06:23,840 that you're not 3289 02:06:21,920 --> 02:06:26,560 that yeah that those aren't are never 3290 02:06:23,840 --> 02:06:27,679 going to align. And I get like here 3291 02:06:26,560 --> 02:06:31,880 there were things that needed to be 3292 02:06:27,679 --> 02:06:31,880 worked through but just also like 3293 02:06:33,199 --> 02:06:39,440 I will say I liked this one the best. I 3294 02:06:36,480 --> 02:06:44,000 think of the three in this series that I 3295 02:06:39,440 --> 02:06:47,360 have read. It felt the most relatable 3296 02:06:44,000 --> 02:06:50,079 with the messiness of it. Um, but it 3297 02:06:47,360 --> 02:06:50,960 also was in some ways the most annoying 3298 02:06:50,079 --> 02:06:52,719 for that reason. 3299 02:06:50,960 --> 02:06:55,440 Yeah, cuz I do like in some way it 3300 02:06:52,719 --> 02:06:57,199 catches a lot of like the human angst of 3301 02:06:55,440 --> 02:06:58,560 that like hey like 3302 02:06:57,199 --> 02:07:01,119 a coming out process. 3303 02:06:58,560 --> 02:07:01,840 Yes, these are hard things to reconcile. 3304 02:07:01,119 --> 02:07:04,159 Yeah. 3305 02:07:01,840 --> 02:07:06,639 And 3306 02:07:04,159 --> 02:07:07,920 Hunter is stunted AF. 3307 02:07:06,639 --> 02:07:09,040 Oh my gosh. 3308 02:07:07,920 --> 02:07:10,639 Yeah. Maybe you should have gone to 3309 02:07:09,040 --> 02:07:11,840 therapy earlier, but 3310 02:07:10,639 --> 02:07:12,719 not with me though. 3311 02:07:11,840 --> 02:07:14,639 Not with me either. 3312 02:07:12,719 --> 02:07:16,800 No, I would have struggled with you as a 3313 02:07:14,639 --> 02:07:18,480 client. 3314 02:07:16,800 --> 02:07:19,679 I need you to make some make some 3315 02:07:18,480 --> 02:07:21,440 choices and commit. 3316 02:07:19,679 --> 02:07:21,920 Yeah, this a [ __ ] or get off the pot 3317 02:07:21,440 --> 02:07:23,760 situation. 3318 02:07:21,920 --> 02:07:24,800 Yes. Okay. What's our rating system? 3319 02:07:23,760 --> 02:07:28,000 I don't know. I was just thinking about 3320 02:07:24,800 --> 02:07:32,480 that. We could do um spanking benches. 3321 02:07:28,000 --> 02:07:35,840 We could do uh 3322 02:07:32,480 --> 02:07:38,320 Indian takeout. We could do 3323 02:07:35,840 --> 02:07:40,000 shabari ropes. 3324 02:07:38,320 --> 02:07:41,440 There is a lot more chabari in there 3325 02:07:40,000 --> 02:07:43,040 than I 3326 02:07:41,440 --> 02:07:45,679 mentioned. There's a lot of shabari. 3327 02:07:43,040 --> 02:07:48,480 Hell yeah. Let's do shabari ropes. Okay. 3328 02:07:45,679 --> 02:07:51,119 So, I'm gonna say 3329 02:07:48,480 --> 02:07:52,560 out of 3330 02:07:51,119 --> 02:07:53,679 Oh, I was going to say three cuz there 3331 02:07:52,560 --> 02:07:55,280 are three of them, but that doesn't feel 3332 02:07:53,679 --> 02:07:59,440 like enough out of five cuz I think they 3333 02:07:55,280 --> 02:08:02,320 went to five sex clubs. So, 3334 02:07:59,440 --> 02:08:04,960 I would give it like a three, three and 3335 02:08:02,320 --> 02:08:07,360 a half. Like it was an enjoyable read. 3336 02:08:04,960 --> 02:08:10,320 Yeah. And I think I was not as irritated 3337 02:08:07,360 --> 02:08:11,520 with Hunter as I was reading it as I was 3338 02:08:10,320 --> 02:08:13,599 when I was explaining it. 3339 02:08:11,520 --> 02:08:14,719 Is it my irritation with Hunter that's 3340 02:08:13,599 --> 02:08:16,320 really being fueled? 3341 02:08:14,719 --> 02:08:17,920 No, because I did have the thought when 3342 02:08:16,320 --> 02:08:20,800 he was like, I have to go away for 2 3343 02:08:17,920 --> 02:08:21,360 months where I was like, [ __ ] what? 3344 02:08:20,800 --> 02:08:22,159 Okay. 3345 02:08:21,360 --> 02:08:24,239 Do you though? 3346 02:08:22,159 --> 02:08:25,920 Right. Like I don't feel like Okay. All 3347 02:08:24,239 --> 02:08:29,280 right. 3348 02:08:25,920 --> 02:08:31,119 Okay. But you didn't go away. You went 3349 02:08:29,280 --> 02:08:33,520 down the street and still showed up to 3350 02:08:31,119 --> 02:08:36,719 work where we also all work. It was 3351 02:08:33,520 --> 02:08:41,320 really like, okay, 3352 02:08:36,719 --> 02:08:41,320 like that was a moment where I was like, 3353 02:08:41,360 --> 02:08:44,560 yeah. 3354 02:08:42,079 --> 02:08:45,679 Yeah. You're like, I guess this is how 3355 02:08:44,560 --> 02:08:46,079 this can play out. 3356 02:08:45,679 --> 02:08:47,920 Yeah. 3357 02:08:46,079 --> 02:08:50,079 Three out of five Shabbari ropes. 3358 02:08:47,920 --> 02:08:52,079 Yeah. I'm going to settle on three. It 3359 02:08:50,079 --> 02:08:53,679 was an enjoyable read. I would recommend 3360 02:08:52,079 --> 02:08:56,400 it because again, I felt like it was 3361 02:08:53,679 --> 02:08:59,920 more honest about the dynamics than a 3362 02:08:56,400 --> 02:09:02,400 lot of other books are. Um, and it also 3363 02:08:59,920 --> 02:09:04,480 feels like it's like a pretty accurate 3364 02:09:02,400 --> 02:09:06,159 portrayal of a lot of those dynamics 3365 02:09:04,480 --> 02:09:07,280 that have to be navigated. 3366 02:09:06,159 --> 02:09:09,520 Yeah. Mhm. 3367 02:09:07,280 --> 02:09:11,840 Um, versus so many books we read, we're 3368 02:09:09,520 --> 02:09:14,079 like, they don't talk about anything. 3369 02:09:11,840 --> 02:09:16,000 No. And then all of the plot comes from 3370 02:09:14,079 --> 02:09:16,320 the fact that they aren't communicating. 3371 02:09:16,000 --> 02:09:17,920 Yes. 3372 02:09:16,320 --> 02:09:18,239 And it's very annoying. 3373 02:09:17,920 --> 02:09:20,000 Yeah. 3374 02:09:18,239 --> 02:09:20,960 So, this was annoying differently and I 3375 02:09:20,000 --> 02:09:22,400 appreciate that. 3376 02:09:20,960 --> 02:09:25,599 We We do appreciate that. All right. 3377 02:09:22,400 --> 02:09:27,679 Three out of five. 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