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Episode 22 — Bonnie Boyda (
@bonnie.boyda) joins James Xander (
@emperorjames) on The James Xander Trip for an insightful conversation on manifestation, reality expanders, navigating your 30's, the importance of having a strong 'why', the benefits of coaching and the patterns she notices in her clients, her first mushroom trip experience, what she's learned about love and relationships, and so much more.
Thank you Bonnie for joining me on this trip, and sharing your wisdom, passion, and energy!
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In this episode, Bonnie and I dive into:• how to stay high energy
• how to get out of a funk
• consistency and momentum
• the importance of having a strong 'why'
• building up your self-worth and self-love
• overcoming your limiting beliefs
• mirror work / mirror techniques
• finding your 'expanders'
• manifestation techniques
• embodiment; how to embody a state
• how to become aware of self-sabotage
• the importance of gratitude
• navigating one's 30's
• relationships & love
• the benefits of being single
• masculine vs feminine dynamics
• your relationship with money
• spirituality and the power of prayer
• Bonnie's first mushroom trip
• the benefits of coaching
• stretching the 'upper limit'
• and much more
Chapters:- (00:00) - Introduction
- (02:29) - Creating High Energy
- (09:37) - No More Zero Days
- (13:48) - The 7 Levels of Why
- (18:29) - How to Build Up Your Self-Worth
- (23:31) - Finding Your Expanders
- (32:23) - Manifestation = Embodiment
- (34:01) - Overcoming Self-Sabotage
- (39:21) - How Bonnie Manifested A Move to Bali
- (45:37) - Relationships & Love
- (51:14) - Enjoying Singledom
- (57:35) - Masculine vs Feminine Dynamics
- (01:01:09) - Turning 30 and Navigating Your 30's
- (01:08:02) - Manifesting Money
- (01:11:54) - Bonnie's Spiritual Journey
- (01:15:05) - Bonnie's Prayer
- (01:17:44) - Bonnie's First Mushroom Trip
- (01:25:32) - The Benefits of Coaching
- (01:29:37) - What Do You Want?
- (01:33:54) - Stretching the Upper Limit Work
- (01:42:35) - Lightning Round
- (01:51:46) - Conclusion