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Lindsay: Welcome to the
Lifting Lindsay podcast.

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Today we are gonna be having  i, I
can't call it fast fit Tip Friday.

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'cause you just don't know with me
how short or long this is going to be.

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Right.

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A lot of times I'm like, oh, this
will take me 15 minutes and then

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15 minutes later I'm like, man,
I really need to wrap this up.

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Earlier today I was recording an
episode on decision Fatigue and

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it was so funny to me because, um.

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I thought for sure it'd be like a
15 minute episode, and it wasn't

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until my cat walked in and was like
whining for attention and meowing and

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purring that I had to like wrap it up.

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But, um, I do want to talk today about
this idea of snatching your waist.

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So.

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I have this love hate relationship
with the new trend that we're seeing.

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Well, it's not new.

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It's, it's, it's existed for a
while, but I feel like everybody

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is now seeing how well it does.

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And so they're all hopping on board.

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Um, and that is this trend of
you take somebody's video and

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then you give a reaction to it.

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Oftentimes what fitness influencers
will do is they, or even

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fitness educators, they will.

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Watch this video of somebody giving
really bad advice and then they,

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will kind of give a reaction to it.

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Now, I have a love-hate relationship
with these types of posts because

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I think that it can be done well.

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I think that it's important for us to
talk about misinformation out there.

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I also think it's really important that we
don't become a part of a toxic environment

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that oftentimes these can create.

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So oftentimes I will see influencers
who, are, in my opinion, rather

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childish in their approach.

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They're very emotional.

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Uh, they bully and they shame people.

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So it's no longer about the information.

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They discuss the information, but
then they start shaming the person.

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I can't stand that actually.

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It's not my cup of tea.

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I feel like.

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It's important that we take an
opportunity to correct misinformation

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but not at the expense of others.

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And some people are like, well,
they have millions of followers,

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they can deal with it, or whatever.

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I'm like, you know, maybe
it's 'cause I'm a mom.

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Maybe it's because,  I have like
this belief in goodness and kindness,

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but I just don't wanna spread that.

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I just don't.

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So.

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Today I'm going to, this is, this is my
attempt to kind of counter some of that,

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um, and talk about the information and
not the person, because I was really

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shocked the other day when I looked
around Instagram and saw so many women,

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uh, talking about this is how you snatch
your waist, so snatching your waist.

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For those of you who don't know what
that is,  a snatched waist is when

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you have this like really tiny waist.

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So it's this idea of giving
yourself an hourglass look.

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We're gonna actually dive a
little bit deeper into this.

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I kind of wish it was a YouTube video.

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I.

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I kind of wish I did YouTube, but it
just takes so much time to, and, and I

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can't like, dress in my pajamas for that.

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So that's usually why
I stick to podcasting.

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How somebody looks this hourglass
waist, there's so many things that.

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Need to line up for this and in like
a good part of it too is genetics.

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And so we're just gonna talk about this.

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So if you look up snatching your
waist, oftentimes you will get somebody

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who has beautiful, this beautiful
hourglass look with really low body

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fat percentage, and they'll be teaching
like, these are the two, three exercises

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that quote unquote snatched my waist.

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And that's not a thing.

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So we know that we can't
spot reduce, right?

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But a lot of times what they're referring
to is deeper than spot reduction.

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So.

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It's usually they actually believe if I
work my abs in such a way, then even when

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I'm not consciously contracting them and
squeezing them in that I've worked them in

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in such this magical fairy dust way that.

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My waist will just always be small,
even if I haven't lost body fat, even if

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I'm not consciously contracting my abs.

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So yeah, so that's not a thing.

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That is not a thing.

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And when people say that either
they think that causation, they've

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misconstrued causation and correlation.

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So a woman decides she
wants to snatch her waist.

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So she sees these exercises that these
other women with quote unquote snatched

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waists have, and they say you need to do.

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So she simultaneously, because
this other account also says, you

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know, you need to lose body fat.

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So simultaneously she starts into
a calorie deficit and at the same

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time she starts these new exercises.

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Well, at the bottom of her cut,
she's like, wow, I have this

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quote unquote snatched waist.

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Those exercises worked.

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Little did she know that it wasn't
necessarily those exercises,

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it was the calorie deficit that
reduced the body fat on her.

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So now she can actually, she looks
leaner, uh, quote unquote toned more it.

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And that was from the reduction
that was from the calorie deficit,

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the reduction in body fat.

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Not from those specific exercises,
but if you don't know very

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much, you can mis correlate.

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You can say, oh, it's
because of those exercises.

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And then if, if you decide you
wanna start an Instagram account,

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what are you gonna teach?

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You're going, look at what happened to me.

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This is how I snatched my waist,
and you're gonna really believe it.

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So there's those people
that really believe it.

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Then there are those
people who know better.

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They know it was the calorie
deficit that got 'em there.

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They know it wasn't this magical exercise.

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But they also know through trial
and error that if they post

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that it was the calorie deficit.

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That's not gonna get as many likes
as if they say snatch your waist

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in 14 days with this exercise.

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I mean, I can tell you from personal
experience of spending my time staying

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away from those types of trendy
and misleading, uh, sales pitches.

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You are not going to get as many likes.

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You're not gonna get as many views.

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Realness usually doesn't.

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It's not sexy, it's not fast,
it's not easy, but it's real.

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Right?

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So it, it's just unfortunate.

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So then what, what does
contribute to this snatched waste?

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We talked about body fat percentage,
but I do think it's also important

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that we talk about the genetics
of the individual as well.

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Um, some individuals, they have
that hourglass figure because they

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actually have, um, wider hips too.

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And then if you couple that with
larger breasts, you are going

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to have an hourglass figure.

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And when you drop body fat, it's
going to be more and more prominent.

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But, but there are individuals
who  their pelvis is far narrower.

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Mine is that way.

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It's, it's narrow.

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I can't just drop body fat and
look like I have this hourglass.

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, This is where genetics really comes in.

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I'm just not gonna have that look to the
degree that others who are promising.

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I'll get you that.

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Look.

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Let's just, um, you know, do.

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More like lateral leg raises,
not understanding that this

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isn't a matter of muscle, this
is a matter of bone structure.

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So they're like, well, you can
have that hourglass if you just

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do more lateral leg, leg raises.

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Plus we'll snatch your waist.

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No, that's not a thing.

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There's still bone
structure, body fat deposit.

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Even the, the size of our muscle and
there's there, yes, we can control

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the size of our muscle to a degree.

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We can control how much body fat
we lose, but there are things

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that are beyond our control.

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So this is why two women doing
the same exact training program.

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Who even if they lose the exact same
amount of body fat and put on the same

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exact amount of muscle, will still have
vastly different looks as far as what that

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looks on them and their bone structure.

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'cause like I said, we have bone
structure and we also have even just

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origin and attachment sites, and that
can change the way the muscle looks.

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So I've talked about this extensively
on, uh, Instagram and I give some really,

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really good examples of, look, even
if I, I can't actually physically get

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a 24 inch waist even at my smallest.

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Well, I actually think I, my smallest
was like a 24 and a half, but next to

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somebody with really wide hips and a
24 and a half, or even a 25 or 26 inch

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waist, they will still look like they
have this hourglass far more than me.

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And that has to do with bone structure.

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So I, I really wanted to do this episode
because I wanna remind you that your

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genetics are your own and you literally
cannot compare to other people.

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I also wanna remind you that for those
of you who don't know, educate you, for

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those of you do know and need a reminder
that you can't snatch your waist.

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Okay?

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So there really are not these
exercises that as soon as you do

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them, they just naturally, um.

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Change and without any contraction
or squeezing your abs, you just

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have this now smaller waist.

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It, it, it actually doesn't work that way.

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Even those, uh, bikini competitors,
when they step up on stage, talk to

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'em afterwards, they spend extensive
amounts of time working on flexing

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and posing, and it's exhausting.

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It is work up there.

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They're not just standing there
relaxed, being like, look at me.

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They are up there trying to flex and
move in a way that keeps everything

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flexed and their waist tight, and
they are engaging and bringing in

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their core as much as they can.

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Um, they are not up there
just totally fully relaxed.

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A lot of times we think that they are and
we compare to that or we compare to people

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who found just the right gym lighting are.

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Not only sucking in their waist,
but also engaging their core.

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And they have a smile on their face
and they're like, oh, look at me.

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You can get this too.

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And, and they actually look quite
different when they relax and

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they're not under that same lighting.

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Or maybe by the end of the day
they've eaten enough and their

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waste is now holding more food
and doesn't look like that.

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And we compare our worst
to their photo best.

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So today's just a reminder to you
that you have your own genetics.

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Two people will do the exact same workout
and it will turn out different for both

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of them, and you cannot snatch your waist.

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A lot of these exercises that
people are doing on apps.

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They will strengthen your abs so that
when you flex, you may be able to bring

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it in a little bit more when you flex.

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Okay?

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That's really, really important.

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It's not just you walking around, not
flexing and, but yet you have like

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two inch smaller waist because you did
these magic exercises that don't exist.,

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Another thing too is let's just
talk about ABS for a minute here.

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If you really want to build your abs
muscles and hypertrophy them, you have

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to remember that at one point you will
have to start putting them under weight.

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So that's why we do things like
cable crunches, um, so that we can

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start progressing and progressively
overloading them, putting more and

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more weight on them to build them.

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Now.

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Hypertrophy is to make bigger.

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So if you want to build out your six
pack so it looks bigger, keep in mind

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that is going to increase waist size.

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But some people are like, I
don't care about the waist size.

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I care just about the look.

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I really want the look so.

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If you really want to see your six
pack, it still comes down to nutrition.

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You still have to drop, uh, into
a calorie deficit to be able

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to see a reduction in body fat.

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And your body genetically will
just determine what, where it takes

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it off from first, whether that's
arms, whether it's butt, whether

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it's boobs, whether it's abs.

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Your body has this genetic map.

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That it just decides where
it's gonna take from first.

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That's important to understand because
maybe the level that you want to see of

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your abs isn't gonna happen in 12 weeks.

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Um, maybe it's after a few rounds, fat
loss rounds, and then you can see it.

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Also building out your abs will
allow you to see them better

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at higher body fat percentages.

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That's really important to understand
is if you don't want to stay as lean

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around your stomach, sometimes we can.

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Um, and maybe it's a little mix of both.

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It's building out the six pack so
it's a little bit more predominant

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and you can see it at a little
bit higher body fat percentage.

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Okay.

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Maybe it's a know you
like the size of your.

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Abdominal muscles, and now you just
want to see them more than you're

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gonna have to drop your body fat.

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Okay?

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So there's just kind of these different
elements that oftentimes aren't

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fully discussed on social media.

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Instead, people pull you in with great
genetics and little information and

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falsify information and use words
like snatching your waist without

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giving the full context of look.

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What might give somebody the
look they want could actually

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be just lowering calories.

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What could give somebody else
the look they want is no, you

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actually have to build and lower.

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Uh, so you just have to be more
cautious of the people that you follow.

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It is a huge red flag when they're
saying things like snatching your waist.

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Now, I used to believe in, well,
I have people that I follow

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that they're just like, my goal.

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And I have people that I follow, that
I get my information from, and I never

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get my information from the goal people.

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And it got to a point in my life
where I just like cut out the

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goal people because I realized
we don't have the same genetics.

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So I'm chasing their body
looking at them as a goal.

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There.

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I didn't realize it until later that
I was holding myself to a standard

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or kind of holding them up as the
standard, but in a way, because they

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didn't have the same genetics as
me, it was like I was always chasing

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something that, and it was fueling this.

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You'll never be satisfied until.

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And it, it wasn't until I finally let that
go and unfollowed him and just focused on

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me and my genetics that I felt, honestly,
I started having a healthier approach

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because I was just focusing on me.

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My genetics and what I can do now,
if you, if you can do that while

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following these people, that's great.

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I, I couldn't, I noticed that it was
sneaking in and I was holding myself to

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a standard that it wasn't healthy for me.

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So just, just throwing it out
there that, that's something

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that you might be aware of.

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Anyways, I really hope that this episode
has helped, and if you have any questions,

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please don't hesitate to send me a dm.

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On Instagram, follow me
there at Lifting Lindsey.

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You can also join me in my community
at be Strong dot lifting lindsey.com

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where we have training programs,
recipes lives with me, um, and I really

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do love getting to know you guys and
helping you all achieve your goals.

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You guys have a wonderful week.