What's actually playing in the bedroom? Today Scott and Brittney answer that completely.
In Episode 44, they share the full evolution of their intimacy music journey: from the early classics like Norah Jones, John Legend, Lana Del Rey, and 90s R&B, all the way to the four highly specific playlists they use today — each one designed for a different mood, a different kind of encounter, and a different dimension of intimacy.
The Chill Covers playlist for warm, unhurried connection. The Erotic Playlist featuring Sabrina Claudio, James Blake, Massive Attack, and BANKS for dark and intentional intensity. The Sensual Playlist with Craig Pruess, Porangui, and Gwairoch for sacred, embodied presence. And the R&B Playlist featuring Isiah Falls, Bryson Tiller, Trey Songz, and The Weeknd for confident, charged energy.
Plus: the practical guide to building your own intimacy playlist tonight — the most important variables, why tempo matters more than genre, and the one mistake most couples make with music and intimacy.
In this episode:
- Why music affects mood and arousal neurochemically and why the wrong song is a genuine intimacy killer
- The evolution from Norah Jones and Boyz II Men to four highly specific playlists
- The Chill Covers playlist — what it is, when to use it, and why covers work differently than originals
- The Erotic Playlist — "Frozen," "The Wilhelm Scream," "Teardrop," "Brain" and what makes each one work
- The Sensual Playlist — "Devi Prayer," "Stardust," "Ancestral Prayer" and the sacred dimension of intimate music
- The R&B Playlist — Isiah Falls, Bryson Tiller, Trey Songz, The Weeknd and the mood each one creates
- How to build your own intimacy playlist — tempo, lyrics, length, and the shuffle question
- Scott & Brittney's most reliable mood-setting tracks and the songs that have become personal favorites
Remember — intimacy is not automatic... it's guided.
Couples Intimacy Resources
Looking to improve your sex life, strengthen your marriage, or deepen intimacy in your relationship?
Download Coelle, our guided audio intimacy app for couples, designed to strengthen communication, build confidence, and support emotional and physical connection.
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What is Do You Feel That? | A Couples Intimacy & Sex Podcast?
Do You Feel That? is a couples intimacy and sex podcast about love, connection, desire, and building a stronger relationship in and out of the bedroom.
Hosted by Scott and Brittney, a married couple exploring modern intimacy, each episode blends honest conversations, personal stories, and practical tools to help couples improve communication, deepen emotional connection, and create better sex in long-term relationships.
We talk about:
• Marriage and intimacy
• Sexual communication
• Desire differences
• Erotic exploration
• Guided audio intimacy
• Confidence in the bedroom
• Reigniting passion after kids
• Sex toys, play, and connection
• Building emotional safety
• Strengthening relationships through intentional intimacy
Whether you’re navigating mismatched desire, looking to improve your sex life, or simply wanting to feel closer to your partner, Do You Feel That? offers grounded, real-world conversations to help couples grow together.
New episodes every week.