Vibes or Vows? Here's What to Do When You Don't Feel Love Anymore!

What do you do when you don't feel love for your spouse? Vibes change like the weather. Vows do not. Recorded live at Power Church in Amarillo, Texas, Angel and Kayla Mendoza sit down with Pastor Aaron and Pastor Shannon for our very first live Vision & Vows.

We talk about roommate seasons in marriage, why our commitment to each other comes only after our commitment to God, and the difference between remorse and repentance. We get into radical honesty and a safe space, the parable of the talents and what happens when we hide the truth, and what it looks like to trust God when His promise does not match the doctor's report, like it did with our son's hearing.

We close with the sovereignty of God, taking your hands off, praying for your spouse instead of about them, and worship.

This week: pray for your spouse, not about them.

Chapters:
00:00 Welcome to the first live Vision & Vows
01:40 Meet Pastor Aaron and Pastor Shannon
02:37 Vibes or vows: what each really means
04:06 When you don't feel anything toward your spouse
07:50 Commitment to God comes before your spouse
11:07 Remorse vs repentance
14:32 Feelings help you find things
19:56 Radical honesty and a safe space
22:42 The parable of the talents: hiding the truth
25:31 When God's promise doesn't feel true
30:01 The sovereignty of God
34:42 The hospital, the flood and the weeds
43:35 Pray for your spouse, then surrender
46:37 Is it worth it? Worship

Recorded live at Power Church, Amarillo, Texas.

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/cOqvu9elmWo
Website: thevisionandvows.com

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What is Vision & Vows?

Vision & Vows is where Angel and Kayla Mendoza pull up two chairs and talk honestly about building a life and a business on faith. Real marriage, real family, real deals. Each week they share what it actually looks like to raise three boys, grow a real estate portfolio in Amarillo, Texas, and keep God at the center of all of it. Expect encouragement, hard-won lessons, and practical wisdom you can carry into your own home, marriage, and work. If you want to chase big vision without losing sight of your vows, you belong here.