We've heard this story a few times! A man goes through a ton of huge personal changes and everything about his marriage improves (including the sex). Wife seems happier. BUT... if you ask her, her happiness has nothing to do with his changes. In fact, she seems hellbent on sabotaging his efforts and making him feel guilty. WHY??
Welcome to the Dad Starting Over podcast! "Starting Over" means different things to different people. It could be that you're newly divorced and starting over fresh with a new life. It could be that you're still married and wanting to hit the reset button and finally do things right within your marriage. Whatever your story may be, you're in the right place.
I'm Ralph, a.k.a DSO, the author of books including "The Dead Bedroom Fix", "Divorce Panic", "Real Talk" "Red Flags" and "REBUILD: The Complete Guide to Starting Over as a Man". You can learn more about me, my books, one-on-one coaching, and the member-only part of my site called the Brotherhood at https://helpformen.com