#393 Why Men Crave It When She Swallows And What That Really Means

Some men think it’s just about dominance or kink. But there’s more to it.

In this episode, I break down why so many men feel deeply drawn to the act of a woman swallowing during oral sex—and how this desire ties into emotional intimacy, connection, and trust.

✅ Swallowing is symbolic — For many men, it's not just physical. It's a visceral expression of being fully accepted and desired.
✅ Kink requires trust — You can’t fast-track intimacy. Women open up sexually after they feel consistently safe and emotionally connected.
✅ Non-sexual intimacy is the gateway — If you’re skipping the daily moments of non-sexual touch, warmth, and presence, you're missing the real foreplay.

If you're craving more depth, connection, and next-level sex…

Ready to improve your sex life? Apply to work with me:
👉 https://www.stephanieganowski.com/coaching-application-video/

What is What I Love About Sex?

Stephanie Ganowski is a clinical sexologist and sex coach for men. In her podcast, “What I Love About Sex”, her mission is to take the pressure out of sex and put the pleasure in!
She does this by helping men overcome their d*ck-related issues and improve their sex communication skills, so they can feel in control of their bodies and connecting deeply with their partners.

Coaching clients 1:1 for 6+ years, with a background in psychology, relationship communication training and clinical sexology makes Stephanie the person you can trust to help you. She especially wants men to have a ‘go-to’ place for help here, so they feel they’re directly spoken to and supported.
Stephanie is a firm believer that sex is like any other part of life in that we need to work to understand and improve it through practice, vulnerability and patience. And if we can do that while having fun and not taking ourselves so seriously, we can create the sex life we’ve always dreamed of.

Stephanie’s style of coaching (and podcasting) is lighthearted, fun and action oriented. Her aim is to have her listeners leave her show feeling confident in what step to take next!