Oneself

Summary:

In this conversation, Stephen Maher and Adam Bartleman explore the themes of perspective, gratitude, and the duality of internal and external experiences. They discuss how changing locations does not resolve internal struggles, the importance of inspiration from one's environment, and the nature of attachment to past experiences. The dialogue emphasizes the uniqueness of individual journeys, the significance of surrendering to the moment, and the role of guidance and intuition in navigating life's challenges. They also touch on the importance of creating conditions for success, finding gratitude in every situation, and connecting with both past and future selves to gain insight. Ultimately, the conversation highlights the paradoxes of life and the necessity of embracing both highs and lows for personal growth.

Takeaways:

  • Changing location doesn't fix internal issues.
  • Inspiration is tied to environment and community.
  • Attachment to past experiences can create suffering.
  • The pathless path is unique for everyone.
  • Surrendering to the moment allows for guidance.
  • We are never off our path; it's all perspective.
  • Creating conditions for success requires action.
  • Finding gratitude in every situation is essential.
  • Connecting with past selves can provide insight.
  • Embracing the paradox of life leads to peace.

Chapters:

00:00 The Duality of Internal and External Perspectives
04:01 Lessons in Attachment and Perspective
06:45 The Pathless Path: Embracing Individual Journeys
10:59 Surrendering to Guidance and Creative Flow
15:28 The Balance of Action and Surrender
19:26 Creating Conditions for Momentum in Life
23:40 Letting Go of Expectations and Embracing Change
27:40 Embracing Gratitude in Daily Life
29:20 The Importance of Surrender and Rest
31:03 Connecting with Our Past and Future Selves
34:31 The Role of Meditation in Self-Discovery
38:15 Finding Balance Between Action and Being
41:47 Understanding Paradox and Duality in Life
47:36 The Journey of Acceptance and Presence



Creators and Guests

AB
Host
Adam Bartleman
SM
Host
Stephen Maher

What is Oneself?

Oneself is a raw and reflective podcast about identity, purpose, and transformation. Hosted by Stephen Maher and Adam Bartleman, the show explores how we come to understand who we are—through our experiences, relationships, and the deeper work of self-discovery. In each episode, they share personal stories and honest conversations around topics like mentorship, trauma, masculinity, healing, and growth. Whether you’re navigating your own path or curious about the human experience, Oneself invites you into a space where vulnerability meets wisdom and reflection leads to action.