Oneself

Summary:

In this conversation, Stephen Maher, Adam Bartleman, and Alex Nelson delve into the themes of masculinity, community, and healing. Alex shares insights from his book 'Restoring the Divine Masculine,' discussing the importance of accountability, the impact of narcissism, and the necessity of establishing boundaries. The dialogue emphasizes the need for emotional awareness and the connection between spirituality and psychology, advocating for a compassionate approach to healing generational trauma and fostering a supportive community.

Alex Nelson is the first guest of our Find the Others series, where we find cool people around the world doing good work for the betterment of humanity.

Alex is a New Earth leader dedicated to healing the world one person at a time and creating environmentally sustainable off-grid villages. Alex is the founder of ascend pathway.org - an online spiritual community that encourages personal growth and healing.

Alex has seen the decline of vibrational status amongst the collective masculine negatively affecting the collective feminine and is taking action to reverse the damage done and once again restore our humankind to balance.

Other Links:
Skool.com/ascendpathway
Alex's Book on amazon: https://a.co/d/5fQdL3l


Takeaways:
  • The Divine Masculine is about healing and accountability.
  • Community is essential for personal and collective growth.
  • Narcissism is a learned behavior, often stemming from trauma.
  • Establishing boundaries is crucial for self-respect.
  • Emotional awareness is key to healing and understanding oneself.
  • Spirituality and psychology are interconnected in our healing journey.
  • Generational trauma can affect our emotional health and relationships.
  • Compassion towards others, including narcissists, is important.
  • We can create a new Earth by supporting each other.
  • Healing requires introspection and a willingness to change.


Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to Restoring the Divine Masculine
03:06 The Importance of Community and Accountability
05:21 Understanding the Mask of Masculinity
08:17 The Rising Fall of Man
09:19 Narcissism and Its Impact on Society
13:56 Compassion Towards Narcissism
20:24 Establishing Healthy Boundaries
27:26 The Importance of Ongoing Consent
29:09 Understanding Nervous Systems in Relationships
30:08 Defining Healthy Masculinity
34:09 The Impact of Toxic Masculinity
37:00 The Role of Women in Masculine Identity
39:02 Ego and Narcissism
44:08 Integrating Psychology and Spirituality
47:11 The Dangers of Pharmaceutical Solutions
50:09 Generational Trauma and Emotional Responsibility




Creators and Guests

AB
Host
Adam Bartleman
SM
Host
Stephen Maher

What is Oneself?

Oneself is a raw and reflective podcast about identity, purpose, and transformation. Hosted by Stephen Maher and Adam Bartleman, the show explores how we come to understand who we are—through our experiences, relationships, and the deeper work of self-discovery. In each episode, they share personal stories and honest conversations around topics like mentorship, trauma, masculinity, healing, and growth. Whether you’re navigating your own path or curious about the human experience, Oneself invites you into a space where vulnerability meets wisdom and reflection leads to action.