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So a couple years ago I signed up for something called the Dopey Challenge. Uh,

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the Dopey Challenge is a four day race in Disney property in Orlando.

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On Thursday you run a 5K on Friday,

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you run a 10 k on Saturday you run a half marathon.

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And on Sunday you run a full marathon. And if you complete all of these races,

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you are awarded a shirt and a medal with dopey from Snow White on them. Uh,

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because you have nearly run 50 miles and you are dopey right

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now. I I know what you're thinking.

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You were looking at me and you were sizing me up and you were asking yourself

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the same question that my kids asked. And to be very clear,

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I did not win the dopey challenge. I did not come in first place. Uh,

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but I did finish, you know, the colloquial, yeah, . There we go.

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Oh, it was ugly. Calm down .

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You know the colloquialism, it's not about the destination,

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it's about the journey. The dopey challenge was a journey for me.

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So leading up to the race, I did all the training, right?

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Six months out I'm running several days a week long runs on back to back days.

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I'm messing around in my backyard in the dark barefoot like rednecks do.

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And I stepped on a rusty nail. Yeah, it was bad.

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So I showed up on race day, still nursing this deep wound in my foot.

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I didn't know this uh, until about six weeks later.

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it caused the stress fracture in my right hip.

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marathon, the marathon, little bit of a different story.

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It was a struggle.

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I remember being on mile five into the marathon and I'm pretty confident,

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I mean I can bear through this, right? They've got good snacks out here.

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And then at mile 5.1 I thought, this has got to end.

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This is not going well. And that's when the mind games really started to start,

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right? I had coordinated with my wife,

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I was gonna see my family out on the course about halfway through. Uh,

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because you know, they want to cheer me on and they want to encourage me.

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she refers to me as hunks and I need to earn that title.

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They don't just give that out . Uh, but I wanna also,

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I wanna show my boys that I can do hard things and that I'm an athlete and that

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I can have fun.

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Now running along Animal Kingdom through fake Morocco,

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the sun is out. It's 85 degrees on a January morning,

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which felt like actual Morocco I would imagine. My foot hurts, my hip hurts,

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my skin hurts. I keep hoping to see my family. They're nowhere in sight.

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the thing that you need to know about the Disney races is it is not a

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competitive environment like whoever won that race,

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nobody cares unless you're in this room. Congratulations.

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But whoever dressed the best, who was wearing the best costume,

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that's who those jokers care about. And let me tell you,

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the lowest low for me on this race was when these two individuals passed me at

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mile 19. First Captain Jack Sparrow in full costume.

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I mean he's bopping and hopping around the crowd of runners, right?

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He's got an empty bottle of rum that he's got, he's got, he's in full character.

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He is got dreadlocks wearing a leather hat,

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like four layers of pirate clothes speaking in an accent.

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He's having a great time.

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And he passed me right by and it didn't take long for him to get outta my sight.

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But then my left shoulder is brushed by a guy who is dressed up in Hans,

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in a costume is Hans Solo, who is frozen in Carbonite.

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 meaning for four days this man ran with his shoulders

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attached to a four foot cardboard box .

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And this guy dressed as a fictional character who was supposed to be incapable

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of motion passed me.

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Like what am I doing out here? Mickey Mouse is a rat.

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The finish line is too far. Am I even gonna be able to make it?

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I just wish this was over. I'm all alone. Nobody sees my pain, nobody cares.

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That's where my head was at. It got dark, y'all and I'll come back to that.

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But have you ever felt that way about your life at the

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finish line is too far. Am I even gonna be able to make it?

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I just wish this was over. My circumstances are against me.

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My life is too hard. I'm all alone and nobody sees me and nobody cares.

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Have you ever been there, ladies?

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Have you ever felt like you were the glue that holds everything together And

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there's no time for you to do the thing that you need to do for you because you

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are holding it all together for everybody else and nobody sees you.

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Nobody says thank you.

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Nobody knows that your journey is difficult and you just feel alone in it.

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Fellas, you ever felt like the weight of the world is on your shoulders?

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And if you don't grin and bear it, you will be crushed.

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But you would rather be crushed than be seen as weak

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and disappoint people. You guys ever been there? I've been there.

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I'm there way more often than I would've to admit. Uh,

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we're wrapping up this series about the foundations of the faith and we've

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learned that we are made in the image of God and that we are broken and we can

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be fixed. And last week Dwayne said,

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we're heading towards something better and heading towards something better is

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abiding in Christ, focusing on Jesus,

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which takes some very individual personal intentional time,

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right?

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Taking a walk with Jesus requires time alone with Jesus.

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And today I wanna introduce to you another element into heading towards

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something better.

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Today we're talking about community because we began the series

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talking about being created in the image of God, right?

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And God himself a triune God, father, son and Holy Spirit,

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one God in three persons we are created in the image of a God who in

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himself is community.

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And in the creation story God made Adam and he said it is not good

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for man to be alone.

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So he created Eve and then together with the creation of

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community, creation was complete and God rested.

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We are designed to be in community,

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a collective together as a part of others.

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But we are a stubborn bunch,

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especially in the American and the western world where individuality is our

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priority. Or better yet, my comfort and my ease is my priority. And people,

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community with people is not easy,

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but God has designed us to be in community.

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So let's figure out what the scripture says in Hebrews 10.

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We're gonna be in Hebrews.

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Now Hebrews is interesting because we do not know who the author of Hebrews is.

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Uh, there are a lot of theories out there and there's really little consensus.

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But we do know that Hebrews was written to an urban people, all right?

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Jewish Christians and Jewish people who knew of Jesus in a city setting.

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there are more references to city in the book of Hebrews than anywhere else in

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the New Testament. Now why does that matter? Well,

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the makeup of a biblical city is pretty much what we see here in the triangle.

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It was a pluralistic society and we live in a pluralistic society.

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We're in communities no matter where you are in this area,

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all of our communities include a pretty high level of diversity of thought,

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diversity of ideology and experiences, races, heritage, culture,

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values, right? And all of that influences social norms.

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And that is the experience of the recipients of the book of Hebrews. You see,

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there were so many different belief systems.

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A Jewish Christian's commitment brought a level of marginalization,

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brought a level of hostility,

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and the audience of the book of Hebrews is suffering in persecution

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and they're struggling to keep the faith.

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So the question that is being addressed in Hebrews is if God is so good

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and he is for me so much, then why is my life so hard?

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Can we get a retweet on that? Life is difficult.

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We don't respond well to difficulty. We want comfort and ease at all costs.

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some of these Jewish Christians have left the faith.

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Some of these Jewish Christians have hidden their faith.

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And the author of Hebrews is attempting to remind the group of Jewish Christians

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that life is a journey. It is a slow drip.

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It's a marathon, not a sprint.

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It's a journey from weariness into rest.

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It's a journey from loneliness into togetherness.

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It's a journey from isolation into the presence of God.

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And the only way we are going to get home as the author of Hebrew says,

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and Dwayne reminded us last week, is if we fix our eyes on Jesus.

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So the author attempts to answer that question by these two themes that are

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woven throughout the book of Hebrews. The number one theme, right?

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The supremacy of Jesus. Jesus is the true and better. Moses,

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he's the true and better high priest. He's better than the angels.

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He's better than the old covenant. He's better than old traditions.

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He's better than the law. He's the true and better offering.

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And he's the true and better sacrifice. It's the first theme.

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The second theme that is woven throughout this book is a challenge to the

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readers to remain faithful to Jesus despite the distractions,

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despite the persecutions.

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So the scripture we're looking at today is gonna capture both of those themes.

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We're gonna break it up a little bit.

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Let me show you Hebrews 10 19 is where we're starting. Therefore brothers,

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since we have confidence to enter the holy places by the blood of Jesus,

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by the new and living way that he opened for us through the curtain,

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that is through his flesh.

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And since we have a great high priest over the house of God,

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you get that Jesus is the curtain, he's the doorway into the presence of God.

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And he's also the great priest over the house of God and continues let us

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draw near with the true heart. In full assurance of faith,

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our assurance that we have access to the presence of

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God is by our faith and through faith we have grace.

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And then it aligns with this,

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with our hearts sprinkled clean from an evil conscience in our bodies

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wash with pure water. So through Jesus' life and his crucifixion,

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the resurrected Jesus Christ,

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the name that is above all names made for us.

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A way to enter into the presence of God. Amen.

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The second theme is a challenge, right?

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The challenge to the readers to remain faithful to Jesus despite the suffering,

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despite the persecution, the marginalization or the distraction.

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He says stay focused. Verse 23,

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let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering for he

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who promised is faithful.

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And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works.

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Not neglecting to meet together as is the habit of some,

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but encouraging one another and all the more as you see the day drawing near.

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And that's the challenge. Remain faithful.

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Remain faithful to Jesus despite distraction.

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Stay focused on the hope that we have and encourage each other. Look, church,

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if we are going to endure the journey, if we're gonna endure the sufferings,

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if we're gonna endure marginalization or distractions of society,

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if we are going to remain faithful to Jesus, we must do it together.

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So I ask you, do you have community?

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Do you have people that you can call on in a time of want or need?

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Do you have people that will check on you?

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Do you have people that will satisfy the idea of belonging that Bill mentioned

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in his video? Because those are, those are actually tricky questions.

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I think most of us will nod our heads and feel pretty good with the surface

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level idea of community that we have.

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But I also think that the vast majority of our relationships,

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the vast majority of our security in our community is superficial.

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And this is why I say that the data's out there and it's a little bit wild. Uh,

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the surgeon general.

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So the same authority who in 1966 said that all tobacco products are in need

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of a health risk advisory. He has sent out a loneliness health risk advisory.

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Alright, we are in an epidemic of loneliness. He writes in 2023,

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loneliness is far more than a bad feeling.

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It harms individual and societal health.

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Loneliness is associated with a greater risk of cardiovascular disease,

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dementia, stroke, depression, anxiety, and premature death. He says,

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being lonely is worse on your body than smoking 15 cigarettes a day.

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Being obese and being physically inactive.

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This report says that you can be at home, home sucking down a pack of heaters,

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eating Burger King binge watching all 97 episodes of iCarly.

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And your physical body would be less,

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would be healthier than if you're lonely.

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It continues the harmful consequences of a society that lacks social connection

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can be felt in our schools

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and our places of work or civic organizations where performance,

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productivity and engagement are diminished for the last 20 years.

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Social isolation has continually increased.

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general companionship has dramatically decreased.

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We are either taking steps to fight against loneliness or we are suffering in

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loneliness. But perhaps you're like, this guy is dopey,

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I'm not lonely, I'm fine. That might be you. Listen,

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I'm not trying to shame or guilt anyone and to convincing yourself that you're

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lonely. And I know the different types of community.

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There's different relationships, certainly different personality dynamics,

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right?

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I know that the introverts of which I am what the introvert is sitting here

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00:39:43.056 --> 00:39:46.415
thinking, I'm not lonely. I'm happy the introvert.

444
00:39:46.515 --> 00:39:51.455
We are a self-sufficient people. We don't need anything from anybody.

445
00:39:51.795 --> 00:39:56.335
We don't need help. We don't need somebody to tell me to go out and find myself.

446
00:39:56.995 --> 00:40:00.575
We don't need help identifying boundaries. 'cause guess what? We got 'em.

447
00:40:00.675 --> 00:40:05.535
And our boundaries are firmly between me and everybody else because

448
00:40:05.536 --> 00:40:07.055
we sure don't need the drama.

449
00:40:07.915 --> 00:40:12.295
We don't need the energy or the ideas or the karaoke nights or the board games.

450
00:40:12.445 --> 00:40:13.855
Just let me be.

451
00:40:15.815 --> 00:40:19.335
I personally identify with some of that, although I do love a karaoke night.

452
00:40:21.155 --> 00:40:24.655
But that doesn't make it right and it doesn't make it good.

453
00:40:24.755 --> 00:40:28.815
And it's certainly not in line with our design, fighting,

454
00:40:28.816 --> 00:40:32.775
comfort and ease for this person is just showing up and engaging.

455
00:40:33.515 --> 00:40:35.135
And I'm telling you that is difficult.

456
00:40:36.275 --> 00:40:39.255
It is easier to hide than to be healed.

457
00:40:40.745 --> 00:40:44.515
Then you got this other group, maybe there's a loneliness epidemic.

458
00:40:44.855 --> 00:40:48.395
But I can't be lonely. I got more people than I know what to do with.

459
00:40:49.015 --> 00:40:52.395
My schedule is slammed. I'm in re-engage on Monday,

460
00:40:52.835 --> 00:40:56.235
coaching baseball on Tuesday, hanging out with A and B on Wednesday,

461
00:40:56.475 --> 00:41:00.475
c and d on Thursday and A to Z on the weekend between soccer games.

462
00:41:01.475 --> 00:41:04.835
Now the extroverts are social people. They love a party.

463
00:41:04.836 --> 00:41:07.915
They live a group project. They love a group chat.

464
00:41:08.655 --> 00:41:13.275
But the threat to the social people is we might have a lot of

465
00:41:13.276 --> 00:41:14.109
relationships,

466
00:41:15.094 --> 00:41:18.995
but are they depth relationships of depth and care?

467
00:41:20.175 --> 00:41:22.275
Are they relationships where you are truly known?

468
00:41:23.415 --> 00:41:27.995
Or is your community a social club that enables the pursuit of

469
00:41:28.275 --> 00:41:33.005
distraction or the pursuit of apathy or the pursuit of sin

470
00:41:34.125 --> 00:41:34.835
fighting comfort.

471
00:41:34.835 --> 00:41:39.325
Comfort and ease with this bunch might be having a conversation about

472
00:41:39.405 --> 00:41:42.965
feelings or identity or rest.

473
00:41:43.315 --> 00:41:46.045
Because if the scripture says, let us hold fast,

474
00:41:46.065 --> 00:41:51.045
the confession of our hope without wavering faithfully for he who is

475
00:41:51.364 --> 00:41:52.445
promised is faithful.

476
00:41:52.705 --> 00:41:56.565
And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works.

477
00:41:56.705 --> 00:41:59.485
Not neglecting to meet together, but encouraging one another.

478
00:41:59.705 --> 00:42:01.885
The question isn't, do you have community?

479
00:42:02.075 --> 00:42:06.565
It's do you have gospel community and gospel community?

480
00:42:06.625 --> 00:42:07.458
Simply put,

481
00:42:07.475 --> 00:42:12.364
it's a group of people who are honest and self-aware about our sin and

482
00:42:12.415 --> 00:42:17.005
brokenness and acknowledge the dependence that we have on Jesus.

483
00:42:17.985 --> 00:42:21.165
Gospel community applies the Bible for life change.

484
00:42:21.265 --> 00:42:24.925
Gospel community prays together and for one another, right?

485
00:42:24.926 --> 00:42:29.565
They're committed to servanthood of others and they spend time together 'cause

486
00:42:29.566 --> 00:42:34.325
their lives are interwoven around Jesus. A gospel community says,

487
00:42:34.565 --> 00:42:36.165
I can't fix my brokenness.

488
00:42:36.485 --> 00:42:40.045
I can't head towards something better without Jesus and without you.

489
00:42:42.075 --> 00:42:43.535
So do you have gospel community?

490
00:42:45.435 --> 00:42:49.975
You have a safe space to fall to fail.

491
00:42:50.075 --> 00:42:53.735
Do you have someone you trust with your pain or your sin?

492
00:42:54.475 --> 00:42:56.535
Not just someone you trust the sin with.

493
00:42:59.275 --> 00:43:03.935
You have people in your life who will stir you up towards love and good works to

494
00:43:03.936 --> 00:43:05.775
compel you towards the finish line.

495
00:43:06.355 --> 00:43:11.295
Do you have someone in your life that you trust with your pursuit of abiding in

496
00:43:11.296 --> 00:43:14.765
Christ? And for the past six years,

497
00:43:15.195 --> 00:43:18.645
I've had a group of men that I meet with and we simply ask two questions.

498
00:43:19.965 --> 00:43:23.565
How are you close to Christ this week? And how did you deny discipleship?

499
00:43:23.665 --> 00:43:27.205
How did you deny Jesus? We meet every week sort of,

500
00:43:28.175 --> 00:43:31.525
y'all know how life is. We didn't meet this week .

501
00:43:32.805 --> 00:43:36.805
And there've been some tough conversations at that table. Brutal honesty.

502
00:43:36.806 --> 00:43:41.645
And the most helpful element of that gospel community for me is self-awareness.

503
00:43:43.405 --> 00:43:46.525
And am I being honest with myself about myself?

504
00:43:46.635 --> 00:43:50.485
Because James talks about confessing sin. James says, therefore,

505
00:43:50.555 --> 00:43:55.405
confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you

506
00:43:55.505 --> 00:43:56.338
may be healed.

507
00:43:56.945 --> 00:44:01.885
And when I say out loud to these men who love me that I have been apathetically

508
00:44:02.475 --> 00:44:04.844
denying abiding in Jesus,

509
00:44:06.065 --> 00:44:08.405
or that I'm stuck in a habit of eating too much,

510
00:44:08.545 --> 00:44:11.045
or that I haven't been paying enough attention to my wife,

511
00:44:13.895 --> 00:44:17.885
there is no hiding in that confession. There is healing in that confession.

512
00:44:19.185 --> 00:44:22.685
And Paul says, watch carefully how you are walking.

513
00:44:23.075 --> 00:44:27.165
Ephesians five 13. But when anything is exposed by the light,

514
00:44:27.985 --> 00:44:31.260
it becomes visible for anything that becomes visible is light.

515
00:44:31.261 --> 00:44:33.325
Therefore it says Awake,

516
00:44:33.725 --> 00:44:37.765
oh sleeper and arise from the dead and Christ will shine on you.

517
00:44:37.795 --> 00:44:41.805
Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise, but as wise.

518
00:44:42.235 --> 00:44:44.125
That is what gospel community looks like.

519
00:44:44.825 --> 00:44:48.245
Gospel community is an awakened church. And listen, church, family,

520
00:44:48.505 --> 00:44:52.844
if God is calling us to anything collectively here at Hope Community Church,

521
00:44:53.145 --> 00:44:54.765
he is calling us to wake up.

522
00:44:55.955 --> 00:44:59.045
He's calling us to wake up because Christ is alive.

523
00:44:59.235 --> 00:45:01.005
Wake up because Jesus is king.

524
00:45:01.475 --> 00:45:05.844
Wake up because we are not alone and we are not designed to be alone.

525
00:45:06.265 --> 00:45:07.525
We are designed by a creator.

526
00:45:07.765 --> 00:45:12.605
We are sculpted by him himself for community to

527
00:45:12.606 --> 00:45:13.439
be together.

528
00:45:13.585 --> 00:45:17.965
And we must wake up because there is a sleeping world around us that has no

529
00:45:17.966 --> 00:45:22.485
chance of waking up if we are not holding fast to the confession of our hope

530
00:45:22.495 --> 00:45:26.925
faithfully and stirring up one another to love and good works faithfully

531
00:45:27.344 --> 00:45:30.685
and refusing to neglect meeting together faithfully,

532
00:45:31.145 --> 00:45:34.175
but encouraging one another faithfully.

533
00:45:35.915 --> 00:45:37.655
So do you have gospel community?

534
00:45:39.395 --> 00:45:41.094
Do you desire gospel community?

535
00:45:42.915 --> 00:45:46.055
Are you intentionally running from gospel community?

536
00:45:49.065 --> 00:45:52.445
So there I was mile 19,

537
00:45:54.105 --> 00:45:54.938
you with me

538
00:45:56.795 --> 00:45:59.285
back in the dopey challenge mile 19.

539
00:45:59.585 --> 00:46:03.285
And I was completely defeated because Johnny Depp and Harrison Ford just passed

540
00:46:03.286 --> 00:46:05.925
me. And I'm shuffling along man.

541
00:46:06.585 --> 00:46:09.085
I'm living in complete doubt that I will ever finish this,

542
00:46:09.086 --> 00:46:11.205
that I'm even worthy to be on the journey.

543
00:46:11.225 --> 00:46:12.885
And it was at this point that I met the most,

544
00:46:13.025 --> 00:46:16.485
met the most impactful stranger that I have actually never met.

545
00:46:16.645 --> 00:46:17.478
I don't know this guy,

546
00:46:17.905 --> 00:46:21.165
but I come up behind him and he has two individuals adjacent to him,

547
00:46:21.225 --> 00:46:23.125
one on his left and one on his right.

548
00:46:23.205 --> 00:46:26.925
I only noticed this group because the two individuals on the outside are wearing

549
00:46:26.926 --> 00:46:29.525
these bright yellow jerseys that say support athlete.

550
00:46:29.755 --> 00:46:32.885
They were there to help the man in the middle get to the finish line.

551
00:46:33.065 --> 00:46:34.405
And my brother needed some help.

552
00:46:34.864 --> 00:46:38.085
He was a six foot four giant solid rock of a man.

553
00:46:38.145 --> 00:46:42.085
And he's on day four of the dopey challenge. He's 43 miles in,

554
00:46:42.285 --> 00:46:45.605
out 48 miles and he's paraplegic.

555
00:46:47.205 --> 00:46:51.505
He was there running on carbon fiber, legs attached somewhere below his waist.

556
00:46:51.506 --> 00:46:55.305
And as I saw him moving each prosthetic leg, left leg forward,

557
00:46:55.515 --> 00:46:58.425
right leg forward, as I witnessed this, my paradigm shifted

558
00:47:00.005 --> 00:47:03.695
because this man was there on the same course that I was on.

559
00:47:04.165 --> 00:47:05.975
He's running in the same race that I'm running.

560
00:47:06.005 --> 00:47:08.935
He's headed to the same finish line that I'm headed toward.

561
00:47:08.995 --> 00:47:10.815
But from a completely different background.

562
00:47:11.435 --> 00:47:13.415
And I don't know if he's a wounded warrior.

563
00:47:13.575 --> 00:47:15.695
I don't know if he was in an accident, if he was born this way.

564
00:47:15.935 --> 00:47:20.415
I know he is working with a completely different set of circumstances and I'm

565
00:47:20.614 --> 00:47:23.495
positive that he's been through more hardship than I have ever known.

566
00:47:23.755 --> 00:47:28.175
And I watched as he endured the journey, left leg forward,

567
00:47:28.385 --> 00:47:31.205
right leg forward. And because he was there,

568
00:47:32.415 --> 00:47:33.735
I knew he could finish the race.

569
00:47:34.395 --> 00:47:37.935
And in that it emboldened me to know that I could finish my own race.

570
00:47:38.235 --> 00:47:41.815
And let me be clear, this was not a sense of superiority.

571
00:47:42.235 --> 00:47:44.614
It wasn't because I have legs and you don't.

572
00:47:45.085 --> 00:47:48.575
It's because it wasn't because I think I can make it because you shouldn't be

573
00:47:48.576 --> 00:47:49.165
able to make this.

574
00:47:49.165 --> 00:47:52.935
It's not I'm better than you or my body is in better shape than yours. No,

575
00:47:52.936 --> 00:47:57.655
this moment was a moment of inspiration compelled my purpose

576
00:47:57.835 --> 00:48:00.455
and my motivation, my perspective changed.

577
00:48:00.995 --> 00:48:04.175
My foot still had a hole in it and my hip still had a crack in it. But my,

578
00:48:04.195 --> 00:48:07.695
in my mind, I said, I am here with you brother.

579
00:48:08.395 --> 00:48:11.375
And because you are here, I can get to the finish line.

580
00:48:11.525 --> 00:48:16.295
Your presence in this race, in this journey gives me hope,

581
00:48:17.205 --> 00:48:21.315
makes me a recipient of hope. And that makes you a conduit of hope for me.

582
00:48:21.335 --> 00:48:23.035
And my presence in this race,

583
00:48:23.315 --> 00:48:27.915
in this journey makes me a hope giver and that and an ambassador for you

584
00:48:28.735 --> 00:48:32.195
and for Jack Sparrow and Hans and all these other knuckleheads at the Dopey

585
00:48:32.196 --> 00:48:32.614
Challenge.

586
00:48:32.614 --> 00:48:37.155
Now I know that's a strange revelation to have at the Dopey Challenge,

587
00:48:37.575 --> 00:48:42.555
but in that moment I understood more clearly that this is what being made

588
00:48:42.815 --> 00:48:44.035
for community is.

589
00:48:45.445 --> 00:48:47.895
This is what being part of the body of Christ is.

590
00:48:47.896 --> 00:48:52.215
This is what church is a place where we are free to be who we are

591
00:48:52.645 --> 00:48:54.335
from whatever background we have,

592
00:48:54.485 --> 00:48:56.975
with whatever circumstances we are suffering through,

593
00:48:57.155 --> 00:49:01.375
and be a recipient of hope and also a conduit of hope for others.

594
00:49:02.364 --> 00:49:06.495
Because in the same way that the Father sent the Son who is the hope of the

595
00:49:06.496 --> 00:49:10.015
world, and Jesus has invited us into community with him,

596
00:49:11.235 --> 00:49:15.175
and I have an obligation to invite others into me,

597
00:49:15.685 --> 00:49:19.935
into community with Jesus. Because in Jesus' physical absence,

598
00:49:20.114 --> 00:49:22.775
he sends us out to be people of hope.

599
00:49:23.635 --> 00:49:26.575
He commissions us as hands and feet.

600
00:49:27.195 --> 00:49:31.735
He entrusts us to use these gifts that he has given us for the purpose of

601
00:49:31.935 --> 00:49:36.335
building up one another and being a mere reflection of the goodness of God.

602
00:49:36.695 --> 00:49:39.735
And church, we aren't building up one another enough.

603
00:49:41.475 --> 00:49:43.295
We let distractions creep in.

604
00:49:44.005 --> 00:49:48.575
Some of us have fixed our eyes on our flesh and not the torn flesh

605
00:49:48.835 --> 00:49:49.668
of Jesus.

606
00:49:50.275 --> 00:49:54.935
And we've lost sight of our purpose that God has given us our gospel

607
00:49:55.535 --> 00:49:57.175
presence in this world.

608
00:49:58.515 --> 00:50:03.215
Be it in this room or online or at work or at school or in your home.

609
00:50:03.594 --> 00:50:07.815
Our gospel presence impacts the ability for those around us.

610
00:50:07.915 --> 00:50:12.535
To endure sufferings allows others to deny distractions,

611
00:50:12.536 --> 00:50:15.614
allows others to stay focused and fix their eyes on Jesus.

612
00:50:16.035 --> 00:50:20.655
And the marginalization of this world cannot stand up against an awakened

613
00:50:20.656 --> 00:50:25.655
church. Amen. Amen. So Hebrews goes on chapter 12,

614
00:50:25.975 --> 00:50:26.815
verse three says this,

615
00:50:28.805 --> 00:50:33.285
consider him who endured from sinners such hostility against himself

616
00:50:34.145 --> 00:50:38.525
so that you may not grow weary or faint hearted in your struggle against sin.

617
00:50:38.545 --> 00:50:41.725
You have not yet resisted to the point of shedding your blood.

618
00:50:43.185 --> 00:50:47.805
The author has given perspective on what the supremacy of Jesus has done for us,

619
00:50:48.475 --> 00:50:53.364
that we would be compelled to come alongside another in fixing our eyes

620
00:50:53.505 --> 00:50:54.338
on Jesus.

621
00:50:55.005 --> 00:50:59.925
'cause Jesus endured hostility and he turned the other cheek and Jesus endured

622
00:51:00.035 --> 00:51:02.725
hostility and he carried his own cross up a hill.

623
00:51:03.945 --> 00:51:05.725
And Jesus endured hostility.

624
00:51:05.825 --> 00:51:10.565
And he allowed men whom he created to thrust nails into his

625
00:51:10.755 --> 00:51:15.645
body and hang him to die so that we might be in community

626
00:51:15.795 --> 00:51:18.125
with him and the Father who sent him.

627
00:51:19.735 --> 00:51:22.565
Being a gospel community, a hope giver

628
00:51:25.114 --> 00:51:28.594
means we, we must step into a life of sacrifice.

629
00:51:30.094 --> 00:51:34.035
And sacrifice always comes with a high level of risk and exposure.

630
00:51:35.895 --> 00:51:40.715
The reality is people will let you down and they will disappoint

631
00:51:41.135 --> 00:51:42.315
and they will offend.

632
00:51:44.315 --> 00:51:46.855
But I remind you that Jesus denied himself.

633
00:51:48.785 --> 00:51:53.495
Jesus was left alone on the cross so that you and

634
00:51:53.695 --> 00:51:58.135
I will never be, he will never let you down. Hebrews 13,

635
00:51:58.695 --> 00:52:01.455
I will never leave nor forsake you.

636
00:52:02.395 --> 00:52:05.415
So we can confidently say that the Lord is my helper.

637
00:52:05.614 --> 00:52:09.135
I will not fear what can man do to me.

638
00:52:10.395 --> 00:52:13.465
Jesus was separated from the Father in his death,

639
00:52:13.975 --> 00:52:17.185
whom he had always been in community with eternally.

640
00:52:18.165 --> 00:52:21.545
And in his resurrection. We are welcomed into community,

641
00:52:21.815 --> 00:52:23.905
into relationship with God.

642
00:52:23.935 --> 00:52:28.425
Community is at the core of our identity as a new creation in Christ.

643
00:52:30.495 --> 00:52:31.895
It's the church being the church.

644
00:52:32.535 --> 00:52:37.215
It's who and how we are designed to be together with him in

645
00:52:37.216 --> 00:52:41.935
community. And there's so many different opportunities for gospel community.

646
00:52:43.055 --> 00:52:46.375
I mean, just even here in our ministry programs, right?

647
00:52:46.385 --> 00:52:49.575
We've got small groups and mission teams and serve teams.

648
00:52:50.915 --> 00:52:51.614
And I mean,

649
00:52:51.614 --> 00:52:56.535
serving in Kid City and initiating a gospel community for our children would

650
00:52:56.536 --> 00:52:57.855
be a great place to start.

651
00:52:58.395 --> 00:53:02.255
And all of those environments are designed so that you might experience gospel

652
00:53:02.256 --> 00:53:02.844
community.

653
00:53:02.844 --> 00:53:07.415
That you might be a hope carrier and a hope receiver into somebody else's life.

654
00:53:07.955 --> 00:53:12.895
But I wanna simplify this and back it way up because

655
00:53:12.955 --> 00:53:15.295
gospel community takes some intentionality.

656
00:53:15.555 --> 00:53:19.255
I'm gonna challenge you to a little exercise. Um, no marathons.

657
00:53:19.575 --> 00:53:22.575
We're we're good on that. I'm not doing one. Uh,

658
00:53:23.015 --> 00:53:26.725
I was introduced to this exercise a few years ago by a friend of mine named Don

659
00:53:26.755 --> 00:53:28.965
Ross, uh, who's actually a mission partner here.

660
00:53:29.545 --> 00:53:33.205
And it requires vulnerability and it requires intentionality.

661
00:53:33.545 --> 00:53:36.725
But it's a great way to initiate gospel community.

662
00:53:37.355 --> 00:53:40.565
It's called 4 3 2 1 hope. All right?

663
00:53:41.185 --> 00:53:43.405
You can rename it if you'd like. Uh,

664
00:53:43.545 --> 00:53:46.525
but this week take some time and identify these things.

665
00:53:48.445 --> 00:53:52.485
Identify four people who have impacted your life positively or negatively.

666
00:53:54.685 --> 00:53:57.605
Identify three communities that you have been a part of that have impacted you

667
00:53:58.565 --> 00:53:59.565
positively or negatively.

668
00:54:01.864 --> 00:54:05.545
Identify two spiritual moments that you have experienced.

669
00:54:08.344 --> 00:54:12.395
Identify one wound that you carry and a hope,

670
00:54:13.155 --> 00:54:14.114
a goal for your life,

671
00:54:14.315 --> 00:54:17.594
a hope that you have for your life that will benefit others.

672
00:54:19.005 --> 00:54:21.805
I want you to think through those things and maybe journal them down.

673
00:54:21.975 --> 00:54:24.844
Write 'em in your notes. But here's the challenge.

674
00:54:25.705 --> 00:54:30.645
The call is to share it with someone. Share it with the spouse, with a friend,

675
00:54:30.765 --> 00:54:35.364
a roommate, someone from your small group, someone you serve with family.

676
00:54:35.505 --> 00:54:38.165
Sit down at dinner and share your story with your kids.

677
00:54:39.685 --> 00:54:41.425
Ask your kids these same questions.

678
00:54:42.385 --> 00:54:46.545
'cause gospel community starts in the home and it requires intentionality

679
00:54:47.844 --> 00:54:51.344
and focus. And look,

680
00:54:51.345 --> 00:54:54.864
there's no greater expression of intentional community than when Jesus,

681
00:54:55.565 --> 00:54:56.665
the creator of all things,

682
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relinquished his authority over all things and humbled himself to death on

683
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a cross. We love because he first loved.

684
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We serve because he first served. We give because he first gave.

685
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So we're gonna move into a time of communion,

686
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of reflection and remembering the supremacy of Jesus,

687
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the true and better sacrifice.

688
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And as we reflect and acknowledge,

689
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acknowledge our suffering, acknowledge our sin,

690
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also ask God,

691
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who is he calling you to compel towards the finish line?

692
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Who is he calling you to compel towards him?

693
00:55:43.305 --> 00:55:46.055
Where is he calling you to give of yourself,

694
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to be a conduit of hope for another?

695
00:55:51.395 --> 00:55:53.255
So if you'll collect your elements,

696
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we're gonna do this as one church together across our

697
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campuses As one gospel community.

698
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First I'll read Hebrews 12 says, therefore,

699
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since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses,

700
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let us lay aside every weight and sin which clings so closely.

701
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And let us run with endurance the race that is set before us. Looking to Jesus,

702
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the founder and perfecter of our faith,

703
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who for the joy that was set before him, endured the cross,

704
00:56:28.275 --> 00:56:33.165
despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God.

705
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Church, will you pray with me? Father,

706
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we thank you that you are our God and we are your people.

707
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God, I lift up those individuals who are lonely,

708
00:56:45.225 --> 00:56:48.525
who are unknown God, that you would break into their lives,

709
00:56:48.635 --> 00:56:51.844
into their hearts and let them know that you are the Father,

710
00:56:52.195 --> 00:56:55.844
that you are the good shepherd. Lord,

711
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I pray that we would be a people that would slow down enough to have

712
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relationships among ourselves, God,

713
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that we'd be willing to pray for one another.

714
00:57:06.555 --> 00:57:11.045
We'd be willing to see ourselves as hope carriers

715
00:57:11.344 --> 00:57:15.525
for others. And God that there would be resurrection of new life.

716
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We are your people, you are our God and all these things we say.

717
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Amen.

718
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I'm gonna remind you that on the night before Jesus was crucified,

719
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he sat with his disciples, he pulled out the bread, he and he broke it.

720
00:57:40.345 --> 00:57:44.245
And he said, this is my body and it's been broken for you. He said,

721
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take it and eat it and do this in remembrance of me.

722
00:57:56.825 --> 00:58:00.165
And then he picked up the cup and he said,

723
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this cup is the new covenant.

724
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It is my blood that has been poured out for you.

725
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And I will never leave you and I will never forsake you.

726
00:58:10.945 --> 00:58:15.565
You will never be lonely in Christ. He said,

727
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drink this in remembrance of me.

728
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Thank you Jesus. Love you church. Let's worship.