1 01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:03,708 (upbeat music) 2 01:00:06,250 --> 01:00:06,500 Sweet 16. 3 01:00:07,083 --> 01:00:08,041 Sweet 16. 4 01:00:08,541 --> 01:00:10,166 Story of our lives, if only. 5 01:00:10,458 --> 01:00:11,375 Yeah, I was really 6 01:00:11,375 --> 01:00:12,958 stretching there for that biff 7 01:00:12,958 --> 01:00:13,416 and back to the 8 01:00:13,416 --> 01:00:14,541 future reference, wasn't I? 9 01:00:14,708 --> 01:00:15,500 Fell out of the chair. 10 01:00:15,875 --> 01:00:17,333 I am only drinking the 11 01:00:17,333 --> 01:00:18,041 fruits of the spirit. 12 01:00:18,666 --> 01:00:19,875 Dreamstone and hellfire. 13 01:00:20,375 --> 01:00:21,875 We bucked that tradition. 14 01:00:22,083 --> 01:00:22,791 That tradition. 15 01:00:23,375 --> 01:00:24,458 Does that not go through your mind? 16 01:00:25,000 --> 01:00:25,750 What are you doing a 17 01:00:25,750 --> 01:00:27,250 problem without dancing? 18 01:00:27,750 --> 01:00:29,000 It took a hot moment 19 01:00:29,000 --> 01:00:29,875 for me to figure it out. 20 01:00:30,416 --> 01:00:31,500 This is awkward, I'm 21 01:00:31,500 --> 01:00:32,333 gonna go ahead and take off. 22 01:00:32,791 --> 01:00:34,250 Your grandparents can 23 01:00:34,250 --> 01:00:35,583 dance like there's no tomorrow, 24 01:00:35,958 --> 01:00:37,583 but Jesus is like, "You're on vacation." 25 01:00:38,083 --> 01:00:40,333 And there is a time to dance. 26 01:00:41,291 --> 01:00:42,541 I would smell myself 27 01:00:42,541 --> 01:00:43,833 until I got used to the smell. 28 01:00:44,541 --> 01:00:46,583 Smell yourself until you got what? 29 01:00:47,625 --> 01:00:48,291 Say that again. 30 01:00:48,333 --> 01:00:49,625 Yeah, that one was weird, but I would, 31 01:00:50,125 --> 01:00:51,500 you could call it someone had for lunch. 32 01:00:52,000 --> 01:00:54,000 And it's eight hours after lunch. 33 01:00:54,583 --> 01:00:56,208 I can't imagine, it's like a cyber drink, 34 01:00:56,208 --> 01:00:57,500 it makes me wanna go, "Ugh!" 35 01:00:57,791 --> 01:00:58,916 That is now one of our things. 36 01:00:59,750 --> 01:01:00,916 Maybe we are a little vain. 37 01:01:01,583 --> 01:01:03,208 We do think that song's about us. 38 01:01:03,916 --> 01:01:05,333 It was a fabulous date night. 39 01:01:05,833 --> 01:01:07,833 Yeah, like, whoa, whoa. 40 01:01:08,500 --> 01:01:09,750 Daughter, girlfriend? 41 01:01:11,458 --> 01:01:11,958 Question mark? 42 01:01:12,041 --> 01:01:12,625 Question mark? 43 01:01:13,291 --> 01:01:14,958 It's like a seven layer 44 01:01:14,958 --> 01:01:18,958 bean guacamole dip of stress. 45 01:01:19,791 --> 01:01:21,583 And we thought seven was the max. 46 01:01:21,791 --> 01:01:22,208 We thought. 47 01:01:22,541 --> 01:01:23,458 We were being totally 48 01:01:23,458 --> 01:01:24,750 judgmental here, but this is fun. 49 01:01:25,625 --> 01:01:28,291 Appetizers, that's French 50 01:01:28,291 --> 01:01:30,000 for food before you're on her. 51 01:01:30,833 --> 01:01:31,500 Ooh, wow. 52 01:01:32,166 --> 01:01:35,875 Police sting soliciting a prostitute, 53 01:01:36,500 --> 01:01:37,333 but he bought her. 54 01:01:37,333 --> 01:01:38,333 He bought her for the night. 55 01:01:38,791 --> 01:01:40,708 It was hard just to get around her. 56 01:01:41,375 --> 01:01:42,416 It's like, who? 57 01:01:43,166 --> 01:01:43,708 Nobody would have 58 01:01:43,708 --> 01:01:44,750 believed that I actually knew 59 01:01:44,750 --> 01:01:45,750 where the bathroom was. 60 01:01:46,250 --> 01:01:47,791 Young and in love, and 61 01:01:47,791 --> 01:01:49,583 now we're old and in love. 62 01:01:49,916 --> 01:01:51,333 We've been there, we've done that. 63 01:01:52,458 --> 01:01:52,666 Or. 64 01:01:53,041 --> 01:01:53,333 Or. 65 01:01:53,791 --> 01:01:54,083 Or. 66 01:01:54,833 --> 01:01:56,875 If you looked straight ahead, even if you 67 01:01:56,875 --> 01:01:58,208 stared into my eyes, 68 01:01:58,208 --> 01:01:59,041 you're proof you're hooked. 69 01:01:59,083 --> 01:01:59,958 And I need you to know, 70 01:02:00,500 --> 01:02:02,583 gross, nasty, old guy. 71 01:02:02,625 --> 01:02:04,625 I think I'm sad for this. 72 01:02:05,958 --> 01:02:07,291 Or am I not kidding, I don't know. 73 01:02:07,333 --> 01:02:07,791 I don't know. 74 01:02:08,375 --> 01:02:08,833 If we're all being 75 01:02:08,833 --> 01:02:10,333 honest, that's how everybody is. 76 01:02:10,541 --> 01:02:11,291 I mean, give me a break. 77 01:02:11,333 --> 01:02:12,125 I do think that most 78 01:02:12,125 --> 01:02:13,250 people would have been doing 79 01:02:13,333 --> 01:02:14,791 exactly what you and I were doing. 80 01:02:14,791 --> 01:02:16,000 And that's why people 81 01:02:16,000 --> 01:02:16,958 like, people watch it. 82 01:02:17,541 --> 01:02:19,041 We are nothing if not, honestly. 83 01:02:20,541 --> 01:02:21,125 Are we though? 84 01:02:22,458 --> 01:02:24,041 What's the word I'm looking for there? 85 01:02:25,083 --> 01:02:25,375 A anal? 86 01:02:25,833 --> 01:02:27,166 Well, it gives you what you can handle. 87 01:02:27,708 --> 01:02:27,916 Right. 88 01:02:28,208 --> 01:02:29,000 I feel like I'm there. 89 01:02:29,666 --> 01:02:31,000 I'm not a good juggler, 90 01:02:31,000 --> 01:02:32,166 I have the metaphorical 91 01:02:32,166 --> 01:02:33,208 juggling of adulthood. 92 01:02:33,958 --> 01:02:34,958 Hey, hey, hey. 93 01:02:36,458 --> 01:02:37,333 That's pretty close. 94 01:02:37,500 --> 01:02:38,666 It's pretty dark close. 95 01:02:39,375 --> 01:02:40,958 Swimming upstream, or you 96 01:02:40,958 --> 01:02:41,791 know, like, I don't know. 97 01:02:42,041 --> 01:02:43,750 Where do I buy a 25 year old? 98 01:02:44,541 --> 01:02:45,791 You've gotten way wrong. 99 01:02:47,375 --> 01:02:48,541 (laughing) I got one word. 100 01:02:51,541 --> 01:02:53,666 (upbeat music) 101 01:02:55,000 --> 01:02:56,333 That's a very long pause. 102 01:02:57,500 --> 01:02:57,541 (laughing) 103 01:02:58,041 --> 01:02:59,666 Yeah, that won't be a highlight. 104 01:02:59,666 --> 01:03:00,875 I probably should take that one out. 105 01:03:01,291 --> 01:03:02,291 Welcome to the Mr. and 106 01:03:02,291 --> 01:03:03,208 Mrs. English podcast. 107 01:03:03,666 --> 01:03:04,041 I'm Megan. 108 01:03:04,458 --> 01:03:05,041 And I'm Shum. 109 01:03:05,291 --> 01:03:06,333 We're here to talk about 110 01:03:06,333 --> 01:03:08,166 the wild ride of raising kids, 111 01:03:08,166 --> 01:03:10,250 growing careers, keeping life together 112 01:03:10,250 --> 01:03:11,500 in the middle of all the chaos. 113 01:03:12,250 --> 01:03:13,250 So buckle up, 114 01:03:13,500 --> 01:03:14,333 because we're all in 115 01:03:14,333 --> 01:03:15,541 this crazy journey together. 116 01:03:17,750 --> 01:03:18,958 This will be episode 16. 117 01:03:19,208 --> 01:03:20,333 Welcome everyone, welcome hun. 118 01:03:20,375 --> 01:03:20,583 Welcome. 119 01:03:21,416 --> 01:03:21,625 Sweet 16. 120 01:03:22,166 --> 01:03:23,958 Sweet 16. 121 01:03:24,875 --> 01:03:25,250 That's right. 122 01:03:25,500 --> 01:03:25,833 That would have been, 123 01:03:26,708 --> 01:03:28,000 it's a little after the fact 124 01:03:28,000 --> 01:03:28,541 of when that would have 125 01:03:28,541 --> 01:03:29,625 been good for Mars madness. 126 01:03:30,125 --> 01:03:30,333 Right. 127 01:03:31,250 --> 01:03:33,583 Oh man, if only we had started, you know, 128 01:03:33,583 --> 01:03:34,291 a couple weeks earlier. 129 01:03:34,583 --> 01:03:35,333 Four weeks earlier maybe? 130 01:03:35,416 --> 01:03:36,750 Story of our lives, if only. 131 01:03:37,041 --> 01:03:37,291 Yeah. 132 01:03:37,791 --> 01:03:38,041 Right? 133 01:03:38,666 --> 01:03:38,958 Right. 134 01:03:39,583 --> 01:03:39,958 Oh well. 135 01:03:40,666 --> 01:03:42,125 You know, honestly, I 136 01:03:42,125 --> 01:03:42,916 wasn't thinking about that 137 01:03:42,916 --> 01:03:44,083 when we first started this. 138 01:03:44,791 --> 01:03:45,500 About, oh, we could 139 01:03:45,500 --> 01:03:46,833 line up our 16th episode 140 01:03:47,000 --> 01:03:48,208 with the Sweet 16. 141 01:03:49,666 --> 01:03:50,291 I would have been killer. 142 01:03:51,875 --> 01:03:53,333 Gosh, I, although if I 143 01:03:53,333 --> 01:03:54,458 can look that far ahead, 144 01:03:54,458 --> 01:03:54,958 maybe I should, 145 01:03:55,375 --> 01:03:56,708 I have a water roll. Yeah. 146 01:03:57,625 --> 01:03:58,416 (laughing) 147 01:03:59,333 --> 01:04:00,125 I could be like Biff 148 01:04:00,125 --> 01:04:00,958 and Back to the Future 149 01:04:01,250 --> 01:04:02,541 and like, you know, like, 150 01:04:02,541 --> 01:04:03,416 cause I would have been 151 01:04:03,416 --> 01:04:04,916 able to see the future and. 152 01:04:04,916 --> 01:04:06,000 That's right, that's right. 153 01:04:06,375 --> 01:04:07,958 All for the 16th 154 01:04:07,958 --> 01:04:09,375 lining up with the Sweet 16. 155 01:04:09,625 --> 01:04:09,916 Yeah. 156 01:04:10,333 --> 01:04:11,375 Missed it by a month or so. 157 01:04:11,416 --> 01:04:11,583 Yeah. 158 01:04:12,291 --> 01:04:13,000 I was really 159 01:04:13,000 --> 01:04:14,583 stretching there for that Biff 160 01:04:14,583 --> 01:04:15,041 and Back to the 161 01:04:15,041 --> 01:04:16,041 Future reference, wasn't I? 162 01:04:16,583 --> 01:04:18,458 Well, I saw where you're going with it. 163 01:04:18,833 --> 01:04:19,416 It's good. 164 01:04:20,125 --> 01:04:20,791 Everybody appreciates 165 01:04:20,791 --> 01:04:22,041 a little nostalgia, so. 166 01:04:23,333 --> 01:04:24,291 Speaking of nostalgia, we 167 01:04:24,291 --> 01:04:25,833 went with a little bit of 168 01:04:26,000 --> 01:04:27,416 sippers again on this show. 169 01:04:27,708 --> 01:04:29,083 We did, we did. 170 01:04:29,541 --> 01:04:31,041 Cause it's a weekend. 171 01:04:31,041 --> 01:04:31,875 We're actually recording 172 01:04:31,875 --> 01:04:33,125 on a weekend this time. 173 01:04:33,500 --> 01:04:33,708 Yeah. 174 01:04:34,333 --> 01:04:35,708 Well, I drank so much last time 175 01:04:35,708 --> 01:04:37,166 that I didn't even finish the show. 176 01:04:37,166 --> 01:04:37,958 So I think that's why 177 01:04:37,958 --> 01:04:39,125 our viewership was up 178 01:04:39,208 --> 01:04:40,500 like a thousand fold. 179 01:04:42,000 --> 01:04:42,958 We fell out of the chair. 180 01:04:43,958 --> 01:04:46,041 Cause I was imbibing too much. 181 01:04:46,375 --> 01:04:47,166 (sighs) 182 01:04:48,291 --> 01:04:49,291 No, not quite. 183 01:04:49,708 --> 01:04:49,958 Although. 184 01:04:50,375 --> 01:04:51,000 I'm just kidding. 185 01:04:51,000 --> 01:04:51,750 I didn't even finish my, 186 01:04:52,250 --> 01:04:52,958 I didn't even finish it. 187 01:04:53,208 --> 01:04:54,458 No, your apple juice. 188 01:04:54,833 --> 01:04:55,791 My apple juice, that's right. 189 01:04:56,375 --> 01:04:57,583 Or my oddly colored. 190 01:04:57,625 --> 01:04:59,250 Your oddly colored Chardonnay. 191 01:04:59,250 --> 01:05:00,500 Is that what we thought it might be? 192 01:05:01,458 --> 01:05:04,208 You're always drinking cabs, so. 193 01:05:04,250 --> 01:05:05,708 Yep, that's usually my go-to. 194 01:05:06,208 --> 01:05:08,291 Actually, technically this is a, um, 195 01:05:09,500 --> 01:05:09,708 a Malbec. 196 01:05:10,541 --> 01:05:11,333 Oh, that one is really? 197 01:05:11,916 --> 01:05:12,083 Okay. 198 01:05:12,083 --> 01:05:13,166 I happen to have grabbed a Malbec. 199 01:05:13,750 --> 01:05:13,875 Okay. 200 01:05:14,291 --> 01:05:15,333 Last time I opened a bottle. 201 01:05:15,333 --> 01:05:15,541 That's good. 202 01:05:16,250 --> 01:05:18,291 And we're actually shooting on a weekend. 203 01:05:19,125 --> 01:05:20,625 Which hasn't happened in a while, 204 01:05:20,625 --> 01:05:22,208 just because our weekends have been wild. 205 01:05:23,416 --> 01:05:23,625 Yes. 206 01:05:24,041 --> 01:05:24,625 Wild weekends. 207 01:05:25,000 --> 01:05:25,666 Wild weekends. 208 01:05:25,958 --> 01:05:27,208 This one was a little more tame. 209 01:05:29,291 --> 01:05:30,541 Yep, no soccer games. 210 01:05:30,541 --> 01:05:32,208 No soccer, but it is a holiday weekend. 211 01:05:32,208 --> 01:05:33,250 And it's a holiday weekend. 212 01:05:33,625 --> 01:05:38,291 So, I mean, that does help bring down 213 01:05:38,500 --> 01:05:41,041 some of the agenda items. 214 01:05:42,291 --> 01:05:43,250 We already been to church. 215 01:05:43,541 --> 01:05:43,833 Yes. 216 01:05:44,083 --> 01:05:45,083 Cause this is Easter weekend. 217 01:05:46,041 --> 01:05:47,291 So, just got back from church? 218 01:05:47,625 --> 01:05:47,875 Yeah. 219 01:05:48,500 --> 01:05:50,333 I don't know how that's gonna go over. 220 01:05:50,333 --> 01:05:50,916 You know, like, hey, we 221 01:05:50,916 --> 01:05:51,583 just got back from church 222 01:05:51,583 --> 01:05:52,333 and now we're drinking. 223 01:05:52,583 --> 01:05:53,208 At least we didn't do 224 01:05:53,208 --> 01:05:54,083 it before church, but. 225 01:05:55,500 --> 01:05:58,041 Yeah, well, I mean, again. 226 01:05:59,375 --> 01:06:00,250 Jesus drank wine. 227 01:06:00,250 --> 01:06:01,291 Jesus drank wine, that's right. 228 01:06:01,291 --> 01:06:02,625 He turned water into wine. 229 01:06:02,625 --> 01:06:03,041 Into wine. 230 01:06:03,958 --> 01:06:06,375 So, I mean, I am only 231 01:06:06,375 --> 01:06:07,750 drinking the fruits of the spirit. 232 01:06:08,291 --> 01:06:10,291 But I did grow up, that's right. 233 01:06:10,291 --> 01:06:10,833 The fruits of the spirit. 234 01:06:10,833 --> 01:06:11,333 I thought that was a 235 01:06:11,333 --> 01:06:12,541 really good play on words. 236 01:06:12,541 --> 01:06:14,333 That was, that's why I went back to it. 237 01:06:15,208 --> 01:06:15,875 I don't want to miss when 238 01:06:15,875 --> 01:06:16,625 you have those good ones. 239 01:06:17,083 --> 01:06:17,875 They're so rare. 240 01:06:18,375 --> 01:06:19,125 I'm not that witty. 241 01:06:19,875 --> 01:06:20,500 No, you are. 242 01:06:20,708 --> 01:06:22,583 Yours are good ones when they come along. 243 01:06:23,500 --> 01:06:24,875 But I was gonna say when I grew up, 244 01:06:25,666 --> 01:06:26,333 because my grandfather 245 01:06:26,333 --> 01:06:27,458 was a Baptist preacher. 246 01:06:28,041 --> 01:06:30,625 If anybody knows anything about Baptists 247 01:06:30,791 --> 01:06:31,875 and you know, there's different 248 01:06:31,875 --> 01:06:33,250 denominations, whatnot. 249 01:06:33,666 --> 01:06:37,000 And the Baptists down here were very, 250 01:06:37,166 --> 01:06:37,958 were known for just 251 01:06:37,958 --> 01:06:39,583 being very strict, right? 252 01:06:39,875 --> 01:06:40,708 The Southern Baptists, 253 01:06:40,708 --> 01:06:42,208 Southern Baptists was very strict. 254 01:06:42,208 --> 01:06:42,458 Right. 255 01:06:43,333 --> 01:06:44,666 That was Hellstone and 256 01:06:44,666 --> 01:06:47,500 Brimstone and Hellfire, 257 01:06:47,708 --> 01:06:48,333 you know, preaching 258 01:06:48,333 --> 01:06:50,000 behind the pulpit every Sunday. 259 01:06:51,166 --> 01:06:52,708 And that's not what my grandfather was. 260 01:06:52,708 --> 01:06:54,500 He wasn't, we were, he was a Baptist. 261 01:06:54,791 --> 01:06:55,958 But I bring it all up 262 01:06:55,958 --> 01:06:57,083 because they didn't believe 263 01:06:57,083 --> 01:06:57,916 in drinking though. 264 01:06:57,958 --> 01:06:58,125 Right. 265 01:06:58,500 --> 01:07:02,000 Right, so I grew up, in fact, there was, 266 01:07:02,000 --> 01:07:03,250 I remember some family 267 01:07:03,250 --> 01:07:06,666 weddings that they didn't have, 268 01:07:06,666 --> 01:07:08,500 they did not have alcohol at 269 01:07:08,500 --> 01:07:10,458 because of my grandparents. 270 01:07:11,000 --> 01:07:12,208 And you're just out of respect for that. 271 01:07:12,791 --> 01:07:14,416 And you know, I guess us 272 01:07:14,416 --> 01:07:16,000 being us, we broke that. 273 01:07:16,208 --> 01:07:17,708 We bucked that tradition. 274 01:07:18,166 --> 01:07:18,708 That tradition. 275 01:07:19,458 --> 01:07:20,458 And we did some on your 276 01:07:20,458 --> 01:07:21,500 side too that, you know, 277 01:07:21,500 --> 01:07:23,875 your parents were, we tried to be, 278 01:07:24,250 --> 01:07:25,333 because you grew up Catholic. 279 01:07:26,000 --> 01:07:27,750 I grew up, I guess my 280 01:07:27,750 --> 01:07:28,833 grandfather was Baptist, 281 01:07:29,125 --> 01:07:32,708 but we went to a Presbyterian church, 282 01:07:33,208 --> 01:07:34,083 which I don't know what 283 01:07:34,083 --> 01:07:35,541 was different about that one 284 01:07:35,708 --> 01:07:36,250 or whatnot. 285 01:07:36,250 --> 01:07:37,791 Now we're non-denominational. 286 01:07:37,791 --> 01:07:38,000 Right. 287 01:07:38,958 --> 01:07:41,500 But definitely, we buck some trends. 288 01:07:42,500 --> 01:07:43,708 And I think we kind of 289 01:07:43,708 --> 01:07:44,833 tore off the band-aid 290 01:07:44,833 --> 01:07:45,625 for some other people, 291 01:07:45,625 --> 01:07:47,916 because following us, 292 01:07:47,916 --> 01:07:49,375 there was some things that went down, 293 01:07:50,000 --> 01:07:50,625 from those kinds of 294 01:07:50,625 --> 01:07:52,791 things that other siblings 295 01:07:53,125 --> 01:07:54,583 benefited from, I think. 296 01:07:54,583 --> 01:07:55,000 Yeah, yeah. 297 01:07:55,583 --> 01:07:58,791 It was, yeah, again, growing up Catholic, 298 01:08:01,041 --> 01:08:03,583 wine isn't, drinking is 299 01:08:03,583 --> 01:08:06,333 totally okay in Catholicism. 300 01:08:06,750 --> 01:08:09,916 So there was no ban on that in our house. 301 01:08:10,458 --> 01:08:11,291 Yeah, yeah. 302 01:08:11,625 --> 01:08:12,625 So let me ask you the 303 01:08:12,625 --> 01:08:13,500 one question about that. 304 01:08:13,875 --> 01:08:14,416 And I always think 305 01:08:14,416 --> 01:08:15,250 about it when we go there, 306 01:08:15,250 --> 01:08:16,500 and I'm a germaphobe, I 307 01:08:16,500 --> 01:08:17,375 think it's been established 308 01:08:17,375 --> 01:08:18,041 on this show. 309 01:08:18,875 --> 01:08:20,000 But the few times I've 310 01:08:20,000 --> 01:08:20,958 been to the Catholic church 311 01:08:20,958 --> 01:08:22,500 with you and your family, whenever, 312 01:08:23,250 --> 01:08:23,625 and they take, 313 01:08:23,833 --> 01:08:25,500 everybody, you know, takes, 314 01:08:25,875 --> 01:08:26,833 partakes of the cup. 315 01:08:27,208 --> 01:08:28,041 Yeah, the communion cup. 316 01:08:28,291 --> 01:08:28,916 The communion cup. 317 01:08:29,750 --> 01:08:33,000 And everybody in the church 318 01:08:33,000 --> 01:08:35,125 drinks out of the same cup. 319 01:08:35,125 --> 01:08:36,083 Now I know he's got a little thing 320 01:08:36,083 --> 01:08:37,166 that he kind of wipes it off. 321 01:08:37,291 --> 01:08:38,541 They wipe it after everyone, but-- 322 01:08:38,708 --> 01:08:40,041 Your lips in it, I mean, people, 323 01:08:40,083 --> 01:08:40,916 I mean, it's not like, 324 01:08:41,958 --> 01:08:43,416 it's not like there's not 325 01:08:43,416 --> 01:08:45,750 germs being deposited in that. 326 01:08:45,750 --> 01:08:47,250 And when there's a few hundred people 327 01:08:47,250 --> 01:08:47,958 drinking out of the cup, 328 01:08:47,958 --> 01:08:49,708 I mean, does that not 329 01:08:49,708 --> 01:08:50,458 go through your mind? 330 01:08:51,041 --> 01:08:52,416 So I-- 331 01:08:52,458 --> 01:08:53,833 Is that why you're not Catholic anymore? 332 01:08:54,291 --> 01:08:56,833 And I did not, I never, 333 01:08:57,750 --> 01:08:59,291 aside from my first communion, 334 01:08:59,291 --> 01:09:00,125 where I think you have 335 01:09:00,125 --> 01:09:02,416 to drink it as part of it, 336 01:09:02,416 --> 01:09:04,041 I didn't, I never drank the wine, so-- 337 01:09:04,083 --> 01:09:05,500 Oh, you have a choice not to. 338 01:09:05,500 --> 01:09:06,291 Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. That's okay. 339 01:09:06,500 --> 01:09:07,125 Yeah, yeah. 340 01:09:07,166 --> 01:09:07,625 Oh, I didn't know that. 341 01:09:07,708 --> 01:09:09,000 I always skipped it. 342 01:09:10,875 --> 01:09:12,500 Because I always did kind of 343 01:09:12,500 --> 01:09:14,083 think it was kind of gross. 344 01:09:14,666 --> 01:09:15,166 So you're not looked 345 01:09:15,166 --> 01:09:16,375 down upon for doing that? 346 01:09:16,666 --> 01:09:16,958 Oh, okay. 347 01:09:17,500 --> 01:09:18,000 No. No. 348 01:09:18,166 --> 01:09:18,500 That's good. 349 01:09:19,041 --> 01:09:20,958 So yeah, I never drank 350 01:09:20,958 --> 01:09:22,000 it, but I don't know, 351 01:09:22,000 --> 01:09:23,458 it's probably changed since COVID. 352 01:09:25,000 --> 01:09:26,666 Please tell me it's changed since COVID. 353 01:09:26,958 --> 01:09:28,916 Like, now that we know 354 01:09:28,916 --> 01:09:30,291 how germs are spread, 355 01:09:32,208 --> 01:09:33,000 you know what? Are you sure? 356 01:09:33,625 --> 01:09:34,333 I mean, that was like 357 01:09:34,333 --> 01:09:35,291 two or three years ago. 358 01:09:36,041 --> 01:09:36,875 You tend to forget. 359 01:09:37,416 --> 01:09:40,875 But yes, I haven't been to a 360 01:09:40,875 --> 01:09:41,958 Catholic Church since then, 361 01:09:41,958 --> 01:09:43,541 but I-- Yeah. 362 01:09:43,833 --> 01:09:45,833 There's hope that we have changed 363 01:09:45,833 --> 01:09:47,708 some of those sanitary things. 364 01:09:48,291 --> 01:09:49,708 The Catholic Church has come a long way 365 01:09:49,708 --> 01:09:50,875 in the last couple decades. 366 01:09:51,333 --> 01:09:51,791 It has. 367 01:09:54,083 --> 01:09:56,166 Changing and whatnot, so, 368 01:09:56,166 --> 01:09:57,291 but we'll turn the page on that one. 369 01:09:58,041 --> 01:09:58,875 But I was just laughing, 370 01:09:58,875 --> 01:09:59,708 because when you talk about drinking, 371 01:09:59,958 --> 01:10:01,083 I mean, like, that was a 372 01:10:01,083 --> 01:10:02,333 bit of a no-no in my family. 373 01:10:02,583 --> 01:10:04,041 I mean, my grandparents didn't drink. 374 01:10:04,875 --> 01:10:05,875 Not that they judged anybody, 375 01:10:05,875 --> 01:10:07,458 because we did, I mean, 376 01:10:07,458 --> 01:10:08,333 like, I think growing up, 377 01:10:08,333 --> 01:10:08,875 we talked about this 378 01:10:08,875 --> 01:10:09,666 once or twice before. 379 01:10:09,666 --> 01:10:10,500 There was some like, core 380 01:10:10,500 --> 01:10:11,500 slide or something like that 381 01:10:11,500 --> 01:10:13,708 in ours and you guys drank, but. 382 01:10:15,416 --> 01:10:17,125 I do remember though, my 383 01:10:17,125 --> 01:10:18,416 grandparents hearing stories 384 01:10:18,416 --> 01:10:19,833 of them, you know, because 385 01:10:19,833 --> 01:10:21,708 they had a Christian school. 386 01:10:22,041 --> 01:10:23,375 Yeah, yeah, they did. 387 01:10:23,750 --> 01:10:25,166 Yeah, so, you know, it 388 01:10:25,166 --> 01:10:26,458 was K through 12th grade, 389 01:10:26,458 --> 01:10:27,416 little Christian school. 390 01:10:28,958 --> 01:10:30,541 And like, I went to their prom one year, 391 01:10:31,125 --> 01:10:32,208 and there was no, they 392 01:10:32,208 --> 01:10:33,250 couldn't dance at the prom. 393 01:10:34,166 --> 01:10:36,500 What do you do in a prom without dancing? 394 01:10:37,458 --> 01:10:38,750 I don't know, I ended up leaving early 395 01:10:38,750 --> 01:10:39,791 because of a whole nother story. 396 01:10:40,833 --> 01:10:41,958 I've never heard this story, 397 01:10:41,958 --> 01:10:42,875 and I would love to 398 01:10:42,875 --> 01:10:44,416 actually unpack this at some point, 399 01:10:44,416 --> 01:10:45,708 because I've never heard this story. 400 01:10:46,416 --> 01:10:47,500 Well, there was a 401 01:10:47,500 --> 01:10:48,333 girl that you knew that, 402 01:10:48,541 --> 01:10:49,541 her and I kind of always had like, 403 01:10:49,541 --> 01:10:50,333 a little crush on each 404 01:10:50,333 --> 01:10:52,000 other at that church, 405 01:10:52,541 --> 01:10:53,500 for a long time, but she 406 01:10:53,500 --> 01:10:54,875 was always dating another guy. 407 01:10:55,666 --> 01:10:56,583 And it was another guy 408 01:10:56,583 --> 01:10:58,083 that also played basketball, 409 01:10:58,750 --> 01:11:01,333 you know, their 1A, I think 5A or 410 01:11:01,333 --> 01:11:01,958 something like that. 411 01:11:02,125 --> 01:11:03,166 So there's, for whatever reason, 412 01:11:03,250 --> 01:11:04,541 there was like a competition there, 413 01:11:04,541 --> 01:11:06,083 but she was dating him, 414 01:11:06,083 --> 01:11:06,958 but her and I kind of had 415 01:11:06,958 --> 01:11:08,541 crushes on each other from afar, 416 01:11:08,541 --> 01:11:09,458 because we had kind of 417 01:11:09,458 --> 01:11:10,500 stopped going to that church. 418 01:11:10,500 --> 01:11:11,041 But when I went 419 01:11:11,041 --> 01:11:12,000 there, it was always like, 420 01:11:12,666 --> 01:11:13,666 oh, we're making eye contact. 421 01:11:13,916 --> 01:11:14,666 So they had broken up 422 01:11:14,666 --> 01:11:15,583 at one point in time, 423 01:11:16,375 --> 01:11:18,250 junior year, maybe, senior 424 01:11:18,250 --> 01:11:19,291 year, I don't remember what year, 425 01:11:19,833 --> 01:11:22,833 but I ended up going to prom with her. 426 01:11:23,125 --> 01:11:24,083 I picked her up to her there. 427 01:11:24,916 --> 01:11:26,541 And I remember he was there, 428 01:11:26,541 --> 01:11:27,333 and he and I knew each other, 429 01:11:27,333 --> 01:11:29,583 because we would play 430 01:11:29,583 --> 01:11:31,166 basketball against each other 431 01:11:31,166 --> 01:11:32,250 on like Sunday nights. 432 01:11:32,416 --> 01:11:33,000 We'd have like pickup 433 01:11:33,000 --> 01:11:34,041 games after church there. 434 01:11:34,041 --> 01:11:35,000 So I would always, I 435 01:11:35,000 --> 01:11:35,958 would go to church there 436 01:11:36,583 --> 01:11:37,583 on Sunday nights, 437 01:11:37,583 --> 01:11:39,041 because they had Sunday morning church 438 01:11:39,041 --> 01:11:40,250 and Sunday evening church. 439 01:11:40,291 --> 01:11:40,625 Got it. 440 01:11:41,125 --> 01:11:41,750 And then did your whole 441 01:11:41,750 --> 01:11:42,958 family go on like that Sunday, 442 01:11:42,958 --> 01:11:43,833 on that Saturday night 443 01:11:43,833 --> 01:11:45,541 thing, or Sunday night thing? 444 01:11:45,875 --> 01:11:47,625 No, no, this was, oh, 445 01:11:47,875 --> 01:11:48,916 maybe that was later. 446 01:11:49,166 --> 01:11:50,583 I'm getting confused, 447 01:11:50,583 --> 01:11:51,250 because it was later. 448 01:11:51,958 --> 01:11:52,583 Maybe it wasn't in high 449 01:11:52,583 --> 01:11:53,458 school, because I could drive. 450 01:11:54,041 --> 01:11:55,500 I would go there, my family didn't go, 451 01:11:55,500 --> 01:11:56,166 but I think we had 452 01:11:56,166 --> 01:11:57,291 stopped going to church, 453 01:11:57,291 --> 01:11:58,583 that church at that point in time. 454 01:11:58,583 --> 01:11:59,666 We were going to the Presbyterian church. 455 01:12:00,250 --> 01:12:01,250 But because there was a 456 01:12:01,250 --> 01:12:02,333 pickup basketball game, 457 01:12:02,375 --> 01:12:04,333 because there was a full gymnasium there, 458 01:12:04,333 --> 01:12:04,916 because there was a school. 459 01:12:05,875 --> 01:12:07,500 So there would be 12 to 15 460 01:12:07,500 --> 01:12:08,791 guys that would stay after, 461 01:12:08,791 --> 01:12:10,333 and we'd play basketball, right? 462 01:12:10,333 --> 01:12:10,916 And he was one of the 463 01:12:10,916 --> 01:12:11,625 people that would stay. 464 01:12:12,083 --> 01:12:13,125 And he was good, don't get me wrong. 465 01:12:13,333 --> 01:12:14,208 He was good, you know 466 01:12:14,208 --> 01:12:15,166 the guy I'm talking about. 467 01:12:16,250 --> 01:12:17,166 And he and I eventually 468 01:12:17,166 --> 01:12:18,291 came friends along the way. 469 01:12:18,291 --> 01:12:19,000 He's a good guy. 470 01:12:20,666 --> 01:12:21,583 He ended up marrying 471 01:12:21,583 --> 01:12:22,875 this girl, obviously. 472 01:12:23,333 --> 01:12:23,541 Really? 473 01:12:23,791 --> 01:12:24,458 Yeah, you know who I'm 474 01:12:24,458 --> 01:12:25,125 talking about, don't you? 475 01:12:25,166 --> 01:12:25,833 No, I do, yeah. 476 01:12:25,875 --> 01:12:26,250 I think you do. 477 01:12:26,291 --> 01:12:27,916 Yeah, yeah, yeah, it took a moment. 478 01:12:27,916 --> 01:12:28,666 It took a hot moment 479 01:12:28,666 --> 01:12:30,000 for me to figure it out. 480 01:12:30,041 --> 01:12:33,291 We went to prom, and I could just tell, 481 01:12:33,666 --> 01:12:34,875 the dynamics there 482 01:12:34,875 --> 01:12:36,000 was like, you know what? 483 01:12:36,625 --> 01:12:38,375 You guys are meant to 484 01:12:38,375 --> 01:12:41,083 be like, this is awkward. 485 01:12:41,458 --> 01:12:42,583 I'm gonna go ahead and take off. 486 01:12:43,166 --> 01:12:44,791 And I left halfway through prom, 487 01:12:44,791 --> 01:12:45,916 because it was like, it's all good. 488 01:12:46,541 --> 01:12:47,250 I know she's probably, 489 01:12:48,166 --> 01:12:49,500 I don't need to be stuck 490 01:12:49,500 --> 01:12:50,833 in the middle of a love triangle. 491 01:12:51,541 --> 01:12:53,458 I really don't want to be at the point 492 01:12:53,458 --> 01:12:54,166 of this love triangle. 493 01:12:54,166 --> 01:12:55,000 At a prom, in a 494 01:12:55,000 --> 01:12:57,166 gymnasium, where you can't dance. 495 01:12:57,208 --> 01:12:58,208 At your grandfather's 496 01:12:58,208 --> 01:12:59,250 church, and you can't dance. 497 01:12:59,416 --> 01:13:01,416 At my grandfather's church, yes. 498 01:13:01,708 --> 01:13:04,291 That is a very strange. So awkward, yeah. 499 01:13:04,708 --> 01:13:05,500 There's a whole lot of awkwardness. 500 01:13:05,500 --> 01:13:07,166 There was somewhere I 501 01:13:07,166 --> 01:13:07,958 went that night too, 502 01:13:07,958 --> 01:13:09,083 and I don't remember where it was. 503 01:13:09,083 --> 01:13:10,208 I don't know if I went to play basketball 504 01:13:10,416 --> 01:13:11,333 somewhere else or something. 505 01:13:11,333 --> 01:13:13,416 I mean, like, that was heavy, you know, 506 01:13:13,416 --> 01:13:14,500 basketball era, Sean. 507 01:13:15,291 --> 01:13:15,500 Yeah. 508 01:13:16,583 --> 01:13:19,375 Anyways, yeah, that was all off of, 509 01:13:19,375 --> 01:13:19,791 so they couldn't 510 01:13:19,791 --> 01:13:20,958 drink, they couldn't dance. 511 01:13:21,375 --> 01:13:23,458 But I remember there were, as my 512 01:13:23,458 --> 01:13:24,291 grandparents got older, 513 01:13:24,291 --> 01:13:25,250 they went on cruises, 514 01:13:25,250 --> 01:13:25,875 and everybody was like, 515 01:13:25,875 --> 01:13:28,708 "Oh my gosh, your grandparents can dance. 516 01:13:28,833 --> 01:13:29,625 There's no tomorrow. 517 01:13:30,375 --> 01:13:32,083 They can do all the dancing. 518 01:13:32,708 --> 01:13:33,125 They go on these 519 01:13:33,125 --> 01:13:36,041 cruises, and Jesus is like, 520 01:13:36,041 --> 01:13:36,750 "You're on vacation. 521 01:13:37,291 --> 01:13:38,041 You know what everyone do. 522 01:13:38,041 --> 01:13:39,000 They're dancing away. 523 01:13:39,000 --> 01:13:39,333 They're like, "Oh, 524 01:13:39,333 --> 01:13:40,583 they're such great dancers." 525 01:13:41,250 --> 01:13:41,875 And they're drinking 526 01:13:41,875 --> 01:13:44,791 these little fruity drinks, 527 01:13:44,791 --> 01:13:45,666 whatever they may have been. 528 01:13:45,958 --> 01:13:46,458 Pina Colada. 529 01:13:46,750 --> 01:13:48,208 Pina Colada, but somehow 530 01:13:48,208 --> 01:13:50,500 they kind of excused it away. 531 01:13:50,750 --> 01:13:53,750 Like, "Oh, oh, there's nothing in that. 532 01:13:53,750 --> 01:13:54,708 There's no alcohol in that. 533 01:13:55,083 --> 01:13:56,708 Sure, sure, Grandma. 534 01:13:57,625 --> 01:13:58,166 Sure, Papa." 535 01:13:59,375 --> 01:14:00,166 Well, and according to 536 01:14:00,166 --> 01:14:01,583 Kevin Bacon in Footloose, 537 01:14:01,916 --> 01:14:03,583 the Bible does say, "And 538 01:14:03,583 --> 01:14:05,708 there is a time to dance." 539 01:14:07,125 --> 01:14:07,875 So, you know. 540 01:14:09,541 --> 01:14:10,250 Apparently those rules 541 01:14:10,250 --> 01:14:11,000 applied on the cruise. 542 01:14:11,208 --> 01:14:12,166 Yeah, so sorry, that 543 01:14:12,166 --> 01:14:13,333 was a big tangent there 544 01:14:14,250 --> 01:14:16,708 on our drinking, so we're drinking again. 545 01:14:17,333 --> 01:14:18,000 Not drinking, we're 546 01:14:18,000 --> 01:14:18,625 just having little sippers. 547 01:14:18,958 --> 01:14:20,375 We're just having a couple sips? 548 01:14:20,708 --> 01:14:22,041 Yeah, I don't mean to 549 01:14:22,041 --> 01:14:24,958 make a big plot out of it. 550 01:14:25,166 --> 01:14:25,375 Right. 551 01:14:26,625 --> 01:14:27,541 Hey, it's a weekend. 552 01:14:29,250 --> 01:14:31,583 Weekend after a week of soccer. 553 01:14:31,666 --> 01:14:31,958 Yes. 554 01:14:32,916 --> 01:14:34,500 That we took, I mean, 555 01:14:34,500 --> 01:14:36,000 this was a big tournament. 556 01:14:36,416 --> 01:14:36,625 Huge. 557 01:14:37,500 --> 01:14:38,791 And we talked about that last week, 558 01:14:38,791 --> 01:14:40,083 but because of that, they actually had 559 01:14:40,083 --> 01:14:41,333 games during school. 560 01:14:41,333 --> 01:14:42,416 So they got excused for school. 561 01:14:42,708 --> 01:14:44,958 So we had, we were in and out of school. 562 01:14:45,458 --> 01:14:48,166 Yeah, and then in and out of work, too. 563 01:14:49,250 --> 01:14:51,250 And I don't know how 564 01:14:51,250 --> 01:14:53,958 other parents did it, 565 01:14:54,041 --> 01:14:57,583 because, I mean, we had to take, now, 566 01:14:58,833 --> 01:14:59,500 my boss was like, "You 567 01:14:59,500 --> 01:15:01,000 don't have to take PTO 568 01:15:01,208 --> 01:15:02,916 "if you're just going to a soccer game." 569 01:15:02,916 --> 01:15:03,666 And it's like, "Well, no, no, no, 570 01:15:03,666 --> 01:15:05,125 "it's not just a soccer game, 571 01:15:05,125 --> 01:15:06,875 "'cause you have to be there early. 572 01:15:07,583 --> 01:15:09,166 "You have to drive 45 minutes. 573 01:15:09,166 --> 01:15:10,375 "You have to, you know, so like, really, 574 01:15:10,375 --> 01:15:11,833 "this is almost a four-hour thing." 575 01:15:13,000 --> 01:15:14,583 And I was like, so I just 576 01:15:14,583 --> 01:15:16,333 took some PTO in the afternoon, 577 01:15:16,333 --> 01:15:18,041 and it was just, part of it was because 578 01:15:18,041 --> 01:15:18,625 I didn't want to be 579 01:15:18,625 --> 01:15:19,833 bothered either by work. 580 01:15:20,208 --> 01:15:22,208 I was like, "No, if I'm on PTO, I do-- 581 01:15:22,250 --> 01:15:23,291 I'm going to ignore my phone. 582 01:15:23,291 --> 01:15:24,333 I'm going to ignore my phone, 583 01:15:24,625 --> 01:15:26,958 and I would encourage my team, everyone, 584 01:15:26,958 --> 01:15:28,041 to ignore their phone 585 01:15:28,041 --> 01:15:29,458 if they're truly on PTO. 586 01:15:30,083 --> 01:15:31,416 So, I did it for my 587 01:15:31,416 --> 01:15:32,375 own peace of mind, but. 588 01:15:32,791 --> 01:15:33,083 Yeah. 589 01:15:33,208 --> 01:15:34,291 I don't know how, I 590 01:15:34,291 --> 01:15:35,500 mean, there were just so many 591 01:15:36,708 --> 01:15:38,083 barbecues, and they were 592 01:15:38,083 --> 01:15:39,541 taking a team to Six Flags, 593 01:15:39,833 --> 01:15:40,791 and it was just like, 594 01:15:42,000 --> 01:15:43,083 oh, a whole big thing. 595 01:15:43,125 --> 01:15:43,750 Yeah, one of our 596 01:15:43,750 --> 01:15:45,083 teams was over and beyond, 597 01:15:45,083 --> 01:15:46,000 because they were hosting. 598 01:15:46,833 --> 01:15:47,833 There was a handful of 599 01:15:47,833 --> 01:15:49,416 families hosted by 10 kids, 600 01:15:50,250 --> 01:15:52,041 maybe 12 kids total, but 601 01:15:52,041 --> 01:15:53,166 they each had like two. 602 01:15:54,125 --> 01:15:57,125 And it was a whole process of like, 603 01:15:57,208 --> 01:15:58,458 you're taking care of 604 01:15:58,458 --> 01:15:59,750 them, sun up to sundown. 605 01:15:59,791 --> 01:16:00,041 Yeah. 606 01:16:00,666 --> 01:16:01,500 And after sundown. 607 01:16:01,708 --> 01:16:02,125 Actually, yeah, because 608 01:16:02,125 --> 01:16:02,958 they stay in your house. 609 01:16:03,000 --> 01:16:03,833 24 hours, I mean, yeah. 610 01:16:05,166 --> 01:16:07,125 Yeah, yeah. So, they were doing Six Flags some days. 611 01:16:07,375 --> 01:16:08,166 They're taking them to, 612 01:16:08,166 --> 01:16:10,000 again, Walmart came up again, 613 01:16:10,000 --> 01:16:11,416 and it's like, wow, it's incredible. 614 01:16:12,208 --> 01:16:12,666 Yeah, I was talking 615 01:16:12,666 --> 01:16:13,500 to somebody on Friday, 616 01:16:13,791 --> 01:16:15,250 we scrimmaged the team on Friday, 617 01:16:16,083 --> 01:16:17,833 and one of the host 618 01:16:17,833 --> 01:16:18,875 parents, they're like, 619 01:16:18,875 --> 01:16:19,500 "Well, what do you want?" 620 01:16:19,625 --> 01:16:20,958 They went to Walmart 621 01:16:20,958 --> 01:16:22,250 again, and the kids were like, 622 01:16:22,291 --> 01:16:23,541 "There's so much variety." 623 01:16:24,166 --> 01:16:26,166 Like, there's a wall of deodorant, 624 01:16:26,166 --> 01:16:27,416 they're just blowing their mind. 625 01:16:28,833 --> 01:16:30,000 It's like, yes, you get to pick 626 01:16:30,000 --> 01:16:31,416 what you get to smell like here. 627 01:16:31,916 --> 01:16:33,291 Yeah, yeah, interesting. 628 01:16:33,625 --> 01:16:34,291 Do you want coconuts? 629 01:16:34,291 --> 01:16:35,208 Do you want lavender? 630 01:16:35,458 --> 01:16:36,958 Do you want shea butter? 631 01:16:36,958 --> 01:16:38,708 I don't know, but you get the option. 632 01:16:39,041 --> 01:16:40,750 Yeah, and then, yeah, I 633 01:16:40,750 --> 01:16:41,666 was trying to think of like, 634 01:16:41,666 --> 01:16:42,458 all the funny, like, 635 01:16:42,791 --> 01:16:44,458 you know, brute ones that, 636 01:16:45,416 --> 01:16:46,666 you know, acts, you know, 637 01:16:46,666 --> 01:16:48,125 they have all the funny manly sounds. 638 01:16:48,541 --> 01:16:49,166 Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. 639 01:16:50,291 --> 01:16:50,375 Yeah. 640 01:16:51,125 --> 01:16:52,083 I've used the same deodorant 641 01:16:52,083 --> 01:16:54,208 since I was in ninth grade. 642 01:16:54,208 --> 01:16:54,541 Me too. 643 01:16:54,833 --> 01:16:55,083 Really? 644 01:16:55,333 --> 01:16:55,666 Mm-hmm. 645 01:16:55,958 --> 01:16:56,416 That's crazy. 646 01:16:56,416 --> 01:16:57,500 I mean, can you imagine what would happen 647 01:16:57,500 --> 01:16:59,541 if they stopped making that deodorant? 648 01:17:00,208 --> 01:17:01,416 I would smell myself 649 01:17:01,416 --> 01:17:02,750 until I got used to the smell. 650 01:17:03,250 --> 01:17:05,083 Like, if I had to change deodorants. 651 01:17:05,583 --> 01:17:07,458 Smell yourself until you got, what? 652 01:17:08,541 --> 01:17:09,125 Say that again. 653 01:17:09,166 --> 01:17:10,500 Yeah, that one was weird, but I would-- 654 01:17:11,458 --> 01:17:12,666 I just didn't understand it. 655 01:17:12,916 --> 01:17:13,458 And now that I'm 656 01:17:13,458 --> 01:17:14,666 replaying it, it was weird. 657 01:17:14,916 --> 01:17:16,416 It was really weird. 658 01:17:17,291 --> 01:17:19,000 It was almost as bad as 659 01:17:19,000 --> 01:17:20,666 the earlier strange phrase 660 01:17:20,791 --> 01:17:22,625 that we had, but no, so if 661 01:17:22,625 --> 01:17:23,708 I were to change deodorants, 662 01:17:23,708 --> 01:17:24,416 I'd be able to smell 663 01:17:24,416 --> 01:17:26,000 my own deodorant on me. 664 01:17:27,166 --> 01:17:27,833 Oh, yeah, yeah. 665 01:17:28,041 --> 01:17:29,541 You'd be smelling the new scent. 666 01:17:29,791 --> 01:17:30,250 I'd be smelling the 667 01:17:30,250 --> 01:17:31,083 new scent, yeah, not-- 668 01:17:31,125 --> 01:17:31,500 Because you don't 669 01:17:31,500 --> 01:17:32,375 smell your deodorant now 670 01:17:32,375 --> 01:17:33,041 because you're so used to it. 671 01:17:33,041 --> 01:17:33,750 I'm so used to it. 672 01:17:33,791 --> 01:17:34,000 Yeah. 673 01:17:34,208 --> 01:17:36,250 Yeah, and that happens with anything. 674 01:17:36,500 --> 01:17:38,750 Shampoo, just that wicked 675 01:17:38,750 --> 01:17:40,583 nose that smells anything. 676 01:17:41,166 --> 01:17:44,750 But shampoo, soap, deodorant, toothpaste, 677 01:17:44,958 --> 01:17:46,375 anything like that, if I change it, 678 01:17:46,375 --> 01:17:49,166 I can smell it on me for weeks. 679 01:17:49,500 --> 01:17:50,833 You had a good story this week of a 680 01:17:50,833 --> 01:17:51,750 person that was like, 681 01:17:52,750 --> 01:17:53,750 I think her husband was like, 682 01:17:53,750 --> 01:17:55,375 "Oh, she smells everything too." 683 01:17:56,000 --> 01:17:57,166 And again, we're not 684 01:17:57,166 --> 01:17:58,375 trying to be one uppers here, 685 01:17:58,375 --> 01:17:58,916 not at all. 686 01:17:59,416 --> 01:18:03,083 This is, Megan smells everything. 687 01:18:03,791 --> 01:18:04,541 Everything. Everything. 688 01:18:04,875 --> 01:18:05,958 It is a curse. 689 01:18:06,500 --> 01:18:09,208 So you may think you have a strong, 690 01:18:09,208 --> 01:18:09,708 and we're not trying to 691 01:18:09,708 --> 01:18:10,875 be the best at everything. 692 01:18:10,875 --> 01:18:11,333 That's not it. 693 01:18:11,583 --> 01:18:12,500 It's actually the worst. 694 01:18:12,500 --> 01:18:14,916 I challenge somebody, if 695 01:18:14,916 --> 01:18:16,250 they think their spouse 696 01:18:16,250 --> 01:18:18,375 or they themselves has a strong nose, 697 01:18:18,958 --> 01:18:20,458 to challenge you on it. 698 01:18:20,458 --> 01:18:21,666 Because someone said their 699 01:18:21,666 --> 01:18:22,750 spouse had a strong nose, 700 01:18:23,041 --> 01:18:23,833 and then this week, 701 01:18:23,833 --> 01:18:25,083 you had this encounter. 702 01:18:25,291 --> 01:18:25,958 I had this encounter. 703 01:18:26,291 --> 01:18:29,000 She was sitting about the 704 01:18:29,000 --> 01:18:30,083 distance that we're sitting, 705 01:18:30,083 --> 01:18:32,541 and she had put sunscreen on. 706 01:18:32,541 --> 01:18:34,000 It wasn't a spray, it was just a-- 707 01:18:34,000 --> 01:18:34,875 For those of listening, 708 01:18:34,875 --> 01:18:35,791 we're about three feet apart. 709 01:18:35,791 --> 01:18:37,041 Yeah, about, yeah, there you go. 710 01:18:38,375 --> 01:18:39,916 It was just like a cream sunscreen, 711 01:18:40,250 --> 01:18:42,541 and she sat down three feet away from me, 712 01:18:42,541 --> 01:18:43,916 and I was like, "Oh, that's Neutrogena 713 01:18:43,916 --> 01:18:44,833 sunscreen, isn't it?" 714 01:18:44,833 --> 01:18:46,625 She's like, "How did you know?" 715 01:18:46,833 --> 01:18:47,583 I was like, "It smells 716 01:18:47,583 --> 01:18:48,541 like Neutrogena sunscreen." 717 01:18:49,791 --> 01:18:50,666 I could not get the 718 01:18:50,666 --> 01:18:52,041 smell of Neutrogena sunscreen 719 01:18:52,041 --> 01:18:53,041 out of my nose. 720 01:18:53,041 --> 01:18:54,416 I came home, and what did I smell? 721 01:18:55,000 --> 01:18:57,416 I was like, I needed to smell something, 722 01:18:57,416 --> 01:18:58,583 almost like coffee or something, 723 01:18:58,583 --> 01:19:00,000 to clear the scent out of my 724 01:19:00,000 --> 01:19:01,791 nose almost three hours later. 725 01:19:02,208 --> 01:19:03,041 She wasn't spraying it 726 01:19:03,041 --> 01:19:04,250 on herself right there. 727 01:19:04,250 --> 01:19:05,333 She couldn't read the bottle. 728 01:19:05,333 --> 01:19:06,416 No, no, no, no, no. 729 01:19:06,541 --> 01:19:08,666 She actually went away in 730 01:19:08,666 --> 01:19:09,875 order to apply the sunscreen. 731 01:19:09,916 --> 01:19:10,875 So she came back, and you 732 01:19:10,875 --> 01:19:11,500 could just smell it on her. 733 01:19:11,500 --> 01:19:12,458 I could just smell it on her, 734 01:19:12,458 --> 01:19:14,333 and I smelled it on her the whole game. 735 01:19:15,000 --> 01:19:16,000 Well, that changed it a little bit, 736 01:19:16,000 --> 01:19:18,500 because, yeah, that's a strong one, 737 01:19:18,500 --> 01:19:21,083 but what's the one I use for our spray? 738 01:19:21,083 --> 01:19:22,375 Oh, the Hawaiian Tropic. 739 01:19:22,416 --> 01:19:23,333 I mean, if it was Hawaiian Tropic, 740 01:19:23,333 --> 01:19:24,000 everybody would know what that was. 741 01:19:24,000 --> 01:19:24,875 Everybody would know that, 742 01:19:24,875 --> 01:19:25,625 and I would know like coffee too. 743 01:19:25,625 --> 01:19:26,375 Because Neutrogena is 744 01:19:26,375 --> 01:19:27,208 a little bit out there, 745 01:19:27,458 --> 01:19:30,708 but those have a strong smell to them. 746 01:19:31,583 --> 01:19:31,833 Yeah. 747 01:19:32,208 --> 01:19:32,500 Yeah. 748 01:19:32,750 --> 01:19:32,958 Yeah. 749 01:19:33,291 --> 01:19:34,583 So I guess my point 750 01:19:34,583 --> 01:19:35,500 was that wasn't the best, 751 01:19:36,500 --> 01:19:37,458 now that I hear the story again, 752 01:19:37,458 --> 01:19:39,000 it wasn't the best example of it. 753 01:19:39,000 --> 01:19:39,666 Oh, aw, sorry. 754 01:19:39,666 --> 01:19:40,500 But she was like, "I can't 755 01:19:40,500 --> 01:19:41,875 believe you can smell that." 756 01:19:41,875 --> 01:19:42,541 Smell that, yeah. 757 01:19:43,083 --> 01:19:44,000 And you were like, "Oh, 758 01:19:44,000 --> 01:19:44,666 yeah, I smell everything." 759 01:19:44,916 --> 01:19:45,416 I smell everything. 760 01:19:45,875 --> 01:19:46,416 And you were like, "Oh, I don't know what you guys "have for lunch." 761 01:19:46,500 --> 01:19:47,500 Yeah, it's true. 762 01:19:48,125 --> 01:19:48,875 It's never a good thing. 763 01:19:49,291 --> 01:19:49,875 And you can tell what 764 01:19:49,875 --> 01:19:50,583 someone had for lunch. 765 01:19:51,125 --> 01:19:53,125 And it's eight hours after lunch. 766 01:19:53,666 --> 01:19:54,416 Totally imagine, like 767 01:19:54,416 --> 01:19:55,458 that smell is creeping up 768 01:19:55,458 --> 01:19:56,291 through your esophagus 769 01:19:56,291 --> 01:19:58,208 from your digestive system 770 01:19:58,208 --> 01:19:58,958 in your stomach, and 771 01:19:58,958 --> 01:19:59,541 that's what you're smelling. 772 01:19:59,916 --> 01:20:00,375 I don't know. 773 01:20:00,875 --> 01:20:02,708 Part of it is like certain things, 774 01:20:03,083 --> 01:20:03,875 garlic or whatever, it 775 01:20:03,875 --> 01:20:04,666 does come through your pores. 776 01:20:04,916 --> 01:20:05,791 It's like a Cybertruck, it 777 01:20:05,791 --> 01:20:06,958 makes me wanna go, "Hoo!" 778 01:20:07,041 --> 01:20:07,500 I know. 779 01:20:10,000 --> 01:20:11,041 Yes, that is now a thing. 780 01:20:11,250 --> 01:20:12,416 That is now one of our things. 781 01:20:12,666 --> 01:20:14,333 We see a Cybertruck and 782 01:20:14,333 --> 01:20:15,458 we all pretend to throw up. 783 01:20:16,375 --> 01:20:18,250 Ugliest car ever. 784 01:20:19,125 --> 01:20:19,583 We may have already 785 01:20:19,583 --> 01:20:20,666 talked about it, but we do. 786 01:20:20,666 --> 01:20:21,041 I don't know if we did. 787 01:20:21,375 --> 01:20:24,125 Every time I see one now, I try to be as, 788 01:20:25,708 --> 01:20:26,208 what is it, not 789 01:20:26,208 --> 01:20:27,333 bombastically, what is it? 790 01:20:27,625 --> 01:20:29,500 Theatrically, like, pretend to throw up. 791 01:20:29,958 --> 01:20:31,291 Well, I'm trying to make eye 792 01:20:31,291 --> 01:20:32,625 contact with the driver of it 793 01:20:32,625 --> 01:20:33,666 so they can see me, like, 794 01:20:33,958 --> 01:20:34,958 your car is literally 795 01:20:34,958 --> 01:20:36,000 making me wanna throw up. 796 01:20:36,291 --> 01:20:38,166 And I don't do stuff like that, ever. 797 01:20:38,916 --> 01:20:40,375 But that truck is so bad. 798 01:20:40,625 --> 01:20:42,375 And now it's, if you listen to people 799 01:20:42,375 --> 01:20:43,708 that talk about that truck, it's like, 800 01:20:45,000 --> 01:20:45,416 they're like, "Thank 801 01:20:45,416 --> 01:20:46,166 you for buying that truck, 802 01:20:46,166 --> 01:20:46,625 "because now I know 803 01:20:46,625 --> 01:20:47,500 where all the jerks are." 804 01:20:49,333 --> 01:20:49,375 (laughing) 805 01:20:49,375 --> 01:20:50,000 Now I know where all 806 01:20:50,000 --> 01:20:51,166 certain kind of people are. 807 01:20:51,333 --> 01:20:51,750 I know. 808 01:20:51,791 --> 01:20:52,291 They're in the Cybertruck, 809 01:20:52,291 --> 01:20:53,541 so it's like raising a flag. 810 01:20:53,541 --> 01:20:54,416 Yeah, yeah. 811 01:20:55,500 --> 01:20:56,666 Whether that's true or not, I don't know, 812 01:20:56,666 --> 01:20:58,833 but it is the ugliest vehicle. 813 01:20:59,083 --> 01:20:59,291 The ugliest car. 814 01:20:59,750 --> 01:21:01,541 It's worse than, 815 01:21:01,958 --> 01:21:02,750 because we had a top, 816 01:21:02,750 --> 01:21:04,250 like, two or three, for sure. 817 01:21:04,291 --> 01:21:04,583 Oh, yeah. 818 01:21:04,916 --> 01:21:05,333 PT Cruiser. 819 01:21:05,541 --> 01:21:06,583 PT Cruiser, mm-hmm. 820 01:21:06,833 --> 01:21:07,750 What was the car that 821 01:21:07,750 --> 01:21:09,041 was in Breaking Bad? 822 01:21:09,583 --> 01:21:11,000 He had, like, one of the second ones. 823 01:21:11,000 --> 01:21:11,833 It's like an Azteca 824 01:21:11,833 --> 01:21:13,125 or something like that. 825 01:21:13,250 --> 01:21:14,833 Oh, I don't remember 826 01:21:14,833 --> 01:21:16,416 what the car name was, 827 01:21:16,416 --> 01:21:17,250 but yeah, it was pretty bad. 828 01:21:17,250 --> 01:21:17,750 You remember the car 829 01:21:17,750 --> 01:21:19,083 in Breaking Bad, though? 830 01:21:19,083 --> 01:21:19,958 Yeah, that was probably 831 01:21:19,958 --> 01:21:21,291 one of the worst cars. 832 01:21:22,250 --> 01:21:22,916 Is there another one on 833 01:21:22,916 --> 01:21:24,333 that list that's just so bad? 834 01:21:24,625 --> 01:21:26,250 There's a Sky on it, isn't there? 835 01:21:26,250 --> 01:21:27,375 What's the one that's like a box? 836 01:21:28,875 --> 01:21:31,041 Oh, Cube, it's like a cube. 837 01:21:31,750 --> 01:21:32,625 Yeah, it looks like a cube. 838 01:21:32,625 --> 01:21:33,333 I don't know the name of 839 01:21:33,333 --> 01:21:34,250 it, but that's pretty bad. 840 01:21:34,750 --> 01:21:35,791 Yeah, but I drive that any 841 01:21:35,791 --> 01:21:37,041 day before I drive a Tesla, 842 01:21:37,333 --> 01:21:41,500 or the Tesla Cybertruck, or a PT Cruiser, 843 01:21:42,000 --> 01:21:42,750 because there's two versions. 844 01:21:43,041 --> 01:21:44,541 There's like the Chrysler PT Cruiser, 845 01:21:44,791 --> 01:21:45,916 and then there's like a Wannabe. 846 01:21:46,750 --> 01:21:50,166 Yeah, we remember when we rented a car, 847 01:21:50,166 --> 01:21:51,083 and all they had left 848 01:21:51,083 --> 01:21:52,000 was that what we called 849 01:21:52,000 --> 01:21:53,333 the PT Wannabe, it wasn't 850 01:21:53,333 --> 01:21:54,458 truly like the brand name 851 01:21:54,541 --> 01:21:55,875 PT Cruiser, it just 852 01:21:55,875 --> 01:21:57,083 looked like a PT Cruiser. 853 01:21:57,083 --> 01:21:57,333 Yeah. 854 01:21:58,666 --> 01:22:00,541 And we were leaving, I think, a church, 855 01:22:01,375 --> 01:22:02,041 and there were some people 856 01:22:02,041 --> 01:22:03,250 near us, we didn't know them, 857 01:22:03,916 --> 01:22:05,708 and we're like, let's just keep walking. 858 01:22:05,916 --> 01:22:06,708 We don't want people to 859 01:22:06,708 --> 01:22:08,166 know that this one's our car. 860 01:22:08,166 --> 01:22:09,083 Did we get the car? 861 01:22:09,541 --> 01:22:10,541 We ended up taking it? 862 01:22:10,958 --> 01:22:11,916 Yeah, yeah, we had to. 863 01:22:11,916 --> 01:22:12,541 There wasn't anything 864 01:22:12,541 --> 01:22:13,541 else, like we couldn't rent 865 01:22:13,541 --> 01:22:14,875 any other car, that was 866 01:22:14,875 --> 01:22:15,708 the only car they had left 867 01:22:15,708 --> 01:22:17,083 on the rent a lot. 868 01:22:17,166 --> 01:22:18,708 Yeah, I vaguely remember that. 869 01:22:19,000 --> 01:22:20,625 Yeah, we were leaving a 870 01:22:20,625 --> 01:22:21,875 Christmas church service, 871 01:22:21,875 --> 01:22:22,916 and we're like, just keep walking. 872 01:22:22,958 --> 01:22:24,000 We walked by the car so 873 01:22:24,000 --> 01:22:25,291 people didn't see us get in it. 874 01:22:25,291 --> 01:22:26,708 Yes, yes. 875 01:22:27,416 --> 01:22:29,916 Yeah, maybe we are a little vain. 876 01:22:30,875 --> 01:22:31,458 We are pretty vain. 877 01:22:32,500 --> 01:22:35,000 We do think that song's about us. 878 01:22:35,375 --> 01:22:35,958 Yeah, yeah. 879 01:22:38,625 --> 01:22:39,958 Yes, the song is about us. 880 01:22:41,208 --> 01:22:41,416 Yep. 881 01:22:42,458 --> 01:22:44,458 Well, we took a little time. 882 01:22:44,458 --> 01:22:45,333 So the kids played great, 883 01:22:45,333 --> 01:22:46,666 just to sum up the whole thing. 884 01:22:46,958 --> 01:22:47,750 Kids played great, nobody 885 01:22:47,750 --> 01:22:48,875 got out of the first round, 886 01:22:48,875 --> 01:22:49,375 unfortunately. 887 01:22:50,083 --> 01:22:52,000 In fact, the team that our oldest played, 888 01:22:52,583 --> 01:22:53,708 they made it to the finals. 889 01:22:54,750 --> 01:22:56,291 And our oldest son, and 890 01:22:56,291 --> 01:22:57,875 this is nothing against him, 891 01:22:57,875 --> 01:22:59,916 it just happens, soccer is hard to score. 892 01:22:59,916 --> 01:23:00,791 When you get those opportunities, 893 01:23:01,125 --> 01:23:02,000 you gotta try to make them, 894 01:23:02,000 --> 01:23:02,791 if you can't, that's okay. 895 01:23:03,666 --> 01:23:05,083 Professionals miss those same ones, 896 01:23:05,083 --> 01:23:05,958 but he had two, 897 01:23:08,291 --> 01:23:10,208 that he wishes he had back. 898 01:23:10,250 --> 01:23:11,833 And we would have beat the team. 899 01:23:12,333 --> 01:23:13,166 We tied them. 900 01:23:13,208 --> 01:23:14,041 We ended up tying, yeah. 901 01:23:14,083 --> 01:23:14,958 But they ended up winning 902 01:23:14,958 --> 01:23:18,333 our bracket based on points. 903 01:23:18,333 --> 01:23:19,041 our bracket based on points. 904 01:23:20,000 --> 01:23:21,583 And they made it to the finals. 905 01:23:22,125 --> 01:23:23,583 We were on TV, watched them last night. 906 01:23:23,583 --> 01:23:24,291 They ended up losing, 907 01:23:24,666 --> 01:23:25,500 we got second place. 908 01:23:25,500 --> 01:23:26,375 But I mean, pretty cool to 909 01:23:26,375 --> 01:23:28,833 get second place in this, 910 01:23:29,000 --> 01:23:32,333 which is a fairly prestigious tournament. 911 01:23:32,833 --> 01:23:35,375 So, and then, you know, my youngest sons, 912 01:23:35,875 --> 01:23:37,000 they lost them points too. 913 01:23:37,958 --> 01:23:41,125 Anyways, so to celebrate, 914 01:23:41,125 --> 01:23:42,000 we were done with that week 915 01:23:42,000 --> 01:23:43,375 and just the three weeks that we've had, 916 01:23:43,375 --> 01:23:44,375 which has been tough. 917 01:23:44,458 --> 01:23:45,125 Everybody's heard, 918 01:23:45,375 --> 01:23:46,208 we've just had so many, 919 01:23:46,750 --> 01:23:49,291 domino after domino, we decided to have 920 01:23:49,291 --> 01:23:50,333 a date night last night. 921 01:23:50,375 --> 01:23:51,333 Yes, yes. 922 01:23:51,833 --> 01:23:53,833 And it was a fabulous date night. 923 01:23:55,416 --> 01:23:56,875 You know, we had to do some Easter prep, 924 01:23:56,875 --> 01:23:58,166 but then we're like, kind of 925 01:23:58,166 --> 01:24:00,208 our thing is just a really, 926 01:24:00,500 --> 01:24:01,416 a nice dinner. 927 01:24:02,208 --> 01:24:06,166 Usually steakhouse and just sit there, 928 01:24:07,208 --> 01:24:10,041 chat, but we were-- 929 01:24:10,500 --> 01:24:11,333 Well, our date nights 930 01:24:11,333 --> 01:24:12,833 always come when like, 931 01:24:13,166 --> 01:24:14,833 we don't make it out shopping very often. 932 01:24:16,166 --> 01:24:18,041 Usually we'll Amazon 933 01:24:18,041 --> 01:24:19,666 something to the house, 934 01:24:19,916 --> 01:24:20,750 Prime it, whatever it is. 935 01:24:21,166 --> 01:24:21,791 We'll do that. 936 01:24:23,875 --> 01:24:25,041 But we don't ever make 937 01:24:25,041 --> 01:24:26,083 it out to like a Target 938 01:24:26,416 --> 01:24:27,625 or to an actual shopping area. 939 01:24:28,000 --> 01:24:29,416 So generally speaking, 940 01:24:29,416 --> 01:24:30,500 we'll have two or three 941 01:24:30,500 --> 01:24:33,166 or four or five months saved up of like, 942 01:24:33,166 --> 01:24:33,875 gosh, we have to 943 01:24:33,875 --> 01:24:35,750 actually physically go somewhere 944 01:24:36,291 --> 01:24:36,875 and get something. 945 01:24:36,916 --> 01:24:37,083 Yes. 946 01:24:37,458 --> 01:24:38,250 Right, and last night was 947 01:24:38,250 --> 01:24:38,791 kind of one of those nights 948 01:24:38,791 --> 01:24:39,666 we had to hit Target up 949 01:24:39,666 --> 01:24:40,166 and then we had to hit 950 01:24:40,166 --> 01:24:41,458 another store up. 951 01:24:42,458 --> 01:24:43,291 But generally we'll do 952 01:24:43,291 --> 01:24:44,458 that every date night. 953 01:24:44,583 --> 01:24:45,625 We'll shop for the first 954 01:24:45,625 --> 01:24:46,541 like two or three hours. 955 01:24:46,541 --> 01:24:46,750 Yeah. 956 01:24:47,625 --> 01:24:49,208 And then we'll hit up, 957 01:24:49,583 --> 01:24:50,958 well, Mikosina is usually 958 01:24:50,958 --> 01:24:51,583 where we go, we'll 959 01:24:51,583 --> 01:24:52,666 get like some guacamole. 960 01:24:52,708 --> 01:24:53,375 You always get like a 961 01:24:53,375 --> 01:24:54,458 little appetizer, yeah. 962 01:24:54,541 --> 01:24:57,291 Mikosina have a, you know, 963 01:24:57,333 --> 01:24:57,875 Chips and dip. 964 01:24:57,875 --> 01:25:00,041 Chips and, exactly, chips and dip and-- 965 01:25:00,041 --> 01:25:00,541 Nice drinks. 966 01:25:01,000 --> 01:25:02,458 Yeah, cause then we'll go shopping. 967 01:25:02,500 --> 01:25:04,166 Sitting on the patio, it's the best. 968 01:25:04,458 --> 01:25:05,666 It's just a, it's 969 01:25:05,666 --> 01:25:07,375 relaxed for just a moment. 970 01:25:07,416 --> 01:25:08,125 Yep, yep. 971 01:25:08,291 --> 01:25:09,291 Down in South Lake Town Square, 972 01:25:09,500 --> 01:25:10,000 cause it's just, you 973 01:25:10,000 --> 01:25:10,875 know, people watching 974 01:25:11,208 --> 01:25:12,166 and it's usually nice weather. 975 01:25:12,541 --> 01:25:14,416 Yeah, like even on the 976 01:25:14,416 --> 01:25:15,708 patios, because, you know, 977 01:25:15,708 --> 01:25:16,583 in Texas, like they do 978 01:25:16,583 --> 01:25:17,708 try to cool the patios 979 01:25:17,708 --> 01:25:18,333 in the middle of the 980 01:25:18,333 --> 01:25:19,458 summer and they heat the patios 981 01:25:19,458 --> 01:25:20,500 in the middle of the winter. 982 01:25:20,500 --> 01:25:22,500 So it's usually just a 983 01:25:22,500 --> 01:25:23,791 really, really nice experience. 984 01:25:23,791 --> 01:25:24,625 And then it's like, that's 985 01:25:24,625 --> 01:25:25,666 kind of the decompression part 986 01:25:25,666 --> 01:25:26,791 and then we go shopping a little bit 987 01:25:26,791 --> 01:25:28,333 and then we usually finish 988 01:25:28,333 --> 01:25:29,750 off with a really nice meal. 989 01:25:30,250 --> 01:25:30,458 Yeah. 990 01:25:30,708 --> 01:25:32,000 Like at a, usually steakhouse. 991 01:25:32,583 --> 01:25:32,875 Yeah. 992 01:25:33,500 --> 01:25:34,750 We tried the new steakhouse last night 993 01:25:34,750 --> 01:25:35,500 that we just built. 994 01:25:35,833 --> 01:25:37,208 We've been to it before, but. 995 01:25:37,250 --> 01:25:37,458 Yeah. 996 01:25:38,375 --> 01:25:38,875 Capital Grill. 997 01:25:39,125 --> 01:25:39,333 Yeah. 998 01:25:39,666 --> 01:25:40,958 It's a national chain 999 01:25:40,958 --> 01:25:42,083 that's, last time we were, 1000 01:25:42,083 --> 01:25:43,333 I think Denver, maybe was 1001 01:25:43,333 --> 01:25:44,125 the last time we ate there? 1002 01:25:44,958 --> 01:25:46,375 I had never been to one. 1003 01:25:46,375 --> 01:25:47,250 I know you had. 1004 01:25:47,291 --> 01:25:48,375 Oh, you've never been to one? 1005 01:25:48,833 --> 01:25:51,000 So I had been to one, 1006 01:25:51,000 --> 01:25:52,625 but I didn't eat there. 1007 01:25:53,541 --> 01:25:53,791 When-- 1008 01:25:54,208 --> 01:25:55,625 I went to that restaurant, I didn't eat. 1009 01:25:55,916 --> 01:25:58,958 So, you know, I was early 20s. 1010 01:25:59,500 --> 01:26:01,166 I always went out, on Friday afternoons, 1011 01:26:01,166 --> 01:26:02,333 I went out for lunch with my friend 1012 01:26:02,708 --> 01:26:04,166 when I was working downtown Minneapolis. 1013 01:26:05,166 --> 01:26:06,916 Every Friday, we had lunch together. 1014 01:26:07,541 --> 01:26:08,583 And we're like, "Hey, 1015 01:26:08,583 --> 01:26:09,750 let's try the Capital Grill." 1016 01:26:09,750 --> 01:26:10,416 There's Capital Grill 1017 01:26:10,416 --> 01:26:11,166 downtown Minneapolis. 1018 01:26:11,541 --> 01:26:14,333 And we walked in and we saw the menu 1019 01:26:14,500 --> 01:26:17,000 and no joke at the time, it was like, 1020 01:26:17,291 --> 01:26:19,583 duck eggs were one of the appetizers. 1021 01:26:21,125 --> 01:26:23,666 And, you know, as a 22, 23 year old, 1022 01:26:23,666 --> 01:26:24,416 we're both like, "I 1023 01:26:24,416 --> 01:26:25,458 don't know that I would want, 1024 01:26:25,458 --> 01:26:27,541 I don't even know what that is 1025 01:26:27,541 --> 01:26:28,666 or what you do to eat with it." 1026 01:26:28,875 --> 01:26:30,250 But anyway, and then we saw the pricing. 1027 01:26:31,458 --> 01:26:32,041 And it was a little 1028 01:26:32,041 --> 01:26:34,208 rich for a 22, 23 year old. 1029 01:26:34,500 --> 01:26:34,708 Yeah. 1030 01:26:35,083 --> 01:26:38,208 So, anyway, I walked in, walked out. 1031 01:26:38,458 --> 01:26:39,291 That was the only time I had 1032 01:26:39,291 --> 01:26:40,875 ever been to a Capital Grill. 1033 01:26:42,416 --> 01:26:44,000 So you guys literally went 1034 01:26:44,000 --> 01:26:46,083 into it and then walked out? 1035 01:26:46,083 --> 01:26:46,958 Yeah, we actually had 1036 01:26:46,958 --> 01:26:48,000 been seated in everything. 1037 01:26:48,041 --> 01:26:48,916 You had been seated? 1038 01:26:49,250 --> 01:26:49,541 Uh-huh. 1039 01:26:50,500 --> 01:26:52,083 That's a whole, that is 1040 01:26:52,083 --> 01:26:53,375 a whole different level 1041 01:26:53,500 --> 01:26:55,541 of giving up on this. 1042 01:26:55,583 --> 01:26:56,375 I was like, well-- 1043 01:26:56,375 --> 01:26:56,833 White flag. 1044 01:26:57,458 --> 01:26:58,291 First of all, I don't 1045 01:26:58,291 --> 01:26:59,541 know that I liked anything 1046 01:26:59,750 --> 01:27:01,333 on the menu for like a 1047 01:27:01,333 --> 01:27:02,541 Friday afternoon lunches. 1048 01:27:02,541 --> 01:27:02,750 Duck eggs. 1049 01:27:02,791 --> 01:27:03,625 For duck eggs. 1050 01:27:03,625 --> 01:27:06,000 And I was like, it's kind of expensive. 1051 01:27:06,583 --> 01:27:08,750 Like, I didn't really want 1052 01:27:08,750 --> 01:27:10,708 to spend $100 on a lunch. 1053 01:27:11,541 --> 01:27:12,166 They didn't have duck 1054 01:27:12,166 --> 01:27:13,041 eggs last night though. 1055 01:27:13,083 --> 01:27:14,083 They did not have duck eggs. 1056 01:27:14,125 --> 01:27:15,083 It's no longer on the menu. 1057 01:27:15,250 --> 01:27:16,666 It was not, I did look. 1058 01:27:17,791 --> 01:27:18,375 That's hilarious. 1059 01:27:19,125 --> 01:27:20,041 I know, isn't that weird? 1060 01:27:20,541 --> 01:27:22,750 Anyway, so we went last night. 1061 01:27:22,791 --> 01:27:23,541 They just built this one. 1062 01:27:23,541 --> 01:27:23,833 This is brand new, 1063 01:27:23,833 --> 01:27:25,333 Something did happen that is, 1064 01:27:25,333 --> 01:27:25,916 We have two kind of go-to steakhouses. 1065 01:27:25,916 --> 01:27:27,125 the reason we're bringing this up. 1066 01:27:27,375 --> 01:27:28,625 This one is brand new built. 1067 01:27:28,666 --> 01:27:30,541 It was just, well, I'll let you do it. 1068 01:27:30,791 --> 01:27:32,125 You can tell them what you saw first 1069 01:27:32,125 --> 01:27:33,416 because you were watching me. 1070 01:27:33,416 --> 01:27:33,791 And I don't know, it was fine. 1071 01:27:33,791 --> 01:27:36,291 Okay, yeah, so I'm watching your face 1072 01:27:36,291 --> 01:27:36,333 I've done a lot of business dinners at 1073 01:27:36,333 --> 01:27:37,125 these kind of things. 1074 01:27:37,125 --> 01:27:40,333 and you make the craziest face. 1075 01:27:40,333 --> 01:27:41,791 And I was like, what in 1076 01:27:41,791 --> 01:27:42,833 the world is going on? 1077 01:27:42,833 --> 01:27:43,791 I'm facing a wall and 1078 01:27:43,791 --> 01:27:44,791 you're facing kind of out. 1079 01:27:44,875 --> 01:27:46,458 I think there's an eyebrow followed by, 1080 01:27:46,708 --> 01:27:49,000 one eyebrow going up by big eyes. 1081 01:27:50,000 --> 01:27:51,833 Yeah. Like, whoa, whoa. 1082 01:27:52,875 --> 01:27:54,083 That was what I heard. 1083 01:27:54,083 --> 01:27:54,333 Yeah. 1084 01:27:54,333 --> 01:27:55,541 I'm like, what? 1085 01:27:55,791 --> 01:27:56,791 What's going on? 1086 01:27:58,083 --> 01:27:59,000 And I hear this 1087 01:27:59,000 --> 01:28:02,000 daughter, girlfriend, what? 1088 01:28:02,625 --> 01:28:03,250 Question mark. 1089 01:28:05,166 --> 01:28:06,166 Oh boy. 1090 01:28:07,291 --> 01:28:09,875 Well, it was not his daughter. 1091 01:28:11,083 --> 01:28:13,083 You quickly found out. 1092 01:28:13,083 --> 01:28:14,916 But this like overtook, 1093 01:28:15,583 --> 01:28:16,708 we were having some big discussions 1094 01:28:16,708 --> 01:28:17,291 because of all these 1095 01:28:17,291 --> 01:28:18,125 things that have just been, 1096 01:28:18,125 --> 01:28:19,125 we just had so much, 1097 01:28:19,916 --> 01:28:22,208 we're in that era where it's, 1098 01:28:22,208 --> 01:28:22,916 we were just talking about today, 1099 01:28:22,916 --> 01:28:23,708 it's like stress, 1100 01:28:23,708 --> 01:28:25,416 where we maxed out stress two weeks ago. 1101 01:28:25,916 --> 01:28:26,500 And it's like, oh, 1102 01:28:26,708 --> 01:28:28,416 apparently we didn't max out stress. 1103 01:28:28,708 --> 01:28:30,708 We're just gonna put more on and more. 1104 01:28:30,875 --> 01:28:31,500 It's just like a layer cake of, 1105 01:28:31,583 --> 01:28:34,333 it's like a seven layer, 1106 01:28:35,041 --> 01:28:38,333 bean guacamole dip of stress 1107 01:28:38,791 --> 01:28:40,541 that is now up to like a 21 layer. 1108 01:28:41,625 --> 01:28:43,458 And we thought seven was the max. 1109 01:28:43,500 --> 01:28:44,416 We thought, yeah. 1110 01:28:44,458 --> 01:28:45,083 So we were trying to 1111 01:28:45,083 --> 01:28:46,291 make it through some of this 1112 01:28:46,875 --> 01:28:47,583 at dinnertime. 1113 01:28:47,916 --> 01:28:49,958 Just talk through it and whatever. 1114 01:28:50,875 --> 01:28:52,333 And now we are distracted. 1115 01:28:53,625 --> 01:28:54,791 So this guy walks in. 1116 01:28:55,541 --> 01:28:56,666 Yeah, your back was to them. 1117 01:28:56,666 --> 01:28:57,625 I was facing them. 1118 01:28:58,166 --> 01:28:59,500 Cause you and I are in a booth, 1119 01:28:59,708 --> 01:29:00,958 but we're sitting on opposite sides. 1120 01:29:02,000 --> 01:29:03,291 Well, he walks in. 1121 01:29:03,958 --> 01:29:05,416 He, this guy who I 1122 01:29:05,416 --> 01:29:06,833 originally thought he was maybe 55. 1123 01:29:08,000 --> 01:29:09,791 And he walks in with, 1124 01:29:10,250 --> 01:29:11,208 again, like Megan said, 1125 01:29:12,083 --> 01:29:13,583 daughter at first, 1126 01:29:14,375 --> 01:29:15,416 but then they both sit on 1127 01:29:15,416 --> 01:29:16,833 the same side of the booth, 1128 01:29:17,083 --> 01:29:18,750 which is directly behind you. 1129 01:29:19,208 --> 01:29:19,916 They're sitting, you're 1130 01:29:19,916 --> 01:29:21,083 sitting back to back with them. 1131 01:29:22,125 --> 01:29:23,208 And I can see the back of their heads. 1132 01:29:24,541 --> 01:29:26,916 And then I'm like, maybe not daughter. 1133 01:29:28,000 --> 01:29:28,583 Cause I don't think 1134 01:29:28,583 --> 01:29:30,250 I'd sit on the same side 1135 01:29:30,333 --> 01:29:31,666 as the booth as my daughter. 1136 01:29:32,041 --> 01:29:32,791 In fact, I'm not even 1137 01:29:32,791 --> 01:29:33,625 sitting on the same side 1138 01:29:33,625 --> 01:29:34,625 of the booth as my wife. 1139 01:29:35,250 --> 01:29:35,375 Right. 1140 01:29:36,625 --> 01:29:37,333 You know? 1141 01:29:37,875 --> 01:29:38,083 Right. 1142 01:29:38,875 --> 01:29:41,041 So 55 and daughter is 1143 01:29:41,041 --> 01:29:43,125 25 maybe is my thought. 1144 01:29:43,458 --> 01:29:44,416 Probably the oldest. 1145 01:29:44,791 --> 01:29:46,541 I did get a good look at some point. 1146 01:29:47,541 --> 01:29:47,791 Yeah. 1147 01:29:48,208 --> 01:29:49,041 25 might be pushing it. 1148 01:29:49,583 --> 01:29:50,958 So we're listening, but 1149 01:29:50,958 --> 01:29:51,833 fast forward to the point 1150 01:29:51,833 --> 01:29:52,833 and tell them, like, 1151 01:29:52,958 --> 01:29:54,583 we're like, in my mind, 1152 01:29:54,583 --> 01:29:57,041 I'm like, there's at 1153 01:29:57,041 --> 01:29:58,875 least 30 years between them. 1154 01:29:59,708 --> 01:30:01,250 And we're being totally judgmental here, 1155 01:30:01,250 --> 01:30:01,958 but this is fun. 1156 01:30:02,333 --> 01:30:04,333 It was the conversation. 1157 01:30:04,875 --> 01:30:05,958 Like you would ask me a question. 1158 01:30:05,958 --> 01:30:07,333 I'm like, hold on, I'm listening. 1159 01:30:07,833 --> 01:30:08,250 Oh yeah. 1160 01:30:08,250 --> 01:30:09,416 We lost out on our conversation 1161 01:30:09,416 --> 01:30:10,750 cause we were listening to theirs. 1162 01:30:11,708 --> 01:30:13,208 One of the questions he asked her. 1163 01:30:14,083 --> 01:30:15,625 So how many states have you been to? 1164 01:30:16,000 --> 01:30:17,291 So people, how many times, 1165 01:30:17,541 --> 01:30:19,083 husbands and wives out there. 1166 01:30:19,625 --> 01:30:21,375 How many, how often do you say, 1167 01:30:21,375 --> 01:30:22,916 how many states have you been to? 1168 01:30:23,958 --> 01:30:28,958 I mean, it was creepily just so first day 1169 01:30:29,666 --> 01:30:32,833 like generic and she was, 1170 01:30:33,750 --> 01:30:34,500 after I heard her 1171 01:30:34,500 --> 01:30:35,375 speak a couple of times, 1172 01:30:35,375 --> 01:30:36,958 there's no way she was older than 25. 1173 01:30:37,416 --> 01:30:37,750 No. 1174 01:30:37,750 --> 01:30:38,625 She was probably younger. 1175 01:30:39,291 --> 01:30:40,291 Well, they kept talking 1176 01:30:40,291 --> 01:30:42,125 about school and classes. 1177 01:30:42,666 --> 01:30:42,875 So. 1178 01:30:43,166 --> 01:30:45,166 Well, I've been, New Mexico. 1179 01:30:46,291 --> 01:30:46,666 Nevada. 1180 01:30:47,666 --> 01:30:47,833 Nevada. 1181 01:30:48,541 --> 01:30:50,458 I mean, you know when she 1182 01:30:50,458 --> 01:30:51,875 starts trailing off the, 1183 01:30:52,208 --> 01:30:53,666 you know, vowels. 1184 01:30:53,666 --> 01:30:54,875 Yeah, mm-hmm, mm-hmm. 1185 01:30:55,666 --> 01:30:59,500 He was explaining the menu to her. 1186 01:31:00,000 --> 01:31:01,416 Which I do to you all the time. 1187 01:31:01,416 --> 01:31:02,041 So I don't know. 1188 01:31:02,041 --> 01:31:04,000 I mean, these are the entrees. 1189 01:31:04,291 --> 01:31:05,541 Entrees are your main dish. 1190 01:31:06,083 --> 01:31:08,291 I was like, oh gosh, like. 1191 01:31:08,958 --> 01:31:09,583 Appetizers. 1192 01:31:10,458 --> 01:31:12,083 That's French for 1193 01:31:12,083 --> 01:31:13,583 food before your entree. 1194 01:31:13,916 --> 01:31:14,375 Yeah, mm-hmm. 1195 01:31:15,083 --> 01:31:15,666 Teaching her about 1196 01:31:15,666 --> 01:31:16,666 the different, you know, 1197 01:31:16,666 --> 01:31:17,416 cooks of steak. 1198 01:31:17,416 --> 01:31:18,333 I mean, it was like, 1199 01:31:18,708 --> 01:31:20,083 and then they kept talking about school. 1200 01:31:20,083 --> 01:31:20,833 At some point she did 1201 01:31:20,833 --> 01:31:22,958 reference an ex, her ex boyfriend. 1202 01:31:23,375 --> 01:31:23,916 Ex boyfriend. 1203 01:31:24,333 --> 01:31:25,000 I mean, the 1204 01:31:25,000 --> 01:31:26,625 conversations coming out of this, 1205 01:31:26,625 --> 01:31:28,416 and we were just getting like bits. 1206 01:31:29,416 --> 01:31:30,958 Like, and it was just, 1207 01:31:31,791 --> 01:31:32,416 ooh, wow. 1208 01:31:33,208 --> 01:31:34,541 So let me just. 1209 01:31:35,125 --> 01:31:36,166 Oh, but at one point, 1210 01:31:36,458 --> 01:31:37,083 oh, sorry, go ahead. 1211 01:31:37,125 --> 01:31:37,833 No, you go ahead. 1212 01:31:37,833 --> 01:31:38,291 You go ahead. 1213 01:31:39,125 --> 01:31:39,916 At one point though, 1214 01:31:40,541 --> 01:31:41,541 there was like a full on 1215 01:31:41,541 --> 01:31:43,125 make out session, right? 1216 01:31:43,125 --> 01:31:44,250 Oh yeah, we're gonna get there. 1217 01:31:44,250 --> 01:31:45,291 But let me just lay the 1218 01:31:45,291 --> 01:31:46,708 groundwork here a little bit more 1219 01:31:46,791 --> 01:31:49,291 because we, hopefully you 1220 01:31:49,291 --> 01:31:50,791 guys listen through the end 1221 01:31:50,791 --> 01:31:52,500 because usually first 15 minutes, 1222 01:31:52,625 --> 01:31:54,583 we're just getting the soap, right? 1223 01:31:55,333 --> 01:31:56,500 But by the time we get to the 1224 01:31:56,500 --> 01:31:58,625 25th, 30th minute into this, 1225 01:31:58,625 --> 01:32:00,083 like we're gonna lather it up. 1226 01:32:00,083 --> 01:32:00,458 You know what I mean? 1227 01:32:00,458 --> 01:32:00,833 Like we're getting 1228 01:32:00,833 --> 01:32:01,916 into the good stuff here. 1229 01:32:02,500 --> 01:32:04,875 But to lay the groundwork for this, 1230 01:32:06,500 --> 01:32:10,666 this restaurant is walking distance 1231 01:32:10,833 --> 01:32:12,333 within one minute from a hotel 1232 01:32:12,875 --> 01:32:14,208 that's down in South Lake Town Square 1233 01:32:14,916 --> 01:32:19,916 that we are acquainted with only because, 1234 01:32:20,916 --> 01:32:21,000 well, I mean, actually our daughter 1235 01:32:21,000 --> 01:32:22,750 the fact that our youngest son, 1236 01:32:22,750 --> 01:32:23,750 was gonna be spending the night there. 1237 01:32:23,750 --> 01:32:24,916 who had a coach who we 1238 01:32:24,916 --> 01:32:27,208 loved and was great with him 1239 01:32:27,208 --> 01:32:30,125 because he was able to work our youngest 1240 01:32:30,291 --> 01:32:32,166 through some emotional issues. 1241 01:32:34,166 --> 01:32:36,416 But he wasn't able to finish his tenure 1242 01:32:37,083 --> 01:32:38,125 as the head coach of 1243 01:32:38,125 --> 01:32:39,583 our youngest soccer team 1244 01:32:40,500 --> 01:32:45,958 because he was caught in a police sting 1245 01:32:46,416 --> 01:32:49,375 soliciting a prostitute at this hotel. 1246 01:32:49,375 --> 01:32:49,583 Yeah. 1247 01:32:50,375 --> 01:32:53,625 So there's a very charged, 1248 01:32:53,916 --> 01:32:55,625 if you will, area here, right? 1249 01:32:55,833 --> 01:32:56,416 Like we're within 1250 01:32:56,416 --> 01:32:57,750 walking distance of this. 1251 01:32:57,750 --> 01:32:59,916 We see this guy walking and it's like, 1252 01:33:00,166 --> 01:33:01,583 oh, that's not a daughter. 1253 01:33:01,916 --> 01:33:05,291 That's, Meg's is like, oh, he bought her. 1254 01:33:05,291 --> 01:33:06,291 He bought her for the night. 1255 01:33:07,166 --> 01:33:07,708 So we're like, oh, 1256 01:33:07,708 --> 01:33:08,791 they're going back to that hotel 1257 01:33:08,958 --> 01:33:09,916 because that hotel's known. 1258 01:33:10,833 --> 01:33:12,250 I mean, this was in our mind. 1259 01:33:12,458 --> 01:33:14,625 Well, I mean, that was on the news. 1260 01:33:14,625 --> 01:33:15,500 It was on the internet. 1261 01:33:16,083 --> 01:33:16,833 It was a big thing. 1262 01:33:16,833 --> 01:33:17,833 There was like 40 guys 1263 01:33:17,833 --> 01:33:19,250 caught in a sting, 40 men. 1264 01:33:20,083 --> 01:33:21,750 I wouldn't call them gentlemen, maybe. 1265 01:33:22,250 --> 01:33:24,750 The 40 grown men caught in 1266 01:33:24,750 --> 01:33:25,958 that sting for soliciting. 1267 01:33:26,375 --> 01:33:28,208 Yes, yes, at this particular hotel. 1268 01:33:28,791 --> 01:33:29,625 Right in the smack dab 1269 01:33:29,625 --> 01:33:32,708 of South Lake Town Square. 1270 01:33:33,500 --> 01:33:33,666 Yeah. 1271 01:33:34,000 --> 01:33:35,750 Anyway, so that's laying a 1272 01:33:35,750 --> 01:33:36,375 little bit of the groundwork 1273 01:33:36,375 --> 01:33:38,041 of where we're coming from on this. 1274 01:33:38,500 --> 01:33:39,250 That's the backdrop. 1275 01:33:39,958 --> 01:33:41,541 That's the backdrop on it, right? 1276 01:33:42,041 --> 01:33:44,291 So we're trying to have a conversation 1277 01:33:45,083 --> 01:33:46,625 and then halfway through 1278 01:33:46,625 --> 01:33:47,708 Megan saying something, 1279 01:33:48,500 --> 01:33:49,208 you know, like, Sean, 1280 01:33:49,208 --> 01:33:50,208 don't jump off the bridge. 1281 01:33:50,916 --> 01:33:53,833 And I'm like, oh, for 1282 01:33:53,833 --> 01:33:55,458 those of you not watching, 1283 01:33:56,666 --> 01:33:57,708 I would start mimicking 1284 01:33:57,708 --> 01:33:58,500 kind of what's happening 1285 01:33:58,500 --> 01:33:59,916 to let her know, because we can't talk 1286 01:33:59,916 --> 01:34:00,166 because they're 1287 01:34:00,166 --> 01:34:01,375 literally right behind us. 1288 01:34:01,541 --> 01:34:02,166 Right, right. 1289 01:34:02,583 --> 01:34:04,166 So I'm like, his arm 1290 01:34:04,166 --> 01:34:05,541 just went around her. 1291 01:34:06,291 --> 01:34:08,708 He just put his arm around her. 1292 01:34:09,208 --> 01:34:11,750 They're so close on this six foot bench. 1293 01:34:11,750 --> 01:34:12,458 He just scooted over. 1294 01:34:13,125 --> 01:34:14,916 Your plates, you know, oval 1295 01:34:14,916 --> 01:34:16,833 plates would have to be turned 1296 01:34:17,875 --> 01:34:18,750 sideways to touching 1297 01:34:18,750 --> 01:34:19,958 because they were sitting almost 1298 01:34:19,958 --> 01:34:21,875 hip to hip at this point, probably. 1299 01:34:22,958 --> 01:34:25,291 And then they start making out. 1300 01:34:26,166 --> 01:34:26,958 Like who? 1301 01:34:27,333 --> 01:34:28,583 Right in the middle of Capitol Hill, 1302 01:34:28,583 --> 01:34:30,250 this guy's, after you saw him, you 1303 01:34:30,250 --> 01:34:31,375 thought he was 60, easy. 1304 01:34:31,666 --> 01:34:32,791 I did, yeah, yeah, yeah. 1305 01:34:33,208 --> 01:34:35,541 He had had some work done, I think. 1306 01:34:37,125 --> 01:34:38,333 But yeah, no, he was not. 1307 01:34:39,583 --> 01:34:40,375 Well, and he even 1308 01:34:40,375 --> 01:34:41,625 referenced at some point in time, 1309 01:34:41,625 --> 01:34:44,208 his son who was in a college fraternity. 1310 01:34:44,583 --> 01:34:46,166 So like, he was old enough 1311 01:34:46,166 --> 01:34:48,083 to have a 20 year old son. 1312 01:34:48,666 --> 01:34:49,958 Yeah, yeah. 1313 01:34:50,000 --> 01:34:51,666 So I mean, I guess you could be 40 1314 01:34:51,875 --> 01:34:52,791 and have a 20 year old son, 1315 01:34:52,791 --> 01:34:53,958 but I don't think that's the case. 1316 01:34:54,166 --> 01:34:54,833 Let's caveat here, 1317 01:34:54,833 --> 01:34:55,833 we're not being judgmental. 1318 01:34:55,833 --> 01:34:57,208 We're just passing along 1319 01:34:57,208 --> 01:34:58,166 entertainment for our-- 1320 01:34:58,208 --> 01:34:59,333 This is just entertainment. 1321 01:34:59,583 --> 01:35:02,916 It was entertaining for us. 1322 01:35:03,166 --> 01:35:05,250 Like, I mean, it was a 1323 01:35:05,250 --> 01:35:06,416 very unique date night. 1324 01:35:06,416 --> 01:35:07,958 We usually don't find these characters 1325 01:35:08,916 --> 01:35:10,291 like on a regular date night. 1326 01:35:11,125 --> 01:35:11,958 I mean, I'm sure if we 1327 01:35:11,958 --> 01:35:12,458 were looking for them, 1328 01:35:12,458 --> 01:35:13,541 but it was just right in our face. 1329 01:35:14,208 --> 01:35:14,708 You know what I mean? 1330 01:35:14,708 --> 01:35:15,291 I mean, there's a lot 1331 01:35:15,291 --> 01:35:16,083 of money in that area 1332 01:35:16,083 --> 01:35:16,833 and who knows what's 1333 01:35:16,833 --> 01:35:17,666 happening in that area. 1334 01:35:18,458 --> 01:35:20,291 But it was just, it overtook 1335 01:35:20,291 --> 01:35:21,083 our date night a little bit 1336 01:35:21,083 --> 01:35:21,458 because it was 1337 01:35:21,458 --> 01:35:22,416 constantly like, what'd they say? 1338 01:35:22,833 --> 01:35:23,041 Yeah. 1339 01:35:23,458 --> 01:35:24,958 She said, did she just say that? 1340 01:35:25,000 --> 01:35:26,083 Yeah, it was. 1341 01:35:26,083 --> 01:35:27,125 Try not to hear it, you know. 1342 01:35:27,125 --> 01:35:28,166 And then you made up 1343 01:35:28,166 --> 01:35:29,083 the whole thing to be, 1344 01:35:29,333 --> 01:35:30,958 I'm like, pretend to go to the bathroom. 1345 01:35:32,083 --> 01:35:32,500 Because we knew the 1346 01:35:32,500 --> 01:35:34,125 bathroom was behind us to the left. 1347 01:35:34,750 --> 01:35:35,625 I was like, no, no, no, 1348 01:35:35,625 --> 01:35:36,375 pretend to go to the bathroom 1349 01:35:36,375 --> 01:35:37,458 that way, like you went the wrong way. 1350 01:35:38,416 --> 01:35:38,958 So I did. 1351 01:35:39,708 --> 01:35:42,416 And so then I could like assess the 1352 01:35:42,416 --> 01:35:43,666 situation a little bit. 1353 01:35:43,666 --> 01:35:45,291 And I, yeah, I pinned her 1354 01:35:45,291 --> 01:35:46,458 about the same age that you did. 1355 01:35:46,666 --> 01:35:47,708 And then, yeah, he-- 1356 01:35:48,375 --> 01:35:49,375 But let's not skip 1357 01:35:49,375 --> 01:35:50,458 over your acting skills. 1358 01:35:51,083 --> 01:35:53,083 Oh, I actually went 1359 01:35:53,083 --> 01:35:54,333 all the way to the front 1360 01:35:54,333 --> 01:35:55,791 to like ask the hostess, 1361 01:35:55,791 --> 01:35:56,833 like, where's the bathroom? 1362 01:35:56,833 --> 01:35:58,375 Even though I knew where it was. 1363 01:35:58,583 --> 01:35:59,875 By the way, it was way off stage. 1364 01:36:00,250 --> 01:36:00,958 I mean, I can't see 1365 01:36:00,958 --> 01:36:02,041 her, they can't see you. 1366 01:36:02,041 --> 01:36:03,166 So you mean like your 1367 01:36:03,166 --> 01:36:05,958 dedication to your method acting 1368 01:36:05,958 --> 01:36:06,750 was impressive. 1369 01:36:07,375 --> 01:36:07,583 It was impressive. 1370 01:36:07,916 --> 01:36:08,458 I'm gonna call Steven 1371 01:36:08,458 --> 01:36:09,333 Spielberg on this one 1372 01:36:09,333 --> 01:36:10,583 just to see if like, yeah. 1373 01:36:11,291 --> 01:36:11,875 Method actor. 1374 01:36:13,041 --> 01:36:13,458 Nobody would have 1375 01:36:13,458 --> 01:36:14,500 believed that I actually knew 1376 01:36:14,500 --> 01:36:15,458 where the bathroom was. 1377 01:36:16,000 --> 01:36:16,625 No one would have. 1378 01:36:18,083 --> 01:36:18,875 Because yeah, you come back 1379 01:36:18,875 --> 01:36:19,791 around the corner with a-- 1380 01:36:20,958 --> 01:36:21,666 With the hostess. 1381 01:36:21,875 --> 01:36:22,916 The hostess, is that who it was? 1382 01:36:23,666 --> 01:36:23,833 Yeah. 1383 01:36:24,166 --> 01:36:26,833 And perfectly, like we had planned it 1384 01:36:27,458 --> 01:36:28,750 right in front of their table. 1385 01:36:28,750 --> 01:36:29,708 She's like, it is just 1386 01:36:29,708 --> 01:36:30,833 around that corner to your right. 1387 01:36:30,875 --> 01:36:31,583 Yeah, because it gave me 1388 01:36:31,583 --> 01:36:32,833 like a pause right there. 1389 01:36:32,833 --> 01:36:34,458 So I could, you know, 1390 01:36:34,458 --> 01:36:35,833 get another couple seconds 1391 01:36:36,041 --> 01:36:38,083 of assessment in there. 1392 01:36:38,416 --> 01:36:39,041 Yeah, yeah. 1393 01:36:41,500 --> 01:36:42,125 It was interesting. 1394 01:36:42,583 --> 01:36:44,416 So you thought maybe just over 60 1395 01:36:44,416 --> 01:36:45,250 with a little bit of work 1396 01:36:45,250 --> 01:36:46,541 and she was probably under 25. 1397 01:36:46,750 --> 01:36:48,708 Yeah, that was my assessment, yeah. 1398 01:36:50,375 --> 01:36:54,541 You know, everybody, at least I hope, 1399 01:36:54,583 --> 01:36:56,750 there is always a time 1400 01:36:56,750 --> 01:36:58,375 for those make out sessions 1401 01:36:58,625 --> 01:36:59,666 when, you know, like, 1402 01:37:00,000 --> 01:37:01,125 this just isn't the type 1403 01:37:01,125 --> 01:37:02,583 of place for that, I mean. 1404 01:37:02,750 --> 01:37:03,666 Well, we brought that up. 1405 01:37:03,666 --> 01:37:04,583 I even said that I was like, 1406 01:37:04,583 --> 01:37:06,875 there was a time in our lives, 1407 01:37:06,875 --> 01:37:07,666 when we were together, 1408 01:37:07,666 --> 01:37:08,875 where it was like, you know, 1409 01:37:09,458 --> 01:37:11,083 young and in love, and 1410 01:37:11,083 --> 01:37:12,791 now we're old and in love. 1411 01:37:12,791 --> 01:37:13,416 Young and in love and 1412 01:37:13,416 --> 01:37:14,041 you're like, you know, 1413 01:37:14,041 --> 01:37:16,375 PDA and making out, you know, at the bar. 1414 01:37:17,125 --> 01:37:18,625 We've been there, we've done that. 1415 01:37:18,625 --> 01:37:18,875 Yes. 1416 01:37:19,500 --> 01:37:22,083 But that was a few years ago. 1417 01:37:22,125 --> 01:37:22,666 It was. 1418 01:37:23,833 --> 01:37:25,125 And it was at spots where we probably 1419 01:37:25,125 --> 01:37:26,250 weren't the only ones, 1420 01:37:26,250 --> 01:37:27,083 you know, that, because 1421 01:37:27,083 --> 01:37:28,000 it was probably filled 1422 01:37:28,000 --> 01:37:30,083 with people our own age and, you know. 1423 01:37:31,000 --> 01:37:33,208 Yeah, we were mid 20s, late 20s. 1424 01:37:33,208 --> 01:37:34,583 Yeah, and like, that's a 1425 01:37:34,583 --> 01:37:35,875 super fun phase of life. 1426 01:37:36,458 --> 01:37:37,166 Embrace it. 1427 01:37:37,208 --> 01:37:37,416 Right. 1428 01:37:38,041 --> 01:37:38,916 You know, but. 1429 01:37:40,250 --> 01:37:40,583 Or. 1430 01:37:41,083 --> 01:37:41,416 Or. 1431 01:37:41,958 --> 01:37:44,541 Or, to quote you from last week, 1432 01:37:45,875 --> 01:37:47,083 maybe I missed an opportunity. 1433 01:37:47,333 --> 01:37:49,458 Maybe I should have slipped 1434 01:37:49,458 --> 01:37:51,416 over to your side of the booth. 1435 01:37:52,083 --> 01:37:53,458 Maybe, and we could have 1436 01:37:53,458 --> 01:37:54,250 had a make out session. 1437 01:37:54,666 --> 01:37:56,166 Just, kind of, you know, just that 1438 01:37:56,166 --> 01:37:57,791 little, oh, stretch. 1439 01:37:58,125 --> 01:37:59,041 Oh, my arms around 1440 01:37:59,041 --> 01:38:00,166 you now, how about that? 1441 01:38:00,416 --> 01:38:00,625 Sorry. 1442 01:38:01,000 --> 01:38:01,708 Yeah, I pressed my hair. 1443 01:38:02,916 --> 01:38:03,791 Oh yeah, he cupped her 1444 01:38:03,791 --> 01:38:06,250 head, like all the way down. 1445 01:38:06,500 --> 01:38:07,833 I mean, it was, it 1446 01:38:07,833 --> 01:38:09,166 was just, it was creepy. 1447 01:38:09,666 --> 01:38:10,458 It was creepy. 1448 01:38:11,000 --> 01:38:12,583 And I'm trying not to be judgy about it. 1449 01:38:12,958 --> 01:38:13,666 And it's hard not to feel 1450 01:38:13,666 --> 01:38:14,916 like a voyeur when you're like, 1451 01:38:14,916 --> 01:38:16,750 but you could not 1452 01:38:16,750 --> 01:38:17,791 have not looked at them. 1453 01:38:18,291 --> 01:38:19,750 If you looked straight ahead, 1454 01:38:19,791 --> 01:38:21,708 even if you stared into my eyes, 1455 01:38:21,708 --> 01:38:22,708 your peripheral vision 1456 01:38:22,708 --> 01:38:23,833 still would have seen them. 1457 01:38:24,333 --> 01:38:24,875 Well, it's just 1458 01:38:24,875 --> 01:38:26,541 because I saw them walk in 1459 01:38:26,750 --> 01:38:28,666 and the question popped in immediately. 1460 01:38:29,000 --> 01:38:30,375 And so then I was intrigued. 1461 01:38:30,375 --> 01:38:32,166 It was like, they hooked me. 1462 01:38:32,375 --> 01:38:32,708 You know what I mean? 1463 01:38:32,875 --> 01:38:33,125 Yeah. 1464 01:38:33,125 --> 01:38:33,583 I was hooked. 1465 01:38:33,958 --> 01:38:34,375 You were hooked. 1466 01:38:34,375 --> 01:38:35,208 And I needed to know. 1467 01:38:35,625 --> 01:38:36,708 Inquiring minds wanted to know. 1468 01:38:36,708 --> 01:38:37,333 But it was interesting, 1469 01:38:37,333 --> 01:38:37,666 because you and I 1470 01:38:37,666 --> 01:38:38,541 started talking about it. 1471 01:38:38,541 --> 01:38:39,583 It was like, people 1472 01:38:39,583 --> 01:38:41,291 know, men say it all the time 1473 01:38:41,333 --> 01:38:43,250 on TV or whatever 1474 01:38:43,250 --> 01:38:44,583 that, you hear the joke, 1475 01:38:44,583 --> 01:38:45,458 whatever that's like, 1476 01:38:45,458 --> 01:38:46,541 I keep getting older, 1477 01:38:46,541 --> 01:38:47,208 but the women I'm 1478 01:38:47,208 --> 01:38:49,291 attracted to stay the same age. 1479 01:38:49,625 --> 01:38:50,833 The old creepy man saying, 1480 01:38:51,583 --> 01:38:53,791 but there's probably truth in that. 1481 01:38:54,083 --> 01:38:55,208 Men still stay attracted 1482 01:38:55,208 --> 01:39:00,041 to women of a certain look. 1483 01:39:00,375 --> 01:39:01,375 And that's usually a younger woman. 1484 01:39:03,083 --> 01:39:04,333 So it was funny. 1485 01:39:04,333 --> 01:39:05,250 And then I asked you, I was like, 1486 01:39:05,250 --> 01:39:05,958 well, how's that? 1487 01:39:05,958 --> 01:39:07,375 Do women feel that same way too? 1488 01:39:08,041 --> 01:39:09,208 Like, are you still attracted to that 1489 01:39:09,208 --> 01:39:10,625 young 22 year old guy? 1490 01:39:12,083 --> 01:39:15,250 In mine, mine was like, not really. 1491 01:39:15,500 --> 01:39:17,958 I mean, yes and no. 1492 01:39:18,250 --> 01:39:19,958 I mean, if he looks good on 1493 01:39:19,958 --> 01:39:21,083 a movie screen or whatever, 1494 01:39:21,083 --> 01:39:23,208 but like in an actual situation, 1495 01:39:23,541 --> 01:39:24,708 like no, I don't think 1496 01:39:24,708 --> 01:39:26,375 many women of my age anyway, 1497 01:39:26,583 --> 01:39:28,416 would like feel 1498 01:39:28,416 --> 01:39:29,583 comfortable in that situation. 1499 01:39:29,958 --> 01:39:32,500 Yeah, maybe he did buy her. 1500 01:39:32,500 --> 01:39:33,166 Cause it's like, you 1501 01:39:33,166 --> 01:39:36,250 know, just, you know. 1502 01:39:36,250 --> 01:39:36,333 would just be so weird. 1503 01:39:36,625 --> 01:39:36,916 Like I would just feel if it were me. 1504 01:39:36,916 --> 01:39:37,708 I don't know. 1505 01:39:37,708 --> 01:39:38,000 Like I would just feel if it were me. 1506 01:39:38,000 --> 01:39:38,500 I don't know. 1507 01:39:38,500 --> 01:39:38,625 Like I would just feel if it were me. 1508 01:39:38,625 --> 01:39:39,125 Anyways, we spent 1509 01:39:39,125 --> 01:39:40,208 like 20 minutes on that. 1510 01:39:40,208 --> 01:39:40,416 let's just play this out 1511 01:39:40,416 --> 01:39:41,333 We went way into that. 1512 01:39:41,333 --> 01:39:41,750 let's just play this out 1513 01:39:41,750 --> 01:39:42,208 So interesting. 1514 01:39:42,208 --> 01:39:43,166 in an alternate universe. 1515 01:39:43,166 --> 01:39:45,291 I mean, it was great. 1516 01:39:45,291 --> 01:39:45,583 Because you're my one 1517 01:39:45,583 --> 01:39:47,166 It was, I guess it wasn't crazy. 1518 01:39:47,166 --> 01:39:47,791 It happens all the time. 1519 01:39:47,791 --> 01:39:48,083 You're my one and only. 1520 01:39:48,125 --> 01:39:48,875 It happens all the time. 1521 01:39:49,083 --> 01:39:51,791 It made our date night interesting. 1522 01:39:51,791 --> 01:39:53,125 Cause we've never had that experience. 1523 01:39:53,125 --> 01:39:54,416 We've never had that. 1524 01:39:54,416 --> 01:39:55,291 It was just in our face. 1525 01:39:55,291 --> 01:39:55,666 Their mother is everything, right? 1526 01:39:55,666 --> 01:39:56,541 It was, yes. 1527 01:39:56,791 --> 01:39:57,625 And it definitely made 1528 01:39:57,625 --> 01:39:59,500 it a unique date night. 1529 01:39:59,500 --> 01:40:00,416 I could not do that. 1530 01:40:00,541 --> 01:40:00,625 So. 1531 01:40:00,625 --> 01:40:00,666 I mean, this guy's 12 1532 01:40:00,666 --> 01:40:02,041 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 1533 01:40:02,041 --> 01:40:02,083 years older than me now. 1534 01:40:02,083 --> 01:40:03,500 Otherwise it was super fun. 1535 01:40:03,500 --> 01:40:06,375 I mean, it was really good 1536 01:40:06,375 --> 01:40:07,750 to just laugh and be like, 1537 01:40:07,750 --> 01:40:08,208 Even now, a 25 year 1538 01:40:08,208 --> 01:40:08,291 old, let's say I'm dating, 1539 01:40:08,291 --> 01:40:09,208 because it did lighten 1540 01:40:09,208 --> 01:40:10,458 the mood on, you know, 1541 01:40:10,458 --> 01:40:10,500 I would feel like the old guy, 1542 01:40:10,500 --> 01:40:12,125 it's been really a heavy 1543 01:40:12,125 --> 01:40:14,125 few weeks and all of that. 1544 01:40:14,125 --> 01:40:14,666 I mean, cause we could 1545 01:40:14,666 --> 01:40:16,208 just be like, oh my gosh. 1546 01:40:16,208 --> 01:40:16,541 get that out of my mind. 1547 01:40:16,541 --> 01:40:17,875 Can you believe this? 1548 01:40:17,875 --> 01:40:18,083 Right, and like, yeah. 1549 01:40:18,083 --> 01:40:19,291 So it lightened the mood a little bit. 1550 01:40:19,291 --> 01:40:19,958 It always feels good to 1551 01:40:19,958 --> 01:40:21,250 make fun of somebody else. 1552 01:40:21,250 --> 01:40:22,000 And especially since the 1553 01:40:22,000 --> 01:40:23,166 guy was talking about a son 1554 01:40:23,166 --> 01:40:23,291 who was probably about the same age 1555 01:40:23,291 --> 01:40:23,666 Sadly. 1556 01:40:23,666 --> 01:40:24,916 who was probably about the same age 1557 01:40:25,208 --> 01:40:26,125 Or am I not kidding? 1558 01:40:26,125 --> 01:40:26,541 I don't know. 1559 01:40:26,541 --> 01:40:26,583 as this girl that he was making out with. 1560 01:40:26,583 --> 01:40:27,166 I don't know. 1561 01:40:27,166 --> 01:40:27,625 as this girl that he was making out with. 1562 01:40:27,625 --> 01:40:28,083 If we're all being 1563 01:40:28,083 --> 01:40:29,583 honest, that's how everybody is. 1564 01:40:29,791 --> 01:40:30,541 I mean, give me a break. 1565 01:40:30,541 --> 01:40:31,625 I do think that most people 1566 01:40:31,625 --> 01:40:32,875 would have been doing exactly 1567 01:40:32,875 --> 01:40:34,541 what you and I were doing and being like, 1568 01:40:34,541 --> 01:40:35,375 oh my gosh, you're never 1569 01:40:35,375 --> 01:40:36,250 going to believe what I'm seeing. 1570 01:40:36,583 --> 01:40:37,416 Anybody listening to 1571 01:40:37,416 --> 01:40:39,416 this podcast has to agree. 1572 01:40:39,500 --> 01:40:40,916 If you're being honest with yourself, 1573 01:40:40,916 --> 01:40:42,000 if you go sit in any 1574 01:40:42,000 --> 01:40:43,416 mall, any public place, 1575 01:40:43,791 --> 01:40:44,791 you could sit there 1576 01:40:44,791 --> 01:40:47,083 and just have a heyday 1577 01:40:47,083 --> 01:40:48,333 of just enjoying people watching. 1578 01:40:48,625 --> 01:40:50,250 That's why people like people watching. 1579 01:40:51,750 --> 01:40:51,833 Yeah. 1580 01:40:52,250 --> 01:40:53,125 That's a lot of people's. 1581 01:40:53,666 --> 01:40:54,541 Yeah, that's okay. 1582 01:40:56,416 --> 01:40:57,958 We like people watching, so it's okay. 1583 01:40:58,708 --> 01:40:59,625 Yeah, it's awesome. 1584 01:41:00,041 --> 01:41:01,416 Yeah, anyways. 1585 01:41:01,833 --> 01:41:02,541 Takes all kinds to 1586 01:41:02,541 --> 01:41:03,291 make the world go round. 1587 01:41:04,083 --> 01:41:05,125 It does, it does. 1588 01:41:06,583 --> 01:41:07,666 But anyway, what do we 1589 01:41:07,666 --> 01:41:08,916 have coming up this week? 1590 01:41:10,083 --> 01:41:12,083 What do we have coming up this week? 1591 01:41:12,083 --> 01:41:13,125 Well, Easter's tomorrow. 1592 01:41:13,166 --> 01:41:15,000 Easter, so yeah, we'll 1593 01:41:15,000 --> 01:41:17,208 have a little egg hunt. 1594 01:41:17,875 --> 01:41:19,250 Easter Bunny needs to get busy. 1595 01:41:19,458 --> 01:41:20,083 We have the classic 1596 01:41:20,083 --> 01:41:21,916 parents Easter Bunny evening. 1597 01:41:22,458 --> 01:41:23,083 Yep, yep. 1598 01:41:23,083 --> 01:41:24,875 So that'll be late, 1599 01:41:25,250 --> 01:41:26,041 making sure the Easter Bunny 1600 01:41:26,041 --> 01:41:27,041 takes care of their stuff. 1601 01:41:27,333 --> 01:41:30,041 Yeah, yeah, I mean, he has to be ready. 1602 01:41:32,041 --> 01:41:34,416 So yeah, but we might have to film 1603 01:41:34,583 --> 01:41:35,625 at a different time next week, 1604 01:41:35,625 --> 01:41:37,250 because one of us is out of town all 1605 01:41:37,250 --> 01:41:38,041 weekend, next weekend. 1606 01:41:38,458 --> 01:41:39,166 Oh, we have a soccer 1607 01:41:39,166 --> 01:41:40,333 tournament next weekend in Austin. 1608 01:41:40,583 --> 01:41:41,750 Oh no, it's a showcase, that's right. 1609 01:41:41,833 --> 01:41:43,458 Showcase, but yeah, yeah, so. 1610 01:41:43,541 --> 01:41:44,625 Well, we're getting good at that now. 1611 01:41:44,625 --> 01:41:45,333 We're figuring that out. 1612 01:41:45,541 --> 01:41:45,750 Yeah. 1613 01:41:46,583 --> 01:41:47,791 We only had like two or three days 1614 01:41:47,791 --> 01:41:49,000 in between these shoes. 1615 01:41:49,333 --> 01:41:50,583 Yeah, you know? 1616 01:41:50,583 --> 01:41:51,083 These are hard. 1617 01:41:52,333 --> 01:41:54,125 Yeah, hey, we are 1618 01:41:54,125 --> 01:41:55,416 nothing if not flexible. 1619 01:41:56,791 --> 01:41:57,416 Are we though? 1620 01:41:58,541 --> 01:41:59,375 I would not say we're 1621 01:41:59,375 --> 01:41:59,833 fucking uncomfortable. 1622 01:42:01,083 --> 01:42:01,583 Okay, bring up. 1623 01:42:02,083 --> 01:42:03,041 Maybe not, it doesn't 1624 01:42:03,041 --> 01:42:03,791 mean that we're comfortable. 1625 01:42:04,166 --> 01:42:05,708 It just means that we have to be there. 1626 01:42:07,500 --> 01:42:07,916 I don't know. 1627 01:42:08,333 --> 01:42:10,375 Yeah, I don't know where we are. 1628 01:42:11,583 --> 01:42:13,000 Yeah, I don't know either, I don't know. 1629 01:42:13,750 --> 01:42:15,208 Flexible is not one that we are. 1630 01:42:15,208 --> 01:42:15,833 I mean, we're pretty, 1631 01:42:16,750 --> 01:42:18,083 what's the word I'm looking for there? 1632 01:42:19,125 --> 01:42:19,541 Anal? 1633 01:42:19,916 --> 01:42:20,291 Inflexible? 1634 01:42:21,500 --> 01:42:23,000 (laughing) Yeah, inflexible. 1635 01:42:24,833 --> 01:42:25,375 I don't know. 1636 01:42:25,416 --> 01:42:26,791 Yeah, tomorrow's next 1637 01:42:26,791 --> 01:42:28,541 week is a normal week though, 1638 01:42:28,541 --> 01:42:29,458 next week in we're out of town, 1639 01:42:29,458 --> 01:42:30,958 but I think regular work 1640 01:42:30,958 --> 01:42:32,083 week, kids are in school. 1641 01:42:32,458 --> 01:42:32,708 Yep. 1642 01:42:34,583 --> 01:42:36,125 Yeah, I mean, we're 1643 01:42:36,125 --> 01:42:38,833 really looking for the tide 1644 01:42:38,833 --> 01:42:40,125 to turn a little bit on 1645 01:42:40,125 --> 01:42:43,250 some stress alleviation. 1646 01:42:43,583 --> 01:42:45,500 Yeah, just honestly, like I said, 1647 01:42:45,750 --> 01:42:47,875 just normalcy, getting back to normalcy 1648 01:42:48,416 --> 01:42:53,875 and not just bombshell after bombshell, 1649 01:42:54,166 --> 01:42:55,375 like, okay, now we're 1650 01:42:55,375 --> 01:42:56,416 gonna have to deal with this 1651 01:42:56,458 --> 01:43:01,458 and clean up that one and yeah, so. 1652 01:43:02,000 --> 01:43:03,416 Yeah, I don't know, I mean. 1653 01:43:04,875 --> 01:43:05,458 I don't know. 1654 01:43:05,458 --> 01:43:06,041 There's all those 1655 01:43:06,041 --> 01:43:07,125 sayings out there, right? 1656 01:43:07,166 --> 01:43:07,875 Yeah, yeah. 1657 01:43:08,083 --> 01:43:09,458 Only gives you what you can handle. 1658 01:43:10,041 --> 01:43:10,416 Right. 1659 01:43:10,416 --> 01:43:11,250 I feel like I'm there. 1660 01:43:12,458 --> 01:43:13,250 I really feel like I 1661 01:43:13,250 --> 01:43:14,208 can't handle anymore. 1662 01:43:15,291 --> 01:43:15,375 (laughing) 1663 01:43:15,375 --> 01:43:18,333 Don't wanna, I'm not a good juggler. 1664 01:43:18,666 --> 01:43:19,333 We used to have juggling 1665 01:43:19,333 --> 01:43:21,000 in PE, I don't know why. 1666 01:43:21,541 --> 01:43:22,250 It doesn't seem to be 1667 01:43:22,250 --> 01:43:23,291 like a PE kind of a thing, 1668 01:43:23,291 --> 01:43:24,166 but anyway, I do remember 1669 01:43:24,166 --> 01:43:25,458 being in elementary school 1670 01:43:25,458 --> 01:43:26,791 and doing like juggling, I was terrible. 1671 01:43:27,541 --> 01:43:29,000 Yeah, I was terrible, so I 1672 01:43:29,000 --> 01:43:29,916 think that just translated 1673 01:43:30,083 --> 01:43:31,750 into the metaphorical 1674 01:43:31,750 --> 01:43:32,666 juggling of adulthood. 1675 01:43:33,500 --> 01:43:35,750 I wish, I wish that was a moment 1676 01:43:35,750 --> 01:43:36,625 that you would have just been like, 1677 01:43:36,791 --> 01:43:38,833 So incredibly, I'm a very good juggler. 1678 01:43:38,833 --> 01:43:38,958 so incredibly, I have 1679 01:43:38,958 --> 01:43:39,708 the talent of juggling. 1680 01:43:39,708 --> 01:43:39,750 I can juggle like six balls at a time, 1681 01:43:39,750 --> 01:43:40,000 (laughing) 1682 01:43:40,000 --> 01:43:40,666 That is hilarious. 1683 01:43:40,666 --> 01:43:42,375 I never made a thousand scarves. 1684 01:43:42,375 --> 01:43:43,583 Another one of those whoa. 1685 01:43:43,583 --> 01:43:45,375 you know, or six bowling pins at a time. 1686 01:43:45,375 --> 01:43:46,958 We've been together for over 20 years. 1687 01:43:47,583 --> 01:43:47,666 You know me way too well. 1688 01:43:47,666 --> 01:43:49,375 Think if that was one of my talents, 1689 01:43:49,375 --> 01:43:50,416 you would have realized. 1690 01:43:50,416 --> 01:43:50,458 coordination is that good? 1691 01:43:50,458 --> 01:43:51,916 Oh, you have been using that. 1692 01:43:51,916 --> 01:43:52,958 I mean, like so impressive. 1693 01:43:53,875 --> 01:43:54,958 No, I never juggled 1694 01:43:54,958 --> 01:43:56,416 anything other than scarves. 1695 01:43:56,458 --> 01:43:57,791 Hey, hey, hey, oh. 1696 01:43:59,458 --> 01:44:00,541 I imagine that's what 1697 01:44:00,541 --> 01:44:01,541 jugglers do in there, 1698 01:44:02,541 --> 01:44:04,916 getting the attention from juggling. 1699 01:44:04,916 --> 01:44:05,250 I'm juggling. 1700 01:44:06,000 --> 01:44:06,916 I don't have hand-eye 1701 01:44:06,916 --> 01:44:08,291 coordination, you kidding me? 1702 01:44:08,875 --> 01:44:09,375 It's terrible. 1703 01:44:10,083 --> 01:44:11,375 Well, all right, well, 1704 01:44:12,666 --> 01:44:13,916 our new, that was a 1705 01:44:13,916 --> 01:44:15,041 big um, sorry about that. 1706 01:44:15,375 --> 01:44:17,166 We're pretty good about not the um's, 1707 01:44:17,666 --> 01:44:19,833 but the new closing, 1708 01:44:19,833 --> 01:44:20,458 should we do it again? 1709 01:44:21,083 --> 01:44:21,791 Try it again. 1710 01:44:21,833 --> 01:44:22,166 Yeah. 1711 01:44:22,166 --> 01:44:23,041 We're gonna summarize, 1712 01:44:23,041 --> 01:44:23,833 what did we summarize? 1713 01:44:23,833 --> 01:44:24,208 This last week? 1714 01:44:24,208 --> 01:44:25,916 This last week, yeah. 1715 01:44:27,291 --> 01:44:28,125 A single word. 1716 01:44:28,166 --> 01:44:28,833 And a single word. 1717 01:44:29,375 --> 01:44:29,583 Okay. 1718 01:44:29,833 --> 01:44:30,125 Yep. 1719 01:44:30,708 --> 01:44:31,416 I'm trying to think. 1720 01:44:31,416 --> 01:44:32,458 Let me give me one second. 1721 01:44:32,458 --> 01:44:33,000 Everybody else think 1722 01:44:33,000 --> 01:44:34,000 along, but you're a week two. 1723 01:44:34,291 --> 01:44:35,000 I only gave you like 1724 01:44:35,000 --> 01:44:36,291 one second last time. 1725 01:44:36,333 --> 01:44:36,541 Yeah. 1726 01:44:37,791 --> 01:44:38,375 Because right now I've 1727 01:44:38,375 --> 01:44:40,000 got a two word summary. 1728 01:44:40,375 --> 01:44:41,166 I gotta figure out a word 1729 01:44:41,166 --> 01:44:43,000 that summarizes two words now. 1730 01:44:43,500 --> 01:44:44,416 I got one word. 1731 01:44:50,875 --> 01:44:52,083 That's a very long pause. 1732 01:44:53,708 --> 01:44:54,708 I was like, oh my gosh, 1733 01:44:54,708 --> 01:44:57,208 did you actually like pause yourself? 1734 01:44:57,625 --> 01:44:58,916 Yeah, I know, it felt like a pause. 1735 01:44:58,958 --> 01:44:59,666 Yeah, that was really good. 1736 01:44:59,666 --> 01:45:00,416 You didn't even blink. 1737 01:45:00,458 --> 01:45:01,541 Yeah, we'll cut that out, don't worry. 1738 01:45:02,416 --> 01:45:05,458 Well, I mean, you actually did pee pee, 1739 01:45:05,791 --> 01:45:07,541 people, patients last week. 1740 01:45:07,541 --> 01:45:08,875 So maybe the rule is 1741 01:45:08,875 --> 01:45:09,875 not just a single word. 1742 01:45:11,458 --> 01:45:12,083 So we'll extend it to 1743 01:45:12,083 --> 01:45:13,083 two words right for now. 1744 01:45:13,083 --> 01:45:13,625 Right, right. 1745 01:45:13,833 --> 01:45:16,500 And maybe a paragraph next week. 1746 01:45:17,083 --> 01:45:17,791 Okay, are you ready? 1747 01:45:17,833 --> 01:45:18,541 Well, and I already know 1748 01:45:18,541 --> 01:45:19,208 it's not gonna be the same word 1749 01:45:19,208 --> 01:45:19,958 because mine's only one. 1750 01:45:20,583 --> 01:45:21,541 Yeah, well that's good. 1751 01:45:21,583 --> 01:45:22,250 Okay, okay. 1752 01:45:22,625 --> 01:45:22,916 Are you ready? 1753 01:45:23,166 --> 01:45:23,541 Here we go. 1754 01:45:23,958 --> 01:45:25,833 One, two, three. 1755 01:45:26,041 --> 01:45:26,500 Surviving. 1756 01:45:26,708 --> 01:45:27,083 Pile on. 1757 01:45:29,500 --> 01:45:30,166 That's pretty close. 1758 01:45:30,541 --> 01:45:31,958 It's pretty dark close. 1759 01:45:31,958 --> 01:45:32,250 Yeah. 1760 01:45:33,541 --> 01:45:38,625 On a scale of one to 10 of similarities, 1761 01:45:39,791 --> 01:45:41,083 survival was yours 1762 01:45:41,083 --> 01:45:43,375 and piling on was mine. 1763 01:45:43,833 --> 01:45:45,125 So really it's talking about, yeah, 1764 01:45:45,125 --> 01:45:46,041 that's where we're at. 1765 01:45:46,041 --> 01:45:46,458 Things are just 1766 01:45:46,458 --> 01:45:48,500 piling on and you're like, 1767 01:45:48,500 --> 01:45:49,416 we just gotta survive. 1768 01:45:49,416 --> 01:45:51,583 We're just surviving, yeah, yeah, yeah. 1769 01:45:51,875 --> 01:45:53,125 So how close would you say we are? 1770 01:45:53,333 --> 01:45:54,458 What, scale of one to 10? 1771 01:45:54,916 --> 01:45:56,666 Well, the words are not similar, 1772 01:45:57,125 --> 01:45:59,375 but the theme is right on. 1773 01:45:59,375 --> 01:46:00,375 That's a nine out of 10. 1774 01:46:00,375 --> 01:46:01,041 Yeah, I agree. 1775 01:46:02,000 --> 01:46:02,208 Yeah, yeah. 1776 01:46:04,875 --> 01:46:06,625 Well, we'll work on that, people. 1777 01:46:06,916 --> 01:46:07,833 Maybe next week it'll 1778 01:46:07,833 --> 01:46:08,583 be a little bit less. 1779 01:46:09,416 --> 01:46:10,458 Maybe we'll move from 1780 01:46:10,458 --> 01:46:12,666 piling on and surviving 1781 01:46:12,875 --> 01:46:18,333 to swimming upstream or, I don't know. 1782 01:46:18,375 --> 01:46:20,291 Where do I buy a 25 year old? 1783 01:46:21,958 --> 01:46:22,500 For a night. 1784 01:46:25,000 --> 01:46:26,291 We've gotten way wrong. 1785 01:46:28,708 --> 01:46:30,500 We went the wrong direction. 1786 01:46:30,791 --> 01:46:32,333 Yeah, that won't be a highlight. 1787 01:46:32,333 --> 01:46:33,583 I probably should take that one out. 1788 01:46:34,791 --> 01:46:35,958 Because that doesn't apply to me. 1789 01:46:37,500 --> 01:46:38,250 It applies to that guy. 1790 01:46:38,500 --> 01:46:39,875 That was kind of a throwback to our, 1791 01:46:40,708 --> 01:46:42,083 we spent 25 minutes on. 1792 01:46:42,500 --> 01:46:44,041 We are so long right now, we gotta go. 1793 01:46:44,250 --> 01:46:45,375 We gotta go, all right. 1794 01:46:45,708 --> 01:46:46,208 Until next time. 1795 01:46:46,250 --> 01:46:47,125 We're gonna go, love you hun. 1796 01:46:47,458 --> 01:46:48,166 All right, love you. 1797 01:46:48,208 --> 01:46:48,583 See ya. 1798 01:46:48,625 --> 01:46:49,166 Bye. Bye.