If you’re ever been stuck in a loop, repeating the same pattern in your relationship dynamic,
pay close attention:
Freud called it the “Repetition Compulsion,” where even though you KNOW it’s not wise,
or fulfilling, or even healthy, but unconscious forces are pulling us into what’s familiar to us.
All for the purpose of healing.
The problem is— our knee-jerk reaction is to play the victim and blame the other person,
completely unaware that it’s not anyone’s fault.
And suddenly, you wake up and notice these familiar patterns:
Not being able to express your needs,
fawning and people pleasing,
attracting partners who treat us with disrespect,
not being able to stop with fantasizing
inability to keep the sexual energy contained within the relationship (infidelity)
Anxious attachment/ Avoidant behaviour
Constantly losing yourself when in a relationship “I can’t have me AND you at the same time”.
Not feeling worthy enough unless you are NEEDED by a wounded bird to fix/rescue
We’ve seen it all.
And all the books and videos bringing our attention to this doesn’t change it,
because the pattern lives deep within our body,
in our shadows.
To shift these unconscious dynamics, we MUST go deeper— into the body,
where all of the trauma and wounding is stored,
and we must learn to adopt a new IDENTITY that isn’t based on SELF-ABANDONMENT.
This is exactly why I created the Overview Experience.
This 5 minute clip is from a recent Overview Experience event,
where I take my community through a process I had to invent
to help me break free from my Trauma Bonded toxic relationship.
Before this work, a healthy secure relationship was impossible for me,
as I was drawn to “fixing wounded birds”— as a reflection of the unhealed wounds within myself.
I take my community through the process of turning Triggers into Deeper Self Love and
Conflict into Deeper Intimacy— because those were the skills I had to learn to create secure love,
and make sure that my son wasn’t growing up in a toxic environment
and repeating what was unresolved within me.
This event, which is exclusively for our CycleBreaker community, is open to 10 guests
who resonate with what I’m sharing and are ready to delve deep into something unconventional that WORKS
to get to the root cause of why we attract the partners we attract and can’t keep from repeating the same loop,
even though you might be intelligent and can give great advice to friends with the same problems.
This work is for those who want to learn what embodied self love looks like,
because they know that investing 6 hours on a Saturday (Sunday in Oz/NZ) for the sake of their kids, their health,
and their well-being is not only important, but ESSENTIAL and are willing to move through their fear and unworthiness
to get to the other side.
We have 5 spots remaining, and for those 5 who jump in this week, includes a 1-1 integration call with me afterwards
to help answer questions and ensure you get 100% of what you intended out of the event.
If you’re ready to take your relationships to the next level by choosing yourself,
It will be an honour to guide you.
Your wingman on this adventure,
Dr. Nima
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Upcoming Masterclass "SHOULD I STAY OR GO?" Live Event (Every month)
If you’re stuck in limbo, in repetitive relationship patterns, same arguments, attracting the same patterns, and you want to gain the clarity, confidence, and Courage to create secure relationships
https://drnima.com/lp/should-i-stay-or-go/?sl=transistor-podcast
Upcoming Overview Experience Virtual Event (Every month)
Dissolve your current relationship resentment, heal your attachment wounds, resolve your past and bring clarity to your next step.
https://go.drnima.com/oevw?sl=transistor-podcast
Or if you are wanting to hop on a call and discuss how we can support you through your transition and you're wanting deeper guidance on your healing journey and you're ready to break the cycle of inter-generational trauma (divorce, separation, relationship limbo, past trauma spilling into present)
https://drnima.com/discovery/application/?sl=transistor-podcast
Join my Facebook Group to help you understand yourself, control your triggers, regulate your nervous system and know what's keeping you stuck in these times of crisis:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/triggerproof
Are you on Telegram? Click link below to join my channel for some TriggerProof wisdom to keep your nervous system regulated, your soul in your body, and your heart aligned with your purpose.
https://t.me/joinchat/TPQjyH2MCBKHonIR
What is Trigger Proof Transmissions (Cyclebreaker Collective)?
Welcome to the TriggerProof podcast.
This is the first season of the Podcast which are audio renditions of
Facebook Live Video Transmissions done for the “TriggerProof” Facebook Community.
These were set up by request of our community members who wanted an opportunity to listen
to insights, tools, and strategies to help heal relationship dynamics, deepen intimacy,
and master the fine art of Autonomic Nervous System Regulation so that we can build resilience,
heal from the past, and become active operators of our mind, body, and life.
This first season wasn’t designed to be a podcast, so you’ll notice the audio isn’t
Professional Studio Quality (like it is on season 2 as we’ve upgraded incrementally).
These trainings are designed to introduce and deepen you to the most critical 2 skills we’ve never been taught:
1) The skill and practice of taking our triggers (Nervous System Activations) and turning them into deeper safety and self-love,
2) The skill and practice of taking conflict (that happens in any relationship) and turning them into deeper intimacy between the parties involved.
Not learning these two critical skills at this time in history costs us dearly: Physical and Mental health is on the DECLINE.
Doing this deep level of healing work can break the cycle of Intergenerational Trauma that didn’t start with you.
It didn’t start with you, but it can end with you,
#Cyclebreaker.
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When you're ready, here's what we got:
Upcoming Masterclass "SHOULD I STAY OR GO?" Live Event (Every month)
If you’re stuck in limbo, in repetitive relationship patterns, same arguments, attracting the same patterns, and you want to gain the clarity, confidence, and Courage to create secure relationships
https://drnima.com/lp/should-i-stay-or-go/?sl=transistor-podcast
Upcoming "Breathwork and Badassery" Live Event (Every month)
Regulate Your stress, deepen your connection to your inner child, process your stuck emotions and improve your capacity
https://go.drnima.com/bbvw?sl=transistor-podcast
Upcoming Overview Experience Virtual Event (Every month)
Dissolve your current relationship resentment, heal your attachment wounds, resolve your past and bring clarity to your next step.
https://go.drnima.com/oevw?sl=transistor-podcast
Or if you are wanting to hop on a call and discuss how we can support you through your transition and you're wanting deeper guidance on your healing journey and you're ready to break the cycle of inter-generational trauma (divorce, separation, relationship limbo, past trauma spilling into present)
https://drnima.com/discovery/application/?sl=transistor-podcast
Join my Facebook Group to help you understand yourself, control your triggers, regulate your nervous system and know what's keeping you stuck in these times of crisis:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/triggerproof