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[MUSIC]

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Straight into it.

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I'll go straight in.

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Such like a softball there.

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I mean, you just threw

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it up, knock it right out.

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You know, a little

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Austin Powers throwback.

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It's not.

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In my belly.

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Of course I know that one.

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That's not my bag, baby.

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It's not my bag, baby.

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Okay, so yeah, no.

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Yeah, this is uncomfortable.

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Comfortable.

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You can't shoot, you can't

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make free throw, win game.

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Yep.

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And you know, it's more fun when you win.

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Everything in life is

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way more fun when you win.

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Winning.

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Wow, you took us deep on that one.

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Wow.

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Right, and I don't

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know anything about it.

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Yeah.

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I'm so behind the eight ball.

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That's the one.

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I think some of that was to make sure I

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wasn't the crazy one.

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Like I said, it's your date night topics.

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It's interesting.

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We're chewing on it.

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Chewing on it.

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But what I was not chewing on was food.

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Oh, that was a great transition.

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I love the high, I love a good high five.

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You should probably work one in like

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every couple of episodes.

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We should.

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It tastes so good in my mouth.

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And I was dreaming about eating.

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[LAUGHTER]

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Like your beautiful blue eyes.

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Yeah, my beautiful blue eyes.

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And I mean, I am this

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doppelganger, basically.

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You're this doppelganger.

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Coincidence?

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Yeah.

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I think that you just smell so good.

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He beats you by an hour.

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Yes, I know he's lying about this.

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You're excited for it.

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I am, yeah.

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That's a little masochistic, but OK.

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I mean, question mark?

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Question mark.

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For the next three years.

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Yeah, so I'm--

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Not the world I grew up in.

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I mean, is that just a Texas

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thing, or is that everywhere?

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Obviously.

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We performed at the Grand Ole Opry.

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I mean, it was so bad for them.

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You go out on a loss.

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That's heartbreaking to me.

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As long as you did your best.

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Yes.

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And if that's last place, that's great.

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I was like, that girl will

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lie, cheat, and steal to win.

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But that's when that competitive nature

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is on your shoulders, yours alone.

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I mean, my palms were sweaty.

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I was so nervous for her.

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And she was like, I

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don't think that goes away.

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There's a weight.

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Heavy as the crown.

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Yeah, the pastor says this.

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There's no hurt like kid hurt.

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Some things have to be learned in the

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school of hard knocks.

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We do kudos to the listener

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out there who knows what--

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That bad, but we just don't

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know what to do with down-hut.

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I don't know how to relax.

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But we're forcing you to go outside.

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That's where it's like,

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I'm just feeling as a parent.

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I need to let you get over

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your bad mood by yourself.

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You're at 77 degrees.

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How old am I?

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OK, so for 30 years.

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You're 30?

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No.

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I've been--

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Well, sooner than later,

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you'll be able to drive.

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And you can finish your own--

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Purple.

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That work, kind of?

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Not really.

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Working really hard on that one.

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That was really bad.

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Got to come up.

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We're trying so hard for

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this terrible ending every time.

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Podcasts.

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Well, you finished it yourself.

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That's it. That's a wrap.

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Welcome to the "Mr. and

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Mrs. English Podcast."

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I'm Meghan.

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And I'm Sean.

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We're here to talk about

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the wild ride of raising kids

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and growing careers,

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keeping life together

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in the middle of all the chaos.

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So buckle up, because we're all in this

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crazy journey together.

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That is crazy.

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Episode 12 into April.

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I knew it was episode 12.

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Oh, I got to move this.

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This little back thing

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right here, I realized,

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leaned me forward so much.

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Because these are very deep.

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They're very deep chairs.

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Chairs that we are in.

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You actually have one,

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but I felt like for me--

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I know.

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I felt like for me

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when I was sitting in it,

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like it punched me and I was like,

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"I look like I've got a

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belly the way it sits me."

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And you do not have a belly.

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I don't have a huge belly

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up, but I'm not bellyless.

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Well, especially after this week.

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And you're fast.

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Oh, straight into it.

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I'll go straight into it.

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Well, you mean you gave me

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such, like, a softball there.

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I mean, you just threw it up.

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Knock it right out.

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I didn't mean to do that, but yeah,

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I fasted this week

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for the first time ever.

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Really, that I tried.

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Yeah. Right?

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Do we want to go into that right now?

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I do want to hit that, but gosh,

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I was like going to

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softball this into like,

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"Here's what we did this week.

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We're outside today.

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Beautiful day. Cleaned up the--"

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It is a beautiful day.

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Yeah. Let's do general.

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Let's just talk about

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how nice of a day it is.

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I mean, sun's out where we're at.

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Yeah.

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I wonder if it'll be out when this airs.

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I wonder if the listeners can, you know,

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if they can

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sympathize with our sunny days.

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Yeah. Well, I don't know.

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I haven't really paid too much attention

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to the weather this week.

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All right. Well, I

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mean, the biggest thing was,

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I was going to talk about just the

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disappointment of my Jayhawks slightly,

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right? Just kind of what

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happened back this week.

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Wah, wah.

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Yeah, I knew it.

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I actually picked them in my

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bracket to lose to Arkansas.

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You did.

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You had them going

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out in the first round.

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This is old news for

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everybody at this point in time,

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because now we're into the

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Sweet 16-ish Elite Eight.

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Yeah, we're Sweet 16 and Elite Eight.

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By the time this comes out, by the time

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people listen to it.

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So, yeah, that was frustrating.

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Yeah.

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But I knew it was coming.

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We just--we can't box

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out. We can't rebound.

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We can't shoot. We can't

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make free throw, win game.

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Yep. Yep.

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There's a lot of things we can't do.

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Our fifth-year senior,

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who won a championship?

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Yeah, Ed.

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And, you know, he kind of peaked last

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year, maybe, in his career,

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and this year he turned the ball over.

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Yeah, yeah. He just--he wasn't the same

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player that we've seen, I think.

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It's funny.

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This is one of those

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things that's funny to me.

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Like, I know enough about the Jayhawks,

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because we watched the Jayhawks men's

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basketball team quite a bit,

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as much as we can.

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And the kids don't

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watch it that much anymore.

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Maybe because it was a boring year.

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Maybe.

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And, you know, it's

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more fun when you win.

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It always is.

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Everything is in life.

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Everything in life is

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way more fun when you win.

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Winning.

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Yeah, yeah.

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You know, but what was I

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going to say about that?

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I don't remember now.

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Oh, I know what it was.

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Is the fact that--I

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don't watch a lot of other.

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No, no.

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Other than the teams like where we went.

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You know, we watched Iowa football.

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We watched Jayhawk

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football now, too, because--

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Yeah, we did.

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Jayhawks have been okay lately.

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But I am not the dad,

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and you're not the mom.

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Some moms are good at this, but a lot of

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dads are really good at this.

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They know everything

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about, like, every team.

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Like, I don't know

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where they have the time

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or what they substitute

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to listen to talk radio.

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Maybe they listen to talk--I know they

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listen to talk radio.

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Yeah, they must.

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They don't really get a lot of it from--

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if it's on the way of

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commuting or what it is.

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But I have got to

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be--when it comes to sports--

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and I'm a sports guy.

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I love sports.

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Oh, yeah.

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I played all the sports.

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Exactly.

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But, I mean, I'm the most boring person

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in the world to talk to about sports

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because people are all, you

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know, like, "Oh, the Big 12."

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Like, they'll be talking

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about things that are happening

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that I should probably know about.

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Like, I don't know if some of the

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conferences are changing

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or the portal and all that kind of stuff.

285
01:06:44,833 --> 01:06:46,000
Like, all these big topics.

286
01:06:46,000 --> 01:06:46,500
Yeah.

287
01:06:47,000 --> 01:06:47,083
Right?

288
01:06:47,291 --> 01:06:48,958
And I don't know anything about it.

289
01:06:48,958 --> 01:06:49,125
Yeah.

290
01:06:49,500 --> 01:06:51,250
Not to mention, they can pick out a

291
01:06:51,250 --> 01:06:52,750
player at some college

292
01:06:52,750 --> 01:06:54,375
that they didn't go to, and you're kind

293
01:06:54,375 --> 01:06:55,333
of surprised they follow,

294
01:06:55,333 --> 01:06:56,375
and then name the

295
01:06:56,375 --> 01:06:57,500
stats of that one player.

296
01:06:57,500 --> 01:06:59,916
And it's like, "Wow, that's--that is--"

297
01:06:59,916 --> 01:07:00,291
In detail.

298
01:07:00,791 --> 01:07:01,166
In detail.

299
01:07:01,750 --> 01:07:02,458
Yeah, it's impressive.

300
01:07:02,958 --> 01:07:03,458
It is.

301
01:07:03,833 --> 01:07:05,458
I don't know.

302
01:07:05,458 --> 01:07:06,500
Isn't it just time of life

303
01:07:06,500 --> 01:07:07,916
for us that we don't have that?

304
01:07:08,000 --> 01:07:09,375
No, because most of our peers

305
01:07:09,375 --> 01:07:10,416
are in the same time of life.

306
01:07:10,416 --> 01:07:11,291
So, I mean, they're

307
01:07:11,291 --> 01:07:15,375
literally, A, smarter than me by far,

308
01:07:15,625 --> 01:07:17,333
which I probably say.

309
01:07:18,708 --> 01:07:20,416
I don't think so.

310
01:07:20,416 --> 01:07:23,625
But B, they're substituting time that I

311
01:07:23,625 --> 01:07:24,583
use for something else

312
01:07:25,000 --> 01:07:26,708
to learn about that.

313
01:07:26,708 --> 01:07:26,916
Right.

314
01:07:27,250 --> 01:07:27,500
You know?

315
01:07:27,791 --> 01:07:28,458
It's not like I listen

316
01:07:28,458 --> 01:07:29,166
to a lot of podcasts.

317
01:07:29,375 --> 01:07:31,416
Like, I do listen to Smart List.

318
01:07:31,416 --> 01:07:31,625
Yes.

319
01:07:32,041 --> 01:07:32,666
But I haven't done that.

320
01:07:33,208 --> 01:07:34,500
I mean, like, this week was one of the

321
01:07:34,500 --> 01:07:35,500
first weeks I listened to it

322
01:07:35,500 --> 01:07:36,583
in probably three months.

323
01:07:36,583 --> 01:07:36,833
Right.

324
01:07:37,000 --> 01:07:37,833
Because I've just been busy.

325
01:07:38,333 --> 01:07:38,416
Right.

326
01:07:38,416 --> 01:07:40,083
So, it's not like I'm listening to just,

327
01:07:40,083 --> 01:07:41,708
you know, entertaining type things

328
01:07:41,708 --> 01:07:44,458
or, you know, I don't take in a lot of

329
01:07:44,458 --> 01:07:45,291
television and stuff like that.

330
01:07:45,541 --> 01:07:45,958
No.

331
01:07:45,958 --> 01:07:48,041
But somehow they're spending time

332
01:07:48,041 --> 01:07:48,916
learning that stuff.

333
01:07:49,166 --> 01:07:49,375
Yeah.

334
01:07:49,375 --> 01:07:49,791
And I'm not.

335
01:07:50,083 --> 01:07:51,333
Sometimes I just feel like

336
01:07:51,333 --> 01:07:53,000
I'm so behind the eight ball.

337
01:07:53,833 --> 01:07:55,083
Well, I don't know.

338
01:07:55,083 --> 01:07:58,125
I think you're not behind the eight ball

339
01:07:58,125 --> 01:07:59,375
in a lot of other things.

340
01:07:59,375 --> 01:07:59,541
Of course.

341
01:08:00,000 --> 01:08:03,458
And you are ahead of the eight ball in

342
01:08:03,458 --> 01:08:04,750
all of the things that,

343
01:08:05,000 --> 01:08:06,000
at least for me, count, right?

344
01:08:06,000 --> 01:08:06,750
Yeah.

345
01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:08,500
With family, career.

346
01:08:08,500 --> 01:08:09,208
You're ahead of the

347
01:08:09,208 --> 01:08:10,208
eight ball on all of those.

348
01:08:10,458 --> 01:08:10,791
Yeah.

349
01:08:11,250 --> 01:08:13,583
I'm up to speed on most, you know,

350
01:08:14,375 --> 01:08:15,625
domestic issues, things you'll find

351
01:08:15,625 --> 01:08:18,333
on, you know, in the news, the newspaper.

352
01:08:18,666 --> 01:08:19,333
Absolutely.

353
01:08:19,708 --> 01:08:20,875
I'm fairly educated when

354
01:08:20,875 --> 01:08:21,583
it comes to those things.

355
01:08:21,958 --> 01:08:24,541
But as we all know nowadays, those aren't

356
01:08:24,541 --> 01:08:26,458
really safe topics to talk about

357
01:08:26,458 --> 01:08:27,666
as much these days.

358
01:08:28,000 --> 01:08:29,125
We're not going to have a podcast around those things.

359
01:08:29,125 --> 01:08:29,791
We're not going to have, yeah.

360
01:08:30,000 --> 01:08:31,166
And people who are on the sidelines don't

361
01:08:31,166 --> 01:08:32,083
talk about it that much anymore.

362
01:08:32,500 --> 01:08:32,708
No.

363
01:08:32,916 --> 01:08:34,000
It's just everybody's known it's been

364
01:08:34,000 --> 01:08:35,000
divisive for eight years or so.

365
01:08:35,000 --> 01:08:35,666
Yeah.

366
01:08:36,125 --> 01:08:37,416
Even if we kind of know where we're at,

367
01:08:37,416 --> 01:08:39,500
people don't really, they've learned.

368
01:08:39,666 --> 01:08:40,916
Early on, I think people are like hit you

369
01:08:40,916 --> 01:08:42,541
in the head, like hit you in the face

370
01:08:42,541 --> 01:08:45,041
with this is how I feel about this.

371
01:08:45,041 --> 01:08:46,916
And, you know, I'm standing by this or

372
01:08:46,916 --> 01:08:48,416
I'm totally against this, whatever it

373
01:08:48,416 --> 01:08:48,958
might have been.

374
01:08:49,750 --> 01:08:50,250
Thank goodness.

375
01:08:50,500 --> 01:08:52,625
Most of that I feel like other than some

376
01:08:52,625 --> 01:08:54,500
of the diehards on Facebook or the

377
01:08:54,500 --> 01:08:56,500
diehards and other, you know, social

378
01:08:56,500 --> 01:08:58,875
media where it's not as in your face.

379
01:08:58,875 --> 01:08:59,041
Yeah.

380
01:08:59,041 --> 01:09:00,291
It's definitely not face to face.

381
01:09:00,666 --> 01:09:01,458
No, no.

382
01:09:01,708 --> 01:09:04,000
That's been nice that that's not as much of an issue anymore.

383
01:09:04,000 --> 01:09:06,333
We've all learned to just kind of ignore

384
01:09:06,333 --> 01:09:09,333
and keep it in real life, which is

385
01:09:09,333 --> 01:09:10,291
very small circles.

386
01:09:10,291 --> 01:09:13,208
Probably not great, but anyways, so.

387
01:09:14,333 --> 01:09:14,708
Okay.

388
01:09:14,708 --> 01:09:16,625
Well, you took us deep on that one.

389
01:09:16,625 --> 01:09:16,916
Wow.

390
01:09:16,916 --> 01:09:19,333
We went into political issues like, not

391
01:09:19,333 --> 01:09:21,250
really like some of the current events,

392
01:09:21,250 --> 01:09:22,958
not really, but talking about how people

393
01:09:22,958 --> 01:09:24,083
don't talk about them nowadays.

394
01:09:24,083 --> 01:09:25,000
Because it's just too.

395
01:09:26,375 --> 01:09:29,666
Well, you know, as I mentioned to you

396
01:09:29,666 --> 01:09:32,000
earlier today, we're outside doing some

397
01:09:32,000 --> 01:09:33,166
of the cleanup in the backyard.

398
01:09:33,375 --> 01:09:35,666
And I've got there's three podcasts that

399
01:09:35,666 --> 01:09:39,208
I just I have I have a passion for.

400
01:09:39,541 --> 01:09:39,750
Right.

401
01:09:40,000 --> 01:09:40,333
Right.

402
01:09:40,333 --> 01:09:41,875
One is just the lighthearted.

403
01:09:41,875 --> 01:09:43,583
Let's get your day off to a good start.

404
01:09:43,833 --> 01:09:46,208
You know, stay positive in life, you

405
01:09:46,208 --> 01:09:47,583
know, and you know, I

406
01:09:47,583 --> 01:09:49,541
am someone that I I'm not

407
01:09:49,541 --> 01:09:50,375
a guy that has to

408
01:09:50,375 --> 01:09:52,833
have a saying every day.

409
01:09:53,125 --> 01:09:54,208
Like I need someone to

410
01:09:54,208 --> 01:09:55,666
inspire me today to get out of bed.

411
01:09:55,666 --> 01:09:56,250
I don't need that.

412
01:09:56,250 --> 01:09:57,500
But I enjoy.

413
01:09:58,041 --> 01:09:58,291
Yeah.

414
01:09:59,000 --> 01:10:00,416
I mean, it's a good story, a good

415
01:10:00,416 --> 01:10:02,083
inspiring quote or something like that.

416
01:10:02,083 --> 01:10:04,458
You know, they just they can sometimes

417
01:10:04,458 --> 01:10:06,375
really resonate with you like.

418
01:10:07,500 --> 01:10:07,708
Yeah.

419
01:10:08,000 --> 01:10:09,625
And it's not every time that you hear one

420
01:10:09,625 --> 01:10:10,208
that you're like, oh,

421
01:10:10,208 --> 01:10:11,833
that that's the one,

422
01:10:11,833 --> 01:10:13,125
you know, but every now and again, you

423
01:10:13,125 --> 01:10:14,875
get those that are really that resonate.

424
01:10:14,875 --> 01:10:17,000
But I mean, your podcast, you know, your

425
01:10:17,000 --> 01:10:19,083
morning serial podcast is

426
01:10:19,083 --> 01:10:21,500
such a great way to start

427
01:10:21,500 --> 01:10:22,958
the day on a positive note.

428
01:10:22,958 --> 01:10:23,625
It's funny.

429
01:10:23,625 --> 01:10:24,083
It's quippy.

430
01:10:25,000 --> 01:10:26,958
And yet you also talk about how to get

431
01:10:26,958 --> 01:10:28,500
better as you read through

432
01:10:28,500 --> 01:10:30,583
self-motivation books.

433
01:10:30,875 --> 01:10:31,041
Yeah.

434
01:10:31,333 --> 01:10:31,541
Yeah.

435
01:10:31,625 --> 01:10:31,666
Yeah.

436
01:10:31,666 --> 01:10:33,166
And my original degree was in psychology.

437
01:10:33,458 --> 01:10:33,625
Yeah.

438
01:10:33,833 --> 01:10:34,125
Right.

439
01:10:34,125 --> 01:10:35,958
So I had a little bit of a interest in

440
01:10:35,958 --> 01:10:37,500
that because I got my initial

441
01:10:37,500 --> 01:10:38,375
undergraduate degrees

442
01:10:38,500 --> 01:10:39,125
in that.

443
01:10:39,125 --> 01:10:41,166
I think some of that was to make sure I

444
01:10:41,166 --> 01:10:42,083
wasn't the crazy one.

445
01:10:43,958 --> 01:10:46,000
Knowing the family I grew up in and

446
01:10:46,000 --> 01:10:47,666
again, not trying to dig

447
01:10:47,666 --> 01:10:49,916
up any old ghosts there

448
01:10:49,916 --> 01:10:50,291
or whatever.

449
01:10:50,708 --> 01:10:52,000
But but yeah, there

450
01:10:52,000 --> 01:10:53,041
was a little bit of that.

451
01:10:53,041 --> 01:10:53,333
Yeah.

452
01:10:54,000 --> 01:10:55,125
And obviously you're not going to make

453
01:10:55,125 --> 01:10:55,708
any money with a

454
01:10:55,708 --> 01:10:57,083
psychology degree unless you

455
01:10:57,083 --> 01:10:58,125
continue on in it.

456
01:10:58,125 --> 01:10:58,333
Right.

457
01:10:58,333 --> 01:10:59,208
You're going to be a doctorate.

458
01:10:59,208 --> 01:11:01,833
But my point was, so I've

459
01:11:01,833 --> 01:11:03,083
got that one lighthearted.

460
01:11:03,500 --> 01:11:03,708
Yeah.

461
01:11:03,708 --> 01:11:04,083
You know, you're not

462
01:11:04,083 --> 01:11:05,166
digging into anything.

463
01:11:05,166 --> 01:11:05,708
You know, it's not

464
01:11:05,708 --> 01:11:07,458
super, super sophisticated.

465
01:11:07,875 --> 01:11:09,500
You know, it's not overly educational

466
01:11:09,500 --> 01:11:11,708
from, you know, I mean,

467
01:11:11,875 --> 01:11:12,875
I've been in finance for

468
01:11:12,875 --> 01:11:13,625
25 years.

469
01:11:13,625 --> 01:11:15,500
So, you know, I don't it's not like I'm

470
01:11:15,500 --> 01:11:16,916
having a finance talk show.

471
01:11:16,916 --> 01:11:17,333
Right.

472
01:11:17,333 --> 01:11:18,833
I'm talking about leverage and debt

473
01:11:18,833 --> 01:11:20,208
ratios and, you know,

474
01:11:20,208 --> 01:11:21,583
syndicated deals and, you know,

475
01:11:21,583 --> 01:11:22,625
where the markets are at.

476
01:11:22,916 --> 01:11:23,291
None of that.

477
01:11:23,791 --> 01:11:24,000
Right.

478
01:11:24,208 --> 01:11:26,041
And then we have this podcast, which I

479
01:11:26,041 --> 01:11:27,583
think is great for just

480
01:11:27,583 --> 01:11:30,000
kind of it's kind of light

481
01:11:30,000 --> 01:11:30,375
levity.

482
01:11:30,750 --> 01:11:30,916
Yeah.

483
01:11:30,916 --> 01:11:31,791
This is more of like the

484
01:11:31,791 --> 01:11:33,833
domestic type things, right?

485
01:11:33,833 --> 01:11:37,333
This is about family life stories.

486
01:11:38,250 --> 01:11:38,583
Yeah.

487
01:11:38,583 --> 01:11:40,125
You know, like I said,

488
01:11:40,125 --> 01:11:41,916
it's your date night topics.

489
01:11:41,916 --> 01:11:42,250
Yeah.

490
01:11:42,666 --> 01:11:42,875
Yeah.

491
01:11:43,083 --> 01:11:44,541
You know, what did you do this week?

492
01:11:44,750 --> 01:11:46,625
And sometimes you do have a serious topic

493
01:11:46,625 --> 01:11:48,583
or two in which we have got it.

494
01:11:48,583 --> 01:11:49,750
Like last week, we talked a little bit

495
01:11:49,750 --> 01:11:50,750
about, you know, code

496
01:11:50,750 --> 01:11:52,125
reds and, you know, the kids,

497
01:11:52,375 --> 01:11:55,208
you know, being locked down in school.

498
01:11:56,000 --> 01:11:57,500
But I've got the third podcast, which is

499
01:11:57,500 --> 01:11:58,750
called Life Happens.

500
01:11:58,750 --> 01:11:58,958
Yes.

501
01:11:59,458 --> 01:12:00,583
And I haven't done anything with it

502
01:12:00,583 --> 01:12:02,250
because my initial thought of

503
01:12:02,250 --> 01:12:03,541
that was I want to interview

504
01:12:03,541 --> 01:12:07,166
people that have had like a really good

505
01:12:07,166 --> 01:12:08,791
story of overcoming an

506
01:12:08,791 --> 01:12:10,625
obstacle and continue on

507
01:12:10,625 --> 01:12:12,000
to persevere and be successful.

508
01:12:12,958 --> 01:12:15,875
And I haven't pursued it greatly.

509
01:12:16,916 --> 01:12:20,291
I did put some things out there just to

510
01:12:20,291 --> 01:12:22,041
see if anybody, you

511
01:12:22,041 --> 01:12:24,000
know, wanted to be on that

512
01:12:24,000 --> 01:12:25,708
show and talk through some of those.

513
01:12:25,958 --> 01:12:27,041
Because the intent of that show is that

514
01:12:27,041 --> 01:12:28,500
that's a show I want to dig in on.

515
01:12:28,833 --> 01:12:29,000
Yeah.

516
01:12:29,041 --> 01:12:31,041
I want to have that show has teeth, like

517
01:12:31,041 --> 01:12:32,041
to talk about real

518
01:12:32,041 --> 01:12:35,750
subjects, you know, or I could

519
01:12:35,750 --> 01:12:38,458
unpack Maya bringing a little bit more.

520
01:12:38,458 --> 01:12:38,666
Right.

521
01:12:38,750 --> 01:12:40,541
You know, unpack some of these other

522
01:12:40,541 --> 01:12:42,083
issues a little bit more

523
01:12:42,083 --> 01:12:43,000
in there, but still in a

524
01:12:43,000 --> 01:12:45,041
positive direction and personal growth.

525
01:12:45,041 --> 01:12:45,250
Right.

526
01:12:45,791 --> 01:12:47,958
And if you look at the website, you know,

527
01:12:47,958 --> 01:12:49,041
that's what it talks about.

528
01:12:49,041 --> 01:12:51,750
You know, it's just this hierarchy of,

529
01:12:51,750 --> 01:12:52,791
you know, kind of where you

530
01:12:52,791 --> 01:12:54,041
are in this self-improvement

531
01:12:54,041 --> 01:12:54,541
journey.

532
01:12:54,541 --> 01:12:54,833
Right.

533
01:12:54,833 --> 01:12:55,083
Right.

534
01:12:55,083 --> 01:12:56,000
Until you get to a point

535
01:12:56,000 --> 01:12:57,958
that's a very healthy individual.

536
01:12:58,375 --> 01:12:59,458
And we're all in there somewhere.

537
01:12:59,708 --> 01:12:59,958
Yeah.

538
01:13:00,750 --> 01:13:01,958
And I think it's fluid to some degree.

539
01:13:01,958 --> 01:13:03,458
Sometimes you make it up there and it's

540
01:13:03,458 --> 01:13:04,625
like sliding and then

541
01:13:04,625 --> 01:13:05,708
you have some slide back.

542
01:13:05,708 --> 01:13:05,958
Right.

543
01:13:06,250 --> 01:13:06,791
Life's like that.

544
01:13:07,333 --> 01:13:08,750
But I talked about maybe you and I may be

545
01:13:08,750 --> 01:13:09,583
doing some of that and

546
01:13:09,583 --> 01:13:10,375
taking on some bigger

547
01:13:10,375 --> 01:13:11,875
issues and we're just,

548
01:13:11,875 --> 01:13:12,708
they were chewing on it.

549
01:13:12,875 --> 01:13:13,125
Right.

550
01:13:13,958 --> 01:13:15,083
And it's not that anybody needs more or

551
01:13:15,083 --> 01:13:16,750
wants more of us, but I

552
01:13:16,750 --> 01:13:18,208
do think there's room.

553
01:13:18,750 --> 01:13:19,583
And even if it's just for

554
01:13:19,583 --> 01:13:22,000
us, like this is fun for us.

555
01:13:22,000 --> 01:13:22,208
Yeah.

556
01:13:22,458 --> 01:13:24,041
But maybe that's also for us to, you

557
01:13:24,041 --> 01:13:24,875
know, get some of those

558
01:13:24,875 --> 01:13:28,125
bigger issue, deeper issue.

559
01:13:28,708 --> 01:13:28,916
Yeah.

560
01:13:29,625 --> 01:13:30,833
Type items out there.

561
01:13:30,833 --> 01:13:31,208
I don't know.

562
01:13:31,458 --> 01:13:31,666
Yeah.

563
01:13:31,833 --> 01:13:32,500
It's interesting.

564
01:13:32,500 --> 01:13:33,125
We're chewing on it.

565
01:13:33,500 --> 01:13:34,166
Chewing on it.

566
01:13:35,333 --> 01:13:36,875
But what I was not chewing on was food.

567
01:13:37,166 --> 01:13:39,125
You were not chewing on food.

568
01:13:39,125 --> 01:13:40,833
Oh, that was a great transition.

569
01:13:42,708 --> 01:13:43,333
That's a high five.

570
01:13:43,750 --> 01:13:45,541
That's like a third or fourth high five.

571
01:13:46,000 --> 01:13:46,208
I know.

572
01:13:47,000 --> 01:13:48,041
I did feel I love the,

573
01:13:48,041 --> 01:13:49,000
I love a good high five.

574
01:13:49,000 --> 01:13:50,041
You should probably work one in like

575
01:13:50,041 --> 01:13:51,083
every couple episodes

576
01:13:51,083 --> 01:13:52,000
we should, you know, high

577
01:13:52,000 --> 01:13:52,166
five.

578
01:13:52,500 --> 01:13:54,291
But that was a great transition because

579
01:13:54,291 --> 01:13:56,583
you, you were, I was, I

580
01:13:56,583 --> 01:13:57,375
did tell you how proud

581
01:13:57,375 --> 01:14:00,833
I was of you that the morning when, when

582
01:14:00,833 --> 01:14:01,500
you actually broke

583
01:14:01,500 --> 01:14:04,000
your fast at breakfast.

584
01:14:04,000 --> 01:14:07,333
But yeah, you went on a, was it 60 hours?

585
01:14:07,708 --> 01:14:08,833
It ended up being 60.

586
01:14:09,041 --> 01:14:09,250
Yep.

587
01:14:09,458 --> 01:14:09,625
60.

588
01:14:09,916 --> 01:14:10,333
60.

589
01:14:10,333 --> 01:14:10,541
Wow.

590
01:14:12,791 --> 01:14:13,500
I've been thinking

591
01:14:13,500 --> 01:14:14,708
about this for a while.

592
01:14:15,041 --> 01:14:15,250
Yeah.

593
01:14:15,666 --> 01:14:17,208
But you did not tell me you were on a

594
01:14:17,208 --> 01:14:20,416
fast until like, well

595
01:14:20,416 --> 01:14:23,125
until that evening and I

596
01:14:23,125 --> 01:14:24,500
was like, Hey, do you want me to get you

597
01:14:24,500 --> 01:14:25,208
something for dinner?

598
01:14:25,416 --> 01:14:26,333
Cause you were running out of the house

599
01:14:26,333 --> 01:14:27,000
with one of the kids.

600
01:14:27,041 --> 01:14:27,500
Right.

601
01:14:27,500 --> 01:14:28,208
And I was like, what do you want me to

602
01:14:28,208 --> 01:14:29,458
make you so that you

603
01:14:29,458 --> 01:14:30,250
can take it with you?

604
01:14:30,250 --> 01:14:30,500
Right.

605
01:14:31,500 --> 01:14:32,583
You're like, I'm fasting today.

606
01:14:32,583 --> 01:14:33,875
You didn't even tell me about it.

607
01:14:33,875 --> 01:14:35,416
So what made you pick that day?

608
01:14:35,416 --> 01:14:36,291
I have to know.

609
01:14:37,500 --> 01:14:39,416
I knew I'd done it before to some degree

610
01:14:39,416 --> 01:14:40,833
for, you know, 18

611
01:14:40,833 --> 01:14:42,250
hours at a time or whatnot.

612
01:14:42,375 --> 01:14:43,541
And it's fine if I'm

613
01:14:43,541 --> 01:14:44,416
not thinking about it.

614
01:14:44,833 --> 01:14:46,208
And then I've heard, and I did some

615
01:14:46,208 --> 01:14:47,041
research that there's some

616
01:14:47,041 --> 01:14:49,541
really great health benefits

617
01:14:49,541 --> 01:14:50,250
from it.

618
01:14:50,250 --> 01:14:50,458
Yeah.

619
01:14:51,208 --> 01:14:51,416
Right.

620
01:14:51,791 --> 01:14:53,750
So plus you and I have always talked.

621
01:14:54,083 --> 01:14:55,333
I mean, I talked to you a lot about like,

622
01:14:55,333 --> 01:14:56,083
I just, you need to

623
01:14:56,083 --> 01:14:57,583
help me watch my portions.

624
01:14:58,083 --> 01:14:58,458
I love eating.

625
01:14:58,625 --> 01:14:59,458
I love eating.

626
01:14:59,958 --> 01:15:00,833
You know, you're a great cook.

627
01:15:01,500 --> 01:15:02,833
We eat very well, you

628
01:15:02,833 --> 01:15:03,500
know, and it's hard.

629
01:15:03,708 --> 01:15:05,000
It tastes so good in my mouth.

630
01:15:06,625 --> 01:15:07,708
So I want to put more.

631
01:15:07,916 --> 01:15:09,333
I want more in my mouth.

632
01:15:09,333 --> 01:15:09,541
Right.

633
01:15:09,791 --> 01:15:10,000
Exactly.

634
01:15:12,166 --> 01:15:14,833
So this time I did it and I didn't tell

635
01:15:14,833 --> 01:15:18,041
you because I don't know.

636
01:15:18,041 --> 01:15:20,291
I mean, I don't know that you're someone

637
01:15:20,291 --> 01:15:22,208
that would get on board with doing fast.

638
01:15:22,583 --> 01:15:24,583
And I didn't want to make you feel bad

639
01:15:24,583 --> 01:15:25,791
about eating around me

640
01:15:25,791 --> 01:15:27,583
because I was on a fast.

641
01:15:28,833 --> 01:15:30,333
You know, so the longer I could hold off

642
01:15:30,333 --> 01:15:31,166
telling you, like, I didn't

643
01:15:31,166 --> 01:15:32,000
want you to feel bad eating

644
01:15:32,083 --> 01:15:33,791
around me because I don't think a fast,

645
01:15:34,458 --> 01:15:35,375
correct me if I'm wrong,

646
01:15:35,375 --> 01:15:37,250
but maybe you will do it

647
01:15:37,250 --> 01:15:37,958
in the future with me.

648
01:15:37,958 --> 01:15:38,958
But you're not.

649
01:15:39,416 --> 01:15:40,333
You like eating too.

650
01:15:41,416 --> 01:15:44,083
All 105 pounds of you prove that.

651
01:15:44,083 --> 01:15:44,208
Right.

652
01:15:44,208 --> 01:15:45,541
I mean, you're lucky.

653
01:15:46,083 --> 01:15:48,208
Some of us are not as lucky, right, to be

654
01:15:48,208 --> 01:15:49,541
able to eat whatever

655
01:15:49,541 --> 01:15:51,000
we want and still stay

656
01:15:51,000 --> 01:15:51,375
small.

657
01:15:52,208 --> 01:15:55,250
Well, I mean, you are not by any means

658
01:15:55,250 --> 01:15:56,833
like roly poly, honey.

659
01:15:57,083 --> 01:15:58,208
So I think it's OK.

660
01:15:59,500 --> 01:16:01,458
I mean, I think you actually did it more

661
01:16:01,458 --> 01:16:02,541
for health benefits.

662
01:16:02,833 --> 01:16:04,125
I mean, yeah, there's a nice side effect

663
01:16:04,125 --> 01:16:05,750
of you could lose weight.

664
01:16:06,000 --> 01:16:07,583
And I mean, you were saying like water

665
01:16:07,583 --> 01:16:09,125
weight even just like.

666
01:16:09,500 --> 01:16:09,708
Yeah.

667
01:16:09,708 --> 01:16:10,708
Well, it's not about losing weight.

668
01:16:11,208 --> 01:16:13,083
Actually, it's about once you get past a

669
01:16:13,083 --> 01:16:14,208
certain point and I

670
01:16:14,208 --> 01:16:15,625
it's not exactly specific

671
01:16:15,625 --> 01:16:16,833
and I didn't do enough research.

672
01:16:16,833 --> 01:16:17,666
I didn't take the time because there's a

673
01:16:17,666 --> 01:16:18,708
lot of other stuff going on.

674
01:16:19,166 --> 01:16:20,875
But I think once you get past a certain

675
01:16:20,875 --> 01:16:22,333
point, 24 hours or so,

676
01:16:23,000 --> 01:16:24,291
the body at that point has

677
01:16:24,291 --> 01:16:25,833
already burned off all the calories that

678
01:16:25,833 --> 01:16:27,750
you ate from your previous meal.

679
01:16:28,250 --> 01:16:28,458
Right.

680
01:16:28,916 --> 01:16:30,833
And then it starts, I think, burning

681
01:16:30,833 --> 01:16:32,500
glucose that's stored up

682
01:16:32,500 --> 01:16:33,625
in muscles and protein and

683
01:16:33,750 --> 01:16:34,000
whatnot.

684
01:16:34,500 --> 01:16:35,625
And then but that only lasts for a short

685
01:16:35,625 --> 01:16:37,500
period of time after that point.

686
01:16:38,083 --> 01:16:40,541
Your body then starts burning, looking

687
01:16:40,541 --> 01:16:43,708
for fuel in store fat.

688
01:16:44,125 --> 01:16:45,041
Yeah, which is good.

689
01:16:45,041 --> 01:16:45,875
So then it starts eating

690
01:16:45,875 --> 01:16:46,958
store fat, which is good.

691
01:16:47,166 --> 01:16:48,500
And that's one good side ones because

692
01:16:48,500 --> 01:16:50,416
then so the body, you

693
01:16:50,416 --> 01:16:51,208
know, there's something with

694
01:16:51,208 --> 01:16:53,666
like insulin receptors and

695
01:16:53,666 --> 01:16:55,000
uptake and all this kind of stuff.

696
01:16:55,000 --> 01:16:56,166
So those either turn

697
01:16:56,166 --> 01:16:57,375
off, turn on or turn off.

698
01:16:57,375 --> 01:16:58,666
I can't remember what it is right now.

699
01:16:59,416 --> 01:17:01,375
So there's like these two benefits.

700
01:17:01,375 --> 01:17:04,000
But one of the big benefits is that at

701
01:17:04,000 --> 01:17:05,208
some point, researchers

702
01:17:05,208 --> 01:17:07,083
believe after that 24 hour

703
01:17:07,708 --> 01:17:10,875
to 48 and further, because the body is no

704
01:17:10,875 --> 01:17:13,166
longer focusing on

705
01:17:13,166 --> 01:17:16,708
digestion, it turns its

706
01:17:16,708 --> 01:17:19,208
focus elsewhere and it turns its focus to

707
01:17:19,208 --> 01:17:20,958
cleaning up unhealthy

708
01:17:20,958 --> 01:17:23,166
cells, you know, cells

709
01:17:23,166 --> 01:17:24,666
that should be cleaned out of the body.

710
01:17:25,041 --> 01:17:28,208
So the benefits of like regeneration and

711
01:17:28,208 --> 01:17:29,375
clearing out dead cells.

712
01:17:29,541 --> 01:17:33,041
So there's been some, I think, research

713
01:17:33,041 --> 01:17:34,791
that shows like for it's

714
01:17:34,791 --> 01:17:35,583
helpful for like helping

715
01:17:36,000 --> 01:17:37,500
to prevent Alzheimer's.

716
01:17:37,708 --> 01:17:38,500
And, you know, that's one of those

717
01:17:38,500 --> 01:17:39,458
indicators that I have when

718
01:17:39,458 --> 01:17:40,708
we took our blood tests and,

719
01:17:40,958 --> 01:17:42,625
you know, 23 and me and whatnot, you

720
01:17:42,625 --> 01:17:43,500
know, so I mean, like,

721
01:17:43,500 --> 01:17:44,333
those are one of those things

722
01:17:44,333 --> 01:17:45,333
that I'm thinking about.

723
01:17:45,333 --> 01:17:45,958
Is there anything I can

724
01:17:45,958 --> 01:17:47,708
do with living healthy?

725
01:17:48,125 --> 01:17:50,375
Yeah, to maybe prevent that, you know,

726
01:17:50,375 --> 01:17:50,958
because I don't want to

727
01:17:50,958 --> 01:17:54,250
be 74, you know, or 64, 54,

728
01:17:54,708 --> 01:17:56,708
you know, and have a disease catch me off

729
01:17:56,708 --> 01:17:58,333
guard if I if there's something I can do.

730
01:17:59,500 --> 01:18:00,416
That's relatively easy.

731
01:18:00,791 --> 01:18:03,041
So I went 60 hours, it was hard the last

732
01:18:03,041 --> 01:18:04,833
12 or overnight, and I

733
01:18:04,833 --> 01:18:05,916
was dreaming about eating.

734
01:18:06,916 --> 01:18:09,666
I was up a lot that night.

735
01:18:10,166 --> 01:18:11,500
I was hungry that night.

736
01:18:12,958 --> 01:18:14,000
And then I had that breakfast in the

737
01:18:14,000 --> 01:18:14,583
morning, I put it on

738
01:18:14,583 --> 01:18:16,708
Instagram, but I probably could

739
01:18:16,708 --> 01:18:18,000
have gone further that day.

740
01:18:19,166 --> 01:18:19,583
I feel like I'm

741
01:18:19,583 --> 01:18:20,875
talking, I am talking a lot.

742
01:18:20,875 --> 01:18:21,833
I've talked 80% of the

743
01:18:21,833 --> 01:18:22,541
time on this podcast.

744
01:18:22,791 --> 01:18:23,500
I'm sorry, everybody.

745
01:18:24,333 --> 01:18:28,000
But you know, but I think 48 hours is

746
01:18:28,000 --> 01:18:29,625
good, especially if you do it.

747
01:18:30,208 --> 01:18:32,291
A true I was on a liquid coffee.

748
01:18:32,416 --> 01:18:33,375
Yeah, one.

749
01:18:33,500 --> 01:18:33,833
Yeah.

750
01:18:34,416 --> 01:18:35,833
And halfway through it, I figured out I

751
01:18:35,833 --> 01:18:37,250
was topping my coffee off

752
01:18:37,250 --> 01:18:38,125
with cream that I thought

753
01:18:38,125 --> 01:18:39,083
was non caloric.

754
01:18:40,000 --> 01:18:41,000
It's no sugar, but it

755
01:18:41,000 --> 01:18:42,083
does have some calories.

756
01:18:43,000 --> 01:18:45,583
So the fact that I probably had 80

757
01:18:45,583 --> 01:18:48,083
calories in the first 24 or 30 hours.

758
01:18:49,000 --> 01:18:50,500
And don't get me wrong, that's a lot less

759
01:18:50,500 --> 01:18:51,791
than I normally eat.

760
01:18:51,791 --> 01:18:53,250
I was like, that's not enough to.

761
01:18:53,583 --> 01:18:55,833
But that allows the body it doesn't

762
01:18:55,833 --> 01:18:56,916
trigger some of those

763
01:18:56,916 --> 01:18:59,000
health benefit triggers if you

764
01:18:59,000 --> 01:18:59,500
have that.

765
01:19:00,000 --> 01:19:01,791
I think I'm going to try to do 48 hour.

766
01:19:03,958 --> 01:19:07,500
A 40 hour fast every month is what I

767
01:19:07,500 --> 01:19:08,250
think I'm going to do,

768
01:19:08,250 --> 01:19:09,291
which was pretty easy.

769
01:19:09,291 --> 01:19:10,000
The first day was hard.

770
01:19:10,541 --> 01:19:10,750
Yeah.

771
01:19:11,125 --> 01:19:11,333
Yeah.

772
01:19:12,791 --> 01:19:13,375
If you get to the first

773
01:19:13,375 --> 01:19:14,666
day, the second day was cake.

774
01:19:15,375 --> 01:19:16,166
Didn't even think about it.

775
01:19:16,166 --> 01:19:17,000
Wasn't hungry at all.

776
01:19:18,125 --> 01:19:20,083
See, that's crazy to me that by the

777
01:19:20,083 --> 01:19:21,333
second day, you're like, yeah, it's fine.

778
01:19:21,708 --> 01:19:22,833
That's what most people say.

779
01:19:22,833 --> 01:19:25,333
I mean, from what I've researched.

780
01:19:25,791 --> 01:19:26,875
Well, we watched that show.

781
01:19:26,875 --> 01:19:27,875
It was really interesting.

782
01:19:28,500 --> 01:19:29,833
So I'm just going to start calling you

783
01:19:29,833 --> 01:19:31,000
Chris Hemsworth, right?

784
01:19:31,708 --> 01:19:32,583
Well, for a lot of reasons.

785
01:19:32,875 --> 01:19:33,708
For a lot of reasons.

786
01:19:34,208 --> 01:19:34,416
Yeah.

787
01:19:34,666 --> 01:19:35,958
You look just like him.

788
01:19:36,416 --> 01:19:37,750
Like your beautiful blue eyes.

789
01:19:37,750 --> 01:19:38,250
Yeah, my beautiful

790
01:19:38,250 --> 01:19:39,500
blue eyes, my blonde hair.

791
01:19:39,708 --> 01:19:40,250
Actually, I don't even

792
01:19:40,250 --> 01:19:41,000
know if he has blue eyes.

793
01:19:41,000 --> 01:19:41,750
My Thor physique.

794
01:19:42,125 --> 01:19:42,875
Thor physique.

795
01:19:43,125 --> 01:19:45,208
I mean, I am 6'4", just like he is too.

796
01:19:47,750 --> 01:19:49,708
I mean, I am his doppelganger, basically.

797
01:19:49,916 --> 01:19:50,416
You're his doppelganger.

798
01:19:50,416 --> 01:19:51,750
Actually, we are friends with a guy

799
01:19:51,750 --> 01:19:53,041
that's close to his doppelganger.

800
01:19:53,666 --> 01:19:53,916
Yeah.

801
01:19:54,500 --> 01:19:54,708
Yeah.

802
01:19:55,166 --> 01:19:56,458
But it's, yeah.

803
01:19:56,750 --> 01:19:57,833
You get stopped all the time.

804
01:19:57,833 --> 01:19:58,750
Is his name Chris also?

805
01:19:59,958 --> 01:20:00,166
Yeah.

806
01:20:00,666 --> 01:20:01,541
I just put that together.

807
01:20:02,875 --> 01:20:03,291
Coincidence?

808
01:20:04,041 --> 01:20:04,333
Yeah.

809
01:20:04,333 --> 01:20:05,083
I think not.

810
01:20:05,083 --> 01:20:05,583
Dun, dun, dun.

811
01:20:05,833 --> 01:20:06,958
No, I'm just kidding.

812
01:20:07,333 --> 01:20:07,541
Anyway.

813
01:20:08,208 --> 01:20:11,458
But he did a whole show, Limitless.

814
01:20:11,458 --> 01:20:13,875
And it's these things that are, yeah,

815
01:20:13,875 --> 01:20:14,625
they were to help him

816
01:20:14,625 --> 01:20:16,250
live longer and stuff like

817
01:20:16,250 --> 01:20:16,541
that.

818
01:20:16,541 --> 01:20:16,875
And one of the things.

819
01:20:16,875 --> 01:20:17,833
I think he had the same thing though.

820
01:20:18,125 --> 01:20:20,083
He saw that he had this like Alzheimer's

821
01:20:20,083 --> 01:20:21,166
flag or something like that.

822
01:20:21,416 --> 01:20:21,708
He did, yeah.

823
01:20:21,916 --> 01:20:22,500
In fact, they made kind

824
01:20:22,500 --> 01:20:23,291
of a bigger deal of it.

825
01:20:23,291 --> 01:20:25,041
Like he's coming down with Alzheimer's.

826
01:20:25,041 --> 01:20:25,541
He's not.

827
01:20:25,541 --> 01:20:25,791
He's not.

828
01:20:27,041 --> 01:20:27,291
I know.

829
01:20:28,166 --> 01:20:28,500
It's true.

830
01:20:28,958 --> 01:20:29,750
We aren't friends

831
01:20:29,750 --> 01:20:31,666
with him, nor his doctor.

832
01:20:31,666 --> 01:20:32,208
So we don't know.

833
01:20:32,625 --> 01:20:35,000
But he was talking about the fast and he

834
01:20:35,000 --> 01:20:37,291
did say that first day was really hard.

835
01:20:38,500 --> 01:20:39,583
I remember there's actually a scene.

836
01:20:39,583 --> 01:20:41,041
He's like cooking bacon for his kids and

837
01:20:41,041 --> 01:20:42,875
he's like, I hate this.

838
01:20:43,791 --> 01:20:44,000
You know?

839
01:20:44,375 --> 01:20:44,583
Yeah.

840
01:20:45,458 --> 01:20:47,041
Which, you know, at least I didn't cook

841
01:20:47,041 --> 01:20:47,875
bacon while you are on

842
01:20:47,875 --> 01:20:48,791
your fast because that's

843
01:20:48,791 --> 01:20:49,833
one of those things that.

844
01:20:49,833 --> 01:20:50,083
Yeah.

845
01:20:50,666 --> 01:20:51,958
It just smells so good.

846
01:20:52,458 --> 01:20:52,666
Yeah.

847
01:20:52,750 --> 01:20:53,458
That dinner that night was

848
01:20:53,458 --> 01:20:54,208
really good that you cooked.

849
01:20:54,583 --> 01:20:56,625
So anyways, yeah.

850
01:20:56,666 --> 01:20:57,875
That was interesting.

851
01:20:57,875 --> 01:20:58,958
That was my first one, really.

852
01:20:59,416 --> 01:21:01,666
It was funny because I've got a cousin

853
01:21:01,666 --> 01:21:04,541
that I sent an Instagram out to.

854
01:21:04,541 --> 01:21:04,791
Yeah.

855
01:21:05,500 --> 01:21:06,166
Or I sent an

856
01:21:06,166 --> 01:21:07,375
Instagram out saying 60 hours.

857
01:21:07,375 --> 01:21:07,750
I made it.

858
01:21:08,083 --> 01:21:08,958
Anybody up for the next one?

859
01:21:08,958 --> 01:21:10,958
Well, he texted me back almost

860
01:21:10,958 --> 01:21:13,333
immediately later that day.

861
01:21:13,333 --> 01:21:14,500
He was like, I just

862
01:21:14,500 --> 01:21:16,666
finished a 61 hour fast.

863
01:21:17,458 --> 01:21:18,500
He beat you by an hour.

864
01:21:18,500 --> 01:21:20,458
Yes, I know he's lying about that.

865
01:21:20,458 --> 01:21:22,125
I mean, oh, it just so happened.

866
01:21:22,791 --> 01:21:23,000
61.

867
01:21:23,375 --> 01:21:24,166
60 hours in five minutes.

868
01:21:24,500 --> 01:21:25,041
Yeah, exactly.

869
01:21:25,375 --> 01:21:26,000
That's five minutes more.

870
01:21:27,416 --> 01:21:27,791
Excuse me.

871
01:21:28,166 --> 01:21:28,875
Anyways, but he's trying

872
01:21:28,875 --> 01:21:30,541
to do a hundred hour fast.

873
01:21:31,000 --> 01:21:31,500
Whoo.

874
01:21:31,791 --> 01:21:33,166
Which seems crazy.

875
01:21:33,541 --> 01:21:35,000
I mean, that seems too much to me.

876
01:21:35,458 --> 01:21:36,375
48 seems about right.

877
01:21:36,708 --> 01:21:36,916
Yeah.

878
01:21:37,500 --> 01:21:37,708
Yeah.

879
01:21:38,333 --> 01:21:39,916
And I'll be curious if on the next one,

880
01:21:39,916 --> 01:21:40,791
if it's different

881
01:21:40,791 --> 01:21:43,500
because I can't cheat on that.

882
01:21:43,500 --> 01:21:45,041
That first 30 hours I had that creamer

883
01:21:45,041 --> 01:21:46,000
and I didn't realize it.

884
01:21:46,000 --> 01:21:46,291
Yeah.

885
01:21:47,000 --> 01:21:49,875
So maybe that maybe I would have felt a

886
01:21:49,875 --> 01:21:51,208
lot more hungry the first

887
01:21:51,208 --> 01:21:52,208
or second day if I hadn't

888
01:21:52,208 --> 01:21:52,625
done that.

889
01:21:53,833 --> 01:21:54,791
Maybe easier because you

890
01:21:54,791 --> 01:21:56,625
know what to expect more now.

891
01:21:57,500 --> 01:21:58,208
I don't know.

892
01:21:58,208 --> 01:21:58,958
I'm not sure.

893
01:21:59,416 --> 01:22:00,208
Yeah, I'm excited for it.

894
01:22:00,208 --> 01:22:00,958
So I'll do one in April.

895
01:22:01,208 --> 01:22:02,208
You're excited for it.

896
01:22:02,541 --> 01:22:02,916
I am.

897
01:22:03,291 --> 01:22:03,583
Yeah.

898
01:22:03,583 --> 01:22:05,500
That's a little masochistic, but okay.

899
01:22:06,166 --> 01:22:09,041
Well, I mean, I always, I mean, as you

900
01:22:09,041 --> 01:22:10,500
get older, you want to

901
01:22:10,500 --> 01:22:11,416
take care of your body.

902
01:22:11,708 --> 01:22:11,958
Yeah.

903
01:22:12,125 --> 01:22:13,916
And we are not getting younger.

904
01:22:14,833 --> 01:22:15,750
You know, and I think that's one of the

905
01:22:15,750 --> 01:22:16,541
things that, you know, a

906
01:22:16,541 --> 01:22:17,291
lot of people, I think that

907
01:22:17,291 --> 01:22:18,875
listen to her in the same age group or

908
01:22:18,875 --> 01:22:20,166
they've been through this before.

909
01:22:20,458 --> 01:22:22,416
And if you're even, even if you're at an

910
01:22:22,416 --> 01:22:23,833
older age, it's even

911
01:22:23,833 --> 01:22:24,750
more important probably

912
01:22:24,750 --> 01:22:27,416
to take care of your body and making

913
01:22:27,416 --> 01:22:28,875
healthy decisions, you

914
01:22:28,875 --> 01:22:30,125
know, just to try and make

915
01:22:30,125 --> 01:22:32,125
sure that those, you know, older years

916
01:22:32,125 --> 01:22:33,500
are healthy and enjoyable.

917
01:22:34,000 --> 01:22:34,166
Right.

918
01:22:34,541 --> 01:22:34,750
Right.

919
01:22:35,250 --> 01:22:35,625
You know?

920
01:22:36,125 --> 01:22:36,375
Yeah.

921
01:22:37,708 --> 01:22:38,166
All right.

922
01:22:38,166 --> 01:22:39,375
Well, I just talked for 20 minutes.

923
01:22:39,375 --> 01:22:40,208
So it's your turn to talk.

924
01:22:40,666 --> 01:22:41,000
I don't know.

925
01:22:41,000 --> 01:22:42,000
I told you that morning.

926
01:22:42,000 --> 01:22:42,958
I was like, I'm really proud of you.

927
01:22:42,958 --> 01:22:44,125
I didn't want to say too much at the time

928
01:22:44,125 --> 01:22:45,041
because it's one of those things.

929
01:22:45,041 --> 01:22:47,208
Like if I keep bringing it up, like, oh

930
01:22:47,208 --> 01:22:48,083
my gosh, it's so cool.

931
01:22:48,083 --> 01:22:48,958
You're on this faster.

932
01:22:48,958 --> 01:22:49,708
I'm so proud of you.

933
01:22:50,125 --> 01:22:50,500
You're so great.

934
01:22:51,083 --> 01:22:52,500
Part of it's like, I didn't want to bring

935
01:22:52,500 --> 01:22:54,916
up food in front of you because I'm like,

936
01:22:54,916 --> 01:22:55,583
I don't want to remind

937
01:22:55,583 --> 01:22:56,416
you that you're not eating.

938
01:22:57,166 --> 01:22:57,375
Yeah.

939
01:22:57,916 --> 01:22:58,125
Yeah.

940
01:22:58,458 --> 01:22:59,250
That's what I did afterward.

941
01:22:59,875 --> 01:23:00,833
Yeah, it was fine.

942
01:23:01,458 --> 01:23:02,208
No, it was fine.

943
01:23:02,208 --> 01:23:02,916
It was interesting.

944
01:23:02,916 --> 01:23:03,416
So I'm excited.

945
01:23:03,416 --> 01:23:04,958
You know, I am excited to try it again.

946
01:23:05,166 --> 01:23:05,375
Yeah.

947
01:23:05,541 --> 01:23:07,125
And hopefully some of those benefits

948
01:23:07,125 --> 01:23:08,500
that, I mean, the

949
01:23:08,500 --> 01:23:11,208
benefits are all on paper, right?

950
01:23:11,208 --> 01:23:12,416
It's nothing that really can measure.

951
01:23:12,875 --> 01:23:14,708
I didn't, I didn't, I didn't even weigh

952
01:23:14,708 --> 01:23:15,833
myself before or after.

953
01:23:16,375 --> 01:23:16,541
Right.

954
01:23:16,541 --> 01:23:18,250
So it's not like I was like, oh, I lost

955
01:23:18,250 --> 01:23:19,541
10 pounds of water weight.

956
01:23:20,250 --> 01:23:22,041
That wasn't the point of it.

957
01:23:22,541 --> 01:23:23,583
Points just to be more healthy.

958
01:23:23,958 --> 01:23:25,125
I do need to eat less.

959
01:23:25,375 --> 01:23:26,916
Portions are way too much for me.

960
01:23:27,250 --> 01:23:29,791
Like even since then, my portions on

961
01:23:29,791 --> 01:23:30,833
those last, these last two

962
01:23:30,833 --> 01:23:33,541
days have just felt higher.

963
01:23:33,541 --> 01:23:34,958
And maybe I didn't eat that much more

964
01:23:34,958 --> 01:23:36,291
than usual, but maybe I

965
01:23:36,291 --> 01:23:37,250
shrunk my stomach a little

966
01:23:37,250 --> 01:23:37,458
bit.

967
01:23:37,708 --> 01:23:37,916
Right.

968
01:23:38,333 --> 01:23:40,708
And it felt like way more because right

969
01:23:40,708 --> 01:23:42,500
now I feel like my

970
01:23:42,500 --> 01:23:43,416
belly is way out there.

971
01:23:44,875 --> 01:23:45,250
My belly.

972
01:23:45,875 --> 01:23:46,208
Your belly?

973
01:23:46,541 --> 01:23:47,416
Well, it's not.

974
01:23:47,416 --> 01:23:47,750
Get in my belly.

975
01:23:47,833 --> 01:23:50,166
You know that one?

976
01:23:50,458 --> 01:23:50,666
Oh yeah.

977
01:23:51,458 --> 01:23:52,625
I know you know that one.

978
01:23:52,916 --> 01:23:53,916
Of course I know that one.

979
01:23:54,333 --> 01:23:55,666
I think most people are a

980
01:23:55,666 --> 01:23:56,666
generation know that one.

981
01:23:56,666 --> 01:23:57,041
I think so.

982
01:23:57,291 --> 01:23:58,916
You know, little Austin Powers throwback.

983
01:23:59,791 --> 01:24:00,208
That's right.

984
01:24:01,750 --> 01:24:02,416
Such a funny movie.

985
01:24:02,750 --> 01:24:04,875
I wonder if that's appropriate for kids.

986
01:24:04,875 --> 01:24:05,291
That's one family.

987
01:24:05,500 --> 01:24:06,125
That's movie we have

988
01:24:06,125 --> 01:24:07,166
not watched with a family.

989
01:24:07,166 --> 01:24:07,625
I wonder if it'd be

990
01:24:07,625 --> 01:24:08,666
appropriate for the kids.

991
01:24:08,666 --> 01:24:09,958
That's not my bag, baby.

992
01:24:09,958 --> 01:24:10,750
Okay.

993
01:24:11,625 --> 01:24:12,250
So yeah, no.

994
01:24:12,333 --> 01:24:13,333
Might not yet be.

995
01:24:13,666 --> 01:24:13,833
There's a lot of scenes coming back
right now that are just.

996
01:24:13,833 --> 01:24:19,208
It might not yet be. It's not mine.

997
01:24:19,500 --> 01:24:21,833
It's not my bag, baby.

998
01:24:23,583 --> 01:24:23,833
Okay.

999
01:24:23,833 --> 01:24:24,708
Not probably

1000
01:24:24,708 --> 01:24:26,291
appropriate for our kids yet.

1001
01:24:27,291 --> 01:24:27,916
Great movie.

1002
01:24:28,125 --> 01:24:29,208
But yeah, there's a couple of scenes in

1003
01:24:29,208 --> 01:24:30,500
that that aren't ready for it.

1004
01:24:32,291 --> 01:24:33,875
You know, movies I think have changed

1005
01:24:33,875 --> 01:24:35,500
over the last few years.

1006
01:24:35,791 --> 01:24:37,541
Like what we watched in the 80s.

1007
01:24:37,541 --> 01:24:39,791
I mean, PG 13 in the 80s.

1008
01:24:40,833 --> 01:24:41,708
Holy cow.

1009
01:24:42,291 --> 01:24:42,833
Not appropriate.

1010
01:24:42,875 --> 01:24:43,958
I mean, that's easy and

1011
01:24:43,958 --> 01:24:45,125
our rated our movie nowadays.

1012
01:24:45,458 --> 01:24:45,625
Yeah.

1013
01:24:46,333 --> 01:24:47,041
Easy ours.

1014
01:24:47,833 --> 01:24:48,916
I mean, we've made that

1015
01:24:48,916 --> 01:24:50,208
mistake a couple of times.

1016
01:24:50,916 --> 01:24:53,000
Footloose was one like I do.

1017
01:24:53,000 --> 01:24:54,666
I did not remember some of those scenes

1018
01:24:54,666 --> 01:24:56,583
and I was like, Oh my.

1019
01:24:57,166 --> 01:24:57,875
Like, cause we're

1020
01:24:57,875 --> 01:24:58,791
like, Oh, it's a classic.

1021
01:24:59,000 --> 01:24:59,791
You kids will love it.

1022
01:24:59,791 --> 01:25:01,250
We're like, close your eyes, everyone.

1023
01:25:01,583 --> 01:25:02,250
Close your eyes.

1024
01:25:03,083 --> 01:25:03,541
Mm hmm.

1025
01:25:03,833 --> 01:25:04,166
Yeah.

1026
01:25:04,166 --> 01:25:04,416
Oh yeah.

1027
01:25:04,416 --> 01:25:05,333
There's a lot like that.

1028
01:25:05,333 --> 01:25:06,916
If you haven't watched yet some classics,

1029
01:25:07,333 --> 01:25:08,666
but they might, they

1030
01:25:08,666 --> 01:25:09,333
might just have to watch

1031
01:25:09,333 --> 01:25:09,833
those on their own.

1032
01:25:09,875 --> 01:25:11,666
There are some things as a parent.

1033
01:25:12,833 --> 01:25:13,208
Yeah.

1034
01:25:13,208 --> 01:25:14,291
I don't want to be sitting there with my

1035
01:25:14,291 --> 01:25:15,125
kid when they see it.

1036
01:25:15,125 --> 01:25:15,333
Yeah.

1037
01:25:15,541 --> 01:25:15,750
Yeah.

1038
01:25:15,875 --> 01:25:17,125
I mean, even as an adult, I remember one

1039
01:25:17,125 --> 01:25:17,750
time watching Saturday

1040
01:25:17,750 --> 01:25:18,708
Night Live with your mom

1041
01:25:18,708 --> 01:25:19,666
or something like that in the room.

1042
01:25:19,666 --> 01:25:20,333
And I was just like,

1043
01:25:20,333 --> 01:25:22,041
yeah, this is uncomfortable.

1044
01:25:22,333 --> 01:25:22,583
Uncomfortable.

1045
01:25:23,208 --> 01:25:23,458
We watched.

1046
01:25:23,750 --> 01:25:24,958
Remember there was that one time we

1047
01:25:24,958 --> 01:25:27,000
watched The Notebook and

1048
01:25:27,000 --> 01:25:28,166
your stepdad was there.

1049
01:25:28,750 --> 01:25:29,000
Yeah.

1050
01:25:29,375 --> 01:25:30,083
And there was that one

1051
01:25:30,083 --> 01:25:31,958
scene where it's like, yeah.

1052
01:25:33,000 --> 01:25:33,208
Yeah.

1053
01:25:34,000 --> 01:25:34,833
Cause I completely thought

1054
01:25:34,833 --> 01:25:36,083
that was an innocent movie too.

1055
01:25:36,750 --> 01:25:37,708
There is one scene in that.

1056
01:25:37,875 --> 01:25:40,125
It's like, is your bed

1057
01:25:40,125 --> 01:25:41,250
comfortable down there?

1058
01:25:41,250 --> 01:25:42,208
I mean, are you saying warm enough?

1059
01:25:44,041 --> 01:25:46,083
I get you anything like a water.

1060
01:25:47,041 --> 01:25:47,333
Yeah.

1061
01:25:47,541 --> 01:25:48,333
Do you want to get it?

1062
01:25:49,541 --> 01:25:50,958
I'll call you back up when we're ready.

1063
01:25:52,083 --> 01:25:53,291
Oh, it's funny.

1064
01:25:53,958 --> 01:25:54,708
We'll call you back up

1065
01:25:54,708 --> 01:25:55,583
when the scene's done.

1066
01:25:56,458 --> 01:25:56,625
Yeah.

1067
01:25:57,250 --> 01:25:57,666
Oh, well.

1068
01:25:58,166 --> 01:25:58,416
Yeah.

1069
01:25:59,208 --> 01:26:00,250
Well, the other big thing that happened

1070
01:26:00,250 --> 01:26:01,875
this week was our oldest

1071
01:26:01,875 --> 01:26:04,500
was in his second varsity

1072
01:26:04,833 --> 01:26:04,875
game.

1073
01:26:05,083 --> 01:26:05,333
Yes.

1074
01:26:06,875 --> 01:26:07,166
Yeah.

1075
01:26:07,458 --> 01:26:08,375
It was really cool.

1076
01:26:09,208 --> 01:26:10,416
Um, they were in the playoffs.

1077
01:26:10,916 --> 01:26:11,166
Yeah.

1078
01:26:11,166 --> 01:26:13,166
It's playoff time now, which by the way,

1079
01:26:13,166 --> 01:26:14,083
the first game of the

1080
01:26:14,083 --> 01:26:15,208
playoffs is during spring

1081
01:26:15,208 --> 01:26:15,500
break.

1082
01:26:16,875 --> 01:26:20,041
I mean, question mark, question mark for

1083
01:26:20,041 --> 01:26:21,166
the next three years.

1084
01:26:21,500 --> 01:26:21,708
Yeah.

1085
01:26:22,458 --> 01:26:25,625
So I guess no spring break trips for us

1086
01:26:25,625 --> 01:26:26,833
for the next three years.

1087
01:26:26,833 --> 01:26:27,166
I guess not.

1088
01:26:28,208 --> 01:26:29,458
I guess we know that now.

1089
01:26:29,541 --> 01:26:29,750
Yeah.

1090
01:26:30,500 --> 01:26:31,875
And so we can plan accordingly.

1091
01:26:32,500 --> 01:26:32,708
Yeah.

1092
01:26:33,083 --> 01:26:34,791
We should probably remind all the kids

1093
01:26:34,791 --> 01:26:36,125
that, you know, spring

1094
01:26:36,125 --> 01:26:39,250
break is not going to be

1095
01:26:39,541 --> 01:26:40,750
like what it used to be.

1096
01:26:41,250 --> 01:26:42,416
Although did you have that?

1097
01:26:42,416 --> 01:26:43,916
Because I mean, you played all the

1098
01:26:43,916 --> 01:26:46,291
sports, um, at least where

1099
01:26:46,291 --> 01:26:47,958
I was from basketball was

1100
01:26:47,958 --> 01:26:48,958
a winter sport.

1101
01:26:48,958 --> 01:26:50,750
And so there was always basketball, like

1102
01:26:50,750 --> 01:26:53,708
practices and games over Christmas break.

1103
01:26:54,333 --> 01:26:57,541
And so, you know, the basketball, if you

1104
01:26:57,541 --> 01:26:58,375
skipped one over

1105
01:26:58,375 --> 01:26:59,958
Christmas break, you didn't play.

1106
01:27:00,291 --> 01:27:01,125
Did you have that?

1107
01:27:01,375 --> 01:27:02,625
Yeah, definitely over Christmas break.

1108
01:27:02,708 --> 01:27:03,000
Yeah.

1109
01:27:03,416 --> 01:27:03,583
Yeah.

1110
01:27:03,958 --> 01:27:04,125
Yeah.

1111
01:27:04,125 --> 01:27:05,333
So you couldn't go anywhere at Christmas.

1112
01:27:06,750 --> 01:27:07,916
It was never thought.

1113
01:27:08,375 --> 01:27:08,625
Okay.

1114
01:27:08,875 --> 01:27:09,250
Over Christmas.

1115
01:27:10,041 --> 01:27:10,375
Got it.

1116
01:27:10,625 --> 01:27:11,333
Maybe it was the thought.

1117
01:27:11,333 --> 01:27:12,083
Oh, you guys did.

1118
01:27:12,083 --> 01:27:12,791
You guys did some traveling.

1119
01:27:13,083 --> 01:27:14,458
We never, yeah, we never had.

1120
01:27:14,625 --> 01:27:15,166
We've always spent

1121
01:27:15,166 --> 01:27:16,375
Christmas at my grandparents house.

1122
01:27:16,791 --> 01:27:17,000
Yeah.

1123
01:27:17,791 --> 01:27:20,250
So no, that was not a thing for us.

1124
01:27:20,250 --> 01:27:22,500
I think maybe twice we went out, but we

1125
01:27:22,500 --> 01:27:24,500
had one grandparents in town.

1126
01:27:24,791 --> 01:27:25,000
Yeah.

1127
01:27:25,791 --> 01:27:29,416
We did Christmas away twice, I think way

1128
01:27:29,416 --> 01:27:30,583
before I ever played sports.

1129
01:27:30,583 --> 01:27:31,208
I mean, okay.

1130
01:27:31,500 --> 01:27:32,083
I think I was eight the

1131
01:27:32,083 --> 01:27:32,958
last time we did it, maybe.

1132
01:27:33,458 --> 01:27:33,833
Got it.

1133
01:27:34,208 --> 01:27:35,250
Well, and you did have family.

1134
01:27:35,583 --> 01:27:37,291
You had quite a bit of

1135
01:27:37,291 --> 01:27:39,041
family that was like in the area.

1136
01:27:39,041 --> 01:27:40,541
We didn't have any family in the area.

1137
01:27:40,541 --> 01:27:42,166
So to see family at Christmas time.

1138
01:27:42,666 --> 01:27:44,000
Yeah, we did.

1139
01:27:44,000 --> 01:27:44,500
We went to them.

1140
01:27:44,708 --> 01:27:45,041
That's right.

1141
01:27:45,833 --> 01:27:46,000
Yeah.

1142
01:27:46,375 --> 01:27:46,583
Okay.

1143
01:27:47,208 --> 01:27:47,916
So you never went out

1144
01:27:47,916 --> 01:27:49,041
anywhere over Christmas because.

1145
01:27:49,250 --> 01:27:53,000
Well, Christmas break is not at least the

1146
01:27:53,000 --> 01:27:54,500
way I grew up is not a

1147
01:27:54,500 --> 01:27:55,250
time when most people

1148
01:27:55,250 --> 01:27:56,416
are like Christmas break.

1149
01:27:56,416 --> 01:27:57,875
Let's go on holiday or

1150
01:27:57,875 --> 01:27:58,583
let's go on vacation.

1151
01:27:58,875 --> 01:27:59,083
Right.

1152
01:27:59,500 --> 01:27:59,666
Yeah.

1153
01:28:01,333 --> 01:28:04,000
That's just not the world I grew up in.

1154
01:28:04,000 --> 01:28:05,166
I mean, spring break was

1155
01:28:05,166 --> 01:28:06,291
definitely a time to go.

1156
01:28:06,291 --> 01:28:07,166
I think most people think

1157
01:28:07,166 --> 01:28:08,791
about that now or over the summer.

1158
01:28:09,291 --> 01:28:09,500
Right.

1159
01:28:10,125 --> 01:28:11,083
Now we have fall break.

1160
01:28:11,958 --> 01:28:13,041
Which is weird to me.

1161
01:28:13,333 --> 01:28:14,416
I'm going to be honest.

1162
01:28:14,791 --> 01:28:16,958
I don't know why all of a sudden this

1163
01:28:16,958 --> 01:28:18,041
year we decided to give

1164
01:28:18,041 --> 01:28:19,500
kids a week off in the

1165
01:28:19,500 --> 01:28:20,500
middle of the fall.

1166
01:28:20,916 --> 01:28:21,833
A whole another week off.

1167
01:28:22,125 --> 01:28:23,166
I get a long weekend,

1168
01:28:23,416 --> 01:28:24,875
but in October, right?

1169
01:28:25,166 --> 01:28:25,708
I think it's October.

1170
01:28:25,958 --> 01:28:26,125
Yeah.

1171
01:28:26,333 --> 01:28:27,208
And then you get another week off

1172
01:28:27,208 --> 01:28:28,791
basically in November.

1173
01:28:28,833 --> 01:28:29,541
Yeah.

1174
01:28:29,541 --> 01:28:29,916
For Thanksgiving.

1175
01:28:30,833 --> 01:28:31,500
Two weeks.

1176
01:28:33,000 --> 01:28:33,666
Is that just a Texas

1177
01:28:33,666 --> 01:28:34,583
thing or is that everywhere?

1178
01:28:35,916 --> 01:28:36,333
I don't know.

1179
01:28:37,458 --> 01:28:38,916
We always had like a long weekend.

1180
01:28:39,166 --> 01:28:40,250
Like when I grew up, we had a long

1181
01:28:40,250 --> 01:28:41,458
weekend in the middle of

1182
01:28:41,458 --> 01:28:42,500
October and our kids up

1183
01:28:42,500 --> 01:28:44,750
until this past year always had like a

1184
01:28:44,750 --> 01:28:45,375
long weekend, right?

1185
01:28:45,375 --> 01:28:46,333
You got two days off.

1186
01:28:46,333 --> 01:28:47,583
You got that Thursday, Friday, and then

1187
01:28:47,583 --> 01:28:48,750
the weekend that was

1188
01:28:48,750 --> 01:28:49,916
usually that was considered

1189
01:28:49,916 --> 01:28:51,291
the fall break up until this year.

1190
01:28:51,291 --> 01:28:52,208
Now it's a full week.

1191
01:28:52,208 --> 01:28:54,500
And I think working parents are all like,

1192
01:28:54,750 --> 01:28:56,791
Oh, why are we doing this?

1193
01:28:57,208 --> 01:28:58,416
I just, again, I will

1194
01:28:58,416 --> 01:28:59,583
say on this, I do not know.

1195
01:28:59,875 --> 01:29:01,458
Kudos to those of you that work in an

1196
01:29:01,458 --> 01:29:02,583
office or have to go or

1197
01:29:02,583 --> 01:29:04,375
to, you know, I don't know

1198
01:29:04,375 --> 01:29:06,166
how people, if you don't work from home,

1199
01:29:06,500 --> 01:29:07,041
I don't know, and

1200
01:29:07,041 --> 01:29:08,166
have a flexible schedule.

1201
01:29:08,541 --> 01:29:09,416
I don't know how you do it.

1202
01:29:09,416 --> 01:29:10,083
How you do anything.

1203
01:29:11,375 --> 01:29:13,208
Especially the age our kids are.

1204
01:29:13,458 --> 01:29:13,625
Yeah.

1205
01:29:13,833 --> 01:29:16,250
You know, like I think people who have

1206
01:29:16,250 --> 01:29:17,375
little kids, they still

1207
01:29:17,375 --> 01:29:18,541
have to take them to daycare.

1208
01:29:18,875 --> 01:29:19,208
Right?

1209
01:29:19,208 --> 01:29:19,875
Because you can't work at

1210
01:29:19,875 --> 01:29:22,375
home and have a toddler, right?

1211
01:29:22,375 --> 01:29:24,875
You got to actually watch your toddler.

1212
01:29:25,625 --> 01:29:26,500
They can get into trouble.

1213
01:29:27,041 --> 01:29:30,250
Whereas like I trust that our 13 year old

1214
01:29:30,250 --> 01:29:30,708
is not going to stick

1215
01:29:30,708 --> 01:29:31,291
her finger in a light

1216
01:29:31,291 --> 01:29:31,666
socket.

1217
01:29:32,250 --> 01:29:32,458
Right.

1218
01:29:34,875 --> 01:29:36,958
So, but yeah, I don't, but

1219
01:29:36,958 --> 01:29:38,333
the, but we're gone so much.

1220
01:29:38,333 --> 01:29:39,625
We have to get them here and there.

1221
01:29:39,625 --> 01:29:41,000
I don't know how we would do that if we

1222
01:29:41,000 --> 01:29:41,875
had to go to an office.

1223
01:29:41,875 --> 01:29:42,791
I have no idea.

1224
01:29:43,208 --> 01:29:44,000
It's a different world now.

1225
01:29:44,000 --> 01:29:44,625
It's a different animal.

1226
01:29:45,041 --> 01:29:45,541
Totally different.

1227
01:29:46,208 --> 01:29:48,875
But back to the game,

1228
01:29:48,875 --> 01:29:49,625
that was another thing.

1229
01:29:49,625 --> 01:29:49,708
Yeah.

1230
01:29:49,708 --> 01:29:50,708
Cause we had to leave it like five

1231
01:29:50,708 --> 01:29:54,000
o'clock to get all the way, way far away.

1232
01:29:54,041 --> 01:29:55,958
I mean, what we had to drive an hour to

1233
01:29:55,958 --> 01:29:57,083
get to this game or something.

1234
01:29:57,083 --> 01:29:58,416
It was felt like that.

1235
01:29:58,875 --> 01:30:02,041
Well, I mean, yeah, it was a long ways.

1236
01:30:02,375 --> 01:30:03,083
We drive forever.

1237
01:30:03,083 --> 01:30:03,625
I mean, anybody that

1238
01:30:03,625 --> 01:30:04,833
lives in the DFW area.

1239
01:30:06,541 --> 01:30:07,875
So I grew up in Colorado Springs, which

1240
01:30:07,875 --> 01:30:09,375
is an hour south of Denver.

1241
01:30:10,166 --> 01:30:11,833
And anytime we had to play in Denver,

1242
01:30:11,833 --> 01:30:12,958
whether it was soccer or

1243
01:30:12,958 --> 01:30:14,750
basketball or whatever the

1244
01:30:14,750 --> 01:30:17,000
support was, that was like a

1245
01:30:17,000 --> 01:30:18,250
long ways to go to go to Denver.

1246
01:30:18,250 --> 01:30:18,958
It was a big deal.

1247
01:30:18,958 --> 01:30:19,750
It's like, we got to go to Denver.

1248
01:30:19,750 --> 01:30:20,666
I had an uncle that lived in there.

1249
01:30:20,666 --> 01:30:21,416
We have to go to Denver.

1250
01:30:21,791 --> 01:30:22,083
Yeah.

1251
01:30:23,125 --> 01:30:23,708
It was like a trip.

1252
01:30:24,250 --> 01:30:24,458
Yeah.

1253
01:30:24,625 --> 01:30:26,500
Well, that's actually shorter than

1254
01:30:26,500 --> 01:30:27,791
basically where we go

1255
01:30:27,791 --> 01:30:29,916
every night to practice almost.

1256
01:30:29,916 --> 01:30:30,208
Almost.

1257
01:30:30,583 --> 01:30:31,416
For soccer.

1258
01:30:32,000 --> 01:30:32,166
Mm-hmm.

1259
01:30:32,166 --> 01:30:34,500
And then almost, what, 90%

1260
01:30:34,500 --> 01:30:36,583
of our games are that far.

1261
01:30:36,583 --> 01:30:37,041
Are that far.

1262
01:30:37,041 --> 01:30:39,250
So when you say we drove an hour, I mean,

1263
01:30:39,250 --> 01:30:39,916
it was probably not

1264
01:30:39,916 --> 01:30:40,791
that much further than

1265
01:30:40,791 --> 01:30:43,666
we usually go, what, we go northeast a

1266
01:30:43,666 --> 01:30:45,375
little bit or just more east.

1267
01:30:45,916 --> 01:30:47,541
This time we went south of Fort Worth,

1268
01:30:47,833 --> 01:30:49,708
which is just a way worse highway.

1269
01:30:49,708 --> 01:30:50,458
It's a way worse community.

1270
01:30:50,916 --> 01:30:51,125
Yeah.

1271
01:30:51,458 --> 01:30:52,041
Community is terrible.

1272
01:30:52,500 --> 01:30:53,250
It's just a lot worse, I think.

1273
01:30:53,250 --> 01:30:53,458
Yeah.

1274
01:30:53,750 --> 01:30:53,958
Yeah.

1275
01:30:55,541 --> 01:30:57,875
But I mean, overall, it

1276
01:30:57,875 --> 01:30:59,000
was super cool to see.

1277
01:31:00,291 --> 01:31:02,666
And I was really proud.

1278
01:31:02,666 --> 01:31:05,000
I think the whole team played so well.

1279
01:31:06,250 --> 01:31:08,375
But it was one of those games that it

1280
01:31:08,375 --> 01:31:09,166
just, it broke your

1281
01:31:09,166 --> 01:31:10,458
heart because you know that

1282
01:31:10,458 --> 01:31:12,958
that could be the last

1283
01:31:12,958 --> 01:31:13,916
game for those seniors.

1284
01:31:14,916 --> 01:31:15,125
Yeah.

1285
01:31:15,416 --> 01:31:17,125
And you're like, I just, my heart went

1286
01:31:17,125 --> 01:31:17,833
out and I remember

1287
01:31:17,833 --> 01:31:19,166
telling you in the middle of

1288
01:31:19,166 --> 01:31:20,375
the game, I was like, I'm going to

1289
01:31:20,375 --> 01:31:21,125
remember sitting here

1290
01:31:21,125 --> 01:31:22,416
with my kid as a, how do you

1291
01:31:22,458 --> 01:31:26,333
remember, as a freshman, feeling like,

1292
01:31:26,333 --> 01:31:27,000
Hey, at least I still

1293
01:31:27,000 --> 01:31:27,875
have three more years of

1294
01:31:27,875 --> 01:31:29,458
this, like win, lose or otherwise.

1295
01:31:29,833 --> 01:31:32,166
Like I still have another few years of

1296
01:31:32,166 --> 01:31:33,750
this, but when that's when

1297
01:31:33,750 --> 01:31:34,750
I'm sitting here in three

1298
01:31:34,750 --> 01:31:37,208
years, I'm going to be a wreck.

1299
01:31:38,458 --> 01:31:39,500
I think it's a different, yeah, I think

1300
01:31:39,500 --> 01:31:39,916
it's a different

1301
01:31:39,916 --> 01:31:41,333
feeling when, because I'm not

1302
01:31:41,333 --> 01:31:42,291
aware that any of those

1303
01:31:42,291 --> 01:31:44,541
seniors are playing in college.

1304
01:31:44,833 --> 01:31:45,500
Yeah, I don't know.

1305
01:31:46,125 --> 01:31:47,166
I don't think so.

1306
01:31:47,583 --> 01:31:48,500
Our oldest didn't tell us

1307
01:31:48,500 --> 01:31:49,375
that any of them worked.

1308
01:31:49,375 --> 01:31:50,541
I don't think any of them are.

1309
01:31:50,541 --> 01:31:52,250
So yeah, I think, you know, that's a

1310
01:31:52,250 --> 01:31:53,625
closing of an era for

1311
01:31:53,625 --> 01:31:54,875
someone that, you know, they've

1312
01:31:54,875 --> 01:31:56,541
probably played soccer the whole

1313
01:31:56,541 --> 01:31:58,791
childhood life through high school.

1314
01:31:59,166 --> 01:32:00,541
And a lot of people play high school

1315
01:32:00,541 --> 01:32:02,333
sports, but I mean, you

1316
01:32:02,333 --> 01:32:02,833
know, if you're not going

1317
01:32:02,833 --> 01:32:04,375
to, if you're not kind of that next

1318
01:32:04,375 --> 01:32:06,291
echelon athlete playing

1319
01:32:06,291 --> 01:32:09,041
in college, that's it for

1320
01:32:09,041 --> 01:32:09,291
you.

1321
01:32:09,291 --> 01:32:10,166
You're, you're done.

1322
01:32:10,500 --> 01:32:11,500
And that's, that's gotta be

1323
01:32:11,500 --> 01:32:12,750
a big deal to some people.

1324
01:32:12,750 --> 01:32:13,541
I know you feel bad.

1325
01:32:14,083 --> 01:32:14,291
Yeah.

1326
01:32:14,666 --> 01:32:15,666
It's a closing of the chapter.

1327
01:32:16,000 --> 01:32:18,208
And well, even without that, right.

1328
01:32:18,250 --> 01:32:20,625
I mean, like you, you were a

1329
01:32:20,625 --> 01:32:22,083
dancer your whole life, right?

1330
01:32:22,083 --> 01:32:24,500
So you danced and I mean, I don't think

1331
01:32:24,500 --> 01:32:26,458
you danced in college that I'm aware of.

1332
01:32:26,500 --> 01:32:27,375
No, I don't know that.

1333
01:32:27,583 --> 01:32:27,916
I don't know.

1334
01:32:27,916 --> 01:32:28,500
I don't know.

1335
01:32:29,458 --> 01:32:30,166
I mean, I just don't

1336
01:32:30,166 --> 01:32:31,333
even know if that existed.

1337
01:32:31,333 --> 01:32:32,250
It was my, my point.

1338
01:32:32,250 --> 01:32:32,458
Yeah.

1339
01:32:32,458 --> 01:32:34,500
My point to that was, um, but I mean,

1340
01:32:34,500 --> 01:32:35,791
like, how did you feel

1341
01:32:35,791 --> 01:32:36,583
when you knew it was kind

1342
01:32:36,583 --> 01:32:38,041
of your last performance?

1343
01:32:38,708 --> 01:32:40,708
Yeah, I, it was sad.

1344
01:32:41,250 --> 01:32:42,250
It was really sad.

1345
01:32:42,250 --> 01:32:42,458
Yeah.

1346
01:32:43,791 --> 01:32:46,250
And it helped that we, that last

1347
01:32:46,250 --> 01:32:48,541
performance we did really

1348
01:32:48,541 --> 01:32:49,666
well, at least, you know, for

1349
01:32:49,666 --> 01:32:50,875
high school, we did really well.

1350
01:32:50,875 --> 01:32:52,041
And so that helped that.

1351
01:32:52,833 --> 01:32:54,208
But I mean, it's still just like, that's

1352
01:32:54,208 --> 01:32:56,416
the last time I'm going to step onto that

1353
01:32:56,416 --> 01:32:57,791
floor or that stage or.

1354
01:32:58,083 --> 01:32:58,958
Were you thinking of it

1355
01:32:58,958 --> 01:33:00,291
when you stepped onto it?

1356
01:33:00,875 --> 01:33:01,000
No.

1357
01:33:01,791 --> 01:33:02,000
Okay.

1358
01:33:02,083 --> 01:33:02,291
No.

1359
01:33:02,458 --> 01:33:03,416
After you were stepping off.

1360
01:33:03,416 --> 01:33:03,833
Mm hmm.

1361
01:33:03,833 --> 01:33:04,166
Yeah.

1362
01:33:04,166 --> 01:33:07,250
And then it, then it's just kind of sad.

1363
01:33:07,625 --> 01:33:08,666
Is that the swing choir?

1364
01:33:09,000 --> 01:33:09,291
No.

1365
01:33:09,291 --> 01:33:10,875
So we were, we did have show choir.

1366
01:33:11,166 --> 01:33:12,416
That one was different.

1367
01:33:12,416 --> 01:33:13,500
That one night we did know.

1368
01:33:13,500 --> 01:33:14,166
I don't think that

1369
01:33:14,166 --> 01:33:16,208
actually was our last performance.

1370
01:33:16,208 --> 01:33:16,583
I was the last

1371
01:33:16,583 --> 01:33:18,416
competition, but we went to nationals.

1372
01:33:18,416 --> 01:33:20,208
We were number two in the nation.

1373
01:33:20,750 --> 01:33:20,958
Yeah.

1374
01:33:21,750 --> 01:33:23,541
Um, and we honestly, the,

1375
01:33:23,541 --> 01:33:25,666
the one that one should have.

1376
01:33:26,000 --> 01:33:28,541
So I don't think, like, I remember being

1377
01:33:28,541 --> 01:33:30,125
like, I'm super proud of that.

1378
01:33:30,125 --> 01:33:31,125
We did really, really well.

1379
01:33:31,125 --> 01:33:33,375
Do they base Glee off of your?

1380
01:33:34,000 --> 01:33:34,500
Obviously.

1381
01:33:35,000 --> 01:33:35,250
Yeah.

1382
01:33:35,541 --> 01:33:35,750
Okay.

1383
01:33:37,625 --> 01:33:37,833
Yeah.

1384
01:33:38,750 --> 01:33:39,333
Love Glee though.

1385
01:33:39,583 --> 01:33:40,875
It was a really cool show.

1386
01:33:41,375 --> 01:33:41,583
Yeah.

1387
01:33:42,083 --> 01:33:43,000
I mean, that was super fun.

1388
01:33:43,000 --> 01:33:43,750
It was so different.

1389
01:33:44,125 --> 01:33:45,291
And yeah, but that was a

1390
01:33:45,291 --> 01:33:46,666
really close knit group.

1391
01:33:46,916 --> 01:33:48,083
And yeah, it was

1392
01:33:48,083 --> 01:33:49,541
really, it was pretty cool.

1393
01:33:49,541 --> 01:33:50,750
Like I think we're all pretty proud of

1394
01:33:50,750 --> 01:33:51,875
the fact that we did that.

1395
01:33:52,208 --> 01:33:52,875
And sure.

1396
01:33:52,875 --> 01:33:53,666
Second in the nation.

1397
01:33:53,666 --> 01:33:54,583
It's nothing to snub.

1398
01:33:54,916 --> 01:33:57,000
Not that all high schools have one and

1399
01:33:57,000 --> 01:33:59,500
stuff like that, but it was for total.

1400
01:33:59,750 --> 01:34:01,708
We performed at the grand old Opry.

1401
01:34:01,708 --> 01:34:03,166
I mean, how many people can say that

1402
01:34:03,166 --> 01:34:04,500
they've performed on that stage?

1403
01:34:04,500 --> 01:34:05,791
Like that's pretty cool.

1404
01:34:06,000 --> 01:34:06,458
Yeah.

1405
01:34:06,458 --> 01:34:07,208
It's an awesome experience.

1406
01:34:07,666 --> 01:34:08,083
I don't know.

1407
01:34:08,416 --> 01:34:09,416
How did you feel like when

1408
01:34:09,416 --> 01:34:11,000
you knew it was your last game?

1409
01:34:12,500 --> 01:34:15,083
I mean, I was aware of it for sure.

1410
01:34:15,083 --> 01:34:17,083
You know, my, I remember this, I'm

1411
01:34:17,083 --> 01:34:18,416
talking about basketball right now.

1412
01:34:18,750 --> 01:34:20,750
I mean, I was aware of it, you know, but

1413
01:34:20,750 --> 01:34:21,875
I was, I already knew

1414
01:34:21,875 --> 01:34:22,500
I was going to college.

1415
01:34:23,125 --> 01:34:24,291
So I knew I'd play more.

1416
01:34:25,291 --> 01:34:27,750
But I was aware of, you know, like he, it

1417
01:34:27,750 --> 01:34:29,916
was in a way game and

1418
01:34:29,916 --> 01:34:30,916
coach pulled me out,

1419
01:34:30,916 --> 01:34:32,875
you know, so that I could get innovation.

1420
01:34:33,375 --> 01:34:33,583
Yeah.

1421
01:34:33,791 --> 01:34:34,000
Innovation.

1422
01:34:34,000 --> 01:34:35,125
So people could clap for me.

1423
01:34:35,125 --> 01:34:35,666
Yeah, of course.

1424
01:34:35,666 --> 01:34:36,291
They could clap out.

1425
01:34:36,291 --> 01:34:36,500
Yeah.

1426
01:34:36,916 --> 01:34:38,541
So I did get, you know, a

1427
01:34:38,541 --> 01:34:41,250
nice, you know, send off.

1428
01:34:41,708 --> 01:34:43,666
For that, you know, and so I remember

1429
01:34:43,666 --> 01:34:44,708
tears came into my eyes

1430
01:34:44,708 --> 01:34:45,666
because I got a good send

1431
01:34:45,708 --> 01:34:46,041
off.

1432
01:34:46,333 --> 01:34:46,500
Yeah.

1433
01:34:46,500 --> 01:34:47,958
You know, and that felt good that I was

1434
01:34:47,958 --> 01:34:49,500
appreciated at that point in time.

1435
01:34:49,750 --> 01:34:51,875
But I don't, I don't remember being sad

1436
01:34:51,875 --> 01:34:52,458
that it was like, Oh,

1437
01:34:52,458 --> 01:34:53,458
I'll never play, you know,

1438
01:34:53,458 --> 01:34:54,791
high school basketball because I was

1439
01:34:54,791 --> 01:34:56,041
going on to play college ball.

1440
01:34:56,333 --> 01:34:58,666
So I wasn't, I wasn't sad about that.

1441
01:34:58,666 --> 01:34:59,583
I was excited for the

1442
01:34:59,583 --> 01:35:00,500
next level, I think.

1443
01:35:00,750 --> 01:35:01,000
Yeah.

1444
01:35:01,333 --> 01:35:02,166
At that point in time.

1445
01:35:02,166 --> 01:35:06,416
But, you know, I can, I can see how, you

1446
01:35:06,416 --> 01:35:07,458
know, I mean, I never,

1447
01:35:07,458 --> 01:35:08,458
I never really had that.

1448
01:35:08,458 --> 01:35:10,000
So I mean, it's tough to, yeah.

1449
01:35:10,041 --> 01:35:13,333
You know, if, if, if for my, for my

1450
01:35:13,333 --> 01:35:14,250
basketball, quote unquote,

1451
01:35:14,250 --> 01:35:15,625
you know, career, if, if I

1452
01:35:15,625 --> 01:35:18,000
had known the last time I was playing was

1453
01:35:18,000 --> 01:35:18,583
the last time I was

1454
01:35:18,583 --> 01:35:19,500
playing, it would have

1455
01:35:19,500 --> 01:35:20,375
been really emotional.

1456
01:35:20,666 --> 01:35:21,041
Yeah.

1457
01:35:21,041 --> 01:35:22,208
Because I was never there.

1458
01:35:22,208 --> 01:35:24,541
I have no, I was never going in

1459
01:35:24,541 --> 01:35:26,291
professional, you know, I

1460
01:35:26,291 --> 01:35:27,750
was, I would have been a solid

1461
01:35:28,333 --> 01:35:29,250
collegiate player.

1462
01:35:29,250 --> 01:35:30,166
Player, yeah.

1463
01:35:31,083 --> 01:35:32,250
Likely would have gone whatever.

1464
01:35:32,791 --> 01:35:34,666
But yeah, if I would have known, I think

1465
01:35:34,666 --> 01:35:35,541
it would have been really sad.

1466
01:35:35,791 --> 01:35:36,000
Yeah.

1467
01:35:36,250 --> 01:35:37,500
And I'm sure that's how it is for these,

1468
01:35:37,500 --> 01:35:38,541
these people that you're

1469
01:35:38,541 --> 01:35:39,291
talking about and their

1470
01:35:39,333 --> 01:35:40,500
parents and whatnot.

1471
01:35:41,291 --> 01:35:41,958
And maybe it's more sad

1472
01:35:41,958 --> 01:35:43,458
for the parents too, right?

1473
01:35:43,458 --> 01:35:44,041
Probably the parents.

1474
01:35:44,916 --> 01:35:46,125
It's a lot into one.

1475
01:35:46,125 --> 01:35:47,333
It's a lot of stuff being wrapped into

1476
01:35:47,333 --> 01:35:48,083
one, you know, it's this

1477
01:35:48,083 --> 01:35:50,083
childhood for 18 years.

1478
01:35:50,250 --> 01:35:53,166
It is slowly but surely wrapping up.

1479
01:35:53,416 --> 01:35:54,125
That's wrapping up.

1480
01:35:54,541 --> 01:35:56,041
And, you know, and most

1481
01:35:56,041 --> 01:35:58,666
people don't close on a win.

1482
01:35:59,291 --> 01:36:00,916
Like I think that's, that's why it's like

1483
01:36:00,916 --> 01:36:01,833
everyone wanted like

1484
01:36:01,833 --> 01:36:03,000
Michael Jordan to retire

1485
01:36:03,000 --> 01:36:04,583
after he won, you know,

1486
01:36:04,583 --> 01:36:06,166
the last championship.

1487
01:36:06,208 --> 01:36:08,958
Everyone wanted Tom Brady after he won

1488
01:36:08,958 --> 01:36:10,000
his last Super Bowl.

1489
01:36:10,000 --> 01:36:11,208
It's like, because you want him to go out

1490
01:36:11,208 --> 01:36:13,250
on a win, but most people don't.

1491
01:36:13,500 --> 01:36:15,833
And obviously because we didn't go on, it

1492
01:36:15,833 --> 01:36:16,875
was their last game.

1493
01:36:16,875 --> 01:36:18,666
It was kind of a winter go home situation

1494
01:36:18,666 --> 01:36:21,458
for this particular playoff game.

1495
01:36:22,000 --> 01:36:24,916
And went to penalty shootouts.

1496
01:36:25,875 --> 01:36:29,208
And it's like that kid who, you know, if

1497
01:36:29,208 --> 01:36:29,875
it was blocked or

1498
01:36:29,875 --> 01:36:31,125
missed, it's just like, oh,

1499
01:36:31,416 --> 01:36:32,666
it feels so bad for them.

1500
01:36:33,125 --> 01:36:34,208
You go out on a loss.

1501
01:36:35,250 --> 01:36:36,583
That's heartbreaking to me.

1502
01:36:36,583 --> 01:36:37,541
And we talked about on the way home that

1503
01:36:37,541 --> 01:36:38,750
almost everybody goes out on a loss.

1504
01:36:38,750 --> 01:36:39,958
Almost everyone goes out on a loss.

1505
01:36:39,958 --> 01:36:40,708
Most people don't.

1506
01:36:40,708 --> 01:36:42,500
I mean, my senior year, we went out on a

1507
01:36:42,500 --> 01:36:43,875
loss for soccer too.

1508
01:36:44,208 --> 01:36:45,625
We were favored in state

1509
01:36:45,625 --> 01:36:47,708
that year and we lost first run.

1510
01:36:48,666 --> 01:36:50,625
And that was like, whoa.

1511
01:36:51,125 --> 01:36:51,208
Yeah.

1512
01:36:51,458 --> 01:36:52,333
I think we were shocked.

1513
01:36:52,625 --> 01:36:53,208
So you didn't even

1514
01:36:53,208 --> 01:36:54,583
have a chance to enjoy it.

1515
01:36:54,791 --> 01:36:55,000
Yeah.

1516
01:36:55,500 --> 01:36:55,750
Yeah.

1517
01:36:56,208 --> 01:36:56,708
Oh my God.

1518
01:36:56,708 --> 01:36:57,625
We were just kind of shocked

1519
01:36:57,625 --> 01:36:59,125
at the, I had a quick upset.

1520
01:36:59,458 --> 01:36:59,666
Yeah.

1521
01:37:00,333 --> 01:37:03,041
So that was one, but, you know, soccer, I

1522
01:37:03,041 --> 01:37:04,291
played for 13 years,

1523
01:37:04,291 --> 01:37:05,000
whatnot, but it was not

1524
01:37:05,041 --> 01:37:05,708
my love.

1525
01:37:06,208 --> 01:37:06,416
Yeah.

1526
01:37:06,583 --> 01:37:06,791
Yeah.

1527
01:37:07,291 --> 01:37:08,458
I played soccer because I was athletic.

1528
01:37:08,958 --> 01:37:09,166
Yeah.

1529
01:37:09,708 --> 01:37:10,916
You know, but so I

1530
01:37:10,916 --> 01:37:12,000
wasn't like sad about that.

1531
01:37:12,000 --> 01:37:12,541
I don't think.

1532
01:37:12,541 --> 01:37:14,541
And so most people do, most people go out

1533
01:37:14,541 --> 01:37:16,000
on an L unfortunately.

1534
01:37:16,750 --> 01:37:17,500
And that's what's,

1535
01:37:17,500 --> 01:37:19,125
that's really sad to me.

1536
01:37:19,500 --> 01:37:19,833
I don't know.

1537
01:37:19,833 --> 01:37:20,500
Maybe I'm just really

1538
01:37:20,500 --> 01:37:21,875
emotional this week for some reason.

1539
01:37:22,291 --> 01:37:24,458
I don't know why I would be, but you

1540
01:37:24,458 --> 01:37:26,000
know, it hit me as kind

1541
01:37:26,000 --> 01:37:27,583
of hard because I just,

1542
01:37:27,583 --> 01:37:29,000
I will always remember sitting back

1543
01:37:29,000 --> 01:37:29,875
there, you know,

1544
01:37:29,875 --> 01:37:31,666
especially when our oldest is or

1545
01:37:31,666 --> 01:37:35,958
any of our kids are seniors wrapping it

1546
01:37:35,958 --> 01:37:37,125
up, at least for

1547
01:37:37,125 --> 01:37:38,375
their high school career.

1548
01:37:38,375 --> 01:37:39,833
And maybe, you know, there's, there's

1549
01:37:39,833 --> 01:37:40,791
chance they go on and

1550
01:37:40,791 --> 01:37:43,166
play more, but, or run more

1551
01:37:43,166 --> 01:37:43,916
if it's, you know,

1552
01:37:43,916 --> 01:37:44,875
our daughter, who knows.

1553
01:37:45,291 --> 01:37:46,750
But how, how, I mean, it was just a

1554
01:37:46,750 --> 01:37:47,541
really cool experience

1555
01:37:47,541 --> 01:37:48,375
for our oldest though.

1556
01:37:48,750 --> 01:37:48,958
Right.

1557
01:37:49,625 --> 01:37:53,125
It was, he was, if anybody saw the

1558
01:37:53,125 --> 01:37:54,500
Instagram thing, they,

1559
01:37:54,500 --> 01:37:56,166
they have a program for it and

1560
01:37:56,166 --> 01:37:58,416
they listed all the players and their

1561
01:37:58,416 --> 01:37:59,333
ages and their, their,

1562
01:37:59,333 --> 01:38:00,291
their year in school and

1563
01:38:00,333 --> 01:38:00,750
whatnot.

1564
01:38:01,125 --> 01:38:02,583
And he was the, our

1565
01:38:02,583 --> 01:38:04,625
oldest was the only freshmen.

1566
01:38:04,625 --> 01:38:05,416
There was no, there's not

1567
01:38:05,416 --> 01:38:07,500
even a sophomore, right?

1568
01:38:08,041 --> 01:38:08,791
He was the only freshmen

1569
01:38:08,791 --> 01:38:10,458
on both team that was there.

1570
01:38:10,833 --> 01:38:11,041
Yep.

1571
01:38:11,291 --> 01:38:12,583
So he got to partake in and he got his

1572
01:38:12,583 --> 01:38:14,208
name called out when they went out.

1573
01:38:14,208 --> 01:38:15,083
He didn't play.

1574
01:38:15,375 --> 01:38:16,041
He did not know.

1575
01:38:16,541 --> 01:38:18,333
But, but I mean, just what a cool

1576
01:38:18,333 --> 01:38:19,625
experience for him to see it.

1577
01:38:19,958 --> 01:38:20,708
He's got three years

1578
01:38:20,708 --> 01:38:22,250
that he will play in.

1579
01:38:22,250 --> 01:38:22,625
He will.

1580
01:38:22,791 --> 01:38:23,083
Yeah.

1581
01:38:23,583 --> 01:38:25,291
You know what I thought was really cool.

1582
01:38:26,041 --> 01:38:27,625
I think we've talked about this before.

1583
01:38:27,875 --> 01:38:29,458
You know, he's more of

1584
01:38:29,458 --> 01:38:32,375
our introverted kid, right?

1585
01:38:33,000 --> 01:38:34,833
Like the other two will have friends over

1586
01:38:34,833 --> 01:38:35,958
and he's like, no, I'm good.

1587
01:38:35,958 --> 01:38:37,416
I'll just hang out with, you know, you

1588
01:38:37,416 --> 01:38:38,791
guys or, or whatever.

1589
01:38:39,583 --> 01:38:41,375
But it was really cool to watch him

1590
01:38:41,375 --> 01:38:44,625
interact on the sidelines with everyone.

1591
01:38:45,083 --> 01:38:45,291
Yeah.

1592
01:38:45,375 --> 01:38:48,333
And I mean, he's younger than the next

1593
01:38:48,333 --> 01:38:50,166
person on the team by two years.

1594
01:38:50,166 --> 01:38:50,583
Yeah.

1595
01:38:51,750 --> 01:38:55,208
And he, he acted like he had been a part

1596
01:38:55,208 --> 01:38:56,375
of the team forever.

1597
01:38:56,666 --> 01:38:56,875
Yeah.

1598
01:38:57,166 --> 01:38:58,708
And he was kind of joking with them.

1599
01:38:58,916 --> 01:39:00,500
And he was one of the first people to go

1600
01:39:00,500 --> 01:39:03,208
over to the kid who

1601
01:39:03,208 --> 01:39:05,791
missed the shot, which is what

1602
01:39:05,791 --> 01:39:08,583
was kind of that nail in the coffin in

1603
01:39:08,583 --> 01:39:09,333
the penalty shootout.

1604
01:39:09,916 --> 01:39:10,541
And our son was the

1605
01:39:10,541 --> 01:39:11,541
first to go over to him.

1606
01:39:11,833 --> 01:39:12,041
Yeah.

1607
01:39:13,000 --> 01:39:14,083
I took note of that and

1608
01:39:14,083 --> 01:39:15,250
it was, it was pretty cool.

1609
01:39:15,583 --> 01:39:15,875
Yeah.

1610
01:39:15,875 --> 01:39:16,625
But he did that.

1611
01:39:16,625 --> 01:39:17,500
It's like he knew.

1612
01:39:18,333 --> 01:39:19,166
So it was good.

1613
01:39:19,500 --> 01:39:21,416
It was a proud parent moment.

1614
01:39:22,125 --> 01:39:22,333
Yeah.

1615
01:39:23,000 --> 01:39:23,208
So.

1616
01:39:23,500 --> 01:39:23,708
Yeah.

1617
01:39:24,916 --> 01:39:26,833
And it was, it's like, you know, we can

1618
01:39:26,833 --> 01:39:27,458
be proud of him even

1619
01:39:27,458 --> 01:39:28,833
though he didn't play.

1620
01:39:29,083 --> 01:39:29,333
Right.

1621
01:39:29,333 --> 01:39:30,583
I mean, it's just like the experience,

1622
01:39:30,583 --> 01:39:31,500
just getting the call up

1623
01:39:31,500 --> 01:39:32,416
on it, you know, and it's

1624
01:39:32,416 --> 01:39:34,250
not that he's the only one that is cool,

1625
01:39:34,958 --> 01:39:35,791
but I just, you know,

1626
01:39:35,958 --> 01:39:38,125
it's, I keep trying to hammer

1627
01:39:38,125 --> 01:39:40,958
to the kid, you know, win our love or our

1628
01:39:40,958 --> 01:39:42,041
approval for us to be

1629
01:39:42,041 --> 01:39:43,166
proud of you, you know?

1630
01:39:43,166 --> 01:39:43,375
Right.

1631
01:39:43,625 --> 01:39:45,416
It's great when you are like when I was,

1632
01:39:45,708 --> 01:39:47,208
it's great when you are,

1633
01:39:47,458 --> 01:39:48,458
when, you know, our, our

1634
01:39:48,458 --> 01:39:50,666
daughter's destroying people, you know,

1635
01:39:50,666 --> 01:39:51,625
but she's going to be,

1636
01:39:51,625 --> 01:39:52,375
we're going to have the

1637
01:39:52,500 --> 01:39:53,833
state champ or not this champ.

1638
01:39:54,333 --> 01:39:55,041
The city champ.

1639
01:39:55,291 --> 01:39:55,583
Yeah.

1640
01:39:55,875 --> 01:39:58,416
The city champion meet this week.

1641
01:39:58,416 --> 01:39:58,833
This week.

1642
01:39:59,125 --> 01:39:59,750
And she's going to go

1643
01:39:59,750 --> 01:40:00,500
against the best of the best.

1644
01:40:00,500 --> 01:40:01,083
And there's another girl

1645
01:40:01,083 --> 01:40:02,333
that's close to her time.

1646
01:40:02,541 --> 01:40:02,750
Yeah.

1647
01:40:03,083 --> 01:40:04,666
So, you know, she, and

1648
01:40:04,666 --> 01:40:06,041
she's been blowing people out.

1649
01:40:06,291 --> 01:40:06,833
She has.

1650
01:40:06,833 --> 01:40:08,250
But she may not, you know,

1651
01:40:08,250 --> 01:40:09,083
and it's like, it's okay.

1652
01:40:09,375 --> 01:40:09,916
That's okay.

1653
01:40:09,916 --> 01:40:12,250
Don't, you know, you've got more time.

1654
01:40:12,250 --> 01:40:13,208
You're going to race against the same

1655
01:40:13,208 --> 01:40:15,750
girl for the next probably six years.

1656
01:40:15,916 --> 01:40:16,166
Yeah.

1657
01:40:16,166 --> 01:40:18,708
You know, you might race against her

1658
01:40:18,708 --> 01:40:20,666
because she's also on club track.

1659
01:40:20,916 --> 01:40:21,083
Yeah.

1660
01:40:21,791 --> 01:40:23,250
This girl might be in club track too.

1661
01:40:23,250 --> 01:40:24,708
And you might go against her at all the

1662
01:40:24,708 --> 01:40:25,625
national champ, you

1663
01:40:25,625 --> 01:40:27,083
know, so get used to it.

1664
01:40:27,083 --> 01:40:28,708
I remember the first guy that beat me.

1665
01:40:28,791 --> 01:40:29,708
I told her that.

1666
01:40:30,083 --> 01:40:31,583
I don't know if I mentioned it on here,

1667
01:40:31,583 --> 01:40:34,208
but I mean, yeah, I was, I did.

1668
01:40:34,708 --> 01:40:36,041
No, I don't think you did, but like, I

1669
01:40:36,041 --> 01:40:36,708
was gonna say, yeah, I

1670
01:40:36,708 --> 01:40:38,458
mean like I was, I was

1671
01:40:38,458 --> 01:40:40,791
also very, I feel like a braggy docious

1672
01:40:40,791 --> 01:40:41,583
now in my stuff here.

1673
01:40:41,583 --> 01:40:42,541
I'm not trying to be, but

1674
01:40:42,541 --> 01:40:44,541
I was being very factual.

1675
01:40:44,916 --> 01:40:46,416
You were very fast.

1676
01:40:46,625 --> 01:40:48,541
Actually, I had never lost a race until I

1677
01:40:48,541 --> 01:40:50,208
remember the first race I lost.

1678
01:40:50,375 --> 01:40:52,041
I was in ninth grade because I was fast.

1679
01:40:52,458 --> 01:40:53,125
I, you know, I held

1680
01:40:53,125 --> 01:40:55,666
records and, you know, stuff too.

1681
01:40:55,666 --> 01:40:57,750
But I remember the guy that first got a

1682
01:40:57,750 --> 01:40:59,750
beat me and he and I

1683
01:40:59,750 --> 01:41:00,541
were head to head and toe

1684
01:41:00,541 --> 01:41:02,125
to toe, you know, in high school.

1685
01:41:03,041 --> 01:41:05,750
And he went on to play, you know, at the

1686
01:41:05,750 --> 01:41:07,250
Oregon Ducks as a running back.

1687
01:41:07,250 --> 01:41:10,333
His sister won an Olympic medal, you

1688
01:41:10,333 --> 01:41:12,000
know, so it's like, you

1689
01:41:12,000 --> 01:41:13,291
know, again, I'm not going

1690
01:41:13,291 --> 01:41:14,708
to go professional at being a track

1691
01:41:14,708 --> 01:41:15,916
athlete either, but it's,

1692
01:41:16,458 --> 01:41:17,041
you know, it's one of those

1693
01:41:17,083 --> 01:41:19,041
things where it's like, be proud of what

1694
01:41:19,041 --> 01:41:21,000
you were good at as

1695
01:41:21,000 --> 01:41:22,000
long as you did your best.

1696
01:41:22,333 --> 01:41:22,541
Yes.

1697
01:41:22,791 --> 01:41:23,000
Right.

1698
01:41:23,458 --> 01:41:24,083
And if that's last

1699
01:41:24,083 --> 01:41:25,666
place, you know, that's great.

1700
01:41:26,458 --> 01:41:27,833
You do your best and

1701
01:41:27,833 --> 01:41:29,541
that's where you placed.

1702
01:41:30,500 --> 01:41:31,458
I will take that all day.

1703
01:41:32,250 --> 01:41:32,541
Yeah.

1704
01:41:32,541 --> 01:41:34,791
I'm actually, I've started like trying to

1705
01:41:34,791 --> 01:41:35,625
help our daughter

1706
01:41:35,625 --> 01:41:38,208
because she is prepared for

1707
01:41:38,208 --> 01:41:40,083
the fact that like, this is going to be

1708
01:41:40,083 --> 01:41:41,958
the toughest meet that she's had.

1709
01:41:43,208 --> 01:41:44,125
I just want her to do her best.

1710
01:41:44,250 --> 01:41:45,375
She's the first time

1711
01:41:45,375 --> 01:41:46,541
she's been pushed to.

1712
01:41:46,791 --> 01:41:47,958
So I'll be curious to

1713
01:41:47,958 --> 01:41:48,958
see how she reacts to that.

1714
01:41:49,083 --> 01:41:51,500
She's super competitive as well.

1715
01:41:52,083 --> 01:41:54,416
Like I, you, I thought our boys were

1716
01:41:54,416 --> 01:41:56,000
competitive, which they are.

1717
01:41:57,333 --> 01:41:59,541
She far and away beats them.

1718
01:41:59,541 --> 01:42:01,625
Like even though the games, the around

1719
01:42:01,625 --> 01:42:02,416
the world game that

1720
01:42:02,416 --> 01:42:03,500
you all were playing last

1721
01:42:03,500 --> 01:42:06,250
night, I was like, that girl will lie,

1722
01:42:06,250 --> 01:42:07,500
cheat and steal to win.

1723
01:42:07,958 --> 01:42:11,458
She will manipulate the, manipulate all

1724
01:42:11,458 --> 01:42:12,416
of the components to

1725
01:42:12,416 --> 01:42:13,458
make sure that she comes

1726
01:42:13,500 --> 01:42:14,083
out on top.

1727
01:42:14,500 --> 01:42:14,708
Yeah.

1728
01:42:14,833 --> 01:42:15,500
It's just a, it's a

1729
01:42:15,500 --> 01:42:16,541
different factor though.

1730
01:42:17,458 --> 01:42:19,458
When it's like board games or like that

1731
01:42:19,458 --> 01:42:20,250
game we were playing,

1732
01:42:20,500 --> 01:42:22,458
opposed to when you're sitting

1733
01:42:22,500 --> 01:42:25,000
there it's you because track and field is

1734
01:42:25,000 --> 01:42:25,708
an individual sport

1735
01:42:25,708 --> 01:42:26,666
for the most part, you

1736
01:42:26,666 --> 01:42:28,333
know, and that's a different feeling.

1737
01:42:28,333 --> 01:42:30,333
I mean, that is one I do get nervous

1738
01:42:30,333 --> 01:42:31,000
about because I

1739
01:42:31,000 --> 01:42:32,125
remember being in the blocks.

1740
01:42:32,125 --> 01:42:33,458
I remember waiting for that starting gun.

1741
01:42:34,458 --> 01:42:37,458
And you know, I feel that for, but that's

1742
01:42:37,458 --> 01:42:38,000
one where that

1743
01:42:38,000 --> 01:42:39,625
competitive nature is on your

1744
01:42:39,625 --> 01:42:41,583
shoulders and yours alone, yours alone.

1745
01:42:41,958 --> 01:42:42,166
Yeah.

1746
01:42:42,625 --> 01:42:44,500
You're ready in, you know, tracks one

1747
01:42:44,500 --> 01:42:46,208
that you just, you just never know.

1748
01:42:46,208 --> 01:42:47,375
Some days you're ready for that race.

1749
01:42:47,375 --> 01:42:48,375
And some days you're like, I don't know.

1750
01:42:48,541 --> 01:42:50,125
I don't know what didn't

1751
01:42:50,125 --> 01:42:51,416
click, but I didn't run as fast.

1752
01:42:51,833 --> 01:42:52,833
I've run, you know, so

1753
01:42:52,833 --> 01:42:53,958
much faster than that before.

1754
01:42:53,958 --> 01:42:54,166
Yeah.

1755
01:42:54,166 --> 01:42:55,208
It just didn't click tonight.

1756
01:42:55,458 --> 01:42:55,625
Yeah.

1757
01:42:56,250 --> 01:42:58,708
It honestly, so in the last track meet, I

1758
01:42:58,708 --> 01:42:59,958
was sitting, well, we

1759
01:42:59,958 --> 01:43:00,666
were sitting, you had

1760
01:43:00,833 --> 01:43:02,250
happened to walk away, um,

1761
01:43:02,250 --> 01:43:03,791
to film at that point in time.

1762
01:43:03,791 --> 01:43:04,916
And I was like, I was talking to our

1763
01:43:04,916 --> 01:43:06,000
friend who, she actually

1764
01:43:06,000 --> 01:43:07,625
was a college track athlete

1765
01:43:07,625 --> 01:43:11,041
and I was like, is it nervous that I, I

1766
01:43:11,041 --> 01:43:11,791
mean, is it bad that, I

1767
01:43:11,791 --> 01:43:12,583
mean, my pole, my pole,

1768
01:43:12,625 --> 01:43:13,333
my poles were sweaty.

1769
01:43:13,333 --> 01:43:14,541
I was so nervous for her.

1770
01:43:14,541 --> 01:43:15,375
And she was like, I

1771
01:43:15,375 --> 01:43:16,750
don't think that goes away.

1772
01:43:17,291 --> 01:43:18,500
And I was like, dang it.

1773
01:43:18,500 --> 01:43:18,708
Yeah.

1774
01:43:18,791 --> 01:43:20,333
Cause it's different when they're part of

1775
01:43:20,333 --> 01:43:22,833
a team and okay, if

1776
01:43:22,833 --> 01:43:24,041
they mess up, there's other

1777
01:43:24,041 --> 01:43:26,875
players on that team that could help fix

1778
01:43:26,875 --> 01:43:29,083
that error some somewhere, right?

1779
01:43:29,458 --> 01:43:31,541
Before it goes against you, there's

1780
01:43:31,541 --> 01:43:32,958
nothing else out there, but

1781
01:43:32,958 --> 01:43:36,875
you know, the track athlete.

1782
01:43:36,875 --> 01:43:37,208
Yeah.

1783
01:43:37,208 --> 01:43:37,958
You know, I was just sitting here

1784
01:43:37,958 --> 01:43:38,958
thinking to what it is

1785
01:43:38,958 --> 01:43:40,833
for me is it has nothing to

1786
01:43:41,000 --> 01:43:42,291
do with winning or losing.

1787
01:43:42,958 --> 01:43:46,625
I'm nervous for how they hurt if they

1788
01:43:46,625 --> 01:43:50,000
don't win because we're,

1789
01:43:50,000 --> 01:43:51,166
we're blessed that we have

1790
01:43:51,166 --> 01:43:54,666
athletic children and generally speaking,

1791
01:43:55,291 --> 01:43:57,541
it's mostly blue ribbons in this house.

1792
01:43:57,916 --> 01:43:59,250
And again, we're blessed and I'm not

1793
01:43:59,250 --> 01:43:59,500
trying to be

1794
01:43:59,500 --> 01:44:01,916
braggadocious about that, but because

1795
01:44:01,916 --> 01:44:04,416
of that, there's a weight,

1796
01:44:04,791 --> 01:44:06,708
heavy as the crown, right?

1797
01:44:06,875 --> 01:44:09,375
There's a weight to that, that if you

1798
01:44:09,375 --> 01:44:10,958
were to consider and it will happen.

1799
01:44:10,958 --> 01:44:11,916
There's always going to be somebody

1800
01:44:11,916 --> 01:44:12,791
bigger, better, faster at

1801
01:44:12,791 --> 01:44:14,625
some point as you get further

1802
01:44:14,666 --> 01:44:17,416
along in this, but that's a, you know,

1803
01:44:17,416 --> 01:44:20,041
that's a sour pill to take.

1804
01:44:20,291 --> 01:44:21,708
I know there's a saying, but it is.

1805
01:44:22,458 --> 01:44:23,916
And they're, our pastor says this,

1806
01:44:23,916 --> 01:44:25,625
there's no hurt like kid hurt.

1807
01:44:25,875 --> 01:44:28,875
And when your kid hurts, exactly.

1808
01:44:29,208 --> 01:44:29,708
That's what it is.

1809
01:44:29,708 --> 01:44:31,791
I just, I get nervous for them hurting.

1810
01:44:31,958 --> 01:44:32,333
I know.

1811
01:44:32,541 --> 01:44:33,583
You know, I celebrate them

1812
01:44:33,583 --> 01:44:36,083
feeling cloud nine when they win.

1813
01:44:36,583 --> 01:44:37,125
You know what I mean?

1814
01:44:37,125 --> 01:44:38,875
Cause I'm so happy that they are having

1815
01:44:38,875 --> 01:44:39,958
that feeling and that experience.

1816
01:44:40,541 --> 01:44:40,750
Yes.

1817
01:44:41,958 --> 01:44:43,916
And it is devastating.

1818
01:44:45,375 --> 01:44:46,625
And something that I didn't appreciate

1819
01:44:46,625 --> 01:44:48,083
until I became a parent.

1820
01:44:48,458 --> 01:44:48,666
Yeah.

1821
01:44:48,833 --> 01:44:51,333
How much you hurt when your kid hurts.

1822
01:44:51,333 --> 01:44:51,500
Yeah.

1823
01:44:52,291 --> 01:44:54,916
Whether it's a loss, whether it's, you

1824
01:44:54,916 --> 01:44:57,541
know, they feel sad about something.

1825
01:44:57,541 --> 01:44:59,041
I mean, it doesn't matter what it is.

1826
01:44:59,625 --> 01:45:01,000
And everything you do is to protect them

1827
01:45:01,000 --> 01:45:01,958
from it, which is so funny.

1828
01:45:01,958 --> 01:45:02,541
It's a whole nother.

1829
01:45:02,541 --> 01:45:03,583
I mean, we're getting long now because

1830
01:45:03,583 --> 01:45:04,250
we're trying to keep it

1831
01:45:04,250 --> 01:45:05,375
short on this shorter on

1832
01:45:05,375 --> 01:45:05,916
this one.

1833
01:45:06,833 --> 01:45:08,333
Everything you do as a parent

1834
01:45:08,333 --> 01:45:13,000
is to stop them from hurting.

1835
01:45:13,250 --> 01:45:13,458
Right.

1836
01:45:13,500 --> 01:45:13,708
Right.

1837
01:45:14,708 --> 01:45:17,166
Prepare, like get good grades and in

1838
01:45:17,166 --> 01:45:18,666
school so you can go to

1839
01:45:18,666 --> 01:45:19,416
a good college and get a

1840
01:45:19,416 --> 01:45:19,875
good job.

1841
01:45:20,083 --> 01:45:22,583
So you don't have to hurt, you know, not

1842
01:45:22,583 --> 01:45:23,958
making enough money to buy

1843
01:45:23,958 --> 01:45:25,541
groceries or I mean, that's

1844
01:45:25,541 --> 01:45:27,708
all these are everything builds.

1845
01:45:28,041 --> 01:45:29,583
You don't have to hurt some way.

1846
01:45:30,000 --> 01:45:32,083
You don't have to feel the pain some way.

1847
01:45:32,750 --> 01:45:35,708
And that's the ultimate letdown for a

1848
01:45:35,708 --> 01:45:37,916
parent is that some

1849
01:45:37,916 --> 01:45:39,000
things have to be learned in

1850
01:45:39,000 --> 01:45:40,083
the School of Hard Knocks.

1851
01:45:40,083 --> 01:45:40,416
They do.

1852
01:45:40,958 --> 01:45:42,333
Despite the fact that we

1853
01:45:42,333 --> 01:45:43,625
could tell you the way to do it.

1854
01:45:43,625 --> 01:45:43,833
Yes.

1855
01:45:44,250 --> 01:45:44,458
Yes.

1856
01:45:45,083 --> 01:45:46,666
But they wouldn't

1857
01:45:46,666 --> 01:45:50,166
necessarily learn how to deal with it.

1858
01:45:50,166 --> 01:45:50,500
Right.

1859
01:45:50,500 --> 01:45:51,166
If they never hurt.

1860
01:45:51,458 --> 01:45:51,625
Right.

1861
01:45:52,083 --> 01:45:55,208
And so it's just, I don't

1862
01:45:55,208 --> 01:45:56,791
know how to balance that.

1863
01:45:56,791 --> 01:45:58,041
I mean, that's something that I think I

1864
01:45:58,041 --> 01:45:59,958
struggle with because it's

1865
01:45:59,958 --> 01:46:01,416
like, I know I need to let

1866
01:46:01,458 --> 01:46:02,458
them deal with that.

1867
01:46:03,291 --> 01:46:04,791
You know, I need to give them space or

1868
01:46:04,791 --> 01:46:05,708
whatever it is to deal

1869
01:46:05,708 --> 01:46:06,833
with it in the way that they

1870
01:46:06,833 --> 01:46:07,750
want to deal with it.

1871
01:46:09,375 --> 01:46:10,875
But I don't want, I

1872
01:46:10,875 --> 01:46:12,000
don't want the consequence.

1873
01:46:12,250 --> 01:46:13,375
Like I don't want them

1874
01:46:13,375 --> 01:46:14,791
even though they need it.

1875
01:46:14,791 --> 01:46:16,625
And it's, I don't know.

1876
01:46:17,041 --> 01:46:18,458
I wasn't expecting that.

1877
01:46:19,333 --> 01:46:19,625
Yeah.

1878
01:46:20,208 --> 01:46:21,500
But neither was Jamie Lawson.

1879
01:46:21,875 --> 01:46:22,791
Neither was Jamie Lawson.

1880
01:46:23,375 --> 01:46:23,708
Okay.

1881
01:46:24,375 --> 01:46:26,500
Kudos to the listener out there who knows

1882
01:46:26,500 --> 01:46:28,208
what we that inside

1883
01:46:28,208 --> 01:46:30,000
joke that we just said.

1884
01:46:30,000 --> 01:46:30,500
Jamie Lawson.

1885
01:46:31,916 --> 01:46:34,583
So anyway, well, we are getting long, but

1886
01:46:34,583 --> 01:46:35,916
we kind of talked

1887
01:46:35,916 --> 01:46:36,916
about what's coming up next

1888
01:46:36,916 --> 01:46:37,208
week.

1889
01:46:37,208 --> 01:46:39,916
I mean, we have the meat of champs.

1890
01:46:39,916 --> 01:46:40,458
You have champs.

1891
01:46:40,458 --> 01:46:41,208
It'll be a big one.

1892
01:46:41,208 --> 01:46:41,416
Yep.

1893
01:46:41,500 --> 01:46:42,250
It'll be a big one.

1894
01:46:43,083 --> 01:46:44,250
And the kids are going back to school.

1895
01:46:44,750 --> 01:46:45,791
The kids are going back to school.

1896
01:46:46,791 --> 01:46:47,000
Yeah.

1897
01:46:47,125 --> 01:46:47,833
Hallelujah.

1898
01:46:48,500 --> 01:46:49,833
It hasn't been that bad, but they just,

1899
01:46:49,833 --> 01:46:50,250
we just don't know

1900
01:46:50,250 --> 01:46:51,000
what to do with downtime.

1901
01:46:51,500 --> 01:46:52,000
It's like me.

1902
01:46:52,416 --> 01:46:53,625
I don't know how to relax because I've

1903
01:46:53,625 --> 01:46:55,208
always got so much to do.

1904
01:46:55,208 --> 01:46:56,583
I just, I don't know what to, I don't

1905
01:46:56,583 --> 01:46:58,083
know how to relax, but

1906
01:46:58,083 --> 01:46:59,833
our kids don't know what

1907
01:46:59,875 --> 01:47:02,125
to do when we don't have soccer practice

1908
01:47:02,125 --> 01:47:03,916
and we don't have somewhere to go.

1909
01:47:04,458 --> 01:47:05,333
No, they don't.

1910
01:47:05,333 --> 01:47:06,958
I mean, they, video games, unfortunately

1911
01:47:06,958 --> 01:47:07,958
take a lot of that time.

1912
01:47:08,208 --> 01:47:09,500
One of our kids was mad today because

1913
01:47:09,500 --> 01:47:10,791
we're like, it's super nice.

1914
01:47:10,791 --> 01:47:11,333
Get outside.

1915
01:47:11,833 --> 01:47:13,291
You're forcing me to go outside.

1916
01:47:15,333 --> 01:47:16,583
That's where it's like, I'm just failing

1917
01:47:16,583 --> 01:47:17,750
as a, you know, a parent.

1918
01:47:18,958 --> 01:47:21,500
No, because I think that's pretty common.

1919
01:47:21,916 --> 01:47:24,291
Like, I don't know.

1920
01:47:24,291 --> 01:47:24,833
They don't get a whole

1921
01:47:24,833 --> 01:47:26,000
lot of downtime to do that.

1922
01:47:26,000 --> 01:47:27,625
Although he did go outside and then like

1923
01:47:27,625 --> 01:47:28,541
the second time he went

1924
01:47:28,541 --> 01:47:29,500
out, he actually was in

1925
01:47:29,500 --> 01:47:30,000
a good mood.

1926
01:47:30,291 --> 01:47:31,625
So again, this is one of those things

1927
01:47:31,625 --> 01:47:32,250
where it's like, I need

1928
01:47:32,250 --> 01:47:33,166
to let you get over your

1929
01:47:33,166 --> 01:47:34,500
bad mood by yourself.

1930
01:47:35,250 --> 01:47:35,458
Right.

1931
01:47:36,416 --> 01:47:36,583
Right.

1932
01:47:37,166 --> 01:47:37,375
Right.

1933
01:47:38,375 --> 01:47:40,250
Um, so I don't know.

1934
01:47:40,500 --> 01:47:40,666
Yeah.

1935
01:47:40,666 --> 01:47:41,833
That's the big thing this week.

1936
01:47:42,375 --> 01:47:42,416
Yeah.

1937
01:47:43,291 --> 01:47:45,500
I mean, it's, it's, we're

1938
01:47:45,500 --> 01:47:46,750
finally turning a corner.

1939
01:47:46,750 --> 01:47:47,958
It is getting nice out.

1940
01:47:48,458 --> 01:47:48,666
Yeah.

1941
01:47:49,833 --> 01:47:51,125
It feels like it's been a long winter.

1942
01:47:51,833 --> 01:47:53,791
I'm eating every meal this week.

1943
01:47:54,333 --> 01:47:55,333
Your back is better.

1944
01:47:55,708 --> 01:47:56,333
My back's better.

1945
01:47:56,541 --> 01:47:57,708
Your knee is healing.

1946
01:47:58,041 --> 01:47:58,666
It's healing.

1947
01:47:58,833 --> 01:48:00,625
You're at 77 degrees.

1948
01:48:01,041 --> 01:48:01,500
77 degrees.

1949
01:48:02,166 --> 01:48:03,875
So, um, you know, I'm

1950
01:48:03,875 --> 01:48:05,916
starting to bend it and.

1951
01:48:06,250 --> 01:48:07,333
You're walking around everywhere without

1952
01:48:07,333 --> 01:48:08,541
crutches, which is fantastic.

1953
01:48:08,791 --> 01:48:10,750
Which is like, that's a

1954
01:48:10,750 --> 01:48:11,916
whole new lease on life.

1955
01:48:11,916 --> 01:48:12,083
Yeah.

1956
01:48:12,083 --> 01:48:13,208
You're probably two weeks away from

1957
01:48:13,208 --> 01:48:14,083
driving, which will be

1958
01:48:14,083 --> 01:48:15,250
another whole new lease on life.

1959
01:48:15,500 --> 01:48:16,916
Oh, it really will.

1960
01:48:17,208 --> 01:48:19,208
I, it's such a burden or not a burden

1961
01:48:19,208 --> 01:48:20,291
that you don't want to

1962
01:48:20,291 --> 01:48:21,500
take, but like it's a lot

1963
01:48:21,833 --> 01:48:22,291
for you.

1964
01:48:22,291 --> 01:48:24,000
There's a lot of driving in our household

1965
01:48:24,000 --> 01:48:26,583
and I am excited to

1966
01:48:26,583 --> 01:48:27,958
actually be able to drive

1967
01:48:28,083 --> 01:48:31,875
because for, uh, how old am I?

1968
01:48:32,375 --> 01:48:32,958
But okay.

1969
01:48:32,958 --> 01:48:35,250
So for 30 years, you're 30.

1970
01:48:36,625 --> 01:48:37,708
I've been driving for.

1971
01:48:38,500 --> 01:48:39,125
Wow.

1972
01:48:39,750 --> 01:48:40,791
You're going to sell

1973
01:48:40,791 --> 01:48:41,750
that one to the team.

1974
01:48:41,833 --> 01:48:43,333
I've been driving for 30 years.

1975
01:48:44,166 --> 01:48:46,750
And so it's, there is

1976
01:48:46,750 --> 01:48:49,125
something that's like, I don't know.

1977
01:48:49,125 --> 01:48:50,250
You just feel handcuffed when you're

1978
01:48:50,250 --> 01:48:51,208
like, I can't just run

1979
01:48:51,208 --> 01:48:53,208
to the store because I, I

1980
01:48:53,208 --> 01:48:54,208
need to get something.

1981
01:48:54,208 --> 01:48:54,458
Yeah.

1982
01:48:55,333 --> 01:48:57,583
So now I need to ask you to go to the

1983
01:48:57,583 --> 01:48:59,375
store to get something that I forgot.

1984
01:48:59,375 --> 01:49:00,416
You're very homebound to

1985
01:49:00,416 --> 01:49:02,208
now that's getting nicer out.

1986
01:49:02,208 --> 01:49:03,875
It's just like, you want to go outside.

1987
01:49:03,875 --> 01:49:06,208
I kind of just, yeah, I really just kind

1988
01:49:06,208 --> 01:49:07,250
of want to drive to CVS

1989
01:49:07,250 --> 01:49:08,583
and like, I don't know.

1990
01:49:08,583 --> 01:49:09,708
I'll pick up some deodorant.

1991
01:49:09,708 --> 01:49:10,458
I don't know.

1992
01:49:10,458 --> 01:49:11,458
I don't care, but I

1993
01:49:11,458 --> 01:49:12,541
want to be able to do it.

1994
01:49:12,916 --> 01:49:13,083
Right.

1995
01:49:13,458 --> 01:49:13,625
Right.

1996
01:49:14,625 --> 01:49:16,166
Well, sooner than later you'll be able to

1997
01:49:16,166 --> 01:49:17,750
drive and you can

1998
01:49:17,750 --> 01:49:22,000
finish your own carpools.

1999
01:49:22,291 --> 01:49:23,666
Carpools.

2000
01:49:24,083 --> 01:49:25,000
Does that work kind of?

2001
01:49:25,000 --> 01:49:25,583
Not really.

2002
01:49:25,833 --> 01:49:26,833
Working really hard on that one.

2003
01:49:26,833 --> 01:49:27,666
That was really bad.

2004
01:49:28,166 --> 01:49:28,375
Yeah.

2005
01:49:28,750 --> 01:49:30,041
I was trying to, you

2006
01:49:30,041 --> 01:49:31,333
know, finish your own.

2007
01:49:31,791 --> 01:49:32,000
Yeah.

2008
01:49:32,291 --> 01:49:32,500
Yeah.

2009
01:49:32,791 --> 01:49:34,875
I mean, we've got to come up.

2010
01:49:34,875 --> 01:49:36,458
I'm just saying we've got to come up.

2011
01:49:36,458 --> 01:49:38,041
We're trying so hard for this terrible

2012
01:49:38,041 --> 01:49:40,333
ending every time and it's terrible.

2013
01:49:40,708 --> 01:49:41,625
We got to find a better one.

2014
01:49:42,416 --> 01:49:42,708
I think.

2015
01:49:43,791 --> 01:49:47,166
I, you know, people should comment.

2016
01:49:47,458 --> 01:49:48,083
Listeners, I was just

2017
01:49:48,083 --> 01:49:48,750
going to say, have this.

2018
01:49:49,125 --> 01:49:51,375
Let's comment and, and, and come up with

2019
01:49:51,375 --> 01:49:53,791
a better ending because closing.

2020
01:49:53,791 --> 01:49:54,000
Yeah.

2021
01:49:54,791 --> 01:49:56,708
We want to be able to

2022
01:49:56,708 --> 01:49:59,708
finish each other's podcasts.

2023
01:50:01,416 --> 01:50:02,333
Well, you can finish it yourself.

2024
01:50:02,958 --> 01:50:03,291
That's it.

2025
01:50:03,583 --> 01:50:03,958
That's a wrap.

2026
01:50:05,125 --> 01:50:06,750
Sign off, sign off on it.

2027
01:50:10,541 --> 01:50:10,875
All right.

2028
01:50:10,875 --> 01:50:12,208
Well, I think we should let it go, right?

2029
01:50:12,208 --> 01:50:12,708
All right.

2030
01:50:12,708 --> 01:50:14,625
We should, but have a great week everyone

2031
01:50:14,625 --> 01:50:16,458
and we will see you back next week.

2032
01:50:16,708 --> 01:50:17,041
See you.

2033
02:08:00,375 --> 02:08:04,083
[MUSIC]

2034
02:08:05,708 --> 02:08:06,958
Straight into it.

2035
02:08:06,958 --> 02:08:07,833
I'll go straight in.

2036
02:08:08,083 --> 02:08:10,000
Such like a softball there.

2037
02:08:10,000 --> 02:08:10,750
I mean, you just threw

2038
02:08:10,750 --> 02:08:12,583
it up, knock it right out.

2039
02:08:13,083 --> 02:08:13,458
You know, a little

2040
02:08:13,458 --> 02:08:14,750
Austin Powers throwback.

2041
02:08:15,333 --> 02:08:15,541
It's not.

2042
02:08:15,833 --> 02:08:16,333
In my belly.

2043
02:08:16,958 --> 02:08:17,916
Of course I know that one.

2044
02:08:18,458 --> 02:08:19,708
That's not my bag, baby.

2045
02:08:20,458 --> 02:08:21,583
It's not my bag, baby.

2046
02:08:21,583 --> 02:08:22,791
Okay, so yeah, no.

2047
02:08:23,250 --> 02:08:24,458
Yeah, this is uncomfortable.

2048
02:08:24,750 --> 02:08:25,000
Uncomfortable.

2049
02:08:25,625 --> 02:08:26,583
You can't shoot, you can't

2050
02:08:26,583 --> 02:08:27,625
make free throw, win game.

2051
02:08:28,000 --> 02:08:28,208
Yep.

2052
02:08:28,791 --> 02:08:30,208
And you know, it's more fun when you win.

2053
02:08:31,041 --> 02:08:31,958
Everything in life is

2054
02:08:31,958 --> 02:08:33,083
way more fun when you win.

2055
02:08:33,291 --> 02:08:33,500
Winning.

2056
02:08:33,750 --> 02:08:35,708
Wow, you took us deep on that one.

2057
02:08:35,708 --> 02:08:35,875
Wow.

2058
02:08:36,041 --> 02:08:36,708
Right, and I don't

2059
02:08:36,708 --> 02:08:38,083
know anything about it.

2060
02:08:38,083 --> 02:08:38,291
Yeah.

2061
02:08:38,625 --> 02:08:39,750
I'm so behind the eight ball.

2062
02:08:40,833 --> 02:08:41,500
That's the one.

2063
02:08:41,708 --> 02:08:43,583
I think some of that was to make sure I

2064
02:08:43,583 --> 02:08:44,375
wasn't the crazy one.

2065
02:08:45,916 --> 02:08:48,000
Like I said, it's your date night topics.

2066
02:08:48,416 --> 02:08:49,250
It's interesting.

2067
02:08:49,250 --> 02:08:49,958
We're chewing on it.

2068
02:08:50,333 --> 02:08:50,750
Chewing on it.

2069
02:08:51,875 --> 02:08:53,625
But what I was not chewing on was food.

2070
02:08:54,250 --> 02:08:55,875
Oh, that was a great transition.

2071
02:08:56,416 --> 02:08:57,875
I love the high, I love a good high five.

2072
02:08:57,875 --> 02:08:59,000
You should probably work one in like

2073
02:08:59,000 --> 02:09:00,250
every couple of episodes.

2074
02:09:00,250 --> 02:09:00,458
We should.

2075
02:09:00,708 --> 02:09:02,166
It tastes so good in my mouth.

2076
02:09:02,375 --> 02:09:03,625
And I was dreaming about eating.

2077
02:09:04,250 --> 02:09:05,458
[LAUGHTER]

2078
02:09:05,458 --> 02:09:06,958
Like your beautiful blue eyes.

2079
02:09:06,958 --> 02:09:08,083
Yeah, my beautiful blue eyes.

2080
02:09:08,083 --> 02:09:09,166
And I mean, I am this

2081
02:09:09,166 --> 02:09:10,000
doppelganger, basically.

2082
02:09:10,000 --> 02:09:10,791
You're this doppelganger.

2083
02:09:11,708 --> 02:09:12,208
Coincidence?

2084
02:09:12,875 --> 02:09:13,166
Yeah.

2085
02:09:13,166 --> 02:09:13,833
I think not.

2086
02:09:14,208 --> 02:09:15,583
You just smell so good.

2087
02:09:16,125 --> 02:09:17,166
He beats you by an hour.

2088
02:09:17,166 --> 02:09:18,625
Yes, I know he's lying about this.

2089
02:09:19,291 --> 02:09:20,250
You're excited for it.

2090
02:09:20,500 --> 02:09:21,625
I am, yeah.

2091
02:09:21,625 --> 02:09:23,500
That's a little masochistic, but OK.

2092
02:09:23,958 --> 02:09:25,250
I mean, question mark?

2093
02:09:25,583 --> 02:09:26,125
Question mark.

2094
02:09:26,916 --> 02:09:28,166
For the next three years.

2095
02:09:28,625 --> 02:09:30,416
Yeah, so I'm--

2096
02:09:30,708 --> 02:09:32,375
Not the world I grew up in.

2097
02:09:32,583 --> 02:09:34,083
I mean, is that just a Texas

2098
02:09:34,083 --> 02:09:34,875
thing, or is that everywhere?

2099
02:09:35,708 --> 02:09:36,333
Obviously.

2100
02:09:37,166 --> 02:09:38,708
We performed at the Crandall Offrey.

2101
02:09:38,708 --> 02:09:40,375
I mean, it was so bad for them.

2102
02:09:40,791 --> 02:09:41,750
You go out on a loss.

2103
02:09:42,791 --> 02:09:44,166
That's heartbreaking to me.

2104
02:09:44,875 --> 02:09:46,208
As long as you did your best.

2105
02:09:46,208 --> 02:09:46,375
Yes.

2106
02:09:46,541 --> 02:09:48,583
And if that's last place, that's great.

2107
02:09:49,083 --> 02:09:50,500
I was like, that girl will

2108
02:09:50,500 --> 02:09:52,416
lie, cheat, and steal to win.

2109
02:09:52,416 --> 02:09:54,416
But that's when that competitive nature

2110
02:09:54,416 --> 02:09:55,500
is on your shoulders

2111
02:09:55,500 --> 02:09:56,416
and yours alone.

2112
02:09:56,458 --> 02:09:59,000
I mean, my palms were sweaty.

2113
02:09:59,000 --> 02:10:00,291
I was so nervous for her.

2114
02:10:00,291 --> 02:10:01,083
And she was like, I

2115
02:10:01,083 --> 02:10:02,375
don't think that goes away.

2116
02:10:03,041 --> 02:10:03,625
There's a weight.

2117
02:10:04,375 --> 02:10:05,125
Heavy as the crown.

2118
02:10:05,458 --> 02:10:06,750
Yeah, the pastor says this.

2119
02:10:06,750 --> 02:10:08,375
There's no hurt like kid hurt.

2120
02:10:08,750 --> 02:10:10,250
Some things have to be learned in the

2121
02:10:10,250 --> 02:10:11,000
school of hard knocks.

2122
02:10:11,291 --> 02:10:12,333
We did kudos to the

2123
02:10:12,333 --> 02:10:14,041
listener out there who knows what--

2124
02:10:14,041 --> 02:10:15,166
That bad, but we just don't

2125
02:10:15,166 --> 02:10:15,958
know what to do with downtime.

2126
02:10:16,458 --> 02:10:17,375
I don't know how to relax.

2127
02:10:17,583 --> 02:10:19,000
They're forcing me to go outside.

2128
02:10:20,875 --> 02:10:21,583
That's where it's like,

2129
02:10:21,583 --> 02:10:23,375
I'm just feeling as a parent.

2130
02:10:23,750 --> 02:10:24,791
I need to let you get over

2131
02:10:24,791 --> 02:10:26,333
your bad mood by yourself.

2132
02:10:26,458 --> 02:10:27,708
Your knee is healing.

2133
02:10:28,208 --> 02:10:28,625
It's healing.

2134
02:10:29,125 --> 02:10:30,166
You're at 77 degrees.

2135
02:10:30,958 --> 02:10:31,833
How old am I?

2136
02:10:32,833 --> 02:10:34,208
OK, so for 30 years.

2137
02:10:34,875 --> 02:10:35,333
You're 30?

2138
02:10:37,083 --> 02:10:38,083
Well, sooner than later,

2139
02:10:38,083 --> 02:10:39,041
you'll be able to drive

2140
02:10:39,375 --> 02:10:41,208
and you can finish your own--

2141
02:10:43,500 --> 02:10:45,500
That work, kind of?

2142
02:10:45,500 --> 02:10:45,916
Not really.

2143
02:10:46,166 --> 02:10:47,208
Working really hard on the toy.

2144
02:10:47,208 --> 02:10:48,041
That was really bad.

2145
02:10:48,458 --> 02:10:49,250
Got to come up.

2146
02:10:49,250 --> 02:10:50,166
We're trying so hard for

2147
02:10:50,166 --> 02:10:52,041
this terrible ending every time.

2148
02:10:52,666 --> 02:10:53,958
Podcasts.

2149
02:10:54,500 --> 02:10:55,583
But you should finish it yourself.

2150
02:10:56,166 --> 02:10:56,583
That's it.

2151
02:10:56,833 --> 02:10:57,250
That's a wrap.