Breaking the Silence

Being in a relationship with someone who is struggling with pornography is not easy. That’s why when Bree Swaner found herself in that situation, she worked to create a support system for herself so that she could support her husband. This week, Creed and Crishelle talk with Bree about how working through your feelings is the first step to being able to be at peace with your partner’s struggles, and how you can start having the tough conversations in your home.
In this episode:

Don’t be afraid to ask your partner the hard questions about their struggle so you can fully understand the situation.
Take time for yourself so you can work through the emotions.
Don’t take responsibility for your partner’s actions.
Look for support groups with members who are going through similar struggles with betrayal trauma.

Links:

Bree's Facebook Group - Wives of Porn Addicts, A Support Group for the Supportive

Show Notes:

Submit anonymous questions, stories, or comments here.
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Contact us at hello@reach10.org.
Learn more about our nonprofit at Reach 10.

Disclaimer: The views expressed by guests do not necessarily represent our views. We offer this information in good faith, but we don’t make any representation that what you hear is accurate, reliable, or complete. Reach 10 and the Breaking the Silence podcast are not responsible or liable for your use of any information heard in this podcast.

Show Notes

Being in a relationship with someone who is struggling with pornography is not easy. That’s why when Bree Swaner found herself in that situation, she worked to create a support system for herself so that she could support her husband. This week, Creed and Crishelle talk with Bree about how working through your feelings is the first step to being able to be at peace with your partner’s struggles, and how you can start having the tough conversations in your home.

In this episode:

  • Don’t be afraid to ask your partner the hard questions about their struggle so you can fully understand the situation.
  • Take time for yourself so you can work through the emotions.
  • Don’t take responsibility for your partner’s actions.
  • Look for support groups with members who are going through similar struggles with betrayal trauma.

Links:

Show Notes:

  • Submit anonymous questions, stories, or comments here.
  • Follow us on Facebook and Instagram for more!
  • Contact us at hello@reach10.org.
  • Learn more about our nonprofit at Reach 10.

Disclaimer: The views expressed by guests do not necessarily represent our views. We offer this information in good faith, but we don’t make any representation that what you hear is accurate, reliable, or complete. Reach 10 and the Breaking the Silence podcast are not responsible or liable for your use of any information heard in this podcast.


What is Breaking the Silence?

This podcast and community breaks the silence, shame, and fear that often surrounds sexuality, unwanted pornography use, and betrayal trauma and helps you embrace your God-given sexuality with courage compassion and connection. People just like you share their stories of recovery and forgiveness and experts teach principles, share insights, and provide real tools to help you rebuild trust and develop healthy sexuality. Ask your questions anonymously and expert therapist, Rachel Denton, will answer them and discuss practical tools to help and gain insight as to how ecclesiastical leaders can play an effective and powerful role in your healing. Join Crishelle Simons as she breaks the silence and together we can create a culture of courage, compassion, and connection.

This podcast is brought to you by Reach 10. Reach 10 is a non-profit with a mission to educate and help young adults overcome the effects of pornography and betrayal trauma and create healthy relationships with themselves and others.

Join the community at @breakingthesilence_reach10 or visit reach10.org.

We share these views to open the dialogue and educate on these tough issues and to create a healthier culture of sexuality. The opinions and views shared by the host or guests do not constitute as professional advice or services and do not necessarily reflect the views of Reach 10, and we don't guarantee the accuracy of any statements you hear. Reach 10 is not responsible for your use of information heard in this podcast. We keep learning, and invite you to join us as we build a more open, compassionate, and courageous culture.