This episode is part of my personal story, but it’s not just about divorce. It’s about letting go of what feels familiar, even when it’s no longer right. It’s about releasing the fantasy of what could be, choosing self-respect over attachment, rebuilding your identity without labels, and accepting that some things, and some people, are meant to be a season.
I share the five internal shifts that changed me after my divorce, not from a place of resentment, but from growth, honesty, and self-leadership. The moments that forced me to stop abandoning myself, redefine who I am, and step into a stronger, more grounded version of me.
If you’re in a season of outgrowing people, habits, roles, or an old version of your life — this episode is for you.
This isn’t about blaming the past. It’s about choosing your future. And becoming the woman you were always meant to be.
What is The UnleashHer Podcast ?
UnleashHer is where women come together to grow, push limits, and back each other. I’m Elysa — your coach, big sister, and hype woman in one. We talk about the real stuff no one warns you about: discipline, self-belief, and stepping into who you’re meant to be.
I don’t want you living a life of “what ifs.” I want to help you unlock levels of yourself you didn’t even know existed.
This is where it starts. This is where we unleash the best version of you.