In this message, Pastor Hezekiah reinterprets Ephesians 5:22, explaining that "submission" for wives, and "headship" for husbands, are rooted in mutual self-sacrificial love, mirroring Christ's relationship with the church. He challenges traditional, often harmful, interpretations by emphasizing that biblical marriage is about humility and service, not control or superiority. Ultimately, he argues that healthy marriages reflect the gospel, showcasing God's unconditional love and redemption.