1 01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:02,666 (upbeat music) 2 01:00:05,375 --> 01:00:06,041 She's out here somewhere. 3 01:00:06,666 --> 01:00:06,875 Paris! 4 01:00:08,125 --> 01:00:08,791 Paris, come! 5 01:00:08,791 --> 01:00:09,291 Paris, come! 6 01:00:09,916 --> 01:00:10,791 The death guy. 7 01:00:11,416 --> 01:00:12,333 The death guy. 8 01:00:12,333 --> 01:00:13,208 The death guy. 9 01:00:13,208 --> 01:00:13,750 The grim reaper. 10 01:00:13,750 --> 01:00:15,000 The grim reaper, yes. 11 01:00:15,166 --> 01:00:16,500 The grim reaper may have 12 01:00:16,500 --> 01:00:17,625 drank a little too much. 13 01:00:17,625 --> 01:00:18,625 He might've been over-served. 14 01:00:18,916 --> 01:00:19,958 He's over-served, like 15 01:00:19,958 --> 01:00:20,875 hanging on his sickle. 16 01:00:20,875 --> 01:00:22,041 Just leaning on his sickle. 17 01:00:23,041 --> 01:00:24,041 We don't talk about Bruno, 18 01:00:24,833 --> 01:00:27,541 because Bruno was this bad, bad thing. 19 01:00:28,500 --> 01:00:29,250 We're eating an elephant. 20 01:00:29,500 --> 01:00:30,500 How do you eat an elephant? 21 01:00:30,958 --> 01:00:31,791 One bite at a time. 22 01:00:32,375 --> 01:00:33,666 So I actually kept it 23 01:00:33,666 --> 01:00:34,916 together the whole day. 24 01:00:35,458 --> 01:00:36,625 Which is astonishing, 25 01:00:36,833 --> 01:00:38,083 because there's a lot of patience 26 01:00:38,083 --> 01:00:39,125 involved in this day. 27 01:00:39,166 --> 01:00:39,875 Yes, you-- 28 01:00:40,583 --> 01:00:40,875 Struggle. 29 01:00:41,500 --> 01:00:42,625 We're just not gonna talk about Bruno. 30 01:00:43,375 --> 01:00:44,250 We're gonna talk about Bruno. 31 01:00:44,291 --> 01:00:44,958 We're gonna talk about Bruno. 32 01:00:45,750 --> 01:00:46,666 Mike was dehydrated, 33 01:00:46,666 --> 01:00:47,666 sitting in the car all day. 34 01:00:48,208 --> 01:00:49,125 That was his Gatorade bottle. 35 01:00:49,583 --> 01:00:50,708 Totally the wrong color. 36 01:00:51,166 --> 01:00:51,791 They don't make a 37 01:00:51,791 --> 01:00:53,208 Gatorade that color, my love. 38 01:00:53,833 --> 01:00:56,000 Shots of Patron for everybody. 39 01:00:56,541 --> 01:00:56,750 Paris. 40 01:00:57,166 --> 01:00:58,750 (laughs) 41 01:00:59,666 --> 01:00:59,875 Paris! 42 01:01:00,125 --> 01:01:01,208 Welcome to the Mr. and 43 01:01:01,208 --> 01:01:02,083 Mrs. English Podcast. 44 01:01:02,583 --> 01:01:03,000 I'm Megan. 45 01:01:03,375 --> 01:01:03,916 And I'm Sean. 46 01:01:04,166 --> 01:01:05,250 We're here to talk about 47 01:01:05,250 --> 01:01:07,083 the wild ride of raising kids, 48 01:01:07,083 --> 01:01:07,833 growing careers, 49 01:01:08,291 --> 01:01:09,375 keeping life together in 50 01:01:09,375 --> 01:01:10,416 the middle of all the chaos. 51 01:01:11,041 --> 01:01:12,000 So buckle up, 52 01:01:12,458 --> 01:01:13,208 because we're all in 53 01:01:13,208 --> 01:01:14,500 this crazy journey together. 54 01:01:16,208 --> 01:01:16,541 Paris. 55 01:01:17,291 --> 01:01:17,916 Yeah, we're gonna watch 56 01:01:17,916 --> 01:01:18,833 Paris while we're doing it. 57 01:01:18,833 --> 01:01:19,083 No. 58 01:01:20,000 --> 01:01:20,375 Paris. 59 01:01:21,333 --> 01:01:21,958 I don't see her. 60 01:01:22,958 --> 01:01:23,666 She's out here somewhere. 61 01:01:24,000 --> 01:01:24,291 Paris. 62 01:01:25,750 --> 01:01:26,458 Paris, come. 63 01:01:26,625 --> 01:01:26,666 Paris. 64 01:01:28,250 --> 01:01:30,541 Good girl. 65 01:01:30,583 --> 01:01:31,041 Good girl. 66 01:01:31,333 --> 01:01:32,250 You stay with us, baby. 67 01:01:33,541 --> 01:01:33,916 All right. 68 01:01:34,333 --> 01:01:34,541 Ready? 69 01:01:34,791 --> 01:01:35,041 Yeah. 70 01:01:35,916 --> 01:01:36,291 All right. 71 01:01:37,708 --> 01:01:42,208 Well, we are back for the next episode. 72 01:01:42,208 --> 01:01:43,416 Episode, this is 39. 73 01:01:43,458 --> 01:01:43,708 39. 74 01:01:44,000 --> 01:01:44,666 We weren't quite sure. 75 01:01:45,333 --> 01:01:47,041 This one will be a little different. 76 01:01:47,083 --> 01:01:47,500 Yes. 77 01:01:47,750 --> 01:01:48,875 Primarily because this 78 01:01:48,875 --> 01:01:50,250 is a behind the scenes, 79 01:01:50,458 --> 01:01:52,000 like behind the curtains catch up. 80 01:01:52,500 --> 01:01:53,458 We have literally not seen 81 01:01:53,458 --> 01:01:54,333 each other for five days. 82 01:01:54,750 --> 01:01:55,041 Correct. 83 01:01:55,416 --> 01:01:55,666 We have no idea what's been happening. 84 01:01:55,791 --> 01:02:00,583 Other than the texts here 85 01:02:00,583 --> 01:02:01,375 and there in the FaceTime 86 01:02:01,375 --> 01:02:02,000 to say goodnight. 87 01:02:02,333 --> 01:02:02,541 Yes. 88 01:02:02,791 --> 01:02:03,000 Yeah. 89 01:02:03,000 --> 01:02:06,125 It has been a crazy few days, 90 01:02:06,125 --> 01:02:07,416 particularly for you. 91 01:02:08,541 --> 01:02:09,916 But yeah, I mean, we 92 01:02:09,916 --> 01:02:12,500 haven't really seen each other. 93 01:02:12,500 --> 01:02:14,250 And that's like, that's one of the things 94 01:02:14,250 --> 01:02:15,166 I think a lot of people, 95 01:02:15,166 --> 01:02:16,250 especially at this phase of life, 96 01:02:16,250 --> 01:02:18,750 have to manage through, right? 97 01:02:18,750 --> 01:02:20,000 Is like really busy schedules. 98 01:02:20,000 --> 01:02:22,458 How do you continue to stay 99 01:02:22,458 --> 01:02:23,666 connected and stay in touch? 100 01:02:25,416 --> 01:02:27,791 It's hard and you have to be intentional. 101 01:02:27,791 --> 01:02:28,583 And so thank goodness 102 01:02:28,583 --> 01:02:29,500 we have Mr. and Mrs. 103 01:02:29,791 --> 01:02:30,250 That's right. 104 01:02:31,000 --> 01:02:32,166 To give us that time. 105 01:02:32,208 --> 01:02:33,958 To publicly catch up on our 106 01:02:33,958 --> 01:02:36,458 relationship and marriage. 107 01:02:36,875 --> 01:02:37,958 And we're doing it in the backyard. 108 01:02:37,958 --> 01:02:39,250 I was just throwing an acorn away 109 01:02:39,250 --> 01:02:40,708 that our little puppy, 110 01:02:40,708 --> 01:02:42,166 Paris, should not be eating. 111 01:02:43,000 --> 01:02:43,666 Which I'm sure you'll 112 01:02:43,666 --> 01:02:45,166 be watching us watch her 113 01:02:45,375 --> 01:02:46,875 till one of our kids comes out. 114 01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:47,166 Right. 115 01:02:47,500 --> 01:02:48,916 And watches the puppy. 116 01:02:49,541 --> 01:02:49,791 Yeah. 117 01:02:49,833 --> 01:02:50,583 She's two years old now. 118 01:02:50,583 --> 01:02:51,250 She's not really a puppy. 119 01:02:52,041 --> 01:02:53,625 But because she's only eight pounds, 120 01:02:54,500 --> 01:02:55,875 she will always be a puppy. 121 01:02:56,083 --> 01:02:57,333 Like I don't think she'll ever be, 122 01:02:57,875 --> 01:02:59,000 like feel like a full grown 123 01:02:59,000 --> 01:03:00,958 dog because she's so small. 124 01:03:01,208 --> 01:03:01,875 No, she won't. 125 01:03:01,916 --> 01:03:03,500 Like she was just chasing a squirrel 126 01:03:04,000 --> 01:03:05,583 that probably only weighs about two 127 01:03:05,583 --> 01:03:06,500 pounds less than her. 128 01:03:06,541 --> 01:03:07,125 That's right. 129 01:03:07,125 --> 01:03:08,083 I have no idea what she 130 01:03:08,083 --> 01:03:09,458 would do if she were to catch it. 131 01:03:10,250 --> 01:03:12,875 I'm actually thankful she didn't, but. 132 01:03:14,208 --> 01:03:16,666 Well, she'd lose that fight, but anyways. 133 01:03:16,958 --> 01:03:17,708 What do you think? 134 01:03:17,791 --> 01:03:18,375 Paris decide, you 135 01:03:18,375 --> 01:03:18,958 might be able to see her 136 01:03:18,958 --> 01:03:20,208 in the background walking through the 137 01:03:20,208 --> 01:03:21,458 backyard or whatnot. 138 01:03:21,791 --> 01:03:22,833 She's doing her thing. 139 01:03:22,833 --> 01:03:24,166 Yeah, so we'll try to 140 01:03:24,166 --> 01:03:25,458 get through it one episode 141 01:03:25,583 --> 01:03:27,333 without getting too bit up by mosquitoes. 142 01:03:27,791 --> 01:03:29,000 If we're doing this, we're 143 01:03:29,000 --> 01:03:30,083 trying to take care of mosquitoes 144 01:03:30,083 --> 01:03:30,833 and I apologize. 145 01:03:31,375 --> 01:03:33,083 I know, we just need a citronella candle. 146 01:03:33,166 --> 01:03:34,416 Hopefully we won't get bit 147 01:03:34,416 --> 01:03:36,000 up out here, but anyways. 148 01:03:36,000 --> 01:03:37,666 Yeah, well, I missed you. 149 01:03:37,708 --> 01:03:38,458 I missed you. 150 01:03:38,458 --> 01:03:39,083 It's been five days. 151 01:03:39,791 --> 01:03:41,000 Our youngest and I, we were 152 01:03:41,000 --> 01:03:42,500 in California and San Diego. 153 01:03:43,833 --> 01:03:45,583 And at a soccer thing. 154 01:03:46,291 --> 01:03:46,666 Yeah. 155 01:03:46,708 --> 01:03:48,875 So we were there with 156 01:03:48,875 --> 01:03:49,750 some of the parents there 157 01:03:49,750 --> 01:03:51,125 and the soccer team while you were here 158 01:03:51,208 --> 01:03:52,250 with two of the kids. 159 01:03:52,250 --> 01:03:52,541 Yep. 160 01:03:54,333 --> 01:03:54,791 And we were just 161 01:03:54,791 --> 01:03:56,083 living the separate lives 162 01:03:56,083 --> 01:03:56,708 for a little while. 163 01:03:56,708 --> 01:03:57,416 So how was your weekend? 164 01:03:58,541 --> 01:04:01,166 My weekend was surprisingly busy. 165 01:04:01,708 --> 01:04:02,083 Yeah. 166 01:04:02,166 --> 01:04:03,750 So I had mentally prepared 167 01:04:03,750 --> 01:04:07,083 for, okay, Shawn's not here. 168 01:04:07,583 --> 01:04:08,416 Okay, I only have two 169 01:04:08,416 --> 01:04:09,791 kids, the two older kids 170 01:04:09,791 --> 01:04:11,250 that are a little more helpful. 171 01:04:13,708 --> 01:04:14,958 So I was like, surely I 172 01:04:14,958 --> 01:04:16,375 can have coffee sitting 173 01:04:16,708 --> 01:04:18,750 on the back patio at some point. 174 01:04:18,791 --> 01:04:21,958 Can I relax, maybe put a puzzle together? 175 01:04:22,500 --> 01:04:23,458 Yet none of that happened. 176 01:04:24,083 --> 01:04:25,375 None of that happened. 177 01:04:25,875 --> 01:04:28,916 It was busy with just 178 01:04:28,916 --> 01:04:31,875 keeping up with things all weekend. 179 01:04:33,416 --> 01:04:34,166 I mean, I left the house 180 01:04:34,166 --> 01:04:35,791 at 10.15 on Saturday morning 181 01:04:36,041 --> 01:04:36,875 and didn't get home 182 01:04:36,875 --> 01:04:38,666 until about 8.30 at night. 183 01:04:39,333 --> 01:04:39,500 Really? 184 01:04:40,083 --> 01:04:41,666 Yeah, I mean, we were gone. 185 01:04:42,166 --> 01:04:43,291 We came home, correction. 186 01:04:43,833 --> 01:04:45,750 Track practice to shopping. 187 01:04:45,750 --> 01:04:46,250 Track practice to shopping. 188 01:04:47,458 --> 01:04:48,583 And then you took them out to dinner. 189 01:04:49,083 --> 01:04:51,083 Yeah, well, and then I did, I lied. 190 01:04:51,333 --> 01:04:53,708 We did come home because we watched then. 191 01:04:54,166 --> 01:04:54,708 One of the cool things 192 01:04:54,708 --> 01:04:56,125 is we have a live stream 193 01:04:56,333 --> 01:04:57,375 of the soccer game. 194 01:04:57,375 --> 01:04:58,458 So I could come home, 195 01:04:58,458 --> 01:04:59,625 watch the soccer game. 196 01:04:59,625 --> 01:05:00,583 Yeah, thank you to the 197 01:05:00,583 --> 01:05:01,750 parents who take care of that too. 198 01:05:01,750 --> 01:05:03,583 That is awesome when we can't be there. 199 01:05:03,625 --> 01:05:04,708 It is amazing, yeah, 200 01:05:04,708 --> 01:05:05,833 for especially in travel 201 01:05:05,833 --> 01:05:06,875 when you have to split up. 202 01:05:07,250 --> 01:05:08,416 It was fantastic and I 203 01:05:08,416 --> 01:05:10,250 know that can't be easy 204 01:05:10,750 --> 01:05:11,666 to lug all that stuff 205 01:05:11,666 --> 01:05:12,625 halfway across the country. 206 01:05:12,625 --> 01:05:13,875 So thank you to those parents. 207 01:05:14,208 --> 01:05:15,541 And I know there are some parents there 208 01:05:15,625 --> 01:05:16,375 that kind of helped 209 01:05:16,375 --> 01:05:17,500 because only one of the parents 210 01:05:17,500 --> 01:05:18,625 was there, mom was there. 211 01:05:18,958 --> 01:05:21,000 So I think some of the dads on the team 212 01:05:21,000 --> 01:05:22,250 and I didn't even know it was happening. 213 01:05:22,625 --> 01:05:23,583 We're helping put that together. 214 01:05:23,875 --> 01:05:24,666 So thank you to the behind 215 01:05:24,666 --> 01:05:25,875 the scenes people that do that 216 01:05:25,875 --> 01:05:26,833 because I know people 217 01:05:26,833 --> 01:05:27,791 like you that are at home 218 01:05:27,791 --> 01:05:28,583 and a lot of the other 219 01:05:28,583 --> 01:05:29,791 parents have to stay back. 220 01:05:31,250 --> 01:05:32,000 Appreciate that. 221 01:05:32,083 --> 01:05:32,833 Yeah. For sure. 222 01:05:32,875 --> 01:05:33,583 It was fantastic. 223 01:05:33,875 --> 01:05:34,041 Yeah. 224 01:05:34,375 --> 01:05:35,125 You could really see the game. 225 01:05:35,750 --> 01:05:36,458 So that was fun. 226 01:05:36,958 --> 01:05:38,708 And you can like get 227 01:05:38,708 --> 01:05:39,666 really excited and like yell 228 01:05:39,666 --> 01:05:40,583 and be like, go, go, 229 01:05:40,583 --> 01:05:42,041 go, you know, without, 230 01:05:42,833 --> 01:05:44,208 you know, bothering anyone. 231 01:05:44,208 --> 01:05:44,791 So it was kind of fun. 232 01:05:45,041 --> 01:05:46,500 The one or two times I've watched it, 233 01:05:46,500 --> 01:05:47,625 it's been on the coach's side. 234 01:05:47,625 --> 01:05:48,625 So it's been really fun for me 235 01:05:48,625 --> 01:05:50,083 because I can hear the coaches talk. 236 01:05:50,875 --> 01:05:51,458 And you can hear the 237 01:05:51,458 --> 01:05:52,208 coaches kind of a little bit 238 01:05:52,208 --> 01:05:53,208 what they're saying to the kids. 239 01:05:53,208 --> 01:05:53,583 You can hear what 240 01:05:53,583 --> 01:05:54,458 they're saying to the refs. 241 01:05:54,458 --> 01:05:54,958 You can kind of hear 242 01:05:54,958 --> 01:05:55,791 banter back and forth 243 01:05:56,041 --> 01:05:56,833 between the coaches. 244 01:05:57,458 --> 01:05:59,833 But I think you could hear the parents, 245 01:06:00,500 --> 01:06:02,125 which oftentimes you don't 246 01:06:02,125 --> 01:06:02,875 want to hear the parents, 247 01:06:02,875 --> 01:06:04,333 especially if it's the other teams, 248 01:06:04,750 --> 01:06:05,500 parents having issues. 249 01:06:06,333 --> 01:06:06,625 Totally. 250 01:06:06,916 --> 01:06:07,708 I will say that of the 251 01:06:07,708 --> 01:06:09,416 three games that I watched, 252 01:06:09,750 --> 01:06:11,000 I did not hear anything 253 01:06:11,000 --> 01:06:12,416 other than positive cheering 254 01:06:12,625 --> 01:06:13,541 from our parents. 255 01:06:13,541 --> 01:06:13,750 Yeah. 256 01:06:14,500 --> 01:06:15,833 It was very positive. 257 01:06:16,291 --> 01:06:18,458 Now on the other side, 258 01:06:18,708 --> 01:06:20,291 definitely a lot of colorful language. 259 01:06:20,291 --> 01:06:21,000 And I was like, I'm so 260 01:06:21,000 --> 01:06:21,916 glad they're not our parents. 261 01:06:22,125 --> 01:06:22,333 Whew. 262 01:06:24,041 --> 01:06:24,458 Yeah. 263 01:06:24,458 --> 01:06:25,083 But anyway. 264 01:06:25,375 --> 01:06:26,541 We get riled up here and there, 265 01:06:26,541 --> 01:06:28,000 but could you guys, there was times, 266 01:06:28,166 --> 01:06:29,333 because I knew you guys were watching it. 267 01:06:29,333 --> 01:06:29,916 And so there was times 268 01:06:29,916 --> 01:06:31,375 when I was like way that in. 269 01:06:31,625 --> 01:06:32,083 There was a couple of 270 01:06:32,083 --> 01:06:33,208 times I like yelled out 271 01:06:33,208 --> 01:06:34,708 like things to you guys, 272 01:06:35,000 --> 01:06:36,000 wondering if the camera 273 01:06:36,000 --> 01:06:36,625 would pick it up. 274 01:06:36,625 --> 01:06:37,875 Did you ever hear any of those things? 275 01:06:37,916 --> 01:06:40,791 I heard you say like, come on, you know, 276 01:06:40,791 --> 01:06:43,166 like let's go solar or whatever. 277 01:06:44,125 --> 01:06:45,583 I was talking specifically to you 278 01:06:45,750 --> 01:06:47,250 and the family at the house. 279 01:06:47,250 --> 01:06:48,250 You didn't hear any of those. 280 01:06:48,250 --> 01:06:49,541 We didn't, no, no. 281 01:06:50,291 --> 01:06:51,166 And the camera had to be 282 01:06:51,166 --> 01:06:52,208 in a really specific angle 283 01:06:52,208 --> 01:06:53,250 for us to see you. 284 01:06:53,458 --> 01:06:54,250 Although we did see you 285 01:06:54,250 --> 01:06:54,958 eating your corn nuts. 286 01:06:55,291 --> 01:06:56,291 I didn't know how she knew 287 01:06:56,291 --> 01:06:57,541 I was eating my corn nuts. 288 01:06:57,916 --> 01:06:58,583 (laughing) 289 01:06:59,250 --> 01:06:59,916 Oh, we saw it. 290 01:06:59,916 --> 01:07:01,750 I was like, dad's eating corn nuts. 291 01:07:03,500 --> 01:07:04,916 I knew that they were corn nuts 292 01:07:04,916 --> 01:07:06,250 probably before our daughter did. 293 01:07:06,250 --> 01:07:06,500 Yeah. 294 01:07:07,041 --> 01:07:08,166 She just saw you eating something. 295 01:07:08,166 --> 01:07:09,875 That's a good nervous habit for me. 296 01:07:09,875 --> 01:07:11,916 I just, it's having 297 01:07:11,916 --> 01:07:13,041 something to crunch on 298 01:07:13,750 --> 01:07:15,083 that I don't have to like, 299 01:07:15,291 --> 01:07:16,583 I would probably be okay 300 01:07:16,583 --> 01:07:17,916 having sunflower seeds. 301 01:07:17,916 --> 01:07:19,000 A lot of dads do that there, 302 01:07:19,000 --> 01:07:21,041 but I would obviously 303 01:07:21,041 --> 01:07:22,000 put them in like a cup 304 01:07:22,000 --> 01:07:22,916 so I could throw them away. 305 01:07:23,208 --> 01:07:26,041 But I know to those dads that are eating 306 01:07:26,041 --> 01:07:27,125 the sunflower seeds and just 307 01:07:27,125 --> 01:07:28,333 spitting them on the ground, 308 01:07:29,083 --> 01:07:30,125 other people use those 309 01:07:30,125 --> 01:07:31,375 fields, not just you. 310 01:07:31,375 --> 01:07:32,958 So if you wouldn't mind not doing that 311 01:07:32,958 --> 01:07:33,583 and cleaning up after 312 01:07:33,583 --> 01:07:34,583 yourself, it'd be fantastic. 313 01:07:34,625 --> 01:07:35,500 That'd be great. 314 01:07:35,500 --> 01:07:36,666 Yeah, that's just a public disclaimer. 315 01:07:37,000 --> 01:07:38,791 Yeah, I like that. 316 01:07:39,291 --> 01:07:40,041 What is that public? 317 01:07:40,041 --> 01:07:41,333 Oh, PSA, I like that PSA. 318 01:07:41,333 --> 01:07:42,000 A little PSA there. 319 01:07:42,125 --> 01:07:42,500 Yeah. 320 01:07:42,958 --> 01:07:44,833 Sunflower seeds, guys. 321 01:07:44,833 --> 01:07:45,083 Yeah. 322 01:07:45,875 --> 01:07:46,541 Unless it's a mom. 323 01:07:48,833 --> 01:07:49,583 Sorry, I laughed. 324 01:07:50,500 --> 01:07:51,208 Sure, it's a mom. 325 01:07:52,125 --> 01:07:52,458 Sure. 326 01:07:54,958 --> 01:07:55,458 Yeah, yeah. 327 01:07:56,000 --> 01:07:57,750 Sorry, that was maybe a little. 328 01:07:58,000 --> 01:07:59,083 So you guys watched the game, 329 01:07:59,083 --> 01:07:59,708 then you guys got 330 01:07:59,708 --> 01:08:00,916 ready, went out to dinner. 331 01:08:00,916 --> 01:08:01,625 Yeah, we went to church, 332 01:08:01,625 --> 01:08:02,458 then we went out to dinner 333 01:08:02,458 --> 01:08:03,500 and then we came home. 334 01:08:03,500 --> 01:08:04,583 Yeah, that's a long day though. 335 01:08:04,583 --> 01:08:05,291 It was a long day. 336 01:08:05,333 --> 01:08:05,791 It's a whole Saturday. 337 01:08:06,333 --> 01:08:07,750 Yep, and then Sunday, it was 338 01:08:07,750 --> 01:08:09,083 just busy around the house. 339 01:08:09,750 --> 01:08:11,250 Loads of laundry, changing beds. 340 01:08:11,875 --> 01:08:12,625 We finished putting up 341 01:08:12,625 --> 01:08:14,291 the Halloween decorations, 342 01:08:14,500 --> 01:08:15,791 picking up, it was just like. 343 01:08:15,833 --> 01:08:17,500 Yeah, yeah, so that's what I did, 344 01:08:17,500 --> 01:08:19,166 like the day of, or maybe the 345 01:08:19,166 --> 01:08:20,083 day before, I can't remember, 346 01:08:20,375 --> 01:08:22,750 but so the kids are on Halloween break. 347 01:08:22,750 --> 01:08:23,583 They're on fall break, 348 01:08:23,583 --> 01:08:24,250 which is something new. 349 01:08:24,958 --> 01:08:25,708 Our generation never 350 01:08:25,708 --> 01:08:26,500 had anything like that. 351 01:08:27,041 --> 01:08:27,916 You know, they can't, I 352 01:08:27,916 --> 01:08:29,000 think we talked about that once. 353 01:08:29,000 --> 01:08:29,750 You can't go do a full 354 01:08:29,750 --> 01:08:31,083 month of school, God forbid. 355 01:08:31,291 --> 01:08:31,708 So let's give them a 356 01:08:31,708 --> 01:08:32,708 whole nother week off. 357 01:08:32,708 --> 01:08:33,500 Let's just give them a week off. 358 01:08:33,500 --> 01:08:34,833 20 week a month for four 359 01:08:34,833 --> 01:08:35,666 out of like eight months. 360 01:08:35,666 --> 01:08:36,000 Anyways. 361 01:08:36,041 --> 01:08:36,625 For sure. 362 01:08:36,625 --> 01:08:37,458 50% of the time, 363 01:08:37,458 --> 01:08:38,958 they're not a whole week off. 364 01:08:39,000 --> 01:08:41,166 Anyways, I was rushing, 365 01:08:41,166 --> 01:08:43,250 because it was already like October 4th, 366 01:08:43,250 --> 01:08:44,333 and we've been joking about 367 01:08:44,333 --> 01:08:45,333 getting all the stuff down 368 01:08:45,333 --> 01:08:46,750 for Halloween and stuff, and I was like, 369 01:08:46,750 --> 01:08:47,708 I have to do it, because if 370 01:08:47,708 --> 01:08:49,500 I don't do it before we go, 371 01:08:49,791 --> 01:08:50,291 by the time I get 372 01:08:50,291 --> 01:08:51,500 back, it'll be the 14th, 373 01:08:51,500 --> 01:08:53,583 and you know, it does, it'll 374 01:08:53,583 --> 01:08:54,916 weigh on me a little bit that, 375 01:08:55,750 --> 01:08:56,916 it's only after two weeks. 376 01:08:57,458 --> 01:08:58,583 It's like Christmas stuff, right? 377 01:08:59,083 --> 01:09:00,583 You get the Christmas stuff out early, 378 01:09:01,375 --> 01:09:02,958 because you don't want to 379 01:09:02,958 --> 01:09:04,000 put it away two weeks later. 380 01:09:04,291 --> 01:09:05,500 Right, it's a really big-- 381 01:09:05,500 --> 01:09:07,000 It's a big pull, right? 382 01:09:07,291 --> 01:09:07,958 Yeah, heck yeah. Yeah, it's big to do. 383 01:09:09,000 --> 01:09:09,916 After looking around the house 384 01:09:09,916 --> 01:09:11,625 and how much Halloween stuff we have too, 385 01:09:11,625 --> 01:09:12,958 it's like, that's a lot of stuff. 386 01:09:13,000 --> 01:09:14,083 Yeah, a lot of stuff. 387 01:09:14,083 --> 01:09:14,791 Not really much Christmas, 388 01:09:15,000 --> 01:09:15,541 but it's a lot. 389 01:09:15,750 --> 01:09:17,250 It's a lot, and thank 390 01:09:17,250 --> 01:09:18,000 you to our daughter, 391 01:09:18,500 --> 01:09:19,791 who, she did a lot of 392 01:09:19,791 --> 01:09:21,083 the stuff in the house. 393 01:09:21,625 --> 01:09:22,291 But there were some big 394 01:09:22,291 --> 01:09:24,166 things that we had to do. 395 01:09:24,625 --> 01:09:25,791 And it was a group effort, 396 01:09:26,291 --> 01:09:27,291 I should actually send the 397 01:09:27,291 --> 01:09:28,583 video to you of the two kids 398 01:09:28,583 --> 01:09:29,291 trying to put up this 399 01:09:29,291 --> 01:09:31,708 really big, what is it? 400 01:09:32,791 --> 01:09:33,666 What's the death guy? 401 01:09:34,375 --> 01:09:35,958 The death guy. The death guy. 402 01:09:36,166 --> 01:09:37,416 The grim reaper. The grim reaper. 403 01:09:37,666 --> 01:09:38,708 Yeah, see, death guy, grim 404 01:09:38,708 --> 01:09:39,541 reaper, it's the same thing. 405 01:09:39,541 --> 01:09:40,583 Same thing, I knew exactly. 406 01:09:40,583 --> 01:09:42,375 Yeah, yeah, oh my gosh, 407 01:09:42,375 --> 01:09:44,000 the two older kids had 408 01:09:44,000 --> 01:09:45,333 to work together to do it. 409 01:09:45,666 --> 01:09:46,375 I have a video. 410 01:09:47,583 --> 01:09:48,708 Somewhere along the way we lost, 411 01:09:48,708 --> 01:09:50,208 it's like a nine foot grim reaper, 412 01:09:50,500 --> 01:09:50,916 just so you can see. 413 01:09:51,083 --> 01:09:52,500 Somewhere along the way we lost it, 414 01:09:52,750 --> 01:09:53,958 the stilts for his legs. 415 01:09:54,541 --> 01:09:56,500 So I got some PVC for it and just cut it. 416 01:09:56,500 --> 01:09:57,875 So it might be like six inches taller 417 01:09:57,875 --> 01:09:59,375 than he was initially meant to be, 418 01:09:59,375 --> 01:10:00,250 or somewhere around there. 419 01:10:00,791 --> 01:10:02,500 But because the PVC is a 420 01:10:02,500 --> 01:10:03,416 little bit more pliable 421 01:10:03,416 --> 01:10:04,791 than his initial legs were, 422 01:10:05,416 --> 01:10:07,500 he leans a little bit for it. 423 01:10:07,625 --> 01:10:09,458 So he's even more menacing now 424 01:10:09,458 --> 01:10:10,625 because he's leaning over 425 01:10:10,625 --> 01:10:12,000 everybody with his sickle. 426 01:10:12,375 --> 01:10:12,833 It's true. 427 01:10:13,375 --> 01:10:14,791 Almost like he wants to fall over though. 428 01:10:15,708 --> 01:10:17,583 So much so that the grim reaper 429 01:10:17,708 --> 01:10:19,333 may have drank a little too much. 430 01:10:19,333 --> 01:10:20,166 He might have been over-served. 431 01:10:20,666 --> 01:10:22,583 He's over-served hanging on his sickle. 432 01:10:22,583 --> 01:10:24,083 Just leaning on his sickle. 433 01:10:26,708 --> 01:10:27,416 It's pretty funny. 434 01:10:28,875 --> 01:10:29,625 Well, they may have 435 01:10:29,625 --> 01:10:31,083 had to turn him around 436 01:10:31,083 --> 01:10:31,958 two or three times. 437 01:10:31,958 --> 01:10:33,250 It's fine, it's fine. 438 01:10:33,250 --> 01:10:34,500 I heard about some of that though. 439 01:10:35,000 --> 01:10:36,416 Yeah, so you guys got all that up. 440 01:10:36,458 --> 01:10:36,791 But yeah. 441 01:10:37,750 --> 01:10:39,500 So it was a busy weekend. 442 01:10:40,500 --> 01:10:43,208 But I'd love to hear about your weekend 443 01:10:43,208 --> 01:10:44,125 because I think yours was a 444 01:10:44,125 --> 01:10:45,625 little more fun and exciting. 445 01:10:46,250 --> 01:10:47,166 Well, it didn't start 446 01:10:47,166 --> 01:10:48,208 that way as you know. 447 01:10:48,875 --> 01:10:50,250 And some of the parents I talked about-- 448 01:10:50,250 --> 01:10:50,708 They don't talk about Bruno? 449 01:10:51,083 --> 01:10:52,041 Because we were actually 450 01:10:52,041 --> 01:10:55,000 supposed to be in on Friday. 451 01:10:55,458 --> 01:10:56,166 This is a Friday, 452 01:10:56,500 --> 01:10:57,625 Saturday, Sunday, Monday thing. 453 01:10:57,916 --> 01:10:58,666 Everybody's coming in Friday. 454 01:10:59,083 --> 01:11:00,416 Some people even came in Thursday. 455 01:11:01,958 --> 01:11:04,083 And then through Monday 456 01:11:04,083 --> 01:11:05,083 when our last game was 457 01:11:05,083 --> 01:11:06,666 and people left Monday, some people 458 01:11:06,666 --> 01:11:07,500 stayed till Tuesday. 459 01:11:08,208 --> 01:11:09,750 This is a four to six 460 01:11:09,750 --> 01:11:10,916 day thing for some people. 461 01:11:11,875 --> 01:11:13,375 And this is a showcase for 462 01:11:13,375 --> 01:11:14,291 all those that don't know. 463 01:11:14,583 --> 01:11:15,833 This is not part of the league. 464 01:11:15,833 --> 01:11:16,625 These are things that 465 01:11:16,625 --> 01:11:19,208 certain levels of teams do. 466 01:11:19,541 --> 01:11:20,416 They get together around 467 01:11:20,416 --> 01:11:21,958 the country, showcases. 468 01:11:22,958 --> 01:11:25,041 And literally they have 469 01:11:25,041 --> 01:11:26,375 college coaches there. 470 01:11:26,375 --> 01:11:27,291 They have USA coaches. 471 01:11:28,000 --> 01:11:29,458 They have professional scouts there. 472 01:11:30,125 --> 01:11:31,750 And you go and showcase your kids. 473 01:11:31,750 --> 01:11:32,500 Now this is the first 474 01:11:32,500 --> 01:11:34,083 year really of this age group 475 01:11:34,125 --> 01:11:36,375 that any actual scouts will be there. 476 01:11:36,416 --> 01:11:37,083 But there are. 477 01:11:37,708 --> 01:11:39,041 There was a USA scout there. 478 01:11:39,041 --> 01:11:40,000 That's how these things work. 479 01:11:40,708 --> 01:11:42,500 So it is kind of a fun thing. 480 01:11:42,500 --> 01:11:44,000 And it's a big deal for these kids. 481 01:11:44,916 --> 01:11:47,166 It's a whole, I mean, there's, 482 01:11:48,333 --> 01:11:49,833 I don't know how many teams are there 483 01:11:49,833 --> 01:11:52,625 because it's not like it's open to 484 01:11:52,625 --> 01:11:54,625 whoever wants to come in. 485 01:11:55,291 --> 01:11:56,416 Whoever wants to do it. 486 01:11:56,416 --> 01:11:59,083 But it's an invitational to some degree. 487 01:11:59,083 --> 01:12:00,833 If you're at a certain level, you can 488 01:12:00,833 --> 01:12:01,875 sign up for whatever. 489 01:12:02,291 --> 01:12:02,666 I don't know. 490 01:12:02,833 --> 01:12:03,750 But it's a big deal. 491 01:12:03,875 --> 01:12:05,500 We have like a whole tent set up for, 492 01:12:06,458 --> 01:12:07,791 there's all kinds of stuff set up. 493 01:12:07,791 --> 01:12:09,083 There's eating tents. 494 01:12:09,083 --> 01:12:11,208 There's merchant, there's merch tents, 495 01:12:11,208 --> 01:12:12,916 which we always fill up on. 496 01:12:12,916 --> 01:12:13,208 Always. 497 01:12:13,500 --> 01:12:13,833 You know. 498 01:12:14,416 --> 01:12:14,875 You can't not. 499 01:12:15,250 --> 01:12:16,041 Yeah, everybody's got the 500 01:12:16,041 --> 01:12:17,208 new sweatshirts and the hats 501 01:12:17,208 --> 01:12:18,125 and all that kind of stuff. 502 01:12:18,125 --> 01:12:19,125 So it's a big deal. 503 01:12:19,125 --> 01:12:19,500 It's fun. 504 01:12:21,208 --> 01:12:22,583 We played three of the top 505 01:12:22,583 --> 01:12:24,125 100 teams in the country. 506 01:12:24,875 --> 01:12:25,583 So it was good to see 507 01:12:25,583 --> 01:12:26,625 how you kind of stack rank 508 01:12:26,750 --> 01:12:27,375 against this. 509 01:12:27,375 --> 01:12:28,416 I mean, if you look at 510 01:12:28,416 --> 01:12:29,208 it at this age group, 511 01:12:29,208 --> 01:12:31,583 there's probably 50,000 teams. 512 01:12:31,958 --> 01:12:32,250 Right. 513 01:12:32,958 --> 01:12:34,083 But these are the top, 514 01:12:34,750 --> 01:12:35,708 anywhere from the top, 515 01:12:35,708 --> 01:12:38,541 maybe 600 down, you might play in 516 01:12:38,541 --> 01:12:39,375 something like this. 517 01:12:39,875 --> 01:12:42,083 They usually try to put you near people 518 01:12:42,166 --> 01:12:43,375 similar to your ranking. 519 01:12:43,958 --> 01:12:44,875 And we're in the top 100. 520 01:12:44,875 --> 01:12:46,041 I think we're 60-ish. 521 01:12:46,250 --> 01:12:47,166 So we played quite a few 522 01:12:47,166 --> 01:12:48,666 teams around the top 60 teams 523 01:12:48,750 --> 01:12:51,208 in the country at this age group. 524 01:12:51,666 --> 01:12:52,416 So it's a big deal. 525 01:12:52,416 --> 01:12:53,208 That's why when parents 526 01:12:53,208 --> 01:12:54,500 come in, they come in early, 527 01:12:54,500 --> 01:12:55,000 you want to make sure 528 01:12:55,000 --> 01:12:56,083 your kids are rested. 529 01:12:56,375 --> 01:12:56,750 Yeah. 530 01:12:57,291 --> 01:12:58,583 So all that's kind of 531 01:12:58,583 --> 01:13:00,208 the long backstory of, 532 01:13:00,666 --> 01:13:01,791 we were supposed to get 533 01:13:01,791 --> 01:13:04,083 in early Friday morning, 534 01:13:04,833 --> 01:13:06,333 the whole day there, first game Saturday. 535 01:13:07,500 --> 01:13:09,000 Well, there was a domino effect. 536 01:13:09,208 --> 01:13:10,166 And this is, I want to use 537 01:13:10,166 --> 01:13:11,208 this as a teaching lesson. 538 01:13:11,875 --> 01:13:12,708 When you say you're gonna 539 01:13:12,708 --> 01:13:13,875 do something, you do it. 540 01:13:13,875 --> 01:13:15,458 That's just how we raised our children. 541 01:13:15,833 --> 01:13:16,958 Because it drives me bonkers. 542 01:13:16,958 --> 01:13:19,208 But a professional, we'll call him, 543 01:13:19,625 --> 01:13:20,333 said he was gonna do 544 01:13:20,333 --> 01:13:22,375 something for me at my business. 545 01:13:23,000 --> 01:13:24,083 And he didn't. 546 01:13:24,291 --> 01:13:25,375 He's like, "Oh, I can't do it. 547 01:13:25,583 --> 01:13:26,791 "I gotta do it now." 548 01:13:27,000 --> 01:13:29,500 It was only like, instead of AM, it's PM. 549 01:13:29,791 --> 01:13:30,916 I was like, "Okay, that's fine. 550 01:13:30,916 --> 01:13:31,458 "We gotta be done. 551 01:13:32,000 --> 01:13:33,166 "Oh, now it can't be PM. 552 01:13:33,166 --> 01:13:34,583 "It's gotta be AM on another day." 553 01:13:34,583 --> 01:13:35,125 Well, because of 554 01:13:35,125 --> 01:13:36,625 that, that domino affected 555 01:13:36,625 --> 01:13:37,416 all these other things. 556 01:13:37,708 --> 01:13:39,000 Long story short, had 557 01:13:39,000 --> 01:13:40,291 to change the AM flight. 558 01:13:41,416 --> 01:13:42,666 And that was a direct. 559 01:13:43,000 --> 01:13:44,958 So now it's like, okay, we can leave 560 01:13:44,958 --> 01:13:45,875 just a little bit later. 561 01:13:45,875 --> 01:13:47,416 I bought myself two more hours. 562 01:13:47,875 --> 01:13:49,250 We have a layover now in Las 563 01:13:49,250 --> 01:13:50,750 Vegas, which should be fine. 564 01:13:51,250 --> 01:13:54,083 And then we'll just, we'll be there. 565 01:13:54,333 --> 01:13:55,416 And we'll be there in plenty of time 566 01:13:55,416 --> 01:13:56,708 because there's a team meeting at night 567 01:13:56,708 --> 01:13:58,375 that you're supposed to be there for. 568 01:13:58,833 --> 01:13:59,041 Yeah. 569 01:14:00,166 --> 01:14:00,416 Okay. 570 01:14:02,791 --> 01:14:04,458 What's the movie, Encantos? 571 01:14:05,041 --> 01:14:06,000 Yes, Encantos. 572 01:14:06,416 --> 01:14:07,375 Okay, Encantos. 573 01:14:08,166 --> 01:14:10,250 If you have not seen the movie Encantos, 574 01:14:10,250 --> 01:14:10,791 tell them about 575 01:14:10,791 --> 01:14:11,708 Bruno, because I've talked 576 01:14:11,708 --> 01:14:13,375 for like 100 minutes in a row here. 577 01:14:14,416 --> 01:14:15,833 So there's a song called, 578 01:14:16,625 --> 01:14:17,958 "We Don't Talk About Bruno," 579 01:14:18,666 --> 01:14:21,416 because Bruno was this bad, bad thing. 580 01:14:22,333 --> 01:14:23,291 And they're like, "We 581 01:14:23,291 --> 01:14:24,625 just don't talk about it. 582 01:14:24,625 --> 01:14:25,916 "We just don't talk about it." 583 01:14:27,125 --> 01:14:30,000 Anyway, so now back to your story. 584 01:14:30,000 --> 01:14:30,583 I didn't have a whole 585 01:14:30,583 --> 01:14:31,458 lot of backstory on, 586 01:14:31,875 --> 01:14:33,416 "We Don't Talk About Bruno." 587 01:14:33,916 --> 01:14:34,583 There's a whole song. 588 01:14:34,583 --> 01:14:35,333 It's actually a pretty good song. 589 01:14:35,333 --> 01:14:35,750 It's a great song. 590 01:14:35,750 --> 01:14:36,166 But it's in this movie. 591 01:14:36,458 --> 01:14:37,500 Yeah, and I don't need to sing it. 592 01:14:37,500 --> 01:14:39,041 So our youngest and I were going, 593 01:14:40,000 --> 01:14:41,375 and this was, there was a lot going on. 594 01:14:41,375 --> 01:14:43,000 So I was trying to teach life skills. 595 01:14:43,416 --> 01:14:44,750 Like, this is an elephant, buddy, 596 01:14:44,958 --> 01:14:46,416 because it was a lot to get done. 597 01:14:46,416 --> 01:14:47,416 There was a lot going on. It was. 598 01:14:47,416 --> 01:14:48,208 It was rushed, because 599 01:14:48,208 --> 01:14:48,875 we had to do something 600 01:14:48,875 --> 01:14:49,666 that morning now. 601 01:14:49,666 --> 01:14:50,750 That's why everything changed. 602 01:14:51,208 --> 01:14:51,458 Yep. 603 01:14:51,833 --> 01:14:52,750 And that morning was 604 01:14:52,750 --> 01:14:54,500 hectic even before we got 605 01:14:55,416 --> 01:14:55,708 Really what? 606 01:14:55,750 --> 01:14:57,750 The ID in our heads to go to the airport. 607 01:14:57,750 --> 01:14:58,666 There was a lot going on. 608 01:14:58,666 --> 01:14:59,583 I didn't take a shower. 609 01:14:59,583 --> 01:15:00,208 It was just whatever. 610 01:15:00,583 --> 01:15:01,083 It's crazy. 611 01:15:02,250 --> 01:15:04,333 But I was like, "Buddy, it's okay. 612 01:15:04,708 --> 01:15:06,875 "We just need, we're eating an elephant, 613 01:15:06,875 --> 01:15:08,000 "and how do you eat an elephant?" 614 01:15:08,458 --> 01:15:09,250 One bite at a time. 615 01:15:09,833 --> 01:15:11,333 So what's our first step? 616 01:15:11,583 --> 01:15:13,500 I was like, "This was this one, 617 01:15:13,500 --> 01:15:14,708 "so now we've done that one. 618 01:15:14,916 --> 01:15:16,416 "Now the next bite is 619 01:15:16,416 --> 01:15:17,750 just getting to the airport. 620 01:15:17,750 --> 01:15:18,541 "And then the next bite's 621 01:15:18,541 --> 01:15:19,750 getting through security, 622 01:15:19,750 --> 01:15:20,708 "because government's 623 01:15:20,708 --> 01:15:21,416 shut down right now, 624 01:15:21,416 --> 01:15:23,083 "so we weren't sure how TSA would be." 625 01:15:23,333 --> 01:15:23,583 Yep. 626 01:15:24,500 --> 01:15:25,416 But surely we were 627 01:15:25,416 --> 01:15:26,166 taking all these bites, 628 01:15:26,166 --> 01:15:27,125 and everything was okay, 629 01:15:27,125 --> 01:15:28,500 kind of going as it should have been 630 01:15:28,500 --> 01:15:29,458 till we got to Vegas. 631 01:15:31,041 --> 01:15:32,000 And Las Vegas, 632 01:15:33,166 --> 01:15:34,708 like I don't know how to 633 01:15:34,708 --> 01:15:36,083 affect the metaphor on this. 634 01:15:36,083 --> 01:15:36,666 You have a good way to 635 01:15:36,666 --> 01:15:37,500 affect that metaphor, 636 01:15:37,500 --> 01:15:39,166 but it flipped it on its head. 637 01:15:39,500 --> 01:15:42,750 It was a dumpster fire. 638 01:15:43,333 --> 01:15:44,166 Long story short, we were in 639 01:15:44,166 --> 01:15:45,041 Vegas for like seven hours. 640 01:15:46,041 --> 01:15:46,791 We lived in Vegas. 641 01:15:47,083 --> 01:15:47,333 Yes. 642 01:15:47,750 --> 01:15:48,875 It rained there how many times? 643 01:15:49,250 --> 01:15:49,500 Four. 644 01:15:50,208 --> 01:15:50,500 Yeah. 645 01:15:51,166 --> 01:15:51,500 Four. 646 01:15:51,500 --> 01:15:52,333 In the entire times we lived. 647 01:15:52,333 --> 01:15:53,000 In two years. 648 01:15:53,875 --> 01:15:54,125 In Vegas. 649 01:15:54,375 --> 01:15:54,583 Yeah. 650 01:15:54,875 --> 01:15:58,333 Well there was storms 651 01:15:58,333 --> 01:15:59,541 coming through Vegas, 652 01:15:59,875 --> 01:16:01,083 thunderstorms, lightning storms. 653 01:16:01,625 --> 01:16:02,833 Literally, I took a picture of it. 654 01:16:03,083 --> 01:16:05,166 You know how you look at the radar, 655 01:16:05,708 --> 01:16:07,166 and you got green, you got red, 656 01:16:07,166 --> 01:16:07,583 where it's really 657 01:16:07,583 --> 01:16:09,291 intense, and lightning and stuff. 658 01:16:09,750 --> 01:16:11,708 Well, literally, and I 659 01:16:11,708 --> 01:16:12,625 might try to put it on here, 660 01:16:13,000 --> 01:16:15,708 the red just is a circle. 661 01:16:16,083 --> 01:16:17,958 The red from the thunderstorm is a circle 662 01:16:18,083 --> 01:16:21,000 around only the Las Vegas airport. 663 01:16:21,916 --> 01:16:22,250 100%. 664 01:16:22,875 --> 01:16:24,833 I bet the stratosphere on 665 01:16:24,833 --> 01:16:26,416 the north side of the strip 666 01:16:26,916 --> 01:16:27,250 was fine. 667 01:16:27,666 --> 01:16:29,958 It was literally just around the airport. 668 01:16:29,958 --> 01:16:31,250 It's in the runways itself. 669 01:16:31,250 --> 01:16:31,625 It's itself. 670 01:16:31,833 --> 01:16:34,375 It didn't touch, only airport real estate 671 01:16:35,291 --> 01:16:36,375 was encapsulated by this red. 672 01:16:36,375 --> 01:16:36,875 It was insane. 673 01:16:37,250 --> 01:16:38,458 Yeah, that was just one of them. 674 01:16:38,458 --> 01:16:39,500 But it was just like, it 675 01:16:39,500 --> 01:16:40,708 was just rolling storms 676 01:16:40,708 --> 01:16:42,291 and lightning, it was like a soccer game. 677 01:16:42,291 --> 01:16:44,000 Every time there was a lightning strike 678 01:16:44,000 --> 01:16:44,916 within three miles, 679 01:16:44,916 --> 01:16:45,666 they closed the airport. 680 01:16:45,875 --> 01:16:47,000 So we were there for like seven hours. 681 01:16:47,625 --> 01:16:48,583 And it was 682 01:16:48,583 --> 01:16:50,416 nightmarish, I tried to change, 683 01:16:52,250 --> 01:16:53,458 because sometimes I've traveled enough 684 01:16:53,458 --> 01:16:54,875 that sometimes later 685 01:16:54,875 --> 01:16:55,916 flights will actually leave 686 01:16:55,916 --> 01:16:57,208 earlier than sooner flights, 687 01:16:57,583 --> 01:16:58,500 than the earlier flights, 688 01:16:58,500 --> 01:16:59,625 because of how everything works. 689 01:16:59,916 --> 01:17:01,000 Because, well, we're 690 01:17:01,000 --> 01:17:02,291 sitting there five hours, 691 01:17:02,291 --> 01:17:02,875 we were supposed to land 692 01:17:02,875 --> 01:17:04,375 five hours ago in San Diego. 693 01:17:04,875 --> 01:17:06,583 Well, our pilot was 694 01:17:06,583 --> 01:17:08,416 still in LAX in Los Angeles. 695 01:17:09,208 --> 01:17:11,083 And we're like, this 696 01:17:11,083 --> 01:17:12,291 one was supposed to be 697 01:17:12,666 --> 01:17:13,791 leaving in 20 minutes. 698 01:17:14,333 --> 01:17:15,666 Its pilot was supposedly there, 699 01:17:15,666 --> 01:17:18,000 because it was boarding in 20 minutes. 700 01:17:18,000 --> 01:17:18,625 So I got into this 701 01:17:18,625 --> 01:17:19,625 flight, which is great. 702 01:17:20,000 --> 01:17:20,333 Fantastic. 703 01:17:21,000 --> 01:17:21,333 Literally, like the 704 01:17:21,333 --> 01:17:22,541 second I confirmed that, 705 01:17:22,541 --> 01:17:24,000 it got delayed two more hours. 706 01:17:24,000 --> 01:17:25,833 So now the new flight was leaving 707 01:17:25,958 --> 01:17:27,208 an hour after the old flight. 708 01:17:27,333 --> 01:17:27,541 Yes. 709 01:17:27,833 --> 01:17:29,208 Oh, and so, okay, I can 710 01:17:29,208 --> 01:17:30,250 go back to my old flight, 711 01:17:30,250 --> 01:17:30,833 but guess what? 712 01:17:30,833 --> 01:17:32,041 You lost your priority boarding. 713 01:17:32,291 --> 01:17:33,750 Now you're in the bag. 714 01:17:35,041 --> 01:17:36,375 So I actually kept it 715 01:17:36,375 --> 01:17:37,625 together the whole day. 716 01:17:38,750 --> 01:17:40,208 Which is astonishing, 717 01:17:40,416 --> 01:17:41,625 because there's a lot of patience 718 01:17:41,625 --> 01:17:42,750 involved in this day. 719 01:17:43,041 --> 01:17:43,958 There was a lot. 720 01:17:44,833 --> 01:17:46,083 And patience, it's 721 01:17:46,083 --> 01:17:47,000 about you, I don't have. 722 01:17:47,000 --> 01:17:48,875 Yes, you-- Struggle. 723 01:17:49,875 --> 01:17:50,708 Often tell me, one of the 724 01:17:50,708 --> 01:17:51,875 first things I knew about you, 725 01:17:51,875 --> 01:17:53,500 by your own admission was, 726 01:17:54,083 --> 01:17:55,791 patience is a virtue I do not possess. 727 01:17:56,416 --> 01:17:56,875 Anyways. 728 01:17:56,875 --> 01:17:58,250 Although you are getting way better. 729 01:17:58,833 --> 01:18:00,166 Thanks, so I'm turning this 730 01:18:00,166 --> 01:18:01,000 whole thing into 10 minutes. 731 01:18:01,250 --> 01:18:03,791 I'm turning a long story into 10 minutes, 732 01:18:04,041 --> 01:18:06,500 but I mean, I'm turning a long story 733 01:18:06,500 --> 01:18:08,333 into a longer story than it needs to be. 734 01:18:10,375 --> 01:18:11,583 But by the end of it, we 735 01:18:11,583 --> 01:18:13,000 didn't get in till midnight, 736 01:18:13,458 --> 01:18:15,458 1 a.m., heads hit the bed. 737 01:18:15,458 --> 01:18:15,708 Yeah. 738 01:18:17,125 --> 01:18:18,875 Team meeting was at 7.30 that night. 739 01:18:18,916 --> 01:18:20,625 With this team, if 740 01:18:20,625 --> 01:18:21,583 you miss a team meeting, 741 01:18:21,583 --> 01:18:22,208 you're not playing. 742 01:18:22,250 --> 01:18:22,625 You're not playing. 743 01:18:22,958 --> 01:18:24,458 I was communicating, 744 01:18:24,916 --> 01:18:25,916 can't control the weather, 745 01:18:25,916 --> 01:18:27,916 which is true, I can't as much as I tried 746 01:18:27,916 --> 01:18:28,791 to control everything. 747 01:18:29,166 --> 01:18:30,125 That's exactly right. 748 01:18:30,416 --> 01:18:32,000 So Coach was thankfully very-- 749 01:18:32,041 --> 01:18:32,500 He was. 750 01:18:33,541 --> 01:18:35,083 Understanding-- So understanding. 751 01:18:35,083 --> 01:18:35,583 Of the situation. 752 01:18:36,708 --> 01:18:37,791 And that's part of it 753 01:18:37,791 --> 01:18:38,500 too, we tell our kids, 754 01:18:38,750 --> 01:18:39,875 hey, we're on time 755 01:18:39,875 --> 01:18:41,291 almost everywhere we go. 756 01:18:41,500 --> 01:18:43,500 So the one time that you're not on time, 757 01:18:43,500 --> 01:18:45,750 if you make it effort-- 758 01:18:46,041 --> 01:18:47,000 Right, you're communicating. 759 01:18:48,541 --> 01:18:49,041 Generally speaking, 760 01:18:49,041 --> 01:18:50,166 you'll get a little bit of a-- 761 01:18:50,166 --> 01:18:51,291 Right, right. 762 01:18:52,041 --> 01:18:53,166 They'll give you some space there. 763 01:18:53,166 --> 01:18:53,375 Yeah. 764 01:18:53,666 --> 01:18:54,833 Because you're almost 765 01:18:54,833 --> 01:18:55,958 always checking the box. 766 01:18:55,958 --> 01:18:56,166 Right. 767 01:18:56,916 --> 01:18:57,541 Anyway, so some of the 768 01:18:57,541 --> 01:18:58,750 parents knew I was late, 769 01:18:58,750 --> 01:19:00,791 they're like, how was your flight? 770 01:19:01,375 --> 01:19:02,500 And what time did you get in? 771 01:19:02,500 --> 01:19:04,333 And our youngest and I were like, 772 01:19:04,333 --> 01:19:05,125 we're just not talking about it, 773 01:19:05,125 --> 01:19:06,291 because he was frustrated, 774 01:19:06,541 --> 01:19:07,708 and he doesn't have patience either. 775 01:19:07,791 --> 01:19:08,166 No. 776 01:19:08,625 --> 01:19:10,833 And he did a good job, for the most part, 777 01:19:10,833 --> 01:19:11,625 for an 11-year-old 778 01:19:11,625 --> 01:19:12,666 trying to hold it together, 779 01:19:12,666 --> 01:19:14,125 sitting in an airport for seven hours, 780 01:19:14,208 --> 01:19:15,958 constantly, you know. 781 01:19:16,000 --> 01:19:16,166 Like-- 782 01:19:17,041 --> 01:19:18,375 What's happening, this, that, this? 783 01:19:18,416 --> 01:19:18,833 Right. 784 01:19:18,916 --> 01:19:19,625 So we just ended up 785 01:19:19,625 --> 01:19:20,208 saying, you know what, 786 01:19:20,208 --> 01:19:21,291 we're just not gonna talk about Bruno. 787 01:19:21,750 --> 01:19:22,916 We're gonna talk about Bruno. 788 01:19:22,958 --> 01:19:23,625 We're gonna talk about Bruno. 789 01:19:23,916 --> 01:19:25,916 So I told all the parents, I was like, 790 01:19:26,958 --> 01:19:27,791 we got in seven hours 791 01:19:27,791 --> 01:19:28,916 after we were supposed to, 792 01:19:28,916 --> 01:19:29,708 we don't talk about Bruno. 793 01:19:30,875 --> 01:19:31,416 But it was literally, 794 01:19:31,625 --> 01:19:32,916 I told people this too, 795 01:19:33,791 --> 01:19:35,666 short of catastrophes in our lives, 796 01:19:36,166 --> 01:19:38,416 like non-material, bad days, 797 01:19:38,708 --> 01:19:39,750 this was by far the worst 798 01:19:39,750 --> 01:19:41,041 day I probably have ever had. 799 01:19:41,041 --> 01:19:42,541 Of just like bad luck 800 01:19:42,541 --> 01:19:44,166 after bad luck after bad luck. 801 01:19:44,208 --> 01:19:44,958 I'm very trying. 802 01:19:45,958 --> 01:19:48,000 Yeah, well the straw for me 803 01:19:48,000 --> 01:19:49,375 that broke the camel's back, 804 01:19:50,041 --> 01:19:50,708 sitting, I mean, and 805 01:19:50,708 --> 01:19:51,625 you can even ask the kids 806 01:19:51,625 --> 01:19:52,208 that were home with 807 01:19:52,208 --> 01:19:53,416 me, I was stressed out 808 01:19:53,416 --> 01:19:54,166 because I was like, oh my 809 01:19:54,166 --> 01:19:55,541 gosh, is he gonna get to play? 810 01:19:55,541 --> 01:19:56,041 They're just sitting 811 01:19:56,041 --> 01:19:57,291 there, like what's gonna happen? 812 01:19:57,291 --> 01:19:58,000 Are they gonna have to drive? 813 01:19:59,083 --> 01:20:02,208 And I'm completely out of the loop 814 01:20:02,208 --> 01:20:03,541 and I can't control anything. 815 01:20:04,208 --> 01:20:06,666 But it was, so it was a 816 01:20:06,666 --> 01:20:07,416 stressful weekend here 817 01:20:07,416 --> 01:20:08,708 because I was working a lot. 818 01:20:09,291 --> 01:20:10,083 And so I was like, you know what, 819 01:20:10,083 --> 01:20:10,916 I'm just gonna stay up most 820 01:20:10,916 --> 01:20:11,833 of the night, I'm gonna work. 821 01:20:12,333 --> 01:20:14,750 And so you landed at 822 01:20:14,750 --> 01:20:16,291 1230 local time here, 823 01:20:16,875 --> 01:20:18,458 you said you landed and 824 01:20:18,458 --> 01:20:20,000 then I saw at like 1.15 825 01:20:20,000 --> 01:20:21,208 that you were still at 826 01:20:21,208 --> 01:20:22,041 the rental car place. 827 01:20:22,541 --> 01:20:24,000 So I texted you going, 828 01:20:24,416 --> 01:20:25,583 hey, are you really still 829 01:20:25,583 --> 01:20:26,666 at the rental car place? 830 01:20:27,541 --> 01:20:29,291 And you never even read the text. 831 01:20:29,875 --> 01:20:32,666 I get a call at 1.45 in 832 01:20:32,666 --> 01:20:34,458 the morning, central time, 833 01:20:36,041 --> 01:20:36,791 and it is our 834 01:20:36,791 --> 01:20:39,000 youngest, it's a FaceTime call 835 01:20:39,166 --> 01:20:42,041 and he is absolutely 836 01:20:42,041 --> 01:20:43,500 beside himself, crying. 837 01:20:44,125 --> 01:20:45,541 I don't know where dad is. 838 01:20:45,875 --> 01:20:47,416 I can't find dad anywhere. 839 01:20:47,666 --> 01:20:49,333 I haven't seen him in 30 minutes. 840 01:20:49,708 --> 01:20:50,750 I don't know where he is. 841 01:20:51,208 --> 01:20:52,750 I, in that moment, I 842 01:20:52,750 --> 01:20:56,916 cannot tell you how sick I was. 843 01:20:57,541 --> 01:20:58,500 Like I know I had 844 01:20:58,500 --> 01:20:59,875 texted you 30 minutes before, 845 01:20:59,875 --> 01:21:00,708 you never respond, 846 01:21:00,708 --> 01:21:01,791 you never even read it. 847 01:21:03,166 --> 01:21:06,541 Now our youngest who's 11 in Las Vegas 848 01:21:07,375 --> 01:21:08,000 doesn't know where 849 01:21:08,000 --> 01:21:09,958 you are for 30 minutes. 850 01:21:09,958 --> 01:21:10,541 I remember San Diego 851 01:21:10,541 --> 01:21:11,458 by that time, but yeah. 852 01:21:11,458 --> 01:21:12,000 Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, 853 01:21:12,000 --> 01:21:13,000 sorry, you were in San Diego. 854 01:21:14,375 --> 01:21:16,833 Oh my gosh, and so like 855 01:21:16,833 --> 01:21:17,750 trying to be calm for him 856 01:21:17,750 --> 01:21:20,208 because he is, he's losing it quick. 857 01:21:21,500 --> 01:21:27,250 And so I called you and 858 01:21:27,250 --> 01:21:29,791 I got him to calm down 859 01:21:29,791 --> 01:21:30,875 and then I called you 860 01:21:30,875 --> 01:21:33,125 and you were actually 861 01:21:33,125 --> 01:21:34,250 headed back to him. 862 01:21:34,250 --> 01:21:34,625 I was actually 863 01:21:34,625 --> 01:21:36,541 jogging when you called me. 864 01:21:36,583 --> 01:21:37,791 Yeah, in that moment you 865 01:21:37,791 --> 01:21:39,083 were jogging back to him, 866 01:21:40,041 --> 01:21:42,750 but the reason, and this 867 01:21:42,750 --> 01:21:44,375 was, you did a brilliant thing 868 01:21:44,375 --> 01:21:45,291 because you actually got a 869 01:21:45,291 --> 01:21:46,458 car that night because of it, 870 01:21:47,041 --> 01:21:49,833 but you're like, you, I 871 01:21:49,833 --> 01:21:51,208 think, put it and said, 872 01:21:51,208 --> 01:21:52,916 "Hey, stay in this car, I'm gonna go and 873 01:21:52,916 --> 01:21:53,916 talk to the people." 874 01:21:53,916 --> 01:21:55,916 And it just, at the rental car place 875 01:21:55,916 --> 01:21:57,208 because they canceled your reservation. 876 01:21:57,583 --> 01:22:00,250 Well, everybody who travels enough knows 877 01:22:00,250 --> 01:22:02,875 every now and again, if it's late enough, 878 01:22:02,875 --> 01:22:04,041 there's no cars available 879 01:22:04,041 --> 01:22:05,833 because people don't return them 880 01:22:05,916 --> 01:22:07,291 or people keep them one more day or 881 01:22:07,291 --> 01:22:08,000 they're late, whatever. 882 01:22:08,416 --> 01:22:09,708 They go somewhere else with the car. 883 01:22:10,250 --> 01:22:12,333 Well, Hertz, who I've been with forever, 884 01:22:12,333 --> 01:22:13,333 I've got all the perks with 885 01:22:13,333 --> 01:22:15,208 them, and I had a reservation. 886 01:22:16,125 --> 01:22:17,166 They didn't have a car for me. 887 01:22:17,583 --> 01:22:19,083 And there was multiple people online 888 01:22:19,250 --> 01:22:20,208 yelling at the two 889 01:22:20,208 --> 01:22:21,208 guys that were in there. 890 01:22:21,791 --> 01:22:25,583 It's 12.30 a.m. and they're like, 891 01:22:25,666 --> 01:22:27,166 "What's the use of having a reservation 892 01:22:27,166 --> 01:22:28,500 "if you don't have a car for me?" 893 01:22:28,500 --> 01:22:30,416 And I'm like, what he said. 894 01:22:30,458 --> 01:22:32,000 Yeah, ditto, ditto on him. 895 01:22:32,000 --> 01:22:32,750 He's like, "I can't rent 896 01:22:32,750 --> 01:22:34,083 you one, there's no cars." 897 01:22:34,208 --> 01:22:37,500 And I was like, "But I put in my flight 898 01:22:37,500 --> 01:22:38,291 number and everything 899 01:22:38,291 --> 01:22:39,250 "so you knew that's 900 01:22:39,250 --> 01:22:40,375 supposed to hold it for me 901 01:22:40,375 --> 01:22:41,375 "even though I'm delayed." 902 01:22:42,333 --> 01:22:43,083 And they're like, "Well, we 903 01:22:43,083 --> 01:22:44,250 only hold it for two hours." 904 01:22:44,666 --> 01:22:45,583 I'm like, "Two hours? 905 01:22:45,583 --> 01:22:47,000 "Well, if I'm delayed three 906 01:22:47,000 --> 01:22:49,333 hours or seven, it's no go." 907 01:22:49,583 --> 01:22:50,708 And I checked their website, actually. 908 01:22:50,708 --> 01:22:51,583 It does say different 909 01:22:51,583 --> 01:22:53,208 than that on their website 910 01:22:53,208 --> 01:22:54,708 because I thought that was suspicious. 911 01:22:55,000 --> 01:22:56,875 This guy had zero customer service. 912 01:22:56,875 --> 01:22:57,500 Maybe he'd already been 913 01:22:57,500 --> 01:22:58,458 yelled at a thousand times. 914 01:22:58,750 --> 01:22:58,958 Probably. 915 01:22:59,375 --> 01:23:01,208 But I was lucky in the fact 916 01:23:01,208 --> 01:23:02,333 that I just happened to be, 917 01:23:03,458 --> 01:23:04,666 because I get from President's Circle, 918 01:23:04,666 --> 01:23:05,958 so you just could take whatever you want. 919 01:23:06,208 --> 01:23:08,250 Someone pulled up a car into it. 920 01:23:08,958 --> 01:23:10,500 And I got in it, tried 921 01:23:10,500 --> 01:23:11,875 to check out, couldn't. 922 01:23:11,875 --> 01:23:13,000 So I had to come back through. 923 01:23:13,500 --> 01:23:16,833 So I hid the car around in a corner 924 01:23:17,000 --> 01:23:19,583 that I thought was safe in the car. 925 01:23:19,583 --> 01:23:20,250 So I hid it. 926 01:23:20,250 --> 01:23:21,583 It wasn't out where anybody could get 927 01:23:21,583 --> 01:23:22,500 into it and take it. 928 01:23:23,083 --> 01:23:23,791 I'll be right back. 929 01:23:24,000 --> 01:23:24,500 You're safe. 930 01:23:25,291 --> 01:23:25,833 Lock the doors. 931 01:23:26,958 --> 01:23:27,875 I'll be right back. 932 01:23:27,875 --> 01:23:28,958 I have to go get this car. 933 01:23:29,166 --> 01:23:30,583 The guy wouldn't have rented me one, 934 01:23:30,583 --> 01:23:32,250 but I told him, he's like, "There's no 935 01:23:32,250 --> 01:23:33,000 cars, there's no cars." 936 01:23:33,083 --> 01:23:34,666 I'm like, "I've already got a car. 937 01:23:35,166 --> 01:23:36,125 All I needed you to do is 938 01:23:36,125 --> 01:23:37,125 put my name in the computer. 939 01:23:37,125 --> 01:23:38,208 I've already got the car." 940 01:23:38,958 --> 01:23:39,791 He didn't understand. 941 01:23:39,791 --> 01:23:40,708 He was like, "You don't understand." 942 01:23:40,750 --> 01:23:41,166 What do you mean? 943 01:23:41,458 --> 01:23:42,291 I've got a car. 944 01:23:42,583 --> 01:23:43,916 My son is in it. 945 01:23:43,916 --> 01:23:44,916 My luggage is in it. 946 01:23:45,125 --> 01:23:45,833 He's like, "You have the key?" 947 01:23:45,833 --> 01:23:46,833 I'm like, "No, my son's 948 01:23:46,833 --> 01:23:47,958 in the car right now." 949 01:23:48,333 --> 01:23:49,291 And that was the only 950 01:23:49,291 --> 01:23:51,875 reason I got the car that night. 951 01:23:52,208 --> 01:23:53,000 But he wouldn't give me 952 01:23:53,000 --> 01:23:54,333 my corporate rate for it. 953 01:23:54,333 --> 01:23:55,000 It was a whole thing. 954 01:23:55,666 --> 01:23:56,208 So again, it was 955 01:23:56,208 --> 01:23:57,500 like, don't talk about it. 956 01:23:57,500 --> 01:23:58,250 Don't talk about it. 957 01:23:58,583 --> 01:23:58,791 Yeah. 958 01:23:59,458 --> 01:24:02,250 But that was honestly a scary-- 959 01:24:02,250 --> 01:24:03,708 I had a cherry on the cake, for sure. 960 01:24:04,083 --> 01:24:05,750 Yeah, but I mean, the 961 01:24:05,750 --> 01:24:07,000 reason I kept him in there, 962 01:24:07,000 --> 01:24:08,041 I guess I could've taken the keys. 963 01:24:08,750 --> 01:24:11,041 But at the time, I was so just done. 964 01:24:12,000 --> 01:24:13,458 Well, and I don't, yeah. 965 01:24:13,875 --> 01:24:14,958 It was a 30 more minute 966 01:24:14,958 --> 01:24:15,666 travel up to the hotel. 967 01:24:15,708 --> 01:24:17,250 You would've had no idea that it was 968 01:24:17,250 --> 01:24:18,333 gonna take 30 minutes. 969 01:24:18,333 --> 01:24:19,333 It could've been five minutes. 970 01:24:19,333 --> 01:24:20,875 You walk in there and you walk out. 971 01:24:20,875 --> 01:24:21,583 Not a big deal. 972 01:24:21,583 --> 01:24:22,375 Like no harm, no foul. 973 01:24:23,666 --> 01:24:24,416 You could not have 974 01:24:24,416 --> 01:24:25,458 foreseen what was happening 975 01:24:25,666 --> 01:24:26,875 in the actual office 976 01:24:26,875 --> 01:24:27,916 of the rental car place. 977 01:24:28,791 --> 01:24:32,458 Oh my gosh, but I was terrified. 978 01:24:32,833 --> 01:24:35,125 Like I just had panic. 979 01:24:35,625 --> 01:24:36,625 And you were up because 980 01:24:36,625 --> 01:24:38,166 you, before we left you, 981 01:24:38,166 --> 01:24:41,916 it said like, I'll miss you, 982 01:24:41,916 --> 01:24:43,083 but you're not gonna miss me 983 01:24:43,083 --> 01:24:44,750 because I gotta work all weekend anyways. 984 01:24:44,791 --> 01:24:45,291 Right, right. 985 01:24:45,333 --> 01:24:46,041 So you were up at the 986 01:24:46,041 --> 01:24:47,833 same time, just working away. 987 01:24:48,083 --> 01:24:48,958 Just working away. 988 01:24:48,958 --> 01:24:49,500 Now thinking something 989 01:24:49,500 --> 01:24:50,333 terrible had happened. 990 01:24:51,125 --> 01:24:53,166 So yeah, it was a great 991 01:24:53,166 --> 01:24:55,416 weekend minus the first 24 hours. 992 01:24:56,250 --> 01:24:57,750 24 hours, 24 hours were 993 01:24:57,750 --> 01:24:59,125 honestly some of the most 994 01:24:59,125 --> 01:25:00,458 frustrating worst days I 995 01:25:00,458 --> 01:25:01,375 probably have ever had. 996 01:25:01,625 --> 01:25:03,416 And I tried not to let that hangover. 997 01:25:03,750 --> 01:25:05,250 We both did a fairly good job. 998 01:25:05,250 --> 01:25:06,333 We just made a joke out of it and said, 999 01:25:06,333 --> 01:25:07,208 we don't talk about Bruno. 1000 01:25:07,541 --> 01:25:08,208 We don't talk about Bruno. 1001 01:25:08,250 --> 01:25:09,541 And I think that's gonna stick right. 1002 01:25:10,500 --> 01:25:11,375 Even the kids asked 1003 01:25:11,375 --> 01:25:12,333 today, like how much is it? 1004 01:25:12,333 --> 01:25:13,166 We don't talk about Bruno. 1005 01:25:15,583 --> 01:25:16,125 That's funny. 1006 01:25:17,000 --> 01:25:20,000 Which, so then after that 1007 01:25:20,000 --> 01:25:21,791 though, I mean, was it fun? 1008 01:25:22,166 --> 01:25:23,208 Yeah, we had a great time. 1009 01:25:23,208 --> 01:25:24,166 It was a great time. 1010 01:25:25,166 --> 01:25:26,041 You know, it's weird because 1011 01:25:26,041 --> 01:25:27,500 there's only one game a day. 1012 01:25:27,958 --> 01:25:28,625 Usually when we travel 1013 01:25:28,625 --> 01:25:29,791 for like league games, 1014 01:25:29,791 --> 01:25:30,916 we have one or two games 1015 01:25:30,916 --> 01:25:32,333 or we have another game. 1016 01:25:32,583 --> 01:25:33,916 I mean, it just seems 1017 01:25:33,916 --> 01:25:34,875 like it's more packed. 1018 01:25:34,875 --> 01:25:36,250 This one was like one game. 1019 01:25:36,875 --> 01:25:37,791 I mean, you got 24 1020 01:25:37,791 --> 01:25:38,583 hours, you got another game, 1021 01:25:38,583 --> 01:25:39,791 you got 24 hours, another game. 1022 01:25:39,791 --> 01:25:41,250 So we were there for a long time. 1023 01:25:42,666 --> 01:25:43,625 I'm just, I'm cognizant of 1024 01:25:43,625 --> 01:25:44,458 how much I've been talking 1025 01:25:44,750 --> 01:25:45,875 this time, but you 1026 01:25:45,875 --> 01:25:46,666 and I haven't caught up. 1027 01:25:46,708 --> 01:25:47,708 I know, I know. 1028 01:25:48,166 --> 01:25:49,000 So I'll just talk to you like I would 1029 01:25:49,000 --> 01:25:49,500 normally talk to you. 1030 01:25:49,541 --> 01:25:50,375 That's exactly right. 1031 01:25:50,416 --> 01:25:51,500 Yeah, like we had a great time. 1032 01:25:52,458 --> 01:25:53,333 The games were good. 1033 01:25:53,541 --> 01:25:55,625 The boys played well. 1034 01:25:56,416 --> 01:25:57,541 It was a good stress 1035 01:25:57,541 --> 01:25:59,041 test for them, I think, 1036 01:25:59,250 --> 01:26:00,833 because we're ranked highly here. 1037 01:26:01,666 --> 01:26:03,291 So Cal's known for being one of the other 1038 01:26:03,291 --> 01:26:05,625 really strong point, strong areas. 1039 01:26:05,625 --> 01:26:06,125 There's three of 1040 01:26:06,125 --> 01:26:06,958 them, that's one of them. 1041 01:26:07,208 --> 01:26:08,000 We're one of them. 1042 01:26:09,041 --> 01:26:10,875 And you know, we are one, one and one. 1043 01:26:11,458 --> 01:26:13,375 So we won one, we tied one, we lost one. 1044 01:26:14,416 --> 01:26:15,291 The one we won, we 1045 01:26:15,291 --> 01:26:15,791 probably should have won 1046 01:26:15,791 --> 01:26:16,541 by a little bit more. 1047 01:26:17,708 --> 01:26:21,500 The one we tied, oh wait, no, no, no, no. 1048 01:26:21,541 --> 01:26:23,625 The one we tied, we should have won by a, 1049 01:26:24,166 --> 01:26:24,916 we probably should have won. 1050 01:26:24,916 --> 01:26:25,916 I think you should have won, yeah. 1051 01:26:26,250 --> 01:26:27,000 The one we tied, we 1052 01:26:27,000 --> 01:26:28,458 stole, we played horrible, 1053 01:26:28,458 --> 01:26:29,041 and it was too tough 1054 01:26:29,041 --> 01:26:30,250 to tell if we played bad 1055 01:26:30,250 --> 01:26:30,916 because we just played 1056 01:26:30,916 --> 01:26:33,000 bad, or if the other team was, 1057 01:26:33,458 --> 01:26:36,625 team's play made us play bad. 1058 01:26:36,875 --> 01:26:37,250 You know what I mean? 1059 01:26:37,500 --> 01:26:38,750 Like pushed us out of our comfort zone. 1060 01:26:38,750 --> 01:26:39,666 It was kind of tough to tell, 1061 01:26:40,000 --> 01:26:40,750 but I didn't think we 1062 01:26:40,750 --> 01:26:41,833 played all that well, 1063 01:26:41,833 --> 01:26:43,458 but we ended up eking out a-- 1064 01:26:43,458 --> 01:26:43,958 A win. 1065 01:26:43,958 --> 01:26:45,875 A win, you know, our youngest, 1066 01:26:45,875 --> 01:26:47,083 he got a goal in that game, 1067 01:26:47,083 --> 01:26:48,500 he ended up earning the final PK, 1068 01:26:48,750 --> 01:26:49,250 which should have been a 1069 01:26:49,250 --> 01:26:50,291 red card, and it wasn't, 1070 01:26:50,291 --> 01:26:50,750 last man. 1071 01:26:52,083 --> 01:26:53,125 But he earned the PK on 1072 01:26:53,125 --> 01:26:54,958 it, so all good things there. 1073 01:26:55,583 --> 01:26:56,541 And then that last game, I 1074 01:26:56,541 --> 01:26:57,541 know you got to watch him, 1075 01:26:57,541 --> 01:26:59,416 but it was like that last one, it was 1076 01:26:59,416 --> 01:27:00,791 like the air was out. 1077 01:27:00,833 --> 01:27:01,541 It was. 1078 01:27:01,541 --> 01:27:01,916 Of the balloon. 1079 01:27:02,833 --> 01:27:05,541 And unfortunately, I 1080 01:27:05,541 --> 01:27:06,583 think it is what it is, 1081 01:27:06,583 --> 01:27:08,000 we lost three nothing in that one. 1082 01:27:08,000 --> 01:27:09,291 It was just a wasted show. 1083 01:27:09,333 --> 01:27:09,583 Yeah. 1084 01:27:10,208 --> 01:27:10,416 Really? 1085 01:27:10,708 --> 01:27:11,500 I didn't think, and you 1086 01:27:11,500 --> 01:27:12,416 could just kind of feel it 1087 01:27:12,416 --> 01:27:13,291 that morning too. 1088 01:27:13,375 --> 01:27:16,500 You could see it, for sure, watching it. 1089 01:27:17,041 --> 01:27:18,125 You could just see it. 1090 01:27:18,166 --> 01:27:18,541 Yeah. 1091 01:27:19,208 --> 01:27:23,125 And hey, you're gonna have those games, 1092 01:27:23,458 --> 01:27:25,041 these are youth sports 1093 01:27:25,041 --> 01:27:26,875 still, even the professionals. 1094 01:27:27,125 --> 01:27:27,791 Like you sometimes have 1095 01:27:27,791 --> 01:27:28,750 games where you're like, 1096 01:27:29,083 --> 01:27:29,666 really, what just 1097 01:27:29,666 --> 01:27:30,541 happened to my team there? 1098 01:27:30,833 --> 01:27:32,041 Yeah, it's tough. 1099 01:27:32,250 --> 01:27:33,791 And the coach even said it, you know, 1100 01:27:33,791 --> 01:27:34,541 he said it's tough to 1101 01:27:34,541 --> 01:27:36,250 play three top 100 teams 1102 01:27:37,250 --> 01:27:38,041 back to back to back. 1103 01:27:38,083 --> 01:27:38,291 Yeah. 1104 01:27:38,583 --> 01:27:40,791 I mean, it takes a lot to do that at 11, 1105 01:27:41,083 --> 01:27:42,375 well, I mean, Liam, I guess, is one of 1106 01:27:42,375 --> 01:27:43,125 only two 11 year olds 1107 01:27:43,125 --> 01:27:44,875 on the team still, everybody's 12 now, 1108 01:27:44,875 --> 01:27:46,583 but it's a lot to ask of 12 year olds. 1109 01:27:46,583 --> 01:27:47,166 Heck yeah. 1110 01:27:48,000 --> 01:27:49,333 When an 11 year old, you know, 1111 01:27:49,500 --> 01:27:50,958 there's two of them left on the team, so. 1112 01:27:51,000 --> 01:27:51,708 Right, right. 1113 01:27:52,875 --> 01:27:54,125 You know, so that's what it was. 1114 01:27:54,125 --> 01:27:54,625 But I think it's fun 1115 01:27:54,625 --> 01:27:55,458 for the kids, you know. 1116 01:27:55,875 --> 01:27:56,583 Some of my favorite 1117 01:27:56,583 --> 01:27:58,333 memories were traveling 1118 01:27:58,333 --> 01:27:59,541 to soccer tournaments and 1119 01:27:59,541 --> 01:28:00,416 running around the hotel 1120 01:28:00,791 --> 01:28:02,125 and, you know, getting 1121 01:28:02,125 --> 01:28:03,375 into, not into trouble, 1122 01:28:03,375 --> 01:28:03,916 but you know, just 1123 01:28:03,916 --> 01:28:05,333 having some independence. 1124 01:28:05,541 --> 01:28:07,083 That's absolutely right, yeah. 1125 01:28:07,208 --> 01:28:09,833 Within the walls of the hotel, hopefully. 1126 01:28:10,041 --> 01:28:10,458 Exactly. 1127 01:28:11,041 --> 01:28:12,541 And I do love the type of hotel, 1128 01:28:12,541 --> 01:28:13,833 I mean, you were in an Embassy Suites. 1129 01:28:14,416 --> 01:28:15,791 Those are always great for tournaments 1130 01:28:16,083 --> 01:28:17,791 because they do provide a 1131 01:28:17,791 --> 01:28:19,625 lot of area for the kids to go 1132 01:28:19,625 --> 01:28:20,708 where they don't even 1133 01:28:20,708 --> 01:28:21,791 have to leave the premises. 1134 01:28:22,000 --> 01:28:22,208 Yeah. 1135 01:28:22,458 --> 01:28:23,041 And you're like, okay, 1136 01:28:23,041 --> 01:28:23,833 you guys can spread out, 1137 01:28:23,833 --> 01:28:24,708 you guys can do your thing. 1138 01:28:25,500 --> 01:28:27,208 Our daughter had a tournament and we 1139 01:28:27,208 --> 01:28:27,916 stayed at one of those 1140 01:28:27,916 --> 01:28:28,583 and it was really 1141 01:28:28,583 --> 01:28:29,833 great, because it was like, 1142 01:28:30,041 --> 01:28:31,083 oh yeah, look who's down there, 1143 01:28:31,083 --> 01:28:31,666 you wanna go down and 1144 01:28:31,666 --> 01:28:32,458 talk to those girls? 1145 01:28:32,458 --> 01:28:33,750 Oh yeah, sure, you're all gonna go down. 1146 01:28:33,833 --> 01:28:34,875 You know, you're like, okay, go. 1147 01:28:35,125 --> 01:28:36,250 I know you're gonna be okay. 1148 01:28:36,583 --> 01:28:37,250 And as long as I don't 1149 01:28:37,250 --> 01:28:38,375 hear from the front desk clerk 1150 01:28:38,375 --> 01:28:39,000 that you guys are making 1151 01:28:39,000 --> 01:28:40,083 too much noise, I'm good. 1152 01:28:40,083 --> 01:28:41,166 Yeah, the only thing 1153 01:28:41,166 --> 01:28:42,541 that just bugs me about it 1154 01:28:42,541 --> 01:28:44,083 is like, the boys, it's 1155 01:28:44,083 --> 01:28:45,333 just this generational thing 1156 01:28:45,375 --> 01:28:46,083 and I gotta get over 1157 01:28:46,083 --> 01:28:48,208 it as our generation. 1158 01:28:49,208 --> 01:28:52,041 But their together time is 1159 01:28:52,041 --> 01:28:53,166 spent sitting at a table, 1160 01:28:53,416 --> 01:28:54,500 every one of them on their phone. 1161 01:28:55,625 --> 01:28:56,541 Now, I don't know if 1162 01:28:56,541 --> 01:28:57,500 they have some airplay 1163 01:28:57,500 --> 01:28:58,708 that they can play a game 1164 01:28:58,708 --> 01:29:00,458 together, like one or two of them. 1165 01:29:00,458 --> 01:29:01,916 I know they're not all doing it. 1166 01:29:02,375 --> 01:29:03,125 They might all be playing 1167 01:29:03,125 --> 01:29:05,541 the same game, not together. 1168 01:29:06,541 --> 01:29:07,333 You know, but that's 1169 01:29:07,333 --> 01:29:08,375 their social interaction 1170 01:29:08,666 --> 01:29:09,583 and it's just like, 1171 01:29:11,291 --> 01:29:12,666 you can't tell your son, 1172 01:29:12,958 --> 01:29:13,833 hey, put your phone away, 1173 01:29:13,833 --> 01:29:14,916 because that's what everybody's doing. 1174 01:29:15,291 --> 01:29:16,083 They're all doing, yeah. 1175 01:29:16,541 --> 01:29:17,416 It would be nice for them 1176 01:29:17,416 --> 01:29:18,625 all to put their phones away. 1177 01:29:18,625 --> 01:29:19,458 I mean, like-- Right. 1178 01:29:20,541 --> 01:29:22,250 I just, I grew up without phones. 1179 01:29:22,291 --> 01:29:23,500 I know. And those, you know, 1180 01:29:23,500 --> 01:29:25,250 at those things, we had a lot of fun. 1181 01:29:25,250 --> 01:29:26,375 That's how you make relationships, 1182 01:29:26,375 --> 01:29:27,916 you learn how to interact, social. 1183 01:29:29,000 --> 01:29:29,541 So it'll just be 1184 01:29:29,541 --> 01:29:31,083 interesting, I think, long term, 1185 01:29:31,083 --> 01:29:33,250 just to see how, I don't 1186 01:29:33,250 --> 01:29:34,666 know, maybe it's better somehow, 1187 01:29:34,666 --> 01:29:35,750 but I don't think it is. 1188 01:29:35,833 --> 01:29:37,125 I don't know that it is, but, 1189 01:29:37,666 --> 01:29:41,958 because I know that the last travel thing 1190 01:29:41,958 --> 01:29:42,791 that we did with the team, 1191 01:29:43,458 --> 01:29:44,250 like a whole group of them 1192 01:29:44,291 --> 01:29:45,416 were downstairs playing spoons. 1193 01:29:46,083 --> 01:29:47,583 Like the card game spoons, right? 1194 01:29:47,583 --> 01:29:48,375 And they had plastic spoons 1195 01:29:48,375 --> 01:29:49,083 in the middle of the table 1196 01:29:49,083 --> 01:29:50,333 and they had a blast, 1197 01:29:50,333 --> 01:29:51,416 like no phones involved. 1198 01:29:51,708 --> 01:29:52,541 That's what you're supposed to do. 1199 01:29:52,583 --> 01:29:53,583 That's what you're supposed to do. 1200 01:29:53,583 --> 01:29:55,291 And I was like, spoons is a fun game. 1201 01:29:55,333 --> 01:29:56,208 Yeah, yeah. 1202 01:29:56,875 --> 01:29:58,041 That was fun and then, 1203 01:29:58,958 --> 01:30:00,500 I don't usually stay up with the parents. 1204 01:30:01,250 --> 01:30:02,833 I usually am too tired or I go to bed 1205 01:30:02,833 --> 01:30:04,166 or being a natural introvert, 1206 01:30:04,166 --> 01:30:05,000 I just kind of like, 1207 01:30:05,000 --> 01:30:06,166 I'm out of energy already 1208 01:30:06,666 --> 01:30:07,541 from probably socializing 1209 01:30:07,541 --> 01:30:08,625 the whole part of the day, 1210 01:30:08,625 --> 01:30:10,000 because that just, as an introvert, 1211 01:30:10,250 --> 01:30:11,708 it takes energy out of you. 1212 01:30:11,750 --> 01:30:12,250 Yeah, for sure. 1213 01:30:12,666 --> 01:30:13,833 I did stay up with them. 1214 01:30:14,583 --> 01:30:15,125 I did stay with the 1215 01:30:15,125 --> 01:30:16,166 parents two nights in a row, 1216 01:30:16,166 --> 01:30:17,375 so it was Saturday, Sunday night. 1217 01:30:19,416 --> 01:30:21,333 And that was a lot of fun, 1218 01:30:21,333 --> 01:30:22,958 just hanging out with the parents there, 1219 01:30:24,291 --> 01:30:25,083 just talking about 1220 01:30:25,083 --> 01:30:25,916 anything and everything. 1221 01:30:25,916 --> 01:30:27,875 Everybody's just kind of joking around. 1222 01:30:28,125 --> 01:30:29,750 We had college football on Saturday, 1223 01:30:30,000 --> 01:30:31,583 we had Sunday football Sunday. 1224 01:30:33,541 --> 01:30:34,541 The one thing I will 1225 01:30:34,541 --> 01:30:35,958 say that was just crazy. 1226 01:30:36,375 --> 01:30:37,750 And I tell you about this at all, 1227 01:30:37,750 --> 01:30:38,291 like just how we got 1228 01:30:38,291 --> 01:30:39,041 treated like children. 1229 01:30:39,750 --> 01:30:40,791 I mentioned it just slightly. 1230 01:30:41,541 --> 01:30:43,333 So the first night was fine. 1231 01:30:43,625 --> 01:30:45,000 I mean, I was actually buying 1232 01:30:45,000 --> 01:30:47,250 drinks from the bar that night, 1233 01:30:47,500 --> 01:30:48,500 a bourbon from the bar. 1234 01:30:48,875 --> 01:30:50,166 You get big ice cubes with that. 1235 01:30:50,166 --> 01:30:50,875 They actually had like 1236 01:30:50,875 --> 01:30:52,166 bourbon ice cubes, so it was nice. 1237 01:30:52,166 --> 01:30:52,416 Oh, nice. 1238 01:30:53,916 --> 01:30:56,291 But so overpriced, it was unbelievable. 1239 01:30:56,666 --> 01:30:57,083 Oh, yeah. 1240 01:30:57,125 --> 01:30:58,916 So most of the, every 1241 01:30:58,916 --> 01:31:00,625 other get together like this, 1242 01:31:00,625 --> 01:31:02,666 and it's not like, I used to think like, 1243 01:31:02,666 --> 01:31:04,000 oh, these parents are drinking, 1244 01:31:04,291 --> 01:31:05,791 you know, when they're at these things. 1245 01:31:06,125 --> 01:31:06,958 It's what everybody does. 1246 01:31:06,958 --> 01:31:07,791 It's just what everybody does. 1247 01:31:07,791 --> 01:31:08,666 It's to be expected. 1248 01:31:09,125 --> 01:31:09,333 Exactly. 1249 01:31:10,000 --> 01:31:11,416 So some of the dads had, you know, 1250 01:31:11,416 --> 01:31:13,083 beer and like a little, you know, case 1251 01:31:13,083 --> 01:31:14,500 or something like that, you know, 1252 01:31:14,500 --> 01:31:15,458 because they're not going 1253 01:31:15,458 --> 01:31:17,166 to buy it from the bar for, 1254 01:31:17,166 --> 01:31:18,500 you know, $20 a beer. 1255 01:31:18,708 --> 01:31:19,875 You know, bourbon was, 1256 01:31:19,875 --> 01:31:22,208 you know, $25 for a double. 1257 01:31:22,208 --> 01:31:22,708 Oh my gosh. 1258 01:31:23,125 --> 01:31:24,041 Yeah, it's crazy. 1259 01:31:24,250 --> 01:31:25,000 I mean, I could have bought a whole 1260 01:31:25,000 --> 01:31:26,250 bottle for two glasses. 1261 01:31:26,500 --> 01:31:27,208 Oh my gosh. 1262 01:31:27,666 --> 01:31:28,208 Should have taken that 1263 01:31:28,208 --> 01:31:29,291 bottle from Mexico that we bought. 1264 01:31:29,833 --> 01:31:31,000 Yeah, yeah. 1265 01:31:31,500 --> 01:31:32,708 I know, I've left so much 1266 01:31:32,708 --> 01:31:33,625 bourbon in different places 1267 01:31:33,625 --> 01:31:34,500 because we thought it 1268 01:31:34,500 --> 01:31:35,500 would be good to buy it. 1269 01:31:36,208 --> 01:31:36,916 Anyway, so I did buy 1270 01:31:36,916 --> 01:31:37,750 one the second night, 1271 01:31:37,916 --> 01:31:40,375 but because the first night, 1272 01:31:40,375 --> 01:31:42,333 I think they caught on to us doing that. 1273 01:31:42,333 --> 01:31:43,500 The other dad's doing that. 1274 01:31:43,500 --> 01:31:43,916 And there were some 1275 01:31:43,916 --> 01:31:44,875 security guards that were there 1276 01:31:44,875 --> 01:31:46,375 after I went to bed that were like, 1277 01:31:46,791 --> 01:31:47,958 you guys aren't allowed to 1278 01:31:47,958 --> 01:31:48,958 bring an outside alcohol. 1279 01:31:49,291 --> 01:31:49,916 And like, that's fine. 1280 01:31:49,916 --> 01:31:50,583 Everybody says that, 1281 01:31:50,583 --> 01:31:52,083 but nobody enforces that. 1282 01:31:52,125 --> 01:31:52,333 Right. 1283 01:31:53,000 --> 01:31:53,625 And maybe this is a 1284 01:31:53,625 --> 01:31:54,625 California thing, I don't know. 1285 01:31:55,166 --> 01:31:56,500 But the next night, these 1286 01:31:56,500 --> 01:31:58,208 ladies that were at the bar 1287 01:31:59,166 --> 01:32:01,500 were just harassing us. 1288 01:32:01,500 --> 01:32:03,500 Like they were the, you 1289 01:32:03,500 --> 01:32:04,958 know, the alcohol police. 1290 01:32:05,500 --> 01:32:07,250 They were like sniffing around. 1291 01:32:07,250 --> 01:32:08,666 They came out multiple times. 1292 01:32:08,666 --> 01:32:09,250 Like, you don't have any 1293 01:32:09,250 --> 01:32:10,541 outside alcohol out here, do you? 1294 01:32:11,208 --> 01:32:13,625 And then we'd go inside to get something 1295 01:32:13,625 --> 01:32:15,166 and they were just grumbling about us. 1296 01:32:15,166 --> 01:32:16,916 Like, oh, they want the nice ice cubes. 1297 01:32:16,916 --> 01:32:18,208 Those are for paying customers. 1298 01:32:18,541 --> 01:32:20,791 And they were so mad at us. 1299 01:32:20,875 --> 01:32:21,541 That's crazy. 1300 01:32:21,833 --> 01:32:23,083 Yeah, and like the security 1301 01:32:23,083 --> 01:32:24,750 guards kept doing drive-bys 1302 01:32:25,000 --> 01:32:26,000 all the time. 1303 01:32:26,291 --> 01:32:27,625 And it's like, what are you doing? 1304 01:32:27,625 --> 01:32:29,500 So like, now we're all like trying to, 1305 01:32:30,416 --> 01:32:31,666 like now we're trying to 1306 01:32:31,666 --> 01:32:33,458 like mask it a little bit. 1307 01:32:33,666 --> 01:32:35,916 You're like tailgating in college, right? 1308 01:32:35,958 --> 01:32:36,833 Because you're drinking underage 1309 01:32:36,833 --> 01:32:38,291 and you're trying to hide it, right? 1310 01:32:38,291 --> 01:32:39,333 Well, we're smart enough. 1311 01:32:39,333 --> 01:32:41,416 Like I had bought a bottle of bourbon 1312 01:32:41,416 --> 01:32:42,125 and I put it in a 1313 01:32:42,125 --> 01:32:43,750 Gatorade bottle, you know? 1314 01:32:44,041 --> 01:32:45,583 That's totally the wrong color. 1315 01:32:46,000 --> 01:32:46,666 They don't make a 1316 01:32:46,666 --> 01:32:48,250 Gatorade that color, my love. 1317 01:32:48,291 --> 01:32:49,166 There was a whole, yeah, 1318 01:32:49,166 --> 01:32:50,083 we had a whole conversation 1319 01:32:50,291 --> 01:32:51,083 about that too. 1320 01:32:51,083 --> 01:32:51,750 That was, yeah. 1321 01:32:52,500 --> 01:32:53,750 What kind of Gatorade is that? 1322 01:32:54,000 --> 01:32:54,916 Mike was dehydrated, 1323 01:32:54,916 --> 01:32:55,916 sitting in the car all day. 1324 01:32:56,125 --> 01:32:57,416 You know, that was his Gatorade bottle. 1325 01:32:58,083 --> 01:32:59,333 (laughing) 1326 01:32:59,666 --> 01:33:00,625 That is disgusting. 1327 01:33:02,458 --> 01:33:02,708 (laughing) 1328 01:33:02,708 --> 01:33:03,833 That is disgusting. 1329 01:33:04,125 --> 01:33:04,458 Yeah. 1330 01:33:05,000 --> 01:33:05,916 That's what we did in college, right? 1331 01:33:05,916 --> 01:33:07,041 We'd empty out a soda can, 1332 01:33:07,500 --> 01:33:08,875 add alcohol to the soda can, 1333 01:33:08,875 --> 01:33:09,416 and then it looks like 1334 01:33:09,416 --> 01:33:09,791 you're drinking Sprite. 1335 01:33:09,833 --> 01:33:10,833 But that's what we were all having to do. 1336 01:33:10,833 --> 01:33:12,416 Everybody's like hiding things. 1337 01:33:12,708 --> 01:33:13,291 Like there's one time 1338 01:33:13,291 --> 01:33:14,333 I asked for some ice 1339 01:33:14,583 --> 01:33:15,416 and I just joked with her. 1340 01:33:15,416 --> 01:33:16,000 I said, I can't get one of 1341 01:33:16,000 --> 01:33:17,500 those big ice cubes, can I? 1342 01:33:17,500 --> 01:33:18,250 And she's like, what 1343 01:33:18,250 --> 01:33:19,041 are you gonna do with it? 1344 01:33:19,833 --> 01:33:20,958 And I wanted to ask like-- 1345 01:33:21,541 --> 01:33:22,041 Suck on it? 1346 01:33:22,458 --> 01:33:23,583 Yeah, I got my-- 1347 01:33:24,208 --> 01:33:24,333 Like it? 1348 01:33:24,500 --> 01:33:25,250 My knee hurts. 1349 01:33:25,666 --> 01:33:26,708 Like I need to ice my knee 1350 01:33:26,708 --> 01:33:28,666 and that one will not melt as fast. 1351 01:33:29,583 --> 01:33:30,583 Like what do you think 1352 01:33:30,583 --> 01:33:31,375 I'm gonna do with it? 1353 01:33:32,166 --> 01:33:33,208 I'm gonna pour some bourbon on it. 1354 01:33:33,208 --> 01:33:33,916 I'm gonna pour, you know, 1355 01:33:33,916 --> 01:33:34,500 I'm gonna have a sipper. 1356 01:33:35,250 --> 01:33:37,625 But it was like, thanks mom or police. 1357 01:33:38,125 --> 01:33:40,125 They were so, they were over the top. 1358 01:33:40,125 --> 01:33:41,625 I'm a rule follower by nature. 1359 01:33:41,958 --> 01:33:42,291 For sure. 1360 01:33:42,333 --> 01:33:45,333 But we weren't causing trouble at all. 1361 01:33:45,333 --> 01:33:46,041 We were sitting in an 1362 01:33:46,041 --> 01:33:47,291 area just like this, 1363 01:33:47,666 --> 01:33:49,916 not being loud, not being rambunctious, 1364 01:33:50,333 --> 01:33:52,125 not making problems for anybody, 1365 01:33:52,125 --> 01:33:54,375 just talking amongst the 12 of us. 1366 01:33:54,791 --> 01:33:56,083 Your middle-aged parents. 1367 01:33:56,500 --> 01:33:56,875 Yeah. 1368 01:33:56,916 --> 01:33:58,791 Like what are you going to do? 1369 01:33:59,125 --> 01:34:01,041 Right, but I mean, they chased them out. 1370 01:34:01,041 --> 01:34:02,500 Like after some of us went to dinner, 1371 01:34:02,583 --> 01:34:03,708 like you can't be in here, 1372 01:34:03,958 --> 01:34:05,500 you can't be in a public place. 1373 01:34:06,000 --> 01:34:07,333 Then like some of them were out front, 1374 01:34:07,541 --> 01:34:08,958 like you can't be out front of here. 1375 01:34:09,583 --> 01:34:10,833 Like we're waiting on an Uber. 1376 01:34:11,166 --> 01:34:12,083 Some of them were saying like, 1377 01:34:12,083 --> 01:34:13,000 we're just waiting on an Uber. 1378 01:34:13,000 --> 01:34:15,125 And they're like chasing them around 1379 01:34:15,708 --> 01:34:17,708 for hours and hours and hours. 1380 01:34:18,125 --> 01:34:20,208 I mean, I honestly, it felt like a child 1381 01:34:21,000 --> 01:34:22,708 being, you know, chaperoned. 1382 01:34:22,875 --> 01:34:24,416 Yeah, that's insane. 1383 01:34:24,416 --> 01:34:25,875 Yeah, and all their little comments, 1384 01:34:25,875 --> 01:34:27,000 like, oh, it's for paying customers. 1385 01:34:27,000 --> 01:34:27,750 Like, well, we did. 1386 01:34:27,750 --> 01:34:28,833 I mean, we paid for 1387 01:34:28,833 --> 01:34:30,000 your overcharged rooms 1388 01:34:30,625 --> 01:34:32,833 and your overcharged liquor last night. 1389 01:34:32,875 --> 01:34:33,125 Right. 1390 01:34:34,375 --> 01:34:35,791 So that was, I'm not trying to be 1391 01:34:35,791 --> 01:34:36,458 negative here at all, 1392 01:34:36,458 --> 01:34:38,166 but that did add a little bit of a, 1393 01:34:38,541 --> 01:34:39,500 you kind of laughed about it, 1394 01:34:39,500 --> 01:34:41,083 but I mean, it hung over everybody. 1395 01:34:41,083 --> 01:34:42,208 Like, are you kidding me? 1396 01:34:42,250 --> 01:34:43,250 Yeah, yeah. 1397 01:34:43,291 --> 01:34:45,666 Like give me a break, but anyways. 1398 01:34:45,666 --> 01:34:45,916 That's just crazy. 1399 01:34:46,375 --> 01:34:46,875 It was fun. 1400 01:34:47,208 --> 01:34:48,083 It was fun getting to know. 1401 01:34:48,083 --> 01:34:48,500 I hung out with some 1402 01:34:48,500 --> 01:34:49,708 people I hadn't hung out before. 1403 01:34:50,500 --> 01:34:51,458 And so it was nice just 1404 01:34:51,458 --> 01:34:52,750 getting to know people and talking. 1405 01:34:53,208 --> 01:34:53,500 Yeah. 1406 01:34:53,750 --> 01:34:54,125 You know? 1407 01:34:54,666 --> 01:34:55,208 That's awesome. 1408 01:34:55,625 --> 01:34:56,458 I do love that. 1409 01:34:56,708 --> 01:34:57,625 And some of the moms are 1410 01:34:57,625 --> 01:34:58,625 down there for a while hanging, 1411 01:34:58,875 --> 01:35:00,083 you know, mostly with the moms too, 1412 01:35:00,166 --> 01:35:00,833 but I mean, everybody was 1413 01:35:00,833 --> 01:35:01,583 interacting a little bit 1414 01:35:01,583 --> 01:35:02,250 because sometimes it's 1415 01:35:02,250 --> 01:35:03,916 like dads and then moms 1416 01:35:03,916 --> 01:35:05,083 are somewhere else, you know? 1417 01:35:05,083 --> 01:35:05,500 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 1418 01:35:05,500 --> 01:35:06,208 So they kind of hung. 1419 01:35:06,791 --> 01:35:08,250 There was a couple of couples there, 1420 01:35:08,791 --> 01:35:10,166 but not too many, but a 1421 01:35:10,166 --> 01:35:11,000 couple couples were there. 1422 01:35:11,250 --> 01:35:11,500 Yeah. 1423 01:35:11,875 --> 01:35:12,458 You know, it was just fun. 1424 01:35:12,833 --> 01:35:13,291 That's awesome. 1425 01:35:13,625 --> 01:35:14,541 I'm a little jealous 1426 01:35:14,541 --> 01:35:15,375 that you got to hang out 1427 01:35:15,458 --> 01:35:16,875 with all the soccer friends. 1428 01:35:17,166 --> 01:35:18,291 I stay up there than I usually do 1429 01:35:18,291 --> 01:35:19,500 because I think I was in 1430 01:35:19,500 --> 01:35:22,166 bed by 10 30, 11 every night, 1431 01:35:22,458 --> 01:35:23,833 but that was one o'clock our time. 1432 01:35:24,041 --> 01:35:25,041 So I was exhausted. 1433 01:35:25,583 --> 01:35:25,833 Yeah. 1434 01:35:25,833 --> 01:35:27,166 But 10 30 wasn't bad. 1435 01:35:27,416 --> 01:35:27,958 Right, right. 1436 01:35:28,333 --> 01:35:29,750 Honestly, based on our time, you know? 1437 01:35:29,791 --> 01:35:32,291 I did feel like I was out till 3 a.m. 1438 01:35:32,291 --> 01:35:33,083 and I had drank, you 1439 01:35:33,083 --> 01:35:35,000 know, more than, you know, 1440 01:35:35,000 --> 01:35:36,333 a glass, you know, at the house, 1441 01:35:36,333 --> 01:35:37,250 it's like, you know, a 1442 01:35:37,250 --> 01:35:38,208 glass and a half maybe. 1443 01:35:38,500 --> 01:35:39,083 Right, right. 1444 01:35:39,083 --> 01:35:40,791 You know, just to enjoy it, you know? 1445 01:35:41,125 --> 01:35:43,000 But over five hours there, you know, 1446 01:35:43,000 --> 01:35:44,583 I'm sipping on like three glasses. 1447 01:35:44,625 --> 01:35:45,000 Yeah. 1448 01:35:45,041 --> 01:35:46,500 And then one night, one of the parents, 1449 01:35:46,791 --> 01:35:48,000 they joined us at like 9 1450 01:35:48,000 --> 01:35:49,791 45 and the bar closed at 10. 1451 01:35:50,083 --> 01:35:50,500 Yeah. 1452 01:35:50,541 --> 01:35:52,208 And they bought shots of, um, 1453 01:35:52,458 --> 01:35:53,500 patroned for everybody. 1454 01:35:53,500 --> 01:35:54,750 Oh, golly. 1455 01:35:55,916 --> 01:35:56,000 (laughing) 1456 01:35:57,208 --> 01:35:58,041 Which was super nice. 1457 01:35:58,041 --> 01:35:58,791 I can only imagine the 1458 01:35:58,791 --> 01:35:59,791 check they wrote for that. 1459 01:36:00,208 --> 01:36:00,250 Right. 1460 01:36:00,250 --> 01:36:01,875 Because I was like 12 shots probably. 1461 01:36:02,041 --> 01:36:02,500 Oh my gosh. 1462 01:36:02,833 --> 01:36:03,541 So thank you for that. 1463 01:36:03,875 --> 01:36:04,875 But I was also like, 1464 01:36:04,875 --> 01:36:05,625 whoa, I'm going to bed 1465 01:36:05,625 --> 01:36:06,666 in like 30 minutes and 1466 01:36:06,666 --> 01:36:08,166 I'm pouring a shot of it. 1467 01:36:08,166 --> 01:36:08,375 A shot? 1468 01:36:08,500 --> 01:36:10,000 And they were not small shots. 1469 01:36:10,583 --> 01:36:12,125 I guess you got your money there? 1470 01:36:12,166 --> 01:36:13,083 I didn't finish my, I 1471 01:36:13,083 --> 01:36:14,250 didn't finish my whiskey on that. 1472 01:36:14,250 --> 01:36:14,583 Yeah. 1473 01:36:15,166 --> 01:36:15,666 I was like, I gotta 1474 01:36:15,666 --> 01:36:16,916 trade one for the other. 1475 01:36:17,875 --> 01:36:18,208 Anyways. 1476 01:36:19,916 --> 01:36:21,250 Well, mine was like a dry weekend 1477 01:36:21,333 --> 01:36:22,375 because I'm hanging out 1478 01:36:22,375 --> 01:36:23,750 with the kids and it's like, 1479 01:36:23,750 --> 01:36:25,000 well, it's not fun to have. 1480 01:36:25,041 --> 01:36:25,875 Were you dry the whole weekend? 1481 01:36:25,875 --> 01:36:26,458 You didn't drink? 1482 01:36:26,958 --> 01:36:28,625 I had a glass of wine on Sunday night. 1483 01:36:28,625 --> 01:36:29,000 Oh, okay. 1484 01:36:29,000 --> 01:36:29,416 I was just happy to 1485 01:36:29,416 --> 01:36:30,625 surprise a glass or two of wine. 1486 01:36:30,625 --> 01:36:31,166 It's not a big deal. 1487 01:36:31,208 --> 01:36:33,375 I didn't on, I didn't any other night. 1488 01:36:33,375 --> 01:36:35,125 Cause it was, it was just like, whatever. 1489 01:36:35,125 --> 01:36:36,166 I'm hanging out with the kids. 1490 01:36:36,166 --> 01:36:38,833 Like, which is great. 1491 01:36:39,166 --> 01:36:40,791 Like everyone, well, I 1492 01:36:40,791 --> 01:36:41,375 don't know about everyone, 1493 01:36:41,375 --> 01:36:42,291 but people tell you 1494 01:36:42,291 --> 01:36:43,458 like, hey, have date nights 1495 01:36:43,666 --> 01:36:44,791 with your kids, right? 1496 01:36:44,791 --> 01:36:47,250 Take one child by themselves and spend 1497 01:36:47,250 --> 01:36:48,250 that time with them. 1498 01:36:48,583 --> 01:36:49,416 And it's like, I kind of 1499 01:36:49,416 --> 01:36:50,458 feel like these weekends, 1500 01:36:50,458 --> 01:36:51,166 as hard as they are 1501 01:36:51,166 --> 01:36:52,458 when you and I are apart, 1502 01:36:52,833 --> 01:36:54,208 it does give you 1503 01:36:54,208 --> 01:36:55,833 one-on-one time with a kid. 1504 01:36:55,875 --> 01:36:56,833 It gave me, I guess 1505 01:36:56,833 --> 01:36:57,875 it was two-on-one time, 1506 01:36:58,833 --> 01:37:00,583 but it's still really good. 1507 01:37:00,583 --> 01:37:02,166 I mean, at dinner, to just 1508 01:37:02,166 --> 01:37:03,166 have those conversations, 1509 01:37:03,583 --> 01:37:06,291 I was like, I love the ages you are, 1510 01:37:06,291 --> 01:37:07,083 but I was surprised at 1511 01:37:07,083 --> 01:37:08,291 how busy this would be. 1512 01:37:08,291 --> 01:37:11,416 And I got to hear all about, I mean, 1513 01:37:11,416 --> 01:37:13,916 they were just chatting away, you know? 1514 01:37:14,458 --> 01:37:17,541 And so it was, that's the benefit, 1515 01:37:17,541 --> 01:37:19,000 even though it's really hard being away. 1516 01:37:19,500 --> 01:37:20,791 Yeah, they hit that age, like we said, 1517 01:37:20,791 --> 01:37:22,000 like two years ago, maybe, 1518 01:37:22,000 --> 01:37:23,000 where we can sit at a dinner, 1519 01:37:23,291 --> 01:37:24,708 whether it's two-on-one or 1520 01:37:24,708 --> 01:37:26,458 one-on-one or all five of us, 1521 01:37:27,083 --> 01:37:27,500 and we just have 1522 01:37:27,500 --> 01:37:28,541 really good conversation. 1523 01:37:29,500 --> 01:37:31,291 And they like that. They do. 1524 01:37:31,291 --> 01:37:31,833 Especially when we 1525 01:37:31,833 --> 01:37:32,833 haven't had it in a while, 1526 01:37:33,333 --> 01:37:36,041 which I think makes me 1527 01:37:36,041 --> 01:37:37,500 feel like in the end, 1528 01:37:37,500 --> 01:37:38,291 hopefully we're doing 1529 01:37:38,291 --> 01:37:39,583 the things right, you know? 1530 01:37:40,125 --> 01:37:41,500 That they want to have that. 1531 01:37:41,500 --> 01:37:42,041 There's times when like, 1532 01:37:42,041 --> 01:37:42,583 hey, do you guys wanna go 1533 01:37:42,583 --> 01:37:43,583 watch a movie, because we'll watch, 1534 01:37:44,000 --> 01:37:44,708 we'll eat and watch a 1535 01:37:44,708 --> 01:37:45,500 movie at the same time, 1536 01:37:45,708 --> 01:37:46,791 just to try to fit it in. 1537 01:37:47,291 --> 01:37:47,791 And there's a lot of 1538 01:37:47,791 --> 01:37:48,416 times where we're like, 1539 01:37:48,416 --> 01:37:49,041 well, can we just have 1540 01:37:49,041 --> 01:37:50,083 a family dinner tonight? 1541 01:37:51,166 --> 01:37:51,458 Right. 1542 01:37:51,458 --> 01:37:53,208 Or a game night, so we just interact. 1543 01:37:53,250 --> 01:37:53,583 Right. 1544 01:37:53,583 --> 01:37:54,458 We're like, yeah. 1545 01:37:54,458 --> 01:37:54,666 Right. 1546 01:37:55,125 --> 01:37:55,958 Did I attack you? 1547 01:37:56,166 --> 01:37:57,416 It was like right in my eye, sorry. 1548 01:37:57,958 --> 01:37:58,875 I'm like seeing stuff. 1549 01:37:58,916 --> 01:37:59,541 Yeah, there's one here. 1550 01:38:00,583 --> 01:38:01,833 And that's one reason why 1551 01:38:01,833 --> 01:38:02,833 I wanted to take them out 1552 01:38:02,833 --> 01:38:05,416 to dinner one night, because it's 1553 01:38:05,416 --> 01:38:06,416 different when we're home 1554 01:38:06,791 --> 01:38:07,500 and you door dash, 1555 01:38:07,708 --> 01:38:08,416 because then it's like, 1556 01:38:08,416 --> 01:38:09,500 well, let's turn on a movie, 1557 01:38:09,500 --> 01:38:10,875 and then you don't talk as much. 1558 01:38:10,875 --> 01:38:12,000 But when you're at a restaurant, 1559 01:38:13,750 --> 01:38:14,500 there's nothing else to 1560 01:38:14,500 --> 01:38:15,625 distract you, you know? 1561 01:38:15,625 --> 01:38:16,958 And so you just sit there and talk. 1562 01:38:17,000 --> 01:38:17,208 Yeah. 1563 01:38:17,875 --> 01:38:20,875 So that's why I really wanted to do that, 1564 01:38:21,250 --> 01:38:22,041 you know, with them, 1565 01:38:22,041 --> 01:38:23,500 because it's like 1566 01:38:23,500 --> 01:38:24,541 these times are fleeting. 1567 01:38:25,541 --> 01:38:26,666 They are, they really are. 1568 01:38:26,875 --> 01:38:27,666 They're gonna go fast. 1569 01:38:28,166 --> 01:38:31,083 But also my weekend was really good. 1570 01:38:31,750 --> 01:38:33,333 Just, you know, we're 1571 01:38:33,333 --> 01:38:34,375 lucky that this team 1572 01:38:35,000 --> 01:38:36,875 really is a pretty good team of parents. 1573 01:38:38,208 --> 01:38:39,208 And I could go down the list 1574 01:38:39,208 --> 01:38:39,666 and everybody's 1575 01:38:39,666 --> 01:38:40,750 sitting at that table there, 1576 01:38:41,000 --> 01:38:42,000 just learning about 1577 01:38:42,000 --> 01:38:43,041 people and hearing them 1578 01:38:43,041 --> 01:38:45,000 and just stories and just laughing. 1579 01:38:45,333 --> 01:38:46,000 I mean, you know, 1580 01:38:46,000 --> 01:38:48,000 obviously, you know, Mike's there. 1581 01:38:48,000 --> 01:38:48,583 I think I can use first 1582 01:38:48,583 --> 01:38:49,500 names at least, you know. 1583 01:38:49,625 --> 01:38:51,708 Mike's always ready for a good laugh. 1584 01:38:51,708 --> 01:38:52,958 Oh my gosh, so funny. 1585 01:38:53,000 --> 01:38:54,708 He and I were lobbing back and forth 1586 01:38:54,875 --> 01:38:56,750 and I did my first Mike impression. 1587 01:38:57,625 --> 01:38:58,166 Oh, I love it. 1588 01:38:59,125 --> 01:39:01,041 You gotta kick out of it, I think so. 1589 01:39:01,250 --> 01:39:02,541 If I can make Mike laugh, 1590 01:39:02,833 --> 01:39:03,291 you gotta be like, 1591 01:39:03,583 --> 01:39:04,708 okay, my job's done here. 1592 01:39:05,000 --> 01:39:06,416 You've done well. 1593 01:39:06,916 --> 01:39:07,625 You've done well. 1594 01:39:07,625 --> 01:39:09,291 Yeah, we had to finally drink with Jamie. 1595 01:39:09,666 --> 01:39:10,416 I know I've missed Jamie 1596 01:39:10,416 --> 01:39:12,083 a couple times or not, so. 1597 01:39:13,708 --> 01:39:14,208 I don't wanna go 1598 01:39:14,208 --> 01:39:15,125 through and name everybody, 1599 01:39:15,166 --> 01:39:17,500 but, you know, it was great. 1600 01:39:17,791 --> 01:39:18,166 It was great. 1601 01:39:18,791 --> 01:39:19,375 That's awesome. 1602 01:39:19,958 --> 01:39:21,041 I had something else to say on that one. 1603 01:39:21,041 --> 01:39:22,208 I don't remember what it was, but. 1604 01:39:23,458 --> 01:39:25,208 I think this is the, and 1605 01:39:25,208 --> 01:39:26,083 this may take you off track, 1606 01:39:26,083 --> 01:39:27,208 but stop me if you 1607 01:39:27,208 --> 01:39:28,500 remember what you were gonna say. 1608 01:39:28,916 --> 01:39:30,333 I think the time of life that 1609 01:39:30,333 --> 01:39:32,708 we're in is like your friends 1610 01:39:33,000 --> 01:39:33,875 because you don't have 1611 01:39:33,875 --> 01:39:35,208 time for maybe friends 1612 01:39:35,208 --> 01:39:35,916 that aren't doing the 1613 01:39:35,916 --> 01:39:36,916 same things that you do 1614 01:39:36,916 --> 01:39:38,375 because you're just so busy all the time. 1615 01:39:38,375 --> 01:39:39,000 We talk about it, right? 1616 01:39:39,000 --> 01:39:39,625 It's the four things 1617 01:39:39,625 --> 01:39:40,708 and you can only have two 1618 01:39:41,208 --> 01:39:41,833 or three or whatever. 1619 01:39:41,833 --> 01:39:42,750 You have to let one go. 1620 01:39:43,500 --> 01:39:44,875 But your friends become the people 1621 01:39:44,875 --> 01:39:45,833 who are doing the same 1622 01:39:45,833 --> 01:39:46,708 things that you're doing. 1623 01:39:46,708 --> 01:39:47,750 So it's the people that you're sitting 1624 01:39:47,750 --> 01:39:48,791 on the soccer sidelines 1625 01:39:48,791 --> 01:39:51,333 with or at the track field, 1626 01:39:51,583 --> 01:39:54,000 whether track with, not track field, 1627 01:39:54,000 --> 01:39:54,791 but you know what I meant. 1628 01:39:56,250 --> 01:40:00,125 As opposed to like kids 1629 01:40:00,125 --> 01:40:01,291 who are doing other things. 1630 01:40:01,500 --> 01:40:02,875 Like your friend group 1631 01:40:02,875 --> 01:40:04,916 becomes parents of the kids 1632 01:40:04,916 --> 01:40:05,666 that are doing the same thing. 1633 01:40:05,708 --> 01:40:06,958 Absolutely, absolutely. 1634 01:40:08,125 --> 01:40:09,333 And I think for the most part, 1635 01:40:09,333 --> 01:40:10,708 this group, as you well know, 1636 01:40:12,166 --> 01:40:13,750 as much as everybody does 1637 01:40:13,750 --> 01:40:14,625 cheer for their own kid, 1638 01:40:14,791 --> 01:40:15,500 and at this age, you're 1639 01:40:15,500 --> 01:40:16,500 still one of your own kids 1640 01:40:16,500 --> 01:40:18,000 to develop, I think, 1641 01:40:18,583 --> 01:40:19,750 especially the ones we've been with 1642 01:40:19,750 --> 01:40:20,500 for a long time, I 1643 01:40:20,500 --> 01:40:22,083 mean, I know I care about 1644 01:40:22,333 --> 01:40:23,833 some of their kids and 1645 01:40:23,833 --> 01:40:25,000 how well they're doing 1646 01:40:25,000 --> 01:40:26,666 and any of that stuff. 1647 01:40:26,666 --> 01:40:29,083 And I feel that reciprocally. 1648 01:40:29,500 --> 01:40:30,500 That one got me too, 1649 01:40:30,500 --> 01:40:31,208 straight into the face. 1650 01:40:31,291 --> 01:40:32,500 I know, and it's a big one. 1651 01:40:32,541 --> 01:40:33,791 Kamikaze in my cheek. 1652 01:40:35,333 --> 01:40:36,875 But that's what's nice about it. 1653 01:40:37,000 --> 01:40:39,041 It has that family feel to it because 1654 01:40:40,041 --> 01:40:40,500 some of us have been 1655 01:40:40,500 --> 01:40:41,500 around together for a long time, 1656 01:40:41,500 --> 01:40:43,375 but I think everybody does truly care, 1657 01:40:44,416 --> 01:40:45,375 for the most part on that team, 1658 01:40:45,375 --> 01:40:47,041 about everybody else's kids and whatnot. 1659 01:40:47,541 --> 01:40:48,833 It was fun, it was fun. 1660 01:40:49,125 --> 01:40:49,458 Good. 1661 01:40:50,000 --> 01:40:51,666 Yeah, but I was glad to be home, 1662 01:40:52,250 --> 01:40:54,041 because for me, I'm exhausted. 1663 01:40:54,458 --> 01:40:55,083 Again, the whole 1664 01:40:55,083 --> 01:40:57,916 introvert thing, I was on a lot. 1665 01:41:00,291 --> 01:41:01,500 Not that I was center of attention, 1666 01:41:01,750 --> 01:41:04,291 but just trying to be outgoing 1667 01:41:05,208 --> 01:41:09,791 is something I have to actually... 1668 01:41:11,208 --> 01:41:12,708 Yeah, that's a drain for you. 1669 01:41:12,708 --> 01:41:13,875 Exert energy to do. 1670 01:41:13,875 --> 01:41:14,916 I have to actually be 1671 01:41:14,916 --> 01:41:16,916 conscious about talking 1672 01:41:17,083 --> 01:41:18,166 and you know what I mean. 1673 01:41:18,500 --> 01:41:19,500 Now bourbon helps, I 1674 01:41:19,500 --> 01:41:20,250 probably drink more bourbon 1675 01:41:20,250 --> 01:41:22,000 than I should have for a 1676 01:41:22,000 --> 01:41:23,166 three day period, but... 1677 01:41:24,416 --> 01:41:25,125 That's pretty funny. 1678 01:41:25,125 --> 01:41:25,666 You're like, "Do you 1679 01:41:25,666 --> 01:41:26,500 wanna have a sip of tonight?" 1680 01:41:26,500 --> 01:41:27,250 I'm like, "Not really." 1681 01:41:27,541 --> 01:41:28,125 Not really, yeah. 1682 01:41:28,166 --> 01:41:29,416 I wanna still enjoy bourbon. 1683 01:41:29,500 --> 01:41:30,166 Yeah, yeah. 1684 01:41:30,166 --> 01:41:30,958 Not that I drink that much. 1685 01:41:31,541 --> 01:41:33,125 Well, yeah, but I'm the same way. 1686 01:41:33,166 --> 01:41:34,208 If we have a glass of 1687 01:41:34,208 --> 01:41:35,000 wine during the week, 1688 01:41:35,000 --> 01:41:37,250 I don't really, or even if 1689 01:41:37,250 --> 01:41:38,583 there's two nights a week 1690 01:41:38,583 --> 01:41:39,625 that we could have a glass of wine, 1691 01:41:39,833 --> 01:41:41,333 I don't usually drink bourbon, 1692 01:41:41,750 --> 01:41:44,000 but at least not during the week. 1693 01:41:46,000 --> 01:41:49,375 Your seasonal old 1694 01:41:49,375 --> 01:41:50,208 fashions are incredible. 1695 01:41:50,625 --> 01:41:51,416 Oh my gosh, yeah, come 1696 01:41:51,416 --> 01:41:52,791 Thanksgiving, that's my drink. 1697 01:41:53,375 --> 01:41:56,333 But yeah, I'm like, yeah, when the 1698 01:41:56,333 --> 01:41:57,000 weekend comes around, 1699 01:41:57,000 --> 01:41:58,500 if I've had a glass of wine 1700 01:41:58,500 --> 01:41:59,666 on a Tuesday and a Wednesday, 1701 01:42:00,333 --> 01:42:01,250 I'm like, "Yeah, I don't need it. 1702 01:42:01,791 --> 01:42:02,500 That's funny." 1703 01:42:02,833 --> 01:42:03,083 Yeah, yeah. 1704 01:42:03,750 --> 01:42:05,375 So, well, should we have this one up? 1705 01:42:05,625 --> 01:42:05,833 Probably. 1706 01:42:06,000 --> 01:42:06,958 I know, especially since I 1707 01:42:06,958 --> 01:42:08,000 have no idea where our dog is. 1708 01:42:08,666 --> 01:42:09,250 Yeah, Paris. 1709 01:42:10,375 --> 01:42:11,500 I thought you were gonna pick her up. 1710 01:42:12,083 --> 01:42:12,375 I know. 1711 01:42:12,708 --> 01:42:13,708 Make her first appearance, Paris. 1712 01:42:14,833 --> 01:42:15,125 Anyways. 1713 01:42:16,500 --> 01:42:17,750 Well, let's, I guess, 1714 01:42:18,500 --> 01:42:20,291 summarize this last week 1715 01:42:20,291 --> 01:42:22,208 for ourselves and we can move on. 1716 01:42:22,208 --> 01:42:23,583 That's good. 1717 01:42:24,416 --> 01:42:25,000 Goodness gracious. 1718 01:42:26,041 --> 01:42:26,416 It's tough. 1719 01:42:26,958 --> 01:42:27,458 Well, you're thinking, 1720 01:42:27,458 --> 01:42:28,208 though, I will just say, 1721 01:42:28,208 --> 01:42:29,291 it's just so nice to be home. 1722 01:42:29,291 --> 01:42:29,625 That's what I was 1723 01:42:29,625 --> 01:42:30,875 gonna say earlier, is like, 1724 01:42:31,083 --> 01:42:32,041 it's nice to spend all this 1725 01:42:32,041 --> 01:42:32,875 time with those good people 1726 01:42:32,875 --> 01:42:34,041 and thank God they're good people. 1727 01:42:34,666 --> 01:42:36,375 But three, four days like that, out of 1728 01:42:36,375 --> 01:42:37,125 the regular routine, 1729 01:42:37,500 --> 01:42:38,458 out of hanging out with 1730 01:42:38,458 --> 01:42:40,041 my spouse, my best friend. 1731 01:42:40,875 --> 01:42:41,833 To be away from that, 1732 01:42:42,208 --> 01:42:43,208 like, last night I came home, 1733 01:42:43,583 --> 01:42:45,000 I wasn't in a bad mood, but I was tired. 1734 01:42:45,500 --> 01:42:46,458 It all hit me at once. 1735 01:42:47,625 --> 01:42:48,375 And it's just so nice 1736 01:42:48,375 --> 01:42:50,083 to get home to routine, 1737 01:42:50,583 --> 01:42:51,750 your house, your stuff. 1738 01:42:52,791 --> 01:42:54,041 Because I was just, for me, 1739 01:42:55,666 --> 01:42:57,375 not only that's where the heart is, 1740 01:42:58,125 --> 01:42:59,458 but that's where my peace is. 1741 01:42:59,791 --> 01:43:02,291 That's where my, everything is. 1742 01:43:03,333 --> 01:43:04,083 So to get back to the other 1743 01:43:04,083 --> 01:43:05,916 kids and all that kind of stuff, 1744 01:43:05,916 --> 01:43:08,041 it's just, that's settling for me. 1745 01:43:08,041 --> 01:43:08,708 That's calming. 1746 01:43:09,541 --> 01:43:10,375 So it's just, it's 1747 01:43:10,375 --> 01:43:11,375 nice to get back to that. 1748 01:43:12,041 --> 01:43:13,916 And for me, being 1749 01:43:13,916 --> 01:43:16,333 still here the whole time, 1750 01:43:17,041 --> 01:43:18,000 it's one thing when it's 1751 01:43:18,000 --> 01:43:19,125 one night or two nights. 1752 01:43:19,583 --> 01:43:20,458 Like, because you've 1753 01:43:20,458 --> 01:43:22,458 traveled your whole career, 1754 01:43:22,458 --> 01:43:23,208 like, I'm used to you 1755 01:43:23,208 --> 01:43:24,500 being gone one or two nights, 1756 01:43:25,291 --> 01:43:28,666 that third night is just lonely. 1757 01:43:29,083 --> 01:43:30,958 You turn off the light 1758 01:43:30,958 --> 01:43:32,000 and you're just like, 1759 01:43:33,041 --> 01:43:35,166 gosh, this is just lonely. 1760 01:43:35,666 --> 01:43:36,333 It's sad. 1761 01:43:36,333 --> 01:43:37,916 It's like there's just a heaviness 1762 01:43:38,583 --> 01:43:41,041 when your partner, your best friend, 1763 01:43:41,875 --> 01:43:44,916 they're just not there and it is, yeah. 1764 01:43:45,208 --> 01:43:46,916 I just felt, it's that third night that, 1765 01:43:47,583 --> 01:43:49,166 oh my gosh, please get home. 1766 01:43:50,041 --> 01:43:52,166 I am ready for you to be home. 1767 01:43:52,166 --> 01:43:52,958 We could have done 1768 01:43:52,958 --> 01:43:53,625 that a little bit longer 1769 01:43:53,625 --> 01:43:55,083 if the whole family was there. 1770 01:43:55,083 --> 01:43:55,333 Yes. 1771 01:43:55,541 --> 01:43:56,958 It was just like when we were in Cancun. 1772 01:43:57,583 --> 01:43:58,666 I was like, pie could 1773 01:43:58,666 --> 01:43:59,458 have done that longer, 1774 01:43:59,458 --> 01:43:59,791 but it would have been 1775 01:43:59,791 --> 01:44:00,666 great to have the kids. 1776 01:44:00,708 --> 01:44:00,916 Yeah. 1777 01:44:01,125 --> 01:44:01,916 You know, it's just like, 1778 01:44:01,916 --> 01:44:02,875 that's just where we're at. 1779 01:44:02,875 --> 01:44:03,500 These are our people. 1780 01:44:03,791 --> 01:44:04,958 Yep, these are our people. 1781 01:44:04,958 --> 01:44:05,833 That's exactly right. 1782 01:44:06,375 --> 01:44:07,458 All right, did you think of a word? 1783 01:44:08,000 --> 01:44:09,125 Oh, gosh, I wish. 1784 01:44:09,916 --> 01:44:10,458 All right, I'm ready. 1785 01:44:10,916 --> 01:44:12,541 One, two, three. 1786 01:44:13,166 --> 01:44:15,500 Juggling. Go time. 1787 01:44:16,750 --> 01:44:17,833 I have another hyphenated. 1788 01:44:18,208 --> 01:44:20,166 I know, I think hyphenated works. 1789 01:44:20,208 --> 01:44:20,458 Yeah. 1790 01:44:20,750 --> 01:44:21,666 Okay, do your go time. 1791 01:44:22,500 --> 01:44:24,041 Well, it was just, as you know, 1792 01:44:24,041 --> 01:44:24,750 last week was just crazy 1793 01:44:24,750 --> 01:44:25,791 with everything at work, 1794 01:44:25,916 --> 01:44:27,500 for me, for you, it was just like, 1795 01:44:27,500 --> 01:44:29,041 we have to do this, this, this, this. 1796 01:44:29,041 --> 01:44:30,625 I mean, like, it just hasn't been a time, 1797 01:44:30,625 --> 01:44:31,708 even since Cancun, we 1798 01:44:31,708 --> 01:44:32,541 hit the ground running. 1799 01:44:32,625 --> 01:44:32,875 Yes. 1800 01:44:32,875 --> 01:44:34,041 We talked about that last week. 1801 01:44:34,291 --> 01:44:34,416 Yeah. 1802 01:44:34,500 --> 01:44:35,833 We just literally haven't stopped, 1803 01:44:35,833 --> 01:44:36,500 and then I had, don't 1804 01:44:36,500 --> 01:44:37,500 talk about Bruno Day, 1805 01:44:37,500 --> 01:44:39,458 and then four more days in San Diego, 1806 01:44:39,458 --> 01:44:41,916 and then back last night at 1 a.m., 1807 01:44:41,916 --> 01:44:43,708 and then your whole day at work today, 1808 01:44:43,708 --> 01:44:44,583 and you were gone today 1809 01:44:44,583 --> 01:44:46,000 at work in the office. 1810 01:44:46,041 --> 01:44:46,416 Yeah. 1811 01:44:46,458 --> 01:44:47,541 So literally, this is the first time 1812 01:44:47,541 --> 01:44:48,333 we've seen each other. 1813 01:44:49,000 --> 01:44:50,541 That sounds like go time to me. 1814 01:44:50,541 --> 01:44:51,208 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 1815 01:44:51,250 --> 01:44:52,125 For the last week. 1816 01:44:52,125 --> 01:44:52,333 Yeah. 1817 01:44:52,583 --> 01:44:52,791 Yeah. 1818 01:44:53,583 --> 01:44:54,041 And yours was? 1819 01:44:54,750 --> 01:44:54,916 Juggling. 1820 01:44:55,583 --> 01:44:57,083 Because it is, it was just constant like, 1821 01:44:57,333 --> 01:44:58,125 we got this, and we got 1822 01:44:58,125 --> 01:44:58,833 this, and we got this, 1823 01:44:58,833 --> 01:45:00,166 and oh, you're throwing me another ball. 1824 01:45:00,166 --> 01:45:01,583 Here we go, here we go, you know. 1825 01:45:02,875 --> 01:45:05,791 So, similar, just a different peek on it. 1826 01:45:05,833 --> 01:45:07,750 Yeah, yeah, I get it. 1827 01:45:07,750 --> 01:45:07,958 Oh. 1828 01:45:08,541 --> 01:45:11,625 All right, well, let's call it. 1829 01:45:11,625 --> 01:45:12,791 We're going long as it is. 1830 01:45:13,041 --> 01:45:13,708 All right. 1831 01:45:13,708 --> 01:45:14,916 All right, well, we will 1832 01:45:14,916 --> 01:45:16,375 see you guys next week, maybe? 1833 01:45:16,875 --> 01:45:17,250 Yeah. 1834 01:45:17,291 --> 01:45:18,208 All right, have a good weekend. 1835 01:45:18,208 --> 01:45:18,416 That's really awesome. 1836 01:45:19,166 --> 01:45:19,500 Thanks for tuning in. 1837 01:45:19,500 --> 01:45:19,625 Show show. 1838 01:45:19,625 --> 01:45:20,750 Talk to you, see ya. 1839 01:45:21,208 --> 01:45:21,416 Bye. 1840 01:45:22,750 --> 01:45:23,000 Paris!