1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:04,000 Alvia: So when did you get interested in women? 2 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:06,000 Rem: I thought that 3 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:08,000 Rem: when you're a woman, 4 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:10,000 Rem: you'll ruin my life. 5 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:12,000 Des: Ouch! 6 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:14,000 Des: Why? 7 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:16,000 Alvia: That's what I thought of men before. 8 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:18,000 Rem: That's why my life is ruined now. 9 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:22,000 Alvia: You? 10 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:24,000 Des: I'm the one who will debunk 11 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:26,000 Des: the lie that 12 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:28,000 Des: if you started early, 13 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:30,000 Des: you'll get married early. 14 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:32,000 Alvia: But I went to a coed 15 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:34,000 Alvia: non-sectarian in high school. 16 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:36,000 Alvia: But weirdly, I came 17 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:38,000 Alvia: from an all-girls school, right? 18 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:40,000 Alvia: the first time someone attempted to 19 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:40,000 Alvia: court me 20 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:42,000 Alvia: was a coed girl. 21 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:44,000 Alvia: Legit. 22 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:46,000 Rem: In coed huh? 23 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:48,000 Alvia: But a girl. 24 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:50,000 The DINKWAP Show 25 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:52,000 Dual Income 26 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:54,000 No kids with a podcast 27 00:00:54,000 --> 00:01:14,000 Rem: Welcome to another episode 28 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:16,000 Rem: of the DINKWAP Show. 29 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:18,000 Rem: And we are your hosts. 30 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:20,000 Rem: I'm Rem. 31 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:22,000 Alvia: I'm Alvia. 32 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:24,000 Alvia: And we have our only friend. 33 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:26,000 Alvia: Introduce yourself. 34 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:28,000 Des: Hi, I'm Des. 35 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:30,000 Rem: We only do self-introductions here. 36 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:32,000 Des: I'm the only friend. 37 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:34,000 Alvia: Everyone pulls their own weight here. 38 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:36,000 Des: You do your own intro. 39 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:38,000 Rem: There's no salaries. 40 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:40,000 Rem: But we'll give you a token of appreciation. 41 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:42,000 Des: I'm excited. 42 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:44,000 Des: for the token of appreciation. 43 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:46,000 Rem: So today, 44 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:48,000 Rem: why did we invite you here? 45 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:50,000 Alvia: We also don't know. 46 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:52,000 Alvia: We invited her yesterday. 47 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:54,000 Rem: And then she agreed. 48 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:56,000 Des: I was about to sleep. 49 00:01:56,000 --> 00:01:58,000 Alvia: You're so easy to convince. 50 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:00,000 Des: Before I left for Japan, 51 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:02,000 Alvia: she said, 52 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:04,000 Alvia: "Anytime in January." 53 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:06,000 Alvia: I said, "Tomorrow?" 54 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:08,000 Des: Okay, G. 55 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:10,000 Alvia: That's what we want. 56 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:12,000 Alvia: For those who are wondering 57 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:14,000 Alvia: why she's always with us. 58 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:16,000 Rem: Why she's our only friend. 59 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:18,000 Alvia: She's so easy to invite. 60 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:20,000 Des: No dilly-dallying. 61 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:22,000 Alvia: Okay, G. 62 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:24,000 Alvia: "What food will I bring?" 63 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:26,000 Des: "Snacks? Game?" 64 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:28,000 Des: We're all full. 65 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:30,000 Rem: We already had two bottles of wine. 66 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:32,000 Alvia: We said we won't drink anymore 67 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:34,000 Alvia: to save our liver. 68 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:36,000 Rem: But... 69 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:38,000 Des: We said we'll record. 70 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:40,000 Des: We didn't plan on drinking, only snacks. 71 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:42,000 Alvia: You even brought donuts. Very wholesome. 72 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:44,000 Des: Yes, a donut. 73 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:46,000 Rem: But what we ate was good pairing 74 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:48,000 Rem: for the wine. 75 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:50,000 Des: Our meal was the culprit. 76 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:52,000 Des: That you cooked. 77 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:54,000 Rem: Yes. 78 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:56,000 Alvia: Oh, my God, guys. 79 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:58,000 Alvia: Des doesn't eat much. 80 00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:00,000 Alvia: But she ate four plates of pasta. 81 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:02,000 Des: I'm sure it was just three. 82 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:04,000 Des: Rem had four. 83 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:06,000 Rem: You ate four. 84 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:08,000 Rem: I ate five. 85 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:10,000 Des: As long as you ate more than me. 86 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:12,000 Des: You ate five. 87 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:14,000 Rem: I said, "Whatever Des eats, 88 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:16,000 Rem: I'll eat one more. 89 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:18,000 Rem: I won't lose." 90 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:20,000 Alvia: Because I was the one who cooked, 91 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:22,000 Alvia: I ate one less. 92 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:24,000 Des: We're competitive. 93 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:26,000 Alvia: They're even pointing at each other. 94 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:28,000 Alvia: "You're plate is full." 95 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:30,000 Des: You ate four bread. I ate only one. 96 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:32,000 Alvia: No, five. 97 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:34,000 Alvia: The two gluttons are fighting. 98 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:36,000 Des: Bottom line, 99 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:38,000 Des: the reason for the two bottles of wine 100 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:40,000 Des: was because of dinner. 101 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:42,000 Alvia: What was the girl math? 102 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:44,000 Alvia: "Fish and dinner, so white wine." 103 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:46,000 Alvia: "Oh, we're out of white wine. 104 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:48,000 Alvia: One more." 105 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:50,000 Des: "Oh, okay. One more." 106 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:52,000 Alvia: Such an excuse. 107 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:54,000 Alvia: Anyway, Rem, what's our topic for today? 108 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:56,000 Rem: Nothing. That's our topic. 109 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:58,000 Des: Actually, our topic is 110 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:00,000 Des: what we ate for dinner. 111 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:02,000 Rem: Sorry, guys. If you expected more. 112 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:04,000 Alvia: This is so senseless. 113 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:06,000 Des: They just invited me to mess things up. 114 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:08,000 Alvia: It's okay. 115 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:10,000 Rem: Anyway. 116 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:12,000 Rem: These past days, I was restless. 117 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:14,000 Rem: Wow. 118 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:16,000 Alvia: There's a backstory. 119 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:18,000 Alvia: He didn't share this with us. 120 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:20,000 Alvia: We've been together for a while. 121 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:22,000 Des: And he lives with you. 122 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:24,000 Alvia: I'm always surprised. 123 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:26,000 Rem: Don't you feel it when I roll 124 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:28,000 Rem: on our bed? 125 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:30,000 Alvia: I'm just sleeping. 126 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:32,000 Alvia: It's sleepy time. 127 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:34,000 Rem: You don't wake anymore. 128 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:36,000 Alvia: What were you thinking 129 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:38,000 Alvia: this past week? 130 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:40,000 Rem: How did you date? 131 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:42,000 Rem: It's so unrelated. 132 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:44,000 Alvia: Why are you thinking about us? 133 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:46,000 Alvia: Why are you thinking about us? 134 00:04:46,000 --> 00:04:48,000 Des: Why do you want to know? 135 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:50,000 Rem: We're still young. 136 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:54,000 Rem: We have friends 137 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:56,000 Rem: who are Gen Z. 138 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:58,000 Rem: They're different. 139 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:00,000 Alvia: They're dating differently. 140 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:02,000 Rem: But I'm curious. 141 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:04,000 Rem: I didn't date around. 142 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:08,000 Des: Wait. 143 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:10,000 Des: I'm going home. 144 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:12,000 Alvia: Someone's lying. 145 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:14,000 Des: I'm going home. 146 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:18,000 Alvia: Bye. 147 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:20,000 Alvia: Take care. 148 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:22,000 Rem: Since you're aunts now. 149 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:24,000 Alvia: Oh, my God. 150 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:26,000 Alvia: Show us your birth certificate. 151 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:28,000 Des: Excuse me. 152 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:30,000 Alvia: Date of birth. 153 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:32,000 Rem: Young people like me. 154 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:34,000 Rem: We're curious. 155 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:36,000 Rem: What was it? 156 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:38,000 Rem: Back then. 157 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:40,000 Alvia: We're write each other 158 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:42,000 Alvia: on a post-it. 159 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:44,000 Des: We're writing a love letter. 160 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:46,000 Des: Pass the letter 161 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:48,000 Des: to your classmate. 162 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:50,000 Alvia: Wow, classmates. 163 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:52,000 Alvia: How old were you when you started? 164 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:54,000 Alvia: Sorry, mom. 165 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:56,000 Des: Sorry, mom. 166 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:58,000 Des: I'm sorry, mom. 167 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:00,000 Alvia: I graduated honor student. 168 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:02,000 Des: Excuse me, guys. 169 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:04,000 Des: I'm a top 2 graduate in high school. 170 00:06:04,000 --> 00:06:06,000 Des: But I already exchange letters. 171 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:08,000 Alvia: Me too, it's even in folded in origami. 172 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:10,000 Alvia: Heart-shaped. 173 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:12,000 Des: It's folded. 174 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:14,000 Alvia: Okay. 175 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:16,000 Rem: Surprisingly, I also received those. 176 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:18,000 Des: Right? 177 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:20,000 Rem: I was so clueless then. 178 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:22,000 Rem: I don't know. 179 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:24,000 Alvia: Let's get in order. 180 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:26,000 Alvia: So is our topic... 181 00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:28,000 Alvia: We'll be talking about dating? 182 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:30,000 Alvia: Or is there a specific topic? 183 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:32,000 Rem: What's the difference now? 184 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:34,000 Rem: Especially you. 185 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:36,000 Alvia: No one is dating here anymore. 186 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:38,000 Des: Single. 187 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:40,000 Alvia: She's single by the way. 188 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:42,000 Rem: Single. 189 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:44,000 Alvia: Not ready to mingle. 190 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:46,000 Des: I don't want to mingle. 191 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:48,000 Des: Single and don't want to mingle. 192 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:50,000 Alvia: We're forcing her to mingle. 193 00:06:50,000 --> 00:06:52,000 Rem: Okay. 194 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:54,000 Rem: We have a bet. 195 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:56,000 Rem: Oh, it's their bet. 196 00:06:56,000 --> 00:06:58,000 Rem: If I joined in, 197 00:06:58,000 --> 00:07:00,000 Rem: the consequences are bad. 198 00:07:00,000 --> 00:07:02,000 Alvia: There's a punishment. 199 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:04,000 Alvia: Anyway. 200 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:06,000 Alvia: Is our topic dating? 201 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:08,000 Alvia: Or what we talked about 202 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:10,000 Alvia: when we did a briefing. 203 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:12,000 Rem: We did a briefing? 204 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:14,000 Rem: Why didn't you inform me? 205 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:16,000 Alvia: We talked about dating 206 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:18,000 Alvia: in our early 20s 207 00:07:18,000 --> 00:07:20,000 Alvia: versus later in our 20s. 208 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:22,000 Rem: That's what I said. 209 00:07:22,000 --> 00:07:24,000 Alvia: He even said, 210 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:26,000 Alvia: "I'm confused all week. 211 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:28,000 Alvia: I always think about this" 212 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:30,000 Alvia: Wow, 213 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:32,000 Alvia: it's like 214 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:34,000 Des: He's twisting and turning in bed 215 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:36,000 Des: because of it. 216 00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:38,000 Rem: That's our episode. See you. 217 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:40,000 Des: See you in our next one. 218 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:42,000 Alvia: Okay. 219 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:44,000 Alvia: So, Rem and I, 220 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:46,000 Alvia: when did we start dating? 221 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:48,000 Alvia: I was in my mid-20s. 222 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:50,000 Alvia: He was in his late 20s. 223 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:52,000 Alvia: Do the math. 224 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:54,000 Alvia: He was already 30. 225 00:07:54,000 --> 00:07:56,000 Rem: I was 18 then. 226 00:07:56,000 --> 00:07:58,000 Alvia: You're such a liar. 227 00:07:58,000 --> 00:08:00,000 Rem: You almost got jailed. 228 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:02,000 Des: So, we can say 229 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:04,000 Des: early 20s to early 30s. 230 00:08:04,000 --> 00:08:06,000 Rem: When did you stop dating? 231 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:08,000 Des: Early 30s. 232 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:10,000 Alvia: Exactly 30. 233 00:08:10,000 --> 00:08:12,000 Rem: It's not obvious. 234 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:14,000 Alvia: Oh, okay. 235 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:16,000 Des: Guys, there's a story to that. 236 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:18,000 Alvia: Wait for it. 237 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:20,000 Alvia: Where do we start? 238 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:22,000 Des: Let's start early 20s. 239 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:24,000 Alvia: Okay, let's do this. 240 00:08:24,000 --> 00:08:26,000 Alvia: Oh, we're raising our hands. 241 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:28,000 Alvia: It's a Zoom meeting. 242 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:30,000 Alvia: So, my question is, 243 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:32,000 Alvia: when did you start dating? 244 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:34,000 Alvia: You go first. 245 00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:36,000 Alvia: Rem, you go first. 246 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:38,000 Alvia: When did you start dating? 247 00:08:38,000 --> 00:08:40,000 Des: Legit dating? 248 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:42,000 Alvia: Yes, dating. 249 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:44,000 Rem: I got interested in girls. 250 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:46,000 Des: Okay, let's start with that. 251 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:48,000 Des: Let's start there. 252 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:50,000 Alvia: There's a puppy love. 253 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:52,000 Des: Yes, let's start with that one. 254 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:54,000 Alvia: She has a puppy love. 255 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:56,000 Alvia: You go first. 256 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:58,000 Rem: I'm a 257 00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:00,000 Rem: devout Catholic. 258 00:09:00,000 --> 00:09:04,000 Alvia: I'll show this to your mom. 259 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:06,000 Alvia: It's not true. 260 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:08,000 Rem: It's true. 261 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:10,000 Alvia: By the way, we all went to a Catholic school. 262 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:12,000 Des: I went to a Catholic grade school too. 263 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:14,000 Alvia: I went to a Catholic grade school. 264 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:16,000 Rem: When I was young, 265 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:18,000 Alvia: I'm already laughing. 266 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:20,000 Rem: It's true. 267 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:22,000 Alvia: I'll try not to laugh. 268 00:09:22,000 --> 00:09:24,000 Rem: We established in previous episodes, 269 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:26,000 Rem: that I have a weird way of thinking. 270 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:28,000 Alvia: It's true. 271 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:30,000 Alvia: So, when did you get interested in girls? 272 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:32,000 Alvia: Let's say. 273 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:34,000 Rem: I thought that girls 274 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:36,000 Rem: are like a destroyer of life. 275 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:38,000 Alvia: Where did you hear that? 276 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:40,000 Des: Ouch! 277 00:09:40,000 --> 00:09:42,000 Alvia: I thought the same of boys. 278 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:44,000 Rem: That's why my life is in ruins now, right? 279 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:48,000 Des: His life is in disarray. 280 00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:50,000 Alvia: Bye! 281 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:52,000 Des: There's no next one. 282 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:54,000 Rem: But, of course, 283 00:09:54,000 --> 00:09:56,000 Rem: there's a time when you can't avoid... 284 00:09:56,000 --> 00:09:58,000 Alvia: Who's your first crush? 285 00:09:58,000 --> 00:10:00,000 Rem: I was too young then. 286 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:02,000 Rem: But, for a more serious one... 287 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:04,000 Des: You want her to be 288 00:10:04,000 --> 00:10:06,000 Rem: my girlfriend. 289 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:08,000 Rem: I was already about to graduate. 290 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:10,000 Alvia: What? College? 291 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:12,000 Rem: Yes. 292 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:14,000 Alvia: I told you he should go first. 293 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:16,000 Rem: You have a lot to tell. 294 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:18,000 Rem: I'll finish it quickly. 295 00:10:18,000 --> 00:10:20,000 Alvia: That's why our sitting arrangement is like this. 296 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:24,000 Des: Actually, my story is as long as a novel. 297 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:26,000 Des: To think I'm single now. 298 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:30,000 Rem: She got tired of it. 299 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:32,000 Alvia: So, you were already graduating from college. 300 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:36,000 Rem: Yes. 301 00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:38,000 Des: She's your girlfriend in college? 302 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:40,000 Alvia: They were just doing playing DOTA in college. 303 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:42,000 Rem: I wasn't thinking about these things yet. 304 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:44,000 Rem: But I fell in love. 305 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:46,000 Alvia: He's about to graduate. 306 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:48,000 Alvia: He's engineering, so that's his fifth year. 307 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:50,000 Des: What did I do in my life? 308 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:54,000 Rem: We'll start with the Angel. 309 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:56,000 Des: Okay. 310 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:58,000 Rem: Then it gets worse. 311 00:10:58,000 --> 00:11:00,000 Alvia: We're at a disadvantage. 312 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:02,000 Des: Is this why you guys have me as guest? 313 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:04,000 Rem: So that we'll look... 314 00:11:04,000 --> 00:11:06,000 Alvia: That's why we have nice gifts for you. 315 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:08,000 Des: Yes. 316 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:10,000 Rem: So that we'll look kind. 317 00:11:10,000 --> 00:11:12,000 Alvia: So it's last year of college for him. 318 00:11:12,000 --> 00:11:16,000 Alvia: I think college for me. 319 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:20,000 Alvia: Because there are... 320 00:11:20,000 --> 00:11:22,000 Rem: What college? 321 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:24,000 Alvia: First year. 322 00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:26,000 Des: Wait. Is it true? 323 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:28,000 Alvia: Just after graduating from high school. 324 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:30,000 Alvia: Like that. 325 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:32,000 Rem: But, you had grade 7, right? 326 00:11:32,000 --> 00:11:34,000 Alvia: Yes. 327 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:36,000 Alvia: I'm in grade 7 and I transferred to a 328 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:36,000 Alvia: different school. 329 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:38,000 Alvia: I shouldn't have been in grade 7. 330 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:40,000 Des: So, you're technically in high school. 331 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:44,000 Alvia: But, 332 00:11:44,000 --> 00:11:46,000 Alvia: It's like this. 333 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:48,000 Alvia: In grade school, all girls. 334 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:50,000 Alvia: When in grade 7 and I'm transferring to a 335 00:11:50,000 --> 00:11:50,000 Alvia: coed school. 336 00:11:50,000 --> 00:11:54,000 Alvia: Don't justify yourself. 337 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:58,000 Alvia: So, I was graduating from high school. 338 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:00,000 Rem: We establish that you're not good at 339 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:00,000 Rem: math. 340 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:02,000 Des: Yes. 341 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:04,000 Des: I'm good at memorizing. 342 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:06,000 Des: I memorized all their names. 343 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:08,000 Alvia: We all have our own strengths 344 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:10,000 Alvia: So, for me, 345 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:12,000 Alvia: when I graduated from high school, 346 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:14,000 Alvia: I didn't think about it. 347 00:12:14,000 --> 00:12:16,000 Alvia: Especially in grade school, 348 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:18,000 Alvia: because we're all girls. 349 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:20,000 Alvia: So, I didn't think about it. 350 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:22,000 Alvia: When I got to high school, 351 00:12:22,000 --> 00:12:24,000 Alvia: I found the concept of boys weird. 352 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:26,000 Alvia: Because my whole life, 353 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:28,000 Alvia: my interactions with boys were family, 354 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:30,000 Alvia: my older brother, and cousins. 355 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:32,000 Alvia: So, I didn't think about it. 356 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:34,000 Alvia: Then, I got interested in it during 357 00:12:34,000 --> 00:12:38,000 Alvia: third or fourth year high school. 358 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:42,000 Alvia: Because it's popular with us. 359 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:44,000 Alvia: This is an age reveal. 360 00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:46,000 Alvia: So, there is no dating app yet. 361 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:48,000 Alvia: But, text messages are popular. 362 00:12:48,000 --> 00:12:50,000 Alvia: Because they give them your number. 363 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:52,000 Des: Guys, it's a peso per text. 364 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:54,000 Alvia: Wait, wait. 365 00:12:54,000 --> 00:12:56,000 Des: And your characters were limited. 366 00:12:56,000 --> 00:12:58,000 Alvia: If you text with your schoolmate, 367 00:12:58,000 --> 00:13:00,000 Alvia: you're already pretty. 368 00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:02,000 Alvia: But, 369 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:04,000 Alvia: if you text with someone from another school, 370 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:06,000 Alvia: you're prettier. 371 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:08,000 Alvia: So, I texted with someone from another school. 372 00:13:08,000 --> 00:13:10,000 Alvia: In fairness to me. 373 00:13:10,000 --> 00:13:12,000 Alvia: Thank you. 374 00:13:12,000 --> 00:13:14,000 Alvia: But, I was not that interested. 375 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:16,000 Alvia: But, I think, 376 00:13:16,000 --> 00:13:18,000 Alvia: third or fourth year high school. 377 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:20,000 Des: Can I just say, 378 00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:22,000 Des: I'm the one who will debunk 379 00:13:22,000 --> 00:13:24,000 Des: that it's not true that when you start early 380 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:26,000 Des: you'll get married early. 381 00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:30,000 Des: I started... 382 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:32,000 Rem: No, you'll get tired of it early. 383 00:13:32,000 --> 00:13:34,000 Des: That's what happened to me. 384 00:13:34,000 --> 00:13:36,000 Alvia: That's what you proved. 385 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:38,000 Des: I'm the one who will debunk that. 386 00:13:38,000 --> 00:13:40,000 Alvia: Okay, when? 387 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:42,000 Rem: Kindergarten? That's so early! 388 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:44,000 Des: After, 389 00:13:44,000 --> 00:13:46,000 Des: first year high school. 390 00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:50,000 Des: Seriously. 391 00:13:50,000 --> 00:13:52,000 Des: First year high school summer. 392 00:13:52,000 --> 00:13:54,000 Des: I had an MU. 393 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:56,000 Alvia: Oh my gosh. Is that still a thing? 394 00:13:56,000 --> 00:13:58,000 Des: It used to be. 395 00:13:58,000 --> 00:14:00,000 Rem: What does it mean again? 396 00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:02,000 Des: Mutual understanding. 397 00:14:02,000 --> 00:14:04,000 Alvia: "Mag-un." 398 00:14:04,000 --> 00:14:06,000 Rem: Finally got to use it! 399 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:08,000 Alvia: Finally. 400 00:14:08,000 --> 00:14:10,000 Des: Oh my God. It's becoming obvious. 401 00:14:10,000 --> 00:14:14,000 Alvia: So, you had an MU in your first 402 00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:14,000 Alvia: year? 403 00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:16,000 Des: After first year. 404 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:18,000 Des: Summer. 405 00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:20,000 Des: I met him in summer. 406 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:22,000 Des: From Manila. 407 00:14:22,000 --> 00:14:24,000 Alvia: He's not in the same school? 408 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:26,000 Alvia: I told you, 409 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:28,000 Alvia: those who have flings from another school are 410 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:28,000 Alvia: beautiful. 411 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:30,000 Des: Okay, background. 412 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:32,000 Des: I attended grade school in Bulacan, 413 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:34,000 Des: High school too. 414 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:36,000 Des: But since 415 00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:38,000 Des: our family, every summer, 416 00:14:38,000 --> 00:14:40,000 Des: or every... 417 00:14:40,000 --> 00:14:42,000 Des: We stay in Manila. 418 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:44,000 Des: Don't tell him. 419 00:14:44,000 --> 00:14:46,000 Des: He might know. 420 00:14:46,000 --> 00:14:48,000 Alvia: Just in Manila. 421 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:50,000 Des: So, it was summer. 422 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:52,000 Des: First year high school. 423 00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:54,000 Des: I met him in summer. 424 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:56,000 Des: But after summer, I got bored. 425 00:14:56,000 --> 00:14:58,000 Alvia: But that time, 426 00:14:58,000 --> 00:15:00,000 Alvia: summer is summer. 427 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:02,000 Alvia: Period. 428 00:15:02,000 --> 00:15:04,000 Des: Second year high school. 429 00:15:04,000 --> 00:15:06,000 Des: My first boyfriend. 430 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:08,000 Des: Second year high school. 431 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:12,000 Des: So, summer. 432 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:14,000 Des: I have an MU. 433 00:15:14,000 --> 00:15:16,000 Alvia: I never had an MU. 434 00:15:16,000 --> 00:15:18,000 Rem: So, you knew what an MU is 435 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:20,000 Rem: in your first year? 436 00:15:20,000 --> 00:15:22,000 Des: No, I didn't know. 437 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:24,000 Des: For example, 438 00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:26,000 Des: in Alvia's case, 439 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:28,000 Des: since she went to an all-girl's grade school, 440 00:15:28,000 --> 00:15:30,000 Des: the only boys were family. 441 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:32,000 Des: For me, 442 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:34,000 Des: in grade school, 443 00:15:34,000 --> 00:15:36,000 Des: since we're co-ed, 444 00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:38,000 Des: one of the boys, 445 00:15:38,000 --> 00:15:40,000 Des: I was very comfortable 446 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:42,000 Des: with guys who are super close, 447 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:44,000 Des: friends, friends, like that. 448 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:46,000 Des: Yeah, but I don't know. 449 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:48,000 Des: I guess it just happened. 450 00:15:48,000 --> 00:15:50,000 Rem: Like, you just tripped unto him. 451 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:52,000 Des: He tripped. 452 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:54,000 Des: He tripped unto me. 453 00:15:54,000 --> 00:15:56,000 Des: He went slow-mo. I'm pretty. 454 00:15:56,000 --> 00:15:58,000 Des: First year. 455 00:15:58,000 --> 00:16:00,000 Des: Yeah, just like that. 456 00:16:00,000 --> 00:16:02,000 Des: I met him in summer. 457 00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:04,000 Des: in Church. 458 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:06,000 Alvia: Things like that are a scam. 459 00:16:06,000 --> 00:16:08,000 Rem: I told you guys. 460 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:10,000 Alvia: It's not true. 461 00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:12,000 Alvia: The Lord just gave us a slap just now. 462 00:16:12,000 --> 00:16:14,000 Des: Don't force your kids 463 00:16:14,000 --> 00:16:16,000 Des: to go to church. 464 00:16:16,000 --> 00:16:18,000 Alvia: Especially if they're teenagers. 465 00:16:18,000 --> 00:16:20,000 Alvia: They'll just date each other. 466 00:16:20,000 --> 00:16:22,000 Des: Church. 467 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:24,000 Alvia: So, your first boyfriend 468 00:16:24,000 --> 00:16:26,000 Alvia: was in second year? 469 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:28,000 Des: Second year, high school. 470 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:30,000 Des: In my high school, 471 00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:32,000 Des: Christian School, it's prohibited. 472 00:16:32,000 --> 00:16:34,000 Des: It's prohibited to have a boyfriend. 473 00:16:34,000 --> 00:16:36,000 Rem: It's prohibited. 474 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:38,000 Des: For some reason, 475 00:16:38,000 --> 00:16:40,000 Des: I was the first one. 476 00:16:40,000 --> 00:16:42,000 Des: After that, 477 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:44,000 Des: my classmates got bolder. 478 00:16:44,000 --> 00:16:46,000 Des: They started dating. 479 00:16:46,000 --> 00:16:48,000 Des: They started dating. 480 00:16:48,000 --> 00:16:50,000 Des: Then we were summoned to the principal's 481 00:16:50,000 --> 00:16:50,000 Des: office, 482 00:16:50,000 --> 00:16:52,000 Des: it was just me and my boyfriend. 483 00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:54,000 Alvia: How long did your relationship last? 484 00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:56,000 Alvia: Christian schools will meddle. 485 00:16:56,000 --> 00:16:58,000 Des: Yeah, because it's prohibited. 486 00:16:58,000 --> 00:17:00,000 Des: You're in high school. 487 00:17:00,000 --> 00:17:02,000 Des: You have to finish it. 488 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:04,000 Rem: Especially for us, because we're all 489 00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:04,000 Rem: boys. 490 00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:06,000 Alvia: Even in all girls. 491 00:17:06,000 --> 00:17:08,000 Des: Of course, there's a religion factor. 492 00:17:08,000 --> 00:17:10,000 Des: Christian school. 493 00:17:10,000 --> 00:17:12,000 Alvia: By the way, we don't believe 494 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:14,000 Alvia: in Catholic Christian Schools anymore 495 00:17:14,000 --> 00:17:16,000 Alvia: We've been there. 496 00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:18,000 Alvia: But I went to a co-ed non-sectarian in high 497 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:18,000 Alvia: school. 498 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:20,000 Alvia: But weirdly, 499 00:17:20,000 --> 00:17:22,000 Alvia: I'm from all girls. 500 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:24,000 Alvia: The first time someone tried to court me, 501 00:17:24,000 --> 00:17:26,000 Alvia: it was a girl in the co-ed school. 502 00:17:26,000 --> 00:17:28,000 Alvia: Legit. 503 00:17:28,000 --> 00:17:30,000 Alvia: But it was a girl. 504 00:17:30,000 --> 00:17:32,000 Des: I don't have experience. 505 00:17:32,000 --> 00:17:34,000 Alvia: There was that vibes. 506 00:17:34,000 --> 00:17:36,000 Alvia: It was like, "Huh?" 507 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:38,000 Alvia: "This is where this happens?" 508 00:17:38,000 --> 00:17:40,000 Rem: You already came from an all-girls school. 509 00:17:40,000 --> 00:17:42,000 Alvia: Yeah, I'm from there. 510 00:17:42,000 --> 00:17:44,000 Alvia: Nothing happened. 511 00:17:44,000 --> 00:17:46,000 Alvia: So your first boyfriend was 512 00:17:46,000 --> 00:17:48,000 Alvia: second year high school? 513 00:17:48,000 --> 00:17:50,000 Des: But then, since it's prohibited, 514 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:52,000 Des: we were asked to stop. 515 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:54,000 Des: "Okay, you have to stop." 516 00:17:54,000 --> 00:17:56,000 Des: I obeyed and broke up with him 517 00:17:56,000 --> 00:17:58,000 Des: "Okay, let's break up." 518 00:17:58,000 --> 00:18:00,000 Des: But it was okay. 519 00:18:00,000 --> 00:18:02,000 Des: We broke up. 520 00:18:02,000 --> 00:18:04,000 Des: But we still had a relationship. 521 00:18:04,000 --> 00:18:06,000 Alvia: You know, I don't get that. 522 00:18:06,000 --> 00:18:08,000 Rem: Yeah, it's just a ruse. 523 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:10,000 Des: But we're official. 524 00:18:10,000 --> 00:18:12,000 Alvia: When your parents ask you, "Do you have a 525 00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:12,000 Alvia: boyfriend?" 526 00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:14,000 Alvia: "No." 527 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:16,000 Des: So we broke up officially. 528 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:18,000 Des: But in the classroom, 529 00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:20,000 Rem: it was just a press release. 530 00:18:20,000 --> 00:18:22,000 Des: It's a secret. 531 00:18:22,000 --> 00:18:26,000 Des: He liked to do this. 532 00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:28,000 Des: That thing. 533 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:30,000 Des: I'll do that to his hands. 534 00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:32,000 Des: But of course, you already know the deal. 535 00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:34,000 Alvia: That's a big deal in high school. 536 00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:36,000 Alvia: Even just getting close physically. 537 00:18:36,000 --> 00:18:38,000 Alvia: You'll be called to the principal's office. 538 00:18:38,000 --> 00:18:40,000 Des: I've been there a few times. 539 00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:42,000 Alvia: My first official boyfriend was 540 00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:44,000 Alvia: summer before college. 541 00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:46,000 Alvia: We like summer, right? 542 00:18:46,000 --> 00:18:50,000 Alvia: But we dated for two years 543 00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:52,000 Alvia: in today's terms. 544 00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:54,000 Des: That's legit. 545 00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:56,000 Alvia: But we only dated 546 00:18:56,000 --> 00:18:58,000 Alvia: for a few months. 547 00:18:58,000 --> 00:19:00,000 Alvia: Because we were already in college. 548 00:19:00,000 --> 00:19:02,000 Alvia: We went to different schools. 549 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:04,000 Des: That's how it was for me too. 550 00:19:04,000 --> 00:19:06,000 Des: Because it's okay. 551 00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:08,000 Alvia: Using that reason to break up was easy. 552 00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:10,000 Alvia: It's a big deal. 553 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:12,000 Des: Me too. 554 00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:14,000 Alvia: She's from Manila. 555 00:19:14,000 --> 00:19:16,000 Des: I was the one who went to Baguio. 556 00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:18,000 Des: Because we were in Bulacan. 557 00:19:18,000 --> 00:19:20,000 Alvia: So this is when you were pretending to have broken up. 558 00:19:20,000 --> 00:19:22,000 Des: Yes. But there's still something. 559 00:19:22,000 --> 00:19:24,000 Alvia: Okay. 560 00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:26,000 Des: So we just don't want to put the label 561 00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:26,000 Des: anymore. 562 00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:28,000 Des: So we're not like, 563 00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:30,000 Des: "We're just friends." 564 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:32,000 Alvia: But it was just a lie. 565 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:34,000 Des: But technically fine. 566 00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:36,000 Des: If you want to define it as that. 567 00:19:36,000 --> 00:19:38,000 Des: We were still dating. 568 00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:40,000 Des: But I went to college in UP Baguio. 569 00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:42,000 Des: I guess you're just too young. 570 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:44,000 Des: You don't have 571 00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:46,000 Des: a deep connection. 572 00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:48,000 Des: That's another big factor. 573 00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:50,000 Des: Friendster... 574 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:52,000 Alvia: Yahoo Messsenger! 575 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:54,000 Alvia: Excuse me. 576 00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:56,000 Alvia: To those who experienced mIRC. 577 00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:58,000 Des: Hello? 578 00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:00,000 Des: We didn't experience it. 579 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:02,000 Rem: I don't know that. 580 00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:04,000 Des: I only know Yahoo Messenger. 581 00:20:04,000 --> 00:20:06,000 Des: Friendster. 582 00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:08,000 Rem: Those who are doing ASL. 583 00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:10,000 Alvia: Those who hold "EB" in the mall. 584 00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:12,000 Rem: You go there, 585 00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:14,000 Rem: and you look at the T-shirt. 586 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:16,000 Alvia: I don't know, we didn't do that. 587 00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:18,000 Rem: That one wearing yellow. 588 00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:20,000 Alvia: They're doing "EB". 589 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:22,000 Rem: Let's go home. 590 00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:24,000 Alvia: We're not like that. 591 00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:26,000 Des: I was still a kid. 592 00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:28,000 Alvia: I never dated 593 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:30,000 Alvia: a total stranger. 594 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:32,000 Alvia: Usually, someone who knows someone I know. 595 00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:34,000 Des: He's my classmate. 596 00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:36,000 Alvia: Right? 597 00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:38,000 Alvia: Because they give your number to... 598 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:40,000 Alvia: I don't know. 599 00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:42,000 Rem: They peddle you. 600 00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:44,000 Alvia: Then you'll feel pretty. 601 00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:46,000 Alvia: Because you text with someone from another school. 602 00:20:46,000 --> 00:20:48,000 Des: We only had crushes. 603 00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:50,000 Des: You're a crush from this school? 604 00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:52,000 Des: I'm just kidding. 605 00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:54,000 Rem: When was your first girlfriend? 606 00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:56,000 Rem: Guess. 607 00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:58,000 Alvia: I already know. Let Des guess. 608 00:20:58,000 --> 00:21:00,000 Des: 3rd year college. 609 00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:02,000 Rem: Far from it. 610 00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:04,000 Alvia: When was it? 611 00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:06,000 Rem: Actually, 612 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:08,000 Rem: my first official girlfriend 613 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:10,000 Rem: was before right before Alvia. 614 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:12,000 Des: What? 615 00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:14,000 Rem: So she was my second... 616 00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:16,000 Des: You were already working? 617 00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:18,000 Rem: I told you. 618 00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:20,000 Rem: I wasn't looking for this. 619 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:22,000 Des: Can we just 620 00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:24,000 Des: clear the air? 621 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:26,000 Des: We're not looking for... 622 00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:28,000 Alvia: Excuse me. They were the ones looking for us. 623 00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:30,000 Des: They looked for us. 624 00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:32,000 Alvia: from a different school. 625 00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:34,000 Rem: Why were you accepting it? 626 00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:36,000 Alvia: We were given chocolates. 627 00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:38,000 Alvia: And Blue Magic. 628 00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:40,000 Alvia: I was given cellphone load. 629 00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:42,000 Alvia: Were you given load too? 630 00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:44,000 Des: I'm rich. 631 00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:46,000 Alvia: I was given load. 632 00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:48,000 Des: I always had 500 pesos load. 633 00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:50,000 Alvia: They give me load so that I would reply. 634 00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:52,000 Des: Why are you given load? Answer please! 635 00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:54,000 Alvia: Excuse me. They give me load. 636 00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:56,000 Rem: We're not on that level. 637 00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:58,000 Alvia: So that I'll reply to them. 638 00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:00,000 Des: They only give me Blue Magic. 639 00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:02,000 Alvia: Me too! 640 00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:04,000 Alvia: But in our school, 641 00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:06,000 Alvia: Blue Magic 642 00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:08,000 Alvia: is given to a friend 643 00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:10,000 Alvia: even if he doesn't like you. 644 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:12,000 Des: But in our school, no. 645 00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:14,000 Des: In our school, 646 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:16,000 Des: if you gift Blue Magic, 647 00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:18,000 Alvia: it's a sign. 648 00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:20,000 Des: You're in a relationship. 649 00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:22,000 Rem: Explain to us Gen Z 650 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:24,000 Rem: what Blue Magic is. 651 00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:26,000 Alvia: Blue Magic is a teddy bear 652 00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:28,000 Alvia: with pins and quotes. 653 00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:30,000 Alvia: The paper bag is big. 654 00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:32,000 Alvia: It's blue. 655 00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:34,000 Alvia: Or red. 656 00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:36,000 Rem: Is there a red one? 657 00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:38,000 Alvia: Or white? 658 00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:40,000 Des: We received all of those 659 00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:42,000 Des: paper bags, by the way. 660 00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:44,000 Alvia: The bear is not cute 661 00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:46,000 Alvia: but it's a sign of, you know. 662 00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:48,000 Alvia: But in our school, 663 00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:50,000 Alvia: not all of us received it romantically. 664 00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:52,000 Alvia: I have a friend 665 00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:54,000 Alvia: I know he had a crush on me 666 00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:56,000 Alvia: but we didn't go past friendship. 667 00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:58,000 Alvia: He gave us all Blue Magic every year. 668 00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:00,000 Alvia: The big one 669 00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:04,000 Alvia: Anyone 670 00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:06,000 Alvia: who gives you blue magic 671 00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:08,000 Alvia: make you feel beautiful. 672 00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:10,000 Alvia: So if you receive a lot of paper bags... 673 00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:12,000 Des: For us, it's like a label. 674 00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:14,000 Des: It's like a label. 675 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:16,000 Des: That you're officially in a relationship. 676 00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:18,000 Alvia: For us, it's not. 677 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:20,000 Alvia: I think my batchmates were rich. 678 00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:22,000 Alvia: They give it to people 679 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:24,000 Alvia: even if they aren't courting them. 680 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:26,000 Des: It's not like that with us. 681 00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:28,000 Alvia: We don't have Silverworks. 682 00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:30,000 Alvia: Only Blue Magic. 683 00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:32,000 Alvia: It's prettier. 684 00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:34,000 Des: Silver is a bit more expensive. 685 00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:36,000 Des: So it's like Blue Magic and Silverworks. 686 00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:38,000 Rem: Antipolo is no match for Bulacan. 687 00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:40,000 Alvia: Wait. 688 00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:42,000 Alvia: Someone gave me 689 00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:44,000 Alvia: a gold bracelet. 690 00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:46,000 Alvia: But I was picky 691 00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:48,000 Alvia: so I threw it in the trash. 692 00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:50,000 Rem: What the heck? 693 00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:52,000 Des: You were not yet practical. 694 00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:54,000 Rem: Life was still not hard back then. 695 00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:56,000 Alvia: I would've kept it if it was money. 696 00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:58,000 Alvia: I received chocolate and teddy bear. 697 00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:00,000 Des: You didn't know the value of gold yet. 698 00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:02,000 Alvia: I don't know the value. 699 00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:04,000 Alvia: My parents are strict. 700 00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:06,000 Alvia: How can I explain the gold? 701 00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:08,000 Alvia: It was serious. 702 00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:10,000 Alvia: I can tell that the bear came from a friend. 703 00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:12,000 Des: It's common. 704 00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:14,000 Rem: You should've told them 705 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:16,000 Rem: you have an uncle who's just came 706 00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:16,000 Rem: back from overseas. 707 00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:18,000 Alvia: Of course they know my uncles, right? 708 00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:20,000 Des: They'll know. 709 00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:22,000 Alvia: We're three girls in the family. 710 00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:24,000 Alvia: We all went to co-ed high school. 711 00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:26,000 Alvia: We were given flowers 712 00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:28,000 Alvia: on Valentine's Day. 713 00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:30,000 Alvia: We all conferred. 714 00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:32,000 Alvia: "How can we explain to mom?" 715 00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:34,000 Alvia: Do you know what we did? 716 00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:36,000 Alvia: We gave them to mom, "Happy Valentine's Day!" 717 00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:38,000 Alvia: Sorry mom! 718 00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:40,000 Rem: Turns out it was recycled. 719 00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:42,000 Alvia: My other friends give their flowers 720 00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:44,000 Alvia: to church. 721 00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:46,000 Alvia: They give it to church. 722 00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:48,000 Des: Is that worse? 723 00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:50,000 Alvia: I don't know. 724 00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:52,000 Alvia: But I lied to my mom. 725 00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:54,000 Alvia: She probably sensed it because 726 00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:56,000 Alvia: "why are my daughters giving me flowers?" 727 00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:58,000 Alvia: Student council sells flowers. 728 00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:00,000 Alvia: That's their gimmick. 729 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,000 Alvia: It's acceptable for first year to third 730 00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:02,000 Alvia: year. 731 00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:04,000 Alvia: But when you're in fourth year, 732 00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:06,000 Alvia: you should be giving buoquet instead. 733 00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:08,000 Alvia: My classmates were definitely rich. 734 00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:10,000 Des: They're rich. 735 00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:12,000 Alvia: For us, 736 00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:14,000 Alvia: if you're being courted, 737 00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:16,000 Alvia: you get a bouquet. 738 00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:18,000 Alvia: But your male friends also give you flowers. 739 00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:20,000 Des: No. 740 00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:22,000 Des: For us, 741 00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:24,000 Des: for example, 742 00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:26,000 Des: I have a lot of guy friends. 743 00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:28,000 Des: But, 744 00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:30,000 Des: but when 745 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:32,000 Des: you give a gift 746 00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:34,000 Des: to the opposite sex. 747 00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:36,000 Des: I means something. 748 00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:38,000 Des: So, the one who gives is... 749 00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:40,000 Des: Of course, they're just a group. 750 00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:42,000 Des: Since our school 751 00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:44,000 Des: is small, 752 00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:46,000 Des: if there's someone 753 00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:48,000 Des: who's already in a relationship, 754 00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:50,000 Des: you're done. 755 00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:52,000 Des: For us, it's like a cock block. 756 00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:54,000 Alvia: They don't give flowers at the same time. 757 00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:56,000 Alvia: They wait. 758 00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:58,000 Alvia: There's an airtime. 759 00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:00,000 Alvia: For example, you give to Des. 760 00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:02,000 Alvia: Everyone's like, "Woooow" 761 00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:04,000 Alvia: Then, the next guy, number two, 762 00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:06,000 Alvia: he gives to me. 763 00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:08,000 Alvia: They don't give at the same time. 764 00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:10,000 Alvia: It's like there's an airtime. 765 00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:12,000 Alvia: It's more beautiful in fourth year 766 00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:14,000 Alvia: because the bouquets are on top of the lockers. 767 00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:16,000 Alvia: So, the girls... 768 00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:18,000 Alvia: "Oh, I have a guy friend." 769 00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:20,000 Alvia: You know what I mean. 770 00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:22,000 Des: For us, it's just that guy. 771 00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:24,000 Alvia: You know, we're waiting 772 00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:26,000 Alvia: for each other to give. 773 00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:28,000 Alvia: It's like we're... 774 00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:30,000 Rem: I'm the representative 775 00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:32,000 Rem: of the guys here. 776 00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:34,000 Rem: They're just the ones having a conversation. 777 00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:36,000 Alvia: No, wait. 778 00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:38,000 Alvia: But you're all boys. 779 00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:40,000 Rem: That's true. 780 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:42,000 Rem: But because we're all boys, 781 00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:44,000 Rem: I don't want to take part in... 782 00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:46,000 Rem: I'm from Marist, then there's St. Scho 783 00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:48,000 Rem: These schools are right next to each other. 784 00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:50,000 Alvia: You share the same school bus. 785 00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:52,000 Des: And usually, it's between these schools, right? 786 00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:54,000 Alvia: Yes, the ride the same school bus. 787 00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:56,000 Rem: And there's one who's like, 788 00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:58,000 Rem: Sorry from people from... 789 00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:00,000 Des: So we're dropping names... 790 00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:02,000 Alvia: We're not telling school names, you're on your own. 791 00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:04,000 Rem: There's a school there, Marikina. 792 00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:08,000 Rem: They're co-ed. 793 00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:10,000 Rem: Of course, they're not exclusive. 794 00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:12,000 Rem: So, how we look at them is like... 795 00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:14,000 Alvia: High schoolers are so judgemental. 796 00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:16,000 Rem: Right? 797 00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:18,000 Des: We're like that. 798 00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:20,000 Rem: But let's keep our audience hanging... 799 00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:22,000 Alvia: Because... 800 00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:24,000 Rem: Because we're over time. 801 00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:26,000 Alvia: Alright, next episode. 802 00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:28,000 Rem: Guys, thank you for watching. 803 00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:30,000 Rem: But let's continue this 804 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,000 Rem: in our next episode. 805 00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:34,000 Rem: And the stories are fun. 806 00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:36,000 Rem: I'm just listening here. 807 00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:38,000 Des: Juicier after... 808 00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:40,000 Alvia: We're still just talking about high school. 809 00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:42,000 Rem: So, let's continue our stories in college. 810 00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:44,000 Rem: Thank you and see you next episode. 811 00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:46,000 Rem: Bye! 812 00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:16,060 You were listening to the DINKWAP Show.