1 01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:01,500 (upbeat music) 2 01:00:02,250 --> 01:00:04,000 Ah, all right. 3 01:00:04,000 --> 01:00:05,166 You needed the woo-saw. 4 01:00:06,083 --> 01:00:07,250 Yeah, is woo-saw a word? 5 01:00:07,250 --> 01:00:08,500 I have no idea. 6 01:00:09,250 --> 01:00:11,333 Well, you know me in yoga. 7 01:00:11,916 --> 01:00:13,791 Speaking of birds, we do-- 8 01:00:13,791 --> 01:00:14,416 Where you going with that? 9 01:00:14,708 --> 01:00:15,541 And we nailed it. 10 01:00:15,916 --> 01:00:16,625 Nailed it. 11 01:00:16,625 --> 01:00:18,250 Try to clear my own name so 12 01:00:18,250 --> 01:00:19,458 people don't think I'm a freak. 13 01:00:19,750 --> 01:00:21,250 It actually started while we were 14 01:00:21,250 --> 01:00:22,083 standing in the water 15 01:00:22,083 --> 01:00:23,291 getting ready to meet our dolphin. 16 01:00:23,875 --> 01:00:25,750 What is happening here? 17 01:00:26,166 --> 01:00:27,833 People like me, really? 18 01:00:28,166 --> 01:00:29,750 The situation, the sit. 19 01:00:30,000 --> 01:00:31,125 You guys are all special, that's great. 20 01:00:31,375 --> 01:00:31,708 Absolutely. 21 01:00:31,958 --> 01:00:35,041 But in general, most 22 01:00:35,041 --> 01:00:36,125 of us are kind of doing 23 01:00:36,125 --> 01:00:36,916 the same thing. 24 01:00:37,166 --> 01:00:38,083 It is not not fair. 25 01:00:38,416 --> 01:00:39,541 Because you chose to 26 01:00:39,541 --> 01:00:40,250 be born with a brain? 27 01:00:40,625 --> 01:00:42,541 Oh, oh, oh, we're not going there. 28 01:00:43,000 --> 01:00:44,416 Kudos, hon, you're doing a fantastic job. 29 01:00:44,833 --> 01:00:47,000 You effing crushed it. 30 01:00:47,000 --> 01:00:47,416 For freaking. 31 01:00:47,750 --> 01:00:48,916 Is when people show you 32 01:00:48,916 --> 01:00:50,791 who they are, believe them. 33 01:00:51,041 --> 01:00:52,708 And we brought that around. 34 01:00:53,791 --> 01:00:54,166 Call back. 35 01:00:54,500 --> 01:00:56,458 (laughing) 36 01:00:57,500 --> 01:00:58,541 Welcome to the Mr. and 37 01:00:58,541 --> 01:00:59,458 Mrs. English Podcast. 38 01:00:59,916 --> 01:01:00,291 I'm Megan. 39 01:01:00,708 --> 01:01:01,250 And I'm Sean. 40 01:01:01,500 --> 01:01:02,583 We're here to talk about 41 01:01:02,583 --> 01:01:04,416 the wild ride of raising kids, 42 01:01:04,416 --> 01:01:06,500 growing careers, keeping life together 43 01:01:06,500 --> 01:01:07,750 in the middle of all the chaos. 44 01:01:08,458 --> 01:01:10,458 So buckle up, because we're all 45 01:01:10,458 --> 01:01:11,833 in this crazy journey together. 46 01:01:13,708 --> 01:01:16,875 All right, we are back. 47 01:01:18,000 --> 01:01:18,291 Back. 48 01:01:19,458 --> 01:01:21,625 It is funny, like 10 49 01:01:21,625 --> 01:01:22,958 seconds before I said we are back, 50 01:01:23,000 --> 01:01:23,875 I'm like, okay, I need to 51 01:01:23,875 --> 01:01:25,583 just take a big sigh here, 52 01:01:25,583 --> 01:01:26,541 one quick moment, 53 01:01:27,250 --> 01:01:28,708 because we just basically 54 01:01:29,000 --> 01:01:30,583 flew into the chairs. 55 01:01:31,000 --> 01:01:31,458 Yeah. 56 01:01:32,750 --> 01:01:35,250 After a work day and running errands 57 01:01:35,250 --> 01:01:36,375 and work day and meetings. 58 01:01:36,958 --> 01:01:38,625 Yeah, I mean, and it was just like, 59 01:01:39,000 --> 01:01:39,791 all right, this is when 60 01:01:39,791 --> 01:01:40,666 it fits in the schedule 61 01:01:40,666 --> 01:01:43,041 and we have X many minutes. 62 01:01:43,625 --> 01:01:45,041 And then of course we had to adjust 63 01:01:45,041 --> 01:01:46,041 things in the studio, 64 01:01:46,291 --> 01:01:47,000 all things that 65 01:01:47,000 --> 01:01:48,166 people didn't know at home, 66 01:01:48,166 --> 01:01:49,041 but you know. 67 01:01:49,375 --> 01:01:50,458 That they'll never know, yeah. 68 01:01:50,458 --> 01:01:51,791 They'll never know, but it was. 69 01:01:52,000 --> 01:01:52,708 No reason to know. 70 01:01:53,000 --> 01:01:54,375 No, but now they know. 71 01:01:55,041 --> 01:01:56,041 But now they kinda know. 72 01:01:56,291 --> 01:01:56,708 I don't know. 73 01:01:58,166 --> 01:02:00,208 So I'm in that head space right now 74 01:02:00,208 --> 01:02:02,625 where it's like, I haven't come down 75 01:02:02,625 --> 01:02:04,416 from just like, go, go, go, going. 76 01:02:05,041 --> 01:02:05,708 Like most of the time 77 01:02:05,708 --> 01:02:06,875 by the time we sit here, 78 01:02:06,875 --> 01:02:07,666 I've already had time to 79 01:02:07,666 --> 01:02:09,625 like, take that deep breath, 80 01:02:10,166 --> 01:02:12,583 center myself, push everything else out, 81 01:02:12,583 --> 01:02:13,041 you know what I mean, how 82 01:02:13,041 --> 01:02:14,166 like, you just kinda reset 83 01:02:14,458 --> 01:02:15,125 yourself a little bit. 84 01:02:15,833 --> 01:02:16,625 Like right now I'm still 85 01:02:16,625 --> 01:02:19,375 on that like, warm down. 86 01:02:20,208 --> 01:02:20,833 Yeah, yeah. 87 01:02:21,833 --> 01:02:22,958 You needed the woo-saw. 88 01:02:24,291 --> 01:02:24,625 Yeah. 89 01:02:24,625 --> 01:02:25,083 Like in between. 90 01:02:25,625 --> 01:02:27,041 Yeah, is woo-saw a word? 91 01:02:27,041 --> 01:02:28,250 I have no idea. 92 01:02:28,583 --> 01:02:29,291 I feel like I've heard it 93 01:02:29,291 --> 01:02:30,291 before, but you just said it. 94 01:02:30,958 --> 01:02:33,625 I mean, I've heard it before, but like, 95 01:02:33,625 --> 01:02:36,000 will Webster consider that part of like, 96 01:02:36,000 --> 01:02:37,375 something to go into the dictionary? 97 01:02:37,666 --> 01:02:38,500 I don't know. 98 01:02:38,500 --> 01:02:40,208 I mean, if that was some yoga thing 99 01:02:40,208 --> 01:02:41,125 or some Asian 100 01:02:41,125 --> 01:02:43,458 inspired relaxation technique 101 01:02:43,458 --> 01:02:44,666 that you've learned over the years. 102 01:02:45,666 --> 01:02:47,166 Well, you know me in 103 01:02:47,166 --> 01:02:50,041 yoga and how much I do yoga. 104 01:02:50,291 --> 01:02:50,583 Yeah. 105 01:02:51,250 --> 01:02:52,208 That I don't like yoga. 106 01:02:52,625 --> 01:02:52,958 Yeah. 107 01:02:54,125 --> 01:02:55,375 But I just. 108 01:02:55,666 --> 01:02:57,250 You can count it on all your claws. 109 01:02:57,583 --> 01:02:58,666 I, yeah. 110 01:02:59,458 --> 01:03:00,375 On all your talons. 111 01:03:01,125 --> 01:03:01,583 I was trying to think 112 01:03:01,583 --> 01:03:02,458 of something in my head 113 01:03:02,458 --> 01:03:03,375 that I could say like, 114 01:03:03,708 --> 01:03:04,708 you can count it all year, 115 01:03:04,708 --> 01:03:05,583 I was gonna say tails. 116 01:03:05,583 --> 01:03:05,958 I'm like, well, I 117 01:03:05,958 --> 01:03:06,583 don't want that to come. 118 01:03:06,583 --> 01:03:08,375 That'd be weird, making this have a tail. 119 01:03:08,375 --> 01:03:08,708 People would be like, 120 01:03:08,708 --> 01:03:09,333 what did she have a tail? 121 01:03:10,125 --> 01:03:11,708 I don't have talons either, bad. 122 01:03:12,041 --> 01:03:12,750 Well, I know what talons 123 01:03:12,750 --> 01:03:15,291 aren't as possible, right? 124 01:03:15,958 --> 01:03:18,833 Like, there was a movie not too long ago, 125 01:03:18,833 --> 01:03:20,125 what was the movie with Jack Flack? 126 01:03:20,208 --> 01:03:21,625 And the guy had a tail in it. 127 01:03:21,625 --> 01:03:22,708 He had like a little tail stub. 128 01:03:23,125 --> 01:03:25,125 I don't know. 129 01:03:25,166 --> 01:03:27,083 The one where he saw her as skinny, 130 01:03:27,083 --> 01:03:28,541 but she was really big in real life. 131 01:03:28,583 --> 01:03:29,750 I've never seen that movie. 132 01:03:30,458 --> 01:03:31,291 What's the name of it though? 133 01:03:31,291 --> 01:03:31,875 You should have the name of it. 134 01:03:31,916 --> 01:03:32,666 It's an old movie. 135 01:03:33,000 --> 01:03:34,416 Kind of, yeah, probably 20 years old. 136 01:03:34,500 --> 01:03:35,250 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 137 01:03:35,916 --> 01:03:37,291 Gwen's in it, right? 138 01:03:38,000 --> 01:03:38,708 Gwen is Paltrow. 139 01:03:38,708 --> 01:03:39,916 Yeah, yeah, it has. 140 01:03:40,750 --> 01:03:43,000 Anyways, a guy in that had a tail. 141 01:03:43,000 --> 01:03:43,541 So I was like, I don't 142 01:03:43,541 --> 01:03:44,666 really wanna say you have a tail 143 01:03:44,666 --> 01:03:45,166 because people are like, 144 01:03:45,166 --> 01:03:46,041 oh, does she have a tail? 145 01:03:46,041 --> 01:03:46,500 I don't. 146 01:03:47,000 --> 01:03:49,208 I just wanna go out there. 147 01:03:50,458 --> 01:03:52,125 Clarify that really quickly. 148 01:03:52,333 --> 01:03:53,666 You told me to stop telling everybody 149 01:03:53,666 --> 01:03:55,666 that you were legally blind. 150 01:03:56,000 --> 01:03:56,375 Yep, yep. 151 01:03:56,375 --> 01:03:58,250 So I've decided to now throw in, 152 01:03:58,500 --> 01:03:59,375 apparently that you have a tail. 153 01:04:01,041 --> 01:04:01,750 Oh my gosh. 154 01:04:02,125 --> 01:04:03,208 So your choice, which 155 01:04:03,208 --> 01:04:03,958 one would you pick first? 156 01:04:03,958 --> 01:04:05,041 What kind of freak did you marry? 157 01:04:05,666 --> 01:04:06,750 Yeah, well, I guess 158 01:04:06,750 --> 01:04:08,875 that's birds of a feather. 159 01:04:11,833 --> 01:04:13,375 Speaking of birds. 160 01:04:14,208 --> 01:04:15,833 Good, what are you going with that? 161 01:04:16,083 --> 01:04:18,291 I don't really know, but the Grammys. 162 01:04:19,500 --> 01:04:21,375 And should we talk about the birdcage 163 01:04:21,375 --> 01:04:22,833 that was on Lady Gaga's head? 164 01:04:23,166 --> 01:04:25,375 Oh my gosh, sure, go ahead. 165 01:04:25,625 --> 01:04:27,958 Yeah, this is our pop culture segment. 166 01:04:27,958 --> 01:04:29,708 This is the pop culture segment. 167 01:04:30,791 --> 01:04:34,291 I mean, I am not on the 168 01:04:34,291 --> 01:04:36,458 cutting edge of fashion, right? 169 01:04:36,791 --> 01:04:38,291 But I like to be fashionable. 170 01:04:39,458 --> 01:04:44,500 However, the whole woven basket headdress 171 01:04:44,916 --> 01:04:46,000 that Lady Gaga had 172 01:04:46,000 --> 01:04:46,750 that was then fashioned 173 01:04:46,958 --> 01:04:47,750 into a birdcage, I mean, 174 01:04:47,750 --> 01:04:48,458 it looked like you just went 175 01:04:48,541 --> 01:04:50,916 into a home decor and 176 01:04:50,916 --> 01:04:53,375 cut up a wicker basket 177 01:04:53,375 --> 01:04:56,000 to make it look like a birdcage. 178 01:04:56,500 --> 01:04:58,250 I was like, oh gosh, I think that would 179 01:04:58,250 --> 01:04:59,291 make me claustrophobic. 180 01:04:59,541 --> 01:05:00,708 That really affected you, 181 01:05:00,708 --> 01:05:02,291 because you were really 182 01:05:02,291 --> 01:05:05,041 kind of in a tizzy about it 183 01:05:05,041 --> 01:05:06,208 the night it was happening. 184 01:05:07,125 --> 01:05:09,000 And then now, multiple days later, 185 01:05:09,000 --> 01:05:10,333 you're still kind of one of the first 186 01:05:10,333 --> 01:05:11,041 things you brought up. 187 01:05:11,250 --> 01:05:12,333 That really kind of 188 01:05:12,333 --> 01:05:13,833 made an impression on you. 189 01:05:14,250 --> 01:05:15,125 A negative impression. 190 01:05:15,666 --> 01:05:16,916 Yeah, I mean, you know what? 191 01:05:18,875 --> 01:05:20,666 Again, I don't really know fashion. 192 01:05:21,000 --> 01:05:22,583 First off, the girl can sing, right? 193 01:05:22,583 --> 01:05:23,875 She can blow, that's incredible. 194 01:05:24,541 --> 01:05:25,000 She can totally sing. 195 01:05:25,958 --> 01:05:27,000 But she's always loved 196 01:05:27,000 --> 01:05:28,291 to push that fashion. 197 01:05:28,333 --> 01:05:28,791 Definitely. 198 01:05:30,208 --> 01:05:31,583 Line, if you want to call it that. 199 01:05:31,583 --> 01:05:32,333 I'm not even sure it's that. 200 01:05:32,333 --> 01:05:34,458 I think she loves the shock value. 201 01:05:34,458 --> 01:05:35,291 She loves the shock value. 202 01:05:35,625 --> 01:05:36,666 I must say, I did 203 01:05:36,666 --> 01:05:37,875 actually like her outfit 204 01:05:37,875 --> 01:05:39,916 with the feathered shirt and everything. 205 01:05:39,916 --> 01:05:41,416 I thought that actually was really cool. 206 01:05:41,458 --> 01:05:42,708 Like in where you would wear it or? 207 01:05:43,833 --> 01:05:47,166 Well, I don't necessarily have a reason 208 01:05:47,500 --> 01:05:48,750 to wear something like that. 209 01:05:48,750 --> 01:05:49,333 A feathered shirt. 210 01:05:49,583 --> 01:05:51,041 Yeah, like I'm not going to the Met Gala 211 01:05:51,041 --> 01:05:52,666 where everybody is touting 212 01:05:52,666 --> 01:05:55,500 how eccentric one can dress. 213 01:05:57,125 --> 01:05:58,125 But it was the headdress that-- 214 01:05:58,125 --> 01:05:58,750 Yeah, she's kind of 215 01:05:58,750 --> 01:06:01,291 going to the Met Gala. 216 01:06:01,791 --> 01:06:02,708 Anytime she's performing 217 01:06:02,708 --> 01:06:03,750 sometimes, I feel like, right? 218 01:06:03,791 --> 01:06:04,083 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 219 01:06:04,083 --> 01:06:05,083 She's very shock value. 220 01:06:05,791 --> 01:06:07,250 The meat dress was one 221 01:06:07,250 --> 01:06:08,583 and she's had several. 222 01:06:08,583 --> 01:06:09,083 I can't remember. Several. 223 01:06:09,875 --> 01:06:11,000 Even her daughter knew the meat dress 224 01:06:11,000 --> 01:06:11,916 and that was before she was 225 01:06:11,916 --> 01:06:13,416 even alive, I'm pretty sure. 226 01:06:13,416 --> 01:06:15,666 Or certainly before she would 227 01:06:15,666 --> 01:06:17,958 have any cognitive memories. 228 01:06:18,791 --> 01:06:19,416 Right, right, right, right, right. 229 01:06:20,000 --> 01:06:21,125 She was pretty young. 230 01:06:21,166 --> 01:06:22,208 Yeah, that was something. 231 01:06:22,208 --> 01:06:22,666 The thing that caught 232 01:06:22,666 --> 01:06:23,583 me off guard on that one, 233 01:06:24,125 --> 01:06:26,083 I said it that night too, is there was a 234 01:06:26,083 --> 01:06:27,041 lot of choreography. 235 01:06:27,416 --> 01:06:30,500 So if you didn't see it, it's basically 236 01:06:30,500 --> 01:06:32,041 like a wicker basket 237 01:06:32,291 --> 01:06:33,583 that kind of has the front 238 01:06:33,583 --> 01:06:34,541 of it, looks like a birdcage. 239 01:06:35,333 --> 01:06:35,958 She almost looks like 240 01:06:35,958 --> 01:06:37,541 she's behind bars, wicker bars. 241 01:06:37,541 --> 01:06:39,125 They're all like two inches wide maybe. 242 01:06:39,666 --> 01:06:41,083 But just on the front, so it's almost 243 01:06:41,083 --> 01:06:42,125 like a helmet like that. 244 01:06:42,708 --> 01:06:43,916 But the whole thing was a wicker basket, 245 01:06:43,916 --> 01:06:44,708 went down to her shoulders. 246 01:06:45,916 --> 01:06:50,083 But she looked up, you could see under it 247 01:06:50,083 --> 01:06:51,083 and see her whole face. 248 01:06:51,875 --> 01:06:53,208 And so there is this 249 01:06:53,208 --> 01:06:55,750 very complex choreography 250 01:06:56,458 --> 01:06:58,458 that clearly they had worked on before 251 01:06:58,458 --> 01:06:59,250 because there was all 252 01:06:59,250 --> 01:07:01,666 these different on count four. 253 01:07:01,958 --> 01:07:03,166 Then she's gonna do the look up 254 01:07:03,166 --> 01:07:04,000 and then the camera's 255 01:07:04,000 --> 01:07:05,833 going down and you can see up. 256 01:07:06,416 --> 01:07:08,375 And then she's going to the floor 257 01:07:08,375 --> 01:07:09,666 but she's gonna look to the side. 258 01:07:10,708 --> 01:07:13,166 It was perfectly choreographed. 259 01:07:13,208 --> 01:07:14,375 Perfectly, yeah. 260 01:07:15,000 --> 01:07:17,000 You know like the production, 261 01:07:17,291 --> 01:07:18,625 the person, the producer of, 262 01:07:18,958 --> 01:07:20,125 I couldn't find the word producer, 263 01:07:20,333 --> 01:07:21,375 it's been that kind of a day. 264 01:07:21,375 --> 01:07:22,000 But yeah, you know the 265 01:07:22,000 --> 01:07:23,583 producer of the Grammys is like, 266 01:07:24,500 --> 01:07:25,791 we spent a lot of time on that. 267 01:07:26,583 --> 01:07:28,708 Yeah, you wouldn't believe how much time 268 01:07:28,708 --> 01:07:30,958 we're spending on this birdcage. 269 01:07:31,083 --> 01:07:31,916 And they may get an 270 01:07:31,916 --> 01:07:32,916 Academy Award next time. 271 01:07:32,958 --> 01:07:33,833 And we nailed it. 272 01:07:34,416 --> 01:07:35,500 Nailed it, or an Emmy. 273 01:07:35,916 --> 01:07:36,375 Technically that 274 01:07:36,375 --> 01:07:37,166 would be an Emmy I think. 275 01:07:37,500 --> 01:07:38,250 Yeah, that might be 276 01:07:38,250 --> 01:07:39,375 what it is, I don't know. 277 01:07:40,916 --> 01:07:41,875 Pop culture segment. 278 01:07:42,750 --> 01:07:43,333 First one. 279 01:07:44,041 --> 01:07:44,500 Yeah. 280 01:07:44,750 --> 01:07:45,666 First and last maybe. 281 01:07:46,458 --> 01:07:47,166 Quite possibly. 282 01:07:47,416 --> 01:07:49,000 Could be, could be, could be, yeah. 283 01:07:49,375 --> 01:07:50,583 We don't usually have too 284 01:07:50,583 --> 01:07:52,083 many pop culture references. 285 01:07:52,083 --> 01:07:52,583 It's just that one 286 01:07:52,583 --> 01:07:54,416 was really top of mind. 287 01:07:55,500 --> 01:07:57,500 And somehow it tied into. 288 01:07:58,375 --> 01:07:58,541 Bird. 289 01:07:59,458 --> 01:08:01,250 Birds of a feather. 290 01:08:01,833 --> 01:08:02,041 Yeah. 291 01:08:02,916 --> 01:08:04,208 Which was related to. 292 01:08:04,208 --> 01:08:04,625 I thought you were 293 01:08:04,625 --> 01:08:05,583 going with Billie Eilish 294 01:08:05,583 --> 01:08:06,375 because she sang a 295 01:08:06,375 --> 01:08:07,500 song, Birds of a Feather, 296 01:08:07,500 --> 01:08:08,416 and she was on the Grammys. 297 01:08:09,250 --> 01:08:10,083 I think they won a Grammy. 298 01:08:10,416 --> 01:08:11,083 I think they did. 299 01:08:11,125 --> 01:08:11,416 Yeah. 300 01:08:11,791 --> 01:08:13,375 Yeah, but anyway. 301 01:08:13,791 --> 01:08:15,125 That's not where you're going. 302 01:08:15,958 --> 01:08:17,458 You know, that was really tangential, 303 01:08:17,708 --> 01:08:19,666 but I will circle back to it and be like, 304 01:08:20,208 --> 01:08:21,000 yeah, I'm not legally 305 01:08:21,000 --> 01:08:22,083 blind, nor do I have a tail. 306 01:08:22,541 --> 01:08:23,458 And just we're gonna. 307 01:08:23,541 --> 01:08:24,708 Let's circle back to that. 308 01:08:24,750 --> 01:08:26,000 We're gonna set the record straight. 309 01:08:26,000 --> 01:08:28,375 Let's just make sure we cover that fully. 310 01:08:29,583 --> 01:08:30,666 Not cover the tail, 311 01:08:30,666 --> 01:08:31,541 I'm saying cover the fact 312 01:08:31,541 --> 01:08:32,500 that there is no tail. 313 01:08:34,875 --> 01:08:36,000 Because you would want to cover that 314 01:08:36,000 --> 01:08:37,166 if there was one for sure. 315 01:08:39,791 --> 01:08:41,375 I don't even know where to go with this. 316 01:08:41,375 --> 01:08:42,875 I've tried to clear my own name 317 01:08:42,875 --> 01:08:44,333 so people don't think I'm a freak. 318 01:08:44,583 --> 01:08:45,416 You do not have a tail, 319 01:08:45,416 --> 01:08:45,958 and I'm sorry I 320 01:08:45,958 --> 01:08:47,208 brought it up in such a way. 321 01:08:48,375 --> 01:08:49,000 I don't either. 322 01:08:50,291 --> 01:08:52,166 Just in case that were to 323 01:08:52,166 --> 01:08:54,708 bleed over this direction. 324 01:08:57,000 --> 01:08:57,625 Oh, wow. 325 01:08:58,208 --> 01:08:58,875 Yeah, yeah. 326 01:08:59,333 --> 01:09:01,000 Well, one of the fun things for us this, 327 01:09:01,375 --> 01:09:04,708 so we've, this year that we've known, 328 01:09:05,041 --> 01:09:06,625 2026 is gonna be a crazy year 329 01:09:06,708 --> 01:09:09,500 because of all the, no different 330 01:09:09,500 --> 01:09:10,791 than we've talked about here before, 331 01:09:10,791 --> 01:09:12,541 but the crazy train hits 332 01:09:12,541 --> 01:09:14,958 basically every weekend and week, 333 01:09:14,958 --> 01:09:18,375 this entire year of 2026, saved two. 334 01:09:19,208 --> 01:09:20,541 We have two weeks 335 01:09:20,541 --> 01:09:22,833 that we could potentially 336 01:09:23,750 --> 01:09:25,750 go on a family vacation. 337 01:09:26,125 --> 01:09:27,750 And we hadn't even, we 338 01:09:27,750 --> 01:09:28,875 hadn't even scheduled them. 339 01:09:29,041 --> 01:09:29,333 No. 340 01:09:29,500 --> 01:09:30,416 Because of that, because 341 01:09:30,416 --> 01:09:31,416 even some of them were like, 342 01:09:31,416 --> 01:09:32,416 well, if they make this, if 343 01:09:32,416 --> 01:09:33,375 they make that, who knows. 344 01:09:33,750 --> 01:09:34,541 That's exactly right. 345 01:09:34,666 --> 01:09:37,166 But in the last week, probably, 346 01:09:37,541 --> 01:09:38,916 we filled both those dates. 347 01:09:39,375 --> 01:09:39,958 Both of them. 348 01:09:40,250 --> 01:09:41,833 I mean, that's like a high five 349 01:09:41,833 --> 01:09:42,791 for getting something accomplished. 350 01:09:42,791 --> 01:09:44,125 It is a high five, yeah. 351 01:09:44,125 --> 01:09:44,666 I mean. That's right. 352 01:09:45,166 --> 01:09:45,541 That's right. 353 01:09:46,458 --> 01:09:48,458 We have solidified vacation 354 01:09:48,458 --> 01:09:50,750 dates, which feels so good. 355 01:09:50,791 --> 01:09:52,291 It is, and I do feel a little bad 356 01:09:52,291 --> 01:09:53,791 because we had two sides of the family 357 01:09:53,791 --> 01:09:56,041 we were contemplating going on a cruise, 358 01:09:56,541 --> 01:09:58,125 and we said, hey, book it, 359 01:09:58,125 --> 01:09:59,000 whatever dates you guys 360 01:09:59,000 --> 01:10:00,333 work for you, that's fantastic. 361 01:10:00,625 --> 01:10:02,625 If we can make it, you know, we'll try. 362 01:10:02,625 --> 01:10:03,750 If not, have a great time. 363 01:10:04,333 --> 01:10:05,875 It's just don't work around our schedule. 364 01:10:05,875 --> 01:10:07,416 Our schedule is crazy this year. 365 01:10:07,416 --> 01:10:08,208 Maybe for the next 366 01:10:08,208 --> 01:10:08,958 three years, who knows. 367 01:10:09,291 --> 01:10:09,625 All right. 368 01:10:09,958 --> 01:10:11,791 That being said, one of 369 01:10:11,791 --> 01:10:13,208 them fit into that week. 370 01:10:13,541 --> 01:10:14,541 And it was like, well, 371 01:10:15,583 --> 01:10:17,250 really hard to say no 372 01:10:17,250 --> 01:10:19,500 when it actually happens to be that week. 373 01:10:19,500 --> 01:10:20,916 You know what I mean? I know, exactly. 374 01:10:21,500 --> 01:10:22,000 Yeah. Exactly. 375 01:10:22,333 --> 01:10:23,041 Plus, I think it was something 376 01:10:23,041 --> 01:10:24,583 that everybody wanted to do. 377 01:10:24,625 --> 01:10:25,541 Yes. Kids love the cousins 378 01:10:25,541 --> 01:10:26,625 on that side, obviously. 379 01:10:27,041 --> 01:10:29,125 Yeah, and so they're over the moon. 380 01:10:29,208 --> 01:10:29,791 Right, right. 381 01:10:30,166 --> 01:10:33,333 Which for me, I absolutely love, 382 01:10:34,208 --> 01:10:35,458 I think you feel this way, 383 01:10:35,458 --> 01:10:37,583 but I wanna hear your take on it. 384 01:10:40,083 --> 01:10:41,291 Some of my best friends 385 01:10:41,291 --> 01:10:44,291 throughout my entire childhood, 386 01:10:44,375 --> 01:10:45,500 adolescence, and early 387 01:10:45,500 --> 01:10:47,500 adulthood were my cousins. 388 01:10:48,250 --> 01:10:49,916 We were inseparable. 389 01:10:49,916 --> 01:10:51,041 We went to college together. 390 01:10:51,333 --> 01:10:53,291 We lived together in college. 391 01:10:53,500 --> 01:10:56,083 I mean, like, and so for me, 392 01:10:57,000 --> 01:10:59,833 it warms my heart to see 393 01:10:59,833 --> 01:11:02,000 our kids love their cousins 394 01:11:02,041 --> 01:11:05,125 and have a cool bond and relationship. 395 01:11:05,500 --> 01:11:07,083 Yeah. Like I did, you know. 396 01:11:07,500 --> 01:11:08,375 Well, and it's harder. 397 01:11:08,375 --> 01:11:09,333 There's a couple more 398 01:11:09,333 --> 01:11:10,125 hurdles there, right? 399 01:11:10,166 --> 01:11:10,583 There are. 400 01:11:11,000 --> 01:11:12,583 Primarily thousands of 401 01:11:12,583 --> 01:11:14,000 miles between where we live, 402 01:11:14,000 --> 01:11:15,708 whereas you just had a couple hour drive. 403 01:11:15,750 --> 01:11:16,750 That's right, right. At 404 01:11:16,750 --> 01:11:18,208 best, at most, you know. 405 01:11:18,625 --> 01:11:18,875 Right, right. 406 01:11:19,625 --> 01:11:20,750 So yeah, I think 407 01:11:20,750 --> 01:11:22,500 that's, I agree with you. 408 01:11:22,750 --> 01:11:24,291 I didn't really have that growing up. 409 01:11:24,291 --> 01:11:26,000 I was stuck in the middle. 410 01:11:26,750 --> 01:11:28,625 I had a handful of older cousins, 411 01:11:28,833 --> 01:11:29,708 significantly older. 412 01:11:30,291 --> 01:11:33,750 They're not gonna hang out with a kid 413 01:11:33,875 --> 01:11:35,208 that's eight years younger than them. 414 01:11:35,250 --> 01:11:35,666 Yeah. You know? 415 01:11:36,458 --> 01:11:37,458 And then I was at least 416 01:11:37,458 --> 01:11:39,416 five years to 12 years older 417 01:11:39,416 --> 01:11:40,791 than the bottom half of 418 01:11:40,791 --> 01:11:42,250 them and a different gender. 419 01:11:42,250 --> 01:11:43,083 They were all girls 420 01:11:43,083 --> 01:11:44,666 except for my cousin Brian. 421 01:11:45,125 --> 01:11:46,500 Yeah. Who was, I think, 422 01:11:46,500 --> 01:11:47,875 eight or nine years younger than me too. 423 01:11:48,583 --> 01:11:50,875 Yeah. And so, you know, 424 01:11:51,250 --> 01:11:52,291 it wasn't until later in 425 01:11:52,291 --> 01:11:54,291 life when he and I kinda really, 426 01:11:54,750 --> 01:11:55,291 he and I actually 427 01:11:55,291 --> 01:11:56,291 played a lot when I was a kid 428 01:11:56,291 --> 01:11:58,416 because he was tough. 429 01:11:58,875 --> 01:12:00,708 I remember one time he punched me. 430 01:12:00,791 --> 01:12:02,333 Oh, seriously? I was outside 431 01:12:02,333 --> 01:12:02,958 playing basketball, I think 432 01:12:02,958 --> 01:12:03,916 I was in high school maybe, 433 01:12:04,375 --> 01:12:05,166 and he was out there, 434 01:12:05,166 --> 01:12:06,541 I was at their house, 435 01:12:06,541 --> 01:12:08,583 my uncle's house, and I 436 01:12:08,583 --> 01:12:09,375 was dribbling the ball 437 01:12:09,375 --> 01:12:11,166 or something like that in their driveway. 438 01:12:12,166 --> 01:12:14,000 And little Brian had to 439 01:12:14,000 --> 01:12:14,666 have been, I don't know, 440 01:12:14,666 --> 01:12:15,500 eight years old or something 441 01:12:15,500 --> 01:12:16,666 like that maybe at that time. 442 01:12:17,333 --> 01:12:18,041 And he came out and he 443 01:12:18,041 --> 01:12:19,750 punched me right in the diaphragm, 444 01:12:20,000 --> 01:12:22,000 and he hit hard, I was like, whoa! 445 01:12:22,000 --> 01:12:22,541 I mean, like, almost 446 01:12:22,541 --> 01:12:23,458 where it took my breath away. 447 01:12:25,041 --> 01:12:25,500 (laughing) 448 01:12:26,041 --> 01:12:26,958 That was one of the times I remember 449 01:12:26,958 --> 01:12:27,833 hanging out with him. 450 01:12:28,875 --> 01:12:29,750 That's funny, I didn't know that. 451 01:12:29,791 --> 01:12:30,458 I got beat up by an 452 01:12:30,458 --> 01:12:31,125 eight year old, basically. 453 01:12:31,583 --> 01:12:32,375 Yeah, maybe. 454 01:12:33,625 --> 01:12:34,458 Let's tout that one. 455 01:12:35,000 --> 01:12:36,041 You should be real proud of it. 456 01:12:36,083 --> 01:12:38,000 Yeah, I'm on a good streak of 457 01:12:38,000 --> 01:12:40,166 self-defamation today. 458 01:12:40,583 --> 01:12:42,750 Yeah, just bring yourself down a notch. 459 01:12:42,791 --> 01:12:43,583 That's right, that's right. 460 01:12:44,375 --> 01:12:45,583 Yeah, so I didn't really have that, 461 01:12:45,583 --> 01:12:46,458 but I'm glad the kids do. 462 01:12:47,000 --> 01:12:49,875 I get it from a social, I mean, I get it. 463 01:12:50,583 --> 01:12:51,791 Understand why it can be fun. 464 01:12:52,166 --> 01:12:53,833 So I'm glad they have that, hopefully 465 01:12:53,833 --> 01:12:54,666 they have a good time. 466 01:12:55,000 --> 01:12:56,375 Yeah, well, and really on 467 01:12:56,375 --> 01:12:57,208 both sides of our family, 468 01:12:57,375 --> 01:12:58,083 I mean, our kids have 469 01:12:58,083 --> 01:13:00,083 cousins at their same age, 470 01:13:00,291 --> 01:13:01,750 like on both sides. 471 01:13:02,250 --> 01:13:03,041 Yeah, some older, some 472 01:13:03,041 --> 01:13:04,333 younger, but like every, 473 01:13:05,041 --> 01:13:05,875 they all have at least 474 01:13:05,875 --> 01:13:08,000 one that's their age. 475 01:13:08,291 --> 01:13:09,416 So it's kind of cool. 476 01:13:09,625 --> 01:13:10,458 Yeah, unfortunately, 477 01:13:10,458 --> 01:13:11,500 almost none of them live 478 01:13:11,500 --> 01:13:12,666 in the same state that we do. 479 01:13:13,125 --> 01:13:14,000 Correct, yeah. 480 01:13:14,000 --> 01:13:14,458 There's like that. 481 01:13:14,458 --> 01:13:15,333 We did have a couple in 482 01:13:15,333 --> 01:13:16,375 the state for a while, 483 01:13:16,375 --> 01:13:17,833 but they were a little bit older, 484 01:13:19,250 --> 01:13:23,041 where it just didn't groove that well. 485 01:13:23,458 --> 01:13:24,791 And again, we have so many 486 01:13:24,791 --> 01:13:26,375 soccer games and track meets 487 01:13:26,541 --> 01:13:27,125 and it's like, we're 488 01:13:27,125 --> 01:13:27,875 not gonna see you anyways. 489 01:13:28,291 --> 01:13:29,250 So the only time we will 490 01:13:29,250 --> 01:13:30,291 see somebody is on a vacation. 491 01:13:30,958 --> 01:13:33,000 Whereas you would see people on holidays 492 01:13:33,625 --> 01:13:35,125 or birthdays probably. 493 01:13:36,333 --> 01:13:38,000 Yeah, it was, yeah, a lot more common. 494 01:13:38,000 --> 01:13:39,000 We were four hours away 495 01:13:39,000 --> 01:13:42,291 and we could make that trip 496 01:13:42,500 --> 01:13:43,750 and it was easy. 497 01:13:44,500 --> 01:13:46,708 So four hours, it sounds 498 01:13:46,708 --> 01:13:47,833 like a lot, but it's not. 499 01:13:48,208 --> 01:13:48,458 I mean. 500 01:13:49,291 --> 01:13:50,166 Yeah, not when you know 501 01:13:50,166 --> 01:13:51,208 you're going to and whatnot. 502 01:13:51,750 --> 01:13:52,375 Yeah, that's fun. 503 01:13:52,541 --> 01:13:53,541 And you guys did it all the time too. 504 01:13:53,541 --> 01:13:54,125 When you do it, it's 505 01:13:54,125 --> 01:13:54,791 not that big of a deal. 506 01:13:55,000 --> 01:13:55,791 That's exactly right. 507 01:13:56,291 --> 01:13:57,541 Because we didn't grow up 508 01:13:57,541 --> 01:13:59,416 with family in our area. 509 01:14:00,166 --> 01:14:01,250 Everybody was at least 510 01:14:01,250 --> 01:14:02,875 minimum four hours away 511 01:14:02,875 --> 01:14:03,791 just to see family. 512 01:14:04,083 --> 01:14:04,458 I bet. 513 01:14:04,458 --> 01:14:06,500 I bet the rest of my family though, 514 01:14:07,625 --> 01:14:08,916 I bet they enjoyed the cousins 515 01:14:08,916 --> 01:14:09,916 because all the girls 516 01:14:09,916 --> 01:14:11,250 had cousins their age 517 01:14:12,166 --> 01:14:14,250 within an hour on 518 01:14:14,250 --> 01:14:15,375 that side of the family. 519 01:14:15,791 --> 01:14:16,958 Or on both sides actually there. 520 01:14:17,166 --> 01:14:18,791 So I mean, I think 521 01:14:18,791 --> 01:14:19,541 they probably had a lot 522 01:14:19,541 --> 01:14:20,333 of the same experience 523 01:14:20,333 --> 01:14:21,833 that you had with your cousins 524 01:14:21,833 --> 01:14:23,041 where they were very close. 525 01:14:24,458 --> 01:14:26,875 So I can see how that 526 01:14:26,875 --> 01:14:28,166 worked out for them. 527 01:14:28,833 --> 01:14:29,458 Built in friends. 528 01:14:29,791 --> 01:14:30,750 Yeah, yeah. 529 01:14:31,250 --> 01:14:32,333 Kind of just go with that. 530 01:14:32,625 --> 01:14:35,375 Go wherever you go and I don't know. 531 01:14:35,416 --> 01:14:36,750 So we'll have more cool experiences. 532 01:14:36,750 --> 01:14:37,666 We got to spend, we 533 01:14:37,666 --> 01:14:38,625 were in Hawaii with them 534 01:14:39,041 --> 01:14:39,833 two years ago now? 535 01:14:39,875 --> 01:14:40,041 Yeah. 536 01:14:40,333 --> 01:14:40,666 Already? 537 01:14:41,250 --> 01:14:42,250 A year and a half at least. 538 01:14:42,250 --> 01:14:42,541 A year and a half, yeah. 539 01:14:43,375 --> 01:14:44,458 This summer will be two years. 540 01:14:44,875 --> 01:14:45,583 Right, right. 541 01:14:46,958 --> 01:14:47,916 So there's that one. 542 01:14:47,916 --> 01:14:49,333 And then the second one, which is 543 01:14:49,333 --> 01:14:49,916 actually we're taking 544 01:14:50,041 --> 01:14:52,333 first, we booked up that weekend 545 01:14:52,666 --> 01:14:53,625 and this is a vacation 546 01:14:53,625 --> 01:14:56,125 that we took three years ago, 547 01:14:56,125 --> 01:14:56,750 four years ago? 548 01:14:56,791 --> 01:14:57,583 Three or four, yeah. 549 01:14:57,916 --> 01:14:59,250 Yeah, three or four years ago. 550 01:15:00,333 --> 01:15:01,875 And it rained the 551 01:15:01,875 --> 01:15:03,625 entire time we were there. 552 01:15:04,041 --> 01:15:05,500 And not the kind of rain, you're like, 553 01:15:05,500 --> 01:15:06,250 "You know what, let's 554 01:15:06,250 --> 01:15:07,041 just have a great time. 555 01:15:07,333 --> 01:15:08,458 "You know what, it'll be all right. 556 01:15:08,458 --> 01:15:09,250 "We'll enjoy it, it's 557 01:15:09,250 --> 01:15:10,083 not that big of a deal." 558 01:15:10,166 --> 01:15:12,875 No, it's Bahamas. 559 01:15:13,125 --> 01:15:13,791 It's in the Bahamas. 560 01:15:14,500 --> 01:15:17,041 And it monsoon poured the 561 01:15:17,041 --> 01:15:18,375 whole time we were there. 562 01:15:18,916 --> 01:15:20,541 It actually started while we were 563 01:15:20,541 --> 01:15:21,416 standing in the water 564 01:15:21,541 --> 01:15:22,750 getting ready to meet our dolphin. 565 01:15:23,541 --> 01:15:25,125 Yes, we were supposed to. 566 01:15:25,125 --> 01:15:26,208 The dolphin experience. 567 01:15:26,500 --> 01:15:29,291 Yes, and Shree, the dolphin. 568 01:15:30,333 --> 01:15:31,666 Yeah, she got a bit of a break 569 01:15:31,791 --> 01:15:32,958 because everybody was 570 01:15:32,958 --> 01:15:34,000 standing in the pouring rain. 571 01:15:34,000 --> 01:15:35,458 So I think they ended up sending her away 572 01:15:35,458 --> 01:15:36,500 while we all had to go. 573 01:15:36,666 --> 01:15:37,958 We tried to wait it out. 574 01:15:37,958 --> 01:15:38,875 We tried to wait it out for 575 01:15:38,875 --> 01:15:40,458 like an hour and a half or so. 576 01:15:40,458 --> 01:15:40,958 While we're undercover, 577 01:15:41,333 --> 01:15:42,291 the dolphin trainers in there 578 01:15:42,291 --> 01:15:44,666 telling us all the stats 579 01:15:44,666 --> 01:15:46,458 and facts about dolphins. 580 01:15:47,041 --> 01:15:48,125 Dolphin training and 581 01:15:48,125 --> 01:15:48,875 all that kind of stuff. 582 01:15:49,708 --> 01:15:51,666 And it just, it didn't break. 583 01:15:51,666 --> 01:15:52,333 So we actually ended 584 01:15:52,333 --> 01:15:53,541 up going back out there. 585 01:15:53,541 --> 01:15:54,000 Everybody's just 586 01:15:54,000 --> 01:15:56,750 shivering, standing in knee high, 587 01:15:56,750 --> 01:15:57,750 thigh high water. 588 01:15:58,375 --> 01:15:59,416 It was so cold. 589 01:15:59,916 --> 01:16:01,708 I remember thinking like, 590 01:16:01,708 --> 01:16:03,375 "Well, we will never forget this moment." 591 01:16:03,916 --> 01:16:05,791 Like there was more rain. 592 01:16:06,041 --> 01:16:06,625 Like we were probably 593 01:16:06,625 --> 01:16:08,000 getting wetter coming from the sky 594 01:16:08,000 --> 01:16:09,291 than we were in like 595 01:16:09,291 --> 01:16:10,875 standing in the water. 596 01:16:11,000 --> 01:16:12,166 Oh yeah, oh for sure. 597 01:16:13,541 --> 01:16:14,500 And then it just didn't let 598 01:16:14,500 --> 01:16:16,541 up for the rest of the trip. 599 01:16:16,916 --> 01:16:17,791 The rest of the trip. 600 01:16:18,916 --> 01:16:19,958 That is not true. 601 01:16:20,166 --> 01:16:20,750 That is not true. 602 01:16:20,750 --> 01:16:22,125 We did have like an hour 603 01:16:22,125 --> 01:16:24,791 moment where it didn't. 604 01:16:25,125 --> 01:16:25,875 And we could see the 605 01:16:25,875 --> 01:16:27,833 blue turquoise come out 606 01:16:27,833 --> 01:16:28,875 for just a moment. 607 01:16:28,875 --> 01:16:29,958 The sun came out. 608 01:16:30,500 --> 01:16:33,250 We went snorkeling and we 609 01:16:33,250 --> 01:16:35,791 saw like two or three tortoises 610 01:16:36,000 --> 01:16:36,375 under there. 611 01:16:36,375 --> 01:16:36,958 So I think it was just 612 01:16:36,958 --> 01:16:37,750 me and the kids, right? 613 01:16:37,750 --> 01:16:38,416 Did you come out? 614 01:16:38,416 --> 01:16:39,166 Yeah, it was just you and the kids. 615 01:16:39,166 --> 01:16:39,458 I don't think you 616 01:16:39,458 --> 01:16:40,333 made your way out there. 617 01:16:40,333 --> 01:16:41,375 Cause it was pretty far 618 01:16:41,375 --> 01:16:44,000 out and about 15 feet down, 619 01:16:44,000 --> 01:16:44,958 but they were right. 620 01:16:44,958 --> 01:16:45,625 It was incredible. 621 01:16:45,625 --> 01:16:46,166 It was really cool 622 01:16:46,166 --> 01:16:47,125 swimming with tortoises. 623 01:16:48,500 --> 01:16:52,666 And then just naturally wild. 624 01:16:53,125 --> 01:16:53,958 It was incredible. 625 01:16:54,458 --> 01:16:54,958 It was insane. 626 01:16:55,250 --> 01:16:55,833 It was really cool. 627 01:16:56,416 --> 01:16:57,125 It was really cool. 628 01:16:57,166 --> 01:16:58,208 So we're gonna give it a go again. 629 01:16:58,833 --> 01:17:00,500 We're gonna hope that it 630 01:17:00,500 --> 01:17:02,875 does not monsoon the whole time. 631 01:17:03,250 --> 01:17:03,958 In fact, wasn't there 632 01:17:03,958 --> 01:17:05,041 like a mini tornado? 633 01:17:05,541 --> 01:17:05,791 Yes. 634 01:17:06,666 --> 01:17:07,166 Yeah, cause like all 635 01:17:07,166 --> 01:17:07,875 of a sudden like trash 636 01:17:07,875 --> 01:17:08,458 started blowing 637 01:17:08,458 --> 01:17:09,791 everywhere and like it started, 638 01:17:10,333 --> 01:17:11,708 like it moved a car even. 639 01:17:11,750 --> 01:17:13,000 It was right before dinner. 640 01:17:13,291 --> 01:17:14,791 So yeah, we were all, I don't 641 01:17:14,791 --> 01:17:15,791 know if we were on the beach 642 01:17:16,000 --> 01:17:17,291 walking around or if we 643 01:17:17,291 --> 01:17:18,833 were, we were walking somewhere 644 01:17:18,833 --> 01:17:19,791 cause we were outside. 645 01:17:19,833 --> 01:17:20,000 Yeah. 646 01:17:21,041 --> 01:17:21,750 Probably under a 647 01:17:21,750 --> 01:17:23,375 covered portico of some sort. 648 01:17:24,625 --> 01:17:26,041 But I was like, oh my 649 01:17:26,041 --> 01:17:27,333 gosh, look at all that trash. 650 01:17:28,000 --> 01:17:28,333 Yes. 651 01:17:28,500 --> 01:17:29,000 Flying around. 652 01:17:29,000 --> 01:17:30,583 Like where did all this trash come from? 653 01:17:30,583 --> 01:17:32,083 Like I had never, I didn't know what was 654 01:17:32,083 --> 01:17:32,916 happening, honestly. 655 01:17:33,458 --> 01:17:33,875 She was kind of 656 01:17:33,875 --> 01:17:35,458 whipping and circling around. 657 01:17:35,833 --> 01:17:36,541 You could see it. 658 01:17:36,833 --> 01:17:37,666 It's kind of out of nowhere. 659 01:17:37,958 --> 01:17:38,208 Yeah. 660 01:17:39,166 --> 01:17:40,833 Didn't, we didn't think much of it. 661 01:17:41,250 --> 01:17:41,458 No. 662 01:17:41,500 --> 01:17:43,000 And then we walked through the casino 663 01:17:43,000 --> 01:17:43,916 and walked out the other side 664 01:17:43,916 --> 01:17:44,291 cause we were going 665 01:17:44,291 --> 01:17:45,208 to a dinner that night 666 01:17:45,833 --> 01:17:46,583 and there was a lot of 667 01:17:46,583 --> 01:17:48,083 hubbub going on on the other side, 668 01:17:48,083 --> 01:17:49,000 on the other side, cause 669 01:17:49,000 --> 01:17:49,916 that was on the beach side. 670 01:17:49,916 --> 01:17:51,541 Then on the other side of 671 01:17:51,541 --> 01:17:53,041 Atlantis where there was an arena. 672 01:17:53,916 --> 01:17:54,083 Yeah. 673 01:17:54,625 --> 01:17:55,333 Everybody was there. 674 01:17:55,333 --> 01:17:56,250 Like that's where we found 675 01:17:56,250 --> 01:17:57,416 out there was like a small 676 01:17:57,416 --> 01:17:59,541 like F1 tornado that we 677 01:17:59,541 --> 01:18:01,333 literally saw come through there, 678 01:18:01,666 --> 01:18:02,916 turn to carver, throw some 679 01:18:02,916 --> 01:18:04,541 boats on top of each other. 680 01:18:05,458 --> 01:18:06,250 There was trash all 681 01:18:06,250 --> 01:18:07,500 over the place over there. 682 01:18:08,291 --> 01:18:09,708 But it was kind of a big deal. 683 01:18:09,708 --> 01:18:11,083 And we were just like right there. 684 01:18:11,083 --> 01:18:11,750 We had no idea. 685 01:18:12,750 --> 01:18:13,875 It was very surreal. 686 01:18:14,166 --> 01:18:16,916 We're like, what is happening here? 687 01:18:17,375 --> 01:18:17,541 Yeah. 688 01:18:17,833 --> 01:18:18,000 Yeah. 689 01:18:18,666 --> 01:18:19,958 So, oh my gosh. 690 01:18:19,958 --> 01:18:23,000 So hopefully better weather is we're 691 01:18:23,000 --> 01:18:23,583 going to try it again 692 01:18:23,708 --> 01:18:25,333 because we deserve to 693 01:18:25,333 --> 01:18:26,500 have that experience. 694 01:18:27,375 --> 01:18:27,875 You know what? 695 01:18:28,250 --> 01:18:28,666 Yeah, we do. 696 01:18:28,666 --> 01:18:29,833 Very few things I say we deserve. 697 01:18:30,833 --> 01:18:31,250 (laughing) 698 01:18:31,666 --> 01:18:32,250 Sure. Yeah. 699 01:18:32,916 --> 01:18:34,166 We deserve us. 700 01:18:34,166 --> 01:18:35,333 We deserve ya. 701 01:18:35,791 --> 01:18:38,083 I mean, yeah, it, I 702 01:18:38,083 --> 01:18:39,708 really do hope that the weather 703 01:18:40,458 --> 01:18:41,416 is better cause like you 704 01:18:41,416 --> 01:18:42,416 never go to the Bahamas 705 01:18:42,625 --> 01:18:44,291 expecting it to pour the whole time. 706 01:18:44,583 --> 01:18:44,791 Right. 707 01:18:45,041 --> 01:18:45,250 Right. 708 01:18:46,250 --> 01:18:46,625 Right. 709 01:18:46,625 --> 01:18:47,625 But sure enough it did. 710 01:18:48,458 --> 01:18:49,000 Like, okay. 711 01:18:49,208 --> 01:18:51,291 Well, really cool place. 712 01:18:51,291 --> 01:18:52,833 So we're excited to go back to that one. 713 01:18:52,833 --> 01:18:54,333 It was between that and Costa Rica, 714 01:18:54,333 --> 01:18:55,375 which we'd already been to as well 715 01:18:55,375 --> 01:18:56,708 and had a great time there. 716 01:18:56,750 --> 01:18:57,041 Yeah. 717 01:18:58,958 --> 01:19:00,375 So hopefully we made the right decision 718 01:19:00,375 --> 01:19:01,208 and it doesn't rain. 719 01:19:01,208 --> 01:19:03,583 If it rains, the Bahamas is dead to me. 720 01:19:04,041 --> 01:19:05,291 We're never going back. 721 01:19:05,291 --> 01:19:06,500 Like there, there is no 722 01:19:06,500 --> 01:19:07,791 like three strikes you're out. 723 01:19:07,833 --> 01:19:08,291 It's literally the 724 01:19:08,291 --> 01:19:10,000 beginning of the rainy season too. 725 01:19:10,333 --> 01:19:10,583 Yes. 726 01:19:11,416 --> 01:19:13,000 If you go towards the 727 01:19:13,000 --> 01:19:14,000 end of rainy season, 728 01:19:14,000 --> 01:19:15,291 you kind of expect a little bit more, 729 01:19:15,291 --> 01:19:16,333 but at the beginning, 730 01:19:16,875 --> 01:19:17,750 yeah, just like Florida, 731 01:19:17,750 --> 01:19:18,291 you're going to have these 732 01:19:18,291 --> 01:19:19,583 afternoon thunder showers. 733 01:19:19,916 --> 01:19:21,583 They come through and clear out quickly. 734 01:19:21,583 --> 01:19:22,416 Yeah. Yeah. 735 01:19:22,583 --> 01:19:26,250 You're like, no, that cloud parked itself 736 01:19:27,166 --> 01:19:28,416 right over Atlantis. 737 01:19:28,458 --> 01:19:29,875 Just storm after storm after storm. 738 01:19:30,541 --> 01:19:31,500 And remember those 739 01:19:31,500 --> 01:19:34,083 super expensive cabanas 740 01:19:34,083 --> 01:19:35,041 that we couldn't cancel? 741 01:19:35,708 --> 01:19:37,583 That we went down and sat in anyways, 742 01:19:37,833 --> 01:19:40,083 cause they're covered till they're soaked 743 01:19:40,416 --> 01:19:42,333 and then they drip through the canvas. 744 01:19:43,500 --> 01:19:44,166 So lovely. 745 01:19:44,625 --> 01:19:45,416 But we sat there, 746 01:19:45,416 --> 01:19:46,416 covered ourselves in towels 747 01:19:46,708 --> 01:19:48,708 and watched nobody in the pool. 748 01:19:48,708 --> 01:19:49,416 Actually the kids got in 749 01:19:49,416 --> 01:19:50,416 the pool room, one rainstorm, 750 01:19:50,416 --> 01:19:52,166 but it was freezing cold. 751 01:19:52,541 --> 01:19:52,750 Freezing. 752 01:19:53,000 --> 01:19:53,166 Yeah. 753 01:19:53,750 --> 01:19:54,791 Yeah. But I mean, they did 754 01:19:54,791 --> 01:19:55,916 have the pool to themselves. 755 01:19:56,875 --> 01:19:57,916 Silver lining question mark. 756 01:19:58,250 --> 01:19:58,708 Yeah. There wasn't 757 01:19:58,708 --> 01:19:59,750 anybody in any of the pools 758 01:19:59,750 --> 01:20:00,833 the whole time we were there. 759 01:20:00,875 --> 01:20:02,166 Yeah. Well, why? 760 01:20:02,875 --> 01:20:04,125 It was not warm. 761 01:20:04,625 --> 01:20:05,833 We did go down the slot, 762 01:20:05,833 --> 01:20:06,791 the slides a couple of times 763 01:20:06,791 --> 01:20:07,666 cause there's no line 764 01:20:07,666 --> 01:20:08,583 cause nobody was there. 765 01:20:10,541 --> 01:20:11,583 Maybe that's better this time. 766 01:20:11,583 --> 01:20:12,125 We don't have to worry 767 01:20:12,125 --> 01:20:13,375 about doing the slides as much 768 01:20:13,375 --> 01:20:14,250 cause we already did them. 769 01:20:14,333 --> 01:20:15,250 It's true. Yeah. 770 01:20:15,291 --> 01:20:17,750 If that lines all the way up the pyramid. 771 01:20:18,166 --> 01:20:19,541 Yeah. Then that's kind of cool. 772 01:20:19,875 --> 01:20:21,708 Yeah. But I don't know. 773 01:20:21,708 --> 01:20:23,166 I'd still rather take that 774 01:20:23,166 --> 01:20:25,708 and like nice beach pool weather 775 01:20:25,750 --> 01:20:26,833 than not. 776 01:20:27,125 --> 01:20:28,125 Yes. Yes. Yes. 777 01:20:28,666 --> 01:20:29,833 So we're going to do it right this time. 778 01:20:29,875 --> 01:20:30,083 Yes. 779 01:20:30,416 --> 01:20:31,250 And dang it. We deserve it. 780 01:20:31,250 --> 01:20:32,166 I'm going to say it again. 781 01:20:34,458 --> 01:20:35,791 I'm already looking forward to it. 782 01:20:36,416 --> 01:20:37,791 Why is it going through my head? 783 01:20:38,166 --> 01:20:39,416 Like the Stuart Smalley 784 01:20:39,416 --> 01:20:41,458 like and gosh darn it. 785 01:20:41,458 --> 01:20:42,875 Oh no, that's gosh darn it. 786 01:20:42,875 --> 01:20:43,250 You're worth it. 787 01:20:43,250 --> 01:20:44,666 I was going to say cause gosh darn it. 788 01:20:45,291 --> 01:20:46,208 You deserve it. 789 01:20:46,458 --> 01:20:47,458 And people like you. 790 01:20:47,750 --> 01:20:48,708 People like me. 791 01:20:49,125 --> 01:20:49,333 Yeah. 792 01:20:50,291 --> 01:20:51,083 No, that's why it's one 793 01:20:51,083 --> 01:20:52,250 of those weird statements 794 01:20:52,250 --> 01:20:53,208 that most people don't say. 795 01:20:53,750 --> 01:20:54,541 Probably not. 796 01:20:55,208 --> 01:20:55,875 I deserve this. 797 01:20:55,875 --> 01:20:56,583 I deserve it. 798 01:20:56,583 --> 01:20:57,125 Nobody says that. 799 01:20:57,125 --> 01:20:58,583 Even if you do, nobody says that. 800 01:20:58,666 --> 01:21:00,416 No, that's the, that's the unspoken part 801 01:21:00,416 --> 01:21:01,458 that you just don't say. 802 01:21:01,458 --> 01:21:01,791 That's right. 803 01:21:02,291 --> 01:21:02,791 That's right. 804 01:21:02,791 --> 01:21:04,125 All those things you say in your head 805 01:21:05,291 --> 01:21:06,666 that most of us have the 806 01:21:06,666 --> 01:21:08,458 ability to not say out loud. 807 01:21:08,708 --> 01:21:09,333 Right, right. 808 01:21:10,000 --> 01:21:11,750 Like you said the quiet part out loud. 809 01:21:11,750 --> 01:21:13,791 No, that's one you just keep in there. 810 01:21:14,250 --> 01:21:14,583 That's right. 811 01:21:14,916 --> 01:21:15,333 That's right. 812 01:21:15,416 --> 01:21:16,416 Even though we all feel it, 813 01:21:17,041 --> 01:21:18,500 I'll go out on a limb and say it. 814 01:21:18,500 --> 01:21:19,541 We all feel it sometimes. 815 01:21:20,000 --> 01:21:20,416 Wow. 816 01:21:20,416 --> 01:21:21,916 When you're ready for 817 01:21:21,916 --> 01:21:22,958 your vacation, right? 818 01:21:22,958 --> 01:21:23,583 If you're lucky enough 819 01:21:23,583 --> 01:21:24,583 to take one and whatnot. 820 01:21:25,000 --> 01:21:25,291 Yeah. 821 01:21:25,291 --> 01:21:26,166 By that time you're like, 822 01:21:26,666 --> 01:21:27,250 "Not only do I 823 01:21:27,250 --> 01:21:28,541 deserve it, but I need it." 824 01:21:30,000 --> 01:21:30,750 I got to have it. 825 01:21:31,375 --> 01:21:32,166 I got to be honest. 826 01:21:32,791 --> 01:21:34,375 Like people need vacations. 827 01:21:34,708 --> 01:21:36,333 They need time away. 828 01:21:37,541 --> 01:21:38,791 From the chaos train, 829 01:21:38,791 --> 01:21:40,833 from all the things. 830 01:21:42,791 --> 01:21:44,583 Although I did have a coworker. 831 01:21:44,583 --> 01:21:45,250 Maybe we're getting 832 01:21:45,250 --> 01:21:46,541 into the I'm Peef segment. 833 01:21:46,750 --> 01:21:47,208 I don't know. 834 01:21:47,250 --> 01:21:47,541 Oh, yeah. 835 01:21:47,833 --> 01:21:48,458 I don't mean to 836 01:21:48,458 --> 01:21:50,375 force-feed the I'm Peef segment, 837 01:21:50,375 --> 01:21:52,083 but I actually had someone tell me, 838 01:21:52,083 --> 01:21:53,541 and this person does not have children, 839 01:21:54,458 --> 01:21:57,250 that it's not really fair 840 01:21:57,250 --> 01:21:58,416 because if you're a parent, 841 01:21:59,625 --> 01:22:02,083 you get maternity leave. 842 01:22:02,916 --> 01:22:04,291 And if you don't have children, 843 01:22:04,333 --> 01:22:05,500 you don't get that break. 844 01:22:05,916 --> 01:22:07,208 And while I fully 845 01:22:07,208 --> 01:22:08,958 support everybody getting 846 01:22:09,000 --> 01:22:09,833 mental health breaks 847 01:22:09,833 --> 01:22:11,666 from work and all of that, 848 01:22:11,916 --> 01:22:12,958 I was like, "Really? 849 01:22:13,125 --> 01:22:15,625 "We're gonna use maternity leave as the 850 01:22:15,625 --> 01:22:18,000 example of a break?" 851 01:22:19,041 --> 01:22:20,333 Like, "Hmm." 852 01:22:21,083 --> 01:22:23,708 Yeah, because when you 853 01:22:23,708 --> 01:22:25,916 were taking that decades ago, 854 01:22:27,583 --> 01:22:29,083 you had to use all your PTO 855 01:22:29,083 --> 01:22:30,416 for it in the first place. 856 01:22:30,916 --> 01:22:31,875 So it's not like you 857 01:22:31,875 --> 01:22:33,958 just got free time off, 858 01:22:34,375 --> 01:22:35,416 and then you could go on a 859 01:22:35,416 --> 01:22:37,000 PTO vacation somewhere else, 860 01:22:37,000 --> 01:22:39,000 pay time off, later in the year. 861 01:22:39,333 --> 01:22:40,708 You had to use most of your PTO, 862 01:22:40,708 --> 01:22:42,083 at least for the first week or a half. 863 01:22:42,375 --> 01:22:43,000 Two weeks, yeah. 864 01:22:43,041 --> 01:22:44,208 Two weeks of it. 865 01:22:45,208 --> 01:22:46,916 And you probably, if 866 01:22:46,916 --> 01:22:50,166 anybody's had a baby, I have not, 867 01:22:50,166 --> 01:22:52,000 but I'm aware enough of 868 01:22:52,000 --> 01:22:53,625 the situation, the sit, 869 01:22:54,208 --> 01:22:56,958 the sit, the sit, if you will. 870 01:22:57,541 --> 01:22:58,000 You're aware. 871 01:22:58,500 --> 01:23:01,125 You're not quite on a vacation 872 01:23:02,125 --> 01:23:04,791 after giving birth to children. 873 01:23:05,750 --> 01:23:05,958 No. 874 01:23:06,666 --> 01:23:07,333 And it's not like 875 01:23:07,333 --> 01:23:08,291 you're sitting by a pool, 876 01:23:08,958 --> 01:23:11,250 sipping on my ties, right? 877 01:23:11,541 --> 01:23:12,625 You're wearing adult 878 01:23:12,625 --> 01:23:14,541 diapers and staying up all night. 879 01:23:14,833 --> 01:23:15,833 That's exactly right. 880 01:23:15,833 --> 01:23:17,041 Yeah, not sleeping. 881 01:23:17,250 --> 01:23:19,708 So it's actually the very opposite. 882 01:23:20,791 --> 01:23:21,500 It's probably-- 883 01:23:21,791 --> 01:23:23,875 I mean, allow me to take your I'm peeved. 884 01:23:24,083 --> 01:23:24,416 Thank you. 885 01:23:24,708 --> 01:23:25,333 Because I know-- 886 01:23:26,458 --> 01:23:29,250 Every woman right now is standing up 887 01:23:29,583 --> 01:23:31,916 and giving you the slow clap for that, 888 01:23:32,583 --> 01:23:33,666 because it is so true. 889 01:23:33,875 --> 01:23:35,083 Well, I don't manage 890 01:23:35,083 --> 01:23:36,458 people anymore right now, 891 01:23:36,458 --> 01:23:39,291 so I can say what I would want to say. 892 01:23:40,125 --> 01:23:41,166 I can say what I couldn't 893 01:23:41,166 --> 01:23:42,291 say when I managed people. 894 01:23:42,791 --> 01:23:44,250 And so I know, to some degree, 895 01:23:44,250 --> 01:23:45,041 that's probably what 896 01:23:45,041 --> 01:23:45,875 you're thinking about, 897 01:23:45,875 --> 01:23:46,500 with some other people that 898 01:23:46,500 --> 01:23:47,666 have been in those same shoes. 899 01:23:48,000 --> 01:23:48,291 Yeah. 900 01:23:48,583 --> 01:23:48,833 You know? 901 01:23:50,958 --> 01:23:52,458 But you know, there's a lot of things 902 01:23:52,458 --> 01:23:53,333 you could talk about that. 903 01:23:53,625 --> 01:23:55,708 But what that comes down to is that 904 01:23:55,833 --> 01:23:57,291 everybody, what is that, 905 01:23:57,291 --> 01:23:58,500 there's a saying for it, 906 01:23:58,500 --> 01:24:00,416 where everybody, it's not megalomania, 907 01:24:00,416 --> 01:24:02,291 but everybody thinks their life is 908 01:24:02,291 --> 01:24:04,291 special and different. 909 01:24:04,583 --> 01:24:05,000 You know what I mean? 910 01:24:05,375 --> 01:24:06,125 And unique. 911 01:24:06,708 --> 01:24:09,125 Uniquely, its own experience 912 01:24:09,125 --> 01:24:10,250 that no one else has ever 913 01:24:10,250 --> 01:24:11,625 done something similar to. 914 01:24:11,625 --> 01:24:11,916 Yes. 915 01:24:12,166 --> 01:24:12,916 To some degree. 916 01:24:12,916 --> 01:24:13,500 You know what I mean? 917 01:24:13,500 --> 01:24:15,791 And like, I'm not trying to downplay 918 01:24:15,791 --> 01:24:17,333 like people are unique people, 919 01:24:17,333 --> 01:24:18,625 and people have all these special, 920 01:24:18,625 --> 01:24:19,750 you guys are all special, that's great. 921 01:24:20,000 --> 01:24:20,333 Absolutely. 922 01:24:20,583 --> 01:24:23,666 But in general, most 923 01:24:23,666 --> 01:24:24,708 of us are kind of doing 924 01:24:24,916 --> 01:24:26,333 the same thing, right? 925 01:24:26,333 --> 01:24:27,583 We're all walking the same path, 926 01:24:28,583 --> 01:24:30,666 different deviations of the same path. 927 01:24:30,916 --> 01:24:31,083 Right. 928 01:24:31,416 --> 01:24:31,708 Right. 929 01:24:32,375 --> 01:24:32,583 Absolutely. 930 01:24:33,458 --> 01:24:33,875 All right. 931 01:24:34,750 --> 01:24:36,125 You know, what was I saying now? 932 01:24:36,125 --> 01:24:36,666 And I forgot, 933 01:24:37,000 --> 01:24:37,500 because I was trying to 934 01:24:37,500 --> 01:24:38,791 like tread lightly on that. 935 01:24:39,125 --> 01:24:40,583 About how everyone's 936 01:24:40,583 --> 01:24:42,750 unique, and so you think. 937 01:24:42,750 --> 01:24:44,041 Oh yeah, that was the saying. 938 01:24:44,291 --> 01:24:45,708 There's so many people are just like, 939 01:24:45,708 --> 01:24:47,083 oh, I am the only person 940 01:24:47,083 --> 01:24:48,958 that does this, or just me. 941 01:24:49,416 --> 01:24:49,750 You know what I mean? 942 01:24:49,750 --> 01:24:50,916 It's like, no, it's not 943 01:24:50,916 --> 01:24:52,541 just you, it's all of us. 944 01:24:53,166 --> 01:24:53,750 You know what I mean? 945 01:24:54,000 --> 01:24:54,166 Yeah. 946 01:24:55,041 --> 01:24:56,916 Everybody to me isn't 947 01:24:56,916 --> 01:25:00,333 able to think outside 948 01:25:00,750 --> 01:25:01,875 of a certain box. 949 01:25:03,333 --> 01:25:05,000 To me, that's the same thing, right? 950 01:25:05,000 --> 01:25:06,208 Like it's just me. 951 01:25:06,208 --> 01:25:07,291 No, it's not just you. 952 01:25:08,166 --> 01:25:08,875 You know, you're just 953 01:25:08,875 --> 01:25:10,000 not thinking through 954 01:25:10,458 --> 01:25:11,125 that that's not a 955 01:25:11,125 --> 01:25:12,875 vacation for someone else. 956 01:25:13,541 --> 01:25:19,583 And ergo, it is not not unfair. 957 01:25:19,583 --> 01:25:20,791 It is not not fair. 958 01:25:20,791 --> 01:25:21,708 It is not not fair. 959 01:25:22,083 --> 01:25:24,500 Like, this isn't like, 960 01:25:24,500 --> 01:25:25,875 and I get it, like we 961 01:25:25,875 --> 01:25:27,083 chose to have children. 962 01:25:27,333 --> 01:25:29,416 So that is our life choice, 963 01:25:29,416 --> 01:25:31,416 but like the maternity leave 964 01:25:31,458 --> 01:25:33,583 part is not like a perk. 965 01:25:35,083 --> 01:25:36,416 No, no. 966 01:25:37,000 --> 01:25:37,791 I mean, it's no different 967 01:25:37,791 --> 01:25:39,541 than if you break your leg, 968 01:25:40,125 --> 01:25:40,916 this person that doesn't 969 01:25:40,916 --> 01:25:42,333 have children breaks their leg, 970 01:25:42,333 --> 01:25:43,250 and they have to take a 971 01:25:43,250 --> 01:25:44,333 little bit of short term, 972 01:25:44,625 --> 01:25:45,666 you know, family leave. 973 01:25:45,666 --> 01:25:45,916 Right. 974 01:25:46,291 --> 01:25:47,250 Is that unfair too? 975 01:25:47,666 --> 01:25:48,208 Right, right. 976 01:25:48,666 --> 01:25:49,583 Because you have legs? 977 01:25:50,833 --> 01:25:51,000 Right. 978 01:25:52,125 --> 01:25:53,333 That's kind of the same thing, right? 979 01:25:53,833 --> 01:25:54,583 Yeah, oh yeah. 980 01:25:54,583 --> 01:25:56,750 Like it's a medical thing 981 01:25:56,750 --> 01:25:58,708 when you're on maternity leave. 982 01:25:58,750 --> 01:25:59,000 That's right. 983 01:25:59,250 --> 01:26:00,125 I think anybody can take 984 01:26:00,125 --> 01:26:01,666 mental health days now too, 985 01:26:01,666 --> 01:26:02,333 most people. 986 01:26:02,500 --> 01:26:03,041 Right, right. 987 01:26:03,041 --> 01:26:03,875 Now is that unfair? 988 01:26:04,250 --> 01:26:04,458 Right. 989 01:26:05,166 --> 01:26:07,500 Because your brain has a, 990 01:26:08,791 --> 01:26:09,416 I was gonna say a brain 991 01:26:09,416 --> 01:26:10,500 fart, I guess, a fart. 992 01:26:12,583 --> 01:26:15,583 (laughing) Because you chose to 993 01:26:15,583 --> 01:26:16,333 be born with a brain? 994 01:26:17,000 --> 01:26:17,458 Right, right. 995 01:26:17,833 --> 01:26:19,875 It's just kind of one of those things. 996 01:26:20,041 --> 01:26:20,708 Like you're right, 997 01:26:20,708 --> 01:26:21,708 everybody needs a break. 998 01:26:22,250 --> 01:26:26,291 But I actually just nodded, you know, 999 01:26:26,791 --> 01:26:28,166 when she started talking about how, 1000 01:26:28,166 --> 01:26:29,541 you know, like when people 1001 01:26:29,541 --> 01:26:30,916 with kids get maternity leave, 1002 01:26:30,916 --> 01:26:32,625 like that's a perk. 1003 01:26:33,916 --> 01:26:35,208 I was like, hmm. 1004 01:26:35,250 --> 01:26:36,625 Don't you wish you could say things then? 1005 01:26:37,125 --> 01:26:37,625 That was funny. 1006 01:26:37,666 --> 01:26:39,166 And have all the right things to say. 1007 01:26:39,291 --> 01:26:40,458 I just nodded my head, 1008 01:26:40,458 --> 01:26:42,625 because I was just like, oh, oh, oh, 1009 01:26:42,625 --> 01:26:43,625 we're not going there. 1010 01:26:44,500 --> 01:26:47,000 But I later vented to you to be like, 1011 01:26:47,000 --> 01:26:48,291 are you kidding me? 1012 01:26:48,291 --> 01:26:49,166 That's when you just wish you'd go, 1013 01:26:49,166 --> 01:26:50,625 mm-hmm, and shake your head no, 1014 01:26:50,666 --> 01:26:52,666 you're like, mm-hmm, if 1015 01:26:52,666 --> 01:26:53,666 that's what you think. 1016 01:26:53,708 --> 01:26:54,500 Mm-hmm. 1017 01:26:55,083 --> 01:26:56,958 Yeah, yeah. 1018 01:26:57,000 --> 01:26:58,583 Yeah, yeah, that was 1019 01:26:58,583 --> 01:27:00,583 kind of the crown jewel. 1020 01:27:00,958 --> 01:27:01,458 That's what I'm talking about. 1021 01:27:01,833 --> 01:27:03,000 It's like the work at home mom, 1022 01:27:03,000 --> 01:27:04,208 that was like, I had the hardest day. 1023 01:27:04,666 --> 01:27:05,958 I had to go to Home D, I 1024 01:27:05,958 --> 01:27:06,875 had to go to Hobby Lobby 1025 01:27:07,333 --> 01:27:08,333 and return things, I had to 1026 01:27:08,333 --> 01:27:09,666 go to Target and return things. 1027 01:27:10,000 --> 01:27:10,708 And then I had to go 1028 01:27:10,708 --> 01:27:11,958 pick up Starbucks to take it 1029 01:27:11,958 --> 01:27:13,000 in Chick-fil-A to take 1030 01:27:13,000 --> 01:27:13,791 it to the kids at school. 1031 01:27:14,958 --> 01:27:15,750 It was like, I'm not 1032 01:27:15,750 --> 01:27:16,583 saying that's not hard, 1033 01:27:17,375 --> 01:27:18,958 but again, we're all in a, 1034 01:27:18,958 --> 01:27:20,333 you know, kind of similar thing. 1035 01:27:20,375 --> 01:27:22,125 So like, you know, the 1036 01:27:22,125 --> 01:27:23,000 mom that's doing that 1037 01:27:23,000 --> 01:27:24,625 and working a job also, 1038 01:27:25,583 --> 01:27:26,708 and fitting all that in 1039 01:27:26,750 --> 01:27:30,250 somewhere along the same 24 hours a day, 1040 01:27:30,625 --> 01:27:31,541 or seven days a week, 1041 01:27:31,791 --> 01:27:33,000 still fitting all that in. 1042 01:27:33,000 --> 01:27:35,000 Yeah, we're getting it all. 1043 01:27:35,000 --> 01:27:36,000 I mean like, well, you 1044 01:27:36,000 --> 01:27:39,000 know, that's hard too also. 1045 01:27:39,000 --> 01:27:39,333 It is. 1046 01:27:39,833 --> 01:27:40,083 Tambien. 1047 01:27:41,500 --> 01:27:42,250 You do Tambien. 1048 01:27:42,500 --> 01:27:42,708 Yeah. 1049 01:27:44,416 --> 01:27:45,708 Yes, yeah. 1050 01:27:46,250 --> 01:27:46,708 Because that's when 1051 01:27:46,708 --> 01:27:47,916 we hear sometimes too, 1052 01:27:47,958 --> 01:27:48,750 and from two working 1053 01:27:48,750 --> 01:27:50,458 parents and a working mother. 1054 01:27:50,666 --> 01:27:51,291 Yeah, he's-- 1055 01:27:51,500 --> 01:27:53,416 Who, you know, I don't 1056 01:27:53,416 --> 01:27:54,416 ever give you enough, 1057 01:27:55,083 --> 01:27:55,791 I don't give you enough 1058 01:27:55,791 --> 01:27:58,708 props for doing all that you do, 1059 01:27:59,125 --> 01:28:00,041 working at a very 1060 01:28:00,041 --> 01:28:01,083 high level at a company, 1061 01:28:02,750 --> 01:28:04,541 and then turning around 1062 01:28:04,541 --> 01:28:05,416 and doing all those things 1063 01:28:05,416 --> 01:28:07,333 that all moms do at a high 1064 01:28:07,333 --> 01:28:09,500 level, and doing great at it. 1065 01:28:09,500 --> 01:28:11,083 I mean, kudos, you're 1066 01:28:11,083 --> 01:28:11,958 doing a fantastic job. 1067 01:28:12,166 --> 01:28:12,708 Well, thank you, you 1068 01:28:12,708 --> 01:28:13,916 don't have to say that. 1069 01:28:14,166 --> 01:28:15,208 I'll cut that out, don't worry. 1070 01:28:16,541 --> 01:28:18,000 Please, it's just weird. 1071 01:28:18,666 --> 01:28:19,875 Well, you do that to me sometimes too, 1072 01:28:20,125 --> 01:28:21,291 like let's just take a 1073 01:28:21,291 --> 01:28:22,541 moment and just recognize you. 1074 01:28:22,541 --> 01:28:23,916 It's not fun to be recognized sometimes. 1075 01:28:24,416 --> 01:28:25,458 It's kind of, yeah, it 1076 01:28:25,458 --> 01:28:26,541 makes me a little uncomfortable. 1077 01:28:26,916 --> 01:28:27,791 Yeah, yeah. 1078 01:28:28,208 --> 01:28:29,875 When someone gives you, I learned though, 1079 01:28:29,875 --> 01:28:31,000 learning to Conan O'Brien, 1080 01:28:31,583 --> 01:28:32,500 when somebody gives you a 1081 01:28:32,500 --> 01:28:34,333 compliment, you just say thanks. 1082 01:28:34,333 --> 01:28:34,750 Thank you. 1083 01:28:35,958 --> 01:28:38,125 Like, it's true. 1084 01:28:38,625 --> 01:28:39,750 Isn't it what our daughter's teacher, 1085 01:28:40,708 --> 01:28:41,583 cause like our daughter 1086 01:28:41,583 --> 01:28:43,000 sometimes will be like, I know. 1087 01:28:44,041 --> 01:28:44,875 No, no, no, you're just 1088 01:28:44,875 --> 01:28:45,458 supposed to say thank you. 1089 01:28:45,791 --> 01:28:46,125 I know. 1090 01:28:47,166 --> 01:28:47,916 (laughs) You're just supposed to say thank you. 1091 01:28:47,916 --> 01:28:49,291 It'd be funny if I say that. 1092 01:28:49,291 --> 01:28:50,666 Megs, you're doing an incredible job. 1093 01:28:50,666 --> 01:28:52,541 You're holding down a high level job. 1094 01:28:52,541 --> 01:28:54,041 You're getting all the mom things done, 1095 01:28:54,083 --> 01:28:56,000 also in the same seven days a week, 1096 01:28:56,416 --> 01:28:57,416 that some moms that are 1097 01:28:57,416 --> 01:28:58,500 lucky enough not to work 1098 01:28:58,500 --> 01:28:59,333 are able to do. 1099 01:28:59,833 --> 01:29:00,625 And you're like, I know. 1100 01:29:00,625 --> 01:29:00,958 I know. 1101 01:29:01,875 --> 01:29:02,250 (laughs) 1102 01:29:02,250 --> 01:29:03,625 You're like, okay. 1103 01:29:03,625 --> 01:29:04,000 I'm awesome. 1104 01:29:04,916 --> 01:29:06,916 I guess I didn't mean to say anything. 1105 01:29:06,958 --> 01:29:08,333 But to that point, I love, 1106 01:29:08,625 --> 01:29:09,791 tell people what 1107 01:29:09,791 --> 01:29:12,125 someone, I think you report to, 1108 01:29:12,125 --> 01:29:12,916 or someone that's, I don't know, 1109 01:29:12,916 --> 01:29:14,083 someone that you work with there, 1110 01:29:14,583 --> 01:29:16,583 made the comment, every now and then 1111 01:29:16,583 --> 01:29:17,666 it's okay to look in the mirror. 1112 01:29:18,625 --> 01:29:19,125 Yes. 1113 01:29:19,125 --> 01:29:19,833 And acknowledge it. 1114 01:29:20,291 --> 01:29:21,375 It was, and it was-- 1115 01:29:21,416 --> 01:29:22,458 No matter who you are. 1116 01:29:22,500 --> 01:29:24,875 No matter who you are, I 1117 01:29:24,875 --> 01:29:25,833 was talking to someone. 1118 01:29:26,000 --> 01:29:27,000 Help me reframe. 1119 01:29:27,000 --> 01:29:27,583 I told you this 1120 01:29:27,583 --> 01:29:28,500 actually, we had a date night. 1121 01:29:28,500 --> 01:29:28,958 We were lucky enough 1122 01:29:28,958 --> 01:29:29,583 to have a date night. 1123 01:29:29,583 --> 01:29:30,416 I was telling you this, 1124 01:29:30,416 --> 01:29:32,208 cause it reframed how I was thinking 1125 01:29:32,208 --> 01:29:33,416 about a lot of things. 1126 01:29:33,666 --> 01:29:36,375 Cause I was having a day that, you know, 1127 01:29:36,375 --> 01:29:38,666 our youngest had emergency dental stuff, 1128 01:29:38,875 --> 01:29:42,083 and you were busy doing-- 1129 01:29:42,208 --> 01:29:42,750 I was unavailable. 1130 01:29:42,750 --> 01:29:43,458 You were unavailable. 1131 01:29:44,000 --> 01:29:45,166 So I had to do that and 1132 01:29:45,166 --> 01:29:46,000 then like everything-- 1133 01:29:46,000 --> 01:29:46,208 Working. 1134 01:29:46,791 --> 01:29:47,000 Working. 1135 01:29:47,166 --> 01:29:48,500 Yes, you were working. 1136 01:29:48,500 --> 01:29:50,000 Not watching the Star Wars 1137 01:29:50,000 --> 01:29:51,041 trilogy in the movie room. 1138 01:29:51,833 --> 01:29:53,041 No, absolutely not. 1139 01:29:53,416 --> 01:29:55,500 I should never, I hope I never imply-- 1140 01:29:55,666 --> 01:29:56,708 You were available, you were napping, 1141 01:29:57,916 --> 01:29:59,333 and I know not to wake you up. 1142 01:30:00,583 --> 01:30:02,000 I've learned over the years. 1143 01:30:02,500 --> 01:30:05,000 Yeah, no, no, no, you were super busy. 1144 01:30:05,000 --> 01:30:05,833 Your day was crazy, and 1145 01:30:05,833 --> 01:30:06,791 you were just working away 1146 01:30:06,791 --> 01:30:08,916 from the home, so you were unavailable. 1147 01:30:09,500 --> 01:30:10,625 Emergency dental, you 1148 01:30:10,625 --> 01:30:11,458 had to take care of it. 1149 01:30:11,625 --> 01:30:12,791 Emergency dental, and like everything 1150 01:30:13,208 --> 01:30:14,416 kind of blew up on that day. 1151 01:30:14,708 --> 01:30:16,291 And I was telling this 1152 01:30:16,291 --> 01:30:17,750 person I work with about, 1153 01:30:17,958 --> 01:30:20,250 I was like, oh my gosh, I just, you know, 1154 01:30:20,250 --> 01:30:20,916 it's gonna be one of those 1155 01:30:20,916 --> 01:30:22,291 days when I brush my teeth, 1156 01:30:22,291 --> 01:30:23,250 I look in the mirror and I'm like, 1157 01:30:23,250 --> 01:30:24,291 I don't know how I did 1158 01:30:24,291 --> 01:30:26,750 it, but I got it all done. 1159 01:30:27,250 --> 01:30:28,583 She looked at me and she's like, no, 1160 01:30:29,000 --> 01:30:29,750 you're gonna look in the 1161 01:30:29,750 --> 01:30:31,166 mirror and you're gonna say, 1162 01:30:31,833 --> 01:30:34,041 you effing crushed it. 1163 01:30:34,625 --> 01:30:35,500 And I was like-- 1164 01:30:35,583 --> 01:30:36,000 For freaking. 1165 01:30:36,750 --> 01:30:37,000 Yeah. 1166 01:30:38,250 --> 01:30:39,833 And it was just like, yeah, 1167 01:30:39,833 --> 01:30:42,166 why am I so just tentative 1168 01:30:42,583 --> 01:30:43,500 about it and like, it 1169 01:30:43,500 --> 01:30:44,416 didn't turn out the way 1170 01:30:44,416 --> 01:30:45,500 that I thought, she's like, you're right, 1171 01:30:45,500 --> 01:30:46,541 it didn't turn out the way you thought, 1172 01:30:46,541 --> 01:30:49,000 but you still did it all. 1173 01:30:49,125 --> 01:30:49,333 Yeah. 1174 01:30:50,000 --> 01:30:52,000 And it's like, I feel 1175 01:30:52,000 --> 01:30:53,000 like we should all do that 1176 01:30:53,000 --> 01:30:53,791 a lot more. 1177 01:30:53,916 --> 01:30:54,916 Yeah, because it 1178 01:30:54,916 --> 01:30:56,708 overtakes that mindset of like, 1179 01:30:57,083 --> 01:30:58,791 I made it, oh my God, I just made it 1180 01:30:58,791 --> 01:30:59,875 across the finish line. 1181 01:30:59,875 --> 01:31:00,166 Yeah. 1182 01:31:00,625 --> 01:31:02,875 Versus, I just crushed that race. 1183 01:31:03,250 --> 01:31:03,583 Yes. 1184 01:31:03,625 --> 01:31:04,458 It's not like I just 1185 01:31:04,458 --> 01:31:05,375 barely made it over the finish, 1186 01:31:05,375 --> 01:31:07,375 I crushed the race, I finished the race. 1187 01:31:07,375 --> 01:31:10,333 I finished the race, and gosh darn it, 1188 01:31:11,375 --> 01:31:12,208 I'm proud of that. 1189 01:31:12,875 --> 01:31:13,875 Right, right. 1190 01:31:14,125 --> 01:31:16,083 Like, I don't care if I came 1191 01:31:16,083 --> 01:31:17,208 in first or I came in second 1192 01:31:17,208 --> 01:31:19,541 or I came in dead last, I 1193 01:31:19,541 --> 01:31:21,000 ran the race and I did it. 1194 01:31:21,000 --> 01:31:22,333 I don't follow the metaphor on that part, 1195 01:31:22,333 --> 01:31:23,958 but yes, you finished the race. 1196 01:31:25,375 --> 01:31:25,625 Well, because we 1197 01:31:25,625 --> 01:31:27,166 always want to finish first, 1198 01:31:27,166 --> 01:31:28,208 and that's always like 1199 01:31:28,208 --> 01:31:29,250 the hesitation of like, 1200 01:31:29,250 --> 01:31:31,291 oh gosh, I did, I made it, 1201 01:31:31,750 --> 01:31:32,791 I just made it, you know? 1202 01:31:33,083 --> 01:31:34,875 Yeah, meaning like, you 1203 01:31:34,875 --> 01:31:36,416 would grade yourself in A plus 1204 01:31:36,416 --> 01:31:37,625 on all your meetings 1205 01:31:37,625 --> 01:31:38,375 and your presentations 1206 01:31:39,166 --> 01:31:40,041 and your one-on-ones, 1207 01:31:40,833 --> 01:31:41,291 you know what I mean? 1208 01:31:41,541 --> 01:31:41,750 Yeah. 1209 01:31:42,166 --> 01:31:42,291 Right. 1210 01:31:42,333 --> 01:31:44,000 It means you won them, you did, yeah. 1211 01:31:44,333 --> 01:31:46,041 Whereas one of them might've been like, 1212 01:31:46,041 --> 01:31:47,500 well, I gave myself a B on that one, I 1213 01:31:47,500 --> 01:31:48,500 just wasn't into it, 1214 01:31:48,500 --> 01:31:49,125 and I was, I still 1215 01:31:49,125 --> 01:31:50,791 don't have the emails done, 1216 01:31:50,791 --> 01:31:51,791 and you don't have things like this. 1217 01:31:52,416 --> 01:31:54,000 And sometimes it's like, whew, 1218 01:31:54,583 --> 01:31:56,250 I had to pivot on a 1219 01:31:56,250 --> 01:31:57,000 whole bunch of things. 1220 01:31:57,250 --> 01:31:57,458 And pivot. 1221 01:31:57,791 --> 01:32:00,291 And pivot, you know, so anyway, 1222 01:32:00,291 --> 01:32:01,333 it really helped 1223 01:32:01,333 --> 01:32:02,750 reframe that, and I was like, 1224 01:32:02,750 --> 01:32:03,458 people need to do 1225 01:32:03,458 --> 01:32:05,125 that more often, I think, 1226 01:32:05,125 --> 01:32:06,666 because I was like, I'd never even 1227 01:32:06,666 --> 01:32:07,416 thought about it that way. 1228 01:32:07,541 --> 01:32:08,250 Yeah, every now and 1229 01:32:08,250 --> 01:32:09,125 then there's a few things 1230 01:32:09,125 --> 01:32:10,416 that just stick with me, 1231 01:32:10,416 --> 01:32:11,416 and I can't remember them all 1232 01:32:11,416 --> 01:32:12,166 at the same time, but 1233 01:32:12,166 --> 01:32:13,291 every now and then I do. 1234 01:32:13,291 --> 01:32:13,500 Yeah. 1235 01:32:14,333 --> 01:32:15,750 You know, and over this last year, 1236 01:32:15,750 --> 01:32:16,416 a couple of them like 1237 01:32:16,416 --> 01:32:18,791 that, Robin Williams quote, 1238 01:32:19,166 --> 01:32:20,750 has stuck with me, just, you never know 1239 01:32:20,750 --> 01:32:21,875 what someone else is going through. 1240 01:32:22,166 --> 01:32:22,416 Yup. 1241 01:32:23,041 --> 01:32:23,791 Right, even though they might have a 1242 01:32:23,791 --> 01:32:24,541 smile on their face. 1243 01:32:25,458 --> 01:32:26,125 You just, you don't know 1244 01:32:26,125 --> 01:32:26,875 what they're going through, 1245 01:32:26,875 --> 01:32:28,500 so be kind to people, you know? 1246 01:32:28,500 --> 01:32:29,375 Because a lot of people don't tell you 1247 01:32:29,375 --> 01:32:30,458 when they're having a tough time. 1248 01:32:30,666 --> 01:32:30,833 Right. 1249 01:32:30,833 --> 01:32:31,416 You're like, oh, last 1250 01:32:31,416 --> 01:32:32,083 year we had a tough year, 1251 01:32:32,083 --> 01:32:32,458 and I don't think 1252 01:32:32,458 --> 01:32:33,541 anybody would have really known 1253 01:32:34,041 --> 01:32:34,916 some of the things that we went through 1254 01:32:34,916 --> 01:32:35,583 or you went through. 1255 01:32:38,375 --> 01:32:40,916 That one, that one resonated with me. 1256 01:32:41,125 --> 01:32:41,833 I liked that one. 1257 01:32:42,083 --> 01:32:43,208 You know, I had a 1258 01:32:43,208 --> 01:32:46,208 counselor once who told me, 1259 01:32:46,208 --> 01:32:48,708 like, you know, put stock in people. 1260 01:32:49,916 --> 01:32:50,500 You know, not 1261 01:32:50,500 --> 01:32:51,583 everybody fills your cup 100%. 1262 01:32:52,500 --> 01:32:54,458 Once you understand how 1263 01:32:54,458 --> 01:32:56,208 much they fill your cup, 1264 01:32:56,458 --> 01:32:57,083 it might only be 10%. 1265 01:32:58,166 --> 01:33:00,625 Right. And you don't waste your energy on hoping 1266 01:33:00,625 --> 01:33:01,916 they're going to fill that cup more. 1267 01:33:01,916 --> 01:33:03,291 You know what to expect from them. 1268 01:33:03,291 --> 01:33:04,166 That's exactly right. 1269 01:33:04,208 --> 01:33:05,416 So then I can file that away. 1270 01:33:05,458 --> 01:33:07,375 You know, that's another one. 1271 01:33:08,166 --> 01:33:09,333 And then this Let Them 1272 01:33:09,333 --> 01:33:11,000 Theory book that we're reading, 1273 01:33:11,000 --> 01:33:11,833 I've just really enjoyed 1274 01:33:11,833 --> 01:33:14,166 that idea of, well, let them. 1275 01:33:15,458 --> 01:33:17,666 It's not easy all the time, 1276 01:33:17,666 --> 01:33:18,416 but sometimes you just 1277 01:33:18,416 --> 01:33:20,041 gotta let people be them, 1278 01:33:20,250 --> 01:33:21,333 and you gotta move on with your life. 1279 01:33:21,791 --> 01:33:22,708 Whether you like me or not. 1280 01:33:23,000 --> 01:33:24,208 Even if it's you don't like me, 1281 01:33:24,791 --> 01:33:26,166 I'm gonna let you not like me. 1282 01:33:26,166 --> 01:33:26,958 That's your choice. 1283 01:33:27,291 --> 01:33:28,000 Right, right. 1284 01:33:29,500 --> 01:33:31,625 It's let them, but also let me. 1285 01:33:32,208 --> 01:33:33,250 Because that's the next step of it. 1286 01:33:33,250 --> 01:33:35,291 Let me then move on with my life. 1287 01:33:35,333 --> 01:33:36,875 Let me make a healthy choice 1288 01:33:36,875 --> 01:33:38,083 for what I'm gonna do next. 1289 01:33:38,500 --> 01:33:39,125 But I'm gonna let them 1290 01:33:39,125 --> 01:33:39,583 do whatever they want 1291 01:33:39,583 --> 01:33:40,625 because we can't control them. 1292 01:33:40,875 --> 01:33:41,250 That's right. 1293 01:33:41,541 --> 01:33:43,125 Yeah, there's a bunch of little things. 1294 01:33:43,291 --> 01:33:43,916 Anything like that 1295 01:33:43,916 --> 01:33:45,083 stick out for you over time? 1296 01:33:46,083 --> 01:33:47,958 Oh, yeah, I have-- 1297 01:33:48,000 --> 01:33:49,416 Because you have a better memory than me. 1298 01:33:49,458 --> 01:33:50,833 I have quite a few of them. 1299 01:33:50,833 --> 01:33:51,083 I mean-- 1300 01:33:51,500 --> 01:33:52,208 Give us your top two. 1301 01:33:52,583 --> 01:33:54,708 Okay, so the Robin Williams is up there. 1302 01:33:55,458 --> 01:33:57,625 But the other one is when 1303 01:33:57,625 --> 01:33:59,291 people show you who they are, 1304 01:33:59,875 --> 01:34:00,500 believe them. 1305 01:34:00,500 --> 01:34:01,666 I was gonna say that one too. 1306 01:34:02,250 --> 01:34:03,125 Yeah, because that's more of 1307 01:34:03,125 --> 01:34:04,666 a live your life like that. 1308 01:34:04,708 --> 01:34:05,291 That's actually in the 1309 01:34:05,291 --> 01:34:06,291 Let Them Theory book too. 1310 01:34:07,083 --> 01:34:07,833 Have we got to that yet? 1311 01:34:08,000 --> 01:34:08,291 No. 1312 01:34:08,333 --> 01:34:09,666 I may have just recorded that one then. 1313 01:34:09,708 --> 01:34:10,625 Oh, okay, cool. 1314 01:34:10,625 --> 01:34:11,666 I'm excited to hear it. 1315 01:34:11,750 --> 01:34:12,416 Yeah, it is. 1316 01:34:12,833 --> 01:34:13,083 So anyways. 1317 01:34:13,583 --> 01:34:16,416 Yeah, and it's so true. 1318 01:34:17,125 --> 01:34:18,083 Because every time, like if 1319 01:34:18,083 --> 01:34:19,083 you look back on your life 1320 01:34:19,083 --> 01:34:19,875 and you're like, oh, 1321 01:34:19,875 --> 01:34:22,625 anytime that I gave that person 1322 01:34:22,625 --> 01:34:25,416 that second chance or I kind of gave them 1323 01:34:25,416 --> 01:34:26,083 the benefit of the 1324 01:34:26,083 --> 01:34:28,541 doubt, or maybe I didn't, 1325 01:34:29,083 --> 01:34:33,208 and who they were always was consistent. 1326 01:34:33,750 --> 01:34:34,333 Yeah, once somebody 1327 01:34:34,333 --> 01:34:35,250 shows you who they are, 1328 01:34:35,250 --> 01:34:35,958 you shouldn't be surprised. 1329 01:34:36,375 --> 01:34:37,000 And again, that's where 1330 01:34:37,000 --> 01:34:38,291 you can classify people 1331 01:34:38,291 --> 01:34:39,208 and categorize them 1332 01:34:39,208 --> 01:34:39,958 and put them on the shelf 1333 01:34:39,958 --> 01:34:40,958 where they deserve to go. 1334 01:34:41,500 --> 01:34:42,375 Good or bad, but once 1335 01:34:42,375 --> 01:34:43,250 they show you who they are, 1336 01:34:43,250 --> 01:34:44,000 they could show you 1337 01:34:44,000 --> 01:34:44,500 that they're an incredibly 1338 01:34:44,500 --> 01:34:45,333 kind person. 1339 01:34:45,333 --> 01:34:45,958 That's right. 1340 01:34:46,000 --> 01:34:46,708 Believe it, right? 1341 01:34:46,958 --> 01:34:47,416 You know what I mean? 1342 01:34:47,416 --> 01:34:49,333 If you're not an optimist. 1343 01:34:49,583 --> 01:34:50,666 Yeah, right. 1344 01:34:51,291 --> 01:34:52,291 So many times I use that 1345 01:34:52,291 --> 01:34:53,208 with a negative connotation 1346 01:34:53,208 --> 01:34:55,166 because people show you their bad sides. 1347 01:34:55,458 --> 01:34:55,583 Yeah. 1348 01:34:56,291 --> 01:34:57,375 And their bad traits. 1349 01:34:57,375 --> 01:34:57,708 And you're like, all 1350 01:34:57,708 --> 01:34:58,416 right, I know who you are. 1351 01:34:58,416 --> 01:34:58,833 I'm not gonna. 1352 01:34:59,666 --> 01:35:01,000 But generally speaking at our age, 1353 01:35:01,000 --> 01:35:03,000 it's tough to change traits. 1354 01:35:03,000 --> 01:35:04,000 All right, what's your next one? 1355 01:35:05,916 --> 01:35:08,041 Oh, I don't know. 1356 01:35:08,041 --> 01:35:09,291 I thought I gave my 1357 01:35:09,291 --> 01:35:10,708 two, but we'll give my two. 1358 01:35:10,958 --> 01:35:11,291 My bad. 1359 01:35:11,333 --> 01:35:12,916 Of like, the Robin Williams one. 1360 01:35:12,958 --> 01:35:14,208 Oh, I see, the Robin Williams one. 1361 01:35:14,250 --> 01:35:16,166 And then I started with the whole like, 1362 01:35:16,833 --> 01:35:17,833 looking yourself and 1363 01:35:17,833 --> 01:35:20,375 being like, I crushed it. 1364 01:35:20,375 --> 01:35:20,583 And just. 1365 01:35:21,250 --> 01:35:22,458 Yeah, I like that one. 1366 01:35:22,458 --> 01:35:23,500 That one resonated with me. 1367 01:35:23,500 --> 01:35:25,083 Yeah, and yeah. 1368 01:35:25,083 --> 01:35:27,750 And then we'll go with the whole 1369 01:35:28,208 --> 01:35:29,333 when people show you who they are. 1370 01:35:29,500 --> 01:35:30,250 I wonder how long it'll 1371 01:35:30,250 --> 01:35:31,166 take me to just forget that. 1372 01:35:31,208 --> 01:35:32,750 Because I had the worst memory. 1373 01:35:32,750 --> 01:35:34,250 We've covered that on here so many times. 1374 01:35:34,708 --> 01:35:36,083 But it's like, I don't, it's 1375 01:35:36,083 --> 01:35:37,000 not like I wake up every day 1376 01:35:37,000 --> 01:35:38,750 with this like, catalog of, 1377 01:35:40,291 --> 01:35:41,000 and I don't think 1378 01:35:41,000 --> 01:35:42,125 it's healthy to be like, 1379 01:35:42,833 --> 01:35:43,708 to get through life 1380 01:35:43,708 --> 01:35:45,625 on quotes and sayings. 1381 01:35:46,416 --> 01:35:47,291 They're fun and they can 1382 01:35:47,291 --> 01:35:48,833 be timely here and there. 1383 01:35:48,833 --> 01:35:49,291 You know what I mean? 1384 01:35:49,291 --> 01:35:50,208 But ultimately you gotta 1385 01:35:50,208 --> 01:35:51,916 be healthy inside, right? 1386 01:35:52,333 --> 01:35:53,000 But every now and then 1387 01:35:53,000 --> 01:35:54,208 just given that little fire, 1388 01:35:54,208 --> 01:35:56,208 just that little kind of, you know, 1389 01:35:56,708 --> 01:35:58,083 push of adrenaline or 1390 01:35:58,083 --> 01:35:59,708 encouragement or inspiration 1391 01:36:00,666 --> 01:36:01,250 is helpful and I think 1392 01:36:01,250 --> 01:36:02,583 that's what those are good for. 1393 01:36:03,000 --> 01:36:03,500 And some of those are 1394 01:36:03,500 --> 01:36:05,916 just kind of good guidelines 1395 01:36:05,916 --> 01:36:07,000 to live life by. 1396 01:36:07,333 --> 01:36:08,083 That's absolutely right. 1397 01:36:08,083 --> 01:36:09,041 If you can remember them. 1398 01:36:10,708 --> 01:36:10,750 (laughing) 1399 01:36:11,083 --> 01:36:13,791 Those, I mean, we repeat those pretty, 1400 01:36:14,875 --> 01:36:16,000 the two, the Robin 1401 01:36:16,000 --> 01:36:17,333 Williams quote and the one that, 1402 01:36:18,250 --> 01:36:19,041 I was just talking about, 1403 01:36:19,041 --> 01:36:20,666 like we repeat those pretty frequently. 1404 01:36:20,666 --> 01:36:22,125 There's no way you're gonna forget those. 1405 01:36:22,791 --> 01:36:23,458 And I don't think you 1406 01:36:23,458 --> 01:36:24,291 have to look at yourself 1407 01:36:24,416 --> 01:36:25,416 every single day and 1408 01:36:25,416 --> 01:36:27,875 be like, I crushed it. 1409 01:36:28,375 --> 01:36:30,000 On those days when you're like, 1410 01:36:30,916 --> 01:36:32,000 feel like you limped 1411 01:36:32,000 --> 01:36:33,208 across the finish line, 1412 01:36:34,041 --> 01:36:35,833 giving yourself the kudos and 1413 01:36:35,833 --> 01:36:37,625 the freedom to just be like, 1414 01:36:38,375 --> 01:36:40,041 didn't turn out the way I expected it to, 1415 01:36:41,666 --> 01:36:42,916 but it turned out the way that it should. 1416 01:36:43,666 --> 01:36:44,666 I don't know, Ted Lasso 1417 01:36:44,666 --> 01:36:46,125 actually has so many of those. 1418 01:36:46,166 --> 01:36:48,375 Oh my gosh, every episode. 1419 01:36:48,708 --> 01:36:50,166 Every episode, like, 1420 01:36:50,291 --> 01:36:51,500 cause he has one where he's like, 1421 01:36:51,500 --> 01:36:52,500 everything may not turn out 1422 01:36:52,500 --> 01:36:54,333 the way that you wanted it to, 1423 01:36:54,875 --> 01:36:55,625 but I promise you 1424 01:36:55,625 --> 01:36:56,458 everything will turn out. 1425 01:36:57,708 --> 01:36:58,583 The way that it's supposed to. 1426 01:36:59,000 --> 01:37:01,250 And it's, I don't know, he's so good. 1427 01:37:01,291 --> 01:37:02,583 Yeah, I'm excited for that 1428 01:37:02,583 --> 01:37:03,708 next season to come out, right? 1429 01:37:04,083 --> 01:37:04,833 Oh my gosh. 1430 01:37:05,041 --> 01:37:05,625 At some point in time. 1431 01:37:06,375 --> 01:37:07,791 Yeah, I don't know when. 1432 01:37:07,791 --> 01:37:08,875 We need to rewatch it. 1433 01:37:09,458 --> 01:37:09,958 I wish it didn't have 1434 01:37:09,958 --> 01:37:11,708 so many bad words in it, 1435 01:37:11,708 --> 01:37:12,541 at least the one character. 1436 01:37:13,000 --> 01:37:13,833 There's probably a few scenes 1437 01:37:13,833 --> 01:37:14,750 that are inappropriate for the kids, 1438 01:37:14,750 --> 01:37:16,000 but I wish the kids could watch it, 1439 01:37:16,000 --> 01:37:16,791 cause it's so good. 1440 01:37:17,583 --> 01:37:19,000 Just some portions of 1441 01:37:19,000 --> 01:37:19,625 it are inappropriate. 1442 01:37:20,125 --> 01:37:23,791 Yeah, but overall, like, the lessons, 1443 01:37:24,333 --> 01:37:26,125 I mean, I love to pull 1444 01:37:26,125 --> 01:37:27,291 out of Ted Lasso quote, 1445 01:37:27,375 --> 01:37:28,333 every now and again. 1446 01:37:28,333 --> 01:37:28,916 There's a Ted Lasso 1447 01:37:28,916 --> 01:37:31,500 plaque up in the kids loft. 1448 01:37:32,000 --> 01:37:32,458 Heck yeah. 1449 01:37:33,416 --> 01:37:34,833 I don't remember what that one says. 1450 01:37:35,041 --> 01:37:35,541 I don't either. 1451 01:37:36,375 --> 01:37:37,958 Oh man, it's gonna bother me. 1452 01:37:37,958 --> 01:37:39,333 Might be the goldfish one. 1453 01:37:40,166 --> 01:37:41,166 Cause that's a good one. 1454 01:37:41,625 --> 01:37:41,875 Yeah. 1455 01:37:42,125 --> 01:37:42,666 That's a good one. 1456 01:37:43,291 --> 01:37:44,666 I can't remember, but yeah. 1457 01:37:45,291 --> 01:37:46,041 Nice, well good. 1458 01:37:46,041 --> 01:37:47,041 Well, you got that, I am peeved out. 1459 01:37:47,041 --> 01:37:47,541 You feel better? 1460 01:37:48,125 --> 01:37:49,333 I do, I do. 1461 01:37:49,333 --> 01:37:50,500 You have anything you're peeved about? 1462 01:37:51,333 --> 01:37:51,958 You know, I've always 1463 01:37:51,958 --> 01:37:53,458 got peeved things about, 1464 01:37:53,458 --> 01:37:55,750 but nothing specific to bring up today. 1465 01:37:56,916 --> 01:37:57,791 If people had just 1466 01:37:57,791 --> 01:37:59,375 cleared out the highways 1467 01:37:59,541 --> 01:38:01,000 while I'm on them, that'd be fantastic. 1468 01:38:01,416 --> 01:38:03,041 Man, I must have a lot of I'm peeved 1469 01:38:03,041 --> 01:38:04,625 cause you're really striking a nerve 1470 01:38:04,625 --> 01:38:06,083 with that one with me now too. 1471 01:38:08,166 --> 01:38:09,125 It's just so bad. 1472 01:38:09,666 --> 01:38:11,666 You know it's bad when your 12 year old's 1473 01:38:11,666 --> 01:38:14,000 in the back seat going, hey 1474 01:38:14,000 --> 01:38:16,000 mom, how fast are you going? 1475 01:38:16,416 --> 01:38:18,083 Cause you're like flying past people. 1476 01:38:18,083 --> 01:38:19,833 And I was like, I am driving 1477 01:38:19,833 --> 01:38:21,625 65, which is the speed limit. 1478 01:38:21,875 --> 01:38:23,625 And yes, I am flying past people. 1479 01:38:24,750 --> 01:38:26,750 Well in Texas, people get really nervous 1480 01:38:26,750 --> 01:38:28,041 when stuff falls from the sky. 1481 01:38:28,833 --> 01:38:32,583 Whether it's water, ash, ice. 1482 01:38:33,666 --> 01:38:33,708 Ash? 1483 01:38:33,958 --> 01:38:34,666 I don't know, I was just 1484 01:38:34,666 --> 01:38:35,125 trying to think about it. 1485 01:38:35,166 --> 01:38:36,750 What else can fall from the sky? 1486 01:38:36,750 --> 01:38:39,375 Really, mostly just some form of water. 1487 01:38:41,708 --> 01:38:43,791 Mostly, mostly some form of water. 1488 01:38:45,375 --> 01:38:46,541 But it's not even icy though, right? 1489 01:38:46,541 --> 01:38:47,666 I get ice, I wouldn't 1490 01:38:47,666 --> 01:38:49,250 hold that against anybody. 1491 01:38:49,750 --> 01:38:50,041 I would either. 1492 01:38:50,291 --> 01:38:50,916 Oh my gosh. 1493 01:38:51,625 --> 01:38:53,333 But just because it's a little wet 1494 01:38:53,458 --> 01:38:57,166 or because it's overcast, I mean like, 1495 01:38:57,666 --> 01:38:59,000 they're just so bad. 1496 01:38:59,000 --> 01:39:01,500 Yeah, we're talking completely dry roads. 1497 01:39:01,875 --> 01:39:02,916 Yeah, yeah. 1498 01:39:03,250 --> 01:39:03,500 Completely. 1499 01:39:03,833 --> 01:39:06,166 You're right, last week at this time, 1500 01:39:06,416 --> 01:39:07,458 I would not have 1501 01:39:07,458 --> 01:39:08,500 ventured out of the house. 1502 01:39:09,041 --> 01:39:09,958 I don't do ice. 1503 01:39:10,791 --> 01:39:11,458 Nobody should. 1504 01:39:11,541 --> 01:39:13,791 Right, nobody should do ice. 1505 01:39:13,791 --> 01:39:14,500 There's no good way to 1506 01:39:14,500 --> 01:39:15,625 drive on it as a regular person. 1507 01:39:16,833 --> 01:39:17,416 Totally agree. 1508 01:39:17,875 --> 01:39:19,125 Unless you have some sort of like cat. 1509 01:39:20,416 --> 01:39:23,541 Like skiing, you know, ski hill type. 1510 01:39:23,750 --> 01:39:24,541 Yeah, yeah. 1511 01:39:25,125 --> 01:39:26,500 Tread, treaded 1512 01:39:26,500 --> 01:39:27,666 vehicle, all terrain vehicle. 1513 01:39:28,333 --> 01:39:29,416 That's exactly right. 1514 01:39:29,458 --> 01:39:29,625 Yeah. 1515 01:39:30,375 --> 01:39:31,708 You and I grew up where there's snow. 1516 01:39:31,958 --> 01:39:32,958 You can drive in snow. 1517 01:39:33,500 --> 01:39:34,583 You cannot drive in ice. 1518 01:39:34,791 --> 01:39:35,416 They tried, you saw 1519 01:39:35,416 --> 01:39:36,541 everybody in Austin tried. 1520 01:39:36,541 --> 01:39:38,000 There's like a million reels of cars 1521 01:39:38,000 --> 01:39:40,625 just somehow doing 360s all the way down, 1522 01:39:40,875 --> 01:39:42,250 all the way down like small hills. 1523 01:39:44,416 --> 01:39:46,000 Just piling into other cars at the end. 1524 01:39:46,041 --> 01:39:47,875 Are they all like a real, real drive? 1525 01:39:47,875 --> 01:39:49,125 That's the only time I've known someone 1526 01:39:49,291 --> 01:39:50,166 to like do a 360. 1527 01:39:51,250 --> 01:39:51,875 I don't know. 1528 01:39:51,875 --> 01:39:52,750 I actually contemplated 1529 01:39:52,750 --> 01:39:53,791 that for half a second 1530 01:39:53,791 --> 01:39:55,833 of how they got going on a 360. 1531 01:39:56,541 --> 01:39:57,500 A, they're going too fast. 1532 01:39:58,000 --> 01:40:00,125 I think they just like try to, 1533 01:40:00,375 --> 01:40:01,750 they like hit the brake and 1534 01:40:01,750 --> 01:40:03,083 like turn the wheel, right? 1535 01:40:03,083 --> 01:40:03,500 Because they don't 1536 01:40:03,500 --> 01:40:04,416 know what they're doing. 1537 01:40:05,083 --> 01:40:07,166 And that just starts the whole process. 1538 01:40:07,166 --> 01:40:08,875 And then they're just like, you know, 1539 01:40:08,875 --> 01:40:09,958 like a cartoon person 1540 01:40:09,958 --> 01:40:11,166 hanging on to the steering wheel 1541 01:40:11,166 --> 01:40:14,583 to hand to just looking out the window 1542 01:40:14,791 --> 01:40:16,000 with big eyes at people like, 1543 01:40:17,541 --> 01:40:17,958 what happened? 1544 01:40:18,333 --> 01:40:19,750 Like, how am I doing this? 1545 01:40:19,750 --> 01:40:20,416 Like what is this? 1546 01:40:20,416 --> 01:40:21,666 What is happening to me? 1547 01:40:22,458 --> 01:40:22,833 (exhaling) 1548 01:40:23,208 --> 01:40:24,041 Just all the way down. 1549 01:40:24,958 --> 01:40:25,166 Austin. 1550 01:40:25,541 --> 01:40:27,458 The most crazy thing. 1551 01:40:27,458 --> 01:40:27,958 I've seen this. 1552 01:40:28,000 --> 01:40:29,125 You're in the headlight looks like, 1553 01:40:29,458 --> 01:40:30,333 how did I get here? 1554 01:40:32,333 --> 01:40:33,541 Well, we all know that if 1555 01:40:33,541 --> 01:40:35,416 you're driving on snow or ice, 1556 01:40:35,416 --> 01:40:36,500 like slamming on the 1557 01:40:36,500 --> 01:40:37,833 brakes is a great idea. 1558 01:40:37,875 --> 01:40:39,250 Yeah, well, maybe not people in Texas. 1559 01:40:39,833 --> 01:40:41,625 Again, people in 1560 01:40:41,625 --> 01:40:42,708 Minneapolis may know this. 1561 01:40:42,708 --> 01:40:44,333 People from Colorado know this. 1562 01:40:44,916 --> 01:40:45,208 True. 1563 01:40:46,750 --> 01:40:46,958 Yeah. 1564 01:40:48,500 --> 01:40:49,583 Ice just sucks. 1565 01:40:50,041 --> 01:40:51,291 That's all there is to it. 1566 01:40:51,291 --> 01:40:51,916 Yes, it does. 1567 01:40:54,458 --> 01:40:54,958 All right, well, I 1568 01:40:54,958 --> 01:40:56,000 think we're getting close 1569 01:40:56,000 --> 01:40:57,625 to shutting this baby down. 1570 01:40:57,666 --> 01:40:57,916 Yeah. 1571 01:40:58,500 --> 01:40:59,458 Probably getting close to it. 1572 01:40:59,666 --> 01:41:01,083 Anything, any final thoughts 1573 01:41:01,083 --> 01:41:02,708 coming from off of this week, 1574 01:41:02,708 --> 01:41:03,833 looking into next week? 1575 01:41:05,041 --> 01:41:06,125 We're in February now. 1576 01:41:06,500 --> 01:41:06,916 We got a- 1577 01:41:07,333 --> 01:41:07,500 February. 1578 01:41:07,625 --> 01:41:08,750 Our oldest kid gets his 1579 01:41:08,750 --> 01:41:09,958 driver's license this week, 1580 01:41:09,958 --> 01:41:10,500 or this month. 1581 01:41:11,541 --> 01:41:12,875 Holy heck. 1582 01:41:13,166 --> 01:41:15,166 Very few things have made me feel old 1583 01:41:15,375 --> 01:41:17,833 as far as having children is concerned. 1584 01:41:18,833 --> 01:41:19,708 This one does. 1585 01:41:21,833 --> 01:41:22,500 Actually having kids 1586 01:41:22,500 --> 01:41:23,958 in high school kind of, 1587 01:41:23,958 --> 01:41:25,541 was that first like tick towards that? 1588 01:41:25,541 --> 01:41:25,750 Yeah. 1589 01:41:26,250 --> 01:41:27,125 Now that I got a kid 1590 01:41:27,125 --> 01:41:28,416 that's about to drive, 1591 01:41:28,416 --> 01:41:29,625 he has his own car, all this, 1592 01:41:29,958 --> 01:41:32,250 that makes me feel 1593 01:41:32,250 --> 01:41:35,125 like I'm an older person. 1594 01:41:37,208 --> 01:41:37,833 That doesn't make you feel. 1595 01:41:40,083 --> 01:41:40,375 Huh. 1596 01:41:40,791 --> 01:41:41,000 28? 1597 01:41:41,875 --> 01:41:42,958 No. 1598 01:41:42,958 --> 01:41:43,375 Up from 27? 1599 01:41:44,375 --> 01:41:44,708 No. 1600 01:41:46,791 --> 01:41:48,041 Oh man, it gives me a 1601 01:41:48,041 --> 01:41:48,875 whole bunch of feels. 1602 01:41:49,166 --> 01:41:49,750 It gives me a whole 1603 01:41:49,750 --> 01:41:51,166 bunch of scary things. 1604 01:41:51,166 --> 01:41:52,000 It gives me a whole 1605 01:41:52,000 --> 01:41:54,708 bunch of proud feelings. 1606 01:41:55,166 --> 01:41:57,291 And it gives me a whole bunch of, 1607 01:41:57,875 --> 01:42:01,250 where in the world did time go feelings? 1608 01:42:01,708 --> 01:42:03,458 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 1609 01:42:04,125 --> 01:42:06,708 And am I ready for this? 1610 01:42:06,958 --> 01:42:08,416 Is he ready for this? 1611 01:42:08,833 --> 01:42:11,833 Is, oh gosh, did I do my job okay? 1612 01:42:13,000 --> 01:42:14,375 It's all the feels. 1613 01:42:15,208 --> 01:42:16,250 Yeah, yeah. 1614 01:42:16,791 --> 01:42:19,666 Most of which are riddled with anxiety. 1615 01:42:20,500 --> 01:42:21,083 I'll say it. 1616 01:42:21,750 --> 01:42:23,375 (laughs) I know, I know, wow. 1617 01:42:24,041 --> 01:42:24,708 That's what we got coming 1618 01:42:24,708 --> 01:42:26,208 up this month for us though. 1619 01:42:26,250 --> 01:42:26,541 It's crazy. 1620 01:42:26,583 --> 01:42:27,000 I know. 1621 01:42:27,333 --> 01:42:28,583 You have a big birthday too. 1622 01:42:29,333 --> 01:42:30,583 I mean, I should say it's a birthday. 1623 01:42:31,083 --> 01:42:31,791 Not a big birthday. 1624 01:42:32,708 --> 01:42:33,458 At this age, we don't 1625 01:42:33,458 --> 01:42:34,583 really celebrate them. 1626 01:42:34,583 --> 01:42:37,541 I have a decade next year, so that's one, 1627 01:42:37,833 --> 01:42:38,750 not only that I celebrate 1628 01:42:38,750 --> 01:42:40,500 it, but decades are decades. 1629 01:42:40,916 --> 01:42:41,458 Decades are decades. 1630 01:42:42,958 --> 01:42:45,250 It's a milestone birthday next year. 1631 01:42:46,291 --> 01:42:46,625 Yeah. 1632 01:42:46,666 --> 01:42:47,375 I think, you know. 1633 01:42:47,958 --> 01:42:49,375 Big four over the hill. 1634 01:42:49,375 --> 01:42:50,208 That's exactly right. 1635 01:42:51,208 --> 01:42:52,041 That's what you look like. 1636 01:42:53,125 --> 01:42:53,750 I wish I did. 1637 01:42:56,166 --> 01:42:57,708 Someone, you recently had someone 1638 01:42:57,708 --> 01:42:59,125 thinking you were in your 30s, right? 1639 01:42:59,833 --> 01:43:00,500 I did. 1640 01:43:00,958 --> 01:43:02,500 It's just such a compliment. 1641 01:43:03,041 --> 01:43:04,625 I did, but I was wearing a hat 1642 01:43:04,750 --> 01:43:06,541 and asking for bazooka gum. 1643 01:43:08,583 --> 01:43:10,333 I'm just kidding, I totally stole that. 1644 01:43:10,791 --> 01:43:12,416 I totally stole that from Dana Carvey. 1645 01:43:12,916 --> 01:43:15,166 I heard of Dana Carvey. 1646 01:43:15,708 --> 01:43:16,708 Dana Carvey. 1647 01:43:16,750 --> 01:43:17,500 He was so young, and he 1648 01:43:17,500 --> 01:43:18,750 used that same kind of joke, 1649 01:43:19,500 --> 01:43:21,000 saying like, no, he's like recently, 1650 01:43:21,458 --> 01:43:22,666 and he was like 54 or 1651 01:43:22,666 --> 01:43:23,416 something like that at the time. 1652 01:43:23,416 --> 01:43:24,541 He's like, I was carded in 1653 01:43:24,541 --> 01:43:26,333 Vegas by a living human being, 1654 01:43:27,000 --> 01:43:28,625 but you know, when I was 1655 01:43:28,625 --> 01:43:29,916 54 or something like that, 1656 01:43:30,208 --> 01:43:30,916 he's like, now 1657 01:43:30,916 --> 01:43:32,666 granted, I was wearing a hat 1658 01:43:32,666 --> 01:43:34,375 and I was asking him if I could buy 1659 01:43:34,375 --> 01:43:36,000 some bazooka gum off of him. 1660 01:43:37,625 --> 01:43:38,666 So he was making a joke on me. 1661 01:43:38,666 --> 01:43:39,291 I thought it was hilarious. 1662 01:43:40,000 --> 01:43:40,708 That's pretty funny. 1663 01:43:40,750 --> 01:43:42,333 Probably didn't land as well with mine. 1664 01:43:43,125 --> 01:43:44,375 I was getting more 1665 01:43:44,375 --> 01:43:45,916 Ralph Macchio vibes from you 1666 01:43:45,916 --> 01:43:47,625 as opposed to Dana 1667 01:43:47,625 --> 01:43:48,875 Carvey vibes, but okay. 1668 01:43:49,125 --> 01:43:51,416 Yeah, Macchio, man, that's another, whew. 1669 01:43:53,041 --> 01:43:55,541 He looks good for being 64 or five now. 1670 01:43:56,000 --> 01:43:56,666 He looks like he's 35. 1671 01:43:57,125 --> 01:43:58,291 Yeah, he does, he does. 1672 01:43:58,708 --> 01:44:00,958 I want his secret, whatever it is. 1673 01:44:00,958 --> 01:44:03,500 I think it's Miyagi-san Karate. 1674 01:44:03,833 --> 01:44:04,333 Oh yeah. 1675 01:44:06,250 --> 01:44:06,875 I'll try that. 1676 01:44:07,750 --> 01:44:08,541 You'll try that, yeah. 1677 01:44:09,000 --> 01:44:10,583 Chopsticks and try to go after the flies. 1678 01:44:11,458 --> 01:44:12,958 The next step is yoga though from that. 1679 01:44:12,958 --> 01:44:14,500 So you better just be careful. 1680 01:44:15,250 --> 01:44:16,833 I go from catching flies 1681 01:44:16,833 --> 01:44:18,333 with chopsticks to yoga. 1682 01:44:18,416 --> 01:44:19,041 I don't want you to say 1683 01:44:19,041 --> 01:44:20,000 you're gonna do something 1684 01:44:20,375 --> 01:44:22,291 and then stop, not do it, 1685 01:44:22,291 --> 01:44:23,625 turn around your tail between your legs. 1686 01:44:24,333 --> 01:44:27,458 Oh, and we brought that around. 1687 01:44:28,291 --> 01:44:28,875 Call back. 1688 01:44:32,458 --> 01:44:33,791 I don't have a tail. 1689 01:44:34,500 --> 01:44:35,416 I know, I know, 1690 01:44:35,416 --> 01:44:37,125 you're just legally blind. 1691 01:44:40,666 --> 01:44:42,208 There are no words, no words. 1692 01:44:43,250 --> 01:44:45,291 Other than we will see you next time. 1693 01:44:45,500 --> 01:44:46,250 Thank you for joining. 1694 01:44:47,208 --> 01:44:48,708 And have a great week, ciao ciao. 1695 01:44:48,708 --> 01:44:49,708 Great week, see ya. 1696 01:59:59,916 --> 02:00:01,625 [chimes] 1697 02:00:01,625 --> 02:00:02,916 [sighs] 1698 02:00:03,625 --> 02:00:03,916 All right. 1699 02:00:03,916 --> 02:00:05,083 You needed the woo-saw. 1700 02:00:06,000 --> 02:00:07,166 Yeah. Is woo saw a word? 1701 02:00:07,166 --> 02:00:08,416 I have no idea! 1702 02:00:09,166 --> 02:00:11,208 Well, you know me in yoga. 1703 02:00:11,833 --> 02:00:13,708 Speaking of birds, we do-- 1704 02:00:13,708 --> 02:00:14,333 Where you going with that? 1705 02:00:14,625 --> 02:00:15,458 And we nailed it. 1706 02:00:15,833 --> 02:00:16,541 Nailed it. 1707 02:00:16,541 --> 02:00:17,916 Trying to clear my own name 1708 02:00:17,916 --> 02:00:19,375 so people don't think I'm a freak. 1709 02:00:19,666 --> 02:00:21,166 It actually started while we were 1710 02:00:21,166 --> 02:00:22,000 standing in the water 1711 02:00:22,000 --> 02:00:23,250 getting ready to meet our dolphin. 1712 02:00:23,791 --> 02:00:25,750 What is happening here? 1713 02:00:26,083 --> 02:00:27,333 People like me! 1714 02:00:27,583 --> 02:00:27,791 Really? 1715 02:00:28,416 --> 02:00:30,333 situation, the sit. You guys are all 1716 02:00:30,333 --> 02:00:31,041 special, that's great. 1717 02:00:31,583 --> 02:00:33,875 Absolutely. But in general, 1718 02:00:34,458 --> 02:00:36,041 most of us are kind of doing 1719 02:00:36,041 --> 02:00:38,000 the same thing. It is not not fair. 1720 02:00:38,583 --> 02:00:39,916 Because you chose to be born with a 1721 02:00:39,916 --> 02:00:42,500 brain? Oh, oh, oh, we're not going there. 1722 02:00:42,916 --> 02:00:44,375 Kudos, hon, you're doing a fantastic job. 1723 02:00:44,791 --> 02:00:46,791 You effing crushed it. 1724 02:00:47,000 --> 02:00:48,166 For freaking. When people 1725 02:00:48,166 --> 02:00:50,416 show you who they are, believe 1726 02:00:50,416 --> 02:00:52,708 them. And we brought that around. 1727 02:00:53,750 --> 02:00:54,125 We're all back.